Speaker 1: Hello, my love, Welcome to the bonus episode and give
Speaker 1: them a La podcast. I'm here with Chloe V. Hello, gorgeous,
Speaker 1: Hello gorgeous. So we're gonna keep it light. This is
Speaker 1: just gonna be a bonus of like lightning round questions.
Speaker 1: I had a close friend on and I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is lightning round, bro, Like this is the slowest, but
Speaker 1: luckily it's a bonus, So take your time, Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: Ideal first date just.
Speaker 2: Like the Lave Island finale on about fireworks, snorkeling, tanning
Speaker 2: in the sun, eating chalc heatory boards until I'm bloated.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you, though, where do you go from there?
Speaker 1: If that's the first date? Oh?
Speaker 3: First day?
Speaker 1: Yeah, first date? What is an ideal first.
Speaker 2: I didn't like just a date in general, but that
Speaker 2: is I don't like dinners.
Speaker 1: Really, you more of an activity girl.
Speaker 2: I don't want to spend two hours getting my day
Speaker 2: and then worrying about how my hair and makeup looks.
Speaker 1: And then I want you to save me at my
Speaker 1: worst reading on the first day. So would you prefer
Speaker 1: that it's like just come over and kick it, or
Speaker 1: like let's go on a hike.
Speaker 3: I would say jump in my car.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll drive to Taco Bell so fun, fast out
Speaker 2: in the car, kick off mee up, listen to some music,
Speaker 2: go for each other's playlists, look at the moon and stars,
Speaker 2: and read each other's a strategy shots.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: And then I'm gonna say if I like you or not,
Speaker 2: because if we can't have a conversation, you're not blowing
Speaker 2: my back out.
Speaker 1: And you're not blowing my back out either. That's for
Speaker 1: damn sure. I love that.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I thoroughly enjoy having my Instagram be so like because
Speaker 1: I don't get ready a lot these days. So if
Speaker 1: someone sees me, if they're like, hey, I want to
Speaker 1: set you up. Here's our instagram, you're seeing me at
Speaker 1: my worst.
Speaker 3: Love it literally, and then you're a bumshell when you walk.
Speaker 1: In and they're like, oh fuck. One thing someone can
Speaker 1: do on a first day eight for instant bonus points.
Speaker 3: Well, okay, they do on a first date in some
Speaker 3: bonus points for.
Speaker 1: Me, I would be asking about my kids taking an
Speaker 1: interest okay, acknowledging the fact that I have because if
Speaker 1: you can't do that on like, this isn't going anywhere
Speaker 1: ever at all, So why am I here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I respect that.
Speaker 1: Like, so as a single person bonus points, what can
Speaker 1: they do? I think definitely opening my door at not car,
Speaker 1: just the door into where we're going.
Speaker 2: I think yeah, But then I feel like, now it's
Speaker 2: can I even have a conversation with you?
Speaker 3: Like the bonus point would be them making me laugh.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a big one.
Speaker 3: But then would that be basic?
Speaker 1: No? I don't think that's basic at all because my
Speaker 1: parents were together for just shy of forty years before
Speaker 1: my dad passed away, so they were like, thank you,
Speaker 1: they were very much together. I asked my mom, because
Speaker 1: you don't see relationships that last like that, I said,
Speaker 1: how did you know that, like my dad was going
Speaker 1: to be your forever? And she said, your dad always
Speaker 1: made me laugh?
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah wow, So that's not basic at all. That's actually
Speaker 1: the key to like long lasting love. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 1: Ghosted or Ben ghosted both for you, both for me.
Speaker 3: I mean, I ghost you ghost people?
Speaker 1: Oh kloud, Your twenty six is showing I know you've
Speaker 1: never been ghosted. No, of course you haven't looked at
Speaker 1: to be honest, ghost you.
Speaker 2: I think it's because I pick up on the intuition
Speaker 2: before then I got them.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: It's it's like a premeditated ghost like pre ejaculation, Like
Speaker 2: I can kind of see they're getting soft, so.
Speaker 3: Then I pull away.
Speaker 1: Wow, you beat them to the punch.
Speaker 3: Yep, toxic red flag. So on.
Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago, I did a bonus where
Speaker 1: we were talking about spring fleeings and fails, and there
Speaker 1: was this guy who I won't bore you with the
Speaker 1: whole and my listeners have heard it, but I will
Speaker 1: say so, we had been hanging out, going out with
Speaker 1: each other, like dating, right, and I'm at his house
Speaker 1: and he says to me, I'd like you to start
Speaker 1: spending the night, like when you don't have your daughter,
Speaker 1: And she said her dad's you should stay here, and
Speaker 1: I said, I don't feel comfortable doing that because I
Speaker 1: get really attached. Yeah, never heard from him again. Isn't
Speaker 1: that fucking crazy?
Speaker 3: Hey just wanted to buy you back out?
Speaker 1: He certainly did. He left me with that, so he didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 2: Congratulations though, imagine being stuck in that relationship level.
Speaker 1: Go Yeah, and you know what the red flag should
Speaker 1: have been the fact that he had fluorescent lighting?
Speaker 3: What's that?
Speaker 1: The worst kind of lighting for anybody. You could be
Speaker 1: like Kim Kardashian and still be looking rough.
Speaker 3: Oh now you've given me a new No, I don't
Speaker 3: we have an I think we've turned them off.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go in my boyfriend's house some face time.
Speaker 2: You is this fluorescent light in?
Speaker 1: Yeah? He also told me he didn't. He walked everywhere.
Speaker 1: That's why he didn't need a car. He told me, h, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm minimalists. Grow up. It's called you're broke as fun.
Speaker 1: Grow up, grow up, grow up, dude. That's another reason
Speaker 1: why I don't date. I'm like, my picker is so off,
Speaker 1: like I'm just attracting.
Speaker 3: I'm taking you out, please do.
Speaker 1: Like, where does one even go? You would know, though,
Speaker 1: because you just moved to La like a year ago,
Speaker 1: so you know, like all the fun new places.
Speaker 3: Single spots, you know about them?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but are these like twelve year old tiktographs a
Speaker 1: great place?
Speaker 3: What's it called the Desert five?
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that is? Where is that?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna introduce you to. Desert five is in West Hollywood.
Speaker 2: It's full of cowboys, Southern boys, okay, men, grown men.
Speaker 1: Yep, calling Mace clipping my hair and putting my tits up.
Speaker 1: Let's fucking yeh y hah. Save a horse, ride a cowboy.
Speaker 1: I've never ridden a cowboy before you will. I will
Speaker 1: after you take me out. Favorite way to spend a
Speaker 1: girls night in.
Speaker 2: On the sofa with Duvets, chocolates, baking brownies, watching Love
Speaker 2: Island or something.
Speaker 3: It's just perfect for me.
Speaker 1: Game night, love a game night? What's your go to game?
Speaker 3: You know? Love it easy?
Speaker 2: You can play four plus ten, you fall out, you
Speaker 2: make up straight back after.
Speaker 1: I love this. Do you like all reality shows or
Speaker 1: are you into more of like the competition based ones.
Speaker 3: I love the loved ones like Love is Blind.
Speaker 2: He is one of my favorites. Love on the Spectrum
Speaker 2: is my own. Come on, it doesn't get better than
Speaker 2: Love on the Spectrum. Do you watch the Bachelor? No Bachelorette?
Speaker 1: No? Okay, neither do I and I've never seen Love
Speaker 1: Island either?
Speaker 3: Oh really?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: This season?
Speaker 1: I'd like that. Oh I heard it was fantastic, incredible.
Speaker 1: Though it's a lot going on, like four nights a week.
Speaker 1: You got to really be available, right You can watch
Speaker 1: it on catch up.
Speaker 2: I mean, I haven't been sleeping I've adjusted my sleep
Speaker 2: schedule to make sure that I watch level.
Speaker 1: I see that you watch it. Yeah, that makes me
Speaker 1: so happy. I love that. I love being so into
Speaker 1: a show. That's how I was with Thrones, where I
Speaker 1: would like adjust my sleep schedule.
Speaker 3: To watch it.
Speaker 1: One thing you'd never do on camera again?
Speaker 3: One thing I would never do on camera again. I
Speaker 3: would run it back and do it all over again. Really, yeah,
Speaker 3: you wouldn't change the thing. No, I don't think I would.
Speaker 3: I've never had sex on TV.
Speaker 1: Well that's good.
Speaker 2: That would be my only because my family and everything else.
Speaker 1: So like when they too hot to handle, do you
Speaker 1: guys go into a room at any point where it's
Speaker 1: like you get to uh, like I think on Love
Speaker 1: Island they go to where they so hide away, hide away, Yeah, justddle,
Speaker 1: just cuddle.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: There was one time that I forgot I was miked
Speaker 1: and I met a guy at this bar and they
Speaker 1: like caught me on camera like talking to him or whatever.
Speaker 1: And we pull up to the house and with my
Speaker 1: friend and cameras are inside and I didn't think our
Speaker 1: mics would pick up because we were outside in the car,
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm gonna call him to come
Speaker 1: over and they heard me, and I was like, fuck that,
Speaker 1: I am not doing this. They were like, okay, just
Speaker 1: like we'll have you guys talking here and then you
Speaker 1: guys can go upstairs and close the door and just
Speaker 1: like then we'll leave. Okay, And I the same thing.
Speaker 1: I don't know how you were on a show like that,
Speaker 1: because I get so awkward. Yeah, when someone's filming you
Speaker 1: talking to it's like, oh god, right, yeah, like you
Speaker 1: got to make sure your game is on point.
Speaker 3: I know, and then you open yourself up to criticism.
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, she's not funny.
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2: Did you have them little cameras or did you have
Speaker 2: the men behind the cameras holding the camera like handheld
Speaker 2: the big big daddies and then I was an older
Speaker 2: guy behind the camera.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes it makes it feel bit weird.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh God, I'm literally on bed in the
Speaker 2: bed with someone kissing them and I've got bloody Steve
Speaker 2: over here, bloody in the corner on one knee, really
Speaker 2: trying to get the zoom in shot of I's tongue
Speaker 2: in and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, I feel physically sick. I do, I don't, but
Speaker 1: I also don't even want to see that stuff on TV. Like,
Speaker 1: the one thing I will say about filming the show
Speaker 1: that I was on was it was kind of the
Speaker 1: same production since I entered. Yeah, so I felt comfortable
Speaker 1: with Steve. Yeah, filming love Steve, you know, and Steve
Speaker 1: would have my back. Yeah, don't get the zoom in.
Speaker 1: But like, what's worse them criticizing me or criticizing the
Speaker 1: person that I'm like, he's so hot. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's worse. It's all just very and
Speaker 1: then to think about, like, oh so it's like around
Speaker 1: forever when you have kids. One day they're gonna be
Speaker 1: able to watch too hard to handle? Oh no, and Google,
Speaker 1: I know, trust me, these are the things they keep
Speaker 1: me up.
Speaker 3: And I haven't even thought about that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, worst DM you've ever received, worst DM
Speaker 1: I've ever received? Know what?
Speaker 2: It's funny, I don't know if it's my worst someone
Speaker 2: just calling me out for having no ass.
Speaker 3: They do it all the fucking time. They I mean,
Speaker 3: you don't have a bum. I'm like, I need to
Speaker 3: go to the gym.
Speaker 2: But they're my motivation that they keep me determined to
Speaker 2: grow a bum and go to the gym.
Speaker 1: You know what, though, the way clothes hang on you
Speaker 1: is really nice. And when I say hang, I don't
Speaker 1: don't mean like they're hanging on you because you have
Speaker 1: no lass, but I mean, like, you know, like someone's frame.
Speaker 1: It's like there are certain things I can't wear because
Speaker 1: I'm like, it doesn't hang on me the correct way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I couldn't wear what you're wearing right now because
Speaker 1: it wouldn't fall properly.
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you.
Speaker 1: And you have boobs so fake? Oh so are mine.
Speaker 2: I was eighteen, I was like, okay, I'm sick of
Speaker 2: looking like a boy. You know, double a boobs, no bum,
Speaker 2: skinny like a stick.
Speaker 3: I'm really tall. They used to call me lanky in
Speaker 3: my school. That's not that bad.
Speaker 1: How tall are you?
Speaker 3: Five ten?
Speaker 1: Oh you're so lucky. Did you model? Yeah for a
Speaker 1: few years. Yeah, I us the tattoos and rebelled. You're like, fuck,
Speaker 1: there's fake tits and tattoos. Yes, I'm done with.
Speaker 3: It, fake teeth, fake kits. I'm gonna go into it.
Speaker 3: Entertain you it be a reality TV star.
Speaker 1: Are your tooth fake?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: They are good? Thank you.
Speaker 1: Most people come out looking like wow, you know those
Speaker 1: little like wind up teeth. Yeah, top and bottom, yelling
Speaker 1: them Wow, I'm impressed, thank you, they're so good.
Speaker 3: The mad Yeah, have you ever wake?
Speaker 1: Like? Sometimes my lips make people mad? Why stop fucking
Speaker 1: injecting your lips? I'm like, why do you care?
Speaker 3: Something that's so nice and plump.
Speaker 1: And I haven't had them injected in a while. Thanks.
Speaker 1: But I kind of want fake teeth because what happens
Speaker 1: with mine is they get narrow towards the back, fake teeth,
Speaker 1: so it looks like I only have four night all right,
Speaker 1: m m, I don't have any teeth left. Oh they
Speaker 1: Oh so they're.
Speaker 3: Like down to the night and shaved them. Babe.
Speaker 1: Fuck were you asleep?
Speaker 3: Irreversible?
Speaker 2: Fuck?
Speaker 3: No, was I asleep? I was awake air and all
Speaker 3: the toes and oh my gosh, oh it was horrible.
Speaker 1: I would have passed out.
Speaker 2: What happens if one of those pops off and you
Speaker 2: just got a fly to Turkey and get redone?
Speaker 1: You went to Turkey? Yeah, that's where I want to
Speaker 1: get my hairlined done. It is the well I have
Speaker 1: postpartum hair right now, but I'm like, I want like
Speaker 1: a perfect hairline. Oh okay.
Speaker 3: Some people take their pubes and put them on their
Speaker 3: hairdline and bald. Baby, how would you get them from.
Speaker 1: The hair they slice the back of your.
Speaker 3: Head, remove it from satin pop?
Speaker 1: No, I got my cookie lasers, so there ain't nothing
Speaker 1: down there. I'm like mister Bigglesworth.
Speaker 3: I need to get that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I heard the bushes coming back,
Speaker 1: so maybe I guess. Depending on who I sleep with,
Speaker 1: they may be really signed Spike.
Speaker 2: Spike spce like that film Spike Butch How to Tend.
Speaker 3: The Pants Off. But it's just pure Spike. I fucking
Speaker 3: love you.
Speaker 1: You're fun. I think you're hilarious. Most ridiculous dating advice
Speaker 1: you've ever been given.
Speaker 3: Don't ever have sex on the first date.
Speaker 1: That is so ridiculous.
Speaker 3: I'll do what I want.
Speaker 1: I'll do what I want and by the way, has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with it if it works out or
Speaker 1: does it exactly right. Yeah, that's great. I love that.
Speaker 1: That's the worst advice. I love it. Guilty Pleasure TV show?
Speaker 1: Oh what is a Guilty Pleasure reactor? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't really I would say that love Island or something.
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, because I mean, I spend so much of
Speaker 2: my time during the watching it, I don't get any
Speaker 2: of my own work done, so I feel guilty.
Speaker 3: But it's a pleasure.
Speaker 1: Who do you think should have won?
Speaker 3: I think the people that did win am I And
Speaker 3: were they.
Speaker 1: An actual couple? Like authentic?
Speaker 2: They were an authentic couple. He was a bombshell and
Speaker 2: then she cut it off with Zack. Thank god her
Speaker 2: and Brian got together. I don't think I reached some pepe.
Speaker 1: They were a couple.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I just don't know, okay about them.
Speaker 1: It's her name Maya, that one a Maya. And then
Speaker 1: how did you feel about is it?
Speaker 3: Hoodah hohodah?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Did you like her? Yeah?
Speaker 3: She was super relatable. I think she will definitely.
Speaker 2: I mean even her family came in and was like,
Speaker 2: you should have shut your mouth in a few scenes.
Speaker 2: She's aware, she knows she crashed out, she knows she
Speaker 2: was putting uncomfortable situations and she probably shouldn't have had
Speaker 2: the way that she did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's on TV.
Speaker 2: Millions of people are watching the pressure out of her
Speaker 2: being mugged off on TV, being chosen, not being chosen,
Speaker 2: being put in like.
Speaker 3: Situations where it's abnormal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're with someone you've been sleeping in the same bed,
Speaker 2: you've slept with them, and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: bombshows come in and they have to kiss the bombshells
Speaker 2: in a challenge. That's my man. In the outside world,
Speaker 2: it would never work.
Speaker 3: I would never do it. I would kick off.
Speaker 1: I would, well, yeah, I would.
Speaker 3: There's no way.
Speaker 1: So the bombshells are people who come in after everyone's coupled.
Speaker 1: That's what a bombshell trying step aright. Yeah, I know
Speaker 1: it sounds like a heartbreaking show. Why not Hearts Get Broken? Okay,
Speaker 1: did you vote? Are you a voter?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Wow? Because they probably make it easy, right.
Speaker 3: You just text, you just tap it.
Speaker 2: It's like an app downloaded. You just send your notifications,
Speaker 2: keep you updated.
Speaker 3: You press it.
Speaker 1: Well, that's why people are so obsessed. It's like a
Speaker 1: game that everyone gets to play. Oh, I'm watching next season.
Speaker 1: You bet your fucking ass, I'm watching next season. What's
Speaker 1: your toxic trait in the group chat? Example, responding to
Speaker 1: everything with a heart emoji, not responding because you're a ghoster.
Speaker 3: I just don't have time.
Speaker 1: I get overwhelmed. Everyone knows I'm a bad text or
Speaker 1: if you have something to say, call me on the
Speaker 1: phone real.
Speaker 3: Quick, by ice, timmy.
Speaker 1: Yep, let's get it done. I don't need to back
Speaker 1: and forth with this shit.
Speaker 3: Yep, exactly the same.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say, you know what, that's a that's
Speaker 1: a toxic trait. Another one I love muting.
Speaker 2: I mute it and I'm like, shit, there's like a
Speaker 2: thousand miss read. And then I see my friends are like, oh,
Speaker 2: you come into ibifah, and I'm like.
Speaker 3: I didn't even realize that we were going.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and do you go no, yeah, should be there
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: Oh, you'd much rather be here only give them all
Speaker 1: podcast obviously. How many unread text messages do you have
Speaker 1: on your phone right now?
Speaker 3: Not as much as my emails both so texts.
Speaker 2: I have five hundred and sixty unread okay, emails, I've
Speaker 2: got fifteen four hundred and ten Oh my god, yeah,
Speaker 2: I got thirty three missed calls.
Speaker 1: Okay, I have four hundred and fifty missed calls and
Speaker 1: probably and voicemails that's a mis called voicemail. And then
Speaker 1: I have seven hundred and seven hundred and twelve texts,
Speaker 1: probably because they're the muted ones. Wow, And I only
Speaker 1: have thirteen emails. I took the entire flight from JFK
Speaker 1: to Lax and delete emails the entire way. Wow, when
Speaker 1: I tell you, my vision was pretty fucked up. By
Speaker 1: the time we landed, I could like barely see. I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm never doing that much screen time ever again.
Speaker 3: You need to teach people how to have that level
Speaker 3: of determination to do that.
Speaker 2: Because that's a skill, Babe. You should put that on
Speaker 2: your fucking resume, in your Tinder bio, in your hot ry,
Speaker 2: our higher hinshit.
Speaker 1: I feel like that would be something on a resume that,
Speaker 1: like a large corporation would hire me to.
Speaker 3: Deal wife material.
Speaker 1: Thank you, it's actually very nice. You're giving a Ted
Speaker 1: talk called how to survive a Sneaky Link? What's your
Speaker 1: opening line?
Speaker 2: Every single one of you little fuckers has how to
Speaker 2: sneaky link.
Speaker 3: Don't try and deny it. There are multiple levels of
Speaker 3: having and being a sneaky link.
Speaker 2: And today I'm going to divulge into every little crevice.
Speaker 3: So we're on the signe bite ooh.
Speaker 1: I love it. All business as well, yeah, and I
Speaker 1: feel very exposed. It's a Ted talk, Yeah, that has
Speaker 1: to be business, not it's all business. Yeah, ted talk
Speaker 1: is very serious.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: My last question one big sister rule that you swear
Speaker 1: by that would shock your younger self.
Speaker 3: What do you mean by big sister rule that do
Speaker 3: you give?
Speaker 1: Don't you give advice on your thing? Like, let's say
Speaker 1: I come to you about dating a first date? Okay,
Speaker 1: first date? Okay, what was a rule that you had
Speaker 1: if you had one?
Speaker 3: Okay, though I would give my younger self. Let me
Speaker 3: think about that for a second.
Speaker 1: Or that would shock your younger self.
Speaker 3: What can I think of one? Right now?
Speaker 1: Can I tell you one of mine?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I loved your like horrible advice someone giving you,
Speaker 1: which was don't sleep with someone on the first date.
Speaker 1: I have now told myself when you start dating, you
Speaker 1: are not allowed to sleep with them until you know
Speaker 1: that they're going to fit nicely because but not because
Speaker 1: it will ruin anything, but because I get attached.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: If I were to tell my younger self, you're not
Speaker 1: going to sleep with this person because you'll get attached,
Speaker 1: my younger self would be like, fuck that attachment. We
Speaker 1: don't even know what that is. Like we're here for
Speaker 1: a good time, right, Yeah, Like there's so many things
Speaker 1: that I don't know you would think that. Back then
Speaker 1: I would it wouldn't be an issue. No, and now
Speaker 1: it's an issue. Oh wow, crazy, that's a really good
Speaker 1: one I have. I feel like if I had any
Speaker 1: rules for my younger self, she wouldn't miss it anyway
Speaker 1: because she's very no, I'm going to do it and
Speaker 1: I'm going to figure it out. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think one rule that I would tell my younger
Speaker 2: self would be it comes across quite quingy though I
Speaker 2: want to hear it.
Speaker 3: You can't love anyone.
Speaker 2: You can't love anyone, and you're not going to be
Speaker 2: able to know how to receive love if you do
Speaker 2: not know who you are and what you want in
Speaker 2: your life in a romantic partner.
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound cringey at all.
Speaker 2: Because I was just like so codependent and I would
Speaker 2: engulf myself in relationships and now I know, Oh I
Speaker 2: didn't know who I was Philly.
Speaker 1: Wow, you just blew my mind.
Speaker 3: So I would tell her to just like, have fun, babe.
Speaker 3: But when do you feel like you.
Speaker 1: Sat there and you were like, I feel like I
Speaker 1: know myself enough to get into a romantic partnership.
Speaker 2: When I start to recognize patterns are changing. Okay, because
Speaker 2: I can talk myself in and out of anything.
Speaker 1: Isn't it wild how that works?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think when the patterns are repeating themselves, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm not exactly like where I want to be in
Speaker 2: a relationship with my Whereas if I am actively trying
Speaker 2: to seek curiosity in how I react in a relationship
Speaker 2: and how he makes me feel, and seeing in my
Speaker 2: body and being aware of my emotions, being able to
Speaker 2: communicate my emotions, it's like, oh, okay, Chloe knows how
Speaker 2: to communicate her emotions. Chloe knows how to admit when
Speaker 2: she's wrong in friendships. Chloe knows how to take responsibility
Speaker 2: and accountability for not texting in the group chat and
Speaker 2: apologize in So once I start to have like a
Speaker 2: blueprint that I'm proud of and not guilty of in
Speaker 2: my friendship circles and my relationship circles, that's when I know, okay,
Speaker 2: I kind of have like a sense of self.
Speaker 1: Do you think that's a British thing coming in? Like
Speaker 1: do you feel like women in America age or I
Speaker 1: guess mature slower than women where you're from, Because I'm
Speaker 1: telling you it's wild to hear you talk this way.
Speaker 1: At twenty six.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love it.
Speaker 1: It's just you, or if it's just you, guys are
Speaker 1: raised differently.
Speaker 3: I have no idea.
Speaker 2: I grew up on a counselor state. It was very
Speaker 2: much do you know what what I think it is?
Speaker 2: I went through a lot when I was younger. My
Speaker 2: dad was a drunk, he was an alcoholic, went to
Speaker 2: rehab a bunch of times. My brother died of an
Speaker 2: overdose when I was fourteen. My auntie died six months
Speaker 2: later of cancer, like when she was in her thirties.
Speaker 2: My mum and dad were constantly everywhere. It was kind
Speaker 2: of I was being bullied at school. As I got older,
Speaker 2: I would attach myself to toxic men and like, I've
Speaker 2: had to learn the hard way. So I think just
Speaker 2: through the struggles in what I've been through, I've had
Speaker 2: to really think shit.
Speaker 3: So I for that or you know, yeah, I have
Speaker 3: no idea.
Speaker 1: So you're going to attribute it to what you experienced at.
Speaker 3: A young age and wanting to yeah, I think so?
Speaker 3: I think so.
Speaker 2: I mean I feel like if I didn't have any
Speaker 2: of that happen, I wouldn't even want to know, right,
Speaker 2: I would just lean in because babe, I've been toxic
Speaker 2: as fuck.
Speaker 1: I think we all have it all our lives.
Speaker 2: And I've been that victim mentality of every You've done
Speaker 2: everything to me, but you know you were just doing
Speaker 2: it and I was just in your way, right, So
Speaker 2: it happened to me at that time.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I do know what you mean? Yeah, yeah, see detaching
Speaker 1: yourself from them, Okay, I think it might be a
Speaker 1: you think. I think this is work that you've put
Speaker 1: into yourself. I don't think it has to do with
Speaker 1: where we come from. Okay, yeah, do you find American
Speaker 1: women are more friendly? I've started watching Ladies of London
Speaker 1: That's why you do you think American women are more
Speaker 1: bubbly than women from England? You're pretty bubbly though, I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 2: I think I haven't really seen a difference, really, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I haven't seen a difference. It might be because I'm
Speaker 2: in the entertainment industry, so like everyone that I see
Speaker 2: has a personality. But I think what I've seen from
Speaker 2: American women is they can be more bitchier. The gossip
Speaker 2: culture is bigger out here in the UK. It's very
Speaker 2: like I've got a problem. Come over here we're hashing
Speaker 2: it out.
Speaker 1: Oh, you's be great on like an ensemble, like a
Speaker 1: reality TV show that's not a competition, but like Housewives exactly.
Speaker 1: He's actually in thirty years. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: I could never really couldn't. I don't think I could know.
Speaker 1: Why do you think you couldn't do it?
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to expose myself to that.
Speaker 1: Oh toxic.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm trying not to be.
Speaker 1: Your toxic traits would come out full force.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you watch Housewives? Have seen a few episodes.
Speaker 2: I love it, like selling Sunset, who's always drama.
Speaker 1: So okay, so you're a Netflix girl, Yeah, I love
Speaker 1: that for you. Yeah, your show is on Netflix. You
Speaker 1: say true to Netflix. It's like me and Bravo. I
Speaker 1: watch all the Bravo shows. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think because I'm from London as well, we don't
Speaker 2: have Peacock, Bravo or any of that.
Speaker 3: Wow, we don't have any of the Hulu.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just moved here to me.
Speaker 3: I don't know something that you guys have.
Speaker 1: Okay, my last question because I want to know what
Speaker 1: is your favorite like go to beauty Actually two things.
Speaker 1: Your favorite go to beauty trend YEP whether it's makeup, skincare,
Speaker 1: and your favorite thing to like do to your face.
Speaker 1: If you do, you inject your face at all, not
Speaker 1: anymore are used to Okay, let's talk about that. You
Speaker 1: would injected with filler in botax.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had botox, cheek filler, lip filler, chin filler,
Speaker 2: nose filler, jaw filler.
Speaker 1: And now you're over it.
Speaker 2: And I did not recognize myself. Really yep, look at
Speaker 2: me on the circle type in clotheage the circle and
Speaker 2: you will see a completely different that I. Honestly, my
Speaker 2: dad cried, had an intervention and was like Chloe. It
Speaker 2: was like the height of my diction as well, like
Speaker 2: I was just small it and just I.
Speaker 3: Did the malady was on me.
Speaker 2: I was injecting everywhere and then didn't recognize, but didn't
Speaker 2: recognize myself. Took the lashes off, dissolved all the filler,
Speaker 2: and then now one of my lips is uneven.
Speaker 3: I just get it plumped. Yeah. I love getting my
Speaker 3: lips done every now and again.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love a nice pout. And then what your
Speaker 1: go to when it comes to like, let's do makeup
Speaker 1: and then skincare because your skin is like glass.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Okay, the reason why my skin looks like glass is
Speaker 2: because of my makeup settin spray. So I use Elf
Speaker 2: jew Elf Dewy missed. It's a little blue bottle. It's tiny.
Speaker 2: It's a fine spray. I couldn't ever go to anything else. Really,
Speaker 2: you have to pat it down. Sometimes it has oil
Speaker 2: in it, so you basically do your makeup ad the powder.
Speaker 2: Your face looks cake yep, whether you want the smooth
Speaker 2: look or the dewy look. On the days I want dewey,
Speaker 2: I coat my face in it. It's like oil and
Speaker 2: it like smelts all your makeup together, and it's like, oh,
Speaker 2: chef's kiss.
Speaker 1: And then all you do is part with the finger. Yeah, dude,
Speaker 1: I'm getting it.
Speaker 2: And sometimes if it's too oily like it is right now,
Speaker 2: like around my mouth, I'll just get a powder puff.
Speaker 1: And just I'm not getting oily at all. I'm buying it. Nope,
Speaker 1: it's fantastic, do it. Thank you for doing the lightning
Speaker 1: round and answering my beauty questions and then like literally
Speaker 1: go and look at your face on the circle because
Speaker 1: now I'm just very well, oh my human, and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna buy the Elf Deuce Spray please do amazing. Thank
Speaker 1: you guys for listening to another bonus episode of To
Speaker 1: Give Them All Podcast. I'm gonna catch you guys next week.
Speaker 1: Bye bye,