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Speaker 1: Welcome back Happy Hour listeners. I'm Becky Couperin and we

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Speaker 1: have another switcheroof for you this week. Because you're not

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Speaker 1: getting Michelle Young today, everyone, You're getting Thomas Jacobs. That's

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Speaker 1: him once again. He's back with us. We had a

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Speaker 1: few little last minute changes and luckily he could step in. Thomas.

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Speaker 1: I called you my pinch hitter because you always come

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Speaker 1: in at the last moments to save the day, to

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Speaker 1: seal the deal. So thanks for being unhappy our honey. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I can't guarantee I'm always gonna hit, but I will

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Speaker 1: step in a box and I will swing as far

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Speaker 1: as I can for you. I love it. We're excited

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Speaker 1: to be back again. It I feel like we haven't

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Speaker 1: recorded in forever. It was very crazy week because we

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Speaker 1: had Thanksgiving and we've been traveling, so apologies and advanced

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Speaker 1: all of our listeners because Thomas and I are both

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Speaker 1: not feeling that great. We spent the past week with

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Speaker 1: my little niece and nephew who are Petri dishes, and

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Speaker 1: gonna have a very fun guest today, Thomas, you actually

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Speaker 1: met her. Do you want to introduce our guests? Who's

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Speaker 1: going to be coming on? Of course, we have none

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Speaker 1: other than Brittany Galvin. Now we all know Brittany went

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Speaker 1: through quite the rigger at the end of Paradise, and

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Speaker 1: we have a lot to catch up on her life

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Speaker 1: just because of the season. It doesn't mean the drama

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Speaker 1: behind the scenes and everything people's lives. As they say,

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Speaker 1: what is it, The show must go on. The show

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Speaker 1: must go on. Yes, and so we're going to get

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Speaker 1: the scoop from her very soon on like what actually

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Speaker 1: went down with her entiler at the end of Paradise

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Speaker 1: and then obviously after Paradise before that, Thomas, you want

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Speaker 1: to chat and catch any of our listeners up on

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Speaker 1: our lives on our house. I know you love talking

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Speaker 1: about the renovations. Well, the exciting thing is I'm actually

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Speaker 1: time in our history, because this is a momentum. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm just echoing your sentiment earlier that three year olds

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Speaker 1: there's fun spending time in Minnesota. The baby fevers definitely kicking, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was fun being back in Minnesota with you. I

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Speaker 1: though there should be a line deleting agin if you

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Speaker 1: really am sorry for all of our happy our listeners listen, yeah,

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Speaker 1: happy our listeners. I will be resigning effective immediately. I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry you guys have to just listen through that. Oh lord,

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Speaker 1: the podcast, but hey, it's real and now Thomas wants

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Speaker 1: kids more than ever. So here we are, which brings

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Speaker 1: Paradise great segue. Um, Yeah, let's get into bring Brittany on.

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Speaker 1: We have so many questions for her. I don't know

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Speaker 1: about our listeners and Thomas, I don't know about you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how how active you are on the TikTok,

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Speaker 1: bring her on and get her take post Harris. Well, Brittany,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Happy Hour. This is your first time here,

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Speaker 1: first baschlor podcast. I'm gonna go I'm gonna have to

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Speaker 1: this will be so easy, so fun. Well, I'm happy

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Speaker 1: like just this like adjustment process where youse got to

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Speaker 1: example of people sending disrespectful comments block I am overwhelmed here,

429
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: I'm just going to deactivate this. I'm all alone this relationship.

430
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: Let me walk away for a second. And to have

431
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 1: someone who demonstrates that level of consistent it's actually really

432
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: cool to see. So I'm sorry things went down that

433
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: the way that they did. Well, I'm glad to hear

434
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 1: a first hand that you've been able to cultivate a

435
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 1: skill set to really deal with whatever comes your way. Yeah,

436
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: oh sorry, keep thank you. I appreciate. But do you

437
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 1: do you wish at any point things would have been

438
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:37,679
Speaker 1: handled a little differently or perhaps more directly where you're like, hey,

439
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 1: I need some time, give me like, for example, three

440
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: days or a week, like do you did you ever

441
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 1: directly say that or were you ever like, Hey, I'm

442
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: going to get back to you in a week, let's

443
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: have this conversation over the phone or face him at

444
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 1: that point. Yeah, yeah, I just kind of explained to him.

445
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I need like a day or two.

446
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: I didn't really want to like give like a dead

447
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: at timeline, but I you know, when he called me

448
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: the next day, he basically explained that, you know, in

449
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 1: his past, someone did the same thing where they asked

450
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: for a break and they didn't talk to him for

451
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks, and I explained it anim I

452
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not that person. I just genuinely would

453
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: like to kind of process my thoughts and my feelings

454
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 1: and really like think about this relationship. So yeah, I

455
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 1: mean I wish there was more of a direct communication

456
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: on both our ends, because if I was feeling not

457
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: confident in the relationship, I should have just been more

458
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: direct with him. But he is such a sweet and

459
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 1: nice guy that I feel like I always kind of

460
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 1: got sidetracked whenever I talked to him. But yeah, I

461
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: mean I just looking back, I mean I didn't really

462
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: know what to do in the situation, and like, I

463
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 1: just really didn't want to waste like either of our

464
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: time or energies on some thing. I didn't feel confident

465
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: in this early on in the relationship because I think

466
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 1: we're only together for like a month collectively. So going

467
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: into then the finale, you and your mind thought you

468
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: had this conversation. I'm assuming you thought you were both

469
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: on the same page of we weren't until this person.

470
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: We've ended things, we're going our separate ways. So walking

471
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: into that, then, did you expect this conversation to go

472
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: down as it did or did you see it taking

473
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: a completely left turn once you got out there and

474
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: actually started talking to Tyler again. I thought it was

475
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: going to be like a mutual type of conversation because

476
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: when I first get out there, that's just kind of

477
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: how it was. They're like, you know, Tyler said his

478
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: side of the story, can you explain yours? And I

479
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: was just like, you know, the transition between paradise to

480
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: the real world is so incredibly hard, and you really

481
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: have so many other factors that play into relationship. I

482
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: just didn't see our lives aligning. So we broke up

483
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: shortly after, and yeah, I looking back, it was just

484
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: it came across really badly. But I definitely thought we

485
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 1: were like mutual going into it, So yeah, I think

486
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: to talk to him since and airything out directly. Yeah,

487
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: you know, I texted him like immediately once I got

488
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: my phone. I was like, hey, like, I didn't know

489
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: you felt this way. I really wish we could have

490
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: had this conversation prior to the reunion, just because I

491
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: didn't know your like your thoughts or anything. But yeah,

492
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: he didn't respond for a few days. But that's the

493
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: thing is when I texted him before, I was just like,

494
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 1: how are you doing? And I was like damn. Three times.

495
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, maybe he just wants space. You know,

496
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: I was just assuming that just because he's not responding.

497
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: I don't want to like keep messaging him and like

498
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: him just being annoyed, because when you end a relationship,

499
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 1: like I don't know, different people have different ways of

500
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 1: they could either check up on their person or just

501
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 1: completely like cut ties, and I feel like, I don't know.

502
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 1: I guess the way I'm wired is I just don't

503
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 1: really keep going back to the relationship. I guess, Yeah,

504
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: you ended it for a reason and you have to

505
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: stick with that. It's like, if you're continuing to talk,

506
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: then where does that leave you both? Yeah, and that's

507
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: the thing is a lot of people kind of sent

508
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: me a lot of hate for doing it over FaceTime.

509
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: But when you only dated someone for like a month

510
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: and a half, you live long distance and everything, I

511
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: just don't really know the way you're supposed to go

512
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: about it, Like what do you guys think, Like I don't,

513
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do or something like that.

514
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: What was it said that you were in Italy? Did

515
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: I hear that somewhere? You were in Italy when you

516
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: FaceTime them and it was there? You know, I was

517
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: actually in London with my friend and I literally was like,

518
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: I mean, she was like in the bathroom at the time,

519
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: but I was like in my hotel room, And it

520
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: was right when I got to London. I was like

521
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: probably like two days after I got there. But it

522
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: got misconstrued into she was flying everywhere and then you know,

523
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: at the end of her trip like decided to FaceTime

524
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: and break up with me. I was blindsided. So yeah,

525
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: that's it was a little bit confusing too, where this

526
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:21,239
Speaker 1: whole like Italian Fiasco came out. Well, what was that

527
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: moment for you seeing in a hotel room in London

528
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: right before you're about to FaceTime room where you're just like, oh, shoot,

529
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: this needs to happen, or what was going through your mind?

530
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 1: We kind of got into like a disagreement because he

531
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: was filming the mentel all and he invited me to

532
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: come to California after it was going to be done airing.

533
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: But my mom had her birthday that weekend, so I

534
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: told him I couldn't. And you know, my answer with

535
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: like with the relationship, as I didn't, I wasn't fully

536
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: there anymore. I like knew my answer at that point,

537
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: and I just needed to kind of get away from everything.

538
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't really get an opportunity to

539
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: kind of decompress. So immediately I was just like, I'm

540
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm going, I'm booking a trip to London. I just

541
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: need to get away for sack and like actually have

542
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: a vacation from the vacation because Paradise really it's not

543
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: a vacation whatsoever. Yeah, you're put to work for sure, yes,

544
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean I you know, he just got

545
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: back from California and I texted him and I was

546
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 1: just like, oh, how was California? And he's like, I'm

547
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: thinking about moving there and I was like, you know,

548
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: it's definitely your vibe. And he's like, how's London And

549
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: I was just like, yeah, it's I mean I've only

550
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: been here for like twenty four hours or forty eight

551
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: hours at that time. It's like it's great. And he

552
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: kind of said something like, uh, you know, you should

553
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: just move there for the year, like live your life

554
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: or something like that, and I was just kind of like, okay,

555
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: is everything okay? Liked he told you to move to

556
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: London for the year, yeah, because I was just like, oh,

557
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,239
Speaker 1: it's it's great, Like I could so see myself living here,

558
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, you should just live your life

559
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: and like move there for the year. Is everything okay?

560
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: And then that's kind of what initiated, like can we FaceTime?

561
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: And then like had a probably an our conversation and

562
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: it's just yeah, we kind of went in circles for

563
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: a sac but then we ended up breaking up. I mean,

564
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: I will say this like people have broken up in

565
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: all sorts of ways, and I've lived through several of

566
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: them that were recorded and not recorded. If you're dating

567
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 1: somebody for a few weeks and it's not super serious

568
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: and you live across the country, I think doing a

569
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: FaceTime call, I would say it is a fair way

570
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: to do it, right, Like, it's not like you two

571
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: were engaged. I've known people on this show who have

572
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: been on The Bachelor, Bacherette Paradise, who have broken up

573
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: via text, people who were engaged who broke up in

574
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: worse ways than this, So honestly, like, I know, people

575
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: again are critical and are probably giving you shit for

576
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, she did it on FaceTime, but given

577
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: the circumstances, I feel like it's just totally fair. Yeah.

578
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: I mean people like said, like, you know, there was

579
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: like a lack of respect, Like you guys said I

580
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: love you and everything. But I feel like it would

581
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: have been a little bit more shitty if I, you know,

582
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: booked a trip to Jersey or if he came to Chicago.

583
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: We spent the whole weekend together, and I was like, look,

584
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 1: I am not feeling one hundred percent in this relationship.

585
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: We should break up. I'm just gonna say you showed

586
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: more time and patience with one FaceTime than other people

587
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: who have been engaged on this show in the past

588
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: have given their partners. So I feel like if I

589
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: was like smart about this situation and if I was

590
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: trying to like, you know, lead him on, I would

591
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: have waited till after the reunion. But I'm just like

592
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: I would never want to do that to somebody, and

593
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: he is such a great guy, so I want to

594
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: like give him the chance to meet other people and

595
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: to do like what he needs to do in his path.

596
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's just in hindsight. Do you have any

597
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: regrets in any ways that it went down? Um? I,

598
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: knowing how he felt after, I wish I checked in

599
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: I even though he didn't respond. I wish I kept, like,

600
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: you know, trying to be like, hey, is everything okay, Like,

601
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: you know, can we have another conversation. But I feel

602
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: like that's just probably my only regret because I you know,

603
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: some people are more sensitive than others and they need that,

604
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: you know, clarity after a relationship is done. So I

605
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: wish I did check up on him during that time

606
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: and I didn't wait until after the reunion or during

607
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: the reunion. I guess. Yeah, I mean, I hope just

608
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: like having you on here to give your take say

609
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: your piece and at least like, hopefully Tyler can hear,

610
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: you know, like, oh I did wish I would have

611
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: handled things a little bit differently. I hope that is

612
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: maybe enough. And and not to say closure, because I

613
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: don't think either of you two at this point probably

614
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 1: need closure, but just at least something he can take

615
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: from it. Is there anything that like in terms of

616
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: the haters and the comments and people that were reaching

617
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: out and saying just hateful, hurtful things to you like

618
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: that you wish they would know or that you could

619
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: say to them now just shout them down. You know,

620
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: there's like two sides to every story, and you only

621
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: see a small part of like a way bigger picture.

622
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: But you know, just be nice, be like kind because

623
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: you really don't know the entirety of the story. But regardless,

624
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, everyone's like, oh, well, she put herself in

625
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: this position. I'm like, yeah, well I didn't expect to,

626
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: you know, get like such hurtful comments of just you know,

627
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: my physical attributes or whatever it may be. It's just

628
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: people are lot mean are online. Yeah, it's a scary place.

629
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 1: It really isn't, especially given the fact that everything is

630
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: now at your fingertips. Making it so much easier to

631
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: spew off anything you're thinking makes it very difficult. So okay,

632
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: let's project forward off of the hard dramatic stuff and

633
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 1: and talk about what's next for you. Are you currently

634
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: dating anyone? Are you open to meeting somebody either? I'm

635
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: not dating anyone like specifically, but yes, I I am open.

636
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: I'm single right now, and I'm just probably not going

637
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: to post about like that until everything kind of just

638
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: errors out a little bit. But I'm definitely in this

639
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 1: single dating realm and I would like to meet someone

640
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: because the holiday is you know, they're they're cold, and

641
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: I wish I had somebody. It's coffee season, baby, it

642
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: is coffing season. Y'all got any eligible bachelors? ELI bachelors?

643
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: Do you mean is there anyone in bachelination be interested in?

644
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 1: Or was that in general? I don't like, I don't

645
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: care if they're in the industry with Bachelor Nation or not.

646
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm trying to meet like a good person.

647
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: The only independent, good person. The only person I would

648
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: say from Bachelor Nation at this point in time that

649
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: I would want to set any of my friends up

650
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: with would be Rodney. Oh, Rodney's like a good friend. Yeah,

651
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: oh yeah, Okay, really quits a good friend? Is there

652
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: anyone else from perhaps Bachelor Nation that has caught your

653
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: eye that you maybe didn't meet on the beach or

654
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 1: that you did, that you would hope maybe there's still

655
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 1: a chance or how about that's pressure on you if

656
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: one person was to potentially hear this and slide into

657
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: your DMS. Is there a certain person you'd want that

658
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 1: to be. Um. I always joked about John Paul Jones

659
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I loved him, Um, but I'm like

660
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: the reality of that situation would never happen. I mean,

661
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: like he has no idea. I don't think he's like

662
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: affiliated with the franchise at all. Um. But you know,

663
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: there's someone in Chicago that I definitely I am interested in,

664
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: but from Bachelor We're gonna leave that to to uh guessing. Wait, oh, okay,

665
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: is it some from Chicago who was on the beach

666
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 1: with you this summer who you might have had Andrew?

667
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 1: Was it Andrew? Are we getting some tea right now? No? No, no, no,

668
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 1: I mean we're just we're friends. But I mean I

669
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: think that if something came from it, it would be

670
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: really cool because I do enjoy hanging out with him,

671
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 1: and he's and you already know how he kisses, so

672
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 1: like that's done. To be fair. If I had a

673
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: shortlist of potential couples that I want to double date with,

674
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: you and Andrew would be close to the top. So

675
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: just just throwing out there for our own selves. We

676
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: would have the best double date ever, I promise, But

677
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be all don't get my hopes up now,

678
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: damn it. Now, I'm just gonna want to manifest this

679
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: to make this happen. I love it. Andrew. I love

680
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: him so much. He's like a little brother. No, but

681
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: we're just we're just good friends right now, and like

682
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: there's no pressure, and that's what I love about, like

683
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 1: not having like cameras around or anything because we're just

684
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 1: enjoying like our time together. But be yourselves and live

685
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,959
Speaker 1: your lives like you would away from it all. That's

686
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 1: huge exactly and no pressure. But yeah, we'd be devastated. Now,

687
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: don't break records, bratty m Okay, so would you in

688
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 1: the future next summer ever? Ever consider going on Paradise again? Um?

689
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: You know. In a lot of my interviews, I was like,

690
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: absolutely not. But you know, if if there was I

691
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know if I would like if

692
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: there was a good like if I knew someone that

693
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: was going that I really wanted to meet, then absolutely,

694
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: But I just had I feel like I had a

695
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: good run and I had a really good rewrite of

696
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 1: my story and I wouldn't want to come back and

697
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: for all that to be forgotten. Because a lot of

698
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 1: people were like, she faked the whole season, and I'm like,

699
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: I really didn't. But no, I feel like you came

700
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:51,240
Speaker 1: across throughout everything that we saw Lace's viewers like very real,

701
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: like very true to who you are. And that's one

702
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: thing I will say. I actually there was so when

703
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: Thomas and I were in Paradise last Dude, there was

704
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: a moment where, you know, everyone kind of talks like

705
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: who's going to come down on the beach? What girls

706
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: are they bringing in this week? We for a moment

707
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: thought that you might come down those steps, and I

708
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 1: was like, quite honestly, I would love to meet her.

709
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: I would love to have her on I think she

710
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: got the very shitty short end of this stick on

711
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: Matt season. I thought it was horrible and I was like,

712
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 1: I would love for her to have a new, better

713
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: memory of this franchise and and kind of rewrite your

714
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: story as you said, And I think you did just that,

715
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: and it was it was so fun watching you. Yeah,

716
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: I mean, it would have been so sick to have

717
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: been on the beach with you the previous summer. But honestly,

718
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:45,959
Speaker 1: I'm really glad I waited just because I really, like

719
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: my mental stayed at the time was not in the

720
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: best realm. But yeah, yeah, I really needed time just

721
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: to get away from everything. And like I didn't even

722
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: post for a few months because I'm like, I just

723
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: really wanted to get away. But yeah, I'm glad I

724
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: waited because like coming into the beach with like a

725
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: whole new mindset, not knowing a single person that was

726
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 1: going to be there, and just like having a fresh

727
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,879
Speaker 1: start was amazing. Outside of that, do you have any

728
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 1: advice for anyone else who might go down to the

729
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: beach in the future. I think something that really helped

730
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: me was I like came onto the beach sober so

731
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: like a few months like before, like I just like

732
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 1: wasn't drinking, and then when I came on, like it

733
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 1: made me very in tune with all my thoughts and

734
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 1: all like my motives. But you know, after the Pizza

735
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: Pete day, I unfortunately had a glass of wine, so

736
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: I think like went back again. But if you really

737
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 1: want to completely be your most uphontic self and like

738
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: get what you need out of the situation, which is

739
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,240
Speaker 1: obviously trying to find love, I feel like being sober

740
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: definitely it definitely helped. It really helped me. Yeah, No,

741
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: I love that though, just to go into a clear mind,

742
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: what is it, clear eyes, clear heart, can't lose. Yeah,

743
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 1: that kind of it's so hard. I mean it's just

744
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: like it's a very easy way to you know, just

745
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 1: bond with everyone. Like everyone like let's take a shot together.

746
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: So like I would just be like, okay, wells can

747
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: I have like a glass of water? And it was

748
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 1: just it was definitely hard. But yeah, what we're gonna say, Thomas, So,

749
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 1: now that Paradise is someone in your rearview and you're

750
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: able to rewrite your future moving forward, what's next for you?

751
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: I honestly, my lease ends in February, and I feel

752
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: like the move is to go to la just because

753
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: there's just a lot more opportunities I've tried to live

754
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,879
Speaker 1: in la before, but my landlord completely screwed me over,

755
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: so I came back to Chicago. But I mean, I'm

756
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: just I love Chicago and like I could live here

757
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life, but I really need

758
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: like a change my twenties to be a very like

759
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: pushing motivational time where I'm just taking risks and like

760
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: trying new opportunities because I could always come back to

761
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: all of this, but I love that. Yeah, do you

762
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: have any plans for the holidays? Is all of your

763
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: family still in the Midwest? Yeah, they're all in the Midwest.

764
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: I don't really like. The only thing after the holidays

765
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: is my friend. She's studying in Madrid for a little bit,

766
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna go there for a little get away.

767
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's gonna be weird not having my best

768
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: run here anymore because she's like literally inseparable with me.

769
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, she leaves for Madrid, and then I think

770
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go visit her right away just to have

771
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: a little VAK for the birthday. Oh that'll be fun. Yeah,

772
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: good things look forward to. We're just celebrating here. The

773
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: goal is I want to clear out the room and

774
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,280
Speaker 1: get a Christmas tree this week and then just start

775
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: and celebrating a real one or a fake one. Yeahs

776
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: fake Christmas trees. Oh okay, Yeah, I mean, you guys

777
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 1: have new space, you gotta start putting some decorations or

778
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 1: I don't know if we can see boxes. It's such

779
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: a disaster that I'm afraid we're not going to be

780
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: able to decorate. I have so much Christmas ship like

781
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: in storage. I'm like, I need to be able to

782
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 1: put it out. But yeah, I don't know. We'll just

783
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: it'll be super chill this year. We'll spend time with

784
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: his family, and then we have a lot of traveling,

785
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: a lot of weddings next year. So I'm I'm like,

786
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: let's just take December chill, relax, and then next year

787
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: we'll be crazy tone again. Yeah. But Brittany, before we

788
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: let you go, we have to get into two things. So,

789
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: because this is kind of a weird, crazy week and

790
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: schedules were all over the place, I'm just going to

791
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: share a resource for all of our listeners. And I also,

792
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: as I'm saying this, I realized I didn't screenshot and

793
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,360
Speaker 1: share my resource from last week, So I will do

794
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: that right after this podcast, but also on top of

795
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: that one that I will repost. So I pulled this

796
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: one because it's actually come across in a couple of

797
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: different articles that I've read, and I want to start it.

798
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,919
Speaker 1: It's a I believe it's a five or six part

799
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: audio series called sixteen nineteen, and I think this would

800
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: be very fitting because Thomas and I a couple of

801
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: weeks ago went and saw Hamilton, and as entertaining and

802
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: lovely and wonderful as that evening was, I mean, it

803
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: obviously has to do with our history, and there's a

804
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 1: lot just even from seeing that Broadway play that I

805
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 1: either didn't remember from history class back in the day,

806
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: or that I wasn't even taught and learned. And I

807
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: think that's the case with a lot of schools around

808
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: the country. And so this one gets into it's hosted

809
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: her name is Nicole Hannah Jones, but it basically examines

810
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 1: American history at the start of our country and it

811
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: really gets into slavery. And so each episode is about

812
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 1: thirty to forty minutes. They're quick, quick listens and very informative.

813
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: So it's called sixteen nineteen. So that is the resource

814
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 1: of the week and again I will share that on

815
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: my Instagram for anyone who needs to find it. And now,

816
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: as you all know, we always share our rose and thorn,

817
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: and so Brittany, usually we do it just for like

818
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: a specific episode that our guests is on, but because

819
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: you lived all of Paradise and watched it all back,

820
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: I would love for you to share your rose and

821
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: thorn from your entire experience throughout these past couple months.

822
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: There was a date but basically my producer and I

823
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: I hadn't listened to music for a few weeks and

824
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: it was the middle of June and he was like,

825
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: what song do you want to listen to? So I

826
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 1: was like heat Waves by Glass Animals and we were

827
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,760
Speaker 1: just screaming it in the car. And that was probably

828
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: one of the most like liberating, best nights of my

829
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 1: life because I just completely forgot where I was and

830
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: it actually felt like I was in Paradise at the moment.

831
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 1: Biggest thorn probably split week, just because I didn't realize

832
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 1: like how much I cried, and it's just so icky

833
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: to watch backs. Everyone's like, how are they feeling all

834
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 1: these emotions? For guys they just met like a few

835
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: days ago. I mean, yeah, that was itchy. Yeah, I

836
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: can't imagine. I would Baroness is crazy and stressful enough

837
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: that I can't imagine let me through that like and

838
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: having to be an enjoyable experience. Yeah, I mean they

839
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: thankfully they cut a lot of cringing moments that I

840
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: remember doing. So grateful for that because I'm like, god,

841
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: just cringe moments. I mean when Aaron came down, he

842
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: was someone I really wanted to meet. So they were

843
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 1: like doing things like, oh, like, who do you want

844
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,399
Speaker 1: to meet? And I was like Aaron. They're like, who

845
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: do you want to kiss? More? Aaron or James. I

846
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: was like Aaron. I was like, oh God, So thank

847
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: god they yeah heard that all out or they didn't

848
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,760
Speaker 1: air it out, but yeah, oh my gosh. Well, Brittie,

849
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 1: it has been so fun having you. I know that

850
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: I hope that this was a safe space where you

851
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: could feel like again, you can give your take on

852
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: the situation, kind of lay out what actually went down

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Speaker 1: post paradise a bit more for viewers and listeners to

854
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: just back off a bit and to realize everyone has

855
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: a different story, a different way of handling things, and

856
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: you're just doing your best. We were very happy to

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Speaker 1: talk to you today. You're somebody who we've wanted for

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Speaker 1: a while. Well, I really appreciate you guys have having

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Speaker 1: me today. I mean, I've just been definitely in my

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Speaker 1: head about everything, so I really just appreciate having the

861
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: moment to kind of air everything out and kind of

862
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 1: say my side of things. Definitely not here to you know,

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00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: shame anyone or to bash anyone. I would just like,

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Speaker 1: I'm really happy I got to tell my side. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: well thanks Brittany. Now go relax, pop open a bottle

866
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: of the bubbles I sent you, just chill and yeah,

867
00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 1: enjoy the rest of your week. Thank you you too well.

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00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: Britney's lovely. Yeah, I said it to her directly. I'll

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Speaker 1: say it again here. I am blown away with her

870
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Speaker 1: levels of consistency and protecting her own mental space. As

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00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: crazy as this world can be, she's doing a great

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Speaker 1: job of just reserving that love for herself and allowing

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00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: things that she's going to allow and stepping away from

874
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 1: things she's willing to step away from that's hard to do.

875
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: So are a break from social media, I think is

876
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: a good idea. Honestly, like everyone coming off the show

877
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: should do it just for a hot second at least.

878
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Speaker 1: I really liked how she said towards the end there

879
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 1: when she was talking about potentially moving to La like

880
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: her twenties are for pushing herself and getting uncomfortable and

881
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: trying new things. And I think that's such a great mentality.

882
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 1: It's so smart. I think it's something that we could

883
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 1: all try to do more of, definitely, And so yeah,

884
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 1: she has been someone who we've wanted on the podcast

885
00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 1: for a while. I've really liked her throughout this season

886
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: and I'm so we have actually got to see more

887
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: of her on Paradise this season, kind of as her

888
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: redemption story. So it was great having her on. Huge

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Speaker 1: thank you to Brittany Tommy, A huge thank you to you,

890
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Speaker 1: my love bug, for coming on in a pinch of

891
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: the moment, last minute here. I so appreciate it. You're

892
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: the best. Before you got on, I did say how

893
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Speaker 1: much I love you and how perfect you were in that.

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Speaker 1: You're just somebody so reliable, So thank you. We are

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Speaker 1: record of the episode, bab, You'll got to butter me up,

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Speaker 1: but I'll take it. I don't know, I really do.

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Speaker 1: I just appreciate you so much, so thank you for

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Speaker 1: joining me again. Thank you for happy our listeners. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: you won't see him next week. I see next week.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you will. Who knows. You'll hear our voices. You'll

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Speaker 1: hear Michelle Becca, there will be voices coming with speakers

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