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Speaker 2: So but you know what, honestly, I'm not mad at

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Speaker 3: But who do you think, honestly, what black woman minus Oprah?

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Speaker 3: Like even like even her range of following like young

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Speaker 2: Who like what black women can you say has the same?

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, But we also don't know

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Speaker 2: what they do behind closed stores. But I'm not mad

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Speaker 2: corny and Donald Trump is a corny person that's now

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Speaker 3: Listening to Kim Kardashian talk anything remotely educated and palalytical is.

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Speaker 2: The most irritating.

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Speaker 3: It's just like listening to Connie talk about stupid shit.

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Speaker 3: It's just like stupid.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: hear like. I'm happy. I hope you continues to do it.

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Speaker 3: I hope if you fucking make a change, bitch, finally

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Speaker 3: do something important. You do have two black hands and

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Speaker 3: I'm with the agenda. But like listening to her talk

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Speaker 2: I think, yeah, when she was talking, she was like

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Speaker 2: is like, so how did it happen? Tell me what happened,

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Speaker 2: and she's like, well, well, I was at a photo shoot.

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Speaker 2: I was like I got the call and like it's

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Speaker 2: like okay, You're like, we didn't need to know you

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Speaker 3: what happened, like on pins and nails.

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Speaker 2: There's just so much.

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Speaker 3: It's just so you know, I'm just like, shut the

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Speaker 3: fuck up, please get to the point. Shit, I can

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Speaker 3: in my head, I could totally hear fucking Her and

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Speaker 3: Kanye in the bed like having these deep, shallow discussions

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Speaker 3: and circles, and I'm like, oh god, they're perfect.

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Speaker 2: For each other.

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Speaker 3: Her, Kanye and fucking Trump are fucking best friend circle.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, speaking of friend circles.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of friend circles, today's episode is about maybe a

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Speaker 2: few things, but we want to focus song what not

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Speaker 2: to do as a friend, what you don't do in case.

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Speaker 3: You bitches needed. We want you to be able to

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Speaker 3: gentify a bad friend. We want you to be able

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Speaker 3: that you do the friend code, the friend code.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, basically that being one of them, being the biggest

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Speaker 2: friend stay stay friends with your ex? Like would your

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Speaker 2: best friend stay friends? Yeah? Is that okay? Are there

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Speaker 2: different reasons? Are there different scenarios where it is okay

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Speaker 3: When you text me like I want to talk about this,

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Speaker 3: I was like, what are we gonna talk about?

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Speaker 2: Because the answer is just fuck no. I was just

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Speaker 2: like no, duh, Like why are you talking about? Like?

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Speaker 2: What else are we gonna say? Because it's so clear? Well,

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Speaker 2: I think some people might disagree. Does she have a vagina?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I mean, it's a girl. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's like I mean, I'm sure there's some people that

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Speaker 2: their friends' exes okay and can and justifies it and

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Speaker 3: Okay, Let's let's go over the justifications because this is

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Speaker 3: what I said. These were my first questions. Were they

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Speaker 3: friends with your ex before you? Were they best friends

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Speaker 3: with your ex before you? And those were the only

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Speaker 3: questions related. Are their cousins? Isn't our brother? These are

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Speaker 3: the only circumstances in which it may be.

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Speaker 2: Okay because it's still questionable. Some cousins you don't need

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Speaker 3: And especially I think one of the biggest things the

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Speaker 3: like mature breakup and we just parted our ways, fine,

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Speaker 3: you know you have you've developed friendships with people over

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Speaker 2: That's natural. But other than that, like you know what

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Speaker 3: I just said, well, how they broke up, how they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think all those play effactor for me.

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Speaker 2: It's like I feel like, why, why do you want

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Speaker 2: and well they kind of knew each other before, but

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Speaker 2: not really. It was more so like he didn't really

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Speaker 2: through so she didn't like introduce you to him. No, Okay,

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Speaker 2: So basically when we're in our relationship, my ex, whenever

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Speaker 2: became like our middle man, like she would like a therapist. Almost, yeah,

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Speaker 2: which happens. Which happens, But don't do that. If you're

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Speaker 2: doing that currently, stop that shit now because clearly that

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Speaker 2: means there's going to be a gray area. There's a

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Speaker 2: lot of gray areas there, and some people don't know

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Speaker 2: so they Yeah, so they have that relationship and like

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Speaker 3: A really I mean, for the most part, you want

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Speaker 2: Like I really enjoyed that my best friend and my

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Speaker 2: really relationship. Yeah for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not like crazy women here, not like don't

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Speaker 3: talk to my mind, No, I'm honest, Like borderline is

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Speaker 3: your man too, Like that's how I feel because I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, for sure, I was. I've always supported

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Speaker 2: jealousy at all. So then basically me and my ex

432
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 2: broke up a while ago, and I had a situation

433
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:02,359
Speaker 2: where I told her something and I believe that she

434
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 2: told him, and it caused a drama between me and him,

435
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 2: and so it was I'm thinking, like, why are you

436
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 2: telling him things that a or not his business?

437
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 3: And B you missed the part where you specifically told

438
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 3: her don't tell him, right.

439
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 2: And so let me just be really honest here. I

440
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 2: don't have proof that she told him, but she's literally

441
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 2: the only person I could have told him. So it's

442
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 2: one of those situations where you just know you know

443
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 2: what I mean.

444
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 3: And then when she confronted her about it, the answer

445
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 3: was did you tell X Y and z x Y

446
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 3: and Z.

447
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 2: And the answer was I don't think so, no, which

448
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,680
Speaker 2: means you're lying. Well, yeah, yes, I believe she's lying,

449
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 2: of course, But if your first thing is I don't

450
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 2: think so, and I specifically told you do not say

451
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 2: this information to this person, are you slow? No? Stupid?

452
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 2: I think I also caught her off guard, and so

453
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 2: she you know, I know when you are she intended

454
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,679
Speaker 2: on telling you like I slept up. I don't know

455
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 2: about all that, but when you catch anybody off guard,

456
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: their first reaction is to defend themselves, you know what

457
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 2: I mean? True, So and lie? Yeah, unfortunately sometimes yeah, yeah,

458
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 2: especially when you're wrong. Okay, So let you know you're wrong,

459
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,159
Speaker 2: and it's just because you're wrong with me. You're a

460
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: terrible person. But you need to think about all the

461
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: things you do, you know what I mean. So, I

462
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 2: mean I've done shit where I've been like oh yeah shit, yeah. Yeah,

463
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 2: but it's like I'm sorry, not like but just just

464
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 2: admit it. Yeah, admit it.

465
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, even after like you're one of your best friends

466
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 3: with someone. First of all, they've been like what was

467
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 3: it like twenty years? Yeah, I mean I've fallen out

468
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,120
Speaker 3: with my friend of twenty years and I'm bitter.

469
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not a bitter, but I'm like I

470
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 2: can hold on to some shit. And I was like,

471
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 2: I'm not speaking to her.

472
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 3: No, I didn't even say that, I'm not gonna speak

473
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 3: to her for like six months, eight months.

474
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: Or you put a time like you knew, Yeah, you

475
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 2: knew that you'd be back.

476
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, honestly, as spiteful as I am, and

477
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 3: as much as I don't forget, I'm very forgiving, Like

478
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 3: I genuinely. First of all, friends are hard to come by,

479
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 3: and once you've invested twenty years in a friendship, like

480
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 3: it's some past friendship, it's your sister.

481
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 2: Like I genuinely believe that.

482
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 3: So I'm not like and I'm coming to the place

483
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 3: like you accept people as they are, fuck ups and all,

484
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 3: and like that's a part of friendship.

485
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 2: So I didn't think I was never going to be

486
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 2: friends with that person.

487
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 3: There's things I said I would never do that I'm

488
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 3: doing now because obviously I'm over it.

489
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 2: But even this situation, I am really annoyed and I've

490
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 2: been like doing it. I love her, I still love her,

491
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 2: and like, I hope that we can work it out,

492
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 2: but right now we're in a place where it's not

493
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 2: we're not working it out, and so it's making me angry.

494
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 2: And I've tried to reach out to work it out,

495
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 2: and it's like, you know, she was she resists. She

496
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: was like showing me resistance towards trying to work it

497
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: out because she she felt attacked, you know what I mean.

498
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: And you know, I know that I reached out and

499
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 2: I was aggressive about it because I was angry. But

500
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 2: I also know that I'm right, you know, and so

501
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I absolutely think you're right. I think I

502
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 2: know that I didn't approach it correctly, and that's why

503
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 2: I try to reach out to her. And I was like, hey,

504
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 2: you know what, I should have done that, because she said,

505
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 2: choose did you tell so?

506
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 5: Then?

507
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so then let me get finished the story. So

508
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: I approached her. She denied it, then came back like

509
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 2: a few like that same day and was called me

510
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: and said like I spoke to him, which annoyed me,

511
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 2: and was like and he said that you you did

512
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 2: blah blah blah and this and da da da da dah.

513
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I don't I don't I didn't tell him.

514
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 2: I don't think I told him. I don't think it

515
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 2: wasn't it wasn't like it was. It wasn't like I

516
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,719
Speaker 2: definitive I did not tell him. It was like, I

517
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 2: don't remember telling him. So so anyway, so then I

518
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I really need you to

519
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 2: make a decision. I was like, you know, I'm I'm

520
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 2: not really the type of person that makes people choose friends,

521
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 2: but in this particular situation, it's getting messy. I feel

522
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 2: like it's being messed. Like this situation is so Me

523
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 2: and my ex broke up in September. It's almost been

524
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 2: a year, close to a year, but it's still fresh,

525
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 2: you know. I deal with this every single day, with

526
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 2: like dealing with him and my daughter and trying to

527
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 2: work on our friendship. And it's not easy, and we

528
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 2: have really bad days and we have okay days and yeah,

529
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 2: and it's like I you know, anyway, So I just

530
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 2: was like, I need you to make a choice. Are

531
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 2: you my friend or you his friend? Because you've been

532
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 2: my friend for twenty years and I just don't think

533
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 2: that there's no reason for you to be friends. I

534
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 2: don't understand your friendship. I was like, does he call

535
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 2: and check in on you? Like, I don't get why

536
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 2: it's necessary for you to be friends with him? And

537
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 2: then she said fit do you Oh this was later,

538
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 2: so then she was like, well, I don't really, I

539
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: don't me and Freddie have a friendship. I don't understand ed.

540
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, I think you need to

541
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 2: think about it, and then we got kind of got

542
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: off the phone. She said she apologized for me being

543
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 2: mad at her. She texted you that. No, on the phone,

544
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 2: She's like, well, I'm sorry, I feel like you're mad

545
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 2: at me, but like I'm sorry if you're mad at me,

546
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 2: not like I'm sorry for me, but I'm sorry about it.

547
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 2: So anyway, we didn't talk for like maybe a month

548
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 2: after that because I was like pissed and just confused.

549
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: And then like maybe like a month and a half,

550
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 2: that's when I reached out to her and said, you know,

551
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 2: like I was thinking about her, and I was like,

552
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 2: you know what, I should apologize for how I came

553
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 2: at her, but like let's just move past this, you know.

554
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 2: And so then she texted me back and was like,

555
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 2: you know you everything is not about you. You make

556
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 2: everything about yourself. You haven't come and visited me out here.

557
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,959
Speaker 2: She doesn't live in LA and uh, you even come

558
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 2: visit me out here, and you know, I feel really

559
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 2: insulted you would question me and your baby daddy's friendship.

560
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 2: We went through this near death experience. They went through

561
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 2: a near death experience. A good car accident. No, his

562
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: show got shot up. It sounds really, so I don't know.

563
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 3: Her, and I don't like, I'm sure I'll meet her

564
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 3: eventually and it's gonna be like, yeah, I'm giving you

565
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 3: a really bad version of who she is because she's

566
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 3: actually a cool person, but this situation is not cool.

567
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 2: Those sound like excuses to me.

568
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 3: You went through a near death experience because the show

569
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 3: got shot up.

570
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: Girl, Like, yeah, you actually put you in danger girl.

571
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: So then anyway, I was like, okay, whatever, I like,

572
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: was like I read all that and I was like, okay, girl,

573
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,399
Speaker 2: I can't. I was like, anyway, so she do want

574
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 2: to talk or no? And then she was like I

575
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 2: don't know, no, no, and then she's like, okay, we

576
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: can talk on Saturday. Saturday came around, I was like,

577
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 2: what time? She never hit me back? Hit me back

578
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 2: a week later, Hey, sorry, I've been busy with school

579
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: schedules of conversation. She wanted to schedule it and lives

580
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 2: on a busy bitch, so yes, I am. So then

581
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 2: she never reached back out, and so I felt like

582
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 2: I reached out twice, she didn't reciprocate, and I'm cool.

583
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 2: So then fast forward to a few days ago, I

584
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 2: asked baby Daddy pouring one. Yes, I'm good. I asked

585
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: baby Daddy, Hey, have you talked to so and so?

586
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 2: And he was like, yeah, I talked to her like

587
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: two days ago. She's moving back to La Da Da

588
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 2: Da Da. Daddy like had all this new information about

589
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 2: my best friend who's talking to my baby daddy, And

590
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: I just felt away about that. It really pissed me

591
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 2: the fuck off. I'm actually getting angry right now thinking

592
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: about it. I think you agree, I would agree, Like,

593
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 2: but who's your friend? Like what the fuck?

594
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 3: Yeah?

595
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 2: I think it's weird. Why do you know more about

596
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 2: my best friend? And she's like deliberately not really still

597
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 2: talking to you, And I just I don't know. It

598
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,959
Speaker 2: just did not sit with me right, And I just

599
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: feel really uncomfortable about that whole situation, like, you know,

600
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 2: like especially because our relationship, me and my baby dad's

601
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 2: relationship did not end well and it was not my fault.

602
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 2: It was his fault, and it has been something that

603
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 2: he you know, he cheated so many times and been disrespectful,

604
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 2: and like for me, it's like, why would you want

605
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: to be friends with someone? Yeah, it's I'm not saying

606
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 2: that Baby Daddy is not is not him the same

607
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: Baby Daddy is. I'm not saying he's not a good person.

608
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 2: He definitely has to work on a lot of shit,

609
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 2: but still, like, why would you want to still parley

610
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: with someone who's hurt your best friend?

611
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 3: Repeatedly, I don't get it. I honestly don't get it.

612
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 3: So it's hard for me to give you.

613
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 2: Like, so for those of you out there, do you

614
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, like, am I shripping? Like I feel

615
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: like I'm not tripping. I'm trying to not be an

616
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: angry person, and I feel that this situation is making

617
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 2: me angry. I feel the angry and that's why today

618
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 2: I told baby Daddy. I was like, hey, so, do

619
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: you have spacing your garage? And he was like what?

620
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: And this was that lunch after my daughter's recital, and

621
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: I was really tired and I was kind of one

622
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 2: and pissy and bitchy, and he was like, yeah, I

623
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 2: got space.

624
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 3: Why?

625
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 2: And I was like, so you got space for boxes?

626
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: He's like yeah. I was like, so you can put

627
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: so and so ship in your garage. He was like,

628
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: what do you mean. I'm like, her ship's been in

629
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: my garage for two years.

630
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 3: I've clearly you guys are the best fucking friends, so

631
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:18,959
Speaker 3: maybe she needs to transfer.

632
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, because she's your He was

633
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: like okay, And I was like, is that my problem? Wait?

634
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: Did you proceed to put the shit in this car? No,

635
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 2: it's in my garage. I was like. I was like,

636
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 2: I was like, because that's your friend. And then he

637
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 2: got really quiet and then he got mad at me.

638
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: Kind of why. I don't know, because he did. I

639
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 2: could just tell he got mad. He didn't like get mad.

640
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 2: He didn't want he doesn't want to be in an

641
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 2: awkward situation. He isn't. And I was like, am I wrong?

642
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: And he's like, I don't want to talk about it

643
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 2: right now? And I'm like why He's like I don't

644
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: want to talk about it right now. I was like, okay, good,

645
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: because there's nothing to talk about. You're getting it. I'm

646
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: putting it in the trunk. And I feel like I'm

647
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: being petty. I know I'm being paid. Actually I don't

648
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,959
Speaker 2: think it'd being that petty. I think it's kind of petty,

649
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 2: but I'm And although I followed her, I have followed

650
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 2: a friend because she like I wonder her pictures popped

651
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 2: up on my instant and I've been and I've been

652
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 2: stewing in this, like I've been stewing in all of

653
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 2: this and just pissed me off. And I was like,

654
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm lovely her. I was like, oh my god, it's so.

655
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 3: Like, no, I don't twenty eighteen. I've done it. I've

656
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 3: literally done it. So I think that you're right. You know,

657
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 3: I would tell you if you're wrong. I don't know

658
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: her personally, so I'm judging, yeah.

659
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: You are. I mean, I mean, I know because and

660
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 2: that's rightfully so, because you don't know her that whole person,

661
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 2: So I'm not.

662
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 3: But I also my other question to her was like,

663
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 3: do you think she has a crush on this nigga?

664
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: Because that is but I know, I know, probably not,

665
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 3: But like from a person from the outside linking in,

666
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 3: these are questions that I would ask because even when

667
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 3: we're telling her, she's like, what is she like trying

668
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 3: to do him? They mess around before and obviously no,

669
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 3: but those are the type of things that starts to

670
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 3: like linger because I don't, what do you want to be.

671
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 2: Friends with them? So bad? For he's not that cool?

672
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't feel that way. I don't get

673
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: that from me.

674
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,479
Speaker 3: No, you know, we're water signs. You're you're like low

675
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 3: key's psychic, so you would know. No, it's true until

676
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: all my my new boyfriends, I'm psychic, so don't try me.

677
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think so that's not the vibe I get.

678
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: I just feel like I don't know. I don't know anyway. Yeah,

679
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 2: so that's a friend. That's a friend. No No, in

680
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 2: my opinion.

681
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 3: Wait, let me tell you about my friend. No no,

682
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 3: because it's hilarious. I have a friend. I'm actually friends.

683
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: With her brother more.

684
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: But whatever, we developed like friendship, like a pretty very

685
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: close friendship.

686
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 2: I was in her wedding first of all. I was.

687
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 3: She told me I was in her wedding. Then like

688
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 3: months before the wedding comes up, I'm like, yo, am

689
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 3: I still in the wedding. You haven't told me anything?

690
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: And she's like, actually, I didn't know if he'd be

691
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 3: able to do it. And I'm like, okay, that's weird,

692
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 3: Like why even tell someone you're in the wedding to

693
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: begin with. And then she tried to blame like my

694
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 3: baby's daddy, like you have all this stuff going on

695
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 3: with your own baby's son. I'm like Okay, whatever, bitch weird,

696
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 3: but okay, I'm like, but I've been turned bit like,

697
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 3: how are you gonna tell me I'm gonna be in

698
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 3: your wedding?

699
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: And then like a month before tell me I'm not.

700
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 2: But whatever. But she just like was she drunk one night?

701
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 3: And it's like no, no, no. If she wasn't drunk,

702
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: she was like, you're definitely. It was like, you're definitely

703
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 3: gonna be in the wedding. And I was like, okay, whatever,

704
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 3: we're she wouldn't be my wedding. I'll be honest. I

705
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,479
Speaker 3: didn't think that then, so I wasn't no sweat off

706
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 3: my brow, but then I fucking.

707
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: I.

708
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 3: Anyway, we ended up going to a bachelor party, bachelorette

709
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 3: party the bitch that was supposed to be in the wedding.

710
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 3: They get into it because the bitch is like a

711
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 3: real bad mom and she would like take her baby

712
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 3: and she's like a little scripper. She'd be like posted

713
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 3: shripper pictures that's in the in the locker room, and

714
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 3: then like one picture of her daughter every fourteen posts.

715
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: She's just like, you know, the some holes are just hoes.

716
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Whatever, that's not my friend.

717
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 3: Anyway, So the bitch was on the bachelotte party wanting

718
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 3: to go to the club because she's a hoe and

719
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 3: there was like a basketball player there and my friend

720
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 3: was like my yeah whatever. Friend in air quotes, it's like,

721
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 3: we're not going to the club tonight. I already spent

722
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 3: five grand on like the day party. We're all tired. Anyway,

723
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: the girls proceeds to go, she flips out, kicks her

724
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 3: out the wedding, kicks her off the fucking bachelorette party,

725
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 3: and then it's like, Jamilla, you're in. So I'm like, okay,

726
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 3: the keep in mind the wedding is literally doing makes

727
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 3: me get away when she's on my managed to pay

728
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 3: for it. Wait you have there's like a hair cot

729
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 3: for her. She literally picks people that like would look good.

730
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 3: So this is this lets you know, like she doesn't

731
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 3: have a lot of friends because she's difficult. She's very

732
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 3: like I've never been more afraid of a friend. Like

733
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 3: she can cuss anybody out in a pulp, like so quickly.

734
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: It's very admirable. Like she's very honest, Like she's good,

735
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 2: she's a good Oh.

736
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: You she'll wreck you, like in an instant I'm almost

737
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 3: nervous to go places with her because she will wreck

738
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 3: you in an instant.

739
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: And one time she we.

740
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: Were in Vegas at that same bachelotte party and there

741
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 3: was like she's a mean bitch. There were someone like

742
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 3: kind of fat next to her. She's like, Yo, you're

743
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 3: too fat to be that close to people. You need

744
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 3: to back the fuck up. You need to find like space.

745
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,959
Speaker 3: She's just like a mean ass, like she can be

746
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,720
Speaker 3: like a bitch, so but she's also like a sweet

747
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 3: heart person, like she do anything for anyone.

748
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: It's like a weird, okay, weird thing.

749
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 3: Anyway, it's fucking hilarious when I think of it. Like

750
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 3: a couple of months ago, it was International Women's Day.

751
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 3: So I got drunk one night at my house and

752
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 3: I started, like, first of all, I copied Erica because

753
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 3: I saw this bitch do it on her answer story,

754
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 3: Like good idea. Start screenshatting bitches all my friends International

755
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 3: Women's Day, adding him. The next morning, at six o'clock

756
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 3: in the morning, bitch texts me some mean as shit

757
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 3: like that's why you're struggling, you're lazy, used INKM you

758
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 3: did it intentionally. I'm like, I intentionally didn't include you

759
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 3: on my social so I was like, so a cough.

760
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 2: But I was like, it's six o'clock in the morning.

761
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 2: But she was mad that you didn't post her on

762
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 2: your International Women's Day posts. It's like women that you

763
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 2: love or whatever. Yeah, that's the stories. Keep in mind.

764
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 3: I also didn't like post my I also didn't post

765
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 3: my mom because I literally got drunk.

766
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: There was people. The next day, I was like, I

767
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: posted her. I don't even think about this bitch.

768
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 3: But so she sent me this long post about all

769
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 3: this evil shit. First of all, okay, and we can

770
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 3: be background. She is a smart girl. She has a degree,

771
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: but she chose to be a dancer. She met a rich,

772
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 3: older Caucasian man. Oh she met him stripping yeah. Oh

773
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 3: and god ended up marrying him. I don't for the benefits.

774
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 3: It's like not even a secret, not to him, not

775
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 3: to anyone. It's like I'm making.

776
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 2: My life like she's she tells him like, what the

777
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 2: fuck do you think this is? Like you can't. She's

778
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 2: so straightforward. She'd be like she runs him. Yeah, you

779
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: can't embarrass me. This is why I'm with you, like

780
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 2: for you to pay. So I didn't have kids she.

781
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,919
Speaker 3: Thought about it, but she also thinks he's crazy because

782
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 3: he makes her fucking miserable because it's she's not in love.

783
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 2: I think at one point maybe she could have been.

784
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 3: I mean, anyway, bitch gets a lot of money on

785
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 3: a regular basis from this dude, like a lot for them.

786
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: There's like absolutely nothing, and.

787
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 3: So for her to be calling me lazy, I'm like, bitch,

788
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 3: you didn't even try to start her business with this

789
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 3: surplus of money you get every month, you absolutely do nothing.

790
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 2: So I was like, it's six o'clock in the morning,

791
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 2: it's international.

792
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 3: I think you're taking International Women's Day and Instagram a

793
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 3: little too seriously and yeah, like.

794
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 2: So what happened did you tell her? How did you

795
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: respond to her? Girl? That was it? It's it's six am?

796
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 2: Or are you kidding me? It's nice to know? Which good? Nice?

797
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 3: How nice to know how you feel about our friendship

798
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: at the end, and I, you know, and then I

799
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 3: and then she wrote more like you did it intentionally

800
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 3: to that and I.

801
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 2: Liked it by mistake, you know, like my life phone

802
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 2: even like girl. But then I smoked weed and then

803
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: I felt really bad for her. I was like, wow,

804
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: like you were.

805
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: Like looking through my insistor and you're waiting for your

806
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,720
Speaker 3: face to pop up, like that's really that's actually gonna

807
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 3: Like I felt bad, like I am a bad friend.

808
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, like that that was fucked up.

809
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: Oh no, I felt oh no, I thought you meant

810
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,479
Speaker 2: the other way because I felt bad because she needs

811
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 2: that validation. Felt so bad both.

812
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: I felt bad that you need the validation and I

813
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 3: felt bad that it hurt you so much, you know

814
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, and she's done things for me

815
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: because she's not doing anything else. But like at an offering,

816
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 3: you're like you have real conversations with your girlfriends, and

817
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 3: it's like, bitch, this is going on in my life

818
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 3: and like whatever.

819
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 2: But then like I don't like people who throw shit

820
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 2: in your face, like you don't.

821
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 3: First of all, bitch, I'm gonna thirty year old bitch

822
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: like I've been doing my life, my whole life by myself,

823
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 3: Like I don't get help from nobody, So you can't

824
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 3: throw anything in my face because I will cut you

825
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 3: off as I have and I will continue. So anyway,

826
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 3: I ended up getting high this again. Weed is my

827
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 3: best friend because I like, at first I was pissed.

828
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 2: I was gonna go in, like, how are you gonna

829
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,320
Speaker 2: call me lazy? You actually don't do anything.

830
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 3: You actually married someone so that you could be lazy, right,

831
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 3: But like whatever, And I ended up smoking weed and

832
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,919
Speaker 3: I was like, I didn't apologize, but I like try

833
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 3: to like post some other people, and then I posted

834
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 3: her post. I ended up doing it the next day.

835
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 3: I was like, my crazy ass friend, but no, and

836
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 3: we've tried. She pushed me a happy Mother's Day and

837
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 3: shit whatever, and I had to think, like it does

838
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 3: it matter to me that much?

839
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 2: It doesn't.

840
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 3: I still love her. I knew she was crazy before

841
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 3: I've been known she was crazy. She's very crazy, so

842
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 3: I'm not that mad. But yesterday was National Best Friend Day.

843
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 3: Also I followed her. I didn't follow her, so yes

844
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 3: she was National best Friend Day. So I started posting people.

845
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 3: But never was like, I don't have pictures everybody. I

846
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 3: don't feel I got a lot of friends, and I whatever.

847
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 3: I just I just feel reasons to post it anyway.

848
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 3: She wrote like a subliminal like, first of all, I

849
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 3: stop following her. Some my two other friends showed me.

850
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 3: But it's like Beyonce is laying in a pool, and

851
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: it's like, this is me and my million dollar home,

852
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 3: not giving a fuck about friends, National friend Day and

853
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: fake ass bitches who are posting this like some other shit.

854
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 2: It's like, well, that's the thing she thought she could

855
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 2: buy her friendships and she's seeing that no one cares

856
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 2: if you're a terrible person. Sounds like she's kind of it.

857
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 2: She's not a terrible person, but she is a mean person.

858
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: I mean that's kind of terrible. Rite Like how much

859
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: like when you are sitting next to a fat person,

860
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: you fat shame somebody or a large person, excuse me,

861
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 2: Like and you and you are fat shaming them? Like

862
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 2: that sounds like a pretty terrible person. She's not a

863
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 2: terrible she's just like she got some shit to work out.

864
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: She does, she does, and like everybody else, like everybody else,

865
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 3: you know, that's the whole thing. Like with friends, you

866
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 3: got to accept people as they are and we all

867
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 3: have shortcomings, like I ain't perfect, You ain't perfect, Like

868
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 3: there's things about myself that I'm working on, as our people.

869
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 3: But when you choose to be friends with someone or

870
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 3: not working on or not not, you be just.

871
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 2: Me and general I always say we're gonna work on

872
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 2: some shit and then it takes like four hundred years. Yeah, yeah,

873
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 2: we'll get there.

874
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 3: But I mean, I don't know. I think there's like

875
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 3: a scale. What do they see, like a sexuality scale.

876
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 3: There's a scale because people are weird. People are weird

877
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 3: and they have different things. And I've learned I'm trying.

878
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 3: I'm really sensitive. I'm a cancer and it's like my downside,

879
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 3: but I'm like tough on the outside.

880
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 2: Sensitive and the sentence. Okay, so this girl that I'm

881
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 2: my best friend, she's a cancer and I'm a scorpio.

882
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 2: So that's why I know I probably stung her real

883
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: qol right right fa, and that's why she's like because

884
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 2: I have another scorpio.

885
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 3: Like we're really close and like sometimes I'm like, gets

886
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 3: so annoyed with her and I'm like, but then I

887
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 3: get over it. So that's you know, It's like because

888
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 3: scorpios can't be sharp ass times, and cancers can too.

889
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 2: It just takes a lot, a lot, a lot, I

890
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 2: think cancers for me and what I've noticed, well, I'm

891
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 2: not with you yet because I'm still we haven't had

892
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 2: an argument yet. Hopefully we never do. I feel like

893
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 2: cancer sometimes I should judge all of you guys. But

894
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 2: you guys want people to know what you're thinking. I'm

895
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 2: not that camp. I mean like you want us to

896
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: be able to read your mind. No, no, no, I'm pretty.

897
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 2: I'm pretty. I'll let you know. Ask me, I'll tell you.

898
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 3: But I'm also on the Gemini cusps, so I think

899
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: I have like a good balance of not fucking sensitive,

900
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 3: little crazy, a little crazy, little sound stuff, right.

901
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 2: Because I'm a little bit about that. Well, I'm a

902
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: double scorpio, so I'm just intense and when i'm mad, Well,

903
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 2: your face even Today's even Today's stars, like does she

904
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 2: want to do this?

905
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, that's just her face, Like no, no, no,

906
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 3: yeah she does. She's all about this life. She's just

907
00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 3: her natural thing.

908
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 2: This is really no, I'm not even kidding, like this

909
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 2: is Is this the theme for twenty eighteen? Are resting? No?

910
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 2: Because literally this week when I went to go do

911
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 2: my HSSON training, the lady was like she said something

912
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 2: about my face, and I was like, are you fucking

913
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 2: hitting me? You're like, how about it?

914
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 3: I was like, Felicia, you mean like I'm going through

915
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 3: all the people that have told me about my face

916
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 3: in the last like thirty days. But I'm like, yo,

917
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 3: is a bitch unhappy just my face that looks at it.

918
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: She was like, you know, just look like more pleasant

919
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 2: when you're listening. And I was like, well, like this

920
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 2: And because she like, she's literally I'm like digesting tons

921
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 2: of information from her, so I'm like trying. She wants

922
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 2: you to look happy while you're listening to her. Yeah,

923
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 2: she's like, you know, not just for HSCENT, just for

924
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: life in general. I didn't. I cannot believe the bitch

925
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 2: said for life in general. She's like because she likes

926
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 2: the woman who the woman who was stepped into the

927
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 2: role of growing our HSN business was also told this

928
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,399
Speaker 2: woman that she wants to like help groom me as

929
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 2: for it to be a CEO. So these are the

930
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 2: CEO tips. Also, wow, I get it. I literally can't.

931
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 2: Did you write notes? Because I can't wait to look

932
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 2: them over. I'm like, I feel like a freak. That

933
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 2: was the first and only note that I really truly

934
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 2: listened to. No, I mean that was like a behavioral note.

935
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 2: It's only behavioral body language.

936
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 3: I cannot believe she's an in life in gen not

937
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 3: just rach in life and she's like an old white lady.

938
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 2: It's like etiquette school. No, she's really cool. She's really

939
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 2: she's like from Atlanta, Georgia. Okay, but she's lived in

940
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 2: New York or like for like ten years in Pennsylvania,

941
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 2: but now she lives in North Carolina. Husband, but no,

942
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 2: she's really cool. But I'm just like, wow, this is

943
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 2: the thing, this is the thing in my warmth in

944
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 2: my face, Oh my god. Anyway, but anyway, yeah, I

945
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 2: don't know where we left off with your friend.

946
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 3: But well, she's crazy and and even like that comment,

947
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 3: like the subliminal. First of all, I don't do subliminal

948
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 3: Instagram fucking posts unless it's like someone I don't care

949
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 3: call I.

950
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 2: Just but like, yeah, it's stupid.

951
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 3: People are stupid, and you gotta be able to put

952
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 3: limits on what you can which you're willing to accept,

953
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 3: Like can I don't need you as a.

954
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 2: Friend, but I want you?

955
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 3: Is it too more than like more hassle than it

956
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 3: is like fun? And that's the thing, is like I

957
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 3: love her, I do. I still love her. I'm gonna

958
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 3: always love her. Like she's great too, Luna, she loves Luna.

959
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 3: I wouldn't even like hold it against her, But every

960
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 3: time I'm around her, she's just like I'm set, like

961
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 3: I'm hypercented not to piss her off because I don't

962
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 3: feel like dealing with her piss offness. And then she's

963
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 3: unhappy because she's married to someone she's unhappy with.

964
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 2: And I'm sitting here like listening to all your shit.

965
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 3: But then like when it's when we're talking about it,

966
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: like you, when I'm talking about my real shit, where

967
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 3: I'm not making like twenty grand every month for doing nothing,

968
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 3: you can't you're not understanding.

969
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 2: But like bitch used to hustle. It used to be stripping.

970
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 3: Not that I'm stripping, but you know, a hustle is

971
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 3: a hustle, and I don't knock any strippers.

972
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 2: You know, do what you gotta do.

973
00:43:55,920 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 3: But even at be married for money, I'm honestly, she

974
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 3: was crazy when she dated for love, so I think

975
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 3: it's actually a good mutual and he's crazy to her husband,

976
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 3: so it's like basically a perfect fucking couple. But it's just,

977
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 3: you know, you gotta be kind to your friends, you

978
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 3: gotta be conscious of yourself, and you gotta love people,

979
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 3: and you gotta be like you can't just be saying

980
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 3: anything to everybody because you're fucking sensitive and hurt, like

981
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 3: they used your words, like I tell Lenna.

982
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 2: Use your words. So sometimes friends gotta get cut off.

983
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 3: Girl. And I told Erica this, and I'm not saying

984
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 3: this about your twenty year friendship. Obviously you guys you're

985
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 3: not gonna stop being friends.

986
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 2: But we might have to hear this talk about me.

987
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 3: But you know, you grow out of friendships, you grow up,

988
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: you grow out of people, and that's okay, and I

989
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 3: have to accept that, Like it's okay, it's okay, and

990
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 3: it's okay to accept. Like even me and my best

991
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,280
Speaker 3: friend got into it last year for like this is someone.

992
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 3: We were like, we're like lesbians about the.

993
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 2: Sex and about what without the sax. Yeah, Like we're

994
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 2: like we're like always becoming codependent.

995
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 3: And I told Erica I should probably not repe this

996
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:03,879
Speaker 3: really stupid colm I made last episode, But we got

997
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 3: into it because like two guys we knew, drank a

998
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 3: gallon of Hennessy on fucking Thanksgiving and then got into

999
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 3: a fight.

1000
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 2: In her house. Nothing got broken. Actually my friend got

1001
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 2: beat the fuck up.

1002
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 3: Actually this friend is this pertains the episode because the

1003
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 3: friend I brought is actually my baby's daddy's friend that

1004
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 3: I met him through. But in my defense, as first

1005
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 3: of all, my baby daddy did me wrong, so I

1006
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 3: don't really give a fuck what you think.

1007
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,879
Speaker 2: And second of all, I feel like.

1008
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 3: Our friendship was month, like we had a closer friendship

1009
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 3: and we had grew grown a closer friendship than they

1010
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 3: really had, and I could see it, but.

1011
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 2: Clearly I was the only one.

1012
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 3: But they anyway, these two guys got in a fight

1013
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 3: because they drank a gallon of Hennessy.

1014
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: First of all, my friend is not black and only

1015
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 2: dates the black.

1016
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 3: Guys, okay, and then got mad at me for happening

1017
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: when my friend I brought got beat up and I

1018
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 3: was like, you want to date black guys your whole life,

1019
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 3: but you don't know that niggas and Tennessee can sometimes

1020
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 3: equal and tragedy. Yeah, so you want to be black

1021
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 3: eyes and you want to get mad at me because

1022
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 3: they got in a fight, But like, how about these

1023
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 3: two grown men? And I was like, Okay, this is

1024
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 3: like a black role thing, and I know I shan't

1025
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 3: say that, shouldn't say that, and I know it's not real,

1026
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 3: like we're all human, we're the human race.

1027
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: But like that's the like a low key black role.

1028
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 3: Don't bring Gallon Hennessy and think niggas my nugget in

1029
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 3: a fight. That's for all our unblack followers too. Don't

1030
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 3: bring Gallon Hennessy with a bunch of niggas I don't

1031
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 3: know each other, because it could be a fight.

1032
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 2: It's like just it's like, don't bring Hennessy to the

1033
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 2: black party. Don't bring like tequila or vodka to the

1034
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 2: actually tequila to the white party, right, yeah, what's adequate

1035
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:45,839
Speaker 2: to like white boy wasted? Yeah, yeah, don't bring yagmeister,

1036
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 2: So that's sucking a white boy party. I just want broken,

1037
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 2: like the white boys to shirt's taken off.

1038
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 3: Right because no one plus one equals, to which I was, like,

1039
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 3: she's been winning every reason to not be my friend.

1040
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 2: And then you have to think about it.

1041
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes subliminally, subconsciously, people are harboring other things and then

1042
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 3: when something happens, that's there, that's their motivation to act

1043
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 3: on other harbored feelings, you know what I'm saying. But

1044
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: in general, because my friend's gonna listen to this, I mean,

1045
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 3: like I can't really brought this shit up again.

1046
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm a cancer again. I don't forget anything. But yeah, like,

1047
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: well you love each other. Oh h, it's my sister.

1048
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 2: Even my dad.

1049
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 3: I was like, I tell my dad, like, stop fucking

1050
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 3: calling her. She's not your daughter. Okay, you're getting confused again,

1051
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 3: whose side or you won? And then I was saying

1052
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 3: all my family members like, it's just a black thing,

1053
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 3: and they're like, no, it's not like whatever.

1054
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,760
Speaker 2: Jamala's a response to anything that she can't understand.

1055
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 3: Wait, I just don't get it. It's black, it's it's

1056
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 3: a black thing. It's a black thing. You don't get it.

1057
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,439
Speaker 2: I'm not racist, I swear to god.

1058
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:53,479
Speaker 3: I'm actually very broadly no, but I do feel about

1059
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:54,439
Speaker 3: the hennessy and shit.

1060
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 2: Anyway, do you have any other bad friend stories that

1061
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: you want to tell? I mean, I just would say

1062
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 2: like for me, like, to me, the definition of a

1063
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 2: good friend is someone who is like, you know, it's

1064
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 2: a give and take. It's not tit for tat. It's

1065
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 2: not like I did this for you, you did this

1066
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 2: for me, which I feel like that's what's happening in

1067
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 2: this situation. And like, you know, I feel like loyalty, Yeah, loyalty.

1068
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: And also I think communication just like it's just like

1069
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 2: a blood relationship. You need to communicate.

1070
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,280
Speaker 3: If just talk about your feelings, how do you feel,

1071
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 3: what's making you upset? It's very basic. But be adult

1072
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 3: enough in like actually like brave enough to talk. Cause

1073
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 3: then for friends, we should be able to discuss anything.

1074
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, just like ours. But I rescrying. Oh shit,

1075
00:48:54,880 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 2: it's no just press the space far Sorry about that.

1076
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 2: We're back, and I think we were just talking about

1077
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: friendships and what is important in having a productive one,

1078
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 2: because right now mine is not being very productive. But

1079
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 2: it's probably my fault too. I mean I've tried to

1080
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 2: reach out and communicate. Maybe I could reach out again,

1081
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 2: but it's it's your fault. I don't think so. I'm

1082
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: a place in my life where I just you know,

1083
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to preserve my energy if it feels like

1084
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: it's being taken away from me. I'm very selfish with it.

1085
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 2: I'm very and maybe to like a fault, maybe to

1086
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 2: a fault like I just she can't come in. It's okay,

1087
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: I think that come on by.

1088
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, for all our listeners that are like under thirty,

1089
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 3: I think it's like really big right now because it's like,

1090
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 3: I don't want to use any energy that I do

1091
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 3: not need for any reason.

1092
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 2: But also, if you're.

1093
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 3: Under thirty, you're thinking about like and you having similar feelings.

1094
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,439
Speaker 5: It's best to get in tune with yourself now and

1095
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 5: cut off people that are not good for you, serving you,

1096
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 5: serving you, period and a serving sounds People assume serving

1097
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 5: is such a like a negative like a negative thing,

1098
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 5: but like, okay, one second.

1099
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 2: No, it's just I mean, I guess I think people

1100
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 2: do have like the word serving has a negative connotation,

1101
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 2: but I just feel like it means like feeding your soul.

1102
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 2: You're supposed to She should be feeding your soul, he

1103
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 2: should being your soul, and vice versa. If you don't

1104
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: feel like it's.

1105
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 3: There's no benefit, you're not growing, You're not like there's

1106
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 3: nothing you're getting, You're not feeling like leaving these people

1107
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 3: feeling like I'm so glad I just spent some time

1108
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 3: with this person. I feel fulfilled. Then they can be

1109
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 3: cut off right, they're cut off able.

1110
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 2: And I have a friend like that that I definitely

1111
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 2: feel like that this friend in particular that I'm having

1112
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: this issue with, I don't feel like I don't feel

1113
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 2: like she needs to be cut off. I just feel

1114
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 2: like we're in a fight and she needs to pick

1115
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 2: a side. Yeah, well that's true. Can you crack that

1116
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 2: door a little bit little bit? Oh, we have a question. Okay,

1117
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,280
Speaker 2: So we have a question that we got from someone

1118
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: on our website. Yes, someone had a question for us

1119
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 2: on our website. Guys, we do have a website that

1120
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 2: you can ask those questions on.

1121
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 3: It's called Good Moms, Bad Choices dot com.

1122
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 2: Please come now this question.

1123
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 3: Go to the contact page and then you can choose

1124
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 3: to be anonymous or name anonymous or with your name,

1125
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 3: and then you can submit.

1126
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 2: And this person wanted to remain anonymous.

1127
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 3: Also, if you have any horries, please submit because eventually

1128
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 3: me and Erica, I know it's gonna sound crazy, we

1129
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 3: might run out. Probably not, but we help us out

1130
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 3: so we're not the only ones. Okay, this person said,

1131
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 3: please don't share my name. Ladies, I have a question

1132
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 3: for the show. I'm recently out of a seven year

1133
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 3: relationship that I feel might have contributed to the demand.

1134
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 3: I might have contributed to the demise due to letting

1135
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 3: my physical appearance go. Now that I realized that I wish,

1136
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 3: Now that I realize that I wish I would have

1137
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 3: told he would have told me that out of love.

1138
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: So the first question is no, no. The first question.

1139
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 3: Is would you be okay with the guy telling you

1140
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,280
Speaker 3: to slim down or his visual pleasure?

1141
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 2: For his visual pleasure or attraction?

1142
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 3: My second question is, since I've broken up, I'm really

1143
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 3: wanting to embrace my attraction to women. Growing up, my

1144
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,399
Speaker 3: guardian would have thrown the Bible at me, But being

1145
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 3: a molested child, I have always been attracted to girls,

1146
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 3: and I don't know if that had much to do

1147
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 3: with the attraction or not by the question by My

1148
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:37,240
Speaker 3: third question is in I'm in my mid thirties, potential maids,

1149
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 3: ladies and family take me serious? Will will potential mates,

1150
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,879
Speaker 3: ladies and family take me seriously? With a mid life

1151
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 3: change of teams? I know these are two These are

1152
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 3: long and two parts. Maybe answering them on two different shows.

1153
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. Oh no, we answer right now? Girl, okay?

1154
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 2: The first question said they let herself go and then

1155
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 2: what was the actual question? Is it okay? Would okay?

1156
00:52:58,280 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 3: The first question is would you be okay with the

1157
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 3: guy telling you to slim down for his visual pleasure

1158
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 3: or attraction? I think it's all about delivery. It's that's

1159
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,760
Speaker 3: major key finesse. It's called finesse.

1160
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 2: Do you have any I mean yeah, I mean of

1161
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 2: course you you. The question is did you feel good

1162
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 2: about yourself during that time? You know what I mean?

1163
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: Because if you felt good and you gain that weight,

1164
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 2: then that's all that matters. So then if he doesn't

1165
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 2: feel like you look good, that's a whole other issue.

1166
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:26,439
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, when you feel when you're

1167
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 2: feeling your best.

1168
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 3: I guess it's just like if a guy isn't like

1169
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 3: a short haircut and once you were long hair.

1170
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 2: Like sure, you know, like I guess, yeah, do you

1171
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 2: want to do that? Do you feel like you're not attractive?

1172
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 2: Do you feel like you don't look good? It's it's

1173
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 2: about you.

1174
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 3: It's really about you, and the man is just like

1175
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 3: a side dish.

1176
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 2: So I mean, I will hope my partner could be

1177
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 2: honest with me. I hope we can have like a loving,

1178
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:57,439
Speaker 2: like she said, conversation about it, not like a damn girl,

1179
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 2: you like look different, you need to lose some like,

1180
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 2: nothing like that. Yeah, I think there's a delivery. Like

1181
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: even I when I gained all my weight and my privacy.

1182
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 2: I gained seventy pounds that after I had I I

1183
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 2: still struggled to the forty pounds that I'd gained, And

1184
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 2: I don't my fiance at the time didn't voice that

1185
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 2: to me, but I think that I'm sure like there

1186
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 2: was a I mean, I don't know. I don't know

1187
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 2: how he felt about it. He never said anything to me,

1188
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 2: which almost was worse because I was like, what are

1189
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 2: you thinking? Like, I know you've known, I know the

1190
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 2: stomach looks different, but also.

1191
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:35,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think Also, no, no her nana so oh okay.

1192
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 3: She's used to telling her mom, so oh nana as

1193
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 3: a nibble, yeahanas nibble to the mom who breastfed for

1194
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 3: quaite too long.

1195
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 2: What we're gonna say, yeah, how you feel? Also, you

1196
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 2: have to be when the delivery happens.

1197
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 3: You got to be aware of you're being overly sensitive

1198
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 3: if you have let yourself go, if it and not

1199
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 3: even like physically a figure, if you've gained weight, but like,

1200
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 3: am I like getting us up for date night? You know, like,

1201
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 3: am I doing a little something extra? Because in a relationship,

1202
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 3: like shit gets comfortable and you do like sometimes you

1203
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 3: can let yourself go. But there was times I was like,

1204
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 3: how do you love me? I was like shit, But

1205
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 3: you know, so it has to go both way.

1206
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that necessarily. All is when you

1207
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 2: say let go doesn't always pertain to Wait, you know

1208
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 2: what I mean? You know who you were before you

1209
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 2: were a mother, and if you were that girl that

1210
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 2: got dressed and put that makeup on, and that was

1211
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: what made you feel good and then what attracted him

1212
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 2: to you, and then after that maybe you don't feel

1213
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: that good and maybe you don't do that anymore. Maybe

1214
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 2: that can help contribute to, you know, getting you feeling

1215
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 2: all and good again. But if that's who you are

1216
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 2: now and you're happy that way, you don't need the

1217
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 2: makeup anymore, then that's another that's a whole Nay, it's

1218
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: about how you feel. So the second part of the

1219
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 2: question is lotta racy.

1220
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 3: My second question is, since I've broken up, I'm really

1221
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 3: wanting to embrace my attraction to women growing up. Okay,

1222
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 3: my guardian would have thrown the Bible at me being

1223
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 3: molested child, I've always been attracted to girls. I don't

1224
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 3: know if that played much of a part in the

1225
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,720
Speaker 3: attraction or not. But my question is in my mid thirties.

1226
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:05,720
Speaker 2: May be taken seriously.

1227
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 3: Oh care cares as the fun. Do whatever you want

1228
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 3: to do. I mean, if you want to try one

1229
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 3: life to live and if you want to try some

1230
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 3: shit out, try it out and you might like it,

1231
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 3: you might not.

1232
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 2: But if you got to try it out. You can't

1233
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 2: live your life based on what your family and your

1234
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 2: friends are going to think of you. If you want

1235
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: to date women, then do that and you might not

1236
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 2: even like it. Who cares? And they don't even have

1237
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 2: to know, Like what nothing you have to keep secrets either,

1238
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 2: But it's just like do what you gotta do.

1239
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 3: You could do it a couple of times and see

1240
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 3: if you feel serious about it, you know, I mean,

1241
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 3: then you know it's nobody's business what you do. And

1242
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 3: if you feel like another thing, if you know it's

1243
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 3: the topic today. If you feel like someone's judging you,

1244
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 3: I mean sometimes it's family. It's not as simple.

1245
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 2: But you don't need.

1246
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 3: Friends that are gonna judge you. And you got to

1247
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,760
Speaker 3: tell people like yo, I don't care about your opinion.

1248
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 3: I wasn't asking when I want your opinion, I'll ask.

1249
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 2: You you dating a woman is not the end of

1250
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 2: the world. I guess some people would look at it

1251
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 2: as like, oh, you know, if you're like she said,

1252
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 2: her family would throw the Bible at her head. She

1253
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 2: had this idea, you know, when she was younger, in

1254
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 2: her youth, so you know, that's a whole different mentality.

1255
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 2: But like, you have to know that that is not

1256
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 2: the end of the world. You trying that out. If

1257
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: you're not going to hell, you'll be okay.

1258
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,439
Speaker 3: You will do You're definitely going to hell because God

1259
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 3: made everybody right and he's he likes whitty Man, and

1260
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 3: so do it sounds like.

1261
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 2: You are newly single. You might have just got your like, uh,

1262
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 2: Sellah got her groove back and you want to go

1263
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 2: have some fun, girl, Go do that please and come

1264
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 2: back and tell us how it was. Please submit some

1265
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 2: horries because we want to know. And if you're a

1266
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: first time listener, you don't know what a horry is.

1267
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: A horry is basically a horror story, and you can

1268
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 2: interpret that however you want. It could be a terrible

1269
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 2: sexual story, or it can be you being a horror

1270
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 2: and it's a story.

1271
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 3: And it's kind of funny and it was fun, or

1272
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 3: maybe it wasn't fun. Doesn't really matter. Everybody has some

1273
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 3: and we embraced them at Good Moms. We want to hear,

1274
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 3: we want to hear about them. We're gonna not gonna

1275
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 3: tell our say because our kids are getting old and listening.

1276
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 3: We're gonna and they won't leave us alone right now.

1277
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 3: So that's it. But oh, also back to the question

1278
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 3: about like the being molested and the Bible thing. I'm

1279
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 3: more of a spiritualist. I'm not like so I don't

1280
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 3: feel like you should let you're upbringing in the church,

1281
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 3: you know, change or persuade what you want to try

1282
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 3: and what you're obviously feeling you want to do. And

1283
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 3: also like being molested, I mean, I don't know if

1284
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 3: you're must be like a man or a woman.

1285
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 2: Not that it matters.

1286
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 3: Things happen to us in our lives, and especially as

1287
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 3: like teenagers or children.

1288
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 2: They play a part.

1289
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 3: In our adulthood, whether it be negative or positive. And

1290
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 3: that's just the reality of it. A lot of women

1291
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 3: have been molested and had like sexual abuse, and it

1292
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: does I mean, do you.

1293
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 2: Think that being molested contributes to your attraction to a

1294
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 2: certain sex? Sometimes and sometimes no.

1295
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 3: I was a major lesbian for a lot of years,

1296
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 3: and I will say, like ninety nine percent of the

1297
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 3: girls I dated had been molested by men, But I've

1298
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 3: had women that were never and they just didn't have

1299
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 3: a desire for dick and.

1300
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 2: I like girls, and I don't.

1301
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 3: I mean, like I was molested, like by an older

1302
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 3: kid kind of, so I didn't. I don't think it

1303
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 3: traumatized me. Maybe it did, or maybe I'm suppressing some memories.

1304
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 3: But every all I'm saying is everything that happens to

1305
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 3: us in our lives, good and bad, we have to

1306
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 3: recognize and we have to see how that affects us

1307
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 3: now and then we get past it.

1308
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 2: And you know, and that's a part of it, if

1309
00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:31,959
Speaker 2: it's exploring it, if.

1310
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 3: It's if it's you know, just don't let just don't

1311
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 3: let things that's happened to you and your lives dictate

1312
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 3: your adulthood and your future, your future, because you know,

1313
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 3: shit happens to everybody. And I'm not, you know, making

1314
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 3: it light.

1315
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 2: No, I mean, it's easier said than done, but obviously,

1316
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 2: but first step, the first step is recognition. If you

1317
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 2: can recognize that, then you're already making progress. Yeah, you

1318
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 2: know for sure.

1319
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you also like to want to fuck

1320
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 3: with women, you don't need to make an excuse for it.

1321
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 2: You could do whatever you want. You don't have to like,

1322
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 2: oh you know what I mean, Like just do what

1323
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 2: you want, yeah, because as your mom or your auntie,

1324
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 2: your uncle going to be in.

1325
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 3: The room with you, like at the end of we

1326
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 3: come in this bitch a loon and we go out alone, period,

1327
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 3: point blank. And if anything, if you look at this

1328
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 3: watching like seeing all the suicide attempts, like with that

1329
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 3: suicide attempt, successful suicides like Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain,

1330
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 3: and obviously.

1331
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 2: This happens every day. Like literally, life is short. Do

1332
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:29,959
Speaker 2: what you want to do, like if anything, like hold

1333
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 2: those people close that you love, love who you want

1334
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 2: to love, because you just don't know what can happen tomorrow.

1335
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 2: Like I think about this, like the volcano erupting in Guatemala,

1336
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 2: Like it's just such a freak accident, and those people

1337
01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 2: had no idea what was going to happen to them tomorrow,

1338
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 2: and now their lives are changed forever. Just do what

1339
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 2: you want to do, because life is short.

1340
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and teach your kids to do the same shit

1341
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 3: I teach you all that, Like do you want to

1342
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 3: wear that green wig in public?

1343
01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 2: Did you let her wherever you're I don't you want

1344
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 2: to wear that shit? Let's go. I don't care. I

1345
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 2: don't want you to grow up and be like, oh,

1346
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 2: Judy said, this isn't not a cute outfit. I'm not

1347
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 2: going to wear it. Do you dance like nobody's watching?

1348
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 2: And date who we want to love? And all that

1349
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 2: other shit. So that was a good question.

1350
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 3: I hope they answered it appropriately. And if anyone else

1351
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 3: has any more questions.

1352
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, please send them our away. We love your questions.

1353
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 2: It makes us have to think and it also helps

1354
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 2: me like walk through things that I'm.

1355
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 3: Going through right, like, oh yeah this is important, Yeah

1356
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 3: this happened to me or something.

1357
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, anything else you want to.

1358
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 3: Add today, my dear, I don't think so Erica's classy

1359
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 3: as is about to get her nails then at her

1360
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 3: house because she real world class.

1361
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 2: Just kidding. No, First of all, that's what I do

1362
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 2: for a living.

1363
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 3: I'm a mobile esthetician, so I'm all about the class yess. Yes,

1364
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 3: all right, Well, we love you guys very much, thank

1365
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 3: you for listening.

1366
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 2: And uh, we'll talk to you next week. Yeah, I

1367
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 2: want to say I will not be flying by guys,

1368
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 2: you still help with me? What about your friends?

1369
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 1: You understand Brown get you down?

1370
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 2: What about your friends?

1371
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: What about to be down beat me? I am a

1372
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 1: little too friends and so do thing I heetically say,

1373
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: can ride some my prits.

1374
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 2: Don't saying to one. Let's just say I can make

1375
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 2: it in a bit when.

1376
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 3: The results are not wanting to test, Tonay, can you

1377
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 3: tell me I'm to be next to me?

1378
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 2: Tell because I want something I don't know that