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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and then she was like, well, I could

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Speaker 2: You could forever find that guy that's uninsured. I'm scared

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Speaker 1: And Brook's not the only person who's tried to meddle

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Speaker 1: says that she ran some interference to get herself a

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Speaker 1: So let's welcome Kendra to the show. Kendra, how you doing,

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Speaker 1: I'm great?

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Speaker 3: How are you guys?

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Speaker 2: Give us some new ideas? I know, I feel like

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Speaker 1: That you had. Yeah, so can we learn the name

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I mean his name is Jacoby Jacoby.

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Speaker 4: Okay, how soon into meeting Jacoby, did you know like

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Speaker 3: It was instant. I was shopping at Target and there

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Speaker 3: Yes, and then I was fine him on. I went

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Speaker 2: Oh say number.

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Speaker 3: No, I saw his name and he didn't see me,

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Speaker 1: And wait, you didn't say hi to him?

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Speaker 3: No, I was just memorized his name.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, Jacoby said, Jacoby's probably amazing even I remembered it, said.

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Speaker 1: What do you do with his name?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 3: Well, I went to social media.

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Speaker 2: Obviously you can find someone just by Wow.

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Speaker 1: I love how you act like you've never tried to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but someone that have already met, not someone I've

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Speaker 1: Were you able to find him, Kendra? Yes, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: God, you have a private detector in this in your future.

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Speaker 1: You were able to like learn anything about him from it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well I was able to determined from the social

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. How do you end up like actually getting

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Speaker 3: Well? I didn't actually reach out to him right then,

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Speaker 2: Oh, oh, you're deep in this?

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Speaker 6: That a hotter brother?

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Speaker 1: Why would you?

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Speaker 3: Well, it just seemed like it would be more natural

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Speaker 3: Well, it turns out that his mom is in a

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Speaker 1: Which reminds me, Barbara, do you have any children? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Well, she asked me for my phone number that you

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Speaker 4: Dude, if you found this out, if you found out

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Speaker 3: He asked me on a date, so it worked.

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Speaker 3: It was a real casual date. We went and had

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean we were talking about specifics, you know.

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Speaker 3: I told him the truth. I don't think I've ever

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Speaker 2: You tried me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's kind of alienating me farther away.

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Speaker 1: Mean, for sh talk, nothing's worse than book club drama. Yikes. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: We're just going to talk about his two true loves

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Speaker 2: We got enough to come.

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Speaker 1: I'll do it right after this. Hold on second date update.

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Speaker 1: This is one of the most interesting dating stories that

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Speaker 1: And just try to follow me on this. So girl

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's wild because now not only is he

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Speaker 1: Something happened. It's crazy, and we have to take all

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Speaker 1: We can not talk about any of it. Kendra has

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Speaker 4: Phone, there's some good stuff to talk about still, though,

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Speaker 4: you know, Kendra, are you worried that he's somehow found

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Speaker 3: No, no, there's just no no, no.

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Speaker 1: I guess she's hiding underneath his desk at work, right.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't mentioned it once, so he has no idea.

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Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, Hello, We're

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Speaker 1: Her name's Kendra.

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Speaker 7: Ken Kendra. Yeah, I know Kendra.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you guys went to coffee together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've kind of set you guys up.

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Speaker 7: It is weird. How do you guys know all this question?

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Speaker 2: She met your mom at their book club.

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Speaker 7: This is true.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we were.

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Speaker 7: It was a nice time. But okay, well I'm sorry,

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Speaker 7: where is this going?

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Speaker 1: Like we're trying to help her figure out, like why

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Speaker 5: She's cool?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you have a plan to call her and

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Speaker 7: This is very awkward.

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 7: That It's okay, Okay, hold on, hold on, It's not bad, guys.

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Speaker 7: It's not like it's not a bad thing. It's just

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Speaker 2: How can you tell in one coffee day? I mean

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Speaker 1: Well made you say that?

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Speaker 7: It does raise it.

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Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say, like you didn't

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Speaker 1: So okay, well this so now you're not even willing

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Speaker 7: I'm not sure she's ready for a commitment.

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Speaker 1: You, not upset you whoa, whoa, whoa whoa hold on, hey,

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Speaker 6: So I cannot even believe this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're questioning my commitment and you don't even know

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Speaker 6: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: I saw you in Target?

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Speaker 7: You meet No, no, no, no, no you you must have had

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Speaker 3: That was not an accident.

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Speaker 8: I I followed you to the register, and I saw

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Speaker 7: And wait wait wait, whoa, no, no, no.

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Speaker 6: Just Kobe, you're gonna listen to me? And I found

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Speaker 5: But that process and I went to the foot clubs

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Speaker 4: Listen, okay, process.

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Speaker 6: Mother, do you know how many recipes that woman has

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Speaker 3: I have I have a single.

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Speaker 7: Fun No, no, no, I'm done. I'm not. I'm not listening

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Speaker 1: So is this is this the kind of stable woman

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Speaker 7: You know what I'm gonna I'm gonna committed.

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Speaker 2: I know, were maybe a little right. We had no

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Speaker 5: Shut up, you knew exactly what was going to happen.

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Speaker 1: You told us not to mention.

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Speaker 8: No, no, no, no, this is okay.

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Speaker 7: I don't I don't know what crazy we call that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jo, I think you're being a little bit too

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Speaker 1: Oh God, you shadowed her cold, cold heart, and after

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Speaker 8: Sarcastic, don't you know I had to look to find

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Speaker 1: You know, Kendra, I think you you've proven your commitment.

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Speaker 6: But I tell you what, Honey, your oil needs to

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Speaker 5: That snick is passed.

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Speaker 4: I think it's an analogy, but I'm s no, it's

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Speaker 3: What is going on?

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Speaker 2: We don't know anymore, Jacoby, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 6: I regret supporting this at the beginning.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, like no, no, if anything, I feel

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Speaker 7: like I've dodged a bullet, and the.

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Speaker 2: There's normally bullets on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Want to upgrade and get with the time on you.

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Speaker 2: I'm concerned.

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Speaker 1: I just need to ask Jacoby if you would like

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Speaker 2: You couldn't even say that with a straight face, whether

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Speaker 1: She would love to hang out again and unpack all

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Speaker 8: You guys give like gift cars for straining orders. I'll

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Speaker 1: I think we do have a gift car to the

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Speaker 7: No, I'm not I'm not doing this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not hang up and yeah, I did not see

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Speaker 1: that coming. Okay, if love doesn't work after this, then

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Speaker 1: I don't know how it.

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Speaker 4: Ever, if you need the audio for your case, just

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Speaker 1: When y'all could just.

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Speaker 3: Drop the sarcasm and your podcast stuck.

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Speaker 1: She has a point, so she is committed to that,

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Speaker 1: to hating our podcast. So I stand by here brooking

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Speaker 1: You feel bad about helping people.

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Speaker 2: The other person. I'm like, we had no idea what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I will say we did hold up our end

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I like, how.

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Speaker 1: Rude to him that I am committed.

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Speaker 2: I started with what if he knows? And she's like,

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Speaker 2: there's no way he could ever find out? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I felt like another ten seconds, Jose would have been

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Speaker 1: the one to let it slide, but nope, we stayed strong.

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Speaker 1: You did it and you can't end this on us.

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Speaker 1: And for that, I'm giving everybody in the room a

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Speaker 1: gold star for the day and for the record, I

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Speaker 1: But if you ever want to get a second day update,

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Speaker 1: I promise you we can do a better job than this.

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Speaker 2: I just want to go to that book club with

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Speaker 2: the mom. Didn't hear all the ladies gossip about what

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Speaker 1: You're already part of a book club. I know another

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Speaker 1: email the show. If you ever need help though with

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Speaker 1: your dating life, We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back and check out all of our second dates

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Speaker 1: on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get

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Speaker 1: yours

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Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning,