WEBVTT - Dealbreakers and Doctor’s Notes (RHOA Recap)

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<v Speaker 1>To Teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Jeedge.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and

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<v Speaker 2>a Prod with myself and Dolores, And today we are

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<v Speaker 2>recappying in the Real Housewives of Atlanta Season seventeen, Episode eight.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Delores, Good.

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<v Speaker 3>Morning, You're still alive.

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<v Speaker 1>They're growing in. What's going on? Like? I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I just put my extensions back in.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm got ready to rip mine out because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I normally go every six weeks and if I don't

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<v Speaker 2>make appointment while I'm getting it done, she gets booked up.

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<v Speaker 3>And sure enough, she got booked up.

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<v Speaker 2>Minor sagging like three inches, and I'm and I with

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<v Speaker 2>sensory shit. I want to take them out, but I

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<v Speaker 2>have shit to do, shit to do. I have a

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<v Speaker 2>confessional tomorrow, Andy Cohens, I do. Andy Cohen's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be in Newport Beach at Ledo Theater and all of

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<v Speaker 2>his girls are going to watch him there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh nice? Is it with.

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<v Speaker 2>Himself or he is with He's not with Anderson.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't believe, But.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't exactly know what's going on. I just show Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I have seen that one. I saw that and Kasta

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<v Speaker 2>mesa years ago. This one is something different. There's a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of different people are going to be there, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I can't just because if I take him out,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not going to be pretty dlorous.

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<v Speaker 1>No it's not. And then you feel frumpy. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>nice to feel your scalp.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 1>There's it's an orgasm. It's like an orgasm like for

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<v Speaker 1>my age orgasm like it's it's like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of ready to cut my hair shorter, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just afraid because every time I do it, I hate it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will tell you this. I noticed somebody's glow

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<v Speaker 1>up Rula cut her hair.

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<v Speaker 2>She did?

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<v Speaker 1>You know Julius, right, Julius, You do know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Me and Julius go way back. I was the very

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<v Speaker 2>first house very first house wife. He worked on Get

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<v Speaker 2>the hell out of Here. No, we are good friends.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been stayed at my house. I stayed at his house.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to his wedding. Yeah, I've known for years,

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<v Speaker 2>the very first I don't know right when I started

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<v Speaker 2>watching it happens like he worked on me and we

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<v Speaker 2>were in the streets afterwards, walking somewhere and he says,

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<v Speaker 2>get over here, and he ripped all the clippings out

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<v Speaker 2>of my hair on the corner in Manhattan, and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like Cinderella. He likes he likes a bob and

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<v Speaker 1>he's not wrong. He did he do a real bob

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<v Speaker 1>on her? Or did he phe bob her? Because he

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<v Speaker 1>poe bobbed me.

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<v Speaker 2>One year. It was fifteen days after I had my

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<v Speaker 2>face lifts and my face was nice and plump from

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<v Speaker 2>swelling and.

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<v Speaker 1>Tight right and the best time.

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<v Speaker 3>And he tucked my hair underneath.

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<v Speaker 2>Clipped on extensions on the you know in between, and

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<v Speaker 2>made a bob for me, and everybody was like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, you have to cut it like that. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>let me just tell you I can't cut it like

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<v Speaker 2>that because if I cut it like that, I would

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<v Speaker 2>have to have a shit ton of extensions because my

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<v Speaker 2>hair is thin and fine.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm. So we don't want that. But when your

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<v Speaker 1>drawline snatched and you have that, you know, beautiful beautiful, so.

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<v Speaker 3>Looks good m h.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I mean, maybe it's darker, maybe I

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<v Speaker 2>like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's been telling me for years, get that strangly hair.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't think so. I think you look good

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<v Speaker 3>with long hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. But I mean sometimes I want to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, it's like cutting your bangs. I've had

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<v Speaker 1>nightmares about cutting bangs. Oh, I've done that.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, I've been thinking about doing those curtain bangs

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<v Speaker 2>where they're a little bit longer. And just I it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a mess right now because my extensions are lighter

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<v Speaker 2>than my actual hair. I don't know why. I think

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<v Speaker 2>because my hair is growing out, I'm not coloring it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're done coloring it. You're not gray.

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<v Speaker 3>I have like five gray hairs. That's it, you bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>I know my grandma died with I don't think any

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<v Speaker 3>gray hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so genetic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my mom has a few, but not much.

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<v Speaker 1>So.

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<v Speaker 2>We went to Ball of Rock this weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>We missed you so much. You were with us last year.

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<v Speaker 2>This year we had two day passes to go, and

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<v Speaker 2>I took Sophia and Nico. I got something exciting to

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<v Speaker 2>announce soon about me and Sophia. So yeah, I had

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<v Speaker 2>a ton of fun, but we missed you. We missed

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<v Speaker 2>you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Sophia and Nico so cute, it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful picture in front of the fountain.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So the very first night we got in we went

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<v Speaker 2>to dinner a really nice restaurant on the water in

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<v Speaker 2>San Francisco, so we went there. That's where the fountain

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<v Speaker 2>picture was. And then the next day did some podcasting,

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<v Speaker 2>then went to the festival and this woman came up

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<v Speaker 2>to me and she's like, oh my god, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>that's your daughter, right, and I go, yeah, she goes.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw her walking through the just like the crowd,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said to myself, that girl's a star. She's

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<v Speaker 2>either a musician, she's something. That girl's a star, and

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<v Speaker 2>I go, yes, she's my stars. She gives out energy.

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<v Speaker 3>Her and Nico they really do, ye real, they do.

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<v Speaker 1>They're a perfect cup. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But we had a lot of fun, the four of

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<v Speaker 2>us Eddie you know included, and got home yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm exhausted.

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<v Speaker 2>Those weekend quick trips really take a lot out of you.

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<v Speaker 2>They do me and my little dach.

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<v Speaker 1>But we've all had such a good time last year

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<v Speaker 1>and we missed, we really really really missed coming this year.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming you were filming this weekend, So last weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting ready for a trip. We did film

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<v Speaker 1>a bit, Yeah, we did film, and you know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of moving parts. And with coming back after

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<v Speaker 1>being gone so long, it's getting back into the swing

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<v Speaker 1>of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it hard?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it hard?

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<v Speaker 2>Getting back?

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<v Speaker 1>Very hard? Things, very very hard.

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<v Speaker 2>And then in the midst of this, you had told

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<v Speaker 2>us last week that Gabby's dog was sick, and you

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<v Speaker 2>got a call during the pod and found out that day.

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<v Speaker 3>Later that day her dog passed.

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<v Speaker 1>Me Banana didn't make it. So it's been like a

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<v Speaker 1>weekend of morning. Gabby's taking it really bad.

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<v Speaker 3>What happened she does not know.

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<v Speaker 1>She thinks because she had her spleen removed years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>then maybe she could have gotten bit by something. Even

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<v Speaker 1>the specialty hospital that she drove it to was could

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<v Speaker 1>not has not seen a case like this, Like there

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<v Speaker 1>was nothing they could have figured out. So Gabby was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that was it an anaphylactic type of reaction to

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<v Speaker 1>a bug bite or something like that. She doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But what killed her the most was she said, she's

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<v Speaker 1>seeing dogs come in so much worse than that. There

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<v Speaker 1>was nothing wrong with the dog and.

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<v Speaker 3>How old was the dog?

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<v Speaker 1>Like ten? But yeah, but there was nothing wrong with Banana,

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<v Speaker 1>So she said, I brought dogs back from the brink

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<v Speaker 1>of debt that looks so much worse than her and

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<v Speaker 1>she could not.

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<v Speaker 2>Now does she work on her own dog or does

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<v Speaker 2>she have another vet do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Because they know she works on her own. She does,

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<v Speaker 1>but for this one when you know, the dog just crashed,

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<v Speaker 1>so she drove it to it specialty like yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>trauma hospital and there was a heartbreak. Yeah, so Gabby,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to try to put back an adult's head

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<v Speaker 1>back together because they're not little anymore, right, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just really hard to see them that way. As we

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<v Speaker 1>know we're you know, you're always a mom.

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<v Speaker 2>That Shannon's dog Archie passed away Archie, which is so

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<v Speaker 2>sad because Archie was loved by so many. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Archie won an award at Bravo Cohn last year.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Archie. It was an icon. Yeah, we will

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<v Speaker 1>miss How's she doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I talked to her, we text the day that it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, well, I just randomly reached out and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>how's Archie?

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<v Speaker 3>And I think it was a day after Mother's.

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<v Speaker 2>Day and she said, oh, he passed away yesterday, And

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<v Speaker 2>I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, because Archie's been sick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I knew that he had you

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<v Speaker 2>know that he was going to start to radiation and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff like that, but didn't happen because he got too sick.

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<v Speaker 2>And she want to come through it. But I know

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<v Speaker 2>that she's absolutely heartbreaking broken. The girls are heartbroken. She

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<v Speaker 2>has another dog, Troy. Then. I'm sure Troy, I think

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<v Speaker 2>his name is Troy Is he's probably heartbroken as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it was the two of them, just so so sad.

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing all the sad things.

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<v Speaker 2>The race car driver passing away over the weekend, so sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard a doctor break it down because there's like

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<v Speaker 2>all these conspiracy theories and stuff going around. And the

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<v Speaker 2>doctor said, which made sense, is that when you're an

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<v Speaker 2>athlete like he is, and you are sick and you're

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<v Speaker 2>driving that race car, you have a g force that

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<v Speaker 2>hits you and that is not good if you're sick.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was in a simulator.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So they were talking about that and that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when it comes to ammonia, you think it's

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<v Speaker 2>only for like the elderly people, but it's also for

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<v Speaker 2>athletes because they put so much stress on their body and.

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<v Speaker 3>You get pneumonia, then you get that g force. And

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<v Speaker 3>they said something.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody else said something about he had a severe like infection,

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<v Speaker 2>sinus infection, and it went like anytime you have infection

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<v Speaker 2>in your head, it's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you got to stand.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows what's true?

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody has a but the bottom line is it's so

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<v Speaker 2>incredibly sad. And on the way home yesterday, just went

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<v Speaker 2>through down the rabbit hole looking at his beautiful wife

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<v Speaker 2>and kids on Instagram and he was.

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<v Speaker 3>Very much love forty one or forty two years old.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, tragic. Well, I know, I know tomorrow is not promised.

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<v Speaker 1>I know anyone. And that's why, you know, live every

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<v Speaker 1>day as you can. Yeah, there's a lot of misspent

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<v Speaker 1>time on stupid stuff Instagram scrolling, oh my god, doing

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<v Speaker 1>nothing or waste in the day. Sometimes you have to

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<v Speaker 1>just waste the day. But I like to one thing

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<v Speaker 1>I like to do and is get off my chest

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<v Speaker 1>things that I have to say to people.

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<v Speaker 3>Good are bad, that's a good.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't I don't wait, I don't always do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I have I have had an experience with a friend

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<v Speaker 1>who I probably should have made up with and he

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<v Speaker 1>wind up passing away, and it was a very stupid fight.

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<v Speaker 1>He did reach out to me. The person I was

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<v Speaker 1>with at the time said, fuck it, don't make up

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<v Speaker 1>like it was over something very stupid. He did that

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<v Speaker 1>set and he did pass away, and I don't let

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<v Speaker 1>things like that go anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, when my ex was fighting cancer, the kids

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<v Speaker 2>weren't well. Spencer at the time wasn't speaking to him,

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<v Speaker 2>and I worked on him and worked on and said

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<v Speaker 2>you have to. I said, you might not like him

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<v Speaker 2>right now, but you know what in ten years if

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<v Speaker 2>he does pass and you'll be in a totally different mindset,

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<v Speaker 2>and when you have your own kids, you'll be like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even get to say goodbye to my dad.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Luckily he didn't pass away, but he did end up.

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<v Speaker 2>It took a girl telling him, listen, my dad passed

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<v Speaker 2>away and I didn't get to say goodbye to him.

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<v Speaker 2>So short lived though, YE thought soon after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, anyway, no regrets. You know, you don't want really anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so let's get into Atlanta. Oh my god, Kelly, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know how this womans She lives in a pressure cooker.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't know how she does it.

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<v Speaker 1>Will she to speak to her No, I haven't. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have her on the pod soon. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>exactly when, but we are. But she's speaking with her

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<v Speaker 1>mother and her grandmother. She's very emotional about her financial situation.

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<v Speaker 2>And then her you know, her struggle with her ex.

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<v Speaker 2>You know this is a problem. I've said this a

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<v Speaker 2>million times because I know how my ex worked. When

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<v Speaker 2>you start talking badly about your ex on national TV,

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<v Speaker 2>the only thing he has to hold over you is,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I'm not signing for the kids. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's what he did.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, he is not signing for her girls to film

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<v Speaker 2>this season.

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<v Speaker 3>Now she does have an older daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>We saw this episode as adorable. But that's the price

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<v Speaker 2>you pay. And that's my advice to ever say it

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<v Speaker 2>all the time, all the time. If you are divorced

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<v Speaker 2>or getting divorced, whatever, and your ex is letting you

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<v Speaker 2>film with the kids, be happy. Be happy because he

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<v Speaker 2>can pull that card away from you. And then, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>some shows are like, you know what, we don't need

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<v Speaker 2>you because you can't show your whole life.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, that's definitely listen, they're not getting rid of her

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<v Speaker 1>because she's definitely performing with or without her kids. But

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<v Speaker 1>when they need an excuse, they got one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But also she started to talk to her mother and

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<v Speaker 2>grandmother about she's dating somebody. But then she's saying like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we can't say his name or we're going to use

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<v Speaker 2>a code name.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not allowed to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>So so I'm actually shocked that Bravo is that Bravo

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<v Speaker 2>is letting her talk about her daughters not being able

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<v Speaker 2>to film.

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<v Speaker 3>So I literally in.

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<v Speaker 2>Used, we never were able to do that when my

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<v Speaker 2>kids were little and they couldn't film, and then they

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't film. Because if she says her narcissistic ex, which

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<v Speaker 2>she's still she.

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<v Speaker 3>Has, no no, he's never going to allow that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I thing is also talking bad about the kids

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<v Speaker 1>in public, the kids parent and public. He could use

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<v Speaker 1>that against her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, trust me, I went through it all in court

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<v Speaker 2>when my ex was trying to do the things he

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<v Speaker 2>was doing to me. Everything I said or did, oh

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<v Speaker 2>that he would try to pull that up in court. Luckily,

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<v Speaker 2>my judge that I had was like, I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the judges I know in New Jersey, it's very

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<v Speaker 1>strict you cannot bad mouth the other parent. No, they're children,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would assume also on public on a public forum.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm actually shocked that brob was allowing Kelly to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about how her ex won't let the kids film,

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<v Speaker 2>like I said, I tried. I even said, can you

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<v Speaker 2>just have them yell down to me? Can you see

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<v Speaker 2>them walk upstairs from behind?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I put a damn mask on them like Michael

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<v Speaker 2>Jackson did his kids? Like is there anything that I

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<v Speaker 2>can do? Because I at the time was getting just

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<v Speaker 2>annihilated and killed because my ex had put out that

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<v Speaker 2>I was a monster mom.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't take care of my kids, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then my kids weren't on the show that I had

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<v Speaker 2>been on for so many years. It was just now

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, probably happy that they didn't film happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean right, yeah, that is what that was

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<v Speaker 1>back in the wild West when Yeah, it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a draconian way of filming. I call it where

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<v Speaker 1>there was no hold barred, Nope and not that is

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<v Speaker 1>it so much different now? Yes? And no?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Even the producers questioned Kelly about her T shirt in

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<v Speaker 2>her confessional, and she thinks, because it's Tom Ford and

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<v Speaker 2>it's one hundred and forty dollars, it's high fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>Somebody lied to her.

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<v Speaker 2>I think possibly I want to get her answer on this,

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<v Speaker 2>but do you think that maybe she forgot her dress

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<v Speaker 2>and that's kind of what she had on and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just make the best of it. No, No, do

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<v Speaker 2>you think because even like the producer's question, like, I

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<v Speaker 2>know if I I mean, I don't always do. I've

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<v Speaker 2>done expensive dresses. I've done one hundred dollars dresses. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really care about the price on it or if

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<v Speaker 2>it's high fashion or tom Ford.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it was a bad choice. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not too many people could wear a T shirt for

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<v Speaker 1>a dress. She's four foot eleven.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, But then you see her in another confessional and

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<v Speaker 2>she looks so amazing that lack dress, and I'm it

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<v Speaker 2>just doesn't it doesn't seem her style though she's all

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<v Speaker 2>that goes off. All these girls are very over the

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<v Speaker 2>top and the way they dress. So then it got

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<v Speaker 2>me thinking maybe even yes, I know, Lunch, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll get into Porscha's outfit later.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, here's the thing, Tamera, she didn't forget it, because

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<v Speaker 1>when you show up for Confessionals, you have at least

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<v Speaker 1>two hours of glam a lack right, you can't in

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<v Speaker 1>that time somebody couldn't get her dressed to her in

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<v Speaker 1>one way or another. Oh, she had forgotten at home maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever her outfit was.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel they want to send a PA to her

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<v Speaker 2>house to go pick it up.

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<v Speaker 1>They've done it to me, They've done it for me.

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<v Speaker 1>They've gone for my jewelry. They've gone say.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Eddie, not Pa, but Eddie will go and PI.

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<v Speaker 2>One time I forgot something and he brought it to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But our green screen is about thirty minutes from my house.

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<v Speaker 3>Is yours close?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it used to be down the street in Paul's office.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, you have not started Confessionals yet? No, do

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<v Speaker 2>you know that we are done filming. I have only

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<v Speaker 2>done three confessionals.

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<v Speaker 3>How many do you.

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<v Speaker 2>We normally do three different looks, each look three times,

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<v Speaker 2>so usually nine nine to ten confessionals. I've only done three,

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<v Speaker 2>and we air in eight weeks or less than eight weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's not a long time. Maybe they're just taking

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<v Speaker 1>some time editing. If there was different things going on,

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<v Speaker 1>they have to find a way to make an arc

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<v Speaker 1>and find what story they're going with and whatever. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and I think like tomorrow I have a confessional,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I would imagine like every other week we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be doing confessionals. But a lot of times

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<v Speaker 2>we do confessionals all the way through filming, which makes

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<v Speaker 2>it difficult. I don't recommend it as producers because then

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<v Speaker 2>people start seeing what the audience and the viewers are saying,

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<v Speaker 2>and they see what side they pick on, and sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>that will sway somebody's opinions about a certain person.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, Tamor is.

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<v Speaker 2>Getting it, so let's just keep giving it to it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, something like that or.

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<v Speaker 1>Normally what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, so kind of for that's like a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Good insight for our listeners on the BTS. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like yeah, yeah, yeah, because you think about it

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<v Speaker 1>a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Deeper, right, yeah, yeah, you think about you A lot

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<v Speaker 2>of times people play into the comment section of social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now more than ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So then Angela, phaedro Porsia, Andrew Good Lunch Bea

0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:45.600
<v Speaker 2>shares that Kay thinks Portia and Drew are scheming against her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you and I sidebarred the other day when Kay Michelle

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<v Speaker 2>came out with something on a podcast, which can you you.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a better memory than me?

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<v Speaker 2>Was she saying her she allows her husband, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl husband, to have sex with other women, because if

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to be a man, then she wants, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to let him be a man.

0:20:09.760 --> 0:20:12.399
<v Speaker 3>And she said, it's not a man. No, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>a man.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, as long as he doesn't pay their bills

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<v Speaker 1>because she doesn't want to talk about it, which is

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<v Speaker 1>very honorable, But she does pay bills for fans. She'll

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<v Speaker 1>take one a week or one a month or something,

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<v Speaker 1>which to very nice or next thing, and she said

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<v Speaker 1>that sometimes she even enjoys watching a video of him

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<v Speaker 1>with another woman. Oh shit, yeah, that's deep. So she

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<v Speaker 1>said that she allows it. But I got confused because

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<v Speaker 1>then our first scene where we see them together, she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to make sure he wore his boxers so that

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<v Speaker 1>people couldn't see his and then also scrub.

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<v Speaker 2>She commented on the dental hygienist or somebody that was

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<v Speaker 2>at his office.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I thought the same thing. When that girl came

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<v Speaker 1>out three or beyond, I forgot she was beautiful. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>she wouldn't be working for my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, Okay, so we find out later what went down

0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:14.480
<v Speaker 2>and who said what, and so you know what, how

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<v Speaker 2>this information about or why she feels this way?

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<v Speaker 1>We did, Andy Coka out on Watch What Happens Live

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't been able to watch Watch What Happens Live, So.

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<v Speaker 2>On Watch What Happens Live, Andy did bring up the

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:28.040
<v Speaker 2>oyster scene and said, you're actually he kind of called

0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:30.480
<v Speaker 2>her out, said, you're actually the one that brought this up,

0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:32.680
<v Speaker 2>told us not to air it, but then you kept

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<v Speaker 2>talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's the mistake people make. They say they don't

0:21:37.400 --> 0:21:40.159
<v Speaker 1>want something brought up, but then they talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>themselves when they get mad.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, see I've done that before.

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<v Speaker 2>So they way back in the day when I think

0:21:47.119 --> 0:21:50.240
<v Speaker 2>he had this party and she invited these people that

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<v Speaker 2>she talked with prior to say that Eddie was gay

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<v Speaker 2>and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a big setup.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I found out about they actually called me

0:22:00.720 --> 0:22:04.159
<v Speaker 2>to tell me about it, and they said, listen not

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<v Speaker 2>just do not comment about this. It's because you know what,

0:22:07.359 --> 0:22:10.640
<v Speaker 2>it's to the point where when you're constantly calling somebody's

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<v Speaker 2>husband's husband gay like bras over it.

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<v Speaker 3>Andy said it a million times. I'm so over this.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop villainizing it, weaponizing it, it's reponizing it. And they

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<v Speaker 2>said to me, don't say anything and it won't have

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<v Speaker 2>any legs.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't help myself. I was livid because it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was a whole scam behind my back and off camera

0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:38.960
<v Speaker 2>to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is then then you're making me

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<v Speaker 1>understand more why she did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you get so angry that you're like, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't keep it in.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's because you don't drink.

0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh, okay, when you drink drinking either?

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<v Speaker 3>Is she not well?

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<v Speaker 1>But she's emotional?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you find her a little bit confusing because we

0:23:03.280 --> 0:23:06.320
<v Speaker 2>hear this her talk about how she her husband has

0:23:06.359 --> 0:23:08.359
<v Speaker 2>sex with other women. She likes to watch it as

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<v Speaker 2>long as he doesn't pay the bills. And then it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you have to wear your boxers and you

0:23:14.080 --> 0:23:17.280
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have this s dental hygienist. You know, I don't

0:23:17.280 --> 0:23:18.479
<v Speaker 2>want you guys working together.

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<v Speaker 1>And well, I I know swinger couples and their mentality

0:23:26.200 --> 0:23:28.320
<v Speaker 1>of that is not that she's I mean I think

0:23:28.400 --> 0:23:30.919
<v Speaker 1>that she has been or is or is open in

0:23:30.960 --> 0:23:33.679
<v Speaker 1>that they're open in that relationship, in that way, but

0:23:33.760 --> 0:23:36.119
<v Speaker 1>there's a control part of it. So you think what

0:23:36.240 --> 0:23:40.240
<v Speaker 1>came Michelle's point is as long as she knows about it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. Yeah, as long as she approves of who

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:45.960
<v Speaker 1>that person is, it's okay.

0:23:47.200 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 2>I that's not for me. And what I have seen in.

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:56.480
<v Speaker 1>That type of situation is sometimes the guy falls for

0:23:56.520 --> 0:24:00.280
<v Speaker 1>the other woman who he's with, and then they start

0:24:00.280 --> 0:24:01.600
<v Speaker 1>to do it behind the person's back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, said, how does all the time We've seen it

0:24:04.200 --> 0:24:09.400
<v Speaker 2>with celebrities, We've seen it with your friends, like it happens.

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:10.160
<v Speaker 3>All the time.

0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:12.600
<v Speaker 1>Now it's a chance, you know.

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:15.159
<v Speaker 2>Do you think do you think that Kay is just

0:24:15.200 --> 0:24:18.679
<v Speaker 2>a little paranoid about this situation? Because later on we

0:24:18.720 --> 0:24:23.679
<v Speaker 2>do hear you know that Portia is talking to one

0:24:23.720 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 2>of her exes, and the information that came out did

0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:27.800
<v Speaker 2>seem like that big of a deal to me.

0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:34.000
<v Speaker 1>So I think that Kay Michelle is I think this

0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:36.679
<v Speaker 1>is a very hard job, not job. I think that

0:24:36.800 --> 0:24:40.320
<v Speaker 1>this which she you know, being a housewife, is it

0:24:40.359 --> 0:24:40.960
<v Speaker 1>hard on her?

0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:45.080
<v Speaker 2>I didn't watch the show that she was on, was

0:24:45.119 --> 0:24:46.119
<v Speaker 2>it Love and Hip Hop?

0:24:46.560 --> 0:24:47.399
<v Speaker 1>I didn't watch it.

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:51.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, So I don't know how that show operates.

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I think she's operating on her principles.

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:58.920
<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm confused of her principles though.

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:04.119
<v Speaker 1>She gets activated. So she's feeling like, Porsia, if you

0:25:04.280 --> 0:25:06.720
<v Speaker 1>dated somebody I used to be with, you should have

0:25:06.760 --> 0:25:10.919
<v Speaker 1>told me, And quite frankly, the rest of the cast

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:11.800
<v Speaker 1>agrees with her.

0:25:11.960 --> 0:25:13.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I do agree on that.

0:25:13.760 --> 0:25:19.639
<v Speaker 2>But so I'm confused also because last week she was

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:22.880
<v Speaker 2>saying that they were plotting against her, trying to bring

0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:25.600
<v Speaker 2>out some information. We later find out that's possibly that

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:28.960
<v Speaker 2>the ex boyfriend said that whatever about her private parts.

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:33.680
<v Speaker 2>And now we're hearing in this episode that she's mad

0:25:33.800 --> 0:25:36.880
<v Speaker 2>because Porsia had talked to somebody she used to date

0:25:36.960 --> 0:25:38.040
<v Speaker 2>but didn't tell her.

0:25:38.400 --> 0:25:41.119
<v Speaker 3>I get that, but I don't think that's scheming.

0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:45.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that that's what she meant was scheming.

0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 3>Do you think either are just two different things?

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Two different things? Okay, yes, okay, so it's two different things.

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:55.240
<v Speaker 1>And I think here she got a call from this

0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:58.280
<v Speaker 1>guy out of nowhere. Yeah, it's not like she talks

0:25:58.280 --> 0:26:01.159
<v Speaker 1>to them, but they're friendly. I do it not that movie?

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:03.520
<v Speaker 3>Is it a movie together? Is that what it is?

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure, but I doubt that if they're friendly,

0:26:06.720 --> 0:26:10.479
<v Speaker 1>this is the one that put out the rumor about her. Yeah, yeah, so,

0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>but but what this man did say, and she did

0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:17.480
<v Speaker 1>say this in when she was explaining all this, is

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:20.880
<v Speaker 1>that Porsia said nice things about Kay when he did

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 1>speak to her.

0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:24.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just all confusing.

0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Well, but she also said that he spoke about Porsche

0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:32.639
<v Speaker 1>in a way that she will not repeat as a woman,

0:26:33.040 --> 0:26:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh until she gets mad.

0:26:35.160 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Now, when.

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:43.159
<v Speaker 2>Their phage was telling them all this about Okay, Porsia

0:26:43.240 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 2>thinks that it's just her voices in her head that's

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:47.000
<v Speaker 2>telling her this.

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:48.800
<v Speaker 3>Drew says she wants.

0:26:48.520 --> 0:26:52.600
<v Speaker 2>To see receipts, show me receipts. I agree, Like, I agree,

0:26:52.680 --> 0:26:55.920
<v Speaker 2>show me the receipts. And then and then I started thinking,

0:26:56.000 --> 0:26:57.440
<v Speaker 2>is Kay just paranoid?

0:26:58.160 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 3>But I guess we'll find.

0:26:59.600 --> 0:27:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Out camera, because it does happen in this business. Somebody

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:10.440
<v Speaker 1>online gets into her DMS and starts to tell her

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 1>things half truths, full truths. This person said this about you.

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:19.280
<v Speaker 1>It was a common thing, and and it takes a

0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:21.919
<v Speaker 1>strong person to say I'm not going to open that

0:27:22.000 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 1>DM and I'm not going to listen. Now, I'm just speculating.

0:27:25.760 --> 0:27:28.440
<v Speaker 1>We don't know where this information came to her from.

0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But also on the flip side, I have had

0:27:32.320 --> 0:27:35.080
<v Speaker 2>new Housewives come on throughout the years that I've been

0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:40.000
<v Speaker 2>on the show, and they instantly think that everybody's against them,

0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:43.000
<v Speaker 2>producers want to make them look bad. You know, they

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 2>got misinformation that like, you're just coming on the.

0:27:46.600 --> 0:27:47.520
<v Speaker 3>Show to be destroyed.

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:49.760
<v Speaker 2>First of all, if you really think that, why would

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:52.399
<v Speaker 2>you come on the show just to be destroyed? But

0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:55.560
<v Speaker 2>I think that people watch the show see it, and

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:59.280
<v Speaker 2>maybe that's what she's like, just paranoid, like what's coming

0:27:59.320 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 2>at me next?

0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:05.520
<v Speaker 1>So she is I don't upset. Last week we were

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:09.120
<v Speaker 1>all frustrated with her not saying in that moment.

0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:11.120
<v Speaker 3>And here was another episode and she still didn't say.

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:16.600
<v Speaker 1>But she did. She told Phaedra it was Portia and

0:28:16.680 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Drew trying to fish for information about her to come

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 1>after her with it. That's what she was told.

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 2>Well, I want more information.

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:26.320
<v Speaker 3>That's that's not enough.

0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>What was the information they were looking for? Who told you?

0:28:31.080 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 1>First of all, I'll eat it if someone has told me,

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's been many times over the past ten years,

0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:39.760
<v Speaker 1>if someone told me something that somebody was trying to

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:42.960
<v Speaker 1>do to me, unless I'm going to come full on

0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:45.680
<v Speaker 1>about what was said and who told me. I'm not

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 1>repeating it. Yeah, because if someone's going to come to

0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>me and say I said something, don't even start with

0:28:53.960 --> 0:28:56.440
<v Speaker 1>that conversation until you tell me where it came from.

0:28:56.720 --> 0:28:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Otherwise I agree keep it, because then I think you're

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 1>a lion, or then I think that you really didn't

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:05.200
<v Speaker 1>get this. So I have a rule. If you want

0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 1>to tell me I said something, tell me where it

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 1>came from and what it is. Don't fucking be weird

0:29:09.280 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>about it. Yeah.

0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 2>Well, then Porscha and her sister weigh in on the

0:29:12.760 --> 0:29:16.800
<v Speaker 2>Mike or Sway? Which one is better match for Porscha?

0:29:17.360 --> 0:29:20.240
<v Speaker 2>Who do you think Porsia has more chemistry with Sway?

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:29:21.320 --> 0:29:22.800
<v Speaker 3>Well you've been around them, so you.

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Sway is a sexy person. She just

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:30.000
<v Speaker 1>exudes confidence.

0:29:30.440 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 2>Did you know Sway has a twin sister.

0:29:32.960 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I just saw for some reason Sway's Instagram. He was

0:29:37.080 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 2>popping up on my you know, social media, and so

0:29:40.960 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 2>I found out two things recently, that she has a

0:29:43.080 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 2>twin sister and that she makes eight figures. Oh that's

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:54.040
<v Speaker 2>what I saw. You know, when somebody goes, Hey, she do.

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.840
<v Speaker 3>From what I saw. You know those those salon.

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Spaces where you buy a big building, you put a

0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:05.000
<v Speaker 2>bunch of different.

0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Suites like Phoenix Suite.

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:09.840
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we have those two Phoenix sweets.

0:30:10.320 --> 0:30:13.280
<v Speaker 2>So it shows that that's what she does. She builds

0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:16.320
<v Speaker 2>these maybe for in Maybe I don't know, I don't

0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:18.920
<v Speaker 2>know the extent of it, but yeah, she.

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 3>You think the sways.

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Swag Her name should be Swag not because she's got

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 1>so much swag, charisma, the way she holds herself. Andy

0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 1>loved her because when they were on together.

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I don't know her personally, but you can

0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 2>tell she's got some good energy just from watching her

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:43.200
<v Speaker 2>social media and her on the show.

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 1>To see the Valentine's Day she made for for Porsche.

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:54.120
<v Speaker 1>She had the whole house or the room draped in red. Wow,

0:30:55.640 --> 0:31:01.400
<v Speaker 1>like stuff every rose petals everywhere, rose petals draping from

0:31:01.440 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>the ceiling, flowers or mess bags, gifts, dinner, a bed

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 1>there with stuff on it like crazy, Like, I don't

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:15.719
<v Speaker 1>know how you're gonna ever get away from that Porsche

0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:18.080
<v Speaker 1>because I look at you and I'm like turned on

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:19.080
<v Speaker 1>for you. I don't know what to.

0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:23.840
<v Speaker 2>Tell Porsche had said that that Mike wants kids, it's

0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 2>a deal breaker, and then she went on to also

0:31:26.200 --> 0:31:31.320
<v Speaker 2>say later on that Sway wants kids and carry them herself,

0:31:31.640 --> 0:31:34.120
<v Speaker 2>and that she would carry on herself and maybe Porscha's

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 2>how old is Porsche Because she's saying she wanted her

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:37.440
<v Speaker 2>sister's eggs.

0:31:40.000 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 1>It's so funny because later on smids, that's weird. She's done.

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't blame her, but.

0:31:47.160 --> 0:31:49.000
<v Speaker 2>She's you probably still get some eggs out of that.

0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:53.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what about it, say a.

0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Lot, even the the like the shots and the things

0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:01.440
<v Speaker 1>to retreat. It's not any easy thing to go through.

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:05.680
<v Speaker 3>It's just not But what about the snake?

0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 2>Why why don't we have to see that snake?

0:32:09.680 --> 0:32:10.560
<v Speaker 3>Are you gonna get?

0:32:10.960 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>She said in her confessional, even though it was like

0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:16.000
<v Speaker 1>a sound bite or a which she's fine given. She said,

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to get rid of all the snakes in

0:32:17.960 --> 0:32:19.880
<v Speaker 1>my life. My daughter's bringing them back.

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:21.920
<v Speaker 2>In Her daughter really wanted a snake.

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:24.040
<v Speaker 1>Why did I think? She said a lizard?

0:32:24.120 --> 0:32:27.479
<v Speaker 2>Chile, That's what I thought, lizard, Like my son had

0:32:27.480 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 2>a lizard. Ryan had a lizard and he loved he loved.

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Weird odd creatures. He had a charantula for a while,

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:38.120
<v Speaker 2>tans and he was little Tarancela got loose in the house.

0:32:38.240 --> 0:32:39.040
<v Speaker 3>That was not fun.

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 2>Ended up finding it. Then he had a pet lizard.

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:45.800
<v Speaker 2>He took the lizard everywhere with him. I was at

0:32:45.840 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 2>work one day, he's at the babysitters. He took the

0:32:48.120 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 2>lizard swimming in the pool with him and the lizard died.

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:53.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I'm like another therapy session.

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:58.560
<v Speaker 2>I know he wanted weird anyways, So at the surrogacy clinic,

0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 2>Shmia gets emotional about the process. She only has one

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:07.880
<v Speaker 2>embryo left that is a boy, and Gerald wants a boy.

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:10.680
<v Speaker 2>Do you think he's putting too much pressure on her

0:33:10.800 --> 0:33:13.600
<v Speaker 2>about having a son? Because she asks like if I

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:16.360
<v Speaker 2>don't have the son, like, is he gonna leave me?

0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:20.080
<v Speaker 1>No, it's not a deal breaker. It is not a

0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 1>deal I mean, I don't see it as that. I

0:33:23.160 --> 0:33:25.960
<v Speaker 1>think he's a wonderful man. I think he loves his wife,

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>he supports her. I think he's allowed to want They

0:33:31.040 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 1>haven't exhausted all possibilities yet. There's still an embryo left.

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:35.520
<v Speaker 1>There's still hope.

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well there's a bunch left, but there's only one

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:39.480
<v Speaker 2>one may.

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Right, he wants a boy, and I can understand, you know,

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:46.040
<v Speaker 1>is if a woman wanted something right.

0:33:46.400 --> 0:33:48.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't know much about Sarahcusey.

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:52.720
<v Speaker 2>And I know a little bit about IVF, not much,

0:33:52.760 --> 0:33:54.880
<v Speaker 2>just because I've had friends that come through. It. Is

0:33:54.920 --> 0:33:59.560
<v Speaker 2>it normal to have like five failed transfers. I don't

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.480
<v Speaker 2>know about it because I'm like, WHOA, you go through

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:06.880
<v Speaker 2>all that and then you get a sarrogate and then

0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 2>it fails.

0:34:08.719 --> 0:34:09.680
<v Speaker 3>That would be hard, But I.

0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:14.960
<v Speaker 1>Guess it's something that's possibly could happen five of them.

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:15.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:34:16.160 --> 0:34:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I honestly, I don't know the logistics, but I really

0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:20.840
<v Speaker 1>wish them a lot of luck. I know it's a

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure, and you know, I understand his want

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:26.800
<v Speaker 1>for a boy.

0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:39.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:42.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, then she SIMI then goes on because Kelly shows

0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:45.319
<v Speaker 2>up and she's talking to her and she's saying how

0:34:45.360 --> 0:34:52.080
<v Speaker 2>her husband is uncomfortable with her and sex scenes acting understood.

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 2>I could totally understand that. I wouldn't want I wouldn't

0:34:56.160 --> 0:34:59.080
<v Speaker 2>want my husband doing that. I think you wouldn't want

0:34:59.120 --> 0:34:59.799
<v Speaker 2>me doing that.

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:03.640
<v Speaker 1>Even a listers and I've heard them talk they can't

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 1>be it can't be a comfortable thing to watch unless

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:08.839
<v Speaker 1>there k Michelle, you know that.

0:35:08.840 --> 0:35:11.960
<v Speaker 2>They have like a sometimes, like on our show, when

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:16.279
<v Speaker 2>kids are little, they bring in a child psychologist that

0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 2>watches over what is filmed with a small child. They

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:20.839
<v Speaker 2>haven't done this in a while, but they have done

0:35:20.880 --> 0:35:23.080
<v Speaker 2>it in the past, and they want to just make

0:35:23.120 --> 0:35:26.520
<v Speaker 2>sure everything is okay for them. They're they're there to

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:31.800
<v Speaker 2>advocate for the child that is filming and sex scenes.

0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 2>They have like somebody on set that make sure everybody's

0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:40.239
<v Speaker 2>comfortable and things are covered.

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:40.680
<v Speaker 3>And all that.

0:35:40.880 --> 0:35:44.000
<v Speaker 2>It's going to be the most uncomfortable feeling in the world.

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively had that whole thing going on,

0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:51.720
<v Speaker 1>and he had in writing she said there was an

0:35:52.280 --> 0:35:55.239
<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable scene with him and her and he goes, you

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:59.799
<v Speaker 1>opted not to have the whatever you call it, that

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:03.240
<v Speaker 1>know what they're called, Yeah, the person the wellness team

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:07.360
<v Speaker 1>during the sex scene, the intimacy coordinator.

0:36:08.440 --> 0:36:10.759
<v Speaker 2>She chose not to and then bitched about it. I

0:36:10.800 --> 0:36:14.360
<v Speaker 2>couldn't follow that whole Justin and Blake thing. It was

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:16.280
<v Speaker 2>just too much. It was just too much.

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 1>It was so ugly and so yeah grows but but yeah,

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:24.200
<v Speaker 1>so so yes, I do know of that.

0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 2>What show is she on? What movie is she does?

0:36:27.480 --> 0:36:28.400
<v Speaker 3>She do a lot of movies.

0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't aware of that.

0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:33.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh, oh shouldn't. Oh, I don't know. I didn't know.

0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:36.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean I knew this is something she was getting into.

0:36:37.360 --> 0:36:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Guys in my age and as you get older and

0:36:42.000 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 1>you have children and you have all this going on,

0:36:43.719 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 1>you have the housewives, and you're your business and now

0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:47.800
<v Speaker 1>you're doing a When do you not want to start

0:36:47.880 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 1>do something else? I'm fucking good.

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:52.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you want to fucking do another thing. That's how

0:36:52.760 --> 0:36:53.200
<v Speaker 3>I feel.

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 2>Fucking do another thing. Podcast.

0:36:56.000 --> 0:37:00.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm taking a sword class today. Though. Oh god, they

0:37:00.719 --> 0:37:01.680
<v Speaker 1>make power up?

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 3>Is somebody making you?

0:37:03.719 --> 0:37:07.799
<v Speaker 1>It's on me? Oh my god.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:11.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you have fun with that? Sounds horrible. Sway

0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:13.840
<v Speaker 2>and Porscha go out to dinner. Sway asked Porsche if

0:37:13.920 --> 0:37:15.920
<v Speaker 2>she could see herself being with a woman for the

0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 2>rest of her life. Poor Porscha asked, then are you proposing?

0:37:19.360 --> 0:37:22.480
<v Speaker 2>Where's my ring? Sway does say she wants to settle

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:25.719
<v Speaker 2>down in a year now. Porsche had said this, which

0:37:25.719 --> 0:37:28.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that they have known. She's known Sway

0:37:28.400 --> 0:37:31.360
<v Speaker 2>for like eight, nine or maybe ten years. But she

0:37:31.480 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 2>wasn't ready to date a girl at the time.

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 1>Right, and she went through a lot of life. Yeah,

0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:42.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, at I feel like timing is everything. Maybe

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:48.240
<v Speaker 1>this is the time for them, and possibly earlier it wasn't.

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of hope for this relationship. I

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:54.720
<v Speaker 1>feel sad if they break up. It's the late life lesbians.

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, they are so happy.

0:37:56.680 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 2>I talked about this on a podcast recently, and everybody's like, oh, God,

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:01.600
<v Speaker 2>dear is going to be a lesbian.

0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:01.719
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 2>I just said, like, honestly, if something were to happen

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:08.839
<v Speaker 2>in my relationship, who knows what somebody he passed away

0:38:08.920 --> 0:38:11.520
<v Speaker 2>or he left me or whatever. I'm like, I just

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 2>think that I would just be a lesbian. People got

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:17.760
<v Speaker 2>myself be aleized me. Just find me a best girlfriend

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:19.120
<v Speaker 2>and we can just hang out and have fun.

0:38:19.239 --> 0:38:23.520
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you the women that I know, they

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:27.640
<v Speaker 1>really just seem happy. Women know how to take care

0:38:27.680 --> 0:38:32.920
<v Speaker 1>of the women. Yeah, look at look at uh chrishell Strauss,

0:38:32.960 --> 0:38:36.400
<v Speaker 1>so happy, g Flip, I know, so happy, Gabby Wendy

0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:41.080
<v Speaker 1>so happy. Yeah. Yeah, Like I could go on and

0:38:41.120 --> 0:38:44.160
<v Speaker 1>on because I do notice this, but listen, all the

0:38:44.239 --> 0:38:49.719
<v Speaker 1>power to you, ladies. The Lady Pond. They're swimming in

0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 1>the Lady Ocean.

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:53.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, speaking of swimming the girls or I have at

0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:55.280
<v Speaker 2>Phaedra's meditation event.

0:38:55.880 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, the taxes in New Jersey are enough to kill you.

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:02.680
<v Speaker 1>That's what I literally kill you. How come I never

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 1>see Phaeder's boyfriends ever? And she don't want to talk

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:10.120
<v Speaker 1>about it because she said that her and Fate, her

0:39:10.200 --> 0:39:12.520
<v Speaker 1>and Porsche had dated the same guy, and.

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 2>She didn't about she spoke about it, right, No, we

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.080
<v Speaker 2>didn't know she played the flute either. We didn't know

0:39:17.080 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 2>she played the damn flute. This girl does everything she's yeah,

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:22.439
<v Speaker 2>well we don't know if she plays the skin plup

0:39:22.520 --> 0:39:26.120
<v Speaker 2>she talks about really playing. She was really playing. I know.

0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 1>That is so crazy.

0:39:27.000 --> 0:39:29.680
<v Speaker 2>And it was sounded really beautiful. And they're laying on

0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 2>these big blow up mats they're in the pool and

0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:38.800
<v Speaker 2>then suddenly whose was it? Oh, Samia starts losing air. Now,

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:43.000
<v Speaker 2>how about Porscha coming in with that outfit and Cynthia's like,

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:45.400
<v Speaker 2>Porscha's ass is like two asses put together.

0:39:45.520 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 1>That was hysterical.

0:39:47.560 --> 0:39:49.839
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that she had to outdo Shamia from

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:50.600
<v Speaker 2>last week?

0:39:51.280 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 3>That's why she came in I never.

0:39:53.000 --> 0:39:56.239
<v Speaker 1>Think like that, Like, my mind doesn't work like that.

0:39:56.360 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't feel it. I mean, it's not out of

0:40:01.080 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, it tracks for her to walk around with

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:07.160
<v Speaker 1>her ass now she's they even flashed back to another

0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:09.920
<v Speaker 1>time that she.

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 3>She had her ass out.

0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I mean I think that.

0:40:12.640 --> 0:40:16.760
<v Speaker 2>This is when cay Michelle drops upon my ex nache

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 2>from Queen's Court called Kate, to tell her Portia has

0:40:21.000 --> 0:40:21.879
<v Speaker 2>been calling him.

0:40:22.760 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:40:23.360 --> 0:40:24.799
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it's recent or if it's in

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:25.680
<v Speaker 3>the past, but cay.

0:40:25.640 --> 0:40:29.400
<v Speaker 2>Michelle's like, she was pretty calm at the very beginning.

0:40:29.480 --> 0:40:32.240
<v Speaker 2>She was coming off pretty calm, like she's.

0:40:32.040 --> 0:40:33.000
<v Speaker 3>Like, okay, I was.

0:40:34.480 --> 0:40:37.279
<v Speaker 1>Like, did she take a zenat She was until she

0:40:37.440 --> 0:40:41.080
<v Speaker 1>wasn't calm, and then she lost it and she's like

0:40:41.160 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 1>if you're pop locking and dropping on someone's sausage, Okay.

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:48.960
<v Speaker 1>She comes out with these amazing Sometimes I have to

0:40:49.080 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 1>rewind it. I have to go back and listen to

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:56.120
<v Speaker 1>it again because I don't always get here at all.

0:40:56.160 --> 0:40:59.560
<v Speaker 2>I know, so pinky, She's like, what are we doing here?

0:40:59.640 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 2>This is weird. It's giving cult. They've already tried to

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:06.720
<v Speaker 2>kill Shemiah. Like she's like, just give me the organic

0:41:06.880 --> 0:41:07.560
<v Speaker 2>f dis in it.

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:11.399
<v Speaker 1>But it was beautiful. Well they had it was grasped meat.

0:41:11.600 --> 0:41:14.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so she well she didn't eat that, but she said,

0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 2>this tastes like organic.

0:41:15.840 --> 0:41:18.600
<v Speaker 1>It looked beautiful. One of the difference. I thought it

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:21.880
<v Speaker 1>was amazing. I thought Drew was really embracing the moment.

0:41:22.400 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Pinky was on her raft with one eye open. She

0:41:25.200 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 1>wasn't trusting nobody. No, you know, Shemiah was out. She was.

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:35.520
<v Speaker 1>She seemed annoyed at the whole thing. Of course, Cay

0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:39.040
<v Speaker 1>Michelle can't get in because she has her surgery, probably

0:41:39.120 --> 0:41:41.880
<v Speaker 1>still healing from her surgery. You can't get in the water.

0:41:42.239 --> 0:41:45.680
<v Speaker 1>So she even brought a doctor's note, she said. And

0:41:45.719 --> 0:41:51.520
<v Speaker 1>then Kelly Kelly showed I thought it was amazing. Kelly

0:41:51.600 --> 0:41:53.680
<v Speaker 1>showed up, not happy.

0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:58.759
<v Speaker 2>Kelly and Kelly Kelly, she hasn't been happy lately. She

0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:01.760
<v Speaker 2>really Helly is going through going through hard.

0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Like the stress of what the frig this girl is

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:07.879
<v Speaker 1>going through? You know what happens, You've been going You've

0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:11.800
<v Speaker 1>gone through it, broke through your divorce, trying to handle

0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:17.680
<v Speaker 1>the kids, trial, trying to handle businesses and bills and

0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:22.399
<v Speaker 1>and just everything, and really after it goes on for

0:42:22.440 --> 0:42:26.640
<v Speaker 1>too long. It's exhausting break you like, I think Kelly's

0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:28.439
<v Speaker 1>at her wits end. But why does she keep going

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:29.360
<v Speaker 1>after Portia?

0:42:30.040 --> 0:42:31.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but there is like.

0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:34.880
<v Speaker 1>From can you ask her that when you do her interview?

0:42:35.080 --> 0:42:36.400
<v Speaker 3>I will absolutely ask her that.

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:39.840
<v Speaker 2>So they're at dinner and you know, ship's starting to

0:42:39.880 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 2>go down. Andrew tails Kate to stop saying Black's name, and.

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:46.560
<v Speaker 1>I would like her too too.

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:50.440
<v Speaker 2>Stop we we should not be talking about this man anymore.

0:42:51.120 --> 0:42:53.080
<v Speaker 1>You said this two episodes ago.

0:42:53.400 --> 0:42:56.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking There's there's no reason to be talking about him.

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:58.399
<v Speaker 2>Nothing happened, nothing went down.

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:02.680
<v Speaker 3>We got it. He slipped into her DMS. That's it.

0:43:04.360 --> 0:43:04.799
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:10.359
<v Speaker 1>But she didn't want it brought up. She didn't want

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:13.200
<v Speaker 1>it brought up. But then she keeps bringing it up.

0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:15.000
<v Speaker 1>It's another case of that.

0:43:15.480 --> 0:43:17.280
<v Speaker 3>And then they just get into a huge fight.

0:43:17.520 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 2>And then and Fatris like, uh, we have a noise

0:43:20.600 --> 0:43:21.880
<v Speaker 2>ordinance here, guys?

0:43:21.880 --> 0:43:24.000
<v Speaker 3>Can you shut up so much.

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:25.799
<v Speaker 1>For the Zen party? I know?

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:27.840
<v Speaker 3>And then I hear Drew.

0:43:28.040 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 2>Did you hear her say to Kate Michelle, obviously you

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:31.799
<v Speaker 2>don't fit in.

0:43:32.800 --> 0:43:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I did. I'm like, WHOA, I've felt that this is

0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>a lot for k I don't think Kay needs this

0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:44.279
<v Speaker 1>in her life, and I think that it's a lot

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:49.520
<v Speaker 1>for her emotionally. She has a very big life. But

0:43:49.600 --> 0:43:53.279
<v Speaker 1>did you see what she said to Drew m Maybe

0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Drew's like, you're looking up my resume? She goes, it

0:43:56.600 --> 0:43:58.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't take long. There's nothing on it.

0:43:58.920 --> 0:44:01.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh there, These girls are so quick.

0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:05.399
<v Speaker 3>They really are they they are yeh.

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 2>And then you know, Kay accuses Porsche purposely not telling

0:44:08.600 --> 0:44:11.560
<v Speaker 2>her about the guy that that she dated, that they

0:44:11.600 --> 0:44:14.279
<v Speaker 2>both dated. And then, like we said earlier, all the

0:44:14.320 --> 0:44:17.560
<v Speaker 2>women kind of agreed like if I dated somebody you dated,

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:20.759
<v Speaker 2>I would tell you. I would be like, hey, they

0:44:20.800 --> 0:44:22.920
<v Speaker 2>weren't even close before the show.

0:44:23.239 --> 0:44:26.279
<v Speaker 1>And that's what Porsche said. And I agree Porsche should

0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:29.160
<v Speaker 1>have said something to her at some point. I don't

0:44:29.160 --> 0:44:31.840
<v Speaker 1>know what point that would have been. Well, but you know,

0:44:32.680 --> 0:44:35.360
<v Speaker 1>Kay very early on had a bad taste of Porsche

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:38.360
<v Speaker 1>and about the way she went for Kelly, saying you

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:39.439
<v Speaker 1>slept with that married man.

0:44:39.480 --> 0:44:43.040
<v Speaker 2>But Kay doesn't set the tone, kind of set the tone.

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:49.239
<v Speaker 1>He doesn't know that Kelly from the jump has been

0:44:49.280 --> 0:44:50.640
<v Speaker 1>busting Porsche's bulls.

0:44:50.880 --> 0:44:52.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, now Kelly.

0:44:52.960 --> 0:44:55.920
<v Speaker 1>They speak pay one what about.

0:44:55.680 --> 0:44:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Kelly with the wine in the face to Porsche and

0:44:59.640 --> 0:45:02.920
<v Speaker 2>Port like, my first instinct would be to smack that

0:45:03.040 --> 0:45:05.759
<v Speaker 2>out of her hands so fast, And Porscha's like.

0:45:06.040 --> 0:45:08.720
<v Speaker 3>Get that out of my face, Get my face has.

0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Come and I and last time I was with you,

0:45:12.160 --> 0:45:15.960
<v Speaker 1>not too long ago, I said to Porscha, You've come

0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:19.240
<v Speaker 1>a long way from dragging people across the straight stage

0:45:19.320 --> 0:45:23.160
<v Speaker 1>by their hair. You have come very far, she has.

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:29.520
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like ever since Porscha's divorce from she's

0:45:29.560 --> 0:45:32.640
<v Speaker 1>mellowed out a little bit. Yeah, she's mellowed because you

0:45:32.719 --> 0:45:37.040
<v Speaker 1>know what, she doesn't have the financial stress she used

0:45:37.040 --> 0:45:40.120
<v Speaker 1>to have. That takes a big burden off someone.

0:45:40.400 --> 0:45:41.279
<v Speaker 3>Now Kelly has it.

0:45:41.840 --> 0:45:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Now Kelly has it, see what I mean? You know,

0:45:45.360 --> 0:45:48.440
<v Speaker 1>financial stress on top of being a single mother, on

0:45:48.600 --> 0:45:51.560
<v Speaker 1>top of trying to keep it that will put you

0:45:51.840 --> 0:45:57.000
<v Speaker 1>over the edge. Is very financial financially stable.

0:45:57.440 --> 0:46:00.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why do you think Kelly thought it was a

0:46:00.239 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 2>good idea to open up another restaurant when she's going

0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 2>through financial issues?

0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:06.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:46:06.960 --> 0:46:10.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna have to ask her that. Yeah, all right, well,

0:46:11.320 --> 0:46:11.920
<v Speaker 3>there you have it.

0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:13.760
<v Speaker 2>It's a good episode.

0:46:13.840 --> 0:46:15.719
<v Speaker 3>We had a lot to catch up on a lot

0:46:15.840 --> 0:46:16.319
<v Speaker 3>to catch up.

0:46:16.360 --> 0:46:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you something I feel. The season started off

0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:22.680
<v Speaker 1>a little slow, but it is making up for lost time.

0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:24.359
<v Speaker 2>It is, it is picking up.

0:46:25.320 --> 0:46:27.759
<v Speaker 3>Okay, guys, thank you again for tuning in.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you.

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