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Speaker 1: if you're following any of the draft stuff, NFL Draft

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Speaker 1: coming up, Justin Fields, the quarterback of the Chicago Bears,

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Speaker 1: unfollows the Chicago Bears on Instagram. It's over. It's over, guys.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing how telling that has become. Yes, you break

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Speaker 1: I had to do a mass unfollow. Big I did

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Speaker 1: a big unfollow. It was an unfollow of a person

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Speaker 1: and everybody involved with that person. Really I was sending

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Speaker 1: a message. Yeah, I mean I was standing on business,

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Speaker 1: but I would have been Apparently it was very revealing.

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Speaker 1: I don't really think of stuff like that. For me.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, all right, well, I don't think these

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Speaker 1: because you know, things happen when you part ways with somebody.

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Speaker 1: They say things you say, you know, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: And it's also like it sends a message. You love

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Speaker 2: I leave everyone following me say, following everything.

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Speaker 1: No, I will unfollow.

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Speaker 2: Why do you unfollow everybody else associated with instead of

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Speaker 1: Like why do you so?

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Speaker 1: it's like a peace of mind thing. It's like I

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Speaker 1: like I just don't need to see it, like I'm

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Speaker 1: to send a message. But apparently the message is sent

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Speaker 1: because people have said it that, you know, they said

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Speaker 1: to the person, well, why they can't follow you? In

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: So so it's become a sign of what's to come

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Speaker 1: it's over. It's over that we have broken up with

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Speaker 1: what he has broken up with the with the bears.

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Speaker 1: You have to see it, man, that is wild. And

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Speaker 1: that's how we know who needs Adam schefter Ian wrap

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Speaker 1: up board from who needs him? Just get in the

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Speaker 1: d ms, get in the comments, get in the get

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Speaker 1: in the followers. But then at the same time, you know,

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Speaker 1: Paulina was mad at me for like years, low key

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a new one with you.

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Speaker 1: I know, another couple of years of this.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you look at my Instagram story outed.

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Speaker 4: Not looking at my tiktoks because you did it again.

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Speaker 1: I sent you one the story and then three days

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you have to see it, Fred, You

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Speaker 1: You assume though that like you're the only people whose

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Speaker 5: He doesn't want to think.

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Speaker 6: About right, came from from life, all right, nobody's muted.

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Speaker 7: I just don't look at look at me and tell

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Speaker 7: So some of you might remember, Gosh, it was probably

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Speaker 7: and I was just talking about how I was pretty

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Speaker 7: I kind of told you that I was sick of

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Speaker 7: I'm very glad because that was something that was was

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Speaker 1: So yeah, block on Instagram. No, no, I never did.

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Speaker 7: Okay follow her And by the way, while we were fighting,

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Speaker 1: Other so much. It was just hard. Oh see now

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Speaker 7: I think it was just like I love you still,

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Speaker 1: She said, oh, okaything's fine now, yeah, no, everything's good.

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Speaker 1: Don't push me one way to get me to un

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Speaker 1: or go is nice Caitlin's Entertainment Report. He's on the

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Speaker 1: Bread Show.

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Speaker 7: After Usher held Alicia Keys, the very married Alicia Keys

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Speaker 7: Video you see Usher kind of on on his knees.

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Speaker 7: He's playing the bass, and Nicky's rapping as he's down there,

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Speaker 7: usher her husband, excuse me. Alicia Key's husband said he

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Speaker 7: rufe'll seeing it that she looks like Megan Fox because

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Speaker 1: Oh so.

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Speaker 7: In the latest season of the Netflix dating show, Chelsea

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Speaker 7: Blackwell casually reveals that Megan is her celebrity doppelganger, which

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Speaker 7: of course piques the interests of a dude named Jimmy

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Speaker 7: as they're talking through that wall like they can't see

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Speaker 1: The show, so wait does she described herself as looking

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Speaker 7: Yes, she's an airline stewardess, and she says.

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Speaker 7: She did say herself that she doesn't see the resemblance,

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Speaker 1: But once she said that, that's in my brain. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, she looks like Megan Fux.

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Speaker 1: I'm going for it.

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Speaker 7: That's on Fredshow Radio dot Com.

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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on Good Morning Everybody, Tuesday, February twentieth.

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Speaker 1: It's The Fred Show. Hi, Calin Morning, Jason bro Hello, Rufia, Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Kiky Shelby Shelley is here? Interned Venham Benjamin. We'll get

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Speaker 1: does somebody get ghosted? About five minutes away? The entertainer

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Speaker 7: A college student is gearing up for a legal battle

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Speaker 7: with miss Taylor Swift, So good luck with that. Also,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what she said. Katrina, Hey, good morning, Katrina.

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Speaker 1: called them, And the answer is it's like, I know,

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Speaker 1: you're right, I didn't want to get up at eight

436
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Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning, hungover and drive to Chunky Monkey

437
00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,639
Speaker 1: whatever it's called to watch you know, your kid climb around.

438
00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 1: But ultimately, if that's the only way the five of

439
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,240
Speaker 1: us dudes who used to run around together ten years ago,

440
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Speaker 1: if that's the only way we get to hang out

441
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Speaker 1: at one time, then I'll do it. The second observation

442
00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:45,520
Speaker 1: I have about these play places is it's a total

443
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Speaker 1: missed opportunity not to open a urology clinic right next door.

444
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Speaker 1: This is my business plan. I'm opening the Chunky Monkey

445
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Speaker 1: whatever the hell it's called Fred's. We won't be called

446
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 1: Fred's playplace. That's a little weird. That's like, yeah, that's

447
00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,199
Speaker 1: like that, L Joe. I've got a perfect name for

448
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:07,520
Speaker 1: my dating profile. The whole time I'm in this play place,

449
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm getting as ectomy I'm getting one right now.

450
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Speaker 1: But imagine if I could right across this, like right there,

451
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Speaker 1: I walk out and it's like there, it is, there,

452
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Speaker 1: it is. We have to get We'll have to get

453
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Speaker 1: back to this time. I think a lot of people

454
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Speaker 1: can probably relate to how friendships become more complicated, it

455
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Speaker 1: seems as people get older, and I think this is

456
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Speaker 1: the reason why.

457
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do agree that life changes, right, life events.

458
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Speaker 2: I'm just on like defense mode right now. Okay, I'm

459
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Speaker 2: got gloves out, I'm fighting. I'm like because I want

460
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Speaker 2: my friendships. I still want to be a good mom,

461
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Speaker 2: but if it helps.

462
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Speaker 7: My best friend, Ashley has two little girls and does

463
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Speaker 7: more than I do. She makes it to every trip,

464
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Speaker 7: every single thing. Her and her husband get out their

465
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Speaker 7: schedule at the beginning of every year and say who

466
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Speaker 7: wants boys weekend?

467
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Speaker 1: Girls weekend? They do it amazingly. So also possible. I

468
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Speaker 1: think people use their kids and their wives and their

469
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Speaker 1: husbands and spouses. I think they use them as an

470
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Speaker 1: excuse too a lot of times. Oh yeah, you know,

471
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Speaker 1: I got the kid this week, I can't do any.

472
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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I did that to me when I was

473
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Speaker 7: We get so pissed I'd be like, Mom, I don't

474
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Speaker 7: want to leave the party, and she'd be like, no,

475
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Speaker 7: you're sick, and I'm like, mom, we all see.

476
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Speaker 1: My friend's wife would be like, dude, can you want

477
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Speaker 1: this guy out of the house? And she's like, he

478
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 1: can leave whenever he wants him. He's like, yeah, wha. Yeah,

479
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 1: it's like wait a minute. So I'm bad at hurt.

480
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Speaker 1: But you're the one to make an excuse more Fred

481
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Speaker 1: Show next right here. Yeah, they talk better than they excited.

482
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. I

483
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Speaker 1: do some stuff like that, I wind up in jail.

484
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Speaker 1: You don't, doesn't no problem, that's right. No, I always

485
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Speaker 1: be planning on it. But our audio journals we call

486
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Speaker 1: them blogs. Jason Brown's got one go.

487
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Speaker 5: Yes, thank you, dear blogs.

488
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Speaker 8: So as many of you in this room, No, I

489
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Speaker 8: made my triumphant Excuse me, I'm getting choked up. Oh

490
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Speaker 8: my god, I was so excited this weekend happened. I

491
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Speaker 8: made my triumphant return to Peppies this weekend. After a

492
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Speaker 8: long way to draft of my Margarita's and spot. Yeah,

493
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Speaker 8: my gosh, I think like six months, to be honest,

494
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Speaker 8: what it's been a long time and I've been yearning,

495
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Speaker 8: like I've been wanting to go.

496
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Speaker 5: So we did it big. We got there at like four.

497
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Speaker 8: Thirty, like I'm like, okay, we're going to commit, like

498
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Speaker 8: it's going to be a night, right. So and as

499
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Speaker 8: many of you know, I had a mark and a

500
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Speaker 8: half and I started, you know, texting you guys little notes.

501
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Speaker 1: I don't think I got any love. Well it was

502
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Speaker 1: in the group group, yeah, you were individually text He

503
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Speaker 1: did that to me, yeah, which I was really I said, yeah, man,

504
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 1: it's late. I said, yeah, ja ja'son texting me.

505
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Speaker 8: Yeah, because Kiki wanted to come and do a Peppy's

506
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Speaker 8: night and they have had press marks one night. So

507
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Speaker 8: I was like hell yeah. So we made a date

508
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Speaker 8: which I'm holding you too, even though I was drunk.

509
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Speaker 8: We're starting to do that. But so I was having

510
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Speaker 8: a good night and we we cash out and the

511
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Speaker 8: server was like, oh, you know, do you guys want

512
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Speaker 8: one more drink?

513
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Speaker 5: I was like, let's go sit at the bar, Like

514
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Speaker 5: is there sit at the bar? Whatever?

515
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: My goodness around venues, Oh my god.

516
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Speaker 8: I was ready to go and Mike's like, I think

517
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,479
Speaker 8: we're gonna go and I was like no, no, and

518
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Speaker 8: I never feel this way, Like I'm very much the

519
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 8: type like we go out, we have dinner, I have

520
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Speaker 8: one drink, and I'm like ready to go.

521
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Speaker 5: But Saturday, I just felt it.

522
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Speaker 8: And I was this close to being like, oh, I'll

523
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Speaker 8: family home, let you go, and he would have been

524
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Speaker 8: piss wow really, but I'm back baby.

525
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Speaker 1: So he was playing mom and he was like it's

526
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Speaker 1: time to go.

527
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Speaker 5: Yeah, he did a shot.

528
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Speaker 1: It was wild.

529
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Speaker 5: We were like out here like it was five years ago.

530
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Speaker 5: It was amazing.

531
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Speaker 1: I considered myself a regular at Boss Bar, except during

532
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Speaker 1: the day. You know, most people go at like three

533
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Speaker 1: am and I go at three pm. But it's fine whatever.

534
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Speaker 1: Things change in life. And I hadn't been in a

535
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Speaker 1: while and I went in and there were new people

536
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Speaker 1: and they're like, what can I get you? And then

537
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Speaker 1: they were like, wanted to take my credit card up front,

538
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Speaker 1: and I'm looking at them and I'm like, excuse me,

539
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Speaker 1: excuse me.

540
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Speaker 8: You know who I am.

541
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you don't know what I want to that's

542
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Speaker 1: not in the manual, and you want my credit card.

543
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: I had like I'm gonna run on the tab, which

544
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Speaker 1: which I have done. But they also nowhere to find me. Oh,

545
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Speaker 1: I've been so drunk, I bussed. I've had so much

546
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: fun at Boss War, I've left with that paying.

547
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Speaker 7: We did that over the weekend. We all woke up

548
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Speaker 7: and goes, anyone pay for that last bottle of wine?

549
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Speaker 7: So we called the restaurant. My friend is such a

550
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Speaker 7: goody tsir. She's like, we had a little bit of fun,

551
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Speaker 7: and I was wondering if if anyone.

552
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Speaker 1: Paid for our bottle of wine. It's like, just say

553
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 1: you were we were wasted. Yeah, but I don't know

554
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: if that was the case when you went back in.

555
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: Were you welcome with open arms and you know what

556
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Speaker 1: was it as if was it like cheers, as if

557
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Speaker 1: everyone knew your name and you'd never been gone?

558
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Speaker 5: I will either.

559
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Speaker 8: As I was sitting down before my butt even hit

560
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Speaker 8: the booth, there was a margarita in front.

561
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Speaker 1: You know. That's how That's how I'm supposed to be.

562
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Speaker 1: That's how I'm supposed to go the main table every time,

563
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Speaker 1: same booth.

564
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Speaker 5: You guys said, no, so.

565
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Speaker 8: There's like two sections, but like I always like the

566
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Speaker 8: back section by the bar is a little bit less,

567
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Speaker 8: you know, a little bit more fun. And you recognized yeah,

568
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Speaker 8: oh yeah, yeah, I want to be hitting in a booth,

569
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Speaker 8: you know, celebrity over here.

570
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Speaker 1: I know that. You know, Yeah, things are really taking

571
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Speaker 1: off for you in your career, and you are very

572
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: well known. Yeah, so I can see why you need

573
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Speaker 1: to be incognito where the hat sunglasses?

574
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Speaker 6: People are tracking my flights? I know, dear blog. Have

575
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Speaker 6: any of you ever been dumped by someone you weren't dating? Wow,

576
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 6: that never happened to you before? Because I got dumped

577
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Speaker 6: last week by somebody and I've never gone on a

578
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Speaker 6: date with them ever. Ever what wait, this is a

579
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Speaker 6: new one? This well, I think it's a new one.

580
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Speaker 6: I don't think it's ever happened to me.

581
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Speaker 1: But and there's more to the story, but I'll just

582
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Speaker 1: keep it simple. I met someone in passing one time,

583
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Speaker 1: very very briefly and in a different context. I was

584
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: actually set up with somebody else. This was one of

585
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Speaker 1: her friends, and didn't work out with the primary girl,

586
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Speaker 1: and then the secondary girl, who I met very very briefly,

587
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Speaker 1: like literally, how you doing that? Was? It is now

588
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Speaker 1: single as well. She broke up she was dating somebody

589
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Speaker 1: broke up with the guy. And we follow each other

590
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Speaker 1: on Instagram, so we were going back and forth last

591
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Speaker 1: week just kind of some banter or whatever, and I'm like, hey,

592
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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know that didn't work out with

593
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: so and so and you're single, Like we should get

594
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 1: a coffee or drink sometime, like very casual, or go

595
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 1: do this or that or the other thing. We have

596
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Speaker 1: a similar interest. So I was like, maybe go do that.

597
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, okay. That was where it was left.

598
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: That was it. That was completely literally was that simple.

599
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: No plans, no date, no this date, this time. That's that.

600
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Speaker 1: Then a few days go by and neither one of

601
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Speaker 1: us are really doing anything about it, and I get

602
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Speaker 1: a text, Hey, I just wanted to check in with

603
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Speaker 1: you and let you know. I'm trying to paraphrase guy

604
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: I erased it, but it was essentially like all that

605
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: stuff we talked about is never going to happen, just

606
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Speaker 1: so you know, I'm just going to be on my own.

607
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: What right? And I had to read it like three

608
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Speaker 1: or four times, and I'm like, I didn't do nothing.

609
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, but we didn't, but we didn't go. We didn't.

610
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Speaker 7: I don't know where you just got the text.

611
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: Like three or four days later, it's like, hey, just

612
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: check it in with you, Like just want to let

613
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: you know. Basically, we're never going to go out. And

614
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Speaker 1: I was like, well, where do you find these people?

615
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Speaker 5: Yeah?

616
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: I said, hey, are you dumping me? We've never gone out,

617
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: Like I tried to make a joke out. I just

618
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 1: decided to be funny because it's so ridiculous. The only

619
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: thing you can do. It's so ridiculous. And she's like, well,

620
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you know you did ask me out, and

621
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Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna ghost from this point forward, So I

622
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: just thought i'd give you a heads up as to

623
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: why I'm ghosting. That's nice. And I'm like, well, but

624
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 1: I don't understand it seems to me it's is that

625
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 1: like a it's like an that's an insecurity move, right,

626
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: Like you do that when you you want to be

627
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: able to shut someone down before they shut you down, right,

628
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,479
Speaker 1: Like Otherwise, why even have the why even have that

629
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: conversation like the I mean you know what I mean, Like,

630
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: why why preemptively tell someone that you're not gonna even

631
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: get to know them? Like I don't even know that

632
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: we were going to date or have sex or kiss

633
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 1: or do anything or make love or make love. I mean,

634
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: I guess what I'm saying is unless I I mean,

635
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: I guess there are some circumstances like if you were

636
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: dating that you like got serious with somebody, which is

637
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: not the case in this case that we're you might say, hey, look,

638
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: something sort of evolved with someone else, so we're not

639
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 1: going to go out. We can't go out or whatever,

640
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: but like, I guess I'm going to go out with

641
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: you one time just to see before I say, hey,

642
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: I'm not interested or I don't think this is going

643
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: to go anywhere or at least at least an opportunity

644
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: to be friendly with somebody. But when you do that,

645
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: like I don't really even want to hang out with

646
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: this person, Like I actually don't even really want to

647
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: do anything with it, Like you know what I mean,

648
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be friends with this person, but

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Speaker 1: I didn't understand the move.

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Speaker 4: How did it go with the person that you went

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Speaker 4: a date with originally her friend, Like maybe she got

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Speaker 4: intels like you know, intel.

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Speaker 1: That just didn't go anywhere. I mean, something happened, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know what. But it's just interesting to me

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Speaker 1: to be like, hey, just heads up, like I'm not

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Speaker 1: we're not doing that. I'm like, well, we weren't doing

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Speaker 1: anything as at this moment, we actually weren't going to

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Speaker 1: do anything at all. As a matter of fact, I

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Speaker 1: just thought it was it has ever happened to you? No,

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Speaker 1: but she's a nutcase like girl. Nobody was checking for

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Speaker 1: you like that anyway. I don't understand. I just feel

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Speaker 1: like you just kind to let it go, right, like

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Speaker 1: if there's no follow up, and then if there is

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Speaker 1: follow up and for some reason you're all of a

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Speaker 1: sudden not interested, I guess I don't know what you do,

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Speaker 1: but I also don't know why you. How do you

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Speaker 1: lose interest in someone you've never met?

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Speaker 7: Did you make plans or like when you were talking

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Speaker 7: about these like was it for a specific period of time?

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Speaker 1: Not really. It was like this person was like, well,

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Speaker 1: this day is free, and that day came and went

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Speaker 1: by the way. Oh and like one of us meet,

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Speaker 1: one of us made a plan. So it feels to

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Speaker 1: me like this person was just getting ahead of what.

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 1: I don't know like this, the only reason I can

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Speaker 1: think that you would preemptively break up with someone you

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Speaker 1: weren't dating is if you thought they might break up

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Speaker 1: with you first, or like you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It made no sense to me but obviously I've been

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Speaker 1: thinking about it for three days, so this is so weird, Like,

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Speaker 1: what am I missing the entertainment of for two minutes

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Speaker 1: away friend Show's on,