1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: What was your AOL instant messenger name? Do you remember it? 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: My closest friend at the time, her name was Tiffany Lindsay. 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 2: Shout out to her, and she gave me the nickname Teter, 4 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 2: and so my screen name back then was Teeter Totter 5 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 2: zero five. For the year that I graduated high school? 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 2: What was the obsession with the year that we graduated 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 2: high We were obsessed. I'm t T and I'm Zakiah 8 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 2: And this is Dope Labs. Welcome to Dope Labs, a 9 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: weekly podcast that mixes hardcore science with pop culture and 10 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 2: a healthy dose of friendship. We've gone from anonymous screen 11 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 2: names to streaming our lives in four K. Every gadget 12 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 2: from our phones to our refrigerators are online. 13 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: But do we really know what that means? No, we don't. 14 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: That's the problem, and I think that's exactly what this 15 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: lab is all about. 16 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: So let's start with what we do know. 17 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 2: What I know is we share almost everything online. And 18 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: when I say we, I mean the collective we Most 19 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 2: people that I know are putting a lot of their 20 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: lives on the Internet. I think the other thing we know, 21 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 2: and if you don't know, you are increasingly learning is 22 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 2: that these smart devices are always listening. I'll be the 23 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: first to say. Before I used to be like, who 24 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 2: has time to do extra manufacturing, Like nobody's including a 25 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: microphone and a device that's not marketed as having a 26 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 2: microphone or a speaker. But I'm not so sure about that, right. 27 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: And with that in mind, and knowing that the Internet 28 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 2: connects all of us, it also exposes us, you know, 29 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: it would become very vulnerable because of it. Yes, and 30 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: that's not even just what you share. That feels like 31 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: where you've been, like a physical history, location services from 32 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 2: your phone. Yeah, people know where you are. Somebody knows 33 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 2: where you are, somebody Oh yeah, but t T what. 34 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: Do we want to know? 35 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 2: I want to know how we went from dial up 36 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: innocence to total surveillance, because I mean, that's within our lifetime, Zee, 37 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 2: like to go from dial up internet to now it's 38 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 2: like pervasive. It's ubiquitous to have all of these like 39 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: location services and things listening to you, and your emails 40 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: are sending you emails of things that you searched on 41 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 2: the Internet, and. 42 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: It's just wild, like how did we get there? And 43 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: why did it happen so fast? 44 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 2: And now that we're there and we know that some 45 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 2: of these platforms are breaking our trusts and putting cookies 46 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 2: on our phone and tracking what you do. Why do 47 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: we still trust the platforms that are doing that? Why 48 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 2: do we still use them? And now it's starting to 49 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: shift to like it just being par for the core, 50 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: I guess. And so with that thinking about that, I'm like, 51 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: is privacy now just a. 52 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: Thing of the past? Like is it a nostalgic thing? 53 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, oh remember the good old days, like 54 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 2: when nobody could figure out where you lived by just 55 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 2: doing a simple Google search, or people couldn't find out 56 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: where you worked, Like people couldn't find pictures of you 57 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: unless you know, you put them out there, Like it's 58 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: just wild. And you're talking about privacy being nostalgic, girl, 59 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: what about fun on the internet? 60 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: Nostalgic? 61 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: The Internet is not fun no more. I don't like it. 62 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 2: It just feels everything is so mean, judgmental, like fake. 63 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: Everybody's just showing like the good stuff, Like I'm just like, 64 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, show me your messy bedside table. That's 65 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: my favorite thing to see. 66 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: Yep. To answer all of. 67 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 2: Our burning questions about the Internet, where it used to be, 68 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 2: how it got to how it is and what we 69 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: can do about it. We're talking to Bridget Time, host 70 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 2: of There Are No Girls on the Internet. She's a 71 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 2: digital activist, podcaster, and professional Internet explainer. You can find 72 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: her on Instagram at Bridget Marie in DC. 73 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 3: The Bridget. 74 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: We want to start out with reflecting just how much 75 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: the Internet has changed. It's gone from the scary thing 76 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: where your parents said don't talk to strangers to all 77 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: of us sharing everything. 78 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 3: Back in the. 79 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 4: Day, if you met on a dating app or an 80 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 4: online dating site, if there was a stigma to it. 81 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 4: I remember a woman in my school I met her 82 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: husband on an online dating like ooh scandal. And now 83 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 4: that's how the majority of people meet their partners. 84 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: Mm hm, that's how majority people meet are meeting friends. 85 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 2: These days, people are meeting their friends online and then 86 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: meeting up and saying, hey, I'm meeting irl in real life, 87 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: and it's just wild. I mean, I remember back in 88 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 2: the day putting your card information into anything online. It 89 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 2: was just like, might as well just broadcast it to 90 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: everybody in the world because it just didn't feel safe. 91 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: And now I'm like, if my card information is not 92 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 2: stored on my phone and I'm able to just tap 93 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 2: tap use my face by the thing I am not. 94 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 4: What is the point of living in a surveillance state 95 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 4: if I still have to by hand type in my 96 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 4: credit card information every single time. 97 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 2: There has to be perks. There has to be perks 98 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: to living in the surveillance state. I always say it. 99 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: Is I think we're all hostage to convenience. 100 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 2: Like I think convenience is what has eroded some of 101 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: the long arm that we had to keep us kind 102 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: of distant from the Internet. And it feels like convenience 103 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 2: is like the carrot that they dangled in Now we're 104 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: all just all in. Yeah, And I don't want to 105 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 2: act like I'm immune to it or above it, because 106 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: only recently that I start really doing a deep dive 107 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: into the ways that I have let the convenience of things. 108 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: Like Uber Eats, you know, things like. 109 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 4: Amazon really shape and rebuild my life in ways I 110 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 4: hadn't even ever really noticed or thought about. And I've 111 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 4: been trying to make intentional efforts to not just resist 112 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 4: that but just be more aware of it. But I 113 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 4: do think this grip that novelty and convenience has on 114 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 4: us is directly responsible to where we are when it 115 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 4: comes to our current online and social media landscape. 116 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 3: It really has us in a choke hold. 117 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 2: It's such a good point. I mean, I think the 118 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 2: amount of trust that we put into the Internet, the cloud, 119 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 2: all those things is really mind boggling, because I mean 120 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: that's why when people are like, oh, I don't want 121 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 2: them to take my picture here, because I'm like, hey, yeah, 122 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: they already have it. I hate to hate to break 123 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 2: the news too, they already have. They're like, oh you 124 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: don't you can opt out of those pictures at TSA. 125 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: Hey you have a driver's license. TSA has your photo, 126 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 2: whether it's a live photo with your hair up in 127 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: a ponytail on top of your head and crusting your 128 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 2: eyes or your license either or they have your photo. 129 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: So like we have to stop convincing ourselves that we 130 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 2: aren't living in a surveillance state. And so, I mean, 131 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 2: it just kind of is what it is. 132 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 4: I have these conversations with my uncles and cousins where 133 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: they're like, oh, don't do X y Z. That's how 134 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 4: they get you. And I'm like, well, I think they 135 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 4: have You're on social media. 136 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: I think they have you. 137 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 4: I don't think I think that ship has sailed. This 138 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 4: is sort of what I always preach on the show. 139 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 4: I completely am aligned with you that like they've got us. 140 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 4: But I think it also is easy to sort of 141 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 4: let that very true attitude be like, oh. 142 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 3: Well, then there's no need. 143 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 4: For digital security practices. It you have to find a 144 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 4: balance between kind of the reality that we live in 145 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 4: this surveillance state and not falling into like digital nihilisms, 146 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 4: like so it doesn't matter, there's no need to try 147 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 4: to be secure, there's no need for two vector authentication, 148 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 4: there's no need to take common sense you know, free 149 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 4: digital security practices actually right now. 150 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 3: But it is. It is a very weird balance. 151 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 4: And I just think you're so right that I would 152 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 4: never have thought that we and I'm including myself very 153 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 4: much in this, would give up so much for things 154 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 4: like convenience and novelty. 155 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 3: And I think the question we should be asking the 156 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: question of. 157 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 4: Is the convenience that we're getting back is it worth 158 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 4: those trade offs? 159 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 3: Because I think the answer is not always hard. 160 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: Yes, right. 161 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 2: I think this is so interesting because we had these 162 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 2: two women on our show. They talked about science denial, 163 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: and they talked about it not being that you blanket 164 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 2: deny science, but that you cafeteria style pick what you want. 165 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 2: I'm doing that with my digital privacy and trust. Like 166 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 2: t T and I have a difference. I'm gonna say 167 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 2: TT is present except on all those cookies. 168 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: Ooh, t T. I just don't want to wait. 169 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, I was like, if it's taking me from Instagram, 170 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, ooh, that bag looks so good, and I 171 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 2: hit open and then it's like, do you accept I'm like, yes, 172 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 2: except I want to see the bag. I'm not doing that. 173 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: But there's something recently that you posted, Bridget that made 174 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 2: me think about something I am doing. I'm against a 175 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: ring doorbell camera, but I have a camera in my 176 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 2: kitchen which points to like my back door. Now, I know, 177 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: TT shocking, right, Like I'm saying no to the cookies, 178 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 2: but that camera is connected to Wi Fi, you know. 179 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,479 Speaker 2: And I'm like, there's so many like people have refrigerators 180 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 2: and baby monitors and all these things that connect to 181 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 2: Wi Fi, and I am not in the position to 182 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 2: be protecting these devices and what they're connected to. And 183 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: why does my thumbstat at my house have a speaker 184 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 2: on it? I just found that on accident the other 185 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: day trying to connect my Apple TV to an output, 186 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: and I was like, you don't know what's going on. 187 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 3: Girl. 188 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 2: You have these devices in here, but you just talked 189 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 2: about Wendy on Real housewile Kiamic. Oh yeah, I want 190 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 2: you to give a some give our audience a rundown 191 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 2: of what's happening and how these devices can betray you. 192 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so thank you for even asking me 193 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: this question, because this is just such a cross section 194 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 2: of my specific interest. So, doctor Wendyosefo, she is one 195 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 2: of the stars the Real Housewives of Potomac, and I guess, 196 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: like if I were to classify her on like a 197 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 2: type on the show, she is educated. 198 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 3: She will never let you forget that she has four degrees. 199 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 3: She's a PhD. Like she's a smart cookie. 200 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 4: And her and her husband were both arrested because police 201 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 4: say they had staged a burglary in their home while 202 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 4: they were on vacation out of the country, and then 203 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 4: they said, oh, all of these luxury goods were stolen. 204 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 4: They filed those goods with their insurance. They were attempting to, 205 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 4: according to police, scam their various insurance companies almost for 206 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 4: a half a million dollars, so like a pretty you know, 207 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 4: this is. 208 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: A big chunk. 209 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 4: We're talking about felony level charges here. 210 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 3: And when I heard this, I was shook. 211 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys watched the show, but 212 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 4: of all the people probably across the Bravo universe, of 213 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 4: the shows I watched, I can't think of somebody that 214 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 4: I was least expecting this kind of news from. Then, 215 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 4: when there are a million other people, I would have thought, oh, well, 216 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 4: she probably she might go to jail, she might get arrested. 217 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 4: Wendy is not high on that list. So I poured 218 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 4: through the police report. 219 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 3: I was like, I need to know. I want some information. 220 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 4: And when I got to the point of the police 221 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 4: report where they said, oh, well, they had a ring 222 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 4: camera that was turned on that they were monitoring remotely 223 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 4: while they were on vacation in Jamaica, and that ring 224 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 4: camera showed Amazon delivery drivers coming up to their house 225 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 4: dropping off packages and leaving, but nobody entering. And further, 226 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 4: they had an ADYT security system that was also turned 227 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 4: on while they were on vacation, supposedly getting robbed, that 228 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 4: had motion detectors that did not log any motion from 229 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 4: within their home at the time when they said they 230 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 4: were being robbed. 231 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 3: So I Wendy's a smart. 232 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 4: Cookie, but I don't know that in our current sort 233 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 4: of surveillance state that she might have known. Oh, these 234 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 4: systems that I voluntarily put in my home aren't just 235 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 4: recording bad guys or suspicious characters whatever. They're recording me, 236 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 4: and you know, innocidential proven guilty. I don't know what 237 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 4: actually happened there. We'll see, but it just goes to 238 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 4: show that I don't think people really understand these are 239 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 4: surveillance devices, and oftentimes ring camera especially, they can share 240 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 4: information with police without a warrant and without your consent. 241 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 3: I believe ADT don't quote me in this. 242 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 4: I believe ADT will share information with police if there 243 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 4: is an act of investigation. So I don't think that 244 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 4: police need a warrant, But if the police ask, they're 245 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 4: not necessarily protecting your privacy. And I just think with 246 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 4: things like ring camera, I think there is an attitude 247 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 4: that you get the camera in your house so that 248 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 4: you surveil others, and you don't understand necessarily that like, well, 249 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 4: that also means you are the one being surveilled and 250 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 4: you brought this on yourself. 251 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 3: And so with Wendy, to me, it does kind of. 252 00:12:56,440 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 4: Seem like she paid to voluntarily put an OP in 253 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 4: her home, and if she was indeed doing scams and crimes, 254 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 4: might not be the best thing to do. And I 255 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 4: just don't But I think it illustrates that we're not 256 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 4: necessarily thinking about technology like this in that way, Like 257 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 4: when you buy it, you think this is for me 258 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 4: to surveil others. Certainly I will not be the surveiled, 259 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 4: And yeah, in a surveillance siled. 260 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 2: I could say the same thing for every device that 261 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 2: we have, like I mean even your location services on 262 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: your phone, that data is being collected. That's the reason 263 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 2: why when someone goes missing, they're like find their cell phone, 264 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 2: which towers isn't pinging off of and things like that. 265 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 2: So if every device is collecting data, who is that 266 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 2: data really for the company or law enforcement, or for 267 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 2: us or all three? 268 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 4: And it goes back to what you were saying about 269 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 4: your the various items that you have in your home. 270 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 4: I think people don't realize how hard it is to 271 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 4: find common household electronics that do not have some sort 272 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,439 Speaker 4: of recording device. In them, and you know your fridge, 273 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 4: your ice maker, your toaster, like the way that everything 274 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 4: is smart now. I recently wanted to buy fitness trackers 275 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 4: and I had to really do a lot of research 276 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 4: to find one that was quote dumb enough for me, 277 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 4: because yeah, I want to log my steps and get 278 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 4: some information about my sleep. I don't want my location 279 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 4: being tracked everywhere. I don't want my menstrual cycles being 280 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 4: information at Amazon collects about me. Some of this stuff 281 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 4: is intimate, and I actually don't really consent. There's actually 282 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 4: a really great gift guide that Mozilla Foundation put out 283 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 4: called the Privacy Not Included Guide, where you can look 284 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 4: at different consumer tech and say, like, okay, which one 285 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 4: is surveilling me the most and which one is revealing 286 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 4: me the least, just so that you can make informed 287 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 4: decisions about how the stuff fits in with your life. 288 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 2: I use AT and T and I think it really 289 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 2: clicked for me. When there's a thing you can log 290 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: in and see how many devices are trying to connect 291 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: to the WiFi. 292 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: I was like, what are the thirty seven items? What 293 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 1: are they? 294 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 3: What are they? It is that? 295 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: Man? It was blowing my mind. 296 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: You got people in there it's me and the devices. 297 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: And I was like, you have to turn this stuff off. 298 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: Another thing that I have a feeling about. And I'm like, 299 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 2: bridget tell me if I'm tripping. Sometimes I turn off 300 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 2: Wi Fi while I'm out, and same thing for Bluetooth, 301 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 2: and then i feel like I look again and the 302 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: WiFi is back on, and I'm like, I know, and 303 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like I have to actively monitor 304 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 2: my device to keep myself safe. 305 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Am I making that up? Or is that nothing? 306 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 4: I think our devices will default to those kinds of settings, 307 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 4: and even if you tell it, hey, I don't really 308 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 4: want this, it will always go back to that default 309 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 4: you're not trip. And I actually just learned this recently. 310 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 4: It's gonna be a year or two ago. I was 311 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 4: reading something where someone said, oh, you shouldn't connect to 312 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 4: public Wi Fi if you go to an airport or something. 313 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 3: Because that's that's how they get you. And I said, oh, 314 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 3: that's not true. That's just a lie. I looked into it. 315 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 3: It's not it's not it's not a lie. 316 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 2: Wow, I use a personal hotspot. I was trying to 317 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 2: trust a Delta lounge and I said, I don't know. 318 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 2: I don't know the way they're trying to treat me 319 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: with these ticket categories. They can't be trusted anymore either. 320 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: But those those snacks are. 321 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 3: Very fa Yeah. 322 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 4: I do a lot of personal hotspotting too, because there 323 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 4: are these things that you think of as commonplace or 324 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 4: that you think of as well. They wouldn't be offering 325 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 4: this amenity if it was if there was a risk 326 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 4: to me. And that's not always true, but even that 327 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 4: line of thinking, I think. 328 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 3: Exposes how easy it is to make. 329 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 4: Decisions that you don't you don't even really think about it, 330 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 4: where you're trading on these risks and benefits to you. 331 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 4: And yeah, I think just it behooves us to have 332 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 4: more intentional conversations about these things as as more of 333 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 4: our devices become smart and Wi Fi enabled. 334 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, right right, you had a smart toilet, is gonna 335 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 2: be telling all your poos? 336 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 1: Well, she was not happy last night. 337 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 2: But you've talked about what it's like to be a 338 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: black woman who lives online, So we talked about surveillance 339 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 2: and so adding that additional layer of being a black woman. 340 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 2: What kind of risks do you feel like comes with 341 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 2: that kind of Oh my. 342 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 4: Gosh, I mean, if you would have asked me this 343 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 4: question maybe two years ago, I would have had a 344 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 4: lot to say. 345 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 3: Right, I would have said, Oh, it's you know, the. 346 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 4: Idea of being visible online, making your career online, being 347 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 4: somebody who shows up on the internet as a black 348 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 4: woman with opinions, with things to say. 349 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 3: You know, it can be tough but also can be good. 350 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 4: You know, there's community there, there's joy there, there is 351 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:55,360 Speaker 4: resistance there. There is so much connection there. But it's 352 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 4: a double edged sword where there's also a tax. There's 353 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 4: also you know, very disingenuous people where no matter what 354 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 4: you say, there's gonna be somebody waiting in the wings 355 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 4: to take it out of context. That is what I 356 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 4: would have said probably two years ago. Today in twenty 357 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 4: twenty five, if I'm being honest, I barely show up 358 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 4: online anymore. 359 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 3: I just think that it's I don't know. I don't 360 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 3: want to sound. 361 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,360 Speaker 4: Like a like a doom and gloomer, because I love 362 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 4: the Internet and I'm forever and optimist about technology and 363 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 4: the Internet and all of those things. Those things are 364 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 4: so important to me. But I think it started when 365 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 4: Elon Musk bought Twitter and I was just sort of 366 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 4: really mourning the loss of that platform, because that was 367 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 4: an important platform for me. 368 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 3: If you were a part of og Black Twitter. 369 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 4: You remember what it felt like to be there and 370 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 4: like the genuine joy and connection that was to be 371 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 4: found there. I was like, Oh, I know it's gonna 372 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 4: be trash, but let me just stick around and see 373 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 4: what this platform is like. And it was just it 374 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 4: felt like day by day, little by little being chipped away. 375 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 4: And it wasn't just the over the top races and 376 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 4: the amplification of. 377 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 3: Conspiracy theories and all of that. 378 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 4: It was a lot of that, but also it felt 379 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 4: like wading through spam much more often. And this has 380 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 4: got to say that the early days of Twitter were great, 381 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 4: because I had a lot of problems with those days 382 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 4: as well. But after a while I just thought, what 383 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 4: am I getting out of this? Like it is not 384 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 4: bringing me any kind of joy to sign on here 385 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 4: day after day. And I do think that the decisions 386 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 4: that Elon Musk made about Twitter, I think for verberated 387 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 4: across a lot of social media platforms, and so I 388 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 4: think it wasn't just Twitter. I think a lot of 389 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 4: platforms where I used to spend a lot of time 390 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 4: became a lot less pleasant and a lot less. I 391 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 4: guess worth it for me to show up. And so yeah, 392 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 4: these days, I hate to say it, I am not 393 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 4: really showing up online a ton because there's not There's 394 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 4: just not a lot of places that feel like genuine 395 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 4: connection and joy anymore. I don't know where do you 396 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:57,679 Speaker 4: all fall on this. 397 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 3: I'm curious. 398 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 2: I agree with you, like so, I think one of 399 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 2: the things that's really hard is I have those same sentiments. 400 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 2: But like, even for us, we don't show up with 401 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 2: a video podcast right, we are doing audio only. We 402 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 2: don't do as much engagement as we used to because 403 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 2: you get the trolls like I love the potential like you, 404 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 2: I'm always like, oh, it could be so wonderful. 405 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 1: We could do a live we could have these things. 406 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 2: We could talk to you know, our friends, our dope 407 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 2: labs friends, we could do all these things. I'm like, 408 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 2: I don't know how much more fallen off on the 409 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 2: internet platforms I can take. 410 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: When Google Reader died, I was sick. 411 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: Okay, then there was then there was Twitter, and then 412 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:38,919 Speaker 2: I tried to get on SPIL. 413 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if you tried spill. I did try it. 414 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: I couldn't really find my my group there. I did 415 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 2: find some Pokemon players there, which is also an op. 416 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 2: You should not be playing Pokemon Go. It's so monitoring 417 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 2: your location and do it. I had to stop playing that. 418 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 2: But you need all that for that charge yard I do, 419 00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 2: and so I had to give I had to give 420 00:20:58,680 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: it up. 421 00:20:58,880 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: I had to quit Cult Turkey. 422 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 2: But I also found like even on Instagram, the engagement 423 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 2: was just different and it felt like you had to 424 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 2: be like selling something all the time and not. 425 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: Just putting something super state together. 426 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't even I just found 427 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 2: myself in the stories having a good old time. And 428 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 2: even after a while that became like and so I 429 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 2: feel like I kind of check in a little bit 430 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 2: and then I'm out of their threads. It was good 431 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: at first, Now it's going the way of Twitter with 432 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 2: people reposting the same thing over and over again. And 433 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 2: then even Pinterest, I was like, at least I can 434 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,640 Speaker 2: look at pretty pictures. Now it's all ads and all 435 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 2: ai as well. Yes, and so I'm like, what's left? 436 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 2: I guess substack, I just keep reading people substancs. I 437 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 2: don't know, yes, honestly, like that's how I feel too. 438 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 2: I was just talking to one of my sisters about this. Yesterday, 439 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: I was like Instagram like all the same feelings about Twitter. 440 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 2: Like once Twitter changed, I was like, this is no 441 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 2: longer a place for me. So I just I don't 442 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 2: even bother Instagram. It's to a point where AI where 443 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 2: I'm I feel like I'm an old Auntie where I'm like, Wow, 444 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: this is amazing. And then my nephew who's eight, is 445 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: like Auntie TT that's AI, and I'm like. 446 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 3: Oh, are you sure? 447 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm never really sure, Like the AI is getting so 448 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 2: good that I really am falling victim to and I'm 449 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 2: just like this isn't fun, Like I want to see 450 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:27,439 Speaker 2: like real stuff, And it's just I agree with Zakia, 451 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 2: where it's like the more you put on there, the 452 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 2: more it's like they're just people who are so emboldened 453 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 2: by the anonymity of social media that it kind of 454 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 2: just like tainted the experience a lot. Where it's just 455 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 2: like if you make an account that's purely just theatroll, 456 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 2: like come on, like it's just it's just makes the 457 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: whole experience just feel different. Where it's like now I'm overthinking. 458 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 2: Now I'm like, okay, should I put this? What if 459 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 2: somebody says this, and I don't want to feel like that, 460 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 2: and especially when it's something that's you know, tied to 461 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,919 Speaker 2: something that I feel like is way bigger than me, 462 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 2: like Dope Labs and the keys involved. I'm like, I 463 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 2: really have to think about it because we're attached to 464 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: this thing, and so we're trying to keep this a 465 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 2: safe space for not just us, Like I'm thinking about 466 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 2: the other people who really enjoy our show. I don't 467 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 2: want them to be subject to, you know, all these 468 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 2: different things, and so, you know, but I also feel 469 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 2: like if I do remove myself too much, then the 470 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 2: trolls are right, you know what I mean. Like, I 471 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 2: feel like we got to keep showing up, and it's 472 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: just a matter of figuring out ways that we can 473 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 2: show up in a way that also we can practice 474 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: some self preservation so that we can find the spaces 475 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 2: where you know, we fit. And it's not like, oh, 476 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 2: I'm just throwing myself to the wolves and things like that, 477 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 478 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 4: This is exactly the kind of balance I'm trying to find. 479 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 4: And I think to your point about not wanting to 480 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 4: let the trolls and bad actors and all those folks 481 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 4: and voices win. People love talking about free speech on 482 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 4: social media platforms, but when someone stops showing up and 483 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 4: stops using their voice and really just goes quiet on 484 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,679 Speaker 4: these platforms because of these other voices, that is. 485 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 3: Also a free speech issue. 486 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,919 Speaker 4: When you feel like you can't use these platforms effectively 487 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 4: or equitably to build a platform for yourself or put 488 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 4: your voice out there, or you know, engage with your 489 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 4: community or whatever you're trying to do. 490 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 3: That is also a free speech issue. 491 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 4: But one kind of saving grace that I have really 492 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 4: been kind of reconnecting with lately against the backdrop of 493 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 4: all of this, that we all have in common is 494 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 4: the form of audio. I have said spicy stuff on 495 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 4: the podcast, stuff that if I put it in a 496 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,400 Speaker 4: tweet or a thread post, I would have to be 497 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 4: back and forth all day. I think there is something 498 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 4: about long form audio content where if somebody wants to 499 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 4: take my words out of content text or misconstrue them, 500 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 4: or you know they're committed to misunderstanding me, they have 501 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 4: to listen to an hour long podcast to do that. 502 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 3: The barrier is quite high. So you gotta you gotta 503 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 3: really want to do. 504 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: That to me. 505 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 4: You got to really, I was just talking to you 506 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 4: a friend of mine that makes podcasts, and his podcast 507 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 4: is quite big, it's one of the biggest podcasts. 508 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: In the world. 509 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 4: And he said that, you know, he doesn't weirdly, he 510 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 4: doesn't really get a lot of trolls and stuff because. 511 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 3: They're not out here doing short form. 512 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 4: They're not on Twitter really or blue Sky really, they're 513 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 4: not in that sort of live streamer debate kind of circle. 514 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 3: And that. 515 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, audio can be kind of protective, and I think 516 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 4: it's because it's a medium that is so you can 517 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 4: be authentic there. You can explain what you need to 518 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 4: say in your own words. One of my favorite things 519 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 4: about listening to audio content is listening to somebody work 520 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 4: their way or think their way through a concept they 521 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 4: haven't fully. 522 00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 1: Flushed out yet. 523 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 3: You get to hear the wheels turning in real time. 524 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 4: I think that's a medium that lends itself to thoughtfulness 525 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 4: in a against a media backdrop where I feel like 526 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 4: so much of it is going the other way. Short 527 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 4: form videos, you know, AI slop that just feeds into 528 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 4: the worst stereotypes and whatever. Like, Yeah, against that backdrop, 529 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 4: I think audio is really where I'm finding a lot. 530 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 3: Of my comfort. 531 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's definitely been. I mean it was 532 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 2: the gateway for me and t T, and I think 533 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 2: is where we feel like best and safest. 534 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: And I'm like, make a real I don't know every 535 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 1: now and. 536 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 2: Every now and then we get one together and TT 537 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 2: gets on me because I won't cross post it to 538 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 2: Dope Labs because. 539 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, it might not be right. 540 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 3: I don't want to bring dope laus into this. 541 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 542 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 4: I love that you're you've both expressed that now that 543 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 4: this is kind of lovely. 544 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 3: You both expressed, oh, well. 545 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 4: I want to be accountable to Dope Labs and I 546 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 4: want to be accountable to my co host. And that's 547 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 4: a beautiful thing that you're both kind of like really 548 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 4: feel a responsibility both to your audience that you have 549 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 4: built and to each other as partners in this. 550 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 3: That is really beautiful. 551 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 2: Yes, because dope Blabs can go away. That is my 552 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 2: friend in real life and I would not trade her 553 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 2: for anything, and so anything that I feel like would 554 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 2: be a bad look for her, I'm like, nah, not 555 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 2: doing it. 556 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 3: Now. 557 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 2: I have another question for you, Bridget, because you've talked 558 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 2: a little bit about like we've talked about audio being 559 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 2: this kind of protective space. Some people I've seen talking 560 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 2: about this, So I've seen people talk about building your 561 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 2: own email list and not really relying on these platforms. 562 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: TT and I sometimes talk about it like the democratization 563 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 2: of media, like it's neutral and it's open and everybody 564 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:57,119 Speaker 2: can have access. But I think that's like just the 565 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,120 Speaker 2: base layer when you paint the picture. I think there 566 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 2: are so many other layers to this, and I'm curious about, 567 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,199 Speaker 2: like what would it look like to clean up the 568 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 2: Internet or to make it better? Like, and I know 569 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 2: that's a big question, but like, what are some of 570 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 2: the you think the first steps. 571 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 4: Oh, I think one of the first steps is that 572 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 4: Mark Zuckerberg has to resign. No, I'm kidding, uh, but 573 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 4: you know, I really think the first step has to 574 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 4: be building an entire I mean this is no, this 575 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 4: is a tall order, but we really need a digital 576 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 4: media ecosystem that has things like care and empathy at 577 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 4: the center instead of things like scale and growth at 578 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 4: all costs. I think that every experience that you have 579 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 4: online where you're like, oh, this used to be a 580 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 4: fun you know, you used to be able to read 581 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 4: articles on your phone and then you could click on 582 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 4: a link and you didn't have to worry that so 583 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 4: many things were gonna pop up that it was gonna 584 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 4: you just was you couldn't even read the article. It 585 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 4: didn't used to always be like that. There there's some 586 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 4: sites were like that, but not all. Every time that 587 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 4: you have an experience online that seems worse than the 588 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 4: way it used to be back in the day, somebody 589 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 4: made a decision to prioritize money or growth or something 590 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 4: like that over the experience of care or thoughtfulness or 591 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 4: something else. And so I think really getting back to 592 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 4: what it is that we are designing our tech landscape 593 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 4: for and around I think is key. I also would 594 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 4: like to see, and this is something that we don't 595 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 4: have to wait to get systemic change on. I think 596 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 4: that everybody, everybody listening, all of us, could really use 597 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 4: rethinking our relationship with technology, right. I think for so 598 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 4: long we have bought into this lie that says, oh, 599 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 4: the Elon Musks and the Mark Zuckerbergs of the world, 600 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 4: they are special boy geniuses that have it all figured 601 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 4: out in a way that none of us could ever 602 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 4: hope to And whatever future they are designing is going 603 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 4: to be a good version of the future and we 604 00:29:58,520 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 4: just gotta, you know. 605 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 3: Get on board with it. 606 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 4: No, no, but you were Elon Musk is not smarter 607 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 4: than anybody listening to this podcast. 608 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 3: That can assure you with that, right, And so I 609 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:12,239 Speaker 3: think exactly no me framing. 610 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 4: This idea that that they just get to make all 611 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 4: the decisions and have all the power and we have 612 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 4: no say because you're an expert in your experience, the 613 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 4: way that you feel about the technology in your life 614 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 4: that you've paid for, that that that impacts so much 615 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 4: of our day to day that is valid and that's real. 616 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 4: And you know, I think we have to make some 617 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 4: shifts that shift that balance of power back to us, 618 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 4: because none of these people would even have jobs if 619 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 4: not for us, None of these people, they would be 620 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,719 Speaker 4: designing technology for nobody if not for us. 621 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 3: And so I really want all of. 622 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 4: Us to sort of take our power back a little bit, 623 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 4: and remember we do have some power and some agency 624 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 4: in this dynamic. It doesn't have to just be all 625 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 4: them taking from us. 626 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I think that that's such a great point, and 627 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 2: I think that was something that we talked about when 628 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 2: you had me on your show. There are no girls 629 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 2: on the internet was that you know, it's important for 630 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 2: us to understand and this technology like AI and things 631 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 2: like that, so that we can have the power because 632 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 2: the more that we're just like no, no, no, I'm 633 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 2: not going to engage. You can choose to engage in 634 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 2: different ways. But it is very important to know how 635 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,959 Speaker 2: these things work, so you because you'll be able to 636 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 2: see the ways that people are trying to control or 637 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 2: how you know, these entities are trying to control or 638 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 2: take control and you know, shape things for their own 639 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 2: financial benefit. And so it's like power to the people, 640 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 2: all power to the people. You need to know how 641 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: these things work. And so all of this makes me 642 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 2: think of the like the next generation of Internet users. 643 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 2: How do you think we should be socializing the next 644 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 2: generation when it comes to the Internet, like how they 645 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 2: would use the Internet as a tool in their lives. 646 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 4: So I really appreciate this question, and I just want 647 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 4: to I appreciate what you all are doing, especially for 648 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 4: people who are so often let out of conversations about 649 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 4: tech that it's I think if you hooves us all 650 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 4: to demystify this to you know, not be afraid of it, 651 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 4: even if you're somebody who is a little bit of 652 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 4: a technophobe, or you're not down with certain kinds of technology. 653 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 4: I want all of our people to be comfortable with it, 654 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 4: to understand it, to know how to use it, even 655 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 4: if they're like, I don't like this technology. I think 656 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 4: that it's so easy to just put your head in 657 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 4: the sand and say, therefore, I don't need to know 658 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 4: anything about it. 659 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 3: And I think that is a mistake. 660 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 4: And so I'm so grateful for your voices in doing 661 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 4: the work of correcting that mistake for us. But when 662 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 4: it comes to the next generation, this might sound like 663 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 4: Pollyanna media literacy. 664 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 3: I really I worry about. 665 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 4: This so deeply, and hey, I'm not a young person, 666 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 4: and I struggle with it. I said, all my friends 667 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 4: this video of what I thought was bunnies jumping on 668 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 4: a trampoline, and they all have to be like, honey, 669 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 4: it's AI. And I realized, I said, oh, I think 670 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 4: I have a blind spot when it comes to cute 671 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 4: animal videos that are AI. 672 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 3: It's like, I want to believe so badly. 673 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,479 Speaker 4: So I am not immune to this, but I do 674 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 4: think I am of the generation that was really taught 675 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 4: to not trust what you. 676 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 3: Saw online, and I think that those skills. 677 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 4: They're not always perfect, but I think that being socialized 678 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 4: that way on the Internet has been tremendously helpful. That 679 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 4: when I see something that makes my heart beat faster 680 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 4: or gives me a quick, you know, feeling of you know, 681 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 4: anger or outrage, I've kind of trained myself to be like, 682 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 4: let's read the whole article first of all. Let's yes, 683 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 4: if I don't recognize the sources, throw it into Google. 684 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 3: Let's you know, let's take a minute. 685 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 4: Don't just rage share because it made my heart beat 686 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 4: a little bit faster. And I worry that we are 687 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 4: sort of losing that when it comes to our current 688 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 4: Internet experience. And I don't think that that I think 689 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 4: that that means we were leaving behind a less thoughtful 690 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,960 Speaker 4: Internet landscape for the next generation when we're all just 691 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 4: so susceptible to the trigger of algorithms that are financially 692 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 4: incentivized to keep us locked into these these very emotional 693 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 4: triggering loops. 694 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 695 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, I think I've talked about it on the 696 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 2: show TT Knows It. 697 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:15,359 Speaker 1: We talk about it. 698 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 2: This is something I am constantly practicing with my parents, 699 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 2: with my mom, who's a little bit more on the 700 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 2: Internet than my dad, and I think it's so important 701 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 2: for T T and I AM, for experts like you 702 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 2: to share like, hey, there's no level you reach where 703 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 2: nothing infiltrates, like where nothing gets through and you just 704 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 2: are you know, little Kim dodging everything the Internet is 705 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 2: throwing at you. I think that doesn't happen, and I 706 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 2: think it's unrealistic to think it happens. But it does 707 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 2: require this constant vigilance that because we've gotten so comfortable 708 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:53,400 Speaker 2: with convenience and the perception of safety and novelty that 709 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 2: I think we are like I don't want to do. 710 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 1: This other thing. 711 00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:00,760 Speaker 4: Yes, and it does suck because we deserve it landscape 712 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 4: where you were not constantly being tricked and you don't 713 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 4: have to you have your card up all the time. 714 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 3: There are times where. 715 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 4: I've just woken up, I'm pre morning coffee sip, my 716 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 4: contact lenses are not even in yet, and I'm scrolling 717 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 4: social media and I shouldn't have to have my thinking 718 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 4: cap on twenty four seven just to engage and wad 719 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 4: through a media landscape. So we deserve a different media landscape, 720 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 4: but unfortunately we don't have that. You do sort of 721 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,319 Speaker 4: have to, you know, have your thinking cap on even 722 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 4: when you're just casually scrolling. 723 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,359 Speaker 3: And I know we're talking a lot about like. 724 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 4: Manipulated content or AI generated content, but also I think 725 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 4: for me, it's about knowing your triggers, and for me, 726 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 4: my triggers are it is AI generated animal videos, but 727 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:50,280 Speaker 4: it's also not AI generated content that is an inflammatory. 728 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 4: I used to be I used to be very invested 729 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,759 Speaker 4: in real content that involved real people and sometimes real 730 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 4: sometimes not that would just get me angry. And then 731 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 4: one day I said, why, you know, just just because 732 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 4: things that relate to like gender wars stuff, Yes, I 733 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 4: could be locked in all day, And one day I 734 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 4: just said, why, Like, what is this getting me? Getting 735 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 4: me riled up about a situation that might even be 736 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 4: a skit that somebody has made to get engagement, Like, 737 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 4: I don't I need to be locked into. 738 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 3: This all the time. I don't need to be participating 739 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 3: into this. 740 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 4: And so I say that to say people should really 741 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,439 Speaker 4: take the time to understand their triggers and their own 742 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 4: tension points we all have them, and then be a 743 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,880 Speaker 4: little intentional about how you let that kind of content 744 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,240 Speaker 4: show up in your digital diet. 745 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 2: Right, I'm the exact same way where it's just like 746 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 2: rage bait. No way, I'm not engaging like all of 747 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 2: the like these these people that are like, oh, we're 748 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 2: gonna put these two people at a table who have 749 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 2: very different opinions. I'm like, these aren't different opinions. You 750 00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 2: have someone who is a racist. A second, this as 751 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: xenophobe talking to someone who is educated, and we should 752 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 2: not be intellectualizing someone who is just a racist, full stop. 753 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,919 Speaker 2: And then the other part that I reviews to ingest 754 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 2: is like these relationships shows something like they have really 755 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 2: like Love is Blind. I'm like, now I know you 756 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,200 Speaker 2: all are doing this stuff on purpose because there was 757 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,399 Speaker 2: uh or it Love is Blind married at first sight. 758 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,240 Speaker 2: Like I felt like traumatized by some of these seasons 759 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 2: because the men that were on these seasons were predatory 760 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 2: and misogynists and all these things like that, and I 761 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,640 Speaker 2: was just like my blood pressure by the end of 762 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 2: each episode was so high. I was like, this is 763 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 2: actually like ruining me. I can't engage with these anymore. 764 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,320 Speaker 2: And I'm like I see on social media like clips 765 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,839 Speaker 2: going around from like the most recent Love is Blind, 766 00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 2: and I'm like, yeah, they're absolutely doing this on purpose. 767 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 2: Now I feel like you all are getting these unstable 768 00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:02,399 Speaker 2: people on this show to create good clips, and you're 769 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 2: getting the clips you want, but it's to the detriment usually. 770 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 1: Of black and brown women. 771 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 2: I don't think that they would purposely do that to 772 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,600 Speaker 2: a white woman. And it's I feel like it's always 773 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 2: a black woman who is suffering at the hands of 774 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,720 Speaker 2: a black man on these shows and treating her poorly 775 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 2: and having all of these like really disgusting mentalities, and 776 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 2: I'm just like, no more. 777 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 3: No more, not. We don't have to sign up for that. 778 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 3: We don't. 779 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 4: We don't have to, we don't, and their due. I 780 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 4: could not agree with everything that you laid out. And 781 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 4: they're doing it for money because it is affected, yes, 782 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 4: and they will. They will keep doing it as long 783 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 4: as we can. If we keep rewarding them with our 784 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 4: eyeballs and our ear holes, they're gonna keep doing it, 785 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,479 Speaker 4: and so we need to break that loop by retraining them. 786 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 3: I don't want to see this. I don't want you 787 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 3: to make money from this. 788 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 4: They're only gonna stop when it stops being financially incentivized 789 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 4: for them to do it, and that kind of starts 790 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 4: on us. I really had a healthy relationship with a 791 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 4: lot of online spaces and doing a little bit of 792 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 4: work of being like, yeah, I need to just divest 793 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,800 Speaker 4: from this. It's only making me upset. There's I'm training 794 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 4: my algorithms and I want to engage with content like this. 795 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,480 Speaker 4: We already know that these algorithms are more likely to 796 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 4: show us stuff that makes. 797 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,880 Speaker 3: Us angry and have big emotional reactions. 798 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 4: I have people in my life to make me angry 799 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 4: and give me big emotional reactions. Okaying Mark Zuckerberg to do, 800 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 4: but I don't even know him. We were talking about 801 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 4: the future generation one of my nephews recently. He was 802 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 4: just taking these little digs and I said, hey, all right, 803 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:36,480 Speaker 4: what's wrong with everybody? 804 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:36,759 Speaker 3: Enough? 805 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,919 Speaker 2: He was like, ah, we rage baited her. And I 806 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 2: was like, oh, first of all, I'm not even mad yet. 807 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 2: You haven't even seen me mad. But I also was like, 808 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 2: is this what the kids are going for? 809 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 3: You know? 810 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,240 Speaker 1: Like, is this the desire? 811 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,920 Speaker 2: Because we're rewarding the anger in the outrage because they 812 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 2: want to see that. And I'm like, how do we 813 00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:58,600 Speaker 2: correct these things? 814 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 4: But that's what I mean it Depending on your nephew's age, 815 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 4: that's that could be what he is seeing. I bet 816 00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 4: I bet content like that probably is a part of 817 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,800 Speaker 4: his media diet. I remember seeing some video of a 818 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,360 Speaker 4: social studies teacher and she was talking to her class, 819 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 4: and she was trying to explain to her class that 820 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 4: enslaved black people during slavery did not get paid. 821 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 3: And the kids are like, what are you talking about? 822 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:21,840 Speaker 3: Day got paid? 823 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 4: And one of the kids, so none of the kids 824 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,160 Speaker 4: believe her, which is already a problem, but one of 825 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 4: the more vocal kids is like, debate me, debate me 826 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 4: about it. And I really thought, this is not Yeah, 827 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:37,839 Speaker 4: this is what I think young people are internalizing as 828 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 4: discourse is debating and whether or not you can make 829 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 4: somebody flustered or make somebody have an emotional reaction, whether 830 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 4: or not the objective fact that enslaved black people were 831 00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 4: not paid is correct or not is irrelevant. If you 832 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 4: feel like you can, you know, hit the broad strokes 833 00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 4: of what winning a debate about it looks like. 834 00:40:59,000 --> 00:40:59,760 Speaker 3: And I think. 835 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 4: That's really a lingering thought of the culture that I'm 836 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 4: very concerned about, Like think about you were talking t 837 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 4: about these videos where it's like we put one reasonable 838 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 4: person at a table and surrounded or with moras, we're 839 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:16,439 Speaker 4: gonna scream at her for an hour. 840 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 3: Yes, that is what passes for discourse these days. 841 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 4: And I really think, you know, when we talk about 842 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 4: things like media literacy and anti inellectualism, the way the 843 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 4: Internet has amplified a completely wrong version of what discourse 844 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 4: and debate and knowledge and being learned and being. 845 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 3: Curious looks like I think is a real problem. 846 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,880 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, and I think part of it is because 847 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 2: we are now highlighting contrarians as intellectuals when they're not. 848 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, just because you're saying the opposite of what 849 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 2: everybody else is saying, does not mean you're an intellectual. 850 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 2: Like you have not put any real thought into that. 851 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 2: You just saying no, and that's not how that works. 852 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,279 Speaker 2: That does not make an intellectual. I need you to 853 00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,719 Speaker 2: come with facts, figures, and you know, thing to stand on, 854 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,920 Speaker 2: not just I want to be different. It's like, okay, 855 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 2: we get it. You so different, But that's not an intellectual. 856 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 1: New position to take. It's just being amplified exactly exactly. 857 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 2: Bridget I think you've given us a lot to think about, 858 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,800 Speaker 2: and we want to thank you for doing that because 859 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,319 Speaker 2: you've helped us move through like how we got to 860 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,799 Speaker 2: where we are now. On the Internet, what the real 861 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:27,360 Speaker 2: threats are, and a reminder that the Internet isn't shaped 862 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 2: without us. We with the pressure of what we choose 863 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 2: to engage, what we choose to give our attention, we 864 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 2: are able to push back and say no, we don't 865 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 2: want this or we don't want it this way. And 866 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 2: so I think you've shared quite a bit for us, 867 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 2: and I want to know if there are any parting 868 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 2: thoughts you'd like to share with our audience. So, first 869 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 2: of all, it has been a blast you all this 870 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 2: show and the platform that you've built, and it's so 871 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 2: important and so valuable and also so freaking fun and accessible, 872 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,799 Speaker 2: and I'm just happy to be here. I'm just very 873 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 2: interested in talking about the inner of the Internet and 874 00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,640 Speaker 2: technology and social media and identity, particularly the ways that 875 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,840 Speaker 2: marginalized people, people who are so often left out of 876 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 2: the conversation do show up in very real ways and 877 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 2: technology and online the sort of the bad and the good, 878 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 2: the you. 879 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 4: Know, the whole, the whole you know shebang of what 880 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,320 Speaker 4: that looks like. I host a few podcasts. One is 881 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 4: called There Are No Girls on the Internet. I also 882 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 4: host Mozilla Foundation's podcast about ethics and AI called IRL Yeah, 883 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 4: I'm just really interested in how we show up online. 884 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:32,880 Speaker 3: And I would say if there's one. 885 00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:37,319 Speaker 4: Parting word, it's that it matters how and whether we 886 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:38,560 Speaker 4: are able to show up online. 887 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 3: I love the Internet. 888 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 4: The Internet is so important to me, not just because 889 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 4: it's where I grew up and where I spend a 890 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 4: lot of my time, but because I think it is 891 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 4: a indicator of the health and well being of so 892 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 4: many things, of our democracy, of our civic life, our 893 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,279 Speaker 4: civic world. And so if everybody is not able to 894 00:43:56,320 --> 00:44:00,320 Speaker 4: show up equitably on our online platforms and tech landscape, 895 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:04,400 Speaker 4: we will never have the equitable representative democracy that we 896 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 4: all deserve. And so care about the internet. Be a 897 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,400 Speaker 4: good steward of the Internet. 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