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Speaker 1: us to? Can I just talk about the stash really fast.

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Speaker 1: That's happening on Easton Stace November no shave November. But

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Speaker 1: There's a there's a move I can do with this

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Speaker 1: is that like an sexual I cannot un see that

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Speaker 1: be onsane? I can't wow. I speaking of Easton, he

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Speaker 1: just celebrated birthday. Happy birthday, Easton, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: When you score be a queen. How old are you now?

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty two. Well, we need to talk about it

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Speaker 1: S and everything. Last night, so Michael put on the

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Speaker 1: calendar Eastern's birthday on the sex. I'm a great friend.

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Speaker 1: But then I don't know what happened that day was

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Speaker 1: really busy, and did you text him the sex? Okay,

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Speaker 1: well I just texted I sent him a great and emoji.

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Speaker 1: You sent him an emoji No, I don't know, and

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Speaker 1: emoji like yourself, Like no, no, no, the animal. It

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Speaker 1: was a very cute mouse seeing me happy birthday. Trying

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Speaker 1: to think what happened. Oh, that was the day after

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Speaker 1: The next days or so things weren't working well. But um,

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Speaker 1: So I was just like, oh crap, it's Easton's birthday today.

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Speaker 1: So I'm in a group text happy birthday, um, and

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Speaker 1: You're just like you didn't even correct me. You're just

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Speaker 1: like thank you. And then Michael's like it was the

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Speaker 1: other day. And then I felt mortified. But then here

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Speaker 1: comes the conversation, Okay, what did we get Easton? Because

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Speaker 1: we got Mark something for his birthday. It's in the works.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people say that when they when they

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Speaker 1: actually forget that you did my gifts take thought in

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Speaker 1: time and investment, I'm not just gonna get east In

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Speaker 1: something you can find anywhere. It's going to be something great.

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Speaker 1: But like, I just what is it? You know? Because

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Speaker 1: it's a friend thing. So it's it's that conversation about

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Speaker 1: birthdays where if you have if you get someone a birthday,

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Speaker 1: getting me one. There's no questions. I don't understand where

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Speaker 1: this is going. What is your question? Yeah, my question

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Speaker 1: is what is the protocol protocol for that for giving gifts,

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Speaker 1: especially like in the workplace too, because we have a

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Speaker 1: every Do we give birthday presents to everyone that we know? No?

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Speaker 1: But we have marks, so now we know I want

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Speaker 1: to give Easton a present. But I'm just saying like,

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing with this. If you flashback to

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Speaker 1: a young Easton, who is just the biggest Janna Cramer

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Speaker 1: about anything? Respond, I would say, I give up every

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Speaker 1: And that's the reality I thankfully live right now. So

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Speaker 1: I do I have She's gonna give you Like you know,

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Speaker 1: I have a Visa Visa gift card in my bag.

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Speaker 1: who you ended up giving it to. But who gave

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Speaker 1: gave her Amy sugar Man, are we gifted it? Use

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Speaker 1: happy birthday and I'm glad that I was the better

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Speaker 1: a part of Wine Doown has been an absolute dream

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Speaker 1: But Michael, though, I just want to set you guys.

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Speaker 1: You guys looked so good together and that's the first

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Speaker 1: special guest Gabby Bernstein on the phone. Hi, how are

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Speaker 1: you good? Guys? I'm just getting my head. How's everybody

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Speaker 1: doing good? You've got Janna, Mike and Sarah here, in

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Speaker 1: the Wine Down Studio. We're so excited to have you. UM.

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Speaker 1: You're the number one New York Times bestselling author. UM.

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Speaker 1: Right now, you have a book out called super Attractor

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Speaker 1: Methods for Manifesting a Life Beyond your Wildest Dreams is

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Speaker 1: now available. How is How's the whole book tour going awesome?

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Speaker 1: Way better than I could have expected? Super attracting along

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Speaker 1: the way? Everything is going well, that's awesome. And in

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Speaker 1: your book you teach the readers to do less and

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Speaker 1: attract more, relax and trust that what they desire is

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Speaker 1: on the way, and feel good regardless of external circumstances.

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Speaker 1: I guess my first question would be when you say

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Speaker 1: do less and attract more, how do how do you?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like I'm like, Okay, you gotta keep

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Speaker 1: doing things and doing things, because if you you don't,

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Speaker 1: then how are you actually attracting things. One of the

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Speaker 1: things I teach in the book is that all that

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Speaker 1: doing and doing actually is getting in our way of attracting.

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Speaker 1: So when we're pushing and controlling and have the belief

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Speaker 1: system that if I don't do it, it won't happen,

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Speaker 1: we are blocking our power to hear inspiration we're blocking

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Speaker 1: the support of other people because their energy is so frantic,

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Speaker 1: and from a spiritual perspective, we are blocking the support

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Speaker 1: of the universe. So what I teach in the book

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Speaker 1: is a method called the spiritually aligned Action method, and

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Speaker 1: this is a method that it's all about taking action

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Speaker 1: from a place of service, love, faith, and patience, genuine patience.

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Speaker 1: So when we do this, it's not that we're not

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Speaker 1: taking action, because yes, of course we have to take

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Speaker 1: an action to create something, but is that we're doing

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Speaker 1: it from a place that's grounded, spiritually connected. And then

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Speaker 1: the biggest part of it is being patient so that

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Speaker 1: we are not getting in the way of the actual

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Speaker 1: manifestation of what we want. So when we're in that

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Speaker 1: pushy energy, we're really in the way because it turns

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Speaker 1: people off. It's it's energetically keeping us from hearing the

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Speaker 1: next right action and the intuition that's going to lead

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Speaker 1: us forward. So we have to be in a practice

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Speaker 1: of taking action from a place of spiritual connection so

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Speaker 1: that we can do less and attract more. I like

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Speaker 1: what you're saying there, Garby, because I feel like a

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Speaker 1: lot of times, if you know, we've interviewed people in

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Speaker 1: the past or talk to people that kind of promote,

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Speaker 1: you know, essentially positive thinking. It's just that there's like

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Speaker 1: I'll just think positively and things will happen. But you

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Speaker 1: have an action in place, So it's not just sitting

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Speaker 1: back and not doing anything. It's having healthy habits to

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Speaker 1: help take control of you know, you spiritually and mentally,

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Speaker 1: to you know, instead of trying to just you know,

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Speaker 1: physically do certain things. So I definitely appreciate what you're

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Speaker 1: preaching there with that, and then you know, um, when

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Speaker 1: things get that hard, like when everyone goes through life

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Speaker 1: where just situations get hard, do you kind of double

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Speaker 1: down on your meditation or your spiritual practice or thinking

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Speaker 1: when you're just in a tough spot, or do you

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Speaker 1: still just go through the same routine. I would double

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Speaker 1: down when when when when life gets tough, I double

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Speaker 1: down on my spiritual practice. And when life gets good,

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Speaker 1: I doubled down on my spiritual practice. And uh I

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Speaker 1: do I do that when life gets good, because when

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Speaker 1: life gets good, we want to typically fall off and say,

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Speaker 1: oh I got it, I got this from here right,

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Speaker 1: and then that's when we go backwards. So sametimes, we

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Speaker 1: want to do it most I like that you said

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Speaker 1: you do it when you're when things are going good,

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Speaker 1: because I I totally forget to keep kind of doing

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Speaker 1: what I'm doing. I'm only like, you know, when things

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Speaker 1: are bad, it's like you're asking for help and help

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Speaker 1: and help, and then finally when things are good, it's like, no,

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Speaker 1: you need to keep that going, because I mean, is

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Speaker 1: it really like our own response? Is it own responsibility

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Speaker 1: to be happy? Right? It's our responsibility to choose how

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Speaker 1: we want to perceive our life. In the book, I

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Speaker 1: say the secret to feeling good is to decide to

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Speaker 1: stop feeling bad. I think that that is the exact

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Speaker 1: answer I would give anyone, But I think that that

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Speaker 1: could also sound kind of offensive to some people that

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Speaker 1: might be really suffering, someone who might have a mental illness,

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Speaker 1: physical condition. But I can speach that very authentically, the

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Speaker 1: choice to stop feeling bad. I uh, six months ago,

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Speaker 1: was diagnosed with postpartum anxiety, depression, and insomnia, and at

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Speaker 1: my lowest moment, I actually had to decide to stop

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Speaker 1: feeling bad. But that didn't mean that I was going

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Speaker 1: to feel better overnight, that things are just going to

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Speaker 1: go away. But it meant that I made a decision

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Speaker 1: to be open to the next right action, that I've

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Speaker 1: made a decision to be open to guidance that may

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Speaker 1: have been something that I wouldn't typically have been led to.

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Speaker 1: It made a decision to do whatever it took to

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Speaker 1: feel better. So wherever we are in our level of

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Speaker 1: happiness and awareness of feeling good, we can always decide

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Speaker 1: to stop feeling bad. And there's a lot of methods

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Speaker 1: in the book to do that. And so meditation is

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Speaker 1: a big part of your practice with that. What kind

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Speaker 1: of advice do you have for people who you know?

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Speaker 1: Because I know me myself, I've heard a lot of meditation.

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Speaker 1: I want to make it more of a routine for myself,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like I just can't turn my my

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Speaker 1: kind of everywhere, and so sometimes i feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: not doing it right. Okay, So what are what's some

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Speaker 1: advice for myself? Over people feeling like you're all over

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Speaker 1: the place? A great practice would be a mantra based

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Speaker 1: meditation because what's happening for you is your thoughts are

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Speaker 1: all over the place. So your thoughts, your mind needs

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Speaker 1: a place to anchor, and you can do that with

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Speaker 1: a mantra and so mantra as I'm a Cundalini yoga

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Speaker 1: meditation teacher, and so I could give you a mantra

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Speaker 1: called Satnam Dotnam means truth is my name, and you

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Speaker 1: could just repeat that mantra in your head, and then

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Speaker 1: when your thoughts begin to detour to whatever you did

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Speaker 1: for lunch yesterday, or what you have to do for

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Speaker 1: your bills or anything like that, you can simply come

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Speaker 1: back to your mantra. And then you're in a detour again.

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Speaker 1: But then you can always come back to your mantra.

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Speaker 1: And so having that single pointed focus will be very

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Speaker 1: effective for someone who's scatter brains like that. But then

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Speaker 1: how about because I mean, same same Mike. Even when

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Speaker 1: I'm in therapy and you know we have she starts

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Speaker 1: with like a guide of meditation every time, and I'll

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Speaker 1: tell her, I said, you know, sometimes I'm questioning the meditation,

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Speaker 1: or I'm somewhere else, or I'm like, man, I really

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Speaker 1: wish I was home right now with the kids are

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Speaker 1: and mine wanders. And then when I try to meditate

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Speaker 1: at home, it's I'm grabbing my phone or be like

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Speaker 1: you're grabbing your your little what's that little thing? You

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Speaker 1: play the video games? So it's we we have the time,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, we're choosing to pick up other things. So

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Speaker 1: it's how do we kind of train our mind to

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Speaker 1: say okay instead of picking up that to turn off, yeah,

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Speaker 1: to turn off those things, Like how do we put

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Speaker 1: those those things away that we usually is what we

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Speaker 1: calm down with. Yeah, I think that you have to

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Speaker 1: realize that the more you practice meditating, the better you

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Speaker 1: experience it, the more of a of a serenity you'll

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Speaker 1: begin to experience in your life. I do a transcendental meditation.

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Speaker 1: So I practiced twenty minutes twice a day, and the

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Speaker 1: more I've practiced, the better I feel in the moment

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Speaker 1: of the meditation, so so much so that I look

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Speaker 1: forward to it. And so I think it's about like

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Speaker 1: start to actually, it's real good when you're exercising, you

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Speaker 1: want more or of it, right, So it's almost like

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Speaker 1: you have to just get over that initial hurdle of

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Speaker 1: the resistance to the practice and then put it into

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Speaker 1: practice in order to get to a place where you

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Speaker 1: really long for it. Love that. It's a really good

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Speaker 1: point because in the beginning of running it sucks, but

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Speaker 1: when you're running thirty minutes, you're like, oh wow, like

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Speaker 1: this isn't as bad anymore. Well, that's funny because that

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Speaker 1: was actually going to be a question because like, I'm

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Speaker 1: a runner, so a lot of times I don't meditate,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like sometimes when I'm running, that's my time.

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Speaker 1: But are you You don't really think that, you know,

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Speaker 1: in order to actually meditate, we need to be turned off,

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Speaker 1: not doing anything, not working out, Like that's not meditating.

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Speaker 1: I guess it is my question, not meditating, but it

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Speaker 1: is the way that you are getting spiritually connected because

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Speaker 1: when you're running, you're releasing resistance. And so whenever we've

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Speaker 1: release resistance, energey like energetically, it's got a lot of

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Speaker 1: energy blocking us. Thoughts can be released while you're running

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Speaker 1: because you're just thinking about something so physical that you're

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Speaker 1: mind releases that you let go of that resistance. And

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Speaker 1: when you release that resistance, the fear thoughts, the dramas,

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Speaker 1: the stories, the negative energy, that's when you get closer

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Speaker 1: to your spiritual inspiration to the voice of inspiration, and

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Speaker 1: so I bet you get very creative ideas when you're

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Speaker 1: running or inspired inspired thoughts, and that's that's you know,

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Speaker 1: in spirit, inspiration comes when we release resistance. So while

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Speaker 1: it's not a meditative experience, it is another way of

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Speaker 1: getting closer to that voice of inspiration. What's been the

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Speaker 1: biggest type of therapy that's help you. M d R

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Speaker 1: therapy has been the greatest therapy that's helped me, and

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Speaker 1: it's high movement to sensitization and reproces. Michael and I

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Speaker 1: both do e m d R. We love it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's they saved my life. It's the best thing I've

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Speaker 1: ever done. I will say though it's Um. I did

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Speaker 1: have a session last week, was my MDR therapist, and

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Speaker 1: she keeps she keeps telling me that because I started

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Speaker 1: She's like, there's no wrong method to it. She goes,

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Speaker 1: she goes, I know, and that's what she said. She goes,

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Speaker 1: but she goes, there is something that's blocking you from

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Speaker 1: going there. And even when she said that, I started bawling.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, I don't know what it is like,

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Speaker 1: and that's that's where I'm here's the good news. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So the fact that you're getting to a place where

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Speaker 1: you're recognizing there's a block is a big move. There's

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Speaker 1: a big step. You don't have to figure out what

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Speaker 1: that block is. You can actually do E M d R.

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Speaker 1: Keep working on whatever it's up for you in the

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Speaker 1: moment in that session, and each thing, each emotion that's

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Speaker 1: up for you is like an aspect of this greater block.

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Speaker 1: So as you kick out each aspect like today I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling frustrated, or yesterday I lost it on the waitress

637
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: because she didn't come in time, those moments are triggers

638
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: that are reactivity ways that you're reacting to the block,

639
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: to the event, to the experience that you're not wanting

640
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: to witness. And so as you kick out those different

641
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: aspects through each e M d R session, it's like

642
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: kicking out the legs of a table. Eventually the table

643
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: will collapse and what you need to hear will be revealed.

644
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: So I don't want you to worry about what it

645
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: is that's blocking you. Just keep working on the aspects

646
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: that are showing up. Okay, Gabby, have you always been

647
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: a very spiritually connected and emotionally connected human being or

648
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: is there something in your life that happened that kind

649
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: of turns you into this direction. Both. I've always been

650
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: on a spiritual path. My my mother brought me up

651
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: visiting ashrams and taught me to meditate as a child.

652
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: But I also turned my back on it many times

653
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: in my twenties. I really turned my back on it

654
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: my early twenties, Um, because I thought that I would

655
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: be able to find my own way and gave up

656
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: on it and was led down a lot of addictive

657
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: patterns and paths. And when I was twenty five, I

658
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: got over and in my sober recovery, I reclaimed my

659
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:08,760
Speaker 1: spiritual faith and then continued to deepen my practice. Totally

660
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: makes sense that programs are all about spiritual spirituality and

661
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: your connection with the higher power. So I totally get that.

662
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I mean, where can our listeners find you? Um?

663
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: And um, obviously the book is out right now, super attractor.

664
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Speaker 1: What else? Is there one thing that you want them

665
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: to really take away from the book. Well, this book,

666
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 1: while the subtitle is Methods for manifesting a life beyond

667
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: your wildest dreams. And that's true, it's a dawnest subtitle.

668
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: But the book isn't about how to get things. It's

669
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 1: a book on how to feel good. So when we

670
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: feel good, we become super attractors. That's when we start

671
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 1: to be a match for what we want. So if

672
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: you're ready to feel good and then therefore attract what

673
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: you desire into your life, and this is your book,

674
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 1: go grab it. That's awesome, Gabby, Thank you so much.

675
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: Really appreciate your in site and I'm really excited to

676
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 1: read your book now. I'm so glad. All right, thanks Gavy.

677
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 1: By guys, she's cool. Yeah, that's awesome. I love what

678
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: she said there at the end, where it's it's not

679
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:29,399
Speaker 1: about getting things, it's almost about just changing your your

680
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: mindset of having more gratitude for what you do have.

681
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 1: And so maybe if you're not yearning for other things,

682
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: you'll be happier because of what's currently around you. So

683
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: that's a that was a good point that she made

684
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: at the end there. I really would love to start

685
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: meditating more, but I because if I have tried so

686
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: many times. But even if it's just mean even my

687
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: watch will say take a deep take, and I'm like,

688
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 1: ignore gutting at a time for that, you know what

689
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: I mean, Like got no time? I mean I could

690
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: do I just like she said twenty minutes. I've tried,

691
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: even when I'm in yoga, I really try to turn

692
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: my brain off, and like I can, but it's so

693
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: hard for me to like really truly disconnect and turn

694
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: my brain off. What if there's something I mean, with Mike,

695
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: would you okay, so we set our alarm for six,

696
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: is there something where in the middle of the day

697
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: or in the morning or at night, before we grab

698
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: our phones, before you grab your little PlayStation thing imaging

699
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: or whatever that is. I don't know what that thing is.

700
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: Just causes a lot of light in the bedroom, so

701
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: he has to build a barrier. But is there something where?

702
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's supposed to be alone, but

703
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: I might need the extra person to like well even

704
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: to just be accountability. You guys do it, maybe maybe

705
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: design together, but just like, hey, you know, don't forget

706
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: to meditate. I don't know, just because I think for me,

707
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: like I have a hard time working out by myself.

708
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: I need to have either a trainer, or a sayer

709
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: or someone with me. Well, I think the word meditate

710
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: is also really scary because that makes you think like, Okay,

711
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: to meditate, I gotta sit there and I gotta be

712
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: Even if Michael was just like, hey, go take two

713
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Speaker 1: minutes to yourself and by two minutes, put your phone

714
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: down and go like but I mean again, but if

715
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 1: you tell me too, because usually like do you want

716
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: to put your phone down and go? And like like

717
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 1: the other day, you know, he said, he's like, hey

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00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: go because I was running around like crazy, there's so

719
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: much to do, and he's like, go take a few

720
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: minutes for yourself, and yeah, I did, I have my phone.

721
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: I laid down and it was so it took me

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00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: five times of saying that for you to go do it. Yeah,

723
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: sometimes I don't. I feel like I don't. I don't

724
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: want to have to convince you to do something for yourself.

725
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 1: But if it's something where we know that the home,

726
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 1: like maybe our homework right now, because it is true,

727
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: like working out, I mean you're going to get the

728
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: results and then I won't need you to ask me

729
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 1: and be like, oh and that's my thing for me

730
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: that I need that I know I need to do,

731
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: but I might need the extra help of accountability for

732
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 1: someone to say, hey, do you meditate today? I mean,

733
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: even if it's like you're just going to sit out

734
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: on your little wine porch with you know, I feel

735
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: like there's it's such a specific thing meditating. But that's

736
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: why I was kind of asking her, like running like

737
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: to me, that's my meditating, like I'm not thinking about technically.

738
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: She said that wasn't right. I know, but that's what

739
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But because I think it's so extreme, and

740
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 1: I think that's why it turns people off, because they think, oh,

741
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: in order, you know which it is. But I think

742
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: everyone maybe has their own way of meditating. I think

743
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: the whole point of it is to not be distracted

744
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: by something. So maybe to her point, it's your running

745
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: is distracting you and distracting I don't know if that

746
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: would be because, like Sarah said, you could go and

747
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: sit out on the porch if you didn't have your

748
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 1: phone and it was just quiet. Because I've done that

749
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: at moments where I've just sat and you know how

750
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 1: much I love our bar room and I sitting there

751
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,320
Speaker 1: and eat lunch. But I'm just sitting there and actually

752
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: have your iPad or But I'm saying I've had moments

753
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: where I've i haven't and I just sit there and

754
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: it's just quiet and it's just me and my thoughts

755
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: while I'm eating or something. What what did help me

756
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: when I'm meditating a lot in the past. The reason

757
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 1: why it's because I was in rehab and basically made

758
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: you was God ad medic patients always helped me because

759
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: if it's just music or whatever, I'm everywhere my head is.

760
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: But guide and meditations are definitely what helped me get

761
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: through and sit there for a twenty minute meditation sessions. Well,

762
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: and the thing is my my therapist Amy. She we

763
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: every session we start with the guide and meditation. But

764
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,919
Speaker 1: it's only five minutes, and I love it. It makes

765
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: me so relaxed and like calm. Well that's what I'm thinking.

766
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: Maybe you only need five minutes, you know, not everyone

767
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: is gonna I would Yeah, I wouldn't do more for

768
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: me personally, I probably wouldn't do more than five. It's

769
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: a lot to sit longer than that. But again, it

770
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: depends on how it affects you. And maybe you can

771
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 1: get to that point where we can start doing longer.

772
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: But and I know for me or for us, we

773
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 1: would have to do it either in the morning, first thing,

774
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: or at night because if we went to hey, go

775
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,959
Speaker 1: take two minutes and it's like eleven o'clock, we're gonna

776
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: be thinking about what we're gonna do after we're meditating.

777
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: It's true, Yeah, okay, we're gonna sit there. It's like

778
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: what am I gonna do? You know what we don't

779
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: do on the whine down to our We do not meditate, No,

780
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 1: we do not. We gotta feel like that's so crazy

781
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: that it's like we have more dates coming up. We

782
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: are sold out in Chicago. We're so sorry, we we

783
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: we UM well we'll add another date maybe hopefully next year.

784
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: But UM wind down a sold out in Chicago. But

785
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: there are still tickets Chicago to go to Michigan. They're

786
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,879
Speaker 1: still tickets available in Michigan. It's a close drive ish

787
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 1: drive UM December fourth one in Michigan, December fire in Louisville.

788
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: UM again, reminder the podcast wind out, it's like it's

789
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: not really a podcast evening with Sarah's there and she's

790
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 1: are a little like spit fire. You guys, we have

791
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: so much fun Sarah the text Kylie s oh my gosh,

792
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: our nanny. Kylie sent us a video today because so

793
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: back up real fast, Michael. We're in Nashville the show.

794
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: First of all, those two back to back shows the

795
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 1: Nashville were incredible. Weed Emily Giffen on our Atlanta show,

796
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 1: she was insane, which I wanted to call on because

797
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 1: she's the best. I'll try to get her on just

798
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: because she's a spit fire. Within the Nashville show, he

799
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: had Lauren and Chris. They were also amazing. Um so

800
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 1: again you can get some guests as well. But Michael

801
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: was trying to go through what was the story because

802
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,280
Speaker 1: I was getting I went out to get the audience

803
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: members that we're going to have to come up on

804
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: stage and play a little game, and I grabbed the

805
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: four of them and I had a few drinks. Okay,

806
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: so I had a few drinks, So I went I

807
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: tried to take them backstage and there's a wall with

808
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: a big gass curtain and I couldn't find where the

809
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: doorway was. So I'm sitting there, which felt like an eternity,

810
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: trying to open this curtain, and someone that works there

811
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: is like, you gotta go this way, and four people

812
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: behind me. The whole audience like watching me. I'm just

813
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 1: going at a brick wall, trying to go through a curtain.

814
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: So a nanny sends us this video which I'm going

815
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: to put on Instagram, So you guys go to my

816
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: Instagram story. It's hilarious. I'm not even gonna like I

817
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: can't wait to see that. Okay, well I'm gonna show.

818
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you right now. I need you, I

819
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: need you to know everyone right now to go to

820
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: my story. This is like father like son trying to

821
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: get through stop. So Kylie sends it and says, my

822
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 1: dad trying to get curtains. Dad trying to get to

823
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: the curtains at the Nashville show the other night, Mike

824
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: was dead. That is so funny. And then can we

825
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: talk about what happened after the show? I'm in Okay,

826
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 1: you guys, By the way, I just need to tell you,

827
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: like this was the best show ever, Like it really was. Yeah,

828
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: I think I think it was Atlanta and Nashville killed.

829
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: And so afterwards we go back and I'm I'm in

830
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: the shower. You know everyone's done. I have friends to

831
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 1: tell you something. I did something really like, oh I'm scared. No,

832
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: we'll go ahead. Okay, So I don't even know what's

833
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: going on. Well, no, it was just funny because you know,

834
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: we're all done. I go back and I'm in the

835
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: shower and I'm showering, Okay, I mean, you know, and

836
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: live a sudden she walks in the bathroom and goes, Sarah,

837
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: I scream, she's so yes. I thought maybe she woke

838
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: up Jay's that's how mind dude. This is like thirty

839
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: minutes later, like the night is come in there because

840
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,799
Speaker 1: you came in to tell me that Mike passed out's

841
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: room and I literally look at her. I go, what

842
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 1: is wrong with you? Like I'm showering, and she goes, okay,

843
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: I just I need to tell you that, Um I

844
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: just went to say a night to Julian Mike's passed

845
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: out in her bad and she goes, why are you

846
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: telling me this right now? I think the show. I

847
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 1: literally was like her vagina. But this is also because

848
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 1: that morning she said that the h Bat guys came

849
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: in too, Like look at the air and she's like,

850
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: they almost came into your room and you would have

851
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: freaked out. So all of a sudden, I'm like, I

852
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: thought it was the h bat guy. More like, you

853
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: scared the ship out of me. Oh my god. Okay,

854
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: but what Okay, So I saw your ring sitting on

855
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:05,479
Speaker 1: the counter and so wait, you moved it. No, you good,

856
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: I thought. So I saw her ringing in the counter

857
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: and legs by the sink, which is a scary place.

858
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: Pitter ring. Okay, So I saw the ring and I

859
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm gonna steal the ring. So I

860
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: took the ring. I had it on like, I put

861
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: it like on my finger, which it didn't fit. And

862
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: I walked out of the room because I wanted to

863
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: scare her in there before I knew you were showering. No,

864
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: I don't know how long you weren't. I opened I

865
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: went straight in your room and opened the door. And

866
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: then right when I was leaving this and I grabbed

867
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: the ring. And I obviously have my background, like you

868
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: can see me from behind because this is I'm showering. Yeah. So,

869
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: and I'm just like the person who doesn't care, like

870
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: I walk around. I know you're like, I know, I know,

871
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: I see. So I have the ring and then I

872
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,439
Speaker 1: go into our room and I'm like Okay, I don't

873
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: want to like freaker out, king scream if it were gone.

874
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 1: You think I was scared of that because then I

875
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, it's like twelve o'clock, so she's gonna

876
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: probably be looking for the next hour and then she's

877
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: gonna be freaking out and not go to sleep. But

878
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: I had a full conversation of how me now I

879
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 1: was going to be with the ring, and so I'm

880
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: just like, I don't want to have to come in

881
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: the room because I'm gonna be sleeping, and then michaelll

882
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,720
Speaker 1: be sleeping, and she's still not going to be sleeping.

883
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: So I'm like going through this. So I was like, Okay,

884
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring it back. So I bring it back

885
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: in the room and then I just put it on

886
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: the dresser. She puts it on the dresser. I didn't

887
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 1: leave it on the dresser. I put them a long

888
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: mothercking way from the bathroom sink. No, do you know

889
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: that I have literally all the bleeps because this is

890
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: no joke. I literally talked about walked out and I

891
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 1: saw my ring standing there, and I go, I am,

892
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: first of all, I am not that drunk. I did

893
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: not put my ring there and I'm like, oh, okay,

894
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: I was mental, and then I'm like maybe no, she

895
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: was in your first split. Secondly, I was just like

896
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: washing my armpits like she didn't have time to take

897
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: who No, I'm like, the guys came. Oh. I was

898
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: literally that's amazing you too. It was the story, the

899
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: fact that you even have to going there. Mike has

900
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: passed out in Jolie's bed, passed out because Jolie woke

901
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: up and she wanted me to lay with her when

902
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: we got home. So I was like, all right, and

903
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 1: then good night, goodbye. Dad gets let's it's let drunk.

904
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 1: Mike comes out. It was funny. Oh, this is funny. Beforehand,

905
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: before the show, Jane is like, all right, come on,

906
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: like I need drunk min like, let's go. Let's go

907
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: like force feeding me drinks. And then we're like on

908
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: the car ride back and Jana says something about getting

909
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: the kids in the morning. She goes, Mike, are you drunk?

910
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: And You're like, I mean, I'm not not drunk. She's like, well,

911
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: just so you know you're taking to Julia, you're taking

912
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: Julia school in the morning. Yeah, she says, I'm not

913
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: getting getting umber the King and you literally, I'm like,

914
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 1: you thinking for me to get drunk. Now I get hammered.

915
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: And now you're like, oh, by the way, you're waking

916
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: up at because I had to work. You're only funny

917
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: when you're drunk. He said that. Somebody said that, and

918
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: he's like, no, no, not you just listen up. Yeah,

919
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: but we're more. But he's like, I'm like, just because

920
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: you drank, I'm like, that's not my fault forced you to.

921
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: I was like, on that contrary, nous. Anyone there that

922
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: was witnessing basically saw you funnel alcohol down my mouth.

923
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: Oh it's so fun. Okay, it's all fun and games.

924
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: But hopefully we'll see you guys in Detroit and Louisville

925
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: because it's a rowdy time. Rowdy. All right, let's take

926
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:58,480
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Speaker 1: All right, So we are extremely extremely fortunate to have

949
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,959
Speaker 1: I don't know how we got these guys on our show.

950
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: I mean they're going to be so impact doing a

951
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: tour after this. UM. We have Becca Betania, Becca Tilly

952
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: and Tanya Rad the winners of the Best Pop Podcast

953
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 1: at the PC as scrubbing in you guys, congratulations seriously,

954
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: from the bottom of our hearts. We were so freaking

955
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: we wanted it to be you guys. We wanted you

956
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: to two pee. I told you that. I know, I know.

957
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: It's like so nice, Like I just like you're scrubbing

958
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 1: in listeners. Man, there they are avid literally voters. I mean,

959
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,760
Speaker 1: but do you know what's funny though, I really because

960
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: I really like that's me. I'm that person, do you

961
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, I mean, I I voted

962
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: for your podcast a few times. I voted for ours

963
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: maybe three thousand times, like that, I didn't even vote

964
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: for ours, did you vote for you're saying like I

965
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 1: am that person though that like whenever, like people, when

966
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 1: I do that, it's easy. It's on your computer. I'm

967
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: just sitting here. But when I was in high school,

968
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: I do this stuff all the time. I were in

969
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: sync for everything. Like I was that person. So like

970
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:14,879
Speaker 1: it makes sense that like our listeners are at least

971
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 1: half of our listeners one half of this group, because

972
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: are just going bananas on that, you know. I mean,

973
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: that's awesome though, but it's not just about I mean

974
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: what you guys talk about. You guys are relatable, you're fun,

975
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: you know you guys guys, I mean you are. And

976
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: I watched you tell Pink you and your husband have

977
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: really helped us, and I was like, wow, but it's

978
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,760
Speaker 1: true though, that was something you do for other people.

979
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,280
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, yeah, well, we all have our lanes,

980
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: we do, and we're all staying in them, but we're

981
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: rooting you guys onto that. I'm saying. Our lanes are

982
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: crossing over and then they crossed back over, but they're

983
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: all going guess which way in direction? Forward? Forward? They're

984
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: all going forward. Yeah, and we're all we're all better

985
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 1: or because of it. I love the healthy competition too. Yeah,

986
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 1: and we all wanted to win. Sure would be like

987
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: bummed for a hot second, but I'm like so happy

988
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: back Antonia. Well of course it's again. We kind of

989
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,760
Speaker 1: mentioned on their podcast that it's it's about the mutual respect,

990
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: that it's not that fake support and appreciation for the

991
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 1: other people. It's like, okay, that's it's like it is.

992
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: It does feel like family and friends are winning too.

993
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: It's like, y'all win, we win, you know, especially being

994
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: a part of the Heart family too. That's definitely even

995
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: bigger part of it. You have some different podcasts, one

996
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: that wasn't like I'd kind of be like, like, wait,

997
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: you're not an I heeart? Do you even exist? Do

998
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: you even go here? Go here? Exactly? Gina George their ass. Yeah. Yeah,

999
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 1: And you guys are taking you scrubbing In on the road.

1000
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: I heard maybe possibly two dates are taking well. Yeah,

1001
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: we're doing a little little test to run who shows

1002
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: up San Francisco in l A. That's awesome. So what

1003
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: can they expect when they come see scrubbing In in person?

1004
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: You know, probably a lot of women empowerment talk, a

1005
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: lot of friendship vibes. We just want people to come show.

1006
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: Every time we do something where people come and show

1007
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: up from our podcast, it feels like people are making

1008
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 1: friends that people that maybe didn't have friends or didn't

1009
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 1: know people in the city that they live and get

1010
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 1: to meet people. And it's really cool to kind of

1011
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,360
Speaker 1: be a part of watching what we've built in this community.

1012
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 1: But they've kind of taken it on there. I mean,

1013
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: the Facebook group itself hasn't. I literally every time we

1014
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: meet our listeners, I don't leave without crying at least once. Um,

1015
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: and last time we had like a meet up or

1016
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: whenever this girl came and she was like, hey, do

1017
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: you guys remember Um we had a listener who was

1018
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: going through chemo and she was in the hospital and

1019
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: we had her on the show. One of our other

1020
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: listeners connected with her through Facebook and got like just

1021
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 1: randomly reach out to her and became friends with her

1022
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: on the Facebook page and then got a video of

1023
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: us like saying hi to her at the party so

1024
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 1: she could send it to her. So she so, so

1025
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: it really is cool. And so as far as like

1026
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: the run of the show, neither of us sing, neither

1027
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:16,919
Speaker 1: of us dance. Well, well do you guys you've won

1028
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: now two years in a row, People's Charts of Word

1029
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: for best Pop Podcast. What do you guys have now

1030
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 1: going into the next year, Like what excites you or

1031
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: what do you want to bring to the table or

1032
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: you know, elevate your your performance to make it a

1033
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 1: three peat because we're gonna be coming for you. Do

1034
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: you know what's funny? I really do want to like

1035
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: have every year towards the end of the year, when

1036
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 1: the year's winding down and the new one begins, I

1037
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 1: kind of really get really intentional about like my goals,

1038
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: my dreams and my plans, and they feel like this

1039
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: kind of really reinvigorated me to kind of like, can

1040
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: I say pull my balls out? Yeah? We talked about

1041
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: all the balls and yeah, yeah, all right, so that

1042
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:00,080
Speaker 1: just means that we have to fight even hard to

1043
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: then your two balls out. We got We'll grab Market Easton's.

1044
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: We needn't want to eat from Market. Yeah. I'm so

1045
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: excited for you guys than you know. I was watching

1046
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: like all day yesterday everyone snaps and everyone's Instagram's and

1047
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: you killing it out there. Thank you what you're doing

1048
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:30,879
Speaker 1: with It's kind of fun. I know, it's really fun.

1049
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: And they're like, so it's really it's so hard for

1050
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: me and I talked about it all the time on

1051
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 1: our podcast. I suffer immensely from imposter syndrome, Like I

1052
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: never feel like I belong where I am, and the

1053
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: people at E really give me a run for my

1054
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: money and when because they're just so nice and encouraging

1055
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 1: taking they do, and I don't know how to take

1056
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: compliments because I'm like, this is so weird. It was insane.

1057
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 1: Every single place that we went, whether we were like

1058
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 1: backstage or on the carpet, anyone for me, they were like, Tanya,

1059
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 1: we love you so much, like we can't wait to

1060
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: do more with you. Like it's really cool to see

1061
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: her getting the recognition that she deserves, because I think

1062
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 1: sometimes she feels she says, she doesn't feel like she

1063
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: deserves it. And so every single person I saw there like,

1064
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: we love you and they hug her, And I'm like,

1065
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 1: what if these people hug everybody? You know? Everybody? So, yeah,

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00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 1: it's been It was really special. And Becca, you have

1067
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: your new line out at Macy's right, Yes, I have

1068
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: my life. Thank you so much. I mean, it's amazing.

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00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: Tell us more, tell us more. Um, yeah, it's available.

1070
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: It's Um it's a great Christmas gift, great Thanksgiving outfit

1071
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: if you because you know, you get dressed up for

1072
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: your Thanksgiving dinner for some reason while you're all sitting

1073
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:45,359
Speaker 1: around with your family. Need to look good. Um. So yeah,

1074
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: it's available on Macy's dot com and then in overs.

1075
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 1: It's amazing. What's next for you guys, both professionally, Um,

1076
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. Building this podcast is getting

1077
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: ready for next year's people came on Bitches Game on.

1078
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 1: They're already starting their acceptance speech for next year. Well,

1079
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: next time they need to hear it. They didn't hear it,

1080
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: Well they did. Yeah, when it showed us hugging and

1081
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: like it said pop podcast, it was like a bump

1082
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: into commercial. It was like, but I still aired it,

1083
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 1: which was like super cute. Still you should be able

1084
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: to go up on stage and say thank you. There's

1085
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: forty three categories for that show. So yeah, how popular

1086
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:33,319
Speaker 1: a podcast like everyone getting nowadays. That's true. It's kind

1087
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: of like, oh, I'm listening to this podcast. I'm listening

1088
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: that one. I do have a little bit of a

1089
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 1: far fetched goal at some point in my life. I

1090
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: would like to win a Grammy. Everyone was just like

1091
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 1: looking at it to sing no no, no, no no,

1092
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:51,439
Speaker 1: I can't sing, but I want to write a song

1093
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:59,800
Speaker 1: that's what that wins a Grammy. That's yeah, yeah, like collaborations. Yeah,

1094
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: please guys, because ultimate goal in life is to be

1095
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: on the Grammy board, and you have to have one

1096
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: have been nominated for Grammy to be on the board.

1097
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: So that's your that's your goal goal. Yeah, that's my

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00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 1: like career goal. What's okay? I like this, what's your

1099
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: life career goal? I don't think like that, Honestly, I'm not.

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00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: I don't have like five year plans. I don't. Yeah,

1101
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: it's I was just about to say, my life goal

1102
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: is literally to make it to Friday, like Grammy. Yeah,

1103
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: Like my life goal at this point is like me

1104
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: and figuring out a great lunch for today after this,

1105
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: Me and tany are are the same. I'm somewhere in between,

1106
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 1: are you, though? I am, because I still what's your

1107
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 1: life goal? I still talked about with the stuff that

1108
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: we're doing. Ultimately I would do I mean to be

1109
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: like a Mike and Jannah competitors against Kelly and Ryan,

1110
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: like a TV show. I think I think that would

1111
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: be something that we have talked about that we would

1112
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: like to eventually get into, and even if it's us

1113
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: with another couple and we bring people on and have

1114
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: conversations and stuff like that. So that's kind of where

1115
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: I want to take this thing. Um, but we'll see.

1116
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 1: But then, but then, and then Sarah's our DJ on

1117
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 1: the side, like, wait, Dona, what's your life goal? I

1118
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 1: would I would want to be, well, obviously the best

1119
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: mom in the world what you are, But I I

1120
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: my dream would be like a Kelley and Ryan with

1121
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: with Mike, um, let's go. But then to be on

1122
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: like a like a regular show to like to do like,

1123
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: you know, five Hallmark movies a year, if you know

1124
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: what I mean, one of those kind of things. Do

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00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: you love Hallmark movies? I do love Hallmark movies. But

1126
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: I also have a lifetime movie coming out on Saturday,

1127
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 1: so um called Christmas and Louisiana. So I'm Saturday. Everybody

1128
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: mark your calendars because yeah, that'll be there. So so

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00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,919
Speaker 1: I just I would love to just keep doing acting.

1130
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: I want to do it all. But would you like

1131
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: to do another um like TV show like One Tree

1132
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: Hill or do you like, Yes, I would love to

1133
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: do so. For example, like I tested for The Resident.

1134
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I remember you telling you that.

1135
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: But that's what I want. I want to get on

1136
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: a show like a procedural and just be like the

1137
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: fifth lead show up, do my job, get out, have

1138
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: a just a ongoing check career job, and then I

1139
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: can do my stuff on the side and do like

1140
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: the Morning Show with Mike or you know, and then

1141
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: do this and that and the other one. Have you guys,

1142
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: have you guys watched The Morning Show with Jenners. It's

1143
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: so good. Really, it's fantastic. Don't listen to reviews because

1144
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: it's fantastic. But what's so great about it is Jeanna

1145
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 1: wants to be Jennifer Anderson's character in that show so

1146
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 1: bad because that's like her spirit animal. Is that character

1147
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: just chaos and putting out fires and Boston people around

1148
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 1: and handling things and just owning and just walking around

1149
00:59:54,800 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: where everyone's just kind of like Jane's coming is intersting.

1150
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: You are not a typical sagittary I am in relationships.

1151
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say it, Are you a typical

1152
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: sageant relationship? One thousand percent? So you just like adapt.

1153
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 1: I fall in love real fast. I want them to

1154
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: fall in love with me, and then I can draw

1155
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: something tension as fast as possible. This is my friend

1156
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: just got out of a breakup, and she is she's

1157
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: on the cusp of Scorpio and sage, but I think

1158
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 1: she's more of a Sagean relationships and she's we are

1159
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: hard to tie down. So good job, baby. I'm a Pisces,

1160
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: I'm a fish hanging on the hook. I'm not going

1161
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: to shake me can I say how proud I am

1162
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 1: of this conversation right now? Anytime we have guests on,

1163
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, so, what's your sign? And Chance like it's

1164
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: not real, Like why do you care? I'm like, well,

1165
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: it actually is real, and I really do care. Yeah,

1166
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: it is, like so real's sere will be like a

1167
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: checkout line if the if the red cash register persons

1168
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 1: like says something particularly, they're definitely a say that's that's

1169
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 1: how Sarah, Oh you're such a cancer, and I'm like,

1170
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: I am how do you know? I'm like yeah, But

1171
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: what if they're like no, I'm not. I'm like then

1172
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: you're either I'm like, are you maybe a Gemini or Leo?

1173
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: And then they're like actually Emilio And I'm like, okay, fine,

1174
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: I was a little off. All Right, you guys give

1175
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 1: it up again for Rebecca People's Choice Award. We'll see

1176
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 1: you next year, ladies, we will see you. I'm gonna

1177
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the same thing as Tanya, just like

1178
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: have like someone going like little little people from I

1179
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: don't know you, Well, you didn't do good enough? You

1180
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: did you do it three thousand times a day? No,

1181
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: not a day. I didn't I think collectively, I did

1182
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: three thousand. Okay, I think a day. I think a day.

1183
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 1: I probably gave us how many a day per email?

1184
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: And I used four emails a day, so hundred a day.

1185
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: Get better? You are a bot now and that's all right.

1186
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 1: You'll give it up for them. Thanks for having up. Okay,

1187
01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: do we have any good emails that? Um? Oh, this

1188
01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: is actually a good one. Can I read this one?

1189
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,919
Speaker 1: My abusive ex boyfriend texted me. I'm twenty seven years

1190
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 1: old and about five years ago, I was an abusive

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01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: relationship with a guy that I had a very strong

1192
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 1: connection with. While the abuse was mainly emotional manipulative. By

1193
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 1: the way, I just want to say, anonymous, don't ever

1194
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 1: downplay that ever, because emotional and manipulative abuse well, and

1195
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: I'm sometimes it's worse. I'd be like, this is left up,

1196
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 1: but I'd rather you hit me than say the stuff

1197
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 1: that you say, So don't ever downplay that. Okay. It

1198
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: did cross lines of other forms as well. Recently, he

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01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 1: reached out with an apology and I tried to ignore

1200
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 1: it until one night I got drunk and message back.

1201
01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: He's apologetic, says he regrets what he did to me.

1202
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: More than anything and wants us to be together. However,

1203
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 1: he has also spent time in therapy and now fully

1204
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 1: recognizes he is a psychopath. Oh sorry, sociopath. Sorry. I

1205
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: know we aren't going to end up together, but sometimes

1206
01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: but something keeps I know we aren't going to end

1207
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: up together, but something keeps me connected to this. I'm curious,

1208
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 1: especially Janna, if you have any advice on how to

1209
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 1: just move on for good. That's hard. Um. I remember

1210
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 1: my abuser emailed me when he got out of jail

1211
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 1: and actually talked to him on the phone. UM. And

1212
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 1: I feel like the more you have communication with them,

1213
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 1: the more you go back to that place of how

1214
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: do I say it, like you become It takes you back,

1215
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: and it takes you back to being that not I

1216
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 1: don't want to say the victim. It takes me back

1217
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 1: to being yeah, dependent and to being like, maybe I

1218
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 1: was crazier, maybe it was my fault, and maybe I

1219
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: should be sorry, and maybe I should help him, and

1220
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: maybe I should. It's just it's a it's a rough

1221
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: road to go down. Having said that, if he's getting

1222
01:03:56,480 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 1: the help and this is this is I think people

1223
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 1: make mistakes, they grow. I mean, she even said, I

1224
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: know we aren't going to end up together. If you

1225
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: know that, then just to stop, then stop because then

1226
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: there's but you also know people can change too, that's

1227
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 1: the thing. No, obviously I'm an advocate for that. But

1228
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 1: if she if she says to herself, I know we're

1229
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: not gonna end up together, then then what what's what's

1230
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 1: the point You're gonna keep bringing that back into your life.

1231
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: It's just back and forth. That's that's going to be

1232
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 1: unhealthy for her and you just you need to get

1233
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 1: the abuser out of your life at the end of

1234
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 1: the day, especially if it was especially if she was

1235
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 1: saying like I really you know, see a future and

1236
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 1: I want this. But it's like you're saying, you aren't

1237
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: gonna end up together. So don't even you know, put

1238
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: yourself back there. Let him heal and grow on his own,

1239
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: which is probably harder. That's a real tough one then,

1240
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: because you just go right back into that. Well maybe

1241
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: it's my fault, you know what. This is so messed up.

1242
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 1: But when I was in therapy with my therapist, she

1243
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: goes why, she has asked me, She's like, why did

1244
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: you stay in these relationships? And it was the first time,

1245
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: I was like, because I I didn't think I deserved

1246
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 1: any better. And I think women like that will continue

1247
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,440
Speaker 1: to think that they don't deserve any better. I think

1248
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 1: that's um extremely common. I think a lot of women

1249
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 1: would say that, and that's what's so heartbreaking and messed

1250
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 1: up and messed up because why who you know? We

1251
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 1: don't need to go there, but like, why would you

1252
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: think that? You know? I don't know that because but

1253
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 1: it's not because also it comes from the abuser and

1254
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 1: events and saying then you're crazy, it's your fault. And

1255
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, guys made me feel like it was

1256
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: my fault and then it was crazy. But that's the manipulator,

1257
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: that's and that's the that's the emotional manipulative abuser that's

1258
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: making you feel crazy that you Yeah, let's do this.

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Speaker 1: Other email from Faith Okay, age gaps in time alone.

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Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship for about two years now

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Speaker 1: with someone who's torn years older I'm five. We're totally compatible,

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Speaker 1: but I get tons of backlash from close friends and

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Speaker 1: family because of his age. My question is, how do

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Speaker 1: you guys feel about an age difference in a relationship?

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Speaker 1: And then we'll tackle that, and then we'll go to

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Speaker 1: the second question. I have zero issue with an age gap.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't bother me. I mean obviously have dated men

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Speaker 1: older than me. And I was going to ask you

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Speaker 1: this is why I wanted to read this one, because

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Speaker 1: how did you handle that when you had friends or

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Speaker 1: family being like all right, I mean I didn't care,

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Speaker 1: straight up, straight up didn't care. I feel like the

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Speaker 1: only time people care is like maybe in her um instance,

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Speaker 1: where it's like she's forty five, it's like if you're

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Speaker 1: not on like if she wants kids and he's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 1: feel like that's the only time when like your friends

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01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: or people really care is when it is affecting your

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01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: if you two are like majorly different, or say he's

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Speaker 1: been married already twice, he doesn't want to get married anymore,

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Speaker 1: but you're only you know, yeah, But I feel like

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't care about yeah. If you if

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Speaker 1: you're connected to someone, you're gone to someone. So I

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Speaker 1: will say, and this is just being honest. If Jolie

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Speaker 1: he's in her twenties and she's dating someone in her forties,

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm going to have more questions. That's a

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01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 1: really good point. Sure, but you there's a soul's connection

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Speaker 1: to and I think that's what you have to remember.

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Speaker 1: And that's sure I probably will too. One Jason's dating,

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Speaker 1: here are your girl, I'd be like, what is your

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Speaker 1: what do you you know? What is it? Right? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, do you you dated older men? Do

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Speaker 1: you contribute that to just your shoulds being attracted or

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01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: do you contribute it to issues with your father? Total

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Speaker 1: daddy issues? Right? So that's what I'm saying, is there.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that any age gap relationship right here,

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Speaker 1: right right, but I'm not saying that there is always

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Speaker 1: unhealthiness attached to it. But yeah, maybe the same time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, and you can usually sense that, you

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Speaker 1: know what, then no chantelle and what is his face?

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Speaker 1: You know, the my chantelle from the older not not

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Speaker 1: that victor the other one in the label head like

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Speaker 1: there the great dad? You know. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's not always time to that, but I just from

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Speaker 1: my experience through you, I know that's kind of where

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Speaker 1: it stunned. So I mean, alright, second questions about codependency.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend needs time to himself, as does everyone the

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Speaker 1: way he would The way he would do that is

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Speaker 1: by taking days off work or leaving work early so

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Speaker 1: he could go home and have his alone time and

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01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 1: relax without telling me. I would find out by coming

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Speaker 1: home and him being there. My first reaction was to

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Speaker 1: assume I did I did something wrong to make him

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Speaker 1: not want me to know. When I brought it up,

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Speaker 1: he told me he's just not used to talking about

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Speaker 1: everything he does. Like Mike myself mentioned, I talked about

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Speaker 1: my daily plans and give him step by step breakdown

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Speaker 1: of my day. My question is do you think I

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Speaker 1: was wrong for being bothered that he wasn't telling me

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Speaker 1: he wanted alone And this is the age difference. Just

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Speaker 1: about to say that this is the age difference a

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Speaker 1: forty five year olds like, I don't need to tell

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Speaker 1: you when I take a piss yeah, Or he's like,

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Speaker 1: so that's that's he just doesn't need he's been doing

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Speaker 1: him for four yeah, right, he's set in his way

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Speaker 1: of and so to to him, he's like, you don't

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01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: need to tell me when you're going to the store

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Speaker 1: to sufford to pick up some more. I say, I

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01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:16,080
Speaker 1: talked about my daily plans. To give him a step

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Speaker 1: by st and that's awesome that you do. But he's

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Speaker 1: very millennial of you. I do the same same I

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Speaker 1: mean me too. I hear your faith. I do the

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Speaker 1: exact same thing. But a forty five year old. And

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Speaker 1: I mean, and here's a man. Yeah, and then and

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01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 1: then men don't really unless you're Eastern, men don't really

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Speaker 1: do play by play of the day, very seldom know.

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Speaker 1: And do you think it's But I also think it's

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Speaker 1: aged though, because I mean even when I dated you know,

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Speaker 1: sweet John, you know what I mean, it's just like

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Speaker 1: he just like I don't care. Yeah, I mean, but

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Speaker 1: that's how I am too, and I'm thirty two. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's I think, definitely think it's a man thing.

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01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 1: But also do you think there's codependency related. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's codependent. It's not codependent. It's just like

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Speaker 1: it's just how you are. It's not we just wanted

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01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: to be in involved. It's the way you do things

1347
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 1: so naturally in relationships. As part of the compromise, right,

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Speaker 1: it's understand that people just handle things differently. And I

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Speaker 1: was gonna say, maybe she's already a little insecure because

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Speaker 1: she's much younger than him, so she just kind of

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01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 1: is like, why aren't you telling me these things? Like

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01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 1: why you know, maybe her emotions are more heightened because

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Speaker 1: she feels like, you know, she's younger, and he's probably

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Speaker 1: just like doing his thing, and she's like, just tell me.

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Speaker 1: I just want to know what's going on. But I

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Speaker 1: also think if the roles were reversed, you would be

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Speaker 1: upset if I wouldn't Okay, you can. I would love

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Speaker 1: to try that. I'd love to challenge that if you

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Speaker 1: didn't I didn't tell you, if you didn't tell him,

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Speaker 1: you're like day plans and you just cut my day

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Speaker 1: plans and I didn't put it on the calendar and

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Speaker 1: did and I just did me. I think you would

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Speaker 1: be like what. It's actually really funny because I'm the

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Speaker 1: one who's always texting Tie, what's up? What's up? What's

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Speaker 1: the plan? What's the plan? But if I go like

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Speaker 1: if I'm here and we're here for a couple of

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Speaker 1: he'll be like, wait, where what's going? Where are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that's my thoughts. So probably because you're

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Speaker 1: used to because challenge, I don't know he wouldn't be mad,

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Speaker 1: but I think you'd be like, oh wait, what's why

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Speaker 1: did you like, why didn't you tell me that it

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Speaker 1: would take getting used to. Yeah, I will say it

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01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 1: would be adjustment period because I am used to that,

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Speaker 1: so it would be like, I'm surprised you didn't tell

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Speaker 1: me exactly. But for me, it's like, Okay, I know

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