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Speaker 1: Hey guys, I'm Kayleie Shore and this is too much

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Speaker 1: to say out you all right, I'm back in Nashville

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Speaker 1: after going to l A for a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 1: I had a lot of fun. I wrote some really

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Speaker 1: great songs, came back to Nashville and it was exactly

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Speaker 1: like I thought it would be. UM and how I

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Speaker 1: which is really jarring but really fun. And I played

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Speaker 1: a show on Monday this week at this place called

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Speaker 1: Winners and it's a show called Whiskey Jam. They do

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Speaker 1: it every Monday, and it was one of the first

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Speaker 1: shows that was like full capacity. I haven't played with

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Speaker 1: I mean, like who has. But it was really really

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Speaker 1: awesome to get to play songs off the EP that

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Speaker 1: are UM coming up, and then also to play Amy

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Speaker 1: full band for the first time, which is crazy because

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Speaker 1: it's been out since February. So it was really really,

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Speaker 1: really really awesome. And uh, thank you guys so much

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Speaker 1: for all the love on three by three. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait for you to hear the other two. But if

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Speaker 1: you haven't checked it out, I just released a cover's

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Speaker 1: EP of fly By the Chicks. I did three of

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Speaker 1: my favorite songs on that album and if you guys

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Speaker 1: in the description of this podcast. So on this week's episode,

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited because l A came to Nashville and

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Speaker 1: my best friend Cora, who I met, I met here

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Speaker 1: on our chest that say, hey, um do something ridiculous

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Speaker 1: on to share some stories and without any further ado, Cora,

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Speaker 1: Jane Sugarman, everybody, thank you so much. Hi. This is

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Speaker 1: uh the first podcast I've done in quite a while.

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Speaker 1: What was the last one you did? Actually? I think

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Speaker 1: it was also about dating with Susan Ruth Oh fun Yeah,

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Speaker 1: on her podcast called Hey Human. So if you want

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Speaker 1: to listen to my perspective on dating four years ago

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Speaker 1: versus now after this, um, we'll put that like, no,

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Speaker 1: Put that length below unscription. I think if you search

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Speaker 1: cor Sugarman in the iTunes store, it comes up amazing.

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Speaker 1: So what do you think is the main difference between

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Speaker 1: you dating now and four years ago? Aside from you know,

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Speaker 1: If he wants to, he will right. I saw this

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Speaker 1: that is great proof that if he wants to, he will.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, no, dude, I'm fine, Like let's

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00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: just take a shot in whatever. Um, So we have

426
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Speaker 1: a margarita and then we finally get seated at this

427
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Speaker 1: table and there's like a giant ornate skull centerpiece and

428
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 1: and he's like, I'll steal this for you right now,

429
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I don't really that was

430
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 1: in the bathroom. No that I thought that sucking marshals. No,

431
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 1: um no, that would be hilarious. And honestly, maybe I

432
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: should have let him take it because like it would

433
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 1: be of no, it would be no skin off my

434
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 1: back and I'd have a great story. But anyways, the

435
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: day goes on whatever, he ends up like kissing me.

436
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 1: We went to a bar after and he was like

437
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 1: definitely interesting enough that I was like I'm enjoying having

438
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: a conversation with this person. But then he like I

439
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 1: got really handy and we were like in a bar

440
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 1: and like like, I'm so sorry to be so graphic.

441
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: I know that like my aunt listens to this, but

442
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 1: like there wasn't even any tongue involved in the kissing.

443
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 1: And then he just like gets like real handsy, and

444
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,239
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. I mean i'd say

445
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: buy me a drink first, but it's like maybe like

446
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 1: buy me dinner first, you know, or ask you know?

447
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: Or do you mind if I put my hands. So

448
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 1: I literally just like I snacked it away and I

449
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 1: was like, hey, um, let's bring it down a little bit.

450
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: And he just laughed and I was like, it's not fun.

451
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: How old was he? Um? I was twenty five. He

452
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: was probably ok um, But so I just like after that,

453
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, this guy's kind of

454
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: a douche bag. And so he had wanted to go

455
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: to dinner the other night and I ended up for

456
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: the night like two nights later, and I think I

457
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 1: ended up bailing on him to hang out with you

458
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: really love that. And so this is the beginning of

459
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: January and one of the last dates I went on

460
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Speaker 1: before I met Sam my boyfriend. Uh So I was

461
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: like super ready to meet the right guy at that point,

462
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: but he had um like, so I canceled on dinner

463
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: and like we didn't talk. I left l A. I

464
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: think the last day I would have talked to him

465
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: was like maybe like January seventh or something like somewhere

466
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: in that, like you know, first week of January, and

467
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: then um, he texts me. We did not talk at

468
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 1: all between then he texted me on Valentine's Day and

469
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 1: said happy Valentine's Day's smiley face, And I was like,

470
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 1: did you tell everybody in your phone that? Like did

471
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: you single me out? Like was this like your last

472
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 1: ditch effort? What the fuck? It was the most bizarre thing.

473
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 1: So yeah. And then my other l a stories there was,

474
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: um I was at the Sparkled No Vacancy, which is

475
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: like my favorite place, and they're opening backups, so which

476
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 1: is awesome. Um, but there was this guy and he

477
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: was talking to me and I was like, super like

478
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 1: not about it. And when that happens, I typically like

479
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: just lie and and make up a name. Honestly, it's

480
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: usually Aubrey and I tell people that I'm a makeup artist.

481
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: So I'm talking to this guy. I tried to do

482
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 1: that and he was like, so, what's your name? And

483
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: I was like, Aubrey, like or I think I don't

484
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: even think he asked me my name, which should have

485
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: been warning side number one, but oh I'm Aubrey. Like

486
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, what do you do when I'm a

487
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: makeup artist? And he's like, yeah, nice, try I work

488
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: for your agency and I know who you are and

489
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, oh no, And I was like,

490
00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I knew he was probably just like a

491
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: June your assistant agent or whatever, but I was still like,

492
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: that is such a bad look professionally. What an aggressive

493
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: call out though? Yeah, So what's your what are your

494
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: Nashville stories? Well, well, first the other l A one

495
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 1: and this is going to be really quick because it's

496
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: not there's not a lot to it. But I had

497
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: met this guy who is a comedian, and um, and

498
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: that has happened more than once. There's less comedians in Nashville,

499
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: but every guy in l A is a comedian. Every guy. Yeah,

500
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: and or like an aspiring one. No one's more fucked

501
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: up than a comedian. Nobody, And um, we like went

502
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: out and um after we so after the first time

503
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: we hooked up, Um, I found out after the fact

504
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: from our mutual friend that he was in an open

505
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: relationship with his girlfriend that he was living with, living with,

506
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: living with. Oh my god, that happened to me in Nashville.

507
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, So there was this guy and

508
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: we met after a show. We're talking about third Eye

509
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: bline like super like connected with him. I've known his name. Um,

510
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: he's in the industry and does a lot of work

511
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: for people that I know, and we were definitely definitely

512
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: hitting it off. And we're in a bar and like

513
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: one of I'm with one of his friends. He was

514
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: talking and he said something about like, oh, when was

515
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: the last time you were in a relationship, And I

516
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 1: was like, oh, like, I've been single for like nine months, yeah,

517
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:25,959
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, I've been single for like

518
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: three years. And then I look at the guy was

519
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: talking to you, trying to like, you know, get some info.

520
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, so when was your last relationship, sir?

521
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: And he was like will um, I'm still in one.

522
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: And I was like oh, and he was like but

523
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: like it's an open relationship, like and he kept saying

524
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: open relationship, okay. And so I knew he had social

525
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: media because like I've known him because of what he

526
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: did in the industry, Like I've seen him on you know,

527
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: posting and stuff. And so I go to look at

528
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: his Instagram and it's not there, and I was like,

529
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 1: oh no, but like again, given what he did for work,

530
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: it would make zero sense that he deleted social media.

531
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,479
Speaker 1: And so I was like, war is this guy? And

532
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: then I looked um like tried to find other profiles

533
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: and like I knew like one of my friends had

534
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 1: worked with him. So I went and I saw that

535
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: he was tagged, and I clicked his profile and it

536
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: was like user not found, but it had his things.

537
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: So and then he blocked me just so you wouldn't

538
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: see his girlfriend, no, his wife and children. And I

539
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: went to his Facebook and because I mean, I couldn't

540
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: see his Instagram. So then I was all in on this.

541
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: I was like, what the funk? And I was so

542
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 1: horrified and like looking at his social media and on

543
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: Facebook and his wife's stuff, I don't think they were

544
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: in an open relationship. And why was he calling it

545
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: a relationship and not a marriage in the marriage? Why

546
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: did he block me? But he didn't want me to

547
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: see that because he said open. It was like probably

548
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: the kids, and it was just the most weird thing. Ever.

549
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: He didn't block me for any reason. I mean, he

550
00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: was definitely still trying to get with me by the

551
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: time I the bar that night, and I was just

552
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: like so unenthused with that. And then I was playing

553
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: a show. Um, I was playing the Opry and I

554
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 1: saw his wife and I was just like oh girl,

555
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: and she was so nice to me, and I was like,

556
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if it's my place to

557
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: say that, if anybody has an opinion, I mean, I

558
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: don't know, it's not my fucking business. And nothing happened,

559
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: Like I think, I don't know. I always think about

560
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: like what would I would what I do in that situation.

561
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: I think if a guy had lied to me and

562
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: we'd like hooked up, I would call the wife really

563
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, if there were kids involved, Like that's true,

564
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: I probably would to Definitely, this is just going way

565
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: down the rabbit. Hopefully I can give your wife an

566
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: STD you know what I mean Like that, that's when

567
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: you need to know about that's just irresponsible on so

568
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: many levels from a medical standpoint. No, no, no, no, sir.

569
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 1: So anyways, that was bizarre. Yeah, I mean I only

570
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: found out about this guy's girlfriend because my friend who

571
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: introduced us sent me a screenshot of his text to

572
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: her being like, yo, bro, talk, Cora knows I'm in

573
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: an open relationship, right, No, that's your responsibility to communicate,

574
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: And like, I don't I don't judge anybody for that.

575
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: Like I know that polyamory is like a very real ship. Um,

576
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: I don't think it's for me. No, I just I don't.

577
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: And I and by not thinking it's for me, I

578
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: also don't think that dating somebody who's who's in that

579
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: is for me. Because even if you're it's just you

580
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: and that one person, yeah, they're still polyamorous and so

581
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: my association you are as well. So that is so true.

582
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,719
Speaker 1: And I really you know, I actually thought that I

583
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: was starting to like this guy and I was starting

584
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: to get really jealous of this other girl, and it

585
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: was just such a mess. But that's like, yeah, and

586
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: then by him not communicating with you about openly, like

587
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: if you'd know him before the first eight you might

588
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: have either not gone or gone in with way lowered expectations.

589
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,719
Speaker 1: But that's why it is absolutely responsibility to communicate that

590
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: that ship is so important. And that was an l

591
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: A right. Yeah. Yeah, I feel like that's definitely more

592
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: popular out there. Like I know a lot of people

593
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: who are just like, oh yeah, open relationship, and I'm like,

594
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: that's so cool. I honestly like I want to like

595
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: tear my hair out every time I have to read

596
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: somebody's bio that says they're ethically nonmonogamous. Oh my god,

597
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: that's such an l A thing ethically non monogamous or like,

598
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: there's nothing worse than when you start talking to someone

599
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: on like tender Bumbler and this happens all the time. Um,

600
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: and I don't know if it's just that I give

601
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: off a vibe or something, but they're like, oh yeah,

602
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: like so by the way, like I mean, like it's

603
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: totally cool if not. But like me and my girlfriend

604
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: are like booking for somebody and I'm like, oh no,

605
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to be the third wheel. It's also

606
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: like tricycles are unnecessary. There's also a three sap called field.

607
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm not a sponsor, but or they don't sponsor me

608
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: something for you don't Oh my god. Anyways, so it's

609
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: been it's f E E L d um according to

610
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: my other friend who is a comedian, so um, but yeah,

611
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: Nashville Nashville's Nashville is a mess. And so I actually

612
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: I have more l A x is now than I

613
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: do Nashville x is because my Nashville fun boy moved

614
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 1: to l A and he became an l A wild

615
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: He's always had l A fun boy energy, so like Honestly,

616
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: I'm happy that he's able to live life as his

617
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: truest self. But yeah, I mean his his Instagram has

618
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: gotten progressively do sheer as time has gone on. But yeah,

619
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: I think the to sum up the epitome of dating

620
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: in Nashville, though, Uh, I have the ZP coming out

621
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: and it is I'm so excited about it. But there's

622
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: a song on there that I wrote with my boyfriend Sam,

623
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: and then there's a song about him so and him

624
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: and Candy actually both have that because the um so,

625
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: him and Candy both have songs on my project that

626
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: they wrote and and they have ones that are about them.

627
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: But I hope you guys enjoyed this week's episode. Thank

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00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 1: you so much for tuning in. If you have anything

629
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: else you'd like to hear me and Cora talk about

630
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: for thirty minutes, please let me know. Um you can

631
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: tweet me at Kaylee Shore and thank you guys so

632
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: much for listening, and stay tuned for the EP I'm

633
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: so excited it's coming soon. You guys are so great.

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Speaker 1: I'm Kaylie Shore and this is too much to say

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Speaker 1: asking questions, so turn it out to you