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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the Colo ready Colo?

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Speaker 2: Yes? All right?

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Speaker 1: This is from Aaron and Charleston.

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Speaker 3: Aaron writes, Ever since our bank account got bigger, my

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Speaker 3: wife got lazier. We have a housekeeper and she orders

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Speaker 3: meal prep and she gets her dry cleaning delivered as

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Speaker 3: soon as we make it, she spends it. We can

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Speaker 3: clean up and cook like we always like we've always done.

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Speaker 3: How do I get her to make wiser money choices

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Speaker 3: for our future?

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Speaker 2: Well? See, bra Uh, I'm assuming.

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Speaker 4: I'm assuming that your willingness to make more money as

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Speaker 4: so you all can live better? Or is your objective

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Speaker 4: to make more money so you can have more money?

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Speaker 4: Because let me tell you something about having money If

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Speaker 4: you don't use it, it's useless hmmm, Because I don't

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Speaker 4: know why you would make money just to have it

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Speaker 4: if you're not gonna put it to use.

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Speaker 2: Why are you working harder if you're not gonna live better?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: So that's that's my philosophy. Now, how do you get.

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Speaker 4: Your wife to uh make wilds of decision?

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Speaker 2: You can't. Ever, It don't happen, none of us can.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what the problem is.

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Speaker 4: Rash can't get no caller to make better decisions, Tasha,

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Speaker 4: she's making them, saying wild decisions. Yeah, all my daughters

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Speaker 4: make them, make the decision they mama's made them, and

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Speaker 4: you just got to deal with it.

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Speaker 2: Now, bruh, you're gonna make more money.

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Speaker 4: Just as long as y'all boat don't sink on these decisions.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you got to do a little bailing. Just gotta

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Speaker 4: bail the water out the boat. But as long as

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Speaker 4: they don't sink the boat. If she's not sinking the boat,

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Speaker 4: don't be overly concerned. I did that before. It's a

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Speaker 4: waste of time. So I really can't help you, brother.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: Moving on to Mona in Vegas, Mona Rights. I met

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Speaker 3: a man online. I met him at a hotel to

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Speaker 3: have sex. My husband followed me there and he stole

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Speaker 3: my car and put most of my clothes out. By

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Speaker 3: the time I got home the next day, I am

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Speaker 3: having to sue him to get my stuff.

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Speaker 1: How do I explain it to a judge? What you know?

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Speaker 4: First of all, ain't nobody in their thirty named Mola.

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Speaker 2: Sixty.

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Speaker 4: Now, Mola, you lucky, that's all that happened. You look

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Speaker 4: at that man they pull up in that hotel room. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and and and and bring Mohl then you can count on.

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Speaker 4: You can't do a man like that. It's nothing you

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Speaker 4: could say to a judge. What you gonna say? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you do you understand that you committed an immorl injustice

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Speaker 4: against your man to where he knew you was cheating

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Speaker 4: with the man. He followed you to the hotel, stole

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Speaker 4: your car, put all your stuff out, and that's.

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Speaker 2: All he did.

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Speaker 4: Listen, it's just time for you to move home. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you got busted and those are the consequences.

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Speaker 1: Mona, how did she get home? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Moving on to I'll tell you who didn't take a home?

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Speaker 1: Neither one of them. You're right, all right.

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Speaker 3: Moving on to Will and Loganville, Will writes, my wife

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Speaker 3: is a masseuse and her studio is in our sun room.

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Speaker 3: We've never had the discussion about her having male clients

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Speaker 3: in our home. At our home. I thought that was understood,

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Speaker 3: but it was not. How did she think it was

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Speaker 3: cool to have another man in my house?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I don't know how she thought that.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell you something I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what man goes over another man house

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Speaker 4: to take his clothes off, get on table.

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Speaker 2: I just I don't know no men like that. Because

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Speaker 2: if I'm going over.

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Speaker 4: This woman's house and she the masseuse I got this

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Speaker 4: is at your house?

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Speaker 2: You got a.

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Speaker 4: Family, y'all have a husband. Okay, do you make house calls?

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Speaker 2: Ma'am?

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Speaker 4: That's my next question, cause I'm not coming over your house.

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Speaker 4: Take my shirt off and lay down on this table

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Speaker 4: and he and there eating.

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Speaker 1: That's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 4: Right here, and that watching TV? He and that with

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Speaker 4: his boys the game on. No man, Yeah, that's backwards.

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Speaker 2: That's bad. Okay. Now who wrote the letter? The man

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Speaker 2: or the woman?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? The man will Hey.

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Speaker 2: Brod, you got rules at your house?

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Speaker 4: I don't know how you not. And you ain't bringing

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Speaker 4: no man and he ain't taking his clothes off in

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Speaker 4: my house.

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Speaker 2: That's not you need.

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Speaker 4: Do You gotta get a studio and you can bring

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Speaker 4: women in here. But until you get a studio, you

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Speaker 4: have only access to women.

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Speaker 1: Okay, question what okay, say she had a studio.

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Speaker 3: Are you still upset that she she she massages men

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Speaker 3: or should her clientele women?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You don't even like that, right, See, I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of it's weird, huh, even though it's.

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Speaker 3: She's a professional, so you don't even want her to

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Speaker 3: have male clients.

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying? I don't at.

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Speaker 1: The house in the studio nowhere. It's weird. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think it's kind of weird.

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Speaker 2: I'm in a different position, so let me just go

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Speaker 2: on and say it.

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Speaker 4: I make enough money where you ain't got the role

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Speaker 4: of nobody but me, let's just be clear about that.

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Speaker 1: Let's take that out.

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Speaker 4: Let's just say I'm talking from a real jaded perspective.

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Speaker 4: I might be a little bit more open to this hill,

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Speaker 4: but right, I just he ain't open to it, and

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Speaker 4: I ain't mad at.

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Speaker 3: It, and I don't honestly, I don't think any man

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Speaker 3: would be real cool with that.

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Speaker 1: You know, they've had some sort of jealousy or something

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 4: There's too many stories about a woman rubbing a man

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Speaker 4: and it don't go right. We ain't got a quarterback

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Speaker 4: now because it had.

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Speaker 2: Is this true, true, clean, clean brown. We can't. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna set up here paying all this money.

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Speaker 3: He okay, way right out of his job, all right?

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Speaker 3: Last one, guys, Beverly and Dover says, my husband died

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Speaker 3: in January. I just found out that he had a daughter,

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Speaker 3: and she's twenty two years old. My daughters are mad

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Speaker 3: at their dad and can't accept that he had an

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Speaker 3: outside child. I have forgiven him, but they can't. How

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Speaker 3: can they be mad at a dead man?

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Speaker 2: We got we got a big him up. He's dead

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Speaker 2: that you're mad at him? Fall he dad, and you

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Speaker 2: got a sister.

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Speaker 4: Now, you cannot be mad at the system because the

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Speaker 4: sister had nothing.

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Speaker 2: At all to do with this. She was just born

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Speaker 2: into this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so really you should embrace the system.

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Speaker 2: Now you can have your.

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Speaker 4: Little lips poked out about your daddy. But you know

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Speaker 4: that goes something my father used to always tell me.

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Speaker 4: He says, son, you could either get over it or

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Speaker 4: die mad. Now the person you mad at already did.

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Speaker 2: So what your next movie?

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Speaker 3: It doesn't feel like they're going to embrace the sister

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Speaker 3: and they're gonna stay.

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Speaker 2: Mad well, you know, and then they're gonna die just

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 3: No goodness, all right, clo, thank you. Coming up at

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Speaker 3: news for you right after this.

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