1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I told my fat friend she's fat and should feel bad? 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole my friend? Female twenty one 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Tara has always been a little bit overweight, big girl, 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: and in the past she couldn't accept it. Oh my 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: gosh already in the first sentence, the first sentence were 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 1: hero fee could accept how fat she was? What she 7 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: has tried so many diets but nothing lasted for more 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 1: than a few weeks. And as quote, her love for 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: food is so strong. Who doesn't love food? 10 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: Bruh? OPI is like the bitchy girl at the popular 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 2: kid's table. 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: A few years ago. She met a guy and that 13 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: was the hint she needed to get some serious help 14 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: from a professional doctor and start exercising. Also, op is 15 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: not like laying out like what where is she at? 16 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: Like if we're talking my six hundred pound life. 17 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to know. I want to know, like 18 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: how big, how big a girl? We got? 19 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: Now? Okay, I need to say she looked stunning after 20 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: a few months and was able to catch the guy. 21 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: Let's say that the pandemic got the best of them 22 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 1: and after three long years of a relationship he dumped her. 23 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 1: So if she looked stunning after a few months, like 24 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: it's a few months is not a lot of time 25 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: to lose weight, so she probably wasn't that overweight. She 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: regained almost all the weight she had lost previously, but 27 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,479 Speaker 1: after some time, I and other friends managed to make 28 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: her get standing on her feet again. She came back 29 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: to hanging out with us, and she flirted with some guys, 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,479 Speaker 1: but nothing serious. In the meantime, another girl joined our group. 31 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 1: Let's call her Maya. Maya's the kind of girl that's 32 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 1: naturally fit and doesn't need exercising at all, and that's 33 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 1: something Tera couldn't accept. 34 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 2: Okay. 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: She began teasing her all the time, saying things like, hey, 36 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: don't hug her too tight, you might break her, or hey, 37 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: how do you manage to hook up with guys? A 38 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: boy could crush you? And I'm glad I gained my 39 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: weight back because I used to look like you. Okay, 40 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: that's a little much. That's that's too much. Even at 41 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: least I have some meat they can grab. If a 42 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: boy grabbed you, where would he put his hands your 43 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: collar bones? Okay, that's too fun, it's so bit What 44 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: is wrong with everybody? 45 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: Everyone sucks everyone? 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Maya always tried to laugh it off as she 47 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: was the new girl, but I could see her not 48 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: being comfortable at all last night. After the upteenth comment, 49 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: I blurted out, at least she can fayed some a 50 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: pair of chains. 51 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 2: Yo, damn bro oh pay, this is freaking These people suck. 52 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: I would not want to be friends with any Yeah. 53 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: This friend circle maya leaving. 54 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Sam's like something naturally fill it's good, respectfully, respectfully. 55 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 2: This is a joke. 56 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: Yes, this humor satire disclaimer here. Tara suddenly fell silent 57 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: as the rest of the group turned their heads towards me, 58 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: and I continued, Oh hope, he's not stopping there, brouh. 59 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: You shouldn't body shame someone over jealousy, and you shouldn't 60 00:02:59,919 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: be proud of being overweight either. 61 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 2: Yo. 62 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: You know that doesn't help with your medical conditions. Damn 63 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: good God almighty. Tara stormed away, and a few girls 64 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: followed her to check in on her. Everyone called me 65 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: an a hole, saying that I shouldn't make fun of 66 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: her being overweight, nor should I bring up her medical 67 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: conditions in front of someone who doesn't know her that much. 68 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: Fair. 69 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: I told them that it's hypocritical that they would scold 70 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: me about saying that something that's at least true. 71 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: Yo, you're being an asshole. 72 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: Stop it of me. I wouldn't say a thing to 73 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: Tara as she was body shaming Maya. So am I 74 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: the a hole. 75 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: Everyone's a fucking asshole here. Everyone sucks so much, dude. 76 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 2: I don't want to be friends with any of you, 77 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: not at all at all. 78 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: This is so bad. I mean so, but Sam, there's 79 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: an update. Oh, tonight, I went to dinner to one 80 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: of my friend's houses. Tara and Maya were there. I 81 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: knew that, and that's partially why I wrote the post. 82 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: As I arrived, I took Tara and went into a 83 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: separate room with her. I told her I was sorry 84 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: for what I said, but that I talked out of frustration, 85 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: and I also told her that I think her bullying 86 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: Maya all the time is not cool at all, and 87 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: that she should apologize. She nodded and said that she 88 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: totally understood my point of view, but wasn't going to 89 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: apologize because this wasn't the situation. Everything seemed fine between us, 90 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: even though I wasn't totally happy with her answer, and 91 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: we went back to the others. Literally twenty minutes ago, 92 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: we had dessert. Do you see where I'm going? 93 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 2: Oh? 94 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: Pe as I was eating my first bite of the cake, 95 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: Tara announced, as everyone knows op thinks I'm fat, so 96 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: I decided to go on a diet. I almost choked. 97 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: Everyone laughed out of embarrassment, not knowing exactly what to 98 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,119 Speaker 1: say or do. Then Maya turned her head and said, well, 99 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: that's the smartest thing I've heard you say. 100 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 2: My I hate I know, I'm Amaya did I thought 101 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: Maya was beginning to be like Redeeving Switzerland. Yo. She 102 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: now she sucks. She stooped down into the level. 103 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm writing this from the passenger seat of Maya's car. 104 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,559 Speaker 1: We both left the house because there's been a huge 105 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: fuss over Maya's comment. Both of us are realizing that 106 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: you don't have to hang out with people you don't 107 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: like anymore just because you were friends in high school. 108 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 2: I don't like you, please, I damn. These people like 109 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 2: need to rethink how they operate around people. 110 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: You're canceled, wh