1 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: I had no idea. 2 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: I think it was in our fourth or fifth season 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 2: somebody on set asked me how what it was like 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 2: to be America's sweetheart, and I was like, what. 5 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 3: You might know her as Winnie Cooper on The Wonder Years, 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 3: and she's turned that into career that's lasted nearly four decades. 7 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 3: She's an actress, a producer, a Christmas movie staple, and 8 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 3: even a former Dancing with the Stars quarter finalist. She 9 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 3: also graduated summa cum lati from UCLA and mathematics. And 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 3: there's a bunch of math stuff I should say, but 11 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 3: I don't know somebody of theorem that she helped prove. 12 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 3: That's how smart she is. She writes books. To me, 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 3: she will always be Winnie Cooper from The Wonder Years. 14 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 3: Here she is Danica mckeller. Danic, that's really nice to 15 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 3: meet you. 16 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 2: You too. 17 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,639 Speaker 3: I would like to start with talking about something that 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: we have in common, which was we were both on 19 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 3: Dancing with the Stars. 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: Yes, you were. 21 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 1: How did you I did not win? 22 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 3: Okay, I usually don't like but I did. But I 23 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 3: don't care about me. I want to know how you 24 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: felt about the whole experience. 25 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: It was, it was I liken it to childbirth. I 26 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 2: understand your wife is about to experience that. It was 27 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: the most physically demanding thing that I'd ever done. Except 28 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 2: instead of thirty six hours, which is my child worth 29 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: experience labor, it was three months. So it was like, 30 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: I mean, it was thrilling and it was awesome. It 31 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: was terrifying. I always felt like I was just barely 32 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 2: gonna make it, but maybe not quite. One week I 33 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: actually did forget the choreography. You can't quite tell. I 34 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 2: just look a little slop because like I remember what 35 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 2: the moves were. 36 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: Like, not when to do it was. It was weird. 37 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: So I was wearing these gloves it was this week seven. 38 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: They were mesh and they got caught in VAL's finger 39 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: and so he had to like turn me with the 40 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 2: other hand, and it just I'm not I mean, I'm 41 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: not a professional dancer. So I was just like what 42 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: it was like asking a non actor to improv suddenly 43 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: when something happens on stage, like, I'm not prepared to 44 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 2: know how to do that, and so it just kind 45 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: of And that was the year that I mean, that 46 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: was the week that my rib had been broken, and 47 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 2: so it was like a very challenging experience. But I 48 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: thought if I could survive that, like going, oh my gosh, 49 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: I don't know my choreography and I'm like on national 50 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 2: television with twenty million million people watching, then you know, 51 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 2: it teaches you to It teaches you to be tough. 52 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 2: It teaches you that you are tough. It teaches you resilience. 53 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: I got so much out of that my whole life. 54 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 2: You know, I've loved this sort of charm life. Other 55 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 2: than the fact that my parents got divorced and I 56 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 2: got divorced all that kind of stuff, I've really like 57 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: been sheltered in a lot of ways, and so I 58 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 2: was never like like I never was put out in 59 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 2: the in the wilderness and like here survive. You know, 60 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 2: that kind of thing was just never part of my life. 61 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 2: And this experience in Dancing the Stars was very much 62 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 2: like that, because you have to figure out what you're 63 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 2: made of. You know, are you gonna stick it out? 64 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 2: Because it's live, there's no there's no back door to 65 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: leave out. 66 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 3: Of, and noybody else can do it for you. 67 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: Nobody else can do it for you, and nobody can. 68 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 2: I mean, your coaches are there, I'll help you. But 69 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 2: the toughness aspect of it was just very new for me, 70 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: and it was a wonderful message that I get to 71 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: like hear for myself that I can handle tough things. 72 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 2: Aside from the childbirth thing, I knew that one already. 73 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: This is this is like another level somehow because it 74 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 2: just lasted so much longer I'd already given birth to 75 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: that point. 76 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: Draco is three and a half years old. 77 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 3: For the for the show, Yeah, it was a crazy 78 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 3: experiment experience for me too, And I like talking to 79 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 3: people that have done it because it is a fraternity 80 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 3: kind of people because it's a little it's trauma bonding 81 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 3: while you're there with the people you're with. Trauma bonding. 82 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I never thought of that, but it 83 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 2: is totally Have you heard about where like if you 84 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: have rabbits that aren't getting along, do you put them 85 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 2: in a way like a basket, the lunch basket, and 86 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 2: you shake it a little bit and it trauma bonds 87 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: them and then they get along. 88 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: I've never done it myself. 89 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 3: Were the rabbits though we were the rabbits. 90 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 2: We were the rabbits, And I've never heard of any 91 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: other use of trauma bonding other than the rabbits. 92 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 3: Yes, I trauma bonded hard with the people on that 93 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: show especially, and then it's like a shared trauma bonding 94 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: with people who have done it, who felt, oh, I've 95 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 3: never done anything like this. I have felt though, that 96 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: it's a different experience. For people that went in with 97 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 3: the dance experience, they loved it and it was brilliant 98 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: and it was joy. But it's people like us that 99 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 3: felt really unnatural that I think. I mean, I'd taken. 100 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: Dance lessince before. I love dance. 101 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 3: I've learned it was great. It's a whole different thing than. 102 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 2: Ball, you know what I like in this too. Well. 103 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: Also just the pressure and the schedule. 104 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: So it's like if you love chocolate, it says it's great, here, 105 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 2: get in this bucket of chocolate, a barrel of chocolate, 106 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: and we're going to hold your head underneath it for 107 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: like three months. 108 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: Like wait, I know that I love this and there 109 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: are moments of. 110 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 2: Joy and glee and euphoria, but just sandwich between those 111 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 2: is all the terror and like nerves. But that was 112 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 2: it was. I would I mean, I've never traded that 113 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: experience for anything, and for a while, I would have said, yeah, 114 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 2: I would do it again if they wanted to bring 115 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 2: me back. They hardly ever do that. But I still dance, 116 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 2: still dance first before I move on to that. So 117 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 2: I remember I used to come home. Did you do 118 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: the ice baths? 119 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 4: Oh? 120 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, all the time. Yeah, I said, that's the massages. 121 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: All I had to massages. 122 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: That's interesting. 123 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: I was injured too, but it's a whole different story. 124 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 3: But tell me about the ice bats for you. 125 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: So every every night I would pull myself up the 126 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 2: rilling to get upstairs because my legs weren't working, and 127 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 2: I would sit in this ice bath for four to 128 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 2: eight minutes and my husband. 129 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: Would be like, how are you doing that? 130 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, sweaty. This is the easiest. 131 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: Part of my day. 132 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 2: I can just sit here and I'm not gonna let 133 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 2: anybody down. I'm not gonna let myself down. It's all 134 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,239 Speaker 2: gonna be fine. 135 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:35,799 Speaker 1: And yet, you know, I'm. 136 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: So proud of the dances, right, It's like, wow, look 137 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: at that, this beauty and the beast number that Veal 138 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 2: put together. That was brilliant. It's like a Broadway show, 139 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 2: so much fun. The tribute that I got to do, 140 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 2: the the must marvel year. It was from my grandmother. 141 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 2: It was twenty ten, my grandmother and my son. My 142 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: grandmother passed away, my son was born, and to do 143 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 2: this Billy Joel's Lullaby. It was a contemporary dance. 144 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: It's just beautiful still. 145 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I just love that whole experience. It was 146 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 2: just so concentrated values. To say, I wish that they 147 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: would give you, guys, like a week off in between 148 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 2: so that you could rest and reflect on what you've 149 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: done before rushing into the next one. But that's that's 150 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: show biz. No resting, no resting, no reflecting, no reflecting. 151 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: But I do still dance, and do you know globs 152 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: of schenko I do. Yeah, so I So I do 153 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 2: movies now for Great American Family Channel, and I often 154 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: write them and produce them. And so I did a 155 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: movie called Swing into Romance that he was the third 156 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 2: lead on and we had like real jive dances and 157 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: it was so fun. 158 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: It was just a fantastic experends. 159 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: It's on pureflicks dot Com and I have a bunch 160 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 2: of movies on there right now. 161 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 3: Twelve I counted. I think it's twelve. I think I 162 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 3: count at least twelve are. 163 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: There twelve, now let go. 164 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,679 Speaker 1: But the dance one is swinging to romance. 165 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: That's fun. Especially I think it's fun that I still 166 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 3: am friends with a lot of them. Yeah, And I 167 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 3: was at dinner a couple of weeks ago and it 168 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: was the first time i'd ever met him. A guy 169 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 3: named von Miller who played football. Still plays football the NFL, 170 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,239 Speaker 3: but he played from when I remember him with the Broncos. 171 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 3: And he was on Dancing with the Stars. And I 172 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 3: don't want to be that guy who goes, hey, you 173 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: won't talk about Dancing with the Stars because some people 174 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 3: may not have enjoyed their experience, right. And we were 175 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 3: a dinner and it was and I didn't want to 176 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 3: say anything, and I never want to be annoying at dinners, 177 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 3: so I'm kind of just quiet. And somebody he was 178 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 3: with says, hey, you should ask him about Dancing with 179 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 3: the Stars. And I'm like, he's still in the NFL. 180 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 3: The last thing he wants to talk about is dance. 181 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 3: I said, I'm not gonna He said, he never gets 182 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: to talk about it. He would love to talk about it. 183 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: So I said, hey, Vaon, you were on Dancing with 184 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: the Stars, right, who was your partner It was like 185 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 3: I brought up some a childhood memory that he just 186 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 3: talked so glowingly about it. It was really cool. So 187 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 3: when I because I knew you were on the show, 188 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 3: I was like, man, I'm going to talk about that 189 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,559 Speaker 3: because I love talking about it. Yeah, you hurt your rib? 190 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: I did I broke my rib? 191 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 3: Okay? Was that on the show that you broke over? 192 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 2: Yes? So in week three they're in the contemporary dance 193 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: told you about the tribute. There was a move where 194 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 2: Val was to throw me up. I was to spin 195 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: three sixty and they would catch me. In the end, 196 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 2: we end up doing a one eighty and I kind 197 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: of wish that we decided to that sooner rather than later, 198 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 2: because we rehearsed that through sixty again and again and again, 199 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 2: and I would never be kind off balance, and so 200 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 2: this side would come down first and it was feeling sore. 201 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: It was bruised, but I was like, yeah, what, that's 202 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: what dancers do. 203 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: They tough it out. 204 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 2: So it after that performance, you know how the body 205 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 2: hangs on until the performance is done. 206 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: It started hurting so badly. I was like, what is 207 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: going on? Went to the doctor. 208 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 2: They said, well, it's not fractured, but just be careful, 209 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 2: put like a rib brace on a okay, great. Next 210 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 2: week was the switch up week, which we did back then. 211 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you did. 212 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 3: No, we didn't do switch Yeah, who did you switch 213 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:46,599 Speaker 3: up with? 214 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: Him? Max Fowl's brother, And so it was. It was 215 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 2: a jive, but it was fine and I wore the 216 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 2: brace the whole time. Week five was my Beauty the 217 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 2: Beast number the quick step. Wore the brace. Week six 218 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 2: where the race, Uh no, we didn't wear the brace. 219 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 2: And in week seven Val was like, you know, are 220 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 2: you ready for Do you think you're ready for Tricksy? 221 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, sure, And it was just that 222 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 2: thing where you know, like the you do a summerrsault 223 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 2: and you grab onto the waists and the other person 224 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: to the summersault. 225 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: We just started to try that and we both heard 226 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: the crack. 227 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 2: So my rope was just holding on all those weeks, 228 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 2: but it couldn't actually handle under pressure and the. 229 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: Pain that flooded through my body. 230 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 2: Went to the hospital or I think it just went 231 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: to the doctor and anyway, they're like, yeah, it's broken, 232 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: but you can't put a cast on a rib, so 233 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 2: they just would give me like a steroid patch and. 234 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: I kept going. 235 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 2: So I danced week seven and week eight with a 236 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 2: broken rib. 237 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: In week eight is when I got floted off. 238 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: But back then the way that changes season and season, 239 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: but back then, the previous season's vote counted towards the 240 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 2: next I mean, the previous week's votes counted toward that elimination. 241 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 2: So in week seven, which is the first week that 242 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: I danced with the broken rib, those vot cast me off. 243 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: And that's what I do too. 244 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 2: If somebody's injured, I'm like, you know what they shouldn't 245 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 2: They should go home and rest, and so I don't 246 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 2: vote for them. 247 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:07,719 Speaker 1: And that's that's what happened to me. 248 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: It was probably best, but anyway, I danced, yeah, eight 249 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 2: out of ten weeks, and then of course week ten 250 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 2: we came back and everybody does their dance again. In 251 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 2: week nine they had us do pre tape a dance 252 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 2: for the finale, so I actually technically danced every week 253 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 2: and it was it was just a blast. I had 254 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 2: such a great time for all the pressure and everything else. 255 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: I loved the costumes and I. 256 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 2: And the camaraderie and the bonding when you're all doing something, 257 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 2: it's kind of nearly impossible, and they really don't show 258 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: how hard it is physically and emotionally, because if they did, 259 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 2: I think it would actually bump people out. So that's 260 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: why we said it's like a community fratrinity. We all 261 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: know what it's actually really like and how challenging it 262 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 2: really is. That's that's the beauty of it, you know. 263 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: It's kind of like so my other career is writing 264 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: math books, and part of the beauty of math is 265 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 2: that it's challenging. Part of the gift of math is 266 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 2: that it is challenging because it forces your brain to 267 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 2: think in a different way. You get something out of that, 268 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 2: out of thinking you can't do something. Sticking with it, 269 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 2: then you finally get it. Now you've tie yourself too 270 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 2: stronger and smarter than your thought. So that I see 271 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: the value in it, and it's great just that I 272 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 2: don't know the audience would necessarily get it, and I 273 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 2: think it's perfect the way they the way they. 274 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 3: Depict the show doing that show injured, that'd be really tough, 275 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 3: especially a rib, because you breathe and it hurts. I 276 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 3: cracked a rib playing football high school, and it was 277 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 3: miserable for me because that hurts. 278 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 2: It was the lowest rib, though I think it was 279 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 2: for breaking the rib. I think it was the best 280 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: situation I could have had, because I don't remember if 281 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: I coughed. It hurt, but breathing was okay and jumping 282 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 2: was okay. I jumped rope for like week seven, the 283 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 2: first beginning of the dance. I'm jumping rope, and I 284 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 2: was like, how are you doing that. I'm like, look, 285 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 2: if I were feeling it, I wouldn't be jumping rope. 286 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 2: But I didn't feel like it was fine. 287 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 3: I tore my Week one, I tore my shoulder. Oh 288 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 3: my goodness, I fell on TV. Well, the truth is 289 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 3: I never actually finished the dance in practice because you 290 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 3: trained for two weeks before, because a lot of that 291 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 3: first two weeks is just getting acclimated to wearing the 292 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 3: shoes being on the especially for me, I'd never danced 293 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 3: at all, wow, And so I never got our first 294 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 3: dance completed in practice. On the show, I finished the 295 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 3: dance and I realized, probably five to seven seconds before 296 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: it was done, that I was going to finish. I 297 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 3: started to get so happy because I never finished it. 298 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 3: As soon as I finished it, I jumped up forgetting 299 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 3: because I haven't spent much time in dance shoes forgetting, 300 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 3: and I slipped and I fell. It's all on you 301 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: know what. 302 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: I missed that episode. I have to go back and 303 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 2: watch it. 304 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 3: I yes, I started swinging my arm. I fell. I 305 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 3: tore my shoulder in All season long, I was getting 306 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: injections to kill the pain. And it made me feel 307 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 3: tough like football player. Yes, yeah, except I was wearing 308 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 3: really tight pants with sequence other than that. 309 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: Just like football players. Yeah, yes, totally. 310 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, such a fun experience. And I also, your partner's awesome. 311 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 3: He's like he was like the coolest guy. That was 312 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 3: the coolest guy. 313 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: Tough coach, but great, that's what you want. 314 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, foreign people are tougher. Mine was Australian. 315 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: Yeah sure, yeah, so she's a friend. 316 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 3: She was tough. I needed tough. But I found that 317 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 3: the foreign people were tougher than the Mormon people. It's 318 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 3: mostly Mormons or foreign that's pretty much everybody. I found 319 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 3: that the Mormon people were super nice and kind, like extra. 320 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: Yeah it's either Utah or overseas, yes, one of the two. 321 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, you say, you know your second career was math books. 322 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 3: Were you really good at math? Like naturally. 323 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I never thought that I 324 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: was really good at math. 325 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 2: I just really liked the challenge of it, and so 326 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 2: I stuck with it, and so I studied a lot. 327 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 3: When you were acting as a kid, were you doing 328 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 3: much math? Was your home? 329 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, for sure? 330 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 3: Were you going to regular school? 331 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: Yes? And then I would get my assignments and take 332 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 2: them to set. So the role of Winny Cooper on 333 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: The Wonder Years was not in every scene at all. 334 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 2: So I would work two or three days a week, 335 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 2: and then I'd go to my regular school the other days. 336 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: Because we weren't a tape show either, it was filmed, 337 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 2: so the days that you weren't in to see you 338 00:13:59,360 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: didn't have to be. 339 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 3: That what's the difference in not taped but filmed. 340 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,719 Speaker 2: So tape shows they'll tape, say on a Friday night, 341 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 2: and they rehearse all week long, and then the live 342 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: studio audience comes in and they tape it at night. 343 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 2: I mean nowadays it's all you know, recorded a tape 344 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:17,439 Speaker 2: for a film anymore. In fact, that's how we used 345 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: to describe them. So we were a film show, meaning 346 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 2: that we just shot the scenes as they happened, and 347 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: there was no rehearse the scene and shoot it instead 348 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: of rehearse all week, you know, fuss with the dialogue 349 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: and then at the end you do it for real. 350 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 5: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 351 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 5: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 352 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 3: How did you get into acting? 353 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I so, do you know who Leslie and 354 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 2: Warren is? 355 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 3: Should? I? 356 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: You should? I know? 357 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 358 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 2: She's an actress. She's probably in probably almost eighty by now. 359 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 2: She was in the Rogers and Hammerstein Cinderella in the sixties, 360 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 2: and then she was in Clue. 361 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: Do you see Clue with Tim Crey? What? 362 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, I know. 363 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: Oh this is a great movie. 364 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 3: No, no, no, you have to watch anyways. 365 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 2: So watch it before you have a baby, because then 366 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 2: you will build you much. Yeah Clue, that's from Board 367 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 2: Game nineteen eighty five. Yes, okay, yes, Oh my gosh, 368 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 2: it was classic. It's so I'm so excited for you. You 369 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: have to tell me after you watch it and tell 370 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 2: me how she love it? Played missus Scarlett. 371 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: Man on the Moon with Jim Carrey about Andy Kaufman. 372 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 2: No, what, wait, are you just saying that no. 373 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 3: It's my favorite movie ever. Really. Yeah, I just wanted 374 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 3: to do that back to you that. 375 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 2: No, I just want to make sure you're actually it's 376 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 2: my favorite movie, and I know you want to do 377 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 2: the vaction mat. 378 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure you're actually really it's my. 379 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 3: Favorite movie ever. Okay, yeah, all right, I'll watch Clue. 380 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 3: You watch Man on Man the mone Okay, keep going. 381 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 2: Okay, get so missus Scarlett played by Lesliane Warren too. 382 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 2: She and my friend my mom were friends because my 383 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 2: mom a long time ago actually owned a dance studio 384 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: in San Diego and her uh, Leslian Warren's partner at 385 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 2: the time, Jeffrey, was a choog verer anyway, at my 386 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: mom's dance studio. So apparently I was sitting I was 387 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: five years old, sitting looking myself in the mirror, making 388 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 2: phases at myself, and Leslie Ane weren't said, that's an actress. Okay. 389 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 2: So a couple of years later we moved to Los 390 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 2: Angeles and Leslie was encouraging my mom to have us 391 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 2: try acting classes, me and my sister if we were interested, 392 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 2: and my mom asked me if I want to be 393 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: an actress? 394 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: I was like, what is that? 395 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: She goes, well, it's when you pretend to be somebody 396 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 2: or not. I'm like, hmm, interesting. And I remember for 397 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 2: about a year apparently I My mousse was about a 398 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: year later that I said I want to try it. 399 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 2: I remember we had a nanny with a British accent 400 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 2: and were pretending to be her in a shower. 401 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: It's like, that's kind of fun. 402 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 2: And I would notice kids on commercials and TV and 403 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 2: like that looks sounds fun, and so I asked about 404 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 2: trying it. And so my sister and I started taking 405 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 2: acting classes at least Osterburg Institute in LA when I 406 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 2: think I was seven, she was six. We started doing 407 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 2: a little plays, then we got an agent, and then 408 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 2: we started doing commercials. My mom had a rule, she said, 409 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 2: acting is just a hobby. No series, no movies out 410 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 2: of town. Nothing I wouldn't let you watch, you know. 411 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 2: She had a lot of rules. Well, the part of 412 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 2: Winnie Cooper on The Wonder Year So was supposed to 413 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 2: just be a guest role on the pilot episode. That's 414 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 2: why I was even allowed to audition for it. And 415 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 2: that's why I even had a shot, because let's face it, 416 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: I mean a major primetime series on ABC like a 417 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 2: newbie actress. 418 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 1: There's no way. 419 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 2: There are lots of other actresses that would have been 420 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: in front of me. But it was a small part 421 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 2: on the pilot. I mean it was a significant but small, 422 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 2: like not that many days of work really, and I 423 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 2: got the job. And then midway through shooting, the producers said, 424 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 2: we want to offer a Danica a serious contract from 425 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 2: My mom was. 426 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: Really conflicted about it. I was like, please lease lose Lise. 427 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 2: And so she got me this fancy lawyer with a 428 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 2: loophole because this is a seven year contract. Imagine whopping 429 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: your twelve year old into a seven year contract. 430 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: That's something to think about. 431 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 3: That well at this time, got it. 432 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 2: And so she got me this lawyer with a there's 433 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 2: a loophole this we wouldn't be sued for millions of 434 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 2: dollars a week. She's like, anytime you want to get out, Danny, 435 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: say the word, I will pull you. But of course 436 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: I never did. 437 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 3: Did you like it? 438 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: I loved it? Oh, I loved it. I loved it 439 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: so much. 440 00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 3: Did that role grow yeah, I mean it. 441 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: Was throughout the whole season. 442 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, But I mean it started off you said just 443 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 3: a guest. Was it then written after that pilot to 444 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 3: be a forever role? 445 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 2: Yes? 446 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,360 Speaker 3: Was it because you were that impactful as a kid? 447 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,719 Speaker 2: No, they said that. I mean, I don't know if 448 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 2: they said that Fred and I had a good chemistry 449 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 2: and they just was unexpected and they they just liked 450 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 2: liked me. 451 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: Did you feel famous as aw? 452 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 2: Not at all. 453 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 1: I had no idea one. 454 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: I think it was in our fourth or fifth season 455 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 2: somebody on set asked me how what it was like 456 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 2: to be America's sweetheart? And I was like, what what 457 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 2: are you talking about? I was so busy going to school. 458 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 2: I went to Harvard Westlake School in Los Angeles, which 459 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: is a private prep school, and so I was going 460 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 2: back and forth between school and set, and I was 461 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 2: very busy with that. 462 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: I never went to Hollywood parties. 463 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't even go to the Emmys that 464 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 2: first year that we were nominated. So my dad has 465 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 2: scheduled a river trip for me and my sister and him, 466 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 2: and we're going to go on the Rogue River in Oregon, 467 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 2: and and you know, you can't fires and stuff, And 468 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 2: it turns out that, oh we were nominated for Best 469 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 2: Comedy Series. 470 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: Well, we couldn't move. 471 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 2: The trip because of my dad's work issues and schedule, 472 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 2: and so we. 473 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 1: Didn't We didn't go to the Emmys. 474 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 2: We went on the On the trip, I remember my 475 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: sister and my dad and I were in this little 476 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 2: motel in Oregon and we watched The Wonder Years win 477 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 2: Best Comedy Series on this tiny little television. I remember 478 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 2: jumping up and down on the bed so excited. Woke 479 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 2: up at five in the morning, hit the river and 480 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 2: had like the trip of I still remember the best 481 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 2: memories from that trip, placking, picking blackberries on the side 482 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 2: of the river, and it's just it's, you know, it's 483 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: a It's a testament to my parents. And they never 484 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,199 Speaker 2: overemphasized the importance of Hollywood or I mean, you can 485 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 2: imagine a lot of stage moms would have been like, 486 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 2: what do you have to go to the Emies? And 487 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: I'm going with you? None of that. It was it 488 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 2: was family came first, and that was such an important 489 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,239 Speaker 2: lesson and I'm so grateful to both of them for 490 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: having those values. 491 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 3: Did you feel the success of the show grow. 492 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: I mean, I was vaguely where you know, when you're 493 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 2: a kid, whatever you were going through, you kind of 494 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 2: think is normal, So I didn't have that perspective on 495 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 2: it until after. In fact, when I got to UCLA, 496 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 2: the show had ended within a few months of me 497 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: graduating from high school, and when I went to UCLA, 498 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 2: I remember thinking, Okay, all right, well that's. 499 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: Done, so we're all going to move on now. 500 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 2: And of course everywhere I went on campus, everyone was like, Oh, 501 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 2: Minny Cooper. 502 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 1: Where's Kevin. 503 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, what, or should that girl from The Wonder yours? 504 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 1: Or is that girl from that show? 505 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: I joined a sorority because I just needed to get 506 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 2: away from like everybody just like recognizing me all the time, 507 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 2: and I wanted to find out who I was. I 508 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 2: had no idea. So that's really I think when it 509 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,159 Speaker 2: hit me like how big the show was, because it 510 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 2: was just everywhere everybody was calling me by this character name. 511 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 3: Do people still recognize you as her? 512 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 2: Yes? But it doesn't bother me anymore. I'm totally great 513 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 2: with it. It's I've come to total peace with it. I 514 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 2: shook a break from acting for four years at UCLA 515 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 2: to get a degree in mathematics, sort of redefined myself 516 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 2: for myself. Then I went back to ashing because I 517 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 2: missed it. I did the West Wing for a year 518 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 2: and then just various things before I landed on a 519 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 2: Hallmark Channel and now Great American Family Channel and doing 520 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 2: these really sweet rom com movies that I just love, 521 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 2: and now I write them and produce them as well, 522 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,120 Speaker 2: and it's just been it's been such a great journey. 523 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 2: And I feel like I got so lucky to avoid 524 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 2: the pitfalls of child stardom that happens so often to 525 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 2: kids who because and I understand why it happens. You're 526 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 2: so well known for this one character at a time 527 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 2: in your life when you're trying to figure out who 528 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 2: you are and what your value is, you don't know, 529 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 2: like who would I be if I didn't have this 530 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 2: this character that everyone loves so much, or I didn't 531 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: have that show. I had a friend in high school 532 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:42,959 Speaker 2: who had this long, red, naturally red hair, and everywhere 533 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 2: she went, everybody was like, oh my gosh, your hair, 534 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 2: your hairs. Finally she cut it off and died it black, 535 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 2: and she's like, I need to find out, like who else? Like, well, 536 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 2: what else you know? And so for me, mathematics was 537 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 2: that thing. I took a break from it and I 538 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: studied math and it gave me something else to hold 539 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 2: on to, something to feel important for valued for. I 540 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 2: had no idea the later I'd end up writing math books. 541 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 2: I just was doing it because I like the challenge 542 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:09,439 Speaker 2: of it and I needed to find out who I 543 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 2: was do something totally different. 544 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: Well yeah, exactly exactly. 545 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 2: And none of the professors had any idea who I was, 546 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 2: well none of them didn't even many didn't even know 547 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 2: own TVs. 548 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 1: But they were interested in the way. 549 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 2: My mind worked, and I and I had a great time. 550 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 2: It was it was just finding out. We're just discovering Danika. 551 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 3: I have friends that have been successful artists and they 552 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 3: have a song or two that it was a massive song, 553 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 3: and they have a weird relationship with it, right because 554 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 3: when it happens, it's what they're about. It got them there, 555 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 3: and then it's really what they're known for, and they're like, 556 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 3: I'm so much more than this one song. And then 557 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 3: they have this relationshiphere they don't want to play it anymore. 558 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 3: They know people know them and love them for it, 559 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 3: and they begrudgingly play it, right, and then they get 560 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 3: to the point where they're like, why am I fighting this? 561 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 4: Is? 562 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 3: That? 563 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 2: Is that parallel you're yes, well once because when once 564 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 2: I wasn't I guess dependent on it for like, once 565 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 2: that wasn't my where my value came from. You know, 566 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 2: once I was more solidly in a different place in 567 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,679 Speaker 2: my life where I was like, okay, well I'm also 568 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 2: I also I am a math author, and I also 569 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 2: like have these other jobs that I've done. And then 570 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 2: I recognize that, oh, this is why a lot, this 571 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 2: is why I get to go on the Today Show 572 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 2: from a math book that's coming out. This is why 573 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 2: so many more kids are being helped by my books 574 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 2: because their parents know me from the show and they say, 575 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 2: oho person to help you with math. 576 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: That was a huge revelation for me. 577 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, this is such a gift, 578 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,719 Speaker 2: What an amazing foundation. This is why when I do 579 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 2: a Christmas move for a great American family channel, people 580 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 2: watch it. And the reason my movies do well. Part 581 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 2: of the reason is because automatically I bring them a 582 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 2: warm and fuzzy feeling because it connects them to their childhood. 583 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 2: What an amazing gift. And that's all because of the 584 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 2: wonder years. 585 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 3: Do you get creepy guys that come up and go 586 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 3: you are my childhood crush just randomly. 587 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I wouldn't say creepy. 588 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like any guy just saying that randomly 589 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 3: would be creepy, So maybe the guy's not creepy. Do 590 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 3: you feel like that's creepy if a guy just comes 591 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 3: up and goes, Hi, you don't know me, but you're 592 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 3: in my childhood crush. 593 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 2: No, it happens all the time, and people are like, 594 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 2: it's amazing. I got to be part of the childhood, 595 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 2: and I know the people that we admire when we're 596 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,640 Speaker 2: kids have a different place in our heart. 597 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 3: It's absolutely different. We get starstruck and over those people 598 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 3: for sure. 599 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I remember this is a random but I 600 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 2: met Larry Hagman. My mom used to show us Dallas 601 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: and I was and I was on the Wonder Years. 602 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 2: It was like I was the height of my fame 603 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 2: from the Wonder Years and I met Larry Hagman. I 604 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,479 Speaker 2: was so starstruck I could barely talk. That's just how 605 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 2: it is. 606 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 3: I really hated the ending. Yeah, I don't know how 607 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 3: you feel about it. Can I tell you why I 608 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 3: hated it? 609 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 2: Sure? 610 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 3: I wanted the bow. Yeah, you know, because the final 611 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 3: episode it's like and you know, I met Winnie at 612 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 3: the airport a pair of raising and I was with 613 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 3: and Kevin was with his wife. 614 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: I like that, I know, I know I didn't like 615 00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: it either. 616 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 2: But the thing is, the Wonders was all about bittersweet 617 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 2: memories and stuff, everything tied up in a bow. Then 618 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,360 Speaker 2: it wouldn't be that show. I know, the dad. Why 619 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 2: did they have to kill off. 620 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 3: The dad died? I know, Yeah, it's weird. That was 621 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 3: considered a comedy too, I know. 622 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 1: Looking you know, the first season was more of a comedy. 623 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, when Neil Marlins and Carol Black when they were 624 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 2: still producing, when they were still in charge, it was 625 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,479 Speaker 2: more in comedy. But then it went on to be 626 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 2: more sentimental, I guess. 627 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 3: And the brother was never Marilyn Manson, that was. 628 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 1: The best friend was also never. 629 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's right, so Wayne, they'll get that. It's 630 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 3: been a while since I've watched the show. Wayne was 631 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 3: the brother brother played by Jason Paul. Yes, was the 632 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 3: best friend? Yes, Jo, and you will say that Josh 633 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 3: is not Marilyn Manson? Correct? Did you ever hear that rumor? 634 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, years before the internet. I heard the rumor, 635 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 2: like like in the nineties. I remember people talking about, 636 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 2: look what, no, how did rumors even ever start? Back 637 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: before the internet. I'm been sure. 638 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 3: I saw. I was doing some research on your math 639 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 3: books before you came in, and so you're on my 640 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 3: TikTok algorithm now. And the episode of you doing the 641 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 3: Mario Brothers television show, Oh gosh, do you remember that? 642 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 2: Yes? 643 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 3: It was live, it was live. Those two people are live. 644 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 3: You're a kid. 645 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 1: Yes, it was a horrible episode. 646 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 2: It was so the lame. But look, I love Mario 647 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: Brothers in general, so it's fine, and they're all lovely people. 648 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 2: But I watched it, and I'm like, what kind of 649 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 2: story is this? I'm like, lying pretending to be an orphan. 650 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 2: The plot was not the best. But actually my mom 651 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 2: was friends with a producer and that's why I did it. 652 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 2: But now my son Draco, who's fifteen, he he has 653 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 2: loved Super Mario Brothers since he was like five or 654 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 2: six years old. 655 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: He still does, and so he thinks it's hilarious. So 656 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: just for that, I'm glad I did it. 657 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 3: Does he watch the show? Has he watched the show? 658 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: He's seen that one episode? 659 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 5: No? 660 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 3: I mean wonder yours? Oh how Mario Brothers. 661 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 2: Right. I showed him one episode of The Wonder Years 662 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 2: and he wasn't then to do it, and he also didn't. 663 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 1: He was surprised that that was me. I'm like, you don't. 664 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 2: Think I still look the same everybody else does. He's like, what, No, 665 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 2: And here's the thing. People who grew up, who are 666 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 2: kids When I was a kid and grew up, then 667 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 2: you go, oh, it's the same face. Because we all 668 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 2: grew up. You have to evolve with the person. If 669 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 2: you didn't, then you look back and like, I guess 670 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 2: I could see it. 671 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 3: Maybe would you want him to get into a creative field? 672 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 3: Does he want to? 673 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 2: It's so weird because so he's fifteen. When I was fifteen, 674 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 2: I was already on the show. His dad is in music, 675 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 2: and his dad was already composing and knew what he 676 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 2: was going to do, was already doing it. Draco doesn't 677 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 2: know what he wants to do yet, and I don't 678 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,360 Speaker 2: even know how to Like, how do I support that? 679 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:40,919 Speaker 1: He's very creative. 680 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 2: He plays piano beautifully, he does ballroom dance, he does improv, 681 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 2: he loves all that stuff. He does these science videos, 682 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 2: we do homeschooling and so he does an online science 683 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 2: class and many times they give the option of doing 684 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 2: a video for the project, so he'll do the experiments 685 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 2: of the science sxsper as video. Like he could be a 686 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 2: YouTube star while he's really funny, but none of those 687 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 2: guests publish. It's just for his school, don't. I don't 688 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 2: know what he's going to want to do. It's not 689 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 2: that I want him to get into something creative. I 690 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 2: actually think he should have a trade on the side, 691 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,880 Speaker 2: because honestly, AI is coming for all the jobs and 692 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 2: they're not going to come for the pumbing jobs or 693 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 2: electrician jobs, and like, I want you to learn a trade. 694 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: So that's actually something I'm going to be doing with 695 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 1: him helping. 696 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,680 Speaker 2: Just have it on the side. And this is why 697 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 2: I tell people who want to get into the acting business. 698 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 2: I say, look, that's great, but there's so many dry spells, 699 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 2: and it will really mess with your sense of self, 700 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 2: Like when you're not working and you don't know when 701 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 2: you're going to be working again. For me, have something 702 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 2: else that you also can make money at that you 703 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 2: also enjoy doing, and do that thing too. I remember 704 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 2: when I was on the West Wing, Emily Proctor told 705 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 2: me how she would flip houses. That was for sidegig. 706 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 2: She'd buy a house, fix it up over a few months, 707 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 2: and then sell it, and that kept her sane. So 708 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 2: even if you have a regular job as an actor, 709 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 2: it's really good to have something else. So for me, 710 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 2: that was writing math books. I've been writing math books 711 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 2: for twenty years. I think I'm actually finally done. I 712 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 2: think number twelve was the was the final book for now. 713 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 3: Those are famous last words. 714 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 2: I know, I know, but I'm If I'm some inspired, 715 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,719 Speaker 2: perhaps I will, But for now, I feel like that 716 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 2: was like, okay, good. I blanketed the ages that I 717 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 2: wanted to. I've written the books that I think are 718 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 2: really helpful. I could say, here, take this in homeschool 719 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 2: with it, it'll be great up until you know, high 720 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 2: school geometry, so. 721 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: That I feel good with that. Yeah, it's just it's been. 722 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 2: It's been such an adventure in so many different directions 723 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 2: in my life so far. And I think part of 724 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 2: the reason why I think I'm probably not going to 725 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 2: do any more math book writing maybe is because I'm 726 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 2: writing scripts now. So I wrote my Christmas movie last 727 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 2: year for Great American, I'm actually writing mine right now today, 728 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 2: Like I was working at think this morning, and I 729 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 2: work on it again later for this coming Christmas as well. 730 00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 2: So I definitely love writing, but I'm switching my focus 731 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 2: for now. 732 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 4: The Bobby Cast will be right back. This is the 733 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 4: Bobby Cast as a young kid. Did you like math again? 734 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 4: I liked the challenge, but yes I did. 735 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 2: It's like a puzzle. 736 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like puzzles. 737 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 3: I was a really good student. I hated math. I couldn't. 738 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 3: I shouldn't say couldn't, because I don't think that I 739 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 3: can't do anything. That's a double negative. I know, but 740 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 3: I struggled naturally with math, and I didn't struggle with 741 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 3: anything else, like I crushed my standardized test, my act. 742 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 3: My lowest was always math, so I wouldn't have been 743 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 3: drawn to something that I think I found the most 744 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 3: difficulty in. So I'm wondering why you were drawn of 745 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 3: everything you were studying to math. 746 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: I guess I just I like the logical puzzles. 747 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 2: I just I like how it expands your brain, and 748 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: I just like that feeling. And I did do better 749 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 2: on math in English, so I guess I'm better at 750 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 2: math and I am English and memorize for Carevlary and 751 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 2: things like that. I tend to be a pretty literal person, 752 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 2: like I tend to be gullible in that way. I 753 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 2: tend to believe people when they say things. I mean, 754 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 2: you know, But so for me, I think the logic 755 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 2: always appealed to that part of my brain. 756 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 3: And you've written twelve math books I have. How do 757 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 3: you write a math book? 758 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 2: I decide what I want to teach, and then I find 759 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 2: a fun way to teach it. So all my books 760 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 2: there are mckller Maths, the mckellermath books. They're all at 761 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 2: mckellermath dot com. They're for ages babies through high school geometry. 762 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 2: So the highest level I have is high school geometry. 763 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 2: Say when you're fifteen sixteen years old. I never did 764 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: an algebra two book. People have asked about it, but 765 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: there just wasn't as much of demand. 766 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: It's the books. 767 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: My books are not in schools. They are books that 768 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 2: parents buy their kids to help them. Cheaper than a tutor, 769 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 2: but super fun. Again, like I always okay, what's my angle? 770 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 3: Like? 771 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 2: I have a book for third and fourth graders called 772 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 2: The Times Machine and teaches times tables right like multification 773 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 2: and division. 774 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 1: But I come up with fun ways to teach those things. 775 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 2: So it drove me crazy that it tried to know 776 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 2: crazy that in schools there's so much more demand on 777 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 2: the teachers they don't have time to really drill the 778 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 2: multiplication facts anymore, and so kids don't know them. And 779 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 2: if you don't know your multiplication facts, how do you 780 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 2: reduce their fraction? How do you do basic alergybro without 781 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 2: really struggling? So I was like, I need to write 782 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 2: a book where I make it easier to actually memorize them, 783 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 2: because you need to memorize them. So I have little stories, 784 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 2: a little I mean things like multiples of two or five? 785 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 2: Which are you know? Nine has some really great tricks, 786 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 2: you know, the nine tricks. Hold up your hands. 787 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 3: At this point I memorized them so thoroughly that I 788 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 3: don't good. Yeah, but okay. 789 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 2: For people who are listening, take out your hands, look 790 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 2: at them, spread your fingers wide. 791 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 3: I don't know this, So you're teaching me, okay, good? 792 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: So nine times? 793 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 4: What? 794 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 3: Okay, give me number? It's like six six? 795 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so count on your fingers one, two, three or 796 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 2: four five six? Put the sixth finger down, which is 797 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 2: probably your pinky, unless if your palms are facing you. 798 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 2: I mean that's yes, five, four fifty four. Put down 799 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: your third finger. It's two and seven. 800 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 3: Hold I knew the answer. My mind is still blown. 801 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 3: So there's some fun tricks like that. Hold on, because 802 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 3: this is cool. I didn't know that. Okay, okay, nine 803 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 3: times four, So I'm gonna put down my fourth finger. 804 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: For thirty six. 805 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 3: Wait, hold on, one, two, three, four? What am I 806 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 3: messing up here? Because I oh thirty one? 807 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, his face, you guys should see his face. 808 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 3: I didn't know this. I guess I didn't have to 809 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 3: take so. 810 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 2: Anyway, So those are I was gonna say those are 811 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 2: non and I did put that in the book. But 812 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 2: what I have stories, so like like nine. 813 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 3: Times twenty seven, guys, twenty seven, this is crazy. I 814 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 3: have adult friends that need to know this but still 815 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 3: don't know that. I'm sorry to interrupt you. I just 816 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 3: never knew that trick. 817 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but but I have I have stories. I have 818 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 2: characters in it. So anytime you see a six, you 819 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 2: know there's gonna be a six sided block. Anytime you 820 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 2: see a four, there's gonna be a puppy because it's 821 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 2: got four legs. So I have like these stories and 822 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 2: so six times seven is forty two. Mister Mouse is 823 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 2: the main character in the book, well and miss Squirrel, 824 00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 2: and then there's Danakay characters. 825 00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm a little cartoon in it. 826 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: So mister mouse loves cheese, of course, so anytime you 827 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 2: see seven in a story, that means we're talking about, oh, 828 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 2: something happens over a week. So mister mouse eats a 829 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 2: six sided block of cheese because he loves cheese, obviously, 830 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 2: every day for seven days, so this represents six times seven. Well, 831 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 2: at the end of those seven days of eating that 832 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,279 Speaker 2: six sided block of cheese, mister mouse is pretty full 833 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 2: and farty two FARTI too. Yeah. 834 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,479 Speaker 1: So so just for if. 835 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:28,799 Speaker 2: You're you know, an eight or nine year old kid 836 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 2: and you're trying to memory mumification facts. 837 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 3: I have adult friends that need this. 838 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,760 Speaker 2: Well yeah, anyways, so that's so that's that's the times machine. 839 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 2: But I've got so my goal, and I mean I 840 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 2: teach algebra. A book called hot X Algebra Exposed I 841 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,399 Speaker 2: have for middle school Math doesn't suck and kiss my math, 842 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 2: and I we you know, when I introduced algebra, I say, oh, 843 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 2: here's X meat X and then there's a little X 844 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 2: with the dialogue, Bubble says Hi, like he's not so bad. 845 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 1: You know, we're not gonna call it algebra. 846 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 2: We're gonna call it happy Land, just you know, trying 847 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 2: to shake up the nerves that kids tend I have 848 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 2: around math, because math can be dull and boring and scary, 849 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 2: but it's all the way it's presented. And so that's 850 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 2: what I learned. When I was in school, I had 851 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 2: a couple teachers, one teacher in particular who made math 852 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,280 Speaker 2: so fun. It was the seventh grade that I couldn't 853 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,720 Speaker 2: believe it was the same topics. It confused me so much, 854 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 2: and so I realized, wait, this is about the presentation. 855 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 2: Math is a language, and you can talk about anything 856 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 2: in the language of math. I see it's one of 857 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 2: the engineers nodding. I love that. That always makes me happy. 858 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,600 Speaker 2: So this is this is my This has been my 859 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 2: mission make math more fun and accessible for kids. I've written, 860 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 2: I think all the books. I'm going to four. My 861 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 2: last one, my twelfth one, came out in November on 862 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 2: the fourth of November, which is what I said for 863 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,120 Speaker 2: It's called I Love You one hundred, a counting book 864 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 2: full of love, and it's a really sweet story about 865 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 2: a mother and her son, and it goes through talking 866 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,720 Speaker 2: about basically showing her child that no matter what he does, 867 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 2: she loves him, so whether whether he's happy or sad 868 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 2: or makes a mess, so sort of counting all the 869 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,839 Speaker 2: way that she loves her son. It's about unconditional love 870 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 2: and also teaching kids how to count to one hundred. 871 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 2: So each page has like a the next decade, and 872 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 2: it's represented by something that sort of, you know, is 873 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 2: evocative of that number of fifties, fifty states, sixty sixty 874 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 2: seconds on o'clock, you know, And it's it's just a 875 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 2: really sweet book and it's available where every books you're sold. 876 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:20,720 Speaker 2: I Love You one hundred. 877 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,359 Speaker 3: That's really cool. Did you go to UCLA and study math? 878 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 2: I did I have a degree in math? Yes? 879 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 3: What a degree in math? What does that specifically? Is 880 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,319 Speaker 3: there like a version of math you study? I'm very 881 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 3: different kind of question. 882 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 2: It's pure mathematics, was the name of my You can 883 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 2: do applied math, you can do you know, statistics or economics, 884 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,399 Speaker 2: or there's all sorts of things that use a lot 885 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 2: of math in it. But I did pure math, which 886 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 2: means it doesn't really have much application at all, unless 887 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 2: you want to write math books and have. 888 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 1: A degree of course. I didn't need to. 889 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 2: I didn't need calculus or real analysis to write my 890 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 2: math books. 891 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: But it gives you curing kind of grab a toss. 892 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:55,840 Speaker 3: I want to reply back on something you said a 893 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 3: second ago, because it's playning my head over and over 894 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 3: again that you were in labor for the something hours. 895 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 1: Thirty six hours. 896 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 3: Yes, we're about to do this. 897 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 2: I know, I know, I'm so excited for you. 898 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,959 Speaker 3: But that seems like a long time. 899 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,600 Speaker 2: It was because I stubbornly did not want to get 900 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,839 Speaker 2: a see section ends, and I eventually I did get 901 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 2: to give birth naturally. 902 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 1: I did no drugs, yep. 903 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,760 Speaker 2: But it was really funny is that I was gonna 904 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: there's this program I don't know if it's around anymore. 905 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 2: It's called hypno birthing. So I had my child fifteen 906 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 2: years ago. He switte, and hypno birthing is like you're 907 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 2: supposed to do it, like everything's calm. I had signs 908 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 2: made for the hospital room, you know, please quiet voices, 909 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 2: hypno birthing in progress. I did all these like now, 910 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 2: I'm sure it helped me to relax. It did help 911 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 2: me in the in the hours and hours leading up 912 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 2: to active labor, because I was just like breathing and calm. 913 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 2: But man, that labor started, it was like, you know, 914 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 2: and I remember thinking, like I just want to see 915 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 2: the scene of somebody walking by, going look at the 916 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 2: sign please quiet voices, hypno birthing and that's hypno birthing. No. 917 00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,080 Speaker 1: But it did help me. I will say it did 918 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,760 Speaker 1: help me anyway. 919 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 2: It's it's the most remarculous thing in the whole wide world. 920 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,839 Speaker 2: I Draco had his little hand up alongside his head. 921 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 2: He did not He was not easy to come out. 922 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 2: So it was like it was like delivering a thirteen 923 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,240 Speaker 2: fourteen pound baby because the centir comference, speaking of math terms, 924 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:13,879 Speaker 2: circumference of his head was bigger than. 925 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 3: It should have been because his arm was up, his 926 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 3: hand was. 927 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 2: Right next to with him, and they tried to like 928 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 2: dislodge it and they didn't want to, like, you know, 929 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 2: mess with it anyway. So it took a little extra time. 930 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: But it was. 931 00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,720 Speaker 2: It was so cathartic, and not being on any drugs 932 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 2: at all, I got to his and everyone, look, everyone's 933 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 2: first story is different, and there's absolutely no judgment. I'm 934 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 2: grateful that it all worked out that way. It was 935 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 2: very uncomfortable, very very very long time, and the actual 936 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 2: active labor was like nothing. I mean it was it 937 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 2: was like I felt connected to women for like all 938 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 2: the ages. 939 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 3: Like pilgrim women. Yeah, that's what I think. It's like sixteen. 940 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 2: I remember that. And I had a duela with me. 941 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,279 Speaker 2: I highly recommend a doula. It's your advocate because the 942 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,279 Speaker 2: doctor's come and go. When you're in labor for that long, 943 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 2: you're not gonna have same nurses or the same doctors 944 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 2: because they're all gonna go home and got his life. 945 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 2: So having a duela was great and and uh uh 946 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 2: she was fantastic. 947 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:15,600 Speaker 1: She just she it was like this calming hand. 948 00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 2: And I remember after after I get birth, and oh, 949 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,879 Speaker 2: she told me, you're going to have a gurgling sound. 950 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 2: You're going to make a sound, and you're when your 951 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:23,919 Speaker 2: baby comes out, he's going to be making the same 952 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,360 Speaker 2: sound that you did. Now again, I don't think. I 953 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 2: think this only exists if you're not taking an every 954 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,359 Speaker 2: girl because you're just you're just in it in no way. 955 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,520 Speaker 2: I was there with my sister's birth. She's a girl, 956 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 2: she's like, oh, it's like, oh, did I iced to 957 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 2: give the birth? Oh? Cool? 958 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 3: So different. 959 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:37,800 Speaker 1: It was so different. 960 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 2: Her daughter came out so fast that we all like like, well, 961 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 2: you know, it was different. 962 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 1: So but I loved my experience. 963 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 2: And sure enough, when when Draco came out, there's this 964 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 2: gurgling like I can almost sense of I can't hear 965 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 2: exactly what it sounds like, but I can sense memory 966 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 2: kind of like I feel it. It was. It was 967 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 2: so primal, and he was making that same guttural sound, 968 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 2: and and he just started to come out, and the 969 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 2: doctor said, reach down and get your baby. He was 970 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,280 Speaker 2: like halfway out and I got to finish delivering Draco 971 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,160 Speaker 2: throw my stomach. He said, reached down to get your baby. 972 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 2: I didn't even we hadn't even talked about it, and 973 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,879 Speaker 2: it was I don't even know how to describe it. 974 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 1: I felt complete. 975 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 2: I felt absolutely complete in a way that I could 976 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 2: never describe. It was amazing. And my husband, who was 977 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 2: my accept now but we're all still friends. We all 978 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:26,959 Speaker 2: get along. 979 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,439 Speaker 1: He was he was in the room and he's looked 980 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: at me and said, Danica. 981 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:35,280 Speaker 2: You never have to prove anything ever again. I was like, wow, okay, 982 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 2: I'll take. 983 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,640 Speaker 3: It so in that thirty six hours. This is gonna 984 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 3: be a real dumb question. But do you ever like 985 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 3: fall asleep? 986 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 5: No? 987 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 2: Oh, couldn'tess No, No, because the contractions are happening every 988 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:46,360 Speaker 2: ten minutes. 989 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 1: No, that's the least of it. 990 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 2: That's the least of it. That's like, oh, that's adorable. 991 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 2: Worrying about not sleeping enough. No, you don't sleep, and 992 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 2: then you don't sleep for a while afterwards too. You 993 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 2: get like little naps here and there, but your baby. 994 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 2: You're in the hospital. You've got this baby, and you're 995 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,840 Speaker 2: you know, and the doctors are coming in. They're not 996 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 2: even worried at all about like if you've gotten your rest, 997 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 2: because they're on their schedule and their names to do 998 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,879 Speaker 2: what they're doing. And the nurses come in, so you're 999 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 2: getting like maybe an hour or two here and like 1000 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 2: here and there, breastfeeding and like just trying to You're like, 1001 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 2: how do I fall asleep while holding my baby? And 1002 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 2: they prop you up with pillows and stuff, and then 1003 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 2: his dad took them for a little while. No, you're 1004 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,800 Speaker 2: not thinking must sleep. You're not like I'm tired. Maybe 1005 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 2: the dad is, I don't know, the mom. 1006 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 1: You're not at all. 1007 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 2: You're in this, there's another program that's running, is the 1008 00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:38,399 Speaker 2: best way you describe it. 1009 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 3: I'm older having our first kid, so I'm in my forties, 1010 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 3: but I understand that, but I still think, you know, 1011 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 3: I have these thoughts and feelings probably of what people 1012 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,880 Speaker 3: do if they're nineteen and they're having a kid. Like 1013 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:55,720 Speaker 3: a lot of the obviously the unknown. I do feel 1014 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 3: like I at least know who I am, so I 1015 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:00,040 Speaker 3: think that's very helpful. I at least know what I 1016 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 3: don't want to be based on how I grew up. 1017 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,480 Speaker 3: But it's weird to go to people that I know 1018 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 3: that even work for me, that are fifteen years younger 1019 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 3: and I'm like, hey, give me some advice. That's kind 1020 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,799 Speaker 3: of a weird thing to throw someone younger and be like, 1021 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:13,680 Speaker 3: what do you think about it? 1022 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 2: You know what's even wilder is when your child learns 1023 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 2: the skill that you don't have. Watching my son play piano, 1024 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,840 Speaker 2: you're going to love it. It will blow your mind 1025 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,920 Speaker 2: when your child can do something or teaches you something. 1026 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 2: Like we were doing taekwondo for a while in Los 1027 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 2: Angeles and he was taking to Edisad to join him 1028 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 2: at some point and he was teaching me stuff. 1029 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: He was like seven years old. 1030 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 2: It's great. You are going to love being a dad. 1031 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 1: You're going to love it. 1032 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 2: I'm going to give a little one other tidbit that's 1033 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,520 Speaker 2: sort of it's not really controversial, but it's just something 1034 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 2: that I did that most people don't do. You've heard 1035 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:51,480 Speaker 2: about the postpartum depression woman. So I believe thoroughly, wholeheartedly 1036 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 2: that the reason this happens is because of we are 1037 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,040 Speaker 2: supposed to consume the placenta, and I did. 1038 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,799 Speaker 1: I had a doul it. She took the placenta, made 1039 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:01,399 Speaker 1: freeze dry. 1040 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 2: She like freeze dried it, put it into capsules, and 1041 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,719 Speaker 2: I took that throughout that month or two or whatever 1042 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 2: it was. 1043 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 3: You took it for a while. It's not a one 1044 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 3: time thing. You don't just eat it and it's over. 1045 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 2: Well, you can, you can, but the way it was, 1046 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,160 Speaker 2: the way I did it was that. But I will 1047 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,919 Speaker 2: tell you one thing too, because I'm because I'm I'm 1048 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 2: fifty one now and I don't care. I My Duela said, 1049 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,759 Speaker 2: do you want to taste the placenta like this is 1050 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 2: I'd just given birth, And I'm like sure, I mean, 1051 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 2: you're not even you're not in your right mind. She 1052 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:33,840 Speaker 2: gave me a piece of it, Bobby. It was like 1053 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:38,400 Speaker 2: the best filame Mignon that I have ever tasted like, 1054 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 2: but more I was embarrassed. I was embarrassed about how 1055 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 2: much I loved it. It was bizarre. I thought, what is. 1056 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: This some sort of weird like satanic? But like I 1057 00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 1: get what I. 1058 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 2: You know, we are meant, we are meant to have that. 1059 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 2: That was and I was so glad and realizing. I 1060 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 2: was like, I am going to just tell people this. 1061 00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna talk about it when you do pop 1062 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 2: yeah some things, because I believe that that's the case. 1063 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 2: And I don't know why we got away from what 1064 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 2: animals do it? 1065 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 3: Are we away from it? I mean, I feel like 1066 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:09,919 Speaker 3: my wife and I have talked about it like it's 1067 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 3: not even that weird. 1068 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, for a you have placenta encapsulation person? 1069 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 3: Is that a person? 1070 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 2: Yes, you get a placenta encapulation person, Well, you don't 1071 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:18,440 Speaker 2: have to, you know. 1072 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: My sister did it differently. 1073 00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 2: She just like took it home and a cooler and 1074 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:24,919 Speaker 2: put it in a blender and then made like ice 1075 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,319 Speaker 2: cubes and made put it in her shake to each 1076 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 2: her own, but I recommend highly. 1077 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 1: Bring it with you. 1078 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 3: Will they let you just take it out of this 1079 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 3: they will? 1080 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, has yours. You have to ask that, you have 1081 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,000 Speaker 2: to ask for it, and you have to have a cooler. 1082 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:40,520 Speaker 2: But I mean, like, I didn't trust myself to be 1083 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 2: sanitary with like, I didn't know. I just didn't. I 1084 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,840 Speaker 2: was like, great, you're gonna make me pills. Fantastic. That 1085 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 2: sounds neat and tidy and I love that. So that 1086 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 2: was that was how I did it. 1087 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,400 Speaker 3: Your doula must have been through many of those a 1088 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:55,399 Speaker 3: thousand berths and has a relationship with the success of it, right, 1089 00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 3: And that's why she was, Hey, you should do this. 1090 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely. She was like, this is a no brainer. 1091 00:44:59,560 --> 00:44:59,959 Speaker 1: You must. 1092 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 3: Why do you think that is. 1093 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:03,880 Speaker 1: Because we lose hormones. 1094 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:05,879 Speaker 2: We lose so many hormones and they all go into 1095 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,360 Speaker 2: the placenta and then that gets taken away. And if 1096 00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 2: you look at animals, they eat their placent the mom 1097 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 2: eats the percenta afterwards. I don't know why somehow we 1098 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 2: stopped doing it. 1099 00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 3: I guess because should I eat it? They're not my hormone? 1100 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 1: No, they're not. No, No, you don't eat it. She 1101 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,320 Speaker 1: does oh, oh my gosh. 1102 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 3: I thought you were telling me to eat it. 1103 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 1: No, men don't have postpartum depression. 1104 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, but we both. No, no, this is 1105 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:26,759 Speaker 3: how uneducated I am. 1106 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 2: No, that would be selfish in fact, for you to 1107 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 2: have it. No, no, no, she needs it, she needs it. 1108 00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I thought no, no, no, no, no no, no, 1109 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,400 Speaker 2: you should not give them to her. No, because her 1110 00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,880 Speaker 2: body has just been through something incredible and completely draining. 1111 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:48,319 Speaker 2: Your body gets you're you're like functions are sidelined that 1112 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,279 Speaker 2: maybe gets so big. 1113 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:50,879 Speaker 1: How many weeks is she now? 1114 00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 3: A lot? 1115 00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,759 Speaker 2: Okay, So when I was in my eighth month, I'm 1116 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 2: laying on the couch like I could barely get up, 1117 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,319 Speaker 2: thinking like I couldn't take deep breaths either, you know, 1118 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,359 Speaker 2: because if you look at the what it looks like 1119 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 2: the baby takes up all the space, Like where are 1120 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 2: the lungs, where's the stomach? What's happening? I remember saying 1121 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,120 Speaker 2: I feel like a beached whale in distress. I don't 1122 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 2: want to forget what this is, because this is this 1123 00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 2: is pinpointing exactly how I'm feeling a beached whale in distress, 1124 00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 2: which is just trying to breed and survive and wait 1125 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 2: until the thing is ready to come out. 1126 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 3: I think for me a wonderful tool has been animations 1127 00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 3: on TikTok because it will show you, well, it shows 1128 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 3: you everything right. First of all, it does the thing 1129 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 3: that I've always heard, like comparing it to different fruits 1130 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 3: and vegetables, and yes. 1131 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:36,280 Speaker 2: The size. 1132 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 3: Well, what I have found for me to be very 1133 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 3: helpful is it shows what it does to the other 1134 00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 3: organs in my wife's body as it displaces all of them. 1135 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 3: And for me to see that in a cartoon form, Listen, 1136 00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:51,319 Speaker 3: I don't feel it, so I don't act like I do, 1137 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:55,800 Speaker 3: but it gives me an understanding of what she's probably 1138 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,680 Speaker 3: going through because it shows that baby's in there and 1139 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,120 Speaker 3: all your organs are getting shelved up. And I know 1140 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,799 Speaker 3: everybody else knows this. I think everybody probably knew the 1141 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 3: woman only at the percenta. 1142 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 2: I didn't know that a lot of people don't even 1143 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 2: think you about eating a percenta like it's weird or 1144 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 2: you know, gross or whatever. That's why I did the 1145 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 2: placenta pills, because I figured the is called placenta encapsulation. 1146 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 3: Would you have eaten the whole thing if she'd have 1147 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:15,799 Speaker 3: given it to you right then. 1148 00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:16,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably would have. 1149 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 3: Do you think it was really that good? If you like, 1150 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 3: if you were to eat it now, I think it'd 1151 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 3: be that good. Or is it because of where you're No, 1152 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:22,040 Speaker 3: I think it's no. 1153 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,800 Speaker 1: You know, like, when you need something, it tastes better. 1154 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:25,839 Speaker 3: For sure. 1155 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 2: I've experienced that many times. So I am absolutely positive 1156 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 2: that that and that's why I said, oh, we're supposed 1157 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 2: to have this. No, I don't think that normally I 1158 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 2: would have any interest in how this. 1159 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 3: Sounds awful, But I don't know. Maybe it does taste 1160 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,360 Speaker 3: so good. There's like a placent of market out there. 1161 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,240 Speaker 3: People gett murdered. Just ssh. 1162 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 1: Why why would you say something that is the darkest. 1163 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 3: Was horrible but it tastes so good though. 1164 00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 1: Pregnant woman to get there? 1165 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,000 Speaker 2: Okay? No, Instead what you could have said, what you 1166 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 2: could have said is there could be a market out 1167 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 2: there for women whose placentas are discarded because most of 1168 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 2: them probably are in the hospital. 1169 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:55,359 Speaker 3: I like that better. 1170 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1171 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,279 Speaker 3: I like that more too, Mark, That's way better. 1172 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: That's what we're going to go with. 1173 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 3: Yes, that is that is. Yeah. 1174 00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:03,600 Speaker 1: One more thing I want to say about being pregnant. 1175 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 3: I would love No, I love this, Okay. 1176 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 2: So I give a lot of speeches in my career 1177 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 2: about like math. People bring me in to talk about 1178 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,840 Speaker 2: women empowerment and why women should go into math and 1179 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 2: stem and all sort of stuff. And there's this thing 1180 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 2: that is an elephant in the room that I that 1181 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,279 Speaker 2: I never want to disregard, which is that like, well, 1182 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,239 Speaker 2: there's a stereotype of women not being the smartest men. 1183 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:23,120 Speaker 1: And where's I come from? 1184 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:24,719 Speaker 2: Is it really just because men hit them over the 1185 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:26,880 Speaker 2: head with a club someday and they're physically stronger and 1186 00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,960 Speaker 2: they told them, oh, you're not as smart. I don't think. 1187 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,520 Speaker 2: So there's studies and things, but here's here's what I 1188 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,759 Speaker 2: discovered when I was pregnant. When you are pregnant, your 1189 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 2: brain is not your own. Your body deprioritizes your brain 1190 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 2: and you can't remember where you put the frozen raspberries 1191 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 2: like I have. I literally put frozen raspberries and the 1192 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 2: utensil drawer ones when I was pregnant, And I'm like, what, like, 1193 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,080 Speaker 2: your your brain your brain fog in a way that 1194 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,319 Speaker 2: you never had before because your body is prioritizing all 1195 00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,680 Speaker 2: this energy to creating this human being, it's it's for 1196 00:48:56,719 --> 00:49:00,279 Speaker 2: the survival or species. Then after that you are staying 1197 00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 2: up all night breastfeeding, not getting good sleep. There's this haze, 1198 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,760 Speaker 2: this you know, having a newborn, haze, having a baby. 1199 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 2: And then if you think about for a long time, 1200 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 2: for most of history, women many women would go from 1201 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 2: pregnancy to pregnancy from say twenty to forty. Well, those 1202 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 2: are the formative years you're building your family. You're not 1203 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:27,120 Speaker 2: the one who should be making the logical decisions maybe 1204 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,880 Speaker 2: for important you know, life moves. If your brain is 1205 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,839 Speaker 2: feeling like that. Now, maybe not everyone gets like that, 1206 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,200 Speaker 2: but I think most women do to some extent. So 1207 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,359 Speaker 2: I believe that's where the stereotype came from. And then 1208 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:39,840 Speaker 2: that's where you have the stereotype of the wise older woman, 1209 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,279 Speaker 2: because guess what, she's not. 1210 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 1: Having babies anymore. 1211 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,520 Speaker 2: She can think again, she has her brain again. So 1212 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 2: I believe this is where it's come from. And because 1213 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,439 Speaker 2: but now that's outdated, because most women don't spend most 1214 00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,879 Speaker 2: of their adult years of the prime of their life 1215 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 2: having babies the whole time. So I just want to 1216 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 2: put that out there for all women who are like 1217 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,479 Speaker 2: pregnant and feeling like they don't have their brain. You don't. 1218 00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:01,480 Speaker 1: You don't. 1219 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:03,160 Speaker 2: Your baby has your brains. 1220 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,879 Speaker 3: And it makes sense because your body is doing something 1221 00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:06,400 Speaker 3: else that it feels like it's priority. 1222 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 2: Absolutely, yes, yes, that's it's an incredible job. It's such 1223 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,399 Speaker 2: an honor to be able to have a child. 1224 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 1: I wanted more. 1225 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,080 Speaker 2: We tried for more, it didn't happen, and then I 1226 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 2: got remarried and we tried and it didn't happen. 1227 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:19,600 Speaker 1: I have one. 1228 00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:24,000 Speaker 2: We're extra close, which is amazing. But I think being pregnant, 1229 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 2: having a baby, raising a child is the most beautiful 1230 00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 2: thing that you can do, the most challenging, wonderful, beautiful 1231 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 2: thing you can do. 1232 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:35,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited and scared, nervous and all. Yeah, right, 1233 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 3: I don't even know, but I know that I don't know, 1234 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,799 Speaker 3: so I think that helps me a little bit. Like 1235 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:40,520 Speaker 3: I was in therapy. I was talking to my therapist 1236 00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 3: the other day, and I tend to stay hyper focused 1237 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 3: and put a lot of energy and attention into things 1238 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,719 Speaker 3: that are coming up. I'm fixated with my schedule. I'm 1239 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 3: always worried I'm going to be late, and he's like, you, 1240 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,839 Speaker 3: you can only control that so much. But you're so 1241 00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 3: worried about it. You have all this energy you're wasting 1242 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,319 Speaker 3: because you're worried you're gonna oversleep to miss your show. 1243 00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,480 Speaker 3: You're worried you're going to And then he asked me 1244 00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 3: about having a baby, and I was like, I'm not 1245 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 3: worried because I know it's going to be hard and 1246 00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:12,719 Speaker 3: I know so whatever happens, I've had some really hard 1247 00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 3: things happened in my life and I've figured it out, 1248 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 3: and I feel like this is going to be one 1249 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,359 Speaker 3: of those. I'm going to mess up. I'm going to 1250 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 3: do things great. And he said, look what you're doing, 1251 00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 3: You're able to do that, So why not take the 1252 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 3: thing that you're doing. Why not put that into your 1253 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:31,080 Speaker 3: everyday life. Like you've gotten through every day ten thousand 1254 00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:32,719 Speaker 3: times and you've come out okay, and there have been 1255 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,000 Speaker 3: hard things. And it was like, wow, yeah, he makes 1256 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 3: a great point. He should get paid for this. That's 1257 00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:38,439 Speaker 3: what I thought. 1258 00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:40,640 Speaker 2: You're like, oh, wait, I do Yeah, take quite a bit. 1259 00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,160 Speaker 3: Yeah so that's great. 1260 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 2: Oh that's wonderful. 1261 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. 1262 00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:55,399 Speaker 5: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor. Wow, 1263 00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 5: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 1264 00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 3: The final questions I'm gonna ask you. It's a segment 1265 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,879 Speaker 3: that I do pretty much every show, but I want 1266 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,320 Speaker 3: to know when you sit down to do an interview 1267 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,319 Speaker 3: the three questions that you are asked them most. And 1268 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 3: if I did ask them, I'll take it on the chin. 1269 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 3: But I want to know when you sit down, you 1270 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,799 Speaker 3: know you're going to get asked these three questions. What 1271 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,480 Speaker 3: are they? 1272 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 2: Well? How did you get into acting as one? 1273 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:17,879 Speaker 3: I felt like I had to ask totally. 1274 00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 2: I know you, yes, why did you choose Math of 1275 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:23,240 Speaker 2: all things? 1276 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 1: And what was it like being in the Wonder Years? 1277 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 3: How do you answer that one? Though that's such a. 1278 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. People just want they want to They 1279 00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,000 Speaker 2: just they're fan of the show and they just want 1280 00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 2: to end somehow. I don't and and and I and 1281 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 2: a lot of things that I said would have been 1282 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 2: part of my answer, Like at the time, I didn't 1283 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:42,319 Speaker 2: know the show was so big. It was a lot 1284 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:43,880 Speaker 2: of fun. It was work. I was going back and 1285 00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 2: forth between school and set. It was an amazing experience 1286 00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,919 Speaker 2: you have had. The fans are amazing and I love 1287 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 2: I love the aftermath. It's incredible, like having friends everywhere 1288 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,399 Speaker 2: I go and just you know, oh, and then it's 1289 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 2: actually a question I used to always get asked, but 1290 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,279 Speaker 2: I haven't in a while now. But it was just 1291 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,080 Speaker 2: to be always was that really your first kiss on 1292 00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 2: the first episode? 1293 00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:07,840 Speaker 3: I felt like that'd be creepy to ask as an 1294 00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,280 Speaker 3: adult to another adult. 1295 00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 2: I got it, but it was my first kiss on 1296 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:14,680 Speaker 2: camera on camera, but the one that you see was 1297 00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,400 Speaker 2: the sixth take, and the reason I know and that 1298 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:18,680 Speaker 2: was the final take, and the reason I know that 1299 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 2: is because it was the only one where he started 1300 00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 2: stroking my hair afterwards. 1301 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:24,360 Speaker 3: Then can ask you a weird question? 1302 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:24,840 Speaker 2: Sure? 1303 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 3: Were you guys ever boyfriend and girlfriend as kids? 1304 00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:28,319 Speaker 2: No? 1305 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 3: But we had a. 1306 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:30,960 Speaker 2: Crossing each other and I actually have a letter, a 1307 00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:34,560 Speaker 2: love letter that Fred Roy from the first after we 1308 00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:35,120 Speaker 2: did the pilot. 1309 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,160 Speaker 3: Then why were you never boyfriend girlfriend? 1310 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, because we should have just said And 1311 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 2: then next thing I know, he's like, here you pull 1312 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:41,800 Speaker 2: my finger. 1313 00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:45,880 Speaker 1: You know, it just wasn't It was just different. It 1314 00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 1: was brother and sister. 1315 00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:51,120 Speaker 3: Pretty quickly, I'd ask you one more kind of weird question. 1316 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 3: This is just as many questions you want. No, No, 1317 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,719 Speaker 3: I didn't think of it. Did you ever have a 1318 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:57,760 Speaker 3: celebrity boyfriend? 1319 00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 2: Yes? Jeremy Miller who was on Growing Pains. So and 1320 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,880 Speaker 2: I was like fourteen fifteen years old during that relationship, 1321 00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:06,520 Speaker 2: so that was he was on Growing Pains. 1322 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:07,359 Speaker 1: I was on the Wonder Years. 1323 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 2: We would see each other at these like ABC affiliate 1324 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 2: parties and things, and yeah, we started dating. I mean 1325 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,280 Speaker 2: it was like we'd hold hands and kiss. 1326 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,280 Speaker 3: It wasn't anything, was he ben sever He was, Yes, 1327 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 3: I love Growing Pains. Yes, yeah, yes, yeah, all right. 1328 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 3: I think that's all my creepy questions. 1329 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:23,959 Speaker 1: I'm glad this is great. 1330 00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:25,200 Speaker 3: This was that should be a whole sec to do 1331 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,520 Speaker 3: creepy questions. Question save it for the very end so 1332 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,920 Speaker 3: the person can leave it if they want to. Great, Dany, 1333 00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:30,520 Speaker 3: this has been awesome. 1334 00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:31,120 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 1335 00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you so much. And then the website for 1336 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,280 Speaker 3: your books again. 1337 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,400 Speaker 2: Is mckellermath dot com. All right, and I'm on social 1338 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:41,920 Speaker 2: media everywhere just at danik and mckeller Instagram, Facebook, X. 1339 00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 3: Does anybody ever yell Winnie Cooper going through the airport? 1340 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 2: Yes, but you know what it used to basically only 1341 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,319 Speaker 2: be that now is Winnie Cooper. I love your math 1342 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 2: books and the Christmas movies. Yeah, Hallmark or Great American Family. 1343 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 2: I've done both. 1344 00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 3: Oh so homework's on a bad word. 1345 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 2: No, no, no. 1346 00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,600 Speaker 1: I was at homework for like seven years. 1347 00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:07,839 Speaker 3: I thought I was getting scolded. No no, no, no, okay, God, 1348 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:09,880 Speaker 3: so we don't have to believe that there, no. 1349 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 2: But for years now I've had a deal with Great 1350 00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,439 Speaker 2: American Family, so I'm exclusive with them, and I write 1351 00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:15,840 Speaker 2: and produce and star in movies. 1352 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,640 Speaker 1: I have like a guarantee and stuff. 1353 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,360 Speaker 3: So okay, yeah, Great. 1354 00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:19,680 Speaker 1: American is all. 1355 00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 2: And the other thing I will say that we didn't 1356 00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:21,919 Speaker 2: touch on at all. 1357 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: Which is fine. 1358 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 3: It's not fine. So what is it? 1359 00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 1: It's my faith journey. 1360 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 3: Okay. 1361 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 2: So for the last three and a half years that 1362 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 2: is when I discovered my relationship with God. It's a 1363 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,080 Speaker 2: completely like it was unexpected. My friend Kennice caaren Bray 1364 00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:37,560 Speaker 2: brought me to church, and Great American Family leans towards faith. 1365 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,480 Speaker 2: So I've been able to in exploring this faith journey 1366 00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,520 Speaker 2: on in my life, also getting to explore it on 1367 00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,960 Speaker 2: the page in the scripts that I'm writing for them, 1368 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 2: and it's been such an amazing gift. And it's that 1369 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 2: timing is God's timing right, Where what are the chances 1370 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:56,440 Speaker 2: that I would end up in an overall deal a 1371 00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,959 Speaker 2: great American family channel who's been you know, leaning more sources, 1372 00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 2: and also discover my own relationship with God. My dad 1373 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,399 Speaker 2: found Jesus when he was in his forties and tried 1374 00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 2: to get me over. At the time, I was like, 1375 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 2: and I'm so happy, that's great for you. I'm leave 1376 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:13,400 Speaker 2: in some sort of higher power thing. 1377 00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what. 1378 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 2: But then it all crystallized for me and I can't 1379 00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 2: even explain it. It's just been this gift and it 1380 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:24,160 Speaker 2: brings me so much joy and I don't worry about 1381 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:27,040 Speaker 2: things like I used to. That's the main thing I 1382 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 2: don't feel like, because because when you pay attention, you 1383 00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,560 Speaker 2: start to feel God's hand and things and you're like, 1384 00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:36,400 Speaker 2: oh wait, there's a bigger plan. I can make my 1385 00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:38,640 Speaker 2: plans and I can try and do my best, but 1386 00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, it's not actually up 1387 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,040 Speaker 2: to me to figure it all out. 1388 00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:43,080 Speaker 1: And it's such a relief. 1389 00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:46,239 Speaker 2: It takes the burden off and it has made my 1390 00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,759 Speaker 2: life so much more joyous. 1391 00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:55,120 Speaker 3: I hosted a show with Candace Cameron Beret. She was lovely, delightful, 1392 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,040 Speaker 3: super fun and warm to be around. 1393 00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:58,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, just kids, what show? Is it. 1394 00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 3: It was owen wards show. Okay, yeah, we did it. 1395 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:02,760 Speaker 3: We hosted it together. She was awesome. 1396 00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's great. She's a good friend. 1397 00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:05,800 Speaker 3: And you never know, you never know how somebody is 1398 00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:07,239 Speaker 3: going to be when you never met him because they 1399 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,799 Speaker 3: cold matched us up. Okay, and then I'm like, all right, 1400 00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 3: here we go, let's me a full house. It's gonna 1401 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,240 Speaker 3: be pretty cool. Yeah yeah, And then it was awesome. 1402 00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,680 Speaker 3: She was she was super kind. Yeah to friends, it 1403 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,960 Speaker 3: will pass her along my best. Then I think we 1404 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,880 Speaker 3: still follow each other on social media, but I don't 1405 00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,520 Speaker 3: really DM women even to go like have a good 1406 00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,880 Speaker 3: day or it's good. But next time you talk to her, say, hey, 1407 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,800 Speaker 3: remember that guy Bobby, the kind of nerdy guy with 1408 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,400 Speaker 3: the glasses. He said really nice things about you. Dan. 1409 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 3: I can thank you so much. This has been awesome. 1410 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 2: Thank you too, Thanks 1411 00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 3: For listening to a Bobby cast production.