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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded

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Speaker 2: like you was talking to Kirsty.

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Speaker 3: You definitely say to welcome.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you want to say together Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, you know we do this every year and

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Speaker 2: we are giving you our twenty twenty four recap of

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Speaker 2: horrid Blao. This is y'all slash Decisions Decisions, bitch we

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Speaker 2: because y'all.

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Speaker 4: Know we don't. Did you bring in by now?

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Speaker 2: Sorry by the way for scaring yours. We are here

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Speaker 2: and here to stay. Okay, So I'm really excited and

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Speaker 2: normally love this episode because you guys get to see

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Speaker 2: some of our favorite moments or guests throughout twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: four and boy do we have stop. Okay, So the

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Speaker 2: first episode, I'm actually going to take us back to

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Speaker 2: our recording on January twenty sixth, but you guys got

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Speaker 2: this at the end of February. We actually shot this

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Speaker 2: when we were in Las Vegs for our av N

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Speaker 2: nominee and I am really truly still obsessed with this guest.

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Speaker 2: I think we need a part two and so hopefully

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Speaker 2: maybe we can bring her on to Patreon to give

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Speaker 2: us more tea about I think it was her engagement

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Speaker 2: for marriage from the guys she met at McDonald's. Okay, y'all,

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Speaker 2: this episode is with Mia Darque or at bitch putting

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Speaker 2: Jay Senior on Instagram and on this episode we discussed

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Speaker 2: from sub to dom. She's a dominatrix who had the

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Speaker 2: best stories to tell like these.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen, you said, like a Jamaican many jobs.

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Speaker 1: What is the job that's puty on the donald Let's see,

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Speaker 1: I am a professional dominatrix. I have my welding license,

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Speaker 1: I work in medical health and I do mental health. U.

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Speaker 4: I let's see. That's say I run my own kay business.

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Speaker 4: I think I did? Uh I have. I'm a hustle bitch, period.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about the jobs within the professional dominatrix, inside

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Speaker 1: the professional domination, because it's not just like beating eggs up?

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Speaker 4: Is it? Pain pigs?

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's everything I've seen some of the

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Speaker 5: ladies job had on here, like the oh he likes

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Speaker 5: to jack off to my shit? That kind of shit. Yes,

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Speaker 5: that that's real. The struggle is real. That is what

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Speaker 5: they're coming for. And my website just say red is

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Speaker 5: literally for that reason I used to have until somebody

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Speaker 5: was like, you're gonna get sued for that shit. It

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Speaker 5: used to play the intro for it ain't for everybody

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Speaker 5: from jay Z.

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Speaker 4: That's hilarious.

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Speaker 5: If you go on X videos right now, I have

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Speaker 5: a video up there with a boy sucking my strap

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Speaker 5: on and it plays to bitch got.

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Speaker 4: A penis I'm not mad at that, not mad at

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Speaker 4: that at all.

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Speaker 3: What I guess then, what things do you offer across

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Speaker 3: the gambit?

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Speaker 4: Because again, like.

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Speaker 5: Across the board, there's like what you would think of

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Speaker 5: as general fetish like humanization, bimblification, like boys who want

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Speaker 5: to be transformed into slutty women, beautiful women, very high end,

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Speaker 5: high class, elegant bro they want to be transformed, Yes.

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Speaker 4: They want to be transformed.

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Speaker 5: They don't want to be trans they don't know no, no,

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Speaker 5: they don't want to process.

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Speaker 4: What you do? You are a judge for cross dressing?

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Speaker 2: Is this is cross dressing only something that you would

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Speaker 2: consider men do?

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Speaker 3: Or I mean, is it across the board?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 4: Catch me? You saw my pictures. That's a hand full

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Speaker 4: of wig right now.

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Speaker 5: And by the time it gets hot in summertime and

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Speaker 5: I get to do my month and a half, almost

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Speaker 5: two months, for traveling across l A back over here

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Speaker 5: and pinging back and forth doing my circuit. I'll be

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Speaker 5: slapped fucking bald, I'll ship all hot outside. That's not

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Speaker 5: my deal. Like, I am not here to make you happy.

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Speaker 5: It is absolutely the other way around. If you don't

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Speaker 5: make me happy, you don't have room in my circle.

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Speaker 2: So when when they when they come for you and

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Speaker 2: want to transform like you said and get into cross

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Speaker 2: dressing and dress up?

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Speaker 4: What what does that entail? What do you guys do? What?

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Speaker 5: What is the role playing aspect? What are they paying for?

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Speaker 5: You need to know they are paying for or the

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Speaker 5: experience of one. I'm doing it to you. So you're

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Speaker 5: getting the hands Yeah, seriously, like I'm doing this to you,

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Speaker 5: be grateful when I'm helping you the fuck out, motherfucker.

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Speaker 5: You could be taking your ass the party shit, getting

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Speaker 5: a bad wig. It's motherfucking cheap ass fucking lingerie. No

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Speaker 5: PU please, So you help them dress up? Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: will take grown ass man to the fucking hood because

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Speaker 5: they're worried about Oh my mother, oh my aunt's my

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Speaker 5: grandma shops here, blah blah, blah, we can't go to

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Speaker 5: Lane Bryant. Well, let me tell you were about to

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Speaker 5: hop over one whole city and go to rain We're

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Speaker 5: going to go to the hood and we're going to Rainbow.

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Speaker 5: We're going to It's Fashion. We're going to Ashley Stee guys,

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Speaker 5: and we gotta get you like the good sized boots.

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Speaker 1: Is the part of the going shopping together? A part

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Speaker 1: of public humiliation? Do you make this so they get

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Speaker 1: out of the Oh?

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Speaker 5: In my phone, I have a video of a boy

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Speaker 5: standing inside of Jenny O's in Dallas, Texas, right outside

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Speaker 5: of Dallas and Duncanville, and I'm making him pay for

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Speaker 5: all the shit. I'm gonna dress him up in that night,

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Speaker 5: the wig that he bought, the nylons he bought, and

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Speaker 5: I have the camera right in his fucking face while

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Speaker 5: the little girl is bringing him up. And I was like, Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: you know, nothing shit is for me. These aren't even

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Speaker 5: my colors. That's not my palette. I'm a spring. He's

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Speaker 5: a winner. This is all for him, isn't it, bitch?

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Speaker 4: Huh? Yes, mistress?

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you because this is what I like

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Speaker 3: to know, isn't it big?

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Speaker 4: Something like that? The shopping about what is the going

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Speaker 4: rate for that experience?

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Speaker 5: Uh, non known clients to me fresh off the boat,

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Speaker 5: four hundred dollars an hour.

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Speaker 4: That is the bare bones man. I also do military

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Speaker 4: discounts em T public service workers because I'm like this.

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Speaker 5: Everybody can't afford me, and most of the guys who

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Speaker 5: are into me now that I'm in myforities have turned

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Speaker 5: into babies.

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Speaker 4: There is a bunch of cubs out there like, mommy,

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Speaker 4: oh wow, let me.

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Speaker 1: Ask for four hundred an hour. You've been doing this

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Speaker 1: so long, so you're obviously right. Like when I'm my

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Speaker 1: my thing I spend the most money on nowadays is

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Speaker 1: breeding right?

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Speaker 4: Some of the bits? So my one fifty.

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Speaker 1: So when people are paying more for a domination experience,

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Speaker 1: what type of care generally comes with that?

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Speaker 5: I don't care what you're paying. The care is always

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Speaker 5: going to be the same. It's always gonna be. We

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Speaker 5: are taking what the fuck I need you to crash

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Speaker 5: your car for after you left for my motherfucking place,

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Speaker 5: and then the police ask me one hundred and one

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Speaker 5: fucking questions aftercare is absolutely needed. Let's get some water

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Speaker 5: into you. You want a cookie, you want some pedia light,

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Speaker 5: let's pop one of these gluecoast pills into you because

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Speaker 5: you look a little shaky. I keep a first aid

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Speaker 5: kit with me, and it's not just band aids, and

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Speaker 5: just in case I jazz open, I got like a

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Speaker 5: two single tail whips in my purse right now because

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Speaker 5: I just left the showroom for.

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Speaker 1: What's some of the most extreme I would guess I

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Speaker 1: would say role play that you've had that.

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Speaker 4: Where you I don't know if we can say it

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Speaker 4: on this show because I d.

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Speaker 5: You didn't hear that last part. I don't know if

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Speaker 5: I feel like being arrested. Okay, I can tell you something.

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Speaker 5: It won't get me arrested, but y'all might be kind

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Speaker 5: of shocked by I've coloriformed a boy coming from the

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Speaker 5: airport before it, put him in the trunk of my

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Speaker 5: car and rolled the fuck out.

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Speaker 4: Holy do you want to do that?

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Speaker 3: That don't sound like crazy?

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Speaker 4: I know it isn't crazy.

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Speaker 1: I was like that kink seems like something to me

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Speaker 1: that feels okay, like I get it. Like some kinks,

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Speaker 1: I don't write like we had on't.

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Speaker 5: I know one of the kings you absolutely don't like.

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Speaker 5: You don't like the butt stuff and I get it.

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Speaker 5: Saw the girl's ass who like.

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Speaker 4: Just opened I think that was No. We had someone

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Speaker 4: on him though.

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Speaker 1: You interviewed her and she said they wanted a hamster

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Speaker 1: in a blender.

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Speaker 4: No no, oh yeah, no no.

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Speaker 5: The trampling extreme trampling, where they wait, what is that

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Speaker 5: called extreme extreme trampling and or squishing, which means they

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Speaker 5: want you to use live animals and like literally step

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Speaker 3: Have you have you had someone ask oh, I've.

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Speaker 5: Got plenty of people. I got a size thirteen women's

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Speaker 5: foot pudding, of course, and they want, well, what if

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Speaker 5: they wanted you to killously? I had a boy was like,

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Speaker 5: I will give you two thousand dollars if you take

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Speaker 5: this bag of white mice that was inside of a

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Speaker 5: pillow case and just trample them with your feet until

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Speaker 4: The other badness was like, oh, I hate leeches.

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Speaker 5: Would you be willing to like whack a bag full

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Speaker 5: of leeches and then like step all over them. I've

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Speaker 5: had some crazy ass fucking you do this shit for

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Speaker 5: twenty five years. It is gonna be some motherfuckers out

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Speaker 5: there like, hey, but have you heard this ship?

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Speaker 1: So the chloroform to me wasn't as crazy.

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Speaker 4: Where do you buy chloroform? That's why I was crazy

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Speaker 4: to me? How you just don't don't ask? Okay, never mind.

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Speaker 4: I was just like, I'm trying to keep you off,

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Speaker 4: but I'm trying to keep all three of us from going.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Skipedia seven king, like you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Like I think of bondage. I think of like, you know,

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Speaker 1: having to be like submissive to so that to me

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Speaker 1: is in there. I guess I can't get the trampling

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Speaker 1: animal thing.

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Speaker 4: Could you not know either?

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Speaker 5: Because I told them both now I am a loving

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Speaker 5: dog and cat mom ill personal egg cringe.

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Speaker 4: It's given the it's.

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Speaker 2: Given thee step away from Dahmer like if you want

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Speaker 2: to do that, like you want.

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Speaker 5: Some like that, you're two seconds away from Like, let's

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Speaker 5: find the darkest part of the internet, underneath the marry

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Speaker 5: on the crunch of the Internet.

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Speaker 4: I need some fucking smut.

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Speaker 5: And I like, don't get me wrong, I am a

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Speaker 5: absolute smut puddler, but the kind of smut that you're

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Speaker 5: asking for is not the kind of smeth I don't

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Speaker 5: even know.

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Speaker 4: I forgot to put my fucking phone on silent.

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Speaker 1: Tell us what you've said no to.

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Speaker 4: Beyond animals, I said no to making two siblings. Fuck,

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Speaker 4: I've said no, I ain't gonna hold you. Was the twins?

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Speaker 4: Do they look good? Okay, I'm the Mormons. That's not surprising.

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Speaker 4: It was one request from the other one was can

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Speaker 4: I fuck my sister in front of you? Oh? And

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Speaker 4: I was like, any other time, I love me a

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Speaker 6: But right now, no, Well, is that something you would

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And is that consensual even.

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Speaker 5: If it's between the two of them and they've already

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Speaker 5: They wanted somebody to be the facilitator.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I've already told you.

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Speaker 1: I think the most disgusting thing ever said on this

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Speaker 1: show was Jason Love having sex with someone's daughter.

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Speaker 4: Well in front of the husband, with the mother bread Like.

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Speaker 1: Since people say, oh, he's told that story different ways

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Speaker 1: or may it was a lie, I hope that's true

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Speaker 1: because that checked me out of I mean.

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Speaker 4: I ain't gonna hold you.

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Speaker 3: I've I've said this.

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Speaker 2: I would like brothers or even twins that just look

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Speaker 2: real real, Fine.

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Speaker 5: That's the whole thing. It's the you're forgetting that they're

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Speaker 5: genetically related. In the back here, you tossed that ship

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Speaker 5: the fuck out like it's the garbage last week. Inside

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Speaker 5: of your head, you're like, these two hot motherfuckers, and

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Speaker 5: I just want to fuck.

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Speaker 4: Them both, yes onup of my head.

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Speaker 2: I could name a few sets of brothers now, but

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna name I mean a son, son father.

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Speaker 2: I've said that, that's been kind of now. Clearly they're

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Speaker 2: not gonna be sucking each other's dick. This is like

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Speaker 2: a trained gang bang situation I'm playing out here. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to a father and a son play with

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Speaker 2: each other, but they can both play with me.

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Speaker 5: And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. As long as

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Speaker 5: everybody signed off, I'm like, yeah, I'm okay with this.

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Speaker 5: I'm okay with I'm okay with this.

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Speaker 1: The dad paid for him to watch his daughter.

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Speaker 2: So here's the thing I don't think. And look, here's

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Speaker 2: how sick my mind is going. If a father had

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Speaker 4: I think I would even let the daddy in the room.

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Speaker 4: I know I that does. I meant your.

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Speaker 5: To understand that, Like when it comes to kinks, when

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Speaker 5: it comes to fetish, when it comes to what's inside

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Speaker 4: It's inside of your head. You're not gonna have a

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Speaker 5: It's when you let it out other people then judge them.

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Speaker 1: They are okay, I'm not even joking 'all.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't believe this.

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Speaker 1: I started trying to look up the episode, saying, what

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Speaker 1: was my favorite episode this year? Turns out top of

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Speaker 4: I don't add another for some.

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Speaker 1: But nothing was funnier than that one white bitch who

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Speaker 1: three fifty two, Weezy had a four some. I wish

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Speaker 1: that we had a little more dialogue of what threesomes

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Speaker 1: what if it happens tonight?

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Speaker 3: Which I think couples should do. Yeah, I agree, and

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Speaker 3: we didn't.

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Speaker 1: But like that was whatever. So it's our second night

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Speaker 1: in Sayulita and I'm already on a high. We're talking

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Speaker 1: about how we care about each other out word whatever. Uh,

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Speaker 1: so boom, we go to this restaurant that's recommended. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it's like a seven thirty reservation. We're both really tired

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Speaker 4: So we go upstairs.

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Speaker 1: They're like, oh, you can have a free drink if

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Speaker 4: We go up there. It's empty as shit. Of course

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Speaker 4: it is, that's why you got the free drink. Yep.

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Speaker 1: So then we turn and oh, He's like, oh, can

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Speaker 1: we have too. Margarita's turns in the token. She's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is very welcome drink, and I was like, what's

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Speaker 1: the welcome drink? Not a Margarita, bitch. Now we got

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Speaker 1: to pay for the drink. So I already annoyed it

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Speaker 1: that he went to the bathroom. I was talking to

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Speaker 4: Yes, he went to.

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Speaker 1: The bathroom, made a friend brought the nigga out and

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Speaker 1: the guy goes, oh my god, you're so hot. He's

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Speaker 1: so high, Oh my god, touch me. And my friends

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Speaker 1: are lesbian. So in this Emtis club we walk right

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Speaker 1: over and I hope they never see this. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna say they were ugly. I'm just going to say

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Speaker 2: Can I also say this is why I said at

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Speaker 2: the top of this episode, the mid ugly them niggas

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Speaker 2: be getting pussed. It beat amid ugly everybody who actually

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Speaker 2: be fucking more than the good looking people. Let's be

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Speaker 2: very clear, because here you go, they had forgettable paces.

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Speaker 3: That was a really nice way to call them mid ugly. Okay,

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Speaker 3: did I say it mid ugly?

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Speaker 4: They weren't ugly, Yeah, I wouldn't. We didn't know it was.

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Speaker 1: They weren't ugly, They just were forgettable. I wish I

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Speaker 1: knew one of their names. Here we go, me and

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Speaker 1: this nigga. Every time we go out, everybody's always looking.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He said to me, we have just

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Speaker 4: It wasn't no good looking people for it. So the

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Speaker 3: At him and just starts gawing him.

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Speaker 1: Now he's a handsome man, but it was almost too much,

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Speaker 1: like it got to a little fetishizing point and I

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Speaker 1: just laughing and having fun.

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Speaker 2: Okay, brook wack the ethnicity of these women, color of

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Speaker 4: It's what so cream.

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Speaker 1: They weren't coming bit cream like milk. I want to

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Speaker 4: It's very cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what so one wasn't I don't want to say

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Speaker 1: So the one that wasn't butch seize him and was like, oh.

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Speaker 3: My gosh, so she's bisexual.

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Speaker 1: Let's go dying for this nigga look at these arms

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Speaker 1: like and I was like, why is she doing this?

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Speaker 3: Like it was just too much. So he's laughing, like

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, your hair mind you he

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Speaker 1: has locked I know when I saw them hands go up.

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Speaker 4: She went to touch his hair.

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Speaker 1: I was looking to see how he was because bitch, wait, wait, wait,

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Speaker 1: but she let these white women touch the dreadlocks of

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Speaker 4: Stop and still.

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Speaker 2: Gave them some dick and pussy old on crazy, I'm

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Speaker 2: ready to keep here. It was like one of these

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Speaker 2: you cheering. Okay, I love that we were fetishized. I

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he pulled back, but there was

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Speaker 1: a second. I was like, okay, yeah, he giggling, he's laughing.

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh, like, I'm sorry, this is my fiance.

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Speaker 1: You're just so hot, Like, couldn't stop talking about how

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Speaker 1: and you're my type. She started talking about she got

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Speaker 1: she was talking about, but I was like, I'm not

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Speaker 4: Okay, So now at this point they.

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Speaker 1: Both want to fuck us crazy like but no, wait, wait, wait, wait, sorry,

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Speaker 1: is just she's wilding out right, Okay, I'm like, it's cool.

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Speaker 4: So I looked at him and I was like, are

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Speaker 4: you good?

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Speaker 3: And he was laughing.

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Speaker 1: He's like I'm good, I'm good. He holds my hand.

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Speaker 1: He's like letting me know, like you know, which is

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Speaker 1: very good threesome material. Okay, don't let me go, nigga,

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Speaker 1: I'll go wipe.

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Speaker 4: Okay. So we start talking.

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Speaker 1: They're talking about how they got engaged in Sawilita on

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Speaker 4: They've been get this many years. Blah blah.

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Speaker 3: The girl that was gawking used to be more men.

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Speaker 1: She's got kids, and now she's in this losbian relationships

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Speaker 4: I don't know what she thought.

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Speaker 3: She saw some black deep but she was gonna kay.

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Speaker 1: So we realize what's going on and no one's saying anything. Finally,

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Speaker 3: Can we look that up real quick? Domineering is a word.

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Speaker 1: Dominaring, like domineering isn't like taking over the situation.

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Speaker 4: So the other girl's really drunk.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I'm just trying to add okay, ip Larry Tomorrow,

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Speaker 3: dumb oh bit you right?

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Speaker 4: Okay, that bitch talking to him. I think I got

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Speaker 4: have words out. Hey, you could make some up.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes a certing ones will over another in an in

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yah, yeah, like this because there was a

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Speaker 1: Was she said, I got this mm hm. So I'm

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Speaker 1: remember this comp she said, I brought this confidence I am.

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Speaker 1: She's like, so, I'm gonna be honest. We've had some drinks,

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Speaker 4: We've had some drinks. You guys have had some drinks.

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Speaker 1: Clearly, I don't know if you would like to engage

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Speaker 1: I could be down, but also I'm like doing the

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Speaker 1: high pitch boice because I'm not sure. I don't know

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Speaker 1: exactly what him and I said, but we went away

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is so crazy because we've talked about

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, they're not ugly, And then he looks

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Speaker 1: She did, she had a really nice but big titty.

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Speaker 1: Like again, she kids, go ahead and try to make

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Speaker 4: No, I'm seeing what he's seeing. I'm saying in this moment.

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Speaker 1: it's not about her, like the fact that she never asks,

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00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:07,080
Speaker 1: but a man has got me like hard. He's like, now,

441
00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's more exciting to me. Okay, he wants

442
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,040
Speaker 1: to have like this first experience. I'm like, all right,

443
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:13,840
Speaker 1: fucking let's fuck these my caus's white bit just let's

444
00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,720
Speaker 1: just go. So we go back over there and we're like,

445
00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:19,119
Speaker 1: all right, the one the butch girl goes, I'd like

446
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,399
Speaker 1: to ask a question, are you guys clean?

447
00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,040
Speaker 2: And I'm laughing to myself, Andy something you're just asking

448
00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,120
Speaker 2: don't want to see nothing?

449
00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,240
Speaker 1: But I also we should not be using terminology like

450
00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:33,480
Speaker 1: clean or dirty. Yes, but it was just like what, okay,

451
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,720
Speaker 1: so mind you eight forty five?

452
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,960
Speaker 2: I think, cause who's gonna say no? That's why I

453
00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,720
Speaker 2: want to do that question. Be very clear in any space.

454
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 2: If you're not asking for results, and this is where

455
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,280
Speaker 2: this is the educational part. If you're not asking for

456
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,000
Speaker 2: up to date, don't say even up to date within

457
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Speaker 2: like the last two weeks. I would say, even if

458
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:55,359
Speaker 2: you're not asking for paperwork, to ask somebody are you clean?

459
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 2: No one is going to be like, actually, of course

460
00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,160
Speaker 2: I'm not, I'm dirty.

461
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,480
Speaker 1: I've had one guy in my life tell me he

462
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:06,679
Speaker 1: had her bees okay other than that, and that was

463
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,200
Speaker 1: something he said on his own, maybe date number two,

464
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 1: which is good. And I remember thinking, oh, he brought

465
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,240
Speaker 1: this up before we even got to the sex talk,

466
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 1: because that's the type of man he is, right. I

467
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 1: bet there are so many men walking around and probably

468
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 1: unknowingly with something like that would never say anything. Yeah,

469
00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:25,160
Speaker 1: and he gave me the choice. Even though in fuck him,

470
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,920
Speaker 1: I do think that was admirable. So anyway, fast forward,

471
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,680
Speaker 1: so I was like, Yo, I need another drink. Let's

472
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,160
Speaker 1: go somewhere and have some other drinks and then yeah,

473
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:33,440
Speaker 1: we'll come to your place. She's like, our places around

474
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 1: the corner. Our place not on the corner. Our places

475
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,880
Speaker 1: are on the corner. So then at this point he's

476
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Speaker 1: like god damn Yo and me and him laughing, and

477
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,440
Speaker 1: he's like, well, all right, let me get a cigarette.

478
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 1: Like he's trying to figure out how we can get

479
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,120
Speaker 1: a break for a second. We gotta figurettes out the house.

480
00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 1: She's like, all right, there's a cool bar by the house, Mandy.

481
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 1: They walked us right by this goddamn bar go to

482
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 1: Annie's or whatever it was called.

483
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,320
Speaker 4: I remember walking by the bar and being like that

484
00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,879
Speaker 4: looked like an a n and what the hell is that?

485
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 4: And they said, we're just gonna take you to the room.

486
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 1: Bro, it's crazy. So they take us to the AIRBNBA.

487
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,120
Speaker 1: We got drinks. We get there and I'm like, okay,

488
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 1: how do we start this threesome.

489
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 4: Or some Nope, we'll find out.

490
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:15,159
Speaker 1: Okay, So we get to the house, and these bitches

491
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 1: put on Usher and I whispered to him, wait, what

492
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 1: song that matters?

493
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,359
Speaker 4: Just an Usher playlist? Okay?

494
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 1: And I said, do you think he put on Usher

495
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,439
Speaker 1: because we put And he was like, no, baby, they

496
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 1: put on Usher because it's like sex.

497
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 4: Music, said it is, that's what which one? Because we're back? No?

498
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 3: No, no, no, Like if Yeah was.

499
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:37,159
Speaker 2: On, the white women just put But if Yeah was on,

500
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 2: that's different than superstar superstar?

501
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 4: What's your go to?

502
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 3: Threes and music?

503
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 4: Oh?

504
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 2: I say it all the time. What snow a leggra radio?

505
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 2: And it plays like Daniel Caesar snow Allegra.

506
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 4: Well, let me put on the Brent Bias man. Of

507
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 4: course you shout out to you, Jordan shout out to music.

508
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 3: Jordan was gonna he opened up for black really.

509
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 4: Oh, I thought you were gonna say Jordan was great?

510
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: All right, I haven't been fucking actually, so anyway, So

511
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 1: we're sitting down, we're smoking I think weed. Yeah, we

512
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: had we with us. Then we're having a drink and

513
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: my leg is up and I made a joke and

514
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,239
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I can't believe I'm

515
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 1: a tape of forces. I didn't shave my legs, and

516
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: I was just I don't know where it came from.

517
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,479
Speaker 2: I think this butcher cared if you had motherfucking nichoas

518
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,400
Speaker 2: don't care if they hear from yo, pussy is growing

519
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 2: on teel.

520
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 3: So then it starts with everybody's touching my legs.

521
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 4: Oh god, and it's prickly yeah.

522
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 1: But also everybody's legs were prickly, right because then he's like,

523
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: he's got my feet like in his lap, like on

524
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: his dick, so he's like.

525
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 4: Rubbing my legs.

526
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 1: And then the one that wants to fuck him, which

527
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 1: any women that want to be a unicorn should do

528
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: this for Like, she was like, I want to kiss you, okay,

529
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 1: So we start kissing and I was kind of over her,

530
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 1: and so then she starts kissing him, which I was

531
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: fine with.

532
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 3: So this one, I just want to see him get

533
00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 3: some pussy and fucking bitch in front of me.

534
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 1: So then the butch bitch is like so we start

535
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 1: making up, and it's funny because when he mentions me

536
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 1: in the club like this.

537
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 3: Is the one I want. She wasn't that butch, by

538
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 3: the way.

539
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 1: She was just like white girl that was wearing like

540
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: surferboard outfit with like a sports brat top not like stood,

541
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: but he was like yeah, this one. So then he

542
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 1: grabs her and starts kissing her, and I'm like, oh

543
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: my god, this is crazy.

544
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 4: So I'm like, have you ever kissed a guy? And

545
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 4: she's like I have not funny, So I was like, okay.

546
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 1: Well, so the other girl just takes off her fucking

547
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: clothes and she's like, oh no, no, the butch domineering. Let's

548
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: get to the bedroom. She is set in this whole

549
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 1: scene as if she's done it all before.

550
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 4: I love it.

551
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: So she was like, I have some toys and she

552
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 1: likes them, so mind you. Here's the funniest part of

553
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 1: the night. Me and this nigga was drinking a lot

554
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 1: of water because we were drunk from the night before.

555
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: This is our second night there and we were drinking

556
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 1: a lot, trying to get ready for this ship and

557
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,360
Speaker 1: drinking beer with them.

558
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 4: He's like, I'll be our back up. Go to the bathroom.

559
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 1: So I'm waiting for him because I'm like I got

560
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 1: he too me And while these bitch is trying to

561
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,239
Speaker 1: get in, we're like, god damn it.

562
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 4: So we get into bed. This girl's sucking.

563
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: Her with like a vibrator or whatever, right, and we're

564
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: kind of watching, we're letting them do their thing. And

565
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: then I start with the bem chick and I'm going, hand,

566
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,199
Speaker 1: I ain't been in a pussy in a minute, minds you.

567
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: It turned into ship the last time I truck. So

568
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm getting in there and he's like on the bed,

569
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: he's watching me, and I'm like, okay, I'm going it.

570
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: So the girl starts squirting in your face. No no, no,

571
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:45,399
Speaker 1: it wasn't like crazy squirre, but like, and he's okay,

572
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 1: thank you, and he's saying it right.

573
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 4: He's like, oh shit, niggas.

574
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: Niggas got a nick bro. He's like, shit, shit, that

575
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: pussy square. You're making us square. Okay, Like he's like

576
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,239
Speaker 1: talking to me, that's the only thing he said. And

577
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: when he said that, I looked at the butch chick

578
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 1: and she was like displeased. And the girl's super loud

579
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: right now, right like the whole time, she wasn't this loud.

580
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this to amp myself up. Me and

581
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 1: him and went over this moment because this is where

582
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: the funny started. She's screaming and it's like going in

583
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: and then I had on nails because I had just

584
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 1: done some kind of ad. So he goes, don't the

585
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: toy dies and he goes, oh, you should fuck her too,

586
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 1: talking about the butcher chick.

587
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, I can't because of my nails, and he.

588
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 4: Looks at me, and I look at him.

589
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, uh, because I don't know what to do

590
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 1: because I kind of didn't want to fuck the butcher

591
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: bitch because her energy got weird once the other bitch

592
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 1: starts garting, So he starts kissing the girl, the femb chick,

593
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: and they're like fucking around, and then the butch bitch

594
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 1: goes in the bathroom.

595
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 4: Me being me, I don't know why how to do this.

596
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: And check in, but I have to because I knew

597
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: something was wrong right and I've been there in the

598
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: middle of the foursome. She removed herself, yet she's fling away.

599
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,679
Speaker 1: So I went to the bathroom. I'm like, hey, mind you,

600
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: this is a studio Airbnb. It's an open floor, flint.

601
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: We're not that far away from the bed maybe right there.

602
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, are you okay?

603
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: She's like no, I'm not okay, Like I didn't know

604
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: this was gonna bother me and I'm like, yo, you

605
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: were the one that like told us to get in

606
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: the bed. She's like, I know, I just didn't know time.

607
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: And I was like, I know, it's okay, I understand.

608
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh my god, you're walking me through this.

609
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: I can't believe you're walking me through this. And then

610
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, for a living, I'm a sex educator.

611
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: I just want to make you feel better.

612
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 3: I didn't want to say I'm a podcast so all

613
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 3: your business is gonna be on a.

614
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: Talcat, but I was like, I'm a sex educator, so

615
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: I just want you to know, like, I'm not feeling

616
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 1: uncomfortable at all. This is not uncomfortable. I'm having a

617
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: good time. I just want you to know we're all

618
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: having a good time. She starts crying. In the middle

619
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Speaker 1: of her crying.

620
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 4: Oh my oh, I'm not gonna lie.

621
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Speaker 2: This is how, by the way, for y'all that like

622
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 2: to ask about how to have a threesome or foursome,

623
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 2: no no, no, no, fuck them talking ninety percent of

624
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 2: them and like this where somebody is crying, uncomfortable, removes themselves.

625
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:12,199
Speaker 4: And now hate that this ever happened. All right, y'all.

626
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: I'm back with another one of my picks, and I

627
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 2: don't know how I did this, but we were back

628
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 2: on the road again. This one is when we were

629
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 2: filming in Atlanta during our Black Effect performance.

630
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 3: Weekend, and we had the very great.

631
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 2: Honor of sitting with someone who I adore, someone who

632
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 2: I am inspired by in someone whose energy was probably

633
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,919
Speaker 2: even more loving and caring than I could have ever imagined.

634
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 4: Y'all.

635
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 2: This episode is one of our biggest episodes of the year,

636
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 2: and we are joined by the ts Madison. This episode

637
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: is catching transchasers. Take a listen to a clip from

638
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 2: this episode.

639
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 5: I really want ladies and and the people out there

640
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 5: that are watching to understand this, and this is real shit.

641
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 4: Trans women have an aura.

642
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 5: About them as beautiful as women are. This is why

643
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 5: I have I don't feel any competition with any women.

644
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 5: I don't feel any way about any woman. I don't

645
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 5: I don't have any deep rooted, any feeling towards any

646
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 5: woman because especially when it comes down to men, because

647
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 5: trans women have this thing and I figured this out

648
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 5: the older that I got, we have this thing that

649
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 5: it just draws men.

650
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 4: We're not real.

651
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 5: Hold on, let me get somebody gonna fuck me up

652
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 5: when we get this right. We're real people. But I

653
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 5: want to use this in a way because this is

654
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 5: how women like to say.

655
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 4: You ain't real. You're not a real woman.

656
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 5: You know, right, We're not you know, according to you know,

657
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 5: the way that women to say you're not real. I

658
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 5: get that in there. And it don't matter. That's the

659
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 5: thing that it don't matter. It does not matter if

660
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 5: we're real or not. Two men to men, it does

661
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 5: not matter.

662
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 4: Is it the fantasy.

663
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 5: I don't know if it's the fantasy, it's just the drawing. Listen,

664
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:23,479
Speaker 5: those people boys would come through my line and and

665
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 5: it would be it.

666
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 4: I think it's the intrigue, the intriguing of what are you?

667
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 4: And I was younger then, you know, very young, just

668
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 4: like what what are you? Do you find that?

669
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 3: And again today.

670
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 5: I really want to clear that real thing up you No, no, no,

671
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 5: I don't want the trans community. Even though I am

672
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 5: a part of the trans community, I may say things

673
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 5: that and I want to say this too. I may

674
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 5: say things that may not align with with the with

675
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 5: the whole ideology of every everybody in the community.

676
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 4: It's not that's listen, Flame Road he'll be like blaming road.

677
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 2: Came on and says the thing she said, you don't

678
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 2: be a flame, kund of the same.

679
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 4: We different with stuff.

680
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: But we also just had Danielle and Dominicon who have

681
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 2: who did a wonderful, wonderful Cocomo City documentary their experience

682
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: and sex work, and people disagreed with the things they said.

683
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 4: So at the end of the day, you're never gonna

684
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 4: please I know.

685
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 5: But I just want to make sure that I don't

686
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 5: say like I don't want to. I don't want to

687
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 5: say that we're not real, Like now, we're not real people,

688
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 5: We're not real. I just want to say it in

689
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 5: the in the in the aspect of women. This this

690
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 5: is the this is what I'm when I'm having an

691
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 5: altercation with women, a verbal alteration the first thing, because.

692
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 4: You're not real. Wow, you're not a real one man.

693
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 4: You'll never be a real.

694
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 2: Nasty They want to go straight to calling bitch is

695
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 2: back single, You ain't got kids. It's crazy what you

696
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 2: said is when when you said that men are like,

697
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 2: what are you like? The fascination. I was talking to

698
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 2: a few friends of mine actually who have played ball overseas,

699
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 2: specifically in Asia, which one girl will talk about it,

700
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 2: but there's a few of them that let me know

701
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 2: that when you make a certain caliber of money, especially

702
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: like the politicians, the really rich and wealthy people even

703
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 2: to buy all over their Middle East and in Asia,

704
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 2: they go to trans women, like going to even the

705
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: strip clubs and things. In Thailand, there's the lady boys.

706
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: Are regular girls, really don't they do?

707
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 4: They not do it in time?

708
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 2: The lady boys are like, what is what the men

709
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 2: are drawing the lady girls. I think having that experience

710
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: over there and having people talk about trans women, and

711
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: this is when I studied abroad. I was what twenty five,

712
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: I'm thirty three now, but having those conversations and hearing

713
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: men speak about them, and dating men who were into

714
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: trans women. I got a friend that was drinking himself

715
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: to death because he didn't feel like he would be

716
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 2: accepted by his parents by it. Took them to the club,

717
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 2: took them to the show that got bleaked out last time.

718
00:31:55,160 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: Apparently I can't, you know, promote it, but yeah, like Valentino,

719
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 2: no no, no, no, no, no, we can leave it out.

720
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 2: It's called back to wait. I just passed that is that?

721
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 4: Oh? You telling me something. I don't know. Girl, that's

722
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 4: right down the streeper. Thursday nights. I heard that.

723
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 3: Thursday night.

724
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 4: That's what I heard on next Thursday.

725
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: Okay, even always tea girl Thursday?

726
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 2: Why it is? Why is it always Thursdays? Is that

727
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: a thing?

728
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 4: Is it the team? Because white? Why? I don't?

729
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 2: I have no idea, but that night is always on Thursday.

730
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 5: That's what I heard the country listen. I would I

731
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 5: wouldn't set foot in their honey. Okay, I've graduated from

732
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 5: that that life. But then I'm not looking limit, I'm

733
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 5: not watching jokes.

734
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 2: Have you have you worked in those environments before and

735
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: how did it difference?

736
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 4: I've hosted like I've hosted.

737
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 5: I've hosted like like I hosted an event in the

738
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 5: in the clubs, you know, but but I'm never gonna

739
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 5: work in there because I feel like that I'm more listen.

740
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 5: I paved the way for those girls to be who.

741
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 2: They are, and so I want to take a step back.

742
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: And because navigating them from going to the streets to

743
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 2: having your own production company and shooting your own jail. Yes, like,

744
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 2: how'd you go from from OBT Toll?

745
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 4: Can we start at OBT?

746
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 5: It was no, it was seventy ninth Street then, ob

747
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 5: because baby, we listen when Miami, listen when Miami wasn't

748
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 5: having a good week off of seventy nine.

749
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: We want to hear about the culture of this because

750
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: today street walking is the most low.

751
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 4: Brow ship to anybody.

752
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't want to either talk about it or

753
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: it's something that men won't even engage in. Yeah, right,

754
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: because it's so because it's so easy the website, find

755
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: them on websites now.

756
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 4: So tell us about what it was like.

757
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 5: To well then, and this is what I This is

758
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 5: what I tell my daughters now, because I call my daughters.

759
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 4: I tell my daughters now.

760
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 5: I'd be like, girl, y'all don't know anything the street walk,

761
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 5: that street walk in life was.

762
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 4: I tell you that I've had some of the best

763
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 4: sex on the hood of a cargo stop it. Let's

764
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 4: behind the dumpster the KFC.

765
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 5: Girl, Honey, I could see it well because I and

766
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 5: that's what made me have these fantasies about men having

767
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 5: their pants around their ankles. Girl, you got to hear

768
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 5: it and go listen. Even when I'm in a relationship

769
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 5: with a man, I love him to to fuck me

770
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 5: like a horror. I need I need that.

771
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 4: I like a horror. Give details. What is being fun?

772
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 4: Like a baby pulling the pants around their ankle. Let

773
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,720
Speaker 4: me tell that. Dig let me so you're not getting

774
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 4: all the way.

775
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 5: They just come fuck, just trashed me out. We could

776
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 5: we could cuddle after it's done. But because you're my husband,

777
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 5: but don't trash me out. Trash me out.

778
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: Tell me about a time that you felt like it

779
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: was getting too crazy, like someone had two while request.

780
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 5: Here's the thing, right, so, and I'm gonna take you

781
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 5: from publics down this line.

782
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 4: I want to go.

783
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 5: Let's so we so I got fired from the publics,

784
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 5: you know. And and and because boys used to come

785
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 5: up there to the to the fucking job, like it

786
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 5: was a boy used to ride his bicycle up there

787
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 5: and just buy eggs or some ship.

788
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 4: And I used to be like, what you is? What

789
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 4: what you is? And I'm like what what you is?

790
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 5: You know? And so we ended up, you know, getting

791
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 5: into some things. And uh, he came to my house

792
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 5: on the bike when one night he gave me fifty

793
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 5: dollars and I was like, well, why did you give

794
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 5: me fifty dollars? Now I'm young, so.

795
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 4: I don't know.

796
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 5: You know, I've moved out older, yes, a little bit,

797
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 5: a little bit older, but I've moved out because my

798
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 5: mom was like, you can't be in my house. You know,

799
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 5: I have sons in here. I got other sons, So

800
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 5: you can't be in here with this stuff on one. Wow,

801
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 5: I can't do it. And I was like, because I

802
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 5: ain't him, I'm not here to I'm not there. I'm

803
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 5: not I'm not that boy, I'm that girl. And so

804
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 5: you know, like I'm fast forwarding because I know.

805
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 4: So he came.

806
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 5: He gave me fifty dollars off like from a bike.

807
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 5: I'm like, what you get me fifty dollars for her?

808
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 5: I just felt like this, I want to give you

809
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 5: some money. I was like, oh, because I know they

810
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 5: let you go from the job. But they did find

811
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 5: me because of course you because you were you were

812
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 5: coming up there to the place. And uh, you know

813
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 5: then my gay mama, you know, we have our family.

814
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, my gay mama.

815
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:24,280
Speaker 5: Was uh, she was in the business, and I didn't

816
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 5: know what none of this stuff was was And so

817
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 5: my next encounter was was with a threesome with her

818
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 5: and the guy.

819
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 4: Because you know, I'm a well endowed girl. And yah,

820
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 4: we're not saying big big just because I'm a well

821
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 4: endowed girl.

822
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 5: And so the guy was requesting at the time that she,

823
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 5: you know, have another well and dowed girl. And so

824
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 5: they knew that I was a well endowed girl. And

825
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 5: so I went down there whatever, and we we had

826
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 5: a three so and then he that she gave me money.

827
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, how much? How much? Back then? What she

828
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 4: gave me? One hundred dollars? I didn't like, Yeah, I

829
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 4: didn't know, but she gave me a hundred.

830
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 5: So I'm like, you know, so, you know, so I'm

831
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 5: slowly introduced into prostitution, but I'm still trying to be

832
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 5: in and out of drag because now I'm out on

833
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 5: my own, so I have to work, you know. So

834
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 5: I'm trying to, you know, work at different places to

835
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:29,919
Speaker 5: pay my rent, you know. And we used to ride

836
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,280
Speaker 5: out on the beat and I would see other trends,

837
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 5: like I'm from down South. I used to drive up

838
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,479
Speaker 5: North and I would see all these other trans women

839
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 5: and they would having like these bathing suits and ship

840
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 5: like that. I was like, they were so much more advanced,

841
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:48,959
Speaker 5: and I was like, these, excuse me, I'm not gonna

842
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 5: keep doing this, and.

843
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's so important because PC language, we

844
00:37:58,080 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: get it, we know it.

845
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 5: But i love learning where you started. And so I'm

846
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 5: just gonna make this. I'm not gonna keep doing this.

847
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 5: I'm just going to tell my motherfucker please please seein men.

848
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 2: Were gay if they wanted anal sex, and now I'll

849
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: be asking for it once.

850
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 4: A quarter, you know. So here we go.

851
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 5: I love advanced I love advanced women. So let's get

852
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 5: into and so you know, bitch, let me get these checks.

853
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, these are mad, these

854
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 5: are man Like, how did this happen?

855
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 4: I want to do I want more, like you know

856
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,439
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. I want to be pasted. I want

857
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 4: to be you know. But I'm like, why are they

858
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 4: selling their bodies on the street? Like why are you walking?

859
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 4: You didn't even understand.

860
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 5: I didn't really like why are y'all prostitutes on the street?

861
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 5: Like what's what's going on here?

862
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 4: Looks so good?

863
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like what's like why y'all ain't got no man

864
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 5: taking care of you? Like you know what I'm saying,

865
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 5: Like you you you, there's no way possible that you

866
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 5: are a man, you know, because you so, you know,

867
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 5: child going through the life, getting involved, getting work, getting

868
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 5: the things, advancing more, and it's just like you get

869
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 5: to the job and you've advanced more. Your titties are big,

870
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 5: your hips is big, and you gumming that bitch and

871
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 5: at the time, and I'm a floor out of bitch. Right,

872
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 5: So I didn't change my name at the time. I

873
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Speaker 5: just celebrated my one year anniversary on the eighteenth of

874
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Speaker 5: April for changing my name really legally, legally all.

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Speaker 1: Right, a little bit of a controversial episode. But on

876
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Speaker 1: October fifth, one of my favorite Internet personalities came through

877
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 1: dating coach annamar White, and he gave us some advice

878
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,240
Speaker 1: that I thought was great.

879
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 4: Some of y'all hated. We was about to fight over it,

880
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 4: but either way.

881
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:37,839
Speaker 1: It got have a lot of opinions going check out

882
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,280
Speaker 1: this clip.

883
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 4: So I've been.

884
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 2: Talking to my friends who think I'm kind of nuts.

885
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 2: I give people two weeks and two weeks to see me,

886
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 2: so I don't care where you're at on the globe.

887
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're interested in me and we're talking,

888
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: you have two weeks to see me.

889
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 3: Otherwise I'm no longer interested.

890
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 2: However, with wanting the two week mark as well as

891
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 2: maybe send me flowers. Can I ask you what is

892
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 2: the difference between a woman showing up assertive and showing

893
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 2: up aggressive and could a woman saying that this is

894
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 2: what they need in order to for them to feel

895
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 2: like you're interested.

896
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 3: Could that push them away? So how do you show

897
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 3: up between the two?

898
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 7: Well, there's a difference between It's all in communication style, okay, Right.

899
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 7: There are some women that communicate in a masculine way

900
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 7: and there are some women that communicate in a feminine way.

901
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 4: Right.

902
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 7: There's a difference between I need flowers, I need you

903
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 7: to come and see me. I need you da da

904
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 7: da da da, versus I would feel really connected and

905
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 7: I would really be happy if you came to see me.

906
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 7: There's a way to communicate things from a feminine energetic

907
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 7: perspective versus a masculine energetic perpect Masculine is thought, Masculine

908
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 7: is action do. Feminine is centered around the feelings and being.

909
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 7: And I will tell you this, a lot of women

910
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 7: of color specifically are in their masculine energy for a

911
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 7: variety of different reasons. What I know for sure, and

912
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 7: the deeper reason behind that is because there's actually a

913
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 7: lack of feminine energetic love when they're being raised. So

914
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 7: a lot of black mothers are very judgmental and highly critical,

915
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 7: and so what happens, and also, I will just say

916
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 7: this from a lot of fathers, they're also emotionally or

917
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 7: physically absent. So what that teaches black girls growing up

918
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 7: is that they can't rely on anyone. They don't have

919
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 7: a safe space, so they have to be their own

920
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 7: safe space. So what happens though, and how that translates

921
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 7: into adulthood is that now you're in your masculine, you

922
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 7: have to take care of everything. But the problem with

923
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 7: that is when you're in your masculine because relationships are

924
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 7: about compliments, they're about the yin and the yang. So

925
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 7: when you're in your masculine, you will attract two kinds

926
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 7: of men. One a man that is in his dominant

927
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,919
Speaker 7: feminine energy who's looking for a mother, yeah. And two

928
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,760
Speaker 7: a man that is in his hyper or toxic masculine energy,

929
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 7: and he will want to forcibly submit you into your feminine.

930
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 7: Those are the two kinds of men that will have

931
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:17,840
Speaker 7: So one of the things that I do in my

932
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 7: program for my clients is I help them create a

933
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 7: balance of both the masculine and feminine, so that they

934
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 7: can also meet people, meet men specifically that have also

935
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 7: a balance as well. One of the things that has

936
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 7: happened that maybe a lot of people aren't necessarily talking about, is,

937
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,399
Speaker 7: you know, in the nineties, we had I don't know

938
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Speaker 7: seventy five percent of our households that were run by

939
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 7: single mothers, and that has an effect on how we

940
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 7: bond with each other. I want to specifically say, this

941
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 7: affects the way that men also bond with women. So

942
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 7: when you're talking about I need a man to do this, this, this, this,

943
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:11,240
Speaker 7: and be very particular, it's really a defense mechanism because

944
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 7: they've been going through a lot of bullshit because a

945
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 7: lot of these men have been thought to believe that

946
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 7: they are the prize. They what we call enmeshment, which

947
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 7: means that they are raised to be a bit entitled.

948
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 7: A lot of these single mothers will actually treat these

949
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 7: young men growing up as surrogate partners, call them king,

950
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 7: they call them all these other things, and so all

951
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 7: of the attention, everything is for them, and so they

952
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 7: are thought they believe that that is how you are

953
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 7: supposed to be in relationship with women, right, and that's

954
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 7: not necessarily the case. So when you tell me that

955
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 7: there are a lot of women that are demanding, it

956
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 7: is really because they've experienced a lot of men that

957
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,959
Speaker 7: are like that. Unfortunately, I'm not here. I'm not here

958
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 7: to shit or shade on anybody. I'm here to share

959
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 7: with you that a lot of things that maybe people

960
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 7: aren't talking about in the context and the why behind

961
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 7: it all.

962
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: I am absolutely understanding how you've done this fifteen years.

963
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: I think just the example of why we're so aggressive

964
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: when asking for these things, I've even had to calm down.

965
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 4: I think.

966
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if you believe in astrology, but I

967
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: think the only thing that's helped me is my pisce's

968
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: emotional attitude that I've been able to approach things with

969
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: with all the pain from relationships. I definitely have a

970
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: laundry list of things for myself that I know I need.

971
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: I try not to necessarily pressure someone with them, and

972
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship right now, but I have found

973
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 1: that I may find ways to sneak them in or

974
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: even make mention it what I've done to other partners.

975
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: Oh well, XYZ happened to me, and they're no longer here,

976
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: and I haven't really found a healthy way to talk

977
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: about my boundaries without letting them know. This is a

978
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: hard limit, and I'm curious when not in a relationship.

979
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: But let's just say so that I don't want to

980
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: speak for myself in the dating weeds. You know you're

981
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: starting to like someone, how do you let them know

982
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 1: as a partner how they need to show up? Because

983
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: what you just mentioned about that to me is preliminary

984
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: and a really good example of it. But how can

985
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: we do that once we're in it, Once we know

986
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: someone's vibe, how do we test?

987
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 7: So here's how I think about this, So we have

988
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 7: this full courtship, right, And I always tell I always

989
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 7: say that I think women and men think about it differently.

990
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 7: So I think men kind of go into it with

991
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 7: like a zero mentality, meaning I don't even know her,

992
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 7: I don't even like her yet, right, we have to

993
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 7: figure out if I like her. Women oftentimes will start

994
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 7: at one hundred, right and be like, okay, if he

995
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 7: mess us up, I'm taking him down to ninety, and

996
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 7: we wait until it gets to a certain point before.

997
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 7: So I say all that to say, many women do

998
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 7: exactly what you just said. I want to make sure

999
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 7: that he stays at one hundred, which is my idealized

1000
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 7: version of who I want him to be, instead of

1001
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 7: letting him be who he is right, which is which

1002
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 7: means kind of I want women to actually start from

1003
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 7: zero and allow him to prove himself in a lot

1004
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:13,280
Speaker 7: of different ways.

1005
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 4: So I say all.

1006
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 7: Of that to say, I don't want you to tell

1007
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 7: him exactly what you want or what you need, not

1008
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 7: early in the courtship. I always think that the date

1009
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 7: three is a huge inflection point in the courtship. It

1010
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 7: shows a level of investment. And so from first conversation

1011
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 7: to date three, you're in observation mode. You just need

1012
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 7: to see what what his homeostasis is, what his natural

1013
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 7: way of being is because you can give him, You

1014
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 7: can give him the answers to the test and he can.

1015
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 7: He can, he can cram and copy them and perform

1016
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 7: for a good three weeks three months. But is that

1017
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 7: his natural way of being?

1018
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I feel like sex around date three is

1019
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: that in relation to when you just said date three

1020
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: is an investment.

1021
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 7: Date three is an investment. Most women have sex on

1022
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 7: date three because there's a passive enact of pressure that

1023
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 7: happens on date three.

1024
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 4: Hmmm.

1025
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 7: That comes from film media, all of these other things,

1026
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 7: and pressure from the patriarchy. Right, That's just something that

1027
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 7: is expected of them. Many of them understand that, know that,

1028
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 7: and feel like they have to. That's why there's like

1029
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 7: a bit of a dip when it comes to after

1030
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 7: date three, because also men are expecting that as well.

1031
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: Now, interesting because it's what my worson just said, this

1032
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: thing about date three to me. We had sex on

1033
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 1: date three, right, and he said, I was like, what

1034
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: do we have sex on date four?

1035
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 3: He said, for some reason in my brain?

1036
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: And this is someone who can have sex with whoever

1037
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: he wants, right, most men can't.

1038
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 3: He's like, in date three, if I'm.

1039
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: Not feeling an intense sexual energy, I start to think

1040
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: are we better as friends? I actually don't know if

1041
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 1: that's pressure he's putting on someone or if it's where

1042
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: his brain thinks from the interest of the woman. So

1043
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,919
Speaker 1: I agree with you, it is something that people are

1044
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: just used to happening, because to say that you're not

1045
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,359
Speaker 1: sure if it doesn't get there, He's like, maybe she's

1046
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: not that into me.

1047
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 3: To be honest, I kind of get it too.

1048
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 1: Remember when I was dating that guy who wasn't having

1049
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: sex with mee and I was like, he must not

1050
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: be there.

1051
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 4: The guy from Dreamville.

1052
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 3: The same thought.

1053
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 1: Date three happened date four and I was like, oh, yeah,

1054
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 1: he wants to be my friend.

1055
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 2: I mean to me, it's interesting because for what I

1056
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: know dating to look like currently, it takes so long

1057
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: to get to date three because people are juggling and

1058
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,839
Speaker 2: dating so many different people at once, and not only

1059
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 2: are they not actively going on dates, they're spending a

1060
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:48,720
Speaker 2: lot of time texting, having phone conversations, facetiming, dming, sending memes.

1061
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 2: There's so many actual conversations happening before you meet a

1062
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 2: person in person, and then so to get to date three.

1063
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 2: Sometimes getting to date three can take a month or

1064
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 2: two with one person because you're actively dating other people.

1065
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 3: So I find that a little bit.

1066
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 2: Difficult or maybe not something that could be related to

1067
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 2: people that are actively dating multiple people and.

1068
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 3: Sor are recommending that that women date one man at

1069
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 3: a time.

1070
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 7: No, never, okay, good, always date multiple. I call it

1071
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 7: olympic dating. You need to have a gold medalist, a

1072
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 7: silver medalist, and a bronze medalist.

1073
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:23,959
Speaker 3: At all times.

1074
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 2: I think that's the difficulty that I'm seeing as well.

1075
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 2: I think right now with social media and women being

1076
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 2: okay with this concept, it's almost like our attention spans

1077
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 2: the same way it's related to music and now TV shows,

1078
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: we're upset when the whole season isn't there available to

1079
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 2: us and we have to wait even a week for

1080
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 2: a new episode. Our attention spans are so short that

1081
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 2: we're constantly seeking Okay, if he's not all the way on.

1082
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 4: Me, I just want someone else to be.

1083
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 2: And that's what I realize myself and my friends are

1084
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: navigating with dating right now, Like there's just so many

1085
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 2: that after two weeks so no longer interested in him.

1086
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,800
Speaker 3: They're just falling by the wayside.

1087
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 7: Most of them. Well, okay, and that's that's why you

1088
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 7: date multiple men, okay, and you keep dating multiple men.

1089
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 4: All right. My last pick, it wouldn't be right.

1090
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 2: We listened to you whores, and you guys love our

1091
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 2: solo episodes. So I went through all of our solo

1092
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 2: episodes in where you might have thought it was me

1093
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 2: dating the couple or the threesome, or did I have

1094
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 2: a foursome this year?

1095
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 4: I didn't. Nope, didn't have one of those.

1096
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 2: It's not me talking about my celibate journey or my

1097
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 2: sobriety or going to the top of the year when

1098
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: I ran into my ex It's not any of that.

1099
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 2: My last favorite episode of this year is when I

1100
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 2: thought I was going to meet my maker. That's right,

1101
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 2: it is me sharing the story of ending up in

1102
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 2: the emergency room with a kidney infection due to going

1103
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 2: from my ass to my pussy. I'm convinced it wasn't

1104
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 2: actually dehydration. I'm convinced it wasn't my eating habits or

1105
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 2: the wet bathing suit I stayed in all day at

1106
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 2: the beach with this man. I'm convinced I got a

1107
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 2: little lip and didn't do the proper wipe off between

1108
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 2: him going from my ass to my pussy, which inevitably,

1109
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 2: inevitably y'all, No, I don't know big words led me

1110
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:35,439
Speaker 2: to the emergency room fighting for dear life, y'all. This

1111
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 2: is an episode that we posted on July first, and

1112
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 2: it is titled.

1113
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 3: Needles, UTIs and Turtlenecks.

1114
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 2: So y'all please check out this episode again where.

1115
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 4: A bitch almost died wait a man, she's not drinking

1116
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 4: right now, and hey, I ain't.

1117
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 3: Drank all week. You know why, because my horrible decision.

1118
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 2: Let's get into it now, y'all before we get into

1119
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: doing this.

1120
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 3: I am not sure how this came about.

1121
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 2: It came about, however, I would assume one of three

1122
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 2: ways I did do. I did have really good, nasty

1123
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 2: sex where he did go from my ass to my

1124
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,319
Speaker 2: pussy and I was so drunk I don't know if

1125
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: it was wiped in between or not. So that's part

1126
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 2: one was that this could have absolutely came from really nasty.

1127
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 4: Raunchy sex.

1128
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 2: I also went to the beach and stayed in my

1129
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 2: bathing suit.

1130
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 4: Nope, wait, that was no, don't just say it.

1131
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,839
Speaker 3: That was definitely number one. Also, I did just get well.

1132
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,759
Speaker 2: I started feeling it and I was telling uh, I

1133
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 2: was telling Wolf in Dallas is when I first started

1134
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 2: kind of feeling feeling weird. And apparently high stress and

1135
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 2: heat and dehydration can also lead to it.

1136
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 4: You say, what is it?

1137
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: So it is a uti? Yeah, it was one, and

1138
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 1: I think we can all in the room again. He stressed, maybe, bitch,

1139
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: it was asked to pussy. It probably was the ask

1140
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: to pussy, But I want to say you just suck

1141
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: it to clean it off. That shit don't work. But

1142
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: so here's the thing I was on.

1143
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 2: I was drunk and on shrooms, so there was there

1144
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 2: was quite a bit of parts where I don't remember

1145
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:19,959
Speaker 2: how we got from point A to point B.

1146
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: By the way, the ask the pussy shit. My homegirl's

1147
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: been getting UTIs a lot lately. Can't figure out why

1148
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 1: she's been having gastro issues. Right, turns out, when you

1149
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: have diarrhea, there's an increased risk of UTI just because

1150
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,359
Speaker 1: everything is kind of everywhere when you're wiping, and it's

1151
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: probably the same.

1152
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 2: Well, not only that, ladies, tight jeans, wiping wrong, eating

1153
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 2: certain foods. There are a lot of things that can

1154
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 2: cause UTIs, and this is why I wanted to share

1155
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 2: this story here today. So basically, I misdiagnosed myself, I

1156
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 2: would say for about a week.

1157
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:55,919
Speaker 4: So when we were in.

1158
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 3: Dallas, I was like, dang, I had to keep using

1159
00:53:58,719 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 3: the bathroom.

1160
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 2: But I felt like because I was drinking a lot

1161
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 2: of water because we was outside and I was drinking liquor.

1162
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: So I was like, but I had to use the

1163
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:09,919
Speaker 2: bathroom in an amount of time that I can't find

1164
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 2: you the uti symptom that I normally get is I

1165
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 2: have to use the bath I feel like I have

1166
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:15,720
Speaker 2: to use the bathroom.

1167
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 4: Nothing comes out. It comes out. So I'm like, that's

1168
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:18,799
Speaker 4: the wory.

1169
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 2: Maybe this ain't a UTI because I'm actually pissing. So

1170
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 2: I go to the CVS, I get AZO. I take

1171
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 2: the AZO, and I'm like, okay, don't think anything of it.

1172
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 3: I get back to New York and my side is hurting.

1173
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 4: Bitch.

1174
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 3: I think I just.

1175
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 2: Sat on the plane wrong. That's how much bitch. I'm

1176
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 2: in the living room doing my little yoga poses. Wait,

1177
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 2: you had no more UTI symptoms.

1178
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 4: My piss was a.

1179
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 2: Little strong, but I was like, well, bitch, maybe I

1180
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 2: ain't drinking enough water strong leg scent or yellow strong scent,

1181
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 2: strong set. So I was like, okay, mind you. I

1182
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 2: stopped taking the AZO because I was like, I'm peing normal.

1183
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,359
Speaker 2: Maybe you know, maybe I'm just not drinking enough water.

1184
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 2: Then my side's hurting, and I'm just like, maybe I

1185
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 2: sat on the plane wrong. All I know is, y'all,

1186
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 2: let's let's fast forward Friday night. So this is about

1187
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 2: a week after I started filling the symptoms. I was

1188
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 2: with my homegirl earlier. Oh, this is the third misdiagnosis.

1189
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: I'm with my homegirl on her rooftop and we drinking

1190
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 2: and I just get cold out of nowhere, bitch, I thought,

1191
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 2: because the sun went behind a cloud. I literally just

1192
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 2: start getting really cold. I'm like, bitch, you main cold, bitch,

1193
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 2: it's June in fucking in New York.

1194
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 4: Little nippit it a little nitp knit. I go and

1195
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 4: put on my jacket.

1196
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,720
Speaker 2: She'd give me a tile and all boom, chill stop,

1197
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: go home, go to sleep y'all know fucking line. I

1198
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 2: wake up, It's like one point thirty in the morning.

1199
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 2: I'm freezing, like for freezing. So I'm like, damn, go

1200
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 2: to put the heater on. I get in a row

1201
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 2: and I get underneath my comforter set.

1202
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 3: Baby, I'm freezing for about thirty minutes.

1203
00:55:55,320 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 6: Like like teeth chattering, like like like kim olo like

1204
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 6: a reason to where a bitch almost thought she was

1205
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 6: gonna chip of motherfucking veneer.

1206
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 2: Like my teeth would not stop. Like all I know

1207
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 2: is two o'clock in the morning. I called Mama tem

1208
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 2: Me and I just call her and I'm under and

1209
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 2: I'm freezing my whole body at this point, I feel

1210
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:20,320
Speaker 2: my muscles in your bathing.

1211
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 4: Bitch I thought I was dying.

1212
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 3: I thought I was about to meet my motherfucking maker.

1213
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 4: Bitch. I called my mom and the first thing, I'm like,

1214
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 4: mommym ha ha ha, I'm.

1215
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 2: So cold, I said, And I just said something's wrong,

1216
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: and all I could say is something is wrong.

1217
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 4: Bitch. I start crying.

1218
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 2: And then now I realized, once you realize something is

1219
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 2: wrong with you, bitch, now everything in my I thought

1220
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: I was gonna die. I went from just telling my

1221
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 2: mom something's wrong to immediately my side her even worse.

1222
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 2: I'm acknowledging, like what's happening with my body? And I

1223
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 2: literally cannot move out my bed. I'm so cold, my

1224
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 2: hands are shaking, by my fucking thing is trembling. I

1225
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 2: get up because my mom is like, call the ambulance.

1226
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 2: Now I know I'm about to die, but how much?

1227
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 2: But bitch, I said, I ain't paying that motherfuckering ambulance bill.

1228
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 2: I said, hey, here go my mama, hunt on here

1229
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 2: got my mama clearly lying too, because she was like, girl,

1230
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 2: it's only like five hundred dollars.

1231
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 4: Bitch I said this shit online.

1232
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 2: They was like, no, bitch, it's like insurance, yeah, bitch exactly,

1233
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 2: and bitch, no, I don't.

1234
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 4: Have that bruh.

1235
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: My mom wasn't feeling good recently in LA and I

1236
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: was like, how bad is it?

1237
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 4: Literally? Now, can Stephanie come get you or do you

1238
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 4: need none?

1239
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm gonna hold you. I told my mama. I said, baby,

1240
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 2: it's given.

1241
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 4: Uber.

1242
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 2: I said, an uber gonna get here before ambulance get here.

1243
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 2: So I was like, I ain't even calling no ambulance.

1244
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:46,919
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna get up, get dressed. So I put

1245
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 2: some shit on and I said, mom, the uber downstairs.

1246
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 2: In two minutes, I'm gonna get in the uber. This

1247
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 2: is how, you know. I felt like I was gonna die.

1248
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 2: She said, stay on the phone with me, bitch.

1249
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 4: It was giving that.

1250
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 2: It was given that moment on the movie come no, no, no,

1251
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 2: no, no comfort, bitch.

1252
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 4: You know, like I ain't gonna hold you.

1253
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 2: You know, like when you get shot and I ain't

1254
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 2: never been shot, but you know when you watch a

1255
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 2: movie and they'd be like, stay with me, stay with me,

1256
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 2: just think of some happy moments. I felt like my

1257
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: mama was doing that because I was like, okay, I'm shaking,

1258
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 2: I'm shivering, and now I feel like, oh, and we're

1259
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 2: gonna talk about the motherfucker uber driver.

1260
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 3: So I get in the Uber and I'm in my

1261
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 3: I'm in my thing.

1262
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 2: Mind you, tears coming down my eyes clearly say mount

1263
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 2: sign on hospital. Nigga, you my ambulance. I need you

1264
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 2: to work like an ambulance. That nigga was stopping at

1265
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 2: the yellow light.

1266
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 4: Oh, it was only eleven minutes away. That shit took.

1267
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 4: My mama kept saying, you ain't there yet. I said,

1268
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 4: he keeps stopping and I don't know why, and now

1269
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 4: I'm just like talking.

1270
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 2: He was, but the little motherfucker was maybe he wanted

1271
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 2: five stars, so he was driving safe.

1272
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 4: Nigga.

1273
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 2: It's two o'clock in the morning and nobody on the

1274
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 2: road go through them damn yellow lights.

1275
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 4: Like you're literally taking me to the hospital.

1276
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 2: So my mom is talking me through like everything that's

1277
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 2: happening to me, and I'm just like, She was like,

1278
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:05,959
Speaker 2: does it hurt mind you shout out to my mama.

1279
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 4: She on Google.

1280
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 2: She like, it's probably your appendix, it's it could be

1281
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: your kidney. Is anything else hurt your back? Hurt my mom?

1282
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 4: You know? She had a nurse, so she kind of

1283
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 4: loved this shit.

1284
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: She was like, she was like, she didn't love me

1285
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: being but she loves figuring it out.

1286
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 2: She loves figuring it out. So anyways, I get to

1287
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 2: the hospital. They take all of my vitals in the

1288
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 2: front and a part of me. This is where I

1289
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 2: was like a little mad, but then I was a

1290
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 2: little happy. All of my vitals so my blood pressure,

1291
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 2: my heart beat, and I didn't have a fever, so

1292
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:38,439
Speaker 2: those came back normal, which I ain't really like because

1293
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 2: then I felt like.

1294
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 3: They took their time. They made you wait, I'm not

1295
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 3: gonna lie.

1296
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 2: They probably made me wait a total of like maybe

1297
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: thirty forty minutes, and then they put me on that.

1298
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 3: Then they put me on a bed. They put me

1299
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 3: on a bed, put me on a little stretcher.

1300
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 4: Bitch.

1301
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 2: I literally felt like I was in like fucking house

1302
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 2: like you know, uh, you never watched bitch.

1303
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,080
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, I'm gonna little on

1304
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 4: a little bit.

1305
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 2: And they pushed me through and then they gave me

1306
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 2: the little not really a room.

1307
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 4: They turned the hallway into all these little.

1308
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 2: Rooms with the curtain. So they put me there. So

1309
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 2: they put me there. They go immediately to give me fluids.

1310
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 2: They go to give me pain medicine.

1311
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 3: What made you stop shaking the fluids?

1312
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 4: I was shaking the whole time.

1313
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 2: I would say, then maybe maybe the fluids and the

1314
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 2: pain medicine kind of stopped it for a little bit,

1315
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 2: and then I was like, Okay, I'm no longer shaking.

1316
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 4: Great.

1317
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 2: So then they make me pissing a cup, they draw

1318
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 2: my blood, and they gave me a cat scan.

1319
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 4: Y'all.

1320
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: All of these symptoms, the UTI ended up becoming a

1321
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 2: kidney infection. So my kidney is what caused me to

1322
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 2: literally feel like I jumped off the Titanic and told Jack,

1323
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 2: I'll never let go, bitch. That is how cold I am.

1324
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 2: I swear to God full life. I've never been this

1325
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 2: cold in my life. I've never felt this. I wouldn't

1326
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 2: worth wish this on my worst enemy. Like it was

1327
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 2: the worst feeling ever. I don't even know what this

1328
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 2: goddamn medical billing about to be, but basically they put

1329
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 2: me on And this is why I wanted to share it,

1330
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 2: because I know we've been giving a lot of like

1331
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 2: just tips and things. So I ended up buying pissed

1332
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 2: test strips, which you guys can get Oh, bitch, I'm

1333
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 2: about to be testing my piss every week.

1334
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 4: I'm saying, why can't they piss? I'm about to piss

1335
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 4: on the piss test trips.

1336
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 2: They really for your pH but it can let you

1337
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 2: know if there's any bacteria ye or so, bitch. I

1338
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 2: bought them and I'm about to keep them in my mother.

1339
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 2: I'm about to travel with them hos. Also, they gave

1340
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 2: me cipro floxen zipro flu axin. Someone told me how

1341
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 2: to fucking pronounce it, but it's cipro floxen. That's what

1342
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 2: it's spelt like. And this is something you could get

1343
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 2: in Mexico, ladies, but the cheat. So when you go

1344
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 2: get get you some cipro, which is an antibiotic. And

1345
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 2: if you take an antibiotic, make sure you get that

1346
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 2: flucamp which is flucanaisan. That is a prebiotic that you

1347
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: want to take, otherwise you gonna end up with a

1348
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 2: east infection. My pussy been out of commission for the

1349
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 2: last week. No liquor, no coffee, no spicy foods.

1350
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: What are you doing, man, bitch, reading, writing, fucking watching TV?

1351
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 4: Catch it up on tunes. I don't fucking know.

1352
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, holy shit, I can't do anything.

1353
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 2: I will say though the fucking feeling like and again

1354
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 2: I think everyone listening, men and women both then had

1355
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 2: a uti for it to reach my kidney like I

1356
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 2: ain't even I ain't even like, no, they was that important.

1357
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, the kidney is like, you can't

1358
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 2: y'all know you can't live without one. I mean yeah,

1359
01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 2: I mean well I think you could live without one,

1360
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 2: but not what they they important as fuck. Yeah, I

1361
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 2: didn't know that because nothing ever happened to my kidney

1362
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 2: could now it did, and then my mama's care me.

1363
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 2: Then my mama was like, bitch, now that it got

1364
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 2: a little bit infected.

1365
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 4: Was a nurse, you say, and you didn't know the kidneys?

1366
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 4: First off?

1367
01:02:54,920 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 2: I didn't talk to my mom about nothing about the

1368
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 2: hospital because I don't like blood.

1369
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all.

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01:03:00,440 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: Episode three seventy five was with Sisters Who Kill. We

1371
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 1: taped this in Atlanta. Got to meet our girls. I

1372
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: have heard about the show for so long, listen to

1373
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: some stuff here and there. So happy to be able

1374
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: to have them on camera. And also tomb Raiders womb Raiders, y'all,

1375
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: the shit is crazy.

1376
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 3: If you ain't hear about this shit? Go ahead and

1377
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 3: check this out.

1378
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 4: With crimes of passion?

1379
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 2: What do you see or what have you with all

1380
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 2: the research, with all the stories, do you see are

1381
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 2: like the top three things that lead women to tick

1382
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 2: tick boom? Because if men are listening here, we just

1383
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 2: sat here and talked about how we kill. They asked,

1384
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 2: let's keep them from making the mistakes that might get

1385
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 2: they ass is killed. List So what are like the

1386
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 2: top three things that women are like, I've had enough.

1387
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 3: I have two? Okay, okay, cheating and really leaving them. Wait,

1388
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 3: women killed for leaving two nowhere.

1389
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 2: So that's what I've experience in my direct proximity is

1390
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 2: that those normally are men like women wanting to finally

1391
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 2: leave and men being like, if I can't have you,

1392
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 2: nobody can.

1393
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 8: What's interesting is that a couple of cases that we've

1394
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 8: come across where the man wanted to leave had to

1395
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 8: do with the woman not being able to have a child,

1396
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 8: and so she would end up killing another woman who

1397
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 8: is with child, sometimes posing as she's as if she's pregnant.

1398
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 8: We've had, we've done a couple of cases where the

1399
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 8: woman is like literally at term and she'll go sneak

1400
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 8: into her. She's befriended her, Go take go into her house,

1401
01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 8: slice her open, steal the.

1402
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 4: My god, I'm gonna, I'm gonna.

1403
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 8: Says, goes to the hospital and says, I just had

1404
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 8: this baby and leave that woman dead.

1405
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 4: And she did.

1406
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 8: It's one girl on her wedding day, on her wedding day,

1407
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 8: her husband and was sitting at the altar wondering where

1408
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 8: his wife was, and she was being murdered by their friend.

1409
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 3: Wait, we sliced a baby out of her sex.

1410
01:04:58,480 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 4: They're called womb raiders.

1411
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 9: Womb raiders and it, like she said, it's not because

1412
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 9: they want a baby.

1413
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 3: Nine times out of.

1414
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 9: Ten, it's he want a baby or like trying to

1415
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 9: please that person.

1416
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 4: Do you hear that?

1417
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 3: This is the clip, nigga?

1418
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 4: I did not know that.

1419
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 2: Wow, How how often are you said a couple of stories,

1420
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 2: because we have at least three when we've we've got

1421
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 2: at least three.

1422
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 8: We try to stay away from cases that involve children,

1423
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 8: so you you'll get them once a month, once every month.

1424
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 10: But yeah, it's it happens.

1425
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 8: And apparently it has increased in the United States over

1426
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:41,720
Speaker 8: the past couple of years by like three percent. People

1427
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 8: want children, and most of the time they're doing that

1428
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 8: because they want to keep a man.

1429
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 3: And like my body language, I can't even move.

1430
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 4: There's there's killer Sally.

1431
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 2: There's a lot of things recently too, I know people

1432
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:59,919
Speaker 2: being in domestic violence type of relationships that are both

1433
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 2: physical sexual emotional. That definitely leads women as well to

1434
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 2: feeling like that's their only way out.

1435
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good third.

1436
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 4: That's a good third, right, And.

1437
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 9: I think money, money, money, But then I think I

1438
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 9: think just focusing on the crime of passion part of it,

1439
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 9: I think it would be the domestic.

1440
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 3: Probably domestic, I.

1441
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 4: Mean with money.

1442
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:22,439
Speaker 1: Do you find that the money is because they're trying

1443
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: to get the insurance payout?

1444
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 4: Yes?

1445
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:27,240
Speaker 10: Wow, Okay.

1446
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 8: One time a girl killed her sister's man, what just

1447
01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:32,840
Speaker 8: to get the money because he was a lottery winner.

1448
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 8: He won the lottery and he was taking care of

1449
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 8: the entire family. So married the girl's sister, and so

1450
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 8: the girl had it was her and her bum boyfriend,

1451
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 8: and they both needed some more money, even though he

1452
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 8: was already fronting their lifestyle.

1453
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 10: So they decided they were.

1454
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 8: Going to kill him, and they were supposed to rob him,

1455
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 8: but they ended up killing him and then there's a

1456
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 8: lot for insurance.

1457
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 4: Oh I'm not.

1458
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 2: Gonna hold you if I won the motherfucking lotto. I'm

1459
01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 2: just disappearing, y'all ain't gonna know podcast over. I'm in

1460
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 2: another country. Oh yeah, listen, I'm disappearing.

1461
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 4: Name change a bit, I put a wig on.

1462
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 2: Here's a good question, though, I'm gonna have to get

1463
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 2: a boy's change would make.

1464
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: You fall off the earth? Because I recently was talking

1465
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 1: about this with REESEA Tisa. Right, So we did an

1466
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 1: episode on Patreon me and it came about Resa and

1467
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 1: he's like, she about to quit a job sooner she

1468
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 1: about to be rich. I'm like, she's not gonna quit

1469
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: her job. He's like, of course she is.

1470
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 4: She's about to make mad bread.

1471
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking to myself, Nah, you not quitting a

1472
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 1: job for brand deals, are you? So it poses the

1473
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 1: question how much money would make you stop everything else?

1474
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: Because to me, if I weren't like three million, four

1475
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: million dollars, I wouldn't no, because that could be gone.

1476
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 1: How much money would make you cut everything off and move?

1477
01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 10: I'm a cheap host, so my price is probably a

1478
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 10: little lower. She was like, I'm not stopping it three million?

1479
01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:59,959
Speaker 8: Really, nah, I mean I keep going at three million.

1480
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 8: But if you know, when you hit those big money

1481
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 8: like the two hundred million, one hundred and fifty million,

1482
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 8: but then you have to think about you're giving half

1483
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 8: that back in taxes.

1484
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 3: No, I'm going somewhere without taxes.

1485
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 10: But if you win the lottery in America.

1486
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 2: But I'm going, I don't know, bitch, I'm gonna find it.

1487
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 2: There's somewhere, Oh, Switzerland, they'd be nice in the Banks

1488
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 2: of Song.

1489
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 4: You're gonna be a sovereign citizen. Listen, show will Hawaii's

1490
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 4: three percent? Will?

1491
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 6: Oh?

1492
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:26,080
Speaker 4: Why is only three percent?

1493
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:28,760
Speaker 1: And to be fair, the money going to Hawaiians as

1494
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 1: indigenous people, that's a pretty like, that's a good.

1495
01:08:31,000 --> 01:08:32,559
Speaker 2: They don't want us there. I know you keep trying

1496
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 2: to make it. Hawaii does not want us there, Broke.

1497
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:37,840
Speaker 2: They don't want toys. Y'all know Weezy want to go

1498
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 2: back to Hawaii, and I'd be like, bro they do

1499
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 2: not want about the indigenous people. They don't want you

1500
01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 2: to have, bitch. He choked black hairs off the goddamn island.

1501
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,479
Speaker 1: When COVID hit, it was very difficult for businesses to

1502
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:52,679
Speaker 1: stay aflow because there was no money pouring into the comedy.

1503
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 4: Then on top of even Maui with the fires.

1504
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: You remember when that happened, all of them were talking

1505
01:08:58,240 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: about how grateful they are that.

1506
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 4: We were on They're part of the land that we

1507
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 4: were cure. They don't even like what Oprah doing for them.

1508
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:05,719
Speaker 3: They said, just get the fuck out, y'all.

1509
01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 4: We got this, We got the fires. Because y'all keep

1510
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 4: coming over.

1511
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: Now, I feel like the portion of you that wants

1512
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: to call the police wool. I'm going, okay, now, let's

1513
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 1: dig into it. So Dad told me, y'all have some stories.

1514
01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 1: We really want to know. Who are some of the

1515
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 1: craziest bitches y'all. Womb raider, I actually don't feel like

1516
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 1: I can come back from that. Womb is crazy. That's

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01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 1: that's pretty wild. By the way, for the womb raider stories,

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01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:36,719
Speaker 1: for most other cases, are they mostly women that they know.

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01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 8: They'll be They will befriend these women on the internet

1520
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 8: like these mommy but sometimes mommy talk about the mom says,

1521
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 8: these mommy Facebook groups, these little support groups. These women

1522
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:53,720
Speaker 8: are out here faking their pregnancy. You see it all

1523
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 8: the time where people are faking their pregnancy and they

1524
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 8: get close to these women, They trust these women, They

1525
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 8: throw each other babies hours and in reality, these women

1526
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 8: are not pregnant.

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01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 10: It is it is an actual thing.

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01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 8: Like my friends that just had babies, they were like,

1529
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 8: we were super selective about the information that we took

1530
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:12,439
Speaker 8: about who we reached out to. People were like, oh,

1531
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:13,960
Speaker 8: we should be friends, we should be mommy friends. You

1532
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 8: would be like, we're not making mommy friends. Were just

1533
01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 8: on these spacebook groups for information they are stealing.

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01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 4: Wow. Yes, so you cut it open.

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01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 8: Because technically you're supposed to survive, right, it's a cesarean section,

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01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 8: and so if you're if you're you're technically you're supposed

1537
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 8: to survive. But if they're bleeding out, you don't know

1538
01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 8: how to take care of them. You don't know how

1539
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 8: to make sure that they're sewn up correctly.

1540
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: They're going, yeah, how are they getting them to the

1541
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 1: point where like you can even cut their stomach up,

1542
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 1: and like they're.

1543
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 8: Push them, they're not much pregnant, push them they fall

1544
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 8: cut or or one.

1545
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 10: She stabbed her in the neck and then cut her.

1546
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 8: She was just making sure that the abdom was taken

1547
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 8: care of and the babies survive.

1548
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 3: Wow, can you imagine you're born?

1549
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 4: No, no, I no, just know where you're taking this.

1550
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,479
Speaker 8: One of them the where the husband was waiting at

1551
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 8: the altar. He they said that he went to the

1552
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 8: hospital because somebody finally told him to go to the

1553
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 8: hospital and they saw and they saw the daughter. He

1554
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 8: was like, where's my daughter and they were like, sorry,

1555
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,840
Speaker 8: this is not your child. He threw a fit, they said.

1556
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,160
Speaker 8: All the newspaper articles were like, he was not having

1557
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 8: it because of course the white people write. I was like,

1558
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:27,559
Speaker 8: he was probably going up and down the house hospitals

1559
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:30,680
Speaker 8: like this is my child, do a DNA test, doing

1560
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 8: a DNA test. But the woman, the murderess, she was

1561
01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 8: refusing medical service, and you know you can do that.

1562
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 8: So if she's refusing to be tested or for them

1563
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 8: to look at her, they she says, this is my

1564
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:41,799
Speaker 8: newborn baby.

1565
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 10: They're inclined to believe her.

1566
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 8: So it wasn't until he made a huge fuss and

1567
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 8: he was like, no, no, this woman is crazy.

1568
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:49,759
Speaker 10: That is my child, not her child.

1569
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 8: Until then finally they did a DNA test and he

1570
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:53,679
Speaker 8: was able to take his daughter home.

1571
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 3: And what I mean the wife didn't make it.

1572
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 10: She didn't make it on their wedding day.

1573
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:07,520
Speaker 2: The psychological warfare in his own life following that instance,

1574
01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 2: I'm a new theory.

1575
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 1: Here's when I'd become a killer. Put me in jail

1576
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:14,120
Speaker 1: for some other shit. Then a bitch like that coming

1577
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 1: to jail, I could.

1578
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 3: Have help, just you know, that's that's ridiculous.

1579
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:20,880
Speaker 1: Like I do believe in, like ganging up on people

1580
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:23,160
Speaker 1: that are terrible, like I think that's okay.

1581
01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:26,640
Speaker 8: The jail politics that, yeah, that's all.

1582
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:28,599
Speaker 4: Someone came in there and did someone with kids kill

1583
01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:30,719
Speaker 4: that nigga? Well that's a wrap.

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