WEBVTT - Ep195: F**k Me with an F (Ft. Sofia Franklyn) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:09.719 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:12.320 I feel like I can say I upset up horrible 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:17.840 know that you are? Am I doing it? Am? I? God? 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:21.520 I just feel like, oh my god. So we really 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:23.439 don't have that many white people are Okay, I'm not 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:26.720 gonna sund like this, So y'all welcome to motherfucker horrible decisions. Y'all. 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:30.240 I think you're maybe a k a debt bach. I'm wheezy, 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:33.320 So we just need to break that Hi fucked a 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:37.280 black guy yet or not? I have not? Okay, you 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:39.760 know what can I I guess I'll just like announced 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:45.960 who I am? Hi, I'm Sophia Franklin. Literally my voice? 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:47.880 How you just did it? That is my fucking voice? 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.760 You talking about your It's like, why do you mean 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:53.840 like you're not really closing it every way? So everything's 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:58.880 a question. I'm like, really why every single thing? Um? 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:01.960 I have? Not? My ex was a quarter which I 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:06.160 know that sounds so let me justify it. In Utah, 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:09.640 if you're a quarter black, you're a full black guy. Well. 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:12.200 I just started watching the Real Housewives of Salt Lake 0:01:12.240 --> 0:01:14.880 City and they think that the Hawaiian bitches black. Apparently 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:20.400 there's a Hawaiian Tonguan whatever she is, Yeah, she is. 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:23.920 Tonguan is a place that's gonna say, not Tongan. They 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:27.319 called Sma Tonga, you know. But she literally went on 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:30.679 there and so she dates, uh black football coach and 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.960 she's like, I'm Hawaiian. But it's so weird because here 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:36.280 in Salt Lake they pretty much just say I'm black. 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:42.679 And I was like, what we are in bitch, we 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:46.800 are the business grants black owned. Sorry, Sofia, I don't 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:53.080 know what SLU got. No, yeah, no, it was super awkward. 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:56.400 So I can believe if you said that your person 0:01:56.560 --> 0:02:00.640 was a quarter. I know that that sounds so ridiculous 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:04.320 to say. But literally he was in Utah there were 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:07.520 like three blacks. I mean, I can pull up a 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:10.720 picture that's what you are. Yeah, I think the only 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:14.400 black people in utop for the jazz literally literally because 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:17.040 you had I mean, I go hold your bit I 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:18.760 did have a little. I had a few niggas on 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.040 the jazz before, not not the current roster. It's it's 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.720 a lot of young guys. Now I don't I don't 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.680 do the ball players anymore. What do you mean the 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:29.160 ball players. So what do you do? I have a 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:35.080 grown ass regular niggers. This is six months, just seven, 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.880 it's been seven. Mandy is really trying to act like 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:40.040 she gave her life over to God. I think she 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:44.280 got a point, dick, this guy did heck anymore. I'm 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:47.400 a I don't pick anymore. You start going to church, 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:51.040 I'm done. I'm almost weird going for I have given 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.519 my life to my new man. Yeah, girl, I don't 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:56.960 know who I am. Bit So have you guys talked 0:02:56.960 --> 0:03:00.720 about like Syria, like getting married and so I already 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:02.359 know what the way my money set up. I don't 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:03.919 want marriage right now because if it's gonna make a 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:07.680 nigga sign a prenup, um, we don't want kids. And 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.240 I honestly don't think I'm ready to move in with 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.880 anybody like I have a cat right now and that's enough. 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:16.400 He'd be scratching him like little preface. So Mandy's never 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:20.000 been in love and had a boyfriend, saying that something. 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:22.639 I never had a boyfriend, But that's just I had 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:25.880 a boyfriend. I had a boyfriend and when I was 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:33.480 a senior in high school. Shut up, God, Okay, this 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.800 is literally your first boyfriend as an adult. Yeah, like 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:40.320 the other niggas, was like situation ships. Wow, we're like, 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:43.040 we're like, I was claiming a nigga, but he was 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.360 community dick and I knew it, but he wasn't. He 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:48.160 was a community. You were claiming him. He wasn't claiming you. 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:52.000 In my mind, Yeah, that's how it was working. You know. 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.720 We gotta talk about how we all got together, how 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:57.440 all know each other. So I wrote a few things 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:59.440 or stories I thought we could talk about, mainly because 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:01.480 I've been a fan of some of your stories that 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:05.840 I've only heard from recently. So without naming what shall 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:09.600 be named, we had to talk about the fiasco because 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:14.080 Mandy and I fight a lot. I was reading that 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:17.800 like this is gonna be horrible, so much so where 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.240 we got in talks with our lawyer and she was like, 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.800 if we ever break up, we can't talk about each 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:26.200 other when we're when we're done, like what happened with 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:28.520 you much on your sid which I felt like it 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:30.760 was unfair, but I had to listen after, Right, So 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:33.520 there is a thing when your podcast came out, obviously 0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:36.480 was big and people would compare it. You would have 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:38.400 been around what a year at the time we were 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:41.120 We were for like two three years. Then I just 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.520 interject because when I told my friend I was coming 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:47.000 on horrible decisions, she said, Okay, so the o G 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:54.880 called her daddy. I swear I appreciate that because some 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.919 people when I would meet them, like so, let me 0:04:57.960 --> 0:05:00.160 just tell you live about me, and people think I'm 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.680 the white one on the show just because they in 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:04.760 a little bit of shop. She's the only one that's 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:06.880 had pink dick. So I've never had pink dick. First 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.039 of all, I like to get sucked up, but that 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:12.440 doesn't pint dick. Just a few white guys, bro, But 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:15.800 it's white guys in just everything else. Do you what 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.520 do you mean you're white because you get sucked up 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:23.960 the range of my funked up like I'm like a 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:26.080 seven am met a bit in the bathroom like now 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.760 like Nybe he's had a little bit Like that's the 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.640 kind of shift I be on. So to black audiencely like, bitch, 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.280 you be on that white girl ship, which is kind 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:34.920 of true, literally like like the literal white girl ship. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:41.080 Little like the white girl ship. The white girls got it, 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.839 which is probably why can't get to you when you 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:47.880 told the coke story at the coffee place. I was like, oh, 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.320 that one. I was a lot of sucking stories. Well 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:55.720 white girl like her, Yeah, so I was I on 0:05:55.720 --> 0:06:00.440 that track, just the storytelling her having a podcast. Oh yeah, yeah. 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:02.039 So I would go on all these parties, right, and 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:03.919 people would meet me and be like, oh, what do 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:05.920 you do? When I would mention podcast, which I don't 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.760 like to do because people think you're broke, it's embarrassing podcast. 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:12.760 How many people podcast? Like bitch, that's all you do? 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.599 So they'd be like, oh, I call her daddy. And 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:17.680 it was sometimes it would hurt my feelings because we 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.440 had been around so long and I felt like done 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:24.200 so much. We're touring fucking TV shows and ship and yeah, 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.000 y'all came in and my whole office at the time, 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.080 so we we were corporate at one point before we left, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.800 and I was an accountant. And it's funny because I 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:37.400 kept my podcast very private because of the content, but 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.960 people in the office were listening to you guys, and 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:42.400 so it actually made me like, oh, yeah, well I'll 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:46.960 talk about that too. You were doing horrible decisions while 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.720 I was like telling at Ernst and young Yeah, we 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:53.120 we were corporate. Girls were corporate who wanted to show 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.320 that we could suck too, right, because I feel the 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:57.920 time I was coming to all Bed with my outfit 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:03.440 from the night before, you stayed. I'm stayed you. But 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.839 you know, like any podcast that was out of the 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:09.920 time was either white or they were like influencers or models. 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.320 They weren't like normal girls. And I remember you were 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:14.800 like a secretary or something. At times when you're relatable 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:16.840 like that, it made sense and that's why people, you know, 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:19.760 get drawn to you. So anyway, after I was reading 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.240 everything like New York Post on this ship, I was like, 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.520 I gotta read this ship, and you know, it really 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:25.560 was like I hate Sofia train for a long time, 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:27.480 not from saying for me but for everyone when you're 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.160 reading it and watching it the entire world. Yes, I 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:33.880 hate Sofia T. I can't imagine how you go. But 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.280 I looked up like what people thought were your favorite 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:39.760 episodes or the best episodes, and they were so much 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:41.880 you that I wanted to not like you, but I 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:45.680 couldn't help it. Really went to jail the same way, 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:50.800 which one I went to jail three times, three times, 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:53.000 but the time where you were talking about Tunisia, who 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:58.240 helped you out. I was like, do you like, do 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.520 we need give them some backgrounds? Because I don't know 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:04.520 for the listeners, I don't know what y'all talking about. Um, well, no, 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:07.040 so like I just I guess. I say all that 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:10.400 to say, like, it's funny when you can't even deny 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.480 good content. And I think for a long time people 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:15.360 try to pit together the two podcasts because they don't connect, 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.320 which is why we always try to make sure we're 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:20.280 extending our hand out to sex pods or people that 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:22.720 are like us, because we should all be cool, right, 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:25.360 And um, I was like, damn, this bitch is kind 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:29.280 of funny, like fun we really really think that. I 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:32.680 definitely thought that. I thought, just okay, and that makes 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:35.400 me feel like, actually, wait, wait, you don't think you're funny? 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:39.280 No I do, but guys, guys can wait? Can we 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:43.840 interject real quick? Sophia came bearing gifts and I would 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:45.719 like to let y'all know how funny this bitch is, 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:49.520 because well is coming class the classy gift in a 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:54.080 little fake tiffany back, no shade, you know this, I 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:57.800 will know bitch. Oh No, I thought I wasn't drinking 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.400 when I had Kobe last people, but I'm drinking that 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:05.120 both were gonna do anyway, because actually, out of the 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:06.959 two of us and I need, you're gonna need that. 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:10.600 I'm a cream pie. This well, yeah I don't need this. 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:15.280 Actually anyway, she brought us a Plan B, so you 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:16.800 can have that. What if you as the plan B 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:22.320 when you can take yeah some cream pie? Oh now 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:25.319 this is my messy bitch part. So after listening to 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:27.000 the drum and realizing the show was so good, I 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:28.920 was like, damn, because you know, when Mandy and I 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.600 have been in our biggest fights, the one thing I 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:33.280 think we love making money too much. I don't know 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.760 if we can break up. Bitch. I thought that too, 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.640 and like you, I I thought him with y'all was 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:44.440 making way more than that. The thing is like the 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:48.360 podcast was rich. We were not you know what I'm saying, 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:50.959 And we were indeed we're still we still are. We are, 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:52.960 we own our I P. We just joined this amazing 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.679 Charlotte and the Black affect. And honestly, it was funny 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.360 because the first thing that came out of his mouth 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:59.199 when I was on the phone, I was like, yeah, 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:01.680 we've never signed over anything like trust me, people have 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:03.760 offered us money, We've never done it on purpose. He's like, 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.160 you're not going to have a call her daddy's situation. 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:08.800 I promise In terms of what what do you mean 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:15.440 by that the IP merch, I able to claim the 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:18.480 ring aspect of it, Like we were very big and 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:21.000 I love kind of that we could have this podcast 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:25.320 talk for anyone listening, Like we were very um business 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:27.720 minded in terms of when we went into the deal 0:10:27.720 --> 0:10:30.960 with my heart, Uh, we owned still as much as 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:33.800 we we we needed to own because this is what 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:37.840 we build. This two differences though, we started very organically, 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:41.640 and I mean that to say, like when you have 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:45.200 a powerhouse that blows you up right, It's like, I 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:48.600 mean if if someone handed me that and I probably 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:51.040 would have signed it to me. Now at this point 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.960 when we have been offered things, we already had a standing, right, 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.400 we'd already toured ourselves. And but which is what I 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:58.800 was too. They owned like the YouTube. We we made 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.920 sure we had our trademark logo, the pictures, like, which 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:04.400 is what I mean for anyone listening, Like that's how 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:07.520 it needs to be with podcasting specifically, like you need 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:09.959 to own your ship, so get your trademark. If you 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.320 have the money, UM, make sure that if you go 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:16.360 into these networks that you get the bigger half as 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:19.280 far as the percentages. And also just make sure everything's verifiable, 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.439 like make sure that if there's spending money notions for 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.840 people in a good way, in a really good way. Okay, 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.440 So here's about Matthew part. Okay. So I listened. I 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:29.600 enjoy a few episodes and I was like, okay, these bitches, 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:33.319 and then I had to hear the solo episode. I 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.719 had to know what it would be like. Huh. I 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.360 laughed so hard, Sofia, but you did not your solo 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:49.760 I listened to was so leave okay, doesn't like you 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:54.520 mean terrible her solo episode. I mean, this is the 0:11:54.559 --> 0:11:57.600 problem we're trying to stay away from saying the actually 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.439 we did that right, No, but now but to be like, 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:04.360 what do you mean the solo are we making stuff? Okay, no, 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.400 no no. I listened to the first episode without you there, 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.880 and I laughed so hard because I was like, this 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:13.880 is so bad, and I felt I couldn't even listen. 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:17.199 I was getting embarrassed to listen, and I was like yo, Like, 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:21.559 can you imagine starting with some something with someone makes 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:25.200 you famous, and then you think you're so good that 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:28.080 you really got up here was like fuck that bitch, 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:31.520 Oh no, bitch, do you there? I mean she's still 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:35.040 get and she's still well, I lovely like, well, then 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.400 we'll be on opposing side. I like, I think that 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:39.960 she's still she's getting a lot of guests. Now, yeah, 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:44.240 I think she just had like Miley Cyrus, it's good interview. 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.960 I mean she's still getting listened. So but this is 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:50.200 the issue too. The Kardashians will still get views even 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:54.400 no matter how many people we'll say that or that 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:56.760 we can know and acknowledge that they either steal things 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:00.280 from black culture or that they are copyed hats and 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.880 a lot of things as far as I would even 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:06.240 say clothing, um, the things they do, as far as 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:09.600 um TV show episodes right, like they've come from other places. 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:12.240 This is verified ship, Like we know that it's not 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:16.640 necessarily original, and they don't. Because when you're already famous, 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:19.040 we're already kind of stuck. And sometimes we like watching 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.720 a train crash and I think that's the same things 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.720 that suck is like a lot of people are famous 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:26.320 for nothing, and I think sadly that's what happened to 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:30.800 your show is when you have someone that you know, 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.800 a new coach. By the way that we are joined 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:39.440 today by Sophia Franklin. Her podcast is Sophia with an F. 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:41.080 And I want to get into the kind of some 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:44.000 of your whole stories. I know, like the I know 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:46.920 we had to get get through that podcast talk, but 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:49.760 I just know when I just know that it's a 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:52.000 separated thing and I want people to I want our 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:55.040 listeners as well, because you did, uh, you reached out 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.960 to us and was like, hey, guys, you know, let's collapse. 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:02.120 We see some inclusivity, bitch, so I do. I just 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:04.360 don't want to spend too much time putting anyone down 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.640 or comparing the two of you. I'm glad that you 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:09.920 reached out, but also like just hearing that I know 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:12.439 we have some stories and I know y'all Holles was 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.600 listening for the hotels and we got some coming fun. Well, 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:20.400 this is your first interview, like it is, yeah, my 0:14:20.560 --> 0:14:24.760 first collap that I've done. Um, But you know what, 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.320 I don't want it to sound like I will never 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:30.520 talk about that ship and it's you know, blah blah blah. 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:34.480 It was a really fucked up situation. She did, you know, 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:36.840 drag my name through the mud for like months and 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:41.200 months and months. There was merchandise you know, canceled. We 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.800 won't say his name, which was my boyfriend at the time, 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:49.920 but not the boyfriend is gone. We don't know. I 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:53.200 felt really bad. Yeah, it was. The brunch was pretty, 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:58.080 but imagine if I said cancel, cancel, Well, and that's 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.600 Team Wheezy. What have you guys had, Like, I'm not 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:05.520 gonna lie. We and we've had to stop ourselves from 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:08.760 that because we've had our ups and downs with business 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.400 friendship relationship. It's different when can any of the team 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:15.320 many Yeah, but well specifically though, that's why we've kind 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.240 of moved away from that. I know, even when we 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:19.040 were talking about March a while ago, we were like, 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:22.239 we should do a Team Mandy Team Wheezy, I think 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:25.520 I can't And I was like, no, we can't do that. 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:29.320 Always if you compare, and specifically because we're women, especially 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:33.960 women exactly, they're not. You never see uh Andre three thousand, 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:37.680 Team Andre three, Team Big Boy. You don't see it. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:40.680 It's definitely with women that they put it, and unfortunately, 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:44.760 as women, there's always just this need to compare, contrast 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:48.280 and put people in a competition when one doesn't necessarily 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:50.880 what happened so hard? You have a big conglomerate of women, 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:53.600 you know, a big female podcast, if not the biggest, 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:56.480 and it's like that happens. It was hard to watch. 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.520 And then when I heard you talking about mental health, 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.120 it's funny because it made me think of Mandy your 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:03.520 first episode on your podcast. I saw I go number 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:06.520 one before it even came out, which is great. Everyone 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.200 wants to hear your story. When I listened to it, 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:10.680 I was like, I don't know if that couldn't happen 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:12.400 to us because we've known each other so long. But 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:15.680 like when you know someone's going through ship mentally and 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:18.920 you still poke and poke and pick. That was hard 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:23.920 and really I was, I was. I was really sad 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:27.840 listening to it because we fight a lot, but like 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:31.840 I just can't imagine it's over and you're still like 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:38.080 dragging me down now with me had like sixty reviews 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:43.240 before before your trailer, and I was like just one star, 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:45.080 one star, and it was like almost, yeah, it wasn't 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.760 It was an attack and what's sad to me is 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.680 the fact that people again, yeah, they don't think of 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:54.720 the mental health that this has on an individual. You 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:57.600 already have the like what else can I do? Right? 0:16:58.240 --> 0:16:59.920 But I think that the reason it was so easy 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.520 to do is because everybody was like, oh, this sucks 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:05.679 without her. So funny you think so, I think so, 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:10.320 I hope so so. So before you know, I have 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:14.840 a really serious question ask you would you rather spend 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:16.639 ten days in jail or ten days in a closet 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:23.359 with your X. Sorry, I'm just like, do you know 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:26.359 what made me ask this question? What? Because you've talked 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:28.800 so badly about your exes and then jail. I was like, 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.360 which is worse? But when I'm going to jail, I'm 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:36.320 going to jail. I'm going to jail. You're going to jail. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.840 Before you funk, I was actually saying something sucked up. 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:43.000 I just did, like you just did an episode with 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.600 my ex and there was like some drama that ensued 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:47.840 after the episode. It came out like two weeks ago. 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:50.200 So I'm gonna go ahead and say, fucking jail. I'll 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:55.679 go there for twenty days. Also, I've been there before, 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:58.879 so I know what to expect people really don't believe 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:01.480 that you have to spread your ship and gone it. 0:18:01.800 --> 0:18:04.960 I'm telling you. Yes, They're like, you have to take 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:08.120 your underwear, don't take this to friend, to jail. I'm 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:12.200 sorry even to jail. Okay, baby, it's make you have 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:19.200 white people ship. I feel like whatever. No, I've never 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:21.800 been to tell time. I mean, I was in Julie 0:18:21.800 --> 0:18:28.040 because I ran away at thirteen. They withdrew me from 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:30.800 school and I like was going to school for by 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:33.200 the state for like two weeks and I went home 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:38.280 in the middle school. I ran away from home and 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:41.440 they found me in a boys and girls club and 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.040 though the cops took me to Juvie, and when my 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:45.840 mama came, I was like, I ain't gone with you. 0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:49.960 I thought I thought I was grown. So I ended 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:52.399 up staying there for two weeks in the jail. In 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:56.000 the Julie it was like a center, like center six weeks, 0:18:56.040 --> 0:19:00.640 two weeks clothes no, I like, as I ran away, 0:19:00.640 --> 0:19:06.080 I had my little luggage with me, bitch. Yeah, it 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:10.840 was like it was a Julie Center runaways. Yeah. How 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:12.119 many days in were you? Like? Oh my god, I 0:19:12.119 --> 0:19:14.359 want my know. I was there. I was there for 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.000 two weeks. And I think it was just more so 0:19:16.080 --> 0:19:18.879 because I was a top student and I was like, 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:20.520 I was on the volleyball team. Witch, I had to 0:19:20.520 --> 0:19:22.320 try to get back on the volleyball team because they 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:24.600 withdrew me from the school. Where are you a top 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:27.800 student in the jailism? I was? I was smart? Thank 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:30.760 you very much anyway. Yeah, so I've never been to jail, 0:19:30.800 --> 0:19:34.399 but I've been to Julie hot. That's what, dude, that 0:19:34.560 --> 0:19:38.880 she needs me on a T shirt, j Julie, Damn, 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:44.359 we just did. Was a bitch? Or who bite the 0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:48.320 next one? You sold me? When you meet him, if 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.240 the misfortune had to happen, would you rather him have 0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:56.200 a tiny dick or a tiny bank account? Oh my god, 0:19:56.320 --> 0:20:00.439 tiny dick, I was. I would rabb to him have 0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:03.240 a tiny, tiny micro penis is what I'm saying. He 0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:08.239 broke one hundred and fifty percent. But I feel like 0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:11.160 if a guy has a big bank account, his penis 0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:16.040 is like ten inches longer. You don't, Yeah, making broke 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:18.240 dick is so good. So I don't know, Maybe it's 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:20.840 different for white men that a guy is Maybe different 0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:23.199 for white men because it's a purpose with black man 0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:26.040 I don't think you're used like pens because you've only 0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:31.879 been white man. Maybe she has an experience, remember that 0:20:32.119 --> 0:20:37.720 big You haven't had the real guarden of dick. She 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:40.640 doesn't know what it's okay, No, this is my thing. 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:47.439 I this very important to me, which like I just 0:20:47.480 --> 0:20:49.800 can't be attracted to a dude that's like fine with 0:20:49.880 --> 0:20:52.000 being broke. I need. I mean it does. It's not 0:20:52.040 --> 0:20:54.199 necessarily that he needs to have a huge bank account. 0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:55.760 He needs to be ambitious in some type of work 0:20:55.920 --> 0:20:59.480 micro bottom line, so you could be introduced to it. 0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:03.880 See reason, it's all I know, she said, she said, 0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:06.000 give me a clip. I'll be fine. I'll be honest 0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:09.400 with you. If he's like handy with a big dick, 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:12.480 that's enough about making bread. I don't give a fuck 0:21:12.600 --> 0:21:18.240 me Please, she's going to eat rusty. I make bread 0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:20.159 as well. And like I take care of myself and 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:21.760 I've never had to do take care of me, but 0:21:21.920 --> 0:21:24.359 I just can't take care of someone. I think he 0:21:24.440 --> 0:21:26.440 can go down on me. You can set on a 0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:36.399 strap on like we can get crafty ship ship. You 0:21:36.400 --> 0:21:39.600 know what, there are connectors, There are dick connectors. Have 0:21:39.760 --> 0:21:42.320 you had an extension like dick on top of the 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:46.639 small I haven't have you guys curious about that. I 0:21:46.680 --> 0:21:49.560 deal with black man. The big the smallest dick I 0:21:49.560 --> 0:21:51.280 ever saw was a black dude. I told you that 0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:53.439