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Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by Garrett. So we're

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Speaker 2: going to see if we can figure out why and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date if she still wants one. Kristin,

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Speaker 2: what's up? How are you hi?

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Speaker 3: I'm besides being ghosted doing great?

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Speaker 2: Not too bad? Before we ask about your dat and stuff,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Garrett?

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Speaker 2: Like three days too bad?

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Speaker 4: Rather three day mark? I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I feel like he's probably not interested in I want

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Speaker 5: to kind of figure out why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, three days might not necessarily be a full ghost

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Speaker 2: yet you know, well there was a read for sheet.

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Speaker 2: Then maybe if he read a text and then hasn't

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Speaker 2: responded in three days, then.

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Speaker 6: That's infuriating process you for not sending him eight paragraphs.

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Speaker 6: So what happened on the date though, Like, what is

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Speaker 6: it about him that makes you want to find out?

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean we met through mutual friends, and you know,

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Speaker 7: we just kind of clicked and we went to a

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Speaker 7: And yeah, I haven't heard it from him ever since,

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Speaker 7: and you know, I'm trying to figure out maybe why

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Speaker 2: And I'm yeah, I'm at a lost Okay, Well tell

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Speaker 2: us about the date.

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Speaker 8: So we went to a concert and you know, we

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Speaker 8: had a couple of drinks and we made out, and

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Speaker 8: I think he was looking for something maybe a little more,

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Speaker 8: and I kind of backed out. You know, I'm not

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Speaker 8: kind of looking for a hookup right now, you know.

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Speaker 8: And I think maybe I sang to him I got

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Speaker 8: a little drunk. Maybe you'd like my singing. I can

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Speaker 8: get a little loud and voice dressed. So maybe that

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Speaker 6: I mean, that's what you're supposed to do at a concert.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did it seem like it bothered him?

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Speaker 4: I mean I thought it seemed okay.

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Speaker 8: But now that I haven't heard from him, I'm really

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Speaker 8: trying to rule out what possibilities were. And you know,

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Speaker 8: I wish he'd be an adult and you know, have

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Speaker 2: Was an issue.

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Speaker 9: Maybe it's just he wanted to hook up, I guess,

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Speaker 9: you know, And it's a real bummer that he couldn't

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Speaker 9: that was what he was looking for, and you know,

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Speaker 9: I wasn't given what he wants.

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Speaker 4: He could just be an adult and say like, hey.

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Speaker 8: You know, for whatever reason, I'm not interested and be

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Speaker 8: gracious about as opposed to just hiding.

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Speaker 2: So how do you know that he was trying to

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Speaker 2: hook up other than that he was a dude on

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he was just kind of handsy and you know,

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Speaker 7: kind of got a little below the equator, okay, and

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Speaker 7: you know I kind of pulled his hand away, and I'm.

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Speaker 4: Like, I don't know if I'm ready for this quite now.

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Speaker 5: You know, we ended the night on a knife note,

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Speaker 5: and you know I didn't really want to take it any.

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Speaker 2: Further for the first date, okay. And did he seem

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Speaker 2: bothered by that when you you know, smacked his hand

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Speaker 5: You know, I mean he wasn't thrilled about it, obviously,

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Speaker 5: but yeah, I just I don't know why he ghosts

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Speaker 2: He could have just been up front about it if

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Speaker 2: that is the reason, would you want another date? Because

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Speaker 2: you know I've been you know, when I used to date.

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Speaker 2: I'm married now, but when I would go on dates

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Speaker 2: and stuff and if ever I got get away from

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Speaker 2: the equator. It's too hot there for you right now.

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Speaker 2: I would be fine with it, you know, Like I

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Speaker 2: of dudes, especially like they get upset, and I've never cared.

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Speaker 2: I've been like, Okay, that's cool, we can wait till later.

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Speaker 2: You know. So if he got upset about that, would

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Speaker 4: We really did have good chemistry.

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Speaker 3: At the beginning, you know, and that's kind of what

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Speaker 3: I want to find out a little bit more about.

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Speaker 3: And you know, if there's a good reason why he

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Speaker 4: But you know, I guess we have to find out why.

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Speaker 6: That's such a good point. We're jumping to all of

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Speaker 6: these conclusions. It's been three days. There's a really good

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. Yeah, well we'll try to figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Okay, we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and get you another date if

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Speaker 2: you just don't want one. Okay, all right, this sounds

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Speaker 2: good to me.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Play as song come back, get your first date follow.

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Speaker 1: Up, Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone and she's not getting a

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Speaker 2: call back from a dude named Garrett. So we're gonna

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Speaker 2: see if we can figure out why she's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date when we call him

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Speaker 2: in just a second. But before we do that, Kristin,

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Speaker 2: remind everybody about your date and why you think you're

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So Garrett and I met through mutual friends.

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Speaker 8: We went out on a date because we clucked almost instantly,

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Speaker 8: and we went to a.

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Speaker 4: Concert and after the show, he ghosted me. It's seen

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Speaker 4: three days.

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Speaker 8: I sent him a text he left me read and yeah,

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Speaker 8: I want to figure out why, Like, did I get

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Speaker 8: a little bit too drunk? Was my singing really loud

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Speaker 8: and bad? Or was it just that he was looking

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Speaker 8: to hook up? And I'm not too sure which one

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Speaker 8: it was, but he seemed a little bit upset when

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Speaker 8: and if there's a good reason, then you know, I'd

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Speaker 2: It's only been three days, so you might not be

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted, but you probably are since he read a

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Speaker 2: text and didn't respond. We'll call him right now. Okay

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Speaker 2: you ready? Yeah, okay, all right, here we go. How

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Speaker 2: may I speak to Garrett? Please too? Garrett? How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbell, and I host a radio show

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Speaker 2: called The Jewbill Show. Hi, Garrett. He hosts that show

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Speaker 2: with some friends, and my name's Nina. I'm one of them.

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Speaker 2: In mind Dectoria. Yeah, so there's three people on the

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Speaker 2: phone with you right now. How are you?

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Speaker 10: I'm good? What are you guys calling for?

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Speaker 2: We're calling because we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: somebody who listens.

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Speaker 10: To the show, an email about me about what we do.

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Speaker 2: A segment on the show called the First Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: someone and then you end up ghosting them, that person

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. So you went out with someone and

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Speaker 2: now you're not calling them back, and they want to

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I mean I went out on a date

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Speaker 10: a few dates aft couple of weeks. Is this I

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Speaker 2: All right, well let's see we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: You went to a concert together.

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Speaker 10: I think I know who you're talking about, Kristen, right.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so she emailed us and said that she really

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, you know, she's cool, don't go getting wrong.

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Speaker 10: that was kind of like my main motivation to go

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Speaker 2: If you just wanted to like hook up with someone

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean that's true. I mean I don't know,

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Speaker 10: It's only been like two or three days. But I

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Speaker 10: Well, I mean she was being all flirtatious and you know,

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Speaker 10: it's just it was very clear that she was was

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Speaker 2: Well, thanks for being honest, man, I appreciate it. And

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Speaker 2: now I'll be honest with you. Kristen is actually on

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Speaker 10: She's on the line right now.

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Speaker 2: Ye Hi, how's it going.

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Speaker 4: Nice to hear from you?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I didn't know I would.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: I text you three days ago and you know, I

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Speaker 10: I'm sorry, you know, Look, I'm sorry. You know I've

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Speaker 10: been busy and I did mean text you back. I

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Speaker 10: I'm not trying to be like that guy. But I

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Speaker 10: guess you just I guess you just heard I mean

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Speaker 10: I was looking to hook up and you weren't down,

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Speaker 10: and it just didn't end up going to where I

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Speaker 8: Well, I mean the thing was, like we met through friends,

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Speaker 5: Like I don't understand, like a concert and making an event,

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Speaker 8: Like, if you wanted to hook up, we could have

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Speaker 8: thought it that night when we were just drinking together,

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Speaker 2: Bought concert tickets.

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Speaker 4: You picked me off like we went to a show.

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Speaker 4: I thought, well I were a little more I a girl.

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Speaker 10: I mean, you know, I'm a gentleman in that regard.

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Speaker 5: Gentleman, Well, why do you think because you can't text

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Speaker 5: me back like an adult and say, hey, I had

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Speaker 5: a nice time.

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Speaker 8: But you know, maybe we're not for the same thing,

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Speaker 8: Like you could at least be courteous. Everyone's on their

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Speaker 8: you say you're too googy to respond to a text

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Speaker 8: like that doesn't reply.

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Speaker 10: Well, it's literally been like two three days. I mean,

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Speaker 10: it's not like it's been the.

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Speaker 4: Lead the most obvious. Are you ghosting?

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Speaker 2: What would he say to you that would make you

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Speaker 8: I mean, he could have just been up front, you

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Speaker 8: know and just said hey, like, you know, I'm looking

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Speaker 8: then it's like, okay, well we can't give each other

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Speaker 8: the same thing, have a great you know life.

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Speaker 6: So Christin, if he would have said that upfront, do

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Speaker 6: you think that you would have wanted the same thing

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Speaker 6: in that moment?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, Like, how do I even say that? Like it's

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Speaker 10: supposed to be in podlied.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you can.

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Speaker 4: Like, what's that true?

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Speaker 2: Man, it's tough in these streets.

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Speaker 10: Okay, fine, I want to sleep with you. That's what

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Speaker 10: I wanted out of the day. That's that's it. Are

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Speaker 10: you happy now? I'm there honest.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for your honesty. But yeah, I just you know,

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Speaker 10: Yeah. Well, I mean I've never had a girl take

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Speaker 10: especially after like three days, Like, it's kind of wild.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you want another date, but i'll

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Speaker 2: ask anyway, Garrett, would you like it to go on

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Speaker 2: another date with Kristen? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 10: No, I'm okay, I'm done with this. It's it's all

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Speaker 10: too wild, too much.

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Speaker 2: Well, what if Kristin wants to sleep with you?

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Speaker 10: Then?

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Speaker 2: Would you be cool with it? Yeah?

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Speaker 10: I don't know. I'm not down anymore. It's just the

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Speaker 10: radio called kind of weird.

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Speaker 4: Well, Garrett, how would you feel if I said I

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Speaker 4: actually want to sleep with you, I just didn't want

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Speaker 4: to do it on the first date.

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Speaker 10: Well maybe I would, Yeah, I mean yeah, all of.

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Speaker 5: A sudden, Yeah, I just not not on the first night, So, uh.

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Speaker 2: This is going to happen? Or yeah, are you saying

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Speaker 2: that you want to go out with him again?

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Speaker 5: Still?

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Speaker 2: Of course?

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Speaker 10: Well then I'll text you, okay.

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Speaker 2: All right, I mean I'm taking this as a successful

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Speaker 2: first day follow up. Christin you I think you have

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Speaker 2: another date or I'm not sure. And Garrett, thank you

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Speaker 2: for your time. Please be safe.

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Speaker 10: Thank you.

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