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Speaker 1: Hello, my love, Welcome to the bonus episode and give

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Speaker 1: them a La podcast. I'm here with Chloe V. Hello, gorgeous,

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Speaker 1: Hello gorgeous. So we're gonna keep it light. This is

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Speaker 1: just gonna be a bonus of like lightning round questions.

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Speaker 1: I had a close friend on and I'm like, this

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Speaker 1: is lightning round, bro, Like this is the slowest, but

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Speaker 1: luckily it's a bonus, So take your time, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: Ideal first date just.

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Speaker 2: Like the Lave Island finale on about fireworks, snorkeling, tanning

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Speaker 2: in the sun, eating chalc heatory boards until I'm bloated.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you, though, where do you go from there?

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Speaker 1: If that's the first date? Oh?

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Speaker 3: First day?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, first date? What is an ideal first.

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Speaker 2: I didn't like just a date in general, but that

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Speaker 2: is I don't like dinners.

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Speaker 1: Really, you more of an activity girl.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to spend two hours getting my day

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Speaker 1: And then I want you to save me at my

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Speaker 1: worst reading on the first day. So would you prefer

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Speaker 1: that it's like just come over and kick it, or

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Speaker 1: like let's go on a hike.

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Speaker 3: I would say jump in my car.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll drive to Taco Bell so fun, fast out

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Speaker 2: in the car, kick off mee up, listen to some music,

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Speaker 2: go for each other's playlists, look at the moon and stars,

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Speaker 2: and read each other's a strategy shots.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: And then I'm gonna say if I like you or not,

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Speaker 2: because if we can't have a conversation, you're not blowing

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Speaker 2: my back out.

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Speaker 1: And you're not blowing my back out either. That's for

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Speaker 1: damn sure. I love that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I thoroughly enjoy having my Instagram be so like because

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Speaker 1: I don't get ready a lot these days. So if

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Speaker 1: someone sees me, if they're like, hey, I want to

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Speaker 1: set you up. Here's our instagram, you're seeing me at

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Speaker 1: my worst.

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Speaker 3: Love it literally, and then you're a bumshell when you walk.

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Speaker 1: In and they're like, oh fuck. One thing someone can

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Speaker 1: do on a first day eight for instant bonus points.

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, they do on a first date in some

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Speaker 1: Me, I would be asking about my kids taking an

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Speaker 1: interest okay, acknowledging the fact that I have because if

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Speaker 1: you can't do that on like, this isn't going anywhere

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I respect that.

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Speaker 1: Like, so as a single person bonus points, what can

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Speaker 1: they do? I think definitely opening my door at not car,

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Speaker 2: I think yeah, But then I feel like, now it's

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Speaker 2: can I even have a conversation with you?

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Speaker 3: Like the bonus point would be them making me laugh.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a big one.

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Speaker 3: But then would that be basic?

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Speaker 1: No? I don't think that's basic at all because my

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Speaker 1: my dad passed away, so they were like, thank you,

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Speaker 1: they were very much together. I asked my mom, because

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Speaker 1: you don't see relationships that last like that, I said,

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Speaker 1: how did you know that, like my dad was going

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Speaker 1: to be your forever? And she said, your dad always

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah wow, So that's not basic at all. That's actually

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Speaker 1: the key to like long lasting love. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Ghosted or Ben ghosted both for you, both for me.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I ghost you ghost people?

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Speaker 1: Oh kloud, Your twenty six is showing I know you've

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Speaker 1: never been ghosted. No, of course you haven't looked at

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Speaker 2: I think it's because I pick up on the intuition

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: It's it's like a premeditated ghost like pre ejaculation, Like

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Speaker 3: Then I pull away.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you beat them to the punch.

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Speaker 3: Yep, toxic red flag. So on.

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Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago, I did a bonus where

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Speaker 1: say so, we had been hanging out, going out with

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Speaker 1: And she said her dad's you should stay here, and

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Speaker 3: Hey just wanted to buy you back out?

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Speaker 1: He certainly did. He left me with that, so he didn't.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations though, imagine being stuck in that relationship level.

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Speaker 1: Go Yeah, and you know what the red flag should

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Speaker 1: have been the fact that he had fluorescent lighting?

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Speaker 1: The worst kind of lighting for anybody. You could be

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Speaker 3: Oh now you've given me a new No, I don't

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Speaker 3: we have an I think we've turned them off.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go in my boyfriend's house some face time.

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Speaker 2: You is this fluorescent light in?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? He also told me he didn't. He walked everywhere.

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Speaker 1: That's why he didn't need a car. He told me, h, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm minimalists. Grow up. It's called you're broke as fun.

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Speaker 1: Grow up, grow up, grow up, dude. That's another reason

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Speaker 1: why I don't date. I'm like, my picker is so off,

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Speaker 3: I'm taking you out, please do.

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Speaker 1: Like, where does one even go? You would know, though,

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Speaker 3: Single spots, you know about them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but are these like twelve year old tiktographs a

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Speaker 1: great place?

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Speaker 3: What's it called the Desert five?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what that is? Where is that?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna introduce you to. Desert five is in West Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: It's full of cowboys, Southern boys, okay, men, grown men.

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Speaker 1: Yep, calling Mace clipping my hair and putting my tits up.

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Speaker 1: Let's fucking yeh y hah. Save a horse, ride a cowboy.

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Speaker 1: I've never ridden a cowboy before you will. I will

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Speaker 1: after you take me out. Favorite way to spend a

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Speaker 2: On the sofa with Duvets, chocolates, baking brownies, watching Love

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Speaker 2: Island or something.

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Speaker 3: It's just perfect for me.

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Speaker 1: Game night, love a game night? What's your go to game?

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Speaker 3: You know? Love it easy?

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Speaker 2: You can play four plus ten, you fall out, you

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Speaker 1: I love this. Do you like all reality shows or

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Speaker 3: I love the loved ones like Love is Blind.

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Speaker 2: He is one of my favorites. Love on the Spectrum

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Speaker 2: is my own. Come on, it doesn't get better than

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Speaker 2: Love on the Spectrum. Do you watch the Bachelor? No Bachelorette?

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Speaker 1: No? Okay, neither do I and I've never seen Love

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Speaker 1: Island either?

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Speaker 1: I'd like that. Oh I heard it was fantastic, incredible.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I haven't been sleeping I've adjusted my sleep

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Speaker 1: I see that you watch it. Yeah, that makes me

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Speaker 1: One thing you'd never do on camera again?

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Speaker 3: One thing I would never do on camera again. I

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Speaker 3: you wouldn't change the thing. No, I don't think I would.

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Speaker 3: I've never had sex on TV.

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Speaker 1: Well that's good.

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Speaker 2: That would be my only because my family and everything else.

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Speaker 3: I know, and then you open yourself up to criticism.

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, she's not funny.

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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 2: Did you have them little cameras or did you have

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh God, I'm literally on bed in the

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's worse. It's all just very and

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Speaker 1: then to think about, like, oh so it's like around

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Speaker 1: able to watch too hard to handle? Oh no, and Google,

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Speaker 1: I know, trust me, these are the things they keep

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Speaker 3: And I haven't even thought about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, worst DM you've ever received, worst DM

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Speaker 1: I've ever received? Know what?

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Speaker 2: It's funny, I don't know if it's my worst someone

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Speaker 1: You know what, though, the way clothes hang on you

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Speaker 1: And you have boobs so fake? Oh so are mine.

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Speaker 3: I'm really tall. They used to call me lanky in

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Speaker 1: Oh you're so lucky. Did you model? Yeah for a

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Speaker 3: It, fake teeth, fake kits. I'm gonna go into it.

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Speaker 3: Entertain you it be a reality TV star.

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Speaker 1: Are your tooth fake?

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Speaker 3: They are good? Thank you.

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Speaker 3: The mad Yeah, have you ever wake?

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Speaker 1: Like? Sometimes my lips make people mad? Why stop fucking

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Speaker 3: Like down to the night and shaved them. Babe.

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Speaker 1: Fuck were you asleep?

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Speaker 3: Irreversible?

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Speaker 2: Fuck?

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Speaker 3: No, was I asleep? I was awake air and all

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Speaker 2: What happens if one of those pops off and you

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Speaker 1: You went to Turkey? Yeah, that's where I want to

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Speaker 1: get my hairlined done. It is the well I have

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Speaker 3: Some people take their pubes and put them on their

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Speaker 1: The hair they slice the back of your.

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Speaker 3: Head, remove it from satin pop?

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Speaker 1: No, I got my cookie lasers, so there ain't nothing

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Speaker 3: I need to get that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I heard the bushes coming back,

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Speaker 1: so maybe I guess. Depending on who I sleep with,

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Speaker 1: they may be really signed Spike.

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Speaker 2: Spike spce like that film Spike Butch How to Tend.

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Speaker 3: The Pants Off. But it's just pure Spike. I fucking

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Speaker 3: love you.

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Speaker 1: You're fun. I think you're hilarious. Most ridiculous dating advice

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Speaker 3: Don't ever have sex on the first date.

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Speaker 1: That is so ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: I'll do what I want.

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Speaker 1: I'll do what I want and by the way, has

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with it if it works out or

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Speaker 1: does it exactly right. Yeah, that's great. I love that.

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Speaker 1: That's the worst advice. I love it. Guilty Pleasure TV show?

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Speaker 1: Oh what is a Guilty Pleasure reactor? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't really I would say that love Island or something.

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, because I mean, I spend so much of

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Speaker 3: But it's a pleasure.

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Speaker 1: Who do you think should have won?

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Speaker 3: I think the people that did win am I And

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Speaker 3: were they.

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Speaker 1: An actual couple? Like authentic?

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Speaker 2: They were an authentic couple. He was a bombshell and

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Speaker 2: then she cut it off with Zack. Thank god her

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Speaker 2: and Brian got together. I don't think I reached some pepe.

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Speaker 1: They were a couple.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I just don't know, okay about them.

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Speaker 1: It's her name Maya, that one a Maya. And then

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Speaker 1: how did you feel about is it?

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Speaker 3: Hoodah hohodah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Did you like her? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: She was super relatable. I think she will definitely.

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Speaker 2: I mean even her family came in and was like,

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Speaker 2: you should have shut your mouth in a few scenes.

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Speaker 2: She's aware, she knows she crashed out, she knows she

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Speaker 2: was putting uncomfortable situations and she probably shouldn't have had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's on TV.

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Speaker 2: Millions of people are watching the pressure out of her

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Speaker 2: being mugged off on TV, being chosen, not being chosen,

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Speaker 2: being put in like.

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Speaker 3: Situations where it's abnormal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're with someone you've been sleeping in the same bed,

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Speaker 2: you've slept with them, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: bombshows come in and they have to kiss the bombshells

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Speaker 2: in a challenge. That's my man. In the outside world,

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Speaker 2: it would never work.

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Speaker 3: I would never do it. I would kick off.

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Speaker 1: I would, well, yeah, I would.

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Speaker 3: There's no way.

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Speaker 1: So the bombshells are people who come in after everyone's coupled.

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Speaker 1: That's what a bombshell trying step aright. Yeah, I know

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Speaker 1: it sounds like a heartbreaking show. Why not Hearts Get Broken? Okay,

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Speaker 1: did you vote? Are you a voter?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Because they probably make it easy, right.

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Speaker 3: You just text, you just tap it.

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Speaker 2: It's like an app downloaded. You just send your notifications,

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Speaker 2: keep you updated.

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Speaker 3: You press it.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why people are so obsessed. It's like a

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Speaker 1: game that everyone gets to play. Oh, I'm watching next season.

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Speaker 1: You bet your fucking ass, I'm watching next season. What's

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Speaker 1: your toxic trait in the group chat? Example, responding to

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Speaker 1: everything with a heart emoji, not responding because you're a ghoster.

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Speaker 3: I just don't have time.

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Speaker 1: I get overwhelmed. Everyone knows I'm a bad text or

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Speaker 1: if you have something to say, call me on the

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Speaker 1: phone real.

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Speaker 3: Quick, by ice, timmy.

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Speaker 1: Yep, let's get it done. I don't need to back

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Speaker 1: and forth with this shit.

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Speaker 3: Yep, exactly the same.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say, you know what, that's a that's

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Speaker 1: a toxic trait. Another one I love muting.

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Speaker 2: I mute it and I'm like, shit, there's like a

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Speaker 2: you come into ibifah, and I'm like.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even realize that we were going.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and do you go no, yeah, should be there

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you'd much rather be here only give them all

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Speaker 1: podcast obviously. How many unread text messages do you have

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Speaker 1: on your phone right now?

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Speaker 3: Not as much as my emails both so texts.

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Speaker 2: I have five hundred and sixty unread okay, emails, I've

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Speaker 2: got fifteen four hundred and ten Oh my god, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I got thirty three missed calls.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have four hundred and fifty missed calls and

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Speaker 1: probably and voicemails that's a mis called voicemail. And then

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Speaker 1: I have seven hundred and seven hundred and twelve texts,

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Speaker 1: probably because they're the muted ones. Wow, And I only

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Speaker 1: have thirteen emails. I took the entire flight from JFK

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Speaker 1: I tell you, my vision was pretty fucked up. By

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Speaker 1: the time we landed, I could like barely see. I

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Speaker 3: You need to teach people how to have that level

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Speaker 3: of determination to do that.

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Speaker 2: Because that's a skill, Babe. You should put that on

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Speaker 2: your fucking resume, in your Tinder bio, in your hot ry,

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Speaker 2: our higher hinshit.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that would be something on a resume that,

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Speaker 1: like a large corporation would hire me to.

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Speaker 3: Deal wife material.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, it's actually very nice. You're giving a Ted

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Speaker 1: talk called how to survive a Sneaky Link? What's your

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Speaker 1: opening line?

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Speaker 2: Every single one of you little fuckers has how to

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Speaker 3: Don't try and deny it. There are multiple levels of

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Speaker 2: And today I'm going to divulge into every little crevice.

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Speaker 3: So we're on the signe bite ooh.

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Speaker 1: I love it. All business as well, yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: feel very exposed. It's a Ted talk, Yeah, that has

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Speaker 1: to be business, not it's all business. Yeah, ted talk

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Speaker 1: is very serious.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: My last question one big sister rule that you swear

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Speaker 1: by that would shock your younger self.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean by big sister rule that do

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Speaker 3: you give?

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Speaker 1: Don't you give advice on your thing? Like, let's say

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Speaker 1: I come to you about dating a first date? Okay,

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Speaker 1: first date? Okay, what was a rule that you had

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Speaker 1: if you had one?

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Speaker 3: Okay, though I would give my younger self. Let me

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Speaker 3: think about that for a second.

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Speaker 1: Or that would shock your younger self.

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Speaker 3: What can I think of one? Right now?

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you one of mine?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So I loved your like horrible advice someone giving you,

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Speaker 1: which was don't sleep with someone on the first date.

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Speaker 1: I have now told myself when you start dating, you

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Speaker 1: are not allowed to sleep with them until you know

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Speaker 1: that they're going to fit nicely because but not because

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Speaker 1: it will ruin anything, but because I get attached.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If I were to tell my younger self, you're not

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Speaker 1: going to sleep with this person because you'll get attached,

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Speaker 1: my younger self would be like, fuck that attachment. We

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Speaker 1: don't even know what that is. Like we're here for

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Speaker 1: a good time, right, Yeah, Like there's so many things

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Speaker 1: that I don't know you would think that. Back then

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Speaker 1: I would it wouldn't be an issue. No, and now

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Speaker 1: one I have. I feel like if I had any

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Speaker 1: because she's very no, I'm going to do it and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to figure it out. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think one rule that I would tell my younger

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Speaker 2: want to hear it.

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Speaker 3: You can't love anyone.

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Speaker 2: You can't love anyone, and you're not going to be

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Speaker 2: not know who you are and what you want in

447
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Speaker 2: your life in a romantic partner.

448
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Speaker 1: That doesn't sound cringey at all.

449
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 2: Because I was just like so codependent and I would

450
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 2: engulf myself in relationships and now I know, Oh I

451
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 2: didn't know who I was Philly.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you just blew my mind.

453
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Speaker 3: So I would tell her to just like, have fun, babe.

454
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Speaker 3: But when do you feel like you.

455
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: Sat there and you were like, I feel like I

456
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Speaker 1: know myself enough to get into a romantic partnership.

457
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Speaker 2: When I start to recognize patterns are changing. Okay, because

458
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 2: I can talk myself in and out of anything.

459
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Speaker 1: Isn't it wild how that works?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:54,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think when the patterns are repeating themselves, yeah,

462
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 2: I'm not exactly like where I want to be in

463
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Speaker 2: a relationship with my Whereas if I am actively trying

464
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 2: to seek curiosity in how I react in a relationship

465
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Speaker 2: and how he makes me feel, and seeing in my

466
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 2: body and being aware of my emotions, being able to

467
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 2: communicate my emotions, it's like, oh, okay, Chloe knows how

468
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 2: to communicate her emotions. Chloe knows how to admit when

469
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 2: she's wrong in friendships. Chloe knows how to take responsibility

470
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Speaker 2: and accountability for not texting in the group chat and

471
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Speaker 2: apologize in So once I start to have like a

472
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Speaker 2: blueprint that I'm proud of and not guilty of in

473
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Speaker 2: my friendship circles and my relationship circles, that's when I know, okay,

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Speaker 2: I kind of have like a sense of self.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that's a British thing coming in? Like

476
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Speaker 1: do you feel like women in America age or I

477
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Speaker 1: guess mature slower than women where you're from, Because I'm

478
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Speaker 1: telling you it's wild to hear you talk this way.

479
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Speaker 1: At twenty six.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love it.

481
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Speaker 1: It's just you, or if it's just you, guys are

482
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Speaker 1: raised differently.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea.

484
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Speaker 2: I grew up on a counselor state. It was very

485
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Speaker 2: much do you know what what I think it is?

486
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 2: I went through a lot when I was younger. My

487
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 2: dad was a drunk, he was an alcoholic, went to

488
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Speaker 2: rehab a bunch of times. My brother died of an

489
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 2: overdose when I was fourteen. My auntie died six months

490
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 2: later of cancer, like when she was in her thirties.

491
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Speaker 2: My mum and dad were constantly everywhere. It was kind

492
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Speaker 2: of I was being bullied at school. As I got older,

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Speaker 2: I would attach myself to toxic men and like, I've

494
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Speaker 2: had to learn the hard way. So I think just

495
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Speaker 2: through the struggles in what I've been through, I've had

496
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Speaker 2: to really think shit.

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Speaker 3: So I for that or you know, yeah, I have

498
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Speaker 3: no idea.

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Speaker 1: So you're going to attribute it to what you experienced at.

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Speaker 3: A young age and wanting to yeah, I think so?

501
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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel like if I didn't have any

503
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Speaker 2: of that happen, I wouldn't even want to know, right,

504
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 2: I would just lean in because babe, I've been toxic

505
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 2: as fuck.

506
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Speaker 1: I think we all have it all our lives.

507
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: And I've been that victim mentality of every You've done

508
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 2: everything to me, but you know you were just doing

509
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 2: it and I was just in your way, right, So

510
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: it happened to me at that time.

511
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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: I do know what you mean? Yeah, yeah, see detaching

513
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: yourself from them, Okay, I think it might be a

514
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Speaker 1: you think. I think this is work that you've put

515
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Speaker 1: into yourself. I don't think it has to do with

516
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: where we come from. Okay, yeah, do you find American

517
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 1: women are more friendly? I've started watching Ladies of London

518
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Speaker 1: That's why you do you think American women are more

519
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: bubbly than women from England? You're pretty bubbly though, I

520
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: don't know.

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00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 2: I think I haven't really seen a difference, really, Yeah,

522
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: I haven't seen a difference. It might be because I'm

523
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,360
Speaker 2: in the entertainment industry, so like everyone that I see

524
00:24:56,440 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 2: has a personality. But I think what I've seen from

525
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: American women is they can be more bitchier. The gossip

526
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: culture is bigger out here in the UK. It's very

527
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 2: like I've got a problem. Come over here we're hashing

528
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 2: it out.

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00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 1: Oh, you's be great on like an ensemble, like a

530
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: reality TV show that's not a competition, but like Housewives exactly.

531
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Speaker 1: He's actually in thirty years. Oh my god.

532
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Speaker 3: I could never really couldn't. I don't think I could know.

533
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: Why do you think you couldn't do it?

534
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to expose myself to that.

535
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: Oh toxic.

536
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm trying not to be.

537
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: Your toxic traits would come out full force.

538
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you watch Housewives? Have seen a few episodes.

539
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 2: I love it, like selling Sunset, who's always drama.

540
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: So okay, so you're a Netflix girl, Yeah, I love

541
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: that for you. Yeah, your show is on Netflix. You

542
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: say true to Netflix. It's like me and Bravo. I

543
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: watch all the Bravo shows. Yeah.

544
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 2: I think because I'm from London as well, we don't

545
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: have Peacock, Bravo or any of that.

546
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 3: Wow, we don't have any of the Hulu.

547
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just moved here to me.

548
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 3: I don't know something that you guys have.

549
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 1: Okay, my last question because I want to know what

550
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Speaker 1: is your favorite like go to beauty Actually two things.

551
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: Your favorite go to beauty trend YEP whether it's makeup, skincare,

552
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: and your favorite thing to like do to your face.

553
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: If you do, you inject your face at all, not

554
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: anymore are used to Okay, let's talk about that. You

555
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: would injected with filler in botax.

556
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had botox, cheek filler, lip filler, chin filler,

557
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: nose filler, jaw filler.

558
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 1: And now you're over it.

559
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: And I did not recognize myself. Really yep, look at

560
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: me on the circle type in clotheage the circle and

561
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 2: you will see a completely different that I. Honestly, my

562
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 2: dad cried, had an intervention and was like Chloe. It

563
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 2: was like the height of my diction as well, like

564
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 2: I was just small it and just I.

565
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 3: Did the malady was on me.

566
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: I was injecting everywhere and then didn't recognize, but didn't

567
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 2: recognize myself. Took the lashes off, dissolved all the filler,

568
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 2: and then now one of my lips is uneven.

569
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 3: I just get it plumped. Yeah. I love getting my

570
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 3: lips done every now and again.

571
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love a nice pout. And then what your

572
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: go to when it comes to like, let's do makeup

573
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 1: and then skincare because your skin is like glass.

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00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

575
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 2: Okay, the reason why my skin looks like glass is

576
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: because of my makeup settin spray. So I use Elf

577
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 2: jew Elf Dewy missed. It's a little blue bottle. It's tiny.

578
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: It's a fine spray. I couldn't ever go to anything else. Really,

579
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 2: you have to pat it down. Sometimes it has oil

580
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: in it, so you basically do your makeup ad the powder.

581
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 2: Your face looks cake yep, whether you want the smooth

582
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 2: look or the dewy look. On the days I want dewey,

583
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 2: I coat my face in it. It's like oil and

584
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: it like smelts all your makeup together, and it's like, oh,

585
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 2: chef's kiss.

586
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: And then all you do is part with the finger. Yeah, dude,

587
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: I'm getting it.

588
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 2: And sometimes if it's too oily like it is right now,

589
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 2: like around my mouth, I'll just get a powder puff.

590
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: And just I'm not getting oily at all. I'm buying it. Nope,

591
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 1: it's fantastic, do it. Thank you for doing the lightning

592
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 1: round and answering my beauty questions and then like literally

593
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: go and look at your face on the circle because

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00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: now I'm just very well, oh my human, and I'm

595
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: gonna buy the Elf Deuce Spray please do amazing. Thank

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00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 1: you guys for listening to another bonus episode of To

597
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: Give Them All Podcast. I'm gonna catch you guys next week.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye,