1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: You don't hear me concession. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: I can't take back el arm mouse speak. 3 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: We got a text to seventy five nine two that says, 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: when I was young and broke, I bought a sofa 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: from a used furniture store but had no way to 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 1: get the sofa home. Got so I went over to 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: a used car lot a couple of blocks away and 8 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: took a pickup truck for a quote test drive dot 9 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: dot smart. I don't see anything wrong with that at all. 10 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, did the salesperson come and help you 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: load it? I just think the couch show. Yeah, I 12 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: think test drives. You should be allowed to try out, 13 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: like all of the things that you would normally use 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: that car for. You take a girl on a date 15 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,919 Speaker 1: in it, and uber driver for a night, cry for 16 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: an hour about where your life has taken you. Yeah, 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: I don't actually need to drive this. 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: Can you just park it for a minute? Yeah. 19 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 1: Look, on this segment, we let you test drive your 20 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: secrets to see how the room reacts, and if it 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: goes well, maybe it's safe to share your confession with 22 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: more people. It's no harm, no found. We have one 23 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: person who wants to test drive the mass speaker She's 24 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: chosen to go by Amanda today. So Amanda, welcome to 25 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: the show. 26 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 2: Hi, Hi Amanda, Hello, are you ready? 27 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: You buckled up for this? 28 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 2: Oh boy? 29 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: Thank you? 30 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: Right? Maybe we need to buckle up with a response 31 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: like that. 32 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: We're ready to tap the brakes if we have to. 33 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: But the voice changer is on. You are the mass speaker. 34 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: Whenever you're ready, let's hear your confession. 35 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: Okay, well, so so funny with the voice what's going on? 36 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 2: I'm just like bringing out what you're gonna say. So 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: for a long time, I never really knew how to 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: tell a guy that I wasn't interested in, you know, 39 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: like if we had a bad date, you know, because 40 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: it's weird to just go like, Hi, I didn't enjoy 41 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 2: our date, or we're not a fit, or it's not you, 42 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 2: it's me. Yeah exactly. 43 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean there's a lot of fear of 44 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: just confrontation and directness in this world right now? Does 45 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: that make sense accepting to say, hey, I don't want that, 46 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: you know, it's not mean, it just feels me. Have 47 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: you ever said that to somebody brook before. 48 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 2: That we're not a good fit? Yeah, Oh for sure. 49 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: At one time a guy agreed with. 50 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: Me as you hate me, I hate you perfect. That 51 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: usually never happens, so I can understand why it's awkward 52 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: for you, Amanda. 53 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I mean like, I don't want to make 54 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: them feeling secure because I know it makes me feel 55 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: bad if a guy turns me down. So what do 56 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 2: you do instead, Well, rather than dost them, I sort 57 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: of made a new strategy strategy. 58 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: A new strategy to ditch a guy after you went out. 59 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: With him, without hurting his feelings, but still letting him down. 60 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm very curious. I need this in my life. 61 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: Okay, So if I decide I'm really not into him 62 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: and I don't want to see him again, I'll send 63 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: him a text afterward that says, hey, thanks for hanging 64 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: out tonight. My seat is fifty dollars an hour. No, 65 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: oh my feet, Oh. 66 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I send them like an invoice. 67 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: Yeah that's what it sounds. Yeah, I'll send like a 68 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 2: link to my Vendo with a little heart emoji. 69 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 70 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: So you're making them think they accidentally. 71 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Hired some type of date a worker. 72 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: No, I mean it's not like that. It's more just like, 73 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: my time is valuable. 74 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: Understandable. 75 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: That less mean I said that. 76 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: I don't think it's mean. It's more like self embarrassed. 77 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: I'd be embarrassed. 78 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: I can tell you you're the friends. Most guys would 79 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: be like, oh, there's a confusion, and so BAILI immediately 80 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: back off. Now the thirsty guys will go okay, yeah, 81 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: isn't that a problem if guys like are paint dudes? 82 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: Anybody actually paid that's the question. 83 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess like maybe forty percent of the 84 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: time they actually do you. 85 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: Know you're a good date. 86 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 2: I think you are Okay. They have the option and 87 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 2: they can say no and then they didn't get hurt 88 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 2: and then we're done. 89 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: Okay, So so forty percent of the time they actually 90 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: pay it. Sixty percent of the time, what do they do? 91 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: Oh, they freak out, They're like what the hell is this? 92 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be embarrassed. I'd be like, oh my gosh, 93 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I didn't know you were a lady 94 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: of the night. Or it's going to pay you extra 95 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: just for your trouble you because that are you worried 96 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: about what they tell their friends? You work? Again? 97 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're always on the clock. You're relentless. 98 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: They're runner any problems with that, Amanda, Not so far. 99 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: I mean, look, I really do want a genuine connection. 100 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: I do. These are just only in the cases where 101 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 2: it really doesn't work out, and I just don't want 102 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 2: to hurt their feeling. 103 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: You're not just matching swiping right on every guy and 104 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: sending all of them like Okay, this isn't a hustle. 105 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: This is just like, Okay, it didn't work out. 106 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 2: Now it's time. It feels like both to me, and 107 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 2: that's okay. I mean it feels like both. 108 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: Really, honestly, it sounds a little bit jealous that she 109 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: didn't think of this first. 110 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: They're paying you forty percent of the time. Like how 111 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 2: much is that bad to ask? Like? How much are 112 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 2: you making? 113 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: I thought you said something fifty bucks an hour is bad. 114 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 2: That's a two hour day and I make a hundred bucks. Yeah. 115 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: Wow, that's kind of like the price of dinner in anywhere? 116 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: Are you paying for the dinner? No? They gets a 117 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: privilege of my sparkling personality. God right, I feel like 118 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 2: there's some Reddit thread somewhere. 119 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: Or some Facebook where all of these dudes are talking. 120 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: Behind your Wow, it's been good so far. And I 121 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: mean if anyone else wants to, you know, use my 122 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 2: tips for the trade, like by all means, okay, anyone listening. 123 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: You see why it's anonymous. Yeah, I just I have 124 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: good intentions. I just don't want to hurt people's feelings 125 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 2: and I want to keep it moving, and you want 126 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: to make some money in the process. 127 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: Exactly. Guy thinks he made the decision. That is quite 128 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: the confession, exactly. Thank you for coming on and sharing 129 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: that with us. Now, how much do we owe you 130 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: for your time? 131 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 2: I like you guys, so you don't have to pay me. 132 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: Thanks, Amanda. That's your mass speaker text in seventy five 133 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: nine two. If you have a confession that you've been 134 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,239 Speaker 1: holding on to, we can hide your identity, mask your voice, 135 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: and make you the next one. Your phone tap is 136 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: coming 137 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 2: Up, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.