Speaker 1: All right, it's double the fun on your Saturday. Hey,
Speaker 1: welcome to Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. This is
Speaker 1: your Second Date podcast. And yes, last week we discussed
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Speaker 1: Like what people love about hearing two classics back to back? Yeah,
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Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah.
Speaker 3: One person said, you know, I need to clean my house,
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Speaker 3: or get ready in the morning.
Speaker 2: Cool. I listened to on my way to work.
Speaker 3: It takes me ninety minutes to get there, and these
Speaker 3: take up part of the time.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's one reason we do morning radio, so
Speaker 1: we get here really early.
Speaker 2: And one of the great benefits is no traffic.
Speaker 4: Yeah, very true.
Speaker 1: I always tell people, if you could switch your shift
Speaker 1: to five or six am, start traffic, do it. So
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much for being here. We
Speaker 1: appreciate it, and we're just gonna get it started. Two
Speaker 1: back to back second dates right now.
Speaker 4: I can guarantee after today you will never look could
Speaker 4: people's dating profiles the same ever again really, and it's
Speaker 4: all because of two little letters that apparently some people
Speaker 4: sneak in there, and it indicates a very specific type
Speaker 4: of thing that they're into. One of our listeners says,
Speaker 4: she's into it, and it's way more common than any
Speaker 4: of us thought. You'll find out what those two little
Speaker 4: letters are, and more importantly, what they mean. It's probably
Speaker 4: gonna shock you in your second date update. Right after
Speaker 4: this second date updated, we talk a lot about do
Speaker 4: women have a specific type?
Speaker 1: Well, I mean every woman has a different type.
Speaker 4: But I think the answer is yes. Alexis only likes
Speaker 4: to date pro athletes. Brooke prefers men who share her
Speaker 4: same values and same last name, and she wants that
Speaker 4: familial vibe. Our listener today, though, Beth says, he has
Speaker 4: a very specific type of guy that she dates, no exceptions,
Speaker 4: and it's clingy el Salvadorian comedians who are afraid of heights.
Speaker 4: So Jose, this could be it for you.
Speaker 5: Can we run into each other's arms but not jump
Speaker 5: too hot.
Speaker 2: This year?
Speaker 5: Beth, Hey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I know I'm joking about the comedian stuff,
Speaker 4: but tell us you have a very specific type.
Speaker 5: You said in your email, what's your type?
Speaker 6: Well, I only date guys who want to be financially dominated.
Speaker 4: What financially dominated?
Speaker 5: Independent?
Speaker 6: No, it's a niche thing. It's called sindom like financial domination.
Speaker 4: Where are Yeah?
Speaker 2: So wait, you will date poor guys? Is that what
Speaker 2: you're saying?
Speaker 6: Yeah, well explain now, it's actually the opposite. So there
Speaker 6: are certain successful men who find it very thrilling to
Speaker 6: give a woman complete access to their bank account.
Speaker 1: Because you don't know, I thought this was like an
Speaker 1: independent woman thing like you were saying that.
Speaker 4: I mean it is, this is it is?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: Okay, wait you only date God, how do you find
Speaker 1: these guys?
Speaker 3: People you actually like?
Speaker 4: Not really you're married, like.
Speaker 2: Like a tab on?
Speaker 4: Wells, Yeah, this is kind of blowing all of our minds.
Speaker 4: Can you explain a little bit more about how this works.
Speaker 6: So there are specific sites and then specific ways that
Speaker 6: guys indicated on the profile they'll put like FD and
Speaker 6: then you know they're into findom.
Speaker 7: And okay, yeah, and I actually like the people I'm dating,
Speaker 7: like I actually want to date them, like we actually
Speaker 7: hopefully lead to a relationship.
Speaker 4: So wait, wait, wait, can I still need more information, like,
Speaker 4: how do you get access to all of their finances?
Speaker 4: How does that work?
Speaker 8: Well?
Speaker 6: It depends, right, You know, you might go on a
Speaker 6: date and they could give you a password or pin,
Speaker 6: and then, as the woman behind the scene, I would
Speaker 6: take out as much money as I want and I'm
Speaker 6: not screwing them over. We're consensually playing a game. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 6: regular just like regular domination. Like they might like some pain.
Speaker 6: This is a form of pain, right.
Speaker 4: But obviously you don't want to deplete their entire bank
Speaker 4: account because otherwise you can't continue to date them if
Speaker 4: they're totally broke and they have.
Speaker 2: Exactly much money to do this.
Speaker 1: I'm sure they have multiple different accounts.
Speaker 4: So there's guys who actually are into this that want this.
Speaker 2: I totally forgot. Are we doing a second date update?
Speaker 2: Are we doing awkward Tuesday?
Speaker 4: I don't know what I was like, it's come into
Speaker 4: like a financial segment at this point, how to make
Speaker 4: a buck?
Speaker 2: But are we calling a guy for you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Is there a specific guy that you are wanting us
Speaker 4: to call today?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 6: So I did meet a specific guy and his name
Speaker 6: is Charlie and he had the FD on his profile.
Speaker 6: So we matched and chatted and we had a first
Speaker 6: date and it was nice rooftop lounge, and he does
Speaker 6: he took out his wallet and laid out all of
Speaker 6: his bank cards and says, pick one.
Speaker 9: It's pretty hot.
Speaker 8: What what.
Speaker 2: Did you have to put.
Speaker 3: Your hands over and see what you get the most reaction.
Speaker 4: Always picked the heaviest. By the way, heaviest one is
Speaker 4: the biggest limits like.
Speaker 1: Credit card roulette, which he's nervous like, oh god, don't.
Speaker 4: He probably wants her to pick the big ones. Which
Speaker 4: one did you choose?
Speaker 6: I picked the MX so many places.
Speaker 2: Why would you choose on the first day? So what
Speaker 2: do you do with the credit card?
Speaker 10: Well?
Speaker 6: He immediately he texted me his pin number, and kind
Speaker 6: of over the next couple of days, I would take
Speaker 6: out a little bit here, a little bit there, and
Speaker 6: then you know, when he would notice it, he would
Speaker 6: get excited.
Speaker 8: He would text me, oh, oh, I can see that.
Speaker 4: Wow, I'm one hundred thousand dollars in debt. Lucky me
Speaker 4: that time.
Speaker 8: I just want.
Speaker 2: This gives me anxiety. This is so cool.
Speaker 5: You would love to be findumbed over regardd.
Speaker 4: On what's going on?
Speaker 10: Now?
Speaker 4: Where are we now?
Speaker 2: What did he put the card on hold.
Speaker 5: Ye what happened?
Speaker 6: Well, it was really nice for a while, and then
Speaker 6: randomly the other day I went to do withdrawal and
Speaker 6: it said that the card had been deactivated.
Speaker 1: It can we talk, like how much money did you
Speaker 1: take over the time period?
Speaker 2: Are we talking thousands? Tens of thousands?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 5: Yeah, great question.
Speaker 6: I mean it was probably about nine thousand.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's so much?
Speaker 2: Would you buy one date? Nine thousand dollars? Not calling
Speaker 2: you back?
Speaker 6: I mean I think for him, that's like a drop
Speaker 6: in the bucket. But I texted him and he didn't respond.
Speaker 6: So I'm just really confused.
Speaker 2: Why do you want to call him? Why do you
Speaker 2: want to see him again?
Speaker 6: Because he was really nice and fun.
Speaker 8: I had a good time.
Speaker 5: Okay, what a good answer there.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I also want to see if he's okay, Like
Speaker 6: did I make a mistake that I misunderstand our agreement?
Speaker 6: I just I just want to get some closure either way, Like, yeah,
Speaker 6: I'd love to see him again.
Speaker 4: Gotcha. This is definitely interesting. It's kind of a sensitive.
Speaker 2: Topic at the table because now.
Speaker 4: We're going to be calling a guy, not really even
Speaker 4: talking to him about the actual dates and the romance.
Speaker 4: It's more about what he's into and what.
Speaker 1: Happened good date, the romance, Jeff, that's what we're going
Speaker 1: to call him about.
Speaker 4: That's not what I want, bro, I want to I
Speaker 4: want to get into the gritty dirty details here. When
Speaker 4: we call him, answer, recognize their voice. Maybe we can
Speaker 4: all findom him together.
Speaker 2: Hey, you guys don't know how to do this that.
Speaker 4: You're going to be our sir as we call him.
Speaker 4: A second date update Findom edition right after this hold
Speaker 4: On Second Date update. Man, this is a really interesting
Speaker 4: second date update that we're in the middle of.
Speaker 2: I died to do that. How long were those songs.
Speaker 10: Spent that time?
Speaker 4: We're all really interested because we've never heard of anything
Speaker 4: like this before.
Speaker 5: But I guess we've been talking about this.
Speaker 4: Trend or a niche I'm not sure what to call it.
Speaker 5: That's what I described it as.
Speaker 4: It's called Findom financial domination. And instead of explaining it
Speaker 4: in general, I'll just tell you how Beth's date went.
Speaker 5: Maybe you'll understand it that way.
Speaker 4: Because she met this guy, Charlie up at a rooftop lounge.
Speaker 5: First thing he did.
Speaker 4: Was spread all of his credit cards out on the
Speaker 4: table and told her to pick one any one, and
Speaker 4: she got to use it and take out however much
Speaker 4: money she wanted from his bank.
Speaker 5: Account for the next week.
Speaker 1: Until suddenly he's not texting her back and the card
Speaker 1: is declined.
Speaker 4: Yeah, deactivated his card, ghosted her with no explanation for why.
Speaker 4: And Beth doesn't understand because they both had agreed to this.
Speaker 4: That's what Fendom is like.
Speaker 2: I think it's good to know that, Beth.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're actually interested in him romantically, it's not
Speaker 1: just a money transaction.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I like him.
Speaker 2: Okay, some money would have spent way more than nine thousand.
Speaker 4: Easily right now, Alec, you got to teach Brook how
Speaker 4: to do this properly.
Speaker 5: But we're going to find out what the reason is.
Speaker 4: Hopefully he picks up. Let's call Charlie and see if
Speaker 4: he answers.
Speaker 5: Here we go.
Speaker 2: Are we okay talking to I mean, can.
Speaker 4: We that's a good point. Let's try and be sensitive
Speaker 4: about it. I don't know if he'll want to talk
Speaker 4: about it.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think we should come in hot.
Speaker 2: You give your credit cards to women?
Speaker 4: Okay, well, we'll tread carefully with it. But let's see
Speaker 4: if he even answers.
Speaker 5: Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Charlie?
Speaker 9: It is Who's this?
Speaker 4: Hey Charlie.
Speaker 5: My name is jeff on a radio show called Brooke
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey, Charlie radio show that.
Speaker 5: You're on now too, So welcome.
Speaker 2: We have never been so excited to talk to someone.
Speaker 9: Okay, what is this all about?
Speaker 5: Well, this is a segment that we do. It's called
Speaker 5: Second Date Update.
Speaker 4: What we try to do is help out our listeners
Speaker 4: who've gone out with somebody and they had a really
Speaker 4: nice time with them. We try and help them reconnect
Speaker 4: afterwards if there hasn't been a second meetup. And recently
Speaker 4: you went out with a woman named Beth.
Speaker 9: She did she call you? She contacts you guys.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she reached out to our show.
Speaker 4: She is a little bit confused because after your date
Speaker 4: there's been kind of a lack of communication. And I
Speaker 4: hope I'm not over stepping my bounds here, but she
Speaker 4: did say that you and her are both into it, well,
Speaker 4: a certain type of thrill dating.
Speaker 9: Here.
Speaker 1: You can't see your air quotes that you're using to
Speaker 1: frame it positively, you know, she can you just say
Speaker 1: that she told us about the credit card well, I
Speaker 1: don't look.
Speaker 4: If you don't want us to talk about it, that's
Speaker 4: totally up to you, Charlie. But she mentioned that you're
Speaker 4: both into Findom financial financial domination.
Speaker 9: She told you that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna say she came off so confident and
Speaker 1: like it was just a very normal thing. Of course,
Speaker 1: we're all surprised in the room because we've never heard
Speaker 1: of it.
Speaker 5: Brooks jealous of her in some way.
Speaker 4: The thing is, this is how she found out that
Speaker 4: you weren't interested in her, because she tried to make
Speaker 4: a withdrawal and the card got canceled or declined. And
Speaker 4: I don't know how it works in the Findom world,
Speaker 4: but that seems like sign that things.
Speaker 5: Are probably over.
Speaker 9: You could.
Speaker 4: Yes, Beth is confused because there was no follow up afterwards,
Speaker 4: no explanation, And I don't know if there's a term
Speaker 4: for Findom ghosting, but.
Speaker 5: She gotezer or something, but that's it. I don't know,
Speaker 5: but she is hoping to figure out what happened.
Speaker 9: Oh my god, this whole thing is funny.
Speaker 5: We're a funny show. I think that's that's what's happening.
Speaker 2: So you're cool with the money part, right.
Speaker 9: Of course. I mean, that's what I'm illustrating on my
Speaker 9: dating profile. It's exactly what I'm trying to help you.
Speaker 4: Then okay, well but what happened? Yeah, what we're trying
Speaker 4: to help Beth figure out is where things went south.
Speaker 9: Well, I guess, let me just put it this way.
Speaker 9: After about a week, I guess I was just disappointed
Speaker 9: in what disappointed?
Speaker 4: She did tell us that she spent around nine grand
Speaker 4: Is that the reason the it's the amount of money.
Speaker 9: I guess I was just so when she would go bigger?
Speaker 2: What Bill, did you say you want to spend more?
Speaker 5: Bigger with the spending?
Speaker 10: What?
Speaker 9: Yeah? She was too careful.
Speaker 2: To cautious.
Speaker 9: It felt like findom light.
Speaker 5: I don't know findom light. Wait, I didn't even notice
Speaker 5: you took anything out.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, But when you've gotten out with other women
Speaker 1: who are into this, how much do they drop in
Speaker 1: a week?
Speaker 9: I mean a lot more than that. Like I said,
Speaker 9: I don't I didn't think you would understand.
Speaker 5: I think we understood.
Speaker 4: You want a woman that that is willing to be
Speaker 4: more risky.
Speaker 2: How many dates are you a month?
Speaker 4: Don't don't you think that she would be open to
Speaker 4: the idea of spending more. If you communicated that to her,
Speaker 4: you would.
Speaker 9: No, I really don't think so. I mean, I need
Speaker 9: a woman to go hard and really do some.
Speaker 2: Damage to your financial accounts.
Speaker 5: Finish the sentence form, bro, and you don't You don't
Speaker 5: see Beth being able to do that.
Speaker 9: I mean Beth is nice, don't get me wrong, but
Speaker 9: she's talking about budgets, trying to be careful.
Speaker 2: Even threw up in her mouth a little bit.
Speaker 9: If I wanted to talk about budgets, I would talk
Speaker 9: to my wife, your wife. Yeah, that's what I said.
Speaker 7: Okay, budget saying.
Speaker 4: I don't know if we want to do any deeper,
Speaker 4: let's not Yeah, let's not ask any of those questions
Speaker 4: at this point. We need to be bringing on somebody
Speaker 4: else into this conversation because you don't know this, Charlie.
Speaker 5: But Beth has been listening on the other line.
Speaker 9: She's on the other line.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's been waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 6: So Bethy there, Yeah, okay, So I just I just
Speaker 6: want to understand. So you don't want to see me
Speaker 6: because I did not spend enough of your money and
Speaker 6: you're not willing to communicate that to me, So you
Speaker 6: just go to he is.
Speaker 2: Married I don't think she cares about that. Hold on,
Speaker 2: that would be that would have brought up.
Speaker 5: Did you know that he was married?
Speaker 8: I mean no, but like I could work around that, but.
Speaker 5: Like, man, the fandom world is complicated.
Speaker 7: At all.
Speaker 2: Him.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we had a good time. I'm sorry that I'm
Speaker 6: such a considerate dumb.
Speaker 9: That's I'm not sure if you understand how this is
Speaker 9: all supposed to work. It's just really not sexy at
Speaker 9: all when you're trying to be careful and cautious, Like,
Speaker 9: that's not the point of it.
Speaker 4: I know to do that. Okay, Beth, talk to your
Speaker 4: sub here? Oh my god.
Speaker 6: First of all, in a dominant sub relationship, you're supposed
Speaker 6: to build trust, right, boring?
Speaker 4: Did you say boring?
Speaker 9: There was a couple of days throughout our short brief
Speaker 9: time together where I checked my account and guess what,
Speaker 9: zero activity?
Speaker 4: Not even Starbucks. Come on, that's irresponsible Starbucks breakfast.
Speaker 5: Beth, you can you can step up your game though, right?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I could absolutely step up my game, But maybe
Speaker 6: I should check in with his wife first.
Speaker 2: Actually, actually, can I say that? I think that's a
Speaker 2: good idea.
Speaker 1: Because I've been very worried about this woman.
Speaker 2: Does she know, Charlie, there's a lot of questions.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you guys are asking a lot of questions right now.
Speaker 9: You called me. I'm gonna be a part of it.
Speaker 9: You guys will take what.
Speaker 5: You get, Okay, exact.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Charlie's words boring, So let's move on to the
Speaker 4: interesting stuff. Well, yeah, this is what we do, Charlie.
Speaker 4: The whole purpose of this segment is to try and
Speaker 4: reunite you and Beth together.
Speaker 2: Again by him being married.
Speaker 4: Beth says she doesn't care, and clearly he doesn't care.
Speaker 2: One other person here.
Speaker 4: His wife can listen and text in and weigh and
Speaker 4: however she wants to. But the whole goal is to
Speaker 4: set you up on another day, and we would pay
Speaker 4: for it.
Speaker 9: I mean, listen, it's not gonna work for me. I've
Speaker 9: found another woman already.
Speaker 4: I'm sure it's easy.
Speaker 2: Actually, And what.
Speaker 9: Well, she's actually putting fear in my heart and that's
Speaker 9: really all I'm in it for it.
Speaker 2: Why do I want? Why do I want this woman
Speaker 2: to bankrupt you?
Speaker 9: That's what he wants to She can try. I love it.
Speaker 4: Actually, this conversation is turning him on a little bit
Speaker 4: too much. So you know what, charld are we gonna
Speaker 4: let you go? Thanks for your time, Beth. I'm sorry
Speaker 4: that that didn't work.
Speaker 2: New Beth, I thought you did serious damage.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess I gotta step my game up.
Speaker 5: J Jose would you like to volunteer your bank account?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: I got it, you got a budget a nine dollars?
Speaker 8: I got you?
Speaker 2: Wait already an overdraft O.
Speaker 10: God Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, so.
Speaker 4: Many texts coming into seven eighty five to nine two
Speaker 4: from people saying they'd love to go out with Charlie.
Speaker 2: I'm sack.
Speaker 4: I had our producer check the numbers. Alexis, we really
Speaker 4: need you to stop texting.
Speaker 9: But I have a.
Speaker 3: Wholess I could spend like fifty K to day.
Speaker 2: Okay, I could do honestly, very easy. Just because you
Speaker 2: keep crashing your car.
Speaker 4: Charlie is already with somebody, and I highly doubt you
Speaker 4: could do more damage than her.
Speaker 2: Charlie is with multiple people. He is also married. Why
Speaker 2: does that keep slipping through the.
Speaker 4: Cracks, because that's not what findam is about.
Speaker 2: Okay, again, he would not answer whether his wife knew
Speaker 2: or not.
Speaker 4: Can you imagine having so much money that people try
Speaker 4: to bankrupt you when they can't. Yeah, that's amazing. And
Speaker 4: if his wife doesn't know that, like random people are
Speaker 4: taking out thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars from
Speaker 4: his account and has no idea, then she doesn't want
Speaker 4: to know.
Speaker 2: That is not true that so far, That's.
Speaker 4: The stance I'm taking. And if if you want to
Speaker 4: listen to any of our second dates, you can find
Speaker 4: them on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your content.
Speaker 4: Put in Brooke and Jeffrey's second date update. You'll find
Speaker 4: it there.
Speaker 10: Rook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Women might not realize this, but before going out on
Speaker 4: a big date, there's certain things guys do to help
Speaker 4: boost their self confidence.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, like what.
Speaker 4: They'll knock out twenty push ups real quick in the bathroom.
Speaker 8: You heard that.
Speaker 4: They'll take a couple shots of Jaeger. Yeah, and most importantly,
Speaker 4: we'll watch the snow kiss scene in Bridget jones diary
Speaker 4: because he's so checked up. Nice boys don't kiss like that,
Speaker 4: yeah talking. Unfortunately, for one of our listeners, none of
Speaker 4: those tricks would have boosted his ego enough to handle
Speaker 4: the site that he saw just as he was picking
Speaker 4: up his date. He admits it ruined the rest of
Speaker 4: the night for him. You're gonna hear exactly what happened
Speaker 4: in your second date update. Right after this second Date
Speaker 4: up date, you might remember we did an awkward to
Speaker 4: day phone call a few months back with a guy
Speaker 4: named Aaron because even though him and his ex broke up,
Speaker 4: she was still planning on attending a wedding for their
Speaker 4: mutual friend. That's right. Aaron thought it was weird because
Speaker 4: the groom was his buddy. First back down, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: he wanted our help, and ultimately, I know this is
Speaker 4: probably gonna sound weird, but we had to flip a
Speaker 4: coin in the studio.
Speaker 2: That's right. I couldn't remember how that ended. Who ended
Speaker 2: up going to the wedding? Heard him?
Speaker 4: Aaron lost right and erin, Please tell me you still
Speaker 4: went to your buddy's wedding anyway? The rules?
Speaker 8: Jeff, No, I didn't go.
Speaker 4: Yeah you.
Speaker 9: Did.
Speaker 1: You still give a gift, though, Aaron, what kind of
Speaker 1: friend are you send a gift?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I gave a gift, and it was kind of a
Speaker 8: spiteful one. I got him like a five dollars gift
Speaker 8: certificate to the Bucks.
Speaker 2: I can't even get you a drink.
Speaker 8: It's anything at Starbucks. It's like just below a coffee.
Speaker 5: You can't do anything wrong.
Speaker 2: Well, he invited the ax the X. Well no, wait,
Speaker 2: she didn't have an invite, did she.
Speaker 4: So ultimately, the weird part is that after all of
Speaker 4: that went downhill for him, Aaron is back again for
Speaker 4: a second date.
Speaker 9: Update.
Speaker 4: Now, so what's going on in your love life at
Speaker 4: the moment?
Speaker 8: So I got another problem here to crack. I met
Speaker 8: this girl on the apps.
Speaker 2: Well we know it wasn't at the wedding, so yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: it wasn't there.
Speaker 8: No, not at all, and kind of a breath of
Speaker 8: fresh air for me, like super grounded, glow maintenance type
Speaker 8: of woman. And went on a first date. Went good,
Speaker 8: nothing okay, too crazy, but we had great danter.
Speaker 2: Did you say she's a great dancer?
Speaker 8: Banter?
Speaker 1: Oh, like, oh cool, you had dancing.
Speaker 4: I was more interested in dance moves as well.
Speaker 8: All right, but we had a good time watching the car.
Speaker 8: We did kiss, so that was good.
Speaker 2: Oh probably okay? And what was the kiss?
Speaker 8: Like, it was good. It was like saying that you're
Speaker 8: going to want to go on a second date without
Speaker 8: actually having to say it, you know, it's one of those.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 4: There's a term called kiss you goodbye.
Speaker 3: There's also a pity kiss.
Speaker 5: Sorry, we know all the depressing types of kiss on
Speaker 5: this show.
Speaker 8: I've had them all. I've had them all.
Speaker 5: We'll see a later time.
Speaker 2: You're saying you left feeling really hopeful.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so it did go to a second.
Speaker 1: Dated, so it wasn't a sad kiss.
Speaker 8: You read it right, I did.
Speaker 5: Yeah, ok, tell us about date number two.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so she said come meet me at work, like
Speaker 8: right at the end of her shift or whatever.
Speaker 4: Oh god, okay, weird. Well, well, I guess depends on
Speaker 4: where she works at a cool place.
Speaker 8: Yeah, well she worked. She works at a hotel four
Speaker 8: star thing, and I showed up, not totally sure what
Speaker 8: she does, like if it's like reservations or concierge stuff or.
Speaker 2: I don't know, but maybe you could break in the
Speaker 2: pool and have a pool party.
Speaker 4: Yeah. You said it was four stars too, right, sound
Speaker 4: like it's like a dingy motel up.
Speaker 8: The highway was really nice?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, different though, Okay.
Speaker 8: She kind of runs out, She's like, hey, I got
Speaker 8: ten more minutes. I gotta wrap some stuff up, and
Speaker 8: then she runs back, and I'm as I walk in,
Speaker 8: I'm kind of noticing there's like all these dudes and
Speaker 8: they're all like hout and six foot two, and like the.
Speaker 2: Hot Dude convention at the hotel. I go to that
Speaker 2: every year.
Speaker 5: This is why you go to the four Stars. How
Speaker 5: didn't get my invite this year?
Speaker 4: What happened?
Speaker 10: Like you're losing.
Speaker 8: It looked like there was some sort of thing like
Speaker 8: an agency. I don't know, but she was, I guess,
Speaker 8: wrangling something in the back, like with all of them,
Speaker 8: and she was having the time of her life.
Speaker 4: Well, dude, wouldn't you flip it around you were run
Speaker 4: a bunch of beautiful formale models, you'd probably have a
Speaker 4: smile on your face.
Speaker 9: It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 5: You're just like enjoying the.
Speaker 8: View, enjoying your I couldn't agree more.
Speaker 4: Okay, so that's however, However.
Speaker 8: We go on like mini golf date and see I
Speaker 8: would be doing the same thing she was. You're right,
Speaker 8: but I would also kind of carry that energy through
Speaker 8: to whoever I was dating, hopefully immediately after, and she
Speaker 8: was kind of stand offish. It was just like she
Speaker 8: wasn't treating me that way. She was It was more
Speaker 8: just kind of like there was this distance. But then
Speaker 8: I could have been being weird too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like you were being weird. I mean
Speaker 1: just even your mindset in the hotel lobby sounds kind of.
Speaker 4: It also sounds like she's like, bye, hot guys, good
Speaker 4: to see you you.
Speaker 2: Maybe she used all her for, like, you know, fake
Speaker 2: customer service, Yeah, emotional capacity for the day.
Speaker 4: Did you try anything with her to try and get
Speaker 4: the mood right? Yeah?
Speaker 8: I did, And I only mentioned this thing once. I
Speaker 8: was like, what was going were all those dudes? She
Speaker 8: was like, Oh, it's like this model convention thing, and I.
Speaker 1: No, I mean I get it, like if I looked
Speaker 1: into a model convention and I was meeting some guy.
Speaker 2: For our first date, it would just be a hit
Speaker 2: to your ego.
Speaker 4: I could see that totally.
Speaker 8: I feel like a solid ache. But then I walked
Speaker 8: in there and I was like, no, I'm I'm a five.
Speaker 1: Maybe personality probably sucks you're in her hometown, ing, that's
Speaker 1: how it works, I.
Speaker 8: Get it, right.
Speaker 4: So are you thinking that overall your attitude that day
Speaker 4: may have affected how your date played out?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: And I know you know, I said it the one
Speaker 8: time I brought it up just to see what she
Speaker 8: would say, and I didn't touch it again because I'm
Speaker 8: not a complete idiot.
Speaker 2: But that's good.
Speaker 8: And then I'm like, was I weird? And then it
Speaker 8: was like if I was a little weird, that was
Speaker 8: she like taking some misread cute and then that snowballed
Speaker 8: into her being weird.
Speaker 2: And you're in your head about this.
Speaker 4: Sure, you're your own worst enemy, even right it's a
Speaker 4: little yeah, that's the word, thank you, And we want
Speaker 4: to we want to be what's the opposite.
Speaker 5: Of difference.
Speaker 2: Compared to us. You're gonna look like a nine when
Speaker 2: we get her on the phone.
Speaker 8: So yeah, I'm glad this is radio. You can do
Speaker 8: that exactly.
Speaker 4: So we're gonna call Natalie and we're gonna send her
Speaker 4: out with a ten personality.
Speaker 2: One like it.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, person we'll come back and do your second
Speaker 4: ate update, next second date update. I really feel for
Speaker 4: Aaron because right before his second date with Natalie, he
Speaker 4: went to go meet her and there was a hotel
Speaker 4: lobby full of attractive male models. Chances yeah, I mean
Speaker 4: not good. At least they seem to be models, And
Speaker 4: that may have thrown off Aaron's confidence right before they
Speaker 4: went to mini golf. Yeah, and it just made me
Speaker 4: think it must be how all of you feel whenever
Speaker 4: you come into the studio with me, exactly. We get
Speaker 4: intimidated and it rows off your confidence.
Speaker 1: It's like, how do I talk to you?
Speaker 4: I'm single? Yeah, and I apologize for making you guys
Speaker 4: feel that way. I feel really bad.
Speaker 5: I'm really sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm just you didn't get invited to the model convention,
Speaker 1: and yeah I didn't.
Speaker 5: Because I was invited to the one in Paris. I
Speaker 5: couldn't do the small pond stuff anymore.
Speaker 4: But you know what, this man is going to help
Speaker 4: the man on the phone to meet up with the
Speaker 4: girl that he likes, Natalie. Again, it just, Aaron, it
Speaker 4: sounds like you just didn't put your best foot forward
Speaker 4: with all that stuff going on in the back of
Speaker 4: your mind.
Speaker 5: I'm hoping we could pull it off for you, all right.
Speaker 8: Yeah, thanks, I kind of stuttered into the whole thing, you.
Speaker 4: Know, totally.
Speaker 1: And you know, even if you end up telling her that, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm just a little thrown off, I think she'd get it,
Speaker 1: like there's there's no personal live that wouldn't feel a
Speaker 1: little uncomfortable walking into unless you are, in fact a model.
Speaker 4: You know, you'd like to hear if you're honest, like
Speaker 4: I was a little insecure and.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally yeah.
Speaker 4: Women like it when you project all of your insecurities
Speaker 4: right out into the open. Let's go. You're gonna have
Speaker 4: to lie, that's not true. This is the model we're
Speaker 4: talking to, jeff.
Speaker 2: Jeff Nos I think we got this. You got two
Speaker 2: dates under your belt, we get you a third. We're good.
Speaker 5: All right, Okay, let's not waste any more time. Let's
Speaker 5: call it right now. Okay, here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 5: Hey is this Natalie?
Speaker 9: Yeah? What's up? Natalie?
Speaker 5: You're You're on the radio right now with Brooke and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Natalie, Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 11: No way, young Jeffrey, No way, Hi, Jeffrey. I cannot
Speaker 11: believe this totally shoke that you called me.
Speaker 8: What is just a reference to?
Speaker 5: This is in reference to a second.
Speaker 4: Date update and a guy that you've gone out twice
Speaker 4: with named Aaron.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah, it's just like went in the lottery.
Speaker 11: All right, So how did you hear about this?
Speaker 4: You know that Aaron emails us and tells us a
Speaker 4: little bit about your date dates plural. Actually why though,
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Because you're not calling him back and he likes you
Speaker 2: any things.
Speaker 4: You don't like him.
Speaker 11: I think it's the other way around.
Speaker 8: But okay, what makes you say that?
Speaker 11: Well, I don't know. I just got like the feeling
Speaker 11: that on our second seat he seemed a little aloop.
Speaker 2: Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 4: We talked to him about the second date, and he
Speaker 4: mentioned something about trying to meet you at the hotel
Speaker 4: where you work, and there was a bunch of kind
Speaker 4: of attractive guys in the lobby.
Speaker 2: There was there, legit a model convention going on.
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, yeah there was. Oh yeah, but that's my job.
Speaker 2: He thought that too. I mean, it's not like he
Speaker 2: was like jealous or anything like that.
Speaker 10: No, I don't know.
Speaker 11: I just sensed like maybe he wasn't really that into
Speaker 11: me at that time. The first date went really well,
Speaker 11: but then the second dat he seems like a said
Speaker 11: stand office a little bit, and I don't know, I
Speaker 11: just sent like a different vibe, and so I was like,
Speaker 11: all right, maybe this guy just really isn't don into me.
Speaker 11: And I kind of backed off a little bit.
Speaker 4: I mean, but you could understand where he's coming from,
Speaker 4: because he's around all these you know, apparently really good
Speaker 4: looking male models.
Speaker 1: I think I think what Jeff's saying is like he
Speaker 1: just took a little like hit to the ego as
Speaker 1: soon as he went to meet you, and then it
Speaker 1: was hard for him to kind of get back that
Speaker 1: confidence he lost.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because he mentioned that you look like you were
Speaker 4: having a lot of fun with them.
Speaker 11: You know, I didn't even really think about that, And
Speaker 11: that's on him. It's he's insecure looking. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 11: they're good looking, absolutely. I mean their money.
Speaker 8: Now I rest my kids. It's like still I'm here
Speaker 8: by the way.
Speaker 4: Oh god, remember how this was Natalie Aaron's on the
Speaker 4: other line listening.
Speaker 2: We were doing a good job, erin.
Speaker 5: Were getting the meat of it.
Speaker 11: How quickly I forgot Hello Aaron?
Speaker 8: How are you?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 9: Hi?
Speaker 8: Sorry? I just thought that your head was kind of
Speaker 8: with the models during many golf and not with me.
Speaker 11: That's I like you, I'm I was on the date
Speaker 11: with you.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 8: They're models. They're supposed to be good looking.
Speaker 11: You know, models are good looking, whether they're male, they're female.
Speaker 8: These models were good looking. Oh and they were male,
Speaker 8: so we'll get that out of the way. But she's
Speaker 8: the one that keeps bringing up how good looking these
Speaker 8: guys were. You guys did hear this?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but didn't you hear her on your date?
Speaker 1: You were like aloof and and we're into her, And
Speaker 1: so that's why her attitude change.
Speaker 2: It didn't have anything to do with models.
Speaker 8: I get it. It's fine, but it's like I showed
Speaker 8: up for her because I wanted to be with her,
Speaker 8: and then I felt like her head was somewhere else,
Speaker 8: which is back it like a it looks like a
Speaker 8: bud light commercial or something. Well, you're a bad example.
Speaker 8: Maybe not today, but like a.
Speaker 2: Top gun volleyball scene. Is that what we're sing.
Speaker 4: That's not helping with That's not helping with my focus either.
Speaker 4: So let's refocus because not only what I think Aaron
Speaker 4: is saying is to him, whether it's true or not,
Speaker 4: it felt like you were more interested in hanging out
Speaker 4: with the models that day than hanging out with him.
Speaker 5: That was just a vibe that he got.
Speaker 11: I have to disagree because I'm like that with everybody.
Speaker 11: We're in the business of being happy and creating a
Speaker 11: happy experience for everybody, and I'm just being myself when
Speaker 11: I'm with Aaron, and of course I like him, but
Speaker 11: I'm not going to be all Holly Dolly like, oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, makes sense. I mean, Aaron, you hear her because.
Speaker 8: It Yeah, it's just like I don't know. I mean,
Speaker 8: I'm sure it was like being a weird, so that's
Speaker 8: part of it, but it just like it just kind
Speaker 8: of felt like I was competing or something with all
Speaker 8: of these dudes. One thing you weren't.
Speaker 2: How many times does she have to tell you that?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, one more would probably help? Just drive it on.
Speaker 11: God, I like you, Aaron. I mean, come on, now,
Speaker 11: I like you too.
Speaker 4: That's why now we're getting somewhere.
Speaker 11: I like you, okay, so fine, you like me and
Speaker 11: I like you.
Speaker 6: So with a problem.
Speaker 8: I don't get it. Do you want to go out
Speaker 8: on date number three? And then then yes?
Speaker 11: I you okay, you do?
Speaker 8: Okay, you do, so then I'll go with you. Then okay, okay,
Speaker 8: then mad wow, Maybe I don't. Maybe I don't like
Speaker 8: anybody else but you, and then I want to just
Speaker 8: go out with you. Maybe that's how a.
Speaker 4: Threat, but it's not a threat, like that's.
Speaker 2: A good thing.
Speaker 5: Don't interrupt them.
Speaker 11: This is the feeling is reciprocal. Absolutely, I like you.
Speaker 3: Angry kiss this time.
Speaker 4: You just skipped the third date and they officially have
Speaker 4: the exclusive talk jeff for the two of them too.
Speaker 9: Why are we yelling? Scary? So?
Speaker 4: Wait, are you guys happy going out again?
Speaker 11: Like?
Speaker 8: Yes, we are, Yes, we are, we are, and we're
Speaker 8: gonna it's gonna be the best date, damn.
Speaker 6: It we have.
Speaker 4: Well, we're gonna pay for that best day, damn it.
Speaker 8: Yeah, you'll pay for that date.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, I'm happy to pay for it. Okay,
Speaker 4: how about that?
Speaker 8: Well, this is going a little bit better than I thought.
Speaker 8: I don't know why.
Speaker 4: I am mad though, Yeah, but we're not quite sure either,
Speaker 4: but it's working. So I will keep this energy when
Speaker 4: you meet up with Natalie.
Speaker 9: Okay, now are.
Speaker 4: You cool with that?
Speaker 11: I am cool with that.
Speaker 4: Let's end this segment now, congratulations.
Speaker 8: Don't be late, very mad, It'll be fine. I'll be fine.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's sensible.
Speaker 4: I appreciate that.
Speaker 10: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Well.
Speaker 4: There was a lot of yelling going on in that
Speaker 4: segment that was unexpected.
Speaker 2: You're just going to say, but there was passion behind it, right, was.
Speaker 4: Happy yelling, So I can only imagine what the romantic
Speaker 4: life is going to be, like, Brooke, do you want
Speaker 4: to re enact it right now?
Speaker 2: I don't. I actually didn't even want to imagine it
Speaker 2: for them. I just wanted to let them have that.
Speaker 5: Do that on my personal time once we go off
Speaker 5: the air. But remember, you could check out all.
Speaker 4: Of our second date updates if you want to hear
Speaker 4: them up on our Uh where are they on our website?
Speaker 2: That's a good place for him to be.
Speaker 4: That's where it is. Is that on the worldwide lab
Speaker 4: Jeffrey thinking of the romantic scene.
Speaker 2: You can also find them on our podcast.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, don't.
Speaker 2: Say it like that. I don't know. I just want
Speaker 2: to get out of it.
Speaker 4: Let's go in the hallway, all right, grab my hand.