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Speaker 2: I wonder if some people had tickets in they're like, Nope,

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Speaker 4: So I feel like all I've been doing lately, and by.

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Speaker 3: Lately, I mean like the last five to seven years,

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Speaker 3: It's kind of my second job. And you know, we've

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Speaker 3: seen the changes and the trends evolve. We've talked about

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Speaker 3: on the show. You know, do you give a cash gift?

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Speaker 3: Do you still stick with the registry?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 4: And I think think things have evolved.

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Speaker 3: So one trend I have noticed is that not a

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Speaker 5: Out of town.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to lug that whole box home.

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Speaker 3: But I know, you know, for the Nanas and the Aunties,

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Speaker 4: I will always give cash for a wedding.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend always wants to send the cash via Venmo

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Speaker 3: but I know some people are doing this. It just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I send people money like when they when

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Speaker 2: I think it's still at a little informal. It's like,

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Speaker 2: and it takes two seconds and there's no real effort involved.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think we're there yet for weddings.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: Now, there were people in between the at the wedding

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Speaker 4: Then I'm like, you don't need to just mail it after.

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Speaker 2: As long as you do it, because trust me, we

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Speaker 2: Everyone remembers the people who didn't give gifts. Right or wrong,

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Speaker 4: I've noticed that I haven't really noticed that.

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Speaker 3: And for friends that I've heard talk crap about like

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Speaker 2: Met it, And well, I don't think that we should

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Speaker 2: Like I've heard We've been over this a million times,

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's not my job to pay for myself at your wedding.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: I do think people will judge you based on what

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Speaker 1: Like my mom is like this.

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Speaker 2: My mom my mom is given to cousins graduations and

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Speaker 2: that's a big one. The thank you is a big

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Speaker 2: things I think people consider. But I don't know that

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Speaker 2: a zel. You can't just zell. I can just zell

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Speaker 3: I don't love it. And well, by the way, I

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Speaker 3: do always give more if I have a date with me,

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Speaker 3: regardless you. I don't think you should pay for plates you.

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Speaker 2: Give on behalf of because there were two of you. Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I think that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: Pete, would you be You're the only married person in

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Speaker 5: I've had people do that. Really.

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Speaker 7: A family friend actually did because she lives in Florida

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Speaker 7: and she could have go to my veigas wedding. I

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Speaker 7: I get the feeling I wouldn't do it personally, I'm

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Speaker 4: We're Shelley.

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Speaker 3: But you know, I just I know it's hard, and

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Speaker 3: But I don't know if I'm here this guess what's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't put money in the envelope because I think

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Speaker 2: what you do because you're right. I mean, everyone, that

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Speaker 1: But like, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: That's what you say, like, hey, do you get Myzell?

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Speaker 7: Like you know what I mean, Like you feel silly.

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Speaker 7: But I can also argue right and say that some

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Speaker 7: It's called honeymoon fund, and some people will give their

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Speaker 2: Is none of the same almost almost kind of you're saying,

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Speaker 2: that's how I want you to give it, Like yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, yeah, that's a nice thing to do.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a nice thing to do if you're

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Speaker 2: it's informal because you're saying do it this way.

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Speaker 5: I agree.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's also tacky to like put your your cash

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, people do that now.

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Speaker 8: They'll put like happy birthday to me, and then they'll

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Speaker 5: Corner like that's a tag.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, No, I don't know, but actually I don't care

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Speaker 8: how you give me the money. Okay, cash app means it,

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Speaker 1: It just seems like I know how fast I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I get on my app boom boom

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Speaker 2: boom here So I don't know, here's two hundred bucks whatever.

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Speaker 2: It just seems so sort of like an afterthought, you

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Speaker 8: What do you guys do with the cards? After Paullem?

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Speaker 8: Do you used to have your wedding cards?

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 7: I keep all my cards Birthday, I mean, I add

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Speaker 7: I like to look at that stuff later, So be classy.

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Speaker 4: Cards are expensive too, I got to that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, ninety nine cents.

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Speaker 2: Last card I bought was seven dollars.

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Speaker 8: I know I went against girl cold, but I still

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Speaker 1: Wow? Wow? Yeah? Wow, Kiki? What do you judge? Kiki?

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Speaker 5: You know how I feel about this girl.

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Speaker 1: This is what you gotta do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not giving up my footage.

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Speaker 2: and it's motion activated. Now that's how you find out.

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Speaker 2: You set up your own surveillance. Do not rely on

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Speaker 5: I've seen the movies.

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Speaker 1: I have too.

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Speaker 2: Can take let NBC episodes have started and ended this way.

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Speaker 8: Yes, if you think your man is cheating while you're

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Speaker 2: I think you're on your own to come up with

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Speaker 8: Like you can't say I enable men and I'm the problem. No,

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Speaker 5: You know around.

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Speaker 8: I would not give up this footach it can give

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Speaker 8: You're just a neighbor across the street. That's not go

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Speaker 2: Someone just Cli'm assuming it's me that someone just called

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Speaker 4: I heard, sorry about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get off your phone.

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Speaker 8: I think they're talking to the listener that wrote in

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Speaker 1: Well, you're wrong, you're wrong not to give it to someone.

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Speaker 8: I guess I agree. Okay, Caitlyn, let me let me

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Speaker 1: Thank you. We're back. A trail cams is what they're

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Speaker 4: Okay, not a lot of wildlife.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the same. Everyone knew what I was

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Speaker 2: talking about. Everybody knows them. Just go to mass Pro

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Speaker 5: Have you done this before?

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Speaker 2: It's not I don't have a lot of trees in

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, come up with your own method. If

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Speaker 8: I don't know what in there that Jack told her that, yes,

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Speaker 8: you're out the sign, do not involve me in your drama.

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Speaker 1: But caln you say you say that?

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Speaker 5: What I say that?

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Speaker 3: If a woman who is distraught shows up at my

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Speaker 4: Sorry, go off on your.

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Speaker 5: Own, invite her inside. We're gonna have a nice.

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Speaker 4: Open some wine. No, you're doing wine because yeah, maybe

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Speaker 4: I don't know. We need we need to.

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Speaker 3: Drink for this one, honey, because he's cheating and already knew.

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Speaker 5: But what if he comes back with the knife.

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Speaker 3: Then I I know that I can sleep because I

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Speaker 2: We don't, we don't. We don't know until we knew,

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Speaker 2: Like we don't know for a fact. We had to

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Speaker 2: We had to go do all this stuff. It wasn't

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Speaker 2: I'm personally involved and I'm not gonna tell you.

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Speaker 3: I think the problem with our world today is that

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Speaker 8: I don't know, just my my opinion, because if it

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Speaker 1: But if it was me, I know.

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Speaker 2: I think we want a reactive world where people do

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Speaker 3: Fear you cannot not do something that's good because you're

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Like, you have to live

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Speaker 4: your life, be a good person.

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Speaker 1: It's my time, it's my time. Yeah, that's where you

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I'm a bad person for not

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Speaker 1: I don't think that makes it. I don't think that.

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Speaker 1: But you just said to be a good person. If

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Speaker 3: It, if you define be a good person, I'm not

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Speaker 9: Call me.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's very upsetting. Sorry sometime. Hey Jack, what's

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Hey Jack?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you heard Kieky's court Here, Basically, a woman

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Speaker 2: And turns out she doesn't want to be involved, but

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Speaker 2: It does appear the dude is cheating. What do you

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I I'm back and forth. But if it was me.

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Speaker 9: I don't know. I originally said to stay out of it,

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Speaker 9: they in the notes told the person to keep the food,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe the neighbor can tiper off or something, but I

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Speaker 2: don't know. It makes me so uncomfortable. Someone texted, this

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Speaker 2: is how you wind up on first forty eight. It's true.

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Speaker 2: I've seen it. I'm serious, Jack, Thank you, have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Thank you to cause you gotta remember people

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Speaker 1: G yep, you got me. You know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I'm a bad person. I'm wrong. They're

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Speaker 2: a bad person. They're gonna drag you into it. They're

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Speaker 2: gonna do all kinds of things we're expecting everyone's going

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Speaker 2: guys are the jury eight five five five five Cam, Hi, Hi, Cam.

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Speaker 2: You say tell the neighbor.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I say what you say about how it could

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Speaker 4: But I feel like that's like you actually like send

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Speaker 5: But I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like I'm

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Speaker 4: I was in that situation, I would want somebody to

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Speaker 5: Hmm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to think of a way that

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Speaker 2: Because I agree if I know someone's being cheated on

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Speaker 8: Me, because what if they work it out, like we've

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Speaker 8: I'm the nosy neighbor that was medaling.

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Speaker 2: Or you know, Yeah, it's my neighbor too. It's not

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Speaker 2: like it's it's not like it's a stranger. I mean,

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Speaker 3: Well with that logic, the wife could do something to

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Speaker 3: you for not helping her.

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Speaker 5: If we're you know, I mean, everybody gonnakill me. You

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Speaker 2: You. But I guess what I'm saying is if you

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Speaker 2: and Kim, thank you so much, have a good damn

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Speaker 2: glad you call.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: What I'm saying is why is it Why is the

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Speaker 2: neighbor's responsibility to be involved in this thing? If you

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Speaker 2: catch him, right you in chat GPT, like why why

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Speaker 2: you gotta dragged me into that?

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Speaker 1: I set up your own camera, But.

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Speaker 5: You know I do. I see what Kayln is saying,

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Speaker 5: like you want somebody to help us.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, girl, like I've been cheated on and

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Speaker 3: I mean to you know, so like I know how

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Speaker 5: And another thing, sometimes you don't need confirmation.

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Speaker 8: If chat GPT told you and you're it's your woman's

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Speaker 8: it's a wish and told you that he was girl.

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Speaker 5: He's cheating. You don't need my footage, go ahead and divorce,

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Speaker 5: and you already know, you already know. That's how I

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Speaker 2: I'm maybe if I saw it, like if I were

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Speaker 2: maybe I'd say, maybe I'd put a little note on

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Speaker 2: her thing and be like, I don't know, maybe maybe

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Speaker 2: Wednesday's around one o'clock, you should stop by your house.

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Speaker 2: There's gotta be a way that I can help without

443
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Speaker 2: implicating myself because I don't trust anybody.

444
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Speaker 1: Hey, Melissa, this happened to you.

445
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Speaker 5: Uh oh yeah.

446
00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,320
Speaker 11: So I had a neighbor reached out on Facebook and

447
00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:27,080
Speaker 11: she asked if I could check my ring cameras because

448
00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,520
Speaker 11: she knew I had them set up. And it was

449
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Speaker 11: months later and I went back months to go find

450
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Speaker 11: that footage and my husband was like, yeah, I actually

451
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Speaker 11: saw a couple of cars pull into the driveway. She

452
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Speaker 11: was in the hospital at the time, and she reached

453
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Speaker 11: out to me and we were like, yeah, he was

454
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Speaker 11: having cars coming and out of the driveway.

455
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Speaker 4: At Dirty Dog.

456
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Speaker 1: She's in the hospital.

457
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Speaker 11: Yes, she was in the hospital, and it was very

458
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Speaker 11: sad because but we we kind of.

459
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Speaker 4: Played it like I think it was his family.

460
00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,680
Speaker 5: Also, you covered for him, we.

461
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Speaker 10: Did a little bit.

462
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Speaker 11: I was like, I don't know, there was this black car,

463
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,800
Speaker 11: there was a white one.

464
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I see both sides of this, I really do.

466
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Speaker 2: But I'm also not trying to die. So thank you, Melissa,

467
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Speaker 2: have a good day.

468
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Speaker 5: You too. Bye.

469
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Speaker 8: That husband needs to pay them some you know, they

470
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Speaker 8: kept them right right right, they did above and beyond

471
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Speaker 8: for him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or or you could we've had this kind of

473
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Speaker 2: conversation before. You could go to the husband and be like, look, oh,

474
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Speaker 2: hombrol asked me for some information. I didn't give it

475
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Speaker 2: to her, but I went and looked, and I think,

476
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Speaker 2: I don't know what you're up to, but you need

477
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Speaker 2: you need to fix it. I don't want anything to

478
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Speaker 2: do with this, but I'm just telling you right now,

479
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Speaker 2: she's asking questions. She wants me to get involved. I

480
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,960
Speaker 2: don't want to be involved. Handle your business, or I'm

481
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Speaker 2: turning this stuff over. You could do something now that's

482
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Speaker 2: more confrontational, right, But I mean, at least at least

483
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Speaker 2: it's like you're on You're sort of on both sides here,

484
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,960
Speaker 2: like you're being fair, Like she asked for the information,

485
00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 2: you have the information, you go to the person response

486
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Speaker 2: on me, I don't know what you're doing, but you

487
00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 2: need to have an explanation for what I saw.

488
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Speaker 8: But then you see you mess around and have both

489
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Speaker 8: of them at your door. Yeah, he's trying to get

490
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Speaker 8: the footage from you.

491
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Speaker 2: She wants this is like, oh, this is something mess

492
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Speaker 2: and you could say, like turn the footage over anonymously,

493
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,520
Speaker 2: but they're gonna know where it came from, what.

494
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Speaker 1: Direction, right exactly? I mean that's a camera, right, and

495
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Speaker 1: you know.

496
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Speaker 8: I would just burn my ring camera, like just burned

497
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Speaker 8: the whole house down. Actually, this is too stressful as

498
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Speaker 8: the neighbor.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if here's the thing, if it were a crime,

500
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Speaker 2: I would absolutely turn my ring camera footage over, right,

501
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:43,640
Speaker 2: But this is this isn't a crime.

502
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Speaker 1: This is a moral indiscretion.

503
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Speaker 4: Haven't you read the Bible?

504
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Speaker 1: No?

505
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Speaker 2: Hey, Laura, as a matter of fact, I have it, Laura, Hi,

506
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Speaker 2: it's been a minute. I mean you know I haven't yea.

507
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Speaker 2: What do you think here Kiki's cord?

508
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Speaker 10: Yeah, I totally agree with Caitlin. I think that she

509
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 10: has to help her neighbor. I also think she could

510
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Speaker 10: just say, here's the footage, and you know what, if

511
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Speaker 10: the guy and the lady want to kill her, then

512
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Speaker 10: you know what, you shouldn't have been cheating, or you

513
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Speaker 10: shouldn't have been cheating at your house.

514
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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you.

515
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Speaker 10: You kind of set yourself up for that.

516
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Laura. Have a good day you too.

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Speaker 5: That's a good neighbor.

518
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Speaker 1: Okay, But okay, what about this?

519
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Speaker 2: And we were talking about somebody that affected this earlier,

520
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 2: but like we've talked about on the show before too.

521
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 2: But okay, so you have footage of a girl going

522
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Speaker 2: to the house with a guy, so you give it

523
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Speaker 2: to her. She watches that, and they watch it together

524
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Speaker 2: and it's oh, no, that's actually his niece or that's

525
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Speaker 2: my whatever. It turns out that it was It wasn't

526
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Speaker 2: in fact nefarious, that there was an explanation.

527
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Speaker 1: Now he knows that you're a snitch.

528
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Speaker 2: Yes, so let's say he's not actually doing anything, but

529
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Speaker 2: he knows what you're capable of, which is you're willing

530
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Speaker 2: to get involved in my business.

531
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Speaker 1: So now he doesn't like you. You have a problem

532
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Speaker 1: trying to here.

533
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Speaker 2: There's a lot of ways this winds up in your

534
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 2: face for doing the right thing.

535
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Speaker 3: Sure, are you a snitch? If you're you're getting someone

536
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 3: intel for cheating, that's wrong.

537
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 1: But if they're But if he's not cheating, well then.

538
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Speaker 4: He's like okay, good, I'll continue if not cheat.

539
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 2: If he has a good explanation. But then but then

540
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Speaker 2: I would be like, what is she getting involved in

541
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Speaker 2: this for?

542
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

543
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Speaker 2: Like, if it turned out that I wasn't doing anything wrong,

544
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Speaker 2: what did you get this? And she'd be like, well,

545
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Speaker 2: I went to the neighbor and the neighbor's in on

546
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: this with me. Great, So now the neighbor thinks I'm

547
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Speaker 2: a cheater and she's willing to turn over footage of

548
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Speaker 2: everything I do.

549
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Speaker 4: Cool, but now everyone knows you're not. And I'd be like, good,

550
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Speaker 4: that's a good friend.

551
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Speaker 5: I'm not cheating.

552
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Speaker 2: No, I think you'd be totally annoyed. You'd be annoyed

553
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Speaker 2: that you were being spied on. You'd be annoyed that

554
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Speaker 2: this person doesn't I don't know. I can see this

555
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 2: being a problem no matter how it turns out true,

556
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Speaker 2: that's the problem.

557
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Speaker 1: Hey Jasmine, Hi, Hey, how you doing. I'm good. How

558
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Speaker 1: are you guys doing well? Keiki's Court. What say you?

559
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Speaker 5: So?

560
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Speaker 6: I actually feel like, you know, I've been in that situation.

561
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Speaker 6: I've been cheated on, and I and go looking around,

562
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 6: you know, asking people for footage or anything like that.

563
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 6: But if someone's asking you, it's better to help them out.

564
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 6: Because in my situation, it was actually the friend of

565
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Speaker 6: the girl that was cheating on me with thinking that

566
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 6: she was doing me a favor. I don't think she

567
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,959
Speaker 6: was doing me a favor, but she sent me a picture,

568
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 6: she sent me, you know, everything that the girl had.

569
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Speaker 6: I don't know why the girl didn't reach out to me,

570
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,640
Speaker 6: but it's always better to help out the woman because

571
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Speaker 6: she's asking you for it than having her find out

572
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 6: from someone else that's you know, not coming from a

573
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Speaker 6: good place.

574
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. You guys been thank you

575
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Speaker 2: have a good day. There's a lot. There's a lot

576
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 2: on the show today.

577
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Speaker 1: I don't know about it. I don't know about the

578
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. I don't know about this Richard.

579
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what what say you?

580
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: That's to me, it's just Devil's advocate. I'm just playing

581
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: that side of it.

582
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Speaker 9: Is that could be his sister that as she saw

583
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 9: it was some young woman going into the house with him.

584
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Speaker 1: His sister is the niece. I mean, there could be anybody.

585
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 8: His hairstylice, mistress.

586
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: But why is that, Richard?

587
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: Why is it on the neighbor to solve the If

588
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 2: you think you're being cheated on, then you catch the guy, Like,

589
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 2: why do I have to get in that? She should

590
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,719
Speaker 2: not give up any footage because it is none of

591
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 2: her business. I would be like, I'm so sorry this

592
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: is happening to you. I don't want to be involved.

593
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 2: This isn't fair. I'm your neighbor. I don't want to

594
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: be involved. This is my home. I can't just move,

595
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So so if this goes wrong,

596
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 2: this is a big problem. Here are some things I

597
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 2: might do if I were you trail camera camera girl, yeah,

598
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 2: or something like that.

599
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: Hey, Richard, thank you, have a good day. I love you. Guys, Yeah,

600
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: I love you. I don't know.

601
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Speaker 2: That's it's an unfair position to put someone in, to

602
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 2: put someone else in