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<v Speaker 1>Find Down podcast. Why didn't that go through my ears?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't hear it either. Was this supposed to no

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<v Speaker 1>us to? Can I just talk about the stash really fast.

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<v Speaker 1>That's happening on Easton Stace November no shave November. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's not but he's not shaving. There's a there. I

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<v Speaker 1>shaved part of my job Instagram that so people can

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<v Speaker 1>see it because this is a very live day today.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a there's a move I can do with this

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<v Speaker 1>mustache that I'm not technically allowed to do while on

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<v Speaker 1>the clock. But I'm gonna do right move. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>is that like an sexual I cannot un see that

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<v Speaker 1>that's a move? Right? The problem is now that can't

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<v Speaker 1>be onsane? I can't wow. I speaking of Easton, he

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<v Speaker 1>just celebrated birthday. Happy birthday, Easton, thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 1>When you score be a queen. How old are you now?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty two. Well, we need to talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>real fast before we get to the p C, A

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<v Speaker 1>S and everything. Last night, so Michael put on the

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<v Speaker 1>calendar Eastern's birthday on the sex. I'm a great friend.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I don't know what happened that day was

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<v Speaker 1>really busy, and did you text him the sex? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I just texted I sent him a great and emoji.

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<v Speaker 1>You sent him an emoji No, I don't know, and

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<v Speaker 1>emoji like yourself, Like no, no, no, the animal. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a very cute mouse seeing me happy birthday. Trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think what happened. Oh, that was the day after

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<v Speaker 1>our Nashville wind out, so we were out of commission.

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<v Speaker 1>The next days or so things weren't working well. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>but then, so I'm so sorry I forgotten then. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I looked on Instagram and it really looked like

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<v Speaker 1>you were having Everyone was saying happy birthday that day.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just like, oh crap, it's Easton's birthday today.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm in a group text happy birthday, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>You're just like you didn't even correct me. You're just

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<v Speaker 1>like thank you. And then Michael's like it was the

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<v Speaker 1>other day. And then I felt mortified. But then here

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<v Speaker 1>comes the conversation, Okay, what did we get Easton? Because

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<v Speaker 1>we got Mark something for his birthday. It's in the works.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people say that when they when they

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<v Speaker 1>actually forget that you did my gifts take thought in

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<v Speaker 1>time and investment, I'm not just gonna get east In

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<v Speaker 1>something you can find anywhere. It's going to be something great.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, I just what is it? You know? Because

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<v Speaker 1>it's a friend thing. So it's it's that conversation about

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<v Speaker 1>birthdays where if you have if you get someone a birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>you're present, You're gonna have to get it for the

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<v Speaker 1>other friend because what are you getting at if you

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<v Speaker 1>get him when you have to get me one, You're

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<v Speaker 1>getting me one. There's no questions. I don't understand where

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<v Speaker 1>this is going. What is your question? Yeah, my question

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<v Speaker 1>is what is the protocol protocol for that for giving gifts,

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<v Speaker 1>especially like in the workplace too, because we have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of friends too, So do we give friends to

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<v Speaker 1>every Do we give birthday presents to everyone that we know? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But we have marks, so now we know I want

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<v Speaker 1>to give Easton a present. But I'm just saying like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also feel like now like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>give Easton a present because then it's like I would

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<v Speaker 1>be upset if if I was Tory. Let's say, and

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<v Speaker 1>we gave Amy a present but didn't give Tory a present.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing with this. If you flashback to

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<v Speaker 1>a young Easton, who is just the biggest Janna Cramer

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<v Speaker 1>fan in the world. And you said, how you check

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<v Speaker 1>this out? Would you want to hang out with Janna

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<v Speaker 1>at least once a week? Do you want to stay

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<v Speaker 1>the night in her home? Text? Or whenever you choose

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<v Speaker 1>about anything? Respond, I would say, I give up every

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<v Speaker 1>single birthday, Christmas care for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the reality I thankfully live right now. So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are off the hook, That's what I'm saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have like a I do have. That's Janet.

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<v Speaker 1>But but you and I like the same things. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of similar That was so sweet. But

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<v Speaker 1>I do I have She's gonna give you Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a Visa Visa gift card in my bag.

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<v Speaker 1>It's mostly full. She trying to give it to somebody else. Recently,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, who is that? Are you have

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<v Speaker 1>no wine down door? Are you a regifter? Oh? And

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<v Speaker 1>I am not saying I I used to be, But

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<v Speaker 1>now what I do is i'd rather just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't end up, I don't think. But what I

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<v Speaker 1>like to do is come in the bathroom. Okay, here,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want? Oh? Yeah, That's what I do

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<v Speaker 1>because I think people if we were to, if we

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<v Speaker 1>were to regift a man create, they're going to not

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<v Speaker 1>it's for free. So now I feel like we can't

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<v Speaker 1>but like you know what I mean, like we can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people like you now we can't regift

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<v Speaker 1>but not. It's like Mike's mom gave you something, you know, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But if it's something, Oh, you know what I did

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<v Speaker 1>a re gift last year? Oh no, I can't say it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't don't say it. The person listens to the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>and they're going to know even better. Why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>say who it was from? You don't have to say

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<v Speaker 1>who you ended up giving it to. But who gave

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<v Speaker 1>you a gift that you gave me? It's something I

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<v Speaker 1>gave her Amy sugar Man, are we gifted it? Use

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<v Speaker 1>your brain? What? Oh I'm dying anyways, I can't, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So moving on, you can either have the visa gift

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<v Speaker 1>card from that's probably expired. They expired, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna find it in my purse. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things to me first, Like I have nerds,

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<v Speaker 1>my xan X, my flip off, my nerds, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a party. I'll take I've got one left. Not well,

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<v Speaker 1>happy birthday and I'm glad that I was the better

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<v Speaker 1>friend and actually wish you happy birthday on your birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are all very good friends to me and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm treasure our friendship. Well, I will say, just to

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<v Speaker 1>wrap it up with Easton, you sent a text message

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<v Speaker 1>us to night, which I did not respond to. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry again, I know, but he said, were you guys

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<v Speaker 1>at the sing goes? I love you guys, and being

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<v Speaker 1>a part of Wine Doown has been an absolute dream

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<v Speaker 1>come true. You guys win at Easton's Choice Award, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's after we lost the People's Choice Award, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just want to say thank you to

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<v Speaker 1>everyone who voted. You didn't vote enough? Ye kidding, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm We're so happy for Becca Antonia. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just so fun to be there last night. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go, let's talk. I want to hear. It was

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<v Speaker 1>amazing and even sorry, We've been to plenty of award

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<v Speaker 1>shows and stuff, but this was the Country Awards. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been Country awardhards or music award shows. So it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he's like Keith A bit nice to see

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<v Speaker 1>Keith easy Heath like enough like you always bogged me down, Garth,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll see you later, Okay, we'll have a drink. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we've met these people before. We've but it's

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<v Speaker 1>there's times when I'm like, hey, we need to how

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<v Speaker 1>do I say this? Like it's still exciting, but when

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't seen like I've never seen Jennifer Andison up close,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was dying. Yeah, And so the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>we got to be in this element that we're not

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<v Speaker 1>typically in and see people that we don't normally see,

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<v Speaker 1>Like Robert down Jr. Opened the show and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>like Easton and I are like shooting hard eyes across

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<v Speaker 1>the room to each other, like, oh my gosh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>iron Man. Michael he straight up like swatted me when

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh no, there's no way like iron Man,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just like but then outcomes freaking Robert Downey Jr.

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<v Speaker 1>And Michael's face and he's I've never ever ever at

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<v Speaker 1>an award show seen my husband take out his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm never ever, I have not one. Never did you

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<v Speaker 1>get to like a selfie like I was this guy?

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<v Speaker 1>I want you guys could see that was like holding

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<v Speaker 1>the phone down kind of by your chest, so a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't see I was video and him

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<v Speaker 1>a video. Kevin Hart, Uh, Jimmy Fallon, Jimmy Fallon. I

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<v Speaker 1>stood up for Jimmy. I think I was the first

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<v Speaker 1>one our side of the room. When they go Jimmy,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, Jimmy, Yeah, I mean he just

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<v Speaker 1>like it was I've never seen this kind of Mike before.

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<v Speaker 1>It was but it was so cute to see because

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<v Speaker 1>the excited Yeah, because again I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the first few country shows, of course, like we're so

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<v Speaker 1>excited to be these people and it's still you know,

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<v Speaker 1>dreams come true, but at the same time, it's now

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<v Speaker 1>we're friends. But these the people that we saw us night, like,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know us from Adam Wow, you know, so

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to see these people were up close.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was really fun to see Mike get excited

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<v Speaker 1>about that. And he got to interview Terry Crews on

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<v Speaker 1>the carpet because we did some stuff for Extra last

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<v Speaker 1>night as well. Yeah, we got to interview some people

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<v Speaker 1>and so you know, Mike interview Terry and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just it was so cool. I just I love seeing

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<v Speaker 1>you happy, Mike. It's probably one of my favorite things

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<v Speaker 1>in the world. And I know, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just love it. I love to see you

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<v Speaker 1>happy and get excited and take your phone. Now. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, like, I don't take pictures, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think videos. I don't but yeah, and I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>try to act like I've been there before. I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stay calm, cool and collected. But last night I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, I don't care. We're interviewing amazing people together.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is awesome. Well, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>break up this love moment, and I'm really truly happy

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<v Speaker 1>that you were happy for him. But let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>like like you wearing like what this is like what

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine when Janna posted that instagram of her look,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, in my head it was like when your

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<v Speaker 1>friends say when your friends asked, like what are you

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<v Speaker 1>wearing and you say like, oh, just like something casual,

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<v Speaker 1>and Janna just whips out with the cape and the

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<v Speaker 1>hair and the pony and the sacks. I was just like, holy,

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<v Speaker 1>she showed up, showed up, and and you would but

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, there was you and Gwen, you and

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<v Speaker 1>Gwen both had the capes and the bows and the bows. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was honestly a little shocked from the I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Sonia Christians in my stylist is incredible. I was very

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<v Speaker 1>shocked though, by the reaction of the dress. What was

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<v Speaker 1>the reaction, Well, everyone loved it. Not not that I

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<v Speaker 1>was shocked by that, but I just, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>it felt nice to read the comments about like, I

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<v Speaker 1>bet you my life. You make everything was just like

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<v Speaker 1>she does make everything look so good. But this was

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<v Speaker 1>like this was it like you were made for that

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<v Speaker 1>and that was made for you, and I I really

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh is that my second wedding dress? The design.

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<v Speaker 1>But Michael, though, I just want to set you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys looked so good together and that's the first

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<v Speaker 1>time we've been styled together as a couple. But Michael

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<v Speaker 1>for a sweater underneath the suit, Like, let me just say,

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<v Speaker 1>he looked in I just thought you looked so incredible

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<v Speaker 1>last night. You guys looked like a Okay, I'm sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle and this is getting really weird, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's like about well they're like about

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<v Speaker 1>how sex or something. They're like staring at each other like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh he looked so good. No, you just really looked. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but you could tell. You guys were like and you

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<v Speaker 1>saw us on the carpet. I loved your any of

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<v Speaker 1>us moment. I was just like, well, I'll turn it on.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I love any moment. But I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder, like who they're gonna show, and literally all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, like there you were. I was like, screamed,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like pause, Tori Rewind. I was like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>It was for a minute and they got Mike fixing

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<v Speaker 1>your train. And then I even if anyone would watch that,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I go, what a good husband, A good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my husband. And you guys kissed. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was sweet. It was great to see um. Also, I

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<v Speaker 1>have another question Kardashians. O God, let me just say

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<v Speaker 1>this before we get into Jam's reaction. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>big Kardashian person. I don't really follow. I knew oh

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<v Speaker 1>you don't say surprised, But it's just one of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>Seeing those kind of people in person for the time

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of interesting. It's very interesting because you're like

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<v Speaker 1>they're right there, and you're right there, you're real right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're everywhere, but it was he just even as a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who's just not interested, it was just very interesting

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<v Speaker 1>and just to see the circus around them. It's crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>you like to tell them my reaction. I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty better coming from me. I wish I was

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<v Speaker 1>up on like the little LEDs here because she's standing

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<v Speaker 1>for Extra and she was like, oh my god Kardashians

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<v Speaker 1>and she was looking down there and she was like Chlue,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just made eye contact. I think when you

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<v Speaker 1>cry right now, and Courtney looked at me too, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to do. Um And then she

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<v Speaker 1>starts talking to her publicists like hey, will they take pictures?

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<v Speaker 1>And the publicists like no, well no, So this is

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<v Speaker 1>this because also side note for people, you love your

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<v Speaker 1>car like you don't care about a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>don't and you we love them, I love them, I

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<v Speaker 1>respect them as businesswoman. Chris Jenner is MYSA Animals. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with her and I really want to be friends

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<v Speaker 1>with Chloe. But when I saw Chloe and it was

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<v Speaker 1>that I've never seen Chloe person. I've seen him before

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<v Speaker 1>in person from one time at a party, and this

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<v Speaker 1>was like before she was like really really famous, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>like twelve thirteen years ago at a club. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Chloe and I locked eyes with her, I've

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<v Speaker 1>never ever teared up. Yes, I got misty. It was

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<v Speaker 1>very strange. I get it. Do you okay? Good? Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>one person I didn't understand, so many people listening would

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<v Speaker 1>probably do the same. Do you think that she thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were pretty? Like? Do you think she looked at

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<v Speaker 1>you and was like, oh my god, like I love

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<v Speaker 1>her like hair or like her dress? I think so. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she just I think she felt my like heart.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys had a soul moment. I think we had

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<v Speaker 1>a soul moment. I really do. And I think she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk to me to no. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>so weird because everyone's like, like when people meet me

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<v Speaker 1>and they cry, I'm like, why are you crying? Don't cry?

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<v Speaker 1>Like no, no, no, no, no no no. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what people that say, like I met I would

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<v Speaker 1>I would cry if I met Clendy on one thousand, million,

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<v Speaker 1>bazillion percent, I would be a puddle of mud. But

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<v Speaker 1>I never thought I would cry meeting anyone else. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I locked eyes with Chloe and I got misty,

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<v Speaker 1>And but then I locked eyes with Courtney there, I

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<v Speaker 1>am here, I am Oh it got cold. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's why her and I go together, because

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<v Speaker 1>we're just kind of cold. I mean I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's why I dig her. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>digg her too, But I don't think she'd want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's I got a very I've given

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<v Speaker 1>that look before people always come up to me in

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<v Speaker 1>the room, but I just got like a very like

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't like I, like she didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>there kind of vibe and I and I got the

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<v Speaker 1>she's just over it and Catherine and she's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>think she just doesn't wanting on the show. I really

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<v Speaker 1>think she is. I think she's that one who's like

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<v Speaker 1>what do I? What am I? And she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>been like that from the beginning, like she just wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be with her kids and doesn't really care. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like Kim and Chloe are hustling. Yeah, I mean not

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<v Speaker 1>to give you Oh yeah, So, I mean I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to spend too much longer because I know a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't love their Kardashians, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>love them. And it was so then I asked my

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<v Speaker 1>publicist Nicole. I was like, Hey, Nicole, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>like we could take a photo together? Or if I

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<v Speaker 1>could just say hi to them? Like I would just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna die. And so she went over there talk to

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<v Speaker 1>the publicist and they said that they don't do photos.

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<v Speaker 1>So my heart was a little broken. But maybe one

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<v Speaker 1>day I'll get lucky enough to you will say, how

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<v Speaker 1>to Chloe or some best I just want. I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to just talk to her. Who was your best dressed?

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<v Speaker 1>My best dressed? Oh, I will say this and not

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Pink. I got to interview paink someone. She

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<v Speaker 1>was my grand favorite person that I had really because

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<v Speaker 1>she's just really real and not authentic, yeah, just really

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<v Speaker 1>really very authentic. And I thinked her for helping because

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when she went through that stuff with her

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<v Speaker 1>husband and they even they either divorce or separated, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just remember and then they got back together, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was always always looked up to their relationship, even

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<v Speaker 1>before of all of our stuff, I just always looked

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<v Speaker 1>up to that. I was like, Wow, that takes guts

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<v Speaker 1>and that takes strength, and that takes a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>courage to to like go through that route publicly. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've just always looked up to her, and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>about basically thank her last night that, Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a cool moment. And it's her. I mean, those are

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<v Speaker 1>two people we would love to have on the shows.

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<v Speaker 1>And Pink and but you are also talking about your

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<v Speaker 1>experience as Terry, which I thought was interesting, which I

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<v Speaker 1>mean both first of all, in Pink, you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>was even in a movie about sex addiction called Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for Sharing with Mark Ruffalo and Josh gadd and um um,

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<v Speaker 1>Tim Robbins and and Pink was in it. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>a really good movie about sex addiction and um, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of stayed under the radar even with the

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<v Speaker 1>all star cast like that. But but yeah, Terry Crews,

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<v Speaker 1>I read this thing. It was probably in the early

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<v Speaker 1>days of when Jane and I were together. I was

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<v Speaker 1>before you even knew about the addictions. This was before

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<v Speaker 1>I even knew about that. And I remember thinking to

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<v Speaker 1>myself because he basically came out and said that he

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<v Speaker 1>stopped watching porn, and uh, he took that out of

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<v Speaker 1>out of his his life and his relationship because he

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<v Speaker 1>just felt spiritually from his soul that it took away

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<v Speaker 1>from his connection with his wife. And I love that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember even thinking then I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I should stop, you know what I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I should stop doing that too or whatever. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that was before I knew about any kind

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<v Speaker 1>of addiction and stuff like that. But so him and

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<v Speaker 1>his wife too, I want to have on the show

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to talk about that because I was

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<v Speaker 1>years ago that would be a dream guest for sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. And they they they're so on the same

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<v Speaker 1>page when we get to interview them, and they're just

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<v Speaker 1>they are a team for sure. Even just a few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes that we got to interview them, that's so cool. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think all in all, it was great. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Jennifer Aniston is just like she's so iconic class

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<v Speaker 1>class from a man, was she like stunning or like

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<v Speaker 1>she's just so iconic, iconic but like classic, Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean didn't like before they brought her up. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're showing all these clips of her dramatic,

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<v Speaker 1>funny and just Rachel and I'm just like, like she

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<v Speaker 1>is and she just does it all. And the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that we're watching the morning show on Apples she started,

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<v Speaker 1>So I want so anyone. There were some reviews that

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<v Speaker 1>said the morning show wasn't good. We did you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're on Daily Mail's Best Dress both of you really? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on their Snapchat today. YouTube over fastly like it

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<v Speaker 1>was a picture they did, um, so every day on

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<v Speaker 1>stopchat they do, like you know, Daily Mail And it

0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:48.920
<v Speaker 1>was like these these people did not get it and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a bunch of people. And then the next

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<v Speaker 1>line was like these are the people who totally got it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a picture of you two. I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was so excited. That's awesome. UM. But yeah, all

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<v Speaker 1>in all, great awards. Grats to back Antonia for winning

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<v Speaker 1>UM and the best line I will leave you guys

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<v Speaker 1>with as Michael last night said, we won't stop and

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<v Speaker 1>we can't stop. He's like, don't worry, guys, We're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to stop. And I'm like, why would we stop

0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:19.159
<v Speaker 1>for that? Our friend Julie keep sending his gifts of

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<v Speaker 1>like being like, don't worry, We're not going to stop stop,

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<v Speaker 1>dropping roll not you know, it's it's it's just one

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<v Speaker 1>of those things if if you put anyone in my

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<v Speaker 1>shoes where Janet's Instagram story and then just cuts to

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<v Speaker 1>you first, it's like you have to have like little

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<v Speaker 1>one liners. I mean, like in my notes section, I

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<v Speaker 1>need like one liners. When Jana randomly puts my face

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<v Speaker 1>on her phone, what do I say? Or what do

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<v Speaker 1>I do with my hands? So I just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just sometimes stuff comes out, but I don't think about

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<v Speaker 1>We're not going to give up so inspiring, Like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a really awesome guest. We want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>Way better than I could have expected? Super attracting along

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<v Speaker 1>the way? Everything is going well, that's awesome. And in

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<v Speaker 1>your book you teach the readers to do less and

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<v Speaker 1>attract more, relax and trust that what they desire is

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<v Speaker 1>on the way, and feel good regardless of external circumstances.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess my first question would be when you say

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<v Speaker 1>do less and attract more, how do how do you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like I'm like, Okay, you gotta keep

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<v Speaker 1>doing things and doing things, because if you you don't,

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<v Speaker 1>then how are you actually attracting things. One of the

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<v Speaker 1>things I teach in the book is that all that

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<v Speaker 1>doing and doing actually is getting in our way of attracting.

0:23:21.160 --> 0:23:23.960
<v Speaker 1>So when we're pushing and controlling and have the belief

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<v Speaker 1>system that if I don't do it, it won't happen,

0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:32.400
<v Speaker 1>we are blocking our power to hear inspiration we're blocking

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<v Speaker 1>the support of other people because their energy is so frantic,

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<v Speaker 1>and from a spiritual perspective, we are blocking the support

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<v Speaker 1>of the universe. So what I teach in the book

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<v Speaker 1>is a method called the spiritually aligned Action method, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is a method that it's all about taking action

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<v Speaker 1>from a place of service, love, faith, and patience, genuine patience.

0:23:57.800 --> 0:24:01.359
<v Speaker 1>So when we do this, it's not that we're not

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<v Speaker 1>taking action, because yes, of course we have to take

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<v Speaker 1>an action to create something, but is that we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>it from a place that's grounded, spiritually connected. And then

0:24:11.359 --> 0:24:14.280
<v Speaker 1>the biggest part of it is being patient so that

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<v Speaker 1>we are not getting in the way of the actual

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<v Speaker 1>manifestation of what we want. So when we're in that

0:24:20.760 --> 0:24:24.960
<v Speaker 1>pushy energy, we're really in the way because it turns

0:24:25.000 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 1>people off. It's it's energetically keeping us from hearing the

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<v Speaker 1>next right action and the intuition that's going to lead

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<v Speaker 1>us forward. So we have to be in a practice

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<v Speaker 1>of taking action from a place of spiritual connection so

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<v Speaker 1>that we can do less and attract more. I like

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying there, Garby, because I feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times, if you know, we've interviewed people in

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<v Speaker 1>the past or talk to people that kind of promote,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, essentially positive thinking. It's just that there's like

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just think positively and things will happen. But you

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<v Speaker 1>have an action in place, So it's not just sitting

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<v Speaker 1>back and not doing anything. It's having healthy habits to

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<v Speaker 1>help take control of you know, you spiritually and mentally,

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, instead of trying to just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>physically do certain things. So I definitely appreciate what you're

0:25:12.720 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 1>preaching there with that, and then you know, um, when

0:25:17.640 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 1>things get that hard, like when everyone goes through life

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:23.200
<v Speaker 1>where just situations get hard, do you kind of double

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<v Speaker 1>down on your meditation or your spiritual practice or thinking

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<v Speaker 1>when you're just in a tough spot, or do you

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<v Speaker 1>still just go through the same routine. I would double

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<v Speaker 1>down when when when when life gets tough, I double

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<v Speaker 1>down on my spiritual practice. And when life gets good,

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<v Speaker 1>I doubled down on my spiritual practice. And uh I

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<v Speaker 1>do I do that when life gets good, because when

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<v Speaker 1>life gets good, we want to typically fall off and say,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I got it, I got this from here right,

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>and then that's when we go backwards. So sametimes, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to do it most I like that you said

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<v Speaker 1>you do it when you're when things are going good,

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<v Speaker 1>because I I totally forget to keep kind of doing

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing. I'm only like, you know, when things

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<v Speaker 1>are bad, it's like you're asking for help and help

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>and help, and then finally when things are good, it's like, no,

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:10.159
<v Speaker 1>you need to keep that going, because I mean, is

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<v Speaker 1>it really like our own response? Is it own responsibility

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:18.880
<v Speaker 1>to be happy? Right? It's our responsibility to choose how

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:21.760
<v Speaker 1>we want to perceive our life. In the book, I

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<v Speaker 1>say the secret to feeling good is to decide to

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<v Speaker 1>stop feeling bad. I think that that is the exact

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<v Speaker 1>answer I would give anyone, But I think that that

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<v Speaker 1>could also sound kind of offensive to some people that

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<v Speaker 1>might be really suffering, someone who might have a mental illness,

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<v Speaker 1>or someone who might have a major debt or a

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<v Speaker 1>physical condition. But I can speach that very authentically, the

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<v Speaker 1>choice to stop feeling bad. I uh, six months ago,

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:56.640
<v Speaker 1>was diagnosed with postpartum anxiety, depression, and insomnia, and at

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<v Speaker 1>my lowest moment, I actually had to decide to stop

0:27:00.480 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 1>feeling bad. But that didn't mean that I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to feel better overnight, that things are just going to

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<v Speaker 1>go away. But it meant that I made a decision

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<v Speaker 1>to be open to the next right action, that I've

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 1>made a decision to be open to guidance that may

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:16.159
<v Speaker 1>have been something that I wouldn't typically have been led to.

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:18.679
<v Speaker 1>It made a decision to do whatever it took to

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<v Speaker 1>feel better. So wherever we are in our level of

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<v Speaker 1>happiness and awareness of feeling good, we can always decide

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<v Speaker 1>to stop feeling bad. And there's a lot of methods

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<v Speaker 1>in the book to do that. And so meditation is

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<v Speaker 1>a big part of your practice with that. What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of advice do you have for people who you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know me myself, I've heard a lot of meditation.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make it more of a routine for myself,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like I just can't turn my my

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<v Speaker 1>brain off. I have a d D and I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of everywhere, and so sometimes i feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not doing it right. Okay, So what are what's some

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 1>advice for myself? Over people feeling like you're all over

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:56.639
<v Speaker 1>the place? A great practice would be a mantra based

0:27:56.640 --> 0:28:00.640
<v Speaker 1>meditation because what's happening for you is your thoughts are

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:04.200
<v Speaker 1>all over the place. So your thoughts, your mind needs

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>a place to anchor, and you can do that with

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<v Speaker 1>a mantra and so mantra as I'm a Cundalini yoga

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.119
<v Speaker 1>meditation teacher, and so I could give you a mantra

0:28:12.240 --> 0:28:16.399
<v Speaker 1>called Satnam Dotnam means truth is my name, and you

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:18.960
<v Speaker 1>could just repeat that mantra in your head, and then

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<v Speaker 1>when your thoughts begin to detour to whatever you did

0:28:22.119 --> 0:28:24.199
<v Speaker 1>for lunch yesterday, or what you have to do for

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:27.040
<v Speaker 1>your bills or anything like that, you can simply come

0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:29.680
<v Speaker 1>back to your mantra. And then you're in a detour again.

0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:31.639
<v Speaker 1>But then you can always come back to your mantra.

0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:35.679
<v Speaker 1>And so having that single pointed focus will be very

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:39.360
<v Speaker 1>effective for someone who's scatter brains like that. But then

0:28:39.400 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 1>how about because I mean, same same Mike. Even when

0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm in therapy and you know we have she starts

0:28:45.640 --> 0:28:48.640
<v Speaker 1>with like a guide of meditation every time, and I'll

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>tell her, I said, you know, sometimes I'm questioning the meditation,

0:28:52.280 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 1>or I'm somewhere else, or I'm like, man, I really

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 1>wish I was home right now with the kids are

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 1>and mine wanders. And then when I try to meditate

0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>at home, it's I'm grabbing my phone or be like

0:29:00.480 --> 0:29:03.680
<v Speaker 1>you're grabbing your your little what's that little thing? You

0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 1>play the video games? So it's we we have the time,

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, we're choosing to pick up other things. So

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:13.840
<v Speaker 1>it's how do we kind of train our mind to

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<v Speaker 1>say okay instead of picking up that to turn off, yeah,

0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 1>to turn off those things, Like how do we put

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 1>those those things away that we usually is what we

0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 1>calm down with. Yeah, I think that you have to

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:29.240
<v Speaker 1>realize that the more you practice meditating, the better you

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:33.400
<v Speaker 1>experience it, the more of a of a serenity you'll

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>begin to experience in your life. I do a transcendental meditation.

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 1>So I practiced twenty minutes twice a day, and the

0:29:40.280 --> 0:29:43.360
<v Speaker 1>more I've practiced, the better I feel in the moment

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:46.200
<v Speaker 1>of the meditation, so so much so that I look

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>forward to it. And so I think it's about like

0:29:50.680 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>anything like when you start to go to the gym

0:29:53.440 --> 0:29:55.920
<v Speaker 1>and you start to notice the physical benefits and you

0:29:55.920 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 1>start to actually, it's real good when you're exercising, you

0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:03.040
<v Speaker 1>want more or of it, right, So it's almost like

0:30:03.080 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 1>you have to just get over that initial hurdle of

0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>the resistance to the practice and then put it into

0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:11.040
<v Speaker 1>practice in order to get to a place where you

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<v Speaker 1>really long for it. Love that. It's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>point because in the beginning of running it sucks, but

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 1>when you're running thirty minutes, you're like, oh wow, like

0:30:18.680 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>this isn't as bad anymore. Well, that's funny because that

0:30:21.040 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 1>was actually going to be a question because like, I'm

0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:26.480
<v Speaker 1>a runner, so a lot of times I don't meditate,

0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like sometimes when I'm running, that's my time.

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:33.000
<v Speaker 1>But are you You don't really think that, you know,

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 1>in order to actually meditate, we need to be turned off,

0:30:36.440 --> 0:30:40.920
<v Speaker 1>not doing anything, not working out, Like that's not meditating.

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess it is my question, not meditating, but it

0:30:43.800 --> 0:30:47.120
<v Speaker 1>is the way that you are getting spiritually connected because

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:51.120
<v Speaker 1>when you're running, you're releasing resistance. And so whenever we've

0:30:51.120 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 1>release resistance, energey like energetically, it's got a lot of

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 1>energy blocking us. Thoughts can be released while you're running

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:59.959
<v Speaker 1>because you're just thinking about something so physical that you're

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 1>mind releases that you let go of that resistance. And

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>when you release that resistance, the fear thoughts, the dramas,

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:09.600
<v Speaker 1>the stories, the negative energy, that's when you get closer

0:31:09.640 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 1>to your spiritual inspiration to the voice of inspiration, and

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 1>so I bet you get very creative ideas when you're

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:18.480
<v Speaker 1>running or inspired inspired thoughts, and that's that's you know,

0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>in spirit, inspiration comes when we release resistance. So while

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:27.080
<v Speaker 1>it's not a meditative experience, it is another way of

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<v Speaker 1>getting closer to that voice of inspiration. What's been the

0:31:30.360 --> 0:31:35.320
<v Speaker 1>biggest type of therapy that's help you. M d R

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>therapy has been the greatest therapy that's helped me, and

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>it's high movement to sensitization and reproces. Michael and I

0:31:41.800 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 1>both do e m d R. We love it. Yeah,

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 1>it's they saved my life. It's the best thing I've

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:48.960
<v Speaker 1>ever done. I will say though it's Um. I did

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 1>have a session last week, was my MDR therapist, and

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:56.080
<v Speaker 1>she keeps she keeps telling me that because I started

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:58.719
<v Speaker 1>crying and I said, I feel like I'm doing it wrong. Um,

0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 1>She's like, there's no wrong method to it. She goes,

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:03.240
<v Speaker 1>she goes, I know, and that's what she said. She goes,

0:32:03.320 --> 0:32:05.959
<v Speaker 1>but she goes, there is something that's blocking you from

0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 1>going there. And even when she said that, I started bawling.

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:11.960
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, I don't know what it is like,

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 1>and that's that's where I'm here's the good news. Okay.

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:20.800
<v Speaker 1>So the fact that you're getting to a place where

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you're recognizing there's a block is a big move. There's

0:32:25.160 --> 0:32:28.840
<v Speaker 1>a big step. You don't have to figure out what

0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:31.400
<v Speaker 1>that block is. You can actually do E M d R.

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:34.040
<v Speaker 1>Just on the block, on the feeling of being blocked.

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:38.720
<v Speaker 1>Keep working on whatever it's up for you in the

0:32:38.800 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 1>moment in that session, and each thing, each emotion that's

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:45.479
<v Speaker 1>up for you is like an aspect of this greater block.

0:32:45.960 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 1>So as you kick out each aspect like today I'm

0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 1>feeling frustrated, or yesterday I lost it on the waitress

0:32:53.480 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>because she didn't come in time, those moments are triggers

0:32:57.000 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>that are reactivity ways that you're reacting to the block,

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 1>to the event, to the experience that you're not wanting

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.840
<v Speaker 1>to witness. And so as you kick out those different

0:33:05.880 --> 0:33:08.800
<v Speaker 1>aspects through each e M d R session, it's like

0:33:08.920 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 1>kicking out the legs of a table. Eventually the table

0:33:11.320 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>will collapse and what you need to hear will be revealed.

0:33:14.480 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 1>So I don't want you to worry about what it

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>is that's blocking you. Just keep working on the aspects

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:24.760
<v Speaker 1>that are showing up. Okay, Gabby, have you always been

0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:30.560
<v Speaker 1>a very spiritually connected and emotionally connected human being or

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>is there something in your life that happened that kind

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:37.360
<v Speaker 1>of turns you into this direction. Both. I've always been

0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 1>on a spiritual path. My my mother brought me up

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 1>visiting ashrams and taught me to meditate as a child.

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 1>But I also turned my back on it many times

0:33:45.560 --> 0:33:47.320
<v Speaker 1>in my twenties. I really turned my back on it

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:51.120
<v Speaker 1>my early twenties, Um, because I thought that I would

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:53.640
<v Speaker 1>be able to find my own way and gave up

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:56.960
<v Speaker 1>on it and was led down a lot of addictive

0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 1>patterns and paths. And when I was twenty five, I

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:03.240
<v Speaker 1>got over and in my sober recovery, I reclaimed my

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:08.760
<v Speaker 1>spiritual faith and then continued to deepen my practice. Totally

0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 1>makes sense that programs are all about spiritual spirituality and

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:14.960
<v Speaker 1>your connection with the higher power. So I totally get that.

0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. I mean, where can our listeners find you? Um?

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 1>And um, obviously the book is out right now, super attractor.

0:34:24.920 --> 0:34:27.759
<v Speaker 1>What else? Is there one thing that you want them

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<v Speaker 1>to really take away from the book. Well, this book,

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 1>while the subtitle is Methods for manifesting a life beyond

0:34:34.800 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 1>your wildest dreams. And that's true, it's a dawnest subtitle.

0:34:38.880 --> 0:34:41.160
<v Speaker 1>But the book isn't about how to get things. It's

0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:43.880
<v Speaker 1>a book on how to feel good. So when we

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 1>feel good, we become super attractors. That's when we start

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to be a match for what we want. So if

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:53.480
<v Speaker 1>you're ready to feel good and then therefore attract what

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:55.359
<v Speaker 1>you desire into your life, and this is your book,

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:58.319
<v Speaker 1>go grab it. That's awesome, Gabby, Thank you so much.

0:34:59.200 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Really appreciate your in site and I'm really excited to

0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:06.760
<v Speaker 1>read your book now. I'm so glad. All right, thanks Gavy.

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:21.360
<v Speaker 1>By guys, she's cool. Yeah, that's awesome. I love what

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>she said there at the end, where it's it's not

0:35:24.000 --> 0:35:29.399
<v Speaker 1>about getting things, it's almost about just changing your your

0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:32.920
<v Speaker 1>mindset of having more gratitude for what you do have.

0:35:33.520 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 1>And so maybe if you're not yearning for other things,

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:39.719
<v Speaker 1>you'll be happier because of what's currently around you. So

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:41.279
<v Speaker 1>that's a that was a good point that she made

0:35:41.280 --> 0:35:44.880
<v Speaker 1>at the end there. I really would love to start

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:50.120
<v Speaker 1>meditating more, but I because if I have tried so

0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:52.719
<v Speaker 1>many times. But even if it's just mean even my

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 1>watch will say take a deep take, and I'm like,

0:35:55.320 --> 0:35:57.239
<v Speaker 1>ignore gutting at a time for that, you know what

0:35:57.280 --> 0:35:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like got no time? I mean I could

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:02.680
<v Speaker 1>do I just like she said twenty minutes. I've tried,

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:05.080
<v Speaker 1>even when I'm in yoga, I really try to turn

0:36:05.120 --> 0:36:07.399
<v Speaker 1>my brain off, and like I can, but it's so

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:10.480
<v Speaker 1>hard for me to like really truly disconnect and turn

0:36:10.520 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 1>my brain off. What if there's something I mean, with Mike,

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 1>would you okay, so we set our alarm for six,

0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 1>is there something where in the middle of the day

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 1>or in the morning or at night, before we grab

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:27.200
<v Speaker 1>our phones, before you grab your little PlayStation thing imaging

0:36:27.280 --> 0:36:28.880
<v Speaker 1>or whatever that is. I don't know what that thing is.

0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Just causes a lot of light in the bedroom, so

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 1>he has to build a barrier. But is there something where?

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know it's supposed to be alone, but

0:36:36.160 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I might need the extra person to like well even

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:42.239
<v Speaker 1>to just be accountability. You guys do it, maybe maybe

0:36:42.280 --> 0:36:45.560
<v Speaker 1>design together, but just like, hey, you know, don't forget

0:36:45.600 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 1>to meditate. I don't know, just because I think for me,

0:36:48.160 --> 0:36:49.920
<v Speaker 1>like I have a hard time working out by myself.

0:36:49.960 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I need to have either a trainer, or a sayer

0:36:51.800 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 1>or someone with me. Well, I think the word meditate

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:57.640
<v Speaker 1>is also really scary because that makes you think like, Okay,

0:36:57.640 --> 0:36:59.400
<v Speaker 1>to meditate, I gotta sit there and I gotta be

0:36:59.600 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Even if Michael was just like, hey, go take two

0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.439
<v Speaker 1>minutes to yourself and by two minutes, put your phone

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:08.080
<v Speaker 1>down and go like but I mean again, but if

0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:10.359
<v Speaker 1>you tell me too, because usually like do you want

0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:11.920
<v Speaker 1>to put your phone down and go? And like like

0:37:12.000 --> 0:37:13.879
<v Speaker 1>the other day, you know, he said, he's like, hey

0:37:13.960 --> 0:37:17.319
<v Speaker 1>go because I was running around like crazy, there's so

0:37:17.400 --> 0:37:19.040
<v Speaker 1>much to do, and he's like, go take a few

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:21.759
<v Speaker 1>minutes for yourself, and yeah, I did, I have my phone.

0:37:21.800 --> 0:37:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I laid down and it was so it took me

0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 1>five times of saying that for you to go do it. Yeah,

0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:30.200
<v Speaker 1>sometimes I don't. I feel like I don't. I don't

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.880
<v Speaker 1>want to have to convince you to do something for yourself.

0:37:33.200 --> 0:37:34.799
<v Speaker 1>But if it's something where we know that the home,

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:36.919
<v Speaker 1>like maybe our homework right now, because it is true,

0:37:37.000 --> 0:37:39.759
<v Speaker 1>like working out, I mean you're going to get the

0:37:39.800 --> 0:37:41.480
<v Speaker 1>results and then I won't need you to ask me

0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:43.359
<v Speaker 1>and be like, oh and that's my thing for me

0:37:43.520 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>that I need that I know I need to do,

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:47.759
<v Speaker 1>but I might need the extra help of accountability for

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:50.359
<v Speaker 1>someone to say, hey, do you meditate today? I mean,

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:52.000
<v Speaker 1>even if it's like you're just going to sit out

0:37:52.000 --> 0:37:54.880
<v Speaker 1>on your little wine porch with you know, I feel

0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 1>like there's it's such a specific thing meditating. But that's

0:37:58.960 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 1>why I was kind of asking her, like running like

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:03.920
<v Speaker 1>to me, that's my meditating, like I'm not thinking about technically.

0:38:03.920 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>She said that wasn't right. I know, but that's what

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. But because I think it's so extreme, and

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:09.359
<v Speaker 1>I think that's why it turns people off, because they think, oh,

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:11.839
<v Speaker 1>in order, you know which it is. But I think

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:15.759
<v Speaker 1>everyone maybe has their own way of meditating. I think

0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:18.600
<v Speaker 1>the whole point of it is to not be distracted

0:38:18.600 --> 0:38:21.480
<v Speaker 1>by something. So maybe to her point, it's your running

0:38:21.640 --> 0:38:26.360
<v Speaker 1>is distracting you and distracting I don't know if that

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:28.239
<v Speaker 1>would be because, like Sarah said, you could go and

0:38:28.280 --> 0:38:29.719
<v Speaker 1>sit out on the porch if you didn't have your

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:31.840
<v Speaker 1>phone and it was just quiet. Because I've done that

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:33.719
<v Speaker 1>at moments where I've just sat and you know how

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:35.799
<v Speaker 1>much I love our bar room and I sitting there

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:38.320
<v Speaker 1>and eat lunch. But I'm just sitting there and actually

0:38:38.360 --> 0:38:41.000
<v Speaker 1>have your iPad or But I'm saying I've had moments

0:38:41.000 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>where I've i haven't and I just sit there and

0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:44.960
<v Speaker 1>it's just quiet and it's just me and my thoughts

0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 1>while I'm eating or something. What what did help me

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:55.200
<v Speaker 1>when I'm meditating a lot in the past. The reason

0:38:55.239 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 1>why it's because I was in rehab and basically made

0:38:57.800 --> 0:39:03.040
<v Speaker 1>you was God ad medic patients always helped me because

0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:06.319
<v Speaker 1>if it's just music or whatever, I'm everywhere my head is.

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:10.080
<v Speaker 1>But guide and meditations are definitely what helped me get

0:39:10.080 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>through and sit there for a twenty minute meditation sessions. Well,

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:17.319
<v Speaker 1>and the thing is my my therapist Amy. She we

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:19.400
<v Speaker 1>every session we start with the guide and meditation. But

0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:21.919
<v Speaker 1>it's only five minutes, and I love it. It makes

0:39:21.960 --> 0:39:25.279
<v Speaker 1>me so relaxed and like calm. Well that's what I'm thinking.

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Maybe you only need five minutes, you know, not everyone

0:39:27.600 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>is gonna I would Yeah, I wouldn't do more for

0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:32.759
<v Speaker 1>me personally, I probably wouldn't do more than five. It's

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:36.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot to sit longer than that. But again, it

0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 1>depends on how it affects you. And maybe you can

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:39.800
<v Speaker 1>get to that point where we can start doing longer.

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:42.160
<v Speaker 1>But and I know for me or for us, we

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:45.879
<v Speaker 1>would have to do it either in the morning, first thing,

0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 1>or at night because if we went to hey, go

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:52.959
<v Speaker 1>take two minutes and it's like eleven o'clock, we're gonna

0:39:52.960 --> 0:39:55.480
<v Speaker 1>be thinking about what we're gonna do after we're meditating.

0:39:55.800 --> 0:39:58.080
<v Speaker 1>It's true, Yeah, okay, we're gonna sit there. It's like

0:39:58.120 --> 0:39:59.480
<v Speaker 1>what am I gonna do? You know what we don't

0:39:59.520 --> 0:40:01.799
<v Speaker 1>do on the whine down to our We do not meditate, No,

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:04.280
<v Speaker 1>we do not. We gotta feel like that's so crazy

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:07.239
<v Speaker 1>that it's like we have more dates coming up. We

0:40:07.280 --> 0:40:11.560
<v Speaker 1>are sold out in Chicago. We're so sorry, we we

0:40:11.560 --> 0:40:14.200
<v Speaker 1>we UM well we'll add another date maybe hopefully next year.

0:40:14.239 --> 0:40:16.320
<v Speaker 1>But UM wind down a sold out in Chicago. But

0:40:16.360 --> 0:40:18.960
<v Speaker 1>there are still tickets Chicago to go to Michigan. They're

0:40:18.960 --> 0:40:21.879
<v Speaker 1>still tickets available in Michigan. It's a close drive ish

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:27.280
<v Speaker 1>drive UM December fourth one in Michigan, December fire in Louisville.

0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 1>UM again, reminder the podcast wind out, it's like it's

0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:35.520
<v Speaker 1>not really a podcast evening with Sarah's there and she's

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:38.120
<v Speaker 1>are a little like spit fire. You guys, we have

0:40:38.480 --> 0:40:45.480
<v Speaker 1>so much fun Sarah the text Kylie s oh my gosh,

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:49.120
<v Speaker 1>our nanny. Kylie sent us a video today because so

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:54.640
<v Speaker 1>back up real fast, Michael. We're in Nashville the show.

0:40:54.840 --> 0:40:57.120
<v Speaker 1>First of all, those two back to back shows the

0:40:57.200 --> 0:40:59.919
<v Speaker 1>Nashville were incredible. Weed Emily Giffen on our Atlanta show,

0:41:00.360 --> 0:41:05.839
<v Speaker 1>she was insane, which I wanted to call on because

0:41:05.840 --> 0:41:07.440
<v Speaker 1>she's the best. I'll try to get her on just

0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 1>because she's a spit fire. Within the Nashville show, he

0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:12.799
<v Speaker 1>had Lauren and Chris. They were also amazing. Um so

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:16.560
<v Speaker 1>again you can get some guests as well. But Michael

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:20.520
<v Speaker 1>was trying to go through what was the story because

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I was getting I went out to get the audience

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:25.160
<v Speaker 1>members that we're going to have to come up on

0:41:25.239 --> 0:41:27.560
<v Speaker 1>stage and play a little game, and I grabbed the

0:41:27.600 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 1>four of them and I had a few drinks. Okay,

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>so I had a few drinks, So I went I

0:41:36.040 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 1>tried to take them backstage and there's a wall with

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:42.440
<v Speaker 1>a big gass curtain and I couldn't find where the

0:41:42.480 --> 0:41:46.000
<v Speaker 1>doorway was. So I'm sitting there, which felt like an eternity,

0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to open this curtain, and someone that works there

0:41:48.640 --> 0:41:50.880
<v Speaker 1>is like, you gotta go this way, and four people

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 1>behind me. The whole audience like watching me. I'm just

0:41:53.200 --> 0:41:56.800
<v Speaker 1>going at a brick wall, trying to go through a curtain.

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.000
<v Speaker 1>So a nanny sends us this video which I'm going

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 1>to put on Instagram, So you guys go to my

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Instagram story. It's hilarious. I'm not even gonna like I

0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:06.279
<v Speaker 1>can't wait to see that. Okay, well I'm gonna show.

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna show you right now. I need you, I

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:11.960
<v Speaker 1>need you to know everyone right now to go to

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>my story. This is like father like son trying to

0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:20.719
<v Speaker 1>get through stop. So Kylie sends it and says, my

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 1>dad trying to get curtains. Dad trying to get to

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:25.799
<v Speaker 1>the curtains at the Nashville show the other night, Mike

0:42:25.960 --> 0:42:28.400
<v Speaker 1>was dead. That is so funny. And then can we

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:31.480
<v Speaker 1>talk about what happened after the show? I'm in Okay,

0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:33.360
<v Speaker 1>you guys, By the way, I just need to tell you,

0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 1>like this was the best show ever, Like it really was. Yeah,

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.319
<v Speaker 1>I think I think it was Atlanta and Nashville killed.

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:42.040
<v Speaker 1>And so afterwards we go back and I'm I'm in

0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:44.640
<v Speaker 1>the shower. You know everyone's done. I have friends to

0:42:44.640 --> 0:42:48.400
<v Speaker 1>tell you something. I did something really like, oh I'm scared. No,

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:50.279
<v Speaker 1>we'll go ahead. Okay, So I don't even know what's

0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:52.480
<v Speaker 1>going on. Well, no, it was just funny because you know,

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:55.040
<v Speaker 1>we're all done. I go back and I'm in the

0:42:55.080 --> 0:42:59.600
<v Speaker 1>shower and I'm showering, Okay, I mean, you know, and

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:04.080
<v Speaker 1>live a sudden she walks in the bathroom and goes, Sarah,

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I scream, she's so yes. I thought maybe she woke

0:43:09.239 --> 0:43:11.440
<v Speaker 1>up Jay's that's how mind dude. This is like thirty

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 1>minutes later, like the night is come in there because

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:17.799
<v Speaker 1>you came in to tell me that Mike passed out's

0:43:17.920 --> 0:43:24.120
<v Speaker 1>room and I literally look at her. I go, what

0:43:24.200 --> 0:43:26.280
<v Speaker 1>is wrong with you? Like I'm showering, and she goes, okay,

0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:28.279
<v Speaker 1>I just I need to tell you that, Um I

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:30.320
<v Speaker 1>just went to say a night to Julian Mike's passed

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:31.640
<v Speaker 1>out in her bad and she goes, why are you

0:43:31.640 --> 0:43:34.239
<v Speaker 1>telling me this right now? I think the show. I

0:43:34.360 --> 0:43:40.240
<v Speaker 1>literally was like her vagina. But this is also because

0:43:40.280 --> 0:43:42.359
<v Speaker 1>that morning she said that the h Bat guys came

0:43:42.360 --> 0:43:44.400
<v Speaker 1>in too, Like look at the air and she's like,

0:43:44.400 --> 0:43:45.880
<v Speaker 1>they almost came into your room and you would have

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:47.799
<v Speaker 1>freaked out. So all of a sudden, I'm like, I

0:43:47.840 --> 0:43:51.200
<v Speaker 1>thought it was the h bat guy. More like, you

0:43:51.360 --> 0:43:55.560
<v Speaker 1>scared the ship out of me. Oh my god. Okay,

0:43:55.560 --> 0:43:58.799
<v Speaker 1>but what Okay, So I saw your ring sitting on

0:43:58.880 --> 0:44:05.479
<v Speaker 1>the counter and so wait, you moved it. No, you good,

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I thought. So I saw her ringing in the counter

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and legs by the sink, which is a scary place.

0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Pitter ring. Okay, So I saw the ring and I

0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:24.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, I'm gonna steal the ring. So I

0:44:24.120 --> 0:44:26.680
<v Speaker 1>took the ring. I had it on like, I put

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 1>it like on my finger, which it didn't fit. And

0:44:29.719 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I walked out of the room because I wanted to

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>scare her in there before I knew you were showering. No,

0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:38.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how long you weren't. I opened I

0:44:38.840 --> 0:44:41.880
<v Speaker 1>went straight in your room and opened the door. And

0:44:41.920 --> 0:44:43.920
<v Speaker 1>then right when I was leaving this and I grabbed

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:45.840
<v Speaker 1>the ring. And I obviously have my background, like you

0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:49.200
<v Speaker 1>can see me from behind because this is I'm showering. Yeah. So,

0:44:50.120 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm just like the person who doesn't care, like

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I walk around. I know you're like, I know, I know,

0:44:54.000 --> 0:44:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I see. So I have the ring and then I

0:44:56.719 --> 0:44:59.439
<v Speaker 1>go into our room and I'm like Okay, I don't

0:44:59.440 --> 0:45:05.040
<v Speaker 1>want to like freaker out, king scream if it were gone.

0:45:05.120 --> 0:45:06.960
<v Speaker 1>You think I was scared of that because then I

0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:09.160
<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, it's like twelve o'clock, so she's gonna

0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:11.680
<v Speaker 1>probably be looking for the next hour and then she's

0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:14.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna be freaking out and not go to sleep. But

0:45:14.160 --> 0:45:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I had a full conversation of how me now I

0:45:15.600 --> 0:45:17.319
<v Speaker 1>was going to be with the ring, and so I'm

0:45:17.320 --> 0:45:18.239
<v Speaker 1>just like, I don't want to have to come in

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:20.800
<v Speaker 1>the room because I'm gonna be sleeping, and then michaelll

0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:22.720
<v Speaker 1>be sleeping, and she's still not going to be sleeping.

0:45:23.200 --> 0:45:25.000
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like going through this. So I was like, Okay,

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna bring it back. So I bring it back

0:45:26.680 --> 0:45:28.360
<v Speaker 1>in the room and then I just put it on

0:45:28.400 --> 0:45:30.719
<v Speaker 1>the dresser. She puts it on the dresser. I didn't

0:45:30.760 --> 0:45:34.320
<v Speaker 1>leave it on the dresser. I put them a long

0:45:34.680 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 1>mothercking way from the bathroom sink. No, do you know

0:45:38.080 --> 0:45:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that I have literally all the bleeps because this is

0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:45.080
<v Speaker 1>no joke. I literally talked about walked out and I

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:48.320
<v Speaker 1>saw my ring standing there, and I go, I am,

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:51.120
<v Speaker 1>first of all, I am not that drunk. I did

0:45:51.200 --> 0:45:55.160
<v Speaker 1>not put my ring there and I'm like, oh, okay,

0:45:55.719 --> 0:45:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I was mental, and then I'm like maybe no, she

0:45:59.640 --> 0:46:01.839
<v Speaker 1>was in your first split. Secondly, I was just like

0:46:01.880 --> 0:46:04.000
<v Speaker 1>washing my armpits like she didn't have time to take

0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:11.640
<v Speaker 1>who No, I'm like, the guys came. Oh. I was

0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:17.400
<v Speaker 1>literally that's amazing you too. It was the story, the

0:46:17.440 --> 0:46:20.000
<v Speaker 1>fact that you even have to going there. Mike has

0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:24.560
<v Speaker 1>passed out in Jolie's bed, passed out because Jolie woke

0:46:24.680 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 1>up and she wanted me to lay with her when

0:46:26.640 --> 0:46:28.040
<v Speaker 1>we got home. So I was like, all right, and

0:46:28.080 --> 0:46:34.320
<v Speaker 1>then good night, goodbye. Dad gets let's it's let drunk.

0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:39.839
<v Speaker 1>Mike comes out. It was funny. Oh, this is funny. Beforehand,

0:46:39.880 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 1>before the show, Jane is like, all right, come on,

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:43.319
<v Speaker 1>like I need drunk min like, let's go. Let's go

0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:46.759
<v Speaker 1>like force feeding me drinks. And then we're like on

0:46:46.800 --> 0:46:51.160
<v Speaker 1>the car ride back and Jana says something about getting

0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:53.360
<v Speaker 1>the kids in the morning. She goes, Mike, are you drunk?

0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:56.200
<v Speaker 1>And You're like, I mean, I'm not not drunk. She's like, well,

0:46:56.239 --> 0:46:57.839
<v Speaker 1>just so you know you're taking to Julia, you're taking

0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Julia school in the morning. Yeah, she says, I'm not

0:46:59.719 --> 0:47:03.680
<v Speaker 1>getting getting umber the King and you literally, I'm like,

0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:08.840
<v Speaker 1>you thinking for me to get drunk. Now I get hammered.

0:47:08.920 --> 0:47:10.880
<v Speaker 1>And now you're like, oh, by the way, you're waking

0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>up at because I had to work. You're only funny

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:21.080
<v Speaker 1>when you're drunk. He said that. Somebody said that, and

0:47:21.120 --> 0:47:26.759
<v Speaker 1>he's like, no, no, not you just listen up. Yeah,

0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:30.800
<v Speaker 1>but we're more. But he's like, I'm like, just because

0:47:30.800 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 1>you drank, I'm like, that's not my fault forced you to.

0:47:34.920 --> 0:47:39.279
<v Speaker 1>I was like, on that contrary, nous. Anyone there that

0:47:39.360 --> 0:47:42.719
<v Speaker 1>was witnessing basically saw you funnel alcohol down my mouth.

0:47:43.800 --> 0:47:46.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh it's so fun. Okay, it's all fun and games.

0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 1>But hopefully we'll see you guys in Detroit and Louisville

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:52.640
<v Speaker 1>because it's a rowdy time. Rowdy. All right, let's take

0:47:52.640 --> 0:47:58.480
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<v Speaker 1>All right, So we are extremely extremely fortunate to have

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:07.959
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how we got these guys on our show.

0:49:09.280 --> 0:49:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean they're going to be so impact doing a

0:49:12.200 --> 0:49:18.480
<v Speaker 1>tour after this. UM. We have Becca Betania, Becca Tilly

0:49:18.520 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 1>and Tanya Rad the winners of the Best Pop Podcast

0:49:22.400 --> 0:49:28.840
<v Speaker 1>at the PC as scrubbing in you guys, congratulations seriously,

0:49:28.880 --> 0:49:30.600
<v Speaker 1>from the bottom of our hearts. We were so freaking

0:49:30.600 --> 0:49:32.040
<v Speaker 1>we wanted it to be you guys. We wanted you

0:49:32.080 --> 0:49:34.560
<v Speaker 1>to two pee. I told you that. I know, I know.

0:49:34.800 --> 0:49:38.560
<v Speaker 1>It's like so nice, Like I just like you're scrubbing

0:49:38.560 --> 0:49:45.399
<v Speaker 1>in listeners. Man, there they are avid literally voters. I mean,

0:49:45.680 --> 0:49:47.760
<v Speaker 1>but do you know what's funny though, I really because

0:49:47.800 --> 0:49:50.520
<v Speaker 1>I really like that's me. I'm that person, do you

0:49:50.600 --> 0:49:52.120
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like, I mean, I I voted

0:49:52.120 --> 0:49:54.400
<v Speaker 1>for your podcast a few times. I voted for ours

0:49:54.480 --> 0:49:58.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe three thousand times, like that, I didn't even vote

0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:00.759
<v Speaker 1>for ours, did you vote for you're saying like I

0:50:00.800 --> 0:50:03.319
<v Speaker 1>am that person though that like whenever, like people, when

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:05.799
<v Speaker 1>I do that, it's easy. It's on your computer. I'm

0:50:05.840 --> 0:50:08.560
<v Speaker 1>just sitting here. But when I was in high school,

0:50:08.560 --> 0:50:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I do this stuff all the time. I were in

0:50:10.040 --> 0:50:12.960
<v Speaker 1>sync for everything. Like I was that person. So like

0:50:13.000 --> 0:50:14.879
<v Speaker 1>it makes sense that like our listeners are at least

0:50:14.880 --> 0:50:17.879
<v Speaker 1>half of our listeners one half of this group, because

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:22.520
<v Speaker 1>are just going bananas on that, you know. I mean,

0:50:22.560 --> 0:50:24.719
<v Speaker 1>that's awesome though, but it's not just about I mean

0:50:25.120 --> 0:50:27.160
<v Speaker 1>what you guys talk about. You guys are relatable, you're fun,

0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you know you guys guys, I mean you are. And

0:50:30.160 --> 0:50:33.719
<v Speaker 1>I watched you tell Pink you and your husband have

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:36.920
<v Speaker 1>really helped us, and I was like, wow, but it's

0:50:36.920 --> 0:50:39.760
<v Speaker 1>true though, that was something you do for other people.

0:50:39.920 --> 0:50:43.280
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying, yeah, well, we all have our lanes,

0:50:43.719 --> 0:50:47.160
<v Speaker 1>we do, and we're all staying in them, but we're

0:50:47.280 --> 0:50:50.719
<v Speaker 1>rooting you guys onto that. I'm saying. Our lanes are

0:50:51.120 --> 0:50:53.640
<v Speaker 1>crossing over and then they crossed back over, but they're

0:50:53.680 --> 0:50:57.160
<v Speaker 1>all going guess which way in direction? Forward? Forward? They're

0:50:57.160 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 1>all going forward. Yeah, and we're all we're all better

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:02.800
<v Speaker 1>or because of it. I love the healthy competition too. Yeah,

0:51:03.280 --> 0:51:05.200
<v Speaker 1>and we all wanted to win. Sure would be like

0:51:05.680 --> 0:51:10.279
<v Speaker 1>bummed for a hot second, but I'm like so happy

0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:12.880
<v Speaker 1>back Antonia. Well of course it's again. We kind of

0:51:12.920 --> 0:51:15.760
<v Speaker 1>mentioned on their podcast that it's it's about the mutual respect,

0:51:15.800 --> 0:51:18.600
<v Speaker 1>that it's not that fake support and appreciation for the

0:51:18.640 --> 0:51:21.040
<v Speaker 1>other people. It's like, okay, that's it's like it is.

0:51:21.160 --> 0:51:22.960
<v Speaker 1>It does feel like family and friends are winning too.

0:51:23.000 --> 0:51:24.719
<v Speaker 1>It's like, y'all win, we win, you know, especially being

0:51:24.719 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 1>a part of the Heart family too. That's definitely even

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:29.200
<v Speaker 1>bigger part of it. You have some different podcasts, one

0:51:29.239 --> 0:51:31.680
<v Speaker 1>that wasn't like I'd kind of be like, like, wait,

0:51:32.280 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 1>you're not an I heeart? Do you even exist? Do

0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:41.120
<v Speaker 1>you even go here? Go here? Exactly? Gina George their ass. Yeah. Yeah,

0:51:41.440 --> 0:51:44.280
<v Speaker 1>And you guys are taking you scrubbing In on the road.

0:51:44.719 --> 0:51:48.960
<v Speaker 1>I heard maybe possibly two dates are taking well. Yeah,

0:51:49.040 --> 0:51:52.960
<v Speaker 1>we're doing a little little test to run who shows

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:55.680
<v Speaker 1>up San Francisco in l A. That's awesome. So what

0:51:55.719 --> 0:51:59.040
<v Speaker 1>can they expect when they come see scrubbing In in person?

0:51:59.600 --> 0:52:03.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, probably a lot of women empowerment talk, a

0:52:03.440 --> 0:52:08.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of friendship vibes. We just want people to come show.

0:52:08.719 --> 0:52:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Every time we do something where people come and show

0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 1>up from our podcast, it feels like people are making

0:52:14.560 --> 0:52:17.400
<v Speaker 1>friends that people that maybe didn't have friends or didn't

0:52:17.400 --> 0:52:19.399
<v Speaker 1>know people in the city that they live and get

0:52:19.440 --> 0:52:22.319
<v Speaker 1>to meet people. And it's really cool to kind of

0:52:22.360 --> 0:52:26.360
<v Speaker 1>be a part of watching what we've built in this community.

0:52:26.400 --> 0:52:28.839
<v Speaker 1>But they've kind of taken it on there. I mean,

0:52:28.880 --> 0:52:31.719
<v Speaker 1>the Facebook group itself hasn't. I literally every time we

0:52:31.760 --> 0:52:35.239
<v Speaker 1>meet our listeners, I don't leave without crying at least once. Um,

0:52:35.560 --> 0:52:37.440
<v Speaker 1>and last time we had like a meet up or

0:52:37.440 --> 0:52:39.560
<v Speaker 1>whenever this girl came and she was like, hey, do

0:52:39.600 --> 0:52:42.279
<v Speaker 1>you guys remember Um we had a listener who was

0:52:42.320 --> 0:52:44.440
<v Speaker 1>going through chemo and she was in the hospital and

0:52:44.440 --> 0:52:46.839
<v Speaker 1>we had her on the show. One of our other

0:52:46.880 --> 0:52:51.200
<v Speaker 1>listeners connected with her through Facebook and got like just

0:52:51.320 --> 0:52:52.920
<v Speaker 1>randomly reach out to her and became friends with her

0:52:52.920 --> 0:52:55.080
<v Speaker 1>on the Facebook page and then got a video of

0:52:55.200 --> 0:52:57.400
<v Speaker 1>us like saying hi to her at the party so

0:52:57.440 --> 0:53:02.680
<v Speaker 1>she could send it to her. So she so, so

0:53:03.239 --> 0:53:05.520
<v Speaker 1>it really is cool. And so as far as like

0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:10.120
<v Speaker 1>the run of the show, neither of us sing, neither

0:53:10.160 --> 0:53:16.919
<v Speaker 1>of us dance. Well, well do you guys you've won

0:53:17.080 --> 0:53:19.719
<v Speaker 1>now two years in a row, People's Charts of Word

0:53:19.719 --> 0:53:21.960
<v Speaker 1>for best Pop Podcast. What do you guys have now

0:53:22.000 --> 0:53:25.000
<v Speaker 1>going into the next year, Like what excites you or

0:53:25.040 --> 0:53:26.960
<v Speaker 1>what do you want to bring to the table or

0:53:27.520 --> 0:53:29.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, elevate your your performance to make it a

0:53:29.719 --> 0:53:33.799
<v Speaker 1>three peat because we're gonna be coming for you. Do

0:53:33.840 --> 0:53:36.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what's funny? I really do want to like

0:53:36.239 --> 0:53:38.480
<v Speaker 1>have every year towards the end of the year, when

0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:40.520
<v Speaker 1>the year's winding down and the new one begins, I

0:53:40.600 --> 0:53:42.439
<v Speaker 1>kind of really get really intentional about like my goals,

0:53:42.520 --> 0:53:44.600
<v Speaker 1>my dreams and my plans, and they feel like this

0:53:44.719 --> 0:53:49.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of really reinvigorated me to kind of like, can

0:53:49.719 --> 0:53:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I say pull my balls out? Yeah? We talked about

0:53:52.640 --> 0:53:58.880
<v Speaker 1>all the balls and yeah, yeah, all right, so that

0:53:58.920 --> 0:54:00.080
<v Speaker 1>just means that we have to fight even hard to

0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:11.000
<v Speaker 1>then your two balls out. We got We'll grab Market Easton's.

0:54:13.040 --> 0:54:19.239
<v Speaker 1>We needn't want to eat from Market. Yeah. I'm so

0:54:19.360 --> 0:54:22.080
<v Speaker 1>excited for you guys than you know. I was watching

0:54:22.120 --> 0:54:25.279
<v Speaker 1>like all day yesterday everyone snaps and everyone's Instagram's and

0:54:25.360 --> 0:54:28.480
<v Speaker 1>you killing it out there. Thank you what you're doing

0:54:28.480 --> 0:54:30.879
<v Speaker 1>with It's kind of fun. I know, it's really fun.

0:54:30.920 --> 0:54:34.040
<v Speaker 1>And they're like, so it's really it's so hard for

0:54:34.080 --> 0:54:35.200
<v Speaker 1>me and I talked about it all the time on

0:54:35.239 --> 0:54:38.799
<v Speaker 1>our podcast. I suffer immensely from imposter syndrome, Like I

0:54:38.880 --> 0:54:42.239
<v Speaker 1>never feel like I belong where I am, and the

0:54:42.320 --> 0:54:45.120
<v Speaker 1>people at E really give me a run for my

0:54:45.160 --> 0:54:47.759
<v Speaker 1>money and when because they're just so nice and encouraging

0:54:48.800 --> 0:54:50.719
<v Speaker 1>taking they do, and I don't know how to take

0:54:50.840 --> 0:54:53.640
<v Speaker 1>compliments because I'm like, this is so weird. It was insane.

0:54:53.719 --> 0:54:55.799
<v Speaker 1>Every single place that we went, whether we were like

0:54:56.360 --> 0:54:59.720
<v Speaker 1>backstage or on the carpet, anyone for me, they were like, Tanya,

0:54:59.800 --> 0:55:01.840
<v Speaker 1>we love you so much, like we can't wait to

0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:05.120
<v Speaker 1>do more with you. Like it's really cool to see

0:55:05.239 --> 0:55:08.640
<v Speaker 1>her getting the recognition that she deserves, because I think

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:11.360
<v Speaker 1>sometimes she feels she says, she doesn't feel like she

0:55:11.400 --> 0:55:13.600
<v Speaker 1>deserves it. And so every single person I saw there like,

0:55:13.880 --> 0:55:15.520
<v Speaker 1>we love you and they hug her, And I'm like,

0:55:15.640 --> 0:55:20.359
<v Speaker 1>what if these people hug everybody? You know? Everybody? So, yeah,

0:55:20.360 --> 0:55:22.480
<v Speaker 1>it's been It was really special. And Becca, you have

0:55:22.520 --> 0:55:24.520
<v Speaker 1>your new line out at Macy's right, Yes, I have

0:55:24.600 --> 0:55:28.120
<v Speaker 1>my life. Thank you so much. I mean, it's amazing.

0:55:28.200 --> 0:55:30.920
<v Speaker 1>Tell us more, tell us more. Um, yeah, it's available.

0:55:31.280 --> 0:55:36.360
<v Speaker 1>It's Um it's a great Christmas gift, great Thanksgiving outfit

0:55:36.440 --> 0:55:38.560
<v Speaker 1>if you because you know, you get dressed up for

0:55:38.600 --> 0:55:41.160
<v Speaker 1>your Thanksgiving dinner for some reason while you're all sitting

0:55:41.200 --> 0:55:45.359
<v Speaker 1>around with your family. Need to look good. Um. So yeah,

0:55:45.440 --> 0:55:50.120
<v Speaker 1>it's available on Macy's dot com and then in overs.

0:55:50.160 --> 0:55:56.840
<v Speaker 1>It's amazing. What's next for you guys, both professionally, Um,

0:55:57.280 --> 0:56:00.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know. Building this podcast is getting

0:56:00.440 --> 0:56:05.000
<v Speaker 1>ready for next year's people came on Bitches Game on.

0:56:05.520 --> 0:56:08.640
<v Speaker 1>They're already starting their acceptance speech for next year. Well,

0:56:08.719 --> 0:56:11.520
<v Speaker 1>next time they need to hear it. They didn't hear it,

0:56:11.840 --> 0:56:15.000
<v Speaker 1>Well they did. Yeah, when it showed us hugging and

0:56:15.040 --> 0:56:18.359
<v Speaker 1>like it said pop podcast, it was like a bump

0:56:18.400 --> 0:56:20.840
<v Speaker 1>into commercial. It was like, but I still aired it,

0:56:20.840 --> 0:56:22.839
<v Speaker 1>which was like super cute. Still you should be able

0:56:22.880 --> 0:56:25.279
<v Speaker 1>to go up on stage and say thank you. There's

0:56:25.360 --> 0:56:29.560
<v Speaker 1>forty three categories for that show. So yeah, how popular

0:56:29.600 --> 0:56:33.319
<v Speaker 1>a podcast like everyone getting nowadays. That's true. It's kind

0:56:33.360 --> 0:56:35.080
<v Speaker 1>of like, oh, I'm listening to this podcast. I'm listening

0:56:35.160 --> 0:56:36.480
<v Speaker 1>that one. I do have a little bit of a

0:56:36.480 --> 0:56:38.840
<v Speaker 1>far fetched goal at some point in my life. I

0:56:38.840 --> 0:56:47.000
<v Speaker 1>would like to win a Grammy. Everyone was just like

0:56:47.080 --> 0:56:49.839
<v Speaker 1>looking at it to sing no no, no, no no,

0:56:49.880 --> 0:56:51.439
<v Speaker 1>I can't sing, but I want to write a song

0:56:51.520 --> 0:56:59.800
<v Speaker 1>that's what that wins a Grammy. That's yeah, yeah, like collaborations. Yeah,

0:57:00.200 --> 0:57:03.200
<v Speaker 1>please guys, because ultimate goal in life is to be

0:57:03.200 --> 0:57:05.040
<v Speaker 1>on the Grammy board, and you have to have one

0:57:05.080 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 1>have been nominated for Grammy to be on the board.

0:57:07.520 --> 0:57:10.080
<v Speaker 1>So that's your that's your goal goal. Yeah, that's my

0:57:10.200 --> 0:57:13.160
<v Speaker 1>like career goal. What's okay? I like this, what's your

0:57:13.160 --> 0:57:16.160
<v Speaker 1>life career goal? I don't think like that, Honestly, I'm not.

0:57:16.360 --> 0:57:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't have like five year plans. I don't. Yeah,

0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:22.520
<v Speaker 1>it's I was just about to say, my life goal

0:57:22.560 --> 0:57:29.160
<v Speaker 1>is literally to make it to Friday, like Grammy. Yeah,

0:57:29.720 --> 0:57:31.800
<v Speaker 1>Like my life goal at this point is like me

0:57:31.840 --> 0:57:34.920
<v Speaker 1>and figuring out a great lunch for today after this,

0:57:35.520 --> 0:57:39.240
<v Speaker 1>Me and tany are are the same. I'm somewhere in between,

0:57:39.680 --> 0:57:41.920
<v Speaker 1>are you, though? I am, because I still what's your

0:57:41.960 --> 0:57:43.760
<v Speaker 1>life goal? I still talked about with the stuff that

0:57:43.800 --> 0:57:48.720
<v Speaker 1>we're doing. Ultimately I would do I mean to be

0:57:48.760 --> 0:57:51.240
<v Speaker 1>like a Mike and Jannah competitors against Kelly and Ryan,

0:57:52.720 --> 0:57:55.160
<v Speaker 1>like a TV show. I think I think that would

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<v Speaker 1>be something that we have talked about that we would

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<v Speaker 1>like to eventually get into, and even if it's us

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<v Speaker 1>with another couple and we bring people on and have

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<v Speaker 1>conversations and stuff like that. So that's kind of where

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<v Speaker 1>I want to take this thing. Um, but we'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>But then, but then, and then Sarah's our DJ on

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<v Speaker 1>the side, like, wait, Dona, what's your life goal? I

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<v Speaker 1>would I would want to be, well, obviously the best

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<v Speaker 1>mom in the world what you are, But I I

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<v Speaker 1>my dream would be like a Kelley and Ryan with

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<v Speaker 1>with Mike, um, let's go. But then to be on

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a regular show to like to do like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, five Hallmark movies a year, if you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, one of those kind of things. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you love Hallmark movies? I do love Hallmark movies. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also have a lifetime movie coming out on Saturday,

0:58:49.240 --> 0:58:53.920
<v Speaker 1>so um called Christmas and Louisiana. So I'm Saturday. Everybody

0:58:53.960 --> 0:58:56.760
<v Speaker 1>mark your calendars because yeah, that'll be there. So so

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<v Speaker 1>I just I would love to just keep doing acting.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do it all. But would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to do another um like TV show like One Tree

0:59:04.600 --> 0:59:06.800
<v Speaker 1>Hill or do you like, Yes, I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>do so. For example, like I tested for The Resident.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get it. I remember you telling you that.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what I want. I want to get on

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<v Speaker 1>a show like a procedural and just be like the

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<v Speaker 1>fifth lead show up, do my job, get out, have

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<v Speaker 1>a just a ongoing check career job, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>can do my stuff on the side and do like

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning Show with Mike or you know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>do this and that and the other one. Have you guys,

0:59:30.040 --> 0:59:32.640
<v Speaker 1>have you guys watched The Morning Show with Jenners. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so good. Really, it's fantastic. Don't listen to reviews because

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<v Speaker 1>it's fantastic. But what's so great about it is Jeanna

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be Jennifer Anderson's character in that show so

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<v Speaker 1>bad because that's like her spirit animal. Is that character

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<v Speaker 1>just chaos and putting out fires and Boston people around

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<v Speaker 1>and handling things and just owning and just walking around

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<v Speaker 1>where everyone's just kind of like Jane's coming is intersting.

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<v Speaker 1>You are not a typical sagittary I am in relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say it, Are you a typical

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<v Speaker 1>sageant relationship? One thousand percent? So you just like adapt.

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<v Speaker 1>I fall in love real fast. I want them to

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<v Speaker 1>fall in love with me, and then I can draw

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<v Speaker 1>something tension as fast as possible. This is my friend

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<v Speaker 1>just got out of a breakup, and she is she's

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<v Speaker 1>on the cusp of Scorpio and sage, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's more of a Sagean relationships and she's we are

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<v Speaker 1>hard to tie down. So good job, baby. I'm a Pisces,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a fish hanging on the hook. I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to shake me can I say how proud I am

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<v Speaker 1>of this conversation right now? Anytime we have guests on,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, so, what's your sign? And Chance like it's

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<v Speaker 1>not real, Like why do you care? I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it actually is real, and I really do care. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, like so real's sere will be like a

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<v Speaker 1>checkout line if the if the red cash register persons

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<v Speaker 1>like says something particularly, they're definitely a say that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>how Sarah, Oh you're such a cancer, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I am how do you know? I'm like yeah, But

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<v Speaker 1>what if they're like no, I'm not. I'm like then

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<v Speaker 1>you're either I'm like, are you maybe a Gemini or Leo?

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<v Speaker 1>And then they're like actually Emilio And I'm like, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a little off. All Right, you guys give

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<v Speaker 1>it up again for Rebecca People's Choice Award. We'll see

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<v Speaker 1>you next year, ladies, we will see you. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do the same thing as Tanya, just like

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<v Speaker 1>have like someone going like little little people from I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know you, Well, you didn't do good enough? You

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<v Speaker 1>did you do it three thousand times a day? No,

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<v Speaker 1>not a day. I didn't I think collectively, I did

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<v Speaker 1>three thousand. Okay, I think a day. I think a day.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably gave us how many a day per email?

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<v Speaker 1>And I used four emails a day, so hundred a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Get better? You are a bot now and that's all right.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll give it up for them. Thanks for having up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do we have any good emails that? Um? Oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a good one. Can I read this one?

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<v Speaker 1>My abusive ex boyfriend texted me. I'm twenty seven years

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<v Speaker 1>old and about five years ago, I was an abusive

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with a guy that I had a very strong

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<v Speaker 1>connection with. While the abuse was mainly emotional manipulative. By

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I just want to say, anonymous, don't ever

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<v Speaker 1>downplay that ever, because emotional and manipulative abuse well, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sometimes it's worse. I'd be like, this is left up,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'd rather you hit me than say the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that you say, So don't ever downplay that. Okay. It

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<v Speaker 1>did cross lines of other forms as well. Recently, he

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<v Speaker 1>reached out with an apology and I tried to ignore

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<v Speaker 1>it until one night I got drunk and message back.

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<v Speaker 1>He's apologetic, says he regrets what he did to me.

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<v Speaker 1>More than anything and wants us to be together. However,

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<v Speaker 1>he has also spent time in therapy and now fully

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<v Speaker 1>recognizes he is a psychopath. Oh sorry, sociopath. Sorry. I

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<v Speaker 1>know we aren't going to end up together, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>but something keeps I know we aren't going to end

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<v Speaker 1>up together, but something keeps me connected to this. I'm curious,

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<v Speaker 1>especially Janna, if you have any advice on how to

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<v Speaker 1>just move on for good. That's hard. Um. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>my abuser emailed me when he got out of jail

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<v Speaker 1>and actually talked to him on the phone. UM. And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the more you have communication with them,

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<v Speaker 1>the more you go back to that place of how

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<v Speaker 1>do I say it, like you become It takes you back,

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<v Speaker 1>and it takes you back to being that not I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to say the victim. It takes me back

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<v Speaker 1>to being yeah, dependent and to being like, maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>was crazier, maybe it was my fault, and maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>should be sorry, and maybe I should help him, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I should. It's just it's a it's a rough

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<v Speaker 1>road to go down. Having said that, if he's getting

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<v Speaker 1>the help and this is this is I think people

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<v Speaker 1>make mistakes, they grow. I mean, she even said, I

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<v Speaker 1>know we aren't going to end up together. If you

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<v Speaker 1>know that, then just to stop, then stop because then

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<v Speaker 1>there's but you also know people can change too, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. No, obviously I'm an advocate for that. But

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<v Speaker 1>if she if she says to herself, I know we're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna end up together, then then what what's what's

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<v Speaker 1>the point You're gonna keep bringing that back into your life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just back and forth. That's that's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>unhealthy for her and you just you need to get

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<v Speaker 1>the abuser out of your life at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, especially if it was especially if she was

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<v Speaker 1>saying like I really you know, see a future and

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<v Speaker 1>I want this. But it's like you're saying, you aren't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna end up together. So don't even you know, put

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<v Speaker 1>yourself back there. Let him heal and grow on his own,

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<v Speaker 1>which is probably harder. That's a real tough one then,

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<v Speaker 1>because you just go right back into that. Well maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's my fault, you know what. This is so messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I was in therapy with my therapist, she

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<v Speaker 1>goes why, she has asked me, She's like, why did

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<v Speaker 1>you stay in these relationships? And it was the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, because I I didn't think I deserved

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<v Speaker 1>any better. And I think women like that will continue

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<v Speaker 1>to think that they don't deserve any better. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's um extremely common. I think a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>would say that, and that's what's so heartbreaking and messed

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<v Speaker 1>up and messed up because why who you know? We

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to go there, but like, why would you

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<v Speaker 1>think that? You know? I don't know that because but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not because also it comes from the abuser and

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<v Speaker 1>events and saying then you're crazy, it's your fault. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, guys made me feel like it was

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<v Speaker 1>my fault and then it was crazy. But that's the manipulator,

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<v Speaker 1>that's and that's the that's the emotional manipulative abuser that's

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<v Speaker 1>making you feel crazy that you Yeah, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Other email from Faith Okay, age gaps in time alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in a relationship for about two years now

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<v Speaker 1>with someone who's torn years older I'm five. We're totally compatible,

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<v Speaker 1>but I get tons of backlash from close friends and

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<v Speaker 1>family because of his age. My question is, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you guys feel about an age difference in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>And then we'll tackle that, and then we'll go to

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<v Speaker 1>the second question. I have zero issue with an age gap.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't bother me. I mean obviously have dated men

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<v Speaker 1>older than me. And I was going to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>this is why I wanted to read this one, because

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<v Speaker 1>how did you handle that when you had friends or

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<v Speaker 1>family being like all right, I mean I didn't care,

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<v Speaker 1>straight up, straight up didn't care. I feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>only time people care is like maybe in her um instance,

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<v Speaker 1>where it's like she's forty five, it's like if you're

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<v Speaker 1>not on like if she wants kids and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to, you know what I mean. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's the only time when like your friends

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<v Speaker 1>or people really care is when it is affecting your

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<v Speaker 1>if you two are like majorly different, or say he's

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<v Speaker 1>been married already twice, he doesn't want to get married anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're only you know, yeah, But I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't care about yeah. If you if

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<v Speaker 1>you're connected to someone, you're gone to someone. So I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, and this is just being honest. If Jolie

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<v Speaker 1>he's in her twenties and she's dating someone in her forties,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm going to have more questions. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>really good point. Sure, but you there's a soul's connection

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<v Speaker 1>to and I think that's what you have to remember.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's sure I probably will too. One Jason's dating,

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<v Speaker 1>here are your girl, I'd be like, what is your

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<v Speaker 1>what do you you know? What is it? Right? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, do you you dated older men? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you contribute that to just your shoulds being attracted or

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<v Speaker 1>do you contribute it to issues with your father? Total

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<v Speaker 1>daddy issues? Right? So that's what I'm saying, is there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that any age gap relationship right here,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, but I'm not saying that there is always

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<v Speaker 1>unhealthiness attached to it. But yeah, maybe the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, and you can usually sense that, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, then no chantelle and what is his face?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the my chantelle from the older not not

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<v Speaker 1>that victor the other one in the label head like

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<v Speaker 1>there the great dad? You know. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not always time to that, but I just from

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<v Speaker 1>my experience through you, I know that's kind of where

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<v Speaker 1>it stunned. So I mean, alright, second questions about codependency.

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<v Speaker 1>My boyfriend needs time to himself, as does everyone the

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<v Speaker 1>way he would The way he would do that is

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<v Speaker 1>by taking days off work or leaving work early so

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<v Speaker 1>he could go home and have his alone time and

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<v Speaker 1>relax without telling me. I would find out by coming

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<v Speaker 1>home and him being there. My first reaction was to

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<v Speaker 1>assume I did I did something wrong to make him

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<v Speaker 1>not want me to know. When I brought it up,

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<v Speaker 1>he told me he's just not used to talking about

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<v Speaker 1>everything he does. Like Mike myself mentioned, I talked about

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<v Speaker 1>my daily plans and give him step by step breakdown

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<v Speaker 1>of my day. My question is do you think I

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<v Speaker 1>was wrong for being bothered that he wasn't telling me

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted alone And this is the age difference. Just

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<v Speaker 1>about to say that this is the age difference a

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<v Speaker 1>forty five year olds like, I don't need to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you when I take a piss yeah, Or he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's that's he just doesn't need he's been doing

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<v Speaker 1>him for four yeah, right, he's set in his way

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<v Speaker 1>of and so to to him, he's like, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to tell me when you're going to the store

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<v Speaker 1>to sufford to pick up some more. I say, I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about my daily plans. To give him a step

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<v Speaker 1>by st and that's awesome that you do. But he's

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<v Speaker 1>very millennial of you. I do the same same I

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<v Speaker 1>mean me too. I hear your faith. I do the

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<v Speaker 1>exact same thing. But a forty five year old. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and here's a man. Yeah, and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then men don't really unless you're Eastern, men don't really

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<v Speaker 1>do play by play of the day, very seldom know.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you think it's But I also think it's

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<v Speaker 1>aged though, because I mean even when I dated you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sweet John, you know what I mean, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>he just like I don't care. Yeah, I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I am too, and I'm thirty two. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's I think, definitely think it's a man thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But also do you think there's codependency related. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's codependent. It's not codependent. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>it's just how you are. It's not we just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be in involved. It's the way you do things

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<v Speaker 1>so naturally in relationships. As part of the compromise, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's understand that people just handle things differently. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna say, maybe she's already a little insecure because

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<v Speaker 1>she's much younger than him, so she just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>is like, why aren't you telling me these things? Like

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<v Speaker 1>why you know, maybe her emotions are more heightened because

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<v Speaker 1>she feels like, you know, she's younger, and he's probably

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<v Speaker 1>just like doing his thing, and she's like, just tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know what's going on. But I

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<v Speaker 1>also think if the roles were reversed, you would be

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<v Speaker 1>upset if I wouldn't Okay, you can. I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to try that. I'd love to challenge that if you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't I didn't tell you, if you didn't tell him,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like day plans and you just cut my day

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<v Speaker 1>plans and I didn't put it on the calendar and

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<v Speaker 1>did and I just did me. I think you would

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<v Speaker 1>be like what. It's actually really funny because I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>one who's always texting Tie, what's up? What's up? What's

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<v Speaker 1>the plan? What's the plan? But if I go like

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm here and we're here for a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be like, wait, where what's going? Where are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, that's my thoughts. So probably because you're

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<v Speaker 1>used to because challenge, I don't know he wouldn't be mad,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think you'd be like, oh wait, what's why

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<v Speaker 1>did you like, why didn't you tell me that it

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<v Speaker 1>would take getting used to. Yeah, I will say it

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<v Speaker 1>would be adjustment period because I am used to that,

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<v Speaker 1>so it would be like, I'm surprised you didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me exactly. But for me, it's like, Okay, I know

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<v Speaker 1>we have Kylie from this time, this time, do what

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta do. Yeah, you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we have coverage on the kids j So

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like, do whatever you need to do. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care if it's get your nails downe or work, like,

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<v Speaker 1>do whatever you gotta do. And I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>check in and all that stuff so you know where

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Okay, Hey, Sarah, will you come on

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<v Speaker 1>next week to Yeah next week. When I see you,

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