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Speaker 1: Hello, ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to another episode of Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: Before we pick back up with Jared Freed, I have

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Speaker 1: to jump in and talk about the Fantasy Suites. Susan

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Speaker 1: won't be able to do our recap today, but she'll

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Speaker 1: be with Jared and me today, so make sure you

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Speaker 1: stick around. Okay, I can't wait to get into this.

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Speaker 1: Let's go. So I'm going to start with Zoe. Even

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Speaker 1: though I know she was not the first one in

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Speaker 1: the Fantasy Suites, I just have to say I could

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Speaker 1: start falling in love. It's a tough situation. Let's have

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Speaker 1: a chance to talk about stuff like this is the

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Speaker 1: end of the show, folks. We're not going to talk

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Speaker 1: about having children and all of that. It's ridiculous at

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Speaker 1: this point. I mean, to me, it was so obvious

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Speaker 1: she was going home. I love, love, love that Rachel

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Speaker 1: showed up in support of Zoe. Rachel from Joey season,

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Speaker 1: that she is so supportive of women. I mean, that

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Speaker 1: made me feel great. Okay, let's move on. Grant he says,

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Speaker 1: you know we would, we could, folks. That means it's over.

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Speaker 1: I'm not feeling it. I get it, but you know,

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Speaker 1: here's the thing. If you're trying to see if you

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Speaker 1: have a relationship with somebody, or you're really trying to

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Speaker 1: decide whether this is the person to send home, you

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Speaker 1: know what you should do. You should have a date

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Speaker 1: with someone where neither one of you can talk, because

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Speaker 1: that's how you're really going to get to know each other.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I have to say I burst out laughing

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Speaker 1: when they went into this up into this yoga studio

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Speaker 1: and it said Cilencio. I was like, they gotta be kidding,

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Speaker 1: so no talking. That was like, here's your ticket out

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Speaker 1: of here. I felt really sorry for her. They both

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Speaker 1: were so uncomfortable. You know, they kept saying, oh, there's

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Speaker 1: not a lot of time left. I wanted to say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're just figuring that out now, you know, says like

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Speaker 1: we still have a lot to talk about. It felt

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Speaker 1: like a first date to me, not the end of

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Speaker 1: the road.

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Speaker 2: So awkward.

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Speaker 1: If you didn't get the drift watching it, all you

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Speaker 1: have to do is look at Grant's body language. I mean,

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Speaker 1: the conversation they had that night, you know, she said,

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Speaker 1: tell me about you. Literally almost died when he said, well,

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Speaker 1: you know, I have a mom and I have a dad,

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Speaker 1: and then we talked about his favorite color being blue.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to get out my engagement ring and say,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I just need a guy who has

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Speaker 1: a mother and a father and likes the color blue.

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Speaker 1: I mean, really, this is this is the stuff of

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Speaker 1: how you decide if she's your future wife. His face,

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Speaker 1: it was painful, That's all I can say. You know,

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Speaker 1: he looked like he was about to get a dip.

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Speaker 2: You know what is it?

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Speaker 1: Dip theory, a typhoid vaccine. I mean, he was in pain.

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Speaker 1: So I think that for me, absolutely no surprise that

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Speaker 1: she went home. Sorry if I'm if you haven't watched

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Speaker 1: yet and I burst your bubble on that one. But

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Speaker 1: I've been calling this for a few weeks. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was really sad. And you know, I always look

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Speaker 1: at this from a mom's point of view when they're

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Speaker 1: both saying to each other that they could build a

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Speaker 1: better family than we had growing up. And you know,

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Speaker 1: I looked at the TV. I talked to my TV

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Speaker 1: a lot when I'm watching this. I said, that's not love.

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Speaker 1: We all hope to build a loving family with our

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Speaker 1: partner and a great family, but that's not love for

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Speaker 1: each other. That's just doing better than your parents did. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that does it for Zoe. I feel sorry for

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Speaker 1: but I don't think it's coming as a surprise to

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Speaker 1: anyone that she went home last night. Okay, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: now let's get to Juliana. Daisy comes. Who who doesn't

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Speaker 1: love Daisy? Also from Joey season. I loved her advice saying,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know what you signed up for. You

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Speaker 1: need to open up. Juliana again, for everyone who hasn't

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Speaker 1: heard me say it a million times, is my hometown

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Speaker 1: girl from Newton, Massachusetts, which is where I'm from. And

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Speaker 1: I have to say spoiler alert for any of you.

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Speaker 1: I have been saying all along that it's going to

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Speaker 1: be Letia, But when we get to Latia, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you why. I think maybe it's not going to be her,

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Speaker 1: and maybe it's going to be Juliana. Juliana clearly is

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Speaker 1: But I love her attitude. She's she's happy, and she

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Speaker 1: has a great personality. I did have a good laugh

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Speaker 1: when she said the four wheeler. She said, this is

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Speaker 1: what a crazy drive. It's such I love this side

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Speaker 1: and you know, not talk.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I didn't get that. But I love that he wants

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Speaker 1: her to be herself. And again, can you see or

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Speaker 1: hear the envy in my voice? After they have the

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Speaker 1: she's fixing her hair in her makeup, And I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: to myself, really, this is as bad as you look.

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Speaker 1: I mean, on my best day, I don't think I

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Speaker 1: ever looked as good as Juliana. She is a beautiful girl.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing about Juliana. If you pick up on

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Speaker 1: the little subtle things, he cannot wipe the smile off

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Speaker 1: his face. It's like he got an a on a

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Speaker 1: test he cheated on and he never got caught. Like

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Speaker 1: this guy is happy. He wants her to open up.

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Speaker 1: He says she's gorgeous, you know, with or without makeup.

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Speaker 1: He thinks she's beautiful. That wide outfit. She looks like

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Speaker 1: a million Bucks. I think it was hard for her

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Speaker 1: to tell Grant that she'd been cheated on, although I

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Speaker 1: feel like she's talked about that a lot, but she

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Speaker 1: really did feel minimized by her ex. Again, I always

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Speaker 1: come back to being a mom. How hard that must be.

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Speaker 1: She said, she's still working on fixing herself. And you know,

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Speaker 1: as a mom, we all want our daughters to be

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Speaker 1: happy and find love. And as a mom, I would

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Speaker 2: I would wonder if in fact.

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Speaker 1: She is ready or to get engaged, or in fact,

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Speaker 1: in the next week. I loved when Grant said, where

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Speaker 2: I mean, this guy.

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Speaker 1: If this doesn't work out, Grant, you need to get

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Speaker 1: a job writing cards for Hallmark, because you've got the words.

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Speaker 1: I think they talked about making a good team. He

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Speaker 1: and supported, like let's just sign the wedding bands. Now

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Speaker 1: she feels heard, they both love to laugh together. Again,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be worried, but I get that she is.

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Speaker 1: That just comes with youth, and I don't mean to

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Speaker 1: I mean, I never got that far with Gary, thank god,

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Speaker 2: I could, I could see that.

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Speaker 1: But I do love that these girls seemed to show

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Speaker 1: Okay brings me to Letilla who Katie from Zach season,

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Speaker 1: who's engaged to Zack, who lives in my hometown, well,

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Speaker 1: my adopted hometown of Austin, Texas. I love Katie and Zach,

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Speaker 1: Grant said again that she would be a great wife

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking I had to laugh because he said, again,

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Speaker 1: you got to pick up on the small things here, folks.

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Speaker 1: He said he wanted to see if she had a

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Speaker 1: Lydia said, I'm not one for adventure. I thought, well,

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Speaker 1: that's one nail in the coffin for you. And you know,

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Speaker 1: is that foreshadowy en of what's to come? Is that

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Speaker 2: Is that? Were they just dropping a hint that she

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Speaker 2: won't be the one? I don't know. Letia the biggest

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Speaker 1: She said she's not ready for physical intimacy, and I

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Speaker 1: You know, Grant seemed pretty nervous, not too smiley when

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Speaker 1: what's he going to do really at that point? What

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Speaker 1: can he say? But he tells Letilla he loves her,

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Speaker 1: which I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody can correct me on this. I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure that on air another Bachelor told a woman he

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Speaker 1: I could be wrong, but he earnestly told Letia that

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Speaker 1: he loved her. So I'm hearing I'm hearing something in

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Speaker 1: my ear saying that Ben Higgins did, so I stand corrected.

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Speaker 1: But it's not common. It's not common to have that happen. So,

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Speaker 1: you know, Letia says that she loves that he makes

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Speaker 1: and we love each other. I mean, that's what I heard,

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Speaker 1: and it feels like we're supposed to be together. Wow,

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Speaker 1: to me, that just sounded like a proposal. I'm like, okay, maybe,

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Speaker 1: and out of that whoe? You know, maybe I spoke

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Speaker 2: Are you ready, Jared? I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: If I ask you what kind of sneakers you have on,

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Speaker 4: We're never at a loss for words, really.

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Speaker 2: You and I. That's why we got a second date.

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Speaker 1: That's why I don't get a second date. That's why

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is.

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Speaker 2: So wait, is there no girl in your life right now?

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Speaker 3: I I'm kind of Oh, I'm going I told you

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Speaker 2: Me to come with him. Thanks lunch. You know what,

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Speaker 4: So you're going to perform, are you?

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Speaker 3: They're like saying, and I never they never pushed us

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he knew every he knew her whole life story

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Speaker 2: That is so cool.

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Speaker 3: They had like a COVID day like on a bench,

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Speaker 2: Like we went in two different directions. So, oh, you

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Speaker 4: Do you have a type, Jared, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I have? You know, I definitely have a type.

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Speaker 3: people know this, Like I'll have sex with.

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00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 2: That's just pretty much any type of woman.

438
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: But yeah, but what do you do when the next

439
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: morning they say, like they're on the Bachelor, I think

440
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: I've met my future husband.

441
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 2: What do you say?

442
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 4: Do you?

443
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 1: Generally, I say, this guy's got a vase of roses

444
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:54,959
Speaker 1: in the other room.

445
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 2: He just brings it out in hands.

446
00:22:56,280 --> 00:23:00,680
Speaker 3: About I'm like, here's you know, I'm like Derek Jeter,

447
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 3: you can give that the gift back. No, I see,

448
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 3: that's the thing. I'm not, like, I'm not a fuck

449
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 3: guy like I've been talking with this on stage a lot,

450
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 3: because like, I'm not like a guy who like goes

451
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 3: out and is like I gotta get with a woman tonight.

452
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,479
Speaker 3: Like I'm more like a I gotta get with pizza

453
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 3: tonight like guy like I I so like, which is

454
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 3: like that's like, so I I generally am lazy when

455
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 3: it comes to dating, you know, and pursuing, which is

456
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 3: like something I don't like about myself because I wish

457
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 3: I was more like I wish I was like, you

458
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 3: don't have pursuing.

459
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,360
Speaker 2: I know, but I I just you know, so you know.

460
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 3: Women don't DM me to like get with me like

461
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 3: they I get DM by the mom to like go

462
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 3: on a date with their daughter, like this happened. I'll

463
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,239
Speaker 3: tell you this, this is crazy. The other night, I'm

464
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 3: at the comedy seller. I'm performing and I'm doing my

465
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 3: new material, which is like whatever, but it's about how

466
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 3: I went to Europe alone. So I'm talking about going

467
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 3: to Europe alone and how I hated it, like I

468
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 3: didn't fuck one woman in Europe, like it's a whole thing.

469
00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 2: And he knows he doesn't talk about the wine.

470
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 4: Views wine on the train is fabulous and everything.

471
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 3: I'm with you, Susan, I love everything about going to Europe,

472
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, except you know, the women don't

473
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 3: want to fuck me. So I I'm talking about this

474
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 3: and it's like my sad single story. Because sometimes when

475
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 3: you're working material, you go down a direction You're like, ah.

476
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 2: This is how I want to sound, but this is

477
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 2: how I'm sounding.

478
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: So then I get off stage and the host is

479
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 3: on stage and he's talking to me from on stage.

480
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 3: Suddenly a woman of the right she goes, Jared, Jared,

481
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 3: you got to meet my daughter. You got to meet

482
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 3: my daughter. I go, I go where is she? She

483
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: goes just right here and I go in the middle

484
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 3: of the room, like, and the host is like, Jared,

485
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 3: what's going on over there? I go, I think she's

486
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 3: trying to fix me up with her daughter. And she

487
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 3: goes and he goes, what does she look like? I go,

488
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I'm like embarrassed. All of a sudden,

489
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 3: another girl comes up to me and is on my right,

490
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 3: and I look, and this new woman goes, you got

491
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 3: to meet my friend, And I go, is this happening?

492
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 2: Twice? I go, where's your friend? She goes upstairs?

493
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 3: I go, this is too awkward for me, Like I

494
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 3: feel uncomfortable, like I'm upstairs right, I know, And it's

495
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 3: like water, water everywhere, not a drop to drink, because

496
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 3: like this isn't like how I'm going to meet someone

497
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 3: like this is, and and like I this is why

498
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 3: no one wants to hear from single men. No one

499
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 3: wants to hear from single men, because like all these women,

500
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 3: they don't want to fuck me. They just want to go,

501
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 3: let's go on a date and have a good time

502
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: and feel safe and then we'll see like.

503
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 1: And it's got to be a good restaurant and all

504
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: those things.

505
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,679
Speaker 3: So now I'm getting asked to pay for them like

506
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 3: you know, like this is like so it's like I

507
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 3: can't afford it. I I don't have the time, I

508
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 3: don't have the energy. And I feel bad because like

509
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 3: they're not wrong, like it's I should be. I'm actually

510
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 3: like I'm I'm like, I'm I am truly like I

511
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 3: feel very flattered, like but they get this.

512
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 4: Two pack right. You don't work when you leave so hard.

513
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 2: I got two muscles in.

514
00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 4: There they're both working on.

515
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 3: And you're a great audience member. I would have you

516
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 3: at any show. Kathy would be at the show the

517
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 3: whole time.

518
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: What is he saying? What's going on? I got what

519
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: are you talking about?

520
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: I hear every word you're saying. What the hell is

521
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:19,439
Speaker 1: wrong with you talking about that? For you? I have

522
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: a question, Jared, this is a really important one.

523
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 2: Sure you're the best. Do you say Jared or Jared.

524
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 3: I've got I don't. I've never thought about it.

525
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: If you're from Jared Jared, I would say Jared, and

526
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 1: you would say Carrie because.

527
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 2: You carry, and I'd say rum instead of room.

528
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 4: I said.

529
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: North, Kathy, were you near South? Excuse me?

530
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,479
Speaker 1: I grew up in West Newton, right near Brayburn Country

531
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: Club and I'm so old. It wasn't North or South.

532
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: I went to Newton High School, which is now Newton North.

533
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 3: Really my dad went to South. My uncles and aunts,

534
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 3: they were all they lived on it.

535
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: You know Cynthia Road. Oh my god, that's right down

536
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: the road from where I grew up. Yeah, that's what

537
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 2: I know. Would I know them? Well, my last name's Free,

538
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 2: so well.

539
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: That doesn't excuse me. It doesn't take excuse me. It

540
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: does not take an m b A to know that.

541
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: Just because your last name is Freed does not fair.

542
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 3: But they were the Freeds, and like my my dad

543
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: has three siblings, so it's like they went up and

544
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 3: down the age range.

545
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: But that's very cool. No, and your dad went to

546
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 2: Newton High I think Cynthia Road was just on the border.

547
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: You're right, right, And because I lived by this wobbin

548
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: signed wobbin was Newton.

549
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 3: South, I know exactly because we used to drive by

550
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 3: that other golf course where we'd go sledding all the time.

551
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 3: Yeah if that was Brayburn, the big Kill, Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

552
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: You know that you were not allowed to be on

553
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: that hill. You know that. You tell me you three

554
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 2: thousand people.

555
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 4: Jarre believe it or not, We're going to ask you

556
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 4: to help. Just sh out some advice from These people

557
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 4: are fans that write in Okaya, I love.

558
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 3: I love having impact on people's lives that are not

559
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 3: my own.

560
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 4: Okay, so here we go. This one is from Linda.

561
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 4: So I think my boyfriend's sister hates my guts. What

562
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 4: do I do? I met his family for the first

563
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 4: time last week, and it was so awkward. Every time

564
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 4: I would try to talk during dinner with him, his

565
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 4: sister or his parents, his sister would bring something up

566
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 4: that only they could talk about, like inside jokes from

567
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 4: the past family vacations, and would just say, oh, sorry,

568
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 4: you had to be there. She was constantly making snide

569
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 4: comments like I wish I had a silly little job

570
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,719
Speaker 4: like yours. Being a nurse is so exhausting. I have

571
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 4: no idea what I could have done. My boyfriend apologized

572
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 4: for his sister's behavior after we left, but said she's

573
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 4: just always been a little bit of a pret I

574
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 4: think it's a lot more than that, lol. She writes,

575
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 4: what does this mean? Why does she act like this

576
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 4: around me? Is she jealous? His parents allegedly like me,

577
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 4: but they fed into everything his sister was doing at dinner.

578
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 4: So I'm a little put off. What do I do now?

579
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 4: And thank you?

580
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: This is a tough situation for this one.

581
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 4: See, she has to have your your vocab, your your

582
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 4: quickness and come back for something.

583
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: I just think, like this sister stinks. She's a tough hang.

584
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 3: I actually take the guy for his word, Like, I

585
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 3: think she's used to being with men.

586
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 2: Like my I'm my.

587
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 3: Brother and I okay, Like we have no sisters, so

588
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 3: my mom is the sister.

589
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 2: My mom is the one woman in the house, so

590
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: like it is.

591
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, but then for any woman that tries to

592
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 3: come in, she's a big fucking pain in the ass.

593
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: And she and I talk about this on stage a lot,

594
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: like it's like and also if I don't date so weird,

595
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 3: this is weird. I'm admitting this is weird if I

596
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: don't date someone that if I date someone that my

597
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 3: mom is like, it's different from my mom. My mom

598
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 3: takes that as an offense to her, like because I'm choosing,

599
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 3: it's it's as if I'm choosing, not against her. So

600
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 3: this is how out of their minds women are. So

601
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 3: like this is so like this sister, like she has

602
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 3: to not take it personally and also understand that her

603
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 3: brother or that her boyfriend has no clue how to

604
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 3: handle this situation.

605
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 4: All ten, how about her saying about her silly little

606
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 4: job like yours? Yeah right, I.

607
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 3: Mean, I don't think this is anything new for this family,

608
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 3: Like when he says that, like, I think this is like,

609
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 3: like I actually think like to take this personally, like

610
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 3: is the mistake? She right, you have to trust your boyfriend,

611
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 3: and I would get more you know, curious with your boyfriend,

612
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 3: like I would get more curious as to the sister's story.

613
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 3: The more you hear about the sister story, the more

614
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 3: you're gonna understand why she sucks so much. She's gonna

615
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 3: be Oh, she can never keep a job, she could

616
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 3: never get a boyfriend, she can never she always had

617
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 3: issues in school, she never had like a big group

618
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 3: of friends. You're gonna and then the more you hear

619
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 3: about the more you're gonna feel bad.

620
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: But she's so you should just be nice to her

621
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: and move on, right, Be nice to you got a

622
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: good boyfriend who cares.

623
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 2: It's her problem, right.

624
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: While she's doing this, just keep be a great listener,

625
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 3: Be a great listener, Great listeners are great talkers. So

626
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 3: the ked to good comedy is listening. And it's like,

627
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 3: I think, if she just listens to her boyfriend and

628
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 3: like the story of the sister, if the next time

629
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 3: they go over, she's just a listener.

630
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 2: She's not trying to be it. You know, don't spar

631
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: with her.

632
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 3: She's not worth sparring it because even the parents, even

633
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: the parents, she says, the parents, his parents allegedly like me,

634
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 3: but they fit into everything his sister was doing at dinner. Yeah, yeah,

635
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 3: the parents are like, I don't want to deal with

636
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 3: this either.

637
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 2: She stinks.

638
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,959
Speaker 3: If the parents could tell you, they would be like,

639
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 3: we fucking hate her, but we have to deal with

640
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: her and just we pay the bills.

641
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: So she shut the fuck up.

642
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 4: And Linda's saying, why does she act like this around me?

643
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 4: It's not about you, Linda, it is it. Don't take

644
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 4: it personally. She's just wants to be the center of attention.

645
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it might not be us.

646
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 4: What does she have to be jealous of her? That's

647
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 4: her brother right.

648
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 3: Well, here's the even crazier part. This is the one

649
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 3: place she had ownership of where people couldn't leave her.

650
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: It's her family. They have to deal with her so

651
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: like you've now entered, do they? But do they?

652
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: Right? They do this dinner with her? Why is she

653
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 3: so free to meet her, you know, be at this

654
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 3: family dinner. She should be out with her own friends.

655
00:32:55,240 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 4: Well, Linda is put off by this, and laugh at

656
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 4: her jokes and get through it and leave. You don't

657
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 4: have to do it constantly.

658
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 3: My best advice to Linda is to laugh at it

659
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 3: with your boyfriend and not get personally.

660
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: Offended by it. Laugh at it, laugh with him, include

661
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 2: him on the joke about her.

662
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 3: But the only way you get there is to be

663
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 3: curious about her, ask about her life, care for her,

664
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 3: empathize with her.

665
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: Position.

666
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: God Jared's kindness, Jared, that's just so kind of you.

667
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 5: Bless you now that means you don't say that, all right,

668
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 5: Moving on to the next one.

669
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: Anonymous, good yeah, really good luck. Okay, Oh my god.

670
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: I really need you guys to help me. I have

671
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: been paranoid for the past two months that my boyfriend

672
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: of three years and my best friend of five years

673
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: are sleeping together. When I first sat down to write

674
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: into you, guys, I was going to ask for adviy

675
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: some what to do next. Looking back, I really wish

676
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: I would have done that. I decided to take matters

677
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 1: into my own hands and confront them both. Well, turns

678
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: out I was definitely.

679
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 2: Wrong best friend, that's the catch. She wished she was

680
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:18,879
Speaker 2: right now.

681
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: So I had my best friend come over and confronted

682
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 1: them both that I knew what was going on. Not

683
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 1: only did they each let me look through their phones

684
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: without flinching, but it also didn't take long for me

685
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: to realize that I was completely in the wrong.

686
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: So how do I do damage control?

687
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: My boyfriend asked for some space ha and we haven't

688
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: talked outside of good morning and good night. We lived together.

689
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: My best friend hasn't talked to me since the incident.

690
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: I totally went in accusing them, and I really don't

691
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: want to lose either of them, let alone both. Any

692
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: advice would be great, Please help me and thank you?

693
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: What say you, Jared?

694
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 3: This is like the worst case scenario, like because not

695
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 3: only like I don't want to scare her anymore, but

696
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 3: now the boyfriend is like, maybe I could have Rachel,

697
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: you know, like there's a little bit and I'm not listen,

698
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get I'm gonna like I'm gonna give her

699
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,959
Speaker 3: some like I think, like the one thing I will

700
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 3: let me just like let her not feel crazy something

701
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 3: is wrong in her relationship, Like I I think that's

702
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 3: the one thing she has to like be okay acknowledging

703
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 3: and like she she can't lose faith in her own feelings,

704
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 3: like you.

705
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 2: She's not a crazy person, reason right.

706
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 3: And I think it starts with her like seeking out

707
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 3: professional help and like going getting to the root of like.

708
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 2: Jared just jumps right to it, she needs professional help

709
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 2: in men she does. I mean, you did your big

710
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 2: detective moment.

711
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm just saying, like I think she has to

712
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,720
Speaker 3: start with like where does the jealous he come from?

713
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 3: Is it a personal issue or is the relationship off?

714
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 3: And she's trying to make this off relationship work. Whenever

715
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 3: you're in a relationship that like someone isn't trying and

716
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 3: you're trying, you're like, am I crazy? So it seems

717
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 3: like she's in this relationship where like I'm not trying

718
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 3: to blame him now that she's done him. She did

719
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 3: her friend and him wrong, but like where did that

720
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 3: come from? Like I think she has to get to

721
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: the root of like why.

722
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,240
Speaker 1: Usually you know I always say, problems in a marriage,

723
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: problems in a relationship are often not what you're seeing.

724
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: It's usually a symbol or a sign of something deeper

725
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: that's going on, you know.

726
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,959
Speaker 3: Right, And she probably saw her best friend and him

727
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 3: enjoying each other's company in the way she's not enjoying

728
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 3: her company with him, and she's like, why are they

729
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 3: You know, I'm watching the relationship.

730
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: I would want I should have gone to medical school

731
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: and been a psychiatrist.

732
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 2: Well, ten years, ten years of how are you feeling today?

733
00:36:58,520 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 2: Talk to me about it? That's right.

734
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 3: The U podcasts, you can get these pearls every week

735
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 3: twice a week on the UF podcast. I know, but

736
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 3: I will say it is her seeing them be this

737
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 3: like fun time. She's like, well, why don't we have fun?

738
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 3: And I think right, and it's like, so you have

739
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 3: to figure out And again that might mean a breakup,

740
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 3: That might mean that this is in the relation.

741
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 2: But like I do think it is crazy.

742
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 3: To like get that far be like ah and then

743
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 3: be like wait, wait, hold.

744
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 4: It, hold it. I gotta be that other person. People

745
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 4: are really good at deleting messages, and it could have

746
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 4: happened and those two are.

747
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 2: Going they were right. No, no, no, she believe them when

748
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 2: they were there, they.

749
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 3: Were Susan, I actually think that's like there there is

750
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 3: a percentage chance that these two are Body and Clyde

751
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 3: and they are the greatest. Like to me, I don't

752
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 3: have the energy like right they I don't have the

753
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 3: energy to like go this, like why go this far?

754
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 3: Just break up and be together and like stop fucking

755
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 3: with this woman.

756
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 2: But I good because I always.

757
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,760
Speaker 3: Like when I when I hear these questions, I always

758
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,919
Speaker 3: lean on the side, like I believe in the bell

759
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 3: curve of life, like most of us are ten percent

760
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 3: away from each other. So like in my mind, I'd

761
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 3: be like, this is my chance to break up with her,

762
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 3: Like I I like, I don't want to be in

763
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 3: this relationship.

764
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 2: He's only saying good night. I think this is what

765
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: he's gonna end up doing. And yeah, I think.

766
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 4: This relationship him and says okay, I fucked up. Either

767
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 4: to hate me forever. I'm sorry if she loses him.

768
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: You know what, Anonymous? You being serious? Now you learned

769
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,439
Speaker 1: the lesson of your life. I hope, well I will

770
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 1: say this.

771
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 3: I actually I care for this emailer because they're never

772
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 3: gonna like trust themselves again. But I do want to

773
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 3: encourage them that like something was off, so like if

774
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 3: there was end this and if you end this, like

775
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 3: if he doesn't end this and you guys try to

776
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 3: work this out, Okay, you have to get to the

777
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 3: root of where the jealousy comes from.

778
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 2: But like if he's like, I'm out, you know.

779
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 3: You accuse me of this and something, well, something that

780
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 3: was something he was looking to be dumped, and guys

781
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 3: love being dumped.

782
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 2: Okay. Every man wants to be dumped, okay, because they

783
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,720
Speaker 2: want to be the dump war and not the dumpy.

784
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 3: They want to be the dumpy, dump me, dump me

785
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 3: to I don't want to be the evil one. I

786
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 3: don't want to be the one that waste your time.

787
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 3: I don't want to be the guy that like that

788
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 3: you go to your brunch table and you're like and

789
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 3: he said he doesn't like my grandmother, Like, I don't

790
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 3: want to be that person. I want to disappear, Like

791
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 3: it takes me in the future, right, it takes me

792
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 3: for ever forever.

793
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:44,760
Speaker 4: Cat He's like, just tell.

794
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: I can't do that, right because I actually do it

795
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: very recently, very real.

796
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 2: What time is it?

797
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,760
Speaker 1: It's not all Right before we go, I was saying,

798
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: and I want to hear was it amazing?

799
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 2: I want to go.

800
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 4: We've replaced for a whole month. Next year, come next

801
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 4: year with us, Come with us for a month a month.

802
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 4: I'll come back in two weeks, do some things and

803
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,319
Speaker 4: go right back.

804
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: Is it like a timeshare type of things? Like it's

805
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 2: paid for? The ask? It's fabulous.

806
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: Of the water, the people being serious, No, all humor aside.

807
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: The people there are the most kind, generous.

808
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: Loving, warm. You just feel like family the minute you

809
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,959
Speaker 2: get there. It's crazy. I love that. Good for you guys,

810
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 2: and we make friends.

811
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 4: We're welcome back.

812
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: We'll get you, we'll get your day coming, We'll get

813
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 1: your or we'll get you.

814
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 2: Take your parents. But they're French to eat and.

815
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 1: We stay on the side, not food outside. All right,

816
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: before we go there, we're gonna play a quick game

817
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: with you. Okay, oh boy, wait, we didn't ask. Do

818
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: you have any questions for us or advice for us?

819
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 2: Do I have any questions? Yeah? Advice? Okay, anything you

820
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 2: want to know about us? No, not particular.

821
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 4: No, you're that date that says we're ended it here.

822
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 2: I'm going to Australia.

823
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 3: What would you say I should do to like pick

824
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 3: up a woman while I'm in Australia? What what would

825
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 3: you guys want? How would I? How would you do it?

826
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 3: How would you want to be picked up?

827
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 4: Wait a minute, did you not hear the question? Do

828
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 4: you have or advice for us?

829
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 2: Us?

830
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 4: Why is it about you? Derek? Yeah? You know stage.

831
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 2: I will say one thing, I will answer a question.

832
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 2: Ask you for advice?

833
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: Jared, you have a beautiful smile. Smile for woman and

834
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: say can I buy you?

835
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 4: Look at that? Do not love that face?

836
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: Thank you? All right? Now what's our advice?

837
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,359
Speaker 4: Do you want to have some coffee? Do you want

838
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 4: to listen to the kangaroos?

839
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 2: Where's it? Sounds like she's gonna like kill a kangaroo?

840
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 2: You want to see a kangaroo? Watch what I do

841
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: to the kangaroo? Who owes me money? That pouch looks

842
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 2: a little thick kangaroo.

843
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 4: I like the animals to stay over there.

844
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, he's got no.

845
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 3: Guys, keep doing what you're doing. I don't what you

846
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 3: guys gonna need my advice?

847
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 2: You kidding?

848
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 4: In love? In relationships?

849
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: The hell? He doesn't know sh about love?

850
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,439
Speaker 4: Why are we asking him nothing really next.

851
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you asked the question. All right, we're gonna play.

852
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: Here we go.

853
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a golden classic. Never have I ever

854
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: love it? Okay, So here we go. You're gonna fess up, Jared,

855
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: we're putting on the spot. All right, give us one.

856
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:53,879
Speaker 2: Do you want me to do one? Yeah?

857
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 4: Never had I ever?

858
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:03,439
Speaker 3: Never have I ever eaten something out of the trash. Oh? Neither?

859
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 2: Eh, it's right you Okay, I drank? I did I have?

860
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 2: It was on top of the trash. You did.

861
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 4: You were pretty damn thirsty or drunk. Were in the desert,

862
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 4: a little drunk desert. He's drunk.

863
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. You put me on the spot.

864
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 4: I can't really. I hate this game.

865
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: Never have I ever, never ever ever sucked on someone's foot,

866
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: I Amy, you have you have? Well, they're Tyler's not

867
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 2: their foot.

868
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 4: That's like a foot fetish thing or is it just

869
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 4: in the moment?

870
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 2: It was definitely a foot fetish things in the moment.

871
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: It was in the moment. Said, really, what happened he

872
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 2: got clean nails? I mean, what happened?

873
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 3: Well in the moment. Okay, Kathy, let me ask you

874
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 3: a serious question. You're in each other's arms.

875
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 4: You can you don't understand she is straighter than straight.

876
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 4: She obeys the law, she follows.

877
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 2: How many episodes have you've done? I finally got to

878
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 2: the good stuff with Kathy.

879
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,479
Speaker 3: Let me just say, I just know that, like, I'm

880
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 3: not a I'm not a foot guy like you know

881
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 3: you hear these foot love the feet?

882
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 2: I you are you an asked guy? A boot guy?

883
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 2: Who are you? I bet your guy? I am an

884
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 2: asked guy.

885
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 3: I like a big a, but no, I like curvy

886
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 3: women like I like, yeah, I asked, and titty.

887
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 2: I'll take them both tits and for kids.

888
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 3: I've never sucked on the toes, but I just don't

889
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 3: understand how it happens.

890
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: Just no, I've actually I've never sucked on toes. I've

891
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 1: had my toes sucked. You've had so that guy has

892
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: he had that?

893
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't.

894
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 3: I didn't say could we stop kissing down your body?

895
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden you're like, how low

896
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 3: are you gonna go? And you're like you're gonna kiss

897
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 3: my shin? And he's like, I'll keep going, and then

898
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 3: all of a sudden he's.

899
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 2: Jared. You had to be there in the moment. You

900
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: know you had to be there. I think, I don't think.

901
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: I think I just want to I.

902
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 1: Just want to address one thing here with Susan. She

903
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: talks about me following the rules. I don't know, Jared,

904
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 1: you tell me. We are on little Whining Roads in

905
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 1: Saint Martin and she's chip chatting with somebody on WhatsApp

906
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: in her hand while she's driving, hitting the corner.

907
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 2: It's like we're playing bumper pool going and I'm like, Susan, stop,

908
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: what's all right? I know where I'm going. I'm like,

909
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 2: I see my life in front of my eyes. I

910
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 2: love that.

911
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 3: Kathy's so mad that you said that she's a rule follower,

912
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 3: and she's like, no, I'll tell you I was feary.

913
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 4: I am more.

914
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,720
Speaker 1: I will say I'm more of a rule follower than Susan.

915
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: I will say that. But you know what, you know what?

916
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:53,439
Speaker 6: What?

917
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 4: Why are we talking about rules? We're talking about toes.

918
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 2: I can't imagine.

919
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 3: I can't imagine sucking on Kathy's toes.

920
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 4: Toe.

921
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: I think you're gonna wipe them off. You're gonna use

922
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:07,320
Speaker 2: a paper towel.

923
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 4: Just what if you were on barefoot on the beach.

924
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 2: That what don't ruin here? It did? I got one yesterday.

925
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 2: We're all good.

926
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 3: Now.

927
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 4: I let somebody massage them. You can get the oils

928
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 4: and massage.

929
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: There's so many things running through my head right now

930
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: that I can that. It's so not PG that I cannot.

931
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 3: This is why it's This is why I.

932
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 4: To think it's something that's not PEG. It's like she's

933
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 4: killing that, she's dying over there.

934
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 2: I'm so happy.

935
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 6: I went from eating out of the trash to you

936
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 6: know what, I never had the rules come out to

937
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 6: the rules so much that she answered, honestly to has

938
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 6: toes been in like you could just lie?

939
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 2: I did? I said I had.

940
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 4: I have never have I ever sucked toes?

941
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:06,760
Speaker 2: Oh that's that was creative? Can you do any better? Okay?

942
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: Never have I ever hooked up with a guy in

943
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,439
Speaker 1: a foreign country?

944
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 2: I haven't I have? She has good for you, Susan.

945
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 2: What country?

946
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 4: Italy?

947
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: Italy?

948
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 4: Italy in Florence.

949
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,240
Speaker 2: Actually I studied abroad in Florence.

950
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 4: Where'd you go to school?

951
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 2: Jared? Penn State? Penn State. You spoiled little child, that's right,

952
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 2: not Penn. This is what. No, she doesn't know.

953
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: I was the education of the tongue. Yeah, you went

954
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: to the dumb one, the Ivy league. He went to

955
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: the one where people He went to the one where

956
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 1: people who can't go to the ivy leagues and want

957
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: to be in Pennsylvania.

958
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 2: That's where they go.

959
00:47:55,719 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 4: That's all. That's right, that's right. All right, end this game, okay,

960
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 4: because I don't like.

961
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 2: All right, all right, we're done. All right, you know what.

962
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 2: I hate to do this, but we actually do have

963
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: to wrap. I know Jared's got to get out and

964
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 2: look for widness.

965
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: I got to go to Australia. I gotta go to

966
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: Happy Happy, Happy birthday to you. Really truly, I appreciate it.

967
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: You know what pleasure talking with you guys. Say good

968
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:23,720
Speaker 1: night and goodbye to your thirties. My last few hours

969
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: I got.

970
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 4: Do you feel a certain way with the forties?

971
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 3: I feel I get reflective on birthdays? I never like

972
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 3: think the year doesn't matter as much as the passing

973
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 3: of a year, like did I accomplish what I want?

974
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 2: Did I?

975
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 3: You know? Do I feel like I I've.

976
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 2: Evolved And that's kind of tough for me to deal with.

977
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 4: So on your team, we think you're Greatthday. I threw

978
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 4: a black tie event.

979
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 2: That's wonderful.

980
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 4: It was the people were leaving going this was better

981
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 4: than any wedding I've ever went to.

982
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: Right because no ceremonies to get here, and I'm the.

983
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: Weirdo who takes it a step further. I don't, I don't.

984
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: I can't tell you what I did on my fourith birthday,

985
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: my fiftieth birthday, I said, I don't care because to me,

986
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,479
Speaker 1: I don't count the years. I just look at my life.

987
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: Am I being excuse to have a party?

988
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 2: Cat, that's a different thing.

989
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 3: You can have a question, udgy answer, Cathyty.

990
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 4: You could know.

991
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 2: I said, have a party. Whenever the fuck you want

992
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 2: to have a party, I said, I don't. I don't.

993
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 4: On that note, we got to rock because we're gonna

994
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 4: get fired. I think I don't know.

995
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 2: Don't get fired? All right, listen, Thank you guys.

996
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:48,200
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997
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: Go to Bachelor nation dot com, flash Golden Hour, or

998
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,759
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999
00:49:56,520 --> 00:50:01,080
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1000
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 4: that somebody comes and wants to have a cup of coffee.

1001
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: With you while you're out, out of there. We want it.

1002
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,279
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1003
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