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Speaker 1: I will not stop screaming from the rooftops at my

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Speaker 1: mom kidnap my son. Am I the a hole? Maybe

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Speaker 1: if you if you yodel it? Yeah, yoda, we got

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Speaker 1: a kidnapper on the lark Green Corolla. My mom stole

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Speaker 1: my kid and know I mean that is what I

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Speaker 1: am mad. I'm mad, yodaly we should we should become

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Speaker 1: professional yodelers. Yeah, I think so. I think everyone love

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Speaker 1: that and will not angrily comment something definitely terrible. Let's

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Speaker 1: let's read this whole story in a yoda yodel. Oh

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Speaker 1: they love that, John, It'll be their favorite thing. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you? Uh friends on the internet. Firstly, sorry, this

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Speaker 1: is on mobile and a throwaway throw away a can Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I female thirty two emigrated to my husband's thirty nine

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Speaker 1: home country five years ago and we have a beautiful

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Speaker 1: son who is three years old. It's adorable. My mother,

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Speaker 1: fifty two has always been controlling and frankly is a

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Speaker 1: typical narcissist. She was dead against my moving and because

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Speaker 1: as a result of her husband being terminally ill and

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Speaker 1: a pandemic, she wasn't able to meet my son until

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Speaker 1: this week, and she has complained bitterly, how we cheated

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Speaker 1: her out of a special time with her first grandson.

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Speaker 1: How dare you?

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Speaker 2: How dare you start a pandemic so I can't see

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Speaker 2: my grandchild now?

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Speaker 1: How dare you you you have sexual intercourse during the

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Speaker 1: only time that we've been locked up with each other

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Speaker 1: for months on end. Unaccepted. Hey, what do you expect

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Speaker 1: him to do? Close her sausage cave? No, No, that

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Speaker 1: cave is wide open. M h. I wasn't exactly excited

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Speaker 1: about her coming to visit us, but my husband convinced

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Speaker 1: me that we should try to let our son have

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Speaker 1: a relationship with her. Well. From the moment she arrived,

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Speaker 1: she complained, our house is too small, the guardian is overlooked.

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Speaker 1: She complained, my son doesn't speak much English and so

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Speaker 1: she can't communicate with him. She complained that my son

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Speaker 1: didn't want a hugger, that he wanted to stay with

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Speaker 1: his paternal grandmother. Man, the sing you know is that

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Speaker 1: this this he knows what time is. It's like I

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Speaker 1: don't want you granny. Yeah. Also it's like, oh, Pie's mother,

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Speaker 1: It's not like mother in law, Ope's mother. So like

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Speaker 1: that's that's how you know this mother is awful when

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Speaker 1: op is against the mother. Yeah, my son spilt a

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Speaker 1: drink and she shouted at him. We are taking the

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Speaker 1: gentle approach, and so I told her not to do

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Speaker 1: that and why she shouldn't do that, and she lost it,

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Speaker 1: telling me I have no idea how to raise a kid.

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Speaker 1: It's like, bro, sometimes the old methods aren't aren't really

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Speaker 1: working anymore.

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Speaker 2: Also, also, when it's like your own child is telling

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Speaker 2: you that, it's like, maybe you didn't do the best

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Speaker 2: of a job, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I told her she needs to respect my methods

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Speaker 1: or she can freaking leave. She stopped, but the whole

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Speaker 1: rest of the day you could tell she was furious. Sure,

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Speaker 1: this mother sounds like a piece of work. Yeah. That night,

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Speaker 1: my son was having one of those nights where he

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Speaker 1: just isn't getting enough sleep. My poor husband also had

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Speaker 1: an IBS flare up in the early hours, and we

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Speaker 1: realized we had no medication. Hell, so he was farting

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Speaker 1: up a storm. When my son settled around seven thirty am,

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Speaker 1: I decided to do a quick run to the twenty

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Speaker 1: four hour pharmacy to get some medication, leaving son and

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Speaker 1: husband both asleep on the sofa. What can go wrong? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're all They're all asleep and happy family. Oh good.

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Speaker 1: I was gone for twenty minutes, but when I came back,

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Speaker 1: my mother's rental car was gone, and so was my son,

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Speaker 1: while my husband was still asleep. Oh my god, husband,

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Speaker 1: ro you were you were supposed to take flight? Come on?

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Speaker 1: He was shocked as I was that they had both gone.

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Speaker 1: Oh go, Oh my gosh, I'm so surprised. I tried

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Speaker 1: my mother's mobile, but no answer. After forty five minutes

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Speaker 1: of me becoming increasingly hysterical, I called the police, who

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Speaker 1: came out very fast, and when I explained as above,

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Speaker 1: they took things seriously. That's good. Yeah, yeah, it's like

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Speaker 1: I mean, you could definitely. I feel like in the

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Speaker 1: cases of this kind of kidnapping where it's like a

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Speaker 1: family member, I feel like some police people would be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's not that serious.

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Speaker 2: Well, I bet there's been probably been cases before of like, oh,

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Speaker 2: like you know, it's usually someone you know or whatever, right,

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Speaker 2: so like, oh, you know, let's not let's not have that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, you know, it's it's uh, we need to

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Speaker 1: get this from someone. We need to get this person

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Speaker 1: right away. Like, this is a serious matter.

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Speaker 2: I listened to the white girl true crime shows. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: come on, now, it's usually someone you know that kills you.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Six hours later, my mother pulled back up

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Speaker 1: and started telling the police most adults know English here

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Speaker 1: that I had told her she could take my son

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Speaker 1: out for the day. I'm currently six months pregnant, and

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Speaker 1: she said it must be pregnancy brain, which the police

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Speaker 1: seemed to accept and acted like the matter was closed

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Speaker 1: since my son was home safely and showing everyone the

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Speaker 1: toys he had been bought. No. Oh, I told my

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Speaker 1: mother to leave and that I never wanted to see

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Speaker 1: her again. She started telling family I kicked her out

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Speaker 1: for no reason and she can't find a hotel, and

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Speaker 1: they blew up my phone, to which I told them

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Speaker 1: she had kidnapped my son and I'm going to pursue

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Speaker 1: the police get her arrested. Let's go. Now. I'm being

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Speaker 1: called an a hole for saying my son was kidnapped

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Speaker 1: when he was just taken on a day trip with

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Speaker 1: his loving grandmother, and that an accusation like this could

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Speaker 1: affect my mother's job as a nurse. Please, please God,

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Speaker 1: let it like let her learn, Yes, it sounds like

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Speaker 1: a massive a hole God for real. And there's an update.

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Speaker 1: Oh this spoken to my mother and basically told her

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Speaker 1: to not approach the house or they will have to

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Speaker 1: consider it a threat slash harassment and will act while

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Speaker 1: they continue investigating. Wow, but they feel her leaving the

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Speaker 1: country tomorrow, which she's doing, is enough of a resolution.

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Speaker 1: Apparently she has shown ticket info. I'm still getting a

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Speaker 1: lot of grief from family, saying I should understand my

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Speaker 1: mother is struggling after her husband died and so on.

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Speaker 1: This again is making me question my reaction, but I

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Speaker 1: can't forgive this. I will reach out to relative embassies,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like nothing will happen. My partner's family

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Speaker 1: are being amazing and looking after us all. At least

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Speaker 1: there's one mother that is Yeah, what one mom that's

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Speaker 1: doing her job?

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Speaker 2: Ah man, this is and I mean it's so hard,

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Speaker 2: like with the narcissistic parents or or like any any

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Speaker 2: sort of Like it's your parents, so you want to

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Speaker 2: like give them a chance.

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Speaker 1: But it's like but it's like how many chances can

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Speaker 1: you give them? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You can't, Like you can't let them into the point

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Speaker 2: where they just destroy your life.

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Speaker 1: And it seems like this mother is doing that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to like call like you have to

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Speaker 2: call it at some point, like what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Just let them keep walking all over you. Now, you

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Speaker 1: can't everything. You got to have your own life.

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Speaker 2: At some point, I'm you try to kidnap my son.

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Speaker 1: Say you