1 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: Mayaan. 2 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Welcome to the ACRO Podcast. 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 3: I am with Leah Fay Cooper. 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: An icon writer, editor all the amazing things. You have 5 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: such a great perspective on fashion and culture, so I'm 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: so excited to have you today. 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, happy to be here. 8 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: How did your path and fashion start? Where did you 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: get your start and how did it end up where 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: you are now? 11 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 3: Well, I grew up loving fashion. I was always very, 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 3: very very serious about what I wore from a really 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 3: young age. Yes, very serious. I remember picking out my 14 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 3: outfits for the first week of kindergarten and like laying 15 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 3: them all out and really thinking hard about it. I 16 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 3: love that, and I always really loved magazines. So I'm 17 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: someone who knew very early on what I wanted to do. 18 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 3: You know, I wanted to be a fashion editor, you know, 19 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 3: since I was in elementary school, really like as soon 20 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 3: as I figured out what it was, and so I 21 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 3: was really laser focused on that goal for a long time. 22 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: I studied English in undergrad and actually my plan was to, 23 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: you know, like many of my peers, right out of school, 24 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 3: moved to New York City, clawed my way into like 25 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 3: an assistant job, like start out in a fashion closet 26 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 3: at Hurst or Conde or timing at the time where 27 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 3: like in style and you know people and all those 28 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 3: macs were. But I actually discovered Teach for America when 29 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 3: I was in college, and I was really inspired by 30 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 3: the program and told myself that if I got in, 31 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 3: I was going to be a public school teacher for 32 00:01:56,000 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 3: two years before I pursued my fashion career. So I 33 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: ended up getting in, and I wanted to be in 34 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 3: New York. But my first choice is New York City, 35 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 3: assuming that I would get in, and New York's the 36 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 3: only city that I'll be called for. So I made 37 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 3: my number two a city, yes I mean my number two, 38 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 3: a city that was warm but affordable on a teacher's salary, 39 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 3: and I chose Houston, Texas. Had never been to Texas 40 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: a day in my life. I also wanted to teach kindergarten, 41 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 3: and I got into the program. I got Houston, Texas 42 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 3: High School. Oh wow, so not New York City kindergarten. 43 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 3: But it ended up being amazing. It was like the 44 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: best two years of my life. I had a fantastic time. 45 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 3: So I taught high school English for two years in Houston. 46 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: It was hilarious, amazing. It was you know, fashion has 47 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 3: been hard, teaching was much harder, like harder. 48 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: Teenagers are scarier than both. The only thing I can think. 49 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 3: It was it was so hard but also so rewarding 50 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 3: and also very hard to leave. Like I definitely like I, 51 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: I definitely grappled with that decision a lot. But you know, 52 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 3: Teach for America has a huge network, and so that 53 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 3: was one of the things that made that decision a 54 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: bit easier is that I knew I could always like 55 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,399 Speaker 3: be involved in education in some way. So I taught 56 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 3: for two years in Houston, and then I ended up 57 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 3: getting a job at a local lifestyle magazine in Houston. 58 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 3: Houston has a big ladies who lunch, philanthropy, gala restaurant 59 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 3: party scene. So I was at a magazine called h 60 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 3: Texas for a year and then I moved to New York. 61 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 3: I had a very typical first year in New York, 62 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 3: where I was going out every night. I say, I 63 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: like to say I did adulthood in reverse because I 64 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 3: was in Houston, and you know, it was very affordable 65 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 3: to live there. I was very responsible. I was a teacher, 66 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 3: I had a car, I had a nice apartment and 67 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: I had you know, a four one k all those things, 68 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 3: and then I moved to New York and you know, I, 69 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 3: like I said, I was a waitress. I was a tutor. 70 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 3: I went out every night, like I really was just 71 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 3: trying to figure it out. 72 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 2: That's New York, does that? Yeah, I have to kind 73 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 2: of move here and then just basically party for a year, 74 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 2: like okay, where's my life exactly? 75 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. I was writing for Time Out in New York, 76 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 3: and then I applied for grad school. I applied to 77 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 3: journalism school at Columbia, which anyone listening who's considering journalism school, 78 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 3: it's amazing. I got an amazing education there. It's definitely 79 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 3: not like a make or break your your journalism career 80 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 3: degree by any means. I loved it, but again it's 81 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 3: not like there's so many people who are successful in 82 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 3: the industry who have not gone to grad school. So, 83 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 3: just as an aside, but yeah, I went to journalism 84 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: school and then yeah, I was just super laser focused on, 85 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 3: you know, being a fashion editor, and that's hard to do. 86 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 3: You know, the jobs are really few and far between, 87 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: so I was just taking anything that I could get 88 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 3: and it was a lot of part time, a lot 89 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 3: of freelance, a lot of you know, so when would 90 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 3: go on maternity leave, so I would work for three 91 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: months at the New York Post, or I was still 92 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 3: you know, like writing for very nominal fee at Timeout 93 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 3: New York Perier, the water company, like had an editorial 94 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 3: platform called Society Perier that I was writing for for 95 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 3: a little bit for again a very small hourly rate. 96 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 3: I did two like short term stints at Glamor Magazine. 97 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: Like I was just really you know, writing for whoever 98 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 3: I could, and eventually I ended up at StyleCaster. I 99 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 3: was doing branded content and this was really like the 100 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 3: early early branded content a year, so I was a 101 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 3: one woman show. I was like Sacks, for example, would say, 102 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 3: you know, we're going to give you guys X amount 103 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: of dollars and we want you to do an editor 104 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 3: shoot of like what we have coming in for spring. 105 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 3: And I would say, Okay, these are the editors that 106 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,239 Speaker 3: are going to be in the shoot. And I'd find 107 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 3: the photographer and I'd say, okay, we're going to shoot 108 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 3: in the studio, or I'd work with the photographer to 109 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,239 Speaker 3: find a location. Sometimes I would be in the shoot 110 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 3: myself and then I'd write the story. I'd you know, 111 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 3: go back and forth with Sacks to make sure that 112 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 3: they were happy with the copy, but that it was 113 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: up to our standard, you know, work with the sales 114 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: team to make sure they were aligned, and then you know, 115 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 3: that story would go live and I would say, presented 116 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 3: by Sacks. Now, branded content obviously is like you know, 117 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 3: and it's a whole separate department. But I did that 118 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 3: for a bit of style caster, and then went to 119 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 3: cove Tour, where I started off as features editor, and 120 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 3: then I believe I became a senior features editor, and 121 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: then I became editorial director. I was at covetur for 122 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 3: three years until the pandemic, and then I went freelance 123 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 3: and was very fortunate that right off the bat I 124 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: got assigned a story at Vanity Fair and soon became 125 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 3: a contributing editor there and was also writing for Harbor's 126 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 3: bizarre New York magazine LL Lots of Great Places. Was 127 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 3: really enjoying freelance and told myself, you know, or people 128 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 3: would always ask like, would you leave freelance? And I said, 129 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 3: you know, not really, only unless like Vogue called me, 130 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 3: not really thinking that would happen, but lo and behold, 131 00:07:55,920 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 3: Vogue did call me and so I they had a 132 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 3: physician that they're creating digital style directors. So my name 133 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 3: had come up, and I interviewed for that and got 134 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 3: that job and spent two amazing, amazing years at Vogue 135 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 3: and just left this past November, and now I am 136 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 3: back to the freelance life, working on lots of amazing projects, 137 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: traveling a lot. So yes, that brings us to today. 138 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: Oh that's incredible. 139 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 3: I love that. 140 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 2: It's such a testament to your dedication. 141 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: And you're like, I said I was going to write 142 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: for Vogue. 143 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 2: I did. I said I was going to be a teacher. 144 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: I did it. I said I was going to move 145 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: to New York. I got up and moved to New York. 146 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: I love that energy. 147 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: And I feel like women sometimes move with fear, and 148 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: you weren't moving with fear. 149 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 2: You were like I said, I was going to do it, 150 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: I'm doing it. 151 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 3: And I love that. 152 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: What do you think helped move you forward during that phase? 153 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: For each chapter where you're pushing and pushing? Do you 154 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: think it was your drive? Do you think it was ambition? 155 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: Do you think what do you think really helped you 156 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: keep everything pushing forward? 157 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 3: Constantly, So I think it was a combination of things. 158 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 3: One was definitely ambition, is that I just really really 159 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 3: really wanted this for myself. And I also, you know, 160 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 3: I often tell people that I truly feel like this 161 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 3: chose me. And I know that that may sound kind 162 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 3: of cheesy, but this is really hard, and like those 163 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 3: years between grad school and ending up at Coveteur were 164 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 3: so hard, Like I was so broke. And when I 165 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 3: say that I applied for jobs at every single magazine 166 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 3: that I now work for, like magazines that I've written 167 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 3: covers for, magazines that sometimes not reach out to me, 168 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 3: and I say, like, I'm actually too busy, I can't 169 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 3: do this assignment. For when I say I applied to 170 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 3: jobs multiple times, interviewed multiple times, got to the final 171 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 3: round several times, and did not get those jobs at 172 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 3: every single one of those magazines, like that's hard, Like 173 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 3: it was ninety nine percent rejection for years, and that 174 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 3: is really demoralizing. And I was broke, broke, broke, broke, broke, 175 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 3: So yeah, it chose me, because why would you want 176 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 3: to do that? You know, and you know, I cover 177 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 3: a family, like you know, my sister who's like so 178 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 3: fab is you know has an MBA and you know 179 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 3: as an executive, and my little brother has an MBA 180 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 3: and works in finance. And my mom was a healthcare 181 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 3: executive and my dad was a lawyer, like everyone is 182 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 3: in business and chose a much more like a stable 183 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 3: career path. So yeah, one it was just like you 184 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 3: know that like ambition, I was just laser focused. But also, 185 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 3: you know, you know, my support system was great, like 186 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 3: I have, you know, my family, Like, yeah, my family 187 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 3: is just amazing. Like when I moved to New York, 188 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 3: I spent the first like six months i'd say, living 189 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 3: with my sister and brother in law in Brooklyn, and 190 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 3: they just have been like, you know, my biggest like 191 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 3: cheerleaders in support system like ever since then, you know, 192 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 3: even you know to this day, Like I spend a 193 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 3: lot of time at my sister and brother in law's house, 194 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 3: Like I really love being with my family, and my 195 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 3: little brother lives here now, and you know, just having 196 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 3: like having a community, like I have really really wonderful 197 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 3: friends Like that was also you know, like really really helpful. 198 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 3: You know, having people around you who celebrated even like 199 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 3: the smallest when and who really you know, affirmed like yes, 200 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 3: you can do this. I think that was, you know, 201 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 3: really helpful. 202 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: Were you selective really on with what you wrote about 203 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: or were you open to anything and everything that you 204 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: could get at that point? 205 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 3: I was pretty selective, But I think part of that 206 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 3: was because there's some things that I'm just not There's 207 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 3: some things that I'm not qualified to write about, you know, 208 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 3: like I don't know anything about cars, so I shouldn't 209 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:34,319 Speaker 3: be writing about cars, Like I don't you know, personal finance, 210 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 3: like you know, everyone has like their beat, their expertise, 211 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 3: and so fashion culture, the intersection of fashion and sport. 212 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 3: Those are things that I know well that I can 213 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,839 Speaker 3: write about, like with authority and with confidence. So I 214 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 3: would say I was selective in that regard. 215 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 1: Yes, do you feel like you had confidence in your 216 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,199 Speaker 1: perspective or did that take a lot of time. 217 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 3: That is taken to I think I'm constantly working on that, 218 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 3: and I think every writer, you know should be. I 219 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 3: read a lot, which I think is helpful. But again, 220 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 3: I really, you know, tried to write what I knew. 221 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had a clear sense of 222 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: your taste back then or did that come later? 223 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 3: So it's funny I look back at you know photos 224 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 3: of myself and I'm like, girl, what were you wearing? 225 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 3: But at the time I loved it and I was 226 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 3: feeling myself, So yes, I think that I all. I mean, 227 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,239 Speaker 3: like I said, I was always very, very very serious 228 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 3: about what I wore. I always knew what I liked. 229 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 3: I never really hesitated, and I'm still like that now. 230 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 3: It's funny. I was recently on a trip with a 231 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 3: friend and we were going to a friend's birthday party 232 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 3: and I told her I brought two dresses, you know, 233 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 3: come to my room and tell me which one you 234 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: like better. And she gave me this look that was 235 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 3: like why, And I was like, you're right, I don't 236 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 3: care which any like better because I don't. And I've 237 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 3: always been like that. I prefer to shop by myself. 238 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 3: I of course don't mind if people come shopping with me, 239 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 3: and I think it can be fun. But I truly, 240 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 3: you know, when it comes to what I like and 241 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 3: what I wear and my taste, I have never been 242 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 3: able to be like influenced by anyone else. I truly 243 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 3: could not care less what anyone thinks about what I wear, 244 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: what I like, or my style. So I've always been 245 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 3: I've always been pretty clear and what I like. Now, Yes, 246 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 3: in retrospect, there's some things I look back at and 247 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, that looks so insane, But at the time 248 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 3: I was feeling myself. 249 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 250 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: On that note, what do you do to hone your taste? 251 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: We talk about on the podcast a lot how taste 252 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: is your currency, and your taste is really with social 253 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: media and everything. It's like your taste is what you have, 254 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: and your taste is what defines you. So what do 255 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: you do? You said you're not influenced by other people, 256 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: which I think is amazing. So what do you do 257 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: to hone your taste? 258 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 3: I would say, you know, you mean in terms of 259 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 3: my personal style. 260 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, just what you think is what you like, what 261 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: you think is tasteful, what you think is chic, maybe 262 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: what you really identify with. 263 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 3: So well, I want to say when I say that, 264 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 3: I'm not really I wouldn't say that I'm not influenced 265 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 3: by other people. I would say that I'm definitely very 266 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 3: observant of other people. I'm definitely very obs so, and 267 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 3: especially living in New York City, you know, like I'm 268 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 3: on the subway, I'm constantly, you know, observing what people 269 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 3: are wearing I saw this man. I saw this older 270 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 3: gentleman in the grocery store yesterday at Wegman's, and he 271 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 3: was wearing a full Canadian tuxedo with like a brown hat. 272 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 3: He had this like silver necklace on, and he just 273 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 3: looks so cool and you could tell that it was 274 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 3: You could tell that he wasn't trying to look cool like. 275 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 3: You could tell that he just, you know, he just 276 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 3: put that on. And so things like that I pay 277 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 3: attention to. And I would say that I also am 278 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 3: a huge proponent of mixing and matching things like in 279 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 3: my own wardrobe, things that I would never think would 280 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 3: go together. I do that a lot. I love I 281 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 3: always a dress a girl like. While other you know, 282 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 3: kids might have enjoyed, I wasn't like big into riding 283 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 3: a bike, er playing with dolls or anything. I've really 284 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 3: enjoyed playing with clothes and I still enjoy doing that. 285 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 3: I still enjoy just you know, putting outfits together. So 286 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 3: that's something that I do. I love to browse as well. 287 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 3: And I'm actually not a huge huge shopper, but I 288 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 3: love looking at clothes. You know, I have all the 289 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 3: apps far fetch net, VESTI Air, the real, real, and 290 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 3: that's where my screen time goes. That's that's where most 291 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 3: of my screen time is. If you were to look 292 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 3: at my phone, it's just you know, scrolling and looking 293 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 3: at those. So, you know, I don't know if I'm 294 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 3: contradicting myself here. I say that I don't. I don't 295 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 3: what other people think of my clothes. And I will 296 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 3: say that, you know, trends that are really pervasive, I 297 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 3: don't feel a need to follow necessarily. For example, a peplam. 298 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 3: I was never a peplam person, and you know, peplums 299 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 3: were all the rage and I and they briefly came back, yeah, 300 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 3: and I was that just was never for me, and 301 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 3: I was okay with that. WEG sneaker. I never owned 302 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:29,640 Speaker 3: a Wedge sneaker. 303 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 2: Those are also back, clearly. 304 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, and listen, some of the girls look really cool 305 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 3: in them, but they're just it just was not, you know, 306 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 3: for me, and I'm okay with that. But yeah, I 307 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 3: definitely look at people and I'm like, oh, wow, like 308 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 3: that looks that looks cool. And I would say also 309 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 3: older people too. 310 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I like that. 311 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 1: I like that because they have there's also like a 312 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 1: sense of confidence to like smart older dressing that I love. 313 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: That it's like, oh, you are owning that, which I love. 314 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 3: And I only one more thing is that I'm I'm 315 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 3: also a really big proponent of only buying things that 316 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 3: you really really love, that you know you're going to 317 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 3: wear multiple times or that you're going to have a 318 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 3: long time, and also buying things when you see them, 319 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 3: like if you can afford them, not I'm not ever 320 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 3: scrambling for something to wear to a wedding or a gala. 321 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 3: I already have it, because I think that's where you 322 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 3: end up buying a lot of things that you don't 323 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 3: need or. 324 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 1: Don't really like and are only going to wear ones. 325 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you have a lot of things that 326 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 3: you kind of like have settled for. 327 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great advice. 328 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, Because so if I see something that I really love, 329 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 3: a bab dress that I really love that's for a 330 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 3: black tie event, if I can afford it, I buy it. 331 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 3: And honestly, every every day is an occasion to be 332 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,439 Speaker 3: fab So it's fine, you know, if you can afford it, 333 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 3: it's in your budget. You don't think that it's wasteful 334 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 3: because I certainly don't like to overconsume you know, I'd 335 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 3: rather have a few really nice things than just a 336 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 3: bunch of stuff. I'm not someone who needs a ton 337 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 3: of things. Then you know get it, and that way, 338 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: like when someone invites you to a gala or a wedding, 339 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,679 Speaker 3: you have it. You know, you're not running around so 340 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 3: like a crazy person. That's me. 341 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 2: And then I wear and I'm like, well, I'm never 342 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 2: going to touch that again. Yeah, I do that weekly almost. Yeah, 343 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,479 Speaker 2: that's me. This is great advice. 344 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,199 Speaker 1: What feels different about fashion today compared to when you 345 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:00,880 Speaker 1: started out? In what way the industry like the industry 346 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: as a whole? And yes, also I want to ask 347 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 1: what role do you think editors play now versus what 348 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: they the role that they played in the past, because 349 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: I feel like it's changed so much. 350 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 3: Well, I will say I think when I was growing up, 351 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 3: first of all, there was no social media, and so 352 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 3: editors themselves were not really we're far less visible than 353 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 3: they are now. You know, like I had no idea 354 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 3: what Kathy Horn and Ruth Laferla and Terry Aggins and 355 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 3: Rob mccavaughan even looked like, you know, I just knew 356 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 3: their byline. So that's something that's very new. Editors themselves 357 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 3: being very front facing and being you know, like brands 358 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 3: themselves and many you know, also being influencers. That's something 359 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 3: that's very new. I think that a lot of unfortunately, 360 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 3: I think this is unfortunate that a lot of criticism 361 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 3: has gone by the wayside. I think a lot of 362 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 3: publications shy away from it. Yeah, you know, much more 363 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 3: than they used to, because no one wants to upset brands. 364 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 3: You know. The criticism used to be much more critical, 365 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 3: for lack of a better word, yep. So that's a 366 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 3: big change. 367 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: And I feel like you can also see where the 368 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,439 Speaker 1: milk is made more a lot more now. Like fashion 369 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 1: used to kind of run on, like like you said, 370 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: criticism and it just you didn't know where the money 371 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 1: came from. 372 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 2: It was just like how do they keep this going? 373 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: How is this house running? How is this publication going? 374 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 1: And now it's like, you know exactly who's buying the 375 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 1: ad space and exactly where the money. 376 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 3: Is coming from. And then it's just way more visible, 377 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 3: which I don't think. I don't think that's necessarily a 378 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 3: bad thing. I mean, fashion and it's very exclusive for 379 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:07,120 Speaker 3: a very long time, and just it's like very unattainable, 380 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 3: you know, exclusive world that was reserved for a you know, small, small, 381 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 3: small group of very privileged people. And now it's an 382 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 3: industry that way more people can participate in, which I 383 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 3: think is a good thing. 384 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a good thing as well. 385 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: What does a day in the life look like for you? 386 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 3: Right now? 387 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: You're an iconic New York fashion editor, You're now freelance, 388 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: You're doing your own thing. What is what is a 389 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: day to day? 390 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,640 Speaker 3: An overstatement? Now I will tell you. I will tell 391 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 3: you about a day in real life. Okay. So I 392 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 3: am an early riser by habit. 393 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 1: No, wait, I love knowing when people wake up. 394 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:53,239 Speaker 2: That's my favorite thing. 395 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, is it by I'm an early riser 396 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 3: by discipline, not by nature. Yes, not by nature. If 397 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 3: it were up to me, I would wake up. Who 398 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 3: knows when I like? I love sleeping. But yes, by 399 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 3: by like discipline, I am an early riser. I am 400 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 3: a hot yoga enthusiast. So I normally take a I 401 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 3: normally take a seven am class. Sometimes I six point 402 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 3: thirty if I'm super ambitious, and then sometimes an eight 403 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,239 Speaker 3: if I can get away with that. But normally a 404 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 3: seven am class. So I'm up at six twenty six thirty, 405 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 3: take a seven am yoga class. After yoga, come home, shower, 406 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 3: get ready. I have a coworking space in Soho. I 407 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:51,439 Speaker 3: am an office person. I really work at home. Like 408 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 3: never resonated with me. I always preferred going to the office. 409 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 3: I like a separation between work and home. My like 410 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 3: home to be for eating and relaxing and TV and sleeping. 411 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 3: I also live in a studio that doesn't have a 412 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 3: ton of sunlight and doesn't have a great, you know, 413 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 3: separate area for working. I bought my desk chair purely 414 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 3: for esthetics. It's not comfortable at all. So when I 415 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 3: do work from home, i end up on the couch 416 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 3: and then I'm like, let me just watch an episode 417 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 3: of Sex in the City, and before you know it, 418 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 3: I've not gotten any work done. So yeah, so get up, 419 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 3: get ready. Sometimes I'm going straight to the coworking space 420 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 3: in Soho. A lot of times I'll have a preview, 421 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 3: so you know, I'll go look at a collection, or 422 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 3: I'll go to a brand's breakfast. I will do something 423 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 3: like this, have a meeting or a podcast in then 424 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 3: back in the office. It's emails, you know, I actually 425 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 3: can you know, walk me through you know today? So 426 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 3: I'm here now. After this podcast, I am going to 427 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:20,639 Speaker 3: a preview for a jewelry brand. Then I will be 428 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 3: at my coworking space where I'll be working on a 429 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 3: story that is due by the end of the day. 430 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 3: I have a zoom with a publication at four pm 431 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 3: for a big project that I am spearheading. And then 432 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:42,919 Speaker 3: I am going home to pack for a trip that 433 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 3: I am going on on Friday. So there's also a 434 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 3: lot of There's also a lot more travel with freelance, 435 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:56,719 Speaker 3: a mix of personal and a mix of personal brand 436 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 3: trips and then also reporting trips. 437 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 1: Big what does your work look like right now? 438 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 2: What are you focused on? 439 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 3: Like? What is? What is? 440 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: What are you really passionate that you want to write 441 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 1: about right now? 442 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 3: So I love sports and when I went freelance the 443 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 3: first time, my first story was for Vanity Fair and 444 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 3: I had pitched a story. This was during the pandemic, 445 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 3: and it was when the NBA was in a bubble, 446 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 3: and I had noticed that despite being in the bubble, 447 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 3: and I believe the gentlemen were within Disney World, or 448 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 3: they were I think in some amusement park. They were 449 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 3: in Orlando, they were still really dressing well for the games, 450 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 3: and a lot of them were in some very exclusive 451 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:03,719 Speaker 3: Heart to Get fashion and I thought that that was 452 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 3: I appreciated the commitment to the look. And I also 453 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 3: was just so curious as to how they were getting 454 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 3: all these fab pieces to Orlando during a pandemic, and 455 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 3: I really wanted to investigate, like the mail room situation. 456 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 3: I was like wow, I was like, what is going on? 457 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 3: Like what is there, you know, a mail room full 458 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 3: of Rick Owen's garment bags being shipped from Paris or wherever? 459 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 3: And Manny Fair really they liked the idea, but they 460 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 3: wanted the story for print. I had pitched it for digital, 461 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 3: they wanted the story for print, and you know, in publishing, 462 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 3: you know print, we work three months out, so you know, 463 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 3: you file your story and it doesn't come out for 464 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 3: another three months. So I instead ended up doing a 465 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 3: more broad story about you know, kind of the state 466 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 3: of the tunnel walk and you know how NBA players, 467 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 3: you know, were increasingly working with stylists on their game 468 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 3: day looks, and that story kind of like you know, 469 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 3: kicks started this like niche for me that I've you know, 470 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 3: continued now, and that's that's one of the areas that 471 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 3: I'm most passionate about covering, is this intersection of fashion 472 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 3: in sport. So that's something I'm really excited about that 473 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 3: I'm doing a lot of coverage on. I've always been 474 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 3: very passionate about, you know, black storytelling, you know, as 475 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 3: a black woman. Last year's Met Gala, it was, you know, 476 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 3: such an honor to do so much storytelling around that theme. 477 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 3: I wrote. There were four covers. I wrote, the Asap 478 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,719 Speaker 3: Rocky cover and the Lewis Hamilton cover. I did a 479 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 3: story where I had Vogue staffers and also friends of 480 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 3: Vogue submit you know. The theme was you know, the 481 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 3: black dandy or of the Met Exhibit, and I did 482 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 3: a story where I had Vogue staffers and friends of 483 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 3: Vogue submit photos of the black dandies in their lives 484 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 3: along with you know, a brief you know, some writing 485 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 3: about them. And I thought that was like so special 486 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 3: and it was really meaningful to a lot of the 487 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 3: people who participated. As a way to you know, like 488 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 3: honor some of the men in their family. We did 489 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 3: a story, a story I assigned on some you know 490 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 3: black tailors throughout the country, Wow. And that was another 491 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 3: one that I really loved. There was a tailor in 492 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:46,719 Speaker 3: Alabama who he covered and the local news ended up 493 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 3: doing a segment on him, and that again was very 494 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 3: special because you know, I don't think a tailor in Alabama, 495 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 3: you know, ever think that you know, he would see 496 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 3: himself on Vogue. Yeah, you know, And so those those 497 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 3: stories are really special. Another one we did for MLK 498 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 3: Day was we did a shoot at his alma mater, Morehouse, 499 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 3: which is also my younger brother's alma mater, about just 500 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 3: the legacy of you know, sutorial excellence on that campus. 501 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 3: You know, the young men there dressed very well and 502 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 3: there are you know, certain occasions where they're expected to 503 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 3: and required to dress really well on campus. And we 504 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 3: sent a photographer down there to capture that, and I 505 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 3: love that. So many people asked me who styled that 506 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 3: shoot and my response was nobody, you know, that's how 507 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 3: they dressed. Uh. So that's also something that I've I've 508 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 3: always been you know, really passionate about as well. 509 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: That's such a beautiful way to interpret and cover that 510 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: met theme. I love that, Like that, wouldn't I feel 511 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: like everybody always goes so celebrity. And I love the 512 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: idea of actually going back to the tailors who really 513 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: are creating black tailoring, and they really are the ones 514 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: that are doing it. 515 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:13,959 Speaker 2: I think that's amazing. 516 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, And can I share one more? The other one? 517 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 3: Another one story that I assigned to Daisy Maldonado was 518 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 3: young people, amazing young people, young Mexican Americans reclaiming like 519 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 3: their traditional dress, so long braids, gold jewelry, you know, 520 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 3: in light of the state of the world and you know, 521 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 3: immigration policies, you know, going back to their roots and 522 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 3: really wearing literally wearing their heritage, you know, on their sleeves. 523 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 3: I thought that it that was a really important story, 524 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 3: you know, she pitched it. It was something that she 525 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 3: noticed happening within her community, something that she saw being 526 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 3: shared on TikTok, and it's it's not always easy to 527 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 3: find like a fashion angle or in our case, a 528 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 3: Vogue angle to cover you know, some things that are happening, 529 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 3: like politically and culturally. And she did that so beautifully 530 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 3: and brilliantly, And that was a story that I was 531 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 3: really really proud to publish. 532 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: She's so sweet and likable and talented. Also, she's just 533 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: like a really lovely, like bubbly personality. She's always just 534 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 1: kind of like she's grateful. 535 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:46,200 Speaker 2: She really is wonderful. 536 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: What is most important to you in this stage? Is 537 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: it the ability to tell those stories? Is it having 538 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 1: control over what you're writing about. Is it enjoying what 539 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: you're writing about? Is it freedom to travel? What really 540 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: feels like a priority for you right now in your career? 541 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 3: I would say two things. I would say, One is, 542 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 3: you know, telling the types of stories that I just 543 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 3: described to you, you know, you know, stories that platform 544 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 3: you know, people and voices that aren't often platformed in 545 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 3: the fashion space. And then I would say after that, 546 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 3: it would be I guess, you know, reaching behind. I 547 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 3: think that's that's the term so people, you know, I 548 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 3: have young people reach out to me, you know, pretty 549 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 3: often asking for my advice about you know, becoming a 550 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 3: writer or breaking into fashion, and I, you know, I'm 551 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,280 Speaker 3: unfortunately not able to I feel like I'm not able 552 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:56,919 Speaker 3: to be a mentor, you know, like be a full 553 00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 3: time mentor to everybody. But I do try to be 554 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 3: as helpful as I can, and I think that is 555 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 3: I think that is very important too. That's something that 556 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 3: I am trying to really prioritize, you know, I think 557 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:21,320 Speaker 3: it's important for the industry to have diverse voices, especially 558 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,919 Speaker 3: in the writing space, and with the Internet, we've seen 559 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 3: this happening, you know, for a long time. But I'm 560 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 3: very much a writer. I know that reading is not 561 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,839 Speaker 3: as popular as it once was. 562 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: I'm a big reader, and so I always advocate on 563 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,840 Speaker 1: this podcast for reading a lot I love and. 564 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 3: I think that well, I mean, I know that, you know, 565 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 3: the caliber of writing that I grew up reading, the 566 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 3: caliber fashion writing that I grew up reading, is really waning, yeah, 567 00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 3: and I find that very trouble. So whenever, you know, 568 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 3: I hear from a young person who is very passionate 569 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 3: about writing, that's someone who I really, you know, want 570 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 3: to help and advocate for. And that's something that I 571 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 3: am passionate about, you know, promoting, because I do think 572 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 3: that's important. I love a great video as much as 573 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 3: the next person. And I am absolutely you know, guilty of, 574 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 3: you know, having an attention span that has been shortened 575 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 3: in this digital age. But I do think it's important 576 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 3: for people to be well read, and I think it's 577 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 3: important for fashion journalism to have a high standard, you know, 578 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 3: just as other forms of journalism do. 579 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it. 580 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: It really can be more cerebral than I I think 581 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,359 Speaker 1: people realize, and there really is like you do such 582 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,280 Speaker 1: a good job of looping in all of those elements 583 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 1: and tying things together, which is why you're writing. Really 584 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: spoke to me is it's like it's bigger. It's a 585 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 1: bigger picture, and fashion is a bigger picture. And I 586 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 1: feel like it does get lost because it is very 587 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: oversaturated right now, and every video is a. 588 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 2: Fashion video and there's so much and it. 589 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: Is short, and I am I love to read, but 590 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, my two second attention, spamily, it's killing 591 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: me these days. What fashion moments or shifts that you 592 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:30,760 Speaker 1: see in fashion right now? Are you loving? 593 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 2: What really speaks to you? 594 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 3: Well? I mean all the creative director debuts. That was 595 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 3: just dizzying. I was dizzying and that was exciting to watch. 596 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 3: I really enjoyed that. 597 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: That was that Yeah, And I liked seeing people respond 598 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: to it, and it really felt like the return of fashion, 599 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 1: like people wearing things that I'm like, I cannot believe that, 600 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: like the mass market wants those shoes, Like that's shocking 601 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: to me that the mass market even gets it. I 602 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 1: love it. I love it. No, that's a great one. 603 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 1: We're almost done. You're doing unbelievableness. What do you find 604 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: yourself thinking about more when it comes to fashion right now? 605 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:16,879 Speaker 3: Thinking about more? You know, I love luxury. I do 606 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 3: love luxury, but I think the price points are getting 607 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,280 Speaker 3: out of hand. That's something that I've been thinking about 608 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 3: a lot with that's so much. I was looking at 609 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 3: something recently, you know, I was looking at some bags 610 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:39,440 Speaker 3: recently and I was just insane. I was like, who's 611 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 3: buying this? Yeah? 612 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 2: Insane? Insane. 613 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 1: I was in a store the other day and a 614 00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 1: guy was buying a bag for his wife and the 615 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: girl said it's thirteen thousand dollars and he was like 616 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 1: his and I was like, oh, it's no, it's bad. 617 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 1: I was like, that's probably one of the cheap ones 618 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 1: in here right now. I was like, some of these 619 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 1: go to sixteen eight. I'm like, it's bonana so expensive 620 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 1: for like a basic It's like yeah, And I was 621 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,359 Speaker 1: like his poor wife. 622 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 3: So that, Yeah, that's something that I that's something that 623 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 3: I can't that. 624 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, no, I do think it's disturbing the prices 625 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 1: right Yeah, And it just is not. 626 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. 627 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 1: It just feels targeted, it feels purposeful. 628 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,800 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like it. Yeah, they. 629 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you have a signature when it 630 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 1: comes to your personal style or does it shift depending 631 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: on the moment. 632 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:42,800 Speaker 3: I do, and it has shifted very recently. So I 633 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 3: just started wearing pants. This is very major pants. I 634 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 3: did not wear pants wow. Ever, it was only in 635 00:39:54,480 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 3: a skirt or dress for literally the last twenty years. 636 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 3: And then I told myself, I said, Leah, twenty twenty six, 637 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 3: you are going to try wear pants. I'd been telling 638 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 3: myself this for years and I just couldn't bring myself 639 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 3: to do it. I just could not bring myself to 640 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,319 Speaker 3: do it. And I will say part of this is 641 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 3: because I am six to one and it is hard 642 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,080 Speaker 3: to find pants when you're six one. It's not easy. 643 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,720 Speaker 3: But shout out to Daniel Kalmeyer. 644 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 2: I was going to say, who's making pants? 645 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 3: Keel Meyer as an amazing pair of jeens. The why Nonah, 646 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 3: which fit me really really really well. And that is 647 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 3: the gene that that is the gene that made me 648 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 3: like okay, that is the gene that eased me into pants. 649 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 2: Wow. 650 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, Prior to that, I would say one was 651 00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 3: a crop tap. I love a crop tap. Amazing. Yeah, 652 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 3: my friends like always associate me with the crop top. 653 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:08,000 Speaker 3: You know, if there's a group chat and everyone's saying, 654 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,799 Speaker 3: what's everyone wearing, someone always chimes in, Lily is wearing 655 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:11,399 Speaker 3: a crop chop. 656 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 1: This iconic fashion editor is like, and you'll catch me 657 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 1: in a crop I love that. 658 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 3: I love wearing crop top under this, so that's very me. 659 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:26,200 Speaker 2: Give us. 660 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:30,200 Speaker 3: So I love a crop top, and then a crop top. 661 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:35,399 Speaker 3: I love a midi skirt, and then I love a platform. 662 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 3: I'm almost always I'm either in if I'm in a 663 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 3: flat shoe, it's a sneaker. Other than that, I'm in 664 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:49,799 Speaker 3: a heel. And yes, it needs to be. It needs 665 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:53,720 Speaker 3: to be it needs to be three point five wow 666 00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 3: at least not a yeah. 667 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. I think that's amazing. Okay, I 668 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 2: love this. That's great advice. 669 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,480 Speaker 1: And I love hearing where we can get some pants 670 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 1: for the tall girls. I love pants. I would wear 671 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:14,280 Speaker 1: pants every day to every occasion. I never I despise 672 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 1: being inn ad dress and I despise me because I 673 00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:17,799 Speaker 1: don't think I've wren a skirt. 674 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,040 Speaker 2: In at least a year. 675 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I don't I want pants. 676 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:23,800 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know if it gives me my strength. 677 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 3: So we are opposite. 678 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 2: I'm pulling my strength from pants. 679 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 3: Because yeah, we're opposites. I I'm still I'm still adjusting. 680 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,920 Speaker 3: Like today, I have on pants, but you see I 681 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:35,840 Speaker 3: have a dress. 682 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 1: Over them pants, and address you're like, you know what 683 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 1: if I have a pan putting into it? I like 684 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,439 Speaker 1: that and that's good styling advice to throw a dress 685 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:43,640 Speaker 1: over some pants. 686 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 2: What advice? 687 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:46,879 Speaker 3: I like it? I like it. 688 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,920 Speaker 1: What advice would you give to a woman who is 689 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 1: wanting to break into the fashion industry or someone younger 690 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 1: who does want to be a fashion editor, someone who 691 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: wants to emulate your career. What would you tell them? 692 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 3: Well, first I would tell them, like I said that, 693 00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 3: if it will likely be very challenging, and especially in 694 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 3: this era of social media, it looks very glamorous, and 695 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,920 Speaker 3: you really have to remind yourself that what you're seeing 696 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:20,439 Speaker 3: is a highlight reel, and I try to be cognizant 697 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 3: of that. You know, when I'm sharing, I actually I've 698 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 3: actually I'm not great at sharing a ton. There's so 699 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 3: many things that I need to share. I'm always sharing, 700 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:37,359 Speaker 3: like five months after something that has happened. I'm known 701 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 3: for that. I'm known for being like, hey guys, here's 702 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 3: what's happened in the past eight months of my life 703 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 3: and just doing like a thirty slide Instagram story. But yes, 704 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 3: knowing that it can take a lot of time, knowing 705 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 3: that there will likely be a lot of rejection because 706 00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,799 Speaker 3: the opportunities are just so few and far between, and 707 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:05,719 Speaker 3: they're really dwindling, and the industry is rapidly changing. So 708 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 3: you know, the route that I took doesn't even really 709 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:16,720 Speaker 3: exist anymore. You know, like I'm not sure if there 710 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:23,200 Speaker 3: are jobs that are strictly for the print magazine anymore. 711 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:29,320 Speaker 3: I'm really not sure if that exists. Maybe it's all social, 712 00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:37,760 Speaker 3: but I'm pretty sure that most editorial jobs are heavily 713 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:44,759 Speaker 3: heavily digital or you know, heavily digital and then like 714 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,840 Speaker 3: a little bit of print or a fifty to fifty split. 715 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:54,280 Speaker 3: So you know, you definitely need to be really nimble, 716 00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:02,280 Speaker 3: and I think it does. Yeah, I think it does. 717 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 3: Like you know, behoove you too, you know, have some 718 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 3: sort of you know, digital presence, like on your own 719 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,399 Speaker 3: and that doesn't necessarily mean that you need to be 720 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 3: an influencer. I'm certainly not, but just something that like 721 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 3: shows your interests, like shows your taste, or shows your writing, 722 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 3: even like you know, a substack. 723 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, if you have a substack, of. 724 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 3: Course not I'm oh, no, I like your substack. 725 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,879 Speaker 1: That just course would be unbelievable. I think you would 726 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: have the number one substack. 727 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 3: Thank you for saying that. 728 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 2: I think it would be amazing. 729 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 3: I love substack. 730 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 1: I know the community is really positive and really directed 731 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,240 Speaker 1: towards writers and people who are like itching to read something. 732 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 3: It's great. 733 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 1: It's kind of like collecting everybody who did read print 734 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,640 Speaker 1: and loved print that kind of got thrown the wayside, 735 00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: and now it's all video content and they're like to 736 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,399 Speaker 1: read personal essays and we want to we want to read, 737 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 1: and that's where all the girls go that I want 738 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:04,040 Speaker 1: to write. 739 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 3: Stay tuned, you never know. 740 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,359 Speaker 2: I'm advocating theirs. I'll stack, I really am. 741 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 1: What do you want the next five years to look 742 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 1: like for you? 743 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:18,799 Speaker 3: Well, career wise, there are a few publications Well let 744 00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,759 Speaker 3: me think, Yeah, there are a few publications that I've 745 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 3: not written for yet that I would like too, so 746 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 3: I want to check those off the list. There's really 747 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna I'm not going to divulge yet, but 748 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,880 Speaker 3: there's really two main ones that I've not gotten to 749 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:44,319 Speaker 3: yet that I would like to And then there are 750 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 3: some places I'd like to travel that I've never been to. 751 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 3: And you know, I've been. I've been really fortunate, like 752 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,920 Speaker 3: I have. I've checked a lot of things off the 753 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 3: career bucket lists. So I'm I'm pretty proud to say that. 754 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 3: But I think that within the next five years, I 755 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:10,520 Speaker 3: just want to, you know, continue to tell great stories 756 00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 3: and not burn myself out. I've done that in the past, 757 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 3: and I like to not do that moving forward. 758 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 1: Fashion loves to burn out, loves to keep going. Is 759 00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 1: there something that I make everybody speak something into existence 760 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: on the podcast? So it can it can be your 761 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 1: two publications and you don't have to say them. But 762 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: is there something that you want to speak into existence 763 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:35,880 Speaker 1: here today? 764 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 3: Honestly, honestly, this date of the world is really bears 765 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 3: heavy on me and it as much as I love 766 00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 3: my job, it I think it makes every day difficult, 767 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,800 Speaker 3: not just for me, but for a lot of people. 768 00:47:55,160 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 3: And so that is what I would like I like 769 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 3: to speak peace into existence. I love that. That is what 770 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 3: I'd like to speak peace into existence. As much as 771 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 3: I love fashion and as much as I love my 772 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 3: work and as passionate as I am about it, I 773 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:30,240 Speaker 3: am also very very very passionate about politics and equity 774 00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:43,359 Speaker 3: and healthcare and education and human rights. And I am 775 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 3: just really like deeply disturbed and really very worried about, 776 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 3: you know, the state of not just our country, but 777 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 3: like the world at large. And I would like to 778 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 3: speak peace into existence. That's beautiful. 779 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 1: I appreciate that perspective, and thank you. I love that 780 00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 1: I'm speaking peace into existence with you as well. Last question, 781 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 1: who do you think is the ultimate girl and why 782 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:22,040 Speaker 1: does she inspire you? 783 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 3: The Ultimate girl is my sister Shire Smart. She is stunning. 784 00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 3: She is an Ivy League graduate from the University of Pennsylvania. 785 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 3: She has an NBA from the Stern School of Business. 786 00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:45,120 Speaker 3: She is a C suite executive Wow at Vox Vox 787 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 3: with a V just not Fox. Do just have to 788 00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 3: make sure some people miss here. She is a fantatastic 789 00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:01,240 Speaker 3: mom closet mom of all time to my niece and 790 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 3: my favorite people I've ever met in my life where 791 00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:09,359 Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with she just she's just so cool. I mean, 792 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 3: I've looked up to her my entire life. She really 793 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 3: does it all. Like she's an amazing cook. Her home 794 00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 3: is gorgeous, like she like is grated interiors. She's fun 795 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,720 Speaker 3: like she like can go out and have a great 796 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 3: time but also be like Martha Stewart at home. You 797 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 3: should see the dyed eggs she made. Oh my gosh, 798 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:40,400 Speaker 3: they're like I don't know what she did. She like 799 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 3: wrapped them in like rosemary or something so that she 800 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,799 Speaker 3: like wrapped them in rosemary and then dyed them in 801 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:53,960 Speaker 3: like onion peel and orange rines or something so that 802 00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 3: the white. 803 00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 2: Space was like I love it. 804 00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:03,960 Speaker 3: Leaves anyway, She like extremely fat, Like makeup always looks great, 805 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:10,799 Speaker 3: hair always looks great. She's an amazing wife. She's a 806 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:14,520 Speaker 3: true like big sister, you know, like she's always had 807 00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:20,320 Speaker 3: to be the responsible one, and she's taken that role 808 00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 3: really seriously and really embodies it. I think both my 809 00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:31,479 Speaker 3: younger brother and I just you know, owe her such 810 00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:35,839 Speaker 3: a debt of gratitude for really just like guiding us 811 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:40,400 Speaker 3: and like leading us and picking us up when we're 812 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 3: when we've you know, been down, like I said when 813 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:48,120 Speaker 3: I when I moved to New York, like I was broken, homeless, 814 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 3: And you know it's really it's really a large part 815 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:58,279 Speaker 3: because of her that I have been able to her 816 00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:03,319 Speaker 3: end and her meganficent husband, Keith. You know, it's in 817 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:08,440 Speaker 3: large part, you know, because of them, that I've been 818 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 3: able to uh pursue these very like ambitious, audacious, you know, 819 00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 3: New York City dreams because they've just been you know, 820 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 3: like so supportive. I'm you know, at their house still 821 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,720 Speaker 3: every weekend, you know, eating all their food and drinking 822 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:32,799 Speaker 3: all their wine. My sister is about She's an ultimate girl. 823 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:33,520 Speaker 3: She's so cool. 824 00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I hope my little sister talks about me. 825 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:36,919 Speaker 3: I'm sure she does. 826 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:38,480 Speaker 2: I hope she does. But I got to call her 827 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 2: after this. That's making me emotional. That's so beautiful. 828 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 1: That's That's what the whole spirit of what this is 829 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 1: about is the women that you know, led us to 830 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,719 Speaker 1: where we are and made it so we could be 831 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 1: who we are. Because everyone's inspired by some woman and 832 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:51,799 Speaker 1: some woman has you know, done something for us in 833 00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 1: our time. 834 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:52,640 Speaker 3: I love that. 835 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:56,360 Speaker 2: Do you want to shout out your socials at. 836 00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:00,840 Speaker 3: Leah face on Instagram. I'm a very serious about my 837 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 3: middle name. Love. So my grandmother, my mother's mother, her 838 00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 3: name was Fairy Lee Walker. I love that. I mean, 839 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:12,400 Speaker 3: now that is iconic. 840 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:13,320 Speaker 2: No, that's iconic. 841 00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 3: That's iconic. Her name was Fair Lee Walker, but she 842 00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:22,239 Speaker 3: went by Fay. And so that's where my middle name 843 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 3: comes from. And you know, when you know, my parents 844 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 3: found out that I was coming along, my mother said 845 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,959 Speaker 3: that she wanted my middle name to be Fay. And 846 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:40,400 Speaker 3: you know, she asked my father what he thought, you know, 847 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,640 Speaker 3: it was a pretty first name that went with fay. 848 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:47,759 Speaker 3: He said Leah. So that is why my name is 849 00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:53,160 Speaker 3: Leah Fay Cooper. And I remember growing up it was 850 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,280 Speaker 3: like cool to not like your middle name, or people 851 00:53:56,320 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 3: thought their middle name was embarrassing, and I always thought 852 00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:05,520 Speaker 3: the opposite, Like I always really liked my full name, 853 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 3: and I felt like Fay was, you know, Fay was 854 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,799 Speaker 3: the one that I actually had an actual connection to. 855 00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 3: My grandmother died before I was born, so I never 856 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,440 Speaker 3: had the opportunity to meet her. And you know, my 857 00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:24,040 Speaker 3: whole life, my mother and everyone who knew her, you know, 858 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,960 Speaker 3: all my aunts and uncles, my whole mother's side of 859 00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,759 Speaker 3: the family, family, friends, everyone just talked about how fabulous 860 00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,400 Speaker 3: she was, and you know, she was just this amazing, 861 00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:40,279 Speaker 3: amazing woman. So I've always been very adamant about using it. 862 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 3: And I remember when I was in college, my mom 863 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 3: came to visit me and I wrote, you know, I 864 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,799 Speaker 3: had like a column in my school paper and I 865 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,760 Speaker 3: used my full name, like Lea Fa Cooper and so Pete. 866 00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,440 Speaker 3: My friends called me Lea Fay. So in college, a 867 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 3: lot of people started calling me Lea Fay. And she 868 00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 3: noticed that and she got really emotional and she was like, 869 00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,400 Speaker 3: oh my goodness. She was like, you know, when you 870 00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 3: were a baby, I really wanted to call you Lea Fay, 871 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,360 Speaker 3: but I just thought it was like so old fashion, 872 00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:17,799 Speaker 3: Like I could not do that. I thought it was 873 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,359 Speaker 3: so old fashioned and so southern. And she was like, 874 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 3: I cannot believe that you like that, and I cannot 875 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,520 Speaker 3: believe there are people calling you Lea Fay. And I 876 00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:30,839 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, I love it. And so a lot 877 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,400 Speaker 3: of my friends get a kick out of it. I mean, 878 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,320 Speaker 3: I go by both lots of people just call me Leah. 879 00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:37,640 Speaker 3: But I have a lot of friends who, you know, 880 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 3: when they see me or they call me. They're like 881 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:44,319 Speaker 3: Lea Fay, Lea Fay. So yes, I love my name 882 00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 3: and very long way of saying once again, my Insta 883 00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:52,920 Speaker 3: is at Leah fay see. 884 00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:54,719 Speaker 1: I love it and hopefully your future substack will be 885 00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 1: named that as well. 886 00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 2: I am at Bailey Tee Taylor. We are at It 887 00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 2: Girl the series. Leah Fei, thank you so much for 888 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:01,879 Speaker 2: joining us today. 889 00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 1: It was such a pleasure to have you and we 890 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,479 Speaker 1: will be back next week with another A girl. 891 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,879 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me, big girl.