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Speaker 1: All right, here we go pebbles and beth'sda says. My

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Speaker 1: husband and I have an annual house party on Christmas Eve.

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Speaker 1: I invited my ex boyfriend and his wife to our party,

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Speaker 1: and my husband was tight with me all night after

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Speaker 1: he saw them. He is stuck in the past. Why

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Speaker 1: can't we all get along in twenty twenty five?

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Speaker 2: What? Okay?

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Speaker 3: But what is we getting along for your ex boyfriend

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Speaker 3: and his wife? What is you still talking to him

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Speaker 3: for to invite him to the party. Why he need

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Speaker 3: to be at the party? He ain't got nowhere else

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Speaker 3: he can go. Ain't no other party he can go too?

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Speaker 2: They give it a great party. Wo sounds like man,

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Speaker 2: that's deep.

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Speaker 3: You know, women, y'all, Why can't he leave stuff in

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Speaker 3: the past. Why don't you leave it in the past.

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Speaker 3: See see if you want him to leave it in

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Speaker 3: the past, why don't you leave it in the past.

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Speaker 3: If your ex boyfriend is your ex boyfriend, leave him

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Speaker 3: in the past.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, you sound like her husband.

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Speaker 2: Height. I'm just I'm telling you right. Oh, I'm swear

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Speaker 2: to god, I'm taking.

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Speaker 3: Whole damn party gonna be matter of fact, I probably

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Speaker 3: won't have the party next year.

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Speaker 2: What is he doing at the party though? Why is

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Speaker 2: he here? Who told him to come? But how he

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Speaker 2: here in my house? A hell party? No, it's impossible,

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Speaker 2: So there is no way here are you in my house?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 3: Hell no, hell no, you cannot be that damn stupid.

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Speaker 1: She's like, you know, let's all get along.

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Speaker 4: It's all love in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and so few the Smith's family can

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Speaker 3: do that. Everybody ain't like that. Everybody can't do what

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Speaker 3: you ain't the Smith Smith, you will and all the

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Speaker 3: people go over the house, be vacation in the talking and.

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Speaker 2: Went right over all.

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Speaker 3: Look at the top of the volcano with each other,

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Speaker 3: and hey, no, I'm going to push all.

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Speaker 1: Right, We're gonna move wand Intoledo before he gets really hot.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: I'm fifty seven and I've never had chitterlings. I'm black

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Speaker 1: and Mexican, and I was raised by my black mama,

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Speaker 1: so I know black culture. My wife's brother tried to

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Speaker 1: prank me into eating some and I lost it. How

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Speaker 1: do I stop this clown from questioning my blackness?

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Speaker 2: Listen, listen. If you fit Steven and you ain't had

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Speaker 2: no hit, Okay, stop right there. You said, chitling.

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Speaker 1: I know, I said chitterlings.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay. First of all, First of all, let me

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Speaker 3: stop this whole thing. If you fifty seven and you

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Speaker 3: like Shirley, and you haven't had any chitterlings right there,

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Speaker 3: that's why your ass is getting questioned about your blackness

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Speaker 3: because they're not chitterlings. And if you fifty seven and

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Speaker 3: it ain't had no chip, come on, your ass is Mexican.

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Speaker 2: Bottom lis, that's just bottom line. Ain't that wrong with it?

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Speaker 3: I'm some great Mexican people, just gone and be that.

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Speaker 3: Stop telling people too late. That would be for example,

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Speaker 3: I give an example. If you are Mexican and you

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Speaker 3: want to identify as Mexicans, but somebody in your family black,

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Speaker 3: and you tell the people in the Mexican side you

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Speaker 3: ain't never had a taco or burrito, they're gonna put

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Speaker 3: your ass outtes. So just give us the curtisy some

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Speaker 3: things that that's us with It ain't for everybody.

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Speaker 2: I got that, you know.

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Speaker 3: But if that's the part that's holding you back and

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Speaker 3: you're calling them chitterly, they're rights only said that, but

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Speaker 3: that's why we you can't put it. Shirley said, Look

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Speaker 3: at the sheep bullish, you've never had child.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say that I have taste them.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, no, we said, hey, we say tasted.

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Speaker 1: No, no, I have, Well.

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Speaker 3: You can taste it. Let well, let me taste something.

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Speaker 3: Every black person don't like chicken. I'm just going that's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you had to have him in a pot

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Speaker 2: on the stove at one point in time in your house.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 2: I had to clean them. I had to clean him

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Speaker 2: and cook them because I can cook them good.

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Speaker 4: And we're all the way black all the way, got

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Speaker 4: on black shirt, right, all right? Moving on at black

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Speaker 4: job all the way, all right, Celo.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Brianna and Roswell. Brianna writes, I've been

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Speaker 1: a side chick for two years and I'm in it

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Speaker 1: for a long run because I believe it when he

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Speaker 1: says he loves me. He does everything for me, and

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Speaker 1: he let me drive one of his cars. He said

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Speaker 1: his wife knows about me. And can I trust him

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Speaker 1: with my heart? That is her question?

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Speaker 2: The l oh, does he loves in love with you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Can you trusting with your heart? He already got it,

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Speaker 2: But now.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you what ain't happening though, He ain't

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Speaker 3: told his wife bout you.

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Speaker 2: I promise you that.

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Speaker 3: Ain't he lying up. That's a damn life. That's the

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Speaker 3: damn lie. And you're driving the car and it ain't

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Speaker 3: blue up yet? What the black wait?

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Speaker 2: What man? What black wife? You know? Gonna sit up

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Speaker 2: here and let you tell him.

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Speaker 3: You got a signe she and she drive one of

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Speaker 3: the cars.

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Speaker 2: Boy, let me tell you something I don't heard of.

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Speaker 3: Black women don't share good. I'm just gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: that they don't share good. The men, clothes, dresses, cars,

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Speaker 3: they don't do that. So, ma'am, can you trust you're

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Speaker 3: in it for the long haul? You've made made that decision.

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Speaker 3: You're an adult. You can do what you want to do.

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Speaker 3: You will forever be the side ship or us side chip.

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Speaker 3: Even if you get out of this, you open to

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Speaker 3: the side chick thing. That's what you're gonna be. You're

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Speaker 3: not going to be number one.

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Speaker 4: Hm.

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Speaker 3: He does love you, and he can be in love

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Speaker 3: with you. All that can be true. Can you trust

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Speaker 3: him with your heart?

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Speaker 4: Not?

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Speaker 3: If his wife find out and he done told you

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Speaker 3: his wife know about you? Girl, bye, let me ask

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Speaker 3: you something. Yeah, what did he say to his wife?

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Speaker 3: That's what I will that I will hear that conversation,

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Speaker 3: that line that that's supposedly work.

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Speaker 2: I want to hear that that that the wall where

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Speaker 2: she knows about you. Give us an example, girl, Are

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Speaker 2: you that stupid?

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Speaker 1: Give us an example, Steve.

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Speaker 2: But it's nothing, it's nothing.

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Speaker 3: I can't I can't roll these big ass lips up

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Speaker 3: to say nothing that. I can't even shape my mouth

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Speaker 3: if I try. Okay, I'm gonna try. Baby, I do everything.

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Speaker 5: What baby pillow hold on, Baby, I got to sell

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Speaker 5: the

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Speaker 1: Talk about you're listening, Harvey Morning Show