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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with i R Radio. Hey guys, it's Ashley. Ben is

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Speaker 1: still down in Honduras. I just want to thank you

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Speaker 1: all for being so supportive of the Bachelor Winter Games

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Speaker 1: and specifically the Almost in his podcast episode from last week.

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Speaker 1: So many of you listen. We've got great feedback. I

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Speaker 1: think we're able to talk um and explain that Luke

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Speaker 1: situation pretty well. And um, I knew that he appreciates that.

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Speaker 1: And I'm glad that you guys got to know a

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Speaker 1: little bit more about Courtney and Lily and me and Kevin. Um. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is just me today, but it's actually not. We

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Speaker 1: have a huge show because Crystal is calling in, we

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Speaker 1: have c n coming in in studio, and Sean Lowe

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Speaker 1: is coming on the Almost AAMA podcast for the very

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Speaker 1: first time. This man is hard to get ahold of.

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Speaker 1: He you know, he's kind of the king of the

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Speaker 1: franchise because he is the one bachelor out of twin

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Speaker 1: is always twenty two twenty two seasons at the Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: He's the only bachelor that is currently married to the

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Speaker 1: girl that he puts in the end. You don't count Jason.

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Speaker 1: Jason Mesnick. I like to count, but I think he's

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Speaker 1: like a runner up, you know, he he doesn't get

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Speaker 1: that first place. And Sean really was His season was

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Speaker 1: during like a Bachelor heyday. I didn't get to watch

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Speaker 1: back in Mesnis day. So Ben, we'll be back for

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Speaker 1: the big Ben will be back for the finale, which

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Speaker 1: is so exciting. I am stoked for this finale. I

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Speaker 1: do believe it maybe multiple nights. I don't think I

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Speaker 1: can quite confirm that yet, but it's gonna be a

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Speaker 1: big one. Um, it's on my birthday, guys, it is

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Speaker 1: on my thirty birthday, and I am going to have

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Speaker 1: to work on my birthday. But you know what, there's

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Speaker 1: nothing I'd rather do. That's kind of a joke, all right.

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Speaker 1: Do we have Crystal on the phone? I have a

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Speaker 1: list of questions for a Crystal Hello, Hello, Hey. Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: I need to tell you that I interviewed Crystal after

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Speaker 1: Women Tell All for Access and I like hit it

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Speaker 1: off with you. I immediately felt very warm and comfortable

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Speaker 1: with you. You didn't scare me at all. You didn't

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Speaker 1: seem like a villain when we were talking. Thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, don't normally come across like that. Okay, Um, well,

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Speaker 1: first off, you did talk to me in your like

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Speaker 1: quote regular voice, and last night you said on Women

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Speaker 1: Tell All you kind of said that you were sick.

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Speaker 1: And then what Harrison was like, come on, Crystal, let's

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Speaker 1: just admit it. You have your sexy voice, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: I definitely have a sexy voice. But the thing is, like, honestly,

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Speaker 1: we're going to motivational fitiers coach and I vocal anyone

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Speaker 1: in my industry, especially as the circumstance of the environment

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Speaker 1: I coach in specifically here at Orange Ferry in San Diego,

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Speaker 1: is very harsh on your vocal and we lose our

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Speaker 1: voices all the time, all the time. So prior to

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Speaker 1: going on this show, I literally had to coach so

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Speaker 1: many clients and classes. I just super stressed. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know if you're remember, but it's not the most

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Speaker 1: conducive environment for really resting. Absolutely not. I will go

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Speaker 1: an interview of your interview and I'll be like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm so tired of talking. My vocal cords

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Speaker 1: are just exhausted. But you still have your sexy voice.

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Speaker 1: You should just admit that. I definitely have a sexy time,

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Speaker 1: and it is sexy time. I mean I sound different

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Speaker 1: with guys than I do right now on this podcast.

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Speaker 1: You have a different voice for different people. I have

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Speaker 1: a different voice when I get nervous, and I have

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Speaker 1: a different voice when I'm in my broadcast mode. You know, right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: totally get it. I'm gonna hit you with the hard

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Speaker 1: stuff first. Um, well, actually I do want to mention

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Speaker 1: you have a friend from this season and a lot

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Speaker 1: of people would be surprised that you have an actual

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Speaker 1: why are you guys still friends? Are you to? Becca?

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Speaker 1: like you guys hated each other. Yeah, she totally got

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Speaker 1: through that whole process. And Becca and I were really close,

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Speaker 1: to now. It actually kind of just has to do

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Speaker 1: with who has the most similar lifestyles to you and

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Speaker 1: who lives around you after the show. Totally, Yes, proximity

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Speaker 1: his power. And you know, it's crazy. I've had so

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Speaker 1: it was just um, because you watched it, you know,

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Speaker 1: And when you finally get a chance to explain and

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Speaker 1: talk about the tell all Um, you knew that the girls,

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Speaker 1: despite some of them, you know, making up with you.

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Speaker 1: Now we're going to come at you hot. Um, why

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Speaker 1: didn't you just follow the past? Like in every past, Hell,

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Speaker 1: all the quote villain needs to they always end up

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Speaker 1: didn't you just get up there and be like girls,

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Speaker 1: I was belittling, I was condescending at times. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: If I wasn't my nicest, I'd like to apologize. You

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Speaker 1: didn't think that was the best route to go. Um,

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Speaker 1: I did apologize. I apologize um that I was very

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Speaker 1: on Ari and like in a sense, like honestly after like,

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Speaker 1: I felt it and I was full like owned it

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Speaker 1: I don't care. I wasn't. I don't know that. She

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Speaker 1: like this is this is above this. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: behave like this, Chris christ this is very Yes. Actually,

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Speaker 1: one of our biggest klums I think while talking and

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Speaker 1: about you during this season was that you were like,

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Speaker 1: oh I am I'm above them, I'm the really confident

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Speaker 1: Ari to kind of feel better about it all. How

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Speaker 1: do you explain that one? Yeah, you know, it was

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Speaker 1: it was so much so soon for me. Um, but

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Speaker 1: like Ari and I had an interms conversation, and I

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Speaker 1: so practiced and you really just have to see it

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Speaker 1: when the opportunities there. I think sometimes when you have

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Speaker 1: it's just like more things are filtering in and you

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Speaker 1: get more anxious than your average girl. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: definitely interesting. But I want to talk about your first

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Speaker 1: but in real life it would probably be a nightmare.

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Speaker 1: How did you actually feel You couldn't have actually been

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Speaker 1: excited about going down the hallways of his high school

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Speaker 1: sitting down with his kind of cold family, Like I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say they're not nice people. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure they're very nice, but they're definitely not warm and fuzzies.

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Speaker 1: They were they really were, and that they were they

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Speaker 1: were I had. I felt so welcome meeting his family,

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Speaker 1: His family was fantastic and wonderful, and you are in

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Speaker 1: I mean the highlight for me everything. Okay, well, I

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Speaker 1: when you start making fun of Ari. And it has

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Speaker 1: I have CN in studio with me. She's so pretty,

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Speaker 1: an interesting conversation because to me, I mean, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: this theory that a lot of the people have maybe

429
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 1: higher accused and the average person I might get in

430
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: trouble for that. I don't know. I don't know. I

431
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if I agree with the

432
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: higher ideal, but I do. I do think that it

433
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: takes a really brave person to do this and to

434
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: stay in it for you know, a significant amount of time.

435
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a tough environment for sure. Um, And

436
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: I do think it takes someone who's confident and someone

437
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 1: who is you know, kind of has some inner strengthen

438
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: them to get through this process. Okay, there you go.

439
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: Which is I guess a corum of intelligence? Yes, all right,

440
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 1: thank you for putting that way better than anyway. Well see,

441
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: and well put there. Um, we have a very special

442
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: guest on the phone. You have no idea how long

443
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: we've been trying to get him on v Bachelor Sean

444
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: Low Sean, what's up guys? Hi? Oh my gosh, you

445
00:23:54,800 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: finally agreed to come on. Thanks for being here, Sean.

446
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: I hear that you are not watching your buddy are

447
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: season that when you all reached out to me, I

448
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you know, I don't know how much

449
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be able to add to this podcast because

450
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: I just haven't seen any of it. But I'm so

451
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: curious because you don't want to see him, Oh, not

452
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 1: at all. I love Ari and I've I've been getting

453
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: the cliffs notes from Catherine, but I think I was

454
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: traveling the first few mondays and I just got behind

455
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: and never caught up. And that's a bad excuse, but

456
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: that's the truth. But it's like your good friend. Well,

457
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 1: to make up for it, I've been calling him and

458
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: texts name to check in on. He says, he calls

459
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: your mom, Mom, he calls your mom. I believe it.

460
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: My dad has said on a number of occasions Ari

461
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: is the son that he always wanted. So my family

462
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: loves Okay, So you've been keeping in touch with Aris,

463
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 1: So I have to have to ask you. Last night

464
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: during Women Tell All, Caroline said, I know what you did,

465
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 1: um do you know what he did? John, I have

466
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: no idea that reality Steve has has thrown around there.

467
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: As far as how the whole season plays out, I've

468
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: had zero confirmation if those are actually true or not.

469
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: But maybe that's what she's referring to. I don't know.

470
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: We're definitely getting the hint that something's happening. Yeah, yeah,

471
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: And I think production has kind of been dropping that

472
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: hint to talking about how next week is going to

473
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 1: be the most dramatic season ever and they've never said

474
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: that before and would be pretty big. Oh yeah, they've

475
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: never seen that before. But I do have to say

476
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 1: that I don't think they would have allowed what Caroline

477
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: said to make the cut during Women Tell All if

478
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 1: they didn't want to tease a very dramatic ending, like

479
00:25:55,000 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: an ending where um Ari could possibly look villainous. Villainous

480
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: but like in insensitive. Yeah, I don't know. That's gonna

481
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: be tough because on one hand, the Bachelor goes out

482
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: of its way to protect the lead, like they always

483
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: make the lead and look way better than they actually

484
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: are in real life, and that that goes I'm included

485
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: in that they like make you out to be the

486
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: dream guy that every woman wants. But you know, in reality,

487
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: we all have our flaws and and they just don't

488
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: choose the air that part. Um, How does it make

489
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: you feel? Go ahead and continue. Well, I was going

490
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: to say, you know, the rumor, I don't even know

491
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 1: if I should say this out loud, but the rumor

492
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: that he kind of follows in Jason mesnick footsteps. That's

493
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 1: the case, then that's gonna be pretty tough Ferrari, I

494
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: imagine because I know Jason got raped over the coals

495
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: when when he did that. What's interesting is Jason is

496
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: the only other bachelor besides yourself who is currently still

497
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: with a girl from the show. How does it feel

498
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 1: you got? How does it feel so on that you

499
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: are the only bachelor in twenty two seasons to marry

500
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: his final pick and to still be with her. It's crazy? Yeah,

501
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: is definitely crazy. We we honestly, we're so normal and uh,

502
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: I just feel like an old married man now. But

503
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: sometimes we just have to stop and remind each other

504
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: we met on a TV show like that absolutely bizarre

505
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: because that seems like something I wouldn't do, Like just

506
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: the thought of meeting my wife on a TV show

507
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: sounds so out there. Um, but yeah, we did it.

508
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 1: And to answer your question, I guess it makes us

509
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: feel really good that we went on this crazy show

510
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: and it worked out, we stuck through all the trials

511
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: that come with it, and that we've got a super

512
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: happy family. I'm fascinated by the fact that the bachelorette success, right,

513
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: I feel like is one third. I think one third

514
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: ish of the bachelorettes are still with the person they

515
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: picked in the end, and then you are one of

516
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: twenty well, Oris, we don't know what happens there, but

517
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: one of twenty one bachelor's who are are still with

518
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 1: their wife or are still with their final pick. What

519
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,679
Speaker 1: do you think the differences between the bachelor and the bachelor? Um,

520
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: I've got a theory. I think because the audience is

521
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: primarily female. I think it's so much harder for the

522
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: guys to stay in the relationship after the show is

523
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: over because you're you're getting all of this unwanted female attention,

524
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: and it makes it so hard for the woman that

525
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: you choose because she's thinking if she's anything like my wife,

526
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: Like I just went through this crazy show where I

527
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: competed against other women for you. Now that the show

528
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: is over, I shouldn't feel like I'm competing for your

529
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: attention still. And I just think that's an interesting dynamic

530
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: that you don't get when the woman's the bachelorette, because,

531
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: like I said, that the audience is primarily female. That's interesting. Um.

532
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: I also feel like maybe the girls are actually more

533
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: marriage oriented and it's just like an intuition, Like the

534
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: female intuition is better. The funniest thing about Sehn is

535
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: I remember was your wedding, the one at the four Seasons. Yeah,

536
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: I remember somebody who will remain nameless, Chris Harrison saying

537
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: to me, like texting me, I can't believe these two

538
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: goofy kids are getting married. Like it was the first

539
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: time where we realized we were way older than you guys,

540
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: and literally two goofy kids got married and totally made

541
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: it work. Maybe that is the trick that you guys

542
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: were just like similar and in and like happy and

543
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: this can happen. I think that's part of it. I

544
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: went on the show and I said I want to

545
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: find my best friend, not knowing if I would actually

546
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: find her or not. But Catherine absolutely fits that bill

547
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: and like we just still we act goofy at the

548
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: house and we are each other's best friends. We want

549
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: to just hang out on the on the couch and

550
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: our sweatpants rather than get dressed up and go to

551
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: a club like that's just who we are. And uh,

552
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: I think that definitely has a big parts to do

553
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: with with why it worked and why we got married

554
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: and in the happy marriage we have now for sure,

555
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: your book is called for the right reasons? Is that correct? Yeah? Okay,

556
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: so I read it. I loved it. Um, it was

557
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: definitely one of the most page turning bachelor books I've read. Uh, you,

558
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: Mr Bachelor's success story is self admittedly wasn't there for

559
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: the right reasons? Explain? I think, you know, people that

560
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: go on the show and they're absolutely certain they're going

561
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: to get married are a little cuckoo, like you don't

562
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: know that you don't know who you're gonna meet on

563
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: that show. It could you know, you could meet twenty

564
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: five crazy women and none of them are good fits.

565
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, I totally did the show just because I

566
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: felt like, you know, this is a once in a

567
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: lifetime opportunity. I'll get to travel the world and do

568
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: all these amazing things and if I happen to meet

569
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: somebody in the process, that would be really cool. And

570
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: not only did I meet someone, but I met my

571
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 1: future wife. And every time people ask me like the

572
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: question about the right reasons, I don't feel guilty anymore

573
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: saying what you just said because you how said it. Yeah,

574
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it really is kind of nutty because I

575
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: had I'm not gonna say any names, but I had

576
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: a woman on my season who I After the first night,

577
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 1: she was convinced we were getting married, and I'm like, whoa,

578
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: this is kind of crazy because I just met you.

579
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 1: So I can't. I can't jump on board that train.

580
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I need to call it, like I

581
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: need to sing call me baby now. This is crazy. Okay, Um,

582
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: so Catherine is pregnant. How many months along is she

583
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: right now? She is seven. She just entered her third trimester,

584
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: and uh, you were due with baby number two on May.

585
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: How is she as a pregnant woman? Incredible? I mean

586
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: she never with Samuel or this baby, never experienced morning sickness,

587
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,719
Speaker 1: her energy level super high. I have to remind her

588
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: that you're pregnant, like, hey, you should probably eat some

589
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: food today because you've been running around like crazy. Um,

590
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: so she's she's handled it like a champ. Amazing, And

591
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: I can't wait for the time that you get to

592
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: tell Samuel and this new baby is a girl or boy?

593
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: We don't know, Okay, is it gonna be a surprised

594
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: I guess with Samuel. Surprise, Yeah, Samuel, And that's that's

595
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: the best way to do it, by the way, because

596
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: there is no better surprise or exhilarating moments than you know.

597
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: The first thing you do is look between the baby's legs.

598
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: You have it. Someone we know is like best friends

599
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: with Katherine? Is it Leslie? Leslie is such a nice thing.

600
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: Leslie is so close Leslie from the Bachelor Winter Games

601
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: is really close to your wife Katherine. Um, when was

602
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 1: the last time you guys hung out with her? And uh,

603
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: are you kind of rooting for she and Dean to

604
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: be a future Bachelor wedding? Yeah? I I heard about that.

605
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: I missed the Winter Games too, unfortunately, but um yeah,

606
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: Katherine and Leslie are are like best friends. They talk

607
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: all the time, hang out all the time. Um. You know,

608
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm all for everybody being happy. So if you find

609
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: someone on the show as ridiculous as it sounds. You know,

610
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: if your goal is to get married and you think

611
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: that person could could be your future spouse, then yeah,

612
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: I fully support that. So I hope it does work

613
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: out between those two kids. Yeah, all right, I got

614
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: one more kids. I got one more question. I love

615
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: to ask the married couples of this. I asked as

616
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: a couple of months ago, well, how are you going

617
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: to tell Samuel and your future child about how you

618
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: and your wife met? Like? How funny will that story

619
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: be to them? Oh? My gosh, I'm kind of dreading

620
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: the moment because it's going to be awkward. I'm hoping.

621
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm hoping Samuel is like the normal teenage boy where

622
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: he's like, I don't care, Mom and dad, you guys

623
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: are lame. That's that's what I'm kind of hoping for.

624
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: So he doesn't investigate like my season and watch all

625
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: the episodes? Will he? Are you gonna have the kids

626
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: to watch the episodes? I don't. I mean, it's all

627
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: available online. That's so awesome. I can't wait till he's

628
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: like eight years old on YouTube. And you know, I

629
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 1: know there's some video clips on YouTube for it's only

630
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: me and Catherine, and so maybe we'll start with that

631
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: kind of omit the romantic montages exactly. I think Sienna

632
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: is a question for you, Hi, Sean, how are you?

633
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm doing great? Sienna is from ari season, which you

634
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: may or may not know she dated your bestie, you

635
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: would briefly, um, So I'm curious what advice you're going

636
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: to give Ari um after coming off of his season. Well,

637
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: here's the thing. That's a great question. Um. I think

638
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 1: pretty much every Bachelor, maybe except for Juan Pablo, has

639
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: kind of reached out to me and asked for advice

640
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: after each season, and nobody has really taken it. I

641
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: don't know if that means I have bad advice or

642
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: they just don't want to listen. But I would say

643
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: my honest advice is try to steer clear of the

644
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: spotlight as as much as you can. And and by

645
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: the way, this is hot telling the kettle black, because

646
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 1: I did Dancing with the Stars and and I kind

647
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: of stayed in that spotlight, but it didn't do my

648
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 1: relationship with Catherine any favors by by doing that and

649
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: being in that Hollywood scene and being pulled a thousand

650
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 1: different directions. So I would say, like you just entered

651
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: into an engagement, probably in the most weird way possible,

652
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: and it's going to be extremely difficult because she probably

653
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: doesn't live in your city, and there's a whole lot

654
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: you don't know about her because a lot of the

655
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 1: Bachelor conversations are super surface. So I would say, you know,

656
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: just to try to be with the woman you chose

657
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: and really work on your relationship. Get to know her

658
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 1: because you're gonna have to learn a lot, learn how

659
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: to argue, and learn how to forgive, and learn this

660
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: and that. So um, that's that's my best advice. Try

661
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: not to get distracted by all the shiny lights. That's

662
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: great advice, and I hope he takes it. You did

663
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: mention in your book that that period of time on

664
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars was the most challenging in your

665
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: relationship and it was hard to get through. Yeah, totally,

666
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 1: because you know, I told you I did the Bachelor

667
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: because I kind of felt like it was the once

668
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: in a lifetime opportunity. And that's pretty much how I

669
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: lived my life for the most part. If something really

670
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: cool comes up, I usually do it because it's like,

671
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: you know, when else am I going to have the

672
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: chance to do this? But I had lived my whole

673
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: life being a single guy who only had to think

674
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: about myself, and in that situation, I wasn't thinking about Catherine.

675
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking about the time commitment that comes with

676
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: dancing with the stars, and how my new fiance would

677
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: be spending her days alone while I'm practicing dancing. It

678
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: was just really really unfair to her. And in hindsight

679
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: that's easy to see, but as it was happening, um,

680
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: I didn't really get it. But you know, you've learned,

681
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: and I've definitely grown as a husband because of that.

682
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: Oh now I'm always trying to be very conscious of

683
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: you know, is this is this good for my wife?

684
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: Did you warn Crystals about that before he did it? Yeah?

685
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: Interesting guess guys really don't take your advice. All right, Sean,

686
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on. Hopefully we'll have

687
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: you back at some other point because you are you know,

688
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: you are a role model. Well, thank you so much.

689
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm glad you invited the old man on your show.

690
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: If you ask me again, I'll come back. Great. Thanks Sean,

691
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:34,520
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733
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Speaker 1: a fellow Pisces and her birthday is only four days

734
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: before mine. So, as the Pisces on the show, did

735
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: you find yourself overly emotional? Because that's our thing? Our

736
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: thing is crying all the time. And I'm like, don't

737
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: blame me, It's just like the day I was born.

738
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: I actually cried the day of the denalition Derby, but

739
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: I cried kind of to myself and then went in

740
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: the bathroom and hid and cried for you. Yeah, because

741
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't want to cry on the first date,

742
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: and then then that kind of would domino effect to

743
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: the rest of my experience there. I tried to cry

744
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: to myself once you break the seal, yeah, and never

745
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,439
Speaker 1: sadly so I couldn't let anyone see. A few people saw,

746
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: but I was like keeping to myself. But yeah, I

747
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: think Pisces are emotional. We're the last of the horoscope,

748
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: so we feel a little bit of every song. Why

749
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: did you cry? Because I I was a little bit nervous,

750
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: to be honest, and even though I ended up winning,

751
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 1: I think I had to like build up that kind

752
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: of I was like, are we really like crash and

753
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: it was intense. You guys like, I don't think the

754
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: show really did it, just as for actually how in

755
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: tendse it was intense. It was so um. I never

756
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what a demolition derby was, and

757
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 1: so I was just like, and I think it was

758
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 1: a combination of the experience and they're being so many

759
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: girls and I'm like, this is the first date and

760
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not going to make a good impression. Oh,

761
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 1: there is something about the first week. So what happened?

762
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: Was it that second episode that the demolition ever happened? Okay,

763
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: so there's something about the second episode that makes you

764
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: break down. Did you realize that you got over the

765
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: hump after that? Yeah? I needed to, Like there was

766
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: a moment where I was like, I don't know if

767
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,959
Speaker 1: I can do this. Oh yeah, there's always that moment.

768
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: So the first night, I don't know about you, but

769
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 1: I cruised through the first night. I was like, oh,

770
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: I feel good, I feel confident. I think he likes me.

771
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: And then you go back to the hotel for about

772
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: a night you get to like collect yourself, and then

773
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: you go back into the house you move in, and

774
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: then you realize that you, you're never alone, you have

775
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: no privacy, and then they're really starting to pick at

776
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 1: your emotions and the competition really begins and you just

777
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, um, I think I'm gonna have a

778
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: mental breakdown. I remember it was my second day filming AK,

779
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 1: the first day in the house, and I was sobbing

780
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 1: so hard that I just needed they actually felt bad

781
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,399
Speaker 1: for me and let me go outside, away from everybody else,

782
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 1: just to like calm myself. I get it. It's like

783
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 1: you you do have to kind of go within yourself

784
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: and like calm yourself down, and I think that, um,

785
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: otherwise it can kind of, yeah, get a little bit

786
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 1: out of control. Like um. The second so the second

787
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: road ceremony, the one where Bibiana did mic drop. Um,

788
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: I was like I just literally like stayed by the

789
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,439
Speaker 1: fireplace the entire time. I was just like so keeping

790
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: to myself because it's such an intense process and everyone's

791
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: trying to get time and um, yeah it was. It was.

792
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: There were a couple of moments where I was like,

793
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is for me, but then

794
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: you kind of just pushed through. Then you assimilate. It's fine,

795
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: but there is a couple. There's three days in there,

796
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: We're like, whoa, Um, what was the hardest part about

797
00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: living in the bachelor bubble for you? Um? I actually,

798
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: so the house was by far, for me, the worst

799
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: part of it all. Like once we started traveling, I

800
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: felt a lot more comfortable. I honestly was fine with it.

801
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 1: I think there were moments when I just wanted like quiet.

802
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: I think we're in Fort Lauderdale and I just wanted

803
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: to like read and just like be away from people.

804
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: But there's always people around you. I'm a very independent

805
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: person and I love to be with my friends, but

806
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: there are moments when I want to be on my own.

807
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: And so that was definitely the hardest part is not

808
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 1: being able to have your space. I find the exact

809
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: same thing, because like I call myself an outgoing introvert,

810
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: I need to recharge on myself and whether I'm lying

811
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: to just say I'm going to take a nap, I'll

812
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: go upstairs, sit in a bunk and just be by

813
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 1: myself for an hour. And not being not having the

814
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: freedom to get the things you need. Oh yeah, Like

815
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: believe me, I've now become a pro obviously, so I

816
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: bring everything you should see the size of my toiletry

817
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: bag when I go for these trips. But yeah, not

818
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: having the CVS runs the four runs, all that's difficult.

819
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: Making it sound really fun. I'm getting anxiety over here. Yeah,

820
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 1: you're right. Not being able to run errands by yourself

821
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 1: is something that you don't even think. You're like, oh,

822
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: they'll get it for me. It's like you get a

823
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 1: loan time in the bathroom. Yeah, but close the door

824
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: and if they don't need you for an interview like

825
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: this long shower. Yeah, would you shower in the private

826
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 1: shower or in like the public shower at the house? Yeah?

827
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 1: We had so the room I seed in, we had

828
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: um a small bathroom and so it was private. Okay, okay,

829
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: So there's three bedrooms in the house and there's just

830
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: a ton of bunks in each one. There's one big

831
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: bathroom that like girls will honestly take group showers in

832
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: because there's two heads, and that's not for me. But

833
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: I didn't. I did not participate in the I don't

834
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 1: know if anyone on my season did very private took

835
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: a private shower. There was one time though, when we

836
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: stayed at the w Hall, you would in the um

837
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: glass of the shower was just it was like all glass,

838
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,760
Speaker 1: the whole entire bath I don't understand you guys. Hello,

839
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: hello hotels. Um, I'm not sure why you're trying to

840
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: make bathrooms less and less of a private place, but

841
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: just letting you know that not all of us who

842
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 1: are staying together in those rooms are like husband and wife.

843
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: And even if you are husband and wife, you probably

844
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: most people probably don't like pooping in front of each other. Yeah,

845
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: so um, please make bathrooms private again. Yeah, I agree,

846
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 1: make bathrooms again. So at Marshall's house, one of the

847
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 1: bathrooms has like what is going on? Like I'm still fixated.

848
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: The girls just jump in together. Yeah, like a lot

849
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: of girls are very open with that, like locker room. Actually. Oh,

850
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,240
Speaker 1: the night of in Fort Lauderdale, again, we were rushing

851
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: back from the thing and Crystal Gate was happening because

852
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: we had found out that she had said all of

853
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: these things. This is the bowling day, this is the

854
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 1: bowling date. We had to rush back. We had to

855
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: rush back to get ready for the cocktail party. So

856
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: we all we did actually all kind of like shower

857
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 1: together in that shower because we didn't have time. They

858
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: were like hurry up and get ready. And also Crystal

859
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: just blew up and we we weren't in there. We

860
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: were split up, like they split the two teams in

861
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: different buses on the way home. So we didn't know

862
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 1: anything until we got there, and the girls kind of

863
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: started to tell us. So, um, yeah, yeah, tell us

864
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: what happened on the bus, what happened on the bus.

865
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: I was not on Chrystal, start, there's something that happened

866
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,800
Speaker 1: on the bus where she was like what just like

867
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: having it? I think she exploded, Yeah she lost it.

868
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: Um all right, I want to know stories like the

869
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: moment that you wish made air that didn't, or fun

870
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: stories between you girls at the house. This is what

871
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: everybody wants to Oh gosh, okay. Um. Well, one time

872
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: Ari and I did yoga together and that was funny.

873
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: He actually was quite good. He said that the only

874
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: class he took in college was a yoga class that

875
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: was class regularly attended. The only college course he ever

876
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 1: was yoga at Yale. Um. I I would go to

877
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: like a yoga studio, but they didn't offer yoga class

878
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: that was not part of the curriculums I wish. Okay,

879
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: So we had already doing yoga. What about life with

880
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 1: the girls in the house. What was your favorite pastime?

881
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: We love playing heads up on the phone. Oh yeah, um,

882
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: we did play that. We played some cards. Um. Oh,

883
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. Painting nails a lot. We painted

884
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: a lot. I feel like I was doing my nails

885
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: like every other day. One day, finally, we were in

886
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 1: the airport on our way from France to Italy and

887
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: I like, I was like, I have to get a manicure,

888
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 1: and the producers just let me like be by myself

889
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: for an hour while I got a manicure. So jealous

890
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: I was. Really it was a great hour of time.

891
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: Talk about airplanes, okay, because you guys don't have your phones,

892
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: you can't listen to your phones. I guess you have

893
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: movies on those Yeah, we had. We had movies. It

894
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: was nice. I mean, I didn't mind it. I sleep.

895
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: I sleep better on planes than I do in my

896
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: own bed. I can knock out before the fight takes off,

897
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: So I I didn't mind the lying. I actually like

898
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: in that part. I enjoyed. Um. Okay, First, I want

899
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: to know your thoughts on Ari, because he's getting a

900
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: lot of flak for being like not so entertaining of

901
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: a bachelor. How do you feel how do you feel

902
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: like he was when you were in there in real life? Um?

903
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: I thought that he is a fun charismatic guy. I

904
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: do think, you know, there are times when maybe some

905
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: things feel a little bit one note with him, but

906
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: I I can only say that, like I think being

907
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 1: the bachelor is or bachelorette is a tough role, so

908
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: you know, and he didn't really have that much time

909
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: to prepare for it. So, UM, I think that, just

910
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 1: like any of us, there's a lot more to our

911
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: personality than what's shown on the show. So I'm just

912
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: going to give him that. Okay, Okay, I totally understand

913
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 1: that there's so many good conversations that never make cut,

914
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: and that's always something really funny. Last night about Crystal,

915
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: he said he's snarky. He's very snarky. Um, you didn't

916
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: see much. He saw a little bit of that, but

917
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: I think those moments, they didn't really show them, like he's, yeah,

918
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: he's a he's a funny guy. Um, but it wasn't.

919
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: I don't think that was captured much on the show,

920
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: but I got it well. Um, when Sean was on

921
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: the phone, and I mentioned what Caroline said that I

922
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: know what you did. You had a face, you were

923
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 1: like nodding, and you had like a little a little

924
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 1: something in your eye. And I'm like, oh, okay, she

925
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: she has she has feelings on this. Well, every I

926
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: mean everyone knows, I mean everyone can know. At this point.

927
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: It's it's like very and there's only could have happened.

928
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: So it's like it's it's confirmed, but I can't confirm it.

929
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: So did it change your mind on Ari? On how

930
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 1: you feel about Ari? To be honest, I wasn't surprised

931
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: I when I got sent home and not anything bad

932
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 1: about Ari, but I could tell that he was a

933
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: little bit indecisive throughout the process. I said to my

934
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: mom when I got home, I I'm confident that he's

935
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: going to change his mind after he picks. Wait, no, yeah,

936
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: my mom, But I was watching an episode with my

937
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,919
Speaker 1: mom and Lauren s and Marie and my mom brought

938
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: it up because I had forgotten that I said that,

939
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: and this was before it all came out. Wow, that's

940
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: what Wait, I think we have to say. Um, I'm

941
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,479
Speaker 1: gonna say spoiler alert here. You may want to fast

942
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: forward to the next two minutes because CNE has some

943
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: theories that may or may not be accurate. In Monday's episode,

944
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: Ari says I loved you like I am in love

945
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: with you to both Becca and Lauren, and then he

946
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 1: says he's falling in love with Kendall. He obviously didn't

947
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: watch Ben season. Ben was crucified for that stuff. And

948
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: he goes and he just seems very comfortable saying it's everyone.

949
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: How how is that? And then he also mentioned in

950
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 1: a in the tent with Becca, he goes, my biggest

951
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 1: fear in this process is that I'm going to make

952
00:50:56,480 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: the wrong decision and like I have to or I'm

953
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,800
Speaker 1: going to change my mind or something like that. Okay,

954
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 1: so now I need to know you're right. He's been decisive.

955
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: First of all, what's the difference between I'm falling in

956
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: here for you and I love you? I don't know

957
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: even talking about this for weeks because he's been dropping

958
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: the I'm falling in love with you for weeks and

959
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 1: it's like there's I'm falling for you, I'm falling in

960
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: love with you, and I love like which one is

961
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 1: falling in love stronger than I love you as I

962
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: love you stronger. Oh, I love you, I am in

963
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: love with you, I think is the most strong. But

964
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 1: I also think that like if a guy is going

965
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: to tell me like, do I now have two hurdles

966
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 1: to get through. I need to find a guy who

967
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: is currently falling in love with me, and then at

968
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,800
Speaker 1: another point he's going to tell me I am in

969
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: love with you, Like the process is complete. Like I

970
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,399
Speaker 1: didn't know that I had to get over so many

971
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: there are a lot of Yeah, I'm gonna go ahead

972
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,919
Speaker 1: and say I think that it's all the same. Okay,

973
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,240
Speaker 1: I'm falling for you. Seems like it's got a little

974
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: wiggle room. We know, I'm falling for you definitely has

975
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: a little wiggle room. But I'm a beard versus I haven't.

976
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: I have a little scarf right now it's coming in. Okay, Well, anyway,

977
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm falling for you, like I want to take you

978
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 1: to fantasy suite. That's right, right, So now I need

979
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: to know about how you feel about him saying multiple

980
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 1: I love you, and how his fear you think is

981
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 1: going to factor into the end result of all this. Well,

982
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: to me, I mean, I think it makes sense to

983
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: say multiple I love you personally because if you're saying

984
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: I love you to only one person, then why are

985
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 1: you even continuing the process with the other person. See,

986
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 1: normally in bachelor Land, you're not even allowed to say

987
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: that until you're down on one knee, and now he's

988
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: really breaking the rules. Yeah, well, I mean I think

989
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: that it makes sense that he said it to both

990
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 1: of the final two. Yeah, I think that because sense. Yeah,

991
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: because if he says it to one and not the other,

992
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: then why is the other girl still there? Like she

993
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: should just pack her bags now and we can be

994
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: done with the season. Yeah, you know, So, I mean

995
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: I do think he was. I do think he was

996
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: probably a bit confused on what you know, he felt

997
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: right and maybe he thought one thing I felt like

998
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: the right choice, but the other was more. Um, he

999
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: was going with his heart. So I don't know. It's

1000
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: it's hard to say, but um, I don't think that

1001
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: the two people thinks should be that big of a

1002
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: deal or just don't say it at all. But I

1003
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: don't know. I think saying it to one person not

1004
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: the other would have been worse in my opinion. Okay,

1005
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: so now my last question for you before we go

1006
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: into listener emails is describe his relationship with Becca and

1007
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 1: describe his relationship with Lauren and how they seem different

1008
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: or why you think it's working with the two of

1009
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: them based on what you saw in the house and

1010
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: things that we wouldn't know as viewers. Okay, so I

1011
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: actually think their relationships are like quite opposite because because

1012
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: Becca went on the first one on one and then

1013
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: after that, their relationship kind of slowed down. Like I

1014
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:03,840
Speaker 1: think that once he started developing relationship with other people,

1015
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 1: she I think she pulled back a little bit. Um,

1016
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 1: I think he pulled back from her a little bit,

1017
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 1: and then things kind of but I think because they

1018
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 1: had such a strong one on one, he wanted to

1019
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: see if they could get back there. So they went

1020
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: on their Tescny date and things kind of fell back

1021
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: into place, got it, um, Whereas Lauren was kind of

1022
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: just like under the radar for a while. And I

1023
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: first noticed that he seemed to have strong feelings for

1024
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: Lauren in Fort Lauderdale, and um, I could see. And

1025
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: once we were in Paris, I told her that I

1026
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: thought she was going to be in the final two. Um,

1027
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 1: And like I thought she would be in the final

1028
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:43,879
Speaker 1: two over Becca, UM, just because I could. You could

1029
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: just see the way that he looked at her, Like,

1030
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: maybe not so much in this past episode, but the

1031
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: episode before that, I was like, Oh, Lauren is the one.

1032
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 1: And now when I saw him with Becca and Lauren

1033
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: in the same episode, I was like, Okay, it's hard

1034
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: to tell. Now I see Becket catching up with her. Yeah, definitely,

1035
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:08,320
Speaker 1: I think that, Um, both of the I think Becca

1036
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,839
Speaker 1: is more open with her feelings about him, and she's

1037
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: kind of she doesn't seem to have the same fears

1038
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 1: as Lauren does, and so I think that puts her

1039
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: relationship with our in in a different place. And then

1040
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: with Um with Lauren, I I think that it's more

1041
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: of him trying to get her to open up, which

1042
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: speaks volumes, because he wants he wants her to be

1043
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: on the same page as he. Oh it does speak volumes. Yeah, Um,

1044
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: let's talk about laurence silence for a second. Is she

1045
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: really that quiet and shy? And why do you think

1046
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: that are is so drawn to that? Um? Lauren is

1047
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 1: She's such a sweet girl. She actually was one of

1048
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: the first people in the house to come up to

1049
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: me and um, she was just like, you seem like

1050
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 1: such a nice person, and we were really close in

1051
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: the house early on. UM, and she's she's a funny girl.

1052
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 1: Like I said, you don't get to see everyone's full personality.

1053
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: Is she not as outspoken as some of the other people. Yes, Um,

1054
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: watching their first one on one was a little bit

1055
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: hard to watch because they didn't really say much. It

1056
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: was a little bit awkward, But I think that um

1057
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,399
Speaker 1: when I'm I enjoyed my time with her. I really

1058
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 1: like Lauren Great. All right, guys, well, there's a lot

1059
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: of wine in the Bachelorhouse. It creates a lot of

1060
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:25,200
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Speaker 1: I don't ever know what kind of wine I like, Like,

1084
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: I just don't get it. I just like grab whatever

1085
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Speaker 1: my parents drink. But then I tried Wink and I

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Speaker 1: And now I feel like a little bit smarter when

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Speaker 1: it comes to wine, Like I'll act will be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'd like this because I know I like this alright, Sana.

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00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 1: People love knowing about what happens in the Bachelor House,

1092
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: like the real life things like laundry. So this is

1093
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: from Taylor. She says, Hi, friends, real concern here when

1094
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 1: you're in the Bachelor House. Do you have your own

1095
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:21,400
Speaker 1: laundry room there? I get that you bring a boatload

1096
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: of outfits for cuteness purposes, but seriously, I feel like

1097
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: you need to bring Do you need to bring underwear

1098
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: for every single day? It's insane? Let me know, Taylor

1099
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: from Buffalo. Yes, Hi, Taylor from Buffalo. Um, so you

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00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: don't need underwear for every day that you're there. But

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00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: the washing machine did break while we were in the house,

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00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: so they had to shift our laundry off to get

1103
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: laundered and then brought it back. And then after that, Um,

1104
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: there were washing machines where we stayed. So I only

1105
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 1: did laundry in the house. I do feel like I

1106
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: brought like twenty pairs of underwear. Yeah, I brought a

1107
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: lot of I don't think I don't remember wearing the

1108
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: same pair twice. It. Yeah, you have to bring a lot,

1109
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 1: but still you have you have laundry yeah, pajama is

1110
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 1: an underwear. The only things I really watched because I

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00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: didn't wear anything else exactly. I mean, you can't alfhit

1112
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 1: repeat on The Bachelor, you can definitely cannot. Yeah. Okay,

1113
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 1: So this is from MICHAELA and she says, Hi, Ben

1114
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 1: and Ashley, I've been watching the Winner games, and I've

1115
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: always been a huge fan of Rachel. But how she

1116
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 1: acted about Dean and Leslie seems so petty and jealous

1117
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 1: to me. I was wondering if you all thought the same.

1118
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 1: I just feel like she was so hard on him

1119
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: since he was in her top four and she didn't

1120
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: like to see him with somebody else. I mean, she

1121
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 1: said that Ali and Josiah were better than them. What

1122
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 1: are your thoughts? So, I don't know if you know

1123
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 1: what she's referring to. She did during the kissing competition,

1124
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 1: say something along the lines of feeling like Dean and

1125
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: Leslie is um. Their whole dance and and kiss was

1126
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: very orchestrated, and so what what do you think? You

1127
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 1: think that she's just still jealous of a girl with

1128
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: her old guy. I mean, I don't think so. I mean,

1129
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 1: it's been quite a while and she didn't choose Dean,

1130
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: So I don't think that was coming from a place

1131
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: of jealousy. She she seems like she's a very honest

1132
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 1: person and she was just keeping it real about how

1133
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: she felt about their kiss. Maybe it didn't feel as

1134
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 1: natural as some of the others. I mean, it was

1135
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 1: a choreographed routine, So maybe she was just like, you

1136
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: don't you shouldn't have to put on a show to

1137
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: prove your kisses genuine exactly. So I mean, I I

1138
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 1: don't I imagine that it didn't come from a jealous place. Okay,

1139
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: this question was specifically for Ben, but I really do

1140
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: think we can talk about it. Um. I love the

1141
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: podcast when a Lawyer listeners since the very beginning. I

1142
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 1: have a few questions about hometown dates that I was

1143
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 1: hoping Ben could clear up for me. But we're gonna

1144
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: do it. Okay. What's with meeting up at a field

1145
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 1: and then the girl running into the bachelor's arms and

1146
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: wrapping her legs around him in a hug? This is something?

1147
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: Is this something that producers tell women to do or

1148
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: do the women just take it upon themselves to do it.

1149
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: I can't remember a woman on a hometown not doing this. Also,

1150
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 1: to the producers help plan hometown dates for the girls.

1151
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 1: I can't help but think that if I was on

1152
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: this show and I had to take the Bachelor to

1153
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 1: my small town hometown in Long Island, that we'd be

1154
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 1: bored out of our minds staring at the town's post office.

1155
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: Thanks so much, brief. Okay, So I've been making fun

1156
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: of this for so long now. I've never in my

1157
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: life run up to a guy that I like and

1158
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: then wrapped my legs around him in a hug. I

1159
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: just would be so unnatural doing that, and I know that,

1160
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 1: like I am heavier than I look, I would just

1161
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: he'd fall over. It would just be the least sexy

1162
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 1: thing I've ever seen. But with you guys, it's not

1163
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 1: like I feel like you did do that? Did I

1164
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: actually did that? So I did that early on after

1165
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: I won the Demolition Derby, I like hugged him and

1166
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: wrapped my legs around him. But I don't know. I

1167
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: guess it's just something. I'm sure. I'm only five three, Yeah,

1168
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: so I guess. I just I know it is kind

1169
01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: of weird. It's everyone does it, and I did do

1170
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 1: it on our last onto one. Um, But yes, I

1171
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: guess you just you are running into each other. Yeah,

1172
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: it is very but I guess that it kind of

1173
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 1: loses its effect once everyone does it. But I loved

1174
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 1: her question about planning hometown dates. Oh yeah, so we

1175
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 1: did talk about hometown dates in the last episode. I

1176
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 1: said that I planned on taking him to the Great

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01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 1: Falls Falls. That is just like kind of what my twn.

1178
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 1: But we were planning it. So I left week six,

1179
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 1: and in week six is when they start pulling you

1180
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 1: aside to plan hometowns because that gives them like a

1181
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: solid I think seven to ten days to plan them.

1182
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 1: So what did you want to do? So? I had

1183
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: planned to take him to a hot yoga class, like

1184
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: a like a couple of yoga seabury. That's what you

1185
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: would do, Like you would just take him to like

1186
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 1: your hobby place. It doesn't mean that your town hasn't

1187
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: have something exciting. It's more of like show him what

1188
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 1: you like to do when you're home exactly, and go

1189
01:02:56,760 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: to brunch after meets and my friends and then meet

1190
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: your family. It's not Yeah, it's not as crazy as

1191
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 1: you'd think. You can come up with an activity. They

1192
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: help the producers help you kind of figure that out. Yeah,

1193
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 1: it's yeah, it's more like showing your life at home,

1194
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: unless of showing him your actual town. This question is

1195
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 1: from Amanda. I love your podcast listen every week. Thanks Amanda.

1196
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: I have a question that's been haunting me all season,

1197
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: and I would love to hear your thoughts. Assuming it

1198
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: would have been Peter as the bachelor, who would have

1199
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: been his top three? Alright, so Cnn, I'm sitting here

1200
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: talking to you, and I think he would have picked you.

1201
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm almost positive you would have been the winner of

1202
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: Peter's season. Really, does that make you feel good? Kind of? Yeah? Um?

1203
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: My other two that I would expect to be in

1204
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: his top three would be Crystal and Becca. M what

1205
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 1: do you think? M hmm? Interesting. I don't think Crystal

1206
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: would have been in his top three. Really love you, Crystal,

1207
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: but I think she w with the crazy would have

1208
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: come out with any bachelor, so I don't think he

1209
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: would have really been down with that. But she's so

1210
01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 1: competitive and athletic. Yeah, but it's not it wasn't winner games,

1211
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't like we didn't have to compete for anything. Um.

1212
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,479
Speaker 1: In terms of I don't I don't think she would

1213
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: have been in the top three. I think, I think

1214
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: probably different girls. I think he really would have liked

1215
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: mariek Um. Yeah, yeah, I think they would have gotten along. Um.

1216
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: I think um. I think it would have been a

1217
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 1: different Top four for sure, had Peter been the Bachelor.

1218
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: I think so, but you know he wasn't. So come on, guys,

1219
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: why are we talking about this? All right? I want

1220
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 1: to move over to relationship questions, not so much bachelor questions.

1221
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: I feel like you'd be really good at that. I'm

1222
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 1: going to kind of let you carry it because I'm

1223
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 1: really bad at relationship questions, being that I'm really in

1224
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: my first one at the age of thirty. Well, I'm

1225
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 1: single too, so I don't know how good. Okay, um,

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Speaker 1: me start off by saying that I am considered damaged goods.

1250
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: I was OH, I was married to an abusive man

1251
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 1: for years, and while I have been divorced for almost

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Speaker 1: ten years, I've had tons of therapy to help me heal,

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Speaker 1: and I think it's impossible to ever walk away from

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Speaker 1: this completely undamaged. I have only been in too serious

1255
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Speaker 1: relationships since my divorce ten years ago. The second one

1256
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 1: just ended around New Year's and I have a ten

1257
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 1: year old daughter and she's amazing. But on January five,

1258
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Speaker 1: I had a hys directed me, Oh my gosh, this

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Speaker 1: poor girl. I'm thirty four and he was thirty and

1260
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Speaker 1: while we plan to be married, he had already asked

1261
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 1: for my father's permission because we're both Southern. He's respectable. Um,

1262
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 1: I know that I could never give him a baby

1263
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 1: and that was too much and you just couldn't deal

1264
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: with that. Oh, this has been a bad split for

1265
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: both of us and we were really in love. How

1266
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 1: do I handle going forward? I never want to live

1267
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 1: through this again. So when I'm dating in the future,

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Speaker 1: do I say, Hi, I'm Megan. I can't carry your babies.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what it's appropriate to mention this,

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01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 1: but I would hate to connect with someone and then

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01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 1: it'd be a deal breaker, or then say it too

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01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 1: soon and scare them off. So please help? What do

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01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 1: I do? That was intense? Well, you know, Ben's really

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01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 1: good at handling questions like this. I, on the other hand,

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01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm like I don't know what to do. I'm so sad. Well,

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01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 1: first off, I'm so sorry about that. UM, you're definitely

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01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 1: not damaged goods, that's for sure. UM. I think that

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01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 1: if you're going forward and dating, UM, you know, obviously

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't mention it on the first date. But you

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01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 1: don't really talk about having children on the first date generally.

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01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:55,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you are connecting with someone

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01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: by the third or fourth time and you guys, you know,

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01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: I don't I imagine that that might come up and

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01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: at some point, and I don't think that there's I

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01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 1: think it's better to be honest um early on than

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01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 1: than hide that information, UM and then kind of dropped

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01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 1: on them after things get serious. But UM, I don't

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01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: think it's something that you should be ashamed of. M

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01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: I'm sure you've probably heard the suggestion, but I'm thinking

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01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:23,760
Speaker 1: maybe you should date guys a little bit older than you,

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01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: and then guys who already have kids. That would make

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01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:33,559
Speaker 1: it easier for sure. Good at this? Thanks practice? All right? Well, Megan,

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01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: we hope that you find someone who just loves and

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01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 1: cherishes you. You seem like a very sweet girl. This

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01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 1: one is from Rachel. She says my ex and I

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01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 1: have been broken up for nine months and recently started

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01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: seeing each other again. He is leaving on a trip

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01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 1: for five weeks and then moving to a different state.

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01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 1: So it just doesn't seem very realistic that we're going

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01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: to make this work. As much as we both want

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01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:00,640
Speaker 1: to make it work, the distance just does seem like

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01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: it's going to work for our relationship, and it seems

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01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 1: like it's not our time. Although I hate the whole

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01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: concept of timing, I would love to get your thoughts. Well,

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01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 1: that's pretty simple. Yeah, I think you answered your own question. Yeah,

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01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: I think that it's probably time to call this one quits. Yeah.

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01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: I mean I always feel like, if you broke up once,

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01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:21,880
Speaker 1: remind yourself why you broke up that one time, because

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01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: that reason, even though you're like kind of rekindling and

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01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 1: it's all exciting again, it's probably gonna come back up.

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01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: I agree. You know. Then that being said, there's a

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01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 1: whole bunch of couples who have split up and then

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01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:34,680
Speaker 1: they've lived to have happy, healthy Yeah. I think it

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01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 1: definitely can happen that you can reconnect with someone. Um,

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01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think knowing the reason why you guys

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Speaker 1: broke up the first time, and then if you want,

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01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: if you know, there's so many people out there, Like

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Speaker 1: I don't think that there's one person that's meant for you.

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01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 1: So I'm always of the opinion of, like, why make

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01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 1: it difficult on yourself, especially if you have some doubts

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01:09:56,120 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: about that person. I agree totally. Just keep reminding yourself

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Speaker 1: of that. Rachel. All right, Um, I want to do

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01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 1: a speed round of questions with Cianne before we leave.

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Speaker 1: What's your favorite food? Oh? I love sushi? What kind

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01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:17,679
Speaker 1: um yellow tail tuna with sauce? Yeah, I mean pokey

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01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 1: pokey bowls. I could have those like five days a week. Awesome. Yeah.

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01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 1: What was your favorite day on the show? My favorite date? Um?

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Speaker 1: Mulan rouge? Yeah? Were you fan of the movie? I've

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Speaker 1: never even seen the movie. What best soundtrack of all time?

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01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: I know, I mean I've heard songs from it, but

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01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:39,719
Speaker 1: I've never seen the movie. What is a surprising passion

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Speaker 1: of yours slash interest? Um? Well, I guess it's not

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01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:48,720
Speaker 1: surprised that surprising. But I'd love to travel and just

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01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:50,680
Speaker 1: want to keep doing that as much as possible, but

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Speaker 1: it's difficult with a full time job. So what's your

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Speaker 1: favorite place in the world. Um who, I haven't seen

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Speaker 1: all of the world, but um I let's see. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, so many good places. I recently went to

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01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 1: Thailand and that was beautiful, stunning. Um I love. I

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Speaker 1: studied brought in Italy, but I traveled all over. I

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01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 1: actually really liked Berlin, Germany a lot. It's a cool city. Cool.

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Speaker 1: What's your favorite movie? Um, I don't really have one.

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Speaker 1: What I know, I don't really have a favorite movie,

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01:11:24,040 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 1: but I always like as a little girl, remember just

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01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 1: like loving Titanic. I know how cliche that is, that's

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01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,559
Speaker 1: my favorite movie. Times like, it's such a good movie.

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01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 1: It's just makes you feel so many things, and I

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Speaker 1: love it. That's a perfect answer, just letting you know.

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01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:43,599
Speaker 1: I know in my soul that I saw my favorite

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01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 1: movie of all time when I was eight years old,

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01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 1: and I will never change. I will be a ninety

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01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: year old woman saying my I saw my favorite movie

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01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:52,840
Speaker 1: at eight. Yeah. I remember sitting in the theater and

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01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 1: I was just like you kind of don't know everything

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01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 1: that's happening, but I just knew there was a feeling

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01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 1: I got when I watched it. I loved it. I

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01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 1: know what the feeling is I'm kind of embarrassed to

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01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 1: say that, but it's true. There is any feeling that

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01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:06,640
Speaker 1: I get still from that movie that has never been replicated.

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Speaker 1: I agree. And what is your fair place to shop?

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, well, I love shopping. I love reformation free people.

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01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 1: I guess those are good. Yeah. Great, Well, Ceanne, It's

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01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:23,560
Speaker 1: been a pleasure. Thank you so much for joining me,

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01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 1: for having me. You've made this episode easy without Ben,

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01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: and we've loved all the inside scoop that you've brought.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, guys. We will be back next

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Speaker 1: week for the grand finale. Thank you to our guests

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Speaker 1: Crystal Bachelor Legend, Shan Lowe and Cenne Fleming. Thank you

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01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,720
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Speaker 1: promise you're gonna dramatically improve your life. Keep the emails

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Speaker 1: coming at Ben and Ashley at I Heart Media dot com.

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01:12:57,160 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: And Ben is back next week. Thank goodness us. I

1374
01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: know you guys are tired of just hearing my voice,

1375
01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: and um, we are going to break down the most

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01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: dramatic episode finale of Bachelor history. Until then, I've been

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01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,920
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