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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject my mama versus my wife. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I met my wife four years ago, and

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Speaker 1: I've been sneaking around behind her back since I met her.

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Speaker 1: I haven't been cheating. I'm sure that's what you're thinking,

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Speaker 1: but I've been seeing my mama on the side. When

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Speaker 1: I first met my wife, I explained to her that

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Speaker 1: my dad passed away in twenty twenty and since then

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Speaker 1: I've stepped up to take care of my mama and

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Speaker 1: make sure she's good. At the time, my wife understood

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Speaker 1: where I was coming from because she's a big She's

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Speaker 1: big on family too. A few weeks into dating, she

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Speaker 1: told me that she hates mama's boys. I already knew

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Speaker 1: I wanted to marry this woman, so I downplayed everything

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Speaker 1: I did for my mama. I lied about taking my

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Speaker 1: mama to dinner, or taking her to the movies, and

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Speaker 1: shopping with her for hours on the weekend. My girl

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Speaker 1: thought I was at the gym or doing hard yard work,

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Speaker 1: or doing yard work or whatever other lie I told her.

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Speaker 1: She trusted me and never questioned me. My girl met

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Speaker 1: my mama and they started hanging out before the wedding.

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Speaker 1: I knew I was in trouble. Mama told her about

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Speaker 1: a movie that we saw together, and my girl had

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Speaker 1: been asking me to see that movie with her. I

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Speaker 1: told her that my mom had it wrong, and I

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Speaker 1: never saw that movie with her, and then I had

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Speaker 1: to go back to the movies to see it with

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Speaker 1: my girl. Now that we've been married for four months,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to sneak out to see my mom. I

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Speaker 1: cannot hide how much my Mama calls me, and I

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Speaker 1: can't explain why I FaceTime my mom so much. I'm

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Speaker 1: the youngest and I am her favorite son. I'd love

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Speaker 1: for her to live with us, but here to ask

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Speaker 1: my wife because I can tell and since that she's

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Speaker 1: tired of my mama? What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: How can I keep both of the special women in

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Speaker 1: my life happy?

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Speaker 3: Woo?

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah exactly, Steve. I know that your mom

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Speaker 1: and everything, but you do realize that your wife comes first,

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Speaker 1: right You guys have only been married for four months.

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Speaker 1: Your initial obligation after you took those marriage vows is

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Speaker 1: to your wife. And now should you help your mom?

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Speaker 1: Should you be there whenever you can? Absolutely yes? But

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Speaker 1: can you Will you be there every second of the

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Speaker 1: day for your mom? The answer to that, of course,

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Speaker 1: is no. You're only one person and you're a husband.

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Speaker 1: A husband first, you can't keep doing this. The way

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Speaker 1: you're going about it is crazy and I'm sure very stressful,

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Speaker 1: and it keeps you sneaking out and lying to your

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Speaker 1: wife and making your mom feel some kind of way.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure what about when or if you have kids

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Speaker 1: of your own, then what are you going to do?

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Speaker 1: This is why your wife said she hates Mama's boys

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Speaker 1: because they do stupid stuff like this. You say you

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Speaker 1: can since your wife is tired of all of this,

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Speaker 1: but really she's tired of you, okay, And how you're

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Speaker 1: handling this situation? You should get your siblings together, let them,

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Speaker 1: you know, help out and help your mom. Sometimes what

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Speaker 1: are they doing? I bet they're spending time with their

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Speaker 1: wives and family, right, But if everyone chips in helps

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Speaker 1: take care of your mom, you would have more time

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Speaker 1: to spend with your wife. You guys could rotate these responsibilities.

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Speaker 1: You might be the favorite son, But why should you

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Speaker 1: bear the bulk of the responsibility with your mom?

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Speaker 4: Steve, this is a disaster my mama versus my wife.

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Speaker 4: It shouldn't even be the case. See son, listen to me.

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Speaker 4: You're not just the end of the letter. The question

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Speaker 4: is how do I how can I keep both of them,

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Speaker 4: the special women in my life happy?

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Speaker 3: That ain't your job. I'm sorry, that ain't your job.

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Speaker 4: That was your dad's job who passed away. What's to

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Speaker 4: protect provide for his wife? He's gone regrettably so and

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Speaker 4: send my condolences to you that. I'm not trying to

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Speaker 4: say that in a harsh way, because Lord knows I

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Speaker 4: know the loss of both parents, So I'm not saying

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Speaker 4: that to you, but I'm saying, brother, that was his job.

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Speaker 4: Your job is to protect, profess and provide for your wife.

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Speaker 4: What you're trying to do, you're not going to accomplish.

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Speaker 4: And then secondly, man, stop talking all this about your mama.

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Speaker 4: This you you a mama's boy. You are a mama's boy, period.

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Speaker 4: It is hard, oh, to be a mama's boy and

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Speaker 4: a husband them too do is not work, man, That

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Speaker 4: don't work for nobody.

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Speaker 3: It ain't gonna work for your mama. And I got

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Speaker 3: news for you. It show ain't gonna work for your wife.

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Speaker 4: Because a wife requires too much, and as she should.

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Speaker 4: A wife needs your attention and oftentimes your undivided attention

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Speaker 4: and you can't split that up with other people. Look, man,

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Speaker 4: if y'all gonna have a family, you gotta get busy.

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Speaker 4: And you just you know, man, you do you do

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Speaker 4: real silly stuff. Man, you just a how old are you?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 4: That's what I need to know. You know, I stepped

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Speaker 4: up take care of my mama and make sure you're good.

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Speaker 4: At the time, my wife understood why I was coming

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Speaker 4: from because she big on family too. Yeah that's but

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Speaker 4: she didn't know this though. You know, a few weeks

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Speaker 4: sitting to Dayton, she told me she hate mama boys. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I already knew I wanted to marry this woman. So

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Speaker 4: I downplayed everything, and so you know, after you downplayed everything,

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Speaker 4: but she was down playing it, so you could continue. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I lied about taking my mama and to dinner, taking

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Speaker 4: her to the movie, shopping with the five hours on

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Speaker 4: the weekend. Who do that with they mama?

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on?

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Speaker 3: So what man do that with his mama?

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour today Strawberry Letters. Subject

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Speaker 1: is my mama versus my wife? My mama versus my wife.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is my mama Versus my wife.

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Speaker 3: My mama versus my wife Thailand.

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Speaker 4: This letter should be mama's boy trying to be a

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Speaker 4: hoosban and it's not going to work. And the reason

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Speaker 4: is not going to work is because the things that

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Speaker 4: you are doing for your mother is taking away time

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Speaker 4: from stuff you could be when with and for your wife.

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Speaker 4: Now you open up the letter correctly. I see now

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Speaker 4: why you said this. I met my wife four years ago,

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Speaker 4: and I've been sneaking around behind her back since I

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Speaker 4: met her. Oh, I ain't been cheating. I'm sure that's

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Speaker 4: what you're thinking. But I've been seeing my mama on

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Speaker 4: the side right there. That's the whole letter right there.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad you said that, because see, that's what's wrong.

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Speaker 4: Do you know something, young man, that you are really

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Speaker 4: actually seeing your mama on the side. You know, I

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Speaker 4: ain't never I've never ever in my life heard a

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Speaker 4: man say that.

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Speaker 3: I'm seeing my mama on the side.

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Speaker 4: I've been sneaking around behind my wife's back with my mama.

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Speaker 4: I've been I've been seeing my mama on the side.

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Speaker 4: But do you know how that sound?

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Speaker 3: That don't sound what's the word of that don't sound right?

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Speaker 4: Kind of got a little incense tone any and I'm

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Speaker 4: just saying it just got a little incense tone inny.

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Speaker 4: Hey dog, that's this this letter. And then you go

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Speaker 4: on to justify what you've been doing. I explained that

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Speaker 4: my dad passed away in twenty twenty and you wanted

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Speaker 4: to step up make sure your mama was good. Now,

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Speaker 4: your girl understood that didn't begin it because she big

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Speaker 4: on family too. But a few weeks in the day

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Speaker 4: and she told me she hates mama's boys because she

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Speaker 4: saw it coming. She had a feeling, and you have

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Speaker 4: not let her down. So you knew you wanted to

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Speaker 4: marry this woman. So you started down playing everything you

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Speaker 4: did for your mama, And then here we go. I

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Speaker 4: lied about taking my mama to dinner, taking her to

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Speaker 4: the movies, and shopping with her for hours on the weekend.

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Speaker 4: My girl thought I was out to gym or doing

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Speaker 4: yard work or whatever other lie I told her.

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Speaker 3: She trusted me and never questioned me. Hey man, what.

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Speaker 4: You take your mama to dinner, You go to movies

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Speaker 4: with your mama, and you spend hours on the week

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Speaker 4: in shopping with her. That's why you said you seeing

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Speaker 4: your mama on the side, because that's what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 4: Demn me girl met your mama and they started hanging

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Speaker 4: out for the wed and I knew I was in trouble.

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Speaker 4: Mama told her about a movie we saw together. My

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Speaker 4: girl been asked me to see that movie with her.

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Speaker 4: I told her my mama had it wrong and never

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Speaker 4: saw that movie with her, and I had to go

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Speaker 4: back to the movies with my.

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Speaker 3: Girl to see it again.

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Speaker 4: Now that we been married for foremost, it's hard to

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Speaker 4: sneak out to see my mom. Boy, what what's wrong

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Speaker 4: with you?

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Speaker 3: You you hear how you sound?

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Speaker 4: Now that we been married, it's hard to sneak out

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Speaker 4: and see my mom. I can't hide how much my

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Speaker 4: mama calls me, and I can't explain why I facetied

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Speaker 4: my mom. So I'm like, man, boyd hey, man, your

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Speaker 4: marriage is doomed. Your marriage is doomed because you you

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Speaker 4: really all see in your mama. And I've never heard

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Speaker 4: another man say that I'm seeing my mama on the side.

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Speaker 3: But that's what you're doing. Man.

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Speaker 4: I'm the youngest and I'm her favorite. So I was

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Speaker 4: my mama's youngest. I thought I was her favorite son.

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Speaker 4: But me and my mama wasn't dating. I ain't nothing

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Speaker 4: my life to my mama to move. Come on, let

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Speaker 4: me and you go down to the movies. I mean,

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Speaker 4: it's okay if you did it for your mama every

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Speaker 4: now and then or something like that. Ain't nothing wrong

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Speaker 4: with take your mama to dinner. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 4: Ain't no running wrong with take y'all. I used to

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Speaker 4: take my mama shopping all the time. But you dog,

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Speaker 4: I'm scared. And then and then she didn't guess what

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Speaker 4: I'd love for her to live with us. Boy, you

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Speaker 4: done lost your line. You want to move your mama

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Speaker 4: in your house?

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Speaker 2: Boy?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with you? What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 4: And I could tell I'm scared to ask my wife

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Speaker 4: because I can tell since that she's tired of mama.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she tired of you. Mom.

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Speaker 4: It's sick and tired of your mama. I'm tired of

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Speaker 4: your mama. I ain't never met him. The problem is

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Speaker 4: you seeing your mama on the side. Brother, let me

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Speaker 4: explain something to you. There's no solution to this. You

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Speaker 4: will not be married to this woman. Law because guess

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Speaker 4: what she is going to find out about all this?

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell you why. Because soon as the

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Speaker 4: mama thank you then came between you and her, the

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Speaker 4: mama gonna get.

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Speaker 3: Rid of you.

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Speaker 1: The mama is gonna get rid of him, you're saying.

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Speaker 3: The mama gonna get rid of her, Oh, the wife,

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Speaker 3: soon as she finds out that you the reason.

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Speaker 4: He ain't coming by no more, He ain't calling, he

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Speaker 4: ain't going to dinner, he ain't.

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Speaker 3: Doing now.

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Speaker 4: Because she done married the wrong man, because you ain't

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Speaker 4: her man. You your mama's boy. That's why she hates

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Speaker 4: and that is more important to you than anything. And

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Speaker 4: until you put your wife first, as the Bible says,

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Speaker 4: leave all others and cleave only onto her.

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Speaker 3: Well, bro, you gotta twist it man. Good luck.

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Speaker 4: Man. This ain't gonna work. Hey man, about two years

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Speaker 4: from now, write me back. Let me know where you're

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Speaker 4: living at now.

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Speaker 1: Where is his's siblings?

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Speaker 3: Where are they now?

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Speaker 4: Don't got nothing to do with this? They cool because

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Speaker 4: he ain't got to worry about nothing yet in the

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Speaker 4: help all right.

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