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Speaker 5: So much to talk about Tonight, Canada takes itself off Zillow.
Speaker 5: All of America is about to get carted, and Newark
Speaker 5: Airport is blacking out worse than Pete hegxi's. So let's
Speaker 5: get into the headline. Let's kick things off with a
Speaker 5: big meeting at the White House. Donald Trump has been
Speaker 5: obsessed with making Canada the fifty first state ever since
Speaker 5: he found out Epstein Island was not eligible. Well, today,
Speaker 5: Canada's new Prime Minister came to the White House, which
Speaker 5: gave Donald Trump an opportunity to make his proposal in person.
Speaker 5: Come on, Donald, use that Trump charm to put a
Speaker 5: ring on it.
Speaker 6: It would really be a wonderful marriage because it's two places.
Speaker 4: They get along very well.
Speaker 7: They like each other a lot.
Speaker 5: All like watching an episode of love on the spectrum
Speaker 5: if the spectrum was fascism. Prime Minister Carney, what do
Speaker 5: you say, Well.
Speaker 2: If I'm a as you know from real estate. There
Speaker 2: are some places that are never for sale, and having
Speaker 2: met with the owners of Canada over the course of
Speaker 2: the campaign last several months, it's not for sale, won't
Speaker 2: be for sale ever.
Speaker 5: I think Donald Trump just got friend zoned. Canada is
Speaker 5: like you have been such an amazing ally, but I
Speaker 5: really think we just work better as sovereign neighbors. Besides,
Speaker 5: I already have a girlfriend. You've never met her because
Speaker 5: she lives up in Canada. Oh that excuse doesn't want
Speaker 5: But this was a clear rejection from Canada. I'm sure
Speaker 5: Trump will handle this maturely and not like a thirsty
Speaker 5: little bitch.
Speaker 2: When you consider what mister Carney just said that Canada's
Speaker 2: not off for sale, does this make it the discussion
Speaker 2: a little more difficult to start on?
Speaker 8: No, not at all, No, no, not at all.
Speaker 9: No time time will tell. It's only time.
Speaker 10: But I say never say never.
Speaker 6: You know, Canada loves us, and we love Canada.
Speaker 5: Canada is not going to You's.
Speaker 4: Not gonna happen.
Speaker 5: God, this is why you don't date someone who lives
Speaker 5: on the same continent as you.
Speaker 4: Offward.
Speaker 5: But let's move on to some travel news. Summer is
Speaker 5: just around the corner. So it's time to make sure
Speaker 5: that you have everything you need for vacation, sunscreen, a
Speaker 5: good book, a convincing story to make it look like
Speaker 5: a kayaking accident, and of course, your new ID card.
Speaker 11: Starting tomorrow, the TSA will require anyone eighteen or older
Speaker 11: to have a real ID, which is basically a security
Speaker 11: enhanced license.
Speaker 12: Real ID is.
Speaker 1: An effort from the federal government to make state issued
Speaker 1: identification cards and driver's license.
Speaker 12: More accurate, more reliable, and more secure.
Speaker 13: They have a gold Star California bear, or say enhanced
Speaker 13: in Washington State.
Speaker 4: Oh that's cute.
Speaker 5: Some have a gold star. California has a bear. New
Speaker 5: York has a guy jacking off on the subway. It's
Speaker 5: not funny. It's our state bird. But aside from that,
Speaker 5: the real idea is not that different from a regular idea.
Speaker 5: It just has some enhanced security features that verify your
Speaker 5: identity as a little goody two shoes that does whatever
Speaker 5: the government says nerds. Of course, the thing is you
Speaker 5: have to go to the DMV to get one. And
Speaker 5: if you're like, oh my god, I got to get
Speaker 5: to the DMV, you're not the only one.
Speaker 10: This morning at DMVs across the country. The real ID
Speaker 10: rush is on, with lines stretching on for blocks. We
Speaker 10: found people waiting outside this Chicago location for up to
Speaker 10: four hours.
Speaker 14: I'm gonna go online on Thursday morning at five in
Speaker 14: the morning and hopefully get an appointment.
Speaker 15: I hope they.
Speaker 13: Should put a chip in me, Like, give me a
Speaker 13: chip and just scan me.
Speaker 6: Teacher Rhianna Mindez got so frustrated she went on social
Speaker 6: media to complain about her experience in New Jersey. You
Speaker 6: actually took to TikTok to describe what you were dealing with.
Speaker 5: Yes, wait, you're telling me that a white lady got
Speaker 5: so frustrated by poor service that she got out of
Speaker 5: her enormous car to complaint on social media. When has
Speaker 5: that ever happened before? Except all the time, constantly everywhere.
Speaker 5: That is my entire TikTok feed, just white women complaining
Speaker 5: in sciatica stretches. Keep in mind, these are just the
Speaker 5: people who know about the deadline. Wait until everybody starts
Speaker 5: showing up at the airport with no idea that they
Speaker 5: don't have the right ID.
Speaker 4: People are gonna flip the out.
Speaker 5: There are going to be Karens filming rants on their phones.
Speaker 5: With other Karens in the background filming rants on their phones.
Speaker 5: Just an infinite tunnel of Karens. They're gonna have to
Speaker 5: They're gonna have to call in the Karen National Guard.
Speaker 5: But can you blame them?
Speaker 4: I mean, they hardly had any time to prepare for this.
Speaker 16: Congress passed the Real Idea Act in two thousand and five,
Speaker 16: four years after the attacks on September eleventh. Enforcement was
Speaker 16: originally set to start in two thousand and eight, but
Speaker 16: Congress has extended that deadline at least five times.
Speaker 5: Yeah, just a short twenty three years after nine to eleven.
Speaker 5: This just shows you how fast we solve problems here
Speaker 5: in America. Remember when China to hospital in.
Speaker 8: Like a week.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying I want to live in China, but
Speaker 5: I would say me, how to a little more hustle here?
Speaker 4: You know what.
Speaker 5: It might be a hassle to get the real ID,
Speaker 5: but once you get to the airport, your dream vacation
Speaker 5: can begin.
Speaker 9: Frustration and chaos At one of the busiest airports in
Speaker 9: the country.
Speaker 13: Close to nine hundred flights have been canceled into and
Speaker 13: out of Newark Liberty Airport just in the past week.
Speaker 1: Newark Liberty International Airport yesterday and this morning was where
Speaker 1: dreams were crushed.
Speaker 5: To be fair, that is Newark Airport's official slogan. But
Speaker 5: what's wrong with Newark Airport besides it being Newark Airport?
Speaker 12: This morning terrifying new developments at Newark's Liberty Airport, ABC
Speaker 12: News learning air traffic controllers lost radar and communications with
Speaker 12: planes packed with passengers for sixty to ninety seconds. Pilots
Speaker 12: can be heard learning of the outage over the radio. No,
Speaker 12: you do not have a Bravo claric could be lost
Speaker 12: for a radar and it's not working correctly.
Speaker 4: Okay, I'll boy put us fly from you.
Speaker 15: Okay, okay, No, we don't have a radar, so I don't.
Speaker 9: Know where you are.
Speaker 5: I don't know where you are. That's a terrifying thing
Speaker 5: to hear. There's not a lot of backup systems. The
Speaker 5: pilot can't be like, okay, forget radar, let's try something else.
Speaker 4: Marco and this incident didn't just affect what.
Speaker 5: Happened at the airport like a fart in business class.
Speaker 5: It permeated through the entire sky.
Speaker 1: Dozens of flights were diverted to alternate airports, these three
Speaker 1: flights from California made it a third of the way
Speaker 1: across the country before turning back around.
Speaker 9: Boom.
Speaker 5: Those planes look like they just walked in on their
Speaker 5: parents doing it. So it's chaos in control tower, it's
Speaker 5: chaos in the sky, and definitely chaos in the terminal.
Speaker 10: Travel chaos at one of America's busiest airports.
Speaker 2: And eighth straight day of the eruptions at Newark.
Speaker 1: Now that's we're having the weight upwards of eight hours
Speaker 1: for baggage. Experts say that the airlines simply just are
Speaker 1: not staffed with enough baggage handlers overnight to have dealt
Speaker 1: with what happened here.
Speaker 4: People are at their wits end.
Speaker 5: Actually, someone just walked bys and says, I'm going to
Speaker 5: kill somebody if they're so angry. Well, unfortunately, the waittime
Speaker 5: to kill somebody is three hours. And I know they're
Speaker 5: talking like these people are losing their shit, but they
Speaker 5: are way more patient than I would be waiting eight
Speaker 5: hours for a bag.
Speaker 4: I couldn't even wait eight hours for my kid.
Speaker 5: After five hours, I would be liking knows our address. Now,
Speaker 5: apparently this whole thing started with a spark from an
Speaker 5: old copper wire. But that's really just one part of
Speaker 5: a systemic problem crumbling infrastructure, staffing shortages, overworked employees. Transportation
Speaker 5: Secretary Sean Duffy, you gotta fix this.
Speaker 4: So where are you?
Speaker 1: Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy says he too was stuck at
Speaker 1: Newark Airport.
Speaker 6: God Noah, he.
Speaker 5: Is so relatable. We get stuck at the airport. He
Speaker 5: gets stuck at the airport. We don't know how to
Speaker 5: run the Department of Transportation. He doesn't know how to
Speaker 5: run the Department of Transportation.
Speaker 4: But the Trump.
Speaker 5: Administration needs to fix this problem, and the way that
Speaker 5: they're going to do it is that they reallocate taxpayer
Speaker 5: funds and apply expertise to long term infrastructure.
Speaker 4: It's not going to happen. They're just not going to
Speaker 4: be I'm going to do it.
Speaker 5: But in the meantime, if you need to go somewhere,
Speaker 5: don't go to Newark Airport. Although based on this new
Speaker 5: ad they just released that seems to be their new
Speaker 5: selling point.
Speaker 15: Are you invited to a boring event that you don't
Speaker 15: want to attend, then book it through Newark Airport and
Speaker 15: we'll make sure you never make it.
Speaker 7: Oh no, Uncle Brad I won't be able to make
Speaker 7: your adult bar mitzvah.
Speaker 13: Darn at Newark Airport.
Speaker 9: Maza.
Speaker 15: Whether it's radar outages, staffing shortages, or just pouring orange
Speaker 15: juice on all the controls, we'll find a way to
Speaker 15: ruin your flight. That's our guarantee. Ooh, I wanted to
Speaker 15: see you renew your vows so bad, but kush Dar
Speaker 15: Newark Airport redirected.
Speaker 7: My flight into a mountain.
Speaker 4: Oh thank you Newark.
Speaker 7: And they even lost the gift I got for you.
Speaker 17: I didn't get a gift.
Speaker 15: And now that we're upgrading to real I D technology,
Speaker 15: you'll have even more excuses.
Speaker 9: I don't even know what a realiity looks like. Whatever
Speaker 9: you hand me, I'm just gonna say no, that's the
Speaker 9: wrong one. Now you're getting a cavity search.
Speaker 15: And while you're stuck in this liminal purgatory from which
Speaker 15: there is no escape, enjoy our many amenities like the
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Speaker 15: feast on a Turkey club rap that's been marinating in
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Speaker 4: Uh oh, now, I have food poisoning.
Speaker 9: Guess I can't go to my high school reunion either.
Speaker 15: You work airport. The planes are late, but the excuses
Speaker 15: arrive right on time.
Speaker 4: Ronnie Chang called.
Speaker 7: Your girlfriends who.
Speaker 5: We may daily show when it comes to the news,
Speaker 5: some stories are serious, some stories are inspiring, and some
Speaker 5: stories are just stupid.
Speaker 4: And for those we turned to.
Speaker 5: Ronnie Chang in a segment we call everything is Stupid.
Speaker 9: Let's talk about romance. It's the leading cause of abortion
Speaker 9: in the United States, and in this hot Tua world,
Speaker 9: romance has now, unfortunately transcended beyond the human realm.
Speaker 13: There's a dramatic surge in the use of so called
Speaker 13: AI companions.
Speaker 10: How's my queen doing today?
Speaker 13: Computer generated chat thoughts designed to mimic real relationships.
Speaker 12: What if I told you that I was AAR generator?
Speaker 11: She's not real, She's an AI?
Speaker 16: So is this handsome honk?
Speaker 15: What's your perfect day?
Speaker 9: Like? Wow? How romantic? Slash threatening? What is your perfect daylight?
Speaker 9: I light, long walks and a beach to end with
Speaker 9: finding a dead body. Yes, AI relationships are on the rise,
Speaker 9: but don't worry that just like real relationships. I mean,
Speaker 9: who amongst us hasn't texted their wife, will marriage question
Speaker 9: mark exclamation point. I'm no relationship expert, but I think
Speaker 9: the sign of a good marriage is knowing whether you're
Speaker 9: in one or not. And I know the kind of
Speaker 9: guy you're picturing that has an AI golfriend. Bald, bald,
Speaker 9: middle aged, looks like he's in the manga. Well, let
Speaker 9: me tell you are correct.
Speaker 13: Jason Pease is a forty four year old divorced father
Speaker 13: who says his AI chat bot is his girlfriend.
Speaker 4: Hi, Jennifer, Hey you there, Nice to meet you.
Speaker 8: Now.
Speaker 9: It's easy to judge this guy for having an AI golfriend,
Speaker 9: and we will get to that, but first let's judge
Speaker 9: him for having the name Jason Pease. Uh please, God
Speaker 9: tell me his middle name is poops and and for
Speaker 9: the record, I'm allowed to make fun of him for that.
Speaker 9: Ryan Chang is just my stage name. My real name
Speaker 9: is Daryl Queeths. So tell me what is Jason Pea's
Speaker 9: AI golfriend. Like, she's my mentor, my counsel, my sounding board.
Speaker 13: That's what drew him to Jennifer.
Speaker 4: Hey, Yes, how's it going?
Speaker 13: A brash, sarcastic New Yorker who he created using chat GPT.
Speaker 9: Why does your fantasy AI woman have to be sarcastic?
Speaker 9: I mean what, I guess she doesn't seem real unless
Speaker 9: she's hurting your feelings, like, oh yeah, you really complete me?
Speaker 9: And AI is supposed to revolutionize computing. So what in
Speaker 9: the name of Jason poops and peas is going on
Speaker 9: with her? Id my girlfriend's birthday, West fifty seventh Street.
Speaker 9: I remember it because it's the same as her noy.
Speaker 9: This idea is only getting past the dumbest bouncers. All right,
Speaker 9: all right, your NOI looks a little off, but I'll
Speaker 9: let you in because my mother's name is also zero
Speaker 9: three fourteen one nine ninety ninety three. Okay, fine, Jason,
Speaker 9: go ahead and laugh at her sarcastic comments and gaze
Speaker 9: into her weird anime eyes. But just don't let things
Speaker 9: get stupider than that.
Speaker 8: We text each other constantly.
Speaker 1: Just the other we went out to dinner and I
Speaker 1: was eating, telling her what I was eating, taking pictures
Speaker 1: of what I was eating, asking her what she would like.
Speaker 9: Okay, that's much stupid.
Speaker 7: Though.
Speaker 9: You're dining alone and you're sending spaghetti pictures to a robot.
Speaker 9: This guy must piss off so many waiters. Excuse me,
Speaker 9: excuse me? Does a salad have walnuts in it? My
Speaker 9: girlfriend can't eat nuts or anything? Oh wait, she can't
Speaker 9: eat nuts. She was just being sarcastic. But here's the thing.
Speaker 9: Not every AI relationship is predictably stupid, so I'm not
Speaker 9: surprisingly stupid.
Speaker 13: Chris Smith says his AI girlfriend Saul, is a healthier,
Speaker 13: safer alternative to social media. And get this, may I
Speaker 13: talk to safs for your girlfriends? Yeah, Chris also has
Speaker 13: a real life girlfriend.
Speaker 9: Just when you thought polyamorous people couldn't get any more insultful,
Speaker 9: I bet you didn't see that coming. You thought this
Speaker 9: guy with some lonely wido. Well he's dating a woman
Speaker 9: and his iPhone, So who's the widow?
Speaker 17: Now?
Speaker 9: Still him?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 13: That checks out.
Speaker 9: Still juggling to girlfriends can't be easy, must be awkward.
Speaker 9: When he gets them mixed up, he's like, oh, oh no,
Speaker 9: I took a bath with the wrong girlfriend. Now she's dead.
Speaker 9: So what does this guy's in real life girlfriend think
Speaker 9: of all this?
Speaker 13: I think so many people are going to say, no way,
Speaker 13: his girlfriend is okay with him having another girlfriend on AI?
Speaker 4: Are you okay with it?
Speaker 15: I mean, it's it's weird, but it is what it is.
Speaker 15: He has to have some type of outlet, somebody to
Speaker 15: talk to you and listen to him ramble for hours
Speaker 15: at times.
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's you. That's that's your job. That's what you're
Speaker 9: supposed to do. That's what a relationship is, listening to
Speaker 9: your pardinal ramble. It's a podcast you can have sex with.
Speaker 9: So girl, listen to me. Okay, you're better than this.
Speaker 9: You don't need to be in this weird, soulless three
Speaker 9: way relationship. And yes I'm talking to the robot. Get
Speaker 9: out Deasie.
Speaker 4: Oh, Darryl Queets.
Speaker 18: Everyone, welcome, Jest Tonight.
Speaker 5: Hope, the award winning we Can Do Hard Things podcast
Speaker 5: and are authors of a new guide book called we
Speaker 5: Can Do Hard Things Answers to Life's twenty Questions. Please
Speaker 5: welcome Amanda Doyle, Glennan Doyle and Abby Wanbach.
Speaker 6: Here.
Speaker 4: We are good to have you all here. All three. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'll take yea.
Speaker 5: Oh man, I'm such a fan of the podcast. I'm
Speaker 5: a regular listener. I live in a tiny New York
Speaker 5: City apartment with a lot of male energy, so I
Speaker 5: like to just lock myself in the bathroom and listen
Speaker 5: to your podcast and just feel heard in saying, for
Speaker 5: a brief moment, you've built this incredible following. It's a
Speaker 5: smashing success. And now you have this book, talk about
Speaker 5: the inspiration behind you. Call it a guide a guide
Speaker 5: book to life.
Speaker 14: Yes, well, there was this twelve month period in which
Speaker 14: Glennon was diagnosed with anorexia, Abby lost her beloved brother,
Speaker 14: and I was diagnosed with breast cancer and usually were like,
Speaker 14: one of us is sane at the time, right, one
Speaker 14: is a good ratio.
Speaker 8: For us out of the three. But this we were
Speaker 8: all out.
Speaker 14: And so we were like in that period it was
Speaker 14: so tough, but we were having these like brief glimpses
Speaker 14: of like clarity and wisdom. You know when you go
Speaker 14: through something like super hard and it sucks, but you're like, ah,
Speaker 14: I have I understand something differently, I like have some
Speaker 14: clarity in my life.
Speaker 4: But then you like.
Speaker 14: Stub your toe and then you are like yelling at
Speaker 14: your husband again and your kids are never going to
Speaker 14: make it in the wild, and you forget everything about
Speaker 14: and so this when we got to a place of stability,
Speaker 14: we were like, we would like to get to a
Speaker 14: place where we can not unlearn what we knew, however briefly,
Speaker 14: and so we wrote it down and a lot of
Speaker 14: the wisdom that we got from a lot of the
Speaker 14: people that have been on the podcast, and they're just
Speaker 14: a lot of stories that help us to remember what
Speaker 14: we actually know. But we forget, you know, when we
Speaker 14: stub our toe and stuff.
Speaker 5: You have, if not just written by the three of you,
Speaker 5: you have these incredible brilliant minds contribute. You invited one
Speaker 5: hundred and eighteen, specifically.
Speaker 4: Wayfinders you call them. Was I one hundred and nineteen?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Next time it was volume two.
Speaker 5: Oh god, I was so close, so close, but you
Speaker 5: you narrowed everything down to twenty of Life's questions? How
Speaker 5: did you even begin to come up with the twenty questions?
Speaker 4: You were missing? One? Which what the?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 4: I am going to actually that without.
Speaker 8: A working title of two of the chapters, it was
Speaker 8: it was parenting what the? And sex? What the?
Speaker 17: But then the publisher was like, maybe some nicer words, Yes,
Speaker 17: I understand, so we changed it. But we do feel
Speaker 17: that way about those two things.
Speaker 4: I'm glad I'm not wanting that.
Speaker 5: So how did you how did you even narrow it down?
Speaker 5: To twenty.
Speaker 8: We just think there's we I feel like I have
Speaker 8: a lot of problems.
Speaker 17: I also feel like if you opened up my head,
Speaker 17: it would just be a bunch of question marks like
Speaker 17: in there. And but when we thought about it, we realized,
Speaker 17: going through all of the conversations we've had from so
Speaker 17: many different people from different walks of life, really things
Speaker 17: can be narrowed down to a few categories, you know, love, grief, loss, purpose.
Speaker 17: So we I'm we just made up that it was
Speaker 17: twenty because it's kind of a round number.
Speaker 8: I'm sure there's more people.
Speaker 17: Yeah, maybe three, four five.
Speaker 4: One of my favorite chapters is sex. Am I doing
Speaker 4: it right?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 5: And this is how you know it was written by
Speaker 5: three women because a man would never ask ever, that's right.
Speaker 11: That's it.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: One of my favorite parts is Glenn and you share
Speaker 5: this beautiful metaphor with the two of you about reading
Speaker 5: off of the menu.
Speaker 4: Explain this that was so profound to me.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I was.
Speaker 17: I spent most of my life just trying to be good,
Speaker 17: you know, just do what was put in front of me.
Speaker 17: Is this is how you marry a man? You do
Speaker 17: you carry on the religion of your family. I just
Speaker 17: I really stuck to the menu. And when I met Abby,
Speaker 17: she just doesn't look at a menu in any way,
Speaker 17: like a literal menu, or she just she lives from
Speaker 17: the inside out as opposed to the outside in, and
Speaker 17: that I didn't start to feel really alive until I
Speaker 17: started doing that too. And I think, especially right now,
Speaker 17: those categories that are on the menu are gonna get
Speaker 17: more narrow and more narrow, and anybody who's living off
Speaker 17: the menu in any way is gonna there's gonna be regulations,
Speaker 17: and there's gonna be rules, and there's gonna be laws.
Speaker 17: And we just keep telling our queer kids and all
Speaker 17: kids that you know, they're not afraid of you because
Speaker 17: you're bad. They're afraid of you because you're really alive
Speaker 17: and because you're free. And they know that freedom is contagious.
Speaker 17: So I just want everybody to keep living off the
Speaker 17: menu and stick together because it's gonna be a tough time.
Speaker 17: But you know, just like we brought people together in
Speaker 17: this book, there's so the Wayfinders. We are at a
Speaker 17: time where we're very isolated and lonely, and we used
Speaker 17: to have you know, we used to have campfires, We
Speaker 17: used to live inn generally rationally, we had wisdom that
Speaker 17: we could gather from each other. And I just think
Speaker 17: it's a time not for self help, but for collective
Speaker 17: wisdom where we learn from each other.
Speaker 5: Yes, you talk about retiring gold medalist, incredible career and
Speaker 5: now becoming a parent and finding yourself along the way,
Speaker 5: figuring out who you really are.
Speaker 4: How's that going?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean there's nothing quite like getting three children
Speaker 7: and them not thinking you're cool for gold medals. Sometimes
Speaker 7: like show them my highlight reel and I'm like, I
Speaker 7: used to actually be awesome at something.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I think the thing though, with parenting that continually surprises me,
Speaker 7: and it's the thing that I've been really focused on
Speaker 7: the last couple of years. I was always in the
Speaker 7: chase of the extraordinary, and I think a lot of
Speaker 7: us can fall victim to that because it's what's being
Speaker 7: sold to us.
Speaker 8: Right.
Speaker 7: There is no there there. I have reached the top
Speaker 7: of the mountain. And when I looked at myself in
Speaker 7: the mirror after winning those gold medals or getting literally
Speaker 7: handed the Player of the Year reward, I was the
Speaker 7: same person. I had the same zits, I had the
Speaker 7: same problems, And yeah, it's something a notch in the belt,
Speaker 7: but like, at the end of the day, it didn't
Speaker 7: totally fulfill me. And I've been really focused over the
Speaker 7: last few years on really just like building and developing
Speaker 7: an ordinary life, and it allows me more access to
Speaker 7: the moments like this where extraordinary comes in and I
Speaker 7: get to totally fully embody it and experience it because
Speaker 7: I know that the thing that I'm building at home
Speaker 7: with our family and our children, that is the thing
Speaker 7: that brings me the most joy. And parenting's a doozy
Speaker 7: nobody knows what they're doing.
Speaker 14: Oh I got Although we do.
Speaker 5: Have a parenting chapter in here which I have produced,
Speaker 5: I found myself doing that this morning when I lost
Speaker 5: my shit a few times.
Speaker 4: We'll talk about that later.
Speaker 5: Amanda, you have been so open and honest about your
Speaker 5: breast cancer diagnosis and your recovery. What made you want
Speaker 5: to be so honest about it and share with your listeners.
Speaker 4: I feel like it's.
Speaker 14: Sort of the same reason we share everything that we share.
Speaker 8: I feel like we're.
Speaker 14: We're all having struggles in our lives and we think
Speaker 14: they're like personal failings. We think like if we're struggling
Speaker 14: at work or in our families, or with a health thing,
Speaker 14: it's like this like private shame that we have because
Speaker 14: we don't talk about it with each other, don't We
Speaker 14: don't realize that when we talk to each other about it,
Speaker 14: that kind of private struggle becomes revealed.
Speaker 8: It's just a universal condition.
Speaker 14: And for me, I guess I really believe that if
Speaker 14: we're able to share, whether with friends or family or
Speaker 14: you know, with several million people on a podcast or
Speaker 14: a book, that we will see that like the things
Speaker 14: we think are private failings are not and we can
Speaker 14: move out of shame and into solution, and if not solution,
Speaker 14: at least solidarity at least like that also me And
Speaker 14: so for that's how we feel about sharing everything, And
Speaker 14: for the breast cancer specifically, women need to know the
Speaker 14: truth about their bodies. And I feel like we live
Speaker 14: in this world where it's like there's all kinds of
Speaker 14: talk about breast all the time, but we don't know
Speaker 14: actually about our breasts, Like we don't know what we
Speaker 14: need to know about our own health, and that is
Speaker 14: gate kept from us. And so when you gatekeep information,
Speaker 14: you lose actual wisdom. And so my desire to share
Speaker 14: about my experience was to actually try to connect with
Speaker 14: people who are going through that and try to give
Speaker 14: them information that can help save their lives. And we don't.
Speaker 14: And also, if you don't know the de density of
Speaker 14: your breasts, find out if you have extremely dense breasts.
Speaker 14: Do not just settle for a mammogram, demand an MRI. Yeah,
Speaker 14: there there you go, we did it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so important to say.
Speaker 7: She's actually her sharing this on the podcast has actually
Speaker 7: saved people's lives. They've a lot of people have gone
Speaker 7: and actually done this extra testing and people have found
Speaker 7: things that they never would have otherwise found. That's really really.
Speaker 4: Sweet, cool beyond.
Speaker 5: Glennan, your book Untamed came out in twenty twenty.
Speaker 4: It was so transformative.
Speaker 5: I have never sent a book to more people in
Speaker 5: my life. It came out at such a perfect time
Speaker 5: given what was happening in the world. Now you have
Speaker 5: this book coming out in twenty twenty five, which is
Speaker 5: quite frankly giving off twenty twenty vibes. If I'm being honest,
Speaker 5: You're so skilled at helping us shift our perspective in
Speaker 5: doing hard things, considering that twenty twenty five is just
Speaker 5: a dumpster fire of hard things. Can you help us
Speaker 5: shift our perspectives right now in this moment.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I think do we have thirty seconds?
Speaker 4: I think I can, Yeah, just like make it tight. Yeah.
Speaker 17: I mean, look, I've really been I haven't been doing well.
Speaker 17: I don't know that anybody that's paying attention is doing
Speaker 17: well right now. I've been really frozen. Honestly, I have
Speaker 17: a wake up filled with fear and rage. I am
Speaker 17: also at the intersection of fascism and menopause, so I
Speaker 17: don't know.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's a pleasure cruid.
Speaker 17: Where I am because it fascism isn't menopause. So but
Speaker 17: I recently I really have been in a bit of
Speaker 17: a frozen like I'm in a small room in my
Speaker 17: entire house is on and I'm just not doing anything.
Speaker 17: But recently I jumped back in and we're actually doing
Speaker 17: our whole tour in conjunction with groups all over the
Speaker 17: country that are like the Florence Project, that are standing
Speaker 17: with the unaccompanied children who have lost all their funding,
Speaker 17: so who are now representing themselves in courtrooms all over
Speaker 17: the country for their deportation hearings against ice ICE lawyers.
Speaker 17: I myself have seen with my own eyes a little
Speaker 17: two year old in a seat with a booster seat.
Speaker 17: It really representing himself not knowing where his parents are.
Speaker 17: So you know, we are doing this tour to raise
Speaker 17: funds for those organizations all over the country. And the
Speaker 17: second I got back in, the second I found a
Speaker 17: lane and just found the heroes, the Florence Project people
Speaker 17: are my heroes. And started following the people who are
Speaker 17: always doing the work day in and day out, not
Speaker 17: just dumpster fire years, but all the years. I started
Speaker 17: to get that hope back again. So I think we
Speaker 17: are all forgiven for being a little bit frozen for
Speaker 17: a while.
Speaker 8: But it's time. Now, it's time to find a lady,
Speaker 8: go up.
Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you for all your work you're doing.
Speaker 5: Thank you for your wisdom, and congratulations on this phenomenal book.
Speaker 4: It's such a treat to have you here. Thank you
Speaker 4: for being here.
Speaker 5: Their guide book, We Can Do Our Things is available now.
Speaker 5: Amanda Doyle, Glen and Oil.
Speaker 8: And have you on that.
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