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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to stuff I never told you production by Heart Radio.

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Speaker 1: And welcome to another edition of Happy Hour. But in

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Speaker 1: this Happy Hour, as per usual, we are viewing Sex

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Speaker 1: and the City my empteenth time and Any's first time

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Speaker 1: for most of these episodes now and then you run

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Speaker 1: into one or two of these episodes right in your

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Speaker 1: lifetime where you're like, I remember, I've seen this.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've seen a total of three. But

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Speaker 2: there's a chance I've seen clips, yes, outside of that,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like I've seen a total of three incompletion.

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Speaker 1: Completion, very appropriate for this show. So, yes, we are

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Speaker 1: in a season three of Sex and the City and

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Speaker 1: on episode eight. But before we get into that, just

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Speaker 1: an fyi. Yes, this is tv m A. The ratings

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Speaker 1: mature for nudity, adult language and content. So you may

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Speaker 1: not want to listen to this with you know, young

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Speaker 1: guns around necessarily because you never know what we're going

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Speaker 1: to talk about. Some of the random things that come

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Speaker 1: out of our mouth in relation to Sex and the City.

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Speaker 1: You know, it can be a surprise. It definitely care

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Speaker 1: sometimes serious, sometimes silly, sometimes just what h That's how

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Speaker 1: I like to advertise our show as what, but also

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Speaker 1: it is happy hour. So Annie, are you consuming any beverages.

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Speaker 2: I'm still trying to clear out my fridge and I'm

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Speaker 2: still drinking my beach my beach beer, That's what I'll

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Speaker 2: call it, because I just came back from the beach

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Speaker 2: once again. Yes, and I have some left ever beer

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Speaker 2: from that trip. So living just beach life. It was

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Speaker 2: a nice beach life. It was I saw a turtle.

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Speaker 2: It was cool. Was it big?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: It was a little little turtle. But it was a

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Speaker 2: swimming turtle.

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Speaker 1: Oh did try to eat you? No?

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Speaker 2: It fled from my enthusiastic, rightfully.

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Speaker 1: Description of Annie's life. I am not drinking, necessarily any

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Speaker 1: adult beverages. I'm drinking some sparkly water a grapefruit flavor. Haha.

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Speaker 1: They were on seal and I've gotten a lot of them.

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Speaker 1: I've really gotten into the bubbly waters for the past

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Speaker 1: three years. And yeah, that's what I'm sipping on. As

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Speaker 1: we talk about sex and the city, if you are

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Speaker 1: also partaking of something, do so responsibly. Be responsible. Be responsible. Also,

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Speaker 1: none of these things are a current sponsor, not that

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Speaker 1: we've named anything. And if we do name something, they

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Speaker 1: are not currently a sponsor. As now you know, things change.

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Speaker 1: We love sponsors. Thank you for paying us, pay us

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Speaker 1: more please anyway, So as we start, we are again

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Speaker 1: on Sex and the City Season three, Episode eight, Annie,

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Speaker 1: can you do us the honor of recapping of what

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Speaker 1: has been happening in season three?

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Speaker 2: I can? I can? I think? Okay, So this one

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Speaker 2: has been a big season. You told me it was

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Speaker 2: going to be and it really has come through. Which,

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Speaker 2: by the way, listeners were still looking for our person

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Speaker 2: to come on and join us and talk about this.

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Speaker 2: So if you're interested, all you really need you don't

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Speaker 2: have to have seen the show. You could have seen

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Speaker 2: it a million times. You just really need an internet

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Speaker 2: connection and we'll our super producer, Christina will figure it out.

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Speaker 2: So if you want to enter, that'll be soon. Just

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Speaker 2: contact us listen for more. At the end we'll tell

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Speaker 2: you how. But yes, I okay. So this has been

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Speaker 2: a big season. We've got, as I always say, Samantha

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Speaker 2: doing her Samantha thing. She's gotten into a lot of

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Speaker 2: shenanigans as per usual. We've got Miranda who is with

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Speaker 2: Steve and has recently kind of really enjoyed the settling

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Speaker 2: how much she loved like doing his laundry. There was

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Speaker 2: last episode. But how she's really enjoying these more quiet moments.

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Speaker 2: I guess with him, We've got Carrie who has now

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Speaker 2: met Aiden, and if you know anything about Sex and

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Speaker 2: comes to kind of Carrie's relationships and Carrie having to

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Speaker 2: question her how she reacted to what's what right now

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Speaker 2: seems like a very healthy relationship and her looking for

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Speaker 2: drama within it. She did see big recently, her ex

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Speaker 2: is going to be big in her life. Kyle. It's

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Speaker 1: So that's where disappear half the time, they don't have

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Speaker 1: to break up, which you know, that's fine. Ghosting happiness.

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Speaker 1: Nicely done, nicely done. And today's title, Okay, I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to hear your theory is the big Time? So Annie,

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Speaker 1: can you give us what you think will be happening

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Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, I have got two main theories. Here

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Speaker 2: the picture. Uh, it's the big time, see because ye yes?

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Speaker 2: Or it's like because the big time is like when

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's sort of because everybody but Samanth at this

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Speaker 2: this that? And then I'll go to brunch.

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Speaker 1: We're sticking with brunch this time because it's not it's

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Speaker 1: not working out for you. No shipped a brunch.

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Speaker 1: right you are.

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Speaker 2: How you said wrong with a strong inflection, So here

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Speaker 3: Manhattan is a place you can get anything anytime, calves

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Speaker 3: at two am Chinese food at three. But somehow you

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Speaker 1: Dry cleaning, you know. I feel like dry cleaning always

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Speaker 1: Not often, but like I think I've used a dry

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Speaker 2: life really, but my mom has for some of my clothes.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, once a year, I take my comforter

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Speaker 1: my washer. Yeah, so I said take that at once

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Speaker 1: actually become reviginized. Revirginalization, which I feel like was a

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Speaker 3: Downtown, another New Yorker was enjoying her very full life.

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Speaker 3: Samantha had a new apartment in the ultra chic meat

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Speaker 2: Well, there goes the neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: It's like, immediately creepy.

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Speaker 2: I know, he just like popped up.

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Speaker 1: Like the tiny ponytail that's a mullet, which I mean

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Speaker 1: Sure, I'm not going through a midlife crisis.

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Speaker 2: I know, it's not like you haven't done a couple

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Speaker 2: episodes about that at all.

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Speaker 1: Don't talk about it. One of our guests said, I

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Speaker 1: at this. The kegle Master Cage. Yes, this has been

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Speaker 1: it for ten minutes. I don't know why, but ever

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Speaker 2: This is some of the first episodes I edited for Smincy,

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Speaker 2: was like, I've never heard of this in my life.

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Speaker 2: It's a party on a boat. Correction, fancy boat and

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Speaker 3: The fabulous girl is rumored to be easy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Why is he harassing her? Now?

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Speaker 2: Was that back then? Big?

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Speaker 1: Stay away?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as it should be. Or sometimes you just can't

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Speaker 3: The next morning, I recovered from my sea big sickness.

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Speaker 3: While downtown Samantha realized maybe her ship had sailed. She

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Speaker 3: was five days late.

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Speaker 1: We didn't Never did you keep up with your period

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Speaker 1: like this, Well you put it on a calendar or

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Speaker 2: No, I have like I used to have like a

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Speaker 2: I didn't. Yeah, I know, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know anybody who actually does this unless they are like

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Speaker 1: like like actual like doctor reasons to actually just do this.

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Speaker 3: If I wasn't perpetually ten minutes late, would my life

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Speaker 3: be totally different? Would I never run into big and

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Speaker 3: would there ever be a good time to see him?

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Speaker 3: Was Miranda Wright is timing everything?

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Speaker 1: I feel like the way she like writes her columns,

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Speaker 1: she's doing. So if her boyfriends would just read to our.

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