1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 2: Part one. 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Behind a scene with a member of the show. 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 2: Let's up, Everybody, Happy weekend. I'm super excited to be 5 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 2: joined by Amy. 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 3: Amy. 7 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 2: How are you hey? 8 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 3: I'm good. 9 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 4: It really feels like time goes by so fast, because 10 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 4: I feel like I was just here and I don't 11 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 4: know if it's eight weeks apart or seven or six 12 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 4: or what is it. 13 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: I think it's six, okay, because Bobby. I've tried to 14 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: get Bobby to do it, but he has it. So 15 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: take up Bobby, okay, and then everybody else is in, 16 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 2: and then obviously there's me, so you lose me. Then 17 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 2: there's seven of you guys. Okay, So I think it's 18 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 2: every six weeks. I think, yeah. But thanks for coming 19 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: back on. We got some things to catch up on 20 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 2: before we do. If you guys want to check out 21 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: part two and catch up on the show, We've got 22 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: Ella Lingley and Riley Green and Miranda Lambert dot By 23 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 2: Lunchbox has a situation with the whole thunder down under 24 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: raw Doggin sweatshirts. I got an energy massage. Bobby's a loser. 25 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 2: Tuesday Reviews Day, some weird stuff over there but you 26 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 2: can get caught up on the show. Any How is 27 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 2: the new house going, everybody wants to know. 28 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I love it. It's so great. I am very happy, 29 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 4: the kids love it. It's just more our vibe. I 30 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 4: think the last house I moved into, No, I don't think. 31 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 3: I know. 32 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 4: The last house I moved into was because of the 33 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 4: proximity to my dad's assisted living home, and so I 34 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 4: don't know that it was exactly our vibe. But this 35 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 4: one's just more quaint and older, and so there's was 36 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 4: some work to be done. So I've been renovating some things, 37 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 4: and that part's exciting. I'm ready for that to be done. Yeah, 38 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 4: I just feel as though there's dustin workers there all 39 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 4: the time. But to be able to make the space 40 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 4: my own is really exciting. 41 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 2: How is it feeling, you know, doing this all for 42 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: the first time by yourself, Like you're I mean, and 43 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: you went like in the deep end, You're like, got 44 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: a house, I'm renovating, I'm doing all these things. 45 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm learning a lot, like a lot and taking notes. 46 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 4: So if I ever do anything like this again, I'll 47 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 4: approach it a little bit differently. But I'm proud of myself, 48 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 4: and I think in the beginning I felt overwhelmed, but 49 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 4: I don't feel that way anymore. I feel capable and 50 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 4: excited and yeah, proud, I guess is a way to 51 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 4: think about it. Because I was talking to Stashira, my daughter, 52 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 4: who's seventeen, and she was talking about trying to be 53 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 4: on her own in just a few years and what. 54 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,679 Speaker 3: That will look like a couple two of years. 55 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 4: She's a junior in high school, so she's about a 56 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 4: year behind her actual age. So when she goes to 57 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 4: college or whatever she decides to do, she might do 58 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 4: an esthetician school instead. She's really into that, so it's 59 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 4: up in the air. And I told her she doesn't 60 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 4: have to decide now, and told her that I went 61 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 4: all the way through college not knowing what in the 62 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: world I was going to do and was I going 63 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 4: to be able. 64 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 3: To support myself. 65 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 4: And I said, life will take you on all kinds 66 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 4: of twists and turns you never know, but you'll learn 67 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 4: a lot along the way, and you will surprise yourself 68 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 4: at what you're able to accomplish. I mean, look, I 69 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 4: just yeah, I just bought this house by myself, and 70 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 4: I didn't even know how to log into my bank 71 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 4: account about a year ago because my entire marriage been 72 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 4: handled that and uh, I was like, you're capable, like 73 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 4: you'll you'll find what you're gonna do, and you'll be 74 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 4: able to take care of yourself. 75 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 3: Just fine. 76 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: Oh I love I love that this is the experience 77 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: that you've been having just this past year. Was there 78 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 2: any moments for you yet where you're like, because I 79 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: remember when I when I had bought my house and 80 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: I had like went through this whole experience. So much 81 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: of it was so exciting and I was so empowered, 82 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: and then there were other moments where I got really frustrated. 83 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I want a partner to help me with 84 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 4: certain things, I would say, more so it comes in 85 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 4: handy having a partner. And shout out to any single 86 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 4: moms out there, especially they don't have a solid co 87 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 4: parenting situation. I'm very thankful for mine. And you know, 88 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 4: I think of my mom like I love my dad, 89 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 4: But they didn't have an arrangement. My dad left and 90 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 4: I just stayed with my mom. My sister and I 91 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 4: stayed at my mom's. I don't even really know when 92 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 4: or why I would see my dad. I think maybe 93 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 4: I just once I could start to drive, I would 94 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 4: just drive over to his house if I wanted to 95 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 4: hang out over there. But there was no like, hey, 96 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 4: you got to go be with your dad this weekend, 97 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 4: or hey, your dad wants to you this weekend, like 98 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 4: at spring break. He moved away for a little bit, 99 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 4: I think to help the because he left my mom 100 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 4: for another woman situation. I think to like help die 101 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 4: that down. Because he was able to move away from 102 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 4: Austin for a little bit. He moved to Midland Odessa 103 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 4: area for a couple of years, and I think they 104 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: let the the fat settle, and so I remember going 105 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 4: there for like spring break or something. But back to 106 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 4: the original point of this, I think of my mom, 107 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 4: and she didn't really have help. She started working full time. 108 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 4: My dad wasn't there to help with dinner and homework 109 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 4: and school pickups and different things. And I don't know 110 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 4: how she did it, because I know on my weeks 111 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 4: that I have the kids trying to juggle that. Thank 112 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: goodness to shares driving now, But it's just the homework 113 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 4: is different, getting meals ready, working full time, it's different. 114 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 4: And I think of moms or dads. Single moms and 115 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 4: single dads that you know, have to do that round 116 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 4: the clock, and so I'm every other week, but three 117 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 4: hundred and sixty five days a year like that would 118 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 4: weigh on me because it gets difficult not having a 119 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 4: partner to divide and conquer, Like, hey, you handle social studies, 120 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 4: all handle math, and then while you're doing that, I'm 121 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 4: going to put dinner on. It's more like it's just 122 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 4: you at the house at night with the kids. So 123 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 4: I know there's a lot of people out there that 124 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 4: can sort of relate to that, and I'm not complaining, 125 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 4: but that's the part where those are the nights that 126 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 4: I want a partner. 127 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: No, I, And I asked you because it is you. 128 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: Really you have this change happening where you get really 129 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: excited and there's a lot of empowerment, but there's also 130 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 2: that drastic other side of that that's really hard. 131 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like right now, my hot water is not working 132 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 4: and I don't know why, and I'm sure that I 133 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 4: can figure it out, but. 134 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 2: You're like, I just don't want to. 135 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 4: I know that Ben would have already figured it out, 136 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 4: so I understand. 137 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: We'll see. I understand those feelings completely now, and now 138 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: you're seeing why there was a moment in time where 139 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 2: I tried to move a TV by myself and where 140 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: it fell on me that this was why because I 141 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: was so frustrated. I was like, no, I'm gonna do it, 142 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 2: and then just you know, take it from me. If 143 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 2: you feel like you can't. 144 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 5: Do it, just at least ask or hire someone to know, yeah, 145 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 5: versus you know, powering through it, because there are some 146 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 5: of those where you're like, no, I'm just gonna figure 147 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 5: this out, but sometimes you just need a little help 148 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 5: from Yeah. 149 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 4: Can you professional right in my hand right now? Do 150 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 4: you see those three blood vessels? They're blood blisters. That 151 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 4: was me trying to do something in my backyard by 152 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 4: myself and it came down on my hand and squashed 153 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 4: it and it didn't break the skin to where there 154 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 4: was blood, but it caused these really. 155 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: Ugly like blood vessel pops. 156 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, blood blister situations, and my hand hurts really bad. 157 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 4: But that was me trying to do something myself. It's okay, 158 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 4: I got it done. 159 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 2: See, in some moments, you do get it done. So 160 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 2: I totally understand. How was vacation for you? 161 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 3: It was good? 162 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,679 Speaker 4: What did I I mean I was at the house 163 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 4: most of it. Because I had work being done and 164 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 4: I needed to stay there. I was gonna leave and 165 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 4: try to go see my sister in Colorado, and then 166 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 4: it just would have been. 167 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 3: Really difficult to navigate. 168 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 4: So then I just ended up going to New York 169 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 4: for they So Open because I got invited, and I thought, okay, well, 170 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 4: I've never been there, and speaking to my parents, they 171 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 4: loved tennis, and my mom watched every tournament, all the 172 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 4: big ones that were on TV. 173 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 3: Growing up. 174 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 4: There was always tennis on with her and I was like, oh, 175 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 4: she would freak. 176 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 3: Out if she knew I was going. So I went 177 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 3: to that and. 178 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 2: And how was it. Did you see any like celebrities 179 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 2: or anything. 180 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 3: I didn't. 181 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 4: No, I was there the first weekend, and so I 182 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 4: guess Taylor and Travis they were there this past for. 183 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 2: The final weekends. 184 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 4: It's a two week tournament, okay, so and then people 185 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 4: are getting eliminated so as it gets closer, and there 186 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 4: was an American that made it towards the end. So 187 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 4: I think that's why it became a big deal for 188 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 4: some of the celebrities to be there. But no, I 189 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 4: didn't see anybody. 190 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 2: That's funny. I feel like there's a lot of. 191 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 3: People, is there. 192 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's a lot of games going on at 193 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 4: the same time. And there's different stadiums. Oh so I 194 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 4: didn't realize that. 195 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: I thought there was just one and everybody's at the 196 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: same one. No, there's multiple. 197 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 4: You like walk in to this almost like you're going 198 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 4: into a sporting event, and you go through the little 199 00:08:55,160 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 4: ticket thing, and then there's the Arthur ash there's the 200 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 4: Armstrong Stadium, which is where we win. Then there's the 201 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 4: Grand Slam Stadium. 202 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 3: How do you just to go to whatever you have 203 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 3: tickets to? 204 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 2: Got? Okay, so you have specific tickets to see a 205 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: certain match. Okay. Yeah, I'm so naive when it comes 206 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 2: to you. 207 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 3: Trust me. 208 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 4: I just learned myself. I'm not acting like I really know. 209 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: I just know. But that's why I want to hear 210 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: about it, because I I only see pictures of people there. 211 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: That's really the only experience. And I never like played 212 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 2: tennis or anything growing up, so I'm really naive to it. 213 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 2: But it looks like a lot of fun because you 214 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 2: have a good time. It's great. 215 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 4: They have these drinks called the Honey Deuce, okay, and 216 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 4: those are the popular drinks, and they have little balls 217 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 4: on there that they carve out of a melon. 218 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: They look like little tennis balls. 219 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: Cute. 220 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to get a honeyduce if you go. 221 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 4: But I saw an article that last year it generated 222 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 4: the US Open ten million dollars just the sale of 223 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 4: this drink. 224 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 3: So I was like, is it really that good? 225 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 2: Not? 226 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 3: I mean, it's okay to me? Is a little sweet? 227 00:09:59,559 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: Okay? 228 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 4: They charge twenty three dollars, Well that's why, because they can. 229 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 4: I mean, why not? And so that part was wild 230 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 4: to me. But I was like, oh, that's how they 231 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 4: afford the payouts because each person playing gets paid makes it. 232 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 4: I'm like, they just sell these expensive little cocktails with 233 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 4: melon balls that look like tennis balls, and they that's 234 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 4: how they pay for everything. 235 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 2: Oh that's fun. Okay, So you had us the US Open? 236 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: Did you do anything else while you were in New York? 237 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 4: I went to see Hadestown, which is a Broadway show, 238 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 4: which is really good, and then went to Arthur and Sons, 239 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 4: which is an Italian restaurant that I've been wanting to 240 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 4: go to for a long time. 241 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 2: Was it good? 242 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 3: It was really good? Yeah, it was like good. 243 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like a nice diner vibes like it wasn't 244 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 4: anything too fancy, but you could. It's you can see 245 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 4: in the kitchen, which is fun watching you work and 246 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:51,719 Speaker 4: do all that. 247 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 3: The New York energy. And I went. 248 00:10:55,120 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 4: With this guy that I'm I was in vie with 249 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: the group. It was a group like there was other 250 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 4: people there too, but just entertaining a situation okay, And 251 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 4: so that was fun. 252 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 2: Okay, do you want to elaborate any further? Are you 253 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 2: pleading the fifth? 254 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 3: I don't have to plead the fifth, but there's just 255 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 3: a lot of. 256 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 4: Uh yeah, moving parts when you're dating. You've got kids, 257 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 4: They've got kids, everybody's got kids, and being thoughtful of 258 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 4: that situation and then also for sure, for sure where 259 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 4: it's going to go. But I love New York. So 260 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 4: if there's ever a group going of my friends or people, 261 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 4: I will be down for that. Just it's I don't 262 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 4: know that they felt the same way about the city. 263 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, but we stayed in Queens. 264 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 4: The tournament is in Queens, Okay, it's not in the city, 265 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 4: got it. 266 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 3: And so there you have to take. 267 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: That subwhere or uber to like downtown to New York City. 268 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, to get into Manhattan, we took we all hopped 269 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 4: in a uber one night, but then on Sunday we 270 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 4: went to Central Park and went around and we took 271 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 4: the subway, which. 272 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 2: Was fi And maybe it's because I don't know if 273 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 2: you feel this way, but I love the subway because 274 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 2: I think it's because I've never had that experience. Like 275 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: growing up in Kansas, we didn't have a subway. So 276 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: when I went to New York for the first time 277 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 2: and saw the subway, I thought it was the coolest 278 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 2: thing ever. Even though everybody else is like, it's so 279 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 2: dirty and gross, It's like, no, I'm sitting on the 280 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 2: subway underneath the city. 281 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a vibe. I think that I get where 282 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 4: you're coming from. When I went for the first time, 283 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 4: I was twenty or twenty one, and I was enamored 284 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 4: with everything that I was experiencing. And actually when I 285 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 4: went at that age, I was staying in Queen's because 286 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 4: my friend was going to college there, so I got 287 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 4: to stay at their place. But then going into the 288 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 4: city and taking the subway, I just felt cool. Yeah. 289 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: See, it's like I was having my sex in the 290 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 2: city moment. Kind of thing looked a lot more glamorous 291 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 2: on TV but you know, same experience. Okay, we're gonna 292 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 2: take a quick break. We'll be right back and got 293 00:12:56,440 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: Moore and talk about you're also talking about Stash here 294 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 2: and the kids. Got I cannot believe she's seventeen years old. 295 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 4: That feels you and old man. She's working and doing 296 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 4: well in. 297 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 2: School, and how is the job going? 298 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 3: She loves it. 299 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 4: I mentioned on the show she's been a hostess, but 300 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 4: she just started bussing tables too, and so she's real 301 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 4: excited when she looks at the schedule and sees that 302 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 4: she gets to bust because she gets to be part 303 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 4: of the family meal. And then that's one step closer 304 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 4: to if she were to be a server. 305 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 3: So we'll see where it goes. 306 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 2: But how's she liking? Like getting paid minimum wage? Is 307 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 2: she like? How's that experience? She's just getting paid? So okay, 308 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 2: she's happy. 309 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think she Yeah. 310 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: Does she know if she because I assume at this 311 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,319 Speaker 2: place that the servers are still getting paid like like 312 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 2: two or three dollars an hour. 313 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, Shell, she knows that if she were to serve, 314 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 4: she would have to get tips. 315 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 2: Got it? Okay? 316 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 3: To make it survive? 317 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: The make it kind of a shock when you go 318 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 2: from like a eight or eight or you know, twelve 319 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 2: whatever the hourly wages now to then like two dollars 320 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 2: and you're like, what your paycheck is nothing? It all 321 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 2: at all his tips or whatever. That is a little 322 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 2: bit of a shock. But that's fun. And how is Stevenson. 323 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 4: He's doing great doing cross country just this. Teachers say 324 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 4: he's great at school, and we had a parent teacher 325 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 4: meeting and they said they love his personality so much, 326 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 4: like every time he comes in the classroom. 327 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 3: And so that's always good to hear. 328 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that, uh, and yeah, they're there. 329 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 3: They seem to have adjusted. 330 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 4: Well. One of my biggest fears was, you know that 331 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 4: Been and Eye divorcing was gonna cause some major things 332 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 4: with them, and of course there were, and who knows, 333 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 4: later in life there may be some stuff that we address. 334 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 4: But thankfully and I've been able to co parent in 335 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 4: a way that I think is impacting them minimally. And 336 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 4: living so close to each other and the kids being 337 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 4: back and forth, and then like Las House Saturday, you know, 338 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 4: Ben had the kids, but then Stashira had some stuff 339 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 4: to do it at my house, so she came over 340 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 4: and I feel like she was at the house all 341 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 4: day and we ran some errands together, and so it's 342 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 4: still that vibe. 343 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 2: It's so sure that you can't like move and do things, 344 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. That's cool. And they liked 345 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 2: the new house, Yeah, they love it. Okay, are they 346 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: getting to kind of design their rooms and have that experience? 347 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 4: You know? We just kind of transferred everything, got it 348 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 4: that was at the other house into their room. I 349 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 4: mean Stashira picked like the guest bed. She was asked 350 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 4: if she could have that in her room, the bed frame, 351 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 4: and so I swapped that and put her bed in 352 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 4: the guest room in that so she had some stay there, 353 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 4: but everything else, I was like, y'all's stuff is great, 354 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 4: let's just put it in there. And their rooms aren't 355 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 4: that biggest sort of like was even their rooms that 356 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 4: the other house were bigger, so we had to adjust 357 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 4: that way. 358 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 2: But did they get to choose the paint on their walls? 359 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 2: Did you paint? 360 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 4: I did, but I just did all all the same calbaster. 361 00:15:54,680 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 4: Stevenson wanted his room green and I I don't know 362 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 4: if he'll grow out of that. And I in the 363 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 4: rooms again, they're smaller, so I felt like it might 364 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 4: close it in, and so I suggested, what if we 365 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 4: get some green pillows or something, and he was like, Okay. 366 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 2: You know that's funny because when I was growing up, 367 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 2: I think it was high school when I made my parents, 368 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: I was like, I really want to paint my room 369 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: lime green and pink. And you know what happened. My 370 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 2: room got paint in lime green and pink, and my 371 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: sister's room got painted all pink. And for a long time, 372 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 2: our rooms stayed that way, like even out when we 373 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: were in college and stuff. It was only until like 374 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 2: the last gosh five or six years my parents finally 375 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 2: redid them and now they're like their style and stuff. 376 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 2: But I would go home and I'm like, this room 377 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 2: is so horrible. And I made my parents have a 378 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 2: pink and lime green room in their house. And so 379 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 2: it's probably a better experience to not have your kids 380 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: paint the walls. 381 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that. 382 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 4: I just like, I don't want to deal with painting 383 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 4: this again. So yeah, you just stuck with the like 384 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 4: it's a white, but the colors alabaster. Okay, so anybody's 385 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 4: looking for a good white. I really like that one 386 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 4: from Sherwin Williams. 387 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 2: That one Alabaster. I feel like I saw that when 388 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 2: I was looking for some Okay, well, I mean any 389 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 2: other life updates. I feel like I got the full scope. 390 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 2: Is there anything else you're wanting to talk about her share? 391 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 2: I want to keep pushing you and be like, tell 392 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 2: me everything. 393 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 3: No, I want. 394 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 4: I think that I'll share more when I'm readier, we're 395 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 4: readier whatever that looks like. I'm not really sure. Of course, 396 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 4: I am used to sharing a lot. And I even 397 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 4: thought back to when I first started dating beIN on 398 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 4: The Bobby Bone Show. But I didn't say his name 399 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 4: for a long time, and he was in the military, 400 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 4: and we called him Air Force Guy, and. 401 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 3: It was we got engaged and he was Air Force guy. 402 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 4: We got married and he was Air Force Guy, and 403 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 4: so it became a narrative on the show pretty quick. 404 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 4: But I don't know how to That's probably one of 405 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 4: the bigger changes in my life life right now. 406 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 3: But it's just figuring. 407 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 4: Out how to talk about it when it's right. 408 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna take one more quick break. We'll be 409 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: right back. Speaking of that energy massage, Amy also got 410 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: one done. We had talked about it on our vacation. 411 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 2: I did, and you got on how did it go 412 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: for you? 413 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 3: It was really good. 414 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 4: I enjoyed it a lot. That was part of my 415 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 4: I guess, if I'm going to be home for most 416 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 4: of the vacation, I'm not really taking a trip other 417 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 4: than the weekend. I mean I was in New York 418 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 4: for less than forty eight hours on the weekend, so. 419 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 3: That you know, we had a week off. 420 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 2: Yeh. 421 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 4: Didn't feel like anything relaxing, especially with work being done 422 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 4: at the house, and in fact, when she came over 423 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 4: to do it, there was construction happening. So I was 424 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 4: laying there on the table and you could hear like bank, bank, bank. 425 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 3: And I was like, can you just go ahead? 426 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 4: And you know, energy heal me from that noise. She 427 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 4: was really sweet and I felt amazing after. I think, 428 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 4: just very relaxed. 429 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 3: Again. 430 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 4: I don't know that I had anything specific going on 431 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 4: like you did where I could feel this drastic thing, 432 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 4: but I I can relate to your story. There's times 433 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 4: where I've laid down on a massage table and had 434 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 4: a lot of emotion come out of me. There's been laughter, 435 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 4: there's been tears. I think for me, what that provided 436 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 4: in that moment. Was I just needed to relax a 437 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 4: little and it gave me that. But if I needed 438 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 4: to release, I could see how it could totally provide 439 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 4: that as well, because she was awesome. 440 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm so glad you liked it and you 441 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: got to do it. Like on our vacation, we both 442 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 2: had it. Amy and I had went on a walk. 443 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 2: I had just done the massage, told Amy about it, 444 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 2: then Amy on it done. So that was Amy and 445 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,919 Speaker 2: I's really most of our vacations besides both of our 446 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 2: one weekend trip. So I'm glad to hear that. And 447 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 2: I do you know, I know Lunchbox was giving me 448 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 2: a hard time of like feeling better, but I do 449 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 2: finally feel like I'm in a better place. And I 450 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 2: think that Missa kicked it off. I mean, it wasn't 451 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: the you know, it wasn't day and night like that 452 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,959 Speaker 2: massage changed my entire life. But I do think it 453 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 2: put me on a path kind of like how you 454 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 2: were talking about, you know, clearing out the cob webs 455 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 2: for what you're experiencing. But that massage just like felt 456 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 2: like it kind of gave me this like clean slate 457 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 2: to just take my few steps forward and feel good 458 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,919 Speaker 2: again and be okay with feeling good again. You know, 459 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 2: it was like because that whole week that we were 460 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,239 Speaker 2: off and you saw me, and I mean I was 461 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: I was holding it together, but I wasn't like a 462 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 2: shell of yourself. Yes, like I'm just kind of existing, 463 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 2: and that whole week was was really full like, which 464 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:42,679 Speaker 2: is also hard on me, because you know me, I 465 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 2: love to go places and go adventure and see things, 466 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 2: and to be like sitting home for a week and 467 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 2: just like wallowing in something that had happened to me, 468 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: I was just I was in it. I was going 469 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 2: through the suck of it like every day, every hour, 470 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 2: every minute. And then that massage happened, and then I 471 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, now's the time, you know, I got 472 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 2: to take my steps forward. I did my I did 473 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 2: my like I sat in the suck of this for 474 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 2: an entire like week and a half where I just 475 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: like let it happen to me. And now I don't 476 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:17,479 Speaker 2: deserve to do that anymore. It's time to step forward 477 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 2: and see what else is going to be out there 478 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 2: in my life. And so I do feel like I'm 479 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 2: in a much better place now than I was. 480 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 4: I see you, yeah, very well. 481 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 3: I mean i've seen you at work. 482 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 2: That's true, but I mean on our walk and like 483 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 2: getting to talk and have our conversations, because like on 484 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 2: our walk, it was like every other time of it, 485 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: like something would make me cry or there was just 486 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,959 Speaker 2: so many emotions that were happening. And now that's just 487 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 2: that's gone. You know. There was like a I had 488 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 2: kind of an aha moment where like he was a 489 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 2: he was a great human being besides obviously the ending 490 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 2: and what happened, but like my, my rose colored glasses 491 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 2: came off, you know, and like my I'd put him 492 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 2: on a pedestal and I had I had paid sure 493 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: this human being in this whole life with this person, 494 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 2: and once I took the steps backward and like looked 495 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: at it from me not being in it, I just 496 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 2: saw things so much differently. You know, in hindsight's always 497 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 2: twenty twenty always, But I really had that like aha 498 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 2: moment where I was like, no, this is what was best. 499 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 2: And in that moment, and when I was in that 500 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 2: whole week and a half of like feeling it, I 501 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 2: couldn't see that and I couldn't feel that because I 502 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 2: was blindsided and it didn't make any sense to me, 503 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 2: but like taking the steps back, I was like, oh yeah, 504 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 2: and my therapist had me do you know. And also 505 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 2: maybe I've just been through in a heartbreak that I'm 506 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: just getting really good at healing from it. But she 507 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 2: every time I've gone through these like relationship endings, she's like, Okay, 508 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 2: when you're ready, I need you to write down in 509 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 2: a journal, just thoughts or whatever. When you're feeling angry, 510 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 2: you're feeling sad, and when you're feeling happy, I need 511 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 2: you to Like it's a version of brain therapy of 512 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 2: where you're rewiring your brain to just see things from 513 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 2: different angles. And I did that journaling and it gave 514 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 2: me just so much perspective that I didn't have when 515 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 2: I was in all of those emotions. And releasing all 516 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 2: of that too allowed me to see it and like 517 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 2: take a step back and be like, oh, Okay, I 518 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: wasn't getting this from this relationship, and I wasn't receiving 519 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 2: this in the way that I needed. I was just 520 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 2: and like, I think that was my lesson that I 521 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: had to take away from it was that like, there 522 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 2: is somebody out there who will be a nice person 523 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: and respect me, but also like, you don't. 524 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 4: Have to sacrifice other things. 525 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, Like I was so longing for love and. 526 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,919 Speaker 3: A partner, that respectful partner. 527 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a good one that I got so excited 528 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,479 Speaker 2: about it. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 529 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 2: I think I needed that at that moment. But now 530 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, now I know that that exists, and 531 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 2: I don't have to long for that. I can now 532 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: I really can sit here and not compromise on everything 533 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 2: that matters to me, because being with him would have 534 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 2: compromised some things. Not that I would have known that 535 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: or not that it would have been the end of 536 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,120 Speaker 2: the world. 537 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 3: Time you would have eventually known that. 538 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I would have, and you would have already 539 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 4: been living with him, which would have been far more difficult. 540 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 3: So he did you a favor. 541 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, And that I have I have been able to 542 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 2: accept all the things that everybody has been telling me 543 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 2: and everything I already knew. It just happened a lot 544 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 2: quicker than I was ready to expect, you know what 545 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 2: I mean, Like, because all the last ones do you 546 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 2: let you go through enough of them, and then you 547 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 2: get to this point where you're like, Okay, use your tools, 548 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 2: use your resources, and let's go. And that's kind of 549 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 2: what happened. So I am on a little bit more 550 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 2: of a speed track than I think I anticipated, especially 551 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 2: how deeply I was feeling in that week and a half. 552 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 2: But I do feel better. Good. 553 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 3: So you're seeing me now and I know you're smiling 554 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 3: right now. It's like I do. 555 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 4: Your energy is very different, but that's good. 556 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good thing. So that's that's where we're 557 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 2: at right now. I want to end on something about 558 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,679 Speaker 2: a listener had to emailed me and requested that we 559 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 2: share some music. Pick She's like, I just feel like 560 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 2: we go through different phases life and a lot of 561 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 2: people use music. I don't know if you do this, 562 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,159 Speaker 2: but I use like music to kind of heal my 563 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 2: body when I'm going through things. 564 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 3: Uh huh, do. 565 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 4: You have any song pigs, because my therapist sent me 566 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 4: the when you're on the Kedymene thing, you're listening to 567 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 4: a playlist and she sent me my it's called cat 568 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 4: Journey one Gentle. So if you go to different streaming services, 569 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 4: you can even type in Keneman playlist and it always 570 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 4: pop up. 571 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 3: But like everybody, this is very soothing. 572 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 4: Now I hear in the background, I hear like a 573 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 4: cricket or a frog or something, and that probably that 574 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 4: makes sense, now why my sister and I were frogs? 575 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: Wait? 576 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 2: Wait, in my mind, you can't just oh got it? Okay. 577 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 4: Only the only people that showed up in my mind 578 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 4: during that time my mom, my dad. 579 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 3: My sister. Okay, but anytime my sister was there, we 580 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 3: were frogs. 581 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 2: I was like, you just threw it out there that 582 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 2: you guys were frogs, and. 583 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 4: Frogs with big eyes and really big eyelashes. 584 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 2: God, and so I have been. 585 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 4: She encouraged me to listen to my Keademine playlist as 586 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 4: much as possible. 587 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 2: Like throughout the day, not just when you're in that experience. 588 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 4: Throughout the last week. So that's that is all I 589 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 4: have for y'all. I'm sorry that is not exciting, but 590 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 4: it does show how music is so powerful, because when 591 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 4: I hear certain songs as I was going through it, 592 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 4: like I took a bath one night and put it 593 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 4: on and the different song and my brain would go 594 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 4: to what my brain was thinking during the song in 595 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 4: the session. And there was one time I was in 596 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 4: these rice fields like on a roller coaster, and my 597 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 4: brain went to that and I could it felt the same, 598 00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 4: although I didn't have any. 599 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 3: Ket I mean right, a just path. 600 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 2: It was like your brain picking up on something that 601 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,479 Speaker 2: it had experienced. 602 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 4: Yes, and it was very soothing and calming, like I 603 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:13,640 Speaker 4: remember feeling very peaceful, blissful, all the things. It felt magical, 604 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 4: quite honestly. And while I'm in the bath hearing those songs, 605 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 4: I felt that same way, but I had no nothing 606 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 4: under my tongue got it altering my brain. So I 607 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 4: think music that's the perfect example, Like some of the 608 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 4: songs you might share can instantly take you back to 609 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 4: If you hear a song from when you were a teenager, 610 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 4: it's going to take you back to that moment and 611 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 4: you're going to feel those same emotions that you felt. 612 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 4: Or they could be positive or negative emotions attached to that, 613 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 4: but I like to focus on the positive ones. So 614 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 4: what's been healing for you? 615 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 2: That's a good one, because I do think you can 616 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: put that onto and some people need the soothiness of that. 617 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 2: Those sounds like it feels very spa related, right, and 618 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 2: you kind of need that soothing like relaxing or around 619 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 2: you when you're just kind of existing in the chaotic world. 620 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, or if there's any song that you know, like 621 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 4: whatever you need to feel, like, do you need to cry? 622 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 4: Do you need some feel some of the negative to 623 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 4: get it out, Like put on a song that you 624 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 4: know evokes that emotion. Do you want to think of 625 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 4: happy good things? Put on a song that you know 626 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 4: evokes that emotion and your brain will go there. 627 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 2: You know. And I'm i've I've I had my little 628 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:29,199 Speaker 2: rollercoaster speaking of like going through different emotions. First it 629 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 2: was like the sad, then it was the anger, and 630 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 2: now it's like the understanding and next will be like 631 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 2: the happy one, right, or it's my music translates through 632 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 2: through the grief process in a way. So that's been 633 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 2: funny to watch an experience. But some of these that 634 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 2: are good that I think people if they're going through 635 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 2: something in particularly a breakup or some experience of that kind, 636 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 2: These are some good songs. So Arm's Length from Casey 637 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 2: Muskgraves Deeper Well from Casey Muskerves, both of those are 638 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 2: on her new album, A Lot More Free from Max 639 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 2: McNown and then Just Keep Breathing from Logan Mize and 640 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 2: Good Grief from Mary L. Kraft and The Good grief. 641 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: One is interesting because I had posted, you know, I 642 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 2: had my little crying video on Instagram, and I got 643 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: some flack for that. But what was funny about that 644 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 2: video is I didn't post that with I When I 645 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: was creating that video, I didn't know that I was 646 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 2: going to cry like I was doing it with the 647 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 2: intention of sharing the song because I thought it was 648 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 2: really important for people to hear that. I thought would 649 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,479 Speaker 2: heal a lot of people they were going through something similar, 650 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 2: and I just so happened to cry, and I was like, oh, 651 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 2: I should reshoot that, you know, because I know I'm 652 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 2: gonna get made fun of for crying and being that 653 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 2: person that cried on Instagram. But then I was like, 654 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 2: you know, somebody probably needs to feel what I just 655 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 2: felt in that moment, and I'm just gonna let this 656 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 2: be what it is instead of sitting here and trying 657 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 2: to shoot this video over and over again and pretend 658 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 2: like I'm okay when I'm not. And so I posted it. 659 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 2: So but that song really helped me turn a corner 660 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 2: because it was it was recognizing that the grief I 661 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 2: was feeling was good and not bad, and that's hard. Yeah, 662 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 2: So those are some good songs. Thanks for our listener 663 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 2: for emailing and suggesting that I have one other song. 664 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 4: It's actually a real song that I thought of too, 665 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 4: that I have been revisiting. 666 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 3: And I don't know if it's because my mom was a. 667 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 4: Part of the you know, showing up in my journey. 668 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 4: I mean, she's always with me, but when she was 669 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 4: in hospice care, we would listen to ten Thousand Reasons 670 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 4: on repeat, which is in parenthes. It's ten thousand Reasons parentheses, 671 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 4: Bless the Lord, and it's by Matt Redman, and. 672 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 3: It's bless a lot o my soul, oh my soul. 673 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 4: Lership of this like, it's just it gives me goosebumps 674 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 4: even thinking of the lyrics right now. But I've been 675 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 4: listening to that a lot, and again it's taking me 676 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 4: back to that time when I hear it and I 677 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 4: think of her, and that was a heavy time. She's 678 00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 4: on her deathbed. But I'm not feelings when I'm listening 679 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 4: to it. I'm feeling hope. And this is a really 680 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 4: good song. 681 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 2: If you. 682 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 3: Like any kind of worship music. No, that's oldie Buddy Goody. 683 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 2: Powerful for that to have evoked that memory and emotion 684 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 2: for you, So, okay, tell the people where they can 685 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 2: find you, hear you, all that good stuff. 686 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 4: Tell the people, okay, the people at Radio Amy on 687 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 4: Instagram and then in my bio there you can find 688 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 4: links to everything else. 689 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 3: I have a link tree. 690 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 2: Love it so proud. Yeah, and I am at web 691 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 2: Girl Morgan on All the Things. You can follow the 692 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 2: show at Bobby Bone Show and check out both of 693 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: our podcasts. If you like the emotional talk. Amy has 694 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 2: four things with Amy Brown, I have take this personally. 695 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 2: They're fun stuff that I think you guys will enjoy. 696 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,959 Speaker 2: If you liked the conversation that we had today, all right, 697 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 2: see y'all later. Bye. 698 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: That's the best Bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks 699 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 1: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two 700 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: parts this weekend. 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