1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Welcome back Happy Our listeners. It's good to be back 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: again this week because it's a special one. We are 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: finely able to recap a season again, Michelle, and I'm 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: so happy to be doing this one with you. It 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: is so nice to be back with you. Becca. I'm 6 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 1: incredibly excited because this is like my first time hosting 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: a podcast about the actual show. That's when I came on. 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: We weren't you know, we weren't in season yet, So 9 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: I'm really excited. We're gonna be talking to Gabby's first 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: Impression Rose winner Mario, so I feel like we have 11 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: a lot of questions to ask him. Oh yeah, yeah, 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm so excited. It feels like it's been 13 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: a while. I mean, we were off from a season 14 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: for fourteen weeks, and I have to say that's the 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: longest we've gone in bouch Our Happy our history over 16 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: the past several years that we haven't actually been recapping 17 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: a season. And so I'm so excited to be here 18 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: with you to get going. And I don't know about you, 19 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: but Night one is always one of my favorite. There's 20 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: so much excitement around it. There's obviously you're meeting so 21 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: many faces and getting to know these men and these 22 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 1: leads too. But I'm excited to pick Mario's brain because 23 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: this is like the first inside scoop from any of 24 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: the men that will have from this season. So it'll 25 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: be a good episode, it really will. And like the 26 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: first night is so, it really is so magical. And 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: I will say that I was really surprised when I 28 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 1: was even get in Gabby and Rachel's position, because you know, 29 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: you watch the show at home and you think about, Okay, 30 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: what would that actually feel like you kind of do 31 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: feel it through the screen, and that's exactly like what 32 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: I was feeling up there. So it's really cool to see, 33 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: like Gabby and Rachel they get to experience this first 34 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: night as Bachelor, as with all these guys approaching and 35 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: like how they enter and their nerves and everything. I 36 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: don't even remember. I think I blacked out when I 37 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:50,559 Speaker 1: when I walked out of the limo. Do you remember 38 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: what she did or said? I? Well, yes, because it 39 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: became my tagline for now years to come. But um, 40 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: but yeah, that first night, I definitely blocked out. I 41 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: did not expect to say half the shit that came 42 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: out of my mouth, but it happened, but I will 43 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: say that I want to ask you this because you know, 44 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: we've talked at length now about our feelings on having 45 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: two baud Shrettes, and you know, it's kind of hit 46 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: or miss. For me. It's like I wanted to see 47 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: how it played out to get a vibe, and I 48 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: actually love it. And I was kind of nervous at first, 49 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 1: and I didn't love the idea of having two baud 50 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: Shrets because I was like, it's kind of stealing the 51 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: thunder where there is so much that goes into being 52 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: a lead and it's such a special moment for these women, 53 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: and at first to do together, I was like, Oh, 54 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: it kind of takes away a little bit. But I'm 55 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: changing my two now because after seeing Gabby and Rachel together, 56 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 1: I kind of wish I would have had somebody else 57 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: by my side, because there's nothing like having a good 58 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: girlfriend that you can go to gossip with, to talk 59 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: shit with, to like just bounce off each other's energies. 60 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: And we saw that throughout this entire first episode night one. 61 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: And I love them together. I do too, honestly, because 62 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 1: they're they're so similar and they play off each other 63 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: so well and you can tell that they're comfortable with 64 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: each other, but then their personalities are incredibly different. Like 65 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: Rachel's super sweet, you know, su like I would say, 66 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: not even more on the quiet side. But then you 67 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: have Gabby who's like incredibly witty and just blunt and says, 68 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: you know, what everybody wants to say or what everybody's thinking. 69 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: So that's it is pretty cool. Um, yeah, throw the 70 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: Minnesota girls up there, let's go run it back. But 71 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: Becca's engaged, so I can't do that. We'll just have 72 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: but no, yeah, I totally understand what you mean with that. 73 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: And I think also it's going to be really interesting 74 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: to kind of talk about how the guys handle it 75 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: because it is a bit of an uncomfortable situation because 76 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: you're approaching two women, right, and so I think it's 77 00:03:55,400 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: easier to I don't even know the correct words, be respectful, right, Like, 78 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: it's an uncomfortable situation, and so I think the guys 79 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: who have the emotional intelligence are going to stand out 80 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: because they're gonna be able to handle this situation with 81 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: more ease if that makes it right, right? And I 82 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: kind of like it. I mean, I don't remember his name, 83 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,559 Speaker 1: but the first guy that came out of the limo 84 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: fresh at the gates. He like they started on such 85 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: and I don't want to paint this in a negative way, 86 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: but it started off on kind of such an awkward 87 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: foot where he was like do we hug? Like who 88 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: do I go to first? You know, like how do 89 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: I do this? Which I feel like it's probably so 90 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: accurate to what everyone was feeling that night. It's like 91 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: and I kind of like that for the most part, 92 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: you know, there were some guys that I can't say 93 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: this about, but for the most part, it seems like 94 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: most men were very open to meeting both women. Like 95 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: they didn't have their sight set on just one. They 96 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: weren't all in at that point for just one person, 97 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: because like, realistically, you don't know if you're going to 98 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: hit it off with somebody you've never met, and so 99 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: you know you're going into this already very uncomfortable, very 100 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: unique situation. And so I like that both men were 101 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: excited to have two women and to get to know 102 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: them both. And I gotta say, though, these women have 103 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: a lot of dudes, they have their work cut out 104 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: for them. Thirty two, right, thirty two, And I think 105 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: Jesse said this at the beginning, but it's the most. 106 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: I mean, Michelle, I feel like you had a lot 107 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: of dudes too. You had, like I have, what thirty? 108 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: I had thirty. I don't know if I had more 109 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: than thirty, I'd have to, like, honestly, truly go back 110 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: and count. But I do remember that first night having 111 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: this moment of how is it possible that another limo 112 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: is pulling up? Like I felt like I was standing 113 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: out there like there's more, there's more, there's more. But 114 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm excited they have they have a lot 115 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: of weeding out to do. Oh yeah, definitely, but they 116 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: do seem decisive. I wanna And I think it helps 117 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: too that again, they have each other so they can 118 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 1: kind of be like, oh, that guy's my type. I'm 119 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: into that, Like I had this first kiss with this 120 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: guy and them by being him and it's it literally 121 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: is like a friend's slumber party where you're talking about 122 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: the boys. Did anyone really really stand out to you 123 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: out of the limo or just throughout the first night? Honestly? Okay, 124 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: So I'm trying to remember all of their names because 125 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:25,239 Speaker 1: there's so many, But I think you like Avan. He's 126 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: obviously a good looking dude, right, But it's like I 127 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: thought he was going to walk out of the limo 128 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: significantly more like cocky than he did, and so I 129 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, like he didn't, you know what I mean, 130 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: He didn't come off like overpowering. Um, but I do, 131 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: like I do look at the contestants, but sometimes I 132 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: kind of like try to figure out, Okay, like who's 133 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: going to be the issue here? Right? Right? Well, it's 134 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: front of your trouble. Well, I'm so glad you just 135 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: said that, because I want to talk about two guys, 136 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: the first the first two and we don't even need 137 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: to get into it. But I feel like when you 138 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: say the word issue, I feel like, after seeing how 139 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: Eric was with both women night one, I feel like 140 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: he's gonna be a quote unquote issue at some point 141 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: this season. Like remind me, do you remember what his 142 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: entrance was. I don't remember his entrance, but he was 143 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: the one who after both girls gave out their first 144 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: impression roles, he got kind of not heated, but he 145 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: got upset and was basically like I thought one of 146 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: them was going to give it to me, but he 147 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: just rubbed me the wrong way. Because it seems like 148 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: he got off on a great start with both women 149 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: he kissed. I don't even know if he kissed Rachel actually, 150 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: but anyways, like he talks to Gabby, they were talking 151 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: about her extensions. He oh, yeah, okay, he just kissed Gabby. 152 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: But then he was showing Rachel on his hand where 153 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: he was living in New York, and like he just 154 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: thought that he had it in the bag with I 155 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: think both of these women. And he got a little 156 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: bit upset that he didn't get a first impression Roles, 157 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: which I'm like, dude, it's night one, there's a thousand 158 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: of you. Calm down. But I feel like that might 159 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: be foreshadowing for his name. Eric h Eric, have you 160 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: ever seen that done before? Um? I don't know. I 161 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: don't think so, but you know, kudos to you for 162 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: being different, stand out. But Michelle got about one more guy, 163 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: and that is it's actually somebody that I have met before. 164 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: Um so Ethan from Seattle is a guy that we 165 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: actually had on as our bachelor on Bachelor Live on 166 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: Stage a couple of years ago. He's from Seattle. He 167 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: was our bachelor at the Seattle Show years ago. And 168 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: when I saw him come out of the limo. I 169 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: was like, you've got to be shitting me. Anyways, Um, 170 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: before we bring Mario on, what were your thoughts. This 171 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: is the first time, I think ever in Bachelor Nation 172 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: history that a night one rose ceremony was canceled. What 173 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: did you think about that? Honestly? I mean, like, if 174 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: you were like a loyal Bachelor watcher, you're going to 175 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: know that through the season there's going to be at 176 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: least like one or two Rose ceremonies canceled. I don't 177 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: think anyone expected it on the first night, but I 178 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 1: actually really respect that just because you do not get 179 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: to talk to everybody, and that's like when you were 180 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 1: going through this yourself, So imagine having two bachelorettes and 181 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: like trying to talk to both of them, just like 182 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: the amount of time and everything and that takes place. 183 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: So I totally understand not wanting to like really send 184 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: the large portion of the men at home, right, And 185 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: so yeah, I applaud them on that. Yeah, I seen 186 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: the three men outside. What did you think about that? Honestly, 187 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,959 Speaker 1: I actually kind of appreciated that. I thought it was 188 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: a kinder way to send them home where they didn't 189 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: have to stand in front of the remaining twenty nine men. 190 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure to them they weren't expecting and 191 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: it probably was a bummer to them, but realistically, like 192 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: it was faster, it was already light outside, so they 193 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: were probably freaking exhausted. Yeah, So I didn't mind the 194 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: fact that they removed those men and took them away 195 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: and had a separate conversation. I felt like they actually 196 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: gave them enough time to explain why they were making 197 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: that decision the rose ceremony being canceled. Listen, I'm all 198 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: about canceling rose ceremonies, but I will say, like going 199 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: into this experience the night one like that first rose 200 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: ceremony is pretty special, and so I feel like a 201 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: part of that was kind of taken away from the men, 202 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: Like it is, it's kind of like a right of passage, 203 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: and so I kind of wish the first one wasn't 204 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: canceled all the other ones, like go ahead, do it, 205 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: so that they handed out roses still and then just 206 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: didn't hand those roses to those three men that they 207 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 1: walked outside, you know, I kind of I would want 208 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: to combo. I like how they removed the three men 209 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: first and said their goodbyes, and then I wish they 210 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: kind of still went in and they're like, we get 211 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: to talk to a lot of you. We still want 212 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: to keep you around and bring you into next week, 213 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 1: but like, let's still do this quickly, just as like, 214 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: like I said that rite of passage to make those 215 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 1: men feel special. M I wish it would have been 216 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 1: a combo of that. But again, like it was already 217 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: light outside. Everyone's exhausted by that point, so I can't 218 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: fold anyone. And also at the same time, I was like, 219 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 1: I have no input because I actually was not a 220 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 1: part of that first night because I was sent in late. Yeah, 221 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: like I wasn't even in the group picture, like you know, 222 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 1: like the typical like, oh you you have a picture 223 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: that you like. Everyone looks like shit because they've been 224 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 1: up all night, they're tired, they're stress like they want 225 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: to go to bed, like it's been overwhelming. Yeah, I 226 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 1: wasn't in that. I guess I got my own season, 227 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 1: so I eventually had my own picture. But yeah, you 228 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: got you you had one better. There's no good one better, 229 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: I know. I know. Well, if it makes you feel better, 230 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: I think the one that they picked for ari season. 231 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: Becca em and I were standing in the background laughing 232 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: the entire time, and like my facial expression in that 233 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: photo that they chose, I look like such a brat. 234 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 1: I'm just like mean muggin. So you know that up 235 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: I would try, I would. They're all so bad, don't 236 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: look up anything. But I'm so excited for the rest 237 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: of the season, not unfold, to actually get to know 238 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: these guys, because again, there's so many we I feel 239 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: like we didn't even get to see half of them, 240 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: but we did get to see the one guy who 241 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: did get Gabby's first impression. He obviously stood out to her, 242 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: and so we're going to have him on right now. 243 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: So everyone, please welcome Mario to Bachelor Happy Hour. Welcome 244 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: to Bachelor Happy Hour. Mario. We're so excited to have you. 245 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: Were so excited that this is like your first podcast, 246 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: this is my first podcast. Actually we'll kick off the 247 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: premiere of the show. So yeah, well so Mario, this is, 248 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: like Michelle said, the not only your first podcast, but 249 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 1: the first podcast that we have been able to recap 250 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: a season now, because when Michelle started, we didn't have 251 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 1: a season, and so I feel like we're kind of 252 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 1: all doing this together and I'm so excited. I want 253 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 1: to know from you what originally made you join the show? 254 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,599 Speaker 1: Did you get recruited, did you sign up? Or you 255 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: a fan of the show. How did that all happen? Yeah. 256 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: So I'm a personal trainer here in the Chicagoland area 257 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: and I was wrapping up my day. I think I 258 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: had like four or five clients that day. I was 259 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: on my last client. I go to Instagram and I 260 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: have like a request DM and so as a business owner, 261 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: I checked those just because you know, oftentimes they'll get 262 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: like clients reaching out, you know, we're wanting to train 263 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: with you, et cetera. So it was a DM from 264 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: you know, one of the producers from the show, and 265 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 1: you know, I read it. He was like, hey, I 266 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: think you could be good for the show. So automatically 267 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, this guy's going to ask me 268 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: for like my social Security number. It's a span like 269 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: no ways like the bachelort reaching out to me. So 270 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,199 Speaker 1: I went back and forth with him in him he 271 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: gave me his number and I called him and it 272 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: was actually actually after we go off the phone, I 273 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: still was like, I don't know about this, but I 274 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 1: did some research and that's how that he was a 275 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: producer for the show, So it was real and that's 276 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: kind of how my journey started. I was I'm in 277 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: from a place prior to being reasted out where I 278 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: was in mu They rested out at the beginning of January. So, um, 279 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: it was in twenty twenty one where I was like 280 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: kind of in a situation ship and so that had 281 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: just ended, and um, it was like the timing was 282 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: perfect and I was ready for something like new. And 283 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: so I'm very organic in a sense of like I'm 284 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: not on any dating apps, never been on a dating app. 285 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: I'm very like, I want to meet my person in 286 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: real time, and so doesn't get any more organic than 287 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: someone reaching out to you to be on a dating show. 288 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: A little a little out of the box for me, 289 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: but at the same time, it was it was something 290 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: that was different and that I was willing to jump into. 291 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: So how do you watch the show before, like you 292 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: knew what the show was, a fan of it, or um, 293 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: you know prior I had caught glimpses of Matt Jane season. 294 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: I know that was a big season with him being 295 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: the first black bachelor, and so I caught glimpses of 296 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: that season, and I just remember like watching like a 297 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: sporting event and then turned back to that to kind 298 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: of see what was going on. But I never like 299 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: followed a season all the way through. But I can 300 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: like pull it. I think I saw like onst the 301 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: Katie season at one point, so I can pull like 302 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: little tibits and be like all right, So was there 303 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: ever a point where you're like, yeah, I totally could 304 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: do that or it never crossed your mind before. The 305 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: funny is so prior to obviously all of this happening, 306 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: I worked at a daycare and I was the only 307 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: male staff member. I worked with forty women. I was 308 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: noticed mister Mario. So I know they're all plumped to um, 309 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: you know, watching experience the show. But you know, they 310 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: would always come in on Tuesday and they would always 311 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: like break down the show and they would be like, man, 312 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: and then they would always be like, Mario, you should 313 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: apply to be on that show. And I would I 314 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: always be like yeah, for sure and kind of just 315 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: like fuck away. So it's just funny how things kind 316 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: of come full circle a little bit. But um, what 317 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: I have pursued it on my own, probably not, but 318 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: you know, it took a producer reaching out and then 319 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: me going through the process and getting chosen and here 320 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: we are, right, So things kind of happened for a reason. 321 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: They play out a certain way. Well, it seems like 322 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: it was kind of meant to be, just timing wise 323 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: and having somebody give you that little nudge that maybe 324 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: you needed. I want to ask you this and we'll 325 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 1: get into everything that you were kind of experienced in 326 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: that night one. But I mean, you're here because you 327 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: not only got Gabby's first impression rose, but you were 328 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: only one of two guys to get a rose that 329 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: night because they obviously canceled the rose ceremony. So what 330 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: did that feel like for you? Did you kind of 331 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: expect that you would get it from Gabby? I mean, 332 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 1: obviously we saw the kiss, but what was going through 333 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: your mind in that moment when she grabbed that rose 334 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: and pulled you aside? So you know when I got 335 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: up the limit when I did my first impression or 336 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: Rachel then Gabby? Okay all that, you know, I actually 337 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 1: felt like I had made a connection with Rachel initially 338 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: because she kind of grabbed my hands and you know, 339 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: she from Chicago, but she was like clubs or socks, 340 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, cubs, got to play it safe. 341 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: And so I walked into mansion and then I saw 342 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: Gabby out front, and at this point I'm just looking 343 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: to kind of get to know the both of them 344 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 1: because I don't don't really know them. Went to the front, 345 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 1: had a great conversation with Gabby. We connected, and that 346 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: eventually led to the kiss into the first Impression roles 347 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 1: and so, you know, it was one of those things 348 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: where I felt to connection with her initially, and so 349 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: you know that first night, you're looking to kind of 350 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: talk to who you can and I did not expect 351 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: that at all. You know, I knew that I was. 352 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't know if she had kissed other guys. 353 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 1: So I was kind of just in a place where 354 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 1: I was like, man, we really connected, but there's a 355 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 1: bunch of other men here, so I'm not sure if 356 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: I really stood out. But then you know, later that night, 357 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: when Jesse came and put the first Impression roses on 358 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 1: the table, she pulled me to the side and that 359 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,719 Speaker 1: made me feel really good. You know, there it is. 360 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: It might be surprising, Mario, but there definitely will be 361 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: nights ahead where you will kiss Gabby or Rachel the 362 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 1: same time they're kissing other cause it's a weird situation. 363 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: But okay, So going back to how you came out 364 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: of the limo, though, one thing that I noticed is 365 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 1: that you looked instantly comfortable, like the moment you stepped 366 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:14,479 Speaker 1: out of the limo and you were like doing your 367 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: little dance twirl whatever up there. Do you remember that, 368 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 1: Like were you obviously like were you nervous? Were you 369 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: panicking before you got out of the limo because you 370 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 1: have this perception of how it's gonna go, especially like 371 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: the day's leading up to it, and then that moment 372 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 1: before you step out of the limo, so many people 373 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: black out and they're like, I don't even know what 374 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: came out of my mouth. Yeah, it was. It was 375 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 1: definitely a surreal moment, just because a week prior, you know, 376 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: they were announced as the two leads, right, and so 377 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 1: it was this moment where like I pulled up, I 378 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: had the limo crew that I was with, you know, 379 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: a few guys, and then I was looking through the 380 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: tending windows. They can't see us, we can see them, 381 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: and I just had this moment where I was like, man, 382 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: this is literally like I am here right now, Like 383 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: this is actually why I just saw them sitting on 384 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 1: the couch with Jesse, like a week or the renounds. 385 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: Now I'm here. I found out the same time as 386 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 1: the rest of America. And so when I got out, 387 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: I think in the limo, I was like heart, heart 388 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: was beating. I was like, this is crazy, this is 389 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 1: my first impression, Like I cannot drop the ball. I 390 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: want to make it past tonight. You know. I had 391 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: a lot of different thoughts, but when I got out 392 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: the limo, I had this like piece come over me, 393 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, just be yourself. And I know 394 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: that sounds like cliche and kind of just like all right, 395 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: but like really I was just like be like show 396 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: your personality, be funny, be goofy, try to be like charismatic, 397 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 1: and then bring it back in. So I did my dance, 398 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 1: but then I just didn't want to be like there 399 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: for entertainment. I wanted to like bring it back in 400 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: and just be like, hey, my name is Mariam thirty 401 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 1: one in the Chicago Land area. But if you guys 402 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: look beautiful, I'm excited to be here. Look forward to 403 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: connecting the two more inside. Keep it moving right. So 404 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: I wanted there to be like a fun element but 405 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: then not really serious but just hey, this is who 406 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,640 Speaker 1: I am, and so ended up working out. Well, yeah, 407 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 1: I feel like you, I mean, you nailed it. Why 408 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,160 Speaker 1: did you say you nailed it? Becca for the most 409 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: Oh well yeah, obviously you got the rows and remember 410 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: so you know what I mean. I want to ask 411 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 1: you this because I feel like Michelle and I have 412 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: talked about this a little bit on the podcast, but 413 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: like night one, obviously you truly have no idea really 414 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: what to expect other than the fact that you're going 415 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: to be meeting the bout shirts. Right, So when you 416 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: pull up in that limo, no one watching the TV 417 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: show will ever know this. But when you pull up, 418 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: there's a thousand lights all around, There's a thousand people, 419 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: there's so many cameras. It obviously is a huge production 420 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: to make the show. But like that, that moment is 421 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: what actually really took me off guard. Like when we 422 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 1: pulled up and I stepped out and it wasn't just 423 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: like the person sitting in front of me, it was 424 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 1: like hundreds of people. That's when it like really hit 425 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: me where I was like holy shit, like I'm not 426 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 1: only just like meeting the person to potentially date, Like 427 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: I'm here for a TV show. What was that Like, 428 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: did anything like really stand out to you catch you 429 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,879 Speaker 1: off guard? For Hugh the f Out, Yeah, it was 430 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: actually the limo driver that kind of came out and 431 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: he was like, gave us the set instructions. Polly. Actually 432 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: it was Polly that I realized it was, Yeah, Polly's 433 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: the best. You will see much more of him, and 434 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 1: he kind of gave like the layout of the land. 435 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: He's like, are you gonna get out? I gonna do this. 436 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 1: There's gonna be lights over here, just do what you 437 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: need to do. And so it definitely was, um, you know, 438 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 1: a moment where I was like, this is happening. But 439 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,920 Speaker 1: actually I was still pretty focused because it was two 440 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: women in front of me and I knew that this 441 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,159 Speaker 1: was like a part of it, and yes, I'm on 442 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: a TV show, but I was so focused on Rachel 443 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 1: and Gabby and trying to do my best to give 444 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: a good impression that I think I like blacked all 445 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: that out right. Like, I knew it was good lighting. 446 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 1: I knew that there was a cameraman right here, but 447 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 1: I was just thinking, yo, don't embarrass yourself. It's so 448 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: hard to do that though, I will say, like I 449 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 1: feel like the average person. It's one thing to think, 450 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: you're like think and kind of like a brainstorm, but 451 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: visualize how it's gonna go. But when you get out there, 452 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: it like the only way this is going to be 453 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: successful is if you can block that out in it. 454 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 1: It's hard, Like it is hard because they're I mean, yes, 455 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,439 Speaker 1: you have the lights, right, but you have all these 456 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: people around you, producers, camera, you know, everything, audio, and 457 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,719 Speaker 1: it's like you can't acknowledge them, you can't talk to them, right, 458 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: but everyone's just staring at you. It's like this really 459 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: weird fish bowl concept. Yeah till your point, Michelle, like 460 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: you you can't do that at all. And so that's 461 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: why I was like, all right, just focus, don't don't 462 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: do too much your dance, and just let them know 463 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: they look nice and you'll see them inside. Was there 464 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 1: ever a point where you're like, okay, like I should 465 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 1: have thought of that, or like I that was really 466 00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: good or that was really cringey? Yeah? Yeah, you know 467 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: there was a lot of creativity our season, like a 468 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 1: lot of it really, and for me seeing some of 469 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 1: the other ones. I think, I'm like, man, did you 470 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: like not do enough? Right? Because my thing was like 471 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 1: be who you are, show your personality and then bring 472 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 1: it in. There was a lot that happened that first night, 473 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 1: right you know. We had some guys coming in on 474 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: a horse. We had some guys come in with chicks, 475 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: a whole choir, right Like. There was just a lot 476 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: that took place. And so for me, naturally, yeah, the 477 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: first night, I'm gonna compare myself and be like, yo, 478 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 1: did I should I have done more? Should I? But 479 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: I think initially I like put myself on like the 480 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: lower spectrum based on what I saw. But then throughout 481 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: the night, you know, hearing about some of the different interests, 482 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, everyone kind of pulled something. Not 483 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 1: everyone was like a huge spectacle. I felt a little 484 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: more comfortable in that. And then eventually I had my 485 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 1: time with Gabby, and then I was feeling a little 486 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:01,239 Speaker 1: more confident. And so that first impression is huge, and um, 487 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: you know, the road ceremony comes up quick. So I 488 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: was like, if I don't get time tonight, let me 489 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 1: at least try to show showcase as much as I can. Right, So, um, naturally. 490 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 1: I think there was some comparison components there. Well. So 491 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,959 Speaker 1: once you were in finally talking with the guys, spending 492 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: the entire night with them, what were your first impressions 493 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: on some of the guys, Like did you really hit 494 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: it off with some of them? Yeah? You know, I 495 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: am a very sociable person, and so I'm like the 496 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 1: hype man, you know, like if you post a pick 497 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: on ig and we met one time, I'm gonna hype 498 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: you up. Let's say I met you on like a 499 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: trimp and I followed you. I'm gonna yp you up 500 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: in a cover needs Mario in their life, Hey, and 501 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 1: so mister Mario. And so when I got there, I 502 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: was I was just excited to be able to like 503 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: meet the guys that we're going to go through this 504 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: experience with me, and you know, just kind of hearing 505 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: where they were from seeing what guys were wearing. I 506 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: was wearing a base and I noticed that no one 507 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: else had on the Bay shoot, right, So I felt 508 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 1: I felt good in that sense, but just hearing what 509 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: city guys are from what they did for their first impression, 510 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: you know, talking about sports, talking about past experiences, how 511 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 1: we got on the show. It's something that brings brings 512 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: life to me, meeting new people and kind of going 513 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: through a shared experience together. So I was pumped, Um, 514 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: you know, seeing Jacob with no shirt on. I was like, 515 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,719 Speaker 1: you know, hey, I know it's funny because as a trainer, 516 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 1: I really was thinking about doing that. And I'm happy 517 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: I kept feeling my Bay shoes, but that was something 518 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: that I was thinking about. Seeing justin with no shoes. Right, 519 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: these are things that stand out and you're like, all right, 520 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 1: like what's your vibe? This is my vibe? Okay, So 521 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 1: who walked in that you like vibe with? You're like, yep, 522 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: we're going to be friends. Tyler. Tyler was actually in 523 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: my limo and so we connected in the limo and 524 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 1: then he came in after me and we were just 525 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 1: talking throughout the night. But him and I connected right off. 526 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: Rip Nate and I also connected. Who did you not 527 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 1: connect with? Was there one dude where you were like, oh, 528 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: he's rubbing me the wrong way? You know what I 529 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: think when you walk into the mansion, because this is 530 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: another season you do look for like the guy who 531 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: stand offish but honestly, like truth be told, our cast 532 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: was just great. That first night, there was there was 533 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: no drama. Everyone was super cool with each other. You know, 534 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 1: guys are just laughing, hanging out, We're at the bar, 535 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 1: we're eating the advertisers were just all trying to spend 536 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: time with Rachel and Gabby. We're still trying to figure 537 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: out the setup. So honestly, like there was no one 538 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: that rubbed me wrong that that first night, I vibed 539 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 1: with everyone. I would think everyone would give the same 540 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,399 Speaker 1: response as well. Becca, who do you think, like, did 541 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: your alarms go off with anybody when you're watching it? Well, 542 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 1: when I was watching it, the only guy that kind 543 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: of set off alarms right away was I'm blinking on 544 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 1: his name, the guy that kind of got upset when 545 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 1: he didn't get a rose. Eric. Yeah, Eric, he had 546 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: this like entitlement that I didn't necessarily like. But but 547 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 1: it's interesting that you say that there's no drama because 548 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 1: I actually didn't think about it. But it truly felt 549 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: like there was no issues really at all night one, 550 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: And I feel like I've never watched a premiere where 551 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: there hasn't only spent something like something some beef between 552 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: two guys, like whether it's bigger or small and this 553 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: is the first time that we didn't get that. Yeah, 554 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: And I think, you know, you go in with this 555 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: anticipation of like, Okay, hey, Rachel and Gab you're here. 556 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get time with them, but you know, uh, 557 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: this is the first night in the mansion. Some stuff 558 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: is going to pop off, for sure. But then throughout 559 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: the night, the vibe was just like smoothed, and the 560 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: rose ceremony came, we did our toast and like that 561 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 1: was a rat And so I'm in the same boat 562 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 1: as you, Becca, where I'm like, you know, nothing popped off. 563 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 1: I was I was waiting for something to happen, someone 564 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: to like jump in the pool with no shirt on. Uh, 565 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: somebody to just like get super drunk and just like 566 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: confess their love to get right Like none of that happened. Wait, okay, 567 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: can we get into the kiss? Yes, let's go us 568 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 1: get into the good stuff. Areyo? So okay. In a 569 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,120 Speaker 1: lot of her interviews, she was like, these guys aren't 570 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 1: kissing me, Like I thought that there was going to 571 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: be more kissing, more makeouts, like she wanted she really 572 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: wanted that. And so when you finally went for the kiss, 573 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: I think she I mean she was excited to begin with, 574 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: but I feel like it was so special because it 575 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 1: was with you. Obviously it worked out because you got 576 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: that first impression ros what did you think about it? 577 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: So when yeah, I went for it, there's no hesitation 578 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: like you like belined it. I just straightforward. When we were, 579 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: you know, talking on the bench that we were sitting 580 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 1: down on, um, you know, I was just trying to 581 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: look for a starting point. You know, anytime you talk 582 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: Gabby or you know, Rachel the first night, in my mind, 583 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm gonna pull back from their 584 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: previous experience, don't reach back too far, but just kind 585 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: of like asking questions on you know, how they're feeling 586 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: first night coming off Clayton's season, You're a lead, how 587 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: do I fit in this? And just trying to spark 588 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: a conversation with them, And so we were kind of 589 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: having a back and forth and I kind of put 590 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: it like this, There's two moments of silence. Right. There's 591 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: the awkward moment of silence where it's like, hey, do 592 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: we have anything else to talk about? It's kind of awkward, 593 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: But then there's the second one where it's like, so vibeing, 594 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: looking around, eye contact, you go in and then you 595 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: give this right. So mine was the second one. Yes, 596 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: and it was it was How was it? It was 597 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: a great moment, It was a great experience. Gabby has 598 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: great lips. I was coming. How do I say this politely? 599 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, for me, it was a moment where I 600 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: was like, um, I just had to ask myself a 601 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 1: lot of questions, right, because this is this is night 602 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: one right, and me, I'm like, you know, I'm high energy, 603 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: I got a lot of personality, but I have like 604 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: this privacy to me as well, and so to be 605 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 1: able to do that the first night, did it feel natural? 606 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: Thousand percent? It did? When I walked away, did I 607 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: did I think about what I did that I have 608 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 1: to process it? Yes, I think that that was my moment. 609 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: It was a great moment. And um, I'm happy that 610 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: I went in for the kids. I'm happy. What do 611 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: you think? What do you think the lady is back 612 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: at the daycare are going to say when they see 613 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: you getting one of the first year the season, They're proud. 614 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: They are gonna scream yes, mister Mario, and the kids 615 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: are going to close the right. I want to know though, 616 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 1: going back to that first impression, Ros, do you understand 617 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: the way that that carries because historically, over the past 618 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: several years, for the most part, the guy that that 619 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: Rose goes too, because the bach Rod's have pretty good pickers, 620 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: usually ends up being the final Dude, did you want 621 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 1: to know that? Yeah? I did, And so, you know, 622 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: it was it was funny, like, um, prior to being 623 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: on this season, I would just kind of think about 624 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: like or I would look at other seasons and I 625 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: would I would see this significance of that, or I 626 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 1: would see like a group date Rose. You know, just 627 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: kind of watching back other seasons just to know what 628 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm getting myself into, right, And so when I got it, 629 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: you know, I came back in and Gus were like, you, 630 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: let's go right. We have a super supportive pad, everyone 631 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: hyping each other up, and so, m I knew that 632 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: it was a big deal. I was excited to get 633 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: it from Gabby. I feel like she's got a lot 634 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: of personality and you know, she's not playing games, so 635 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: to get it from her meant meant something too. And 636 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: I think it hit me like the next day and 637 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: I was just like, man, I just I just got 638 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 1: this this first impressure roles, like what is my journey 639 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: gonna look like? You know, um, everyone else kind of 640 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: just got a roads too, or they saw it past 641 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: the roads ceremoney, But like I stood out to her, 642 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: So that a lot to me. Yeah, did you feel 643 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: like it put because as as wonderful as it can be, 644 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 1: did you feel like it put a target on your 645 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 1: back at all? I think, Um, Initially I was like 646 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: kind of comfortable, but then after a while, I was like, Okay, 647 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: there is this, um, there's this like pressure to perform now, right, 648 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: because like I just got and maybe perform is not 649 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 1: the best word, but like there's this pressure to like 650 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 1: stand out, I'll say, and um, you know, I I 651 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: just wanted to be in a place where I was 652 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: like still myself uncomfortable, but I did feel this need 653 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: to like step it up even more because that first 654 00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: I pressure roles is a big deal. And I stood out, 655 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, how can I continue to 656 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: stay in the Mario lane but also continue to build 657 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: that relationship with Gabby. So one thing that I actually 658 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: wanted to ask you. I thought about this at the 659 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 1: top of the episode, but I'm like, I'll wait more 660 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: towards you, because it's kind of a heavy question and 661 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 1: I want to word it makes sense. But so nin one, 662 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: you obviously went in very open minded to meeting both women. 663 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,720 Speaker 1: You ended up getting that first impression Roles with Gabby 664 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 1: and having this instant connection. Obviously the chemistry between you 665 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 1: everyone saw moving forward. Do you feel like after that 666 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: starting point you were all in on Gabby or were 667 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: you still open and maybe wanting to test the waters 668 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: with Rachel limit to see what that could be. Yeah. 669 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: I was still open to test waters with Rachel. You know, 670 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: after we got the rows, or after I got the 671 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 1: first impression Rose. You know, I was standing there in 672 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: a rose ceremony and we did our toast and Gabby goes, 673 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: you know, there's still so many of you that I 674 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: haven't connected with, and that was something that like, you know, 675 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: I think when you get a rose, you want even me. 676 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: During the toast, I was like trying to stand stand 677 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 1: by er. I was like, yeah, that's right, I got 678 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 1: right right, But I think I think that um, you know, 679 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,839 Speaker 1: when she said that, I was like, Okay, it's still early. 680 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: This rose is huge. I'm still trying to see how 681 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 1: things are going to play out. Gabby and I had 682 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: a great connection, but I am open to having a 683 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: conversation right with Rachel, and so, um, I wasn't necessarily 684 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: like one hundred percent locked in on Gabby. I still 685 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: wanted to get to know Rachel, but that was as 686 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 1: a result of what she said, right, I think that, um, 687 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: you know, there were still a lot of guys that 688 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: didn't get time that night that you know, kind of 689 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 1: bypassed that Rose ceremony, and so for me, I stood out. 690 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I know that I still 691 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 1: had a target on my back, right, that there were 692 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: still guys I wanted to kind of spend time with 693 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,799 Speaker 1: Gabby and Rachel, And so for me, I was like, well, 694 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 1: I should be open and available too. Definitely leaning more 695 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,839 Speaker 1: towards Gabby naturally because I just got there, but being 696 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: open to Rachel was something that I was, Wow, this 697 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 1: is like just starting to set in of how complicated 698 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,959 Speaker 1: this could be, just naturally like as humans, right, because 699 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 1: it's like you think about your choice Mario and like 700 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: the emotions of what you're feeling, right, but then you 701 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,360 Speaker 1: also have to like take in the other person's emotions 702 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 1: as well. So like Gabby obviously was into you give 703 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 1: you her first impression roles, right, and you have the 704 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 1: opportunity to also get to know Rachel. But like you 705 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,359 Speaker 1: talking to Rachel, it could also feel like you're doing 706 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,400 Speaker 1: the other relationship as a disservice, right, because it's just 707 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 1: it's unnatural in this this type of world. And then 708 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 1: also the guys see you talking to Rachel and Assuma, 709 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 1: why are you talking to Rachel because Gabby gave your 710 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: first depression role? So like, wow, the complicated like nature 711 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,800 Speaker 1: of this all this now actually but you know what, 712 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: it's actually the more that I think about it now, 713 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,320 Speaker 1: I actually kind of like it because initial, you know, 714 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: because when you're the lead, you have so many men, 715 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:20,919 Speaker 1: all vastly different, and so you're trying to compartmentalize each relationship, 716 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 1: each conversation that you have with everyone that now maybe 717 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: you felt this Mario, but now it kind of puts you, 718 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: guys in a somewhat similar situation where you have to 719 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 1: compartmentalize each relationship and each conversation with both women, so 720 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: you get more of a feel for what the leads 721 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 1: go through and perhaps you can empathize with them a 722 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, it really kind of puts you in 723 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: a place where you have to like process your feelings 724 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:52,480 Speaker 1: and actually think right. And Like I say that specifically 725 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 1: because you know, if there was one lead, you would 726 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 1: just be kind of locked in on them, right, But 727 00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: because there's two, you really process your interaction with Gabby right, 728 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 1: and process your interaction with Rachel. And you sit there 729 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:06,720 Speaker 1: and you think about, Okay, like who did I connect 730 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: with more? Right, Like, uh, you know, what did I 731 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,800 Speaker 1: like about my time with Gabby? What did I like 732 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 1: about And they're processing that too, right, But they're a 733 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 1: lead to ultimately, they're kind of choosing your faith in 734 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: the sense. But yeah, absolutely, I think you learn about yourself, right, Like, 735 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,840 Speaker 1: I think that that's like the biggest takeaways that you 736 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,879 Speaker 1: learn about yourself. You learn about how you compartmentalize things, 737 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,960 Speaker 1: how you process your feelings, what you like, what stood out? 738 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,800 Speaker 1: Did you like laughing or Gabby? Right? Did you like 739 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: the deep questions that Rachel was asking me? Right? Like, 740 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 1: being able to process these things I think is a 741 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 1: benefit to learn about yourself, but also to get a 742 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: better understanding of who they are individually. I love seeing 743 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: I'm emotional intelligence. I feel like it's gonna be much 744 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: easier for Gabby and Rachel to like pick out which 745 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: men have emotional intelligence and which men you know can't 746 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,800 Speaker 1: communicate with like the jealousy and everything, all those different 747 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: like nature things. Wow, it's good. It's good that the 748 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: guys couldn't be one thousand percent zone Dan on just 749 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 1: one person, like you said, Mario, And I love that 750 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 1: you called that out because it does make you think 751 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 1: and it makes you it's not just like you're belgning 752 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: just for one lead, where yeah, where the men just 753 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: like have this jealousy, this like need to win. In 754 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 1: some sort of sense, you kind of have to figure out, Okay, 755 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: who's a better fit for me, Like, realistically, if this 756 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 1: is going to work out and there's an engagement at 757 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: the end of this, who is going to be the 758 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 1: best fit for me? And it kind kind of makes 759 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,399 Speaker 1: you guys take a step back and sit in those 760 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,959 Speaker 1: feelings for a bit, which I love and actually like acknowledge. Honestly, Mario, 761 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: you pointed out made like a really good point with that, 762 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 1: just because I think it does make everybody like like 763 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 1: a thing you're saying. It makes everybody take a step 764 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 1: back and actually think about the feelings. Whereas when there 765 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 1: is one lead Honestly, it's really easy to be competitive 766 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 1: and like just try to get to the end because 767 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to do and not because of 768 00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: like your actual feelings. So I will see, Yeah, you 769 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: hit it right on the ball, and I think it 770 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 1: made it more complicated just because there's two, but also 771 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 1: like you start to see the girls kind of form 772 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 1: certain relationships even that like first night, right, like Rachel 773 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 1: sprained out and got her first impression roles and we're like, 774 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 1: where's she going? You know what I mean, And so 775 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: you start to like kind of compare early right, So yeah, 776 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,640 Speaker 1: but I love too is the fact that both women 777 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 1: are so different that it makes it more fun to 778 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: watch and it'll be interesting to see who everyone gravitates 779 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 1: towards as the season goes on. Okay, Mario, we always 780 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,399 Speaker 1: play a game with our guests, and so it's rapid fire, 781 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:42,759 Speaker 1: and we just want to get to know you more 782 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:46,239 Speaker 1: because we've only seen two seconds of you guys on 783 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 1: the TV screen. There's much more to come, hopefully, But 784 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 1: we'll just ask you a question and first thing that 785 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 1: comes to mind, So I will start it off. This 786 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,239 Speaker 1: is very easy one. Are you an early riser or 787 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:02,000 Speaker 1: a night owl. I am early riser for sure. I 788 00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 1: love kicking off my day with healthy breakfast, working out, 789 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: and then I'll jump into my clients. So right, the 790 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:16,319 Speaker 1: best dating advice you've ever received, Man, listen to your gut. 791 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 1: And I think that, I mean some people might be 792 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:25,760 Speaker 1: like what, but I think that like that is something 793 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,040 Speaker 1: that people kind of underestimate a little bit. They want 794 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: to force things when internally they may feel a feeling 795 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: of like this isn't really for me, but I'm kind 796 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 1: of just stringing it along a little bit just to 797 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: kind of make things work. And so listen to your gut. 798 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 1: Anything that you're processing internally or your intuition, pay attention 799 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 1: to that because it's there for a reason. Solid one. 800 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 1: How do you like your pizza well done? Actually? Yeah no, 801 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 1: not not burnt like I speak, because sometimes when I like, 802 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: like the cheese, the red sauce is coming down, you 803 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: have your toppings, and some people like it like that. 804 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: I like a kind of a crispy pizza somehow happening. Yeah, 805 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 1: or like a deep deep dish thing. Okay, so I 806 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 1: feel like with that's a good question, I gotta go 807 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: deep dish. But I do like thin crust as well. Um, 808 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 1: I just like it to be kind of have some 809 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: crisp to it. I don't like to be like this 810 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 1: right where I'm like looking down. It's got to hold 811 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,920 Speaker 1: up the toppings. It's got to hold up the topics. Okay, 812 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: shower or bath shower? Um? You know, I can't remember 813 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: the last time I took a bath, to be honest, 814 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 1: but maybe I should take one soon. Oh, do it 815 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 1: pour yourself. I love a good path. Okay, so this 816 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: is a question I'm going to ask, but I also 817 00:41:55,160 --> 00:42:01,920 Speaker 1: need you to show it. What is your signature dance move? Um? Okay, 818 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,279 Speaker 1: let me let me create some space here. Um, you 819 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,360 Speaker 1: know the dance move I did on the show was 820 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: like I don't know if you guys can see me 821 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,680 Speaker 1: out kind of but it's a little shoulder you know. 822 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: I got a little shoulder action, a little shoulders. I like, 823 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 1: you really happy that you had pants on when you 824 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 1: said you have to show it, like just with zoom 825 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,400 Speaker 1: and like COVID and any everything. I'm like, just please 826 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:30,720 Speaker 1: right right right, please right? Well I wish he didn't. 827 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,279 Speaker 1: That would make for more entertainment. Right now. What is 828 00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 1: your favorite curse word? Uh? Probably damn? I feel like 829 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 1: it's uh, it's very yeah, Like I mean, you know, 830 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: I'm not I don't really drop a ton of like 831 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 1: F bombs or anything. I think for me, I'm actually 832 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,440 Speaker 1: not a big square in general, but if something happens, 833 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 1: I'd be like, damn right, you gotta put a little 834 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: tone right, so it can. It's applicable to so many 835 00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:05,440 Speaker 1: situations right, good, bad, annoyed, whatever, damn name. Oh. I 836 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:11,960 Speaker 1: like this question. What is your guilty pleasure? Um man? 837 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,240 Speaker 1: As a trainer, you know, I try to keep it healthy. 838 00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,919 Speaker 1: But there's a spot out here called Andy's ice Cream. 839 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: They close at eleven o'clock. I'll pull up at like 840 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 1: ten fifty five and be like, give me a waffle 841 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 1: cone with strawberries, blueberries, pineapples, and just like max out 842 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 1: at night, so late ice cream. What is your go 843 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 1: to karaoke song? This is very telling of who you 844 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 1: are as a person. This is like the most important 845 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:39,880 Speaker 1: question you've been asked. So I UM recently out and 846 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,680 Speaker 1: um you know, I was out with some friends and 847 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,279 Speaker 1: they were like, let's do karaoke and so they were like, 848 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 1: let's do Nellie Hot in here. So it was like 849 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,360 Speaker 1: a group of like, uh, it was myself and like 850 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 1: a few girls, and there was like one other guy, 851 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:58,120 Speaker 1: but I like killed Nellie's rats. Yeah yeah, okay, Mario, 852 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:04,080 Speaker 1: what is the current screen? Say here on your phone? Oh? Um, man, 853 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,320 Speaker 1: you guys are gonna laugh. I don't I don't have 854 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:11,360 Speaker 1: a screensaver. What yeah is that looking? I wouldn't not 855 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 1: have paid you for a basic default streamsaver, man at 856 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:21,600 Speaker 1: least or something, right, um yeah right? Uh yeah nothing. 857 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: You know, for a while, I did have Kobe Bryant 858 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 1: as my background love Kobe grew up as like a 859 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,800 Speaker 1: huge Kobe fan playing basketball. Uh. Then I switched phones, 860 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,879 Speaker 1: and then I just kind of kept it basic. If 861 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,320 Speaker 1: you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? 862 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 1: I would say Grease. You know, every time I see 863 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 1: pictures of Grease, it just looks so like clear. The 864 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 1: water is like beautiful, beautiful scenery. The buildings have this nice, 865 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 1: like all white aesthetic going where the sky is always 866 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 1: like crystal blue, right, Like, um, that's a place that 867 00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 1: I have not been to. But every time I hear 868 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 1: about a friend going there, or like, you know, I 869 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: see pictures, I'm like, man, I actually want to travel 870 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: here one day, So sure, manifest it. Now we'll get 871 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:11,200 Speaker 1: you to Greece. Okay, last question for the game, and 872 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 1: I don't okay, we have just one word, but I'm 873 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: gonna give you a whole phrase. So if you could 874 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 1: give us a phrase to describe the rest of Gabbing 875 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: Rachel's season, what would that be? Um? I would say, um? Telling? Oh, 876 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 1: so you only needed one word, That's all I had 877 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:36,719 Speaker 1: to get you through everything in the air Telling. What 878 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 1: does that supposed to tell us? More telling in the 879 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 1: sense of, like, you know, I think that, um, you'll 880 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: start to see really like feelings be brought to the table, 881 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: not only from Rachel and Gabby, but from the men, 882 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: people taking decisions that impact other people, just a lot 883 00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 1: of different things. So telling, okay, all right, I'm excited. 884 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 1: I'm really excited that that one makes me uncomfortable. I 885 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,400 Speaker 1: don't know why doesn't. Oh, I'm ready. I don't know 886 00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 1: if you're like, telling is not always a good thing, 887 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: but true, true, no, but it's probably needed for everyone. Absolutely, So, Mario, 888 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: that was the game. But before we let you go, 889 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: we always ask our guests each week what their rose 890 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: and thorn was. But because we are in the new season, 891 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna keep it to just the episode so so far, 892 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 1: your Night one, whether you lived it or watched it 893 00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 1: back on the screen, what was your rose and thorne? 894 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:37,359 Speaker 1: Basically your highlight and low light of Night one? Man, 895 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 1: I think it doesn't get much of everything. Getting the 896 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,280 Speaker 1: first impression rows, right, So that would be my rose. 897 00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:47,320 Speaker 1: My thorn would be this is tough because you know 898 00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 1: when you get the first impression Rows, it's like, what, like, 899 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,799 Speaker 1: what could you have done different that night? I would 900 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,520 Speaker 1: say after my interaction with Gabby, I sat on the 901 00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 1: couch and I was like kind of making small talk 902 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,680 Speaker 1: with guy, but there were other guys that were actually 903 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: like socializing. But I was in like this like zone 904 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 1: where I do wish I maybe that first night I 905 00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 1: could have like hung out with more of the guys. 906 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 1: I've been present in the moment, but I was like, yes, 907 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,239 Speaker 1: I just connected with Gabby, Like I think I was 908 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,880 Speaker 1: processing that moment like super long, and I should have 909 00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 1: just went and like hung out with like the guys, right. 910 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,480 Speaker 1: So my thorn would be that first night, maybe like 911 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 1: experiencing that opening night with them a little more and 912 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: not being so like, okay, I just did this with Gabby. 913 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 1: Was gonna come next. You're gonna choose me, right, So, 914 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 1: being more present, I would say it is my thorn. Okay, 915 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 1: I'm surprised you didn't say how long that night was. Okay, 916 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna start with the thorn. I would say my 917 00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 1: thorn is that I think I wish that they were 918 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,920 Speaker 1: Gabby and Rachel were like split earlier so that they 919 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,719 Speaker 1: could have their own conversations and really like embrace that 920 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:58,359 Speaker 1: first night as individuals because they already met the men 921 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,200 Speaker 1: together when you guys were stepping out the limo. Um, 922 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: My rose would just be that watching the women so 923 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:10,520 Speaker 1: excited and like truly embracing this and happy and really 924 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 1: seeing potential in more than one relationship for both of them. 925 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: And so I think that's that would be my rose. 926 00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,800 Speaker 1: What about you, Becca, m I'm going to say the 927 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 1: thorn of the episode was that we didn't get to 928 00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:27,239 Speaker 1: see more of the chicks and oh, actually no, no, 929 00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to say this one. I love a good costume, 930 00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 1: and no one came in a costume this season, which 931 00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 1: I besides, like the guy in the blue, which doesn't 932 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,360 Speaker 1: really count, you know, like I wanted a costume like 933 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 1: that's a living animal no, but like he it was 934 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,320 Speaker 1: kind of like a knight in shining armor. Yeah, but 935 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,360 Speaker 1: he just trying to take off, you know. I wanted 936 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 1: like something whatever it would be, wanted a costume. I 937 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 1: wanted a costume. And the thorn of the premiere is 938 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 1: actually the vibe of the women again, just seeing them 939 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:09,000 Speaker 1: truly I think, embrace the opportunity but really enjoy doing 940 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,000 Speaker 1: it together and not feeling like it's taking away from either. 941 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:16,319 Speaker 1: I found that very special. I'm all about like strong friendships, 942 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 1: especially in women, because I feel like in this day 943 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 1: and age, you just don't have enough of that support. 944 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,120 Speaker 1: And so I love that we saw them too together, 945 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,359 Speaker 1: like the two of them together and their banter. They're 946 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,959 Speaker 1: vibe back and forth. They're so different, but they feed 947 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 1: off one another really well. And so I mean, we 948 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 1: will see the romantic relations form, but I just love 949 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 1: watching their friendship right now. And it'd better stay like 950 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 1: that girls, Okay, that's all I gotta say. I think. So. 951 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 1: I think it will because they already know that it's 952 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 1: going to be uncomfortable and that it's new and whatever, 953 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:46,879 Speaker 1: but they seem like two people who just like talk 954 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: it through. Yeah. There, I mean everyone so far for 955 00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 1: the most part, especially those two seem very mature. So 956 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 1: all right, well, Mario, thank you for joining Happy Hour. 957 00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:59,879 Speaker 1: It was our first one of the season, so it's 958 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,279 Speaker 1: and you could have been here. I'm excited to be 959 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,719 Speaker 1: a part of it. I'm grateful that, you know, the 960 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: first night you went the way it did and then 961 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 1: led me to you guys, So thank you for having 962 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,759 Speaker 1: me on. Mario, thank you for joining us. That was 963 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,239 Speaker 1: such a fun interview and it feels good to just 964 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,840 Speaker 1: kick off a season once again. And Michelle cheers to 965 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:20,360 Speaker 1: us doing our first full season of recaps together. I 966 00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,800 Speaker 1: can't wait to see what this goes. I love you. 967 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for being here with me again. Thank you, Tomorrio, 968 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 1: and an even bigger thank you to all of our 969 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour listeners and everyone. Don't forget that you 970 00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: can catch every new episode of the Bachelorette on Monday. 971 00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 1: Oh I have to say Bachelorttes because we have two, 972 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:41,760 Speaker 1: So the Bachelorettes every Monday on ABC or on Hulu, 973 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,239 Speaker 1: and make sure to hit us up on social. You 974 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 1: can follow us at Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and 975 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,360 Speaker 1: from there you'll find everything you need to know to 976 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 1: follow us. On Twitter and TikTok and Bachelor Happy Hour 977 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,840 Speaker 1: is available on Apple podcasts, Amazon Music, or wherever you listen. 978 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,360 Speaker 1: And you can always listen Adye by subscribing to Wondering 979 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:05,160 Speaker 1: Plus in Apple podcast or the Wondering app. Thank you everyone, 980 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: and we will see you next week.