WEBVTT - The Chloe Veitch Lightning Round

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, my love, Welcome to the bonus episode and give

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<v Speaker 1>them a La podcast. I'm here with Chloe V. Hello, gorgeous,

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<v Speaker 1>Hello gorgeous. So we're gonna keep it light. This is

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna be a bonus of like lightning round questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a close friend on and I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is lightning round, bro, Like this is the slowest, but

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<v Speaker 1>luckily it's a bonus, So take your time, Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Ideal first date just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the Lave Island finale on about fireworks, snorkeling, tanning

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<v Speaker 2>in the sun, eating chalc heatory boards until I'm bloated.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I ask you, though, where do you go from there?

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<v Speaker 1>If that's the first date? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>First day?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, first date? What is an ideal first.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't like just a date in general, but that

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<v Speaker 2>is I don't like dinners.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, you more of an activity girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to spend two hours getting my day

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<v Speaker 2>and then worrying about how my hair and makeup looks.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I want you to save me at my

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<v Speaker 1>worst reading on the first day. So would you prefer

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<v Speaker 1>that it's like just come over and kick it, or

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<v Speaker 1>like let's go on a hike.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say jump in my car.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we'll drive to Taco Bell so fun, fast out

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<v Speaker 2>in the car, kick off mee up, listen to some music,

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<v Speaker 2>go for each other's playlists, look at the moon and stars,

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<v Speaker 2>and read each other's a strategy shots.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I'm gonna say if I like you or not,

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<v Speaker 2>because if we can't have a conversation, you're not blowing

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<v Speaker 2>my back out.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're not blowing my back out either. That's for

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<v Speaker 1>damn sure. I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thoroughly enjoy having my Instagram be so like because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get ready a lot these days. So if

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<v Speaker 1>someone sees me, if they're like, hey, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>set you up. Here's our instagram, you're seeing me at

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<v Speaker 1>my worst.

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<v Speaker 3>Love it literally, and then you're a bumshell when you walk.

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<v Speaker 1>In and they're like, oh fuck. One thing someone can

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<v Speaker 1>do on a first day eight for instant bonus points.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, okay, they do on a first date in some

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<v Speaker 3>bonus points for.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, I would be asking about my kids taking an

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<v Speaker 1>interest okay, acknowledging the fact that I have because if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't do that on like, this isn't going anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>ever at all, So why am I here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I respect that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, so as a single person bonus points, what can

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<v Speaker 1>they do? I think definitely opening my door at not car,

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<v Speaker 1>just the door into where we're going.

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<v Speaker 2>I think yeah, But then I feel like, now it's

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<v Speaker 2>can I even have a conversation with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Like the bonus point would be them making me laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a big one.

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<v Speaker 3>But then would that be basic?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I don't think that's basic at all because my

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<v Speaker 1>parents were together for just shy of forty years before

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<v Speaker 1>my dad passed away, so they were like, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>they were very much together. I asked my mom, because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't see relationships that last like that, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you know that, like my dad was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be your forever? And she said, your dad always

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<v Speaker 1>made me laugh?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah wow, So that's not basic at all. That's actually

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<v Speaker 1>the key to like long lasting love. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Ghosted or Ben ghosted both for you, both for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I ghost you ghost people?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh kloud, Your twenty six is showing I know you've

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<v Speaker 1>never been ghosted. No, of course you haven't looked at

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, ghost you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's because I pick up on the intuition

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<v Speaker 2>before then I got them.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's like a premeditated ghost like pre ejaculation, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I can kind of see they're getting soft, so.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I pull away.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you beat them to the punch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, toxic red flag. So on.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of weeks ago, I did a bonus where

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about spring fleeings and fails, and there

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<v Speaker 1>was this guy who I won't bore you with the

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<v Speaker 1>whole and my listeners have heard it, but I will

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<v Speaker 1>say so, we had been hanging out, going out with

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<v Speaker 1>each other, like dating, right, and I'm at his house

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<v Speaker 1>and he says to me, I'd like you to start

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<v Speaker 1>spending the night, like when you don't have your daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>And she said her dad's you should stay here, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I don't feel comfortable doing that because I

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<v Speaker 1>get really attached. Yeah, never heard from him again. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that fucking crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey just wanted to buy you back out?

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<v Speaker 1>He certainly did. He left me with that, so he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations though, imagine being stuck in that relationship level.

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<v Speaker 1>Go Yeah, and you know what the red flag should

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<v Speaker 1>have been the fact that he had fluorescent lighting?

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<v Speaker 3>What's that?

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<v Speaker 1>The worst kind of lighting for anybody. You could be

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<v Speaker 1>like Kim Kardashian and still be looking rough.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh now you've given me a new No, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>we have an I think we've turned them off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go in my boyfriend's house some face time.

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<v Speaker 2>You is this fluorescent light in?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? He also told me he didn't. He walked everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he didn't need a car. He told me, h, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm minimalists. Grow up. It's called you're broke as fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Grow up, grow up, grow up, dude. That's another reason

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<v Speaker 1>why I don't date. I'm like, my picker is so off,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm just attracting.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm taking you out, please do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, where does one even go? You would know, though,

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<v Speaker 1>because you just moved to La like a year ago,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, like all the fun new places.

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<v Speaker 3>Single spots, you know about them?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but are these like twelve year old tiktographs a

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<v Speaker 1>great place?

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<v Speaker 3>What's it called the Desert five?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what that is? Where is that?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna introduce you to. Desert five is in West Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 2>It's full of cowboys, Southern boys, okay, men, grown men.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, calling Mace clipping my hair and putting my tits up.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's fucking yeh y hah. Save a horse, ride a cowboy.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never ridden a cowboy before you will. I will

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<v Speaker 1>after you take me out. Favorite way to spend a

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<v Speaker 1>girls night in.

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<v Speaker 2>On the sofa with Duvets, chocolates, baking brownies, watching Love

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<v Speaker 2>Island or something.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just perfect for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Game night, love a game night? What's your go to game?

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<v Speaker 3>You know? Love it easy?

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<v Speaker 2>You can play four plus ten, you fall out, you

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<v Speaker 2>make up straight back after.

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<v Speaker 1>I love this. Do you like all reality shows or

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<v Speaker 1>are you into more of like the competition based ones.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the loved ones like Love is Blind.

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<v Speaker 2>He is one of my favorites. Love on the Spectrum

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<v Speaker 2>is my own. Come on, it doesn't get better than

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<v Speaker 2>Love on the Spectrum. Do you watch the Bachelor? No Bachelorette?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Okay, neither do I and I've never seen Love

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<v Speaker 1>Island either?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>This season?

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like that. Oh I heard it was fantastic, incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>Though it's a lot going on, like four nights a week.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to really be available, right You can watch

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<v Speaker 1>it on catch up.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I haven't been sleeping I've adjusted my sleep

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<v Speaker 2>schedule to make sure that I watch level.

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<v Speaker 1>I see that you watch it. Yeah, that makes me

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<v Speaker 1>so happy. I love that. I love being so into

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<v Speaker 1>a show. That's how I was with Thrones, where I

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<v Speaker 1>would like adjust my sleep schedule.

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<v Speaker 3>To watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing you'd never do on camera again?

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<v Speaker 3>One thing I would never do on camera again. I

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<v Speaker 3>would run it back and do it all over again. Really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you wouldn't change the thing. No, I don't think I would.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never had sex on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be my only because my family and everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>So like when they too hot to handle, do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys go into a room at any point where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you get to uh, like I think on Love

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<v Speaker 1>Island they go to where they so hide away, hide away, Yeah, justddle,

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<v Speaker 1>just cuddle.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>There was one time that I forgot I was miked

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<v Speaker 1>and I met a guy at this bar and they

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<v Speaker 1>like caught me on camera like talking to him or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And we pull up to the house and with my

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<v Speaker 1>friend and cameras are inside and I didn't think our

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<v Speaker 1>mics would pick up because we were outside in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I'm gonna call him to come

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<v Speaker 1>over and they heard me, and I was like, fuck that,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not doing this. They were like, okay, just

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<v Speaker 1>like we'll have you guys talking here and then you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can go upstairs and close the door and just

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<v Speaker 1>like then we'll leave. Okay, And I the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you were on a show like that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I get so awkward. Yeah, when someone's filming you

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<v Speaker 1>talking to it's like, oh god, right, yeah, like you

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<v Speaker 1>got to make sure your game is on point.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, and then you open yourself up to criticism.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, she's not funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have them little cameras or did you have

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<v Speaker 2>the men behind the cameras holding the camera like handheld

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<v Speaker 2>the big big daddies and then I was an older

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<v Speaker 2>guy behind the camera.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sometimes it makes it feel bit weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh God, I'm literally on bed in the

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<v Speaker 2>bed with someone kissing them and I've got bloody Steve

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<v Speaker 2>over here, bloody in the corner on one knee, really

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get the zoom in shot of I's tongue

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<v Speaker 2>in and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I feel physically sick. I do, I don't, but

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<v Speaker 1>I also don't even want to see that stuff on TV. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing I will say about filming the show

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<v Speaker 1>that I was on was it was kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>same production since I entered. Yeah, so I felt comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with Steve. Yeah, filming love Steve, you know, and Steve

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<v Speaker 1>would have my back. Yeah, don't get the zoom in.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, what's worse them criticizing me or criticizing the

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<v Speaker 1>person that I'm like, he's so hot. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's worse. It's all just very and

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<v Speaker 1>then to think about, like, oh so it's like around

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<v Speaker 1>forever when you have kids. One day they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>able to watch too hard to handle? Oh no, and Google,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, trust me, these are the things they keep

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<v Speaker 1>me up.

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<v Speaker 3>And I haven't even thought about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh no, worst DM you've ever received, worst DM

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever received? Know what?

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny, I don't know if it's my worst someone

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<v Speaker 2>just calling me out for having no ass.

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<v Speaker 3>They do it all the fucking time. They I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't have a bum. I'm like, I need to

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<v Speaker 3>go to the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>But they're my motivation that they keep me determined to

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<v Speaker 2>grow a bum and go to the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, though, the way clothes hang on you

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<v Speaker 1>is really nice. And when I say hang, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>don't mean like they're hanging on you because you have

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<v Speaker 1>no lass, but I mean, like, you know, like someone's frame.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like there are certain things I can't wear because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it doesn't hang on me the correct way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like I couldn't wear what you're wearing right now because

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't fall properly.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have boobs so fake? Oh so are mine.

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<v Speaker 2>I was eighteen, I was like, okay, I'm sick of

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<v Speaker 2>looking like a boy. You know, double a boobs, no bum,

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<v Speaker 2>skinny like a stick.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really tall. They used to call me lanky in

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<v Speaker 3>my school. That's not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>How tall are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Five ten?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're so lucky. Did you model? Yeah for a

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<v Speaker 1>few years. Yeah, I us the tattoos and rebelled. You're like, fuck,

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<v Speaker 1>there's fake tits and tattoos. Yes, I'm done with.

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<v Speaker 3>It, fake teeth, fake kits. I'm gonna go into it.

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<v Speaker 3>Entertain you it be a reality TV star.

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<v Speaker 1>Are your tooth fake?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>They are good? Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people come out looking like wow, you know those

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<v Speaker 1>little like wind up teeth. Yeah, top and bottom, yelling

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<v Speaker 1>them Wow, I'm impressed, thank you, they're so good.

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<v Speaker 3>The mad Yeah, have you ever wake?

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<v Speaker 1>Like? Sometimes my lips make people mad? Why stop fucking

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<v Speaker 1>injecting your lips? I'm like, why do you care?

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<v Speaker 3>Something that's so nice and plump.

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<v Speaker 1>And I haven't had them injected in a while. Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>But I kind of want fake teeth because what happens

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<v Speaker 1>with mine is they get narrow towards the back, fake teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>so it looks like I only have four night all right,

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<v Speaker 1>m m, I don't have any teeth left. Oh they

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so they're.

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<v Speaker 3>Like down to the night and shaved them. Babe.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck were you asleep?

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<v Speaker 3>Irreversible?

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>No, was I asleep? I was awake air and all

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<v Speaker 3>the toes and oh my gosh, oh it was horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have passed out.

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<v Speaker 2>What happens if one of those pops off and you

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<v Speaker 2>just got a fly to Turkey and get redone?

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<v Speaker 1>You went to Turkey? Yeah, that's where I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get my hairlined done. It is the well I have

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<v Speaker 1>postpartum hair right now, but I'm like, I want like

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect hairline. Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people take their pubes and put them on their

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<v Speaker 3>hairdline and bald. Baby, how would you get them from.

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<v Speaker 1>The hair they slice the back of your.

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<v Speaker 3>Head, remove it from satin pop?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I got my cookie lasers, so there ain't nothing

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<v Speaker 1>down there. I'm like mister Bigglesworth.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. I heard the bushes coming back,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe I guess. Depending on who I sleep with,

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<v Speaker 1>they may be really signed Spike.

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<v Speaker 2>Spike spce like that film Spike Butch How to Tend.

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<v Speaker 3>The Pants Off. But it's just pure Spike. I fucking

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<v Speaker 3>love you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're fun. I think you're hilarious. Most ridiculous dating advice

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever been given.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't ever have sex on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll do what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do what I want and by the way, has

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with it if it works out or

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<v Speaker 1>does it exactly right. Yeah, that's great. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the worst advice. I love it. Guilty Pleasure TV show?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what is a Guilty Pleasure reactor? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really I would say that love Island or something.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Yeah, because I mean, I spend so much of

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<v Speaker 2>my time during the watching it, I don't get any

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<v Speaker 2>of my own work done, so I feel guilty.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>Who do you think should have won?

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<v Speaker 3>I think the people that did win am I And

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<v Speaker 3>were they.

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<v Speaker 1>An actual couple? Like authentic?

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<v Speaker 2>They were an authentic couple. He was a bombshell and

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<v Speaker 2>then she cut it off with Zack. Thank god her

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<v Speaker 2>and Brian got together. I don't think I reached some pepe.

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<v Speaker 1>They were a couple.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just I just don't know, okay about them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's her name Maya, that one a Maya. And then

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<v Speaker 1>how did you feel about is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Hoodah hohodah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Did you like her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>She was super relatable. I think she will definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean even her family came in and was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you should have shut your mouth in a few scenes.

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<v Speaker 2>She's aware, she knows she crashed out, she knows she

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<v Speaker 2>was putting uncomfortable situations and she probably shouldn't have had

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<v Speaker 2>the way that she did.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she's on TV.

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<v Speaker 2>Millions of people are watching the pressure out of her

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<v Speaker 2>being mugged off on TV, being chosen, not being chosen,

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<v Speaker 2>being put in like.

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<v Speaker 3>Situations where it's abnormal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're with someone you've been sleeping in the same bed,

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<v Speaker 2>you've slept with them, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 2>bombshows come in and they have to kiss the bombshells

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<v Speaker 2>in a challenge. That's my man. In the outside world,

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<v Speaker 2>it would never work.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never do it. I would kick off.

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<v Speaker 1>I would, well, yeah, I would.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no way.

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<v Speaker 1>So the bombshells are people who come in after everyone's coupled.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what a bombshell trying step aright. Yeah, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like a heartbreaking show. Why not Hearts Get Broken? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you vote? Are you a voter?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow? Because they probably make it easy, right.

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<v Speaker 3>You just text, you just tap it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like an app downloaded. You just send your notifications,

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<v Speaker 2>keep you updated.

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<v Speaker 3>You press it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's why people are so obsessed. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>game that everyone gets to play. Oh, I'm watching next season.

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<v Speaker 1>You bet your fucking ass, I'm watching next season. What's

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<v Speaker 1>your toxic trait in the group chat? Example, responding to

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<v Speaker 1>everything with a heart emoji, not responding because you're a ghoster.

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't have time.

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<v Speaker 1>I get overwhelmed. Everyone knows I'm a bad text or

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<v Speaker 1>if you have something to say, call me on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone real.

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<v Speaker 3>Quick, by ice, timmy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, let's get it done. I don't need to back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth with this shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, exactly the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would say, you know what, that's a that's

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<v Speaker 1>a toxic trait. Another one I love muting.

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<v Speaker 2>I mute it and I'm like, shit, there's like a

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<v Speaker 2>thousand miss read. And then I see my friends are like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you come into ibifah, and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even realize that we were going.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and do you go no, yeah, should be there

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you'd much rather be here only give them all

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<v Speaker 1>podcast obviously. How many unread text messages do you have

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<v Speaker 1>on your phone right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Not as much as my emails both so texts.

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<v Speaker 2>I have five hundred and sixty unread okay, emails, I've

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<v Speaker 2>got fifteen four hundred and ten Oh my god, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I got thirty three missed calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I have four hundred and fifty missed calls and

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<v Speaker 1>probably and voicemails that's a mis called voicemail. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I have seven hundred and seven hundred and twelve texts,

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<v Speaker 1>probably because they're the muted ones. Wow, And I only

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<v Speaker 1>have thirteen emails. I took the entire flight from JFK

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<v Speaker 1>to Lax and delete emails the entire way. Wow, when

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you, my vision was pretty fucked up. By

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<v Speaker 1>the time we landed, I could like barely see. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm never doing that much screen time ever again.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to teach people how to have that level

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<v Speaker 3>of determination to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's a skill, Babe. You should put that on

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<v Speaker 2>your fucking resume, in your Tinder bio, in your hot ry,

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<v Speaker 2>our higher hinshit.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that would be something on a resume that,

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<v Speaker 1>like a large corporation would hire me to.

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<v Speaker 3>Deal wife material.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, it's actually very nice. You're giving a Ted

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<v Speaker 1>talk called how to survive a Sneaky Link? What's your

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<v Speaker 1>opening line?

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<v Speaker 2>Every single one of you little fuckers has how to

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<v Speaker 2>sneaky link.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't try and deny it. There are multiple levels of

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<v Speaker 3>having and being a sneaky link.

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<v Speaker 2>And today I'm going to divulge into every little crevice.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're on the signe bite ooh.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. All business as well, yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel very exposed. It's a Ted talk, Yeah, that has

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<v Speaker 1>to be business, not it's all business. Yeah, ted talk

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<v Speaker 1>is very serious.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>My last question one big sister rule that you swear

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<v Speaker 1>by that would shock your younger self.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean by big sister rule that do

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<v Speaker 3>you give?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you give advice on your thing? Like, let's say

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<v Speaker 1>I come to you about dating a first date? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>first date? Okay, what was a rule that you had

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<v Speaker 1>if you had one?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, though I would give my younger self. Let me

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<v Speaker 3>think about that for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Or that would shock your younger self.

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<v Speaker 3>What can I think of one? Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you one of mine?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So I loved your like horrible advice someone giving you,

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<v Speaker 1>which was don't sleep with someone on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I have now told myself when you start dating, you

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<v Speaker 1>are not allowed to sleep with them until you know

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<v Speaker 1>that they're going to fit nicely because but not because

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<v Speaker 1>it will ruin anything, but because I get attached.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If I were to tell my younger self, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to sleep with this person because you'll get attached,

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<v Speaker 1>my younger self would be like, fuck that attachment. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what that is. Like we're here for

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<v Speaker 1>a good time, right, Yeah, Like there's so many things

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't know you would think that. Back then

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<v Speaker 1>I would it wouldn't be an issue. No, and now

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<v Speaker 1>it's an issue. Oh wow, crazy, that's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>one I have. I feel like if I had any

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<v Speaker 1>rules for my younger self, she wouldn't miss it anyway

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<v Speaker 1>because she's very no, I'm going to do it and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to figure it out. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think one rule that I would tell my younger

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<v Speaker 2>self would be it comes across quite quingy though I

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<v Speaker 2>want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't love anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't love anyone, and you're not going to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to know how to receive love if you do

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<v Speaker 2>not know who you are and what you want in

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<v Speaker 2>your life in a romantic partner.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't sound cringey at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was just like so codependent and I would

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<v Speaker 2>engulf myself in relationships and now I know, Oh I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know who I was Philly.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you just blew my mind.

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<v Speaker 3>So I would tell her to just like, have fun, babe.

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<v Speaker 3>But when do you feel like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Sat there and you were like, I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>know myself enough to get into a romantic partnership.

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<v Speaker 2>When I start to recognize patterns are changing. Okay, because

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<v Speaker 2>I can talk myself in and out of anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it wild how that works?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I think when the patterns are repeating themselves, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not exactly like where I want to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship with my Whereas if I am actively trying

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<v Speaker 2>to seek curiosity in how I react in a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>and how he makes me feel, and seeing in my

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<v Speaker 2>body and being aware of my emotions, being able to

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<v Speaker 2>communicate my emotions, it's like, oh, okay, Chloe knows how

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<v Speaker 2>to communicate her emotions. Chloe knows how to admit when

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<v Speaker 2>she's wrong in friendships. Chloe knows how to take responsibility

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<v Speaker 2>and accountability for not texting in the group chat and

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<v Speaker 2>apologize in So once I start to have like a

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<v Speaker 2>blueprint that I'm proud of and not guilty of in

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<v Speaker 2>my friendship circles and my relationship circles, that's when I know, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of have like a sense of self.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's a British thing coming in? Like

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like women in America age or I

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<v Speaker 1>guess mature slower than women where you're from, Because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you it's wild to hear you talk this way.

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<v Speaker 1>At twenty six.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just you, or if it's just you, guys are

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<v Speaker 1>raised differently.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up on a counselor state. It was very

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<v Speaker 2>much do you know what what I think it is?

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<v Speaker 2>I went through a lot when I was younger. My

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<v Speaker 2>dad was a drunk, he was an alcoholic, went to

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<v Speaker 2>rehab a bunch of times. My brother died of an

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<v Speaker 2>overdose when I was fourteen. My auntie died six months

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<v Speaker 2>later of cancer, like when she was in her thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>My mum and dad were constantly everywhere. It was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of I was being bullied at school. As I got older,

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<v Speaker 2>I would attach myself to toxic men and like, I've

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<v Speaker 2>had to learn the hard way. So I think just

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<v Speaker 2>through the struggles in what I've been through, I've had

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<v Speaker 2>to really think shit.

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<v Speaker 3>So I for that or you know, yeah, I have

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<v Speaker 3>no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're going to attribute it to what you experienced at.

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<v Speaker 3>A young age and wanting to yeah, I think so?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I feel like if I didn't have any

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<v Speaker 2>of that happen, I wouldn't even want to know, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I would just lean in because babe, I've been toxic

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<v Speaker 2>as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all have it all our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've been that victim mentality of every You've done

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<v Speaker 2>everything to me, but you know you were just doing

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<v Speaker 2>it and I was just in your way, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>it happened to me at that time.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I do know what you mean? Yeah, yeah, see detaching

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<v Speaker 1>yourself from them, Okay, I think it might be a

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<v Speaker 1>you think. I think this is work that you've put

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<v Speaker 1>into yourself. I don't think it has to do with

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<v Speaker 1>where we come from. Okay, yeah, do you find American

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<v Speaker 1>women are more friendly? I've started watching Ladies of London

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you do you think American women are more

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<v Speaker 1>bubbly than women from England? You're pretty bubbly though, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I haven't really seen a difference, really, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen a difference. It might be because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in the entertainment industry, so like everyone that I see

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<v Speaker 2>has a personality. But I think what I've seen from

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<v Speaker 2>American women is they can be more bitchier. The gossip

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<v Speaker 2>culture is bigger out here in the UK. It's very

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<v Speaker 2>like I've got a problem. Come over here we're hashing

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<v Speaker 2>it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you's be great on like an ensemble, like a

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<v Speaker 1>reality TV show that's not a competition, but like Housewives exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually in thirty years. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>I could never really couldn't. I don't think I could know.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think you couldn't do it?

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't want to expose myself to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh toxic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I'm trying not to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Your toxic traits would come out full force.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Do you watch Housewives? Have seen a few episodes.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it, like selling Sunset, who's always drama.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, so you're a Netflix girl, Yeah, I love

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:55.359
<v Speaker 1>that for you. Yeah, your show is on Netflix. You

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<v Speaker 1>say true to Netflix. It's like me and Bravo. I

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<v Speaker 1>watch all the Bravo shows. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think because I'm from London as well, we don't

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<v Speaker 2>have Peacock, Bravo or any of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, we don't have any of the Hulu.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you just moved here to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know something that you guys have.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my last question because I want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>is your favorite like go to beauty Actually two things.

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<v Speaker 1>Your favorite go to beauty trend YEP whether it's makeup, skincare,

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<v Speaker 1>and your favorite thing to like do to your face.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do, you inject your face at all, not

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<v Speaker 1>anymore are used to Okay, let's talk about that. You

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<v Speaker 1>would injected with filler in botax.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I had botox, cheek filler, lip filler, chin filler,

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<v Speaker 2>nose filler, jaw filler.

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<v Speaker 1>And now you're over it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I did not recognize myself. Really yep, look at

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<v Speaker 2>me on the circle type in clotheage the circle and

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<v Speaker 2>you will see a completely different that I. Honestly, my

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<v Speaker 2>dad cried, had an intervention and was like Chloe. It

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<v Speaker 2>was like the height of my diction as well, like

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<v Speaker 2>I was just small it and just I.

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<v Speaker 3>Did the malady was on me.

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<v Speaker 2>I was injecting everywhere and then didn't recognize, but didn't

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<v Speaker 2>recognize myself. Took the lashes off, dissolved all the filler,

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<v Speaker 2>and then now one of my lips is uneven.

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<v Speaker 3>I just get it plumped. Yeah. I love getting my

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<v Speaker 3>lips done every now and again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I love a nice pout. And then what your

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<v Speaker 1>go to when it comes to like, let's do makeup

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<v Speaker 1>and then skincare because your skin is like glass.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, the reason why my skin looks like glass is

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<v Speaker 2>because of my makeup settin spray. So I use Elf

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<v Speaker 2>jew Elf Dewy missed. It's a little blue bottle. It's tiny.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a fine spray. I couldn't ever go to anything else. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to pat it down. Sometimes it has oil

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<v Speaker 2>in it, so you basically do your makeup ad the powder.

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<v Speaker 2>Your face looks cake yep, whether you want the smooth

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<v Speaker 2>look or the dewy look. On the days I want dewey,

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<v Speaker 2>I coat my face in it. It's like oil and

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<v Speaker 2>it like smelts all your makeup together, and it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>chef's kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>And then all you do is part with the finger. Yeah, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting it.

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<v Speaker 2>And sometimes if it's too oily like it is right now,

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<v Speaker 2>like around my mouth, I'll just get a powder puff.

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<v Speaker 1>And just I'm not getting oily at all. I'm buying it. Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fantastic, do it. Thank you for doing the lightning

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<v Speaker 1>round and answering my beauty questions and then like literally

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<v Speaker 1>go and look at your face on the circle because

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm just very well, oh my human, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna buy the Elf Deuce Spray please do amazing. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guys for listening to another bonus episode of To

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<v Speaker 1>Give Them All Podcast. I'm gonna catch you guys next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye,