Speaker 1: To Teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Jeedge.
Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and
Speaker 2: a Prod with myself and Dolores, And today we are
Speaker 2: recappying in the Real Housewives of Atlanta Season seventeen, Episode eight.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Delores, Good.
Speaker 3: Morning, You're still alive.
Speaker 1: They're growing in. What's going on? Like? I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm I just put my extensions back in.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm got ready to rip mine out because you know,
Speaker 2: I normally go every six weeks and if I don't
Speaker 2: make appointment while I'm getting it done, she gets booked up.
Speaker 3: And sure enough, she got booked up.
Speaker 2: Minor sagging like three inches, and I'm and I with
Speaker 2: sensory shit. I want to take them out, but I
Speaker 2: have shit to do, shit to do. I have a
Speaker 2: confessional tomorrow, Andy Cohens, I do. Andy Cohen's going to
Speaker 2: be in Newport Beach at Ledo Theater and all of
Speaker 2: his girls are going to watch him there.
Speaker 1: Oh nice? Is it with.
Speaker 2: Himself or he is with He's not with Anderson.
Speaker 3: I don't believe, But.
Speaker 2: I don't exactly know what's going on. I just show Yeah,
Speaker 2: I have seen that one. I saw that and Kasta
Speaker 2: mesa years ago. This one is something different. There's a
Speaker 2: bunch of different people are going to be there, so
Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't just because if I take him out,
Speaker 2: it's not going to be pretty dlorous.
Speaker 1: No it's not. And then you feel frumpy. But it's
Speaker 1: nice to feel your scalp.
Speaker 3: I can't wait.
Speaker 1: There's it's an orgasm. It's like an orgasm like for
Speaker 1: my age orgasm like it's it's like, I'm.
Speaker 2: Kind of ready to cut my hair shorter, and I'm
Speaker 2: just afraid because every time I do it, I hate it.
Speaker 1: But I will tell you this. I noticed somebody's glow
Speaker 1: up Rula cut her hair.
Speaker 2: She did?
Speaker 1: You know Julius, right, Julius, You do know that.
Speaker 2: Me and Julius go way back. I was the very
Speaker 2: first house very first house wife. He worked on Get
Speaker 2: the hell out of Here. No, we are good friends.
Speaker 2: He's been stayed at my house. I stayed at his house.
Speaker 2: I went to his wedding. Yeah, I've known for years,
Speaker 2: the very first I don't know right when I started
Speaker 2: watching it happens like he worked on me and we
Speaker 2: were in the streets afterwards, walking somewhere and he says,
Speaker 2: get over here, and he ripped all the clippings out
Speaker 2: of my hair on the corner in Manhattan, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: thank you.
Speaker 1: I'm like Cinderella. He likes he likes a bob and
Speaker 1: he's not wrong. He did he do a real bob
Speaker 1: on her? Or did he phe bob her? Because he
Speaker 1: poe bobbed me.
Speaker 2: One year. It was fifteen days after I had my
Speaker 2: face lifts and my face was nice and plump from
Speaker 2: swelling and.
Speaker 1: Tight right and the best time.
Speaker 3: And he tucked my hair underneath.
Speaker 2: Clipped on extensions on the you know in between, and
Speaker 2: made a bob for me, and everybody was like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, you have to cut it like that. Well,
Speaker 2: let me just tell you I can't cut it like
Speaker 2: that because if I cut it like that, I would
Speaker 2: have to have a shit ton of extensions because my
Speaker 2: hair is thin and fine.
Speaker 1: M hm. So we don't want that. But when your
Speaker 1: drawline snatched and you have that, you know, beautiful beautiful, so.
Speaker 3: Looks good m h.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, maybe it's darker, maybe I
Speaker 2: like it.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's been telling me for years, get that strangly hair.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't think so. I think you look good
Speaker 3: with long hair.
Speaker 1: Thank you. But I mean sometimes I want to do that,
Speaker 1: but you know, it's like cutting your bangs. I've had
Speaker 1: nightmares about cutting bangs. Oh, I've done that.
Speaker 2: In fact, I've been thinking about doing those curtain bangs
Speaker 2: where they're a little bit longer. And just I it's
Speaker 2: just a mess right now because my extensions are lighter
Speaker 2: than my actual hair. I don't know why. I think
Speaker 2: because my hair is growing out, I'm not coloring it.
Speaker 1: You're done coloring it. You're not gray.
Speaker 3: I have like five gray hairs. That's it, you bitch.
Speaker 3: I know my grandma died with I don't think any
Speaker 3: gray hair.
Speaker 2: Maybe a couple.
Speaker 1: It's so genetic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom has a few, but not much.
Speaker 1: So.
Speaker 2: We went to Ball of Rock this weekend.
Speaker 3: We missed you so much. You were with us last year.
Speaker 2: This year we had two day passes to go, and
Speaker 2: I took Sophia and Nico. I got something exciting to
Speaker 2: announce soon about me and Sophia. So yeah, I had
Speaker 2: a ton of fun, but we missed you. We missed
Speaker 2: you so much.
Speaker 1: I saw Sophia and Nico so cute, it's so funny.
Speaker 1: Beautiful picture in front of the fountain.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So the very first night we got in we went
Speaker 2: to dinner a really nice restaurant on the water in
Speaker 2: San Francisco, so we went there. That's where the fountain
Speaker 2: picture was. And then the next day did some podcasting,
Speaker 2: then went to the festival and this woman came up
Speaker 2: to me and she's like, oh my god, oh my god,
Speaker 2: that's your daughter, right, and I go, yeah, she goes.
Speaker 2: I saw her walking through the just like the crowd,
Speaker 2: and I said to myself, that girl's a star. She's
Speaker 2: either a musician, she's something. That girl's a star, and
Speaker 2: I go, yes, she's my stars. She gives out energy.
Speaker 3: Her and Nico they really do, ye real, they do.
Speaker 1: They're a perfect cup. Yeah.
Speaker 2: But we had a lot of fun, the four of
Speaker 2: us Eddie you know included, and got home yesterday.
Speaker 3: I'm exhausted.
Speaker 2: Those weekend quick trips really take a lot out of you.
Speaker 2: They do me and my little dach.
Speaker 1: But we've all had such a good time last year
Speaker 1: and we missed, we really really really missed coming this year.
Speaker 2: I'm assuming you were filming this weekend, So last weekend.
Speaker 1: I was getting ready for a trip. We did film
Speaker 1: a bit, Yeah, we did film, and you know, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of moving parts. And with coming back after
Speaker 1: being gone so long, it's getting back into the swing
Speaker 1: of things.
Speaker 2: Is it hard?
Speaker 3: Is it hard?
Speaker 2: Getting back?
Speaker 1: Very hard? Things, very very hard.
Speaker 2: And then in the midst of this, you had told
Speaker 2: us last week that Gabby's dog was sick, and you
Speaker 2: got a call during the pod and found out that day.
Speaker 3: Later that day her dog passed.
Speaker 1: Me Banana didn't make it. So it's been like a
Speaker 1: weekend of morning. Gabby's taking it really bad.
Speaker 3: What happened she does not know.
Speaker 1: She thinks because she had her spleen removed years ago,
Speaker 1: then maybe she could have gotten bit by something. Even
Speaker 1: the specialty hospital that she drove it to was could
Speaker 1: not has not seen a case like this, Like there
Speaker 1: was nothing they could have figured out. So Gabby was
Speaker 1: thinking that was it an anaphylactic type of reaction to
Speaker 1: a bug bite or something like that. She doesn't know.
Speaker 1: But what killed her the most was she said, she's
Speaker 1: seeing dogs come in so much worse than that. There
Speaker 1: was nothing wrong with the dog and.
Speaker 3: How old was the dog?
Speaker 1: Like ten? But yeah, but there was nothing wrong with Banana,
Speaker 1: So she said, I brought dogs back from the brink
Speaker 1: of debt that looks so much worse than her and
Speaker 1: she could not.
Speaker 2: Now does she work on her own dog or does
Speaker 2: she have another vet do it?
Speaker 1: Because they know she works on her own. She does,
Speaker 1: but for this one when you know, the dog just crashed,
Speaker 1: so she drove it to it specialty like yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: trauma hospital and there was a heartbreak. Yeah, so Gabby,
Speaker 1: you know, to try to put back an adult's head
Speaker 1: back together because they're not little anymore, right, So it's
Speaker 1: just really hard to see them that way. As we
Speaker 1: know we're you know, you're always a mom.
Speaker 2: That Shannon's dog Archie passed away Archie, which is so
Speaker 2: sad because Archie was loved by so many. I mean,
Speaker 2: Archie won an award at Bravo Cohn last year.
Speaker 1: I know Archie. It was an icon. Yeah, we will
Speaker 1: miss How's she doing.
Speaker 2: I talked to her, we text the day that it.
Speaker 2: I think, well, I just randomly reached out and I said,
Speaker 2: how's Archie?
Speaker 3: And I think it was a day after Mother's.
Speaker 2: Day and she said, oh, he passed away yesterday, And
Speaker 2: I had no idea.
Speaker 1: Well, because Archie's been sick.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I knew that he had you
Speaker 2: know that he was going to start to radiation and
Speaker 2: stuff like that, but didn't happen because he got too sick.
Speaker 2: And she want to come through it. But I know
Speaker 2: that she's absolutely heartbreaking broken. The girls are heartbroken. She
Speaker 2: has another dog, Troy. Then. I'm sure Troy, I think
Speaker 2: his name is Troy Is he's probably heartbroken as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 2: Because it was the two of them, just so so sad.
Speaker 3: You're doing all the sad things.
Speaker 2: The race car driver passing away over the weekend, so sad.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I heard a doctor break it down because there's like
Speaker 2: all these conspiracy theories and stuff going around. And the
Speaker 2: doctor said, which made sense, is that when you're an
Speaker 2: athlete like he is, and you are sick and you're
Speaker 2: driving that race car, you have a g force that
Speaker 2: hits you and that is not good if you're sick.
Speaker 1: So it was in a simulator.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So they were talking about that and that,
Speaker 2: you know, when it comes to ammonia, you think it's
Speaker 2: only for like the elderly people, but it's also for
Speaker 2: athletes because they put so much stress on their body and.
Speaker 3: You get pneumonia, then you get that g force. And
Speaker 3: they said something.
Speaker 2: Somebody else said something about he had a severe like infection,
Speaker 2: sinus infection, and it went like anytime you have infection
Speaker 2: in your head, it's not good.
Speaker 1: No, you got to stand.
Speaker 3: Who knows what's true?
Speaker 2: Everybody has a but the bottom line is it's so
Speaker 2: incredibly sad. And on the way home yesterday, just went
Speaker 2: through down the rabbit hole looking at his beautiful wife
Speaker 2: and kids on Instagram and he was.
Speaker 3: Very much love forty one or forty two years old.
Speaker 1: Yeah, tragic. Well, I know, I know tomorrow is not promised.
Speaker 1: I know anyone. And that's why, you know, live every
Speaker 1: day as you can. Yeah, there's a lot of misspent
Speaker 1: time on stupid stuff Instagram scrolling, oh my god, doing
Speaker 1: nothing or waste in the day. Sometimes you have to
Speaker 1: just waste the day. But I like to one thing
Speaker 1: I like to do and is get off my chest
Speaker 1: things that I have to say to people.
Speaker 3: Good are bad, that's a good.
Speaker 2: And I don't I don't wait, I don't always do that.
Speaker 1: I have I have had an experience with a friend
Speaker 1: who I probably should have made up with and he
Speaker 1: wind up passing away, and it was a very stupid fight.
Speaker 1: He did reach out to me. The person I was
Speaker 1: with at the time said, fuck it, don't make up
Speaker 1: like it was over something very stupid. He did that
Speaker 1: set and he did pass away, and I don't let
Speaker 1: things like that go anymore.
Speaker 2: You know, when my ex was fighting cancer, the kids
Speaker 2: weren't well. Spencer at the time wasn't speaking to him,
Speaker 2: and I worked on him and worked on and said
Speaker 2: you have to. I said, you might not like him
Speaker 2: right now, but you know what in ten years if
Speaker 2: he does pass and you'll be in a totally different mindset,
Speaker 2: and when you have your own kids, you'll be like, Wow,
Speaker 2: I didn't even get to say goodbye to my dad.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: Luckily he didn't pass away, but he did end up.
Speaker 2: It took a girl telling him, listen, my dad passed
Speaker 2: away and I didn't get to say goodbye to him.
Speaker 2: So short lived though, YE thought soon after that.
Speaker 1: Well, anyway, no regrets. You know, you don't want really anywhere.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's get into Atlanta. Oh my god, Kelly, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know how this womans She lives in a pressure cooker.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know how she does it.
Speaker 1: Will she to speak to her No, I haven't. We're
Speaker 1: gonna have her on the pod soon. I don't know
Speaker 1: exactly when, but we are. But she's speaking with her
Speaker 1: mother and her grandmother. She's very emotional about her financial situation.
Speaker 2: And then her you know, her struggle with her ex.
Speaker 2: You know this is a problem. I've said this a
Speaker 2: million times because I know how my ex worked. When
Speaker 2: you start talking badly about your ex on national TV,
Speaker 2: the only thing he has to hold over you is,
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm not signing for the kids. I'm
Speaker 2: not doing it.
Speaker 3: And that's what he did.
Speaker 2: Obviously, he is not signing for her girls to film
Speaker 2: this season.
Speaker 3: Now she does have an older daughter.
Speaker 2: We saw this episode as adorable. But that's the price
Speaker 2: you pay. And that's my advice to ever say it
Speaker 2: all the time, all the time. If you are divorced
Speaker 2: or getting divorced, whatever, and your ex is letting you
Speaker 2: film with the kids, be happy. Be happy because he
Speaker 2: can pull that card away from you. And then, you know,
Speaker 2: some shows are like, you know what, we don't need
Speaker 2: you because you can't show your whole life.
Speaker 1: Now, that's definitely listen, they're not getting rid of her
Speaker 1: because she's definitely performing with or without her kids. But
Speaker 1: when they need an excuse, they got one.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But also she started to talk to her mother and
Speaker 2: grandmother about she's dating somebody. But then she's saying like, yeah,
Speaker 2: we can't say his name or we're going to use
Speaker 2: a code name.
Speaker 1: We're not allowed to do that.
Speaker 2: So so I'm actually shocked that Bravo is that Bravo
Speaker 2: is letting her talk about her daughters not being able
Speaker 2: to film.
Speaker 3: So I literally in.
Speaker 2: Used, we never were able to do that when my
Speaker 2: kids were little and they couldn't film, and then they
Speaker 2: couldn't film. Because if she says her narcissistic ex, which
Speaker 2: she's still she.
Speaker 3: Has, no no, he's never going to allow that.
Speaker 1: And I thing is also talking bad about the kids
Speaker 1: in public, the kids parent and public. He could use
Speaker 1: that against her.
Speaker 2: Oh, trust me, I went through it all in court
Speaker 2: when my ex was trying to do the things he
Speaker 2: was doing to me. Everything I said or did, oh
Speaker 2: that he would try to pull that up in court. Luckily,
Speaker 2: my judge that I had was like, I don't care
Speaker 2: about this.
Speaker 1: Well, the judges I know in New Jersey, it's very
Speaker 1: strict you cannot bad mouth the other parent. No, they're children,
Speaker 1: and I would assume also on public on a public forum.
Speaker 2: But I'm actually shocked that brob was allowing Kelly to
Speaker 2: talk about how her ex won't let the kids film,
Speaker 2: like I said, I tried. I even said, can you
Speaker 2: just have them yell down to me? Can you see
Speaker 2: them walk upstairs from behind?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Can I put a damn mask on them like Michael
Speaker 2: Jackson did his kids? Like is there anything that I
Speaker 2: can do? Because I at the time was getting just
Speaker 2: annihilated and killed because my ex had put out that
Speaker 2: I was a monster mom.
Speaker 3: I didn't take care of my kids, and.
Speaker 2: Then my kids weren't on the show that I had
Speaker 2: been on for so many years. It was just now
Speaker 2: I'm like, probably happy that they didn't film happy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean right, yeah, that is what that was
Speaker 1: back in the wild West when Yeah, it was kind
Speaker 1: of a draconian way of filming. I call it where
Speaker 1: there was no hold barred, Nope and not that is
Speaker 1: it so much different now? Yes? And no?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Even the producers questioned Kelly about her T shirt in
Speaker 2: her confessional, and she thinks, because it's Tom Ford and
Speaker 2: it's one hundred and forty dollars, it's high fashion.
Speaker 3: Somebody lied to her.
Speaker 2: I think possibly I want to get her answer on this,
Speaker 2: but do you think that maybe she forgot her dress
Speaker 2: and that's kind of what she had on and she's like,
Speaker 2: let's just make the best of it. No, No, do
Speaker 2: you think because even like the producer's question, like, I
Speaker 2: know if I I mean, I don't always do. I've
Speaker 2: done expensive dresses. I've done one hundred dollars dresses. I
Speaker 2: don't really care about the price on it or if
Speaker 2: it's high fashion or tom Ford.
Speaker 1: I just think it was a bad choice. But you know,
Speaker 1: not too many people could wear a T shirt for
Speaker 1: a dress. She's four foot eleven.
Speaker 2: Right, But then you see her in another confessional and
Speaker 2: she looks so amazing that lack dress, and I'm it
Speaker 2: just doesn't it doesn't seem her style though she's all
Speaker 2: that goes off. All these girls are very over the
Speaker 2: top and the way they dress. So then it got
Speaker 2: me thinking maybe even yes, I know, Lunch, I mean,
Speaker 2: we'll get into Porscha's outfit later.
Speaker 1: Listen, here's the thing, Tamera, she didn't forget it, because
Speaker 1: when you show up for Confessionals, you have at least
Speaker 1: two hours of glam a lack right, you can't in
Speaker 1: that time somebody couldn't get her dressed to her in
Speaker 1: one way or another. Oh, she had forgotten at home maybe,
Speaker 1: or whatever her outfit was.
Speaker 2: I feel they want to send a PA to her
Speaker 2: house to go pick it up.
Speaker 1: They've done it to me, They've done it for me.
Speaker 1: They've gone for my jewelry. They've gone say.
Speaker 3: Well, Eddie, not Pa, but Eddie will go and PI.
Speaker 2: One time I forgot something and he brought it to me.
Speaker 2: But our green screen is about thirty minutes from my house.
Speaker 3: Is yours close?
Speaker 1: Well, it used to be down the street in Paul's office.
Speaker 2: Oh really, you have not started Confessionals yet? No, do
Speaker 2: you know that we are done filming. I have only
Speaker 2: done three confessionals.
Speaker 3: How many do you.
Speaker 2: We normally do three different looks, each look three times,
Speaker 2: so usually nine nine to ten confessionals. I've only done three,
Speaker 2: and we air in eight weeks or less than eight weeks.
Speaker 1: So that's not a long time. Maybe they're just taking
Speaker 1: some time editing. If there was different things going on,
Speaker 1: they have to find a way to make an arc
Speaker 1: and find what story they're going with and whatever. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and I think like tomorrow I have a confessional,
Speaker 2: and then I would imagine like every other week we're
Speaker 2: going to be doing confessionals. But a lot of times
Speaker 2: we do confessionals all the way through filming, which makes
Speaker 2: it difficult. I don't recommend it as producers because then
Speaker 2: people start seeing what the audience and the viewers are saying,
Speaker 2: and they see what side they pick on, and sometimes
Speaker 2: that will sway somebody's opinions about a certain person.
Speaker 3: Oh well, Tamor is.
Speaker 2: Getting it, so let's just keep giving it to it,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, something like that or.
Speaker 1: Normally what you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so kind of for that's like a little.
Speaker 1: Good insight for our listeners on the BTS. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel like yeah, yeah, yeah, because you think about it
Speaker 1: a little.
Speaker 2: Deeper, right, yeah, yeah, you think about you A lot
Speaker 2: of times people play into the comment section of social media.
Speaker 1: Right now more than ever.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So then Angela, phaedro Porsia, Andrew Good Lunch Bea
Speaker 2: shares that Kay thinks Portia and Drew are scheming against her. Okay,
Speaker 2: you and I sidebarred the other day when Kay Michelle
Speaker 2: came out with something on a podcast, which can you you.
Speaker 3: Have a better memory than me?
Speaker 2: Was she saying her she allows her husband, the.
Speaker 1: Girl husband, to have sex with other women, because if
Speaker 1: he's going to be a man, then she wants, you know,
Speaker 1: to let him be a man.
Speaker 3: And she said, it's not a man. No, it's not
Speaker 3: a man.
Speaker 1: She said, as long as he doesn't pay their bills
Speaker 1: because she doesn't want to talk about it, which is
Speaker 1: very honorable, But she does pay bills for fans. She'll
Speaker 1: take one a week or one a month or something,
Speaker 1: which to very nice or next thing, and she said
Speaker 1: that sometimes she even enjoys watching a video of him
Speaker 1: with another woman. Oh shit, yeah, that's deep. So she
Speaker 1: said that she allows it. But I got confused because
Speaker 1: then our first scene where we see them together, she
Speaker 1: wants to make sure he wore his boxers so that
Speaker 1: people couldn't see his and then also scrub.
Speaker 2: She commented on the dental hygienist or somebody that was
Speaker 2: at his office.
Speaker 1: Well, I thought the same thing. When that girl came
Speaker 1: out three or beyond, I forgot she was beautiful. I'm like,
Speaker 1: she wouldn't be working for my husband.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Okay, so we find out later what went down
Speaker 2: and who said what, and so you know what, how
Speaker 2: this information about or why she feels this way?
Speaker 1: We did, Andy Coka out on Watch What Happens Live
Speaker 1: because I haven't been able to watch Watch What Happens Live, So.
Speaker 2: On Watch What Happens Live, Andy did bring up the
Speaker 2: oyster scene and said, you're actually he kind of called
Speaker 2: her out, said, you're actually the one that brought this up,
Speaker 2: told us not to air it, but then you kept
Speaker 2: talking about it.
Speaker 1: See that's the mistake people make. They say they don't
Speaker 1: want something brought up, but then they talk about it
Speaker 1: themselves when they get mad.
Speaker 3: Well, see I've done that before.
Speaker 2: So they way back in the day when I think
Speaker 2: he had this party and she invited these people that
Speaker 2: she talked with prior to say that Eddie was gay
Speaker 2: and all this stuff.
Speaker 3: It was a big setup.
Speaker 2: And when I found out about they actually called me
Speaker 2: to tell me about it, and they said, listen not
Speaker 2: just do not comment about this. It's because you know what,
Speaker 2: it's to the point where when you're constantly calling somebody's
Speaker 2: husband's husband gay like bras over it.
Speaker 3: Andy said it a million times. I'm so over this.
Speaker 2: Stop villainizing it, weaponizing it, it's reponizing it. And they
Speaker 2: said to me, don't say anything and it won't have
Speaker 2: any legs.
Speaker 3: I couldn't help myself. I was livid because it.
Speaker 2: Was a whole scam behind my back and off camera
Speaker 2: to do this.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is then then you're making me
Speaker 1: understand more why she did it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you get so angry that you're like, you
Speaker 2: can't keep it in.
Speaker 1: Oh I can't.
Speaker 2: Well, it's because you don't drink.
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, when you drink drinking either?
Speaker 3: Is she not well?
Speaker 1: But she's emotional?
Speaker 2: Do you find her a little bit confusing because we
Speaker 2: hear this her talk about how she her husband has
Speaker 2: sex with other women. She likes to watch it as
Speaker 2: long as he doesn't pay the bills. And then it's like,
Speaker 2: you know, you have to wear your boxers and you
Speaker 2: shouldn't have this s dental hygienist. You know, I don't
Speaker 2: want you guys working together.
Speaker 1: And well, I I know swinger couples and their mentality
Speaker 1: of that is not that she's I mean I think
Speaker 1: that she has been or is or is open in
Speaker 1: that they're open in that relationship, in that way, but
Speaker 1: there's a control part of it. So you think what
Speaker 1: came Michelle's point is as long as she knows about it,
Speaker 1: it's okay. Yeah, as long as she approves of who
Speaker 1: that person is, it's okay.
Speaker 2: I that's not for me. And what I have seen in.
Speaker 1: That type of situation is sometimes the guy falls for
Speaker 1: the other woman who he's with, and then they start
Speaker 1: to do it behind the person's back.
Speaker 2: Yes, said, how does all the time We've seen it
Speaker 2: with celebrities, We've seen it with your friends, like it happens.
Speaker 3: All the time.
Speaker 1: Now it's a chance, you know.
Speaker 2: Do you think do you think that Kay is just
Speaker 2: a little paranoid about this situation? Because later on we
Speaker 2: do hear you know that Portia is talking to one
Speaker 2: of her exes, and the information that came out did
Speaker 2: seem like that big of a deal to me.
Speaker 1: So I think that Kay Michelle is I think this
Speaker 1: is a very hard job, not job. I think that
Speaker 1: this which she you know, being a housewife, is it
Speaker 1: hard on her?
Speaker 2: I didn't watch the show that she was on, was
Speaker 2: it Love and Hip Hop?
Speaker 1: I didn't watch it.
Speaker 2: I don't know, So I don't know how that show operates.
Speaker 1: I don't. I think she's operating on her principles.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm confused of her principles though.
Speaker 1: She gets activated. So she's feeling like, Porsia, if you
Speaker 1: dated somebody I used to be with, you should have
Speaker 1: told me, And quite frankly, the rest of the cast
Speaker 1: agrees with her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I do agree on that.
Speaker 2: But so I'm confused also because last week she was
Speaker 2: saying that they were plotting against her, trying to bring
Speaker 2: out some information. We later find out that's possibly that
Speaker 2: the ex boyfriend said that whatever about her private parts.
Speaker 2: And now we're hearing in this episode that she's mad
Speaker 2: because Porsia had talked to somebody she used to date
Speaker 2: but didn't tell her.
Speaker 3: I get that, but I don't think that's scheming.
Speaker 1: I don't know that that's what she meant was scheming.
Speaker 3: Do you think either are just two different things?
Speaker 1: Two different things? Okay, yes, okay, so it's two different things.
Speaker 1: And I think here she got a call from this
Speaker 1: guy out of nowhere. Yeah, it's not like she talks
Speaker 1: to them, but they're friendly. I do it not that movie?
Speaker 3: Is it a movie together? Is that what it is?
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but I doubt that if they're friendly,
Speaker 1: this is the one that put out the rumor about her. Yeah, yeah, so,
Speaker 1: but but what this man did say, and she did
Speaker 1: say this in when she was explaining all this, is
Speaker 1: that Porsia said nice things about Kay when he did
Speaker 1: speak to her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just all confusing.
Speaker 1: Well, but she also said that he spoke about Porsche
Speaker 1: in a way that she will not repeat as a woman,
Speaker 1: Oh until she gets mad.
Speaker 3: Now, when.
Speaker 2: Their phage was telling them all this about Okay, Porsia
Speaker 2: thinks that it's just her voices in her head that's
Speaker 2: telling her this.
Speaker 3: Drew says she wants.
Speaker 2: To see receipts, show me receipts. I agree, Like, I agree,
Speaker 2: show me the receipts. And then and then I started thinking,
Speaker 2: is Kay just paranoid?
Speaker 3: But I guess we'll find.
Speaker 1: Out camera, because it does happen in this business. Somebody
Speaker 1: online gets into her DMS and starts to tell her
Speaker 1: things half truths, full truths. This person said this about you.
Speaker 1: It was a common thing, and and it takes a
Speaker 1: strong person to say I'm not going to open that
Speaker 1: DM and I'm not going to listen. Now, I'm just speculating.
Speaker 1: We don't know where this information came to her from.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But also on the flip side, I have had
Speaker 2: new Housewives come on throughout the years that I've been
Speaker 2: on the show, and they instantly think that everybody's against them,
Speaker 2: producers want to make them look bad. You know, they
Speaker 2: got misinformation that like, you're just coming on the.
Speaker 3: Show to be destroyed.
Speaker 2: First of all, if you really think that, why would
Speaker 2: you come on the show just to be destroyed? But
Speaker 2: I think that people watch the show see it, and
Speaker 2: maybe that's what she's like, just paranoid, like what's coming
Speaker 2: at me next?
Speaker 1: So she is I don't upset. Last week we were
Speaker 1: all frustrated with her not saying in that moment.
Speaker 3: And here was another episode and she still didn't say.
Speaker 1: But she did. She told Phaedra it was Portia and
Speaker 1: Drew trying to fish for information about her to come
Speaker 1: after her with it. That's what she was told.
Speaker 2: Well, I want more information.
Speaker 3: That's that's not enough.
Speaker 1: What was the information they were looking for? Who told you?
Speaker 1: First of all, I'll eat it if someone has told me,
Speaker 1: and it's been many times over the past ten years,
Speaker 1: if someone told me something that somebody was trying to
Speaker 1: do to me, unless I'm going to come full on
Speaker 1: about what was said and who told me. I'm not
Speaker 1: repeating it. Yeah, because if someone's going to come to
Speaker 1: me and say I said something, don't even start with
Speaker 1: that conversation until you tell me where it came from.
Speaker 1: Otherwise I agree keep it, because then I think you're
Speaker 1: a lion, or then I think that you really didn't
Speaker 1: get this. So I have a rule. If you want
Speaker 1: to tell me I said something, tell me where it
Speaker 1: came from and what it is. Don't fucking be weird
Speaker 1: about it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, then Porscha and her sister weigh in on the
Speaker 2: Mike or Sway? Which one is better match for Porscha?
Speaker 2: Who do you think Porsia has more chemistry with Sway?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Well you've been around them, so you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sway is a sexy person. She just
Speaker 1: exudes confidence.
Speaker 2: Did you know Sway has a twin sister.
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 2: I just saw for some reason Sway's Instagram. He was
Speaker 2: popping up on my you know, social media, and so
Speaker 2: I found out two things recently, that she has a
Speaker 2: twin sister and that she makes eight figures. Oh that's
Speaker 2: what I saw. You know, when somebody goes, Hey, she do.
Speaker 3: From what I saw. You know those those salon.
Speaker 2: Spaces where you buy a big building, you put a
Speaker 2: bunch of different.
Speaker 1: Suites like Phoenix Suite.
Speaker 3: Yes, we have those two Phoenix sweets.
Speaker 2: So it shows that that's what she does. She builds
Speaker 2: these maybe for in Maybe I don't know, I don't
Speaker 2: know the extent of it, but yeah, she.
Speaker 3: You think the sways.
Speaker 1: Swag Her name should be Swag not because she's got
Speaker 1: so much swag, charisma, the way she holds herself. Andy
Speaker 1: loved her because when they were on together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I don't know her personally, but you can
Speaker 2: tell she's got some good energy just from watching her
Speaker 2: social media and her on the show.
Speaker 1: To see the Valentine's Day she made for for Porsche.
Speaker 1: She had the whole house or the room draped in red. Wow,
Speaker 1: like stuff every rose petals everywhere, rose petals draping from
Speaker 1: the ceiling, flowers or mess bags, gifts, dinner, a bed
Speaker 1: there with stuff on it like crazy, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: know how you're gonna ever get away from that Porsche
Speaker 1: because I look at you and I'm like turned on
Speaker 1: for you. I don't know what to.
Speaker 2: Tell Porsche had said that that Mike wants kids, it's
Speaker 2: a deal breaker, and then she went on to also
Speaker 2: say later on that Sway wants kids and carry them herself,
Speaker 2: and that she would carry on herself and maybe Porscha's
Speaker 2: how old is Porsche Because she's saying she wanted her
Speaker 2: sister's eggs.
Speaker 1: It's so funny because later on smids, that's weird. She's done.
Speaker 1: I don't blame her, but.
Speaker 2: She's you probably still get some eggs out of that.
Speaker 2: I don't know what about it, say a.
Speaker 1: Lot, even the the like the shots and the things
Speaker 1: to retreat. It's not any easy thing to go through.
Speaker 3: It's just not But what about the snake?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Why why don't we have to see that snake?
Speaker 3: Are you gonna get?
Speaker 1: She said in her confessional, even though it was like
Speaker 1: a sound bite or a which she's fine given. She said,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get rid of all the snakes in
Speaker 1: my life. My daughter's bringing them back.
Speaker 2: In Her daughter really wanted a snake.
Speaker 1: Why did I think? She said a lizard?
Speaker 2: Chile, That's what I thought, lizard, Like my son had
Speaker 2: a lizard. Ryan had a lizard and he loved he loved.
Speaker 2: Weird odd creatures. He had a charantula for a while,
Speaker 2: tans and he was little Tarancela got loose in the house.
Speaker 3: That was not fun.
Speaker 2: Ended up finding it. Then he had a pet lizard.
Speaker 2: He took the lizard everywhere with him. I was at
Speaker 2: work one day, he's at the babysitters. He took the
Speaker 2: lizard swimming in the pool with him and the lizard died.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm like another therapy session.
Speaker 2: I know he wanted weird anyways, So at the surrogacy clinic,
Speaker 2: Shmia gets emotional about the process. She only has one
Speaker 2: embryo left that is a boy, and Gerald wants a boy.
Speaker 2: Do you think he's putting too much pressure on her
Speaker 2: about having a son? Because she asks like if I
Speaker 2: don't have the son, like, is he gonna leave me?
Speaker 1: No, it's not a deal breaker. It is not a
Speaker 1: deal I mean, I don't see it as that. I
Speaker 1: think he's a wonderful man. I think he loves his wife,
Speaker 1: he supports her. I think he's allowed to want They
Speaker 1: haven't exhausted all possibilities yet. There's still an embryo left.
Speaker 1: There's still hope.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well there's a bunch left, but there's only one
Speaker 2: one may.
Speaker 1: Right, he wants a boy, and I can understand, you know,
Speaker 1: is if a woman wanted something right.
Speaker 3: I don't know much about Sarahcusey.
Speaker 2: And I know a little bit about IVF, not much,
Speaker 2: just because I've had friends that come through. It. Is
Speaker 2: it normal to have like five failed transfers. I don't
Speaker 2: know about it because I'm like, WHOA, you go through
Speaker 2: all that and then you get a sarrogate and then
Speaker 2: it fails.
Speaker 3: That would be hard, But I.
Speaker 1: Guess it's something that's possibly could happen five of them.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I honestly, I don't know the logistics, but I really
Speaker 1: wish them a lot of luck. I know it's a
Speaker 1: lot of pressure, and you know, I understand his want
Speaker 1: for a boy.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, then she SIMI then goes on because Kelly shows
Speaker 2: up and she's talking to her and she's saying how
Speaker 2: her husband is uncomfortable with her and sex scenes acting understood.
Speaker 2: I could totally understand that. I wouldn't want I wouldn't
Speaker 2: want my husband doing that. I think you wouldn't want
Speaker 2: me doing that.
Speaker 1: Even a listers and I've heard them talk they can't
Speaker 1: be it can't be a comfortable thing to watch unless
Speaker 1: there k Michelle, you know that.
Speaker 2: They have like a sometimes, like on our show, when
Speaker 2: kids are little, they bring in a child psychologist that
Speaker 2: watches over what is filmed with a small child. They
Speaker 2: haven't done this in a while, but they have done
Speaker 2: it in the past, and they want to just make
Speaker 2: sure everything is okay for them. They're they're there to
Speaker 2: advocate for the child that is filming and sex scenes.
Speaker 2: They have like somebody on set that make sure everybody's
Speaker 2: comfortable and things are covered.
Speaker 3: And all that.
Speaker 2: It's going to be the most uncomfortable feeling in the world.
Speaker 1: Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively had that whole thing going on,
Speaker 1: and he had in writing she said there was an
Speaker 1: uncomfortable scene with him and her and he goes, you
Speaker 1: opted not to have the whatever you call it, that
Speaker 1: know what they're called, Yeah, the person the wellness team
Speaker 1: during the sex scene, the intimacy coordinator.
Speaker 2: She chose not to and then bitched about it. I
Speaker 2: couldn't follow that whole Justin and Blake thing. It was
Speaker 2: just too much. It was just too much.
Speaker 1: It was so ugly and so yeah grows but but yeah,
Speaker 1: so so yes, I do know of that.
Speaker 2: What show is she on? What movie is she does?
Speaker 3: She do a lot of movies.
Speaker 2: I wasn't aware of that.
Speaker 1: Oh, oh shouldn't. Oh, I don't know. I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I mean I knew this is something she was getting into.
Speaker 1: Guys in my age and as you get older and
Speaker 1: you have children and you have all this going on,
Speaker 1: you have the housewives, and you're your business and now
Speaker 1: you're doing a When do you not want to start
Speaker 1: do something else? I'm fucking good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to fucking do another thing. That's how
Speaker 3: I feel.
Speaker 2: Fucking do another thing. Podcast.
Speaker 1: I'm taking a sword class today. Though. Oh god, they
Speaker 1: make power up?
Speaker 3: Is somebody making you?
Speaker 1: It's on me? Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you have fun with that? Sounds horrible. Sway
Speaker 2: and Porscha go out to dinner. Sway asked Porsche if
Speaker 2: she could see herself being with a woman for the
Speaker 2: rest of her life. Poor Porscha asked, then are you proposing?
Speaker 2: Where's my ring? Sway does say she wants to settle
Speaker 2: down in a year now. Porsche had said this, which
Speaker 2: I didn't know that they have known. She's known Sway
Speaker 2: for like eight, nine or maybe ten years. But she
Speaker 2: wasn't ready to date a girl at the time.
Speaker 1: Right, and she went through a lot of life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, at I feel like timing is everything. Maybe
Speaker 1: this is the time for them, and possibly earlier it wasn't.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of hope for this relationship. I
Speaker 1: feel sad if they break up. It's the late life lesbians.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, they are so happy.
Speaker 2: I talked about this on a podcast recently, and everybody's like, oh, God,
Speaker 2: dear is going to be a lesbian.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: I just said, like, honestly, if something were to happen
Speaker 2: in my relationship, who knows what somebody he passed away
Speaker 2: or he left me or whatever. I'm like, I just
Speaker 2: think that I would just be a lesbian. People got
Speaker 2: myself be aleized me. Just find me a best girlfriend
Speaker 2: and we can just hang out and have fun.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you the women that I know, they
Speaker 1: really just seem happy. Women know how to take care
Speaker 1: of the women. Yeah, look at look at uh chrishell Strauss,
Speaker 1: so happy, g Flip, I know, so happy, Gabby Wendy
Speaker 1: so happy. Yeah. Yeah, Like I could go on and
Speaker 1: on because I do notice this, but listen, all the
Speaker 1: power to you, ladies. The Lady Pond. They're swimming in
Speaker 1: the Lady Ocean.
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of swimming the girls or I have at
Speaker 2: Phaedra's meditation event.
Speaker 1: Honestly, the taxes in New Jersey are enough to kill you.
Speaker 1: That's what I literally kill you. How come I never
Speaker 1: see Phaeder's boyfriends ever? And she don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about it because she said that her and Fate, her
Speaker 1: and Porsche had dated the same guy, and.
Speaker 2: She didn't about she spoke about it, right, No, we
Speaker 2: didn't know she played the flute either. We didn't know
Speaker 2: she played the damn flute. This girl does everything she's yeah,
Speaker 2: well we don't know if she plays the skin plup
Speaker 2: she talks about really playing. She was really playing. I know.
Speaker 1: That is so crazy.
Speaker 2: And it was sounded really beautiful. And they're laying on
Speaker 2: these big blow up mats they're in the pool and
Speaker 2: then suddenly whose was it? Oh, Samia starts losing air. Now,
Speaker 2: how about Porscha coming in with that outfit and Cynthia's like,
Speaker 2: Porscha's ass is like two asses put together.
Speaker 1: That was hysterical.
Speaker 2: Do you think that she had to outdo Shamia from
Speaker 2: last week?
Speaker 3: That's why she came in I never.
Speaker 1: Think like that, Like, my mind doesn't work like that.
Speaker 1: I don't feel it. I mean, it's not out of
Speaker 1: you know, it tracks for her to walk around with
Speaker 1: her ass now she's they even flashed back to another
Speaker 1: time that she.
Speaker 3: She had her ass out.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean I think that.
Speaker 2: This is when cay Michelle drops upon my ex nache
Speaker 2: from Queen's Court called Kate, to tell her Portia has
Speaker 2: been calling him.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's recent or if it's in
Speaker 3: the past, but cay.
Speaker 2: Michelle's like, she was pretty calm at the very beginning.
Speaker 2: She was coming off pretty calm, like she's.
Speaker 3: Like, okay, I was.
Speaker 1: Like, did she take a zenat She was until she
Speaker 1: wasn't calm, and then she lost it and she's like
Speaker 1: if you're pop locking and dropping on someone's sausage, Okay.
Speaker 1: She comes out with these amazing Sometimes I have to
Speaker 1: rewind it. I have to go back and listen to
Speaker 1: it again because I don't always get here at all.
Speaker 2: I know, so pinky, She's like, what are we doing here?
Speaker 2: This is weird. It's giving cult. They've already tried to
Speaker 2: kill Shemiah. Like she's like, just give me the organic
Speaker 2: f dis in it.
Speaker 1: But it was beautiful. Well they had it was grasped meat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she well she didn't eat that, but she said,
Speaker 2: this tastes like organic.
Speaker 1: It looked beautiful. One of the difference. I thought it
Speaker 1: was amazing. I thought Drew was really embracing the moment.
Speaker 1: Pinky was on her raft with one eye open. She
Speaker 1: wasn't trusting nobody. No, you know, Shemiah was out. She was.
Speaker 1: She seemed annoyed at the whole thing. Of course, Cay
Speaker 1: Michelle can't get in because she has her surgery, probably
Speaker 1: still healing from her surgery. You can't get in the water.
Speaker 1: So she even brought a doctor's note, she said. And
Speaker 1: then Kelly Kelly showed I thought it was amazing. Kelly
Speaker 1: showed up, not happy.
Speaker 2: Kelly and Kelly Kelly, she hasn't been happy lately. She
Speaker 2: really Helly is going through going through hard.
Speaker 1: Like the stress of what the frig this girl is
Speaker 1: going through? You know what happens, You've been going You've
Speaker 1: gone through it, broke through your divorce, trying to handle
Speaker 1: the kids, trial, trying to handle businesses and bills and
Speaker 1: and just everything, and really after it goes on for
Speaker 1: too long. It's exhausting break you like, I think Kelly's
Speaker 1: at her wits end. But why does she keep going
Speaker 1: after Portia?
Speaker 2: I don't know, but there is like.
Speaker 1: From can you ask her that when you do her interview?
Speaker 3: I will absolutely ask her that.
Speaker 2: So they're at dinner and you know, ship's starting to
Speaker 2: go down. Andrew tails Kate to stop saying Black's name, and.
Speaker 1: I would like her too too.
Speaker 2: Stop we we should not be talking about this man anymore.
Speaker 1: You said this two episodes ago.
Speaker 2: I'm talking There's there's no reason to be talking about him.
Speaker 2: Nothing happened, nothing went down.
Speaker 3: We got it. He slipped into her DMS. That's it.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: But she didn't want it brought up. She didn't want
Speaker 1: it brought up. But then she keeps bringing it up.
Speaker 1: It's another case of that.
Speaker 3: And then they just get into a huge fight.
Speaker 2: And then and Fatris like, uh, we have a noise
Speaker 2: ordinance here, guys?
Speaker 3: Can you shut up so much.
Speaker 1: For the Zen party? I know?
Speaker 3: And then I hear Drew.
Speaker 2: Did you hear her say to Kate Michelle, obviously you
Speaker 2: don't fit in.
Speaker 1: I did. I'm like, WHOA, I've felt that this is
Speaker 1: a lot for k I don't think Kay needs this
Speaker 1: in her life, and I think that it's a lot
Speaker 1: for her emotionally. She has a very big life. But
Speaker 1: did you see what she said to Drew m Maybe
Speaker 1: Drew's like, you're looking up my resume? She goes, it
Speaker 1: didn't take long. There's nothing on it.
Speaker 2: Oh there, These girls are so quick.
Speaker 3: They really are they they are yeh.
Speaker 2: And then you know, Kay accuses Porsche purposely not telling
Speaker 2: her about the guy that that she dated, that they
Speaker 2: both dated. And then, like we said earlier, all the
Speaker 2: women kind of agreed like if I dated somebody you dated,
Speaker 2: I would tell you. I would be like, hey, they
Speaker 2: weren't even close before the show.
Speaker 1: And that's what Porsche said. And I agree Porsche should
Speaker 1: have said something to her at some point. I don't
Speaker 1: know what point that would have been. Well, but you know,
Speaker 1: Kay very early on had a bad taste of Porsche
Speaker 1: and about the way she went for Kelly, saying you
Speaker 1: slept with that married man.
Speaker 2: But Kay doesn't set the tone, kind of set the tone.
Speaker 1: He doesn't know that Kelly from the jump has been
Speaker 1: busting Porsche's bulls.
Speaker 3: Yeah, now Kelly.
Speaker 1: They speak pay one what about.
Speaker 2: Kelly with the wine in the face to Porsche and
Speaker 2: Port like, my first instinct would be to smack that
Speaker 2: out of her hands so fast, And Porscha's like.
Speaker 3: Get that out of my face, Get my face has.
Speaker 1: Come and I and last time I was with you,
Speaker 1: not too long ago, I said to Porscha, You've come
Speaker 1: a long way from dragging people across the straight stage
Speaker 1: by their hair. You have come very far, she has.
Speaker 1: And I feel like ever since Porscha's divorce from she's
Speaker 1: mellowed out a little bit. Yeah, she's mellowed because you
Speaker 1: know what, she doesn't have the financial stress she used
Speaker 1: to have. That takes a big burden off someone.
Speaker 3: Now Kelly has it.
Speaker 1: Now Kelly has it, see what I mean? You know,
Speaker 1: financial stress on top of being a single mother, on
Speaker 1: top of trying to keep it that will put you
Speaker 1: over the edge. Is very financial financially stable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why do you think Kelly thought it was a
Speaker 2: good idea to open up another restaurant when she's going
Speaker 2: through financial issues?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to ask her that. Yeah, all right, well,
Speaker 3: there you have it.
Speaker 2: It's a good episode.
Speaker 3: We had a lot to catch up on a lot
Speaker 3: to catch up.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you something I feel. The season started off
Speaker 1: a little slow, but it is making up for lost time.
Speaker 2: It is, it is picking up.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, thank you again for tuning in.
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