Speaker 1: Second date, up dating. We've heard of all the usual
Speaker 1: dating apps on this segment.
Speaker 2: For Tinder and bumble Mama, hatch me, you know where
Speaker 2: the guys in diapers lay on top of the giant
Speaker 2: eggs until they find their match. Yeah, but one of
Speaker 2: our listeners says they met a guy on an app
Speaker 2: where the male has to verify his income in order
Speaker 2: to join it.
Speaker 3: We just talked about that. We talked about the credit
Speaker 3: score of dating app not long ago. This is kind
Speaker 3: of the same thing.
Speaker 4: I've heard about an app. I guess there's a sugar
Speaker 4: baby kind of like this.
Speaker 2: I think this is a little bit different than sugar babies,
Speaker 2: and it is. I don't want to judge her, even
Speaker 2: though I'm sure Brook already has. Sometimes you want what
Speaker 2: you want and it's admirable to go after it. So
Speaker 2: let's talk to her about it a little bit. Let's
Speaker 2: welcome Asha to the show. Asha, how you doing?
Speaker 3: Hey, Heysha?
Speaker 5: Can I ask, like, do you also have to verify
Speaker 5: your salary to be on the app?
Speaker 3: Or is it only? Is this a one sided You.
Speaker 2: Never ask a woman how much money she makes. That's
Speaker 2: a very weird question.
Speaker 3: Actually, if we talked about it more, there wouldn't be
Speaker 3: such a gap.
Speaker 2: Whatever, I'm I apologize for that question. Let me ask you,
Speaker 2: why did like signing up for an app like that?
Speaker 2: Why does it appeal to you?
Speaker 6: Well? I was in a long distance relationship for ten
Speaker 6: years and I was the mean bread winner. Yeah, so
Speaker 6: I was paying for all the things like flights, vacation,
Speaker 6: everything and it didn't work out. So now you know,
Speaker 6: I'm just reflecting, and I'm like, I want to take
Speaker 6: a step back and enjoy my life. And I honestly
Speaker 6: I want to be pampered, you know, by somebody that
Speaker 6: had some mean and I don't think there's anything wrong
Speaker 6: with that.
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm glad we heard from you, because, you know,
Speaker 4: assuming always it's like, oh, you just probably want a
Speaker 4: guy to pay for everything, but you got it both
Speaker 4: you deserve the other end.
Speaker 3: You're very passionate about this app. Is okay with it?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: It sounds like he has an account on this app already. Look,
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily feel this way, Asha, but I do
Speaker 2: feel like maybe some people listening might think that you're
Speaker 2: not in it to find real love or like a
Speaker 2: true connection, You're just in it for the easy comfort.
Speaker 1: What would you say to people that tell you that.
Speaker 6: I mean, I've had that perspective. I've been on the
Speaker 6: other side, but now you know, I'm a little older,
Speaker 6: I know my worth and I feel like I deserve better.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So what's your range here?
Speaker 5: Like do you put in like when you sign up
Speaker 5: for an app like this, you're putting in numbers of
Speaker 5: what you're looking for instead of height restrictions.
Speaker 6: Yeah, basically, I mean, I don't know if I'm going
Speaker 6: to say the exact figure to you, but you could guess.
Speaker 2: We're just gonna assume it's in the eight figures and
Speaker 2: call it safe. So tell us about this guy that
Speaker 2: you met on the app though, because in your email
Speaker 2: you said his name is Clip.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's Clip. It's short for Clipton.
Speaker 4: I thought it was Clippy Microsoft Words and no wonder.
Speaker 2: He's a billion it says, it says in the email
Speaker 2: Clip with a P. Clipton does sound like a rich
Speaker 2: guy's name, though, I will say, how did the initial
Speaker 2: conversation start, Like, I'm assuming Clipton is the one who
Speaker 2: reached out to you first.
Speaker 6: He did. Yeah, he asked me about my favorite place
Speaker 6: in the world to watch the sunset. I think because
Speaker 6: in my bio I put I have an unhealthy obsession
Speaker 6: with chasing sunset.
Speaker 3: That is wow, that is sweet.
Speaker 6: That's sweet.
Speaker 1: I don't care. What's wrong with this? Sounds like because.
Speaker 3: How did you answer? What did you say?
Speaker 6: Oh? So, he asked me, and I said, Santorini, Greece. Wow, yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm obsessed with Greece in the Greek Islands. I don't
Speaker 6: think he liked my answer.
Speaker 1: Why why not?
Speaker 6: I've never been. I've just seen pictures. You know, it
Speaker 6: looks really beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh well you can't.
Speaker 2: You can't answer like my favorite place to watch sunset.
Speaker 2: It's a place I've never been before.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what you've been taken.
Speaker 6: That our dreams, our big dreams. I want to see
Speaker 6: the world.
Speaker 3: Wait what did he stay back? Why do you think
Speaker 3: he didn't like it?
Speaker 6: Maybe he thought like I wasn't on his levels.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, you haven't been to Santarini, you.
Speaker 1: Would like nail it on this app?
Speaker 2: So can I ask? Like, we need to move forward?
Speaker 2: Have you met up with the guy yet?
Speaker 6: So, we haven't met yet. We were just chatting online.
Speaker 6: We did exchange numbers. He asked me about if I
Speaker 6: feel okay about long distance.
Speaker 5: Oh again, you just did that for a decade, I
Speaker 5: know exactly.
Speaker 6: So I was like, I got to be one hundred
Speaker 6: percent honest with you, like I don't want to waste
Speaker 6: your time, but I'm really looking for someone to spoil me,
Speaker 6: like I'm just being outset about what I want.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well.
Speaker 4: That's the right place to say that.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's a bold You're putting it all on
Speaker 2: the table right there.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but then he didn't respond after that, Oh so
Speaker 6: I need your home.
Speaker 4: This is weird because if he's on an app, that's like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, he's obviously like considering that you might
Speaker 2: be a possibility if he's asking, are you up for
Speaker 2: a long distance relationship? So, I mean, I guess I
Speaker 2: assume he's not in your same city.
Speaker 6: He's not, but I don't think that would really matter.
Speaker 6: And based on his profile, he travels a lot, so
Speaker 6: I don't think the dates would be all like set
Speaker 6: in one spot anyway.
Speaker 3: Can I ask when we call him, have you talked
Speaker 3: to him on the phone before?
Speaker 6: We haven't talked here. We just exchange numbers. But I'm
Speaker 6: really trying to find like a generous guy who can
Speaker 6: give me like your fine lifestyle, but I'm I need
Speaker 6: someone who's not a creep. He seems like a good
Speaker 6: dude though.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I just texted.
Speaker 5: I feel like we're like shopping for a used car,
Speaker 5: Like it depends on the looks and the price range.
Speaker 1: You know, you just bought a brand new car.
Speaker 3: Well, I know, but this one feels like it's more
Speaker 3: of a used situation.
Speaker 2: Well right, well, let's reach out to this used Honda
Speaker 2: and see if he's willing to give it a test
Speaker 2: drive with you in person.
Speaker 6: That sounds great. I really just want to get a
Speaker 6: real date on the books with him and see what
Speaker 6: he's all about.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll try and set that up for you.
Speaker 2: We'll call him and get your second date update right
Speaker 2: after this second date update. It's funny, we don't usually
Speaker 2: do a lot of second date updates where there was
Speaker 2: no actual date that happened.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: Strangely, no one protested in studio like they normally would
Speaker 2: if that was the case, because head it was a
Speaker 2: pretty interesting conversation between two people on an exclusive app
Speaker 2: for income verified individuals and Daddy from no that it's
Speaker 2: a different things.
Speaker 1: For this case and purposes. It's class all right, from
Speaker 1: what I understood.
Speaker 2: Our listener, Asha had a flirty exchange with a man
Speaker 2: named Clip.
Speaker 1: Short for Clifton.
Speaker 2: They discussed their favorite sunsets and she told him hers
Speaker 2: was Santorini, even though she's never actually been there.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: The screensaver on her windows background though gorgeous. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: it seems like the final straw for the guy Clip
Speaker 2: was when he asked her about doing like a potential
Speaker 2: long distance relationship and she responded, I'm gonna be completely honest.
Speaker 2: I need a man to pamper me like no other.
Speaker 2: And that's kind of where things started to fall.
Speaker 3: It wasn't really a yes or a no.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've learned that she's not really very good at
Speaker 2: answering questions directly. She kind of, you know, skirts around
Speaker 2: the outside.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 4: We all do know that she doesn't really want a
Speaker 4: long distance because she did long distance, but he.
Speaker 5: Travels a lot, so she you know, you're hoping that
Speaker 5: he just flies you to wherever.
Speaker 6: He is, right, Yeah, totally. I mean I got on
Speaker 6: the app because I was looking for somebody that had
Speaker 6: the means to travel, So I don't think it's weird
Speaker 6: that I brought it up. I don't think it's weird.
Speaker 6: I want to go see the sunset in grease.
Speaker 1: Oh not at all, though we all do. Let's call
Speaker 1: it Clifton though. I'll she you ready to do this?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: All right, let's reel this fish for you.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, we're looking for clip. We're clipton clippy.
Speaker 7: Clip o.
Speaker 2: Hey, uh hi, We're We're a radio show called Brook
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Okay, great cell line. I'm just saying this phone line even.
Speaker 2: Okay, brooks microne off for a second, please, so clip.
Speaker 2: We do this segment called a second date update on
Speaker 2: our show, and I don't know if it airs in
Speaker 2: the city that you're at. We're nationally syndicated show, by
Speaker 2: the way, Yeah, you can look us up online. Brook
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey were verified online.
Speaker 3: Worldwide.
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like I need to verify myself?
Speaker 1: He answered his own phone, by the way, Not a
Speaker 1: lot of rich guys answer their own phone. Are you
Speaker 1: still sor are you still there?
Speaker 7: How can I help you?
Speaker 6: Guys?
Speaker 1: Sorry, time is money.
Speaker 2: Jeff You're right, we're doing this segment trying to help
Speaker 2: out one of our listeners. It's like a dating segment.
Speaker 2: Normally we would call people who have been on a
Speaker 2: date with this person before, but this is a little
Speaker 2: different because you've just exchanged numbers with this woman and,
Speaker 2: according to her, had a really nice conversation online.
Speaker 1: Do you remember Asha?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Oh you do?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I was curious if we'd even remember who she was.
Speaker 1: That's good.
Speaker 2: We're just trying to help her get some answers because
Speaker 2: she's a little confused now that the conversation has kind
Speaker 2: of died down.
Speaker 1: It's not moving forward.
Speaker 3: She was really excited about you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she mentioned that you two were talking and
Speaker 2: thought maybe she turned you off by saying that she's
Speaker 2: looking for a guy to pamper her.
Speaker 1: That was the last thing that she says came up.
Speaker 7: I don't mind doing that for someone i'm in love with.
Speaker 7: But you know, that definitely wasn't my issue with Asha.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, it was your issue. That she asked was
Speaker 3: not your issue.
Speaker 7: It wasn't my issue.
Speaker 1: Okay, You're okay?
Speaker 6: Her.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, if you're going to be on a
Speaker 5: rich guy app, you probably are going to expect that
Speaker 5: is the expectation would be.
Speaker 4: Really funny though you put it in You're like, I'm
Speaker 4: a millionaire and some girls like, oh you're rich. He's like,
Speaker 4: excuse me.
Speaker 1: How dare.
Speaker 4: Business?
Speaker 1: So what was the issue with Asha?
Speaker 6: Then?
Speaker 7: Like I thought we had a real potential until her
Speaker 7: last message came through, and then I realized she's into
Speaker 7: some things that I'm not necessarily into.
Speaker 2: What Santorini, the sunset on Santorini came up?
Speaker 1: Is that what you're talking about?
Speaker 7: No, listen, I'll I'll open it up and read to you.
Speaker 7: Her message. It was pretty shocking.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, sorry, where is it?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 7: She said, I'm going to be one hundred honest and
Speaker 7: truthful with you on what I want, so we don't
Speaker 7: waste that time I'm looking for I want to soil me.
Speaker 7: So right there, I'm like.
Speaker 3: Do you think she just left the pan out of
Speaker 3: that word?
Speaker 4: Much different?
Speaker 3: I think she got spoiled.
Speaker 7: She said it with some people at are ind of
Speaker 7: that kind of stuff and that's just not for me.
Speaker 7: Like some people into kinks and everything and that's really
Speaker 7: not me.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, if you're not, that's okay. But this is
Speaker 1: a specialty site.
Speaker 4: A lot of these specialties have really weird people on
Speaker 4: them that have weird interests.
Speaker 1: I can see him really thinking, maybe maybe she did me.
Speaker 2: But why are we even explaining this to him when
Speaker 2: we can just have Asha explain it herself.
Speaker 1: She is on the other line right now wanting to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Clip.
Speaker 4: Are you playing?
Speaker 6: So?
Speaker 3: Are you clean or soiled? Right now?
Speaker 6: She's like, I'm like, so embarrassed in you. But I mean,
Speaker 6: obviously it was a typo and then spoil me.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, yeah, clip, there she is.
Speaker 6: Hey, I can't believe I wrote that. I was babysitting
Speaker 6: at the time, so I guess my hands were fully.
Speaker 7: You told me you were a cosmetics director.
Speaker 1: Cosmetics you could do block either.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I do the make up for my nieces for
Speaker 6: your elementary school plays.
Speaker 5: Oh, I thought you were like, wait, you have so
Speaker 5: much money in your.
Speaker 2: Last Well, you're dealing with toddlers and little kids the
Speaker 2: whole time, so maybe you are kind of into soiling
Speaker 2: in a certain way.
Speaker 6: No again, I meant to say spoil with the PA.
Speaker 6: I don't think it's the first person to make a TYPEO.
Speaker 5: Guys, can we please concentrate on the fact Asha that
Speaker 5: you said you said makeup director and you're just helping
Speaker 5: out with the elementary school.
Speaker 3: Play.
Speaker 6: Good job. I'm good at it.
Speaker 3: You get paid for it.
Speaker 6: From my parents, donate to me and they give me
Speaker 6: bakers after replace.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's actually more than we make here at the
Speaker 2: radio stage.
Speaker 5: Brooke has been.
Speaker 4: Begging for a salary in Kke and Pie.
Speaker 7: Like that's my issue with these sites, Like I'm trying
Speaker 7: to meet a high value woman.
Speaker 4: Oh, so everyone should be making it.
Speaker 7: They need to be making a ton of money, but
Speaker 7: you know, just don't be dishonest about what they're doing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does feel dishonest, Sasha.
Speaker 6: Our cosmetic structor could be anything.
Speaker 3: The one app you shouldn't have to lie on is
Speaker 3: a star Daddy app.
Speaker 4: Keep the eyes for people are like, I'm an entrepreneur.
Speaker 5: It's like you guys, it's like I volunteer as an
Speaker 5: assistant coach for a little league.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to put baseball coach as my job.
Speaker 2: That's actually more respected than this that we do. So
Speaker 2: maybe you should put that down. But clip, I think
Speaker 2: Asha brings a lot of value that's not necessarily through
Speaker 2: her job title or through any money, Like, her value
Speaker 2: is in her personality and what she could offer to
Speaker 2: you as like a potential good relationship.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good sign that she, you know, helps kids.
Speaker 6: And yeah, Anne, I look good in a bikini. You
Speaker 6: said that crypt In.
Speaker 2: Oh, so clearly you're seeing a little bit of value
Speaker 2: at least.
Speaker 3: I think we're really back on these sugar daddy sites.
Speaker 3: That's where we just went.
Speaker 2: Either way, we we should try and bring these two
Speaker 2: together in person.
Speaker 1: You guys haven't even met up yet.
Speaker 2: And I know we can't offer like a plane ticket
Speaker 2: for you guys to fly out and meet each other,
Speaker 2: but we can't offer a gift card to a restaurant
Speaker 2: in one of your cities if you do get together.
Speaker 7: I mean I did have a conversation with her, and
Speaker 7: you know, but she said she does look at a bikini,
Speaker 7: and we did get along except for the whole thing.
Speaker 2: And you know, you know that she doesn't she does
Speaker 2: not want you to soil her. Yeah, we're being very clear.
Speaker 7: I think I understand that now. Yeah, I mean, why not,
Speaker 7: I'd be down for it.
Speaker 6: Why not?
Speaker 5: God, you bring up one bikini picture and suddenly men
Speaker 5: have no strength anymore.
Speaker 1: You're a smart woman. Well done. You just got yourself
Speaker 1: a second day.
Speaker 6: Girl. I get it all right.
Speaker 1: Are you applauding yourself?
Speaker 3: Broke?
Speaker 1: Come on, frazy.
Speaker 6: Photo?
Speaker 3: Just love a good bikini.
Speaker 1: God, it's brooken. Jeffrey in the.
Speaker 7: Morning, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: They say only three things in life are certain death,
Speaker 2: taxes and bikini picks, making a man lose all brain.
Speaker 1: I always that one.
Speaker 3: I always forget that bikini picks one. Yeah, I just
Speaker 3: have so many.
Speaker 5: In my arsenal galleries and galleries of bikini picks.
Speaker 4: Wish I had a defense of This.
Speaker 3: Is so dumb.
Speaker 2: It is dumb, but nature it works like a charm,
Speaker 2: and it worked again today got them a second date.
Speaker 2: So if you don't have a bikini pick somewhere in
Speaker 2: your phone, that.
Speaker 5: Is okay, ladies, because listen, you're worth a lot more.
Speaker 3: I'm not just talking.
Speaker 1: Ladies and men alike.
Speaker 2: Both of you need to get to a two piece
Speaker 2: and snap your way to success today.
Speaker 3: Give you want someone to swipe up, you gotta do it.
Speaker 3: Why why are men wearing a top piece?
Speaker 2: I'll send you some photos and you'll see what. But
Speaker 2: you know what, if you don't want to go the
Speaker 2: bikini photo out, that's okay. We're still willing to help
Speaker 2: you out. Email the show. We'll call that person who's
Speaker 2: not calling you back if I all of our Second
Speaker 2: Day podcast really get yours at Brook and
Speaker 7: Jeffery Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning