1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: Lip serving. What's up his lip service? I'm Angela Yee, 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: I'm g g McGuire, I'm Stephanie Santiago Styles. Yeah. I 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: was like, what's going on over here? Alright? That's right? 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: And you know, we had this new segment we've been 5 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: doing to start the show was called full disclosure. When 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: we tell the story about ourselves. That could be embarrassing, 7 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: it could just be funny, it could be something that's 8 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: just a little anecdote. Alright, So should I start? Okay, 9 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: I'll give a full disclosure story. So when I was 10 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: in college, I was dating this guy and I was 11 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: at his house and I didn't really know like what 12 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: I was doing, and I think I gave him a 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: really dry hand job and it burned him like a 14 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: rug burn. And he told me the next day where 15 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, his wealth. I don't think he 16 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: had wealth, but he said it like burned. I guess 17 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: because I didn't. That's crazy. Do no lotion or whatever 18 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do. He should said something to take 19 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: a dry hand job. I'm just saying that's painful. Well, 20 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: don't judge me. I'm just saying this is a lot 21 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: of time ago. Give right, Okay, did all right? So 22 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 1: does anybody else have a full disclosure story and not 23 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: the only one you might be on your own day? 24 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, well damn thinking, I'm trying to think I 25 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: have a story. Definitely. One time I was having like 26 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: I had a great night with this guy. We went 27 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,919 Speaker 1: out drinking. We had like this great black out drunk 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: night whatever. We went to sleep and I woke up 29 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: and I pet on the bed and he's in the 30 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: bed too, but he has like one of them extra 31 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: big king ben California king, no bigger than California, like 32 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: a customized one, right hey. So I was like, all right, 33 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: I'm just not gonna get up on so he gets off. 34 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: So finally he got up and I changed the sheets 35 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: and I cleaned it up, and I acted like it 36 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: never happened. Noticed, Okay, that's not bad. We didn't get 37 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: but it happened. Though it happened. I won't even a care, 38 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: Like what a guy care? You wouldn't care? Yeah, definitely, yeah, 39 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: it would be like you got to be but now 40 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: I cleaned it. I cleaned it would launch you to 41 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: churn it like he was. He was off working now 42 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: he was like, oh, I'll be back man, I'm gonna 43 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: go upstairs and work out. I was like, perfect, that 44 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: bothers me like forty five minutes at least, So I said, 45 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: I went and I got the detergent, I cleaned the spot. 46 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: I put brand new sheets, the whole brand new set. 47 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: He's like, old baby, Yeah, but I's so sweet. That's 48 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: because and he just said on the show the other 49 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: day that he just yeah, he just recently peed dream 50 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: and this guy had a water ountain around his bed. 51 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: So all you hear is like, yeah, that's what happened. 52 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: But he did, Yeah, you know that happened about dream. 53 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: I was taking the piss and be like, wait, were 54 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: you think remember that you wake up and you didn't 55 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: feed on Yeah, it wasn't. I don't think it was 56 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: at home. It was at home. I tinkled a little bit. 57 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: I did, but you mentioned it lightly later on okay 58 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: at yeah obviously. Okay, So you sneakily rights a couple 59 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: drops in the you know it's in the middle of 60 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: it because you feel but you feel it like oh ship, 61 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: and then you know, but isn't it waiting to like 62 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: stop mistream? No, I feel like I've dressed happening able 63 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: to go to bad I'm saying, like you're in there. 64 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Depends on how you can stop dreams sometimes, yeah, it 65 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: depends on how just like you don't know. Actually there's 66 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: been times and knowing that when you're dreaming that you're 67 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: about to pee, you're going to pee on yourself. There's 68 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: been times that I've been in the dream about you 69 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: is about from like uh no, no, no, this is it? 70 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: All right? Now stops? But you were smoking, I do, 71 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: and I had a little Q and A and we 72 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: want to see if you agree with her answers al right, 73 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: So if you guys are going on a road trip, 74 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: who would do most of the driving? Okay, thing ding ding, 75 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: that's correct, you agree with that. Who's more likely to 76 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: say I'm too tired to have sex? Huh? Oh okay, 77 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: she said that too. That's a shame, she laughing, Like 78 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: it happens a lot. It's just always me. So you tried, 79 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: you said that one time, like here and there, mostly 80 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: I could be half that figure make it happen, all right? 81 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: Who was more like to apologize? First? Damn? You guys 82 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: are on point, all right, which one of you is 83 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: better in bed? Huh? She said that too. This is okay, 84 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: So what makes her better in bed? They cheated right now? 85 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not quicker most men do. Yeah, 86 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: but it's not over after that. Right now, I'm a 87 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: second another. Okay, I can pull out a third nut 88 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: for the second nuther is definitely girl? Is it every like? 89 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: This is going on too long? I'm tired? Want to 90 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: get started. You're okay? Okay? Um, So what's one thing 91 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 1: that you guys haven't done that you would like to try. 92 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: Let's see if you can guess what she said about this. 93 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: I have to slice idea. Um, there's nothing you want 94 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: to try that you guys haven't done yet. I'm trying 95 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: to think you one thing that you want to try 96 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: that you guys haven't done yet. You haven't done at 97 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:23,559 Speaker 1: all years? Got it right? I can't think of anything? Okay, 98 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: she said, the same thing? Done everything right, though. This 99 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: one's a tough one. What's the longest period of time 100 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: you've gone without sex in your relationship? You know, A 101 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: couple of weeks? Oh you don't know it. Okay, that's 102 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: the only one y'all don't agree on. She said, one month. 103 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: That's a couple of weeks. I mean a couple of 104 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: about a month actually it would be actually would be 105 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: like a month five weeks actually, So what happened that? 106 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: Y'all for this right now? But it's probably ego or 107 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: ignorant one of us not want to give in. But 108 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: then he always that definitely weren't speaking. Definitely probably was 109 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: not speaking. And um, what's the word you used to 110 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: call me? Ignorant? No? No, no, talk about sexually? Sexually 111 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: a monger? Oh? Yeah, because he can have sex all 112 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: the time, right, Like you know, I think most men, 113 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: especially if you're a middle age man, you get horny. 114 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: You want to use it. All these skills young. So 115 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: if you're young, you're a middle waged. If you're thirty enough, 116 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: your joint work, you kind of want to exercise. It's up. 117 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: Have you ever tried? No, he doesn't need to life 118 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: around the world. Shout out to the clean diet fellas. 119 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: If you're slan, don't work. It's your blood. It's your 120 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: blood or the chemistry. That's what really literally is your 121 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: blood is not working, or you do not belong having sex. 122 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: So art do not belong having sex. That's your that's 123 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: your energy beyond your body going. This ain't right, This 124 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: ain't right. There's something beyond you and that person that's 125 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: going No, it's just stress, because I'm pretty sure that 126 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: you know you wouldn't in high school or junior high 127 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: or college. There's been a time you was like, this 128 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: person is attractive. I like them, they like me. I 129 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: can't get and something did not work. Yeah, I wouldn't 130 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: say chemistry, all right, But you're right about diet because 131 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: a lot of guys will be like, there's guys whose 132 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: dicks can only get like halfway hard. Sometimes you ever 133 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: experienced that and you're like, is this as hard as 134 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: it gets? It's like something you said. It's been a minute, 135 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: so you can't like, like, I hope, so I don't know. Now. 136 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: The other day when you guys went the breakfast club, 137 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: you guys were talking about it argument that was kind 138 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: of a petty argument. So I want to ask you all, 139 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: what's the pettiest argument you ever had in a relationship. 140 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: You can think of like something really petty and you 141 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: are really argued about it, and then later on for us, 142 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: I remember the last one before the last one was, um, 143 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 1: he like flung the covers over. You know when your 144 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: partner flings the cover over super hard and then like 145 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 1: flings it on top of you and they were heavy. 146 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: So I was annoyed he woke me up flinging, yeah, 147 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: because he could have just like peeled him back nicely, 148 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: but he flung the company a little. There was too 149 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: much like you to cover on me. Cover. It's like 150 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: a comfort, Patty. You can't even so many petty arguments 151 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: in my past relationship that we're not talking about anymore 152 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 1: that I don't. They were all petty. You pick through 153 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: a lot of them, like, what's the petty argument and 154 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: tell us, oh, you know what. There was a time 155 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: when he got mad at me because I felt asleep 156 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: sucking his dick. Okay, okay, I was sleepy? Argument? How 157 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: did that? Because I was already sleepy when he pulled 158 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: it out and I really didn't want to do it 159 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: for me being a teep, I still attempted now and 160 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:50,599 Speaker 1: damn while I was spending all to sleep and the 161 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: next thing I was, you know, I was sleeping. He 162 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 1: was so mad at me. Totally. I fell asleep during sex. Ones. 163 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, see I haven't only going seck. 164 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 1: I definitely, but I definitely feel asleep, know how, because 165 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,839 Speaker 1: I get up at four o'clock in the morning every day. 166 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: I'd be exhausted. And so sometimes you want to, like 167 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: you said, it'd be a trooper and be like, all right, 168 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm exhausted, but I'll do it. And then it was 169 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: just taking don't just don't do it if you're going 170 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 1: to fall asleep. But I didn't. I didn't plan it, 171 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: you know, it just was taking too long, and I 172 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: was like, I feel like this too. If you don't 173 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 1: have to get up early, respect that and like do 174 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 1: it quick. You know what I'm saying, don't get out 175 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: of here, get you. I gotta get up. You gotta 176 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: get to stay started. I'm doing this for you. I'm 177 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: so offensive to men. I just want to say I 178 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: know I wouldn't, but I've told you that just for 179 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 1: you like this. She'll be like, now listen for you, 180 00:11:54,800 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: hurry up. Yeah, I wouldn't say this is like, well, 181 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: just speak like at the time we have to go, 182 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: because you always wanted at the wrong time. The only 183 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: reason I wouldn't say harry up because I think that 184 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: would mess him hurrying up, you know what, I like, 185 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: I want to say that because I would feel like 186 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: mentally it would make him feel like, damn, she don't 187 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: even want to do it, but no, so I would 188 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: just act like I was like, yeah, so I'll act 189 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: like really hyping into it. And then I fell asleep. Crazy. 190 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 1: Look I tried, but you woke up. You get to 191 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 1: eat for effort. Yeah, I woke up. I woke back 192 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: up and he was mad. He was like, did you 193 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: fall asleep? And I was like no, but you know, 194 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: I fell asleep. That's like when you fall asleep during 195 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: the movie and like, no, I saw what happened. Stephanie. 196 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: What about you? What's a petty argument? I know you've 197 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: had plenty because I feel like I've been around when 198 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: you've been on the phone argument. I just had a 199 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: petty argument, like yesterday, um, because I took my location 200 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: off from my phone and he said, why you took 201 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: your location off because you wanted to go out, and 202 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, first of all, I took my location off 203 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: because you were getting on my nerves. So it started 204 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: a big argument and I ended up turn around location 205 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: back on. Okay, but that was pretty petty, right, yes, 206 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,479 Speaker 1: And I mean we were arguing for like three hours 207 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: about this. That's petty as fuck. Yeah, that's that is 208 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: that's silly. But I could go on and on. You 209 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:32,719 Speaker 1: want another one, right, arguments are petty and relationship on 210 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: anything you win, it's the big ship that you get 211 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: over and you figure out together. And you'd be like 212 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 1: because it's it weighs too heavy and it kind of 213 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: like you like, all right, we gotta figure this ship out. 214 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: But it's the petty ship is when personality kicks in. Yeah, 215 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: own personality eagles more like over like put the toilet 216 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: seat that you ain't got a pee on it? You 217 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: know what I mean? They're discussing, have you ever gone 218 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 1: to the bathroom? He didn't put the toilet seat on? 219 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: Put the toilet seat up and sit down and your 220 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 1: leg and it's late night. It's you can't see the toilet, say, 221 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: like on a sober night. See, I don't understand this. 222 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: You might piss with your right hand. You might be 223 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: drunk and pissed with your left on a drunk night, 224 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: and you might not even thought about the toilet seat. 225 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: Come on, I think about the toilet seat, but I 226 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: might have left it up. But it's like why who 227 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: whoever sits that? Man? We take ships, so we got 228 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: to sit down to I just want to say, we 229 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: a man has never sat down and not looked at 230 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: the toilet seat in the history of taking the ship, 231 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: because y'all we all sit down, like, y'all don't sit 232 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: down there. We don't sit down the peat, but we 233 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: sit down the ship. So I just don't know how 234 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: a woman ever sits down looking at you be with 235 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: your eyes still close. Yeah, like I don't living in 236 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: the toilet now your thank you? It's the toilet ead 237 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: like actual when you think braking at the toilet, how 238 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: could you even do that? Are you running the bathroom 239 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: real quick? I don't even if you didn't try to 240 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: light on and you just don't be scared. Fellas speak up? 241 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: But have you ever taken a ship and not looked 242 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: at the toilet seat? No? Man didn't. Why is it 243 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: so hard, happy dad taking a ship in the dark? Yeah, No, 244 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: I definitely sat on the seat by accident, and it 245 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: was it was up and not down like you. Definitely 246 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: sat on the cold hard porcelain porcelain at our house 247 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: in my crib. If it didn't because of me, that's it. 248 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: But I don't even recall that happening because I'm a 249 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: look whatever exactly even if it's dark, I'm gonna touch 250 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: the toilet before I even like you gotta make sure 251 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: everything is right right exactly? Okay, let me ask you this. 252 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 1: Do you think a woman can change a man? You 253 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: know they always say, oh he is, he is he 254 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: wants to be. I mean like and not intentionally, you 255 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: know what I mean, just by um example, definitely, or 256 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: like what he wants like if if she's for example, 257 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: like I changed him, I made him No seriously, So 258 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: I mean when you when they experienced a certain person 259 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: that brings them certain things that they haven't had before. 260 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: I think they're just willing to just keep going that way. 261 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: You know, no time to plug your book? Yes the 262 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: e threel hike um actually have out now with me 263 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 1: out now right? Yes? Amazon dot com, dot com dot 264 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: com for all information of where she is at you 265 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Twitter? She is, missus Adwa styles, 266 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: Instagram she styles. Now do you feel like you change 267 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: her in your relationship? I feel like we change. I 268 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 1: think that's what all relationships are about. Pretty much. You 269 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: can't change somebody. You can't change somebody, well, you can't 270 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: can unless they're willing to and they want to and 271 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 1: they want to Both of our changes come from being 272 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: We want to be together. We want to try to 273 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 1: build something bigger, and you want to be the best 274 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: person you can be for each other. And we're learning 275 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: from each other too. You want to learn something from 276 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 1: your partner, you know, because when you stop learning from 277 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: each other, it's kind of gets boring. All right. Now, 278 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 1: I have this other segment we have called true Sex, 279 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: and this is a new story that's about sex. And 280 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: I want to hear what y'all have to say in 281 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: say about this story. Now, this story is about boxes 282 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: or briefs. Now, a couple of issues with fertility and 283 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,439 Speaker 1: forty at the time. Did you know that it's the 284 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: mail that has the issues? So a lot of times 285 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: to look at the woman and we're like, oh, it's 286 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: she didn't do this, or she's having issues, or it's 287 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 1: her eggs, But forty percent of the time it is 288 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 1: the mail. Now, did you know that it does matter 289 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: if you wear boxers or briefs. I didn't know that 290 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: when it comes to men. Okay, so break it down 291 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: for us. Um any dude out there anyway, when you're 292 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 1: over about switch the boxer briefs, protecting nuts, protecting boxer briefs. 293 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 1: I don't haven't wear appair regular boxers since I don't 294 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: even know how did you ever wear Tidy Whitey's. No, 295 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: not even as a kid, I've never seen them. What 296 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: do you switch over from like teens late teens to 297 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: boxer briefs? Tidy Whitey's went from I mean I went 298 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: from Tidy white twelve, I would say, to boxers, and 299 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 1: then when I got older, it's like, not to protect 300 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: my nuts boxer briefs. And was it a big deal 301 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: when you made that transition from Tidy Whitey's two boxers. 302 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: Like you know, for girls, we start wearing a broad 303 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, I'm wearing a bra. 304 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: Is it the same thing for guys? I mean, I 305 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: don't know. She didn't like boxer briefs at first. Yeah, 306 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: I didn't like boxer briefe at first. You try to 307 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 1: get them from me, He's like he's a biking short. 308 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: It was weird. It was at first. It was definitely 309 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: ware that first cutile. I wanted to protect my nuts 310 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: until I really about to end up doing your knees. 311 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: You gotta leave him. You gotta keep from tight and right. 312 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 1: You know, boxes were invented in one time. But nuts 313 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 1: also part of crazy. Nuts fluctu weight to sometimes with 314 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: exercise they fluctuate. What do you mean? Like you know 315 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 1: they get soft and they get soft all longer. Like 316 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: there's time she grabbed my nuts and be like, wow, 317 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: your your nutpacker is tight. It went up tight, but 318 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,880 Speaker 1: about to come nutpackers, it's about to come. And just 319 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 1: I think about you've been jogging. Yeah you can't think 320 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: other things too? There were you you can tell? Yeah, 321 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,640 Speaker 1: you would think so you can tell when a guy 322 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 1: used his nuts by by feeling them. No, I could tell, 323 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: like if I could nut wait, ye, the way of 324 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: the nuts. I agree with that. I agree with that 325 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 1: because if my man leaves that his his nuts are 326 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 1: all tight and then he comes home and they're all 327 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 1: flaccing and was like exactly, which means in the gym, 328 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: that's weird. Yeah, that's me. I don't know about Like 329 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: I'm over the toilet, up one out, No, like I'm 330 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: just do it. I feel bruffy about to rub one 331 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: out because sometimes you feel like like damn, I just 332 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: because you always want to have sex because you gotta 333 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: take care of your nuts. Men, it's poison their it's poison. 334 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: You gotta get rid of it. Did gotta go leads 335 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: to bank ergy, like if you don't skip sash enough 336 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 1: and quick enough, bad road rage and you don't really 337 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: know about it. So that's kind of a frustration. So 338 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: you gotta kind of release. You gotta release. Clearly, we 339 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: have a healthy sex relationship. Now let me get back 340 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: to this too sex story I was telling you. But 341 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 1: the real reason why they say that it's not good 342 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: to wear tighty Whitey's and sometimes even box and breefe 343 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 1: for guys is because of the heat. And they say yes, 344 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: so obviously, like that makes your balls a little warmer, 345 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: which makes it a lot harder for your sperm production. 346 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,199 Speaker 1: It's like trying to keep it cool, like you have 347 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,719 Speaker 1: to keep it like it's in a wine cellar, and 348 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: you produce more sperm when there's when it's when you 349 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: get middle aged balls and you do a jump squat 350 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: boxes in the gym, you go for layup jump squat 351 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: some kind of leaping thing and your nuts is loose, 352 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 1: you possibly can hurt yourself. So it's kind of a 353 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: fifty fifty because you you get middle aged, you can 354 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 1: do a shurtan leap and it was like, oh no, 355 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:42,400 Speaker 1: I keep my nuts tight. You know what, though, they 356 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: do have boxing briefs with the cool ship now they 357 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: where you keep you with cool nuts like the whole 358 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: cut out or something break and every Yes, when you 359 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: wear boxerr briefs, they'd be a little sweat. Yeah, you 360 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 1: got the pug and working out you get salty bulls 361 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: and there's a little air. There's a little air that 362 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 1: you can get in a summertime fresh off to the 363 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 1: gym factor in the new underwears are actually go your sink, 364 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 1: county count your sink? Do they get because they call 365 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 1: it bad wings when they get stuck to your thighs, 366 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:44,719 Speaker 1: Like if it's hot out and sweaty, that was so old, 367 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: hang me out, back out like a dog. Get lov 368 00:23:55,240 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: stuff to a dige different. It's like a sticky different. 369 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 1: They haven't you telling nobody? Why? Is serious? One time 370 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: because he was wearing regular boxers. Really yeah, so what 371 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: happy got? His happy was like, no, I'm I couldn't 372 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,919 Speaker 1: do it because he had a regular water from the 373 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,160 Speaker 1: poppy store. I couldn't do it. He bought us from 374 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: the regular boxing. They have to be high end with 375 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 1: n It was brief pololo polo associate anything anything, but 376 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: with regular boxes it was like it was like real 377 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: and I was just like, oh, so, how do you 378 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: turn it down? At that moment, he was fresh on yeah, freshold, 379 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 1: I had two years, no more than two years my 380 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 1: period because when it was over, just got my period. Yeah, 381 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: he definitely was like I don't care. No, he wasn't. 382 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 1: He wasn't at cool. I cared, you know you cooling? 383 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,199 Speaker 1: You running red like if you ain't know that time 384 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: when they didn't running red like so I cared. And 385 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: it wasn't even about the period. It was because the 386 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: period that was a lie, because guys don't cant head 387 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 1: on the box of briefs. That was real. They was 388 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: like bigger and bagger than his actual team. It just 389 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: was a bad situation. Maybe he had to borrow that. 390 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: I was all the way turned off. Nicies came on. 391 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 1: He just I don't even know, but I was he 392 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:58,919 Speaker 1: a felling though. Can we get to this probably definitely 393 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: hood like yeah, would an embarrassing. Have you ever got 394 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: caught like you wasn't really doing nothing, but it seemed 395 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,640 Speaker 1: like you were and you didn't really have a valid 396 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: explanation and I'm gonna get to this ask you question 397 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: somebody sent in right, Like, sometimes things just seem like 398 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: there's no point in me even explaining this because it's 399 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: you're not gonna believe it. Has that ever happened? Because 400 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 1: listen to this question. Okay, I'm a software developer and 401 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: I live in Seattle. I'm getting my masters in computer science, 402 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 1: and my capital one project is to develop a new 403 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: dating app to do research. I downloaded a dating app, 404 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 1: but I did not tell my girlfriend I was doing 405 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: this beforehand. She's now extremely upset, doesn't trust me and 406 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 1: is considering calling our engagement off. He doesn't know what 407 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 1: to do because she just doesn't believe him. So why 408 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 1: didn't he let her see his activity so that he 409 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: can show that he just had the app for research 410 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 1: and that he wasn't out there fishing, he was at work. 411 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 1: She just doesn't trust him, and now she doesn't and like, 412 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: you're trying a man if you found out he was 413 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: on a date and app right if it's not a 414 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 1: software developer. So right when he turned around, he says, 415 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 1: first of all, bro, no this from her, let't is 416 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: this It's a big difference from a guy on a 417 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 1: dating app and a guy creating a dating but he 418 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: downloaded one for research per prayness and didn't tell her, 419 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:23,480 Speaker 1: and maybe they're on there, she says, and could prove 420 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: that he's Actually she should just fall back. I'm gonna 421 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: keep it a buck. But don't you think you should 422 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: have told her? Yeah? I think he should have mentioned it, 423 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 1: like because developing the top. So I'm gonna you know, 424 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: and that's also something interesting job if he was a 425 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: garbage man, Yeah, I wouldn't care about if he was 426 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: a garbage man garage. But there's nothing John, There's nothing 427 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: at him being a garbage man. There's nothing that he 428 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: does being a garbage man that can compromise that relationship. 429 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: But there's something about being on the dating website that 430 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 1: can compromise your relationship that is good. That's what happened 431 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 1: at home, trying to help out here. Like let's say 432 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: you were doing a song, right and it was about 433 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: dating apps or something like that, and you're like, you 434 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 1: know what, I want to see what goes on? What 435 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: kind of lingo people use? Let me download this app, 436 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: let's just say say, because I have to, And so 437 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 1: he should have might he might have not known she 438 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: was the type of lady that he had to tell 439 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 1: that could have your story. Hey, I'm doing this, this 440 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 1: is what's happening. She may not be offended. He may 441 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 1: have not even thought about it. He could have just 442 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: been at work and not even been thinking about her 443 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: because he was at work. I'm sure he thinks about 444 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: her at work, especially on a dating app. You're thinking 445 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 1: about your girl. You're on a dating app. I would 446 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 1: think your fiance. But let's come to cross your all. 447 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 1: This all this to say, are there things when you're 448 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: in a relationship, right like being married? Are there certain 449 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: things that you just don't bring up because it's not relevant? 450 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: You feel like, but it now with us? Nah, with 451 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: everything years ago when they first I can tell you something. 452 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: I couldn't even explain this. When they first made what's 453 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: the ship that you put under these? The dermos? The 454 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: night drive fit things? Remember that? She said? Um? And 455 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 1: it was after the hot nuts. This was crazy hot 456 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: nuts hair. She was like, these smells funny, and I 457 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: was like, what are you talking about? This was years 458 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: ago they first I said, this is the scent on 459 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: these things? Like? Oh, she said, no, this smells like sperm. 460 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: I just don't smell like, what the fund you talking about? 461 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: She was like, nah, you know like the under your 462 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: Nike under the thing things out wash them and they 463 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 1: had kind of the under nut here smell like four days, 464 00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: three days in the gym they could get that the 465 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: drive it nut joints three days. He didn't wash them. 466 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 1: I didn't wash him. I just worked out of them. 467 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: And she said, and they did. It had a peculiar smell. 468 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 1: It was like it wasn't like because it comes with 469 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: fabrica different all that should come kind of a polyester 470 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: hot smell. She's like, nah, he smells funny. I was like, nah, 471 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: let's workout. She's like, nah, that's nut. That was like, hell, no, 472 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 1: that's workout. This was like when they first was invented. 473 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 1: And that was an argument you couldn't even describe, like 474 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 1: I mean my explanation, like I can't just say this 475 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: is the fabric and this is how it smells. It 476 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: was weird exactly Are you sure you didn't? No? That 477 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: was that was nut. That was that was hot bold nuts. 478 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 1: How do you write out in type things for three 479 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 1: days and not wash them? Now he nervous lesson every 480 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 1: workout washing your going back. What's the wore in the 481 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: same underwear in a row. Okay, I said, now maybe clean, 482 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: it's very clean. Actually do that. I do not play 483 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 1: that ship. I will want to close a lot, right, 484 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: but my drawers, socks, tank top, T shirt, de orderant, 485 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: body wash, sponges. I had the ships before they even 486 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: came out. I was years ahead of the game for scrubs. 487 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 1: I'll play that ship. Yeah. When we washed our jeans 488 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 1: and our pants and stuff like that, like right the 489 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: one time we were on one time and washing them, 490 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: y'all guys, but were like the same over and over 491 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 1: what I washed three times and not washing three times. 492 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: You guys are supposed to wash jees after three times 493 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: as a guy, and it depends on what your hustle 494 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: is and what you're doing. You watched jeans like when 495 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 1: they need to be washed for me personally, guys do that. 496 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: But I'm watching stretched jeans like jeans with stretch. I 497 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: washed them after everywhere, Jane, because you want to get 498 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 1: side of game. But jeez, that are kindon that I 499 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 1: like for them to get where are The more you 500 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: wear them, the better they got. Some jeans wash them. 501 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 1: We have two holes where you know what I mean? 502 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 1: Because guys were three. Yeah we got three holes? Yes, 503 00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: yeah you need three? You read those and those two 504 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: together right there, same spot, yeah, right there, like one 505 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: top bottom. All right, Now here's another question. Um, please 506 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: keep me anonymous. All right. I've been dating this guy 507 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 1: since November seventeenth, and since since November, and since November, 508 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 1: he has been without a job. Now I work full time, 509 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: I'm a mom, and I go to school. He still 510 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: has not found a job. He says he applies every 511 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 1: day and goes on interviews, but no one has yet 512 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: hired him. He had a gig where they were going 513 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 1: to pay him in December and that has yet to happen. 514 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's lying. I don't know what 515 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 1: to do at this point. I've been to go get 516 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: in my whole life, and I feel like he's been 517 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 1: dragging his feet. I love him a lot and I 518 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 1: want to eventually marry him, but it's like turning my 519 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: turning me off by him being okay with not having 520 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 1: a job or even trying to make side money. I 521 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: don't know what to do. That's crazy. So what he 522 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 1: doesn't have a job and he's not grabbing a pack 523 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: right or trying to you know what I'm saying, is 524 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: he grabbing a pack? How old is he? And he's 525 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 1: not something strong? But she didn't say see that matters too, 526 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: and doesn't bring money home? We got to get to this. Yeah, 527 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 1: apparently I don't think he's bringing home that she didn't 528 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:27,439 Speaker 1: say that he doesn't any job. Yeah, he doesn't sound 529 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 1: like he's getting anything. It don't even sound like he's 530 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 1: grabbing a pack. And listen, and I know we all 531 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,839 Speaker 1: say and styles you've said this, you know a guy, 532 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: But she just said she's been a go getter. So 533 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 1: as a woman who was a go getter, should she 534 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 1: stay with this guy who it's now he's clearly they 535 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 1: have two different outs. So it's been three years and 536 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,279 Speaker 1: had a job she's been taking care of for three years. 537 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 1: That's crazy. What's November two years? I honestly feel like 538 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,240 Speaker 1: if a man can't take care of himself, he shouldn't 539 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,800 Speaker 1: have a girlfriend. Basically, you you don't. It's not about 540 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: being able to afford a woman or not exactly. You 541 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: take care of yourself. You gotta don't want to get 542 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: got your own hair cut, dress yourself to that. You 543 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 1: gotta take your girl frying out to eat dinner. That's 544 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 1: a good question. No, I think if a girl doesn't 545 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 1: have a job, she shouldn't. She can't afford to have 546 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: a boyfriend. Yeah, she should definitely be self sufficient. Yeah, 547 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: bringing out yourself, you can't. You can't beat yourself. You 548 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: can't take yourself to eat that McDonald's. You're not getting 549 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,799 Speaker 1: you can't take it, man, eat that McDonald's. See. Then 550 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: I'm just giving a real example. Let me ask you, 551 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 1: that's the only man here on the podcast, right. Doesn't 552 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 1: matter to men if women aren't self sufficient when it 553 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:54,000 Speaker 1: comes to dating. Hell, yeah, definitely. And I would say 554 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 1: that because you intelligent women have made it so m 555 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 1: you've made it to with it. And I don't knock y'all. 556 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 1: A lot of women make a lot of money. So 557 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,879 Speaker 1: if a guy doesn't um, if he ain't bringing something 558 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,879 Speaker 1: to the table, he can't even get on the date. 559 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: So now a guy who's worth something or feel like 560 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 1: he's going somewhere, it's gonna go. They ain't that many 561 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,760 Speaker 1: great guys. If she can't bring anything to the table, 562 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 1: why would I date? Why would I date or want 563 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: to deal with hub? She can't help herself out, Like 564 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 1: you know what, I mean um for me, particularly too 565 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,800 Speaker 1: with um with her, especially my my wife. What what 566 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: really made me amazed by hus At the time when 567 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: we were younger and I was so used to the tricks, 568 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: being like I need a colde, I need sneakers, I 569 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: need this. When you trick, I'd be like, hell no, 570 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 1: would your trick on me? We never had that, Like 571 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 1: there would be times like we had a real friendship 572 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: and I'd be like, I don't know what I gotta 573 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: do from Red this month. I'm about to go hit 574 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: this block in his pack And she'd be like, yo, 575 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: I got some dollars for you, got some money just 576 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,320 Speaker 1: you know. And that that meant a lot to me 577 00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,359 Speaker 1: because it meant she was self sufficient and I learned 578 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: from her, and that meant I knew she wasn't just 579 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: trying to get me for a dollar, like she'll tell you. 580 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: She bought me a cologne and a cold one day, 581 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 1: and I think that was the I was like emotionally 582 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 1: destroyed Polo cologne and a Polo's and and and something else. 583 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: I was like, it was day, Why did you do this? 584 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: I was like what, wait? What happened? Like because I 585 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 1: was so used to sneakers and I was like, hell, no, 586 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,880 Speaker 1: you got the wrong dude, Like I don't mind, like 587 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I don't think a lot 588 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: of dudes don't mind spending money, but and it's a 589 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 1: lot of dudes who are tricks. And then I think 590 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 1: a lot of ladies look at the dudes who are 591 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: in tricks like they tricks too. And there's some dudes 592 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: who feel like, all right, I spend money, but I 593 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: have value about myself and I care about myself and 594 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: I got some sort of value and I might be 595 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: screwed up now, but I'm kind of valuable somewhere in life, 596 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think that kind 597 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 1: of happens a lot. I think it's a two way 598 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: street with guys and girls, and you got to be 599 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: able to meet in between. I don't think that's really Yeah, 600 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: I just feel like people have a common ground where 601 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,520 Speaker 1: you feel equal about and you have an understanding about it, right, 602 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 1: and you should do it at your level, like if 603 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: you're a Brokes, which you shouldn't be looking for a 604 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:27,840 Speaker 1: millionaire you don't match sometimes like that, guys sometimes like 605 00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:35,719 Speaker 1: it because then you don't have any powers. In the 606 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 1: same way about guys though I feel like guys, like, 607 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 1: if you know that a woman can provide a certain 608 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,600 Speaker 1: type of lifestyle for herself and you aren't up to 609 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: part financially to be able to meet her exactly, then 610 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 1: don't even wear your time, you know, like if you 611 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: can't if I can't go out to dinner at Noble 612 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,400 Speaker 1: with my girls and and drink shots forty two or 613 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,759 Speaker 1: we enough to mend you, then if I'm going out 614 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 1: with a guy, he should be able to do that 615 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 1: or more. I don't know, can't do for me what 616 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: I could do for myself, And I'll say that is 617 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:18,320 Speaker 1: a real rich bish. I'm a fake man. Different both 618 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 1: everybody in here. Let's just say, like, let's let's take 619 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 1: hip hop out of it. And we were saying, corporate America, 620 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: who stands a chance again the job faster me or you? 621 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 1: Who's going to get the job faster me or you? 622 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 1: When we walk in from the beginning of the time 623 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 1: to say, give the black woman or the brown woman 624 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,440 Speaker 1: a job. This has been from miseducation and a negro. 625 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,919 Speaker 1: Make your household feel inadequate. Now the dude can't take 626 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 1: care of you. Now he don't even want to approach you. 627 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 1: Because that I can't take you the nobles. Maybe you 628 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,240 Speaker 1: can take you and your girl the nobles and I can't. 629 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 1: Does that make me an inefficient man? Like you know 630 00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: what I mean? And I think this is my particular 631 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,440 Speaker 1: reason for loving this woman so much. I felt like 632 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,279 Speaker 1: this was a woman who could see the potential with 633 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: me and understand where I was going and what kind 634 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: of man I could be understand and say, Okay, this 635 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 1: is a corner dude. He got you know, he's in 636 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 1: hip hop, but he's a corner dude. But I think 637 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 1: he has potential to do business and he and together 638 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,879 Speaker 1: we could make it. And that's to a lady who's 639 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 1: looking at me, because that's what I've seen in everybody else. 640 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 1: All Right, this nigger could pay for my ship, or 641 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 1: he can't pay for my ship, but together, that was 642 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,359 Speaker 1: a different time in your lives. I'm forty years old. 643 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 1: I'm at a time in my life where I'm not 644 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: trying to see somebody who got potentially. I'm trying to 645 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 1: see somebody food. Right, we got into the back four 646 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 1: years old. I'm I'm agree with you. I got good credit, 647 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,760 Speaker 1: I got my own everything, and I don't need somebody 648 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: that's just trying to make it. I'm not just trying 649 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 1: to make it with you got and just made it 650 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 1: on my own grind from the you know, most women, 651 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: most women can make it before most brown men can 652 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 1: make it. And that's destruction though I wasn't. But then 653 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 1: men get paid more than women because we're still at 654 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 1: the bottom, especially as brown women brown men. No, we 655 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 1: men in general than men, and general brown women make 656 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,800 Speaker 1: less than brown men. Still then, you know, so we 657 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 1: still have it on the boat on. It's a weird 658 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,879 Speaker 1: thing because y'all do make less. But I would ask 659 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 1: you which black man is more powerful than open right now? 660 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:32,359 Speaker 1: Obama wasn't even more powerful than Oprah when he was president. Well, yeah, 661 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,240 Speaker 1: she has that whole media. Tyler Perry is pretty powerful, 662 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:41,360 Speaker 1: I would say right now, I want to studio, you 663 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:48,279 Speaker 1: know because with the sound stages. Yea, yeah, come on, 664 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 1: I think it's arguableful. I think I think you could. 665 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 1: I wish you could argue that, you could argue that 666 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:04,200 Speaker 1: we can't say we can hear that. Hundreds of your 667 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 1: staking it. He owns and power and then you cause 668 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: power not more money, more power, more more has a 669 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: bigger platform, and like you look at somebody like Byron 670 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 1: Allen who owns you know, the Weather Channel, the like 671 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,319 Speaker 1: all these other networks and media outlets too, he might 672 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 1: quietly have got money compared to Open money. Open got 673 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 1: old money. I think the structure has been set up 674 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 1: for us to all have these conversations with only one 675 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,840 Speaker 1: person to cat to a point of where we're like, 676 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 1: who could do more for each other what they could do? 677 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: And that's kind of been set up from the beginning 678 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 1: of time for us to do. And you're absolutely right. 679 00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,520 Speaker 1: Why should you, as a forty year old woman, go, 680 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with a forty ye old man, make it, 681 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 1: kick it with Rahm and help him build his career, 682 00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 1: right because because I'm on this platform, right it and 683 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 1: talk to people like you for a living. But be like, 684 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,720 Speaker 1: he is an inspiring actor. He's still doing odd jobs. 685 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,680 Speaker 1: He hasn't hit it big yet, but he's still going 686 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,160 Speaker 1: on ships, getting a little bit rolls. No, no, no, no, 687 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 1: no no. I agree with y'all. No preservation is key. 688 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: You gotta take care of yourself because I think it's 689 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 1: kind of a weird thing. Because if you go back 690 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 1: to speaking of Open, there was a special over years ago. 691 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,799 Speaker 1: Remember we watched it. It was dudes. They showed. They 692 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 1: showed women and a bunch of dudes. They pulled out 693 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: a bunch of dudes, and they would say they pulled 694 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,360 Speaker 1: out a bunch of good looking dudes or right looking dudes, 695 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 1: and like threes and fours. Then they switched everybody's job 696 00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,840 Speaker 1: and said what they did. They put a three and 697 00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 1: four with an exotic job, he became a ten. They 698 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,279 Speaker 1: put a three and four with a want in the 699 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,920 Speaker 1: two job, he was a zero. So if you think 700 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,400 Speaker 1: about it in caveman times, although brown people have never 701 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 1: been caveman, let's be clear. The cave woman will look 702 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,439 Speaker 1: for who's gonna get the biggest kill, who can eat? 703 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: Who got the big Even if you go look at animals, 704 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,439 Speaker 1: the woman is gonna go with which guy is gonna 705 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 1: breathe the best, Who's the biggest and strongest, who could 706 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 1: protect this? So it's natural ship. She was telling me 707 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 1: this this morning. All right, we're gonna bump heads. Were 708 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,320 Speaker 1: both strong, will we um both strong? Mind? But a 709 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,840 Speaker 1: woman wants a strong man. But she don't want to 710 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 1: be weakened. But she definitely wants a strong man. So 711 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm like that's just mad confusing, like yeah, you know 712 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's kind of like a two 713 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 1: way street because you want a strong woman is going 714 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: to challenge. You know, want tolled. So you want to 715 00:44:56,040 --> 00:45:01,040 Speaker 1: be taken care of, and and I think men want that. 716 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 1: We all want to be taken care of. We all 717 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 1: want to know that there's times that God forbid. You 718 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,360 Speaker 1: can support me through something I'm going through, and I 719 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 1: can support you if you go through something that wasn't 720 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 1: playing And at least I know I clean on you, 721 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 1: whether it's emotionally or financially, is exactly Now, let me 722 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,400 Speaker 1: ask you all this. Okay, if somebody teats on you, 723 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 1: does that mean that they don't love you? No? No, 724 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:30,839 Speaker 1: I don't think so, because there was just a monogamy 725 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 1: and love and monogamy aren't They don't mean the same. 726 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 1: I mean it can in some instances it goes hand 727 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,360 Speaker 1: to hand, but it's not the same. No, alright because 728 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:42,760 Speaker 1: a lot of times in situations as women, when things happen, 729 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 1: we don't love, you don't let and you never and 730 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,800 Speaker 1: we try to dissect it. Did he love this person 731 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,120 Speaker 1: and never love me? Was he lying to me? Like 732 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,320 Speaker 1: you know what really happened? What went on? So styles 733 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 1: as the man in the room. Okay, what are the 734 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 1: reasons why men said I'm ready your cock? No like um, 735 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 1: gods want to nut all the time, like all the time. 736 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:18,040 Speaker 1: It's just entertaining yourself and when their hands are always 737 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:24,840 Speaker 1: in their boxss for a guy, think your life. The 738 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:34,279 Speaker 1: quality of life is how much you ejaculate. But I'm 739 00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 1: gonna to key onto what he says in anatomy. Right, 740 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 1: a man is constantly producing his reproductive organs, which is sperm, 741 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,640 Speaker 1: constantly constantly considered new sperm, new sperm, new sperm, So 742 00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 1: he got to get rid of the old sperm because 743 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 1: the new sperm is constantly reproducing, reproducing. As women are 744 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,359 Speaker 1: reproductive organ the egg. We only get it once a month. 745 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: So we're not out here looking to get fucked and 746 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 1: get think it fun as much as gods are looking 747 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,800 Speaker 1: to funk, because they have to release that sperm that's constantly, 748 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:09,040 Speaker 1: that's constantly building up and constantly. I'm just this is 749 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 1: okay exactly like I swell. And that goes to me 750 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 1: saying why monogamy and love isn't the same thing, because 751 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,320 Speaker 1: you can love and love and love and love, but 752 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 1: you're gonna slip up on monogamy, and it's not especially 753 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 1: if your partner doesn't understand that. You think, how you 754 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,640 Speaker 1: why the women cheat? Women cheats are filling the gap? Yeah, 755 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:37,799 Speaker 1: I think the men cheat for emotions, emotion, They cheat 756 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 1: for emotions, They stay cheap for money, they cheat for 757 00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 1: attention at you know my favaes in the cheat, my favorites. 758 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 1: They get back then revenge. You did it, I can 759 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 1: do it. You did it? Why can't I can play 760 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 1: that game? Okay? Always think about this as society, society 761 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: as a whole, and I'm not knocking. We talked about 762 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,879 Speaker 1: the black man being the cheater, just thinking about all 763 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: men being cheaters or men are cheaters, and let's the 764 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:14,759 Speaker 1: dude was gay. Who did he cheat with too? No, 765 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm going with that. I'm just saying it was a 766 00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:24,320 Speaker 1: woman involved. It was a woman involved. She was getting into. 767 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 1: But we never really called that one out. We never 768 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:30,400 Speaker 1: really say, this is what's going on. So this lord's 769 00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 1: black man or brown man, a white man or whatever 770 00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:37,359 Speaker 1: he is. It's it's totally with another woman who's going 771 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,319 Speaker 1: this is cool and it really doesn't have like how 772 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 1: y'all cheat and we cheat. I think it's totally two 773 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 1: different things out of anything, but one in the nut 774 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,440 Speaker 1: and that is the honest truth. Like he may be unhappy, 775 00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,319 Speaker 1: he may be this and that, but he he loves 776 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: his woman and this and that, but God's really usually 777 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: cheat from just wanting to not And women don't really 778 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,280 Speaker 1: understand that doesn't matter what that woman looks like, doesn't 779 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:08,120 Speaker 1: matter like anything about her. That's to the guy. There's 780 00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 1: some guys I've been surprised. There's some guys I've been surprised. 781 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 1: What you did that bro? That one? That's crazy. So 782 00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:22,319 Speaker 1: I think it's and not to make an excuse because 783 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 1: it's wrong no matter how you put it. Let's just 784 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:29,520 Speaker 1: be flat out um. I think women um hurt more 785 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,399 Speaker 1: than men do when it comes to that. But it's 786 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 1: all the way flat out wrong. And I think that 787 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,520 Speaker 1: guys just don't think about the hurt. They think about 788 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 1: the nut first, and you're not really thinking about her. 789 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:49,520 Speaker 1: If a woman cheated that I can be covered from it. 790 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,880 Speaker 1: I don't know that men agree, because then you'd be 791 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,880 Speaker 1: thinking and don't think about egos. Can I take the 792 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 1: same thing because men cheat and we find out as 793 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 1: a woman, we're supposed to get over it. But if 794 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,080 Speaker 1: you cheat, when a man found out it's over, there's 795 00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 1: no getting over it. He can't. He can't. He look 796 00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,399 Speaker 1: at you, he looking compactly different. You're the biggest slath 797 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,399 Speaker 1: hoor bitch in the world. You're crazy. All you want 798 00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:19,919 Speaker 1: to do is let right you want? And I think 799 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,359 Speaker 1: you cared about it, like did you suck his dick? Right? 800 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:27,160 Speaker 1: Like the was it bigger than mine? Did you enjoy it? 801 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,799 Speaker 1: Because they felt like somehow sucking the dick is worse 802 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,959 Speaker 1: than having sex. And I think the other person you wanted, 803 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:39,480 Speaker 1: you really want the girl. Some people think that A 804 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,840 Speaker 1: lot of guys think that's worse, Like that was extra, 805 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:48,000 Speaker 1: that was really what you wanted to do. It really 806 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,239 Speaker 1: depends on how you feel that day. How is he 807 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,839 Speaker 1: going to kiss you? You know what I mean? They both. 808 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 1: I think they're both pretty much very deep for a 809 00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 1: guy to think about, Like you know what I mean, 810 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,759 Speaker 1: you don't either one. But if she's like I had 811 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:14,040 Speaker 1: an oh my god, she's obsessed with a didn't really 812 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,160 Speaker 1: put it in my but I mean, that would be 813 00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 1: like it didn't count as an ass. I'm sorry saying 814 00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 1: I was like, why am I here? A bottom here 815 00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 1: for sure. No, this has been highly anticipated for quite 816 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 1: some time now because I was gonna come with it 817 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,840 Speaker 1: without you. But I enjoy to you both here, and 818 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,879 Speaker 1: she will be back without you, and then we're talking 819 00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: and then we'll talk about the dildo the next time. Okay, 820 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:55,840 Speaker 1: I can't wait. This is what's part to Yeah, party 821 00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,600 Speaker 1: contin I don't mind, but listen, we're waiting for that 822 00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:02,160 Speaker 1: relation ship book now, No, as you went, both of you, 823 00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 1: all the authors now, so this is the married author family. Yes, author, 824 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 1: I love it. I think it's amazing. I like your 825 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 1: affectional novels though. That ship. Yeah, I think the next 826 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,880 Speaker 1: one is gonna be crazy too though. Okay, now when 827 00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:25,399 Speaker 1: next book will be even the relationship but yeah, i'd 828 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 1: be super it'll be super duper dope. Okay, And you 829 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:33,320 Speaker 1: guys are also doing a book on nutrition and listen. 830 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 1: And I always tell everybody when we're on the show 831 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,680 Speaker 1: that what you put in your body really does also 832 00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 1: affect what you taste like, and that's important. You know 833 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:46,279 Speaker 1: that bonk? You know that was good eat point. Yeah, 834 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,719 Speaker 1: I tell people that all the time. Does I enjoy 835 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:53,359 Speaker 1: I enjoy your vaginay? Yeah, she tastes amazing all the time, 836 00:52:53,440 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 1: and tastes amazing. This is your you, you out of this. 837 00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 1: Like if you don't have good vagina, juice, a good center, 838 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:10,520 Speaker 1: it doesn't reminded man of something, It's gonna be a 839 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:14,879 Speaker 1: horrible experience. It's gonna be a very horrible experience. See 840 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: because the vagiant let me squeeze you. But while I 841 00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:26,439 Speaker 1: said it's no, I think that's a I think that's 842 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 1: a big important part. Like we don't we don't say that. 843 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:32,839 Speaker 1: I think that the animal attraction doing sex definitely, as 844 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:42,320 Speaker 1: far as liquids sense, small things, texture, fields, all that 845 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: really matters doing a moment, like you know what I'm 846 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:49,799 Speaker 1: saying that, And we don't want no funky spunk either, 847 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:56,040 Speaker 1: let's be clear at all. So yeah, you guys taste 848 00:53:56,040 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 1: amazing or yeah, asparagus makes for a funky nut. I'm 849 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 1: just toch and Styles, Pete, thank you, so thank you 850 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 1: for having us. Going to be coming back to visit 851 00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,239 Speaker 1: us even more frequently. Definitely, am so I'm excited about that. 852 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 1: And once again let people know where they could pick 853 00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:23,520 Speaker 1: up the week, Amazon and Barnes and Nobles and my Sight. 854 00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:29,239 Speaker 1: Aduwa Styles, Mrs Aua Style. No, that's her Twitter, that's 855 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 1: my Twitter. Him, you're my wife, all right. Bomb