1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: Did you get that phone on? Vibrate? It's all vibe right? 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: Is it in your lap? It's the edge? What's up? 3 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: Very bad? Wow? We back? We're back Friday. I'm just kidding. 4 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: I've had way too much coffee today, so who knows 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: it'll come out of my mouth? Um? Hey, Chip, it's August. 6 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, where's the time going? You're sad about it? Well? Yeah, 7 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: I mean I had um, I had a dentist appointment 8 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:37,319 Speaker 1: this morning, and you know, yeah, I actually do love 9 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: the dentist. I love how I feel like, Oh my god, 10 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: if I could go to the dentist six times a 11 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: year and I haven't turned to pay for it, I 12 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: would go. You're literally the one human on earth that way. 13 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: How do you like it? Like, I don't know the 14 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: feeling that you're talking about. What do you feel when 15 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: you walk out of a dentist office? First of all, 16 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: he is running his teeth right now. I just wish 17 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: you guys could see. Look, I'm one of those like 18 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: I always have this in my pocket with one of 19 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: these like toothpick things. You always have a flosser in 20 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: your pocket. Let me just make sure I'm understanding this right. 21 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: First of all, it's not covered in anything. He just 22 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: sticks it back in his bar. I like, don't like 23 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: use it a million times. I have a I have 24 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: a crown on the top right side of my mouth, 25 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: and that's and so it's like I bite into one 26 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: thing and it's like a food storage container, you know, 27 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 1: It's like there's like a little gap, so I have 28 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: to have it. But I'm also like, I love like 29 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: I've been, like dentist said at home, like I get 30 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: in there and I clean my I love cleaning my teeth, 31 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: so when someone professionally does it right, I will say, like, 32 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: there's something about when they scrape the plaque off of 33 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: your teeth, it feels like you had a sweater on 34 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: your teeth before and then all of a sudden, you're 35 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: flying free. It's yeah, yeah, it's I understand. I don't like, 36 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: you know, like I also have a fantasy about like 37 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: being a massuse so that I can understand what it 38 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: feels like to give someone a good massage. But I'm 39 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: also like, god, I wish I could watch my t 40 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: like I want to see it all. You want to 41 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 1: know if everyone else listening feels like that. Those two 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:28,359 Speaker 1: statements were as weird as I do mind of chips, 43 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: you gotta get weird, man. Most people's fantasies are something different, 44 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, fantasize about being as just so 45 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: I could know what it's like to give them slaves, Like, yeah, 46 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: I want to know, Like because I when I'm getting 47 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: a massage, I'm like, I'm always thinking, like are my 48 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: muscles like tighter? And because I feel like every time 49 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: I get a massage that people are like sweating by 50 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: the end of it, like and they're like, you need 51 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: to do this more often. So I kind of want 52 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: to like know the difference of what it feels like 53 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: for someone that needs a massage someone who just is 54 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: getting one, you know. Anyway, I Digrass. We were talking 55 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: about the summer going back quickly at the dentist this morning. 56 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: It was like the small talk and it's like, um, 57 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,839 Speaker 1: you know, how's your summer going? And I'm like it's 58 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: flying by. I'm like, how is it already August? So 59 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: when you're at when you're at the zennist, I get 60 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: so annoyed when they ask you so many questions. You're like, 61 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: you're all up in my mouth. I cannot right now. 62 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: Are you going to try and ask me on my 63 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: summer's going out with that hose thing, that little straw thing. 64 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: Where does that stuff go? Where's the where's the end 65 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: of that vacuum that somebody's gonna empty. It hasn't have 66 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: like a pot. Yeah, it's got like a they probably 67 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: dump in the toilet or something, or a sing everyone's spit. 68 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: Just there's so much covid flitting around that thing. Oh, 69 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, just plaque. We just lost all except for 70 00:03:55,480 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: those who loved like things like Dr Pemple. I can't 71 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: bring myself to watch that, but I would watch teeth 72 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: get scraped. I um yeah. Anyway, My point is I 73 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: feel like we wait so long for the summer to 74 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: get here and then it's gone, Like kids are back 75 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: in school in Tennessee. It's yeah, I guess I just 76 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: like after we've graduated school. Like to me, it all 77 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: feels the same. I think, like it's there's different seasons, 78 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: but like it's not like you and I don't work 79 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: during the summer. I mean, I know, yeah, as if 80 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: you have kids, that's the that's the one time that 81 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: it definitely you have more freedom in the summer because 82 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: they don't have school, there's all that stuff. But if 83 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: you don't have it's like, what's the difference. You know, 84 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: I have a marker. I have a marker Way Country 85 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: after this weekend. It's not during the week Oh my god. 86 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: People about Way of Country, about Way of Country and 87 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: just Wave Country is this beautiful little private club that 88 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: I remember. I mean, I think that's to be debated. 89 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: That's definitely a debatable topic. The Way Country is a 90 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: city park that is just this big old waveful from 91 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: like the eighties that has four slides, two of which 92 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: are so terrifying I don't even consider going down them, 93 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: And the other ones are just fine and fun but 94 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: terrifying and like their makeup because they're supposed to be 95 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: terrifying or terrifying because they're so poorly made, not kept 96 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 1: up with. You think the slide might break when you're 97 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,559 Speaker 1: on it. I don't think the slides are gonna break. 98 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: I just have a fear of heights and they're really hot, 99 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: like even just going up the stairs. I've gone down 100 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: there's two of them. I've gone down one of them 101 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: twice because I did the less the one that I 102 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: thought would be less scary the first time, and then 103 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm gonna have the courage. I'm 104 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: gonna go to the scarier one. And I tried to 105 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: do it. I was like like, you have to like 106 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: basically push yourself off the side, and I was like, 107 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: I can't do it. So then I was up there 108 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not going to be the 109 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: pussy that get walks down the stairs. So I did 110 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 1: the other slide that I already done it again. But 111 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: even just going up the stairs is scary. It's like 112 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: five stories tall, and you just feel like, I love 113 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 1: that you're acting like the slides or the big pool 114 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: to bring. My thing is the pool. I love the 115 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: wave pool. So sometimes like yeah, sometimes I'll text ship 116 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: on a Sunday and you won't get a response for 117 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 1: like four hours, and then I get a response he's like, sorry, 118 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: been at Wave Country. I'm like, with who by himself? 119 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: You're literally the creepiest guy sitting in the fucking wave 120 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: pool just floating around all these things. I'm like, I'm 121 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: just like singing jack FM. Is that because that's what 122 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: they're playing at Wave Country? But yeah, they play jack 123 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: FM all the hits from the eighties, nineties and today, 124 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: you know, seventies, eighties, nineties and today. Do you know 125 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: one of the things, like one of my things that 126 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: I hate the most? Or water parks? Do you know 127 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: this about me? Really? Specifically the wave pool I find 128 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: them discussing. I don't understand why there's always so many 129 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: random band aids, Like they're literally at a water park, 130 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: specifically around the wave pool. There are floating band aids. 131 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: There's rogue band aids you find on the ground. I 132 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: don't know how many people have been paying in that thing. 133 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: It's just like there, it's just so many people all 134 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: in one place in the band aids, Like I just 135 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: can't get the band aids. The band aids are in 136 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: the shallow and I like to stay in the deep end, 137 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: which I call it. You're still in the same there's 138 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: so much chlorine, you know. I like that's where I 139 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: would go to feel safe. During COVID, I was like, 140 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: I'm floating in a pool of bleach as a person 141 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: I'm not saying as a person who said COVID four times, 142 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 1: maybe that's what I'm missing right. Well, anyway, if anyone 143 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: comes to Nashville system, oh god, it's gonna say. If 144 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: anyone to come to Nashville into a meet and greet 145 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: with Chip. I'll tell you where to find him, and 146 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: it's at the hat Wave Country in the wavefool go 147 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: up to him literally on the freeway. That just says waveful. Anyway, 148 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: we got to get to the topics because we have 149 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: a lot to cover. It is pop culture. It's the 150 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: beginning of the month. This is actually the first month. 151 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: I feel somewhat I don't. I mean, there's still so 152 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: much stuff going on in the world, but like I 153 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: feel comfortable talking about pop culture and that we're not 154 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: being completely just insensitive to everything going on. Um, we're 155 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: just kind of, you know, riding the waves of all 156 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 1: the chaos right now. It feels so here we are. 157 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: We have a lot of pop culture topics. The number 158 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: one thing you needed to talk about that you made 159 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: sure to mention and remind me of before because we 160 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: forgot about this last month, which I can't believe I'm 161 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: gonna be I'm gonna be floating in a different place 162 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: that summer because what Dax Ball property on one of 163 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: the lakes and da everyone knows Dack Shepherd from the 164 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: Armchair Expert, who you know is one of my faves. 165 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: I think so, But you know what, like, what's it? 166 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: What is it when you're in love with someone's brain? Oh? Demisexual? 167 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: Is I have a demisexual crush on him? Okay, I 168 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,959 Speaker 1: just I don't want to see what he said. I 169 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: don't want I don't want to sleep, but I mean 170 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: I would sit with him, but you know he's a 171 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: married man, so I can't. But right un, I would 172 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 1: much rather have He would love, by the way, knowing 173 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:45,839 Speaker 1: him like I do. He would love that. I want 174 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: to sleep with him because that's like the pinnacle of 175 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: like success for him. But like people find him hot 176 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: and attractive, like really he talks about that. Yeah, he's 177 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: he and he loves like I mean, he wouldn't like 178 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: my body because he likes buff bodies, but he loves 179 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: the male form because he talks about it. He's very 180 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: like you know, he's so straight that he's kind of gay, 181 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:14,479 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like he he loves penises. 182 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: He loves to see penises and talk about penises. Yeah, 183 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: he's like so straight that he's comfortable being like I mean, look, 184 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 1: any guy who tells you that, like they're not curious 185 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: what someone else's dick looks like it's sucking lott to you. 186 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: I think that's probably right, because it's a comparison thing. Like, yeah, 187 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 1: so you know, it's like everyone kind of wants to 188 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: see what everybody's dick looks like, you know, somewhere than others. 189 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah right, and there are people wanting to see it 190 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: for different reasons. You know, what do you mean anyway? 191 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: I mean some people like want to be able to 192 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: then fantasize about it or whatever. Yeah, He's just like 193 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: I want to see what dicks look like, you know, yeah, curiosity. Yeah. Yeah. 194 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: So anyway, he bought property on Altic Relay and I'm 195 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: very happy. And I actually just listen to the episode 196 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: where he admitted it yesterday, and I've kind of forgotten 197 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: about the fact that I've read that that was announced, 198 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: and then I was like, oh my god, did you guess? Well? 199 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: I did a little bit, and then I thought because 200 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: my friend Joli is really good friends with him. Yeah, 201 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 1: also parent I played his wife, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, 202 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: and she was in his movie Hit and Run, which 203 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: is great if you haven't seen it, but um he yeah, 204 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: I was. I've been scheming, like how do I get 205 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: enjoy to be like, oh, I know some people in Nashville. Yeah, 206 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: connects an easy connect. Yeah, before you know it, we're 207 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: having dacks on the podcast. God, but I know who 208 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: would go away? You know who would go to Wave 209 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: Country with me? Da? If you texted me and said 210 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm at Wave Country and Dak Shepherd is here with me, 211 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: I would come just video because that is literally I 212 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: think you could probably die after that, because that, I mean, 213 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: you've reached the height of your life. You know, you 214 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 1: know what I would do. I would get on that 215 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: scary slide of decks wanted to like, you would do anything? 216 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: A What did he say when he was mentioning? He 217 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: was just like, we're moving to now? Are they moving 218 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: here permanently? The second home? Second home, He's always wanted 219 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: to have a house by lake, and he mentioned his 220 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: best friends live in the Belmont area. I don't know 221 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: who that is. Um, I love that you act like 222 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 1: we know everyone in Nashville that lives in the I 223 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't even know who his friends are 224 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: that live in Nashville, so right, I mean I've seen 225 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: that they've posted here. Maybe it's like on the Christian 226 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: side of the relationship, like some of her right, you know, 227 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: I met her I this, yeah, because um back in 228 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: the day, you know, I work with Jason Aldan sometimes 229 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: and he was hosting the c MT Awards so and 230 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: she was his co host. So we spent like three 231 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: days with them. She's very yeah, yeah, they seem like 232 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: really lovely people, so very She's very downer and it 233 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: was very shocked, like because you never know what's expact, 234 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: you know, and sunny and smart. Yeah, I have a 235 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: crush on her. What's happening right now? Maybe maybe we'll 236 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: have them both on Okay, fair Fair, Fair Fair, And 237 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: then obviously Monica Padman needs to like we well, hopefully 238 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: Monica who co hosts, are tracked for it with him. 239 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: You had to pick between Monica and Dax, who would 240 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 1: you pick? I mean, that's an unfair question because I 241 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: do really love them. I really do love them both. 242 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 1: I do love them both. I've I've loved Dax longer 243 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 1: that I'm still getting it on Monica, you know, from 244 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: like from when he was on Punked. In fact, I 245 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: saw I lived in New York City when they feel 246 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: punk Punked and I walked by it being shot one 247 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: day and I didn't know what I was seeing. And 248 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: then when I started watching punk I was like, oh, 249 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 1: I saw this episode being shot because it was a 250 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: couple of blocks from my apartment. But saw that ship, 251 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: I know. I actually thought I was being punked. At 252 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: the beach this weekend, I went to the beach with 253 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: some high school friends. We were sitting next to this 254 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: man who was a larger man in size. I mean 255 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: he was fairly big guy. Huh was the rotund or tall? Rotund? Okay, 256 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm not exactly sure the meaning of that word. You 257 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: did the thing where you dropped like a big word 258 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: at me and I'm like, what, why can't we just 259 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: say love big? Well, he wasn't, because like if you're 260 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: really tall, round he was. He was rotuned. I'm guessing 261 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: that's the right description. He was actually in the water 262 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: when I first came down to the beach, and um, 263 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: so I didn't realize what was happening until he sauntered 264 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: out of the water. And when he sauntered out with 265 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: his rotund body, I realized he was wearing an American 266 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: flag speedo and it was very interesting. I was like, oh, 267 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: this is quite a statement. I thought it was maybe 268 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: a joke like that he would be with a group 269 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: of people and they had like dared him to do it, 270 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: you know, because it was like that somewhat like kind 271 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: of like whoa, like obscene. Um. But then he walked 272 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: up to the beach and there was no one that 273 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: he was with. It was just him by himself, so 274 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: that made it even more perplexing. And then he kept 275 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: getting up to go back to the water, and I'm 276 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 1: wondering if he dropped something in the water. I couldn't 277 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: quite figure it out. But he would stand right at 278 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: the beginning of the like where the water hits the beach, 279 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: you know, like the wave break, and he would bend 280 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: over like there was an obscene amount of bending over happening, 281 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: so much so that I could see the chafing on 282 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: his thighs, on his inner thighs from wearing the speedo 283 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: too long, you know about chafing. We yeah, yeah, it 284 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: was discolored because it was so bad. Um. But he 285 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: was bending over so much that my friend Grace and 286 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: I were like literally looking around and were like we 287 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: are being punked right like someone is about to pop 288 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 1: out there filming at this to see our reactions, because 289 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: it's it was just so shocking, and then you know, 290 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: we just went about the day. Two people did come out, 291 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: I guess from their house, and um, they just acted 292 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: like it was the norm. It was. It was wild. 293 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: I don't know. But it's funny that you mentioned, Oh 294 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: it went to Mirramar mirrormor whatever, mirrormor family has a 295 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: beatails there. And it was really fun because it's high 296 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: school friends. Like there's something like with people that have 297 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: known you that long that you just laughed, Like I 298 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: laugh in such a different way with them because we 299 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: just know each other so well, you know, so there's 300 00:16:56,040 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: a lot of fun, a lot of laughter. Um. Yeah, Anyway, 301 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: we were talking about pumps, so there you go. All right. Yeah, 302 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: so our first pop culture topic is that Dak Shepherd 303 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: is moving here part time and Chip cannot contain himself. 304 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm it's like Christmas from men Um. For the month 305 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 1: of August, we do have a theme, and I wanted 306 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,679 Speaker 1: to start there because it really ties into a lot 307 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: of our topics. But um, the theme for the month 308 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: is kind of just like when you start a new year, 309 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: you you really refocus, you know, like this is August, 310 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: like you said, schools starting again and people are really 311 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: setting their attentions for the year. UM, and I think 312 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: this is awesome maybe the time, like if you were 313 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: going through some life changes that a lot of people 314 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 1: are starting fresh because it marks it marks the school year, 315 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: It marks like a new a new challenge, like you're 316 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: ready to move into the fall and then yeah, take 317 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: on the new year. So that was sort of what 318 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: we thought about talking about and just refocusing attention on 319 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: being a better you. And so of course with the 320 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: whole Will Smith controversy that we deeply discussed and kind 321 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: of got into it, I think it was like our 322 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: first podcast, somewhat like semi argument, which I mean it 323 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: was just a little a little bit wet. We were 324 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: seeing it from different perspectives. Yes, so it's just a 325 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: little intense. And I actually still like I got a 326 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:29,199 Speaker 1: lot of feedback that that people did understand what I 327 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 1: was saying. Um, But for the most part, I think 328 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: my perspective was fairly rare in this argument. So if 329 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 1: you want to know about our full conversation, just go 330 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: listen to that podcast. It's the Will Smith Chris Rock 331 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: Fight podcast. It was another pop culture topic. But Will 332 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 1: Smith put out an apology this week and um, it's 333 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: been I think three months, Like he really took some time. 334 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: I think I heard he went to India, really did 335 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: some deep soul searching, and he came back and he 336 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 1: put out a public apology on his Instagram. UM. And 337 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 1: of course, just like the whole fight situation, there has 338 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: been a lot of back and forth. There's a lot 339 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: of mixed reactions. UM. I personally thought it was a 340 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 1: really great apology. UM. But I'm curious what your takeaways were. 341 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: And then I want to talk a little bit about 342 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: some of the feedback that I'm seeing online and how 343 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: that ties into the topic. Well, UM, I've one observation 344 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: before I get into like how I like felt about 345 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: it was I found it very interesting that he used 346 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: it as an opportunity for product placement for his just 347 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: Water bottle. He owns the he owns the brand Just Water. 348 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: He and I didn't know that. Um. What's his son's name, 349 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 1: the one that liked Jaden Jaden? Yeah, I think it's 350 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: his and Jaden's company. Um. And there was a table 351 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 1: next to him that just had a bottle of just 352 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: Water sitting on it that he ever drank from, and 353 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: it was like perfectly positioned to like be product placement. 354 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 1: So I thought that was a little interesting, and it 355 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 1: made me like, you know that those kinds of things 356 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 1: often my spidy senses go off with that a little 357 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 1: like a little bit. Yeah, I'm like, uh, was that necessary? 358 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: You know, like I would have been if I were 359 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: in his position, I would even like get that out 360 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 1: of here, like I don't need to give anybody a 361 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: reason to think that this is not sincere. And to me, 362 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 1: I thought it made it feel a little insincere. But 363 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: I do think, like just looking at his body language 364 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: and stuff, I do think it was an uncomfortable thing 365 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: for him to do. Um, And I you know it, 366 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: he'd be a fool to not sincerely mean that he's sorry, um, 367 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: because you know, the person that did what he did 368 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: and displayed the anger that he displayed, the frustration that 369 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: he displayed, is not the person that we've all fallen 370 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: in love with over the years from Freshmans of bel Air, 371 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,120 Speaker 1: d J Jazz, Jeff Fresh Prince, all of that stuff. 372 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: Like it was it was really out of character for him. 373 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: So um, to admit that you have fucked up, it's 374 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 1: a really hard thing to do because um, you know, 375 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: it takes a lot of humility to do that, and um, 376 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 1: it was really clear to me, um that he had 377 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: he had stepped outside of the situation in himself for 378 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: a second and tried to look at the bigger picture 379 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: of it. Because he did. He mentioned Chris, his mother, 380 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: He mentioned Chris's brother, he mentioned he apologized to Jada 381 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 1: in the apology, He apologized to his kids and his family. Um, 382 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 1: And you know, and it's even when I think when 383 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: the reaction that we got from our first podcast, which 384 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 1: was probably not dissimilar from the conversation at large that 385 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: was happening beyond us, it was about the two of them, 386 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: you know, and like and it's I think, Um, the 387 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 1: conversation is is bigger than that, you know. It's it's 388 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,119 Speaker 1: about like how those sorts of a display of violence 389 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: or whatever affects everybody because we, I mean, in some 390 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 1: ways we were all victims anyone who was watching it 391 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: or watched it and saw it like I fell victim 392 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: to it. You know. Well it certainly changed the whole 393 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,959 Speaker 1: entire tone of the night, and that was really the 394 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: only thing that got discussed about the oscars, so right, 395 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: you I also apologized to quest Love and his other 396 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 1: because it wasn't even a moment where Will Smith deserved 397 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: to be on stage, right, It wasn't a category where 398 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 1: he needed to be standing up for any reasons other 399 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 1: than giving a standing ovation to quest Love for winning 400 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: an award, you know, Like, so yeah, I mean I 401 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: think I think to me, that was a huge thing 402 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: that he apologized on a more extended view, Like it 403 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: wasn't just a Chris Rock. That was obviously the initial 404 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 1: apology and maybe the most important one, but it really 405 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: did affect so many more people than just Chris, and 406 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: so I really appreciated the fact that he took it 407 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: larger and tried to make it known that he understood 408 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: the impact of everything that had happened, and that for 409 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 1: no reason did he think that that was the right 410 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: response to Chris rock statement, Like there was no part 411 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: of him that was like, in any world or in 412 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 1: any scenario, that was the right reaction, you know, Like 413 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: he started off with that, which I really appreciated. Yeah, yeah, 414 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: you know, um, I something else at another point that 415 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to bring up, which is like less about 416 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 1: the big picture of you know, what went down, but 417 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 1: more about maybe the effect of it, Like I noticed 418 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: and you know, it's I don't know if there's anything 419 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: in these numbers, but like he has sixty four million 420 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: people following him on Instagram and there were only two 421 00:23:54,760 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: million likes on the on the thing. So I wonder, 422 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 1: like the point that I'm making is like, what were 423 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 1: the repercussions? Like I think they were huge. It's like, 424 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 1: have people just like abandoned him in a way? Um? 425 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 1: Or is that just a result of like the algorithms 426 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: of Instagram it because it was it was also like 427 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: widely written about and share it on other platforms and stuff. 428 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: So it's like maybe some people just read it or 429 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: saw it on the news or whatever, and I didn't 430 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 1: feel like they needed to like go to Instagram to 431 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: watch the video kind of follow Will Smith. I just 432 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 1: but I did read about it. It popped up and 433 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: like one of those alert to get on your phone, 434 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,199 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I want to see what 435 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: he said, and so I went. I also liked it, 436 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 1: So there you go. I saw that you did. Um. 437 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: I have a couple of things to say about this, 438 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:54,959 Speaker 1: and I'm sure I have a perspective that is different 439 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 1: from everyone else. I don't know everyone else. That's definitely 440 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: not everyone else. I'm so frustrated, I think again, Um, 441 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: but let me try to verbalize what's happening for me. So, 442 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,159 Speaker 1: you know, my biggest thing with that whole that whole 443 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 1: night was like, you know, I kept getting so mad 444 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 1: because people were like violence is never the answer, and 445 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 1: like that was just the immediate within like seconds of 446 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: it happening, people were already on social media just blasting 447 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 1: him for that piece of it. And while I agree 448 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: with that statement, and I do believe that he handled 449 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: it terribly, which I think he would also say, I mean, 450 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 1: he did also say, Um, I just think there was 451 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 1: so much more to the story than that, and it 452 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 1: bothered me that that was the only piece of this 453 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 1: that people were willing to discuss, and that was extremely 454 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: frustrating and also very um I opening to me to 455 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: our culture and just like the Keyboard Warriors, the like 456 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 1: social media problem that we have, the lack of empathy 457 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 1: and understanding of like humanity that I feel like we're 458 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: dealing with in our culture, and just like how quickly 459 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 1: we want to cancel people for making a mistake, and um, 460 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: all of that was just really frustrating to me because 461 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 1: to me, it was like, so it just showed the 462 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: like a part of the big problem that I see 463 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 1: in America right now, and then this again, I would 464 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: be lying if I said I don't still feel like 465 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:33,639 Speaker 1: that same problem is happening. Like it's annoying because no 466 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 1: matter what he said, how he did the interview, like 467 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: if he had done a sit down interview, because I 468 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,719 Speaker 1: read a lot of articles where people were critiquing him 469 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 1: because it was like so staged and like curated, you know, 470 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: because he had the questions. Maybe they had come up 471 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: with the questions before and he just answered them. And 472 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 1: of course they're in control of the narrative, so they 473 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: could also edit the video and like get it perfect 474 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: and whatever. Um, and then a sit down there's more 475 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,400 Speaker 1: of like a back and forth. There's also a lot 476 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 1: of ways that can go wrong, you know. Like it's 477 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 1: just like I don't know, I just don't think that 478 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: he could win because I think people have like said 479 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: in their head, what like who they've decided who he 480 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 1: is now or like what that story was, and so 481 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: they're just gonna hate on him for what, you know, 482 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 1: any reason. And so that's hard because I think it's 483 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,439 Speaker 1: like I don't know, I just again, I think it 484 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: takes away the part of everyone, I mean all of 485 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: us that were just human and we funk up. And um, 486 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: I think like the reason I liked it, Like I 487 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: don't know Will Smith. He could be a total asshole, 488 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:41,199 Speaker 1: he could be a total narcissist, like just whatever. He 489 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: could be terrible. But from my perspective sitting watching just 490 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: like everyone else is not knowing him. For me, I'm like, 491 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 1: what else could we ask of a human? Like he 492 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: literally he messed up. He totally messed up. He had 493 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: a huge I said this in the last podcast, what 494 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: I observed as a trauma reaction, which he addressed in 495 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 1: this apology and said, like I've had to go do 496 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: some deep dives. Um. He went to India to look 497 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,360 Speaker 1: at his like what what happened? Why did I do this? 498 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 1: Like why was that my reaction? Um? He then like 499 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 1: so he took the time to really understand it. He 500 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 1: came back and what, like you said, it would be 501 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 1: very hard to make a public apology. Of course he's 502 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: trying to save his image too, of course, but like 503 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: he also could go about it in a different way. 504 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 1: And I just think when it comes to the way 505 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: that he apologized, like if you if you know anything 506 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 1: about like the repair, like how to repair a relationship, 507 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: like John Gottman does a lot of talk about that, 508 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 1: but like I've read that there's five steps to repair 509 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: any relationship. So it's acknowledgment, right, like you acknowledge that 510 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: something was the problem, something happened that wasn't right. Um, 511 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: there's an intention, like don't try to just like reassign 512 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 1: blame or he wasn't trying to blame Chris Rock for 513 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: what Chris said. He was just like I apologize for 514 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: my part, Like he didn't at any point put anything 515 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: back on Chris, even though I'm like, hey, wait, why 516 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: are we all pretending like Chris didn't participate in this too? 517 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 1: Like I've never I've always been frustrated because I'm like, 518 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,239 Speaker 1: how much are like humans supposed to take? And they 519 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: kind of had taken a beating that night, and it 520 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: was obviously a sensitive topic. So I'm sort of just like, 521 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 1: not that it excuses his behavior, but like there's more 522 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: to this story than just the slap, you know. Um, 523 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: then he apologized. Then there's the part about learning, so 524 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: like he's still deep diving, like he talks about that 525 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: in the apology. He went to India for three months. 526 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 1: He's like doing all this deep work. He is still learning. 527 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: He addresses the part about like the feedback he's getting 528 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: and that he disappointed people and said, that's my core trauma. 529 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: Like disappointing people is my core or trauma, which to 530 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: me explains why you know how we saw him laugh 531 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 1: and then then change. It's like, as a people pleaser, 532 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: I recognize that, and I'm like right, because a lot 533 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: of times if you come from a dysfunctional family, you 534 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: learn to read the rooms you walk into and like 535 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: you know what you need to do in your actions 536 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: and your behaviors, and you're like whatever to keep the peace, 537 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: to make everyone happy, to be the person that everyone 538 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 1: wants you to be. So you're you are operating out 539 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 1: of a place of like inauth, authenticity and self abandonment. 540 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: But that's like a journey you have to go on. 541 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 1: And maybe he hasn't totally done that work yet. You know, 542 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,239 Speaker 1: also you can like kind of regress back into it 543 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 1: because it's such an old system and like pattern and 544 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: all of those things. And so I saw all of 545 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: that in him happening. And he addresses that and the apology, 546 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: and then you make the repair, like he has said, like, 547 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: I'm open to talking to Chris if he ever wants 548 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: to talk to Chris, Like, I'll do whatever I need 549 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: to do to make right by people because I know 550 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: I was wrong, and I'm just like, y'all, what else 551 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: do we want? Like we're all human. If you're sitting 552 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 1: here being like, well, I just don't think that's right. Okay, 553 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: Well have you done everything right in your life? Right? No, 554 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm just like, what are we going to get off 555 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 1: our fucking soap boxes and trying to act like yeah, 556 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: no one's perfect, and that doesn't mean that what he 557 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: did is right, but you admit that or if we 558 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: like work towards forgiveness or trying to understand none of 559 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 1: that says that that behavior was right. I'm just sort 560 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: of like, I don't I don't know what else we 561 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: can ask of humans and to me to take ownership 562 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: and accountability like that, especially on such a public platform. 563 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: It's respectable. I don't know. No, I look, there's there's 564 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: none of us are really going to know what the 565 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: motivation is for any of it? Right, Well, that's like 566 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: that's what he does have a public image to save, 567 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 1: and you know he's like he, um, the disappointing people 568 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 1: being a central trauma for him, Like, I get it. 569 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm that's kind of a cross that I bear. Um, 570 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,880 Speaker 1: and it can be a self fulfilling prophecy to you know, 571 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 1: like sometimes when that is what scares you the most, 572 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,239 Speaker 1: to hurt you the most, is what you do um 573 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: and UM, I recognize and I get that. But you know, 574 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: my again, my spighty senses are like, Okay, well, if 575 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: that's his central trauma, then as he apologizing to Chrisers, 576 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: he apologizing to himself, which I do think he doesn't 577 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: apologize and he has to forgive himself. I mean, he 578 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 1: did mention the big piece of this where he's like, 579 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 1: I'm trying to look at this stuff and also not 580 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 1: like completely go into shame about it because he's like, 581 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to think of myself as a piece 582 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: of ship, yeah, which is like also if you like, 583 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 1: I identify with that so much because the more I've 584 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 1: done work on myself and like in recovery programs and stuff, 585 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: it does you are the things that you like your 586 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 1: ship is pointed out to you, and God, it feels 587 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 1: terrible at first because you know it's just like none 588 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: of us want to see the ugly shadow sides of ourselves. 589 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: But you can't change it unless you look at that. 590 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: And so then it's like, okay, that is what I did. 591 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 1: I did do that. Um, But if you get stuck 592 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: in the shame, you can't move forward and you can't 593 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 1: make changes. And so like I hear what he's saying 594 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: when he's just like I want to apologize for this, 595 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: and I actually am doing the work, and I want 596 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: to do the work to figure out how to not 597 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: do this again, or like keep bringing these dynamics to 598 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: my relationships period, whatever he said, And I can't be 599 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: stuck in the shame because and to me, it's like 600 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 1: that's the way to heal and recover is to like 601 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 1: acknowledge it and like and to feel it. I mean, 602 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: it's guilt. Is like if you did something and you 603 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 1: harmed someone, Like if you don't feel guilty, something's wrong 604 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 1: with you exactly, Like that's not good either. But to 605 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 1: stay stuck in that and to keep doing the deep 606 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 1: dive into it isn't productive, Like it's just there's no 607 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: way to heal and move forward. So I did have 608 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 1: I think it's a really important point and no, it's 609 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: just a really important point to bring up. Like, you know, 610 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 1: we none of us know Will Smith, you know, like 611 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: we know what the world has the role that look, 612 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,520 Speaker 1: he played a part in creating this persona that like 613 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: we all loved, and it's like it's an impossible thing 614 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: to uphold on a daily as a human being. And 615 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: it just so happened to be a moment that he 616 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: broke was on live television, on a huge platform of 617 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 1: live television. You had really fucking terrible moments. You know. 618 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 1: It's like telling my mother I hate her, you know, 619 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 1: like talk about a fucking punch in the face. You know, 620 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: the person who's literally given their lives to you. Like, 621 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: could you imagine if you did something like that, I 622 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 1: don't lock television like to deal with things now, they 623 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't forgive you, right, right, so you know, and of 624 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,399 Speaker 1: course I didn't mean it. I just wanted to hurt 625 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: her in the moment, you know. And it's like that 626 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,240 Speaker 1: was easy and cheap, so um. But you know, Will 627 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 1: has there is this there's an expectation of him because 628 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 1: we've come to know a persona that you know is 629 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 1: unflawed by design, but you know, it's he is a 630 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: human being, and human beings make mistakes, and when you 631 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,880 Speaker 1: make a mistake, you have to find a path forward 632 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: because otherwise you do you just sort of wallow in 633 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 1: that shame. So I actually think, like this would be 634 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: such an amazing learning like opportunity for our entire country 635 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,879 Speaker 1: if we um look at the whole picture and look 636 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 1: at the like experience of what happened, like someone like 637 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: you said, falling from great like the highest stand or 638 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 1: whatever falling. Um also the persona being broken, Like there 639 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 1: is no perfect person, there is no like superhero. We're 640 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 1: all human no matter who you are, Like I want 641 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,920 Speaker 1: to put Beyonce on this platform, but she's human too, 642 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: And think about the whole cheating that happened in our marriage. 643 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 1: So we all know that no relationships are perfect. You 644 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: can't like nothing is just perfect. That's not real. And 645 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: the more that we try to like attach to those 646 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,240 Speaker 1: things and those pictures in our society, the more damage 647 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: we're doing to ourselves because we're not being real. And 648 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,760 Speaker 1: so we have this opportunity now to be like whoa, 649 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 1: someone fell from grace and we watched it and he's 650 00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:00,400 Speaker 1: doing the work like he is to me, actually showing 651 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 1: an example. Yeah, he's a better person for it. Well, right, 652 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,319 Speaker 1: and also just like we want to talk about like 653 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 1: the persona or whatever, he's showing a really good example 654 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 1: right now because he's like, I messed up, and we 655 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 1: saw him mess up. We all saw it, we all 656 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,360 Speaker 1: witnessed it, we saw the consequences of it, and like 657 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 1: we're still seeing those and he's making the repairs where 658 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 1: he can't and he can't really do anything else other 659 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 1: than give it time and move forward in his life. 660 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I will say I had a friend point 661 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 1: this out and I thought this is a really good point. 662 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 1: But at the end he says, I promise you we 663 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 1: will be friends again, and that isn't Actually he has 664 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 1: no control over that. He can only control his side 665 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,120 Speaker 1: of it. We actually read some responses from Chris right 666 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 1: well yeah, I mean what I read was, um, no, 667 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:53,799 Speaker 1: it wasn't from Chris. Um, it was someone connected with 668 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,359 Speaker 1: Chris in some way, So who knows what that was. 669 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 1: But what I did read, I mean I haven't had 670 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,240 Speaker 1: a chance to listen to it. Um, but his brother 671 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 1: Tony Rock, who is mentioned in because apparently they were 672 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 1: really close friends and it sounds like, you know, Will says, 673 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 1: I think what the damage may be irreparable. But he 674 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 1: was on Bill Bellamy's podcast, Um Top Villain and addressed 675 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 1: it and said, um, you know, I haven't listened to 676 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: it yet, so this is just from Complex Magazine. He 677 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 1: said that he thinks that the slap had to It 678 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:32,399 Speaker 1: didn't have to do with what Chris said. It had 679 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 1: to do with Will's, with Jada's Jada's old relationship with 680 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 1: Tupac and Will having a soft image, an image of 681 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: being solved. People always think of him as a soft person, 682 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 1: whereas Tupac was a harder person. Yeah, like and it 683 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,880 Speaker 1: just was harder and apparently you know, Jada talks about 684 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 1: that a lot and um, and it was just one 685 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 1: of those moments where Will was like, I'll show you 686 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 1: fucking hard, you know, like I'm gonna stand up for 687 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 1: my wife, like he thought, Tony thinks it has to do. 688 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 1: It was a reaction to Jada's look like it took 689 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: Will to this place where he was did if anyone 690 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: thinks it wasn't because we saw him laugh and then 691 00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,359 Speaker 1: he saw her and then he reacted. So yeah, I mean, 692 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 1: Tony even address for spelling something out, that's so fucking obvious, right, Yeah, 693 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 1: he said, I think it was accumulation of him being 694 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: slapped on many levels. He said it himself that he 695 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: hated the Salt Moniker. He soft, Jada won't let Tupac die. 696 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,480 Speaker 1: It's always something about Tupac and his daughter. Willow Smith 697 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,319 Speaker 1: brought up Tupac um uh And I'm not bringing up 698 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 1: family stuff that people don't know. This is stuff that 699 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: everybody knows. Jada commonly talks about Tupac, her relationship with 700 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,880 Speaker 1: Tubac as a married man. To this woman, You're like, damn, 701 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 1: what damn? Is what I'm doing not enough? I would 702 00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: totally tie into his core wounds as you to talk 703 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 1: about the part that you read me earlier where it 704 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:06,240 Speaker 1: says something like this, this apology is for Will. Chris 705 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: has already moved on, and that was from the Yeah 706 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,320 Speaker 1: it said this is That was an article from Vanni Apparences. 707 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 1: Chris Rock has reportedly moved on from Wilson's slap and 708 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: this year's Oscar ceremony. Chris doesn't need to talk. This 709 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,800 Speaker 1: is clearly something that bothers Will more than Chris. A 710 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 1: source told People magazine on Monday. Will needs to deal 711 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 1: with his issues. Chris is fine. Chris also, but and 712 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: then they decided that Chris had already started making jokes 713 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 1: about it, and that just signified that he's moved on. 714 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 1: I don't know something about that whole thing really in 715 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 1: the wrong way. But maybe that's my own ship. I 716 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:48,399 Speaker 1: don't know if you've actually just say it, like just say, hey, dude, 717 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,719 Speaker 1: were good, We're good. Let's move on forward. I don't 718 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 1: need to talk, we don't need to desk act this 719 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 1: any further, you know, Like but but but then again, 720 00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 1: you know, it's is it really any of our business? 721 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,400 Speaker 1: You know? I mean it's not. So it's like Chris 722 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: doesn't owe that to anybody, you know. It's like if 723 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 1: he moved on and it shows another one he's moved on, 724 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 1: you know, or maybe he's just like, you know what, 725 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:14,759 Speaker 1: I hate that guy now and even yeah, and he's 726 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,879 Speaker 1: not even saying his name gives him, you know, it 727 00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:21,399 Speaker 1: gives him media mentioned, I mean article that I read 728 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 1: in his stand up, So he's making money off of 729 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: it now? Well yeah, true, but he called him should Smith, 730 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: you know, like like knowing those Yeah, I don't know. 731 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 1: I mean, it's fine that you're like you said, everyone's 732 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 1: got a prerogative. I don't know. I just it's not 733 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,359 Speaker 1: like Chris apologized for crossing a line with something that 734 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,279 Speaker 1: was really inappropriate. I mean, I don't know, do you 735 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,280 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. I've just always been really rubbed 736 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: the wrong way with this whole thing. But um, anyway, 737 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: that's the Will Smith thing. You know, as from as 738 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 1: far as I can tell, he's taking a step up, 739 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: even if it's fake, and I have no idea he's 740 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 1: he has taken the right steps to quote unquote making 741 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 1: a repair. So for me, I'm like, even if he 742 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,760 Speaker 1: is in here, that is like his deal and his journey. 743 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 1: But I do like what's being modeled is like you 744 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 1: make a mistake, you address your own trauma, you try 745 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,439 Speaker 1: to heal and make apologies and amends where you can 746 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,919 Speaker 1: and make repairs like that to me is like such 747 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 1: a hard thing that you know, I've tried to learn 748 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,840 Speaker 1: in relationships. It just ties into everything we do in 749 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,440 Speaker 1: our lives, and someone has to show us how to 750 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 1: do that because we are so quick to just cancel 751 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 1: everybody and be like no, no, no, no no no, like 752 00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 1: you funked up, I'm done with you, And it's just like, Okay, 753 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 1: what else I don't I also think too, it's like 754 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,880 Speaker 1: what an unrealistic expectation we're putting on a human being 755 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,840 Speaker 1: to like have to be perfect all the time. I 756 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: think it's a great lesson for us all you know, 757 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:02,319 Speaker 1: you know he should in both instances, the slap and 758 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 1: the apology, is he showed his humanity totally. Like there's 759 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 1: a different but let's talk about this. If Wilsmith is 760 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 1: walking around slapping people left and right, like if he 761 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,640 Speaker 1: did something, doesn't acknowledge it and he's like, no, Chris 762 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 1: Rocks a dick, you shouldn't be saying this stuff. And 763 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: then he walks around and he does it again. That's 764 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,919 Speaker 1: a different conversation. But that is not what's happening. Like 765 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 1: he's never done this before. That's my whole point. It's 766 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 1: just like this was a meltdown and it's not. Okay, No, 767 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 1: the boy. I'm sure he recognize some unhealed trauma and 768 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,120 Speaker 1: maybe even stuff within his relationship with Jada that needs 769 00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 1: to be addressed, like we don't know what it brought 770 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,799 Speaker 1: up for him, and that's his journey again. But like 771 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't, I just don't think that that is to me, 772 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 1: this is an example of humanity, just like you're saying, 773 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,800 Speaker 1: and we as a culture needs to expand our understanding 774 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,840 Speaker 1: and and the way that we deal with humanity period, 775 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: like just allowing more flexibility there, because it's just the 776 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 1: things that we expect of people and the things we 777 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 1: expect of ourselves are so unrealistic and no one is 778 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 1: moddling for us what it looks like to be a human, 779 00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 1: so that we can't actually bring that into our relationships. 780 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 1: We're just looking at everyone's persona all the time of perfection, 781 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:31,279 Speaker 1: and none of us are perfect. Um, well, let's move 782 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 1: on to our next topic because we don't have that 783 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: much more time. But we were gonna talk about a 784 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 1: little bit, the fact that j Lo and Ben got married. 785 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:41,239 Speaker 1: I'm like, I roll, I roll, I roll. Well, I 786 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:44,959 Speaker 1: throw it out there just because I thought it was, like, 787 00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 1: you know, it felt like a full circle moment. I 788 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 1: don't really have much in an opinion, like I will 789 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 1: tell you, I will tell you that it's like, let's 790 00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: talk about opinion. Well, I don't know. I don't have 791 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: an opinion about like them, Like I don't love his 792 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,800 Speaker 1: movies or hate his movies. I don't love her music, 793 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 1: her movies, and you know, it's like they're just kind 794 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 1: of there and their big celebrities. So I thought it 795 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,720 Speaker 1: was topical. I will say that the um I walked 796 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:15,440 Speaker 1: out of two movies in my life, and one of 797 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:20,120 Speaker 1: them was Jeelie, the movie that they did. Maybe that 798 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,799 Speaker 1: should be an education, right right, but I do it's 799 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I thought it was interesting to like see 800 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 1: it come back around and also the refocus, like it 801 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,920 Speaker 1: totally ties into the topic of refocusing. Maybe that a 802 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,880 Speaker 1: relationship could change. And again, we don't know these people 803 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: very well. You know that very well could be the case. 804 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 1: I you know, like because of what I do, I have. 805 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: UM sometimes we hear stories about celebrities. I have never 806 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,799 Speaker 1: heard one good thing about Ben Affleck like ever, just 807 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,960 Speaker 1: straight up alcoholic cheater, those kind of things, and like, 808 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,600 Speaker 1: to me, his image was in such a bad spot. 809 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden he starts dating j 810 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 1: Lo and to me, she's just like low hanging fruit. 811 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:10,799 Speaker 1: This girl is obviously like her picker is seemingly I mean, 812 00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:12,680 Speaker 1: this is a very much you spot it. You got 813 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,600 Speaker 1: a conversation about trying to like throw throw blades at 814 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,320 Speaker 1: j Lo here, but it's just that thing where it 815 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 1: just seems like she ends up with these guys that 816 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:25,880 Speaker 1: are just not good dudes, Like she's with a Rod before, 817 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 1: who's like a notorious cheater, um and playboy, and I 818 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 1: think did the same things to her. And I think 819 00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:36,400 Speaker 1: she's just so obsessed with the like the fantasy of 820 00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:39,840 Speaker 1: love that's pitched around our society again of just you know, 821 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 1: the fairy tale, like I just I do. She's been 822 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:46,799 Speaker 1: married five times or something ridiculous, but like she obviously 823 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 1: really attaches to that idea of the happily ever after. 824 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 1: And I mean, if this is it for her, I good, godspeed, sister, 825 00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,959 Speaker 1: I'm so happy. But to me, if felt very much 826 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:05,479 Speaker 1: like image management for him to be like, Okay, look see, 827 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,759 Speaker 1: I can do a relationship. I'm not as messed up 828 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: as everyone is thinking that I am, um, and I'm 829 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 1: not a bad dude. And for her, maybe coming out 830 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,719 Speaker 1: of the A Rod thing where he was cheating with 831 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,400 Speaker 1: some reality star and that's embarrassing, Like maybe it's the 832 00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 1: same thing, like let's paint this picture of a fairy 833 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,040 Speaker 1: tale and they're both attached to it. I don't know, 834 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,320 Speaker 1: I'm not buying in, but again, I don't know these people. 835 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,760 Speaker 1: I think it more so makes me sad than anything, 836 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 1: just because I'm know what I know about that, and um, 837 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just to see it playing out publicly. 838 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,400 Speaker 1: It's the same way I felt watching the like Johnny 839 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 1: Depp and Amber heard thing. I'm just like it just 840 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 1: makes me sad, like the toxicity that relationships can bring in, 841 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,759 Speaker 1: just like when patterns aren't healed. And I don't know, 842 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,280 Speaker 1: I really want Jay Little Fine love, I think too. 843 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm identifying with her a little bit. Well. I 844 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: also to like because I don't know much about them 845 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,279 Speaker 1: in their relationships, Like why did they break up in 846 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 1: the first place? You know, I don't know. I mean 847 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:16,280 Speaker 1: could it have been just about like the paparazzi swirl 848 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 1: And it's like think that was something about it? Yeah, 849 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: So I mean maybe they're what you know, like celebrity. Yeah, 850 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:36,040 Speaker 1: but she's not as famous, I mean right, Like if 851 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,240 Speaker 1: you're a celebrity, who else are you supposed to marry? 852 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 1: You know? It's like, well, that's what I do think 853 00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,400 Speaker 1: about a person like as famous as Jlo, Like she 854 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,080 Speaker 1: to me is equitable to like a Jennifer Aniston, Like 855 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:50,320 Speaker 1: we see these halle Berries. They're like these beautiful successful 856 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:54,839 Speaker 1: women that are just honestly so successful and famous. Like 857 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,400 Speaker 1: who do they date? It would be really hard because 858 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,640 Speaker 1: that's a hard dynamic for any man or any person 859 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,239 Speaker 1: to walk into. I think, you know, and and then 860 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 1: it's like, so they picked these guys that maybe they 861 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 1: feel like they're they're equals or we've watched them do both, 862 00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,399 Speaker 1: like I think Jennifer Anderson and Jaylor are a very 863 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,000 Speaker 1: similar experience, like we see them then maybe date someone 864 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 1: not so famous, but that they were trying the other end, 865 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 1: like swinging to the other side of the pendulum, and 866 00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,879 Speaker 1: that didn't work either. And it's probably if I had 867 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,759 Speaker 1: to guess more about you know, it doesn't matter what 868 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,440 Speaker 1: the guy does for a living, but it's the type 869 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:33,560 Speaker 1: of guy they keep picking. Again, like I'm saying that 870 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: from maybe I'm protecting, but I just I don't know. 871 00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I hope that he's changed and all the 872 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,839 Speaker 1: things that I definitely have not heard great things about 873 00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:50,080 Speaker 1: him as a partner or um, you know whatever, like 874 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,799 Speaker 1: stand up guy. So I don't know. For me, I 875 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:59,279 Speaker 1: was just like, no, j Loo don't do it a 876 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 1: rod to and does not seem like a progressive move. 877 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,279 Speaker 1: But yeah, maybe there was just something like it just 878 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 1: felt safer, you know, like rather than maybe it's just 879 00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 1: a little easier um to do that than to try 880 00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,319 Speaker 1: and start fresh with someone else. You know. Well, I 881 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 1: was gonna say, what are your thoughts on the recircling 882 00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: of a relationship, like, especially when there's been a link 883 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,840 Speaker 1: there was, what twenty years between the last time they dated, 884 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,360 Speaker 1: like one, do you think people can really change to 885 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:35,839 Speaker 1: Do you think like a relationship could actually work if 886 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 1: it didn't work, like the getting back together piece? Like 887 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 1: I always hear people say, like, you broke up for 888 00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: a reason, so like why would you try to get right? Yeah? 889 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,560 Speaker 1: I just don't know why they broke up, you know. 890 00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:55,359 Speaker 1: So it's well, what are your thoughts on that in 891 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,719 Speaker 1: a dynamic? Do you think it can work again? Yeah? 892 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: I think so, you know, because if it was, like 893 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,399 Speaker 1: if there were outside forces at play that caused them 894 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:08,359 Speaker 1: to break the circumstantial Yeah, you know, it's just like 895 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,960 Speaker 1: I would imagine that was at the height of paparazzi 896 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:19,960 Speaker 1: craziness when all the magazines. Yeah he was famous, but 897 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 1: like I don't think he wanted that kind of fame. Um, 898 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:29,360 Speaker 1: and that kind is terrible. To me, It's awful. I 899 00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 1: can't think of anything more honestly, So I don't know. 900 00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 1: I look, I hope it works out for them, so well, 901 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:44,480 Speaker 1: we'll send it mar well wishes. I guess we'll all 902 00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:47,960 Speaker 1: see how it plays out. I mean to me, there's 903 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 1: two options. It's like over so fast they get it 904 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 1: an old or they end up staying together a really 905 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 1: lengthy period of time. I don't know. I guess we'll 906 00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,600 Speaker 1: all see. But UM, send me your thoughts. I'm really 907 00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 1: curious how people feel about this one. So as soon 908 00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:02,520 Speaker 1: as your thoughts, you can always email us at the 909 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 1: edge at velvet sedge dot com on Instagram, Um at 910 00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,360 Speaker 1: Velvet's Edge, you can always slide into my d M 911 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 1: S and Chip at chip Door should see chap P 912 00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,520 Speaker 1: D O R S C H. And when you guys 913 00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,879 Speaker 1: are going into your weekends. I mean, I'm so good 914 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:23,719 Speaker 1: at it now, I like literally was just like, well, 915 00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:27,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I feel like I deserve a medal. But 916 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,520 Speaker 1: the reason, like literally was just about to go into 917 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,360 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, and then the podcast 918 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,399 Speaker 1: is just done. I used to mess it up so 919 00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,879 Speaker 1: much that it was like the podcast was ten more 920 00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:42,759 Speaker 1: minutes by in time, we were trying to, you know, 921 00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 1: sell ads by my mess ups. I'm sure that's good. 922 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,319 Speaker 1: The thing that sells the ad for people like you 923 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,960 Speaker 1: know who you really want to invest in these people, 924 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 1: it's it's it's like those medicadum what is it called 925 00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: genko bloba like still like help you with your memory. Yeah, 926 00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,400 Speaker 1: And that's so you guys are gonna hear from us next. 927 00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:11,760 Speaker 1: All the mental clarity ads are coming your way. Anyway, 928 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,879 Speaker 1: as you guys are going into this weekend and you're 929 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:21,240 Speaker 1: living on the edge, I hope you always remember too casual. Bye.