WEBVTT - Ep 297: Heauxteppin’ (Ft. 19Keys) 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:09.920 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Welcome, 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:15.640 Oh you're right by bad Grand Rising King and Queens. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:21.160 Welcome to another episode of Horrid Blood. This is the Yones. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.400 We are joined today by a very special guests. We 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:28.440 are I'm weasing, oh yeah, and I'm Mandy by the way, 0:00:28.440 --> 0:00:31.560 which I'm don'ta be real. I don't know if you 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.560 have l a energy to me. I was very surprised 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:37.000 that you live here from oh are you? It was 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:39.360 given what kind of energy? This is very healthy as well? 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:44.960 What is je What does that do? Because, like I've 0:00:44.960 --> 0:00:47.320 been told, the people would beat juice does? But a man, 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:51.280 what does watermelon? Juice? Too funny? You know what I'm saying. 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.199 Put all of them nutrients inside, you know what I mean. 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:55.840 But let's keep it clean. It makes it tastes good. 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:59.560 Anything sweet, it filters out for your body. Really. Oh yeah, 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:02.000 have you ever want to like taste super super sweet? 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:04.280 Think about all the like vitamins they're giving to make 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:06.960 your pussy taste good. That's all bullshit. It's just sweetshit sugar. 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:12.280 It's bullshit. Just true or chocolate or candy like anything sweet. Now, 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:17.080 see what I mean process. Sorry, we don't gonna make 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:20.080 it that we got and I seen keys in the building. 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.319 I feel like we're all like podcast family in a 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:27.120 way because we're connected, except not really because we're not 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:33.000 as you know, hotel. Oh we hold are you but 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:36.720 you're not hop You just dressed like one. Listen, So 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:39.400 somebody pull up the phone. What this definition of hotel? 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.080 Here we go? Here we go? Not just I want 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:45.000 to know, because you know, for me talk about certain 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:46.960 conversations and words. I rat to know what it means 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.320 to you to be honest when I say hotep, I'm 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.840 making a joke in like spiritous way of like somebody 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:57.440 that's like spiritually conscious, but I mean close. Hotep for 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:59.560 those of you you know who don't know, is the 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:03.920 gyp and word that roughly translates as to be satisfied 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:07.520 at peace. The word also refers to an offering ritually 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.920 presented to a deity or dead person. Hence, be pleased, 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:14.200 be gracious, be at peace. You walked in and said peace, 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:17.560 Uh it is, and and then it just say hieroglyphics. Yeah, 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.960 a person would say hotel, it's a piece to be 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:22.680 at pieces kind of like to be stoic. Right, it's 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:25.600 just a state of being if anything, right, So damn 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:30.240 real positive, you feel me. But that's that's why you know, 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:33.080 when I start hearing the word hotep, it's more derogatory 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:36.359 term in the way that people UH talk about people 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:40.919 that I believe come off eccentrically conscious or I think 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:43.120 what I've seen hotep when I learned the word. At first, 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.480 it was dudes that were coming from this like women 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:47.240 need to not talk, blahlah blah, and then we just 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:49.240 throw the word hotep at them. But you don't think 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:51.480 that you threw that on. So it was a very 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.520 small percentage of man and then they threw it and 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:57.440 cast a wide net. Right, what are you known for it? Like? Um, 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:59.639 I think I'm mostly known just being the thought leader. Man. 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:13.480 I I'm one who education leaders too. Oh that's a 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:17.519 great time leaders over here. But I think right now 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:20.040 it's more so being known as you know, one of 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:23.200 the more outspoken voices in the black community, UM that 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:26.799 you can go to for solid leadership. UM. And then 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.399 we have the high level conversations which is booming right now. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:32.799 And then of course, you know, as a thought leader, 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.120 you have to be somebody who actually got books. You 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:36.840 have to have skill set, you have to be in 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.600 a multiple industry. So I'm an entrepreneur. I teach financial 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:43.920 education as far as spiritual education, physical and sometimes political 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.440 at the same time. Yeah, I learned it. Um I 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:50.200 think master Investors. So Ian as one of the investors 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:53.360 in the studio and I was like, did you try? Yeah, 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:55.160 I love you in He was like did you I said, 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:56.680 did you know nineteen is out here? And he was 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:58.400 like yeah. He was like, you know, he's really big 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:03.680 for talking about crypto. Do people mainly like I think 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:05.680 that it was just an easy niche for people to 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:08.360 identify me with because I was one of the first 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:11.680 main black voices to speak about crypto while everybody was 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:14.800 shunning in and only talking about let's say, maybe stocks 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:18.520 or safer financial investments. UM me and my platform. I 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:21.800 remember we were talking about futures, crypto options, some of 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:24.560 the riskier trading skill sets that you can get into. 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.000 So you know, early only made a lot of people 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.880 money by learning those skill sets, learning how to invest 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:31.960 in crypto. And I listened to it and got into 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:35.279 crypto and blockchain specifically because I felt like we talked 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:37.080 about a lot of things in the black space. We 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:40.000 don't have solutions for him. And I felt like cryptocurrency 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.560 initially when I heard about it, it was a decentralized 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:44.839 way to not have to use like government banking and 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.200 things of that nature. You know how like we just 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.200 lost like a billion crabs. What happened to the billion 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:56.160 day traders like them? Niggas was on Twitter times day 0:04:56.200 --> 0:05:00.600 traders is making money right now? But no, because listen 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.920 right now, whether it's stocks or crypto, if you trade, 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:05.359 this is your market right long term, this might not 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.599 be your market because you're gonna see your portfolio down, 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:10.000 but if you if you are a trader, you're making 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:12.240 a lot of money during this market. They had one 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.800 of the craziest days just the other week, you understand me, 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:18.200 where the market just shot up. I know me personally, 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:20.520 right and I know other people that are making money 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:23.520 a consistent and daily basis and they're posting their profits. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.080 If you don't know how to trade, it isn't much 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.599 harder market because you're not gonna be as lucky. But 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:30.359 if you actually had the skill set, this is the 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:34.320 best market for you to be trading crypto or stocks. Now, 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:37.160 Can I ask you that they have to be on 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:41.279 like the computer almost for hours, like during the day. 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:43.960 Like what is it like? I mean, I guess you 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.120 wouldn't know what it's like dating them. But in terms 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:49.000 of relationship, why them niggas like live on the computer 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:52.080 their phones? Right? No, no, no, no, Because the market 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.440 is not all day as far crypto is an all 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:56.599 day market, but for the most part, people have targets 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:58.279 that they want to make for out the day. How 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:02.120 people set a certain of the trades, especially if you trade, um, 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:05.159 the stock market and you're doing options, you're mostly gonna 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:08.880 trade between you know, the morning and the afternoon. Right. 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:10.880 The market if you're on this side of the West coast, 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:14.039 it closes at one o'clock, right, so after that Joe 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.520 job is done. Now, some people they're gonna study the market. 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:19.200 Somebody like Mark Ian gonna tell you to study fifty 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:21.520 pages a day. Now. I don't think that the average 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:24.360 trader is doing nowhere near that, right. Some people they 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:28.760 just set up like Mark bro At cheat code in them. 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:31.440 What they have is like algorithmic trading, So they have 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:33.279 like bots that tell them to help them with the 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:37.400 signals of the trades, which yeah, and then they have 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.800 some people that have communities, and those communities in the 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:41.840 morning they tell you, this is the type of setups 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:43.280 that we see in the market. That's what we think 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.400 is going to go for the day. They take maybe 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:47.520 one or two trades and then they're done for the day. 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.200 And then if you're doing something like sex work, is 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.960 just like it and it's giving sex work, but only 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:57.720 probably the work feel but I don't know, it may 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.440 be more profitable to sex work now, want to know? 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:07.240 So obviously the ladies love you because I see him 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:09.000 on every time I click on your live I'd be like, 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:12.280 who we learned about some money down? So I just 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.400 want you to take your clothes off? Is this no? Lie? 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:16.600 Do people think that you're like this is a front 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:18.559 like that, like, oh, you're be getting all the hose 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.600 like this is the No, I've been doing this too 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:22.240 long in front of the people, you know. I mean, 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:26.800 I feel like if you, uh, nineteen, you know what? 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:34.160 You know what? Men aren't only able to mother him 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:39.160 my Christ Year's Christ Okay, that's next year for me 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:42.640 then right now. But no, I've never had that issue 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:44.480 just because I've been doing this so long in front 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:46.200 of the people that you can see my history, like, 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:49.040 you can't fake it when you got consistency, that's just character, 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.880 that's fair. Consistency is key. Is that one of the nineteen? 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.440 That's one and you actually don't. I don't think anyone 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:58.200 knows much about your person like you do. You believe 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:01.920 in just keeping relationships off of what you know. Most part, 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:04.280 you gotta ask why do people want to know? For 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.000 the most part, they don't want to know the support. 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:08.480 They want to know that you know, I disagree. They 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.680 want to know you're a relatable person. So yeah, some 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:12.360 of that, but I'm saying to know the ends in 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:15.000 the details of all of that, Yeah, I mean, I 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:17.160 don't mind letting you know if I'm in a relationship 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:19.680 or not, but you needing to know an update on 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.800 it consistently. I feel like it's listen the way that 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:26.760 we record, Like we both record this podcast, and we 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:30.040 literally just recorded a Patreon episode yesterday and I was like, 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.040 the things that we talked about. By the time it airs, 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.720 I feel like it's a reality show because I'm talking 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:38.800 about being single while I'm waking up next to my nigger. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.640 So it's just like, but it's two months, like what 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.680 we recorded was two months ago, so it's like they don't. 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.600 I know a lot of people that listen to us 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:49.559 feel like they're in tune with our lives, but they 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:53.120 know so many things be changing. People get invested into 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.640 a relationship and then the next month they out of it. 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:57.960 Then people mad at you for not being in that relationship, 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:02.079 and then also a lot of the value. And this 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:03.600 is one of the things I wanted to talk about 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:07.439 with you too, because I feel like a lot of 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:10.520 the conversations I've seen you have our masculine, feminine energy. 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:13.400 I'm actually I prefer your clips to a lot of 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:16.839 other socially conscious you know, that bracket of dudes, because 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.160 I feel like you don't necessarily put women down. A 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.120 lot of those men do, but it's still kind of 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.920 has given fresh and it like just a little bit 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:28.959 fresh and fit. Don't even stay back. I don't know. 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:34.880 I just don't know. Niggas are ugly, and every bitch 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:38.120 on the podcast is threaking specifically about them. But when 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:42.240 when men to me speak on feminine energy or rows 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:43.920 of women and what they should be doing or what 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.120 they're not doing, to me, that's what that's given. I 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.280 don't want to hear that I don't listen to see. 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.560 I don't think it's nothing wrong with men giving their 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:54.240 opinion on feminine energy or what they want from a woman. 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:56.000 That's what we want the most, that's what we think 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.199 about the most, understand me, So we're gonna have a 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:01.320 huge opinion, ideology, and a philosophy on what we want. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.280 You gotta keep in mind too, there especially very demeaning. 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:07.679 A lot of those guys really put women down. I 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:09.720 don't know if we could find a clip where they're 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.839 calling women women and not bitches in yeah, because we 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:16.240 got a conflict driven, media based society. So you're talking 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.839 about clips that go viral. Those are the men that 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:22.360 have what people hate and they find distasteful, and they 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.000 share and they talk about it and they make it successful. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.680 But there's pretty sure that there's plenty of men that's 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.960 having respectful conversations about women, but that ain't gonna go viral, 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:33.720 you understand me. The ignorance is gonna go viral way 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:37.199 faster than respect. So that's what you see, But that's 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:39.679 not the totality of what's happening. I know they got 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:43.599 like Mano spheres and red pills and stuff, you know, 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.439 for me, I didn't know nothing about that thing. My 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:49.360 bro Mike Maschid told me about that ship. Um. But 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:53.680 even them, they don't particularly you know, like successful men 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:57.160 that you know, just get it out naturally, right, because 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.160 I feel like they feel like they got to learn 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.400 some kind of secret an algorithm of life in order 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:04.040 to get with women and to walk a certain way. 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.920 And they kind of like hate people that hate certain 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:09.719 type of men. You know, that's like myself. You know, 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.559 they corn balls of money. We just melanated and grateful. 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.920 They the crypto dude that couldn't get pussy before the 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.440 price went up. That's how That's what I really blanket 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:22.560 those dudes into. But getting into the independent thing with women, 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:26.439 I'm I'm curious on your opinion on this because since 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:29.920 I've grown and elevated an entrepreneurship, like many women in 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:33.240 our space, right, we all know these girls, I feel 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:37.480 like I have the Kevin Samuel's esque crowd that will 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:39.720 come in. And he wasn't necessarily I'm not a fan 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:41.680 of his, but he wasn't necessarily a bit er whole 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:43.520 type dude like Freshian fit. But he was one of 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:45.200 those dudes that are like if you make a certain 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.040 amount of money, men won't want you. You're not desirable. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:51.360 Why is it that an independent woman seems like she 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.920 can't be a good mate, wife, or mother? Like I 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:55.800 still want to cook for money, even if I'm busting 0:11:55.800 --> 0:12:00.960 my head. It's counterintuitive, right because the part depended all Right, 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:02.920 the same thing is saying that you want to depend 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:06.720 it man? Right, These two go opposite of each other, right, 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.120 because an independent woman depends on no one and a 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.680 dependent man can be dependent on What should we depend 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:16.360 on our man for for protection? Provision? Right? Um? It 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:18.680 could be spiritual God, it could be education, a man 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:20.679 who wants to you haven't said money yet? Please the 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:25.000 profit that's been provided. But I'm saying, like, all of 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.040 these things that I would want for a man, don't 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:29.040 I would love them and pay for my ship. Right? 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:31.400 That doesn't mean that you can't have your own money. 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:34.679 But also why did you go directly to the independent 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:37.599 and the dependent? All the pope? But do you not 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.880 believe that two independent people can exist together in a relationship. 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:45.240 I think they need each other. I think that what 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:47.440 is the point of having relationships? The same thing, if 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:49.880 you get a business partner that you don't need what 0:12:50.040 --> 0:12:52.560 are y'all in business for. That's actually a fairy buttal 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.719 even though I don't necessarily agree. But we're not monolithic 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:58.360 as human beings, and so to me, I've had this conversation. 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:03.280 Even with my excellent like he often felt he struggled 0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:05.880 in how I needed him, or if I needed him, 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:07.280 or how he should even show up as a man 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:10.960 with me, And as women, even when we're independent, sometimes 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:15.360 we just want comfort. Sometimes we want emotional maturity or 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.400 someone just to be with, like so in the ways 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:20.280 that I needed him, where men feel like this is 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:22.520 what makes me a man? With everything you just listed off, 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:26.280 it was frustrating to me as someone who I now don't. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:28.920 I'm not coming at you for your money, right because 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:31.280 my bills are paid. You pay your own bills as 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:33.920 human beings. The same way I look at friendships, I 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:37.120 would hope that we can connect on just a human 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:39.360 level and needing each other the same way I need 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.400 my friends, the same way I'll run to my mom 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:44.199 for certain things like I want to encompass you more 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.280 than you being my bodyguard or my or my wallet. No, 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:50.319 that is a very important aspect of it. Right, So 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:53.480 a man is not just physical and material like. Being 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.760 emotionally there for a woman is very important because women 0:13:56.920 --> 0:14:00.200 are more feelers, were more things. So those are where 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.320 we have those mix ups in those opposites, right, being 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.920 able to like men like to come to a conclusion 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:08.040 of certain things and women like to feel their way 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:11.440 through things. Right Like when you're having debates and argument, 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.160 it's not about Yo, let's just come to the logical 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:15.960 conclusion of this, because we want to end it by 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.880 coming to a conclusion. Things. I was listening to Guru. 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:22.600 He're talking about things die when they come to a conclusion. Right, Women, 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.520 existing emotion, which is motion, is life. We want to 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:28.440 continue for this thing to have life. We don't just 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:31.000 want you to uh end this off with your logical 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.880 thought process. So for a man, there's a lot of 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:37.280 lack of learning how to be in your full development 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:41.800 of a divine man, masculine man, and that goes beyond right. 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:44.600 Most of our society teachers is like, yo, if you 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:47.520 don't have money, if you don't have status. Right, if 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:49.800 if you don't look good in material a women ain't 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.880 going want you. Then when you get in a relationship, 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.360 she's attracted to you. For those things. But now she 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.480 wants you to have these other skills sets right to 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.880 be emotionally there for But that's not what women are 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:03.160 are propagating as the highest level of men that provide 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:07.400 emotional support. So since you do believe that it would 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.520 basically repel against each other, are you telling me that 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:13.600 when you're meeting women are looking at women that ambitious 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.080 women or women that want more aren't necessarily something that 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.480 attracts you. I mean, if we're doing business together, for 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:22.560 surely you know not in the impartnership. If if it 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:24.760 depends on what my goal and or my vision is, 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.160 does this fit into my goal and my vision? Otherwise 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:31.600 you gotta literally like a woman having our own ambition ideas, vision, 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:36.320 intelligence is immaculant, is beautiful, it's great at some point 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:39.680 in times that sometimes that particular ambition will have y'all 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:43.520 going in opposite directions. Right, So it's like your business 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.880 is halfway across the planet. Mind is over here. We're 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.680 too busy for each other. What about in this scenario 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:52.480 a man wants emotional support as well. I don't understand, 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.880 because that's what that feminine energy does. When you got 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:59.920 a feminine woman after you're done dealing with the world. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:03.040 She's there helping console you. But she's dealing with the 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:05.640 world as well. Y'all gotta goddamn console each other. Neither 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:07.640 one of y'all got energy. So an independent so you 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:10.200 don't like you don't like the word. A lot of 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:13.600 independent women lack the type of feminine energy that is 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:17.720 nurturing in the relationship. So let's say that we have 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.960 no idea what you're talking about. Independent women that are 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:24.680 I do want. Let's say they got a hair salon, 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:29.000 hair business, right, they're making mad Now that's just on 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:31.040 my mind because they're making mad breast. These are women 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:34.280 making million right, I know you're talking about some girl 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.640 told me I wouldn't because I random podcast and probably 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:39.360 had a hair salon. But anyway, she said, y'all think 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:41.920 you're successful with that? They are, you know, they're millionaires. 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.680 So that girl working forty hours a week dealing with 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.680 some stuff. What are the things she's probably lacking in 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:51.280 femininity even though she's servicing women, those are probably her clientele. 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:53.680 What are the things that she might be lacking as 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:56.960 an entrepreneur that you could get from someone else. She's 0:16:56.960 --> 0:16:59.080 probably not gonna lack as we talked about. For me, 0:16:59.200 --> 0:17:03.760 as an entrepreneur knows like North, she's probably not laughing 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:06.600 and she's a millionaire and she's successful. But as a 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:11.520 feminine woman, two different things. It's your value in the world, right, 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:13.320 and then there's your value to me as far as 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:15.560 a person. And I'm in a relationship with I'm not 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:17.639 in a relationship with the whole world. I only have 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:20.600 expectations of this one person, right, And when we talk 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:23.720 about relationships, we're talking about what we want and expect 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.320 from this one person, not every woman in the world. Right. 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:29.640 So if I'm a man that is already having my success, right, 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:32.760 then therefore when I come home, I want someone there 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:37.520 that can help console and and help me take it 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:41.679 to that next level. What your success? But the men 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:44.440 don't matter right now. They don't have options, you know 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:47.439 what I'm saying. So a listener of our our content. 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.520 But but listen though, because when we're talking about independent, 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:55.040 independent people, right, and when we're talking about women specifically 0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:59.240 that are successful to a man, that success matters like 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:02.320 this much, right, because it has nothing to do with 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:05.879 how is that going to help me in life? Why 0:18:05.960 --> 0:18:08.560 is it a deterrent because I'm with splendy to you. 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:11.760 Because a woman's money is her own money, right, So 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.520 number one, it's not financially beneficial just because even the 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:16.640 way that we have rows set up in society, that's 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:20.080 beneficial if you don't have to spend your money on earth, right. 0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:22.040 But you, as a man, you're gonna always want to 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.560 spend your money on your woman, right, because then what 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.080 other value do you have in that relationship? You can't 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:29.200 be a provider a woman. If a woman tell you, 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:30.800 I don't need you to protect me, or damn, you 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:33.360 don't need me in that area, like a man has 0:18:33.440 --> 0:18:35.600 to feel some sort of value, purpose and work in 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:38.120 a relationship as well, the same way a woman will 0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:39.920 want to. If a man is completely taken care of 0:18:40.000 --> 0:18:42.320 her and she's asking him, you know, what can I do? 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:44.600 And he say nothing, then she's gonna feel like, damn, 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:46.440 what can I do? I don't have any value. You 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:48.760 brought it back to the same two things though, and 0:18:48.840 --> 0:18:51.199 it's because this is literally the conversation I've had over 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:54.680 the last two years with with my ex like a 0:18:54.680 --> 0:18:58.840 black Muslim man by the way, um uh and my 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:04.520 other things. But but he you, you brought it right 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:08.199 back to protecting and providing. And to me, my argument 0:19:08.280 --> 0:19:12.040 has always been, but yeah, but I show up and 0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:14.120 I cook as a woman. I show up and I'm 0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:19.040 thoughtful to his needs, his wants, um sexually, we communicate 0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:22.359 like this is where he didn't. He only provided in 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:25.639 one way that he provide mentally and spiritually, emotionally. And 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:28.720 that's where though, to me, in speaking to men, specifically 0:19:28.800 --> 0:19:32.520 black men, they don't feel their value is of any 0:19:32.640 --> 0:19:36.320 value if it's not protecting and providing. And I think 0:19:36.320 --> 0:19:38.240 that that's been the hard thing. It hasn't been defined 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:42.719 that protecting is also protecting spiritual and emotionally as well. Right, 0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:46.080 It's not just physical protection, right because for the most 0:19:46.160 --> 0:19:49.280 part yet physical protection is not going to come up 0:19:49.320 --> 0:19:54.600 that often. That's not happening. You're not even proving that 0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:56.920 part to whether you can even be a great physical 0:19:57.040 --> 0:19:59.800 protector in the first place. But when you're talking about 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:02.520 dividing that protection of every woman wants to feel safe, 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:07.320 you understand me. She gets in the relationship with a 0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:09.399 man that could make her feel safe, that would actually 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:11.400 override a lot of things that she would take from 0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:15.160 in another relationship. She feels unsafe. So protection is key. 0:20:15.680 --> 0:20:19.680 But that protection is financial protection, spiritual protection, emotional protection. 0:20:20.160 --> 0:20:22.440 All of those areas have to be encompassed when you 0:20:22.520 --> 0:20:25.720