1 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria QK. Hey, everyone, 2 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:24,159 Speaker 1: welcome to Mother Knows Death. I'm here with Maria and 3 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: we're going to get started with the story of the week. 4 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: Our featured story this week is about some new research 5 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: that links owning cats to schizophrenia. Do you want to 6 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: explain how this is even a thing? 7 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: Well, it explains a lot in my life, I guess 8 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,279 Speaker 1: they're saying, so this is really nuts. Actually, so scientists 9 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: in Australia look at seventeen different studies that have been 10 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 1: published over the last forty four years, over the span 11 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: of eleven different countries, and they came up that there 12 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: is an association between cat exposure and schizophrenia. 13 00:00:59,200 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: That's so wild. 14 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: I never would have thought something like this. So what 15 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: it's saying is worldwide, the illness is estimated to be 16 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 2: found in about one of every three hundred people, and 17 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: it was first proposed in a nineteen ninety five study 18 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 2: that there may be a connection between the two. 19 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, so obviously everyone's first question is like, how, how 20 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: the hell is that possible? Like, what does it have 21 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: having like a cute, little fluffy cat have to do 22 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: with schizophrenia, which is a mental illness that can cause 23 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: symptoms such as paranoia and hearing voices, trouble thinking clearly. 24 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: And this usually is diagnosed when a person is in 25 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: their like their late teens or early twenties. So how 26 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: could your cat cause that in you? And the biggest 27 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: theory that they have right now is that it's linked 28 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: to a parasite that cats carried called toxo plasmosis GANDAI. 29 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: And basically this, I think any woman that's ever been 30 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: pregnant knows that this can be This pet particular parasite 31 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: could be a problem because it's present in cat poops. 32 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: So they tell you not to change the litter box 33 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: when you're pregnant because it could affect the unborn fetus. 34 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: And they think that this same exact parasite could be 35 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: the cause of the connection between the schizophrenia and having 36 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: a cat. So it's it's really interesting, actually, yeah, And I. 37 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 2: Was reading that they said the parasites believe to enter 38 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: through a cat's bite or a contract contact like you said, 39 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: with feces or other like cat boily fluids. But one 40 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: thing I thought was really interesting it said was that 41 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: it could also be exposed to humans by undercooked meat. 42 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 3: Did they mean cat meat? 43 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: Now? No, I think that just other it could be 44 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: transmissible to other animals too, And they're just saying that 45 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: like if if, even if a human's infected with it, 46 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: then it would be it could be transmitted through the meat, 47 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: because it would be like in your muscle skullar tissue, 48 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: because some parasites just stay specific to like the GI 49 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: system or something like that. But this means it gets 50 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: into your It gets into your skeletal muscle somehow. But 51 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: I have a really good story to tell you about 52 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: this actually. Okay, So, like I said, when you're pregnant, 53 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to change the cat litter. I think, 54 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: like really you you you probably shouldn't in general, even 55 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: if you're wearing gloves, because cat litter creates a lot 56 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: of dust and it's something that you could you could 57 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: inhale based really easily too. So my friend Andrea, who's 58 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: also a PA, was pregnant and she had a cat 59 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: and her husband was like changing the litter and everything. 60 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: And she's a pathologist assistant like me. So she worked 61 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: in the hospital and she did at the time, the 62 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: majority of the frozen sections So that's a specimen that 63 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: comes down to the lab during surgery while the patient's 64 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: still under and we look at it under the microscope 65 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: and pathology to determine the surgeon's next moves. So we 66 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: have like we're supposed to have twenty minutes, takes like 67 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: twenty minutes to a half hour. We process the specimen 68 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: really fast. The pathologist looks at it under the microscope 69 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: and calls the surgeon and says like, hey, you have 70 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: cancer here or whatever, and whatever the pathologist tells the 71 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: surgeon is what is going to guide the surgeon's like 72 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: next course of action, which is why it needs to 73 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: be done right away. And Andrea at the time was 74 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: doing a majority of the frozen sections in the lab, 75 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: and she was like eight or nine months pregnant, gets 76 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: a brain frozen section, so the majority of those are 77 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: cancer to rule out some kind of cancer. She does 78 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: it and she cuts it on this machine caught a 79 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: cry astat, which is the one that we freeze it on, 80 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: and that's how we make microscope sides really fast. But 81 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: when you do that, it creates like the little flakes 82 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: from the frozen material could kind of get up into 83 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: the air and she's doing this frozen section on this 84 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: piece of brain tissue that we received, and they look 85 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: at it under the microscope and the person had toxoplasm 86 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: or toxoplasmosis. Is that's the condition when you have an 87 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: infection with this parasite. It was in the brain tissue 88 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: that she cut, so she had an exp she had 89 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: like a known exposure to it, and she was really pregnant, 90 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: so of course she freaked out. It's also what's also 91 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: is ironic about it is that she was like one 92 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: of these over overcautious people that always she wore like 93 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: an N ninety five mask anytime we got a lung specimen, 94 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: because we got so many that said they were cancer 95 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: and they ended up being TB. But she just thought like, hey, 96 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: I'm doing a brain tumor. So she didn't even have 97 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: it on at the time, like the one time she 98 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 1: wasn't wearing it. Right? 99 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: Is TP that common still? 100 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean, yeah, it happens. We had, We had 101 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: several cases of it. So I actually was exposed to 102 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: it a while I was pregnant with Lucia. But so Andrew. 103 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 1: So Andrew calls her gyn and says, I have a question. 104 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: I was exposed to like, you know, gave her the 105 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: whole entire story, and the obgym was just like, wow, 106 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: I've never had anybody say that to me before that 107 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: they inhaled brain tissue from someone that had toxic plasma. 108 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 1: So it was it was really it was really like 109 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: kind of a crazy time. But we had a lot 110 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: of really good neuropathologists working with us at the time. 111 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: That's pathologist that specializes in brain pathology, and they did 112 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: a lot of research for her, and it just it 113 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: looked like it wasn't going to be a problem. And 114 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: I think she had the kid like a couple of 115 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: weeks later. She wasn't early into the pregnancy or anything. 116 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: But I just thought that was an interesting tidbit to 117 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: share some of the weird stuff that we have to 118 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: go through working in pathology. 119 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, definitely. 120 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna start with the celebrity news of 121 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:55,119 Speaker 1: this week. We have two different celebrities that are both young, 122 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: that both have cancer. 123 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 2: So do you want to get started with the first one? Yeah, So, 124 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 2: did you ever watched Toddler's and Tierra's? 125 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: I think I did in the beginning because of that, 126 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: the honey Booboo kid was kind of so outrageous that 127 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: you just watched it and her mom wasn't there. Just 128 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: like she was really a feisty little kid, and they 129 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: had kind of they were just like a really interesting 130 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: family to watch. So I think when it first came out, 131 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: I did see it. 132 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that Toddler's and Tierra's is problematic for many reasons. 133 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: But the young girl, Honey Booboo got her own spin 134 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: off show with her family. So unfortunately her twenty nine 135 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 2: year old sister, which that's how old I am, So 136 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: this is really disturbing for me to hear. Earlier this year, 137 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: she was diagnosed with stage four adrenal carcinoma and she 138 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: has just passed away. So it's really sad. She's leaving 139 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: behind two young kids, a husband. She's survived by a 140 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: couple of sisters. Her mom was posting all about it. 141 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: It's just it's really sad to see. 142 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: It's really it's really shocking for me to hear too, 143 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: because I don't I saw this a few times in 144 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: my career, maybe one or two times in surgical pathology, 145 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: because adrenal cancer is so rare it only happens in 146 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: like one in a million people, so it's really rare. 147 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: And what's even more rare is that so so there's 148 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: there's pretty much the most common kinds of adrenal cancers 149 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: are two most common ones. One of them is the 150 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: adrenal cortico carcinoma, and that arises in the cortex of 151 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: the adrenal gland, and that would be the most common 152 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: one that you would probably see in an adult, but 153 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 1: it's usually in adults that are older and like older 154 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: than fifty years old, and if it does happen in kids, 155 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: it would be like under ten years old, So her 156 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: being in her late twenties is just like she doesn't 157 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: really fit in that demographic. At the same time, though, 158 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,239 Speaker 1: you don't ever want to say that, because anything's possib 159 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: but from a doctor's perspective, you always want to know 160 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: what the most common demographics are because that helps you 161 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: kind of identify if a patient's having a problem. So 162 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: the other one is called a neuroblastoma, and that one's 163 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: most common, like I think ninety eight percent of them 164 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: occurring kids that are under five or six years old, 165 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: So again super super rare for even anyone over ten 166 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: years old to get that one so this gap in 167 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: between like ten years old and fifty years old, there's 168 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: not really many people who get adrenal cancer. And she 169 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: presented about a year ago. I guess it was like 170 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: a year and a couple of months ago she started 171 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: having back pain. She went and got checked out. They 172 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: said that she had a cyst removed, and I don't 173 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: know where the system was removed from or whatever. But 174 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: then over the course of the next couple months, she 175 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: wasn't getting any better. She stopped, she started losing hair 176 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: and having more pain in her back and stuff. And 177 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: then finally when she was diagnosed, it was considered stage four, 178 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: which means it was spread throughout her body. I think 179 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: they said it was in her lungs at least, but 180 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: so what the course of action was Because it is 181 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: so aggressive, they decided that they were going to give 182 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: her chemo, and she did chemo for a couple months 183 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: and said that she was getting better, like around May 184 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: of this year, and then two months later they announced 185 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 1: its terminal. So when they say that, it's when oncologists 186 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: don't think that there's really anything more that they can do, 187 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 1: and no matter what additional treatment they give, they're not 188 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: going to be able to make this tumor shrink and 189 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 1: go away. So they just try to do as best 190 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: as possible to make you comfortable until you die. Yeah. 191 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: I mean, it's definitely really sad to hear because watching 192 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: the show a little bit, you can tell their families 193 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: really close and the fact that she was a young 194 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 2: mother of two kids that are never really going to 195 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 2: know her, and it just really sad all around. 196 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so the next case is also said, do 197 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: you want to get into that? 198 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, So Kate maccuchie, who was a actress, most notably 199 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 2: on Big Bang Theory. She's like one of those actresses 200 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 2: that's on a lot of movies and shows that you 201 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 2: definitely recognize her face, but she's never usually the main player. 202 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 2: I think she's a really cute girl. But she's in 203 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 2: her early forty is And she just posted a TikTok 204 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 2: over the weekend that she just had surgery done on 205 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: her lungs for cancer, which is kind of crazy, and 206 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 2: she was talking about how she had never smoked in 207 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 2: her life, so she didn't really understand how it happened. 208 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 2: But can you explain for everybody the different types of 209 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 2: ways you could get lung cancer? 210 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 3: If you've never smoked. 211 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: So there's a lot of things about lung cancer that 212 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: people don't really realize. And if I said to you, 213 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: Maria right now, like what's the number one cancer that 214 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: women die from? What would you say? Breast cancer? No, 215 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: lung cancer. Actually, so women do get more breast cancer. 216 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: That's well, Actually, between men and women, the most common 217 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: cancer skin cancer. For women. The next one is breast 218 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: and for men, the next one's prostate but more women die. 219 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: And then the following one after that third is lung cancer, 220 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: and both men and women. But the reason that I 221 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 1: say that is because even though more women get breast cancer, 222 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: more women die from lung cancer. So and all of 223 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: those women aren't smokers, and people just automatically associate lung 224 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: cancer and smoking. But the reason that you get lung 225 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: cancer from smoking is because you have number one. This 226 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: would I personally think, you have this genetic component and 227 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 1: then you have this environmental assault being the environmental assault 228 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: being the cigarettes, and that causes those two together cause 229 00:12:56,240 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: a change in DNA which then could lead to cancer 230 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: pre cancer cells and then cancer. That's why you see 231 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: certain people who smoke until they're ninety years old that 232 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: George burned dudes or whatever, like they smoke their whole 233 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: life and they never get cancer because it has to 234 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: be like one plus one equals to kind of thing. 235 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 1: So there's all different kinds of cancers that you can 236 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: get in your lung, but the one called a carcinoid 237 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: you could get. I actually just wrote about this on 238 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: a Mystery Diagnosis a few weeks ago, that one can 239 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: that one is not necessarily caused by an exposure, but 240 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: just a typical regular lung cancer like an ADN carcinoma 241 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: of the lung could be caused by so many different 242 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: exposures that they think that up to twenty six percent 243 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: of exposure of a lung cancer is due to radon exposure, 244 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 1: which is like a radiated type of gas that like 245 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: emits from rocks and stuff in the dirt. So that's 246 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: why when you buy a house, they want they go 247 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: in your basement and they want to do raidon testing 248 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: to make sure because you wouldn't you wouldn't see those 249 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: gases in your house. But they think a large number 250 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: of lung cancer is because of is because of that, 251 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: and also just for example, like me working in the 252 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: lab and breathing in formaldehyde, that's a known carcinogen. It's 253 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: it's it's all different things that could cause this. You 254 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: could be breathing in working in a mine, or just 255 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: working anywhere with chemical exposures. 256 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: Gabe. 257 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: Especially, it's very common in firefighters because they breathe in 258 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: these burning materials, the nine to eleven firefighters and stuff 259 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: like that. So the fact that she hasn't had a 260 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 1: cigarette and she has cancer doesn't surprise me. But that, 261 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: I mean, it just happens. It's I just think that 262 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: people don't realize how much it happens. But I've seen 263 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: it multiple times throughout my career. 264 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 2: Well, it looks like in her case, they caught it 265 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 2: pretty early, so hopefully they'll be able to do the 266 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 2: necessary treatment so that she can kind of get through 267 00:14:58,600 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 2: it and get better. 268 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I I think she's I think she's gonna be 269 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: fine as long as long as she stays on top 270 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: of it and stuff. I think that they said that 271 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: she was diagnosed it as a stage one, So what 272 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: they'll do is they'll go out, go in and they'll 273 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: take out I would think they were gonna take out 274 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: the entire lobe of her lung. But you have multiple 275 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: lobes of your lung. You could actually live without an 276 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: entire lung. So she may have like a little short 277 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: term problems, but hopefully this is like Shelton, she just 278 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: gets surgery for and she and and moves on from it. Okay, 279 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: let's get into freak accidents. 280 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 2: So the US Consumer Product Safety Commission say that five 281 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 2: they're warning about certain toys because Christmas is right around 282 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 2: the corner. It's only eleven days away. So we're gonna 283 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 2: go through a list of some of the most dangerous toys. 284 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 2: We actually just did a really good high profile dissection 285 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: about this in the gross Room, and it gives some 286 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 2: really good intricate details about some of these cases. But 287 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 2: first we have water beads, which they are these little 288 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 2: beads that are sold as like a sensory toy, and 289 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 2: once they're filled with liquid, which if they get in 290 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 2: the body they fill with liquid, they could grow to 291 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 2: the size of a tennis ball. So these things are 292 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 2: little marbles essentially, and they could get as large as 293 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: a tennis ball. So they're saying these are really dangerous 294 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: because they look like candy and it makes little kids 295 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: want to eat them, and then it could cause all 296 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 2: these complications, including bowel obstructions and other things. 297 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: I think with every single thing that we're going to 298 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 1: talk about on this list today, it's like what the 299 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: toys itself were pretty much intended for, are not really 300 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: the problem, but it's we actually talk about a case 301 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: in the post that we did right of the water beads. 302 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: This happened last year that this mom had bought these 303 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: water beads for her child that was autistic, that was 304 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: I think he was like eight or something. But somehow 305 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: her nine month old baby put these water beads in 306 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: its mouth. And some of them range in size from 307 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: from a little tiny ball like the size of a pen, 308 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,479 Speaker 1: all the way up until a marble or something. So 309 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 1: let's say this nine month old baby, like maybe if 310 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: they put a bigger one in their mouth that was 311 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: the size of the marble, they would just choke on 312 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,719 Speaker 1: it right away. But the smaller ones that are just 313 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 1: the size of like sprinkles that you would put on 314 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: cookies or something, if you swallow that and then inside 315 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: the attestine it gets it gets fluid in it, and 316 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 1: then it starts to get large. It gets so large 317 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 1: that it fits the entire opening of the bowl. And 318 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: it gets stuck and it could cause a it causes 319 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: a bowel obstruction, It could cause a perforation, which means 320 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: that the bow kind of explodes, and that means that 321 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: all the poop that was in the bow goes inside 322 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: the sterile abdomen, which could lead to serious infection if 323 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: not SEP and then if not death. So that's and 324 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: then we have a discussion underneath of the post that 325 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 1: we do in the grosser room, and it's like, well, 326 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 1: number one, why the hell does a nine month old 327 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: baby have access to this? It says right on the thing, 328 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: it's a choking hazard, And you know, I kind of 329 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: I agree with that that this isn't really the company's fault, 330 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: but at the same time, like you have to take 331 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: into consideration that people aren't going to be using it. 332 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: I mean, mistakes just happen all the time. And the 333 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: reason that they put these warnings out is because multiple 334 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,439 Speaker 1: ers are reporting these accidents. So it's not just like 335 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: some freak thing that happened. It happens all the time. 336 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: And you want to go over some of the other 337 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: things on the list, ray. 338 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just wanted to jump really quick because we 339 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 2: kind of have like a substory to this specific one, 340 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: So I feel like, yeah, is the best time to 341 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 2: talk about it. Where Target, Amazon, and Walmart have it 342 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 2: outs they're going to stop carrying these water beads, but 343 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 2: because of so much public outcry about how dangerous they are. 344 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: I did notice Target said they were gonna not sell 345 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 2: them to kids under twelve, But how are you possibly 346 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 2: monitoring that any parent could buy them at all? When 347 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 2: Walmart and Amazon are going to try to go for 348 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 2: a total ban of them, they're just. 349 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 1: Doing that to cover their ass. The thing is, though, 350 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: is that if you bought those like for Christmas this 351 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: year for my kids, this wouldn't be a problem because 352 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 1: there's no babies in this house. These kids don't put 353 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 1: stuff in their mouth anymore, and and like these things. 354 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like the toy itself, if you 355 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: follow the directions and read it, it's not dangerous. It's 356 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: not dangerous. It's just kind of like which makes me 357 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: kind of annoyed that they have to be like, oh, well, 358 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: parents are so checked out right now, and they're playing 359 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 1: on their phone, and like other kids could get into 360 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 1: it and choke, So they're gonna sue us, and we 361 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: don't want to be responsible kind of thing. I don't know, 362 00:19:56,200 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: it's just it's not intended. It's the same thing is 363 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 1: when when you were a little kid, right, you used 364 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: to play with those poly pocket things. Remember there were 365 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 1: like two different sizes. There were the really little ones 366 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: and then there were like the ones that were a 367 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 1: little bit bigger. 368 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the bigger ones had like rubber clothes 369 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 2: and shoes. 370 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but the little ones were choking hazard for a child. 371 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: It's the same thing like if you if you're a 372 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 1: kid that's six years old playing with polly pockets and 373 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: you leave them on the floor and one year old 374 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 1: crawls by and picks it up and puts it in 375 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 1: their mouth. It's an accident, but it's not. It's not 376 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 1: like poly Pocket's faults. That toy was designed for a 377 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: six year old, not a one year old. 378 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 2: You know, I just like I get that, but I 379 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 2: think with this specific product, it's kind of hard because 380 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 2: you can't make like a poll pocket doesn't look like candy, right, 381 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 2: Like these things look like candy, and I think for 382 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 2: a really little kid it could be very confusing for them. 383 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 2: So you know, as parents, like it doesn't even have 384 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 2: to be like you're checked out. You could literally turn 385 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 2: your head for two seconds and then a kid could 386 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 2: pop one in her mouth. So we shouldn't really be 387 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 2: making toys look like other ingestible. But if they could 388 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 2: potentially cause so much. 389 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if it says on the package that it's 390 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: a choking hazard for kids under four years old, what 391 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: responsibility the parents have to not have it? Where afore 392 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: it could The same thing could be said about weed gummies, 393 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: like there's a responsibility of the adult to not have 394 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: their child have access to that shit. Well, I don't 395 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,120 Speaker 1: really agree with you with that, because if you had 396 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: weed gummies, you, I would hope would try your best 397 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: to hide them from kids. Whereas the water beads are 398 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: intended to be played with by a child, So even 399 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: if you were giving them to the correct age group, 400 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 1: if there's other children in the house or you aren't 401 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,479 Speaker 1: paying attention for two seconds, something could go awry. So 402 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: I'm with the stores, Yeah, I'm not. I'm with like, 403 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 1: let's take some personal responsibility when we're doing stuff. I 404 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: understanding accidents happened, And I'm not saying that these parents 405 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 1: are bad at all, because listen, like I'll I'm the 406 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 1: first one to say that. One time I left a 407 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: carl and Iron plugged in in the bathroom and uh, 408 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,439 Speaker 1: one of the I think it was Lucia touched it 409 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 1: when it was on, and I felt terrible about it. 410 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: There's accidents that happen all the time, But. 411 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 2: Curling iron is not intended to be played with a child. Like. 412 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 2: That's the point I'm trying to make, is like this 413 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: is designed for a child, like weed gummies and a 414 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 2: curling yeah, but it's designed me for Yeah. 415 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: But it says it's designed for a kid that's over 416 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 1: four years old, So why is a nine month old 417 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: touching it? It's not designed for them. 418 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 2: I get that, But if you're in a playroom and 419 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 2: there's younger siblings, I think there's more mishaps. But anyway, 420 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 2: we could go on about this all day. Let's agree 421 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 2: to disagree on this. The next category is any toys 422 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 2: with button or coin batteries. Yes, so this is also 423 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 2: a topic we've covered. 424 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:06,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, so a lot of these things, even you know, 425 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: the kids are really into these lights that you hang 426 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: up in your bedroom and they have these remote controls 427 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 1: that you could change the color of the lights, and 428 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: those remote controls. Same thing, like if a little baby 429 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: is just playing with this remote and puts it in 430 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: their mouth and the battery pops out. The batteries are 431 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: so small, they're like the size of a button, so 432 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 1: they could they could swallow them. They usually won't be 433 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: a well, they could be a choking hazard, depending on 434 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 1: how big the button is and how small the child is. 435 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 1: But the more concern is when it gets into the 436 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 1: stomach and then the stomach acids start trying to digest 437 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: the battery and all of a sudden it causes an 438 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: erosion in the stomach and that which can lead to 439 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 1: a perforation again sepsist death. It's it's another common thing 440 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,479 Speaker 1: that they're seeing in emergency rooms. 441 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 3: All right, what next? 442 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: We have toys with magnet So this was confusing for me. 443 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 2: So they ban these certain like magnetic they're like little 444 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 2: balls or like squares that connect together to form a chain. 445 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 3: So they weren't. 446 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 2: The Consumer Product Safety Commission ban these in twenty fourteen 447 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,640 Speaker 2: and then unbanned them in twenty sixteen, and now their 448 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 2: new research is showing that they're again dangerous. So I'm like, 449 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,360 Speaker 2: what happened? It was something the ban and then the un. 450 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: It was some court rolling I think it was in 451 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: Colorado or something that said that they couldn't ban them again. 452 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: These these actually have a very interesting pathology because when 453 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: children swallow these things, and they're they're little silver balls, 454 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: like Maria was saying, they're size of like a baby 455 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 1: or something. But they come in different sizes too. But 456 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 1: what happens is that they're so they're like these extra 457 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: crazy magnetic magnets, and when a couple of them are 458 00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 1: swallowed together, they make the segment of the bow like 459 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: actually stick together because it could go through the bow wall, 460 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 1: that's how strong they are, and it causes a pseudo 461 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: effect that you would see in a person that had 462 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: like surgical adhesions or something that was causing their bow 463 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 1: to be kind of kinked up and not let the 464 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: poop flow through correctly. And again that could lead to perforations, 465 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 1: sepsist death. And we could kind of jump down to 466 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,640 Speaker 1: the bottom of the list where we're talking about knockoffs, 467 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: because a lot of these problems occur from websites like 468 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 1: Amazon that they're selling products that are from other countries. 469 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: They're not going through the same standards as ours. They 470 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: can't be checked. I just saw that there was a 471 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: recall for I mean, this is kind of side note, 472 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,479 Speaker 1: but on Amazon, I saw there was a recall for 473 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 1: bumpers because kids were dying. Babies were dying from these 474 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: bumpers that have been banned in the United States, but 475 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 1: somehow they were listed on Amazon. It's a baltam and 476 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: then the kid died. So this you you have to 477 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: think about that too with Amazon, Like, just because you 478 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: can purchase something on Amazon doesn't mean that it's safe 479 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 1: for your kid because the safety there's no one checking 480 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: that stuff. It's even with certain like makeup and stuff. 481 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: I'm like very wary of buying makeup that's not from 482 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: name brands because you get scared about your kids putting 483 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: that on their face, you know. 484 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,199 Speaker 2: Yeah. And just to wrap up this list, like the 485 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 2: other ones, I feel like you're pretty obvious dangers like hoverboards, trampolines, 486 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 2: toys with loose and small parts. 487 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 3: Of course, those problems. 488 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 1: Well, so when we wrote this up, Maria had found 489 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: that the most common injuries, now we're not talking about 490 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: deaths from toys, but the most common injuries from toys 491 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: were from these like scooters, horverboards, skateboard things broken. 492 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,359 Speaker 2: Well, it's not just the electronic ones either, it's also 493 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 2: the non motorized classicos. Kids just like go crazy on 494 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 2: them and break their bones constantly. There the number one 495 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: er visit related to toys every year is the scooter. 496 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,720 Speaker 1: If you guys want to check out that post in 497 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 1: the Grosser room, it's really it's really it's kind of 498 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: like a fun but not fun post. We like to 499 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: try to do things that are themed for the holidays, 500 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: but one of the fun parts of the post is 501 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: the history of some of these toys that we were 502 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 1: going back to, like the nineteen fifties, which was there 503 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: was a there was a kit that you can have. 504 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 1: It was like a radioactive science kit for kids, and 505 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: they they had real uranium in it for children to 506 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: play with and slip and slide. What were those the 507 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 1: ones you had when you were a kid? Oh he 508 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,199 Speaker 1: heally's so's it's an interesting article, and of course we 509 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: show we show pictures and stuff of what some of 510 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 1: these surgeries look like after the kids have problems with 511 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 1: these toys. 512 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 2: The uranium's pretty crazy to me because we actually have 513 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 2: a were you local to us where you know what 514 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 2: those antique stores. They sell those uranium plates that are 515 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 2: under like the play and you can see them glow. 516 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 3: And a kid got one at a local. 517 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 2: Antique shop and brought it to one of our local 518 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 2: high schools and they shut the whole heights. 519 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:14,239 Speaker 3: It was. 520 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: It was ridiculous. It was like a hazmat situation. And 521 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, it was for uranium glass. That's ridiculous. 522 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 3: Okay. 523 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: Another Christmas related story has to do with Santa Claus 524 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 1: getting or Missus Clause getting third degree burns. You want 525 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 1: to talk about. 526 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,439 Speaker 2: That, Well, I actually think it was the friend of 527 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 2: Missus Clause that got oh. Okay, but uh, this this 528 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 2: story happened in Plymouth, Michigan. It's like really horrible. Actually, 529 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: there was this at this north Ridge church. There was 530 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 2: an annual Christmas performance that it said it draws around 531 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 2: thirty two thousand people between two weekends to view spectacular. 532 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 2: It's something you know, like I just saw Mariah Carrey 533 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 2: Christmas Show last night, and I think it just would 534 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 2: be a nice event to go to. So this is 535 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: especially unfortunate that this happened. But this woman, she was 536 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 2: in a costume and she came into contact with a 537 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 2: candle that was accidentally left on the stage from a 538 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: previous I guess song or a little number they did, 539 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 2: and her entire thing went up and flames. She has 540 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 2: third degree burns. She's going to be in the hospital 541 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 2: for a couple of weeks getting treated. It's really horrible. 542 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: Uh Okay. Can I ask the obvious question, what, why 543 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: would you ever be using a real candle when they 544 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: sell candles that look like they're on fire, Like, I 545 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: just well, yeah, it just doesn't agree make any sense 546 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 1: to me. 547 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 3: I agree with you there. 548 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 2: It definitely like this is under the freak accident category 549 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 2: because obviously, like I've been in band in choir and 550 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 2: I know that they do these things, and all I 551 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 2: see is probably they had a bunch of singers holding 552 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 2: real candles and somebody put one down not thinking about it, 553 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 2: and then a tragedy like this happens. So I agree 554 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 2: with you, they certainly should not be using real handles 555 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: when they make such They make such good fake candles 556 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 2: and they're not that expensive, so it's not even like 557 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 2: a cost thing. 558 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, And like those costumes that use for stage productions 559 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: are like pieces of shit. They're like they blow, they're 560 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: they're they're like a fire waiting to happen. Right, They're 561 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: all like polyester and just like totally inorganic materials covered 562 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: in chemicals. It was probably like that red sparkly stuff 563 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 1: and everything and the fake fur and all. And I mean, 564 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: this is this is no joke. This woman has third 565 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: degree burns, which is a full thickness burned through all 566 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: of the layers of your skin and the subcutaneous tissue 567 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: like thirty percent. Yes body, she's gonna need skin graft 568 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: and she's gonna have lifelong complications if I mean, she's 569 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 1: at a high, high likelihood of not even surviving this. 570 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 1: Because when you get burns on that much of your 571 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 1: body that bad you, you're at an increased risk for infection. 572 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: Your skin controls your your temperature regulation. People don't realize 573 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: that your skin is an organ and it's your most 574 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 1: important organ that keeps all of the bad stuff out 575 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: of your body. And I mean, she's gonna deal with 576 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 1: this the rest of her life. It's like, no joke. 577 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 2: And she's your age, she's very young. I like, well, thanks, 578 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 2: I like that. 579 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: In the article they're like they pause the show, and 580 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, they pause the show that they continue to 581 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: say after that we have a. 582 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 2: Lot of stories coming up where there's very questionable choices 583 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 2: like that, And then she's telling the woman that received that. 584 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 2: Burns was telling her pastor that she was most bummed 585 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 2: out that she was missing the show. I'm like, you're 586 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 2: not bummed out that you have a life altering injury. 587 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I don't know. I don't know. 588 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 2: I feel horrible for her, especially something that was supposed 589 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 2: to be like a fun, festive activity. 590 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I feel horrible for like little Johnny 591 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: sitting in the audience that watched this lady like burning 592 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: and security smothering her to try to get the fire out, 593 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 1: like I can't. 594 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,719 Speaker 2: I didn't even tell you this. Last night, when we 595 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,480 Speaker 2: were getting up to leave the show, some girl in 596 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 2: the row in front of us launched like two rows down. 597 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 2: I don't even know what happened. She was so drunk 598 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 2: and smacked her head so hard on the seat and 599 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 2: people in front of her, and I got that gut 600 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 2: wrenching like, oh my god, because she was flying through 601 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 2: the air. It was so dramatic. But I was like, 602 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: if she goes over the railing, I'm going to throw up. 603 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 1: Like yeah, I always feel like imagine, I always feel 604 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 1: like the stadium is like so steep. I always think 605 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna fall down. Okay, So in in Pakistan, 606 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:37,320 Speaker 1: these these zoo cleaners, they were cleaning out the zoo 607 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: and they look over at one of the big cats 608 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 1: and they see a shoe in the big cat's mouth 609 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 1: and they they quote, thought that was suspicious, really really, 610 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: and they ended up going in and they found the 611 00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 1: guy in the enclosure that looked like he was ripped apart, 612 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: ripped apart, and that was his cause of death. And 613 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 1: it did look like he had some defensive wounds. But 614 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 1: really the best part of the story is that it says, quote, 615 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 1: our assessment so far is that this appears to be 616 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: a lunatic. 617 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I had I had that. 618 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 2: They they said a quote lunatic was believed to go 619 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 2: into the den because no right person in the right 620 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,239 Speaker 2: mind would just enter a den. It's unclear if it 621 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 2: was a tiger a leopard too. It seemed like whoever 622 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 2: was writing the article had like some translation mishap with 623 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 2: the government official from Pakistan. But this, yeah, this is 624 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 2: definitely a wild story. I can't imagine just seeing a 625 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 2: shoe and being like something doesn't seem quite right. 626 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then like, like, where where else the big 627 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 1: cat get a show? All right? 628 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 2: Didn't we have a situation at our zoo where the 629 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 2: kimono dragon like ate somebody? 630 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: I don't think that was our zoo. Wasn't that like 631 00:33:56,480 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: something to do with Sharon Stone? No, there's like a 632 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 1: Sharon's commonage. There's definitely a Sharon Stone Kimona Dragon thing. 633 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if she had one as a pet 634 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: or something, and it like ate her boyfriend. I don't know. 635 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: We need to look that up. 636 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 2: What I just listened to a really good and I'm 637 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 2: I think, actually, I'm gonna have to look this up. 638 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,359 Speaker 2: I listened to a really great interview with her last 639 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:18,400 Speaker 2: week and it maybe. 640 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 3: Just want to look up a bunch of stuff about it. 641 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: What search her name and Kimona Dragon. I swear to God, 642 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: like I could be totally wrong, but something's triggering me 643 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,240 Speaker 1: to think that, all right, this is as a parent, 644 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: this is you know, we always have these as a parent. 645 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 1: This is a horrible story. But there was an accidental 646 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: fetanyl exposure at a school and ree do you want 647 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 1: to you want to get into telling everyone what happened? 648 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,240 Speaker 2: So this fourth grader brought in a bag of gummy 649 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 2: bears and seven kids ate the gummy bears and then 650 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 2: all started presenting symptoms of nausea, diarrhea. They were all lethargic, 651 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 2: so they had to be taking a couple of them. 652 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,800 Speaker 2: Five of them had to be taken to the hospital. 653 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,839 Speaker 2: But when they tested the bag, it seems like that 654 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 2: there was fentanyl in the bag, not in the gummy 655 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 2: bears itself. And the weirdest part is that another kid 656 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 2: from the home brought the same exact bag of gummy 657 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 2: bears to his class as well, and. 658 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,359 Speaker 3: There was no traces of it at all. 659 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,439 Speaker 2: And two people have been arrested in connection of this case, 660 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,439 Speaker 2: but they're not really saying like how the people are 661 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 2: connected to the child at all. It's not clear if 662 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 2: it's a relative or something nefarious happened. So it's just 663 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 2: a really weird story. 664 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: And these kids are could you imagine like this, this 665 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,359 Speaker 1: is just like thanks another thing I didn't think about 666 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 1: when my kids are in school today, because they have 667 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 1: these rules at all the schools I know. I've talked 668 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 1: to my friends too that like the kids shouldn't be 669 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: sharing each other's food, but like, I swear to God 670 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 1: every single day when I empty my kid's lunchbox out, 671 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 1: they have wrappers and stuff that I'm like, that's definitely 672 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: I didn't send that with them. This is what kids do. 673 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,319 Speaker 1: They're like, Hey, you want to trade me for this? 674 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,800 Speaker 1: You want to trade me for that? And there's really 675 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 1: I just feel like there's no way to really monitor it, right, 676 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: And I personally don't care them, Like, as long as 677 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: my kids are eating, I don't care. But now you're thinking, like, 678 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: what if some kid in your class it's given your 679 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,399 Speaker 1: kid gummy bears. This is a fourth grade class. They 680 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 1: eat them, of course because it's candy. And then all 681 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 1: of a sudden you're getting a call that your kid's 682 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,359 Speaker 1: been exposed to FEN and all like what. 683 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the investigators are really unsure if the bag 684 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,680 Speaker 2: was tampered with in the home or they said that 685 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 2: the kids were brought to school by their caregiver. I 686 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 2: don't know what that means, whether it was a nanny 687 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 2: or a neighbor helping or a family member, but they're 688 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 2: not sure when the bag got altered. And it was 689 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 2: especially weird that another kid in the house brought the 690 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 2: same exact setup and didn't have any issue, So this 691 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,280 Speaker 2: is definitely really bizarre. 692 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,879 Speaker 1: This episode today is being brought to you by stink Bomb. 693 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 1: Every week on Mother Knows Death, we do questions that 694 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: are from the audience and we post them on the 695 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: Instagram accounts, so make sure that you check that out, 696 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,760 Speaker 1: and you could ask us any questions and we'll answer 697 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,839 Speaker 1: some of them. Obviously we can't answer all of them. 698 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 1: But one of the questions this week was how do 699 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,320 Speaker 1: I deal with all of the smells working in the morgue? 700 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: And I would like to add surgical pathology as well, 701 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 1: because that could be really stinky, and in fact, every 702 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,399 Speaker 1: single aspect of the hospital could be stinky, no matter 703 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 1: what department you're working in, because humans smell. You know, 704 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: you've smelled sometimes. My husband smells all the time, but 705 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,319 Speaker 1: but he yeah, he does. But it's it's just I 706 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: love it. It's his, it's his set, and I love it, 707 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:48,760 Speaker 1: but can't agree, well what anyway at the hospital. Of course, 708 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 1: I definitely don't want to be smelling like Gangarine and 709 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 1: poop is. Poop's a big thing in the autopsy, especially 710 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 1: because you know, especially if you don't know you're gonna die, 711 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 1: you your whole colon could be full of multiple days 712 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 1: worth of poop and it smells really horrible. So on 713 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: top of wearing a mask to kind of let that 714 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: smell go away a little bit, the best thing to 715 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 1: really make it a more pleasant experience is to use 716 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,240 Speaker 1: some stink bomb because you could put it right underneath 717 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: your nose, put your mask on, and all you smell 718 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: is I mean, my favorite fragrance right now at this 719 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: time of year is the Evergreen because it smells like 720 00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 1: Christmas and it just gives you a little bit of 721 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 1: Christmas cheer in your day. 722 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I really like I just like switching them 723 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 2: out throughout the year. So there's lavender, coffee, pumpkin spice, Evergreen, 724 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 2: and many more different scents. So you could use code 725 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 2: MKD fifteen at stinkbombodor blocker dot com for fifteen percent 726 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 2: off all products. 727 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 1: Thanks stink Bomb. All right, now we're gonna get started 728 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:54,640 Speaker 1: with violent crimes. 729 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,240 Speaker 3: Did you send this story to Michelle? 730 00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 1: The next one? 731 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 3: This? 732 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, this first story in violent Crimes. I'm pretty sure 733 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 2: that's where her son goes to Calle. 734 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:06,439 Speaker 1: He does, yees? 735 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,480 Speaker 2: So Michelle, Okay, Michelle, So we definitely need to talk 736 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 2: about this after you listen to it, but we'll let 737 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,320 Speaker 2: you listen to this story first, so well. 738 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 1: Explain that Michelle is because people might not know who 739 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 1: she is. 740 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,800 Speaker 2: Oh sorry, sorry, sorry. Michelle is our wonderful family friend. 741 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 2: We love her so much. She's a guest writer in 742 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 2: the Gross Room. She's our producer, extraordinary, she's incredible. We 743 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 2: love to have her in our life. So I'm really 744 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 2: excited for he like. 745 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:36,040 Speaker 1: She's gonna like this. So a couple that is scientists 746 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 1: at the University of Florida have just been arrested for 747 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 1: locking their kids in cages. 748 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, this story is absolutely horrible. So this little boy 749 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 2: went to school and told his teacher he did not 750 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,919 Speaker 2: want to go home because his parents were locking him 751 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 2: in a cage. So then the teacher calls the police, 752 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 2: and they were accompanied by a social worker and go 753 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 2: into the house to which they find two cages. One 754 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:02,960 Speaker 2: was from a wooden crate, I believe, and then the 755 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:06,480 Speaker 2: second one was from an old crib. So these parents 756 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 2: were locking their six year old and their two year 757 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 2: old in these cages, and the mother didn't even deny it. 758 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,760 Speaker 2: She explained about the six year old that his behavior 759 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 2: was so bad and no daycare would take him, and 760 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 2: she didn't know how to control them, so she put 761 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 2: him in there, but. 762 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,799 Speaker 3: Only for a couple hours. What's the big deal? They 763 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 3: would let him out after work. 764 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 1: Like That's the scariest part is that, like she didn't 765 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,239 Speaker 1: think anything was wrong with this, Like I guess she 766 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,360 Speaker 1: was working from home or something and couldn't put the 767 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,480 Speaker 1: kid in daycare and she had to get worke done. 768 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, you know what I would be 769 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 1: a really interesting show actually is to if we could 770 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 1: somehow talk to teachers and just say, like, what are 771 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: some outrageous things that you've heard from kids that are 772 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,879 Speaker 1: totally off the wall like this, Like imagine because sixth grade, 773 00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 1: the kids what in first grade? And the kid goes 774 00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,560 Speaker 1: up to his teacher and says that, Like, how do 775 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: you even respond to that if you're just like a 776 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 1: regular person hearing something like that. 777 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 2: Also, how do you decipher from truth and fiction? Because 778 00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 2: kids like say a lot of stuff, But I guess 779 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 2: you have to look into it. 780 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't know. And this situation came true. 781 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 2: So then the two year old, they found that the 782 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 2: six year old explained to the officers that the parents 783 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,879 Speaker 2: would put his two year old little brother in this 784 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 2: upside down old crib in their bedroom closet, and there 785 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 2: was a mattress turned upside down with all these springs 786 00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,200 Speaker 2: popping out of it, so extremely dangerous to a toddler 787 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 2: and not right. 788 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 3: So these people have been arrested. 789 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 2: And what I was saying earlier about questional choices is 790 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 2: that they're only on like leave of absence from their 791 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 2: job or something. Yeah, like wouldn't you be fired immediately? 792 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 1: I don't know how it works. I mean, obviously, like 793 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,719 Speaker 1: their attorney is saying that the use of cages is 794 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 1: grossly misrepresented, and I don't know if because I guess 795 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,799 Speaker 1: if they wrongfully fire them without them having really been 796 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: convicted of a crime yet, then maybe they can get 797 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,240 Speaker 1: in trouble for that too. I don't know how it works. 798 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 1: It's just what's alarming to me is like, listen, like 799 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 1: I've worked with scientists my entire life, and along with myself, 800 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: almost every scientist I know is like weird, right, but 801 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: not in a like lock your kids in cages kind 802 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,799 Speaker 1: of way, just in like like a star trek kind 803 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 1: of way. I don't know. It's just it's alarming to 804 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,400 Speaker 1: me because I think, Okay, these people are scientists, they 805 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:37,720 Speaker 1: are educated, they know that this isn't right. So what's 806 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 1: gone on there that they did it with two different children? 807 00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: And it's always more alarming when two parents, like two adults, 808 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:50,000 Speaker 1: two educated people are doing something together. It's because there's 809 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,319 Speaker 1: not one being like, this isn't right, we shouldn't do this, 810 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: talking sense into the other one. That's perfect example of 811 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,360 Speaker 1: like two people that should never have gotten together in 812 00:42:59,400 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: this world. 813 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 2: No, it's disgusting, and the mother's pleading not guilty. I'm 814 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 2: not sure where the father stands on it, but she 815 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,439 Speaker 2: really doesn't think she's done anything wrong by it at all. 816 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 2: And I think there could be an argument of like 817 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 2: a homemade contraption versus a playpen, but like, no, you can't. Yeah, 818 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 2: like I like, she can't justify this at all. 819 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 3: It's disgusting. 820 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I see, like putting a gate over the steps 821 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 1: because you don't want the kid to like fall down 822 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,799 Speaker 1: the steps. But it's not even cool if you have 823 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: a huge bedroom to shut the door and lock the 824 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 1: kid in the room, Like it's. 825 00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:32,240 Speaker 3: Just you can't. 826 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:36,839 Speaker 2: You can't trap a child under a crib that's hearted 827 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 2: upside down, like in no world is this script? 828 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: No, it's not all right. This next case is is 829 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,360 Speaker 1: it happened at the shore we go to multiple times 830 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,240 Speaker 1: a year in the summer in New Jersey, in Ocean City, 831 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,279 Speaker 1: New Jersey, where you want to tell them a little 832 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:53,320 Speaker 1: bit about what happened. 833 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,239 Speaker 2: When I opened this in our document the other day, 834 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,239 Speaker 2: it was right before I went to bed and I 835 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 2: read the person so it was like, this is not 836 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 2: good to go to bed too. So this happened in 837 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,840 Speaker 2: Ocean City, New Jersey, which is in Cape May County. 838 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 2: So this forty six year old male called nine one 839 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 2: one and said that he had killed his mother, and 840 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 2: it seems like there was a history of severe mental 841 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 2: illness going on with this person. So they get to 842 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 2: his apartment in Ocean City and find him naked, covered 843 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,839 Speaker 2: in blood over the headless, dead body of his mother. 844 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, so when first responders came, that's what they walked into. 845 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: And in a beautiful, short town, it's I'm sure it 846 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: was very unexpected for them to see that. They looked 847 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 1: at security footage and saw that the woman's head was 848 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 1: thrown out of the apartment into the hallway, and then 849 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: he kind of like peeked through later and then ended 850 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 1: up going pulling his mother's dead body into the hallway, 851 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 1: and I guess that's when he decided to call nine 852 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 1: one one. 853 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 2: The visuals of this are so disturbing, like it makes 854 00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 2: me sick to even think about. Yeah, I'm sure they 855 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:05,359 Speaker 2: so rarely see crimes of this caliber down there, so 856 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 2: this is a Yeah, I don't. 857 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 1: I can't. It's pretty chill down there, and they don't. 858 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 1: I mean they have I'm sure they have their their 859 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 1: share of things happening, but this was probably like a 860 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 1: nice little shock right before the holidays. 861 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 2: Imagine living in the apartment building and just like leaving 862 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 2: your house to go out, and like it actually says. 863 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: Exactly where it happened, so I like, I'm trying to 864 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 1: visualize it because it's right in the heart of town, 865 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 1: so it's not really said at least it's not like 866 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 1: on season, so there's not really a lot of people 867 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:44,400 Speaker 1: down there right now. Yeah, okay, but this next story 868 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 1: is about this guy that was impaled with a golf club, 869 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,360 Speaker 1: So do you want to talk about this? Yeah, this 870 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,719 Speaker 1: guy is a former ballet dancer and he is working 871 00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 1: at a grocery store as a clerk and first responders 872 00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 1: found him with a golf club impaled through his torso, so. 873 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 2: They've arrested a forty four year old suspect and it 874 00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 2: was a six hour standoff at a nearby apartment. So 875 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 2: this is just a really bizarre situation. I'm thinking of 876 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,840 Speaker 2: getting impaled with a golf club, don't you feel like 877 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 2: it'd be a little hard to get through somebody? 878 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:30,320 Speaker 1: Yes, I do, but it depends just because it depends 879 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 1: what the shape of the end of it was. But no, 880 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 1: I mean, it just depends on what the shape of it. 881 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,279 Speaker 1: It's a long metal stick and if you push it 882 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 1: hard enough through somebody, you can do it. And we see. Yeah, 883 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:49,480 Speaker 1: I've seen injuries a few times reported of people getting 884 00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,799 Speaker 1: beat up with golf clubs, never stabbed with one and 885 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,760 Speaker 1: stuck through their body and killed them. They were saying 886 00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 1: that there was a significant amount of blood at the scene, 887 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 1: So I'm assuming they that the golf club nick to 888 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,719 Speaker 1: the a order or a major branch coming off of it, 889 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,399 Speaker 1: and that's he bled to death right then and there. 890 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:13,800 Speaker 1: But how how freak and tragic it is? Definitely okay. 891 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:19,240 Speaker 1: So another disturbing story involving a nurse slash hospital worker 892 00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 1: that is just doing the most unconsciouable things to patients. 893 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,399 Speaker 1: Do you want to you want to talk about this guy? 894 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,799 Speaker 2: Christopher Lambros was just sentenced to twenty two years in 895 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 2: prison for sexually assaulting multiple female patients that were unconscious 896 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 2: in the ICU. So this story is so incredibly disturbing. 897 00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 2: In July of twenty twenty two, an employee had walked 898 00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 2: in to the room and had found him, I'm assuming, 899 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:52,839 Speaker 2: performing oral sex of some type on an unconscious woman 900 00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,880 Speaker 2: by the way the scene was described, and trying to 901 00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,400 Speaker 2: take a selfie of him doing it with her exposed 902 00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:02,480 Speaker 2: genitals and breast, and then he was he was questioned 903 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 2: and he said that it was a misunderstanding. It's always 904 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:06,800 Speaker 2: like a misunderstanding. 905 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 1: Miss He said he had a misunderstanding with a coworker, 906 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 1: meaning like I think he was saying like he was 907 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 1: having problems with a coworker and she was trying to 908 00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,719 Speaker 1: make it seem like more than what it really was. 909 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:20,440 Speaker 3: That's Yea's how I right. 910 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 2: So investigators took his phone and found, of course, thousands 911 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,360 Speaker 2: of pictures of him just assaulting women. He was just 912 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,879 Speaker 2: taking videos and pictures of him just doing horrible things 913 00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 2: to these unconscious women. Most of them were around your 914 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:39,400 Speaker 2: age and older, and they believe they identified thirteen different 915 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 2: victims between all of his photos, but they've only been 916 00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 2: able to identify. 917 00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:43,879 Speaker 3: Five of them. 918 00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and on the videos, he was saying like really 919 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:51,400 Speaker 1: disturbing stuff about how this was part of his dexter collection, 920 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 1: and he was also on there saying don't ever get 921 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 1: rid of these videos, like what a freaking weirdo. 922 00:48:58,680 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, he is weird. 923 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 2: And so all these pictures are dated between twenty twenty 924 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,920 Speaker 2: one and twenty twenty two, but they're thinking, based on 925 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 2: other information they've received, that this has been happening since 926 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 2: twenty sixteen. So if they've found thirteen victims between a 927 00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,839 Speaker 2: one year period, then like how many more are there? 928 00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, but like, again, really cool that your 929 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,200 Speaker 1: your family member is sick and dying in the ICU 930 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:27,000 Speaker 1: and some megacreepster perv is giving oral sex to her 931 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,720 Speaker 1: and then think about getting a phone call that this happened. 932 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,799 Speaker 1: This is what you have to This is what you 933 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,239 Speaker 1: have to deal with, Like it it's so messed up. 934 00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's what we've talked about the last two 935 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 2: weeks with these disgusting perverts that are just like doing 936 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,279 Speaker 2: necrophilia and everything, because you know, three of these, three 937 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,760 Speaker 2: of these victims that have been identified have to seased 938 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 2: since these pictures were taken, and it's like now they 939 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,640 Speaker 2: have to notify the families. I just what closure can 940 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 2: you ever get knowing that your loved one was violated 941 00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:00,800 Speaker 2: in such a horrible way, And how as the other women, 942 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 2: how are you living knowing you were in such a 943 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,920 Speaker 2: vulnerable state and supposed to be in the care of 944 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 2: trusted employees, only to be violated when you were knocked out. 945 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 1: Like is like porn and hand jobs like old fashion? 946 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,520 Speaker 1: Now is that it is the new thing? Like let's 947 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:20,240 Speaker 1: like have sex with with severely unconscious people or dead people? 948 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 1: What's going on with that? 949 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,359 Speaker 2: I mean, I think this is a fetish that's been 950 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 2: happening for hundreds of years, but just with social media 951 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 2: and everything, we're just hearing about it a lot more 952 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 2: so I don't really know. And now you know, the 953 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 2: Internet's designed to give you your niche kinks, right, so 954 00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,560 Speaker 2: everybody's able to look up exactly the content they want. 955 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:45,400 Speaker 2: And I think it's something we've discussed in past interviews 956 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,360 Speaker 2: with like doctor shaham das we had in the grocer 957 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,400 Speaker 2: room a couple of months ago. That these things build, 958 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,759 Speaker 2: like people might look these things up on like the 959 00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,320 Speaker 2: quote unquote Dark Web and everything, and then it escalates 960 00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,439 Speaker 2: to them doing it in person, and it's just keeps 961 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:04,360 Speaker 2: escalating and escalating because once they're fetish is fueled, it 962 00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,600 Speaker 2: just starts getting to a point where it's never enough, 963 00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 2: so you have to go to like the next extreme, 964 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,840 Speaker 2: which was a case with Jeffrey Dahmer. 965 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,399 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I just I'm sorry, I can't wrap 966 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: my head around it. And I'd liked it. I'd actually 967 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,640 Speaker 1: would like to talk to other nurses that worked with him, 968 00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,520 Speaker 1: because I doubt that he was completely normal and this 969 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 1: was like the one weird thing that he did. I'm 970 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: sure he was like way off and it probably you 971 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: always work with a person that you're like, eh, like 972 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:36,680 Speaker 1: they're a little like they're not normal, and I just 973 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm curious about that. 974 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,799 Speaker 2: And this is another case where he was suspended, which 975 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,840 Speaker 2: I understand that he has to be proven guilty, but like, 976 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:44,879 Speaker 2: come on. 977 00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: Unreal, Okay, this case happened right near my mom's house. Actually, 978 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: there was a six year old kid came home from 979 00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 1: school and said that they were visibly upset and said 980 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:02,759 Speaker 1: that the school bus age to strangle them. And they 981 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: called the police obviously, and at the same time the 982 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 1: bus driver that was driving around the assistant and the child, 983 00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 1: I guess they contacted police as well and said that 984 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,960 Speaker 1: they had seen something like this, and they looked at 985 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 1: the surveillance film and sure enough, it looked like this 986 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 1: assistant bus driver was strangling this kid for about seven 987 00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 1: seconds after he was trying to get a seatbelt on. 988 00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:32,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so the driver had seen the act happening and immediately, 989 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 2: when returning to the bus terminal, had reported the incident 990 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,439 Speaker 2: to his superiors. And then when the kid got home 991 00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:41,400 Speaker 2: he had marks on him and everything. And then they 992 00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,560 Speaker 2: checked the surveillance footage on the bus and saw exactly 993 00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 2: what happened. And the guy that was he was in 994 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 2: his seventy two year old aid on the bus was 995 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,200 Speaker 2: the guy that did in. He voluntarily turned himself in. 996 00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:56,879 Speaker 2: But how absolutely disgusting. 997 00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,879 Speaker 1: Well, you know this went okay, hey, because this could 998 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: have the kid could have passed out. I mean within 999 00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:07,319 Speaker 1: five seconds of closing off the karateid artery you can 1000 00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:11,200 Speaker 1: you can pass out. And he could have caused a 1001 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,879 Speaker 1: serious brain injury to this kid, if not death. And 1002 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: that's what's a lot of these stories are that you know, 1003 00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:22,800 Speaker 1: when your children leave your When your children leave you, 1004 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,719 Speaker 1: you're trusting other adults to take care of them, and 1005 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,040 Speaker 1: this kind of stuff happens because there's always and you 1006 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,719 Speaker 1: don't know this situation, Like the guy could have had 1007 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:35,640 Speaker 1: a really bad day and just broke up with his 1008 00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:39,280 Speaker 1: wife or something and was just like just flipped the switch. 1009 00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 1: He could have been fine all the time. It's just 1010 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 1: like you never and not justifying that at all, but 1011 00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,919 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, you don't ever know what's going 1012 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:52,000 Speaker 1: on in people's lives, and sometimes people like like with 1013 00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,720 Speaker 1: the story we just talked about, a person's a nurse 1014 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: and is doing stuff like this. They're there to help, 1015 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: and they're there and they're actually hurting. This guy's there 1016 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,239 Speaker 1: to help and he's hurting like it happens. It's just 1017 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,399 Speaker 1: so scary, especially if I to your kid. 1018 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:09,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I can't imagine like I've I've obviously, because 1019 00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 2: I'm human, had times in my life where I've gotten 1020 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 2: really angry at a person, but I've never felt the 1021 00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 2: urge to like harm them. It's just this really insane 1022 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,520 Speaker 2: thing to hurt a child, like such a little kid, Like, 1023 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:25,359 Speaker 2: what are they possibly doing that Lawren's joking them. 1024 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. All right, this this next story is 1025 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,320 Speaker 1: probably up there with one of my favorites of the week. 1026 00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:35,960 Speaker 1: There was there was a cop and he was at 1027 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,640 Speaker 1: a sex store with his wife and they were in line, 1028 00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 1: and then he started talking about how the wife didn't 1029 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 1: need fake penises to put him to shame, and they 1030 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,880 Speaker 1: were having an argument and he looked like he was 1031 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,399 Speaker 1: going to slap his wife when the clerk stepped in 1032 00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,799 Speaker 1: and tried to get them to stop fighting, and the 1033 00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,320 Speaker 1: cop ended up like giving the guy beat down in 1034 00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 1: the dildo store. 1035 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, he like beat the shit out of the clerk 1036 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,359 Speaker 2: and then like classic temper tantrum, like threw merch all 1037 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:10,200 Speaker 2: over the place. 1038 00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:14,520 Speaker 1: So he was throwing dildo's at the guy basically, Yeah, 1039 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:15,359 Speaker 1: like I. 1040 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,320 Speaker 3: Can't even imagine responding to the scene. 1041 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 2: So it's like he like beats the shit out of 1042 00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:24,279 Speaker 2: this guy because his wife clearly wants something better and electronic. 1043 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,120 Speaker 2: And then they speed away and he gets pulled over 1044 00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 2: and they get the call at the same time. So 1045 00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,359 Speaker 2: they were like all right, like, we know you did this. 1046 00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 1: Yes, they pulled him over for speeding, and then the 1047 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 1: call came in that he beat down the sex toy 1048 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 1: shop worker and that's when you get in trouble. But 1049 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 1: the best part of the story, though, is that TMZ 1050 00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:46,800 Speaker 1: had said that there was no word if his wife 1051 00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:51,200 Speaker 1: got the toy that she wanted pull through Santa Dude. 1052 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:55,160 Speaker 2: Like I most people don't realize that TMZ is actually 1053 00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,759 Speaker 2: a really like credible news source. But when you read 1054 00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:02,319 Speaker 2: these articles, you're like, what goes on in these people's minds? 1055 00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 2: They're just written so insane, Like the headlines, like do 1056 00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,799 Speaker 2: you ever see ones that there is a story we 1057 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,560 Speaker 2: cut this week about Amanda Bynes getting eyelid surgery and 1058 00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:13,720 Speaker 2: it will be like Amanda Bines gets eyelid surgery. 1059 00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:15,640 Speaker 3: You okay, Hunt, Yeah, I know they do. 1060 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 1: They do write like really funny things like that. All right, 1061 00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,640 Speaker 1: So this case that we're going to talk about next 1062 00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:27,240 Speaker 1: is an old case of Casey Anthony, and we'll briefly 1063 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:31,040 Speaker 1: talk about it because eventually we'll like really get into 1064 00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,320 Speaker 1: depth with this case. I think anybody that's that lives 1065 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,759 Speaker 1: on the planet Earth has heard about this. You want 1066 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,160 Speaker 1: to get into what's going on with this case. I 1067 00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:43,680 Speaker 1: only want you talking about Casey Anthony and Nancy's voice 1068 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:48,319 Speaker 1: and referring to that as top Mom, top Mom, Casey Anthony. 1069 00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:48,839 Speaker 3: Top Mom. 1070 00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 2: Casey Anthony murdered her child in two thousand. Well, she 1071 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:55,680 Speaker 2: was accused of murdering her child in two thousand and eight, 1072 00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,880 Speaker 2: and it's pretty obvious to most people she was guilty. 1073 00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:01,719 Speaker 2: But now there's she was acquitted ultimately and nobody's been 1074 00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 2: convicted of this crime. We will get into all the 1075 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:08,560 Speaker 2: nitty gritty about it later, but there's all this speculation 1076 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,080 Speaker 2: that her parents were involved and her dad had been 1077 00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,480 Speaker 2: molesting her. So now A and E is coming out 1078 00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,239 Speaker 2: with a special in a couple of weeks where her 1079 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,680 Speaker 2: parents are going to take a light detector test in 1080 00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 2: this documentary. 1081 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I like, listen, I think that there's mounting 1082 00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 1: evidence that shows that she was somehow involved with this 1083 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,200 Speaker 1: kid dying, but so were her parents. I'm sorry, like 1084 00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 1: that whatever was going on there was like completely weird. 1085 00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:36,960 Speaker 1: How they've been acting afterwards, completely weird, not normal at all. 1086 00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 1: So I I mean, the thing is with a polygraph 1087 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 1: test is that they're they're not even I don't even 1088 00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,360 Speaker 1: think they hold up in court because they're they're wrong 1089 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,880 Speaker 1: all the time. And I really think that if you're 1090 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,680 Speaker 1: some kind of a sociopath that you could easily beat 1091 00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:52,920 Speaker 1: those things because they don't. They base it on your 1092 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,479 Speaker 1: heart rate and everything like that. 1093 00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 2: Like those Yeah, those things are inadmissible evidence anymore. Same 1094 00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:02,160 Speaker 2: with blood spatter, and now they don't count, like you could, 1095 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 2: you could try to submit them or whatever, but they 1096 00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 2: don't count because exactly what you just said, certain people 1097 00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,480 Speaker 2: with certain personality types are able to beat those things 1098 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 2: because it is by your heart rate and everything. So 1099 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,720 Speaker 2: people that are like sociopathic, whatever the proper terminology is, 1100 00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:20,560 Speaker 2: are able to. 1101 00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,440 Speaker 1: So what's going to happen, Like, okay, so this is 1102 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,520 Speaker 1: the one or two options. One it's going to be like, oh, 1103 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 1: they're clear they had nothing to do with it, and 1104 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like bullshit. Or it's going to say 1105 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 1: that they had something to do with it, and then 1106 00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, hell, yeah they did. I'm only 1107 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,520 Speaker 1: gonna believe it when it goes my way. But but 1108 00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,200 Speaker 1: that's that's how I feel about it. And it's also 1109 00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,800 Speaker 1: kind of gross because, like, let's say, from their perspective, 1110 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 1: they've already taken this, probably right, because this is airing 1111 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:52,920 Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks, so they've probably already taken this. 1112 00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:57,920 Speaker 1: So like, what if it does say that they really 1113 00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,080 Speaker 1: want that information going out there that they. 1114 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:04,000 Speaker 2: Listen, you and I both know that it's gonna say 1115 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,400 Speaker 2: they're not involved, and they would never have agreed to 1116 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,160 Speaker 2: this unless it was going to be in their favor 1117 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,000 Speaker 2: or they're telling the truth and they know it's going 1118 00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 2: to be in their favor because the truth's on their side, 1119 00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:18,560 Speaker 2: although that's not possible. This is retaliation because last year 1120 00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,960 Speaker 2: Peacock had released a series about Casey Anthony and her 1121 00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 2: side of the truth, and honestly, as somebody that's followed 1122 00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,720 Speaker 2: this case pretty much my entire true crime loving life, 1123 00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,880 Speaker 2: I my perspective changed slightly during that, and we did 1124 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 2: a whole recap about that last year when it came out. 1125 00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 2: But I'm not saying she was innocent one hundred percent, 1126 00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:42,840 Speaker 2: but I'm feeling a little different about the dead So, oh. 1127 00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's definitely something weird. And listen, I've known this 1128 00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,880 Speaker 1: from the beginning because I was I was a teen 1129 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,320 Speaker 1: mom too, and I lived with my parents too. So 1130 00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,800 Speaker 1: I could speak from one hundred percent experience of like 1131 00:59:56,320 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 1: what that situation was likee living in a house, like 1132 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,240 Speaker 1: raising your kid with the grandparents still there and everything. 1133 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,760 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you the biggest red flag is 1134 01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 1: when when that kid was missing for one day, Like 1135 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 1: if that was our life, MO, mom would have intervened 1136 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 1: on day one. And I don't know why it took 1137 01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:21,680 Speaker 1: thirty days for her mom to finally call the cops. 1138 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:26,160 Speaker 1: So right there, it's like if you have your grandchild 1139 01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,080 Speaker 1: living in the house and the daughter is acting like 1140 01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,280 Speaker 1: maybe you're not scared that the daughter's gonna hurt the kid, 1141 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 1: but the daughter's like just partying and doing this and that, 1142 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,200 Speaker 1: and you're like just scared that the kid's like not 1143 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,680 Speaker 1: in the best loving situation at that time. You're gonna 1144 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:44,400 Speaker 1: be on top of that and try to find that 1145 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:48,000 Speaker 1: kid and not let some kid that the kid probably 1146 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,480 Speaker 1: lied her whole life, right Like, Mom, she's fine, she's 1147 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:52,919 Speaker 1: fine for like thirty days before you call the cops. 1148 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,800 Speaker 1: I just there's that didn't pass the smell test for 1149 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:57,560 Speaker 1: me right away. 1150 01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:01,240 Speaker 2: So the Peacock SERI he's really helped me see that 1151 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,360 Speaker 2: she was a really young woman with a father that 1152 01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:08,280 Speaker 2: was really intimidating, and I think all three involved have 1153 01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,480 Speaker 2: some level of guilt. Yeah, they're all gross, and it 1154 01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,920 Speaker 2: can't all be pinned on a young person that was 1155 01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:18,200 Speaker 2: intimidated by their parents. Yeah, that's all I'm gonna leave 1156 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:18,360 Speaker 2: it with. 1157 01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. All right, So moving on the medical news, 1158 01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:23,560 Speaker 1: we have a super weird story. 1159 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:28,040 Speaker 2: So this twenty six year old was conceived by IVF 1160 01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 2: and so was her younger sister, which I believe this 1161 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:34,400 Speaker 2: sister was twenty three r eight three years younger. So 1162 01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 2: she was saying that she wrote this personal essay that 1163 01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,440 Speaker 2: she thought that it was really cool that she was 1164 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 2: conceived by IVF and that her parents had left over embryos, 1165 01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:48,480 Speaker 2: and she had been worried about fertility struggles in her 1166 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 2: own life, so she had briefly considered maybe carrying one 1167 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 2: of her parents' other embryo. 1168 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 1: Yes, like there just has to be a line drawn 1169 01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,880 Speaker 1: right now of like weird shit, and this crosses the line. 1170 01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:02,240 Speaker 3: How long can you keep embryos? 1171 01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,760 Speaker 1: They they could stay a long time. I mean, I 1172 01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:09,040 Speaker 1: think I get what the concern is is that they're 1173 01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:12,360 Speaker 1: sitting there and you would want to do something with them, 1174 01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: and I like how the end of this article says 1175 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,440 Speaker 1: that I don't know if the parents want to start 1176 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:19,920 Speaker 1: something like this or something like this already exists, that 1177 01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:24,160 Speaker 1: there's like an embryo adoption thing because IVF could be 1178 01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,800 Speaker 1: so expensive for some people. So instead of having to 1179 01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 1: pay for that whole part of the process, it's already 1180 01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:32,760 Speaker 1: done for you if you want to donate the rest 1181 01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:35,280 Speaker 1: of the eggs, but the thing or the rest of 1182 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:38,920 Speaker 1: the embryos. But the problem is is that like if 1183 01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:42,800 Speaker 1: you let's say they have five more leftover or two 1184 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:46,600 Speaker 1: more leftover, whatever, it's like they're they're full siblings, and 1185 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 1: it's just weird to think the whole the whole thing 1186 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:52,320 Speaker 1: of it is crazy. But I am I am for 1187 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:56,800 Speaker 1: this whatever, just because of you know, people need help 1188 01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:58,320 Speaker 1: having a baby if they want to have a baby, 1189 01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 1: and that's totally fine, but the whole like she wants 1190 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:05,280 Speaker 1: to carry she she briefly considered carrying. 1191 01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:07,919 Speaker 2: Now it's just like at the end of the day, 1192 01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 2: she wanted a TikTok viral video and well it weren't 1193 01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:14,720 Speaker 2: what her parents plan to do. If they want to 1194 01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:18,000 Speaker 2: plan to adopt the embryos out in some capacity, I 1195 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:22,200 Speaker 2: think that's a really awesome, admirable thing. But her saying 1196 01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,480 Speaker 2: what she said, if she's not actually planning on going 1197 01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:28,640 Speaker 2: through it, was simply so dummies like us end up 1198 01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,360 Speaker 2: talking about it on our podcast. 1199 01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 1: No, I think I think that there's people that one 1200 01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,560 Speaker 1: hundred percent would do this. I don't think that it's 1201 01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:40,520 Speaker 1: like I don't think it's a lie necessarily, because I've 1202 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 1: heard some personally have heard some really weird shit with that. So, 1203 01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:48,480 Speaker 1: but one interesting part of the article that I had 1204 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:52,480 Speaker 1: never considered, I guess, is that IVF became popular, like 1205 01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:57,600 Speaker 1: has been increasingly popular, and I just never thought about, 1206 01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:00,600 Speaker 1: like how you would feel if you were conceived to 1207 01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 1: be an IVF, Like I like, if mom and pop 1208 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,040 Speaker 1: up came up to me right now and said, oh 1209 01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:08,920 Speaker 1: you were you were an IVF baby, and we didn't 1210 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 1: actually like I don't even want to think about this, 1211 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,480 Speaker 1: but you know, do what you have to do to 1212 01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 1: have well your parents have to do to have a baby. 1213 01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:20,600 Speaker 1: I would just be like, Okay, I don't know who cares, 1214 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:21,800 Speaker 1: Like I don't know that. 1215 01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:25,800 Speaker 2: I feel like it's so common today that who cares 1216 01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:28,480 Speaker 2: but her. She wrote in this essay that her parents 1217 01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:31,320 Speaker 2: felt really insecure about telling her about it, and her dad, 1218 01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,840 Speaker 2: I guess let it slip one day and then they 1219 01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:37,320 Speaker 2: had to tell her everything, and then you know, her 1220 01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:39,600 Speaker 2: and her sister end up thinking it's really cool, and 1221 01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:42,560 Speaker 2: I think it's just so common, Like like I, if 1222 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 2: you told me that was the case with me, I 1223 01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,400 Speaker 2: wouldn't be like, oh my god. 1224 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:49,400 Speaker 1: I had one thing that is cool though, that I 1225 01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:53,400 Speaker 1: hadn't even really considered either, is that she was saying, 1226 01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:57,919 Speaker 1: like her, so when you have IBF, they let's say 1227 01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 1: you have five embryos there, they're going to pick one first, right, 1228 01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:05,360 Speaker 1: and then you end up being the first born, when really, 1229 01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:07,600 Speaker 1: if they picked another one, like your sister would have 1230 01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:10,800 Speaker 1: been the older sister. It's just like it's it's like 1231 01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:13,520 Speaker 1: a really weird that's kind of a weird thing because 1232 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:16,280 Speaker 1: I did. I also read a study this week about 1233 01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 1: children and birth order and like how certain personalities have 1234 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,640 Speaker 1: to do with birth order, and that was it was 1235 01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:26,280 Speaker 1: just something I never really considered. But as kids get older, 1236 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,680 Speaker 1: like this girl's twenty six years old now, and more 1237 01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,040 Speaker 1: and more people have this, this will be a discussion 1238 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,760 Speaker 1: that more people will be having. It's kind of interesting. 1239 01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:39,000 Speaker 2: Well, this next one is really interesting too, about this 1240 01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:42,200 Speaker 2: girl that was in an ultrasound class and ended up 1241 01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:43,720 Speaker 2: discovering her own cancer. 1242 01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she was a first year medical student and 1243 01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,400 Speaker 1: just playing around with the ultrasound learning how to do 1244 01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 1: ultrasounds and doing the thyroid because it's a pretty easy 1245 01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:58,080 Speaker 1: accessible gland to look at, and they saw a nodule. 1246 01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,840 Speaker 1: The teacher was like, Okay, it's it's really common for 1247 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,360 Speaker 1: people to have nodules, which it is, but just why 1248 01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:04,760 Speaker 1: don't you go to the doctor and just get it 1249 01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:07,000 Speaker 1: checked out just in case, because that's what you're supposed 1250 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,880 Speaker 1: to do. And she went, she had blood work done, 1251 01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 1: the blood work was normal, and then she had some 1252 01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:15,040 Speaker 1: kind of problem with her health insurance and didn't go 1253 01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:17,320 Speaker 1: back for almost a year, and then when she went back, 1254 01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,440 Speaker 1: it ended up being stage one papillary thyroid cancer. 1255 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:23,000 Speaker 3: So what is that. 1256 01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,960 Speaker 1: Well, if you if you were able to go to 1257 01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:29,760 Speaker 1: a hospital and pick a cancer to get, it's one 1258 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,600 Speaker 1: of the better ones to get. There's if it's confined 1259 01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,960 Speaker 1: to the thyroid, there's like one hundred percent chance of 1260 01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,480 Speaker 1: survival at five years, and even if it spreads to 1261 01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 1: the lymph nodes in the neck, it's still like a 1262 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:44,000 Speaker 1: super high percentage of survival rate. But it's just it's 1263 01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:47,680 Speaker 1: it's cancer that it's actually kind of crazy because you 1264 01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:53,120 Speaker 1: can get papillary thyroid cancer from exposure to radiation. So like, 1265 01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:56,480 Speaker 1: for example, another high profile death disseection we wrote about 1266 01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 1: in the gross Room about chernobyl, which was that was 1267 01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,760 Speaker 1: like super interesting to research, but those people had just 1268 01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 1: like a super high increase of thyroid cancer that were 1269 01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 1: exposed to radiation. But the weird thing is is that 1270 01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:17,160 Speaker 1: to treat to treat thyroid cancer, you will actually give radiation. 1271 01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:22,080 Speaker 1: It's it's just kind of like an interesting Oh that's weird. Yeah, 1272 01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:26,760 Speaker 1: it's interesting. So so yeah, that's it. Well they give 1273 01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:30,560 Speaker 1: something called radioactive iodine. But it's that's just like one 1274 01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:33,160 Speaker 1: of the things that I remember from school. It's it's 1275 01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:36,120 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes things in medicine are just weird like that. 1276 01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:39,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, she'll she'll be fine that something similar like 1277 01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:42,640 Speaker 1: that happen. Not the same. But when I was working 1278 01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:45,560 Speaker 1: in cytology, I used to go on thyroid ultrasounds all 1279 01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 1: the time, and one of the radiologists there was just like, Nicole, 1280 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,120 Speaker 1: your neck looks really big. Let me let me ultra sound. 1281 01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:55,320 Speaker 1: You're thyroid, and I was like, okay, and she looked 1282 01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:56,880 Speaker 1: at it and she's like, yeah, you look like you 1283 01:07:56,920 --> 01:08:00,000 Speaker 1: have Hashimoto thyroid iitis. It's it's just like an autoimmune 1284 01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:02,840 Speaker 1: thyroid condition. This was back like when I was twenty, 1285 01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,160 Speaker 1: and I just I just thought that that was like 1286 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,720 Speaker 1: really cool that she like looked at my neck and 1287 01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:12,040 Speaker 1: thought it looked big and was able to identify that. Yeah. 1288 01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:16,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, like this this woman will be okay, and 1289 01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,360 Speaker 1: it's kind of a cool story to tell on her 1290 01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:20,040 Speaker 1: journey as a medical student. 1291 01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,160 Speaker 2: Okay, we got to get into the other death stories 1292 01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:26,719 Speaker 2: because this, like first one, is one of my favorite 1293 01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 2: stories of the week. 1294 01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: Okay, So my one of my neighbors next door to 1295 01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:36,240 Speaker 1: me sent me this, this story that she had seen 1296 01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:41,880 Speaker 1: in her feed on Facebook, and I was automatically like, 1297 01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:43,840 Speaker 1: oh my god, we have to talk about this. But 1298 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,080 Speaker 1: when we looked it up, actually it ended up being 1299 01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:48,040 Speaker 1: an old story. I don't know how it showed up 1300 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 1: in her feed, but like, honestly I never heard it, 1301 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,280 Speaker 1: and I thought, okay, we have to share this with 1302 01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:56,240 Speaker 1: you guys. It was from when twenty eighteen or something. 1303 01:08:57,120 --> 01:09:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is an honest oh bitch that went viral, 1304 01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:02,599 Speaker 2: and I'm going to read it for you. 1305 01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:04,719 Speaker 3: You ready, It's so Kathleen. 1306 01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:10,360 Speaker 2: Kathleen Demlow was born on March nineteenth, nineteen thirty eight, 1307 01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:15,920 Speaker 2: to Joseph and Gertrude Skunk of Wabaso. She married Dennis 1308 01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,880 Speaker 2: at Saint Anne's and Mobaso in nineteen fifty seven and 1309 01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:22,679 Speaker 2: had two children, Gina and Jay. Normal so far, see 1310 01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:27,280 Speaker 2: where it gets juicy. In nineteen sixty two, she became 1311 01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:31,720 Speaker 2: pregnant by her husband's brother, Lyle, and moved to California. 1312 01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:34,760 Speaker 2: She abandoned her children, Gina and Jay, who were then 1313 01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:38,599 Speaker 2: raised by her parents and clemens Mister and Missus Joseph Schunk. 1314 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,680 Speaker 2: She passed away on May thirty first, twenty eighteen, in 1315 01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,680 Speaker 2: Springfield and will now face judgment. She will not be 1316 01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:47,559 Speaker 2: missed by Gina and Jay, and they understand that this 1317 01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:49,240 Speaker 2: world is a better place without her. 1318 01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:52,160 Speaker 1: That's so great, It's so. 1319 01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:55,640 Speaker 2: The obituary was actually denied by a couple of publications 1320 01:09:55,720 --> 01:10:00,160 Speaker 2: at first and removed online from Legacy dot. Clown their 1321 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:04,840 Speaker 2: publication and her, the woman that passed Away's sister was 1322 01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:07,080 Speaker 2: really disgusted by it. But the kids are like, we 1323 01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:09,000 Speaker 2: don't give a shit, we got the last word in 1324 01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:10,240 Speaker 2: and we feel great about it. 1325 01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:12,280 Speaker 1: I love that. I thought, I think it's I think 1326 01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:15,320 Speaker 1: it's awesome. And I you know, there there's always this 1327 01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:18,400 Speaker 1: thing that when people die that you that you should 1328 01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:20,400 Speaker 1: be nice or you should be nice and stuff, and 1329 01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:22,320 Speaker 1: it's like, no, if they were a horrible person and 1330 01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:23,559 Speaker 1: fuck them, like I don't care. 1331 01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:27,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, people dying doesn't make the angel sudden exactly exactly 1332 01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:29,519 Speaker 2: if they were a bad person, they don't have to 1333 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,719 Speaker 2: be a good person all of a sudden because they're dead. 1334 01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,519 Speaker 1: So so I thought this cheers city and cheers cities kids, 1335 01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:38,960 Speaker 1: and you want to give you a hair or you. 1336 01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:41,639 Speaker 2: Better watch it because I'm going to be ready. 1337 01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:46,840 Speaker 1: Okay this here's another story that's that's local to us, 1338 01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:52,519 Speaker 1: that there was a child wrongfully cremated. So this girl 1339 01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:54,920 Speaker 1: when she was she was just born at twenty seven 1340 01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 1: weeks and had cerebral palsy and then as a teenager, 1341 01:10:58,000 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 1: her mother went to go wake her up one day. 1342 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:01,760 Speaker 1: Her brother went to the wake hero up one day 1343 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 1: and she was called to touch so they she ended 1344 01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:08,559 Speaker 1: up being deceased, and because she was a young person 1345 01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:11,800 Speaker 1: that Emmy and investigators had to get involved to make 1346 01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:16,680 Speaker 1: sure to rule out no foul play. So basically, she 1347 01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:20,759 Speaker 1: was brought to the Philadelphia Medical Examiner's office, and for 1348 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:24,280 Speaker 1: forty one days the parents weren't getting any communication. They 1349 01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,960 Speaker 1: were trying to retrieve the body for burial, and it 1350 01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:29,840 Speaker 1: turns out that against their wishes, she had been cremated. 1351 01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:34,000 Speaker 1: All right, So I'm trying to figure out what happened 1352 01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:39,040 Speaker 1: here because I know a little bit about their procedures. 1353 01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:43,519 Speaker 1: When when the mom found and the brother found the 1354 01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:48,559 Speaker 1: daughter dead, they called nine one one. I'm assuming they 1355 01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:53,160 Speaker 1: called nine one one or they called because who else 1356 01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:55,360 Speaker 1: would they call. They wouldn't call the medical examiner and 1357 01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:58,040 Speaker 1: have to call nine. So they called nine one one. 1358 01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:01,080 Speaker 1: The police come, the ambulance came. They pronounced this kid 1359 01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:04,160 Speaker 1: dead and they said, okay, we're going to do an 1360 01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:08,240 Speaker 1: autopsy because she's sixteen and this and that, and they 1361 01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:11,880 Speaker 1: bring the body to the medical examiner. Now, when when 1362 01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:16,280 Speaker 1: the body goes to the medical Examiner's office, that body, 1363 01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,719 Speaker 1: especially because it was being picked up in the child's home, 1364 01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:22,000 Speaker 1: has a name on it, a day of birth and 1365 01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:25,120 Speaker 1: all that stuff. They bring the body to the medical 1366 01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:30,879 Speaker 1: Examiner's office and the medical examiner especially because this child 1367 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:34,960 Speaker 1: has a history of health problems. The next step should 1368 01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 1: have been that they called the child's physician and said, hey, 1369 01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:40,400 Speaker 1: we have this girl. 1370 01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:41,040 Speaker 3: She died. 1371 01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:43,960 Speaker 1: Do you think we need to do an autopsy? Is 1372 01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,639 Speaker 1: there a reason that she could have died? The mom 1373 01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:50,160 Speaker 1: gave them the pediatrician's phone number along with the neurologist's 1374 01:12:50,200 --> 01:12:52,880 Speaker 1: phone number that was taking care of the child, so 1375 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,840 Speaker 1: they were supposed to call them to say, like, cause, like, 1376 01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:58,800 Speaker 1: you don't really want to do an autopsy if you 1377 01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:01,799 Speaker 1: don't have to, And there was no suspicious reasons surrounding 1378 01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:07,800 Speaker 1: the death, and for some reason the paperwork got screwed up. 1379 01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:10,920 Speaker 1: Because that's what happened in this case, that they thought 1380 01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:14,280 Speaker 1: that the child was listed as a Jane Doe and 1381 01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:17,400 Speaker 1: nobody knew who the kid was, and that's why they 1382 01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:20,599 Speaker 1: ended up cremating the kid because they thought that there 1383 01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:25,800 Speaker 1: was nobody claiming this kid. I mean, I just I 1384 01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:28,080 Speaker 1: just look at it as like, I feel terrible for 1385 01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,400 Speaker 1: the mom and I'm glad that she's looking into it 1386 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:32,280 Speaker 1: because it's sloppy in my opinion. 1387 01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:35,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's a huge mess. You can't just 1388 01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:36,120 Speaker 2: do that. 1389 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, And to me, it's just like, I just don't 1390 01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:41,840 Speaker 1: even understand how they would accidentally list her as a 1391 01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:45,679 Speaker 1: Jane Doe when when the mom was there the entire time, 1392 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,439 Speaker 1: and the mom said she called multiple times, and the 1393 01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:51,160 Speaker 1: kid's dad was calling multiple times to be like, hey, 1394 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,800 Speaker 1: what did the autopsy show? Can we release the body? Like, 1395 01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:57,519 Speaker 1: and they were saying she's listed as a Jane Doe 1396 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:01,639 Speaker 1: and the mom's like, I gave them. They know I'm 1397 01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:04,200 Speaker 1: her mom. I gave. I mean, the mom seems like 1398 01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,680 Speaker 1: she was taking care of the kid, bringing her to 1399 01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:11,519 Speaker 1: appointments and everything, and like, how could something like this happen, 1400 01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:14,559 Speaker 1: especially like she didn't give consent for the kid to 1401 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:17,760 Speaker 1: get cremated, And even if she sues them and she 1402 01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:21,120 Speaker 1: wins and everything, you can't ever get that back. And 1403 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:24,320 Speaker 1: a lot of times people have especially really strong like 1404 01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:27,240 Speaker 1: religious beliefs as to how they want things to be 1405 01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:30,840 Speaker 1: carried on after death, and you have to respect that. 1406 01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the family's not going to get the proper 1407 01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:35,599 Speaker 2: closure that they want. It. 1408 01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:37,040 Speaker 3: It's all around a horrible thing. 1409 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just you know, instead of I mean, 1410 01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:42,240 Speaker 1: think about this, like you have a baby premature. The 1411 01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:45,760 Speaker 1: babies had problems their whole life, they cerebral PALSI their 1412 01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:49,679 Speaker 1: entire life, and then and dies kind of unexpectedly suddenly 1413 01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:53,280 Speaker 1: at sixteen years old. How horrible that must be mourning 1414 01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,280 Speaker 1: from that, and then to just have to deal with 1415 01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:59,280 Speaker 1: some bullshit of like you you calling them and them 1416 01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 1: kind of telling you like, oh, we ever listed as 1417 01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:04,880 Speaker 1: a Jane Doe. Well, well that's your fault, that's not 1418 01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:07,720 Speaker 1: my fault, So don't make me feel like shit about that. 1419 01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's one hundred percent not acceptable at all. Yeah. 1420 01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:16,040 Speaker 1: No, Okay, last case again, I feel like we just 1421 01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:19,519 Speaker 1: talked about this last week, right, Yeah, we were talking 1422 01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:23,599 Speaker 1: about so last week we were talking about a mom 1423 01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:28,559 Speaker 1: who had a stillbirth and not that we agree with this, 1424 01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:31,160 Speaker 1: but for whatever reason decided with the remains of the 1425 01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:32,640 Speaker 1: still birth she was going to put it on a 1426 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:37,240 Speaker 1: barbecue grill and incinerate it. She's getting charged with abuse 1427 01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:40,720 Speaker 1: of a corpse, even though it seems like all investigations 1428 01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:45,320 Speaker 1: show that she had she had a miscarriage. This next case, 1429 01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:49,479 Speaker 1: same exact thing is happening again. This time it's in Ohio. 1430 01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:53,720 Speaker 1: Thirty three year old woman started having a miscarriage and 1431 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:57,120 Speaker 1: had a still born at home around twenty two weeks 1432 01:15:56,760 --> 01:16:01,519 Speaker 1: in the toilet, and I guess she, like whatever, freaked 1433 01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:03,439 Speaker 1: out and started trying to flush the toilet, and of 1434 01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:06,760 Speaker 1: course the fetus at twenty two weeks is big and 1435 01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:09,679 Speaker 1: it got stuck in the toilet. And now she's getting 1436 01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:12,240 Speaker 1: charged with like abusive a corpse and stuff, and I'm 1437 01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:15,840 Speaker 1: just like, I just don't I don't think it's right. 1438 01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:17,840 Speaker 1: I think I think it's messed up. So what so 1439 01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:19,560 Speaker 1: if she went to the hospital and they threw it 1440 01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:22,200 Speaker 1: in a biohazard bag, that wouldn't be abusive a corpse. 1441 01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:24,120 Speaker 1: Like it's just it's so ridiculous to me. 1442 01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:28,160 Speaker 2: This forensic pathologist is really fighting for her and saying 1443 01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:31,800 Speaker 2: that the baby was non viable exactly no matter what, 1444 01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:35,439 Speaker 2: the baby had died before it even expelled from her body. 1445 01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 2: So like, why is she getting charged. It's fel any 1446 01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:41,320 Speaker 2: corpse abuse, I know. And it's like and now it's 1447 01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:44,040 Speaker 2: going to a grand jury, which you don't know what 1448 01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:46,479 Speaker 2: whacka do is are gonna be on that jury. So 1449 01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:48,919 Speaker 2: this is such a divisive topic with people. 1450 01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:51,080 Speaker 1: I know, But it's just it's just like think, like 1451 01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:53,240 Speaker 1: you look at this lady in the picture and it's 1452 01:16:53,320 --> 01:16:56,320 Speaker 1: just like like I'm sure she's not going through some 1453 01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:59,000 Speaker 1: trauma because she just had a miscarriage at twenty two 1454 01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,720 Speaker 1: weeks of pregnancy. She was going to the doctor. She 1455 01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:07,080 Speaker 1: had appointments before this, right, she didn't do this on purpose. 1456 01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:11,439 Speaker 1: She had this this miscarriage, and like maybe she was 1457 01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 1: grieving so much that she didn't want to go to 1458 01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:16,360 Speaker 1: the hospital. Maybe she doesn't have insurance or something, and 1459 01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:18,679 Speaker 1: she thought, like, I'm not going to the hospital because 1460 01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to get a twenty thousand dollars bill if 1461 01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:23,280 Speaker 1: I go to the hospital and this kid's out and 1462 01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:25,559 Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant anymore, whatever the kid. 1463 01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:28,240 Speaker 2: You just feel like there's like this level of shock 1464 01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:32,719 Speaker 2: when this happens to people. Yeah, like maybe she flushed 1465 01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:35,400 Speaker 2: a toilet by accident, like you don't know. 1466 01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:39,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and and honestly, like maybe she didn't 1467 01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:40,839 Speaker 1: expect it was going to be that big and didn't 1468 01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:42,760 Speaker 1: like what else do you do with it? I don't know, 1469 01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:46,559 Speaker 1: But I just think that abuse of a corpse is like, 1470 01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:49,799 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, the damage is done. This is already 1471 01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,879 Speaker 1: on her record forever that she was at least accused 1472 01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:55,479 Speaker 1: of abusing a corpse. I mean, it's just it's really 1473 01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:56,640 Speaker 1: messed up. It's messed up. 1474 01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:58,280 Speaker 3: No, it's horrible and it's not real. 1475 01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:01,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I feel like this, like these types 1476 01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:03,720 Speaker 2: of stories I keep seeing more frequently, and it just 1477 01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:07,360 Speaker 2: really is upsetting to be a woman in this country 1478 01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:07,760 Speaker 2: right now. 1479 01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 3: If this is what it's gonna be, like Jesus. 1480 01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:13,599 Speaker 1: Well, I you know, it's a big thing. Is I 1481 01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:16,160 Speaker 1: personally would say if any person was ever having a 1482 01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:19,360 Speaker 1: miscarriage at home, whether you're five weeks or twenty weeks whatever, 1483 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,559 Speaker 1: I personally think that you should go to the hospital 1484 01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:24,320 Speaker 1: just because I know that there's times that it all 1485 01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 1: doesn't come out, and that's what we do in pathology. 1486 01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:30,799 Speaker 1: Actually we look at what's called the products of conception 1487 01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:34,040 Speaker 1: to make sure all the placental tissue came out and 1488 01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:36,400 Speaker 1: to make sure that there was like all the fetal 1489 01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:38,800 Speaker 1: parts came out and that there wasn't some other thing 1490 01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:42,400 Speaker 1: going on, because sometimes you can get a molar pregnancy, 1491 01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:45,040 Speaker 1: which can sometimes be like a cancerost thing. So you 1492 01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,800 Speaker 1: just it's always safer to just get it checked out. 1493 01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:50,960 Speaker 1: But like again I'm saying, if you're in a situation 1494 01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:54,000 Speaker 1: where you don't where you don't want to take on 1495 01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:56,760 Speaker 1: that bill because you don't have the problem. I mean, 1496 01:18:56,800 --> 01:18:58,600 Speaker 1: they'll treat you if you go to the hospital, but 1497 01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:02,400 Speaker 1: they'll send you a bill too, So I almost don't 1498 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:04,720 Speaker 1: blame a person that they might just be like, you 1499 01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:07,400 Speaker 1: know what, it hurt really bad, it came out. I'm 1500 01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:12,320 Speaker 1: not bleeding anymore. I'm good. I saw the baby. It's like, 1501 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,479 Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant anymore. Whatever, right, Like, you could see 1502 01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:17,000 Speaker 1: how a person would think that way, and I don't 1503 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:19,519 Speaker 1: think they should have criminal charges against them. 1504 01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:21,480 Speaker 3: It's absolutely ridiculous. 1505 01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:25,840 Speaker 2: Okay, onto our Questions of the Day. Every Friday on 1506 01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:28,920 Speaker 2: the at Mother Knows Death Instagram, we post a little 1507 01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:31,200 Speaker 2: story with a question box. You guys could ask us 1508 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:34,760 Speaker 2: whatever questions you want, then we'll try to answer as 1509 01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:37,679 Speaker 2: many as we can. This episode's running a little long, 1510 01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:39,720 Speaker 2: so we only we had a narrow it down to 1511 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:43,559 Speaker 2: two for today. But first is if I joined the 1512 01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 2: gross Room today, A is. 1513 01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:48,920 Speaker 3: It until the end of the year or for one year? 1514 01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:51,759 Speaker 3: And can I see all the older posts? 1515 01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:56,000 Speaker 1: So you can join the grosser Room as a monthly 1516 01:19:56,040 --> 01:20:00,360 Speaker 1: member or you could join as a yearly member. Some 1517 01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:02,800 Speaker 1: people like to join as a monthly member just to 1518 01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:05,080 Speaker 1: check it out, but like most people end up upgrading 1519 01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:07,400 Speaker 1: anyway because it's so much fun in they're and awesome 1520 01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:11,519 Speaker 1: and learning so much. But you could also do a yearly. 1521 01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:15,360 Speaker 1: So tomorrow, actually we're starting we have specials once in 1522 01:20:15,400 --> 01:20:17,200 Speaker 1: a while, a couple times a year, and we're going 1523 01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:19,320 Speaker 1: to do it for a couple what is it like 1524 01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 1: five days or yeah, So from December fifteenth, which is 1525 01:20:24,080 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 1: tomorrow until December the twentieth, we are going to have 1526 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:31,280 Speaker 1: a sale that's twenty dollars for one year membership. So yeah, 1527 01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:34,160 Speaker 1: that's so that's obviously like worth it because I think 1528 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,720 Speaker 1: the monthly membership is like five ninety nine. 1529 01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 2: So and it's not till the end of this year. 1530 01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:41,360 Speaker 2: It's like one year from the day you. 1531 01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:43,240 Speaker 1: Signed, and it's a leap year, so you actually get 1532 01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:45,880 Speaker 1: an extra day, right, three hundred and six bonus day. 1533 01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:49,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's our last sale of the year. There 1534 01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:52,760 Speaker 2: won't be one for a while, so this is definitely. 1535 01:20:52,479 --> 01:20:56,360 Speaker 1: The time, Yes, it is. And also so I started 1536 01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:00,479 Speaker 1: the Grocerroom in November of twenty nineteen, and there are 1537 01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:05,040 Speaker 1: over two thousand articles and posts in the gross room, 1538 01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:11,840 Speaker 1: so we have thousands of photos, videos, articles, and if 1539 01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:14,599 Speaker 1: you sign up for it. Yeah, you would. You would 1540 01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:18,200 Speaker 1: be busy for weeks on end, just like catching up 1541 01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 1: with old stuff because there's just so much to look at. 1542 01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:24,080 Speaker 1: And some of the articles are especially like the Celebrity 1543 01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:27,760 Speaker 1: death dis sections and high Profile death disseections, they're really long, 1544 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:31,400 Speaker 1: they take a while to read, and also there is 1545 01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:35,280 Speaker 1: an audio portion too, So we started recording what like 1546 01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:36,000 Speaker 1: two years ago. 1547 01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:44,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so there's about fifty additional podcast episodes in there, 1548 01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:48,519 Speaker 2: and then we've started recording the High profile and Celebrity 1549 01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:53,400 Speaker 2: death disseections as an additional accessibility feature. So if people 1550 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:55,920 Speaker 2: can't read, or like they don't want to, if they're 1551 01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:57,679 Speaker 2: driving and just want to listen to it really quick, 1552 01:21:57,720 --> 01:21:59,599 Speaker 2: they definitely can and it makes it easy. 1553 01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:03,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think that. And also you know that 1554 01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:08,600 Speaker 1: we narrate this celebrity death disseections and high profile dissections, 1555 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:13,719 Speaker 1: so right now, I believe there's like over a hundred 1556 01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:17,280 Speaker 1: of those, right there has to be different celebrities, like 1557 01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:21,320 Speaker 1: covered every single celebrity death, and there's a section. You 1558 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:23,679 Speaker 1: could just go right in the gross room and look 1559 01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:26,200 Speaker 1: and at the whole entire list of celebrities and just 1560 01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:29,959 Speaker 1: like get right into it. But we pretty much, especially 1561 01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,280 Speaker 1: since the grocerroom has been going. Anytime there's like a 1562 01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:35,400 Speaker 1: high profile death like Bob Zaggatt was a big one, 1563 01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:38,320 Speaker 1: and Matthew Perry is coming when we get more information 1564 01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:42,800 Speaker 1: from the autopsy. So you'll you'll love it. It's just 1565 01:22:43,160 --> 01:22:46,439 Speaker 1: if you like this podcast, you'll love the grosser room, 1566 01:22:46,680 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: all right. 1567 01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:50,840 Speaker 2: And then the last question is having me so young, 1568 01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:53,840 Speaker 2: did you take me to school with you? So? 1569 01:22:56,200 --> 01:23:00,599 Speaker 1: Like school? Like school school. So I went to high school. 1570 01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:05,240 Speaker 1: I got pregnant with you in ninth grade. I took 1571 01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:10,160 Speaker 1: off from school when I was the rest of my pregnancy, 1572 01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:13,640 Speaker 1: and then until she was a couple months old, and 1573 01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:17,720 Speaker 1: then I went to tenth grade, and then I finished 1574 01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:20,880 Speaker 1: tenth grade. Well, no, I didn't finish tenth grade. I 1575 01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:25,639 Speaker 1: went to tenth grade for a couple months. Did I finish? 1576 01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:27,040 Speaker 1: I might have finished. 1577 01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:31,320 Speaker 2: Well, I was born in the middle of I was 1578 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:32,840 Speaker 2: born in December. 1579 01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:37,759 Speaker 1: And I was so I was fifteen and then yeah, 1580 01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:41,599 Speaker 1: so that's what happened. So in tenth grade, I went 1581 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:45,559 Speaker 1: the majority. I started in February of tenth grade, like 1582 01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:49,160 Speaker 1: after the winter break and stuff. I went back and 1583 01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:51,799 Speaker 1: I went for a couple months, and then I decided 1584 01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:53,600 Speaker 1: that I wanted to go to hair school actually to 1585 01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:57,240 Speaker 1: like cosmicatology school. So I asked my parents if I 1586 01:23:57,280 --> 01:24:00,720 Speaker 1: could drop out and go to if I could see 1587 01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:02,960 Speaker 1: because if I had my GED, I could go to 1588 01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:06,960 Speaker 1: cosmetology school when I was sixteen, And so I dropped 1589 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:10,200 Speaker 1: out of high school that year and then I started. 1590 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:13,240 Speaker 1: I took my GED the next day and then I started. 1591 01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:18,599 Speaker 1: I started hair school that August, which was like right 1592 01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:23,240 Speaker 1: when I turned sixteen years old. And so to answer 1593 01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:25,280 Speaker 1: your question, no, I didn't bring her to high school 1594 01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:28,320 Speaker 1: with me. We had a really awesome woman that like 1595 01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:32,679 Speaker 1: came from God. I swear she one day like obviously 1596 01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:34,640 Speaker 1: because my mom was like still working and she was 1597 01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,120 Speaker 1: a young grandmom and we had this. My mom was 1598 01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,120 Speaker 1: at work like crying one day because she didn't know 1599 01:24:39,120 --> 01:24:40,800 Speaker 1: what we were going to do with Maria when I 1600 01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:45,400 Speaker 1: had to go back to school, and especially because like daycare, 1601 01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:49,960 Speaker 1: daycare wasn't common back then when and we didn't know 1602 01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:52,240 Speaker 1: about it. We never used it when, like my mom 1603 01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:54,760 Speaker 1: never used it with us and stuff. And my mom 1604 01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:57,200 Speaker 1: was at work one day and she was crying about it, 1605 01:24:57,280 --> 01:25:01,599 Speaker 1: and one of her coworkers was like, my mom Watches kids, 1606 01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:05,040 Speaker 1: and we went and met this woman Joan and Joe 1607 01:25:06,040 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 1: and Maria went to Maria went to them until you 1608 01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:14,560 Speaker 1: were probably way too old to have a babysitter. 1609 01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:16,479 Speaker 3: We loved them. 1610 01:25:16,520 --> 01:25:19,200 Speaker 1: They were like adoptive grandparents. Just love them truly the 1611 01:25:19,240 --> 01:25:23,320 Speaker 1: best people and like just like really like part of 1612 01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:27,080 Speaker 1: my journey because they were able. They loved Maria so 1613 01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:29,400 Speaker 1: much and like took her to parks every day and 1614 01:25:29,479 --> 01:25:32,360 Speaker 1: the movies and home cooked her food for lunch and everything. 1615 01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:35,760 Speaker 1: And they barely charged me any money, and they just 1616 01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:38,479 Speaker 1: they made They were the reason that I was able 1617 01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:43,120 Speaker 1: to like go back to college and graduate college twice 1618 01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:46,120 Speaker 1: and and just have my crazy schedule and work full 1619 01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:47,840 Speaker 1: time and go to school full time because I was 1620 01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:51,400 Speaker 1: constantly like leaning on them a lot, and they just 1621 01:25:51,760 --> 01:25:55,519 Speaker 1: they were they were awesome, just awesome people. So I 1622 01:25:55,560 --> 01:25:57,280 Speaker 1: didn't have to bring her to school with me. But 1623 01:25:57,320 --> 01:26:02,200 Speaker 1: then once I went to college, and uh, because when 1624 01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:04,880 Speaker 1: I went to college the one year to Jefferson, when 1625 01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:07,080 Speaker 1: I moved, I moved to Philly for that year to 1626 01:26:07,120 --> 01:26:10,519 Speaker 1: make it easier on myself, which made it completely harder 1627 01:26:10,560 --> 01:26:12,600 Speaker 1: on myself because I was like a single mom in 1628 01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:14,920 Speaker 1: the city. But yeah, when I went. When I was 1629 01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:17,640 Speaker 1: going to Jefferson, I brought her to school with me 1630 01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:19,320 Speaker 1: a lot because at that time. 1631 01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:20,519 Speaker 3: What were you seven? 1632 01:26:20,760 --> 01:26:21,000 Speaker 1: Eight? 1633 01:26:22,400 --> 01:26:25,320 Speaker 2: I was in second grade when we lived, so you 1634 01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:28,280 Speaker 2: were like seven or eightish, And. 1635 01:26:28,400 --> 01:26:29,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember going. 1636 01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:33,000 Speaker 2: You started off going to Camden County. Yeah, and I 1637 01:26:33,200 --> 01:26:35,800 Speaker 2: remember vividly going there a couple of times with you, 1638 01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:37,800 Speaker 2: and then I did go to Jefferson with you. 1639 01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:40,200 Speaker 3: I never when you were in grad school. I never went. 1640 01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:41,679 Speaker 3: Well I was. 1641 01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:45,240 Speaker 1: Old, I was like fourteen then. Yeah, but yeah, Jefferson, 1642 01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:47,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it just was a different situation because I 1643 01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:50,720 Speaker 1: was in school for psychology and there was there was 1644 01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:53,920 Speaker 1: I think my program started with four people and then 1645 01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:57,240 Speaker 1: like the one guy got a residency and dropped out. 1646 01:26:57,280 --> 01:27:00,400 Speaker 1: The other guy I think also got a residency, dropped 1647 01:27:00,439 --> 01:27:03,559 Speaker 1: out because they were they were doctors from another country 1648 01:27:03,560 --> 01:27:05,760 Speaker 1: and they were just kind of like, well, I guess 1649 01:27:05,760 --> 01:27:10,280 Speaker 1: I'll be a side attack and then unless some pathology 1650 01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:12,479 Speaker 1: residency gives me a call and says, hey, I could 1651 01:27:12,520 --> 01:27:15,160 Speaker 1: go be a doctor here. So they left and then 1652 01:27:15,160 --> 01:27:17,439 Speaker 1: it was only me and Shana. So it was me 1653 01:27:17,520 --> 01:27:20,360 Speaker 1: and Shana, and we had we had a we had 1654 01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:22,320 Speaker 1: a teacher and she was just like cool with me 1655 01:27:22,360 --> 01:27:24,519 Speaker 1: sticking Marie. I would give Marie in the back and 1656 01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:26,880 Speaker 1: give her all her books in her homework and be like, yo, 1657 01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:29,479 Speaker 1: like sit back here for an hour or two and 1658 01:27:29,640 --> 01:27:31,920 Speaker 1: color and do your homework and like be quiet. And 1659 01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:33,560 Speaker 1: I got to finish class. 1660 01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:38,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I I kind of have a bachelor I know, right, 1661 01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:39,320 Speaker 2: you should have. 1662 01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,360 Speaker 1: Got like an honorary bachelor's degree. 1663 01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:46,200 Speaker 2: But all right, well, thank you guys so much. Always 1664 01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:49,280 Speaker 2: always fun questions to answer. Don't forget to leave your 1665 01:27:49,360 --> 01:27:53,080 Speaker 2: questions every Friday on the at Mother Knows Death Instagram account. 1666 01:27:53,120 --> 01:27:58,639 Speaker 1: All right, thanks guys, We'll see you next week. Thank 1667 01:27:58,680 --> 01:28:02,240 Speaker 1: you for listening to Mother and Death. As a reminder, 1668 01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:06,240 Speaker 1: my training is as a pathologist's assistant. I have a 1669 01:28:06,240 --> 01:28:10,599 Speaker 1: master's level education and specialize in anatomy and pathology education. 1670 01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:13,880 Speaker 1: I am not a doctor and I have not diagnosed 1671 01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:17,600 Speaker 1: or treated anyone dead or alive without the assistance of 1672 01:28:17,640 --> 01:28:22,879 Speaker 1: a licensed medical doctor. This show, my website, and social 1673 01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:26,439 Speaker 1: media accounts are designed to educate and inform people based 1674 01:28:26,479 --> 01:28:30,400 Speaker 1: on my experience working in pathology, so they can make 1675 01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:35,280 Speaker 1: healthier decisions regarding their life and well being. Always remember 1676 01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:38,400 Speaker 1: that science is changing. Every day, and the opinions expressed 1677 01:28:38,439 --> 01:28:41,080 Speaker 1: in this episode are based on my knowledge of those 1678 01:28:41,120 --> 01:28:44,920 Speaker 1: subjects at the time of publication. If you are having 1679 01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:48,920 Speaker 1: a medical problem, have a medical question, or having a 1680 01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:53,280 Speaker 1: medical emergency, please contact your physician or visit an urgent 1681 01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:58,320 Speaker 1: care center, emergency room, or hospital. Please rate, review, and 1682 01:28:58,400 --> 01:29:02,920 Speaker 1: subscribe to Mother Knows Death on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or 1683 01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:04,400 Speaker 1: anywhere you get podcasts. 1684 01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:05,320 Speaker 3: Thanks