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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Brandon is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her in Stasi's house

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Brandon, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Kaitlin?

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Speaker 3: Man? Uh, it's been probably about a week or so.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, have you been trying to hit her up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing.

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Speaker 4: Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about

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Speaker 4: your date.

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Speaker 3: So we were setting by a mutual friend. Man, I've

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Speaker 3: heard it was right that Caitlin was beautiful and so

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Speaker 3: fun and instantly.

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Speaker 5: I was I was hooked.

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Speaker 3: So we took her or I took her out to

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Speaker 3: uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool that

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Speaker 3: did you build your own pizza and put your own

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Speaker 3: toppings and stuff and you get to be you know,

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Speaker 3: creative with with your with your pie and uh, that's

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Speaker 3: that's all cool. But I'm you know, I'm really more

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Speaker 3: of just like a guy. So I just did that.

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Speaker 3: But Caitlin. She actually convinced me to try some proto

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Speaker 3: on my pizza, and I gotta hands her it was.

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Speaker 3: It was delicious. I didn't know what I've been missing

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Speaker 3: out on.

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Speaker 4: Please tell me when you ordered that. I did, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I got.

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Speaker 3: To throw in a little bit. I love Italian, so

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Speaker 3: anytime I could say no, it was it was great,

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Speaker 3: so good. They were like, well, let's just keep this going.

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Speaker 3: We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at a place

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Speaker 3: next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good whiskey too,

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Speaker 3: so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey, and

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Speaker 3: uh that opened the door to talking about travel and

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Speaker 3: our hopes and dreams and.

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Speaker 5: Places we've been, places we'd like to go.

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Speaker 3: So then after that I walked her home and actually

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Speaker 3: ended the.

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Speaker 5: Night with the kiss. It was.

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Speaker 3: I guess it was a little.

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Speaker 4: Awkward, but it was awkward.

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Speaker 5: Well you just like I went in to kiss her,

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Speaker 5: kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I

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Speaker 5: ended up like kissing.

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Speaker 3: Her lips, and it was It was kind of an

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Speaker 3: awkward slash funny moment, but cool.

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Speaker 2: And okay, like one of those weird first kiss moments

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Speaker 2: where it's like some you're kind of kind of dancing

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Speaker 2: trying to figure out where you're supposed to go with it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, like it was.

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Speaker 3: It was kind of like a funny moment, but I

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Speaker 3: mean it turned into kind of a passionate kiss and

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Speaker 3: and we're planned to see each other afterwards.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's good, But she hasn't gone back to you.

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Speaker 4: What do you think? What do you think the reason

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Speaker 4: is she's goes to you?

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Speaker 3: That's that's the thing. I don't know, Like, like we

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Speaker 3: had a great day, you know, the piece was was great,

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Speaker 3: the drinks afterwards were great.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: The kiss, although awkward, it was kind of.

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Speaker 5: Funny and and she didn't seem put off by it.

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Speaker 3: You know, she actually leaned into the kiss afterwards, so

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Speaker 3: like it seemed like everything was happening. But then I

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Speaker 3: don't know, I mean, you know how these things go,

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Speaker 3: Like any anything could have happened here in the night

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Speaker 3: that she might have I just sound disgusting or off putting,

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Speaker 3: and then just didn't want to make it awkward. I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I'm kind of I've never been.

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Speaker 5: Ghosted, so I'm just got I have all these questions, but.

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Speaker 4: Did nothing happen? That's sticking out in your mind.

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Speaker 3: No, no, and like even at the like I said,

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Speaker 3: like at the end of the night, like with the kiss,

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Speaker 3: like I don't think anyone that didn't want to see

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Speaker 3: me again would have engaged like that, you know. And

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Speaker 3: then when we were done, she actually mentioned she was

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Speaker 3: excited to see me again. So that's even more like

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Speaker 3: trivia with the situation now.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see if we can forget oft for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call

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Speaker 2: her and sous yourselse why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 2: get to another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, perfect, all right, we'll play song come Back.

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Speaker 4: Get your first Day follow up Next.

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Speaker 1: First follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online

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Speaker 1: at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: But Brandon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by Caitlin. So we're about to call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see

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Speaker 2: if we ca get him another date. But first, Brandon,

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Speaker 2: before we call her, why don't you refresh our memory

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Speaker 2: on your date with Kaitlin.

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Speaker 3: So Caitlin and I went on a date. I set

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Speaker 3: it by mutual friends. We had pizza and wine and

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Speaker 3: that was great, build your own, and then we went

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Speaker 3: out for drinks afterwards, a great conversation and that that

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Speaker 3: walked her home and we ended up kissing and it

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Speaker 5: And then she was excited to seemingly excited, tossing me again.

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Speaker 5: But after that, it's just been not been no communication.

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Speaker 4: And you have no idea why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, nothing.

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Speaker 5: It's kind of disappointing.

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Speaker 3: So I really liked her.

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Speaker 5: I thought we had great chemistry and it seemed to

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Speaker 5: be mutual.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I'd be really bummed if it didn't work out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, you're ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely?

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Speaker 4: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hi, man, sweet to Caitlin. Please Caitlin, Hey, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Caitlin, we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much?

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Speaker 3: Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before? No, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 4: that's okay.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to apologize. Maybe you will know that's

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Speaker 2: we're calling you because we do a segment on the show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the First Day follow Up. That's where if

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Speaker 2: you go on a date with someone and then you

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Speaker 2: ghost them, that person can email us and ask us

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Speaker 2: to call you and see if we can figure out

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Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about

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Speaker 2: you from somebody that you went on a date with.

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Speaker 4: Oh are you gasting somebody? Well you are, but do

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Speaker 4: you know who it is?

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Speaker 3: Is it Brandon?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about

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Speaker 2: your date and he said he really likes you and

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Speaker 2: he thought you were into him, so he's confused as

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Speaker 2: to why you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 4: Do you mind telling us?

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Speaker 6: Well? I did really like him. Okay, he's hot and

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Speaker 6: smart and kind of awkward. It's actually kind of charming.

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Speaker 4: So you liked him, but you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 6: Well, he texted me something after our date that I

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Speaker 6: just like, haven't been able to get over.

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Speaker 3: I didn't really know what to do with it.

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Speaker 4: Well was it a picture or something?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 4: No, no, god, no, I mean that happens.

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Speaker 6: I think he's a good guy.

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Speaker 4: What did he text you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me really find it. Uh, Okay.

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Speaker 6: The text is your magic and have awakened parts of

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Speaker 6: my body that I have never felt before. Romantic it's

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Speaker 6: like on the line, you know, Like I don't that's

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Speaker 6: just that's a lot after one day and kiss, and

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Speaker 6: like I don't know if he's like in a Shakespeare play,

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Speaker 6: Like is he taking himself seriously when he says that.

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Speaker 6: I kind of was expecting another text that was like,

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Speaker 6: you know, harks their maiden. I longed for another evening

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Speaker 6: of your presence or something like that, you know, But

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Speaker 6: I have been funny.

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Speaker 4: You know, there's some people out there that believe in

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Speaker 3: It was just it was so earnest, and it just

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Speaker 6: And I think he hasn't been in a relationship in

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Speaker 6: like this romantic, dreamy bubble and I I gotta be

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Speaker 6: with someone who's been the world that I'm living.

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Speaker 4: In, you know what I mean. So I just hit

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Speaker 3: It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?

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Speaker 4: Like I'm just a person, give yourself a little magic,

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Speaker 4: but like.

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Speaker 6: I've awakened parts of his body they never show. It's

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Speaker 4: Okay, and then I don't know if I'm like on

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Speaker 3: I just it just made me a little nervous.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well thank you for telling us that.

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Speaker 2: Now I got to let you know that Brandon is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and has been listening and what's it's

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Speaker 7: Okay, Park for yes, Well, I have dreamt of this

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Speaker 7: pleasure of occasion. Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry, I just

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Speaker 7: put your business out on the radio, but you didn't

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Speaker 7: have them call me.

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Speaker 3: So no, that's that's quite all right.

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Speaker 4: What parts of the body were awakened? Brandon?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people

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Speaker 4: Pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going on through

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Speaker 4: your mind when you sent that text?

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Speaker 3: I don't know I was awakened. I'm just I'm a

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Speaker 3: playful guy, but Kaylyn just want to assure you that

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Speaker 3: I do live in a reality. And after our date,

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Speaker 3: I was like, legit, I've never felt that way, and

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Speaker 3: you know, after my last relationship, I just that was

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Speaker 3: lacking and I want another date and I want to

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Speaker 3: be a part of your reality. Oh maybe I'm over

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Speaker 3: the top, but.

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Speaker 4: This is how I was feeling, honestly, Well, Caitlyn, would

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Speaker 4: you like another date with Brandon? We'll pay for it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: oh see Shakespeare's got congratulations Brandon, you did it, You

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Speaker 4: got another day.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I like that he has a good attitude

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Speaker 6: and and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that

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Speaker 6: we're more on the same page than.

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Speaker 3: I thought, Kaylen. And I can't say how I say it,

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Speaker 3: And I promise if I'm going overboard with anything, you

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Speaker 3: can always talk to me about it.

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Speaker 7: But hard, Kaylen, My heart and the onions are bloom

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Speaker 7: away next year at the Outback Steakhouse.

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Speaker 3: Soon enjoy

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Speaker 4: Jubile's first date, fall Up