1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Second day. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: I think a lot of us have gone out on 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: a first date with low expectations and before you know what, 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: things happen and you end up spending the night. 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're lucky, I know. 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: But not very often does it happen the opposite way, 7 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: where your whole plan is to stay the night, but 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: you decide, actually, you know what, I'm gonna play the long. 9 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: Game on this one. 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 2: That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis right now. 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 2: We're not here to talk about them today. The grossest. 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: Protest too much? 13 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, protest too much. 14 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: You guys can pretend. 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 4: I am not pretending. 16 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 2: We're not here to talk about the situation happening between 17 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 2: you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney, who needs 18 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: our help today, Welcome to the show, Sydney. 19 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 5: Thanks guys, oh man. 20 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 3: Thank god you're on the phony. Cut the tension in this. 21 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, So, tell us about the guy that you went 22 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 2: out with recently. 23 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: What's his name? 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 5: His name is Kurt, And I met him on Tinder? 25 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And I mean what struck him about you 26 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 3: on Tinder? 27 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 5: On Tinder, he was just cute, Like I was originally 28 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 5: into it, for like a meaningless which is it? 29 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 6: You don't go to Tinder to like read the bios 30 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 6: strikes you, but you still want to have like a 31 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 6: good like chemistry on your like messages together you know 32 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 6: some some liked shared interest. 33 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: I'll give you that, I'll give you. So how did 34 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: things play out with you and Kurt? 35 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, So it turned out he was pretty amazing, 36 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 5: Like I met him at this bar and he was 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 5: just so put together and had this beautiful smile. 38 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: Wow, well hello, Kurt, I mean, yes, that's all it 39 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: takes just a little smile, Like, Wow, this guy really 40 00:01:58,320 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 2: knows what he's doing. 41 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 3: Do you have your expectations so low it doesn't take much. 42 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: That should be tenders catch for you? 43 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: Expectations so low that it doesn't take much. 44 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 3: Did you feel yourself like growing more nervous during the 45 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 3: date because you're realizing this I. 46 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 5: Wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from wind 47 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 5: to hook up to like wanting to play like the 48 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 5: long game. 49 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: You know, Okay, you suddenly felt like this was going 50 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: to be more than just a one night thing. You 51 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 2: wanted to actually maybe start a relationship this guy. 52 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 5: I mean, that's that seems pretty deep, but yeah kind of. 53 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, okay, so how do you go 54 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: about doing that? 55 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: The shift? How did the shift happen? 56 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: How do you sleep? 57 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 5: Right? 58 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: This is interesting to me. 59 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 3: Pivot When was your pivot? 60 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: So? 61 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 5: I mean we hung out at the bar for a 62 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 5: little bit and then it's kind of early and it's 63 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 5: a really hot day. 64 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: Okay, so you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you 65 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 2: go put on some real underwear. Now like this could 66 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 2: relationship situation? Get rid of the edible. 67 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 3: Stuff was melting? 68 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: I see where you're at Sydney. Keep going. 69 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 70 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 5: So anyway, it was super hot out and he he 71 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 5: said that he had a pool at his house. Yeah 72 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 5: what I know. So I was like, you know, this 73 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 5: could be shady, but the fact is I've been hanging 74 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 5: out with him for a while and he's just so 75 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 5: easy and we just get along, you know. So I 76 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 5: was like why not? 77 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 4: Yeah? 78 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 3: So wait, was your plan then to skinny dip? Because 79 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: I assume he didn't come with a swimsuit? 80 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 5: Well I didn't want to see it, but like, I 81 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 5: just want my T shirt and my undies. 82 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: Oh you I think it's a strong move. 83 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: That's all you got I mean heck right as well. 84 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's also like I didn't want to hook 85 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 3: up with him. I'm just gonna go get naked and wet. 86 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: That's the long game. 87 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: Broke Okay is an expert in the art of seduction. 88 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: So did it work? 89 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 5: I mean I think so. Like, first of all, let 90 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 5: me just tell you his house. Holy Molly, oh really? 91 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: Oh this guy's rich, Oh. 92 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 5: My god, like brand new, like all the finishing touches, 93 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 5: like a floaty staircase. Who not only does he have 94 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 5: a pool, but he's got a hot tub. So we 95 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 5: did go. 96 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: I didn't think a guy with a bed like not 97 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: on the ground. 98 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 3: Alexis is trying to graduate from a futon. 99 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: So there's there's hot tub action happening now. 100 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 5: Well not yeah, but not even like action. It was 101 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 5: totally just like hanging out. I mean, super good chemistry though, 102 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 5: but I didn't want to like mess it up by 103 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 5: just cheapening it. You know, girl, it's not cheapening it. 104 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 3: I mean, you're he's inviting you at his house, you're 105 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 3: in his hot tub, Like you're telling me nothing happened. 106 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 5: No, I will say we did kiss where where where? 107 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 5: I'm like, well, kind of like after the so it 108 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 5: didn't get too steamy, like it was almost more romantic. 109 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: You maybe get you a towel, and then he pulled 110 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: you in. 111 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 3: You know what happened after after the nice kiss. 112 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 5: He asked, I want to hang out a little more, 113 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 5: but I thought, maybe, you know, it was time to 114 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 5: call it, just to keep it super high point. 115 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh my gosh. If 116 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: I was him, I would be like. 117 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 3: Oh my god, right because you have the kiss, you 118 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 3: have the moment, you heart righting, and. 119 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: I'd be thinking about you every day after that. 120 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 4: I don't know. 121 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: If I was him, i'd feel like I just blew it. 122 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: She just left, I don't know. 123 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 3: So she said it was a romantic kid depend Yeah, 124 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 3: okay on paper, yeah, I can see. 125 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: So what happened? 126 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 5: So when I left, he said that he was going 127 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 5: to be out of town for about two weeks, okay, 128 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 5: But then like he got back and it's just been 129 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 5: like he texted me one time and he wanted to 130 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 5: hang out, but now he keeps saying that he's like busy. 131 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 5: So I'm like, oh no, what happened. I mean, did he, like, 132 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 5: you know, meet somebody who was out of. 133 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: Town or I mean, two weeks is a long time 134 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 2: to go between seeing someone in the dating world. Were 135 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: you able to keep a conversation going with him while 136 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:07,119 Speaker 2: he was away? 137 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, we did text a little bit. 138 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 3: Okay, it. 139 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 5: Was kind of flirty. It was it was nice. It 140 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 5: makes it even weirder when he gets back, like the 141 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 5: text aren't at flirty? 142 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: Okay. 143 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,679 Speaker 6: Experience, I mean, anybody, the momentum. Yeah, a week without 144 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 6: even talking to somebody or a lot, I mean, it 145 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 6: definitely changes the moments. 146 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 3: Well, maybe we can change it again. 147 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe. Okay, let's give this a shot. 148 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 2: We're going to play a song, we'll come back, We're 149 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 2: gonna call Kurt for you, and we'll try and get 150 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 2: you a second date. 151 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: Update. 152 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 5: Okay, Sidney sounds great. Thank you guys. 153 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: Okay, this is a challenge that we've never had before 154 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: on this morning show. Okay, that challenge is find the 155 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: only catch on tin and then reel them in without 156 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 2: any favors. And the reason that he's a catch is 157 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 2: because Kurt not only has good hair and a nice 158 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 2: smile and he's put together. 159 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: On top of all that, he owns a great house with. 160 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: A swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub, 161 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as 162 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: a pot of dolphins swam by and did a synchronized 163 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: water dance to a BTS song. 164 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 6: Wow. 165 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 2: And after all that, Sidney still turned down the invitation 166 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 2: to spend the night just to try to play the 167 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 2: long game with this guy. 168 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: I feel like Sidney's having regrets after hearing about the 169 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 3: dolphins apparently. 170 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: Like he literally was like, hey, I have millions of 171 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: dollars if you'd like it, and he was like, no, 172 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm good. 173 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 174 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: The reason why she might have some regrets is because 175 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 2: it's been two weeks and now their conversation has cooled 176 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 2: off a lot, so she's hoping that we can turn 177 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 2: the heat. 178 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: Back up with this second date. 179 00:07:59,200 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 4: Update. 180 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: How you feeling right now. 181 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 5: Sydney, I'm a nervous as heck. I really am. 182 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: Perfect guy pretty much. 183 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. 184 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 3: I mean it's interesting because you wanted to play the 185 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 3: long I'm cool game and now you have a radio 186 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: station calling for you. 187 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:15,559 Speaker 1: Seem very cool. 188 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 6: It kind of turned She's like, now I'm having a 189 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 6: panic attack. 190 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you for that. 191 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: I think we can do it, though. I mean, you know, 192 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 3: we're like rich, powerful people too. I just think we'll 193 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 3: impress him. 194 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: No, we better hurry up and just make this call 195 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 2: before this gets any worse than it already is. 196 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 1: Okay, so broke, we might pay the phone bill. Yeah, 197 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: let's just check make sure it works. 198 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 2: But I think if we've learned anything from Sydney, it's 199 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: start with low expectations, so. 200 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: Then it can only go up from there. 201 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 2: That's good, all right, So I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone 202 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 2: number right now, and we're gonna try and get your 203 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: second date up. 204 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: Dore You ready, Sydney? 205 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 5: Okay, I'm ready. 206 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 4: We'll try not to screw it up. 207 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: No promises though. 208 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello. 209 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: Hey, is this Kurt. 210 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 4: It's Kurt. 211 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: Hey, Kurt, how you doing? My name is Jeff? That awkward? 212 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: It was awkward, though. 213 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for my awkwardness. 214 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 3: Kurt. 215 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 4: Hi, What what's going on? 216 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: This is a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey 217 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 2: in the Morning, and this is the morning radio show 218 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 2: team that apparently doesn't like the job I'm doing. 219 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: You're not very good at small talk, including just saying your. 220 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: Name is I'm Jeff. What's up? 221 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 4: Currently? 222 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 3: Had a great reason for calling you, though, right now. 223 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, is that okay? 224 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 4: Okay, it's just weird cool something. What happened? 225 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 2: Well, the reason that we're calling you is because one 226 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 2: of our listeners has been trying to get a hold 227 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: of you and she's been having a hard time lately. 228 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: Her name is Sidney. 229 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, you remember Sydney. 230 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I do remember. So she had you guys call me. 231 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 232 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: She was just so excited about your date. 233 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 4: I mean, now you guys want to talk about the date? 234 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, sort of, because we know that a date 235 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: happened two weeks ago over at your house and she 236 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 2: had a lot of great things to say about you 237 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: and your place, and she's a little bit confused. Why 238 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 2: now two weeks later things have cooled off between you? 239 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 4: This is really awkward? 240 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: Is it Brooke again? 241 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:36,599 Speaker 4: It is? 242 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: I apologize. 243 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is Kurt, Like, she really felt like. 244 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 3: There was a true connection between you two, and it 245 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 3: was something that she wasn't expecting at all, and it 246 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 3: really surprised her. 247 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 4: I agree, I did think there was potential to be 248 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 4: honest with you. 249 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 5: Okay, that's good. 250 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 4: I just I feel like I honestly, I think I 251 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 4: kind of screwed up a little bit. 252 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: Why do you say that? 253 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 4: Okay, so you're like, she really liked the pool. People 254 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 4: enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that, 255 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 4: but I kind of messed up. I was like, well, 256 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 4: you know, you're welcome to use it anytime, Like I 257 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 4: made this comment, and then I went away for a 258 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 4: couple of weeks for business and then I found out 259 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 4: when I was away that she used the pool multiple 260 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 4: times with her friends. 261 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: Well you weren't there, Yeah, she just kept. 262 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 4: Over and over coming over with her friend glab security. 263 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 4: You know my security footage. Yeah yeah. 264 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna say, like security guards. 265 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, my security dog, my security dog. 266 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: But you told her she could use it whenever. 267 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 3: No, wait, hold up, she didn't ask you, No, she. 268 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 4: Didn't mention it. And then like the motion sensor triggers, 269 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 4: like I know people were in there, so I know 270 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 4: multiple times I got an alert people were in the 271 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 4: backyard or whatever. And when I checked the footage, it was. 272 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, there's apps now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have 273 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 3: one that's the same. You can see it from your phone. 274 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 4: Honestly, my brother uses michool all the time, so I 275 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 4: kind of figured it was him. And then when I 276 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 4: got back. I was curious to see, like who had 277 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 4: been using the pool, and then it was her over 278 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 4: and over, like it was like the YMCA. 279 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so you come home and you check your security 280 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 2: cams and you see that it's actually Sydney and her 281 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 2: friends using your pool, and that's why you've kind of 282 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 2: cooled off towards her. 283 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I just feel that she took advantage. 284 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:29,599 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 285 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 2: Did you warn her that you have security cameras outside 286 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 2: your We just had this conversation like not too long 287 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 2: ago where you said, if anybody comes over to your house, 288 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 2: you need to warn them that you have cameras. 289 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 3: Don't die if you invite someone to your home. She 290 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 3: was never invited. Like that's the thing, like when you 291 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 3: give an open invitation to somebody saying, oh, use the pool, 292 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 3: you know everyone knows that you ask before you do it. 293 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 3: You don't just show up that. 294 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 2: It sounded to me like he told her you can 295 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 2: come over at any time, and I don't know. 296 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: If that's true. Maybe we should ask Sydney Sidney, is 297 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 1: that what he said? 298 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 3: Hi? 299 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 2: It's not like, yeah, sorry, I should have let you 300 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 2: know Kurt that Sydney's been on the other line listening 301 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 2: this entire time. 302 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: She wants to talk to you. 303 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 4: After all that, Now you didn't wet me? 304 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: No, yeah, well I guess my calls are right. 305 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 2: I'm not very good at this job, so I apologize, 306 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 2: but go ahead, Sydney. 307 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I can barely even stand. I'm so 308 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 5: horrified right now. I feel so bad. Maybe I was 309 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 5: just so excited about like the time we had. I 310 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 5: just kind of was like showing off your place to 311 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:41,839 Speaker 5: my friends. I don't know, but now I just feel 312 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 5: like I messed up so bad, and I just that's 313 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 5: not respectful in my part, and I'm so sorry. I 314 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 5: feel really bad. 315 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I appreciate that. I just I don't know. 316 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 4: It's just a little weird. 317 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: Sidney. How did you even get into his pool? 318 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 5: Like? 319 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: Did you have to scale a fence or something? 320 00:13:58,480 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah? 321 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 5: No, there's like a a door that isn't kept. 322 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: One of those ones you just reach over. 323 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 3: All. 324 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 1: My parents have that too. I'm like, why do you 325 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 1: have a door that could come in? 326 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 4: Sidney? 327 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: What were you thinking? 328 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 5: What do you mean? 329 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 6: Was she's thinking? 330 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 1: Broke pool? 331 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 3: Pardon? Why? Why wouldn't you ask him? Why wouldn't you say, hey, 332 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 3: do you mind if my friends and I come over 333 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 3: while you're out get away with it. 334 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 5: I'm asking her, I mean, if you want me to 335 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 5: be completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he 336 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 5: would actually know, and I was so excited to show 337 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 5: my friends where he lived. 338 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt, like Sydney realizes 339 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: that she made a mistake and she's really sorry about 340 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 2: what she did. 341 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 4: It was just like everything was just thrown around too, 342 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 4: Like she didn't even clean up after it was just 343 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 4: like it was just a disaster. 344 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 2: I really, well, she just figured that she would come 345 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 2: back the next day. 346 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 5: I don't recall that. Pardon if that's true. I'm super 347 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 5: horrified in every way right now. I I mean, honestly, 348 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 5: this unforgivable. But I really hope that you'll just take 349 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 5: my word that I'm not a tool and that like, 350 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 5: I'm so sorry, and I hope we can give it 351 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 5: a second chance. 352 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: As all, she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to 353 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: show off your pad to her friends. 354 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and with that being said, we want to send 355 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: you out on another date and we'll pay for it. Kurt, 356 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 2: if you're willing to give Sidney one more chance public pool. 357 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 3: I mean, to be fair, Kurt, she didn't. I don't 358 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 3: think she's like a gold digger. I don't think she's 359 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: trying to use you. 360 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 6: I mean, it's hard to find a guy with a pool, 361 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 6: but she liked. 362 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 3: But she liked you for you before she knew about 363 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 3: the pool. 364 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 5: Yeah that was. 365 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: She seemed sincere when she told us about it. Yeah yeah. 366 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 2: I mean, before you answer, just think about Sydney in 367 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 2: her shirt and her no pants swimming around in your pool. 368 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: You're not help. 369 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 4: I don't have to think about it. I've seen the 370 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 4: video already. 371 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: I'll just visualize it and then let us know. What 372 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: do you think? One more shot with Sidney on our bill. 373 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like, you know, 374 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 4: she blew it. 375 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: She guy, and she blew it. 376 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 4: I blew it. 377 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 6: Oh, this is why you hook up the first night. 378 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: Everybody's wife right on, Kurt, hurry having a good tinder guy. 379 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: The rest of you, guys, you're all welcome. Used to 380 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 4: poo anytime you want. 381 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: Sorry, use you lose. We've moved on 382 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 4: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning