WEBVTT - Selective Ignorance: Pulpit Wars, Tartare & Standards | Bonus Episode 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.880 Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However, 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:05.320 before we get to this week's episode, I want to 0:00:05.360 --> 0:00:09.120 remind you guys to purchase my book No Holds Barred, 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:12.319 a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. So feel 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:16.320 free to go to your local bookstores preferably queer owned, 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:19.160 black owned, or woman owned to support them, but also 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:23.479 just click the button on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, or 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:27.600 wherever you read your books. Again. 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I already 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:06.120 brought some ignorance there, but I got some more ignorance. 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.160 And when I say that, I laughed so hard I 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:11.040 almost showed y'all I was high as Helle. I put 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:13.039 this in my notes just to talk about it with 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:15.600 y'all today. I could not believe my ears. And it 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:19.240 got me thinking, is there ignorance in food orders? When 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:21.640 you don't know the food you're ordering? That is the 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:24.080 ignorant take that I have to talk about today, and 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:26.919 you'll laugh about it. But of course we're also getting 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:30.480 into this is America where we're looking ahead and making 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:33.959 some Bowl twenty twenty six political predictions. And while we're 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:36.920 at it, we got to ask the real question nobody wants. 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:40.240 The answer rolled out is gambling the new crack epidemic? 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:44.119 Oh yeah, I took it there because suddenly it's everywhere. 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:48.200 Is this about freedom? This ain't free? Or are we 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:50.880 regulating it in the same way we did weed so 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:53.440 that the powers can be in line with the pockets, 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.120 with the one percenters. We dive into it. The whole 0:01:56.160 --> 0:02:00.240 Rico Siites conversation involving Shake, Drake, Ac and Aiden, who 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:02.640 was taking track look at me. I'm over here, baby 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.880 like a rap all right? And then next up the 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:10.040 celebrities say the darnas things the internet what's absolutely a blaze, 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.120 and it's still talking about the two Bryants. That's right, 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:16.520 Cheyenne Briant and Pastor Jamal Bryant's wife and what the 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:20.240 two had to wear in settings that apparently y'all, the ladies, 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:22.280 the women, we can't wear what we want to wear, 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:24.760 where we want to wear it without the Internet having 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.880 something to say. I also have a double down or 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:29.440 take it back from a recent take I had on 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.440 my Decisions Decisions podcast. And of course we are ending 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.280 things out here what celebrities say, the darnis things, getting 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.320 into Jim Jones versus Cameron versus the let's wrap about 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:42.440 a podcast crew verses fifty cent versus all the things, 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:45.440 and we have some thoughts about these rappers on microphones. 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:47.800 We'll get into all of the things as well as 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.040 an am I ignorant at the very end to wrap 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.120 it up. But before we get into all the things, 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:59.360 I am joined by my superpred and Sad. I have 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:03.880 journalism Jason up there in Jersey. I was gonna keep 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:09.639 going with Jay Jersey jail Jason in Jersey. We got 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:13.080 the Triple J over there, and then we got podcasts 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:16.480 O G and legend a King on the mic in 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:23.320 the boards. Uh So if anything doesn't sound right, uh, 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:29.480 the interns not here yet. But yeah, if y'all know, 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:39.640 like the audio age getting done, that's what you're supposed 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:42.760 to say. Oh yeah, he making sure should get up 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:46.760 on time over here, and then y'all we we luckily 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:48.839 have him twice this week, y'all are y'all are gonna 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.880 miss him because you're only getting him once a week, baby, 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:54.560 but we have Jason job. 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:57.280 You loving who you want to be hugging? 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:02.880 Huh. And he is also journalism Jason two point zero, 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:05.600 but he's just going to be journalism jaw. 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:10.360 So we got insert reggae. 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.240 Yeah, I want to start leaving him in there because 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:18.279 it sounds so like on C like insert this here. 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:23.800 I'll be taking him out, taking out because I mean, like. 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:29.360 It's Jeffrey that would miss Yeah, yeah. 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:31.120 Bad, I missed it. I missed it. You saw it though, 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.080 I saw, I saw, I saw with you. 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.080 He said he wants to let y'all know he knows 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.880 when people tell him to insert things in place that 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:49.680 what you seem talking about cream is in the person, 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:52.840 Like where will we going? 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:54.239 I think. 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:57.960 I think the percentage of cream pile that's happened is 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:01.280 probably lower. Now it's very these bitches is pregnant. These 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:04.960 bitches is first, bro, do nobody like condoms? That don't 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:07.080 nobody like condoms? I might want to be safe, and 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.760 I get it. Don't nobody want to get syphilis? Gonnery 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:11.880 and nothing like that, But don't nobody want no kind 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:15.239 We don't got no, we don't know what condom? 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:16.360 You know. 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:18.240 We need to put an alert out there. Hey, y'all, 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:21.280 the masks that we was wearing during COVID they need 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.440 to come back on because there's something else out here. 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:27.920 Yeah, yeah, minds, I minds, and I start I start 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:29.680 seeing an uptick in people wearing it to. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:34.279 Worried about whatever, whatever the new thing is. There's a 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:36.720 new thund that's like the super flu super flu. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.760 Oh, I ain't gonna hold y'all. A bitually got sick 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:45.480 every every every week this like no, no, no, since October November, 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:47.680 and I was just sick in New York. Thank god, 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:49.680 my little bo was able to get me a Z pack. 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:53.719 So he would have got me that. But baby, I'm 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:57.520 someone who never gets sick, and I got sick right 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:00.240 after my birthday, and I just judged kissing st angel 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:01.320 bitches at the at the. 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:02.119 Bar the night before. 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:04.640 I probably should have just been making out with strangers, right, 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:07.839 of course I did, Okay. So I was trying to 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.760 prove to the guy what nominogamy looked like, right, And 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:13.960 I was like, yeah, man, I be going out bagging bitches. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:15.880 And he ain't believe me. He's like, nah, man, maybe 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:17.760 it's a little harder for him. So we're at the 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:20.560 bar and he just sees these women start coming to like, 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:23.560 I'm just a bitch magnet, right, Oh a girl magnet 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:29.359 woman magnet. Let me not, can I say with endearment? 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:29.600 Right? 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:33.800 So, so the bitches flock you feel me? And so 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:37.120 we're at the bar talking and we're literally just doing shots. 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.000 I buy these girls shots and then I tell them 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.799 to kiss me, and I'm literally just on both sides 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:48.960 two different bases, kisses enough to get sick, okay, And 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:53.760 so didn't kiss anyone the week after. But in around Thanksgiving, 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.719 I had a cough that lasted for about two weeks. 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.400 I said, what the fuck is this? And then go 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.040 up to New York and of course I feel like 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:05.320 it's just allergies because I went from Cares out to 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:08.400 Orlando to New York all a lot of a lot 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:11.840 of travel, a lot of different changes, you know, and 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:13.280 black Zoja. 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:18.280 Holiday. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:22.920 Yeah, I was only yes and was and was because 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.600 my ask took a Frontier down to Orlando that was 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:30.520 given aid. I was like, yeah, sure, what a flying 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.440 Where are the TVs? Where the outlets? 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:37.200 Listen the bare bones of a plane travel? Yeah, I 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:46.560 was gonna say, listen, just just staying in front. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:52.240 You see the wired charging, you know what? You know what. 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:56.240 A part of me did, very briefly fill aligned with 0:07:56.400 --> 0:08:00.000 the Delta CEOs sentiments that is very classic and very ignorant. 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:01.840 But I felt him just a little bit. I don't 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.560 know if y'all saw. Over the holidays, the Delta CEO 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:08.600 spoke out and was like, these budget airlines are ruining 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:12.440 the experience of flights, basically insinuating that, hey, the peasants 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:15.080 shouldn't even be able to fly, like they should just 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.240 be on the Greyhound or road. 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.960 Trip it megabus attitude when they when they changed how 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:25.000 the sky miles kind of It's like it's appealing to 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:27.120 a big spin in twenty twenty four. 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:28.600 Oh and I'm not gonna lie a part of me 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:31.040 every time I walk into it. Every time the lounge 0:08:31.040 --> 0:08:32.600 has a line, I say, bro, I thought we took 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:34.719 care of this. Why are there so many people in you? 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:36.240 I'm one of those people. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:41.320 Whole attitude at the airport in New Orleans because the 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:45.640 lady was like, oh, we're at capacity and capacity we 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:47.720 weren't trying to hear nothing about that ship. The fuck 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.320 are you talking about? 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:50.000 Myles? 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:53.280 Like I'm about to say, listen, and that's why you 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:55.520 moved the gold post to make it a little bit more. 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:58.800 And look at us. We're on this side and we're like, yeah, 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:00.160 keep over the goal post still. 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:05.680 And the convenience listen. 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:10.959 Well, I wanted to share with y'all. Y'all know I 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:14.559 went to a birthday dinner and because I'm in dry January, 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:20.679 a bitch was on drugs and so I'm not gonna lie. 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:23.240 I was like, damn not be having the itch to 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:27.360 be on some sort of ice. I can't go out 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:30.640 of public and be sober sober, but no, So I 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:32.719 literally ended up writing this in my notes because I 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.599 could not believe it. So was this was Saturday. 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:39.960 Night, Saturday night, Saturday Jason looking the calendar to make 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:41.520 sure that this, whatever this is, it is. 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:48.600 Yeah, it was still within it, so y'all. So, so 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:51.040 I'm out last night, and there's two parts of this. 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:54.559 It's where maybe your thoughts should be, you know, it 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:57.000 should stay in your mind, but my thoughts all spilled 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.640 right out because I didn't give a fuck. So the 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:02.360 first okay, so I set across from a lovely lady 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:07.120 who had like a huge scar on her from her 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:13.360 mouth down to her neck. Okay, well I didn't know 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:17.600 where it came from. And so mind y'all, I just 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:21.319 had a friend, y'all. See underneath here, so body had 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:21.880 just got me. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:26.120 Body is my cat baby. 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:31.360 Yeah, it's a very abusive relationship. I understand abusive relationships 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:33.880 because he'll beat my ass and then I just want 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:35.680 to cuddle with him. So I just want to move, 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:37.600 you know I do. I just want to show him love. 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.160 Maybe he'll stop scratching me. Anyways, So I have this 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:43.480 scratch under my lips. I'm thinking this bitch probably got 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:45.760 a cattle or dollars, you know what I mean. And 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.080 so I'm looking at the scratch, and I wanted to, like, 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:54.480 you know, what's the word when you get with somebody commisery? 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:59.040 Now that's okay. 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:00.000 I wanted to boss. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:03.360 Bond. 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.439 I wanted to bond with people. 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:11.600 About being a fur bomb. Assuming that's how she got hers, 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:18.360 assuming that's how she got so y'all, I'm having a 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.040 conversation with the people next to me, Mini, this is 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:22.880 my thought, but I didn't say it out loud yet 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:26.120 because we hadn't talked yet. Next thing I know, she's 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:29.600 telling the story about this car on her face. She 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:30.240 got shot. 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:31.640 Damn. 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.400 Actually it was a ricochet of a bullet that sliced 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:37.880 her face, and so it sued up. And so as 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:40.120 she's telling this horrific story about being shot in the 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.680 face from niggas that sold a car that ended up outside, 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.000 she thought it was a brother they were shooting. 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:44.199 It was. 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:47.920 It was a robbery with ship they were breaking New York. No, nigga, 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.160 this was here in Atlanta. You know, this is where 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:54.880 they do the armed robberies for the car. What's her 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:55.559 boy's name from? 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:55.839 Mate? 0:11:55.880 --> 0:12:01.839 Do listen? Oh no, no, let's be very clear. The 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:07.800 interior designer and contractor that I got to do the studio. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:11.760 Guess where I found her? In dot com worse at 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:16.320 l Scoop. She had a video of car breaking and 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:19.800 I clicked who recorded the video? And I said, oh, Ship. 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:29.520 Scoop, you like how that clip was shot? 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.840 I don't know information. 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:34.680 We know the information was so I just came. 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:36.560 This. 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:41.200 She looks on it like, what, that's a crazy that. 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:44.840 He went through it. 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:46.600 By the way, By the way, for those of y'all 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:50.520 listening who are unfamiliar with atl Scoop, atl Scoop gives 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:54.679 you all the crime and bullet all the fluctory that's 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:55.679 happening in Atlanta. 0:12:55.800 --> 0:13:03.080 That's like NYC school, NYC school. Yeo, okay, okay. For 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:05.319 a second, I thought it was just some about Atlanta. 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:11.840 That was like, oh, yeah, that's so anyway. 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:15.320 So she goes and shares this story and after I'm like, damn, 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:18.199 that's a way cooler story about the cut on your face. 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:22.680 I thought you had a pet. And so then that's 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:26.960 how we became talking at that point, right, because I 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:29.440 had to deal with my inner thoughts of thinking we 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:32.400 bonded over having but yet this bitch got shot in 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:34.400 the whole face. You know what I mean, And I 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:37.480 was like, damn you you're you're scratches way cooler than mine. 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:38.920 I can't even tell my story now. 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.840 At bit I said, but you got a shot on 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:44.800 the face, and I'm like, I got an orange cat, 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:51.000 I got a tabby, all right. Anyways, so that goes 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:54.240 into us like just being now now we're talking right. 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:54.959 Yeah. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.640 By the way, that's the story that I came back 0:13:57.640 --> 0:14:00.240 to her at the end of which was all so 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.200 weird as fuck. So I didn't get to the end 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:05.120 of what happened after she got shot because I got 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:09.040 pulled away into another conversation. I way twenty minutes later, 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.520 and to wait, you didn't finish the story about your 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:15.120 getting shot. What happened next? That's literally how I did that, 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.319 so very awkward. This is what happens when you're hot. 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:21.600 So anyways, food starts being delivered because again, you know, 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.960 parties started late becase finally start getting food around eleven. 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:29.760 So I see that she ordered the tuna tartary, but 0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:32.880 she's not touching it. So I look across from her. 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:40.000 Oh yeah, this is where so I'm looking because baby, 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:44.000 I actually with sam a tartar. So I look over 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:47.040 and she's like, not touching it. She got the up 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:50.600 but tasa bravas she got. She ordered quite a few, 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:52.520 but she not touching this, and I kind of wanted 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:54.720 to know if it was good. I said, oh, I said, 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:55.640 why are you not touching? 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:57.040 You know? Is it? Is it good? 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:58.920 You don't like it's like you're not eating it. She 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:09.760 was like, I don't think they cooked it. I said, girl, 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:15.720 it's tartar. Hold on. I said, tartar means raw, and 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.600 we ended up looking it up. Hold on. So this 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:21.400 is how the conversation gets ignorant. So she's like, well, 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:25.640 I wish it was chart hard because I don't know 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:28.440 about this tartar. So then me and the I said, well, 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:34.080 tartar is means it's raw, you know, like steak tartar tartar. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:36.000 So the girl next to me, this is where it 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:39.800 gets real ignorant. She's like, yeah, tartar is the preparation 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.880 of it, and I'm like, actually, I think it's a 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:46.360 French word. So we're now at the table trying to google. 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:54.440 She was fascinated by the scarf car. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:00.560 So we're literally at the table and now we're trying 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:04.880 to spell tartar because I like, there's an e in that, bitch. 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:08.520 So the girl pulls up tartar and we pull up 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:12.520 that it's a classic French dish, so where I was right, Yes, 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.960 it's a tartar is a dish. It's not the preparation, 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:17.920 but it is. It does them from a French word, 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:22.720 often meaning that it's finally chopped and raw, and ingredients 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:27.480 are included, such as shallotte, capers, parsley, mustard, and often 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:30.880 served with a raw egg as well, which is what 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:32.680 I told her too. I said, now this is the 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:34.800 It might be mixing there, but but you might be 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:40.880 also eating raw egg, bitch, you know. So then it 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:45.360 goes into my mind like, damn, people order food and 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:49.560 don't know what it is. Hold on you ready, ain't 0:16:49.560 --> 0:16:53.560 gotta pay for it. So clearly she's like, I don't 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:56.160 like my stuff raw. I don't like it wrong. So 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.400 hear me out. The person right next to hermione, these 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:05.840 are tapas or is calamari? So so she so she looks, 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.800 so she looks over at the calamari, and I got 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:12.399 literally the way this happened. And the person is like, 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:17.360 anybody want calamari? The girl across from her so ignorance. 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:24.480 It's like, yeah, I don't like octopus. So I'm like, well, actually, 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:27.240 are you ready? So I'm like, oh, just so you know, 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:31.800 calamari is not octopus, it's squid. And at that very moment, 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:35.280 the girl, who also didn't know about tartar, is like, 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:37.040 you mean like jellyfish. 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:38.120 So we went. 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:44.960 And I'm so high, y'all. I'm like, we just went 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:49.760 from calling calamari octopus to jellyfish when it's just squid. 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:52.280 It's just squid. And maybe they're all in the same family. 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.040 I know they got tentacles and they look like when 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:57.240 you draw when you're in fifth grade. But the way 0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:59.399 that this table and I was just like wow. So 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:02.240 we have people ordering tartari calamari and they don't know 0:18:02.240 --> 0:18:04.399 what they ordered. So a part of me was like, 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:09.680 when I go to other countries, I ask what is 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:12.919 this when it's a word that I am unfamiliar with? 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:14.880 Pretty simple, you know what I mean, Like a bitch. 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:17.840 Wit and lived in Singapore. It was ordered ben Bimbop 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:19.240 and I said, now, what the fuck is it? 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:19.880 Been Bimbop? 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.560 Like I needed to know break you down. The fact 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:27.000 that Americans are in America ordering dishes that they have 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:28.040 no clue what it is. 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:28.280 Now. 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:30.760 To be fair, tartar is a French word, and I 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:32.280 feel like calamari might be Spanish. 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:35.680 Let me see what is going in somewhere to eat? 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:37.360 You just want to try something different and don't ask 0:18:37.440 --> 0:18:38.520 about it and don't even as. 0:18:40.119 --> 0:18:43.400 The waiter you know. 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:49.640 An Italian? Okay, So this is how ignorant Americans are 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:55.600 when words are rooted in other goddamn phonetics. Yeah, but 0:18:55.720 --> 0:18:58.000 when it comes when it's Italian and when it's French, 0:18:58.119 --> 0:18:59.840 a bitch just don't know when it's on the menu 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:01.560 and America and they out here. 0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:03.680 To why would you order? Yeah, that's the part that's 0:19:03.720 --> 0:19:04.399 confusing to me. 0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:06.560 I mean, well, the person that ordered it, I feel 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:09.159 like new But when it was offered to the other people, 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:10.800 it was giving octopus and jellyfish. 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:11.919 But what if you was present? 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:14.640 Oh, let's be very clear, then they would maintain ignorant 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:18.520 that I gave a lesson at the table. Let them 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:22.240 know that you and I also got the consent to 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:24.080 let I told them I was going to talk about 0:19:24.119 --> 0:19:27.560 them in so you should have seen so as their 0:19:27.680 --> 0:19:31.240 deciphering between jellyfish, octopus and all that, I said, y'all, 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:33.040 I don't know how I am, but I'm writing. It's 0:19:33.119 --> 0:19:39.680 my notes talking about. 0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:39.040 I want to add him. 0:19:40.160 --> 0:19:43.040 But I did want to ask y'all if it's ignorant 0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:46.440 or if you guys have actually done this yourself where 0:19:46.480 --> 0:19:48.960 you've ordered something without the knowledge of knowing what the 0:19:49.000 --> 0:19:49.439 fuck it is. 0:19:49.520 --> 0:19:50.800 I did that and what made you do it? 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:52.360 I need to know the psyche behind it. 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:54.960 So years ago, when many move before this whole thing, 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:58.239 cell phones were out for you. When I was, when 0:19:58.320 --> 0:20:00.359 I was working, I had a nine to five early 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:03.000 on doing this, you know, you know, as we enter 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:07.640 this podcast space, and I remember we went went our 0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:10.080 department went to a lunch thing or whatever. Now I'm 0:20:10.119 --> 0:20:13.080 thinking it was in Long Island and I think it 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:15.600 was in New High Park, Rising, one of them whatever. 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:17.360 We went to this this this. 0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:23.399 This restaurant, so pardon, I'm not ignorant now, So now, 0:20:23.480 --> 0:20:27.760 your coach, they had brought out appetizers and stuff, right, 0:20:27.800 --> 0:20:31.399 and the first thing I saw, what the well, I 0:20:31.440 --> 0:20:33.000 didn't know it was calamary. 0:20:33.040 --> 0:20:38.119 How did you say calamari? 0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:40.239 Is that? How is that how you said? That's how 0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:41.280 you said calamari? 0:20:41.440 --> 0:20:43.280 Calamary? 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:48.520 It sounds like a listen, check this out though, And 0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:49.680 I prefaced it by saying. 0:20:49.520 --> 0:20:52.320 Thought it was ring. You thought it was onion ring so. 0:20:52.359 --> 0:21:00.760 Boom, yes, so that nigga. I took one and I 0:21:00.800 --> 0:21:02.760 dipped it in the sauce, right, and I thought it. 0:21:02.640 --> 0:21:07.439 Was marinara boom. So that I had it, I'm chewing. 0:21:07.520 --> 0:21:09.920 I'm like, yo, he's chewing it. 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:15.240 So my colleague, you know at the time, Asian lady, 0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:18.120 she's super. She's like you and the say like she said, 0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:22.720 something is not right and she and she leaned in 0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:24.760 up to Me's like she's like you are. I said, yeah, 0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:27.680 but what And I said, yo, why the onion rings 0:21:27.760 --> 0:21:32.840 so tough? And she Yo. 0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:35.439 That's not just calamari. And I'm like what why? What? Okay, 0:21:35.880 --> 0:21:40.000 it's why I'm thinking she said that squeaz. 0:21:40.280 --> 0:21:43.720 I was like, oh, if I hadn't known that before 0:21:43.760 --> 0:21:44.719 I ate, I wouldn't have ate it. 0:21:45.040 --> 0:21:47.000 Did you eat calamari? Now you know what it is? 0:21:48.440 --> 0:21:50.320 It's gonna be a growing No. 0:21:50.480 --> 0:21:52.920 No, I'm not this. 0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:56.560 No Elevation's not gonna eat that. That's the one thing 0:21:56.680 --> 0:21:58.080 in that culture that I'm not eating. 0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:02.840