1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: So today was a big day. My wife left the 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: house today for the first time and left me in 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: charge of the baby. Now, there have been multiple instances 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: where I have had Billy our baby for an hour 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: an hour and a half, and that's grown by the 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: way she trust me more and more, but today was 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: the first time she left the house. I was proud 8 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: for her for leaving the house. I know she was 9 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:26,319 Speaker 1: nervous to leave the house. Not so much that it 10 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: was me she was leaving the baby with that made 11 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: her nervous, but the fact that she since the baby 12 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: was born, has not been sixty feet from the baby ever. 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: So big day today. As I'm recording this, it is 14 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: my birthday, and so my wife texted me. I was like, yeah, 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: you want to do a birthday launch or something, and 16 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: I didn't, and for the first time, I was like, 17 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: I just really come home and hang out with you 18 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 1: and the baby. I do find myself on days that 19 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: are packed with work because I'll go from the radio 20 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: studio which is downtown, to another studio that we built 21 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: in town, and then I have a studio my house, 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: so I kind of got three studios and for the 23 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: most part in my career, if it was close, I 24 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:07,839 Speaker 1: would stay somewhere just a little longer and go straight 25 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: to the other place. I do find myself now going 26 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: home if I do have even fifteen minutes. And I 27 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: know we're just three weeks into the baby being born, 28 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: but I do find myself going home just to hang out, 29 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: like with the family now with the unit. So that 30 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: feels like new and fun and it's a priority, and 31 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: not just so I can see my wife, but also 32 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: so I can see the baby, but equally so today 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: big day. The baby's alive. My wife texts me while 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: she was gone and she's like, everything going okay, and 35 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 1: I said, down, we're in the pool. Don't worry about it. 36 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: She knew that wasn't the case. But big day in 37 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: our house because my wife left the house. She was 38 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: gonna drive the baby for the first time today. In 39 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: just the full story about why she left, she had 40 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: ordered me a birthday cake and she had to order 41 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: it a few weeks ago because I can't have dairy. 42 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: And so there's a person that we go to who 43 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: we actually just found on Instagram here in town in Nashville, 44 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: and anytime we want like a cool cake made, it's 45 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: like two hundred fifty bucks. So that's an expensive cake, yes, 46 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: but it's a massive cake and you just say what 47 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: design what you want on it. So we weren't really 48 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: doing anything for my birthday specifically, and so my wife 49 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: had a big Arkansas razorback cake made, which is super cool. 50 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: And there's really gonna be no party or anything. It'll 51 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: be me and my wife and her mom is in town, 52 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: so our mother in law, and so she went to 53 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: get the cake and it was either she drived the 54 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: baby for the first time because most lavenue I want 55 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: to drive the baby, and those little mirrors kind of 56 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 1: suck that you because I'm driving and the baby. It's 57 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: if you did never have a kid. The car seat 58 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: faces the back seat, so you have to put a 59 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: mirror on the headrest and so you have to look 60 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: in your mirror to catch that mirror to catch the baby. 61 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: I have bad vision. Anyway, you could probably put a 62 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: baby doll in that thing and I would think it 63 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: was the baby. But she didn't feel like driving the 64 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 1: baby today, so she left the baby with me, and 65 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: I think that'll be the next step. We did do 66 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: the car seats, and now obviously we did the car 67 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: seats in my car before she even went into the 68 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: hospital for labor, And man, you talk about people HIPing 69 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: something up like it was gonna be the craziest, hardest 70 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: thing that ever happened. You're you gonna be okay with 71 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 1: the car seat. If you need to drive to the 72 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: police station, you know you can do that. They have 73 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: somebody that they'll teach you. And so leading up to it, 74 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: I just kept kicking the can because I thought, man, 75 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 1: this is gonna be so hard. I don't want to 76 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: deal with it yet. So it was about a week 77 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: before we started to feel like Caylen was going to 78 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: go into the hospital, and I said, let me just 79 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: see if I can do the car seat. And it's 80 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: a base that really goes in. Now, it was one 81 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: of the easiest things I've ever done. So either that 82 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: means that car seat isn't terribly or it's just very 83 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: easy to put in. There are these two little clips 84 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: under the seat and that base just goes click click. 85 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: You're basically in from that there's one little state and 86 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: right there. So when it came time to put hers in, 87 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: which we have done, it was super easy. We get 88 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: to do something about the mirrors because if you're supposed 89 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: to turn around and look in the mirror, that's very dangerous, 90 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: and I don't think you are. I think you're supposed 91 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: to go mirror to mirror to baby. But big day today. 92 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: She didn't drive the baby yet, but she didn't leave 93 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: the baby, so I'm feeling pretty good about that. Now. 94 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: I've done a couple of these podcast type things where 95 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: we just talk about the baby. At first, I did 96 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: a baby State of the Union because it was every 97 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: question that I was getting in my DMS, and so 98 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: I thought if I generally just get on and answer 99 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: the questions, that would be good for everybody. I won't 100 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: get the same questions anymore, and you guys that are 101 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: submitting questions about our baby can have some answers. Now. 102 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: I don't have the capacity to do another full podcast, 103 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 1: and I don't want to exhaust myself anymore than I 104 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: already have, and scheduling has been very hard doing multiple podcasts. 105 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: But we're gonna try something here in a second, because 106 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: there are so many people that also want to come 107 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: and talk with me, literally about parenting. I know nothing 108 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: about parenting right I'm three weeks into this thing, and 109 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: I know very little I've read some stuff. I've lived 110 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: three weeks of it. The one thing that I think 111 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do even less I really didn't do it 112 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: to begin with, because I don't do it in general, 113 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: is parent shame. I'm just not a shamer in general anyway, 114 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: because I think we're all living are versions of life, 115 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: dealing with the environment that we're in and the circumstances 116 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: that were given. So it really doesn't to me. I 117 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: don't feel good shaming anyone about anything. And I don't 118 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: really think I was parent shaming when I didn't have kids, 119 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: But man, when I see people parent shaming now, I'm 120 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 1: just like, you're an awful person because you do not 121 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: know what that mom or dad or grandma is going 122 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: through with that baby or four year old or nine 123 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: year old. And there are so many different ways to 124 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: parent a kid, just from my small version of this, 125 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: and really there's not a right way. And when I 126 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: started to read stuff in books now, non scientific stuff 127 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: because some of the stuff that I've read that is about 128 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 1: a baby's digestion, that stuff that's science, I'm in, but 129 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: mostly about technique. All of the opinions on technique are 130 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: just based off the people's environments and the circumstances they 131 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: were given that wrote the books. So I'm not even 132 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: parent shaming at all. I'm not doing this as a 133 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,239 Speaker 1: full podcast, but because of the interest in other people 134 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: talking about parenting and their kids and this platform, I thought, 135 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: what if I just occasionally do an episode with other 136 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: parents and it just goes up on the YouTube channel 137 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: at Bobby Bones channel or like the bobbycast feed or 138 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: something like that, and who knows, we do one a month, 139 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: one every two weeks, two a week. There's really no 140 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: cadence to it. But what if we're able to do 141 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: something like that? And so then I started to think, 142 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: well what would I call it? And I had two 143 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: names that came to mind. And the first thing I 144 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: did was search out both of those names to make 145 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: sure that nobody owned or really used these names at 146 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: a high level. That does a matter which one I 147 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: go to first? It isn't you have all? How many 148 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: pictures do you guys have of per each? How many? 149 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: How many graphics? So I came up with two names 150 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: that I wanted to try. I'm gonna run them up 151 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: here on the screen. I've not seen these images. How 152 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: many each do you have the first one. Just said 153 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: the first one okay, the next one, okay, what's the Okay? 154 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: So I had two names in mind, and the first 155 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: name was kind of stupid. Now I'm kind of embarrassing, 156 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: I'm out loud. The first one was talk Daddy to Me, 157 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: which is like the plays Talk Dirty to Me, but 158 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: it's daddy. So talk Daddy to Me. And so that 159 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: was the first one, and so I hit Brandon it 160 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: up and I said, hey, I just google search. There 161 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: are no other podcasts called talk Daddy to Me. There's 162 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: probably a reason for that because it could possibly be 163 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: a stupid name. I said, but can you mock up 164 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: some images where if we did this parenting series and 165 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: we called it talk Daddy to Me, that you'd be 166 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: able to see that. All right, So here we go. 167 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: Here's the first one. Oh, this looks safe. Talk Daddy 168 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: to Me, presented by Bobby Bones for those that are 169 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: just listening. I love the colors, all the primary colors. 170 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: There's the blocks that's spelled daddy. Alright, good, that's how 171 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: many of these do you have? Okay? So this is 172 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: image number one, and talk Daddy to Me. That one 173 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: doesn't feel that that creepy. I like that, all right. 174 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: It creates the second one. Okay, talk Daddy to me, 175 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: all in red with the glasses of the two d's. Ah, 176 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: that's pretty cool. The glasses of the two d's is 177 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: pretty cool. I like the red, the red letters. I'm 178 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: taking this in for the first time. If you're watching 179 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: on YouTube, you're with me here looking at it. Okay. 180 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: So that was the first idea, and I was like, Okay, 181 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: that one feels like it could possibly be a little corny. 182 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: And so I was thinking of another idea. And there 183 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: was a television show. It was black and white and 184 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: they used to show it on Nick at Night and 185 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: it was called Father Knows Best. And for me, I 186 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: was like, I don't know best. I thought the TV 187 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: show Angle was funny. Knew people wouldn't gt it because 188 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 1: it was a black and white show, But I said, 189 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: what if we called it Father Knows Less? A playoff 190 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: Father Knows Best? But also it's me going I don't 191 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: know anything. I'm like an act like I know anything. 192 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: I'll just share with you. My experiences were going I 193 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: probably know less. So here's the first image for Father 194 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: Knows Less. Okay, it's me sitting in my red letter. Oh, 195 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: I like the less sign. 196 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 2: So that was the first. 197 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: That's a good one. I like the less sign. Father 198 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: knows lesson red letters with the less sign after that 199 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: lest sign is pretty cool. The glasses were cool too, Yeah, 200 00:09:55,559 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: on the two d's all right, show me another one. Okay, 201 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: so just bigger, no picture, all right, give me another one. Okay, 202 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: I like that. I like that one of this, but 203 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: that that lest signs really cool. 204 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 2: There's another one with the less sign on the left side. 205 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: There, but that wouldn't mean I know more because it's 206 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: open to me. Does that make sense? 207 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,359 Speaker 2: It was confusing? 208 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: Okay, what named? Because you guys don't get the father 209 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 1: knows best reference, you don't have to. It still makes 210 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,719 Speaker 1: sense as to what I'm trying to say. The only 211 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: which one are you drawing to? Father knows less? Just 212 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: talk daddy to me? Feel weird. I think it's a 213 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: little combative, combative. 214 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: The original phrase. 215 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 1: Talk dirty, ry much money you like best. 216 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 4: At first, I was like, dude, it's talk daddy to me. 217 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 4: But then the more I thought, the more I thought 218 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 4: about it, less like it just it fits you. It 219 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 4: fits like your belief and everything, and I think it's 220 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,079 Speaker 4: I think it's just as clever. 221 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: You know, go back, Can you go back to that 222 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: you're getting feedback? Yeah, let's go to call her nine. 223 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: And this isn't even live. That's how amazing it is 224 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: that we have poets here. So I think I like 225 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: Father knows Less, So I think we may just right 226 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: now whole placehold this as Father knows Less, like Bobby 227 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 1: Bones presents Father knows Less. You guys feel good about that? Yeah, 228 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: I think the less sign. I think that's really cool. 229 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: I think it's a good that's a really good idea. 230 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 1: So whenever you can get that back up, you can 231 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: put that back up. Uh So, yeah, again, I'm not 232 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: going to commit to this being some weekly podcast because 233 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: I don't between the Bobby Bone Show all five days 234 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: and then we do a whole second show, the Bobby 235 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: Cast being at least two days of week, twenty five 236 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 1: Whistles being at least two days a week, which is 237 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 1: a sports show, the NFL Show lots to Sabi in 238 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: once a week. I don't have a lot of time 239 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: for other podcasts, but I do think this will be fun, 240 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: so we'll do Father give me the other one. I 241 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: don't like how I look Okay, I think I think 242 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: this is cool. Father knows Less. Yeah, we'll do Bobby 243 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 1: Ones Presents Father. 244 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: Knows Less and. 245 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 1: Then do some usision to it. But I do like 246 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: the letters, the simplicity of it. That's cool. Okay, So 247 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: this is what this is going to be called, Father 248 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: knows Less? I did when I googled that, and then 249 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: I went into like the podcast and just googled podcast titles. 250 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: The only thing that popped up was there was a 251 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: book from like twenty seventeen. There was a play on 252 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: Father Knows Best as well, and it was like the 253 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: Father Knows Less and La La la, And there have 254 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: been titles of episodes of certain things. Did you look 255 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: it up to? Yeah? 256 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 4: Episode, and they did a podcast episode on that TV episode. 257 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 2: That's it. 258 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: I was surprised. I don't know if I'm celebrating myself 259 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: for having such a good idea, but I thought, this 260 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: has got to be a common Ish idea, right, Yeah, 261 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: maybe people just don't get the black and white television 262 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: show reference. 263 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 2: But it's such a common phrase too though. 264 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: Oh it is best do what he says, you know, 265 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:24,839 Speaker 1: all right, we're committing to father knows Less than the 266 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: US Okay, good deal. I had a pass farm in 267 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: my mouth yesterday and it wasn't really on purpose. I 268 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: was holding the baby and she gets fussy at times, 269 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: and when you're holding the baby with both hands for 270 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 1: those that are watching, and she's holding a pacify in 271 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: her mouth, and she tends to bulldog it. Sometimes they 272 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 1: just do this with their head. I have a bulldog 273 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 1: as why I reference that movement because my bulldog does 274 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: it as well. So she's do going back and forth 275 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: with the passify in her mouth and it starts to 276 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: come out of her mouth. Now I got both hands 277 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: on her, and I don't want to take a hand 278 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 1: and put it on the passifire to hold it. But 279 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: as everybody knows, I had to. It's had a baby 280 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,439 Speaker 1: is Once passified hits the floor, it's dead. You don't 281 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 1: use it again until you can what we have. We 282 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: have a bunch of alcohol swabs at the house, so 283 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: we will disinfect it and then rinse it off because 284 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 1: the alcohol won't taste good. Obviously, I don't want the 285 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: passifire to die. So what I did is I took 286 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: my chin to put it and hold it the pacifier 287 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: in her mouth, and as soon as it did it 288 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: flipped right in my mouth. So that's the person. I've 289 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: had a passifire my mouth like that, like straight fened 290 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: the baby's mouth to my mouth. I think, though, that's 291 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: a dead pacifier, the same as it had fallen on 292 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: the floor. So I did kill the passifire. But that's 293 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: my first story. I have a friend who hit me 294 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: up the other day and he said, hey, is it 295 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: weird to you that your mom will never get to 296 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: meet your baby? Because my mom died years ago and 297 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: my mom was the age that I am now, which 298 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: is what's crazy. And so I said, yeah, that is weird, 299 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: and I've thought about that. I was sad that my 300 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: mom was never able to meet my child. And this 301 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 1: is a friend whose mom has also died, which is 302 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: why he was asking me that, And so we were 303 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: talking about that a little bit and then he said 304 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: to me, is it weird that your dad left? Because 305 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: could you ever see you leaving your baby? Now, this 306 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: is a friend who had similar stories me. Grandma raised him, 307 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: mom has passed away. Dad left when he was little, 308 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: and I think that's probably why it was so easy 309 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 1: to talk about it with each other. And I remember thinking, 310 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: and again, my biological dad was seventeen when I was born. 311 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: My mom got pregnant at fifteen, right after her sixteenth birthday, 312 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: had me, So he was a kid. So a little 313 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: bit of me can understand a kid making an immature decision. 314 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: But I think for me, it was how do you 315 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: not come back? Like? This is what we talked about, 316 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: I said, Because my biological dad was so young, a 317 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: little bit I can give him a pass because kids 318 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: do very immature things, I said, But when I'm like eleven, 319 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: nine thirteen, like, how do you not come back? How 320 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: do you stay gone? Like that to me is what's 321 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: difficult now. And I think there are all these new 322 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 1: feelings that I'm having about my parents now that I 323 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: am a parent, and it's just a few weeks in, 324 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: like I'm coming to terms with some things, and I'm 325 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: sure I'm just scratching the surface of all this. But 326 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't that I was angry at my biological dad 327 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: for leaving. I think I became angry at him again 328 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: for not coming back. That was the weird part for me. 329 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm not someone who meditates. I've tried. I'm not a 330 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: meditation hater, and I've probably had three different seasons in 331 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: my life when I've tried to meditate through the different 332 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: jobs in cities I've lived and different levels of whatever 333 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: success or mild fame that I've had. There have been 334 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: security issues as my job has gotten bigger. Honestly, the 335 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: security issues have gotten bigger, and that makes sense. And 336 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: so it went from you know, when I was on 337 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 1: Little Rock, I got held a gunpoint outside of a 338 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 1: station event, pistol whipped. I was at an ATM. There's 339 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 1: a whole situation that messed up my head for a 340 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: long time, got my house broken into, had some death threats, 341 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: got jumped outside of work, Like I had four or 342 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: five things that were really scary to me then, but 343 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: like long term became scarier to me as as I 344 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 1: think the reality of possibly almost dying was in me, 345 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: because when it first happens, you just like, oh crap, 346 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 1: that's crazy. But then you start reliving and you start 347 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: having this PTSD type it's PTSD. I feel weird calling 348 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: a PTSD because there are people that have been to 349 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:15,400 Speaker 1: war and they have and there's no real and fake PTSD. 350 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 1: Mine feels a bit fake, but mine's real, right, Like 351 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: I had real crap happen to me and so I've 352 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: tried to meditate to sleep better because for a long 353 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: time me not being able to sleep was making me sick. 354 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,479 Speaker 1: So I'll try meditation. I would get on these apps 355 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: i'd read about meditation, and it really consisted of me 356 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: sitting on the either the edge of my bed or 357 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,719 Speaker 1: bottom of my bed, thinking a single thought over and 358 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: over again, trying to slow my mind down towards I'm 359 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: not thinking of a lot of other things. Like from 360 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: what I've learned through meditation is that if I can 361 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: focus on one thing, everything else stops and it allows 362 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: a bit of clarity. I've really struggled with it, and 363 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: I would try it for thirty forty minutes at a 364 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: time and either it just wouldn't take or I'd fall 365 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: asleep one of the two. And each time I would 366 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: quit because I mean really, because I was a quitter, 367 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:18,159 Speaker 1: Because I think if I would have stuck with it, 368 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: I think I could have actually gotten pretty good at it. 369 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: But I was a quitter in that world, and so 370 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: never been somebody who's been good at meditating and just 371 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 1: slowing down. I found something that happens now, and it's 372 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: kind of a forced meditation. So, like I mentioned, My 373 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 1: wife does ninety percent of feeding the baby, changing the baby, 374 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: and if I'm home, I'm there, I'm changing along with her. 375 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: I'm helping her in every way possible. But I can't 376 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 1: do some of the things that she can do. But 377 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: her back starts to hurt, lower back, like her neck 378 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: starts to hurt because she's always bending down with the baby. 379 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 1: And so not only do I just want to give 380 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: her a break to go and you know, take shower, 381 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: watch a show if she wants to watch a show, 382 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: like do something that is not so just always intense 383 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 1: focusing on the baby. So I want to give her 384 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: a break from that. But also it's like physically I 385 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: want to give her a break because again she's always 386 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,119 Speaker 1: hunched over or if she's feet that is, all the 387 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 1: things that they're doing with their body. And so the 388 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: last few nights, as I give her a break, especially 389 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: at night it's dark, I hold the baby, rock the baby. 390 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: There's no phone. I'll play light music and I keep 391 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: the phone down. We have a chair in our room 392 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 1: now that's a rocker. It's not like a rocking chair, 393 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: but it's a comfortable chair that rocks. And so I'll 394 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: play the music and mostly it's just like nineties alternative, 395 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: like slow nineties alternative. It's like Oasis, counting Crows, pearl 396 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: jam And I found myself starting to be able to 397 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: do the things that I tried to do for so 398 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: long when it comes to meditation, because I don't have 399 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: the my nuts it's so bad last night and I 400 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: couldn't scratch them because I had both hands on the baby. 401 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: So all my focus is on this baby. I can't 402 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm not on my phone. The baby has this thing 403 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,479 Speaker 1: too where she likes to crawl up and put her 404 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: head in my neck. She likes to like my chin 405 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: on top of her, and she likes and if I'm 406 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 1: not she'll crawl She'll already crawl up a little bit 407 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: into my neck. But because I can do nothing, I 408 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 1: literally can do nothing. And I found the last few 409 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: nights me inching toward that place where it feels like 410 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 1: a meditative state, to where I'm a bit able to 411 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 1: slow the world down around me mentally because I have 412 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: no other choice but to do so with the baby. 413 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,199 Speaker 1: So again, I'm no meditation expert. I have felt multiple 414 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: times at trying in a way that I was taught, 415 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: but being in a dark room music on focused on 416 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 1: the baby. It's almost allowed me to have the kind 417 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 1: of thinking I have when I'm in the shower. And 418 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if everybody thinks like this the same way, 419 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: but when you're in the shower, you're not able to 420 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 1: watch a screen, be on your phone, you're not able 421 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,919 Speaker 1: to talk to people, like there's nothing except you and 422 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: you're under the water. So for me, a lot of 423 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 1: clarity happens when I'm in the shower because there's nowhere 424 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: else to go, there's nothing else to do, It's just 425 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 1: me in my mind. But I found that I can 426 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:27,440 Speaker 1: get really close to meditating with the baby at night, 427 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: so that's been pretty cool. One of the other things 428 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: that's been hard is and she's sleeping all the way 429 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: to the night. She slept for eight hours last night. 430 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: She's three weeks old. I don't know how crazy that is, 431 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: but for us, because it feels like and again she's 432 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: only three weeks old, and it feels like two years 433 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: and one day at the same time, because it feels 434 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,360 Speaker 1: like just yesterday she was born. But also it's been 435 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: super hyper focused on her, Like she sleeps eight hours 436 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: through the night at three weeks old, it's wild. So 437 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: we're celebrating, and so we have to feed her every 438 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: two and a half hours or so now. But the 439 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: problem is when we feed her, and this probably happens 440 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 1: with the most newborns, she falls asleep while she's eating. 441 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 1: So as she's eating, she's out, and so we're like, oh, 442 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: you gotta eat because she has to eat a bunch 443 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 1: of during the daytime till she sleeps at night. And 444 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: we have had to develop techniques to keep her awake 445 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: while she eats, which involves tickling her feet while she eats. Now, 446 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: if you did that to me, I'd be pissed. But also, 447 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fall asleep Theserbert. Everybody familiar with Deserbert, 448 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,919 Speaker 1: well Serbert on her face while she eats, because the 449 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 1: main goal is keeping the baby awake. I've gotten some really, 450 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to say great, but just the real 451 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: thoughtful gifts from folks. I was never the person to 452 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 1: buy baby gifts because I never had a baby, Like, 453 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 1: I didn't know that world. And now that we had 454 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 1: a baby and people are giving us gifts, like, I 455 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 1: feel the need. Now I see someone's gonna have a baby, 456 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, oh, man, I want to get I 457 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: want to jump in like I want to get gifts 458 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 1: for people now too. But I really didn't know the 459 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 1: baby culture. But Matt Castle, who I do the NFL 460 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,959 Speaker 1: show with, he got us this like a backpack, a 461 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: monogram backpack and like a monogram bunny I posted on 462 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: my Instagram mister Bobby Bones with her name on it, 463 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: which was super cool. Tim McGrath sent over some really 464 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 1: nice stuff. Well sorry, the McGrath family, So Tim and 465 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 1: Faith they sent over. I didn't want to say what 466 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 1: it is because it was like rich people gift. They're rich. 467 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: They sent over a really nice gift. It's French, I'll 468 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:42,160 Speaker 1: just say that. And Maggie Rose, who's been on this podcast, 469 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: excellent singer, she sent over a monogram like really nice bag. 470 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 1: And then obviously all our friends too. But I just 471 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: the baby culture is something that I did not know 472 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 1: or understand, but now I'm kind of excited to get 473 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: people baby gifts. Dylan, who is one of the producers 474 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: here or just announced he's happened to baby Dylan is 475 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 1: your mic on? Can you turn it on? 476 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 3: I can? 477 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 1: How did you feel announcing it? Uh? It felt good? 478 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 3: It was you know we've known since like January, so 479 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 3: finally being. 480 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: Able to oh dude, it feels like forever, right a. 481 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 3: Little bit is nice? Yeah, for sure. 482 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: Whenever we found out, from the moment we found out, 483 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 1: when we could share, it fell like ten years. Yeah, 484 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 1: did you tell anyone in your close circle? Immediately? 485 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 3: Funny you say that, so you were actually the first 486 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 3: one to know, because I just completely like slipped when 487 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 3: we were in La Do you remember that? 488 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,399 Speaker 1: Of course we were sitting at the table. I didn't 489 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 1: know that we were the first people you told. So 490 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: why I know We're all sitting at the table, We're 491 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 1: having dinner. We heard it from like Gwyneth Paltrow's Goop restaurant. Yeah, 492 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 1: had it uber Eatsten, Like I remember vividly. We were 493 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: all like, oh my god, that's awesome. How did that slip? Though? 494 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: What was the conversation? 495 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,880 Speaker 3: Eddie was asking me like questions and I was like, 496 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 3: you know, I've never really been asked like the kid 497 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 3: thing like that was the first. 498 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: Time any Oh that was it? Like are you gonna 499 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: have kids? Yeah? 500 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,439 Speaker 3: And I didn't I don't think I like said anything. 501 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 3: I just like made a face and Eddie was like, well, 502 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 3: what's that, and I was like, oh, well, actually yeah, 503 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 3: we literally found out like probably a week before that. 504 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 1: So just was like, all right, well, we were told 505 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 1: don't tell anybody that you're having a kid that you 506 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: don't want to have to tell that you're no longer 507 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: having a kid in case yep, yeah, because because again 508 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: it's common yep. And so only tell the people that 509 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: you're gonna want and you feel comfortable telling them if 510 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 1: it doesn't. And so we told her parents. What sucked 511 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: about that was they were on we got them on FaceTime, 512 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,399 Speaker 1: and Caitlin was like record us, telling her, you know, 513 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 1: her mom and dad, her mom and dad, and so 514 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: I and hit record and she started to tell I 515 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 1: don't remember. I don't remember hitting the button, but what 516 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,719 Speaker 1: I recorded was when I wasn't supposed to record, And 517 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: what I didn't get was what I was supposed to record, Like, 518 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 1: I think I hit it early. So when I then 519 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 1: when I went to actually recorded, I was stopping the recording, 520 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: and then she told him none of it was recorded, 521 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 1: and then I thought I was stopping it, but then 522 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 1: I started again, and so I got pre and after 523 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 1: and I looked down on my phone and I went, 524 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 1: oh my god, and so we finished the conversation with them, 525 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: we got off FaceTime and I said, I didn't record it. 526 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 1: I got all before and all after. I didn't mean 527 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: to hit record at the beginning, and I never looked 528 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,879 Speaker 1: at the phone. Oh, I felt so stupid, brutal. That 529 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 1: was brutal. So we told them, and we told her sister, 530 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: but that was pretty much it. Then I started, I 531 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 1: let like a couple people in my super circle know Eddie. Obviously, 532 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: he's my best friend Kevin klu who is my trainer. 533 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,199 Speaker 1: But man, we had spent so much time together over 534 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: the past five years, every single day, and you know, 535 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,879 Speaker 1: he had a bunch of kids, and I didn't I 536 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 1: knew he wouldn't share anything. But that's all we told. 537 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: She had told maybe a couple of her closest friends. 538 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,880 Speaker 1: Who did you tell before you guys announced it? 539 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 3: Well, so we didn't. I didn't tell like any of 540 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 3: my best friends until like I think maybe like two 541 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 3: or three days before we posted, And same with her, 542 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 3: so it was pretty close to the best. 543 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: So I only Los Angeles traveling podcast buddies. Yeah, congratulations. 544 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 1: Did everybody blow you up immediately when you posted it? 545 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 546 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it. 547 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 3: Was it was, you know, very Nutfield and I semesters 548 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 3: and stuff. 549 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: What have you guys shared And if you haven't, don't 550 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,719 Speaker 1: don't give me a face, don't do anything. What do 551 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: you know? What have you shared? 552 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 3: Uh, we've only shared that we're we're having it, but 553 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 3: we do know the gender. 554 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: What else? Don't do? Not like for breaking news here? 555 00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 3: No? 556 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: No, yeah, you do know gender? 557 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? 558 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 559 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: Are you going to do a gender reveal? 560 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to at one of the baby showers 561 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 3: for her family. 562 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: So you're gonna have a shower without without anybody who's 563 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 1: coming to the shower knowing what the gender, will. 564 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 3: Have one with knowing knowing and then one with people 565 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 3: knowing because her family's New Jersey months and we have 566 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 3: to have two different for everything. 567 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: So yep, that's awesome. Yeah. Have you talked about or 568 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: a publicly said when you think you're gonna have the baby? Uh? 569 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we've told people October early October, so. 570 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: But yeah, we get we're in April, May, June, July, August, September, 571 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: so you're five and a half six months away. 572 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's finishing the first trimester. 573 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,479 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, and I didn't believe people when they 574 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,840 Speaker 1: said this to me, it's going to feel like a 575 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: century from now until then. It's also going to be 576 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: here tomorrow, I know. 577 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 3: I was telling Brandon, I'm like already to the point 578 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 3: where I'm like ready, Like I'm like excited ready. So 579 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 3: it's gonna feel like an atorney. 580 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 1: Absolutely at about eight months something else I didn't know 581 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: until my wife was pregnant again. All this baby colder 582 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: stuff is new to me. It's not nine, it's ten months. 583 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 1: I don't know where this nine month thing came from. 584 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 1: It's ten months until they have the baby. Like, it's 585 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: not like nine's of a fun round number that we'll 586 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: just do nine because it's ten months. And whenever she's 587 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: like eight and a half months pregnant, that's when it's 588 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 1: on you, Dylan, to make sure that you can help 589 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 1: out in any way with her comfort because it sucks. Yeah, 590 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 1: and not for us, not for us, for them. It's 591 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 1: suck because they're gonna think they're uncomfortable because my wife's 592 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: like this, I'm so uncomfortable. I'm so uncomfortable. My clothes 593 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 1: don't fit. When it gets to like eight and a 594 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 1: half months, they can't sleep, heart rates up all the time, 595 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: and it's just up to you to do whatever you 596 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: can to make sure she feels better. 597 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a little nervous about that because she's already 598 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 3: the type that's like I'm uncomfortable, Like even before she 599 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 3: was pregnant, she's the one that's like just on the couch, 600 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 3: like I can't get comfortable. 601 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: It's not like you ain't seeing nothing yet. It's gonna 602 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: get Brandon tell him he ain't seen nothing yet, Dude. 603 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 2: It's it's wild, and it's it's. 604 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 3: It's all exciting, and it's it's all hands on deck, 605 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 3: really is what it is. 606 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: And then it's a whole different thing once she has 607 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: a baby. I mean, Luke Holmbs was talking to me 608 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: and that clip on viral where he was like, hey, 609 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: there's no nothing you can do except everything for her, 610 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: and man, if that's not the case. 611 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 2: That's probably the best advice I had heard. 612 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: He was like, it is not about you with that baby. 613 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: It's herd with the baby. But you have to do 614 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: everything to make sure that she can focus on the baby. 615 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 1: And also, I think I've said this already. They either 616 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 1: have to have surgery a cee section, or they're going 617 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: to have a vaginal birth, which was weird for me 618 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: to hear that word, but I've now heard it ten 619 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: thousand times. Vaginal birth is not even that word of 620 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: a word for me. But I'd be like vaginal as 621 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 1: an adult man. It's like somebody took a sledgehammer to 622 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: their body from the waist down, and so it's up 623 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: to you to make sure that as they're recovering and 624 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 1: they're trying to do the things to make sure the 625 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 1: baby is good, that you make it as easy on 626 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: them as possible. 627 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 3: That's the goal. I'm trying to diversify my skills at 628 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 3: the moment. 629 00:31:54,920 --> 00:32:00,120 Speaker 1: So it's so cool. Yeah, work ex outed, It's so cool. Okay, 630 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: So I think that's it for this thirty minutes here. 631 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 1: I think we're gonna go with father knows Less because 632 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: as you can tell, I know very little. But why 633 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: don't we put this up on the when we do 634 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: the thumbnail for this episode, we'll put this up? Maybe 635 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 1: we do, like, because I think if we just put 636 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: father knows Less, people don't get even know what that is. 637 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: Maybe we do like, and you're gonna you're just like 638 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 1: my head, Oh yeah, but you got to take a 639 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 1: good picture we're gonna get okay. 640 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 2: I wanted one like for the other one that was 641 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 2: like you. 642 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 1: Shrugging, Oh, I don't know, yeah, yeah, you do. 643 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 2: It again towards the camera like perfect. 644 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm like that one. 645 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 2: That's a good one. But I want to look tired. 646 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 2: You want to look like, oh, man, like I don't 647 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 2: know what's up. 648 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 1: I'll say this. I know it's not the right thing 649 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 1: to say, because my wife's been doing all the work, 650 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: not all, but that kind of work. I'm not that tired. 651 00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 1: She's been rocking it. They baby want to sleeping. And two, 652 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: if something happens, like my wife at night, she's a champ. 653 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: She handles that for a couple of reasons. One because 654 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: she wants to and she's so anxious about everything right now, 655 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 1: but also too, I'm just appreciative that she respects that 656 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: I have to get up early, that I have to 657 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: somewhat perform every single day. So yeah, she's been great. 658 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 1: So thank you guys for watching the first episode of 659 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: our off schedule podcast and video show called Father Knows Less. 660 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: There's a chance we never do another episode, and for 661 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 1: being honest, but there's also a chance we do five 662 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 1: hundred of these things. If it pops and is you know, 663 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 1: some massive success, that's it. Thank you guys, and we'll 664 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 1: see you soon.