Speaker 1: Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned into
Speaker 1: the Vitamin D with Dawnte podcast and I am your host,
Speaker 1: Dawn Day, here to get you excited about your life
Speaker 1: so that you can live life on purpose and for
Speaker 1: a purpose. And this is your first time tuning in
Speaker 1: and welcome Vitamin D. It's upon of my name. My
Speaker 1: name is Dawn, and you get Vitamin D from the sun.
Speaker 1: So I'm here to shed light into your life. And
Speaker 1: I do this with inspirational insights and conversations with celebrities
Speaker 1: and everyday people like you and me, because if you
Speaker 1: want to be better and you want to do better,
Speaker 1: then you're going to have to be able to see better.
Speaker 1: So join me on this journey of living our best
Speaker 1: lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest
Speaker 1: dass at, I said, this is another great day to
Speaker 1: be alive, ain't it though? Another day to wake up
Speaker 1: to see what's going to see what's happened, another day
Speaker 1: to see yourself, see what you're liking, what you don't like,
Speaker 1: and what you need to do better at it. That's
Speaker 1: what I realized. And I'm coming with a lot of
Speaker 1: gratitus as I reflect on the week. You know, I
Speaker 1: talked about a couple of things. I talked about how
Speaker 1: I'm in a situation right now while I'm looking at
Speaker 1: food since the my funk of the dreams here, I
Speaker 1: am getting mail where I got Chase Sapphire and I
Speaker 1: got some from DPSS Department of Social Security. Isn't that
Speaker 1: crazy because it's not like, you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: how to keep my credit of It's just coming to
Speaker 1: the fact when you're going after your dreams, and it
Speaker 1: all boils down to making sure that I am on it,
Speaker 1: pursuing opportunities, making sure to stay a point on point
Speaker 1: with podcasts, with voice overs, with everything, so I can
Speaker 1: be ready because something gorgeous about to happen. I feel
Speaker 1: it and I'm claiming it. I want it, and I
Speaker 1: guess um, we all got to make sure that we
Speaker 1: are intentionally like thinking that and putting that energy out there.
Speaker 1: Like you've heard people all the time talking about, especially
Speaker 1: in l A, in l A in general, everybody always
Speaker 1: talking about the vibe. I gotta feel the vibe, which
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily all putting because when you think about
Speaker 1: a vibe, it's like a vibration of the energy and
Speaker 1: we're like a bundle source of energy, right, So just
Speaker 1: making sure I keep that vibrant. And you know, I
Speaker 1: was editing on Premiere and I was going through m
Speaker 1: a podcast episode I did. It was a check in
Speaker 1: and it was entitled do you Really Want It? And
Speaker 1: I was talking about how going after your dreams, going
Speaker 1: after your ambitions of whatever it is that you say
Speaker 1: that you want out of life, really asking yourself like
Speaker 1: do you want it? And I have to really think
Speaker 1: about it because I came in the studio today and
Speaker 1: I was selling. Everybody was selling Jeremiah and Dr Laura.
Speaker 1: I was like, y'all, I got an addiction and they
Speaker 1: were like addiction. I said, no, I have an addiction
Speaker 1: like to food. Like this is serious and I'm not
Speaker 1: making lightly situation like I'm like I'm dead ass, like
Speaker 1: something is really up and for someone like myself that
Speaker 1: can you know, be gut home my dreams and gut
Speaker 1: home working out to see an area where I have
Speaker 1: to grasp it and I gotta hold onto it and
Speaker 1: really understanding the relationship and I'm not gonna just sweep
Speaker 1: this under the rug and not like it's nothing like no,
Speaker 1: it's serious, like yo, I need to really get down
Speaker 1: to the root of that. And I guess what else
Speaker 1: made me really think about it. I was up there
Speaker 1: watching on Apple TV. There's this new show. I think
Speaker 1: it's yeah, I think it's a new show. It's called
Speaker 1: Physical oh Child. So what really made me check it
Speaker 1: out is because it was like a glimpse of this lady.
Speaker 1: It's taking place in the eighties, eighties six to be exact. Hey, um,
Speaker 1: this lady she working out with her role was like
Speaker 1: getting and it was like the start of an empire.
Speaker 1: And you know me, I'm building my empire. So I
Speaker 1: make sure that anything anyone is saying, I need to
Speaker 1: pick it up. But in the flick or in the trailer,
Speaker 1: this lady like she's just talking about like I guess
Speaker 1: food is constantly talking to her in her head and
Speaker 1: how her trying to get control of her life and
Speaker 1: and and battling this addiction and channeling it into working out.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say, like, I'm not I don't have any
Speaker 1: voices that's saying like, oh, you're stupid, you're fat, you're ugly. Da. No,
Speaker 1: I's just like I want the fool and it's like done,
Speaker 1: chill chill. Um, so I'm gonna have somebody coming to show,
Speaker 1: and I also have a lot of things I want
Speaker 1: to share when it comes down to food and how,
Speaker 1: not only how it's affecting me probably wait twise, but
Speaker 1: there's some other areas we won't get deep and personal.
Speaker 1: You know how I told you you're about to learn
Speaker 1: some stuff about me, and UM, I guess this time
Speaker 1: being I may learn some stuff about two or with
Speaker 1: you right, get your right, MND right with me and
Speaker 1: get excited about all Right, it's time to dive into
Speaker 1: this vitamin Z email bag. I want to thank you
Speaker 1: this individual for writing in. Thank you for your courage,
Speaker 1: thank you for deciding to um seek out some support
Speaker 1: because I think oftentimes we go do things in life
Speaker 1: and for whatever reason, I feel ashamed, embarrassed not want
Speaker 1: to ask another opinion. So I'm glad you did that,
Speaker 1: and I also feel honored that you feel as all
Speaker 1: my opinion matters. Here we go subject husband's old flame
Speaker 1: is back. Dear Dawn. I am beyond exhausted by my
Speaker 1: current situation and I would appreciate someone that hears me out.
Speaker 1: I have no one to talk to about this because
Speaker 1: everyone I know makes bad decisions. My husband and I
Speaker 1: were friends in high school and we didn't start dating
Speaker 1: until after we graduated. During high school, he had this
Speaker 1: female best friend, Margot, and they had a weird romance
Speaker 1: kind of thing. Everyone thought they were going to get
Speaker 1: married and end up together. Every time they were both
Speaker 1: dating other people, their partners would hate how close the
Speaker 1: two of them were. Eventually they tried to be together,
Speaker 1: but Margot ended up moving to Italy for school and
Speaker 1: she didn't want to do long distance. They always stayed connected,
Speaker 1: talking over Skype in this we love each other, but
Speaker 1: we can't be together kind of way. As time went on,
Speaker 1: Charles thought he should move on from Margot because she
Speaker 1: never wanted to do the long distant thing and she
Speaker 1: always dated other guys in Italy. So after a while
Speaker 1: Charles and I started dating. We fell in love, and
Speaker 1: about a year ago we got married. A few months later,
Speaker 1: I find out that Margot moved back to the States
Speaker 1: and texts Charles every now and again, but Charles reassures
Speaker 1: me that he's moved on. I also found out that
Speaker 1: she visits his mom often and she even calls her mom. Uh.
Speaker 1: That hurt because I never felt like I was welcomed
Speaker 1: in his family, and it just feels like charles family
Speaker 1: still thinks he and Margot should be together. I tried
Speaker 1: to tell myself that will be okay, but the other
Speaker 1: day something happened where they thought Margot was dating someone
Speaker 1: who was a bad apple, so the entire family freaked
Speaker 1: out and called her panicking, including Charles. When she called
Speaker 1: Charles back to see what was going on, they talked
Speaker 1: for a while, then after Charles told me she's back
Speaker 1: with her ex, my ex competition, and it just saw
Speaker 1: felt wrong. She still calls Charles her best friends, even
Speaker 1: though they haven't been that close ever since she moved.
Speaker 1: I'm almost positive that she isn't over him, and I'm
Speaker 1: scared Charles is just ignoring his feelings for her. I've
Speaker 1: tried to be friends with her, but she didn't want
Speaker 1: to because in the past, when she tried to be
Speaker 1: friends with his past lover, she said that she ends
Speaker 1: up the bad guy, whatever that means. I'm so tired
Speaker 1: of feeling like a passive pile of crap. He doesn't
Speaker 1: push for her to be friends with me, and they
Speaker 1: have this weird dynamics still, and it feels like his
Speaker 1: family is on her side, and it's waiting for me
Speaker 1: and him not to work out. I've spent many days
Speaker 1: in anguish over her for one reason or another, and
Speaker 1: I felt like if she was over him, she would
Speaker 1: have no problem becoming friends with me and speaking to me.
Speaker 1: I thought she would eventually go away, but it feels
Speaker 1: like their relationship trump's our current one, and he will
Speaker 1: never let her go. I know he has a hard
Speaker 1: time letting people go, but come on. I don't want
Speaker 1: to give an ultimatum, but I feel like I have to.
Speaker 1: If she can't be my friend, it just means that
Speaker 1: she's not over him. Any help is appreciated, girl one
Speaker 1: of the lovers triangle. Let's go in on one here.
Speaker 1: I gotta sip some water shoe. First of all, thank
Speaker 1: you for a fully expressing yourself. I reflect the sentiments
Speaker 1: in your first sentence. I am beyond exhausted. First of all,
Speaker 1: reading this letter, I felt like I was pulled in
Speaker 1: so many directions, because it's like one of those things
Speaker 1: where girl, you can see clear as day what is
Speaker 1: going on. Two, you don't feel comfortable in the relationship.
Speaker 1: Three The way that you've expressed yourself and how you
Speaker 1: feel makes me question, do you even realize who you
Speaker 1: are in the relationship? You said he was you were
Speaker 1: his wife, but the way you acted, so I decided
Speaker 1: to sell. We can dive in. Let's be cap a
Speaker 1: little bit. And you said that you're beyond exhausted. I
Speaker 1: don't know any relationship that should tire you out. If anything,
Speaker 1: relationship I feel should definitely be something that rejuvenates you.
Speaker 1: You know, it's your safe haven, it's your ump. Every
Speaker 1: relationship takes work, that's fine. Um, And even in you're
Speaker 1: beyond exhaustion, you said you're coming to the point because
Speaker 1: you need someone to hear you out. One of the
Speaker 1: key things that I've always saying any type of relationship,
Speaker 1: there needs to be some sort of communication, And if
Speaker 1: you aren't being heard, that means you aren't being received,
Speaker 1: And if you are being received words of communication, there's
Speaker 1: a breakdown and communication. Then you said another thing that
Speaker 1: stood out in mind. This is all in the same paragraph.
Speaker 1: You said, everyone I know makes bad decisions. Well, you
Speaker 1: know I say this all the time. Birds of a
Speaker 1: feather flock together, So what does that say about you?
Speaker 1: And it's not bad. It just comes to a point
Speaker 1: that it's time for us to see ourselves, because once
Speaker 1: we can see better, we can do better. Okay, and
Speaker 1: discern what kind of decisions needs to be made. Now,
Speaker 1: you wrote in this letter because you have a situation
Speaker 1: or a situation going on with this Um, I can't
Speaker 1: even say ex best friend, this female best friend, this
Speaker 1: real good friend of your husband. Her name is Margo. Now.
Speaker 1: The thing that's alarming is because I said, they did
Speaker 1: not do anything for them to be feuding. Um, it
Speaker 1: was just the fact that she was long distance. So
Speaker 1: you said after a while, well after she had left
Speaker 1: you and Charles, that's when y'all got together. Okay, y'all
Speaker 1: fell in love. And now it's been a year and
Speaker 1: a half that you've guys get married and now you
Speaker 1: didn't got wind at home. Girl that had moved to Italy,
Speaker 1: now she's back. Now. One thing that I thought was interesting.
Speaker 1: They didn't work out, but then y'all got together. The
Speaker 1: way you had phrased this, um whole, how they're situation
Speaker 1: was that we love each other but can't be with
Speaker 1: each other kind of way. And then because she was
Speaker 1: dating these guys in Italy, and then after a while,
Speaker 1: you guys fell in love. It almost made it seem
Speaker 1: like you're an afterthought. Now I can't tell um as
Speaker 1: of yet, but we're going through this letter together. I
Speaker 1: can't tell of yet if there is some sort of
Speaker 1: insecurity that's lying here, or indeed it is what it is.
Speaker 1: You know, it can go both ways at this point.
Speaker 1: Now you said after a while. It almost makes me
Speaker 1: wonder how long after a while did you guys start
Speaker 1: to pursue. I don't have any idea of how old
Speaker 1: you guys are, how many years between leaving high school
Speaker 1: and the school and probably college, um where that places
Speaker 1: you guys, But it sounds like it's kind of still fresh. Okay,
Speaker 1: So uh, you guys got married about a year ago. Okay,
Speaker 1: Now here's the thing. Now that she's back in town.
Speaker 1: The thing that I'm like, I'm always like looking for
Speaker 1: the flags. You gotta make sure that you're king. You know.
Speaker 1: I just said that not long ago about using your
Speaker 1: discernment and making sure you see the signs when you
Speaker 1: see the signs. Now, you said, off the bag, you
Speaker 1: don't have a relationship like that with her. But before
Speaker 1: you reveal that to me, one of the things that
Speaker 1: stood out is that she's visiting your mother in law
Speaker 1: and calling your mother in law, mom, what a mother
Speaker 1: that you are working on building your relationship a mother?
Speaker 1: And would you are married to her son? The hold up?
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, oh, work at work? It then there
Speaker 1: was when that she was dating somebody bad. The whole
Speaker 1: family is gonna call because of who she dated, even
Speaker 1: your husband, the husband. Let me say, I said, your husband,
Speaker 1: not her husband. I said your husband not her boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I said, your husband calling a panic about who was
Speaker 1: this guy? She's dead? And then come to find out
Speaker 1: the guy that she's dating is her ex and which
Speaker 1: your husband says, oh, my ex competition. Yeah, I just
Speaker 1: gotta I stood by saying all that, because the first
Speaker 1: thing I want to say is say, what, what in
Speaker 1: the opportitive word ex competition is going on here? Do
Speaker 1: we have to even look at the fact of the
Speaker 1: choice of words that your husband used? Can we even
Speaker 1: look at the fact, Charles, Charles, why are you suprised?
Speaker 1: What did you think what's gonna happen? Charles? Was Marco's
Speaker 1: life and danger? Huh? But I guess I really need
Speaker 1: to be talking to you, you the one that wrote
Speaker 1: the letter, because clearly Charles been doing what he's been
Speaker 1: doing clearly. I can't even say I'm really surprised all
Speaker 1: what I have read up to this point based on
Speaker 1: what you had told me and the things that you
Speaker 1: allowed yourself to stand for and stand with, because you're
Speaker 1: not standing against anything. Notice I said for and with
Speaker 1: how you stand with the fact of how your your
Speaker 1: husband as this relationship with this woman, and you stand
Speaker 1: for the fact that this woman has a relationship with
Speaker 1: your mother in law that you don't even have. But
Speaker 1: I'm not done yet. Now here's the thing. I think
Speaker 1: we all have this thing called intuition about what we
Speaker 1: feel like it's going on in our cut. You said
Speaker 1: right here, you said, I'm almost positive she isn't over him,
Speaker 1: and you think that he is over her. Huh. And
Speaker 1: the reason you said that is because you said, I've
Speaker 1: tried to be friends with her, but she didn't want
Speaker 1: to because in the past she's trying to be friends
Speaker 1: with his past lovers. She said that she ends up
Speaker 1: the bad guy. Whatever that means, what you mean, what
Speaker 1: you mean holds on. I'm not saying that whomever you're
Speaker 1: with in the relationship that you got to have a
Speaker 1: leash on. But there shouldn't be a thing there shouldn't
Speaker 1: be a reason why I don't have a relationship with you,
Speaker 1: and that's my husband. Um, I just imagine that your
Speaker 1: partner is your other half. They're an extension of you.
Speaker 1: We're a package deal that becomes to us. The fact
Speaker 1: that I don't have this relationship, and then the fact
Speaker 1: of how she used her choice of words that she
Speaker 1: has an issue with his past lovers. You aren't just
Speaker 1: a lover, you're his wife. You said, I'm so tired
Speaker 1: of feeling like a passive pile of prep. I have
Speaker 1: a question, are you really? Because when you're really sick
Speaker 1: and tired of being sick and tired with something, you
Speaker 1: do something about it. Listen, I'm not judging you, because, listen,
Speaker 1: we all got a thing. I was just talking about
Speaker 1: earlier minddition of food. I've been talking about this challenge
Speaker 1: of what I've been doing and trying to figure out
Speaker 1: my balance with it. So I'm not sitting here trying
Speaker 1: to say that everybody's stuff don't stink. We all got
Speaker 1: our stuff, but I'm here to call you out on it.
Speaker 1: So when you say that I'm so tired, are you
Speaker 1: sure that you're tired? It's just like when I ask somebody,
Speaker 1: how bad do you want it? Do you really wanted?
Speaker 1: Are you truly tired? Because if you're still meddling in
Speaker 1: the same water and you aren't choosing to kick your feet,
Speaker 1: if you aren't choosing to move your arms, I'm not
Speaker 1: sure you're tired, honestly. Then another thing you said, I've
Speaker 1: spent many days and anguish over her for one reason
Speaker 1: or another. What I don't know about you, but I'm
Speaker 1: telling you um one the death of my mother. Two
Speaker 1: just living on this earth, a little something some three
Speaker 1: singing what we saw in and this whole COVID nineteen,
Speaker 1: this whole pandemic. I ain't got time to entertain anybody
Speaker 1: that's not charging my piece. You know, I was looking
Speaker 1: at this clip in fact, earlier today. Was it last
Speaker 1: night or was it today? And and Will Smith, he
Speaker 1: was talking about success, and he said, how a lot
Speaker 1: of people, you know, you talk about this dream and
Speaker 1: you you're going after something when you want to be successful.
Speaker 1: He was like, but the true success isn't in the
Speaker 1: process of acquiring things. Success is that peace. And even
Speaker 1: when you're talking about relationship, and you talk about having
Speaker 1: a successful relationship, if you are spending all of these
Speaker 1: days in anguish over her for one reason or another.
Speaker 1: Where is your peace? And when do you choose your peace?
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to judge you. I'm just calling the
Speaker 1: facts out and just saying what it is for what
Speaker 1: it is. It comes to a point that you have
Speaker 1: to choose yourself, whether it be somebody like Naomi Osaka,
Speaker 1: whether it be someone bows, whoever it is, you have
Speaker 1: to choose your piece that works for you so that
Speaker 1: you can show up as your best self. And as
Speaker 1: of right now, I don't see because every single moment,
Speaker 1: it's one minute when she was over across the water
Speaker 1: in Italy, Now she back in the hometown. Now she
Speaker 1: up here meddling with your mother in law, who you're
Speaker 1: working to have a relationship with, and you came over
Speaker 1: the relationship with, and here you are sleeping in the
Speaker 1: bed every day with this man who calls her current
Speaker 1: boyfriend his ex competition, that doesn't even fight for the
Speaker 1: fact for you to to be in a some type
Speaker 1: of having communication or relationship with one another. What it's
Speaker 1: so interesting that he can understand the whole competition and
Speaker 1: opposing factor when it comes to her and her relationship,
Speaker 1: but can't even understand why it's important for you guys
Speaker 1: to interact with one another, so you guys know that
Speaker 1: you are in competition because he claimed that you ain't
Speaker 1: got nothing to worry about. But I don't know since
Speaker 1: now it comes to a point of when you're gonna
Speaker 1: cut your lights on and when you decide to see
Speaker 1: what it is in front of you, and no one
Speaker 1: else can judge you and tell you how, because no
Speaker 1: one else can talk about how you live in your
Speaker 1: relationship ship, what y'all doing, how y'all doing, and what
Speaker 1: kind of understanding that you guys have, because the thing
Speaker 1: is is that you said off the bat, you said
Speaker 1: you don't have a situation where you can be heard
Speaker 1: because you need somebody to hear you out. So I'm
Speaker 1: almost wondering have you taken the time to have a
Speaker 1: conversation with your husband about this to really get in there,
Speaker 1: because you just said right here that you would appreciate
Speaker 1: that someone can hear you out. So has he heard you?
Speaker 1: Because maybe that explains why you got this letter, Because
Speaker 1: have you had a chance to get it out yet,
Speaker 1: because honestly, all you had to say was excellent town.
Speaker 1: My husband is pressed to had this relationship. He doesn't
Speaker 1: care the fact that we don't have the relationship, and
Speaker 1: his mama is and she calls his mama mom. Period.
Speaker 1: We will need to get down to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: All this other stuff that was you letting that go
Speaker 1: off your chest, and you know you said something else.
Speaker 1: You said, um, you feel like their relationship trump's your
Speaker 1: current one, and he would not have never let her go.
Speaker 1: And then you go on to say, I know he
Speaker 1: has a hard time letting people go. What come on, sis,
Speaker 1: how how how are you supposed to be? He's about
Speaker 1: a half and you feel like he's putting someone before you.
Speaker 1: They said, when a man finds a wife, he finds
Speaker 1: a good thing, not a second thing, a good thing.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to teach people how to treat you.
Speaker 1: But I think, um, I think we're gonna have to
Speaker 1: rewind this a little bit, and you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: work on your communication because I'm not sure that you're
Speaker 1: communicating effectively in this relationship. Because if you can sit
Speaker 1: quiet on this, what happens. Let's just say, for example,
Speaker 1: say if you're just like, hey, I don't want to
Speaker 1: deal with this and I'm leaving away from this relationship,
Speaker 1: What happens for the next relationship that you're going to,
Speaker 1: What happens if you guys were to have children, and
Speaker 1: what are you teaching them about communication? There's a breakdown here,
Speaker 1: and I think it came out perhaps in the first paragraph.
Speaker 1: Hear me out and understand that when we talk about
Speaker 1: people hearing people out, when we talk about wanting to
Speaker 1: express ourselves, not only do you have someone, have to
Speaker 1: have someone to be able to receive what you're saying,
Speaker 1: but then you also have to be the one to
Speaker 1: have something to say. And right now I'm not sure
Speaker 1: you're doing your part and saying what it is that
Speaker 1: you need to say. There comes to a point, Well,
Speaker 1: you don't have to put your foot down as the
Speaker 1: woman of your house. Okay, maybe you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: lay some laws down about how things are going to operate.
Speaker 1: How you do anything is how you'll do everything, and
Speaker 1: that includes what you allow yourself to put up with.
Speaker 1: Now you're talking about this is your happily ever after.
Speaker 1: And I say that because if you decided to marry somebody,
Speaker 1: you're looking at being with them for the rest of
Speaker 1: your life. Is this is how you're gonna choose to
Speaker 1: live your life. What did you say? You said that
Speaker 1: you find yourself and angry is one way or another
Speaker 1: dealing or thinking about this woman. The family is panicking
Speaker 1: because she in a relationship. Your husband is panicking. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure if she's in a right relationship. Forget about
Speaker 1: the fact that the relationship that y'all land says it's
Speaker 1: time to wake up. But take your time with it.
Speaker 1: I think you're gonna have to get to the pack
Speaker 1: where you're gonna have to be able to give me
Speaker 1: a cape and say what it is that you're not
Speaker 1: standing for and also what makes you feel uncomfortable about it,
Speaker 1: because no one should feel like this, not with somebody
Speaker 1: but you. You just said, y'all being married for what
Speaker 1: a year and a half? No, you said a year ago.
Speaker 1: Come on, you're still newlyweds. What is the ah? I
Speaker 1: hope you'll get this together and um, use this a
Speaker 1: minute to to communicate and express yourself and let it
Speaker 1: be own how you feel and and don't just let
Speaker 1: things go by the wayside and be okay with this? Okay,
Speaker 1: stand up for yourself. Gots dog on it? Wait, why
Speaker 1: did I gotta talk on it? Because That's how I
Speaker 1: felt well And and I want to just say I
Speaker 1: appreciate you righting in and opening your stuff about and
Speaker 1: I guess if you heard what I had to say,
Speaker 1: and you've got something on your mind dealing with the relationship,
Speaker 1: your career, your dreams, perhaps any insecurities or just wants
Speaker 1: to get an ear or extra mind or word onto something,
Speaker 1: I want you to email me Vitamin D at the
Speaker 1: dawn day Speace dot com. Okay, we go through the
Speaker 1: email bags and every once so off and we try
Speaker 1: to get through one like once a month. We try
Speaker 1: to dive in there um and and just raise some
Speaker 1: letters and just give you whatever you want to know.
Speaker 1: And so who knows. I want to encourage you to
Speaker 1: do it, you know, because it takes a lot of
Speaker 1: balls to just open up and just tell your business
Speaker 1: and just be like, hey, I'm easy and free. But
Speaker 1: the best wounds here when you air him out right
Speaker 1: there it out. I want to hear from you, you know.
Speaker 1: I air at my stuff all the time, and I'm
Speaker 1: step by step, day by day on this podcast. But
Speaker 1: we're doing it. Okay, Um, what else news we got? Oh,
Speaker 1: don't forget to head over to uh the YouTube channel. Uh,
Speaker 1: you know, we've got some great content over there at
Speaker 1: Dawn Day Speaks. Also, I meant to Annolysis earlier in
Speaker 1: the podcast. I want to give a huge congratulations to
Speaker 1: my lovely assistant Jeremiah on his new job. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: so jere By just got hired over it, I heard media.
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of him. I'm excited for what's to
Speaker 1: come and what he's doing. And you know, we met
Speaker 1: when he was an intern early early days when Vitaminsy
Speaker 1: first arrives in l A probably with four used to
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Speaker 1: years later and here he is, look at you. I
Speaker 1: see you. Um, so I had to shout him out. Also,
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