1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Previously on Hello John Tale. 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 2: She kicked me out and we went for two years. 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 2: We didn't talk two years, not a word. I feel 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,159 Speaker 2: like he's a little bit jealous because I had our 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 2: actual mom, and I'm jealous that he didn't have her. 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 3: Since I started talking to Steve, he's made it clear 7 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 3: he wanted to know who his father was. Losing the 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 3: only father he had ever known made him waning to 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 3: find out who gave him life. Finding his mom wasn't 10 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 3: necessarily enough for Steve. I sensed he harbored resentment toward 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 3: his biological mom, Sandy, forgiving him away, and that pushed 12 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: Steve to want to find out who his birth father was. 13 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 3: So he asked Sandy, He asked his newfound sister Amy, 14 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 3: even asked me if I could do some digging. I 15 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 3: started looking at his family tree. I'll remind you of 16 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 3: what that tree looks like. Sandy was married to clips 17 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 3: se Vegas and had Susie Savegas, her first daughter. She 18 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 3: was the one that Franklin Floyd kidnapped. Then she had 19 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: two daughters with Dennis Brandenburg. Remember this, Sandy and her 20 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 3: girls thought he had died decades ago, but he was 21 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 3: actually alive and well, the whole down time. Anyway, Sandy 22 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 3: and Dennis had Alison and Amy. You already know Amy, 23 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 3: the bus driver from Virginia. Alison lives in Oregon, but 24 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: she and the family don't keep in touch. Sandy got 25 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 3: pregnant Steve around the same time she was still with 26 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: Dennis Brandenburgh. Meaning Steve's hunch and mine too, was that 27 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 3: he was a Brandenburgh. That would make sense, but he 28 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: had no proof. He was looking for something definitive. He 29 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 3: hadn't expected to find someone who wanted answers as badly 30 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 3: as he did another adoptee. 31 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: Actually, I'm Andre, a carpenter. I am just turned fifty 32 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: six on a farm on Wstness. They investigations are your 33 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: private investigtor? 34 00:01:55,760 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 3: Yes, oh honey, we can have fun. Oh yes, Tennessee. 35 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 3: When she met Steve in twenty twenty one, she was 36 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 3: on her own journey. 37 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: I've known all my life that I was adopted from 38 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: ever since I can remember, but did not even attempt 39 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: to find my biological parents until twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen. 40 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: I did not want to disrespect my adopted parents because 41 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: it would hurt them, even though they were encouraging. 42 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: Once she started looking, Andrew learned about her birth story. 43 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 3: Her mom got pregnant young and she wasn't married to 44 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: her dad, so she was forced to give Andrew up 45 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: for adoption. 46 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: And her dad, Dennis Brandenburg is my father. 47 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: Dennis Brandenburg is in Sandy's second husband, the professional gambler, 48 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 3: and the guy Steve thought was probably his father. Once 49 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 3: Andrey figured out that she was in Brandenburg, she started 50 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 3: finding his other kids. That's how she connected with Steve. 51 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 4: I found out I potentially had another sister through the 52 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 4: Brandenburg side. 53 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 3: They had a lot in common. Both were adopted, Both 54 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 3: waited in till later in life to seek their birth parents, 55 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 3: both figuring out where they fit into this world with 56 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 3: all this new information. Andrew had grown up as an 57 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 3: only child. She couldn't live one more minute not knowing 58 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 3: her brother. 59 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: Within forty eight hours, when I was on the road 60 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: going to North Carolina, and as soon as he walked 61 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: in the door, ooh, I knew it was him. I 62 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: knew it was him, and I stood up and he 63 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: knew it was me, and it. 64 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 5: Was just like he's finally here. 65 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: All the anticipation had come forth, and I feel like 66 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: that he needed us. 67 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 3: As much as we needed him us as in the 68 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 3: other Brandenburgs. One of Dennis's daughters lives in Michigan and 69 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 3: his name Michelle. 70 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 6: I am the oldest one so far that we found, 71 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 6: and I'm fifty six, live in Fowlerville, Michigan, and on 72 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 6: a boarding kennel for pet's pep boarding kennel. 73 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: Andrew is on a mission to find as many of 74 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 3: her siblings as possible and round them up. So she 75 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 3: called up Amy. 76 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 2: She said, my name is Andrew. She said, I believe 77 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: we may have the same father. Would I be willing 78 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 2: to take a DNA test to see if we're related? 79 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 5: Sure? Why not? 80 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 7: Why? 81 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: And I've been riding this wave of response. 82 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: Andrew felt in her gut that she was a Brandyburg, 83 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 3: but she didn't have no proof. But Amy was definitely 84 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 3: his daughter. Andrew is kind of the captain here. She 85 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 3: got both sisters, Amy and Michelle to do their DNA 86 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 3: test from their home states, but she did hers from 87 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 3: North Carolina with Steve. 88 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 4: So she paid for everybody get a DNA test. Another sister, 89 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 4: another lady on the Brandyburgh side, and. 90 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: Her DNA tests can be expensive, somewhere between fifty dollars 91 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 3: and a few hundred dollars Andrew wanted to pay. She 92 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: worked several jobs, and I also was adopted into a 93 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:00,559 Speaker 3: family of means she could. 94 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: Everybody went like that day or the next day, and 95 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: we had to wait so much forever. 96 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: While they waiting, Andrew and Steve got to know each 97 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: other better. They didn't do anything fancy. They just went 98 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 3: out to dinner talked a lot. After all, there was 99 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 3: so much to catch up on between the supposed brother 100 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 3: and sister. Everything was changing so fast, Andrew tried to 101 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 3: soak it all in. 102 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: We were supposed to be two nights and three days 103 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: in North Carolina ended up being a week because we 104 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: want to spend the time with Steve, kid to know him. 105 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 3: After a few days the results came back. All four 106 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: of them crossed their fingers in hope, and then I 107 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 3: was the one that got. 108 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: The first results. I called Michelle and I'm like, you're 109 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 1: not gonna believe this. I said, we're all sisters, but 110 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: Steve's not our brother. 111 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 4: And they were all connected to brandon Bury except me. 112 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 3: Steve was Sandy's son, but his dad was not the 113 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: gamble Dennis Brandenburg. 114 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: Our hearts broke. 115 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 3: This new stone, the test ruled out the only man 116 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 3: Sandy could remember being with around the time Steve was conceived, 117 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 3: but the test didn't say who his dad was. Steve 118 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 3: had reached a dead end, had insult injury. The DNA 119 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 3: results also many wasn't related to Andrea, who had spent 120 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 3: a whole week with him. 121 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 1: We were crushed because he is such a wonderful, wonderful person. 122 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 3: Steve was already wrestling with so much he wanted the 123 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 3: certainty of knowing who he was related to on his 124 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 3: dad's son. From talking to Steve, I could tell he 125 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 3: resented Sandy forgiving him away, even though he knew it 126 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 3: saved him from a lot of pain and it may 127 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 3: have even saved his life. His father, however, was already 128 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 3: out of the picture when Steve was given away. If 129 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 3: Steve had been part of the Brandenburg clan joined with 130 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 3: this group of women from three different mothers, maybe that 131 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 3: would have been an easier family for him to fit in. 132 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 3: But Steve was back to square one. He still didn't 133 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 3: know who his birth father was, and now he had 134 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 3: a choice to make. Andrea, Amy and Michelle were ready 135 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: to welcome him into their family. Should he choose this 136 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 3: family or keep looking for his biological father. My name 137 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 3: is Todd Matthews and this is Hello John Doe. A sleuth, 138 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 3: a family, and a serial killer. The story of a 139 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: family torn apart by tragedy and my quest to bring 140 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: them back together. Chapter nine, Finding his father. It's one 141 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: thing to learn you've been adopted late in life. Steve 142 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 3: is making sense of that. When he learned about Franklin 143 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 3: Employe's destructive rampage through his family tree, he was discovering 144 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 3: new relatives like his sister Susie Sevegas and his nephew 145 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 3: Michael Hughes, but at the same time mourning their passing. 146 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: Ever since he learned he was adopted in twenty nineteen, 147 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 3: Steve has tried to understand his origin story still unanswered questions, 148 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 3: and I can imagine it must feel like he's sinking 149 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: in quick sin. He wants to be proud of who 150 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 3: he is and stand tall, but how can he when 151 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 3: there are so many unanswered questions? He was in the 152 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 3: fog through my years. In this work, I've seen myself 153 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 3: as a hailer. I identified the unclaimed dead and brought 154 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 3: them back to their families who had been grieving their 155 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 3: loss for years. I brought them closure. But there's a 156 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 3: big difference between Steve's story and the other cases I've worked. 157 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 3: Steve was alive, and because of how unique this whole 158 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: story really is, I found myself in an unfamiliar place. 159 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 3: I can't heal Steve. I can't fix what Franklin Floyd did. 160 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 3: In a lot of ways, I'm woefully unequipped. But Andrea, 161 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 3: she reached step in a way I never could. In 162 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 3: some ways, only other people who are lost in the 163 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 3: same way can guide you. Andrea, like Steve, was sheepish 164 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: about asking her adoptive parents about her birth for a 165 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 3: long time. Andrew didn't want to end anyone by speaking up. 166 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: I just knew, you know, as a mall myself, that 167 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: it would probably hurt them, so I just let it go. 168 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: He might have been like me, you feel like that 169 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: these two people that raised you. 170 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 5: And you hung the moon for. 171 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: That you were going to hurt them. You were going 172 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: to hurt their hearts. And I think that's what Steve 173 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: and I have in common, that we don't like to 174 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: hurt people's hearts. And I think he kind of felt 175 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: like I did that it was disrespected. Now because you know, 176 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: in the South. You're raised to respect your parents, and 177 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: I think he just thought, oh, I'll save it for 178 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: another day, and he waited thirty years, twenty years. 179 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: But waiting had consequences. Andrew's biological parents died before she 180 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 3: even went looking for him. Dennis Brandon Burg died in 181 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 3: twenty nineteen. 182 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, by the time I got there, you know, late 183 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: to the dads. By the time I got there, they 184 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: were already gone. 185 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 3: Andrew and Steve shared this profound thing in common. They're 186 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 3: both looking for answers about their adoption later in life. 187 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: But there's an important difference too, Andrew and you. She 188 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: was adopted early, but Steve didn't. That makes him what 189 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 3: experts call a late discovery adoptee. Anyone who finds out 190 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 3: they were adopted later than three years old found out late. 191 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 3: That makes Steve a late discoverer. He only found out 192 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 3: in his teens. Experts say discovering your adoption later in 193 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 3: life can shatter your sense of who you are. Think 194 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 3: of it this way. If you grew up always knowing 195 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: and feel like your parents have always been straight with you, 196 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 3: that's one thing. But finding out on the verge of adulthood, 197 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 3: it can make you question your whole damn childhood, and 198 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 3: if you only start dealing with the fact you're adopted 199 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 3: in middle age, it can be overwhelming to your sense 200 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 3: of identity. Andrew could since that was happening to Steve, 201 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 3: so despite the fact they didn't have the same father, 202 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 3: she invited him into her new family. 203 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: I said, now here's the situation. I said. He is 204 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: Alison and Amy's brother. He is their half brother, but 205 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: he's our stepbrother because our dad was still married to 206 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 1: Sandy at the time that Steve was born. So in 207 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 1: my eyes, there is no step no hives, no nothing. 208 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: He's our brother. And we agreed on that. 209 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 3: Andrea saw beyond blood connections and Steve. She saw a 210 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: man with a quiet demeanor but a big heart, someone 211 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 3: had don anything for his kids or his girlfriend Jeanette's 212 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: kids too. 213 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: I love him to death. I don't see any difference. 214 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: And I guess I could say that because I was 215 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: adopted and Steve was adopted, so he should be able 216 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: to understand that. And he's got you know, Janette's kids 217 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: are in his house and he loves them like they 218 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: were his own. 219 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 3: Someone trecking through what may be the most challenging years 220 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 3: of his life, and she wanted to help. 221 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: He wants those answers. We're going to do everything we 222 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 1: can and as a family to help him get those answers. 223 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 3: If there's something this whole family has in common, it's 224 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 3: that they're all looking for answers. Think about it. Amy 225 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 3: certainly didn't know she had more sisters. Andre didn't know 226 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 3: her birth parents. Steve didn't know his whole adoption story 227 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 3: until he was almost fifty. They each became detectives on 228 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 3: their own, talking to one another trying to figure out 229 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 3: who fit were. Over the summer of twenty twenty three, 230 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 3: Steve's sister started making plans to see one another, and 231 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 3: they wanted Steve to come too. They considered him a 232 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 3: Brandenburg no matter what his DNA said. 233 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: Amy messaged me and she's like, hey, what do you 234 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: do in July tenth through the sixteenth? And I said 235 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 1: nothing that I know of why? And she said, I 236 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 1: think we're going to come for a visit. I said, huh, amazing, 237 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: because I thought it's the perfect time for all of 238 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: us to finally get together. 239 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 2: I'm on summer break because I'm a school bus driver. 240 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 2: I told everybody I'm gone and we just. 241 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 3: Left, and Andrea was on board too, so I thought 242 00:12:58,600 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 3: this is. 243 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 1: The perfect time. My birthday's the tenth, so I said 244 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: that'd be my birthday. Presis to bout seven. 245 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 3: Andrew offered her own place in Tennessee and started counting 246 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 3: down the days until she would be reunited with these 247 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 3: long lost siblings, and she invited me too. I think 248 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 3: it's because I'd ask so many questions about their family, 249 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 3: they started considering me part of it, and I felt 250 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 3: like family too. I've had this feeling before in other 251 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 3: cases at work. I like to leave a little piece 252 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: of myself with the family and take some of them 253 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 3: with me. But this time I wonder if I got 254 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 3: in too date. I want it so badly for Stived 255 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 3: to get answers, I might have pushed him too hard, 256 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 3: too fast. 257 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 7: Are you staking any worse? Good? 258 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 5: I'm good. 259 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,319 Speaker 2: I'm good. 260 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 3: It's easy to find. On an incredibly hot day in July, 261 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 3: we all descend on Andrew's home in Dyersburg. It's a 262 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 3: beautiful property, a ranch style house on a big piece 263 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 3: of land, and it was incredibly green. That's the way 264 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 3: Tennessee is green all over. We're not going to christ 265 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 3: your party that. 266 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: Oh no, you're part of the party. 267 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 3: She said so herself. I was part of the party. 268 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 3: That was a good feeling. I felt a little awkward 269 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 3: at first at someone else's reunion, but they really seemed 270 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: to embrace me. I guess that's where I fit into 271 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 3: this family. Before all of this, I had thirty years experience, 272 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 3: first as as cybersluth and then as a contractor for 273 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 3: the Department of Justice, doing everything I could to help 274 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 3: reunite the missing in the dead. I know Steve can 275 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 3: be reserved, so I thought I could help him get 276 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 3: the answers he was looking for. I've said this before. 277 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 3: This family don't always talk to each other. I became 278 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 3: an intermediary, relating little bits of information to the different 279 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 3: family members who couldn't or wouldn't ask for themselves. Amy 280 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 3: told me that even after I interviewed Sandy, they didn't 281 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 3: really talk about it. 282 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: I said, well, how'd your little session with Todd go? 283 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 2: She said, it went well, you went really well. 284 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: I said, what would y'all talk about? She said, just 285 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: he asked some questions and I answered, and I'm like, okay, 286 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: you want to further. 287 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 3: Talk to each other? 288 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 5: Every day? 289 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 3: I know, but not about what you need. 290 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 6: To talk because she won't. 291 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: I guess she feels more comfortable talking to his stranger. 292 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 3: Maybe it is, and maybe you just need somebody that. 293 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: A million times. 294 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 2: We don't give a shit. 295 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: It's your past. 296 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 3: Look, I ain't a reporter. I never promised to keep 297 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 3: sources at arm's length or not to fill in with 298 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 3: the people I interview. I feel like I have the 299 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 3: skills to help people find answers, and I'll be honest. 300 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 3: I really like Steve's family a lot. I can relate 301 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 3: to them. We all share the same sense of humor 302 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 3: and culture. I guess it's a Southern thing. 303 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: Because Steve's story kind of started and has grown legs 304 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: every which I mean. 305 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 3: All of you colorful people to start popping up definitely, well, 306 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 3: I mean I found you, you're not. This is a 307 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 3: whole family event now at. 308 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: This point, it's a little fun week. 309 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 3: I bet it. You've been at her all way. 310 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 5: Ye yes, since we got it. 311 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: We pulled in with Monday night on my birthday. 312 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,479 Speaker 3: There was only one person missing, Phillip. 313 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: Steveh and Patterson. You should have had your butt here. 314 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 3: Steve had plans to be there. We texted a lot 315 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 3: in the weeks before the reunion, he was going to come, 316 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 3: but his excitement started to dwindle. He said he couldn't 317 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 3: get time off work in North Carolina. 318 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: Because your sisters love you. We love spending time with you. 319 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: The time that I got with him personally myself changed 320 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: my life because he was the beginning. 321 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 3: That's why I felt like I have to come for it, 322 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 3: you know, I have to. I want to try to 323 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:45,119 Speaker 3: take something. 324 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 2: Back to him. 325 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 3: I figured if I was there, I could share what 326 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 3: I've learned with him when he was ready to hear it. 327 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 3: That weekend, I spent time with his family, like Amy, 328 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 3: who came with her husband Mike Winkles. 329 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 2: I don't think I'm going to free anything about this true. 330 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 2: I mean it has been. It's been awesome, just a 331 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: regular family cookout, laughing, joking, having a good time. 332 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 3: By the time I showed up, the sisters had been 333 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 3: together for a few days. 334 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: We're like three peas in a pod. It doesn't seem 335 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 1: like we've missed fifty years of each other together, but 336 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: we're trying to cram it all in this week. 337 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 3: This was the first time they were all in the 338 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 3: same place together, and they appeared to be having the 339 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 3: time of their lives. 340 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 2: Oh, we're all crazy as hell. If we want to 341 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 2: know something, we're gonna find out, and all three of 342 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: us are like that. 343 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 3: Watching them is like watching the litter of puppies play. 344 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 3: These sisters enjoyed the best part of siblinghood. No fighting 345 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 3: over clothes or parent's attention, just having a really close 346 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 3: friend who loves you, even if she's just getting to 347 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:56,640 Speaker 3: know you. There were three of them that weekend, all 348 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 3: Dennis Brandy Bird's kids. Andrea did adopt, he w s 349 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 3: and Dyersburg, Amy the bus driver who grew up with Sandy, 350 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 3: and Michelle, who grew up with a single mom in Michigan, 351 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 3: who was shot to see Amy for the first time. 352 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 6: When I saw her walk in, I was like, dang, yeah, 353 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 6: that's definitely a Brandenburg. 354 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 3: Amy and Michelle are practically identical, same laugh, same facial shape, 355 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 3: same brown hair, they both wearing a low ponytail. But 356 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 3: it's not just looks. 357 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 6: Once I met the Brandenburg, it's like, oh my god, 358 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 6: this is why I talk real loud, this is why 359 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 6: I get super excited, this is why. 360 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 5: I think the way I do it. 361 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: It's like we're all thinking on the same wave pattern, 362 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 1: and it's amazing. I would have argued that environmental factors 363 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: were a heavier weight on somebody other than genetics until 364 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 1: this last two years. 365 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 3: Like close friends getting together after a long time, the 366 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 3: Brandenburgh spent a lot of time shooting a shit and drinking. 367 00:18:54,000 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, my husband is heavy, head to hell. 368 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 3: That's a good thing, right. They even shared with me 369 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 3: the gifted Steve some Jack Daniels, but he wasn't there, 370 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 3: so I got some of that. 371 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 7: Don't let my husband think you make it good. You 372 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 7: know how to how to do it. You care now, Lock. 373 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 3: The weekend was very lighthearted, lots of laughter, lots of drinking, 374 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 3: teasing and poking fun, but there's no doubt there was 375 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 3: a serious part of it. They all wanted to know 376 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 3: about the thread that ran through each of them. Dennis Brandenburgh. Michelle, 377 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 3: the sister from Michigan, was the only one to know him. 378 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,959 Speaker 3: Meaning of all the people in Steve's orbit, she has 379 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 3: and you, Dennis. 380 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 5: I was with my dad until I was two or three. 381 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 6: Two They were married for two and he was maybe 382 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 6: around for part of another year. 383 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 5: That was it. 384 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 6: So all when I was growing up, I wanted to 385 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 6: know my dad and My mom never talked bad about him. 386 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 5: She just said he wasn't responsible and please, wait, two, 387 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 5: you're older. 388 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 6: That's all because I didn't feel like to fit in 389 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 6: on my mom's side of the family. It just seemed 390 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 6: like I thought differently, I felt differently about things, and 391 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 6: I just felt like there was a hole. 392 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 5: So that's probably what he's feeling. 393 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 3: She's talking about. 394 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 2: Steve. 395 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 3: There, she finally met Dennis when she was a grown up. 396 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 5: I met him when I was twenty three. 397 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 6: I wanted to find him, so I knew him from 398 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 6: the time I was twenty three till I was what 399 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 6: fifty three fifty four? 400 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, so even though she wasn't raised by him, she 401 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 3: at least knew the guy. 402 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, they're little jealous. I would think they would be. 403 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 6: I would be just kind of bummed that they didn't 404 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 6: get that a little bit of that experience. 405 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 3: Amy didn't get any of this experience. Remember all of this, 406 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: She grew up thinking her dad died before she was born. 407 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 2: It made me start going, what was he? 408 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 5: What was for dad? 409 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 3: Like Dennis died in twenty nineteen, he'd been alive the 410 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 3: whole damn time. Steve showed her as a bitch Steve 411 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 3: brought her a piece of information that she didn't know 412 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 3: they were working together. 413 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 2: And then, like I said, I was hurt when I 414 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 2: found out that he was alive all that time. And 415 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 2: Michelle says that, you know, he was mean, he was 416 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 2: a drinker, he was a lady's man. He didn't want 417 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 2: to be tied down. But the fact that I didn't 418 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 2: get to see for myself or talk to him or something, 419 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 2: I'm a little jealous, but it's not a mean jealousy. 420 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 2: It's like, so when she talks about him, I listened 421 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 2: a little bit closer. 422 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 3: There was something about the weekend that I felt like 423 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 3: breaking things down and building them back up again. This 424 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 3: weekend was about these sisters, now all grown up with 425 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 3: kids and grandkids of their own, choosing their own family. 426 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 3: For Andrea, that meant choosing Steve and wanting him to 427 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 3: know it. 428 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 1: It took me fifty three years, fifty four years to 429 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: know what that missing part of me was. It's given 430 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 1: me so much enjoyment, calmed my heart down. 431 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 3: Even Michelle, who had never even heard of Stephen, wanted 432 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 3: him in this family. 433 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 6: You're missing your sisters, Stephen, You're missing your sisters. 434 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 5: I don't care who your dad is. 435 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 6: You're our brother, You're Brandenburg, You're born of Brandenberg, You're Brandenburg. 436 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 5: End of the story. 437 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 6: Quit hiding, Come play with us, come hang out. 438 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 5: We're all family. 439 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 3: The brandon Burg sisters wanted embrace Steve with open arms. 440 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 3: They wanted him to jump into the d bend with them, drinking, 441 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 3: hanging out and making up for lost time. Whatever the 442 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 3: reason he had for not being there. The women thought, 443 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 3: you know, what the hell, let's just FaceTime him, tell 444 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 3: him he should have been here. 445 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 7: Oh you do, I got just his way a woman. 446 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 7: You got got crapy on my ball for you, and 447 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 7: you didn't show off. Hey I drink it instead. You 448 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 7: just got off work. You're first supposed to be in Tennessee. 449 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 3: Over FaceTime, Steve seemed a little overwhelmed, but happy taking 450 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 3: the whole scene in. 451 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 7: There's your sister, Michelle. Hi boy, how are you good? 452 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 7: We miss you? You look good. 453 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 3: I know what you did too. 454 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 7: I said, you got a bunch of sisters, Whether you like. 455 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 5: It or not. 456 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 7: You the baby, we get to spoil you. 457 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 2: That's right. 458 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 3: I want Steve to have this so much, to know 459 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 3: who his people were. I wanted to be a matchmaker, 460 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 3: not just for the dead, but for the living. Steve 461 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 3: was a lie. He could actually embrace the family. Never 462 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 3: knew that doesn't usually happen in my line of work. 463 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 3: Maybe the jack and coke blurred my judgment, or maybe 464 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 3: I just got carried away by the excitement of it all. 465 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 3: At some point during the weekend, the girls got another idea, 466 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 3: so they made plan to surprise Steve on his home turf. 467 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 3: And I was cautiously optimistic, but I was running ahead 468 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 3: of Steve. Usually that's a good thing. I could open 469 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 3: doors for him that were hard for him to open 470 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 3: by himself. Then he could catch up and walk through. 471 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 3: But what if he didn't want to walk through those 472 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 3: doors just yet? As much as he enjoyed talking to 473 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 3: the Brandon Burr sisters, what if he still needed to 474 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 3: forge on and find his birth father. And what if 475 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 3: he needed more time to come to peace with Sandy. 476 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:48,119 Speaker 3: That's next time. 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