WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Fin Dumb + Model Convention 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:03.040 All right, it's double the fun on your Saturday. Hey, 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:05.200 welcome to Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. This is 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:08.480 your Second Date podcast. And yes, last week we discussed 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:12.799 like why Saturdays our Saturday podcast episode is so popular, 0:00:13.000 --> 0:00:16.680 Like what people love about hearing two classics back to back? Yeah, 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:19.120 and man, did you turn out in the comment section? 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:20.720 I love it. Yeah. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.160 One person said, you know, I need to clean my house, 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:25.759 so I must hear longer podcasts so I clean more. 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.280 Somebody else that I work as a cabin crew and 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:30.000 I listen to you guys while I commute to work 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:31.240 or get ready in the morning. 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:33.919 Cool. I listened to on my way to work. 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:35.800 It takes me ninety minutes to get there, and these 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.000 take up part of the time. 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:39.960 I mean, that's one reason we do morning radio, so 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:41.000 we get here really early. 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.080 And one of the great benefits is no traffic. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:43.840 Yeah, very true. 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:45.920 I always tell people, if you could switch your shift 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:49.279 to five or six am, start traffic, do it. So 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.159 thank you, thank you so much for being here. We 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:53.600 appreciate it, and we're just gonna get it started. Two 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:55.200 back to back second dates right now. 0:00:56.840 --> 0:01:00.280 I can guarantee after today you will never look could 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:05.120 people's dating profiles the same ever again really, and it's 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:09.160 all because of two little letters that apparently some people 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:13.319 sneak in there, and it indicates a very specific type 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:17.399 of thing that they're into. One of our listeners says, 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:20.440 she's into it, and it's way more common than any 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:23.880 of us thought. You'll find out what those two little 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:28.240 letters are, and more importantly, what they mean. It's probably 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.839 gonna shock you in your second date update. Right after 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:37.040 this second date updated, we talk a lot about do 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:38.880 women have a specific type? 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.800 Well, I mean every woman has a different type. 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:46.479 But I think the answer is yes. Alexis only likes 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:50.680 to date pro athletes. Brooke prefers men who share her 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:54.240 same values and same last name, and she wants that 0:01:54.320 --> 0:02:00.320 familial vibe. Our listener today, though, Beth says, he has 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:05.200 a very specific type of guy that she dates, no exceptions, 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:09.120 and it's clingy el Salvadorian comedians who are afraid of heights. 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:12.400 So Jose, this could be it for you. 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:15.000 Can we run into each other's arms but not jump 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:15.600 too hot. 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:18.280 This year? 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:21.480 Beth, Hey, welcome to the show. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:22.359 Hi. 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:28.640 So yeah, I know I'm joking about the comedian stuff, 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:30.680 but tell us you have a very specific type. 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:32.280 You said in your email, what's your type? 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:37.080 Well, I only date guys who want to be financially dominated. 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:40.079 What financially dominated? 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:41.000 Independent? 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:45.880 No, it's a niche thing. It's called sindom like financial domination. 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:48.919 Where are Yeah? 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:51.280 So wait, you will date poor guys? Is that what 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:51.799 you're saying? 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:56.560 Yeah, well explain now, it's actually the opposite. So there 0:02:56.600 --> 0:03:01.560 are certain successful men who find it very thrilling to 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.920 give a woman complete access to their bank account. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.480 Because you don't know, I thought this was like an 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:13.440 independent woman thing like you were saying that. 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:16.400 I mean it is, this is it is? 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:17.040 Okay? 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:20.600 Okay, wait you only date God, how do you find 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:21.200 these guys? 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:23.040 People you actually like? 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:26.720 Not really you're married, like. 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:29.040 Like a tab on? 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:33.080 Wells, Yeah, this is kind of blowing all of our minds. 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:35.440 Can you explain a little bit more about how this works. 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:39.840 So there are specific sites and then specific ways that 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:44.000 guys indicated on the profile they'll put like FD and 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:45.920 then you know they're into findom. 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:51.680 And okay, yeah, and I actually like the people I'm dating, 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:53.520 like I actually want to date them, like we actually 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:56.280 hopefully lead to a relationship. 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.400 So wait, wait, wait, can I still need more information, like, 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.040 how do you get access to all of their finances? 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:02.840 How does that work? 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:03.360 Well? 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.600 It depends, right, You know, you might go on a 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.640 date and they could give you a password or pin, 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.880 and then, as the woman behind the scene, I would 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:15.560 take out as much money as I want and I'm 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:21.479 not screwing them over. We're consensually playing a game. Okay, yeah, 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:27.200 regular just like regular domination. Like they might like some pain. 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:29.760 This is a form of pain, right. 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:32.880 But obviously you don't want to deplete their entire bank 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.520 account because otherwise you can't continue to date them if 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.240 they're totally broke and they have. 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.080 Exactly much money to do this. 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:43.599 I'm sure they have multiple different accounts. 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:47.760 So there's guys who actually are into this that want this. 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.000 I totally forgot. Are we doing a second date update? 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:51.120 Are we doing awkward Tuesday? 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:53.400 I don't know what I was like, it's come into 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:55.640 like a financial segment at this point, how to make 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:56.040 a buck? 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:57.800 But are we calling a guy for you? 0:04:58.080 --> 0:04:58.279 Yeah? 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:01.000 Is there a specific guy that you are wanting us 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:01.640 to call today? 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:02.560 Yeah? 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:07.320 So I did meet a specific guy and his name 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:10.520 is Charlie and he had the FD on his profile. 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:13.160 So we matched and chatted and we had a first 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:17.279 date and it was nice rooftop lounge, and he does 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:20.720 he took out his wallet and laid out all of 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:23.760 his bank cards and says, pick one. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:24.600 It's pretty hot. 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:25.760 What what. 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:29.240 Did you have to put. 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:31.040 Your hands over and see what you get the most reaction. 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.440 Always picked the heaviest. By the way, heaviest one is 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:36.359 the biggest limits like. 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:40.680 Credit card roulette, which he's nervous like, oh god, don't. 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:45.360 He probably wants her to pick the big ones. Which 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:46.239 one did you choose? 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:50.719 I picked the MX so many places. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:57.120 Why would you choose on the first day? So what 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:58.239 do you do with the credit card? 0:05:59.080 --> 0:05:59.279 Well? 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:02.839 He immediately he texted me his pin number, and kind 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:04.960 of over the next couple of days, I would take 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:07.120 out a little bit here, a little bit there, and 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:08.960 then you know, when he would notice it, he would 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:09.640 get excited. 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:13.880 He would text me, oh, oh, I can see that. 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:17.240 Wow, I'm one hundred thousand dollars in debt. Lucky me 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:18.840 that time. 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:20.440 I just want. 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:25.960 This gives me anxiety. This is so cool. 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.200 You would love to be findumbed over regardd. 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.039 On what's going on? 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:33.320 Now? 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:34.040 Where are we now? 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:35.279 What did he put the card on hold. 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:36.560 Ye what happened? 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:38.720 Well, it was really nice for a while, and then 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:41.520 randomly the other day I went to do withdrawal and 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.839 it said that the card had been deactivated. 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:48.800 It can we talk, like how much money did you 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:50.160 take over the time period? 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:52.960 Are we talking thousands? Tens of thousands? 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:53.440 Yes? 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:54.520 Yeah, great question. 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.640 I mean it was probably about nine thousand. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:59.840 Oh wow, that's so much? 0:06:59.880 --> 0:07:05.240 Would you buy one date? Nine thousand dollars? Not calling 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:05.680 you back? 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:07.640 I mean I think for him, that's like a drop 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:10.760 in the bucket. But I texted him and he didn't respond. 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.160 So I'm just really confused. 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:13.720 Why do you want to call him? Why do you 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:14.520 want to see him again? 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:16.679 Because he was really nice and fun. 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:17.520 I had a good time. 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.520 Okay, what a good answer there. 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.960 Yeah, I also want to see if he's okay, Like 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:25.000 did I make a mistake that I misunderstand our agreement? 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:28.240 I just I just want to get some closure either way, Like, yeah, 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:29.360 I'd love to see him again. 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:33.440 Gotcha. This is definitely interesting. It's kind of a sensitive. 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.760 Topic at the table because now. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.440 We're going to be calling a guy, not really even 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:40.440 talking to him about the actual dates and the romance. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:42.840 It's more about what he's into and what. 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:46.920 Happened good date, the romance, Jeff, that's what we're going 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:47.760 to call him about. 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.280 That's not what I want, bro, I want to I 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:52.440 want to get into the gritty dirty details here. When 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:56.320 we call him, answer, recognize their voice. Maybe we can 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:57.640 all findom him together. 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:01.280 Hey, you guys don't know how to do this that. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.000 You're going to be our sir as we call him. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:07.720 A second date update Findom edition right after this hold 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:14.320 On Second Date update. Man, this is a really interesting 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.240 second date update that we're in the middle of. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:20.560 I died to do that. How long were those songs. 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:23.080 Spent that time? 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.840 We're all really interested because we've never heard of anything 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:26.600 like this before. 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:28.800 But I guess we've been talking about this. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:32.600 Trend or a niche I'm not sure what to call it. 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:36.520 That's what I described it as. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:42.520 It's called Findom financial domination. And instead of explaining it 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:45.000 in general, I'll just tell you how Beth's date went. 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:46.559 Maybe you'll understand it that way. 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:50.439 Because she met this guy, Charlie up at a rooftop lounge. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:51.880 First thing he did. 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:54.000 Was spread all of his credit cards out on the 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:57.440 table and told her to pick one any one, and 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:00.400 she got to use it and take out however much 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:02.160 money she wanted from his bank. 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.080 Account for the next week. 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:07.520 Until suddenly he's not texting her back and the card 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:08.160 is declined. 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:13.000 Yeah, deactivated his card, ghosted her with no explanation for why. 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:18.320 And Beth doesn't understand because they both had agreed to this. 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:19.440 That's what Fendom is like. 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:21.000 I think it's good to know that, Beth. 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:24.000 I mean, you're actually interested in him romantically, it's not 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:25.559 just a money transaction. 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:27.400 Yeah, I like him. 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:30.599 Okay, some money would have spent way more than nine thousand. 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:36.640 Easily right now, Alec, you got to teach Brook how 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:37.520 to do this properly. 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:39.280 But we're going to find out what the reason is. 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.960 Hopefully he picks up. Let's call Charlie and see if 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:42.400 he answers. 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:42.840 Here we go. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:44.840 Are we okay talking to I mean, can. 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:47.439 We that's a good point. Let's try and be sensitive 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.319 about it. I don't know if he'll want to talk 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:49.720 about it. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:51.480 I mean, I don't think we should come in hot. 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:53.880 You give your credit cards to women? 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:57.079 Okay, well, we'll tread carefully with it. But let's see 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:57.760 if he even answers. 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:58.200 Here we go. 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:09.000 Hello, Hey is this Charlie? 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:12.400 It is Who's this? 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:13.600 Hey Charlie. 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:15.960 My name is jeff on a radio show called Brooke 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:17.120 and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:19.680 Hey, Charlie radio show that. 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:21.520 You're on now too, So welcome. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:25.360 We have never been so excited to talk to someone. 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:27.320 Okay, what is this all about? 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:29.640 Well, this is a segment that we do. It's called 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:30.720 Second Date Update. 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:33.679 What we try to do is help out our listeners 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:36.079 who've gone out with somebody and they had a really 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:38.800 nice time with them. We try and help them reconnect 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:42.600 afterwards if there hasn't been a second meetup. And recently 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.920 you went out with a woman named Beth. 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:49.800 She did she call you? She contacts you guys. 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.520 Yeah, she reached out to our show. 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:56.920 She is a little bit confused because after your date 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.480 there's been kind of a lack of communication. And I 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:02.800 hope I'm not over stepping my bounds here, but she 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:07.000 did say that you and her are both into it, well, 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.600 a certain type of thrill dating. 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:13.080 Here. 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.360 You can't see your air quotes that you're using to 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:20.000 frame it positively, you know, she can you just say 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:22.280 that she told us about the credit card well, I 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:22.679 don't look. 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:24.840 If you don't want us to talk about it, that's 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.040 totally up to you, Charlie. But she mentioned that you're 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:31.520 both into Findom financial financial domination. 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:33.480 She told you that. 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:38.360 Yeah, I'm gonna say she came off so confident and 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:41.240 like it was just a very normal thing. Of course, 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.280 we're all surprised in the room because we've never heard 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:43.480 of it. 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.080 Brooks jealous of her in some way. 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:47.920 The thing is, this is how she found out that 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:51.319 you weren't interested in her, because she tried to make 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:56.959 a withdrawal and the card got canceled or declined. And 0:11:57.559 --> 0:11:59.319 I don't know how it works in the Findom world, 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.080 but that seems like sign that things. 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:01.680 Are probably over. 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:02.400 You could. 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:07.640 Yes, Beth is confused because there was no follow up afterwards, 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:10.440 no explanation, And I don't know if there's a term 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.439 for Findom ghosting, but. 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:16.960 She gotezer or something, but that's it. I don't know, 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:20.640 but she is hoping to figure out what happened. 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:24.840 Oh my god, this whole thing is funny. 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:29.640 We're a funny show. I think that's that's what's happening. 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:32.960 So you're cool with the money part, right. 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:35.800 Of course. I mean, that's what I'm illustrating on my 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:38.360 dating profile. It's exactly what I'm trying to help you. 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:41.480 Then okay, well but what happened? Yeah, what we're trying 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:45.240 to help Beth figure out is where things went south. 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:47.280 Well, I guess, let me just put it this way. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.520 After about a week, I guess I was just disappointed 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:52.160 in what disappointed? 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:56.120 She did tell us that she spent around nine grand 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:58.920 Is that the reason the it's the amount of money. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:01.080 I guess I was just so when she would go bigger? 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:04.960 What Bill, did you say you want to spend more? 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:05.920 Bigger with the spending? 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:06.240 What? 0:13:06.640 --> 0:13:09.240 Yeah? She was too careful. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:11.839 To cautious. 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:13.520 It felt like findom light. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:17.920 I don't know findom light. Wait, I didn't even notice 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:18.920 you took anything out. 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.320 I'm sorry, But when you've gotten out with other women 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.360 who are into this, how much do they drop in 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:23.760 a week? 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:26.800 I mean a lot more than that. Like I said, 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:28.520 I don't I didn't think you would understand. 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:30.080 I think we understood. 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.240 You want a woman that that is willing to be 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:33.199 more risky. 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:35.880 How many dates are you a month? 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:39.680 Don't don't you think that she would be open to 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.640 the idea of spending more. If you communicated that to her, 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:44.439 you would. 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:47.360 No, I really don't think so. I mean, I need 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.439 a woman to go hard and really do some. 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:53.000 Damage to your financial accounts. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.720 Finish the sentence form, bro, and you don't You don't 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.240 see Beth being able to do that. 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:00.559 I mean Beth is nice, don't get me wrong, but 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:04.440 she's talking about budgets, trying to be careful. 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:07.120 Even threw up in her mouth a little bit. 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:09.439 If I wanted to talk about budgets, I would talk 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:15.920 to my wife, your wife. Yeah, that's what I said. 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:21.600 Okay, budget saying. 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.480 I don't know if we want to do any deeper, 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:29.280 let's not Yeah, let's not ask any of those questions 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:31.800 at this point. We need to be bringing on somebody 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:35.280 else into this conversation because you don't know this, Charlie. 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:37.920 But Beth has been listening on the other line. 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:39.280 She's on the other line. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.520 Yeah, she's been waiting to talk to you. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:47.200 So Bethy there, Yeah, okay, So I just I just 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:52.240 want to understand. So you don't want to see me 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:56.200 because I did not spend enough of your money and 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:59.080 you're not willing to communicate that to me, So you 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:01.240 just go to he is. 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.560 Married I don't think she cares about that. Hold on, 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:06.800 that would be that would have brought up. 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:09.560 Did you know that he was married? 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:12.760 I mean no, but like I could work around that, but. 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:18.040 Like, man, the fandom world is complicated. 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:19.840 At all. 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:21.360 Him. 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:24.600 Yeah, we had a good time. I'm sorry that I'm 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:26.560 such a considerate dumb. 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.000 That's I'm not sure if you understand how this is 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.240 all supposed to work. It's just really not sexy at 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:38.280 all when you're trying to be careful and cautious, Like, 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:39.640 that's not the point of it. 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:47.640 I know to do that. Okay, Beth, talk to your 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:49.120 sub here? Oh my god. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:53.480 First of all, in a dominant sub relationship, you're supposed 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:56.960 to build trust, right, boring? 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.000 Did you say boring? 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:04.640 There was a couple of days throughout our short brief 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.840 time together where I checked my account and guess what, 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:08.960 zero activity? 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:16.000 Not even Starbucks. Come on, that's irresponsible Starbucks breakfast. 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:18.920 Beth, you can you can step up your game though, right? 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:22.200 Yeah, I could absolutely step up my game, But maybe 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:24.080 I should check in with his wife first. 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:27.200 Actually, actually, can I say that? I think that's a 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:28.040 good idea. 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:31.160 Because I've been very worried about this woman. 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:33.840 Does she know, Charlie, there's a lot of questions. 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:36.920 Yeah, you guys are asking a lot of questions right now. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.640 You called me. I'm gonna be a part of it. 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:41.120 You guys will take what. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:42.120 You get, Okay, exact. 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:47.000 Yeah, Charlie's words boring, So let's move on to the 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:51.240 interesting stuff. Well, yeah, this is what we do, Charlie. 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.040 The whole purpose of this segment is to try and 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:55.200 reunite you and Beth together. 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:56.520 Again by him being married. 0:16:56.720 --> 0:16:58.800 Beth says she doesn't care, and clearly he doesn't care. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:16:59.920 One other person here. 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:02.960 His wife can listen and text in and weigh and 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:05.879 however she wants to. But the whole goal is to 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:07.960 set you up on another day, and we would pay 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:08.320 for it. 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.200 I mean, listen, it's not gonna work for me. I've 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:12.960 found another woman already. 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:15.160 I'm sure it's easy. 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:16.200 Actually, And what. 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:18.639 Well, she's actually putting fear in my heart and that's 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:19.679 really all I'm in it for it. 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:23.920 Why do I want? Why do I want this woman 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:24.800 to bankrupt you? 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.000 That's what he wants to She can try. I love it. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:31.480 Actually, this conversation is turning him on a little bit 0:17:31.520 --> 0:17:33.480 too much. So you know what, charld are we gonna 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:36.199 let you go? Thanks for your time, Beth. I'm sorry 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.640 that that didn't work. 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:41.040 New Beth, I thought you did serious damage. 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.280 Yeah, I guess I gotta step my game up. 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:47.520 J Jose would you like to volunteer your bank account? 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:47.600 Oh? 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:49.840 I got it, you got a budget a nine dollars? 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:53.320 I got you? 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:55.040 Wait already an overdraft O. 0:17:55.440 --> 0:18:00.560 God Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, so. 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:02.560 Many texts coming into seven eighty five to nine two 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:05.400 from people saying they'd love to go out with Charlie. 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:06.159 I'm sack. 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:09.520 I had our producer check the numbers. Alexis, we really 0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:10.520 need you to stop texting. 0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:11.159 But I have a. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.240 Wholess I could spend like fifty K to day. 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:16.320 Okay, I could do honestly, very easy. Just because you 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:17.280