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Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. Mike and Nancy Kaplan, along

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Speaker 1: with United Way of Central Georgia, announced the Merry Christmas

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Speaker 1: Project and honor of Mary's love for Christmas. Sir Good

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Speaker 1: and again, like I said, I'm blessed. I truly am

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Speaker 1: blast to have had he. Not a day goes by them.

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Speaker 1: Mike and Nancy are not thinking about their daughter. Our

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Speaker 1: whole life was centered around this precious jewel that we

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Speaker 1: I always used to say that she was like one

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Speaker 1: of the Avengers. She had superpowers instead of disabilities. US

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Speaker 1: always said she had abilities because she had a super

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Speaker 1: heart that was big enough for a place for everybody

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Speaker 1: seeing a world of crime and murder and mayhem, it

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Speaker 1: takes a lot to bring me to tears. But those

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Speaker 1: turned her life, her existence, her joy, her exuberance for

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Speaker 1: living into something that matters in this world. I'm Nancy Grace,

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Speaker 1: this is Crime Stories, and I have such a story

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Speaker 1: for you today is the story of Mary M E

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Speaker 1: R R I E. And with me my longtime friend

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Speaker 1: Jamie Caplan, Director Philanthropy United Wise Central Georgia, George McCanless,

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Speaker 1: President CEO of United Wise Central Georgia, and special guest

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Speaker 1: Nancy and Mike Kaplan, father and mother of Mary. Nancy,

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Speaker 1: your words moved me to tears. Tell me about Mary,

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Speaker 1: My goodness. You know this is really hard this morning, Nancy,

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Speaker 1: all because I know you all care. Mary was a

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Speaker 1: I'm so thankful for the time that we had her.

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Speaker 1: And that's because of the love that she showed for people.

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Speaker 1: And I'll say that the Christmas loved christ like love

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Speaker 1: Nancy kap them, my wife, I have to help me.

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Speaker 1: Jamie Kaplan, Director Philanthropy United Ways Central Georgia. Is heart disease.

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Speaker 1: what are you trying to do, Nancy? We are trying

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Speaker 1: to just continue spreading Mary's joy. She just lit up

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Speaker 1: She loved Christmas and we just when Mike and Nancy

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Speaker 1: We touched one and four people the Central Georgia area.

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Speaker 1: Little Mary passed away, her spirit is living on even today.

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Speaker 1: Nancy Kaplan, Mary's mother. What happened to Mary? How did

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Speaker 1: Nancy Kaplin, Mary's mother, and her dad, Mike Kaplin, take

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Speaker 1: The project is through the United Way of Central Georgia

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Speaker 1: holiday cheer for years to come. With me, George mccannell's

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