WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Un-Dump My Ex

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and you have found the

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<v Speaker 1>official Second Day podcast. If you didn't realize, maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>new to this podcast feed. Every Tuesday, we actually do

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<v Speaker 1>something a little different called our Awkward Tuesday Phone Call.

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<v Speaker 2>It's way cooler than put together Friday.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>They're just perfectly spot on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally, totally, And that's anytime you have an awkward situation,

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<v Speaker 1>you call us for help and then we just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>air all your dirty laundry so you get to enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>that episode in just a second of first comments.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, c Giordanna said, I literally found you guys again

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<v Speaker 5>recently for a second time.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to listen when I was.

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<v Speaker 4>Younger, probably fifteen years ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Then I found the podcast and forgot and I remembered

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<v Speaker 5>it and now I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well I hope you're obsessed with this episode too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's my chance. If you are the Giordano, the

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<v Speaker 2>heir to the r Giordano Pizza empayer Chicago, please send

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<v Speaker 2>us some pizza.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there we go, just in case, all right, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know. If not, just listen it starts sounding.

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<v Speaker 4>One of the biggest milestones in every relationship is the

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<v Speaker 4>first major fight over something really really dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it has to be something.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like when Brooke almost left Michael all because he

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<v Speaker 4>insisted the soy sauce had to be stored in the fridge.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't make sense the restaurants.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Michael, Thank you, Jeffrey A good point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, never poisoned ever by soy sauce.

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<v Speaker 4>You won that argument for sure. Well, one of our

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<v Speaker 4>listeners is gone through something similar, and she admits she

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<v Speaker 4>may have gotten overly emotional during a text exchange with

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<v Speaker 4>her ex boyfriend. Question is sauce experty? Can we work

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<v Speaker 4>our magic and answer the soy sauce question before things

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<v Speaker 4>get really ugly. You're gonna find out your brand new

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<v Speaker 4>awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. When you're in love, sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>you do crazy, irrational, emotionally charged things.

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<v Speaker 1>Like have kids. Is that what you're saying? No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, maybe that's your life story. But later on you

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<v Speaker 4>come to regret those things, like for me on Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 4>And I know some of you in this I've heard

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<v Speaker 4>this before, but when I was in college, I basically

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<v Speaker 4>destroyed my own fraternity house. After I invited two women

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<v Speaker 4>to the Valentine's Day party, both said yes, and once

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<v Speaker 4>they arrived, neither hung out with me the entire day.

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<v Speaker 4>So yes, the ceiling above my bed had to be

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<v Speaker 4>kicked in. Oh thank you Bacardi. Oh it's not fair.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I don't see angry Jeffrey because that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like mirror.

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<v Speaker 4>That's in love, Jeffrey. But today what they're dealing with

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<v Speaker 4>a regret that was also spawned out of love. Not

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<v Speaker 4>sure if Bacarty was involved in their misfortunes, but let's

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<v Speaker 4>talk to Jennifer about it. Jennifer, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good, Hi, guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Just one red flag talking to another possible red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>Even talk about Macarty like Bacarty orange flea. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I made all the good decisions back would walk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Jennifer, Please tell us that you're making smarter choices

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<v Speaker 1>than Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's my girl, all right, tell us about your situation.

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<v Speaker 4>How has love come back to bite you?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I was dating a guy for four months. His name

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<v Speaker 3>is Jason, and we met when my car got desclined

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<v Speaker 3>at a bar and he offered to pay for it opportunists.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And we started hanging out, and I was very

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<v Speaker 3>clear with him that I like it when he pays

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<v Speaker 3>attention to me, Like, for example, When I say that,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like, if I'm on the couch with you,

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<v Speaker 3>look at me, listen to me, respond to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's three whole things that you're asking a man

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<v Speaker 4>to do while he's sitting on a couch. You tell us,

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<v Speaker 4>he's a big ask.

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<v Speaker 1>You just you don't want your boyfriend to ignore you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're saying? No, watching the movie, only

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<v Speaker 1>look at.

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<v Speaker 3>But also like, so be checking the sports score constantly,

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<v Speaker 3>like know that I'm there, present with me as well?

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<v Speaker 4>Be present?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean is this something like how soon into

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship did you lay this down there?

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<v Speaker 6>The first week?

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<v Speaker 1>The first week?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, Yeah, it's pretty clear. That's what I like,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's how I like to be dated.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's good to establish rules early on in

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<v Speaker 4>the courtship sometimes, And.

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<v Speaker 1>It worked for four months. Yeah. Yeah, so he was

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<v Speaker 1>into it. He was fine with it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he agreed because you had no other choice.

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<v Speaker 3>But then one day throw me off and he stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait, what happened, he stopped paying attention to you.

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<v Speaker 3>So one day he just didn't respond to me for

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<v Speaker 3>an entire twenty four hours, he didn't respond to my text.

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<v Speaker 3>I get upset, like, clearly he doesn't respect me enough

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<v Speaker 3>to answer one text. I don't care how busy you are.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll give you three hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Max.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, so you're not even together in the same

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<v Speaker 4>space right now, you're texting him and he's not responding, right, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys in the same city or is he

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<v Speaker 1>traveling for work?

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<v Speaker 3>We're in the same city. So I dumped him overjeck.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, that seems a little rash.

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<v Speaker 4>Was he in a surgery or something? Yeah, you don't

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<v Speaker 4>know what he was doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, the next morning, he's like, are you joking?

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<v Speaker 3>I was just busy. We literally talk every day. Do

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<v Speaker 3>you want to be with me? And I was like, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>becuse you were a small for twenty four hours, so

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<v Speaker 3>no thanks, Like, look.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, in the wildest defense of my life, listen here,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're used to texting someone every single day, morning, noon,

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<v Speaker 2>and night, and then one day four months later with

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<v Speaker 2>no explanation, that does seem out of the blue. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if you break up, but that's very weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you don't even have to talk about it. You

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<v Speaker 1>just dump them via text. Mean it's a different story,

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<v Speaker 1>are you, Like, are you regretting it now? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>why you're calling our show?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, when I dumped him overjecks, I kind

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<v Speaker 3>of got me thinking about the other stuff that annoys me,

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<v Speaker 3>Like he never posts on social media ever, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>like some guys i'm dating sends me Instagram funny men

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<v Speaker 3>their phones.

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<v Speaker 1>You want them looking at me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not true. She wants them on the phone talking

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<v Speaker 4>to her and not looking at anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry, picture of you get off your phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So you started snowballing with all these reasons that you

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<v Speaker 1>were right to dump him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so then I get worked up. I block him

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<v Speaker 3>from every as one does.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a reasonable thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a few weeks and I regret it, and

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<v Speaker 3>I realized I've a got a little overly emotional about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, Well that's there's maybe some gross there. So did

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<v Speaker 1>you reach out to him and apologize? No?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's why I'm asking you guys, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how to ask him to go back with me

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<v Speaker 3>and give me a chance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is this is the first time we're going

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<v Speaker 4>to be reaching out to your ex boyfriend after you

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<v Speaker 4>dumped him over text.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he didn't respond to you in twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I overreacted. Yes, I know this now

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and I I regret it, and I probably

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<v Speaker 3>should thought about it or taking a couple of deep breaths.

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<v Speaker 3>But it really picked me off.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I think, honestly, a lot of what you just

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<v Speaker 4>said right there to us would be great to put

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<v Speaker 4>somewhere in the conversation when we reach out to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Very awkward call that.

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<v Speaker 1>What's funny is I always think of the opposite. I

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<v Speaker 1>always thinking that all sounds like an excuse? Is why

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay that she did that? Like, that's not an apology.

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<v Speaker 1>An apology is just I'm sorry, like not, but you

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<v Speaker 1>really ticked me off.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, what's our goal here? Are we spelling it out?

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<v Speaker 2>You want him back? Or are we trying to subtly

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<v Speaker 2>convince him that he's missing out on you?

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever works? Guys, I want to date him again, So

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<v Speaker 3>can you help me?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, We'll try. We're going to come back. Give you

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit of advice, whether it's a sincere apology

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<v Speaker 4>or a subtle threat, and we'll try and make your

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<v Speaker 4>awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. Hold on, it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 4>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward Tuesday phone call, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a question. How hard is it to admit

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<v Speaker 4>when you're wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually pretty easy? Yeah, all the time. I haven't done.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>I admit I wrong all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we took an informal poll around the office recently,

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<v Speaker 4>and it had to be a secret poll. Yeah, obviously

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<v Speaker 4>because some people here are afraid of you and quote

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<v Speaker 4>what you might do to their careers and families. But

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<v Speaker 4>I will say your name was up there as one

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<v Speaker 4>of the people that gets the most votes for someone

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<v Speaker 4>who can't admit openly when they're wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>But I say it all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's just happening in your head. You should try

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<v Speaker 4>it out every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're listening skills aren't very good.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, a person.

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<v Speaker 2>You're constantly apologizing.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a similar mindset on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 4>right now named Jennifer, who regrets breaking up with her

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<v Speaker 4>because he didn't text her back one day into their

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<v Speaker 4>four month long relationships. So, Brooks, since you and her

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<v Speaker 4>think alike, why don't you talk to work give her

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<v Speaker 4>some advice on how on what you would do in

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<v Speaker 4>this situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone knows that's the type of person I am, Jennifer,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am here for you. But I actually do

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<v Speaker 1>have a good plan for you. Okay, Jennifer, you told

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<v Speaker 1>us about a story when you first met where he

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<v Speaker 1>rescued you after your credit card got declined. Remember you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>remember that. Yeah, he is the guy who wants to

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<v Speaker 1>be the Knight in shining armor. So guess what, you're

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<v Speaker 1>another damsel in distress right now. You need to call him.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to tell him something's broken at your house

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<v Speaker 1>and he is the manliest man, is the only one

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<v Speaker 1>that can fix it, and I guarantee he'll come rushing back.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, you're probably right.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think about that, Jennifer, Make up some

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<v Speaker 4>sort of scenario he can save you from.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then you're like cute and sexy when he

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<v Speaker 1>shows up, just my chance.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think he'll fall for it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're guys, We're dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it could be like, I don't know how handy

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<v Speaker 1>he is maybe like a broken outlet or a.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if the guy is saying yes, then I'll try it.

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<v Speaker 4>One of the guys is saying yes, it could be

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<v Speaker 4>worth a shot, though, jose What what's your advice for Jennifer?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you seem like a very passionate person, like very

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<v Speaker 2>intense person, which isn't a bad thing, but sometimes intense

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<v Speaker 2>people can be more you know, ran Te, So I

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<v Speaker 2>think you just need to convince him that you were

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<v Speaker 2>ranting when you sent that breakup text. You didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>mean it, You weren't serious, you were just mad.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's gaslighting. That's like the definition of gas lighting.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever works to get him back is to get him back,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that'll.

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<v Speaker 4>Work, Okay, a little bit of make yourself a damsel

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<v Speaker 4>in distress, a little bit of gaslight him for causing

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<v Speaker 4>all of your problems. We've been dating for four months.

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't know how I am.

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<v Speaker 1>It's your fault.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how does that sound, Jennifer? You feel ready now

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<v Speaker 4>to make this call?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so good.

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<v Speaker 4>And if anything doesn't go according to our plan, Brook

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<v Speaker 4>is more than willing to admit that she is wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>All You're right, I could see nothing going wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>this at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel that he's going to be so open to

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<v Speaker 1>dating again.

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<v Speaker 4>You are ready?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm dialing your ex boyfriend Jason right now. What'll steppen

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<v Speaker 4>if we feel like you need little help?

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<v Speaker 6>Hello? Hey you? How's it going?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>This is awkward? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Why are you calling? I?

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<v Speaker 6>Just?

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<v Speaker 3>How have you been.

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<v Speaker 6>Fine?

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<v Speaker 3>How about you good? I actually went to the bar

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<v Speaker 3>where we first met and I just thought of you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>how's work going?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I know it's been good. But can I can I

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<v Speaker 6>help you with something? Or what are you calling?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? You probably want to say something to me, So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready when you are. Uh, you're calling me and

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<v Speaker 3>you want me to say something like I'm confused? Yeah, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll go for you. I just hate how everything went

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<v Speaker 3>down with us. I mean, you definitely should have talked

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<v Speaker 3>on the phone, and I also went a little crazy

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<v Speaker 3>and like may have overreacted a little but a little

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<v Speaker 3>A little yeah, a little, but I would that word

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<v Speaker 3>to describe it. But but I'm willing to forgive you

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<v Speaker 3>for what you did.

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<v Speaker 6>You're willing to forgive me? Are you serious? Like you're

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<v Speaker 6>calling me out of the blue asking me to apologize

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<v Speaker 6>to you when you're the one who just like went,

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<v Speaker 6>that's crazy you pretty much, Jason.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're interrupting me. I really hope you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to give you a fair chance to apologize.

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<v Speaker 6>Unfortunately, I'm sorry, but you're not going to get an

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<v Speaker 6>apology from me because you are the one who put

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<v Speaker 6>us in this comen So yeah, I'm not really sure

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<v Speaker 6>what you're expecting from me.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me just make it really easy for you, like

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<v Speaker 3>I So what you need to do is just apologize

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<v Speaker 3>to me because you know and say sorry, Jennifer. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I know you wanted to see me, and I.

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<v Speaker 6>Know that a day shouldn't go wild, like don't text

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<v Speaker 6>me back, or making it so easy for me really

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<v Speaker 6>really just made my day here, Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Get this is hard for you maybe and you're adding

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<v Speaker 3>sarcasm on top of that, but just so I'll help

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<v Speaker 3>you start it off, I'm very very sorry for not

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<v Speaker 3>responding to you and making you feel neglected. I'll you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll make it up to y'all. I'll even let you

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<v Speaker 3>get my groceries or buy me dinner or pay me rent,

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<v Speaker 3>like whatever. Gesture you want to show, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, are you actually being serious right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I yes, I am. And also I actually have

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<v Speaker 3>something that's broken at my house and it's hoping you

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<v Speaker 3>can fixed it. It's an outlet, I would.

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<v Speaker 2>Say, sex.

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<v Speaker 6>What the hell is actually going on? Like, we're all

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<v Speaker 6>these people on the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Jason, we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I'm so uncomfortable right now beyond the radio.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're doing something called an awkward Tuesday phone call,

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<v Speaker 4>trying to help out our friend Jennifer here with an issue.

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<v Speaker 4>And I will say, just to take her side, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't hear any apology whatever. She gave me a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of chances there be sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I'm actually I'm very thankful that you guys just

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<v Speaker 6>witnessed that because this has been my life. Isn't this ridiculous?

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<v Speaker 6>What can you actually believe?

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<v Speaker 4>This is real? Jennifer, you told us that you wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to like see.

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<v Speaker 1>Him again because you were sorry, remember you?

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<v Speaker 3>But he needs to apologized.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, everybody knows a sincere apology is always better when

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<v Speaker 4>you force somebody to give it makes total sense. That's right,

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<v Speaker 4>jeff That is right either way. However you want to

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<v Speaker 4>look at this. There were some hurt feelings on both sides,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think what would really help is to get

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<v Speaker 4>an apology out there from both of you at the

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<v Speaker 4>same time. So all count to three and you guys

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<v Speaker 4>can both say I'm sorry to each other ready one, two, three.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry you didn't text me back, still.

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<v Speaker 4>Saying awkwardly silence over there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think Jason's made up his mind, Jeffrey. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he's going to go over and fix the outlet.

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<v Speaker 4>No, he wants to go over and give her an

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<v Speaker 4>in person apology because an in phone apology wasn't enough.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you're thinking, Jason.

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<v Speaker 3>You hit it right on the head.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just know these things.

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<v Speaker 1>He finally gets you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he does.

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<v Speaker 6>He hurts you right, And you know what, Jennifer, I've

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<v Speaker 6>actually moved on and I have a day tonight, So

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<v Speaker 6>I just don't know, like there's really no purpose in

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<v Speaker 6>these kind of calls moving forward.

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<v Speaker 4>Just oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Good luck. I'm sure she likes we texted back as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think this she'll probably throw a fit about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you're reading in between the line what

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<v Speaker 4>he's saying, is he wants you to show up to the.

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<v Speaker 3>May you do that, Jennifer, take your time and place.

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<v Speaker 6>You really are crazy and fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, man, talk about being nervous for your

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<v Speaker 4>first date now because you want to impress the new

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<v Speaker 4>girl because Jennifer might show up out of nowhere dressed

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<v Speaker 4>up as one of the waiters.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even say that and put that in her hands.

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<v Speaker 4>It just means that she loves him.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it does not.

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<v Speaker 4>It means somebody needs either way.

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<v Speaker 1>BOK and Jeffrey in the Morning, Well, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people have a lot of opinions. Yes right now, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Jeffrey in the Morning. Thanks for sticking around apart three,

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<v Speaker 1>and there is just a lot to cover right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean we were shocked. Yeah, we didn't expect

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<v Speaker 1>her to come off like that. Yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was going to be the one apologizing.

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<v Speaker 5>Man was Yeah that was Oh and it is triggering

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<v Speaker 5>all the keywords in the comments, and we got narcissists,

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<v Speaker 5>crazy nuts, run, suffocating, toxic, immature check for.

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<v Speaker 1>A tracker.

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<v Speaker 2>Listening hearing a gold mine right, Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>That could be someone's type.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, right now, I want to scroll there's a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of comments, but let me try to find maybe there

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<v Speaker 5>will be the one person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and the one person seeing it yet though she

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<v Speaker 1>really is actually destined for is a reality show? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that is perfect reality show. You're right, So hopefully there's

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<v Speaker 1>a producer listening that she gets her shot.

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<v Speaker 2>And make more money than all of us.

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<v Speaker 1>There's got to be the villain on every reality show. Her.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got her in your comments. And for second here

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<v Speaker 1>it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.