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Speaker 1: of our listeners, Mary Anne, found herself a few months back,

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Speaker 1: and she said it changed the way that she thought

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Speaker 1: about dating. So, Mary Anne, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it's in her name.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Mary, Yeah, Marianne. Tell us about your dating life.

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: You know, it's been fine and normal and good. I've

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Speaker 3: been trying though, to meet a guy for a while.

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Speaker 4: Right, okay, So, and your requirements are different now is

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Speaker 4: kind of what Jeff is alluding to.

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Speaker 2: You're looking for something.

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Speaker 3: More, yeah, yeah, I'm looking for my soulmate now, no pressure, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean it was like, gosh, I guess this phase

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Speaker 3: of life is here. It's like made this alarm go

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Just turn around and I can't be single by myself

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Speaker 3: when everybody else is getting married.

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Speaker 2: Don't feel peer pressure shining your soulmate.

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Speaker 1: But I found pure is a good thing always, So

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Speaker 1: it is okay. How have you tried to pursue a soulmate?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 1: What strategy are you using?

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Speaker 3: Most recently, I did speed dating.

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Speaker 2: Old school in person, like at a bar or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well so this one was interesting because it

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Speaker 1: Actually what does that mean?

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Speaker 3: What you do is you meet and there's like place

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Speaker 3: you sit down and then the person across from you,

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Speaker 4: You don't have to have like uncomfortable eye contacts, Like

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Speaker 4: there's something else to do.

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Speaker 3: Like a big fidget table.

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Speaker 1: Distracted, I'd be like I made an airplane. But it

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Speaker 1: like you're teaming up to write something that. Okay, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: It's like a metaphor for your relationship.

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Speaker 4: Right, also kind of an any window there. How the

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Speaker 1: I don't know if everybody would think that way Brook,

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Speaker 1: but it's good to know. How you see speak, how

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Speaker 1: many people are fighting like no, we need this piece

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Speaker 2: Well, then you know you're not a good match.

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Speaker 2: Did you meet someone?

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Speaker 3: When I sat down across from Steeve, Steve, we decided

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Speaker 1: Yeah, awesome. It was just like one giant stack of legs,

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Speaker 2: It sounds like one.

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Speaker 3: We were like, oh, we totally speak the same language.

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Speaker 3: We have the same interests here. It was going better

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Speaker 3: than I ever could have hoped, and then I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: That rot.

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Speaker 4: So they sat down to a big pile of brown legos.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like.

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Speaker 3: It was smart and clever and cute, right, and it

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what happens when you get a love spell

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Speaker 4: Maybe the spell were off, That's why I call dude,

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Speaker 3: a lot of dates, okay, and I have met a

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Speaker 1: Whoa wow, after one date and like a building that's true.

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Speaker 1: They warn you about that when you build legos together.

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Speaker 2: Why would he not be calling you back?

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Speaker 3: I have no idea. It just felt like everything clicks

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Speaker 4: There's no red flags at all, but that's kind of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's usually that might be what it is. In fact,

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Speaker 2: That's actually just to let them know.

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Speaker 1: Exactly. Date at your own risks. But we're going to

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Speaker 1: Gonna do it with their second d next Brook, do

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Speaker 1: you remember the exact moment you first fell in love

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Speaker 4: My husband can tell you the exact moment he knew.

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Speaker 2: That he loved me.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we were on top of a volcano. What true story,

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Speaker 1: Okay, he was having a heat stroke. He wasn't fall

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Speaker 1: Actually, I'm just saying that special moment looks different for everyone.

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Speaker 1: And for mary Anne, our listener, at moment happened when

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Speaker 1: her speed date Steve picked up some legos and built

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Speaker 1: her a Harry Potter wand and cast a love spell.

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Speaker 1: That's really cute, But after they went out to a bar,

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Speaker 2: How long ago was it that you saw him, Steve.

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Speaker 3: It's been a week since I've heard of him from.

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Speaker 2: And just nothing. He hasn't texted you back at all.

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Speaker 3: No, he just disappeared.

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Speaker 1: That wouldn't have happened if your date was on a volcano.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he was actually Cinderella, he turned into a pumpkin.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Harry Potter, he has the invisibility cloak.

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Speaker 2: On is there a lost shoe involved?

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Speaker 1: All this talk of magic and eruptions and volcanoes. We

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Speaker 1: gott to just call Steve before it gets too steamy

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Speaker 1: in here? Are you ready? Mary Anne?

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Speaker 7: I am all right.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this. I'm down this number right now.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Hello, Hey, is it Steve Yes speaks?

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Speaker 1: Hey Steve, it's your lucky day. You're on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I see Okay, okay, okay, all right, you got

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Well, yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 1: We're calling because we got your number from one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners named Mary Anne.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: She's a woman that you met at speed dating and

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Speaker 1: went out with once.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, ok okay, So she asked you to call

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Speaker 5: me yea yeah.

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Speaker 2: Are you surprised by that?

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Speaker 5: Uh? No, I guess I'm not surprised by that. I'm

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Speaker 1: Well, you don't have to sound nervous. It's supposed to

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Speaker 1: really good time with you.

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Speaker 2: It had a great time with you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I gathered that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you did.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's good. Did you have a good time?

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Speaker 5: Honestly I did. She was very fun to talk to.

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Speaker 5: It just started getting a little weird towards the end.

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Speaker 5: Well, well I don't, I don't, Just like it's just

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Speaker 1: Okay, ual, is this before or after you kissed her?

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Speaker 1: Because we heard there was kissing involved at the bar?

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Speaker 5: I would say it definitely got the weirdness bike after that.

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Speaker 2: Why is this something? She said?

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Speaker 5: What? So she was pretty openly talking about the idea

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Speaker 2: Uh huh?

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Speaker 1: Was that too much she said that to you? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Talking about it as like a big idea, right, like

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Speaker 5: She opened it like that, and then she was like,

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Speaker 5: you know, I think you might be one of my homemates.

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Speaker 1: Whoa wait and then one of is there only one soulmate?

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Speaker 2: No, you can have more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the point. It's not soul mates, it's soul.

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Speaker 5: Mate, and that's that's exactly what I said, and she

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Speaker 5: was like, William, everyone has three soulmates.

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Speaker 2: Three.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know, Brooke, this is good news for you

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Speaker 1: and your marriage.

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Speaker 2: No, I can see that though. It's like your best friend,

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Speaker 2: your sister.

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Speaker 1: No, you want to bring your sister.

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Speaker 4: It isn't a sexual thing solely, is just someone who

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Speaker 4: type of way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's that's kind of how we are understanding it.

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Speaker 1: But Steve, how were you understanding what mary Anne was

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Speaker 5: Oh? I mean what you guys are talking about sounds great,

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Speaker 5: that sounds very reasonable. That is not what I was

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Speaker 5: and these are all romantic.

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Speaker 1: You have three.

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Speaker 2: God, you got to find three of them in your

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Speaker 1: It out with friend. But I don't get it.

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Speaker 5: Just a little too absurd to me, this idea of

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Speaker 7: I have something to say, Hey, Steve, Sorry, that that's

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Speaker 7: mary An.

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Speaker 1: She's been listening on the other line and clearly wants

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, were you going to tell me that?

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Speaker 1: I think I just did?

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, yes, Hi mary.

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Speaker 1: Anne, marian had something to say.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Hi Steeve.

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Speaker 3: You sounds really confused, And I feel like maybe I.

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Speaker 6: Just didn't do a very good job of explaining it,

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Speaker 6: you know, because it's like this for everyone.

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Speaker 3: It's just the rule of the universe.

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Speaker 6: Right, So you have three soulmates?

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Speaker 3: Do you have a past soulmate and a present tolmate

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Speaker 3: and a future soulmate? Those was a three story fine

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Speaker 3: in your life? Right?

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Speaker 1: Which soulmate? In which soulmate is? Steve?

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Speaker 2: What numbers?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 6: So he I'm pretty sure is my presence soulmate?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 3: My my past my high school boyfriend that was my

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Speaker 6: Steve I really think has a possibility to be my

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but that kind of indicates to him that he's

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Speaker 1: It's better to have a you know, a small part

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Speaker 6: I would agree with that, sure, but look like it's

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Speaker 1: Okay, Steve, how does that make you feel thinking that

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Speaker 5: Well, if I if I'm the present soulmate and then

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Speaker 5: suddenly there's a future soulmate, then with that future soulmate,

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Speaker 5: then that's your present soulmate, and then I'm your past soulmate.

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Speaker 5: So the whole system falls apart really fast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it should be on a numbering system. Agree, two, three?

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Speaker 1: Okay, you'd rather just not click that deep and just like.

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Speaker 6: A date, Like I've already had my first soulmate, I

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Speaker 6: can't have another person, and I'm fairly important, Like it

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't even find my future soulmate until after you

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Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, wow, Okay, let's let's get online. That

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Speaker 1: indeed the most romantic sentence that's ever been up about

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Speaker 3: I mean, wouldn't you want me to find somebody after

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about? We're not even together yet.

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about meeting someone after I die?

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Speaker 1: That's a good point. You aren't together yet until we

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Speaker 1: send you out and will pay for you, guys to

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Speaker 1: make it official as present soulmates to each other. We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it. Maybe soulmate is a little bit strong here.

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Speaker 1: We'll send you out on another date and then you

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Speaker 1: no date. I like that.

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Speaker 4: I mean, given that you did have a good time

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Speaker 4: with her. She's got some kooky ideas, but she likes you.

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Speaker 2: You guys had a great time.

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Speaker 3: No, it is not cookie.

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Speaker 6: It is the rule of three soulmates.

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Speaker 3: Everybody follows this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Well did that convince you to go out

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Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry. I don't want to find out what

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Speaker 5: other rules of life there are that I.

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Speaker 4: Didn't know about.

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Speaker 2: I will say it does explain the divorce, right.

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Speaker 1: People are just going to their future soulmates. That's what's happening.

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Speaker 1: Wait a second, wait, Steve, since you said no to

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Speaker 1: the date, does that now make Marianne your past soulmate

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Speaker 1: or so that means you only have two more to

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Speaker 2: And does it mean that Marianne only gets.

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Speaker 1: One may or maybe?

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Speaker 7: As she said, Yeah, Well when you started talking about this,

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Speaker 7: it was, and.

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Speaker 3: I just canceled you in my mind, so.

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Speaker 1: Unsubscribed from the soulmates.

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Speaker 2: This kind of like these universe rules.

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Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny that girl mentioned that she had

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Speaker 2: I got the funny in it.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, sure, it's just funny because I remember when

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Speaker 1: three of Jose's soulmates. I remember that was that their name?

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Speaker 1: Remember their names?

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Speaker 1: I mean it just goes to show that everybody's got

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Speaker 1: a little bit of a different take on what love means,

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Speaker 4: Is and how much you have to pay love exactly

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Speaker 4: three for one deal on the stripe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but you know, your soul it might be different

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Speaker 1: than your forever person, who might be different than the

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Speaker 1: one who might be different than the love of your life.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I haven't met any of them.

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Speaker 2: It's not the same.

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Speaker 1: Love is hard, and we're here to help you with

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Speaker 1: that hard love. I don't think we should go with that.

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Speaker 5: I do know.

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Speaker 1: That going to be the talent duting can be difficult,

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Speaker 1: and if you want to get a little help, email

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Speaker 1: the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.

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