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Speaker 2: Chloe is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Kevin.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
Speaker 2: maybe get her a second date. But first, Chloe, how
Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Kevin?
Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, so it's been like about a week since
Speaker 3: I've heard from him.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, have you been trying to hit him up?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I thought we had like a really nice date.
Speaker 3: So I'm just not really sure what's happening.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll tell us about the date then.
Speaker 3: So we went on this night hike, which I thought
Speaker 3: was really cute. He said that it was one of
Speaker 3: his favorite places to go. He said it was kind
Speaker 3: of like off the grid, so I thought it was,
Speaker 3: you know, kind of romantic. We had a picnic, like,
Speaker 3: we had a blanket, we looked at the stars, and
Speaker 3: it felt really perfect. Honestly, like it was a really
Speaker 3: nice date. I'll admit, there was kind of like a
Speaker 3: tragic ending. Yeah, So at one point we kissed, which
Speaker 3: was great, and it wasn't sort of like, you know,
Speaker 3: one of those end of the first state like, hey,
Speaker 3: this was fun, you know peck kiss Like it was
Speaker 3: a really nice moment, like a leaning, you know, a
Speaker 3: soft sigh, a hand on your jaw, like one of
Speaker 3: those kisses you know that like you kind of think about.
Speaker 3: And so basically, you know, the date was good. We
Speaker 3: were heading back to the car and he brought me
Speaker 3: to this little like lookout spot and I think that,
Speaker 3: you know, maybe he was trying to set the mood
Speaker 3: for something more. But I was walking and it was
Speaker 3: kind of dark, you know, we're outside, it was night,
Speaker 3: and I tripped on this like tree route that was
Speaker 3: sticking out of the ground and I just ate it.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I like twisted my ankle face planted like
Speaker 3: it was not sexy, uh for sure. But we ended
Speaker 3: up going to the hospital because I couldn't really put
Speaker 3: any weight on it. And when we got to the hospital,
Speaker 3: I kind of could tell that like he just really
Speaker 3: did not want to be there.
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, you went to the hospital and everything. A
Speaker 4: night hike was starting to make me nervous, but then
Speaker 4: like you had to do all of this well.
Speaker 3: I just couldn't put weight on it, so like I
Speaker 3: felt like I needed to go, Like I wasn't sure
Speaker 3: if I broke something. But when we were there, I
Speaker 3: could just kind of tell that, like he didn't want
Speaker 3: to be there, and he looked truly annoyed, and the
Speaker 3: nurse was telling him like I can't really let her
Speaker 3: go by herself, like someone has to drive her, so
Speaker 3: he had to stay. And then since then, I haven't
Speaker 3: heard from him, Like he hasn't texted me, he hasn't
Speaker 3: called me, like I feel. I just feel like awful. Honestly,
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to make him feel like he was
Speaker 3: stuck with me at the hospital, but I don't know,
Speaker 3: like it was such a good date that I guess
Speaker 3: I kind of thought that he cared about me, so
Speaker 3: it wouldn't be that big of a deal. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Well, and you'd hope that he'd also want to make
Speaker 4: sure that you're okay a few days after that, so
Speaker 4: to get ghosted, because that would be kind of messed
Speaker 4: up on his part.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been like a week, and I even sent
Speaker 3: him like a little thank you Venmo, you know, for
Speaker 3: like the gas money, because we kind of had to
Speaker 3: go out of the way to get to the hospital
Speaker 3: and like a little you know emoji with like a
Speaker 3: thank you for saving my life, you know that kind
Speaker 3: of thing. And he didn't even like the venmo.
Speaker 4: So would you send him money?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 3: I just want I mean, we did have to kind
Speaker 3: of go out of the way to go to the hospital,
Speaker 3: so I kind of just wanted to, you know, I mean,
Speaker 3: it's really nice of you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, that's really nice of you.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So I don't know, like I guess, I just
Speaker 3: didn't think that that would be a deal breaker, but
Speaker 3: it seems like it is. I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 2: for you a little play a song, come back, and
Speaker 2: then call him and see if you'll tell us why
Speaker 2: he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thanks guys.
Speaker 6: All right, we'll get your first day.
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Chloe is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
Speaker 2: a guy named Kevin. So we're about to call him
Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her
Speaker 2: and maybe get her a second date. But before we
Speaker 2: do that, Chloe, why don't you break down your date
Speaker 2: again for us one more time.
Speaker 3: Yeah. We went on a night hike. We had a
Speaker 3: lot of fun, we kissed. I really liked him, and
Speaker 3: then we were moving to like a second location, like
Speaker 3: a lookout spot, and I tripped on a tree route.
Speaker 3: I thought I might have broken my ankle, and we
Speaker 3: had to go to the hospital. And while we're at
Speaker 3: the hospital, I could tell that he just was not
Speaker 3: happy to be there with me. I think he might
Speaker 3: have felt sort of stuck. And now I just haven't
Speaker 3: heard from him, and I'm just not.
Speaker 4: Really sure why.
Speaker 6: Okay, weird? Well are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Kevin. Please.
Speaker 5: Uh, this is him?
Speaker 6: Hey Kevin, how are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 6: It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi Kevin. I'm Nina Hian.
Speaker 6: I'm Victoria, and my name is Jebel. What's going on?
Speaker 5: Everybody?
Speaker 6: What's up? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 6: I have, great. Well, are you aware of what a
Speaker 6: first day follow up?
Speaker 5: Is Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's the segment where if you go out on
Speaker 2: a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 5: Okay, this is about Chloe.
Speaker 6: Yes, it is about Chloe. Yeah, we talked to her
Speaker 6: a little bit.
Speaker 2: She said that she thought your date was really cool
Speaker 2: and has no idea why your ghosting He would you
Speaker 2: mind letting us know she has a little bit of
Speaker 2: an idea.
Speaker 5: But okay, yeah, I mean listen, she's not a bad person.
Speaker 5: She's like very sweet and like, I don't know, she's
Speaker 5: just not for me, just not I don't know. I
Speaker 5: don't think could fit.
Speaker 6: What makes you say that?
Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, there was the perfume. I
Speaker 5: could smell her before she got out of the car,
Speaker 5: Like I thought I was it was like a joke,
Speaker 5: Like I'm pretty sensitive to that stuff, but like I
Speaker 5: thought it was like I was being punked because it
Speaker 5: was so strong, okay, and like my eyes were watering,
Speaker 5: I had a headache, and.
Speaker 6: Like all I could think of was that strong.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm kind of sensitive to that stuff, but
Speaker 5: this was just like kind of overwhelming and it's sort
Speaker 5: of it. I wasn't I wasn't having fun because of it,
Speaker 5: and like all I could think of was, Wow, this
Speaker 5: is this is high maten. This is a high maintenance person.
Speaker 5: And like I should have ended after the hike with
Speaker 5: all like the red flags, but I didn't. And I figure,
Speaker 5: you know, maybe it's still like worth it to hang
Speaker 5: out and get to know each other and I don't know,
Speaker 5: maybe maybe hook up a little and then you know,
Speaker 5: I don't know, it's kind of keeping an open mind.
Speaker 5: And then she'd like bam, out of know where, she
Speaker 5: just fall a mouthful of dirt. It was wild.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 5: So I mean that was like a weird turn. And
Speaker 5: I kind of, you know, I had questions and not
Speaker 5: just cutting it off after the hike, And so we
Speaker 5: go to the hospital and the nurse nurse is giving
Speaker 5: me this guilt trip and Chloe is all like, isn't
Speaker 5: this so romantic? And I'm like, nah, I don't even
Speaker 5: have insurance. Like I like I've got like sand in
Speaker 5: my shoes from the hike, and like I smell like
Speaker 5: a department store. Like I was. I was so unhappy,
Speaker 5: but you.
Speaker 4: Kissed her and stuff like if the smell was that
Speaker 4: bad you kissed her and you were open to hooking up,
Speaker 4: that smell wasn't going to go away.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's the you know, the smell isn't like
Speaker 5: wasn't a deal breaker. It was just that And then
Speaker 5: like maybe I had less patience because it was so
Speaker 5: and such an intense thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, thank you for telling us and being honest
Speaker 2: with us. Now, Kevin, I have to be honest with
Speaker 2: you and let you know that Chloe is actually on
Speaker 2: the phone and wants to talk to you. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: knew that already, Okay.
Speaker 5: Chloe, Yeah, No, I know how this goes. I'm just
Speaker 5: I'm just throwing it all out there because she's there.
Speaker 5: You're gonna get it out of me, sooner or later.
Speaker 5: She is here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 5: Hi. Yeah, Hi.
Speaker 3: I think I'm just like I'm just a little stunned,
Speaker 3: like you're the one that led me to that stupid
Speaker 3: lookout spot and you're giving me that like down the
Speaker 3: line of like oh this is where I bring special
Speaker 3: people like that that's just like so manipulative, Like I
Speaker 3: I don't know, like it's just gross.
Speaker 5: I mean, it was a good spot I don't think
Speaker 5: my hiking spot is the problem. It was great until you,
Speaker 5: you know, too, could swan dive into a bunch of gravel.
Speaker 5: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't decide to fall, Kevin, I just fell. And
Speaker 3: if you don't even like me, like, why why are
Speaker 3: you trying to sabotage you with the nature? Like seriously,
Speaker 3: you don't even like me.
Speaker 5: Oh so I use nature to sabotage you. I mean,
Speaker 5: I'm the reason you trip and lured you into just
Speaker 5: like some trap and then brought you to the hospital.
Speaker 3: Now, I'm just saying that if you weren't trying to
Speaker 3: get it on on the edge of a cliff, I
Speaker 3: probably wouldn't needed to go to the hospital and get
Speaker 3: an X ray, which, by the way, I do have
Speaker 3: health insurance. I still to paper.
Speaker 5: So I mean, maybe if you were bathed in perfume,
Speaker 5: you know, we'd have made it to second base without me,
Speaker 5: you know, being nauseous.
Speaker 3: Possibly, Okay, well I literally worshed it on number five.
Speaker 3: It's a classic. So I don't know. Maybe you're just
Speaker 3: allergic to affection like I. It doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 5: I'm allergic to drama. That's what my thing is. Don't
Speaker 5: blame this on nature that I don't. I don't even
Speaker 5: know why I'm arguing about this.
Speaker 3: Not dramatic. I'm literally not being dramatic. I almost broke
Speaker 3: my broke my foot.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's I feel like I already said it. You're
Speaker 5: it was. I don't know, just everything was so extra.
Speaker 5: I was trying to show you a good time and
Speaker 5: be nice and maybe like get to know you, and
Speaker 5: it just like it you threw a wrench in the place,
Speaker 5: and every single time it was like everything about it.
Speaker 5: I was being nice.
Speaker 3: It sounds like you were just trying to hook up
Speaker 3: with me and you don't actually like me.
Speaker 5: I wasn't not trying to hook up with you.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, Kevin, would you like another day with Clobe?
Speaker 6: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 5: I need peace, I need breatheable air and like someone
Speaker 5: that doesn't think nature is a weapon. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, maybe next time you should try to hook
Speaker 3: up in like a normal spot, like a car. I
Speaker 3: don't know, so nobody gets hurt.
Speaker 5: That's just the.
Speaker 6: Thought that I have.
Speaker 5: Yeah, nobody gets hurt in cars, right, you know what,
Speaker 5: We'll just maybe watch where you're walking and like you know,
Speaker 5: no one has to be stuck with you in a hospital.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'm glad that I know what you think.
Speaker 3: You're such a creep and I smell really good and
Speaker 3: I know that about myself, so I don't want to
Speaker 3: second date with him either.
Speaker 6: Yeah, girl, you're.
Speaker 5: Whatever. Most people like hanging out with me, and apparently
Speaker 5: Chloe didn't. I think maybe Chloe didn't because she's drama.
Speaker 5: That's what she wants.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I am not dramatic. I almost died.
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