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Speaker 1: Second D Update. It's always annoying when you're starting to
Speaker 1: date somebody new and then one of your ex's approaches
Speaker 1: them and starts telling them all kinds of lies about you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's like, I know, I've had that
Speaker 1: happen to me a few times where I've been dating
Speaker 1: somebody new and then my ex well approach to them
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, you're dating Jewel. He's such a
Speaker 1: thoughtful and good lover. That is obviously a lie. And
Speaker 1: that's kind of what happened to Chris, who's on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second Date update today. One of his
Speaker 1: exes tried to hate on him, and that's why he
Speaker 1: thinks the girl is not calling him back. Chris, how
Speaker 1: are you? I'm all right, Jewel, how are you today?
Speaker 1: I'm good? Man. Thank you for your email. I read
Speaker 1: it and it like outraged me at what your ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend did to you. This is ridiculous. Yeah, it was bullshit, man,
Speaker 1: I mean I had great. I'm sorry, I can I
Speaker 1: can I say that? Yeah? Yeah. Before we get into
Speaker 1: what your ex girlfriend did to you, first tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl that you want to call today. So
Speaker 1: her name's Heather, and we met through mutual friends. And mean,
Speaker 1: she's just cute, she's sweet. I'd seen her picture and
Speaker 1: I met her at a party and my buddy introduced us.
Speaker 1: And you know, I mean she, I mean, like the
Speaker 1: perfect girl. She's I kind of like short brunettes, and
Speaker 1: she's short and brunette and really attractive and fun and just,
Speaker 1: I don't know, really witty and kind of challenged me.
Speaker 1: There's something about this girl. You're right, she sounds like
Speaker 1: perfection to me, really witty. So what did you guys
Speaker 1: do on your date? We went out for dessert. There's
Speaker 1: this really cool gelato place that reminds me a lot
Speaker 1: of I don't I don't know, like the perfect date
Speaker 1: from a romantic comedy. I know that kind of sounds silly.
Speaker 1: I'm a guy who shouldn't matter, but I think people
Speaker 1: are more relaxed around dessert. And we went and had gelato.
Speaker 1: It was so much fun. I think that's a perfect
Speaker 1: date too. I want to roma in a comedy, but
Speaker 1: I did get a kiss. At the end of the night.
Speaker 1: We had fun. I went home. I was kind of
Speaker 1: floating on a cloud. And then I can't get her
Speaker 1: to call me back. And you think the reason she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back is because of what happened later
Speaker 1: that night when you got home, right, man, That's the
Speaker 1: only thing I can figure out. I loved on the
Speaker 1: Facebook and the guy had checked us in at the
Speaker 1: gelato place. I wanted a friend who had introduced us
Speaker 1: to know that we were out on a date. And
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. The girls really cute. I was
Speaker 1: proud of being on a date with her and wanted
Speaker 1: people to see it. So I had tagged her on Facebook,
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, I looked down and first off,
Speaker 1: my ex girlfriend had liked the post, which is always
Speaker 1: scary weird, and she commented on it as well. And
Speaker 1: I think the comments might be why she's not calling
Speaker 1: me back. Was your ex girlfriend just crazy? Oh she's
Speaker 1: a crazy, man. Let me tell you. I don't have
Speaker 1: a clue why. I dam me, she was cute, but
Speaker 1: she was insane. It sounds like it, especially from what
Speaker 1: you put in your email, that she said in the
Speaker 1: comment section, why don't you tell everybody? What she said?
Speaker 1: So the first post was congrats, Chris, looks like you
Speaker 1: found a new buck tooth to mess around? Where are
Speaker 1: you kidding? On your comment section? That was? That was
Speaker 1: the first one? Did you delete it immediately? I deleted
Speaker 1: it immediately? But there were also two more under that
Speaker 1: that I didn't see until I got home. Why have
Speaker 1: you not blocked your X from your Facebook page? Well,
Speaker 1: I've blocked her now. I mean I didn't realize she
Speaker 1: was as nuts as she actually is, but holy yeah.
Speaker 1: It was the second two weren't you better than the first?
Speaker 1: So after she called her a buck tooth? What else
Speaker 1: did she have to say? Um? The second one said
Speaker 1: are you going to ignore and manipulate this one? Too?
Speaker 1: Did you like that one? And just underneath that book, yes, no, no,
Speaker 1: I deleted it. But the worst and may have been
Speaker 1: the one that she directed specifically at Heather and it
Speaker 1: just said, hey girl, let me tell you fair warning
Speaker 1: from someone who's been there. One word herpies. I say, yeah,
Speaker 1: before I say that, this is a horrible thing. Chris.
Speaker 1: Do you have herpies? No? I don't have herpies. I
Speaker 1: didn't know if she was saying like a truthful statement
Speaker 1: or if she was lying about you. No, she's just crazy.
Speaker 1: So you deleted the comments, but you think that Heather
Speaker 1: still might have seen them. That's the only reason I
Speaker 1: can figure out that she won't call me back. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I would have nothing to do with you
Speaker 1: if I saw X's leave comments like that. Yeah, that's understandable,
Speaker 1: because even if she thinks that she's lying about the
Speaker 1: herpies and stuff, which I'm still not fully on your side, Chris,
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true or not. But even
Speaker 1: if she didn't believe that, just the fact that you
Speaker 1: have a crazy X like that is enough to scare
Speaker 1: anybody away. Yeah, that's why I'm so concerned. I think
Speaker 1: she saw the Facebook page, and she saw that she
Speaker 1: read it and said that guy's crypton. I don't want
Speaker 1: anything to do with him. That's why I need your help.
Speaker 1: The date went well, things going well, and I don't
Speaker 1: have her pees. Well, I'm gonna go ahead and agree
Speaker 1: with you on this. That's probably why she's not calling
Speaker 1: you back. I'm guessing she saw them or somebody she
Speaker 1: knows saw them and told her about the messages. Chris,
Speaker 1: are you I mean, you sat in like a nice guy,
Speaker 1: But did you do something really bad to this girl
Speaker 1: to make her so bitter and angry? No? I mean,
Speaker 1: like I don't really know how to break up with
Speaker 1: a girl, and so I kind of just got a
Speaker 1: loof and distant and she'd send me text messages and
Speaker 1: I just slowly but surely not return them, to the
Speaker 1: point that she broke up with me. Okay, so she's
Speaker 1: just bitter. Yeah, she's just bitter. All right, Well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song, come back, call Heather and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, all right, hang on brooking
Speaker 1: jubil the morning if you're just tuning in for the
Speaker 1: second part of the second date update. Chris is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us. He thinks he's not getting a
Speaker 1: call back because of a crazy ex girlfriend. He went
Speaker 1: out with his girl named Heather. They had a good time,
Speaker 1: even into the evening with a kiss, but then when
Speaker 1: he went back home after the date, he checked his
Speaker 1: Facebook and in the comments section, his ex girlfriend left
Speaker 1: a bunch of mean comments, things like congrats, Chris, looks
Speaker 1: like you found some new bucktooths to mess around her,
Speaker 1: and that's just one of them, I guess. She also
Speaker 1: said are you going to ignore and manipulate this one too?
Speaker 1: And then the top it all off. Her last comment was, hey, girl,
Speaker 1: let me give you fair warning from someone who's been there.
Speaker 1: One word herpes in all caps. So Chris is guessing
Speaker 1: that Heather saw that and is like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: want to go out with this guy. Chris, I didn't
Speaker 1: ask you this. How long has it been since you've
Speaker 1: heard from her? It's four days and you didn't hear
Speaker 1: anything back after that last kiss? No, I mean we like,
Speaker 1: we kissed and we made plans that we would chat
Speaker 1: the next day and then nothing. All right, Well, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dial the phone right now, get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and get your second date update? You ready? All right? Thanks? All,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, may speak to Heather. Please? This
Speaker 1: is hey Heather. How are you? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh okay the radio show?
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah? Maybe do you know who I am?
Speaker 1: Or are you pretending? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? Okay? All right,
Speaker 1: So you have you ever listened to the show? Um?
Speaker 1: Like maybe on accident, most people listen anyway, So congratulations.
Speaker 1: So that's awesome. Hey, I'm calling you today because we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: It's where you go out on a date with somebody
Speaker 1: and then if you end up not calling them back
Speaker 1: after that date, they email us to see if we
Speaker 1: can get you on the phone and ask if something
Speaker 1: went wrong. We recently got an email about you from
Speaker 1: one of our listeners. Oh his name is Chris. You
Speaker 1: guys went out for gelato. Oh okay, yeah, Well Chris
Speaker 1: has been trying to get ahold of you and he's
Speaker 1: wondering why you're not calling him back. Oh god, oh god,
Speaker 1: I feel so horrible. He honestly thinks I'm I'm blowing
Speaker 1: him off. Yeah, oh no, he thinks that you want
Speaker 1: nothing to do with him. Oh god, I lost my phone.
Speaker 1: Like I lost my phone like four days ago or something,
Speaker 1: and I just got it today, like literally, like three
Speaker 1: hours ago. I just got a new phone. I've just
Speaker 1: been like trying to put all my contacts back on
Speaker 1: it and everything, and that he thinks that. So are
Speaker 1: you saying you're not blowing him off? No? Oh my god. No,
Speaker 1: I had a great time. I was planning on calling
Speaker 1: him like later today once I got all my contact
Speaker 1: back and everything. Oh well, that's pretty anti climax. Like
Speaker 1: I was hoping you had something terrible to say about him,
Speaker 1: but no, sorry to disappoint you. I yeah, I really
Speaker 1: liked him. We had a great time. In that case,
Speaker 1: could you like email him or call him and tell
Speaker 1: him that I will be calling him later tonight. I
Speaker 1: could do that, But why don't you just do it yourself?
Speaker 1: Because Chris is actually on the other line listening. Um, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry to I'm sorry to put you on
Speaker 1: the radio and have these guys call you. I just
Speaker 1: have such a great date. I mean, we ended it.
Speaker 1: We said we'd call each other, and then I didn't
Speaker 1: text or email. I didn't, I didn't get anything, and
Speaker 1: I'm just worried you didn't want to go on a
Speaker 1: date again. I really liked you. I'd liked to go
Speaker 1: on a second Oh god, I'm so sorry this has happened.
Speaker 1: I locked my phone and it's like my whole world
Speaker 1: got messed up. I am, I'm so sorry that you
Speaker 1: saw that. And yes, I would totally let me go
Speaker 1: on a second date with you. Are you sure you
Speaker 1: want to go out a second date with someone? Who
Speaker 1: would just jump to conclusions like that that you never
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to I might have done the same thing. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Give me something. This is like the
Speaker 1: nicest second date update ever. Yeah, I mean, you guys
Speaker 1: are supposed to be helping me out here, Guys, just
Speaker 1: you know, usually something dramatic happens and this is kind
Speaker 1: of boring. Well, I mean I don't really have any issues,
Speaker 1: and I guess the more exciting part of this is
Speaker 1: that you know, like we don't know what's going to
Speaker 1: happen in the future, but you know, we had a
Speaker 1: good You don't even then, Heather, you don't even understand
Speaker 1: the things that we hear in these second date updates
Speaker 1: from time to time, Like sometimes there was this one
Speaker 1: guy that we did a second date update with who
Speaker 1: went on on a date with a girl and then
Speaker 1: he checked them in somewhere and when he got back
Speaker 1: to the house, there were like comments from his ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend like calling the girl a skin, saying that he
Speaker 1: had herpes and stuff like that. But we've done second
Speaker 1: date update where that's happened, crazy horrible, that is drama.
Speaker 1: Then I would definitely want to avoid that's horrible. Can
Speaker 1: you believe that, Chris, I didn't tell you that story,
Speaker 1: did I now? Crazy? It's really bad. But Heather, you
Speaker 1: should we go ahead and start setting up for a
Speaker 1: second date. But before we get do that, I just
Speaker 1: I want to tell head of the story because it's
Speaker 1: like I couldn't believe it when we did that second
Speaker 1: date update a while ago, where like I was talking
Speaker 1: about his crazy X commenting on his Facebook like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, Heather, could you imagine that happened? You'd probably
Speaker 1: never want to date that guy? Huh yeah, definitely now
Speaker 1: there would not want to be in that nightmare situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think most people wouldn't want to be I mean
Speaker 1: with a crazy X like that, and then like claiming
Speaker 1: that the guy has herpes? Oh my god? What Oh
Speaker 1: that's awful. Yeah, that's another thing she said. Didn't that
Speaker 1: guy's fit? What if none of that was true? Like,
Speaker 1: I'm just standing up for that guy. What if none
Speaker 1: of that what is real? Yeah? For that guy? Huh Chris, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you know, I mean I didn't hear that
Speaker 1: second date update, but I mean, if none of that's
Speaker 1: true and he didn't have her fees and the girls,
Speaker 1: she's crazy doesn't make him a bad guy. You know what, Chris,
Speaker 1: that doesn't even matter. It still means that he's attached
Speaker 1: to some kind of psycho X that could do crazy
Speaker 1: to you later on. You know what I mean, Heather?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean they make movies about it, so yeah,
Speaker 1: they do. It's a good thing that this second date
Speaker 1: update didn't end up like that, Heather. I'm really happy.
Speaker 1: Oh good, me too. Yeah, and it's cool that we
Speaker 1: could reconnect you guys, this is like the first positive
Speaker 1: second date update we've had in a while. That leads
Speaker 1: me to my question, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: on a second date with Chris? I will pay for it?
Speaker 1: Oh well, I was gonna go out with him anyway,
Speaker 1: but if you're gonna pay for it too, that's awesome. Chris.
Speaker 1: You got your second date man, way to go? Yes,
Speaker 1: thank you? Hey, Chris, isn't there anything else that you
Speaker 1: want to tell her before we let her go? No?
Speaker 1: I mean I'm excited for our second date and uh,
Speaker 1: I really, I'm sorry I put her on the radio.
Speaker 1: I thought there was something else though. She has beautiful
Speaker 1: eyes that we had a lot of fun and I
Speaker 1: can't wait to hear a yet. Okay, yeah, that was it.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I was thinking about something else. Do
Speaker 1: you feel the deal, Chris, you feel the deal. It's good.
Speaker 1: You're good. Well, congratulations Heather and Chris. I hope you
Speaker 1: guys enjoy your evening out. Thank you. Yeah, and take
Speaker 1: care of Heather because it could be your last. You're funny.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means. You will, you will,
Speaker 1: all right, guys, have a good one. Broken jewil in
Speaker 1: the morning,