WEBVTT - All About The Team with Eli Manning & The Jay Fund

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so full disclosure. When I was a kid boy,

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<v Speaker 1>I really didn't follow sports at all. I followed rock

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<v Speaker 1>and roll, and for some reason, those two things were

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<v Speaker 1>not going hand in hand for me. But as I've

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<v Speaker 1>grown older, I've become more and more of a sports fan.

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<v Speaker 1>It was kind of moving to New York and I

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<v Speaker 1>think falling in love with the New York Knicks, and

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<v Speaker 1>I now really do both enjoy it and admire the

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<v Speaker 1>people that do it incredibly well. A lot of it

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<v Speaker 1>is because I just look at it and go, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's something I just can't do and never will be

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<v Speaker 1>able to. So it's very exciting to me today to

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<v Speaker 1>get a chance to speak to our next guest, the

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<v Speaker 1>great two time Super Bowl champion quarterback of the New

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<v Speaker 1>York Giants, Eli Manning. I think you're going to enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>our conversation, and I think I think you'll be surprised

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<v Speaker 1>at his guest.

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<v Speaker 2>So lean in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you're here. Well, thank you the great Eli

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<v Speaker 1>Manning for being here with me today. You are our

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<v Speaker 1>first celebrity from the world of sport as they say

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<v Speaker 1>in the UK, or sports as you would know it

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<v Speaker 1>in this country. You know it's there's so much There's

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<v Speaker 1>so many things that are so fun about this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>to me, one of which is that you're doing one

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<v Speaker 1>of those jobs that like I look at that and

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<v Speaker 1>I go, there is no chance I would make it

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<v Speaker 1>through five minutes of that job. The amount of training,

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<v Speaker 1>the amount of concentration, the way that you you know,

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<v Speaker 1>put your body on the line all the time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the funny thing about being an actor is

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, for inside, just give you an example,

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<v Speaker 1>like I've played I think four Marines, okay, And so

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes people will come up to me and say, boy,

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<v Speaker 1>you really seem like a marine. And I'll say, let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you something that I could never be a marine.

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<v Speaker 1>I've met marines and I've seen what they do, and

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<v Speaker 1>and I am. I am actor boy. So what does

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<v Speaker 1>that feel like to, uh, you know, make those kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sacrifices with your body.

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<v Speaker 2>Day in and day out. I think I think you

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<v Speaker 2>just get used to it. You start doing it at

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<v Speaker 2>such a young age I was. I mean, I played

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<v Speaker 2>flag football growing up. I really didn't start tackled till

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<v Speaker 2>eighth grade, and you just get used to hitting as

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<v Speaker 2>the quarterback. I think a lot of your hits are

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<v Speaker 2>after a throw. That's kind of when you're your most vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 2>You're kind of throwing your in a bad position. Someone

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<v Speaker 2>comes hits you, but at that moment, you're so focused

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<v Speaker 2>on wondering what happened after the throw. You're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>look in between cracks of linemen and people. Sometimes you're

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<v Speaker 2>just listening to the crowd. You know, if you're at

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<v Speaker 2>home and you hear tears, you know, all right, that

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<v Speaker 2>was completed. If you hear kind of nothing, or who's

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you know, incomplete, if you hear you know, booze

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<v Speaker 2>or you know, real silence, you know, maybe interceptions. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're so you're so focused and on those

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<v Speaker 2>things that you don't have time to think about the pain.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really the next the next morning after the game

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<v Speaker 2>is where you you know, you know you're gonna have

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<v Speaker 2>some bumps and bruises. But as I've as I've retired

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<v Speaker 2>from football, watching it and having been gone, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>been out of it for three years, I like see

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<v Speaker 2>the hits and I think the same thing. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, there's no way this guy's getting up

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<v Speaker 2>after that hit. And they you know, most of the

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<v Speaker 2>times get up and they're on to the next place.

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<v Speaker 2>So having been away for for a little bit, it

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<v Speaker 2>looks a lot worse, uh now than then I remember it.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was playing, I think you just got to

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<v Speaker 2>put it. You just don't even think about It's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's just part of the game, and and you don't

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<v Speaker 2>worry about the big hits. But uh, they look they

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<v Speaker 2>look more painful now that I remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, it's funny because you led me right

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<v Speaker 1>into two things. One was one was you know, talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the next day, and I'll never forget.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the.

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<v Speaker 1>Movie was North Dallas forty and Nick Nolty climbs into

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<v Speaker 1>the ice bath after the game, and I remember looking

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<v Speaker 1>at that and going, oh, I don't care how hurt

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I'm not climbing into a bath, a bath

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<v Speaker 1>full of ice cubes and unless there's you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>filled with vodka and all of But you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just found that. I just found that so powerful,

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<v Speaker 1>that that image from that movie. And I didn't grow

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<v Speaker 1>up as an athlete. I'm terrible with ball sports. We

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<v Speaker 1>played on the street, We played Grumphilly and we played

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<v Speaker 1>on the street and played you know, stickball, and and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, football in the street, you know, tag whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>But but I definitely didn't have like the high school,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and to this day, I'm an awful, awful athlete.

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<v Speaker 1>But the other thing that you I was I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about this and you mentioned, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the middle of taking a hit and you've

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<v Speaker 1>thrown the ball and you don't know what happens to it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so for those of you that haven't seen the

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<v Speaker 1>helmet catch, uh to David Tyree, you have to watch this,

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<v Speaker 1>uh this replay on YouTube because it's just amazing of

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<v Speaker 1>one of them, I'd say it's certainly one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most famous plays in Giant's history, I would think, and

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<v Speaker 1>probably one of the most famous you know throws and catches.

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<v Speaker 1>And Eli is completely surrounded and miraculously about to be

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<v Speaker 1>thrown to the ground and he lets the ball go

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<v Speaker 1>and then the camera goes off of him. And what

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<v Speaker 1>I thought to myself was he didn't even get to

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<v Speaker 1>watch see this catch, like, like what you must have

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<v Speaker 1>been on the ground already, right, I mean, you did

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<v Speaker 1>you even? I mean, was it that thing that you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned just before where you're like I hear whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not people are booing me or cheering.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, and and I, uh, I kind of got hit.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get all the way knocked down to the ground,

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<v Speaker 2>and that went so but it was still crowded, and

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<v Speaker 2>David was kind of Rodney Harrisimmons, the defender. He's hanging

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<v Speaker 2>all over him, and I see him go to the

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<v Speaker 2>ground and they, you know, they call for the catch,

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<v Speaker 2>but at that moment, you know, you never know, like

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<v Speaker 2>you're trying to maybe run up there and spike it

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<v Speaker 2>real quick so they can't review it. But we had

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<v Speaker 2>to call a time out under that situation. So and

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<v Speaker 2>they're they're they're gonna review it. And I remember going

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<v Speaker 2>up to David. I'm like, hey, did you did you

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<v Speaker 2>catch it? And He's like, yeah, I caught it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I've been lied to by receivers. These receivers that they

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<v Speaker 2>may tell you, they tell you they're open, and then

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<v Speaker 2>you watch the film they were the double teemed and

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<v Speaker 2>on the ground they tell you they caught it. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>rather through one to Plexico Burus and you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a third and it was a second and ten,

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<v Speaker 2>so and you call it the first down, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you're kind of hey, did you catch it so we

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<v Speaker 2>can start thinking about when we will run on third

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<v Speaker 2>down or what our first down? Please? Yeah, I caught it.

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<v Speaker 2>And you see the replay in the bounced like three

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<v Speaker 2>times before it got there. I'm like, why are you

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<v Speaker 2>lying to me. It's not going to make the call

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<v Speaker 2>any different.

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<v Speaker 1>Videotape.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's video. There's a video. They're going to analyze it.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to get the right call. So David, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, no, don't lie to me. Did you really

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<v Speaker 2>catch it? And said, I promise you the ball never

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<v Speaker 2>touched the ground. I had it on my helmet, and

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<v Speaker 2>that was kind of the first time I was like, really,

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<v Speaker 2>you caught it off your helmet.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, you did not see the catch live? You

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<v Speaker 1>had you had to go to the video. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go to video, and I kind of watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch it up there and you see it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>real quickly, and you know and touching the ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Never touches the ground. But we really didn't have time

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<v Speaker 2>to analyze like what a great catch it was at

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<v Speaker 2>that moment, just because hey, we we still had to

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<v Speaker 2>go score a touchdown and try to win the Super Bowl.

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<v Speaker 2>Great catch, but it almost if we don't win the game,

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<v Speaker 2>then that great play probably is not talked about as much,

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<v Speaker 2>or is it, you know, become the great play because

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<v Speaker 2>it has to lead to the win of winning a

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<v Speaker 2>Super Bowl, which makes it special. And sure I remember

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<v Speaker 2>after the game, maybe it was like after the game,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you have an after party. Obviously you're celebrating

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<v Speaker 2>your friends and family. I get back to the hotel

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<v Speaker 2>with my wife at you know, three in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>and we had an early press conference next morning, so

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<v Speaker 2>I at like a six o'clock wake up, Paul, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gone, well, I haven't seen like the replay yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see the highlights. I got to go

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<v Speaker 2>watch ESPN, and I want to see like the the

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<v Speaker 2>David Tyree catch again and see see how good it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's amazing to me. And you know, speaking of which,

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<v Speaker 1>as as as you know, as we know, you did

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<v Speaker 1>go on to win that Super Bowl, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>the first one, right, that was the yeah, two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and eight, and and you know, it was quite as

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<v Speaker 1>a spectacular moment. And actually the scoring touchdown was sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like the polar opposite catch, right, because it was

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<v Speaker 1>just like a just a nice little toss and you

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of went up, I got the ball and

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<v Speaker 1>we just wanted to right.

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<v Speaker 2>It was wide open, Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was with drama. There was there was no drama

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<v Speaker 1>in that catch at all. So it was a great contrast.

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<v Speaker 1>When you become an actor, you know, you you go

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<v Speaker 1>out there and you go, well, I'm gonna make this movie. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I'm not even going to entertain this thought,

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<v Speaker 1>but way sometimes in the back of your mind you're thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to be a breakout hit, or this

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be an Oscar winner, or this is

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<v Speaker 1>going to take me to the next level or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it happens to be. You know, you sometimes have these

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of overreaching fantasies, delusions of grandeur. But it

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<v Speaker 1>takes a long time to find out what the upshot

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<v Speaker 1>is of the of the project that you've done. And

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, sometimes a year or so after after

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<v Speaker 1>you've made it, the film comes out when you're the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a football season. Uh, you're constantly in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the moment. My question is when you start out,

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<v Speaker 1>do you uh, do you keep in the back of

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<v Speaker 1>your mind the idea that you could win a Super

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<v Speaker 1>Bowl and that stranger things have happened, or do you

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<v Speaker 1>have to just kind of go game the game, the game,

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<v Speaker 1>the game and put that out of your head.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think you really, you really got to go

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<v Speaker 2>game the game, the game. And I think once you

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<v Speaker 2>even you know, you go through stretches where you're playing

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<v Speaker 2>great football. We went through stretches where we you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we won six games in a row, and you feel like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we can't you know, we can't lose, like we're playing

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<v Speaker 2>great And once you start thinking that, usually you get

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<v Speaker 2>humbled real quickly and you just got to have one

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<v Speaker 2>of those games where nothing goes right and you and

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<v Speaker 2>you get beat quickly and badly, and it kind of

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<v Speaker 2>gets you. All right, let's get back to the basics.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get back to focusing on doing you know, what

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<v Speaker 2>we need to do. Make sure we're preparing correctly all

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<v Speaker 2>week and and because if you don't, if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>go out there and and and like do the little

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<v Speaker 2>things really well and pay attention to the details and

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<v Speaker 2>have great you know, everybody you know has to have

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<v Speaker 2>great weeks of preparation and work, then then you get embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it's not just one person, it's I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's all twenty two guys, eleven guys on offense, eleven

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<v Speaker 2>guys on defense that you know, they all have to

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<v Speaker 2>do their job. If one person, you know it has

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<v Speaker 2>an off week where they don't prepare well, they don't

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<v Speaker 2>know the assignments, it's a it's on a script. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>the each play does not have a chance if even

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<v Speaker 2>one person is doing something wrong or or just not

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<v Speaker 2>doing it at a high level. And so it's you

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<v Speaker 2>got to everybody has to buy in, uh to the idea.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just one week at a time. It's about this week,

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<v Speaker 2>how we perform, how are we gonna go out there

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<v Speaker 2>and prepare and let's go play hard and worry about

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<v Speaker 2>this one and just getting into the playoffs. It's about

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<v Speaker 2>it's about finding a way to get to the playoffs.

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<v Speaker 2>And then there that's when really anything can happen, and

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<v Speaker 2>you can get hot at the right time and and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, play a team that might be better than

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<v Speaker 2>you and they might beat you ninety nine at one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred times, but that one day you might catch the breaks.

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<v Speaker 2>You might you know, just you know, find a guy

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<v Speaker 2>who's struggled, or you know, ball bounce in certain ways

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<v Speaker 2>where you can win that certain day and that's what

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<v Speaker 2>you're playing for.

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<v Speaker 1>M Now, going back, your dad, Archie Manning, was a

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<v Speaker 1>great player in his own right and you know, had

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<v Speaker 1>a you know, fantastic career.

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<v Speaker 2>You and.

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<v Speaker 1>Your brother Peyton, but also your other brother. We're all

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<v Speaker 1>of players, all football players. Was there any a moment, ever,

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<v Speaker 1>a moment where one of you was thinking, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe dental school or or I don't interior design anything that.

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<v Speaker 1>Were there ever any other options there? Or was it

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<v Speaker 1>all it? Did it have to be football?

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't have to be football? But we we definitely

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<v Speaker 2>were into sports. And I mean I played basketball pla basketball, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>through high school, all through through high school. So what

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people maybe assume my dad

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<v Speaker 2>had this master plan of creating NFL quarterbacks as he

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<v Speaker 2>was an NFL quarterback, And nothing could really be further

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<v Speaker 2>from the truth. Uh, you know, we had we did

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<v Speaker 2>well in school, but we played, We played a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of sports. He just thought, you know, sports were great, Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, great way to learn life lessons and dedication

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<v Speaker 2>and hard work and commitment. Uh, dealing with losses, dealing

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<v Speaker 2>with success, in handling all those things. Uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just the team work that goes into it, and so,

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<v Speaker 2>uh he wanted us to play sports, but he never

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<v Speaker 2>got too involved in our sports. Uh he He kind

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<v Speaker 2>of always said, hey, I live my sports dream. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want to get into it, I'm here to

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<v Speaker 2>support you. But I'm never going to be the guy saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you got to go out and work out, or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to put you in this drill. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>he just wanted us to make our own decisions, for

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<v Speaker 2>us to find our own path, and it just so

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<v Speaker 2>happened just from an early age. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>We could just throw the football pretty well. So I

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<v Speaker 2>mean even like in fifth grade at recess at school,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I mean you've quickly learned if whatever team

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<v Speaker 2>we were all on and playing quarterback, we usually won

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<v Speaker 2>that game. And so eventually I just became the permanent

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<v Speaker 2>quarterback on both sides. To make it fair, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Steady steady we call it. We would play with a steady.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, steady. So I remember after a while, I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to try something else. I want to play receiver.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to catch it touched down, And I quickly

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<v Speaker 2>learned that I'm not very fast. I don't catch the

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<v Speaker 2>ball very well, and so I wasn't getting fall that often,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, this is this is worse. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>go back to play steady and being able to permanent QB.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Oh wow, that's that's fascinating. And what about

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<v Speaker 1>your mom? I mean, did she did she have moments

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<v Speaker 1>of like, I'm I'm sending my little boys out here,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to get sacked.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that was that was hard. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>I feel for my mom. She she has had to

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<v Speaker 2>watch way too many football games where you have I

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<v Speaker 2>think with the with my dad, it wasn't too hard

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<v Speaker 2>if he got hit, but with their with their little

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<v Speaker 2>boys and her kids, you know, just getting getting hit,

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<v Speaker 2>getting sacked a bunch you know, losses. So all she

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<v Speaker 2>cared was us coming out of the game healthy and

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<v Speaker 2>she was always there for a big hug afterwards, win

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<v Speaker 2>or lose, and just wanted us to be you know,

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<v Speaker 2>be safe, be healthy. And but she's watched, she's watched

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of football games. She's had to deal with

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of losses. But uh, you know, we got

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of championships to to be happy about as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I love what what what your dad was pointing out about,

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<v Speaker 1>uh learning to deal with successes and failures, because I

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<v Speaker 1>really feel like that is you know, I have two

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<v Speaker 1>kids that they're not athletes, but they are in in

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<v Speaker 1>uh my son's a musician and my daughter's an actor.

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<v Speaker 1>And and you know, you are thrown into this world

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<v Speaker 1>where you don't have a steady gig. The the success

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<v Speaker 1>or failure of your of your career trajectory is all

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<v Speaker 1>on on wins and losses, and like that's a real

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<v Speaker 1>kind of seesaw sort of life to have to live

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<v Speaker 1>and uh and the idea that in order to uh

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<v Speaker 1>accomplish those successes you have to be part of a

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<v Speaker 1>team are really really good messages I think for for

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<v Speaker 1>young people. And and you know, we but like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't they were not playing sports. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>that we've tried to kind of you know, pound that

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<v Speaker 1>into them. Uh that both but both of those concepts

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<v Speaker 1>teamwork and also you know, don't don't get too happy,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get too full of yourself when it when you

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<v Speaker 1>when you have a win, because you know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>things are going to change down the road and and

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<v Speaker 1>you know when you have a when when things don't

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<v Speaker 1>work out, you know, are you in it for the

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<v Speaker 1>long haul? Are you going to let this this one,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, knock you knock you down forever? So so

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<v Speaker 1>those are those are great messages I've had to I've

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<v Speaker 1>not had to.

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<v Speaker 2>I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I luckily have a band with my brother that we've

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<v Speaker 1>had since nineteen ninety five. And there's two things about

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm constantly trying to find things that, as

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<v Speaker 1>I said at the beginning of the podcast, it's very

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<v Speaker 1>hard for me to relate to this, to you and

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<v Speaker 1>the life that you've had and the and the gig

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<v Speaker 1>that you do. But so I'm trying to find these

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<v Speaker 1>kind of you know, connections, which is about this what

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast is about. You know, I get this question

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, and I find it ultimately, I find

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<v Speaker 1>it sort of irritating. But you work with your brother

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<v Speaker 1>in you know, multiple capacities, whether it's commercials or your

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<v Speaker 1>or your broadcast together, and how how is that working relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Basically there's a lot of rock bands that have ended

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<v Speaker 1>up literally taking a swing at each other on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are brothers?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's like that's a face like the Everly's

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<v Speaker 1>hate each other. You know, the Kinks, the Oasis. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like the list just goes on and on and on.

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody always says to me and Michael, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you play together? You must hate each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh So I'm curious about about I'm sending this dumb

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<v Speaker 1>question back your way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, I think I think Peyton and I are

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<v Speaker 2>fortunate that for our broadcast, I'm in New Jersey doing

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<v Speaker 2>it and he's in Denver, so we're not even in

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<v Speaker 2>the same room. So okay, no punches can be thrown,

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<v Speaker 2>and we definitely take shots at each other, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>we're both uh uh. You know, I think it's a

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<v Speaker 2>football player just deal with the media, deal with the

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<v Speaker 2>locker room. Like our number one rule is you can't

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<v Speaker 2>be sensitive. There's no sensitivity in here because if you

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<v Speaker 2>if people find that out, then they'll they just come

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<v Speaker 2>at you even more. And so we just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we're we kind of go. You know, we're gonna take

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if you mess up, it actually works out

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<v Speaker 2>better I think and broadcasting. If you mess up, if

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<v Speaker 2>I say something wrong, I you know, pronounce a name

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<v Speaker 2>incorrectly or make a wrong call, Peyton's gonna call me

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<v Speaker 2>out before the media has the opportunity to call me

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<v Speaker 2>out because he's gonna be a media and if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get called out by somebody, rather really be for

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<v Speaker 2>my brother. But we definitely take shots at each other.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it's also good that we don't do

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<v Speaker 2>every game. We kind of we'll do maybe two or

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<v Speaker 2>three in a row, and then we need a break,

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<v Speaker 2>and usually during that break for a week or two,

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<v Speaker 2>like we don't even talk to each other. It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, I need I need a full time from you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to talk to you. I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to see that often. But we we have a good relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think it's I think it's because, uh, he's

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<v Speaker 2>five years older than me, so growing up, we never

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<v Speaker 2>really competed against each other. It's always been a support deal.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always been, you know, him kind of helping me

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<v Speaker 2>through high school or helping me through college. And then

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<v Speaker 2>we got to the NFL. We competed against each other

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<v Speaker 2>three times, and then it didn't work that well for

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<v Speaker 2>me at three against some so I didn't I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have much to fight about or to argue.

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<v Speaker 1>Did your mom take him aside and say, can you

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<v Speaker 1>just let Eli win one come on.

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<v Speaker 2>This one time. There's one time. Yeah, because I am

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<v Speaker 2>the baby, I am I am mom's favorite, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, and so I think she probably did try

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<v Speaker 2>to try to do that. But we've always just tried

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<v Speaker 2>to help each other out and really support each other.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think that's kept us kept us close. And

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<v Speaker 2>and again we don't have to be around each other

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<v Speaker 2>too much, and that keeps us. I think that keeps

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<v Speaker 2>us close.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, Yeah, you know, it's so funny. That's that it's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty much word for word at what our answer is,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is that we don't live together. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't even really talk necessarily that much, but then

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<v Speaker 1>we come together to play the show, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>we do the show and then the show is great.

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<v Speaker 1>But but we don't but it's not it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>we're you know, checking in. And the other thing is

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<v Speaker 1>that I you know, I don't know what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you get a little bit for us it's

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<v Speaker 1>nine years, if you get some some space in between

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<v Speaker 1>the two ages, it definitely helps. And I'm the youngest

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<v Speaker 1>of six, so it's a it's a you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a you know, kind of a similar situation. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there there was a funny connection that I that I

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<v Speaker 1>thought of, you know, because of the whole goofy you know,

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<v Speaker 1>six degrees thing. But uh, you know, you had a show.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's on any more. College Both Is

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<v Speaker 1>that still long? The College Bowl reboot Bowl?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, papers got hosted. I was just like an

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<v Speaker 2>executive producer whatever that means on the show. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>College Ball it's I don't know if they're doing another season.

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<v Speaker 2>They've had two seasons of it so far. Two seasons, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I did a movie called Diner many many years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and in that movie, it took place in the I

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<v Speaker 1>think nineteen sixty one. I am sitting there all alone

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<v Speaker 1>in my apartment. There's a scene where I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>all alone in my apartment and I'm watching College Bowl.

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<v Speaker 1>And that just shows you how long that show has

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<v Speaker 1>been on the air. The movie, it was a period

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<v Speaker 1>piece and I'm yelling at the television and saying, you

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<v Speaker 1>get the wrong answer. I like, this character gets the

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<v Speaker 1>answer before everybody else. And it was just this weird

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<v Speaker 1>thing where, you know, I never really understood the scene.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand and like why it was why people

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<v Speaker 1>liked it, but people had this great reaction to it

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<v Speaker 1>because they felt like it showed that the character was

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<v Speaker 1>smart and that you didn't really get that and any

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<v Speaker 1>of the other scenes. So how did you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you a contestant or were I never?

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<v Speaker 2>I never went all. This was kind of for college

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<v Speaker 2>college kids, uh, and an opportunity for them to earn

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<v Speaker 2>some you know, scholarships and for them to compete against

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<v Speaker 2>each other in a in like a quiz show type deal.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just, uh, it was actually fun being both

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<v Speaker 2>my brothers were on it together and I just got

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<v Speaker 2>to I got to watch and analyze and to tell

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<v Speaker 2>tell them my thoughts. So now that's what was good

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<v Speaker 2>or bad. So I don't know if they listened to

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<v Speaker 2>any of them, but it was fun critiquing my two

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<v Speaker 2>older brothers in a show and you know, talking about

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<v Speaker 2>what they did wrong or their mistakes.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you mentioned that in the broadcast you get to

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<v Speaker 1>stay in at home and your brother stays at home

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<v Speaker 1>or stays where he lives. Did what was the road

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<v Speaker 1>like for you? Because how many years were you? Were

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<v Speaker 1>you in the NFL?

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<v Speaker 2>Sixteen years?

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<v Speaker 1>Sixteen years?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's sixteen years of being on the road,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just curious, like for a lot of reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>the just the toil of you know, like like I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you, you know, in certain terms, that hotels no

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<v Speaker 1>longer hold any kind of interest to me. The first

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<v Speaker 1>time I ever went in one, I was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the greatest thing. You know, I don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do my laundry or whatever it is. You know, somebody

0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:46.680
<v Speaker 1>makes the bed. But now I there's no romance left

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<v Speaker 1>for me in terms of that, And so I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>wondering what that's like for sixteen years and on your

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<v Speaker 1>your family and the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I think I think football is different than

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of other sports. Is really our weeks are

0:25:01.920 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 2>exactly the same every week, and it really really difference.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're if you're at home, you stay at a

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<v Speaker 2>hotel Saturday night and you have to be there, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>around six or seven o'clock, and you play the game

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<v Speaker 2>the next day and you're you know, you're kind of

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<v Speaker 2>back home with your family around you know, four thirty

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<v Speaker 2>five o'clock and you get to be with them. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're if you're on away game, you leave, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you have practice Saturday morning, you leave around one o'clock

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:26.080
<v Speaker 2>and you basically come back right after the game on Sunday,

0:25:26.160 --> 0:25:29.600
<v Speaker 2>so you know, you're on you're a gone really Saturday

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<v Speaker 2>night of the week, and the rest of the week

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<v Speaker 2>is you know, very schedule your practice at the same

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<v Speaker 2>time every day you meet. You're kind of home around

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<v Speaker 2>the same time for dinner. So it's a pretty good,

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<v Speaker 2>uh family life situation. I mean, you're you're you're gone

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<v Speaker 2>during the day and you're still going on the weekends

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:49.240
<v Speaker 2>a little bit. But your family is can you know,

0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:51.719
<v Speaker 2>come come to the game and watch you on Sunday,

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<v Speaker 2>which is exciting. So uh, it's different from baseball or basketball,

0:25:55.560 --> 0:25:58.040
<v Speaker 2>where you might have these two week road trips. Right

0:25:58.040 --> 0:26:02.040
<v Speaker 2>you're traveling around and really away from the family. So uh,

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<v Speaker 2>training camp is the only time training camp you're you're

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<v Speaker 2>you You go away for like a you know, three

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<v Speaker 2>weeks to a month. A lot of times you're in

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<v Speaker 2>a dorm room and you're together in trade binding. That

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of the hardest time. Once you start having

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<v Speaker 2>young kids and and you know, tell the life all right,

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:19.920
<v Speaker 2>I'll see I'll see in a month. Good good luck,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, you know you can figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well except for the fact that, I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to go and live some place where

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<v Speaker 1>you get drafted, and that, right is that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a fascinating thing. You don't, I don't. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>people talking about that that much. I mean, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't know, is there is there what? What

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<v Speaker 1>would you say is a stronger pull the place, uh

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:53.879
<v Speaker 1>or the team or the conference or the or the

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:56.800
<v Speaker 1>legacy or what what? What? What? Or where?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 1>What are the what are the what where the coach?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>It's tough. Yeah, I mean I think you like, as

0:27:04.640 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 2>you said, you don't have a choice, like you get

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:09.560
<v Speaker 2>you get drafted, you go wherever you're going. I think

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:12.119
<v Speaker 2>you know you're excited to play play football. For me,

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:14.400
<v Speaker 2>I was excited to come to the to the Giants

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<v Speaker 2>just because they're a you know, just a great organization,

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.440
<v Speaker 2>been on the original teams, they've been around for so long,

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:25.440
<v Speaker 2>great ownership. You know. I knew coach Coughlin was gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be the head coach. He was coming into his first year,

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<v Speaker 2>so I just I knew a lot about the history

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 2>of the Giants and what they stood for and and

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:37.119
<v Speaker 2>you know, really was excited to come to this organization,

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<v Speaker 2>come to New York. But you know it is different

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, you know, yeah, you're twenty three

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 2>years old. You're like, all right, you're moving to New

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:48.240
<v Speaker 2>Jersey where they practice. You can you know, go go

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:51.200
<v Speaker 2>find an apartment, go figure it out and start your life.

0:27:51.440 --> 0:27:54.159
<v Speaker 2>And so, you know, lucky to have my mom. My

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<v Speaker 2>mom was very helpful in that. Like I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>what just finding a place to live. I was all

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:01.879
<v Speaker 2>of a sudden, you come up here and I'm like,

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm in practice all day. I'm trying to learn this playbook.

0:28:04.320 --> 0:28:06.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to, you know, figure out how to be

0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 2>a quarterback at this level. I don't have time to

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 2>figure out, you know, where am I, Where am I

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:13.120
<v Speaker 2>going to live? How do I get a bed? How

0:28:13.119 --> 0:28:15.439
<v Speaker 2>do I you know, get a sofa and TV? So

0:28:16.200 --> 0:28:18.919
<v Speaker 2>fortunately have my mom come up and kind of you know,

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:22.359
<v Speaker 2>handle handle that for me and listen. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>think you try to do so much as a young

0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:27.240
<v Speaker 2>player where you can just focus on football and focus

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:29.800
<v Speaker 2>on trying to you know, you's got drafted a lot

0:28:29.840 --> 0:28:32.239
<v Speaker 2>of pressure're you know, first first picking the draft, You're

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 2>coming to this, you'll be the quarterback. You You've got

0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 2>these you know, these great athletes and and you Michael

0:28:38.640 --> 0:28:41.560
<v Speaker 2>straighthand and Tiki Barber and these guys that you you

0:28:41.560 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 2>don't want to disappoint them. And you've got to try

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 2>to raise your level play real quickly to get where

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:49.480
<v Speaker 2>you can be successful and win games and and and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, uh kind of please the crowd and the organization,

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 2>and so you want to you know, be totally committed

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 2>to that and and not have to worry about anything

0:28:58.120 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 2>outside of football.

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<v Speaker 1>We have the great coach Tom Coughlin with us today,

0:29:42.360 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>which is absolute honor. Tom. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>joint You guys know each other, right, Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've got some great stories for you too, Kevin

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:58.520
<v Speaker 3>fire Away, coach. I gotta tell you this because I

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<v Speaker 3>get a video. I think Archie's son it to me,

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<v Speaker 3>it might have been Eli's sonate to me one time.

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 3>This tells you how Eli grew up. So the video goes,

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<v Speaker 3>Archie's got the camera and you had Cooper and Peyton

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<v Speaker 3>out by the basketball who you know, threw the throw

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:16.920
<v Speaker 3>the basketball up and horse and around with each other

0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:22.400
<v Speaker 3>and they're just little guys. Out comes Olivia with Eli's

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<v Speaker 3>just a little baby. He's a few months old. So

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<v Speaker 3>the next thing you see, Archie's got the camera and

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 3>the two brothers are even Eli back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>They're dropping and passing.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you kidding me?

0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:38.880
<v Speaker 2>You know?

0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 3>The next day ringing up to Eli, you know, wait

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:45.920
<v Speaker 3>a few years ago or whenever this happened, and he goes, yeah,

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to thank my dad for how we got

0:30:49.840 --> 0:30:53.080
<v Speaker 3>the out yard and he's the camera man, and these

0:30:53.120 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 3>guys are even me around the parking lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, did they put it? Did they at least

0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 1>put a helmet on them?

0:30:58.240 --> 0:31:02.840
<v Speaker 2>Or no? No, no helmet, no helmet. H I remember

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<v Speaker 2>telling my dad was like, hey, Dad, you did think

0:31:04.760 --> 0:31:07.560
<v Speaker 2>about maybe putting the camera down for a little bit

0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 2>as I'm being tossed around between two people, was like, no, no,

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 2>this was this could be in a documentary one day.

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 2>Let me need to catch this live footage, like it's

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 2>not this is great stuff.

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 1>And where can we see that footage?

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 2>Coach?

0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you do you have that footage? Can you share

0:31:21.160 --> 0:31:21.600
<v Speaker 1>it with us?

0:31:21.640 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Please?

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:24.320
<v Speaker 3>You have to dig that out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh that is amazing. So but that's interesting. So, uh,

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:33.120
<v Speaker 1>you were already aware of him from his infancy when

0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:35.000
<v Speaker 1>when he came to the Giants?

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:35.720
<v Speaker 2>Is that correct?

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:37.960
<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't see that picture till after.

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh it wasn't until after. Oh I thought maybe you were.

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:44.480
<v Speaker 1>You were in communication with Archie from from from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>Now okay, well no, not quite.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok Had you been tracking his career? Is his college career?

0:31:50.720 --> 0:31:54.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah absolutely? Uh yeah, hey his career at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Miss but Ernie Corsi, who actually drafted Eli, Ernie, he

0:32:00.240 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 3>followed him troums from day one, and I'll never forget.

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<v Speaker 3>We went to New Orleans or his for Eli's workout, Okay,

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:12.760
<v Speaker 3>and it was at the Saints indoor facility.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is the.

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<v Speaker 3>Difference between Bade and Eli. Archie telling me the store

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<v Speaker 3>so Archie says, yeah, he gets a hold of Eli. Supposedly,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe the workouts at one o'clock and the whole NFL

0:32:26.520 --> 0:32:29.000
<v Speaker 3>is that the whole place is full enough. But scouts,

0:32:29.680 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 3>head coaches, general managers, everybody's there waiting to watch this

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 3>guy work out. So you get, this is Archie telling

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 3>me the store. He said, I give I'm looking around.

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 3>I don't see Eli. So I called Eli on the

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 3>phone and I said, this is Eli, this is Archie.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you? Where the heck are you Elio? It's

0:32:52.360 --> 0:32:55.239
<v Speaker 3>twelve thirty at a one o'clock workout, he said, Dan,

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<v Speaker 3>the workouts at one. I stopped to have something to

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<v Speaker 3>eat before it came to don't work.

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<v Speaker 2>They said, of Peyton.

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:06.960
<v Speaker 3>If it was Peyton, Ayton would have been there selling program.

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 3>It was at ten o'clock the morning. But that's that

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<v Speaker 3>was the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody not Lad.

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<v Speaker 3>He's he's hungry, he's starving. Yeah, I'm watching. And he

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:26.240
<v Speaker 3>gets to the place and he's got four or five

0:33:26.280 --> 0:33:29.040
<v Speaker 3>guys that he was working out with as receivers, and

0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 3>he comes in and you know, he's a little shy,

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:34.960
<v Speaker 3>and he's kind of he throws a couple of passes

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:38.440
<v Speaker 3>on the sideline, he goes out. He puts on the

0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 3>best demonstration of passing that I had ever been around.

0:33:41.840 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 3>Everything he can imagine, with a bunch of guys he

0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:46.360
<v Speaker 3>didn't play with, but he worked out a little bit.

0:33:46.400 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 3>These guys may have caught the ball for him.

0:33:48.400 --> 0:33:49.160
<v Speaker 2>That's happening.

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:53.200
<v Speaker 3>That was Eli's pro debut, this pro workout.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me, Eliu, because I want to throw

0:33:57.120 --> 0:33:58.800
<v Speaker 1>a ball like that? What did you have for lunch?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember him?

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<v Speaker 2>Sort of? Yeah, probably I was down in New Orleans,

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:06.320
<v Speaker 2>so probably like a big old shrimp poe boy. It's

0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:08.440
<v Speaker 2>really it really sits well, you know, a bunch of

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:11.120
<v Speaker 2>private food and bread. When you're when you're twenty two

0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 2>years old, you don't think about you know, at that

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:16.359
<v Speaker 2>you know, twenty twenty some id years ago, you didn't

0:34:16.400 --> 0:34:19.799
<v Speaker 2>think about diet or eating something you know that might

0:34:19.840 --> 0:34:23.279
<v Speaker 2>affect your performance. But yeah, so things would change a

0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:25.520
<v Speaker 2>little bit. But yeah, New Orleans probably, Yeah, I think

0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:28.440
<v Speaker 2>a shrimp poe boy from Don Alisis is probably they

0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:29.960
<v Speaker 2>go to there you go.

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I love hearing that, so it brings up a good

0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 1>question for both of you. You mentioned, you know, the

0:34:38.640 --> 0:34:40.400
<v Speaker 1>first thing I thought of when you had a shrimp

0:34:40.440 --> 0:34:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Poe boy, was that that would be a situation where

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<v Speaker 1>I would certainly be nervous. I mean, it is essentially,

0:34:49.480 --> 0:34:52.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, an audition, right, It is essentially a It's

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like it's like the audition for the big show

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 1>or the big movie. You're meeting the big director, and

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering, coach, do you, if you're looking at a player,

0:35:07.160 --> 0:35:13.440
<v Speaker 1>do you look at nerves as being part of the

0:35:13.520 --> 0:35:16.320
<v Speaker 1>skill set of how to handle the nerves being part

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 1>of what you need to play in the NFL?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, in this situation, it's how do you handle the

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 3>circumstances that you're in? Yeah, you know, you've got the

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:31.880
<v Speaker 3>whole NFL there. It's a like you say, it's a

0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:35.320
<v Speaker 3>big deal now, you know. Maybe you go away saying,

0:35:35.480 --> 0:35:37.719
<v Speaker 3>if you're looking at a quarterback, you know, he didn't

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:40.760
<v Speaker 3>throw the outcut very well, the comeback was a strained

0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:43.480
<v Speaker 3>throw for him, or you know, he didn't seem to

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 3>react well after. You know, he missed a couple of

0:35:46.480 --> 0:35:48.560
<v Speaker 3>balls and so on and so forth. So you're watching,

0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 3>You're watching all this, you're taking it all in. You

0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:53.160
<v Speaker 3>know what kind of an athlete, does he how does

0:35:53.160 --> 0:35:57.080
<v Speaker 3>he work with people that he really just barely knows

0:35:57.200 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 3>these guys, you know, how does he handle that? How

0:35:59.440 --> 0:36:02.399
<v Speaker 3>do they react? You know, the whole deal. He gets

0:36:02.400 --> 0:36:05.480
<v Speaker 3>a little time with people afterwards to talk to them,

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.000
<v Speaker 3>so you get a little bit more information out of them.

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 3>But in general, how does he approach it? How does

0:36:11.560 --> 0:36:14.480
<v Speaker 3>he handle it? And then you know, when when it's

0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 3>time to go, when it's time to start, what do

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:17.880
<v Speaker 3>you have to prove yourself?

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.319
<v Speaker 2>How do you do m right?

0:36:20.920 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Fascinating? I guess you just get a chance to let's

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:28.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of look at those signs and and and just

0:36:28.600 --> 0:36:32.320
<v Speaker 1>try to get a read on that. I mean, I again,

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:36.279
<v Speaker 1>I keep thinking about you know, sometimes I've been on

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:39.880
<v Speaker 1>the other side of the camera and you know, looking

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>at actors and auditions and trying to get past the

0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:48.280
<v Speaker 1>fact that it is an auditioned situation and that maybe

0:36:48.320 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 1>there's something that's there that I'm not seeing because they

0:36:52.680 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 1>are somehow you know, uh, nervous or shooting themselves in

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:58.719
<v Speaker 1>the foot. But on the other on the other hand,

0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:02.360
<v Speaker 1>this is the big moment, so they got to be

0:37:02.400 --> 0:37:04.520
<v Speaker 1>able to step up. So it's a it's a it's

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:07.720
<v Speaker 1>a it's a it's a confusing kind of thing. What

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:13.920
<v Speaker 1>was how would you guys categorize your working incredibly successful

0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:17.279
<v Speaker 1>working relationship during the time that you were at the

0:37:17.320 --> 0:37:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Giants With the.

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Giants, Well, first of all, Eli was great with studying.

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 3>You know, he would while other people are off on

0:37:25.120 --> 0:37:27.759
<v Speaker 3>a Tuesday, he'd be in there already getting a head

0:37:27.800 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 3>start on the opponent. What the opponent. And that's basically

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:35.000
<v Speaker 3>what I'm all about. The work ethic is very very

0:37:35.000 --> 0:37:38.439
<v Speaker 3>important to me because I want to know. I want

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:44.120
<v Speaker 3>to know if you're willing to buy into an act

0:37:44.160 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 3>as if you own or possess the franchise. This is

0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:49.200
<v Speaker 3>what I want. I want you to I want you

0:37:49.280 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 3>to take ownership of what you're doing. I want to see,

0:37:52.239 --> 0:37:54.319
<v Speaker 3>I want to see that it's really important to you.

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:57.280
<v Speaker 3>I want to see that you make the little sacrifices

0:37:57.719 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 3>in order to be the best that you can be.

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:03.279
<v Speaker 3>And that's really what you know, what what I was

0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:06.360
<v Speaker 3>all about was trying to get people to be the

0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:08.920
<v Speaker 3>very best thing that they could be. And you've already

0:38:08.920 --> 0:38:12.040
<v Speaker 3>mentioned a couple of things. You know, teamwork, it's all

0:38:12.080 --> 0:38:14.800
<v Speaker 3>about team. It's not about the individual. It's never about

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:18.160
<v Speaker 3>the individual. It's always about the team because football, with

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.920
<v Speaker 3>eleven people on the field, you put your trust to

0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:23.280
<v Speaker 3>that guy next to you and he puts his trust

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:25.560
<v Speaker 3>in you. Are you going to let him down? Are

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 3>you going to let everybody down? Because you didn't prepare properly.

0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 3>So that's and it's not easy. You know, try it

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 3>over a seventeen eighteen week period where on Monday, you know,

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 3>these guys are, they're beat up. This is this is

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:44.920
<v Speaker 3>not a game for the feint of heart. You know,

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:47.480
<v Speaker 3>you want to stand on the sidelines and listen to this.

0:38:48.120 --> 0:38:51.560
<v Speaker 3>It's it's like whoa, It gets your attention. I mean,

0:38:51.600 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 3>it is all about the physicality of the game, even

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:58.000
<v Speaker 3>from the quarterback position. So those are the kind of

0:38:58.040 --> 0:39:01.680
<v Speaker 3>things that that people must be able to to send

0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:05.840
<v Speaker 3>you those kind of vibes. Their consistency, their work ethic,

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:09.600
<v Speaker 3>you know, the study as she goes. Because as I said,

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:12.880
<v Speaker 3>it's it's not a game of you know, it's not

0:39:12.920 --> 0:39:15.720
<v Speaker 3>a marathon. It's not a sprint. It's a marathon.

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, it's let's go ahead, Eli.

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:25.319
<v Speaker 2>I was just gonna say, Kevin, I learned quickly, you

0:39:25.360 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 2>know what what I had to do to be a

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 2>quarterback under under coach Coaulfland. And there's the first first week.

0:39:33.520 --> 0:39:35.479
<v Speaker 2>I was not the starter of Kurt Warners, the starter

0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:38.799
<v Speaker 2>my rookie year. And he said, you know, after that

0:39:38.840 --> 0:39:41.719
<v Speaker 2>first game, he says, all right, every blitz at this,

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 2>you know, we played the egos, every blitz that the

0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:46.759
<v Speaker 2>Eagles did versus I want you to draw up those

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:50.320
<v Speaker 2>blitzes versus our five main protections that we have in

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 2>past game and how you protect them and and do it.

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:56.640
<v Speaker 2>And so they did, you know, maybe eight to ten blitzes,

0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 2>and I drew up first each you know, for each

0:39:59.320 --> 0:40:02.000
<v Speaker 2>each protect So it's like kind of fifty drawings, and I,

0:40:02.160 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, have it, have it out there, and I

0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:07.319
<v Speaker 2>handed into coach Cofflin. He graded it, and so all

0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:07.480
<v Speaker 2>of a.

0:40:07.440 --> 0:40:08.520
<v Speaker 1>Sudden, this was after the game.

0:40:08.600 --> 0:40:10.319
<v Speaker 2>This was after the game, after the game, kind of

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.400
<v Speaker 2>after that next week, just so I learned about how

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:15.120
<v Speaker 2>to set protections, how to do things. So the next

0:40:15.120 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 2>week we have another says I want you to do

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:19.279
<v Speaker 2>it again. And so I just did it for that

0:40:19.320 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 2>second gig, you know that, or I just didn't in

0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:25.759
<v Speaker 2>preparation of the team we're about to play. And no, no,

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 2>you have to do both the games that they've played.

0:40:28.000 --> 0:40:29.759
<v Speaker 2>So I now I had to do one hundred, you know,

0:40:29.800 --> 0:40:31.759
<v Speaker 2>I did do. All of a sudden, it's like week eight,

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm handed in a four hundred you know, drawing deal

0:40:35.040 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 2>to coach golf, and in a few of them, I

0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 2>kind of said, well, I can relax. He's like, there's

0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:42.239
<v Speaker 2>no way he's reading through all these protecting He's got

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:44.680
<v Speaker 2>to worry about the starting quarterback. He's got to worry

0:40:44.680 --> 0:40:47.319
<v Speaker 2>about everything else going on being the head coach. Like

0:40:47.560 --> 0:40:49.840
<v Speaker 2>I'll kind of just like, you know, scribble through a

0:40:49.840 --> 0:40:51.640
<v Speaker 2>few of these and not do it. All of a sudden,

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:54.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, he calls me in the office and it's like,

0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:57.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, what the hell is this? Like what is that?

0:40:57.200 --> 0:41:00.719
<v Speaker 2>This is not? This is yes, this is terrible, Like

0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:04.600
<v Speaker 2>what are you doing? So I learned quickly that, you know,

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:08.800
<v Speaker 2>preparation was very important to him. Being five minutes early

0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:12.120
<v Speaker 2>was number one. Deal had to be five minutes early,

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:15.160
<v Speaker 2>be well prepared, And you got to love what you're doing.

0:41:15.200 --> 0:41:16.920
<v Speaker 2>You gotta love the game of football. You have to

0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 2>love you know that you know, do those things. If

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:21.879
<v Speaker 2>you do those three things, you can play for this

0:41:21.920 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 2>man for a long time and you'll be on the

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:28.839
<v Speaker 2>same page. And as a as an athlete, in a

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.799
<v Speaker 2>professional athlete, that should be pretty easy. You think that'd

0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 2>be pretty easy to handle those three things. And you

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:36.960
<v Speaker 2>think if you amazin, how how you know some people

0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:39.719
<v Speaker 2>have a hard time have a hard time doing that.

0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Well, Coach Coaughlin, I can tell you that I was

0:41:44.280 --> 0:41:47.800
<v Speaker 1>before you signed in. I was struck with the fact

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:51.040
<v Speaker 1>that I think, probably maybe for the first time since

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I've been doing this podcast, somebody actually showed up early.

0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:56.600
<v Speaker 1>And Eli told us that if he wasn't there five

0:41:56.680 --> 0:42:00.120
<v Speaker 1>minutes before, he was afraid you were going to find him.

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:02.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm afraid I was that I get fined.

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:05.560
<v Speaker 1>No, I mean today's no, I mean today, And I

0:42:05.600 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know what the rate would be adjusted for inflation,

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:10.480
<v Speaker 1>but I'm guessing it would probably be pretty hefty.

0:42:10.520 --> 0:42:15.560
<v Speaker 2>At this point, five hunder bucks that's the fine. Okay,

0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:19.399
<v Speaker 2>that's yeah, one minute later if I'm not five minutes early.

0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:23.960
<v Speaker 1>So, speaking of charity, Coach tell us about the J

0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 1>fun Foundation and about how the story behind it.

0:42:29.880 --> 0:42:32.640
<v Speaker 3>Jay Fund was founded in nineteen ninety six in the

0:42:32.680 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 3>spirit and the name of j McGillis. J McGillis was

0:42:36.200 --> 0:42:38.279
<v Speaker 3>a strong safety for me. When I was the head

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:43.360
<v Speaker 3>coach of Boston College, Jay unfortunately came down with leukemia

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:47.680
<v Speaker 3>and we played, actually played in Syracuse. Came home after

0:42:47.719 --> 0:42:49.799
<v Speaker 3>the game, Fraighter came to me and said, I don't

0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:51.680
<v Speaker 3>think Jay can play this week, and I said why not?

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:54.840
<v Speaker 3>He said, well, he's you know, his throw a swollen

0:42:54.880 --> 0:42:56.600
<v Speaker 3>and he so on. I said, well, let's let's get

0:42:56.600 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 3>the doctor in here, less, get him, get him. Well,

0:42:59.200 --> 0:43:02.719
<v Speaker 3>it wasn't a sore throat, it wasn't some form of virus.

0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:07.000
<v Speaker 3>It was leukemia, and it was a ravaging form of leukemia.

0:43:07.400 --> 0:43:11.040
<v Speaker 3>By watching what Jay went through and what is family

0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:16.879
<v Speaker 3>went through, and going through that whole process, my wife,

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:19.560
<v Speaker 3>Judy and I looked at each other and said, if

0:43:19.560 --> 0:43:22.359
<v Speaker 3>we ever get a chance to give back, it's going

0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:25.719
<v Speaker 3>to be in the name and the spirit of j McGillis.

0:43:26.120 --> 0:43:28.920
<v Speaker 3>And the way it came about is in the spring

0:43:29.000 --> 0:43:33.439
<v Speaker 3>of that year before Jay passed, one of my linebackers

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 3>came to me and said, Coach, we've got to do

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 3>something to help the McGillis family. And I said, well,

0:43:39.080 --> 0:43:41.239
<v Speaker 3>sit down, Mike. It was Mike Panels. Sit down, Mike,

0:43:41.520 --> 0:43:44.080
<v Speaker 3>let's talk about it, and Mike was very close to

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:47.879
<v Speaker 3>the family. What happens when you're given those words, those

0:43:48.000 --> 0:43:53.040
<v Speaker 3>terrible words, Your child has cancered. The family no longer

0:43:54.080 --> 0:43:56.480
<v Speaker 3>is able to function as they would want. If there

0:43:56.480 --> 0:44:00.000
<v Speaker 3>are two income family, one one parent has to withdraw

0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 3>off from the job so that they can be the caretaker.

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:06.240
<v Speaker 3>But in watching this, both parents were not working, bills

0:44:06.239 --> 0:44:10.360
<v Speaker 3>were being paid, you know, expenses were mounting, and the

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:14.160
<v Speaker 3>McGillis family was going to be in trouble. So Mike

0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 3>and I talked it through. We decided we would have

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 3>what we called a liftathon. The players went out into

0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:22.360
<v Speaker 3>the community, they got pledges or in those days we

0:44:22.560 --> 0:44:25.880
<v Speaker 3>max lift at the end of spring practice. So we

0:44:25.920 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 3>had power clean, we had bench, we had squat and

0:44:29.160 --> 0:44:31.359
<v Speaker 3>they all went out and got pledges. And when they

0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:34.600
<v Speaker 3>came back and went through their lifts to conclude the

0:44:35.280 --> 0:44:39.680
<v Speaker 3>spring season, they had raised fifty thousand dollars and at

0:44:39.719 --> 0:44:44.000
<v Speaker 3>the spring game we presented the McGillis family with a

0:44:44.120 --> 0:44:48.920
<v Speaker 3>check for fifty thousand dollars. Now that started the wheels

0:44:48.960 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 3>in motion for me that if I could find a family,

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:55.240
<v Speaker 3>if a family was in trouble, that I could help

0:44:55.800 --> 0:44:57.960
<v Speaker 3>a family who had a child with cancer that I

0:44:58.000 --> 0:45:00.239
<v Speaker 3>could help. We were going to do it, and I

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:02.879
<v Speaker 3>was going to do it in in a practical way.

0:45:03.560 --> 0:45:06.839
<v Speaker 3>We're all about. The Jfund is about a roof over

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 3>their heads, food on their table, ass in their tank,

0:45:11.480 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 3>taking care of all the things that a family function

0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:18.400
<v Speaker 3>breaks down on when you have to be there for

0:45:18.480 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 3>the child. And I know this for a fact. The child,

0:45:21.600 --> 0:45:25.200
<v Speaker 3>no matter how old he or she is, knows when

0:45:25.239 --> 0:45:29.239
<v Speaker 3>a parents and a family is stressed, and when they're stressed,

0:45:29.600 --> 0:45:33.880
<v Speaker 3>they cannot give the attention that's needed to the child

0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:37.839
<v Speaker 3>so that the child heals. So that's what we have done.

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:44.960
<v Speaker 3>Since nineteen ninety six, we have directly impacted over five thousand,

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 3>seven hundred families at twenty four million dollars of payments

0:45:49.680 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 3>to them just so that they can take care of

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:56.200
<v Speaker 3>the necessities of life the other siblings. Who means so

0:45:56.320 --> 0:45:58.799
<v Speaker 3>many of these kids have two and three brothers and

0:45:58.920 --> 0:46:03.160
<v Speaker 3>sisters that quite frankly get a little bit ignored because

0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:06.680
<v Speaker 3>the whole attention has to go to the sick child. Well,

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 3>this is where we come in too. We have sibling

0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:12.960
<v Speaker 3>programs and caregiver programs, all kinds of things that we

0:46:13.040 --> 0:46:15.960
<v Speaker 3>do throughout the course of the year to help the

0:46:16.120 --> 0:46:20.640
<v Speaker 3>entire family fight this tragic disease and get the child

0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:24.640
<v Speaker 3>to a point where the disease is cured. We know

0:46:24.719 --> 0:46:27.920
<v Speaker 3>it's not that way for life. You're always impeded in

0:46:27.920 --> 0:46:31.200
<v Speaker 3>some way because of the treatments. But you you get

0:46:31.280 --> 0:46:33.240
<v Speaker 3>past the actual cancer.

0:46:34.760 --> 0:46:38.399
<v Speaker 1>That's amazing. That's amazing, that's great. That that that that

0:46:38.480 --> 0:46:41.600
<v Speaker 1>you took that moment and turned it into that. I

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:46.200
<v Speaker 1>want to ask both of you, that's the that's the

0:46:46.239 --> 0:46:51.120
<v Speaker 1>super specific story. Is there anything Let me put it

0:46:51.160 --> 0:46:55.840
<v Speaker 1>this way. You could have had that experience and then gone, wow,

0:46:56.160 --> 0:47:00.799
<v Speaker 1>that's so sad, Okay, what's next, and not taken this

0:47:01.000 --> 0:47:05.879
<v Speaker 1>moment and created this foundation. You know, Eli, You've done

0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:09.440
<v Speaker 1>a whole bunch of different levels of giving back in

0:47:09.440 --> 0:47:11.840
<v Speaker 1>the course of your life and during your career in

0:47:11.880 --> 0:47:16.279
<v Speaker 1>the NFL. I know, I've often said for myself that

0:47:17.320 --> 0:47:20.960
<v Speaker 1>when I started out, the last thing I wanted to

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:24.920
<v Speaker 1>think about was anything other than KB. I was so

0:47:25.400 --> 0:47:30.080
<v Speaker 1>just completely self focused on my career, on getting ahead

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:31.960
<v Speaker 1>on all these kinds of things. And then there's kind

0:47:32.000 --> 0:47:36.200
<v Speaker 1>of becomes whether it's a single moment or or something

0:47:36.239 --> 0:47:41.360
<v Speaker 1>that's the groundwork is laid in your childhood, or you

0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 1>have an event or something, sometimes people start moving in

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:49.359
<v Speaker 1>another direction in terms of some of their time and

0:47:49.400 --> 0:47:53.319
<v Speaker 1>their resources and their fame and their power and all

0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:55.879
<v Speaker 1>the kind of thing. And that's really what this this

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:58.919
<v Speaker 1>podcast has focused on. So, but I'm wondering from both

0:47:58.960 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 1>of you, starting with you, Eli, was there something early

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:08.560
<v Speaker 1>on that laid the groundwork for you now having this

0:48:08.760 --> 0:48:11.600
<v Speaker 1>desire to do something positive in the world.

0:48:12.280 --> 0:48:14.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it was. It was when I was

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 2>in college. I was that old miss and we actually

0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:18.880
<v Speaker 2>had a you know, a team function where he said, Hey,

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:21.880
<v Speaker 2>we're you know, ahole teams that go visit a children's

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:24.640
<v Speaker 2>hospital or the hospital there and be kids there. And

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:27.360
<v Speaker 2>I remember, you know, going in and it was just

0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:29.759
<v Speaker 2>me as like an eight year old kid. And I

0:48:29.840 --> 0:48:31.880
<v Speaker 2>go in there and I see him and he's, you know,

0:48:31.960 --> 0:48:34.399
<v Speaker 2>not feeling well. He's going through chemo therapy and has

0:48:34.480 --> 0:48:37.239
<v Speaker 2>cancer and the kid was just real quiet, and I

0:48:37.280 --> 0:48:39.080
<v Speaker 2>was in there. I didn't quite know what to say.

0:48:39.520 --> 0:48:41.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to, you know, ask him what he likes,

0:48:41.360 --> 0:48:44.080
<v Speaker 2>if he plays any sports, with his favorite TV shows.

0:48:44.120 --> 0:48:45.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm not I'm just not getting much. I'm getting these

0:48:45.960 --> 0:48:49.680
<v Speaker 2>little word work answers. And I remember kind of leaving

0:48:49.800 --> 0:48:52.920
<v Speaker 2>and going that didn't that didn't help. Like I think

0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 2>the kid feels worse that I was in there, like

0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:57.920
<v Speaker 2>you know he did I signed an autograph for me,

0:48:58.040 --> 0:49:00.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, did it? You didn't seem really excited for

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:02.960
<v Speaker 2>And I remember it was like a week later and

0:49:03.000 --> 0:49:05.600
<v Speaker 2>I saw one of the nurses that I didn't remember

0:49:05.640 --> 0:49:07.320
<v Speaker 2>seeing her, but she came up to me just so

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:11.360
<v Speaker 2>as I was around campus or in downtown and oftor Misissippi,

0:49:12.000 --> 0:49:15.280
<v Speaker 2>and she says, you know that little boy that you visit,

0:49:15.640 --> 0:49:18.440
<v Speaker 2>he's been talking about what a great visit that was.

0:49:18.520 --> 0:49:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Every doctor that's come into his room. He's got a

0:49:21.080 --> 0:49:23.640
<v Speaker 2>big smile to him about Eli Mannings, you know, signed

0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:26.120
<v Speaker 2>this autograph for me, showed me this picture. We talked

0:49:26.160 --> 0:49:29.600
<v Speaker 2>about sports and you know, my sisters and my brother

0:49:29.680 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 2>and our family, and he just she said, his spirit

0:49:33.239 --> 0:49:37.520
<v Speaker 2>and his attitude was completely different that next week. And

0:49:37.600 --> 0:49:40.000
<v Speaker 2>so right then it just hit me that you can

0:49:40.120 --> 0:49:44.040
<v Speaker 2>make a difference and and and not just on that,

0:49:44.120 --> 0:49:46.280
<v Speaker 2>but just some how you treat people and shaking a hand,

0:49:46.520 --> 0:49:49.360
<v Speaker 2>having a conversation with a child, but a sick child,

0:49:49.840 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 2>just you know, showing that you want to be there

0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:54.239
<v Speaker 2>with them, that you're you know, there's people out there

0:49:54.239 --> 0:49:56.279
<v Speaker 2>that care about them, that are thinking about them, that

0:49:56.320 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 2>are praying for can have a huge impact just their

0:49:59.719 --> 0:50:03.080
<v Speaker 2>out look and and their their mindset. And so that

0:50:03.200 --> 0:50:05.040
<v Speaker 2>was kind of the start of what, I need to

0:50:05.080 --> 0:50:07.239
<v Speaker 2>do this more and I need to go see, you know,

0:50:07.320 --> 0:50:09.440
<v Speaker 2>help out more. When I got up here to the

0:50:09.520 --> 0:50:11.880
<v Speaker 2>Giants and and I said, I need to make an

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:14.680
<v Speaker 2>impact in this community and want to help out kids

0:50:14.680 --> 0:50:17.280
<v Speaker 2>that are dealing with cancer and just help lift their spirits.

0:50:17.320 --> 0:50:19.200
<v Speaker 2>And that was kind of the beginning of it. And

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:20.839
<v Speaker 2>then it says, well, now I want to I want

0:50:20.840 --> 0:50:22.360
<v Speaker 2>to raise money for it. I want to try to

0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:25.239
<v Speaker 2>find you know, make sure we're finding curious to heal

0:50:25.280 --> 0:50:27.359
<v Speaker 2>these kids, to make sure if they get cancer, they're

0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:29.560
<v Speaker 2>getting back home to their families, they're getting back to

0:50:29.600 --> 0:50:32.720
<v Speaker 2>their friend back to school, that they're gonna be kids again.

0:50:32.960 --> 0:50:35.400
<v Speaker 2>And that was kind of the start of of tackling

0:50:35.480 --> 0:50:38.880
<v Speaker 2>Kids cancer and getting that going, and that initiative is

0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:42.719
<v Speaker 2>just really raising money for for pediatric cancer research, UH

0:50:42.719 --> 0:50:44.480
<v Speaker 2>to get these kids back healthy.

0:50:46.080 --> 0:50:49.480
<v Speaker 3>And coach, I'll tell you all the impact, how how

0:50:49.680 --> 0:50:52.480
<v Speaker 3>the people like Eli impact and I have I have,

0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:56.120
<v Speaker 3>I have a story. So when I was with the Giants,

0:50:56.200 --> 0:50:59.320
<v Speaker 3>even here, when I was with the Jaguars, in the spring,

0:50:59.360 --> 0:51:02.359
<v Speaker 3>we would have we call Sunday Blitz, and it would

0:51:02.440 --> 0:51:05.399
<v Speaker 3>mean that we would bring the cancer kids over through

0:51:05.480 --> 0:51:09.000
<v Speaker 3>the facility and their parents and their siblings come to

0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:12.400
<v Speaker 3>the facility and spend what a mouse to an afternoon

0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.200
<v Speaker 3>with us, and we would have them in the training

0:51:14.280 --> 0:51:17.000
<v Speaker 3>room and the trainers would tape the kids up, you know,

0:51:17.680 --> 0:51:20.239
<v Speaker 3>and we would take them the weight room. We'd have

0:51:20.320 --> 0:51:24.960
<v Speaker 3>some rookies performed for them in weight programs, and we

0:51:25.000 --> 0:51:28.480
<v Speaker 3>would take them in the in the facility and if

0:51:28.800 --> 0:51:31.359
<v Speaker 3>we if they could go through some obstacle courses and

0:51:31.400 --> 0:51:34.640
<v Speaker 3>do some things, we would do that, and then we

0:51:34.680 --> 0:51:37.000
<v Speaker 3>would take them down to the cafeteria. We'd have ice

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:40.799
<v Speaker 3>cream Sundays and hamburgers and hot dogs and whatever. So

0:51:40.880 --> 0:51:43.520
<v Speaker 3>this one particular year, I was aware of the fact

0:51:43.560 --> 0:51:47.239
<v Speaker 3>that there was a young boy who you know, was

0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:53.680
<v Speaker 3>very very sick, he was close to dying, and he

0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:56.719
<v Speaker 3>had one desire in life, and that was to be

0:51:56.840 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 3>with Eli Manning. So the day of the Sunday Blitz,

0:52:01.960 --> 0:52:04.160
<v Speaker 3>the young man and his dad he was sick and

0:52:04.200 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 3>he was in the hospital, and we didn't think he

0:52:06.719 --> 0:52:08.880
<v Speaker 3>was going to get out of the hospital to be

0:52:09.200 --> 0:52:12.879
<v Speaker 3>at the Sunday Blitz. So the afternoon went by and

0:52:13.120 --> 0:52:16.000
<v Speaker 3>Eli was helping, you know, as we had players help

0:52:16.040 --> 0:52:18.400
<v Speaker 3>with all this. Eli was helping. But it came the

0:52:18.520 --> 0:52:21.400
<v Speaker 3>end of the day was five in the afternoon. Eli

0:52:21.480 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 3>went home. So I'm walking from the indoor facility over

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:29.360
<v Speaker 3>to the main office facility and up comes the dad

0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:33.160
<v Speaker 3>with his son, and he's carrying his son. They were

0:52:33.200 --> 0:52:35.960
<v Speaker 3>in the hospital. He gets his son out of the hospital.

0:52:36.239 --> 0:52:41.640
<v Speaker 3>He brings the little guy to the offices. But really

0:52:41.680 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 3>the afternoon is over. I pick up the phone. I

0:52:45.120 --> 0:52:49.040
<v Speaker 3>call Eli. He had gone home. So Eli gets in

0:52:49.080 --> 0:52:52.680
<v Speaker 3>his car, he drives back. He spends about a half

0:52:52.680 --> 0:52:56.319
<v Speaker 3>an hour with this little boy and his dad, and

0:52:57.680 --> 0:53:01.200
<v Speaker 3>about a week later, the little boy passes away. I

0:53:01.239 --> 0:53:04.880
<v Speaker 3>get a letter from his dad telling me the greatest

0:53:05.000 --> 0:53:08.520
<v Speaker 3>thing that ever happened to this little guy in his

0:53:08.719 --> 0:53:13.839
<v Speaker 3>life was spending half an hour with Eli Manning. And

0:53:13.880 --> 0:53:16.200
<v Speaker 3>that's what it means to these kids.

0:53:16.000 --> 0:53:17.280
<v Speaker 1>When I tell them they're special.

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:22.120
<v Speaker 3>They are special because if the average kid can't have

0:53:22.280 --> 0:53:25.080
<v Speaker 3>what what we're gonna do for you. We're gonna we're

0:53:25.080 --> 0:53:27.960
<v Speaker 3>gonna expose you to a lot of things the average

0:53:28.040 --> 0:53:33.480
<v Speaker 3>kid can't. But the idea of spending time that Eli

0:53:33.520 --> 0:53:36.600
<v Speaker 3>Manning and a lot of our guys would spend time

0:53:37.080 --> 0:53:41.040
<v Speaker 3>with these kids makes a huge impact on them.

0:53:42.000 --> 0:53:46.600
<v Speaker 1>That is a beautiful, beautiful story. I would love to

0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:51.399
<v Speaker 1>at this point hear the call to action? How can people.

0:53:52.880 --> 0:53:53.359
<v Speaker 2>Help out?

0:53:53.560 --> 0:53:57.520
<v Speaker 1>How can where do people go? Any uh any plugs

0:53:57.840 --> 0:54:01.480
<v Speaker 1>that anybody wants to make for any thing at this moment,

0:54:01.520 --> 0:54:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm Mike, is yours?

0:54:05.480 --> 0:54:09.680
<v Speaker 3>Well, we talk about this, show us your team, Tackle

0:54:09.760 --> 0:54:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Kids Cancer, the TCJ Fund. We're in this together. We

0:54:14.520 --> 0:54:20.040
<v Speaker 3>complement each other very well. Eli and his foundation, as

0:54:20.040 --> 0:54:24.040
<v Speaker 3>he said, we're they're trying to put an end to cancer,

0:54:24.040 --> 0:54:28.360
<v Speaker 3>which we all want. Okay, the J Fund is of

0:54:28.560 --> 0:54:33.120
<v Speaker 3>practical nature, and we work together and complement each other

0:54:33.239 --> 0:54:36.279
<v Speaker 3>very well. But in so doing and talking about this,

0:54:36.880 --> 0:54:41.600
<v Speaker 3>there's no doubt it's the t at TCJ Fund at

0:54:42.040 --> 0:54:46.160
<v Speaker 3>Tackle Kids Cancer. And you know, contributions are what this

0:54:46.280 --> 0:54:49.319
<v Speaker 3>is all about. It's about being able to be in

0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:53.120
<v Speaker 3>a position to help. And so I would leave you

0:54:53.160 --> 0:54:53.760
<v Speaker 3>with that thought.

0:54:54.200 --> 0:54:58.120
<v Speaker 1>Well, I hope that people listening to this will certainly

0:54:58.360 --> 0:55:00.760
<v Speaker 1>be moved by the work that both you were doing.

0:55:02.200 --> 0:55:08.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, children are everything, Uh, you know, and and

0:55:08.560 --> 0:55:12.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, help out, donate, check out the check out

0:55:12.120 --> 0:55:16.160
<v Speaker 1>the work, give what you can and uh and I

0:55:16.239 --> 0:55:18.640
<v Speaker 1>want to thank you guys so much for being here today.

0:55:18.760 --> 0:55:25.160
<v Speaker 1>It's been fascinating conversation. It's not that often that we have, uh,

0:55:25.520 --> 0:55:29.920
<v Speaker 1>two celebrities. Generally we have one celebrity and then the

0:55:30.520 --> 0:55:33.200
<v Speaker 1>on the unsung hero who is running the foundation. But

0:55:33.239 --> 0:55:37.480
<v Speaker 1>to have two major New York heroes is a very

0:55:37.640 --> 0:55:43.960
<v Speaker 1>very is really an honor. And I'll just ask you this.

0:55:44.760 --> 0:55:47.480
<v Speaker 1>We could cut this out. Was there ever a moment

0:55:47.880 --> 0:55:54.840
<v Speaker 1>during those years where uh, you you just we're afraid

0:55:54.840 --> 0:55:55.640
<v Speaker 1>to go to Boston.

0:55:59.880 --> 0:56:02.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't get up there much even now, even now,

0:56:03.080 --> 0:56:04.600
<v Speaker 2>I have a feeling I'm not going to get a

0:56:04.600 --> 0:56:08.560
<v Speaker 2>warm welcome if I go up there. Coach, how about you?

0:56:09.120 --> 0:56:11.680
<v Speaker 3>You know I was I was an assistant at Boston

0:56:11.719 --> 0:56:13.960
<v Speaker 3>College for three years and the head coach for three years.

0:56:14.000 --> 0:56:15.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's right, of course, that's of course.

0:56:16.320 --> 0:56:19.359
<v Speaker 3>I had a chance to be around Boston a little bit,

0:56:19.440 --> 0:56:22.279
<v Speaker 3>but and still have many many friends of many connections

0:56:22.360 --> 0:56:25.160
<v Speaker 3>and and my son in law played at Boston College.

0:56:25.200 --> 0:56:28.400
<v Speaker 3>My daughter Kate went to Boston College, so no, I have.

0:56:28.640 --> 0:56:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Even worse, even worse. Do you ever pick up the

0:56:33.760 --> 0:56:36.640
<v Speaker 1>phone coach and try to book a room there and

0:56:36.920 --> 0:56:39.600
<v Speaker 1>for some reason there's no there's no rooms in the

0:56:40.200 --> 0:56:44.160
<v Speaker 1>available in the entire Boston area. Thank you guys so much.

0:56:44.000 --> 0:56:44.560
<v Speaker 2>For being here.

0:56:44.600 --> 0:56:48.799
<v Speaker 1>I've had a blast, and everybody help help out if

0:56:48.800 --> 0:56:49.200
<v Speaker 1>you can't.

0:56:49.400 --> 0:56:51.319
<v Speaker 2>Thanks Devin.

0:56:52.960 --> 0:56:55.879
<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, thanks for listening to another episode of Six

0:56:55.960 --> 0:56:59.399
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0:56:59.440 --> 0:57:01.600
<v Speaker 1>did too. If you want to learn more about the

0:57:01.640 --> 0:57:04.160
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0:57:04.239 --> 0:57:09.319
<v Speaker 1>up to, head to their website tcjfund dot org. That's

0:57:09.440 --> 0:57:13.719
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0:57:13.840 --> 0:57:16.360
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