Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3: Paul is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 3: He's been with his girlfriend Leslie for three years, but
Speaker 3: now he thinks something's going on. So we're going to
Speaker 3: see if we can help him out and try to
Speaker 3: catch her in a second if she is. Hopefully she isn't.
Speaker 3: But Paul tell us what's going on?
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been with my girlfriend Leslie now for three years,
Speaker 4: and overall things have been great.
Speaker 1: It's been nice three years.
Speaker 4: Leslie actually moved up here from a small town, you know,
Speaker 4: one of those really small towns out.
Speaker 1: In the middle of nowhere.
Speaker 2: Scary to me.
Speaker 1: But yes, yeah, you know, to be honest, it's the
Speaker 1: same for me.
Speaker 4: It's a little odd going back because we visit often
Speaker 4: to her family, and every time we go back there,
Speaker 4: I just feel like it's going to another country.
Speaker 1: Or another planet or something.
Speaker 2: That's kind of nice. You really get to escape.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's not really a big deal to visit often.
Speaker 4: I know, like I said, it's like another planet there.
Speaker 4: But you know, my relationship with my family's a.
Speaker 1: You know, at best strain. So you know, I've never
Speaker 1: had a problem going back with her as frequently as
Speaker 1: we do.
Speaker 4: But unfortunately this year, I'm not able to go back
Speaker 4: and visit with her on her mom's birthday. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm really swamped at work, and you know, it wasn't
Speaker 4: really a huge deal. But that's kind of where in
Speaker 4: regards to this trip and me not going with her.
Speaker 1: Is kind of where suspicions started creeping in.
Speaker 2: Okay, was she upset that you couldn't go with her?
Speaker 1: Well, see that that's the thing.
Speaker 4: It actually didn't seem like she was upset that I
Speaker 4: wasn't going with her. And you know, recently, you know,
Speaker 4: I feel like she's been kind of pushing me away.
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like, you know, she's.
Speaker 4: Been getting you know, a little bit more distant from me.
Speaker 4: We've been getting into more arguments. And you know, one
Speaker 4: thing I've noticed, and and the thing that I'm worried.
Speaker 1: About is this guy Joel, who well Joel is her.
Speaker 4: It's her ex from you know, like her kind of
Speaker 4: high school sweetheart, kind of guy you know, still lives
Speaker 4: in that small town where she came from. And I've
Speaker 4: noticed that her and Joel have been texting a lot more,
Speaker 4: you know, recently.
Speaker 3: They've always been texting, you said, a lot more so
Speaker 3: they've always been a yeah.
Speaker 5: They you know, you know, to be honest, I'm not
Speaker 5: one of those guys that's like has a huge issue
Speaker 5: with somebody having a friendship with an ex or you know,
Speaker 5: having that relationship ongoing.
Speaker 1: I met Joel, you know, when we've gone to to
Speaker 1: you know, the visit. You know, I've met the guy.
Speaker 1: You know, he seems like a.
Speaker 4: Decent person and and everything. But honestly, it has always
Speaker 4: just kind of been or at least in my perception,
Speaker 4: like sporadic communication. And you know, now it seems like it's.
Speaker 1: Getting to be a lot more frequent.
Speaker 4: Like I noticed that, you know, you know, I'll notice
Speaker 4: her phone will light up, you know, a lot, and I'll.
Speaker 1: See you know, his name, you know, pop up, you know,
Speaker 1: like it does on the phone.
Speaker 4: And I noticed it's more and more, and you know,
Speaker 4: I even asked her about it, and you know, she's
Speaker 4: gotten a little bit defensive like about me like checking
Speaker 4: on her or why am I looking at her.
Speaker 1: Phone and and that kind of stuff.
Speaker 4: Okay, Honestly, like to put two and two together, I
Speaker 4: noticed that it's really been since I told her that
Speaker 4: I wasn't going that I wasn't gonna be able to
Speaker 4: make it to the trip. And I told her mom,
Speaker 4: I wasn't going to be able to make it, that
Speaker 4: you know, the communication frequency you know, stepped up and
Speaker 4: they started talking more, and like I said, I didn't
Speaker 4: really feel like she.
Speaker 1: Was particularly upset that I wasn't going to be able
Speaker 1: to make it and I and I did.
Speaker 4: I asked her about it, and, like I said, she
Speaker 4: got defensive, and she also said, you know, oh, no,
Speaker 4: you know, just we were playing on meeting up with
Speaker 4: mutual friends or we're just making you know, some friends
Speaker 4: plans and old friends and getting together while I'm in
Speaker 4: town or while she's in town. Rather and I don't
Speaker 4: recall any friend group or mutual friend. I've never hung
Speaker 4: out with her and her mutual friends in her small town.
Speaker 4: So you know, honestly, I really don't know what's going on.
Speaker 3: In So you think maybe it's like she's planning something
Speaker 3: with him for when she's there, but you're not there exactly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I thought maybe you guys could call her
Speaker 4: from you know, just say you're our credit card company
Speaker 4: and say she won a free travel ticket and a
Speaker 4: free companion and just ask her who she would pick
Speaker 4: to be that companion.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it's a good idea.
Speaker 3: All right, we'll play a song come back, and then
Speaker 3: call her and hopefully she gives us your name and
Speaker 3: not somebody else's. But we'll play a song come back
Speaker 3: and get your to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Next.
Speaker 3: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if
Speaker 3: you're just joining us, Paul is on the phone and
Speaker 3: he thinks that his girlfriend of three years named Leslie
Speaker 3: might be cheating. So in a second, we're about to
Speaker 3: call her and see if we can catch her. But first, Paul,
Speaker 3: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 1: We've been together three years.
Speaker 4: I'm worried she's getting back with or in a relationship
Speaker 4: with her ex boyfriend from high school. And I was
Speaker 4: hoping you guys could just pretend to be the credit
Speaker 4: card company and say she want a free flight and see.
Speaker 1: Who she picked.
Speaker 4: Okay, And she's going back home to visit her mom
Speaker 4: and I'm not going, and I'm worried that she's been
Speaker 4: really texting this guy and planning on seeing him when
Speaker 4: I'm not there.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for us? To call her. Yeah,
Speaker 2: all right, man, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hi, this is Grbal calling for I was looking for
Speaker 3: our card holder, Leslie.
Speaker 1: This is she is everything.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm actually calling you some good news.
Speaker 3: Congratulations for being a card holder with us and racking
Speaker 3: up so many points and miles in travel. You've won
Speaker 3: a voucher for six hundred dollars in free travel for
Speaker 3: yourself and a companion.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wow, this is so cool.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 1: So what do I do?
Speaker 2: Well, It's simple.
Speaker 3: Your voucher will go automatically into your account online. So
Speaker 3: the only thing that I would need would be the
Speaker 3: name of the companion that you would take with you. Now,
Speaker 3: I can give you some time to obviously think about that,
Speaker 3: but unfortunately they ask that we give them that information
Speaker 3: ahead of time.
Speaker 2: You know. Oh okay, that's fine, Okay, great, Just the
Speaker 2: first and last name would be awesome.
Speaker 6: Yeah, can you make it to Joel?
Speaker 3: Yes, I can get that notated on there. Would you
Speaker 3: like to send an email to this person so that
Speaker 3: you can also give them the good news with like
Speaker 3: a little bit of an E card type situation?
Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe just say that things keep getting better and
Speaker 7: after this trip we can go back and have the talk.
Speaker 2: I'll just read it back to you. Okay.
Speaker 3: It says your boyfriend of three years, Paul is on
Speaker 3: the phone right now listening to this and probably wants
Speaker 3: to know why you got the companion ticket for Joel
Speaker 3: and are sending Jill that message?
Speaker 2: Wait? What did I get that? Right?
Speaker 1: Yes? PAULA, Paul?
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on? Leslie? This is the Jewbill Show.
Speaker 3: It's a radio show, and we do a segment where
Speaker 3: we catch people cheating, and Paul thought you might be
Speaker 3: able to do something right.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it seems I'm right. Oh my god.
Speaker 6: Wow. Okay, well I was definitely not prepared to have
Speaker 6: this conversation at this moment, but I guess this is
Speaker 6: where we're at.
Speaker 1: Hi, Paul, Hi, Yeah, you playing? What's going on?
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's true. I've been talking to my ex Joel.
Speaker 2: You know you know Joel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I know that part. I know you've been talking.
Speaker 1: I've talked to you about how you've been talking. But
Speaker 1: what's going on?
Speaker 8: Okay?
Speaker 7: So we've been talking, you know, about our past and
Speaker 7: the relationship and how it's never really had any real
Speaker 7: finality or ending, and you know, and then the conversation
Speaker 7: just kind of went into how there's still some feelings
Speaker 7: there that we have even though you know we've broke
Speaker 7: off obviously, and that you know, what we've been wanting
Speaker 7: in our life is really the same thing, which is
Speaker 7: to be in that town, in our town together and
Speaker 7: and have the same feature there. And I feel like
Speaker 7: an absolutely horrible person right now, but I'm I mean, Paul,
Speaker 7: I'm in love with with Joel, and I've fallen back
Speaker 7: in love with him this past month, and I really
Speaker 7: think we we want to try and make it work
Speaker 7: this time. And so I guess my thought process was
Speaker 7: I wanted to get that ticket to Joe so that
Speaker 7: he could come here to us and we could all
Speaker 7: talk about it, and you know, he could help me
Speaker 7: move my things back home.
Speaker 1: Are you serious? I honestly, I can't believe it.
Speaker 4: You think you were ready to fly him with a
Speaker 4: free companion ticket to our house so that I would
Speaker 4: sit down with him and what shake his hand?
Speaker 1: Wish you well?
Speaker 4: I mean I can't, and you know, honestly, you know
Speaker 4: I love you, and you know we've been together three years.
Speaker 4: But it's really the sneaking around that bothers me the most.
Speaker 4: That I got to like do the whole setup to
Speaker 4: catch you. Like I confronted you about you texting him
Speaker 4: and you talking to him, and obviously I knew something
Speaker 4: was up, and you could sense something was up, and
Speaker 4: we've been kind of, you know, at odds.
Speaker 1: And the tension has been Why couldn't you just talk
Speaker 1: to me? Why does it have to come out of
Speaker 1: like this? This is ridiculous?
Speaker 4: And also, you know, thank you for doing this around
Speaker 4: your mom's birthday for real, honestly, like this is.
Speaker 1: A like, this is a devastating thing. And you know
Speaker 1: I love your mom to death. Okay, you know she
Speaker 1: likes me, or at least you've.
Speaker 4: Told me she likes me, you know, And and you
Speaker 4: want to put this around your mom's birthday and and
Speaker 4: and more so, instead of this being a very serious
Speaker 4: conversation about us breaking up or you moving up, you're
Speaker 4: like capitalizing on the fact that I couldn't make it
Speaker 4: to this trip. You're like seeing as like a blessing.
Speaker 4: And I could tell, I could tell you didn't want
Speaker 4: me there, you know. So you know, you know I
Speaker 4: love you, but like.
Speaker 1: You, I hear what you're saying that I probably deserve that.
Speaker 8: I definitely mean Honestly, you deserve more than that, you know,
Speaker 8: and you know you can text me, you could, you can,
Speaker 8: you can reach out. You're obviously you would get yourself
Speaker 8: when I don't want to see you, I don't want
Speaker 8: to see him. It's not going to be the sit down,
Speaker 8: nice hug, shake hand thing.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: Honestly, I really hope you're happy because you're taking it
Speaker 4: off from me.
Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll.
Speaker 7: Talk about it, and I again, I'm sorry that it
Speaker 7: had to come off this way.
Speaker 1: But nope, nothing to talk about. It is done.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well Paul, I'm sorry, man, so sorry.
Speaker 1: You know, well, you know what, y'all don't need to apologize.
Speaker 1: You're the only one that needs to apologize. Thank you,
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Like I said earlier, you know, I was going to
Speaker 4: be embarrassed either way, but thank you for saving me
Speaker 4: a trip to go over there and embarrass myself.
Speaker 1: Obviously, I'm pissed off.
Speaker 4: This is ridiculous, but you know what, at least it's
Speaker 4: better than me flying over there being around her family
Speaker 4: to be the guy.
Speaker 1: The other man.
Speaker 2: Don't be embarrassed, man, this sucks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, whenever this happens, we always tell somebody. There
Speaker 3: is someone out there for you, So don't give up,
Speaker 3: Pope man.
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I'm not even thinking about that, right, I'm
Speaker 4: just I'm just pissed.
Speaker 1: This is this hurts this honestly, it hurts. This hurts
Speaker 1: The jewel
Speaker 3: Shows it to catch a cheater.