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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't She cleaned and cared for her children and

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Speaker 2: the man of the house, and of course she didn't

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Speaker 2: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: We're good Mom's bad choices, two single mom who said,

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Speaker 2: but the patriarchy shared all their bad choices and found

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Speaker 2: out they were so bad after all. We're experts over

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Speaker 2: shares and your new besties. Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 2: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Meila, and it's a Wednesday, motherfuckers.

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Speaker 3: It's another good Wednesday, y'all, and we are here at

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Speaker 3: the Church of Good Moms to speak to you the

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Speaker 3: good word of the good moms of the not so

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Speaker 3: good world.

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Speaker 2: How's it going?

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Speaker 3: Amen, hallelujah, Let's just say amen. Wh need to get

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Speaker 3: some of those like orchestra. Where are sound effects?

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Speaker 2: Orlando? Cue the sound? Oh sound effects. I need a button.

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Speaker 2: I need to be like a producer. I think that

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Speaker 2: we just need to invest in our own little pad

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Speaker 2: right here, and we just do it ourselves. Well, because

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Speaker 2: we like. We only we know our comedic timing.

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Speaker 3: When I start to preaching, I need some organs, like

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Speaker 3: the organ sound.

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Speaker 2: That is it. I'm getting another one of those. I'm

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Speaker 2: putting it right here. We need to get those sounds

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Speaker 2: on Facebook Marketplace asap.

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Speaker 3: They have everything on Facebook Marketplace. You know, this is

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Speaker 3: not a segment, but I'm just gonna make it one

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Speaker 3: right now. And it's called mom Tip of the Week,

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Speaker 3: and the mom tip of the motherfucking week and of

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Speaker 3: all the year is go on Facebook fucking Marketplace because

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Speaker 3: you can sell and buy pretty much anything. I'm pretty

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Speaker 3: sure you could buy exotic animals on that bitch.

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Speaker 2: You could. Literally you can't. You can buy land. I look,

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Speaker 2: I was looking up land in Costa Rica on Facebook

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Speaker 2: Marketplace because that's where they're selling it. Because you know,

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Speaker 2: like the old people, they're on Facebook. That's where they're

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Speaker 2: don't tell anybody that, Oh sorry, never mind, really, yeah, girl,

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Speaker 2: you can buy farms on Facebook.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is another announcement. I want to buy a farm.

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Speaker 3: We want to buy a good mom's farm. It's gonna

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Speaker 3: be like a community where everybody has duties and like

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Speaker 3: we could just leave the world and go off grid

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Speaker 3: and like deliver our own babies and I don't know,

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Speaker 3: source our own water and make our own fires, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I think it's time that we're going

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Speaker 3: from podcasts to community. We're going from the podcast to

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Speaker 3: the Good Mom's community. If you want to apply to move.

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Speaker 2: To the community.

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Speaker 3: It's a tribe style living. You know, we have like

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Speaker 3: two people babysit once a night, we rotate. Everybody gets

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Speaker 2: Yep, I love it. I love it. Yeah. Also, if

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Speaker 2: you want to donate to building the property of in

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Speaker 2: our land on Costa Rica, you too can have three

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Speaker 2: vacations once the once the bungalow goes up, you can

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Speaker 2: have three vacations with your family there. If you donate

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Speaker 2: five thousand dollars so that we can build our road

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Speaker 2: in Costa Rica.

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Speaker 3: This is a community land that we're buying. And so

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Speaker 3: if you want to be a part of the Good

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Speaker 3: Mom's Community in Costa Rica and you want to have.

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Speaker 2: A time share on our land, send us.

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Speaker 3: Your your pastuffs so you can make sure that you

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Speaker 3: can afford five thousand dollars and then you two can

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Speaker 3: stay at our property I don't know, three times in

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Speaker 3: the next three years.

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Speaker 2: For today's Yeah, thirty days. It's a month, thirty fucking days,

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Speaker 2: a steal, right, Yeah, your family can come. I'm actually

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Speaker 2: not kidding. I know you're not. We're gonna bet you.

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Speaker 2: know that's because looking deep in somebody's eyes. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: The hard part about filtering out the crazy people to

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Speaker 2: It's you're lucky to find a sane friend. Well, you

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Speaker 3: My version of saying is uh, self aware, not like

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Speaker 3: Recently, Luna used the term crash out.

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Speaker 3: She went to a play date and she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Guys had like a very predominantly Caucasian charter school. I

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Speaker 3: What she said, little bitch was at the party after

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Speaker 2: I was cracking at is that your bad choice of

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, so, she's like it was

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Speaker 3: I was like, why were you crying? She's like I

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Speaker 3: She doesn't think it's okay to cry when her friends

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Speaker 3: Actually, when I saw my first fight in the sixth grade,

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Speaker 3: It just seemed I just was caught off guard. I

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Speaker 3: and I was just like, I was like, damn.

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Speaker 2: Your friend's soft. She got beat up in the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I need you guys to get your

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, the kids are getting more advanced. Be careful.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's why kids need to know self defense.

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Speaker 2: Because first of all, the school called me saying, Luna.

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Speaker 3: Got beat up. I'm coming to beat a little ten

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Speaker 2: We yeah, I don't know her or something.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, this is absolutely insane that this girl.

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Speaker 3: And then she said that the other girl who was

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Speaker 3: and she's like why and she's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: She went there and saw the bitcher wailing on.

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Speaker 2: The other girl, and I said, did she try to

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Speaker 2: break it up? Luna was just like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, what are you doing? And then the girl

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Speaker 2: was blood. Oh my god, these little bitches are crazy,

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Speaker 2: That's what I said.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, not in this fucking charter school. I didn't

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Speaker 3: One time, my father dropped me off in the hood

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Speaker 2: Who was there, like, who was there to watch by gambling? Uncle? Nobody?

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Speaker 3: And he came to get me and they're like he's like,

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Speaker 3: He was just like okay, trying to go and he'll

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Speaker 2: And I picked you up and they're like, look, Miles,

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Speaker 3: So in addition to my flea bites, I did get

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Speaker 2: And I was like bet.

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Speaker 2: Oh it was it was a group effort. It was

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Speaker 3: But I was just like I could have just shut

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Speaker 3: She wasn't my friend or anything, but no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I had to.

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Speaker 3: Say, hey, bitch, were you talking shit? Because I just

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Speaker 3: So it's the Philly and me and I think it's

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Speaker 2: What about you? No no adult fights, well sword, not really.

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Speaker 2: It was like a bitch in the bathroom that was

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Speaker 2: she came out swinging and like we were like fighting

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Speaker 2: You had to be drunk as ship. It was to

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Speaker 2: with that one. Yeah, MEXICALI shot if you're if you're

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Speaker 2: I know the food was never was horrible. It was

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Speaker 2: The spot didn't have a bar though, they just had houkah,

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Speaker 2: but they could have hookah. But you could be like twelve. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was at the spot at like four am when

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Speaker 2: I was twelve. I don't know why. Yeah, of course

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Speaker 3: That food is horrible, but they're obviously still going strong. Wait,

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Speaker 2: And then that was it? And then yeah and then

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Speaker 2: like she like busts through and like ran out and

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Speaker 2: I think like I've never really had a lot of

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Speaker 2: also I'm not scared to fight, but also like I

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Speaker 2: don't want to be in I don't want anyone to

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Speaker 2: I don't even it's not even that deep to me, Like, actually,

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Speaker 2: because now you're acting crazy and I'm just sitting here

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Speaker 2: like I was getting very much Kambella like still pretty,

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Speaker 3: I think not too long ago, like the last couple

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Speaker 3: called right now, and we were waiting for an uber

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Speaker 3: and apparently like this white lady was also waiting for

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Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, bitch.

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Speaker 3: And then we got in the car and I was like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's probably like you know, sometimes all you

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Speaker 3: And this makes me know that I probably need to

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think, I think when you start doing

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Speaker 2: and then you're like, you don't even you don't even

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I have any moy Thaie power,

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Speaker 2: No but when you if you did, oh yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: just saying like, once you start doing those type of practices,

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Speaker 3: Probably, I mean, I don't really utilize them now, but

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Speaker 3: So I fought my mom a few.

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Speaker 2: Times, lovely, so get out. Yeah, me and my mom

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Speaker 2: I can't. Oh my god, I can't even imagine. Are

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Speaker 2: I would black out. I would black I think. I yeah,

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Speaker 2: I get it. That's probably why your mom blacked out.

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Speaker 2: She's just nuts, I mean nuts plus the mom plus

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Speaker 2: the black Yeah, you know, Like, but I had to

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Speaker 2: talking like there's been a lot of times. Again, my

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Speaker 2: But there are times where I'm like, you do realize

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Speaker 2: and it's not gonna be mom, daughter, It's gonna be

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Speaker 3: And I remember we were in the car and I

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Speaker 2: I think I told you we were friends.

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Speaker 3: Luna was in the back seat and me and her

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Speaker 3: But Luna was in the back seat talking shit too,

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Speaker 3: like I remember this, my.

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Speaker 2: Mom, you better hours. I remember. God.

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Speaker 3: I was like everybody's ghetto, everybody in the whole family.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I was just like really like I

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Speaker 3: just like looking at her, and I just looked.

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Speaker 2: Back at Luna and she's like, my mom, that is

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Speaker 2: not And I was like, let's.

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Speaker 3: Get out of here before it goes south. We're all

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Speaker 3: in jail, mom, daughter, granddaughter. The lineup, the lineup, A

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Speaker 3: five year old fucking twenty thirty year old Luna.

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Speaker 2: Cry. Yeah, every's crying. It's looking just aike.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, this is my ghetto of confessions. These I'm

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Speaker 3: my confessions, my goodness. Anyway, Dear God, please don't ever

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Speaker 2: And we are moving on from that. We are healing that,

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Speaker 2: We're healing our lineage. No more ghetto fights amongst our families.

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Speaker 3: And I promise I won't drop off Luna any trap

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Speaker 3: houses or number houses or in the hoods, except that

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Speaker 3: one time I did drop profit the projects in Harlem

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Speaker 3: to go out Forgive me, anyway, Have.

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Speaker 2: You been any bad choices this week? Have I made

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Speaker 2: any bet? You keep putting me on the spot. I

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Speaker 2: gotta like really think about this. I had sex on

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Speaker 2: on it. I don't know if it's a bad choice.

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Speaker 2: It is your couch, I know, but I like kind

435
00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:27,680
Speaker 2: of got wet. It was like, who's your friend? Oh

436
00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,800
Speaker 2: my god. They're like why, I'm not gonna tell you

437
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,560
Speaker 2: why your couch? Damn No, I tried it. I put

438
00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:37,280
Speaker 2: like a blow dryer on it. Yeah, okay, when you

439
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:39,960
Speaker 2: come back to my couch, it's fully clean. Now which couch,

440
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 2: don't worry about it. Now I'm not gonna sit anywhere.

441
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, no, no, no, cool, I'm gonna say it.

442
00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 2: I was gonna go in the backyard. Everyone knows that

443
00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:49,240
Speaker 2: your couches are to be fucked on, and everyone's couch

444
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,880
Speaker 2: has been fucked on and you've sat on it, including

445
00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,639
Speaker 2: I've sat on your couch that you've been fucked on.

446
00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:55,080
Speaker 2: Of course I don't.

447
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,120
Speaker 3: I don't even go to people's couches thinking you fucked

448
00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:58,680
Speaker 3: on it. I just like my mind already knows that

449
00:19:58,720 --> 00:19:59,000
Speaker 3: you fuck.

450
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,720
Speaker 2: Like you know, just next time you lay your head

451
00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,639
Speaker 2: on someone's couch to lay down when you're tired, just

452
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:10,680
Speaker 2: know that someone's ass was there too, and maybe seatement. No,

453
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:12,560
Speaker 2: there will be no semen on my couch.

454
00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,119
Speaker 3: It will be no, because I got that that green

455
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:18,119
Speaker 3: velvet and that ship shows you won't put no cement

456
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 3: on my couch. In fact, I feel like some people

457
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:21,639
Speaker 3: were like trying to fuck on my couch and I

458
00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,040
Speaker 3: was like, hold on, hold on, guys, and it's I

459
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:27,159
Speaker 3: got all these towels like okay.

460
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 2: Because I don't. I don't like a lot take the

461
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 2: couch up there. So it took a lot to get

462
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 2: that couch.

463
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,800
Speaker 3: Up that couch is gonna if I leave. It's saying

464
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 3: I'm not taking that. That took six grown. You know,

465
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 3: we both got couches on the same day. Remember we

466
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 3: went to that fucking warehouse about this. You're like, I'm

467
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 3: getting a on fucking Facebook marketplace.

468
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:44,959
Speaker 2: Yeah.

469
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,880
Speaker 3: I had this poor landa about this cheap little couch

470
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 3: that got it. Did It's good for like six months,

471
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,359
Speaker 3: and Erica was like, I'm at the couch place. I

472
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 3: was like, FaceTime me, I need a new couch. I

473
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 3: was trying not to hurt a land of feelings that I

474
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,560
Speaker 3: need to get a new couch, but it was time,

475
00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 3: and so she was just like slowly panning this like

476
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 3: one one place. I was like, well go back, yeah, yeah, yeah, see,

477
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,919
Speaker 3: they'll give us a deal for that to couch.

478
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 2: I don't think they gave us the deal, but we

479
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 2: got them anyway. Yeah we did.

480
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 3: And then I had a party and then I really

481
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 3: needed to get the couch up, and so I was

482
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,640
Speaker 3: like a total lando. I'm like, once everybody gets here,

483
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna make all the men go get the.

484
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 2: Couch from the garage. He's like okay. So we're like,

485
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,879
Speaker 2: oh yeah, that's like okay, before we get too comfortable, everybody,

486
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna need you, you, you, everybody with the penis

487
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 2: follow Orlando to the garage.

488
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 3: We need to take this big ass couch up two

489
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,120
Speaker 3: flights of stairs. It'll be easy, be great. And then

490
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 3: they came back sweating profusely.

491
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 2: It was pretty intenseing me. That's I think that's a

492
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: great plan, because what do you what You're drinking my liquor.

493
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,200
Speaker 2: You're in my home, Come on, come on. The least

494
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 2: you could do is bring my couch up. Yeah. Those

495
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 2: people may not ever came back over my house ever again.

496
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: But that reminds me of from Costa Rica when we

497
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 2: like went on the poetry lounge and we waited for

498
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,440
Speaker 2: them to recite all their poetry for them to then

499
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 2: come help us get the car out of the ditch.

500
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 3: Thank god that car I just asked. I was just

501
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 3: asking Gilly about that recently. Oh my god, I do

502
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,159
Speaker 3: have another bad choice. Speaking of Gilly, shout out to

503
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 3: Gilly the god who uh in perto I went to

504
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 3: his house because we had a long wait before we like,

505
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 3: between checkout and leaving and his baby. Oh my god,

506
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 3: it feels so bad. This is a bad choice. He's

507
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 3: one and I was eating like plantain chips and I

508
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 3: was like giving him little pieces and he's like sucking

509
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 3: on it, and he was like getting excited because they're salty,

510
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 3: and then I must have like give him one and

511
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 3: he got too excited, and then he started bleeding in

512
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 3: his little gums and I was like, and Gilly, you

513
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 3: know it's their first kid. Gilly's baby mama was She's like.

514
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we could take him the hospital. Guy.

515
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, everybody. Then Gilly's cussing her out.

516
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,439
Speaker 3: Why are you not watching Him'm like, it's my fault.

517
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 2: I gave him. I gave him chips. It's my fault.

518
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: He's like she's the mother like yelling at her. He's bleeding.

519
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 2: I was like, we don't need to do the hospital.

520
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 2: It's just a chip.

521
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 3: Everybody keep calm.

522
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 2: I was like, do you are your breast? Videos like

523
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,120
Speaker 2: put your boob in his mouth, Just put your boob

524
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: in his mouth.

525
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 3: He he has teeth right or not really, but they

526
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 3: were sharp. We probably like they probably cut his little

527
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 3: gumb baby. I felt so bad. I was like, I'm

528
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 3: a terrible fucking auntie. I'm not going to anyone else's house.

529
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 3: I text her later.

530
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: You know you can't be giving people babies foreign foods.

531
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 2: You shut up. You haven't got no kids talking about

532
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 2: exactly anyway.

533
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, damn, did I list my baby feet?

534
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 3: Like I don't know about babies anymore? My kids ten,

535
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 3: I don't fucking know anymore. Gotta relearn myself.

536
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say something worse, honestly, what

537
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 2: she choked or something. I mean, because I remember one

538
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 2: time I fucking gave irin you god damn apple, a

539
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 2: little piece of apple, and she fucking choked, and I

540
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: literally saw my life flash before my eyes. Were you

541
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 2: home alone? I think every has that has every parent

542
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 2: experienced this, like when your child you give them a

543
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 2: popcorn they choked. And then you're like, do I remember

544
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 2: any of the high looking No, I don't. All I

545
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 2: know is I'm gonna go to jail.

546
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 3: Actually, you know, it's so crazy about almost dying. It's

547
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 3: like you never forget because I was. I choked on.

548
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 2: A piece of candy.

549
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 3: I know what kind of candy it was that, like,

550
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 3: you know, the the candy that looks like the strawberry

551
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 3: and the packaging. Oh yeah, yeah, And I lived in Alabama,

552
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 3: which had to mean I was like two, Like I

553
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 3: had to be like one or two I was a baby,

554
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 3: or like three, I don't know, And that shit got

555
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 3: lodged in my throat and I never forgot that shit

556
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 3: ever again.

557
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 2: And I'm thirty seven, I can like remember it, like,

558
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 2: because when shit gets stuck in your throat, like there's

559
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 2: you can't even be calm, no, like you can't even

560
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 2: like it's just it's it's terrifying. Even when something goes

561
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: down the wrong hole.

562
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 3: Sometimes you can't like catch your breath even when people

563
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 3: are around.

564
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna die. Jesus, Yeah, don't kill your kids, guys.

565
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 3: When when we go to our through our second iteration

566
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 3: of mothering again, we're gonna have to like revisit a

567
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 3: lot of things like the Heimlich maneuver, like the Himli

568
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 3: fucking maneuver, Like what the fuck do I do with

569
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 3: this kid?

570
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: Like I don't know. I think it's gonna be like

571
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: a whole new starting over to remember because when I

572
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 2: gave that kid and he started bleeding from the mouth,

573
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 2: I was like, oh God, I am not a good mom.

574
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 2: Oh well, you know, first time parents are gonna freak out.

575
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: They were freaking out. I was like, oh God, not

576
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 2: Gilly yelling at her. I know. I like, relax, she's

577
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 2: a mom, she should know. I was like, oh God,

578
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 2: what are you doing.

579
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was outside outside cutting off the tree.

580
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 2: I felt really bad.

581
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 3: So shout out to Gilly and I'm really sorry, baby Pharaoh.

582
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 3: I'm a good aunt, I swear, speaking of motherhood and

583
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 3: small children, to large children and all the children in between,

584
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 3: God's children. We have a very special list to bring

585
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 3: to you today, very very important, and it's the five

586
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 3: misconceptions of the liberated wild mom.

587
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 2: Break it down, baby number one.

588
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 3: So as you know, good mom's bad choices. Its foundation

589
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 3: is built on breaking breaking stereotypes, breaking the glass, getting.

590
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 2: Out of this bitch.

591
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 3: And when we first were birthed seven and a half

592
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 3: years ago, we were really adamant about not falling into

593
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 3: the trap, the trap and the constructs of what perfect.

594
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 3: Oh this is a word from our book of fuck

595
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 3: we even smoked yet, I know, okay, Jesus fuck.

596
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 2: Oh.

597
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 3: Toxic motherhood, toxic motherhood syndrome. Yes, we coined it because

598
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 3: we're smart. That's in our book. And if you haven't

599
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 3: gotten the book, it's called good Mom's Choice. Good Mom's

600
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 3: Guide to Making Bad Choices is available everywhere. And we

601
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 3: wrote it with our own brain, not chat GBT, our.

602
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: Own hands, our hands and our brain word. No ghost writers, bitch,

603
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 2: no ghostwriters, no nothing, just us and our brains and

604
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,479
Speaker 2: our pen because I don't even like to type. I

605
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: just I just wrote it down because I'm fucking.

606
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 3: Strange, because I'm still living in the nineteen forties.

607
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 2: I was like, Eric, it's hard to type, and I

608
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: gotta write it. She had twenty two thousand notebooks. Literally,

609
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 2: I like put them on this I'd like see them.

610
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 3: If there's any doctors listening, tell me if this means

611
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 3: I have problems, I have to see them all. At

612
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 3: the same time, I can't even turn the page. I

613
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 3: literally was in Mexico with Orlando, and I've taped every

614
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,199
Speaker 3: page next to each other so I can't remember what

615
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 3: I said already, and so that it would be like

616
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 3: my eyes needed to see them like that.

617
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: I mean that makes sense, Okay, thanks, because like, yeah,

618
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 2: probably I wonder how redundant I was. Well, that was

619
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 2: my thing, Like I only know so many time did

620
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: I say the same fucking word over it over again.

621
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: I literally was like, am I smart? Do I say

622
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 2: the same terms? Like?

623
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 3: I really had a hard time, but I one of

624
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: the things we talked about in the book is toxic

625
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 3: motherhood syndrome.

626
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: I think that was it. We also talked about toxic positivity.

627
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: But one of the things we birth this podcast is

628
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 2: because we weren't going to be like old haggish mothers.

629
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 3: We were still gonna be fine, and we're gonna still date,

630
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 3: and we're still gonna shake ass, and we're gonna still

631
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: you know, do all the things that women do. And

632
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 3: so I thought today that we should discuss just breaking

633
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 3: out of those formats and the misconceptions of a liberated mom,

634
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 3: because I think this is really important for the women.

635
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 2: It's important for.

636
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 3: The men in society who use these standards to ridicule

637
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 3: and be mean to women and to be judgy. But

638
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 3: most importantly, it's also really important that other moms don't

639
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 3: hold each other to that standard, and that you don't

640
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 3: hold yourself to that fucking standard. So if you're pregnant,

641
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 3: if you think about getting pregnant, if you're ten years in,

642
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 3: or if you're fucking twenty years.

643
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 2: In, listen, listen up see if this, if you fall

644
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 2: into this category, into these categories, and how you can

645
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: dig yourself out of one, and how you can change

646
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 2: your mind and stop going with the programming and think

647
00:28:58,440 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: for your fucking self. Hmen.

648
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 3: So number one, this is my most number one one.

649
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 3: This is my most number one one.

650
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: But first you do that, I'm gonna light the backwood

651
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: because I feel like step one. Smoke a blunt smoke one.

652
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 2: Step one moms can smoke weed. Step one, moms can smoke.

653
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 2: Moms can smoke weed. Guess what, guys, I'm a mom.

654
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 2: Look at me. Look it's not crack. Are you acting crazy?

655
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: I think my brain is still working. Yes. Now, if

656
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 2: you were like a young teenage mom and you get

657
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 2: lazy and you maybe you have other things you should

658
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: be doing, maybe wait till your frontal lobe develops after

659
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: three steps smoking lots of backwoods or doing any extracurricular drugs.

660
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: Like if you're doing a lot of extracurricular drugs, maybe

661
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 3: wait should have a baby.

662
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 2: But if you already are a mom, and you're a

663
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: teen mom, you should wait to do any of these things.

664
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: Not any of these things, but these things, these things.

665
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 3: So I just want to say for the record, for

666
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: anyone listening, for anyone who's ever snared their little nose

667
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 3: up at us, for who snared their little nose up

668
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 3: at anybody else who's smoking trees.

669
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 2: It is a plant.

670
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 3: And if someone is indulging in plant medicine and they're

671
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 3: still of right mind, and they're still doing their duties

672
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: and taking care of their responsibilities and aware that their

673
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 3: kids are alive and thriving.

674
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up.

675
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 3: Let the bitch, Let the mother. I say, bitch with

676
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 3: all the love in my heart. Queen, smoke the weed.

677
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 3: It is of the earth. God made dirt, So dirt

678
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 3: don't hurt, but don't smoke dirt. Smoke weed, good weed.

679
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: We get a lot of messages from moms who are like,

680
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: I can't believe you guys are smoking weed. I'm so happy

681
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: I smoke weed.

682
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 3: And I realize we're in LA so it's legal, and

683
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 3: it's like much more acceptable. And if you're in between

684
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 3: states a lot of weird shit going on around there,

685
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 3: don't let people make you feel bad because weed.

686
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: Is not a drug. It's medicine.

687
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 3: It is medicine, and honestly, I don't know how any

688
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 3: of you people are raw doging raw raw dogging life,

689
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 3: like condoms for sex.

690
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 2: Let alone this life shit.

691
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: I was talking to my homegirl, actually Shannie, and my

692
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 3: best friend is coming to town tomorrow.

693
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: But she has three girls. She's eight years older than me,

694
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,479
Speaker 2: and her girls are like now, seventeen and eighteen, sixteen

695
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 2: and eighteen, and they just started having sex.

696
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 3: I was like, did the girls have sex set they're twins.

697
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, I told them I don't like condoms.

698
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 3: I said, that's the worst thing.

699
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 2: Oh, Shani Shney. No. I don't know if I should

700
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 2: have blasted her like this, But and her kids, they're

701
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: like sex, Oh God, don't make this a clip. Not

702
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 2: pull it out, not edit it out. Don't make it

703
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 2: a clip. Don't make everyone everyone hide in the catalog.

704
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 2: Don't tell her. And if one of you bitches tales,

705
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: I know it's one of you. I feel like that

706
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: was a bit too honest of her to tell her

707
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 2: kids that, but I also respect it because her parents.

708
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: You know, her daughter said, mom, that is irresponsible. Oh

709
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 2: you know, she's doing a good job up. You know,

710
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,479
Speaker 2: sometimes you got to test your kids a little bit.

711
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 2: I would have been like, yeah, that's what I thought

712
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 2: that was.

713
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 3: Because guess what, nobody likes condoms. Nobody never that's step

714
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: two is okay, Well, you.

715
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 2: Know what as a as a young girl having sex

716
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 2: or a young teen having sex, I did like condoms

717
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: because I didn't know any better, and I was scared,

718
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 2: and I was like, yes, put the condom on, because

719
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 2: this is going to protect me and keep me safe.

720
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: It's when you get older and then one boy one

721
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,959
Speaker 2: day says, let me just put the tip in. Let

722
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: me say okay, and then he puts the whole fucking

723
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 2: thing in and then you're like, whoa, this feels a

724
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: lot different.

725
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: And you're like, never you like something when I was

726
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 3: When I was a teenager, I was sixteen in Vegas

727
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 3: with my baby daddy because we high school sweethearts and

728
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 3: we were at a wedding for his family.

729
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: Because we were inseparable, might go dependent.

730
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 3: So my uncle, my dad's friend, came and got us

731
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 3: to take us to a Nelly concert after the wedding.

732
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 3: We missed the reception, so we go to Nelly concert

733
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 3: and in the car, my uncle turns the rear view

734
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: mirrored us and goes, I want to tell you guys something.

735
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 3: I was like Okay, never ever, ever, ever, ever have

736
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 3: sex without a condom, because you're never going to go back.

737
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, too late.

738
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 3: Me and him are like, oh, he's right, but yeah,

739
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 3: I think you should have uncomfortable conversations with your kids.

740
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 3: And I think also speaking of wild or liberated moms,

741
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 3: one thing I'll say about a liberated mom is shout

742
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 3: out to Shawnie. You're going to be honest with your kids,

743
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 3: and your kid is going to know they can come

744
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:29,479
Speaker 3: talk to you.

745
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 2: So if you're wild, you're.

746
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 3: Generally probably more likely to talk about things that most

747
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 3: moms won't. And I think because of that, your kid

748
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 3: is less likely to get into funck shit without telling you,

749
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 3: because they're like, my mom's fucking nuts.

750
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 2: I could tell this crazy bitch.

751
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 3: One time, Luna was talking something about penises or like

752
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 3: about or we're talking about something, and I was like,

753
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 3: she's like something penis and I was like, do you

754
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 3: want to see one? She was like no, and I

755
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 3: was like, okay, I'm just telling you. We want to

756
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 3: see when I can show you.

757
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: I did the same thing when I found out Iri

758
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 2: was looking at penises on the internet. I was like,

759
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 2: she was looking at diagrams like they were drawings, and

760
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: I was like, do you want to see a real one,

761
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 2: because like, maybe are you you need to know what

762
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 2: it looks like. And she was like, nah, I just crying.

763
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is so dramatic.

764
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 3: I've been meaning to tell you I have a big

765
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 3: plan for our kids, but I figured maybe I should

766
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 3: ask the mother first.

767
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 2: I was just gonna do it.

768
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 3: But since we're here talking about it, oh, I this year,

769
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 3: I've had big plans. I'm busting out my my penis

770
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 3: models and my vagina model.

771
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 2: Let's start with the vagina. I'm down.

772
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 3: I was gonna just I was gonna do it all

773
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 3: the same time, but maybe I'll do it in days.

774
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 3: And now I was just gonna bring them in the

775
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 3: living room and just pull off pull off the cover

776
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 3: from them and be like, I want to show you

777
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 3: guys something.

778
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 2: And I think that we should.

779
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 3: I was gonna put some nutella on the ass, what

780
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 3: so I could teach them like how you wipe yourself properly,

781
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: how pap like, how.

782
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 2: Toilet paper doesn't always do the trick. What you assume

783
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 2: kids know shit, but they don't know if you don't

784
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 2: show them.

785
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, and then I was gonna tell the

786
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,800
Speaker 3: ale other, you know, important things.

787
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 2: I'm really glad you're telling me this, thanks because I

788
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: first of all to tell us iris a favorite snack.

789
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,479
Speaker 2: So that's gonna be really acusing. I can hear.

790
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 3: Something else peanut about her, like I don't okay, I've

791
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 3: made peanut butter since nobody likes peanut butter. But you know,

792
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 3: you get the point. I think now's the time I

793
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 3: was thinking in my head. I was like, I was

794
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 3: driving the car.

795
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 2: I was like, Yep, that's what I'm gonna do.

796
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bust out my models and I'm gonna rip

797
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 3: off the cover and I'm like, it's time for me

798
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 3: to teach her some things. I don't know if it's

799
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 3: gonna be traumatizing, but I realized, like, these are things

800
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: that you have to learn, like if someone literally something

801
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: like the last couple of times I was in the

802
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,879
Speaker 3: shower with Luna.

803
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: I was like lifting my leg up.

804
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: I was like, you see how you opened them, this

805
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 3: is how you rin this is really how you've really

806
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: clean your vagina. I was like the right side, the

807
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 3: left side, and she was just looking at me like bitch.

808
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 3: The last time I take a shower.

809
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 2: I mean I've done I've definitely like shown Iri like

810
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 2: my vulva and like this is how I mean. She

811
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 2: hated every moment of it and she's like barely looked

812
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 2: at me when I did it. But you know, I

813
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 2: think it is important. I think it's not enough to

814
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: just be like ripe, here's the piece. Yeah, like first

815
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: of all, the paper doesn't work.

816
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 3: Second of all, these are things you have to like

817
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 3: like no, And I realized that because someone told me that,

818
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 3: Like a teacher was, like she was at school and

819
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: realized a bunch of kids didn't know how to iron

820
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: or didn't know how to turn on the iron or

821
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 3: plug it in like step one, step two, and she's like,

822
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 3: what the fuck? And then she's like, you have to

823
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 3: realize that kids have to be shown visually for them

824
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:32,320
Speaker 3: to understand.

825
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 2: Like you assume kids know things. But that's the problem

826
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 2: with these new generations.

827
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,919
Speaker 3: They're dumb because your mom assumed that your new things

828
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 3: because back in our day, oh my god, I just say,

829
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:46,439
Speaker 3: back in our day. Back in our day, it's called

830
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 3: common sense. Now it's not so common, so you have

831
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 3: to break it down and show them. So maybe I'll

832
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 3: include you can get models online. They're not that expensive,

833
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 3: like maybe thirty dollars, And this is probably good for you.

834
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 3: And also, you know what show I appreciated that you

835
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 3: guys should also watch. I don't know if you watch.

836
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 3: This is a good one. It's a series called sex Education.

837
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 3: I remember that series and I was like obsessed and

838
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 3: I really liked it. I'm actually want to watch it again.

839
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 3: Can you have me the lighter? Okay, sorry, back to

840
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 3: the list.

841
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 2: It's next to you.

842
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 3: Number two misconception of a liberated mommer?

843
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: Are those? Number two? I think is you have to

844
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 2: dress a certain way. This is my favorite one because

845
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: everybody knows that I don't dress appropriately, like they gotta.

846
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 2: You gotta pack it up. You gotta put the hoochia

847
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 2: gear away, gotta put those titties away.

848
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 3: You gotta put on pearls and stockings, and you gotta

849
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 3: wear that college shirt.

850
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: You know.

851
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't even like I don't even know if it's

852
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 2: that extreme, but I will say that I see like

853
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 2: I do see like a difference. I'll see like a

854
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 2: person that I maybe knew in my like young younger life,

855
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: my younger outside life. And then they have kids and

856
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 2: then they're like their whole style, Like it's like their

857
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: style just went to shit, like what like we stopped

858
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: shopping at the same places, like they decided they needed

859
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 2: to only shop the Banana Republic. Oh my god, I

860
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: hate Rebecca. I fucking hate Banana Republic. I hate it.

861
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 2: Like I really need you to join YouTube so you

862
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 2: can teach me the facial expression.

863
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 3: I'm so happy you specifically said Banana Republic because I

864
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 3: hate it so much.

865
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 2: It's my least favorite.

866
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 3: You know, they had like one good season, but not

867
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 3: even that, and it's overpriced and it's like.

868
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: Kate Spade even the Gap.

869
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 3: Or that one star Black and White.

870
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh god. Sorry for the people that are

871
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 2: listening who are like I love that store. Okay, So

872
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: if you're listening and you feel ashamed, good, listen good.

873
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 2: I need you to go. I want you to stop

874
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 2: this episode right now, and I want you to go

875
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 2: in your fucking closet and pull all the Black and

876
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 2: White Gap and Banana Republic you have out right now,

877
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 2: right now, and I want you to blade on the

878
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 2: bed and I want you to take a good look

879
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: at it, and I really want you to really really

880
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 2: think about these choices. And whether you can remove at

881
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 2: least four of these items from your closet. You can

882
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 2: remove at least four because they all look very similar,

883
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 2: like you gotta they gotta go.

884
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 3: However, if you're one of those people who've always dressed

885
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 3: this way, this is the gap.

886
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 2: Is your style?

887
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 3: If been in a republic is all you. I have

888
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 3: an aunt like this, shout out to my aunt. I

889
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: will never speak her name on camera because she is

890
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 3: a very private person.

891
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: Okay, like she would think she's famous, but she must

892
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 2: have scared the shit out of you. She did. Absolutely.

893
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: She does not play any like, she won't post any pictures.

894
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: It's very serious. But she has.

895
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 3: Always dressed like a fucking square. That's been her that's

896
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 3: been her identity, and I respect that.

897
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 2: If you're just a.

898
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 3: Square and she's like, oh I love square nerdy outfits.

899
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 2: I love it. So you know, there's like there's like

900
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 2: a conservative fashion or like it's like New York. It's like, yeah,

901
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: there's that you No, I couple's therapy. No oh, what

902
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: another thing you must throw out? The kitten heel. The

903
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 2: kittenhill must go. Kitten heel, the kitten Hill's got to go.

904
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 3: If you're not going to commit to a full heel.

905
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 3: This is my version of a kitten hill.

906
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 2: This is it.

907
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 3: This is the smallest hill I own. And this is

908
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 3: because this is a cute and they have a cool print.

909
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 2: But you don't think the kitten heel looks good on

910
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 2: like skinny long girls that maybe long girls and like

911
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 2: are dressed in like little mini skirts. Like what if

912
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 2: you have like a mini skirt on with a kitten heel.

913
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: I've seen girls pull it off. Because there's this one

914
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 2: girl that I follow and she always is wearing like

915
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 2: the Fendy kitten heels like New York. She lives in Chicago,

916
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 2: but she's always flying around and she's like sponsored. She's

917
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 2: like deal, And I was gonna say this, Actually, it's

918
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 2: the deal. It's the door. Remember I remember, I remember

919
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 2: I bought a kitten heel. Could I say something? I'm ashamed? Okay?

920
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: So I went to like a consignment shop in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.

921
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 2: Of course, but the consignment shop was hitting okay because

922
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: they didn't No one has style there. And then there

923
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: was this Dior kitten heel and I was like, I

924
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 2: put it on and my mom was like, oh, those

925
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 2: are in style. My Mom was like, that's in style

926
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 2: right now, and I was like, huh my thick calf

927
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 2: with my kitten heel on. I'm like, I don't know, Mom, Like,

928
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: it's not like I don't know if it's doing. It's

929
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 2: like you just have the right outfit on. I'm like, okay,

930
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: heavy war them since bitch, I sold them, I got,

931
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 2: I sold them on Poschmark. I'm gonna get a Postmark.

932
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put postmark just for skinning girls.

933
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 3: You know, I think maybe I am biased because I'm short,

934
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 3: so just it just doesn't do.

935
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 2: Anything like when I see long, lanky, tall girls with

936
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,240
Speaker 2: like like mini skirts, not like a fucking you can't

937
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 2: wear a skirt that's past your knee and a kitten

938
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: heel that is called church amish or I don't know.

939
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 2: That's just I don't know. I don't even I don't

940
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 2: shame religions, but it's just not it okay.

941
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 3: But you know, if you have a short skirt, you

942
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 3: have to like you have to call you can't just

943
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 3: do all the gap and banana Republic and a kitten heel.

944
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 3: But I do now that you said that about that

945
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 3: girl that you follow, I do feel like kitten heel.

946
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 2: Screams rich. It does. It's like the kitten heel and

947
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 2: like the folding purse, the foldable purse.

948
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 3: This Chanelle called Janelle bash the chain. Maybe when I

949
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 3: get rich, I'll rock the kitten heel. When I start

950
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: rocking kitten hill. You know I made it when you

951
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 3: see me with that kitten heel. Baby, you know I'm

952
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 3: on the yacht.

953
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 2: Okay, oh no, I'm not gonna let that happen. Please God,

954
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:22,479
Speaker 2: I don't care howbrid should get.

955
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:27,399
Speaker 3: I yeah, I rebuke that that you have to dress

956
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 3: a certain way as a mom, Like I'm not gonna pop.

957
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 3: I don't know I'm even gonna stick by that. I'm

958
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 3: gonna say I'm not gonna be seventy rocking my cleavage

959
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 3: out because that's a goddamn lie.

960
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 2: If I get these titties are still sitting. I mean,

961
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 2: I people will talk about I remember. I remember actually

962
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 2: my friend spashed and his stepmom would always comment on

963
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 2: my tits because I never wore bra before I had

964
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 2: my before I had my boobs done, I still never

965
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: wore bra. Actually have a bra today because I wanted

966
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 2: to really push the girls up. But back in my

967
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: other day when I had a size B tit, I

968
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 2: never wore bra be small bee, and I remember her

969
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 2: like commenting like, Eric, why don't you ever wear a

970
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: bra like she and she would say it like she

971
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 2: said it like multiple times, and I was like, why

972
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 2: the fuck are you looking at my tits? Like why

973
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 2: are you saying that to boobs? And also I'm twenty

974
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: that's why for exactly. But also I'm thirty seven and

975
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 2: I'm still not wearing a broth so maybe it wasn't that,

976
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 2: But I just feel like I just feel like, first

977
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 2: of all, your titties out, Like I don't understand, no

978
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 2: one has a problem with you feeding your their babies

979
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 2: with these things, but the moment you want to show

980
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 2: them or they help balance at your outfit or accentuate

981
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,800
Speaker 2: something or you just feel confident or sexy, it becomes

982
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: this whole thing about like you just want attention. I mean.

983
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 3: Also, I mean people shamed me, and I'm sure people

984
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 3: are getting shamed right now at this very moment for breastfeeding.

985
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 3: I mean, because I would bove a titty out anywhere

986
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 3: because I'm feeding my kid, and you know, I'd prefer

987
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 3: to be topless anyway.

988
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 2: But I Shaming women.

989
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 3: For breastfeeding and claiming that it's for attention is absolutely ridiculous.

990
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 3: Shaming women for any thing they choose to wear. Even

991
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 3: when I catch myself thinking like she should not be

992
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 3: having that on, I'm like, bitch, stay in your link,

993
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 3: just keep.

994
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: Your eyes focused. Bitch, sat her where the fuck you want,

995
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 2: because you know, I have that club in front of

996
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 2: my house and baby baby wearing some shade over there.

997
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I have I have some I know some

998
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: people that do not dress what I would say would

999
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: be flattering to their body type. But bitch, they're coughing.

1000
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 2: They coughed, They looked in the mirror, and they said, hell, yeah,

1001
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 2: I look good and I'm out and I'm out and

1002
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 2: I'm here for it, okay, because I said the same

1003
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 2: thing and now I'm out, So what the fuck am

1004
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 2: I to tell you any differently? But I I mean,

1005
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: I've had Luna definitely be like, are you gonna put

1006
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 2: on this or that? And I'm like, no, because this

1007
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: is my body. You go put on what the fuck

1008
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 2: you want to put on?

1009
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 3: And I think she just I asked her, oh, she

1010
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 3: said recently. I was like, what do you how do

1011
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 3: you feel about me being naked all the time or

1012
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 3: something because she made a comment. Was one of my

1013
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 3: non friend's kids came over, like a school friend and

1014
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 3: she I was cleaning. I was like, had no shirun.

1015
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 3: She's like, why is your mom having any clothes on it?

1016
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 3: She's like, oh, she's changing. And then she's like, then

1017
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 3: you just kept sweeping.

1018
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: You just kept cleaning, yeah, and then you moved on

1019
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: to the windows, and then you wipe the TV down.

1020
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, we're all girls. Like she's

1021
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 2: like a little girl.

1022
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 3: So I was just like, so I asked her, how

1023
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 3: do you feel about me being naked? Or what do

1024
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 3: you think that means? That's what I said, what do

1025
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 3: you think that means? And she goes that you're free,

1026
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 3: So even if she doesn't like it, at least that's

1027
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 3: where she equates it too. But I so, now do

1028
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 3: you put shirts on when her friends come over? I'll

1029
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 3: probably be more conscious of it when that little girl

1030
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 3: comes over. But all of my other friends are my

1031
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,879
Speaker 3: friend's kids and you already you already know, so no,

1032
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,919
Speaker 3: But I'm like, god, I have to consider somebody else

1033
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 3: in my own motherfucking house. But you know, I mean,

1034
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 3: because I will keep my shirt off. With any guest

1035
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,959
Speaker 3: over like Orlando's friends, male friends, Like.

1036
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 2: My dad comes over, I'll put on a shirt. But

1037
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,959
Speaker 2: like that's pretty much it. No one gets special treat

1038
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 2: me this motherfucker. But I I I'm not smoking weed

1039
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 2: because like this is something I've encountered where like I smoke.

1040
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 2: I've like I smoke. I res knows I smoke weed.

1041
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 2: I obviously And when her friends are when like she's

1042
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 2: had friends over and I'm like, I'm gonna smoke, I'm

1043
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: going go outside. I'm like sometimes I've had the question

1044
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 2: like should I hide, like not because maybe their parents

1045
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 2: haven't had this conversation with them. And then now I'm

1046
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 2: the one that's brought this up. And now I'm smoking

1047
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: dope in the backyard. Well how do they know if

1048
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: it's not a cigarette? Like people smoke cigarettes. I don't know.

1049
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: So that's why I don't think of it the same

1050
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: because I.

1051
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 3: Think, oh, well, it could be a cigarette, don't kid,

1052
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: you don't have the fuck. But when parents, but they

1053
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 3: might know the smell, I don't know.

1054
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 2: Well, if you know the smell and your mom's smoking too, shit,

1055
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 2: nobody like mommy, it didn't smell like a cigarette. It

1056
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 2: smelled like something el I will prove it. But if

1057
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 2: the parent comes to get the kid, I hide. I hide,

1058
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 2: like spray down, No I do. I'll hide that.

1059
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 3: I won't smoke when kids from school are over, like

1060
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 3: unless I'm on the balcony or but I will hide

1061
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 3: all of the paraphermilium. You're gonna lie because I don't

1062
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 3: need you.

1063
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 2: You don't need them those problems even in Like are

1064
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,560
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1065
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1068
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Speaker 3: We have a lot of cute four twenty mom mom

1069
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Speaker 3: gear mom gear and sometimes and I have well, this

1070
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Speaker 3: is shout out to blunt blow my Mama, Good Mom

1071
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: smoke weed.

1072
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 2: It's like this big. I'm like, maybe I'll just I'm

1073
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 2: always like, come on.

1074
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 3: Lonna, let's go. And that's why I looks. Also because

1075
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 3: there's not that many black kids at our school. I

1076
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,879
Speaker 3: just don't need any trouble. But then I'm like, bitch,

1077
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 3: this is your brand.

1078
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah I don't. I've warned it to school. I don't

1079
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 2: really give a fuck, you know you. Also, I feel

1080
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: like your school's a little bit more like urban not

1081
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 2: urban kind of, I guess, but either way, or we're

1082
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 2: in la Yeah, yeah, I'm surprised by me. Yeah, rock

1083
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 2: the hoodie.

1084
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of a lot of the

1085
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 3: parents at my kids' school shop.

1086
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 2: I've been in a republic, so yeah, and then I

1087
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 2: don't want to have to like, I know all the

1088
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 2: girls and my the mom's in my school wearing skims exactly.

1089
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,720
Speaker 2: They were like in skims, matching sets with their butt's done.

1090
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 3: Oh oh, there's show bbls at my school.

1091
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 2: Oh, there's lots of b oh body's done.

1092
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 3: App Oh no, no, no, no, ye, my school is

1093
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 3: very Are you her mother or her grandma?

1094
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: Who knows? Yeah, and who knows? Oh.

1095
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 3: It reminds me of on Abbot Elementary, there's an episode

1096
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 3: shout out to Quinta Quinta. There is an episode where

1097
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 3: the mom keeps showing up for school and things that

1098
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 3: say like slat bitch, and then so that the teacher

1099
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 3: has a conversation with her like you know, some of

1100
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 3: your outfits dropping off little Johnny and she's like, oh,

1101
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 3: so you are stereotyping me because this is my brain

1102
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 3: that I made one million dollars in last year, so.

1103
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 2: That that's us. And I was like, oh my god,

1104
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 2: that's me.

1105
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 3: And she was like and then she like looked her

1106
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 3: up and she was like super successful and like changing

1107
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 3: the word.

1108
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 2: Slat and bitch. And I was like, oh my god,

1109
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 2: is that me? I'm that mom?

1110
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 3: I uh Iri and Luna I said this already. I

1111
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 3: don't know if I said this. Went to summer camp

1112
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 3: and they insisted on being fucking that they have all

1113
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 3: these cool activities or like they could.

1114
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:20,919
Speaker 2: Do dance, girl power, aerial like fucking a making Yeah,

1115
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 2: and they chose girl power and I told her we

1116
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 2: better not change it. They called me from camp like

1117
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 2: your daughter would love to change the girl power and

1118
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, tell her no, saying we both were doing

1119
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 2: they're both of our kids were calling us. They were

1120
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 2: both like no, but you know what that's like, we're

1121
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 2: girl power. That's why. Well that's why I called He's like,

1122
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 2: I was like, I am girl power. You don't need

1123
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 2: any more of this ship. You're the most girl powered

1124
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 2: girl there is because of me. I was like, we

1125
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 2: learned how to shoot guns. Mom. I was like, okay,

1126
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 2: that sounds about that. That was the only thing I was like,

1127
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 2: I'm okay with that.

1128
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: That.

1129
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 2: I was like, that's what we need to learn how

1130
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 2: to do, Loki. I know, Fuck god, we need to

1131
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 2: go camp to the goddamn shooting eight.

1132
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 3: Every week we say okay, yeah, but we're the sea

1133
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 3: through shirt where the lay share. Obviously we're to the

1134
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 3: appropriate place, like to the dinner where it's dimly lit.

1135
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 2: You don't have to wear it to the mall. Or

1136
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 2: it is like a job interview, depending on what job

1137
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,479
Speaker 2: you're trying to get. Unfortunately, we're just not that ahead

1138
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: at the times yet, guys. I you know, every time

1139
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 2: I've ever had a job interview, I really struggled in

1140
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 2: that department of outfits.

1141
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:19,320
Speaker 3: I sometimes struggle here because I can't be on YouTube

1142
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 3: with my tits out look.

1143
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 2: I'm just a little what's that? Oh my god? Can

1144
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 2: we do an episode where there's like just something right

1145
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 2: in front of us and we're just like naked, but

1146
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 2: never just like no like one leaf, yeah in the jungle?

1147
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 2: Those are our only fans episodes. What's number three? Baby?

1148
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, because you have the computer in front of.

1149
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 3: You Okay, I'm a reporter, guys, let me look it up. Oh,

1150
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 3: I think there's a big misconception about how, oh this

1151
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 3: is a big like your dating status as a liberated mom,

1152
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 3: or like that you're bringing a bunch of guys into

1153
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 3: the house and introducing every guy ever redated to your kids,

1154
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 3: like having one night stance with your kid in the

1155
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 3: next room, and you know that probably may happen if

1156
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 3: the babysitter goes home. But like, I think there's this

1157
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 3: misconception that women who are single and dating as moms

1158
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 3: are just outside not paying attention, like doing reckless shit.

1159
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 2: I agree, and.

1160
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 3: That's just absolutely most moms are just not reckless, no

1161
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 3: matter how.

1162
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 2: Reckless you are personally. You well, you know, I'm gonna

1163
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 2: just say that if there's like a learning curve when

1164
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 2: you become a parent, because if you are a reckless

1165
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,720
Speaker 2: thinger before kid life, you don't just become unreckless suddenly,

1166
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: But when you become a mom, there's a learning curve

1167
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: that happens. So you might actually be outside a little

1168
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 2: bit and then you finally fucking learn. There's a lot

1169
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: of things. I mean, it could because of age, but

1170
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 2: there is something that switches. Yes, there is something that

1171
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 2: switches and you just become more mindful. And yeah, there's

1172
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 2: there's things that happen. And I think that like when

1173
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: you when you become a single mom, because there's not

1174
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 2: always the support that you need there, Like there are

1175
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 2: times where you might bring the guy home and the

1176
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 2: babies that went home, but the baby's asleep, so you're like,

1177
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 2: all right, fuck it right, you know, And it's like

1178
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 2: I don't think that there should be I don't think

1179
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,240
Speaker 2: we should be shamed for that. Like we get asleep,

1180
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 2: like and there's a door and a lock between me

1181
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: and any child that he wakes up. Yeah, Like I

1182
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 2: don't know. Like the internet is so weird and people

1183
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 2: are so sensitive and people have experienced their own bouts

1184
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 2: of traumas and I get all of that, but it's

1185
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 2: like at some point, like we can't just live in

1186
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 2: fear of everything and also like villainize every man, like

1187
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 2: every man is a fucking predator and a pedophile. Yeah, it's

1188
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 2: it's bizarre.

1189
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 3: And it's also like you're not allowing women and moms

1190
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 3: to be human, like you.

1191
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 2: Have have you done that some shit? Okay?

1192
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 3: Well, like just because I might do something that maybe

1193
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 3: quote unquote wild like have a white night stand doesn't

1194
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 3: mean that like that in any way, shape or form

1195
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 3: affects how I show up as a mother, if that

1196
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 3: is going to affect my child in any way, Like

1197
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 3: I'm not you know, I just I'm not saying move

1198
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:03,720
Speaker 3: a nigga in in the studio apartment.

1199
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 2: Let them let you.

1200
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:06,839
Speaker 3: And you're like everybody's sharing a bed, like this is

1201
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 3: not what we're saying, but like you're you're going to.

1202
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,240
Speaker 2: And I think it's and I also think it's okay

1203
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 2: for moms who maybe didn't have their ho fas before

1204
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 2: kids to have their whole face. You're allowed to have

1205
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 2: your whole face. You need to have your home. It's okay, babe,

1206
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: you can do it. It's not too late. Like fuck

1207
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: what they said, you can do. You can have your

1208
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,439
Speaker 2: whole phase after motherhood if you did, if you're relate

1209
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 2: to the party, welcome, Okay. Obviously your whole fase is

1210
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 2: gonna be a little bit different than the whole phase

1211
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 2: you would have had before kids. I'm so sorry that

1212
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 2: you didn't get to experience the whole phase and its

1213
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:40,959
Speaker 2: full whole glory. However, without the shame and the guilty people.

1214
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 2: I mean, you're gonna still be shamed and guilty.

1215
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,439
Speaker 3: You always be shaing guilty, but they try to shame

1216
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 3: you more. They try to shame me, you so much

1217
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 3: that you don't even have it.

1218
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: But that's the point. It's like you're gonna get shamed anyway,

1219
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: So do what you need to do, you know, Like,

1220
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 2: you know, we speaking of I had. I wore our

1221
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 2: shirt the other day, our heel first, hoe later shirt.

1222
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 2: I think we do because I got a lot of

1223
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 2: compliments of it. Did you get that shirt? They're like, oh,

1224
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:03,439
Speaker 2: I like that shirt. I'm like out with Iri.

1225
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 3: My dad saw He's like, you spelled HO wrong. I

1226
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 3: was like, that's how you spell her. And I was

1227
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 3: like thank you.

1228
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 2: And I was like really hoping Iri wasn't going to

1229
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 2: look at my shirt and be like heal first, ho later.

1230
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 2: It's like, thank you, thank you anyway.

1231
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 3: So honestly that this is going to be an important

1232
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 3: topic when I pull up a couple of years after

1233
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 3: I pull out my manuals, that's gonna be one you

1234
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 3: should heal first and ho later. Yeah, I'm going to

1235
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 3: teach my kid that. Yeah, you know, like let's let's

1236
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 3: work on this first and then you know, do what

1237
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,360
Speaker 3: you do intentionally. It's funny one of my friends. I

1238
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 3: was talking to one of my friends yesterday and she

1239
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 3: had this role when she was being celibant.

1240
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: She was she's trying to like find her husband, and

1241
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 2: she was.

1242
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 3: Just like she waited to have sex with this guy

1243
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 3: and then come to find out like it just wasn't him,

1244
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 3: Like it was it wasn't that guy.

1245
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:55,320
Speaker 2: So I talked to her recently.

1246
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 3: She's dating again, and she's like, I'm dating this guy

1247
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 3: who I you know, I had met on hinge a

1248
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,919
Speaker 3: while ago and she was just like, yeah, I hate

1249
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 3: my pussy And like I said, did you just like

1250
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 3: a dick? She's like yeah, and it was really nice

1251
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 3: and she's like, you know, I've actually been thinking about

1252
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 3: it if I'm gonna like stay with this, like I

1253
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 3: think it was like a ninety no, maybe it's like

1254
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:13,919
Speaker 3: a six month rule or something like that.

1255
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 2: And I was like telling her, I was like, that's

1256
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 2: a long that's a long time to be wasting. I

1257
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 2: was just telling her.

1258
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 3: I was like, honor yourself, you know, you know, if

1259
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 3: you feel safe or intentional, and just know that like

1260
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 3: even if.

1261
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 2: You break the celibacy or whatever.

1262
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 3: You're the rule you put on yourself, like you you

1263
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 3: are hopefully at this point intentional about who you share

1264
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 3: yourself with and know that like you feel good about it.

1265
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 3: You need some dick and like this seems like a

1266
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 3: safe person, and that's okay. If it's your nigga, it's

1267
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:40,840
Speaker 3: your nigga forever. And if not, there's no need to

1268
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 3: beat up your beat yourself up. You don't have to

1269
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 3: like rego into your virgin years to fucking.

1270
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 2: Only and punish yourself. Yeah, no, no, no, I mean

1271
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 2: I think I understand that. You know, I'm a I'm

1272
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 2: a newly proponent of celibacy before relate, like before whatever,

1273
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 2: devoting yourself to a guy. However, I will say that

1274
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 2: doing that over and over and over again for years

1275
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 2: and hoping that you like you doing that over and over,

1276
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 2: you'll be five years in underfucked and not with your nigga.

1277
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 2: So I feel like you gotta find the balance in

1278
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 2: between there. You got to like bend the rules when needed,

1279
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 2: you know, you know when you're supposed to and obviously

1280
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 2: and also like whatever he's giving to you too, if

1281
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 2: he's like just trying to fuck, then you already know,

1282
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 2: like I don't really want to fuck you. Like, so

1283
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 2: if you're with someone who's respecting your boundaries, honoring what

1284
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 2: you need, and honoring your requests, then I feel like

1285
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 2: there's more space to be a little bit more flexible there. Yeah.

1286
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, don't give yourself such strict rules that you

1287
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 3: can't even break them under the guise of your own intention.

1288
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 2: I've definitely had some like.

1289
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 3: Good hearty, necessary fun unattached like one night stands and

1290
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,399
Speaker 3: I left, I'm like that was nice, that was good,

1291
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 3: you know, and then like that and versus you do

1292
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 3: it and like, oh god, I feel like shit, why

1293
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:03,720
Speaker 3: the fuck.

1294
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 2: Did I do that?

1295
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 3: And then you know, you know, gooda goddamn we shouldn't

1296
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 3: have done it. But if it's like this seems fun, whoo,

1297
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 3: do what you gotta do and like indulge in your

1298
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 3: pleasure in that way. Sometimes everything every sex partner, though

1299
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 3: sex is sacred, doesn't necessarily mean it's gonna be your

1300
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 3: long term partner.

1301
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: And that's okay. Yeah, thank god Jesus. Even though I'm

1302
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 2: like I need I cleanse me. God, I was just

1303
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 2: I was just my phone is overfilled and I can't

1304
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 2: fucking take any more videos, and so I'm like going

1305
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 2: through my storage and it's like telling me, like what

1306
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 2: my biggest files are. I'm sitting there with Orlando and

1307
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 2: I'm like going through the videos and then I'm like,

1308
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 2: oh god, there's like a sex video of me and

1309
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 2: my ex. And I was like, I'm like watch it

1310
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 2: for a second. And I was like and I was like,

1311
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 2: you know, some of this shit does not need to

1312
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 2: live in my phone forever. Like part of me was

1313
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 2: like should I save it so I could look back

1314
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 2: and be like the time wait, because there was this

1315
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 2: time with this ex in particular because he was such

1316
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 2: a psycho and jealous because he was cheating on me,

1317
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 2: where he wanted me to delete all of my previous

1318
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: my previous sex videos, my like pictures with guys, like

1319
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 2: fixtures with guys, Like there's no reason for you to

1320
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 2: even have these romantic photos in your phone anymore? Why

1321
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 2: do you have this? And I was like, He's like,

1322
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 2: I deleted all mine. I was like, first of all,

1323
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 2: you're fucking line. He was like, so anyway, I didn't

1324
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 2: do it, but he thought I did. And I literally

1325
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 2: just dropped them all into a drive, all of my exes,

1326
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 2: I was like, because if this doesn't work out, what

1327
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 2: if I want to see that picture? And I'm so glad,

1328
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 2: so glad that I did, because recently I went back

1329
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, look at me and happy

1330
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 2: bay mean I look at that, oh Bee, I'm like, yeah,

1331
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 2: fuck all that. But I don't have I did. I

1332
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 2: did delete all my sex videos from my phone every

1333
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 2: single year. I have no. I think there's something like

1334
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 2: that backfolder that actually that you drop that backup folder

1335
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 2: that I have, you like an actual hard drive, Like

1336
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 2: where is it your computer? It's in my drop it's

1337
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 2: my drop box. It's my drop box. That's actually smart.

1338
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 3: You could just leave it somewhere else, not to be

1339
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 3: seen until you intentionally need to look at it. Sometimes

1340
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 3: I should be popping up on a day I didn't

1341
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 3: even ask to see this shit.

1342
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, email us. What do you guys think?

1343
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 3: Should you delete all of the sex videos all of

1344
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 3: your memories from X I definitely have some sex videos.

1345
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 3: I mean not that I'm like going in my folder

1346
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 3: like looking at them in my closet. I just I

1347
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 3: didn't even think to do erase them. Yeah, I don't have.

1348
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 2: Many, though. Do you have a hidden folder of course,

1349
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 2: so in your hidden folder, that's where they live then, right, Yeah, yeah,

1350
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 2: I have all types of things. What's the next one?

1351
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 2: I think the next one was around career, which we

1352
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 2: kind of touched on already, but maybe we can a

1353
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 2: lot we didn't really touch on that we're talking about

1354
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 2: dressing for careers. I think that there is a lot

1355
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 2: of of shame around a women prioritizing their careers because

1356
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 2: it does require balance and you will be imbalanced. But

1357
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 2: I think that that's inevitable in any with anything, you

1358
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like, no one's shaming dads that

1359
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 2: are traveling out doing their thing. And I think that

1360
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 2: as working moms, as women that have dreams and aspirations,

1361
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 2: our kidney to see us do our thing. I know,

1362
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 2: my mom literally was on set from six am to

1363
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 2: eleven pm for a lot of my life. So I

1364
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 2: would get nights with her, and I would get not

1365
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 2: even nights, I'd get cuddles with her early early mornings,

1366
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 2: and then i'd get the weekends. And for me, like,

1367
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 2: that's not why I'm in therapy. It wasn't because mommy

1368
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 2: wasn't around, because she was working, you know, like I

1369
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 2: if anything, I saw her do that, and it think

1370
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 2: has inspired me to be able to manage and do

1371
01:00:58,040 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 2: all the things, to be able to dream the way

1372
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 2: I dream. And I hope that I re sees that

1373
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 2: and realizes that is and that that that's a possibility.

1374
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 2: But I also think that I think the difference is

1375
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 2: is that I didn't ever see my mom rest. I

1376
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 2: didn't ever see her prioritize herself. And I think that

1377
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 2: that's where I come in in this iteration of motherhood,

1378
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 2: is like, yes, you can do all those things, but

1379
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 2: you have to also equally take care of yourself, Like

1380
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: it does no one any good to just be fucking

1381
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 2: running yourself down into the ground. So I think it's

1382
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 2: like finding the balance. But I think there's a lot

1383
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 2: of shame for women choosing their careers.

1384
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 3: And I don't even want to say over motherhood, but

1385
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 3: like just still prioritize, prioritizing both. Yeah, you know, I

1386
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 3: think even and I think that there's a like such

1387
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 3: a disconnect because what we what we see is success

1388
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 3: and then what we see, what we also say, is

1389
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 3: the standard of which a mom should be present or

1390
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 3: whatever in the life of their child. Like even for us,

1391
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 3: I think we were like, oh, I want to travel

1392
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 3: a lot. You know, I really going to be able

1393
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 3: to travel with while I work bringing the kids, which

1394
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 3: obviously kids have to go to school and shit, so

1395
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 3: it's not as easy as it sounds. But like there's

1396
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 3: such thing as like refining the manifestation and like you

1397
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 3: could have a season if you're going really hard, and

1398
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 3: then you're like, let me rest, and like I mean

1399
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 3: rest always, but and then you're like, maybe you are

1400
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 3: going to rearrange what's.

1401
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 2: Priority to priority to you as you evolve. It's just

1402
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 2: how it works.

1403
01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 3: As you get older, you're like, I'm working really hard

1404
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 3: for what, Like yeah, things are nice, but like.

1405
01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 2: What do I really need? So I can have a

1406
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 2: balance of both and you're allowed to.

1407
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 3: And I think they're almost come from the same place.

1408
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 3: Like even a lot of our success came after we

1409
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 3: had kids. Like our womb is what creates. Our womb

1410
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 3: is like it literally creates people, and it births ideas

1411
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 3: and it bursts things.

1412
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 2: And it's like you have to feed your creativity and

1413
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 2: work in your purpose as well as you know, alongside motherhood,

1414
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 2: which is also a purpose, but most of us have

1415
01:02:57,160 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 2: additional purposes outside of motherhood. You know what and and

1416
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 2: as you said that, I'm like, don't you think that's

1417
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 2: not ironic? It actually makes total sense that usually after

1418
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 2: women give birth, that's when they like really start to

1419
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 2: prioritize their dreams, their career. Maybe not even their dreams,

1420
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 2: I mean that's not maybe that's not true, but like

1421
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 2: they get into creation mode. It activates you. Yeah, it's

1422
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 2: a rite of passages. And it's not necessarily just because

1423
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 2: you maybe have to be the provider, because yes, there

1424
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 2: is that potentially, but it allows you i think when

1425
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 2: you see a child in play and you see your

1426
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 2: child's like experience of the world in all its newness,

1427
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:40,439
Speaker 2: it can't it can't help but inspire you to kind

1428
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 2: of rethink what it is that you want to do.

1429
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 2: And that brings me to another part of this number

1430
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 2: four that we're on is like the shame around your

1431
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 2: career choice to like what kind of career is suitable

1432
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 2: for a mother, right, it's suitable for someone raising a child,

1433
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 2: Like we talk about sex on the airwaves, on the

1434
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 2: airwave talking about sex on the airwaves and our dating life,

1435
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 2: and like you know, for a lot of people, I'm

1436
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 2: sure they've looked down upon us, and like those are

1437
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 2: mothers and they're talking about this. Yeah, bitch, And I'm

1438
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:17,919
Speaker 2: getting paid to pay pay beach and it's not even

1439
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 2: just about the money. I'm fulfilled. Yeah, I feel good,

1440
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 2: I'm happy. I'm being honest.

1441
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, like like I'm on here lying and shit like, Yeah,

1442
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 3: the truth will sell shut you free, shall shut you street,

1443
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 3: even if it's not likable to everybody else or to

1444
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 3: everybody else's idea of what you should or how you're

1445
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 3: supposed to show up.

1446
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. Happiness, So as long as your career is making

1447
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 2: you feel fulfilled, making you feel happy, making you feel grounded,

1448
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 2: not making you feel outside of yourself, outside of your body, girl,

1449
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 2: do your bang. Yeah.

1450
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 3: And also if you don't have it all together, like

1451
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:54,959
Speaker 3: you know, I would recommend having some shit together before

1452
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 3: you give birth, because shit gets very real when you

1453
01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 3: don't trust me, I know. But also like there's space

1454
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 3: to grow, like, don't feel like I know when I was,

1455
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 3: you know, struggling financially and just trying to figure shit

1456
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 3: out in my twenties, even in my thirties, there was

1457
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 3: such deep guilt I felt around. You know, it's one

1458
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 3: thing to be like figuring it out as a single

1459
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 3: adult and you could just like figure it out, go

1460
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 3: on a date here, you know, sleep over here. But

1461
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 3: like when you have a kid, there's a stability that

1462
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 3: needs to happen, and there's so much shame sometimes around

1463
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 3: figuring it out. I mean, like you know, at least

1464
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 3: you're attempting to figure it out. Don't feel ashamed in

1465
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 3: the in betweens, because we're all breaking down and rebuilding

1466
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 3: all the time. You know, we're all growing, we're all blossoming.

1467
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 3: And it's just like just because you give birth to

1468
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 3: a child, or because you're this age or that age,

1469
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 3: doesn't mean you're gonna have all your shit together. Everyone's

1470
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 3: not dealt the same cars. Everybody's in different circumstances. We're

1471
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 3: in America, I mean some of you are not. But

1472
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 3: the economy is crazy, life is crazy. I don't think

1473
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 3: we're supposed to really truly have to pay in work

1474
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 3: to live, Like we're supposed to work to live, but

1475
01:05:55,360 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 3: not in this this not in this capitalist world that

1476
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 3: we live in. So it's really not human. But I

1477
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 3: think there's also shame around that. Whereas especially with single motherhood,

1478
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 3: because it's like when it is all on you, is

1479
01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 3: the pressure of that the emotional dependency of your child, the.

1480
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 2: Need to show up still feeling.

1481
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 3: Good and at least for your child, even though you

1482
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 3: might be feeling shame or sadness inside. And a lot

1483
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 3: of times men can keep going. They're out of town,

1484
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 3: they're living their best lives, and very rarely their friends

1485
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 3: saying did.

1486
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 2: You send money home to your kids? Money? When was

1487
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 2: the last time? Did they ever say when was the

1488
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 2: last time you saw Johnny? You do you contribute?

1489
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 1: You know?

1490
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 2: I even with my dynamic with my baby daddy, I'm like, damn,

1491
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 2: your mom be over here talking to me, calling me,

1492
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 2: texting me. I wonder if she ever asked this nigga

1493
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:44,919
Speaker 2: one time. I wonder if she asked this all one

1494
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 2: time answered for you? Did you ever?

1495
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 3: Have you ever sent Mila any money for Luna for school?

1496
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 3: Have you taken any of these things? But no, the

1497
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 3: answer is fuck no, because that's never even. I don't

1498
01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 3: even but as a mom, even if I had a son,

1499
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 3: those are things that I would ask. But the idea

1500
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:08,360
Speaker 3: that men don't have the same sense of responsibility and

1501
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:10,840
Speaker 3: the society doesn't hold them to the same standard, because

1502
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 3: a lot of times, if your ain't shit, father and

1503
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 3: the child's with their kids. Chances are you're not sending

1504
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 3: money home. So the responsibility of being there emotionally and

1505
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 3: fucking physically and financially is fucking heavy. And it's not

1506
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 3: something that I think men have to deal with on

1507
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 3: a day to day basis.

1508
01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 2: And if you have a career that you might do OnlyFans, it.

1509
01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 3: Be a call girl or I don't know what the hell,

1510
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:35,479
Speaker 3: weird shit's going on, toe model, whatever it is. Don't

1511
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 3: let people make you feel bad about what you got

1512
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 3: to do to do.

1513
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 2: You know, you have to do what you got to do.

1514
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 3: I've done some shit illegal and other and what I

1515
01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 3: recommend my kid do it? No, but sometimes you have

1516
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 3: to do what you have to do. And that's just

1517
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 3: what it is.

1518
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 2: Today. I had an audition that Orlando did a self

1519
01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 2: tape with me and I was a cam girl, oh huh.

1520
01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 2: And I was like, she was like a cam girl

1521
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 2: to this old man and he just was lonely. He

1522
01:08:01,760 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 2: just wanted to have conversation and he wanted just her

1523
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 2: to dress up kind of like Charlie's Angels. And I

1524
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:10,520
Speaker 2: was like, I gotta do this. This thing's so bad,

1525
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 2: and they were She was even showing no ass or nothing.

1526
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 2: Baby in my days was pretty low key with her camming.

1527
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 2: You hope that you get a client like that. I've

1528
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 2: nine times, and you're gonna get some weird clients. But

1529
01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 2: I considered that.

1530
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 3: I looked at a couple of sights and I was like,

1531
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 3: can I live with myself if I'm only cam girl

1532
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 3: and someone?

1533
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:29,760
Speaker 2: And then I was like, what if someone records it?

1534
01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 3: I couldn't live with the Not that I couldn't do

1535
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 3: it, it is that I couldn't live with someone else having

1536
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 3: video of it and then possibly going somewhere I don't

1537
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 3: wanted to go.

1538
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 2: I could have done it. I've thought about it. I

1539
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 2: often think about those with my sex videos that I've

1540
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:45,280
Speaker 2: with people. I'm like, God, I'm like, I've been very

1541
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 2: lucky to not have any vengeful ex boyfriends.

1542
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 3: Yet let's say in prayer, dear nine pounds six ounds

1543
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 3: Baby Jesus, for us and those listening, if any ain't

1544
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 3: shit around this motherfucker or women for that instance, happen

1545
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 3: to have any full frontal or back shots or head

1546
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 3: given shots of us in their phone, I pray Baby

1547
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:14,280
Speaker 3: Jesus that you delete them right now from every device, every.

1548
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:18,440
Speaker 2: Mobile, every backup every drop box.

1549
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 3: Lord somehow and the technologies of mercury retrograde, remove all

1550
01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 3: sex videos that no longer should be in anybody else's

1551
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 3: phone from the phone's lord and the technology gods.

1552
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 2: We pray Amen, Amen for real. Yeah, I got some

1553
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 2: ship that I'm like, Oh God, I got something I'm like,

1554
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 2: I wish I had it just to watch sometimes and

1555
01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 2: put it back in a drop box, which is not

1556
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 2: even because it was them, because me, because I looked good,

1557
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,840
Speaker 2: but also, damn you look good. Look that ass. If

1558
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 2: you're watching this and you're like, what the fuck are

1559
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 2: the stupid bitch just talking about? Why would they do that?

1560
01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:58,920
Speaker 3: Don't ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever ever

1561
01:09:58,960 --> 01:10:00,760
Speaker 3: ever let him the fucking video.

1562
01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 2: Don't ever ever, don't let him use the phone ever,

1563
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,640
Speaker 2: and don't send it to him. Let him watch it

1564
01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 2: on your phone. Has anybody ever has anyone ever told

1565
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,559
Speaker 2: you to delete a video and you kept it? No

1566
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 2: like a guy? Yeah no, really, this has happened, Not you,

1567
01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 2: that evil ass laugh. I'm gonna go ahead and say

1568
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,559
Speaker 2: that it has happened to you. I played the fifth Okay,

1569
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,600
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. I delete everything. Anyone ever, what was

1570
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 2: he doing with the Oh, actually I kind of I

1571
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 2: already know what it was. I already know you don't

1572
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 2: know shit. I know you don't know shit. I already

1573
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:31,439
Speaker 2: know what it was. You don't know shit about what

1574
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:38,799
Speaker 2: I'm talking about does involve high socks and now heels.

1575
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 3: No, no, okay, those are from the early Those are

1576
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 3: from the early days.

1577
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:44,439
Speaker 2: Don't try and blasphem.

1578
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:46,479
Speaker 3: Okay, if you guys are just joining us here on

1579
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 3: this good Mom's journey, I highly, highly highly recommend going

1580
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 3: back to seasons one and two, which is just year

1581
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 3: one and year two, because there were no seasons. There

1582
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:55,799
Speaker 3: was like three hundred episodes in season one.

1583
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 2: So just yeah, the first eighty four episodes, eighty eight episodes.

1584
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 2: If you're listening to us now and you're like, whoa,

1585
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 2: this seems so, it seems so go listen to our

1586
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 2: first eighty eight, those first eighty eight.

1587
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 3: If you think we seem mature and well evolved and classy, ooh,

1588
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:11,560
Speaker 3: just the eight. Just hit those first eighty eight and

1589
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,599
Speaker 3: come back and this is what growth.

1590
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 2: It's called. Goddamn, oh my god.

1591
01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 3: And then, last, but not least, number five is the

1592
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 3: number five on our list of misconceptions of a wild.

1593
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 2: Mom, are prioritizing your relationship and not just that one

1594
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 2: with your husband, you know, the one you got a

1595
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 2: divorce for. Now you got a new nigga, prioritizing that one.

1596
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 2: So I was telling me, I was thinking, like, you

1597
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 2: always hear all this talk about prioritizing your marriage and

1598
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 2: prioritizing your baby daddy or whatever, But I don't feel

1599
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 2: like that same energy is for like the new men

1600
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,759
Speaker 2: in your life, like the new step daddy in your life,

1601
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 2: Like there's no prioritizing that. Like that's just the new

1602
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,400
Speaker 2: nigga in your life that's stuck around and you're not

1603
01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 2: supposed to like go on one month vacations with your

1604
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 2: with your partner to solidify the foundation. And I feel

1605
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:14,120
Speaker 2: like that idea is generally catered towards the child of

1606
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 2: your father. But if that doesn't work out, then what

1607
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 2: the next negati is ain't shit. You're not supposed to

1608
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 2: prioritize that anymore because he didn't birth your children. I

1609
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,799
Speaker 2: don't believe in that. I don't believe in that because

1610
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 2: the hope and the goal is that that person that

1611
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 2: you're bringing into your life is going to pour into

1612
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 2: your child and maybe become stepdaddy or maybe full time

1613
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 2: daddy if daddy ain't around. So I think that it's

1614
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 2: important for us as single mom specifically, I'm not talking.

1615
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 2: I also think, yes, if you're married, prioritize your husband

1616
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:42,839
Speaker 2: all that great stuff. You already have the book and

1617
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 2: all the stuff on the internet about that. But if

1618
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 2: you are a single mom and you're in a serious

1619
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:49,120
Speaker 2: relationship with someone, or maybe you're trying to build something

1620
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:51,640
Speaker 2: with someone, I think it's important and it's okay to

1621
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:56,599
Speaker 2: prioritize that relationship. I agree. I mean, I'm the bitch

1622
01:12:56,600 --> 01:12:57,880
Speaker 2: you want on one modification.

1623
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:00,680
Speaker 3: But I also I was like to say, like I'm

1624
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:02,960
Speaker 3: finishing my book, you know you have to like slide

1625
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 3: other things in there, because you can't be like, I'm

1626
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 3: gonna go solidify my relationship with my new boyfriend, help

1627
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 3: my baby right quick.

1628
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:11,240
Speaker 2: Nobody really cares. You gotta lie.

1629
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,200
Speaker 3: I'd be like, it has to be work, has to

1630
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 3: be money. Oh man, you generally have to lie.

1631
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 2: You have to.

1632
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 3: You can't be like I'm gonna go stabilize my relationship.

1633
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go like build the foundation. You gotta be

1634
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 3: like I'm working. It has to be money related.

1635
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:24,720
Speaker 2: Or else.

1636
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 3: No one respects you. No, I'm like, no one really

1637
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 3: cares if a single mom has to go like date

1638
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 3: or find their mate. They're almost like, should have made

1639
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:35,599
Speaker 3: the first one work, bitch, and so fuck you. And

1640
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 3: it is important, and you know, good good moms, good

1641
01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 3: moms do deserve love and you still are worthy and

1642
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:44,759
Speaker 3: they still show up for you, and you still deserve

1643
01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 3: to prioritize those relationships as if it was the person

1644
01:13:47,160 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 3: you had the baby with, because hopefully you're creating a

1645
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,640
Speaker 3: foundation of family and it's also important. So don't let

1646
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 3: like your peers or your mama, because you know your

1647
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:56,799
Speaker 3: mama be hating because you know she'd.

1648
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,080
Speaker 2: Be like, you gotta go for that long. I wasn't.

1649
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 2: I never didn't know shit like you just go on

1650
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 2: a date last night. I didn't. I never left you

1651
01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 2: for the like girl. They forget what they'd be doing,

1652
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 2: so as your turn to do it. So I just

1653
01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 2: feel like you need to prioritize and make sure that

1654
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:12,280
Speaker 2: niggas for you, and you.

1655
01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:13,680
Speaker 3: Have to read these are things that you're gonna have

1656
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:17,120
Speaker 3: to pump yourself up on. No one except us is

1657
01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:19,720
Speaker 3: going to remind you. So in the moments when you're

1658
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 3: feeling that guilt, come up about any of these above

1659
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 3: lists that outfit, that job, that trip, if you need

1660
01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:30,360
Speaker 3: to go to a Coachella, whatever the fuck of the

1661
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 3: shit is that, you just need to get off right quick.

1662
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 3: You know, sometimes even your closest friends will hate on

1663
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:37,800
Speaker 3: you because they want to have fun too, but they're

1664
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 3: not gonna keep it real with you.

1665
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 2: And hopefully they do because you have good friends.

1666
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 3: But if not, just turn on this episode again and

1667
01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 3: we'll remind you do whatever the fuck you want to

1668
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 3: do because you matter. And being a liberated mom doesn't

1669
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:49,240
Speaker 3: mean you're a bad mom. It means you're a good

1670
01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 3: mom and you still want to look good and you

1671
01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 3: still want to do fun shit, and that's okay.

1672
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:58,799
Speaker 2: You need to be happy. Amen. Yeah, no, I agree.

1673
01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:02,719
Speaker 2: I think being a liberated mom is it's hard. It's hard.

1674
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:05,920
Speaker 2: It's not for the faint of heart. Baby. This is

1675
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,400
Speaker 2: not for I don't want to say it's not for everyone,

1676
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 2: because I think it should be. But it's hard out

1677
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 2: here because you're gonna battle yourself and you're gonna battle

1678
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 2: people a lot. It's just the nature of being a

1679
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 2: fucking woman that chooses herself.

1680
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 3: And Honestly, a lot of the shit is not even

1681
01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 3: just for moms. It's just for women and women in general,

1682
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 3: because they put age limits on how you dress and

1683
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 3: what you do and what you should be doing and

1684
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 3: if you should be married and if you should already

1685
01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:33,520
Speaker 3: have kids, and like, it's just about checking in with yourself.

1686
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:37,280
Speaker 2: Because no one was commenting on my baby daddy when

1687
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 2: he was making out with his girlfriend in front of

1688
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 2: the Dubai Bergile Arab and was gone for two months,

1689
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:43,759
Speaker 2: no one said when is the last time he saw

1690
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 2: his kid? Sorry, I just have to say that, not

1691
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 2: in Dubai. Do you want me to go comment on that?

1692
01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: Bro?

1693
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:57,560
Speaker 2: They broke up. They broke up already. He had to

1694
01:15:57,560 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 2: go do that. He had to go make sure super important,

1695
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 2: to make sure. You know, I've been on the internet.

1696
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 2: He's done it quite a few times so he could chill.

1697
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 2: Not a lover boy. I don't know if we would

1698
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 2: call it that something.

1699
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 3: We're both lovers, not after not after the aftermath. It

1700
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 3: doesn't seem like he turns off. He's hot and cold.

1701
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 3: Is that Gemini? He loves you then he don't.

1702
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 2: That's that's the true, that's the Gemini. I wonder if

1703
01:16:24,160 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 2: my baby daddy was like, listen, jam, my baby daddy

1704
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 2: calls me jam that's my earlier day nickname. Yeah, you

1705
01:16:32,080 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 2: know me and so and so got to go. I

1706
01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:35,080
Speaker 2: mean one time he did.

1707
01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:36,559
Speaker 3: He went to Thailand for a month, and I thought

1708
01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:37,719
Speaker 3: he was gonna get his life together.

1709
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:40,719
Speaker 2: But I remember that that I had hopes. He had hopes,

1710
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,680
Speaker 2: but then he was like going to come back. Then

1711
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:45,360
Speaker 2: he didn't come back and kept extending it. Yeah, just

1712
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:47,839
Speaker 2: go went on forever and there was nothing happening, nothing happening.

1713
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 2: I've come back the little Buddha. Nope.

1714
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:55,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, honestly, if he said that, I would say,

1715
01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 3: what the fuck ever?

1716
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 2: Have fun? Maybe if you go with the bitch, you'll

1717
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 2: come back changed a little bit. Well, all we can

1718
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 2: do is pray and wish. I think the cards to

1719
01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:07,720
Speaker 2: speak their messages to us. Now, okay, I would like

1720
01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:10,880
Speaker 2: to choose one. I think it's Tarot time. It's Tarot time, bitches,

1721
01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 2: do you have an information? While I pick a card?

1722
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:31,400
Speaker 3: What I was gonna say is silly, I I am

1723
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:32,880
Speaker 3: wild and free because that's the only way to be.

1724
01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:37,439
Speaker 2: Okay. The other one is I'm a liberated mom because

1725
01:17:37,560 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to be incarcerated. One. Wild moms can

1726
01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:44,439
Speaker 2: be good moms. Wild good moms. Wild moms are good

1727
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 2: moms too, wild moms. Are you know what that sounds like? Right?

1728
01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:54,720
Speaker 2: What black people are talented? Shut up? Fuck up, shut up,

1729
01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:59,759
Speaker 2: show sat that man, I don't know what you're talking about.

1730
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. Okay, God my affirmation, wild mom? What's

1731
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 2: that song like? Wild and free? Let your titties hang, mom,

1732
01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:20,960
Speaker 2: Let show titty swang. Let's show titties swang.

1733
01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:22,880
Speaker 3: Let's show titty swang. I like that one, that one,

1734
01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:23,840
Speaker 3: That one sticks that way.

1735
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 2: The affirmation is let's.

1736
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 3: And this is good moms reminding you to let those

1737
01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 3: titty swing, especially if your mom.

1738
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:40,559
Speaker 2: I'm swinging my titties right now. I feel ten times better.

1739
01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:45,559
Speaker 2: Actually you hear that. That's as mr for titties swinging.

1740
01:18:48,840 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 4: Oh man, money on the on the way, opportunity is

1741
01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 4: on the way.

1742
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 2: I could use a check right about now. Yeah, me too.

1743
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 3: And I remember remember that, sorry, remember that one time

1744
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 3: we saw the money depositing. We're opening our apps and

1745
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 3: then we need to do it again. It's manifest opening

1746
01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 3: up our bank mobile bank apps. Oh look, it's that

1747
01:19:25,400 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 3: one that I use I signing in.

1748
01:19:28,800 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my goodness, twenty milo. Wait, shit,

1749
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 2: there's there's more savings. Oh God, O good. I'm gonna

1750
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 2: rest now. I think, actually I wanna. I don't know.

1751
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 3: I think I just want to lay here and drink

1752
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 3: a martini and take this all in because I didn't

1753
01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 3: even know I was getting this, this electric transfer of

1754
01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 3: four hundred thousand dollars today.

1755
01:19:55,680 --> 01:19:58,679
Speaker 2: God, God is good all the time, all the time. God,

1756
01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:03,120
Speaker 2: it is crazy. Oh, it is crazy all the time.

1757
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 2: God is crazy, y'all all the time. That's our song,

1758
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:11,120
Speaker 2: cause you didn't know. It's unreleased. It's unreleased, but it's coming.

1759
01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:13,559
Speaker 3: We're waiting for the for the church choir to come

1760
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:16,880
Speaker 3: in to do the backups. And we're still getting We're

1761
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 3: still getting a what's our boy's name? Kin wait is

1762
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 3: the most famous gospel singer, Franklin. We're still getting Kirk

1763
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 3: Franklin on the road. That was that devoice, that was him,

1764
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:33,440
Speaker 3: that was his God is crazy, Okay, don't.

1765
01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 2: Exactly see you here it yeah, okay. A pacles a

1766
01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 2: new financial or career opportunity, manifestation, abundance. The acles, like

1767
01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:48,200
Speaker 2: the other aces of the Tarot, represents new beginnings, opportunities,

1768
01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:51,240
Speaker 2: and potential, and as a pinnacles car These new beginnings

1769
01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:54,800
Speaker 2: correlate to the material world, finances, wealth, career, physical health,

1770
01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:58,240
Speaker 2: and manifestation of your goals. You may receive a new job,

1771
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:01,960
Speaker 2: offer an unexpected sum of money, a new business or

1772
01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 2: investment opportunity may come your way, or you'll have the

1773
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 2: chance to bring an idea to fruition. No matter the occasion,

1774
01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:11,519
Speaker 2: the aspenacles heralds a sense of prosperity and abundance in

1775
01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 2: the material or financial areas of your life. The aspicles

1776
01:21:15,160 --> 01:21:17,559
Speaker 2: also symbolizes wealth, not just for your bank account, but

1777
01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 2: in a holistic sense as well. You may discover opportunities

1778
01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:22,640
Speaker 2: to generate a new source of income or receive a

1779
01:21:22,680 --> 01:21:27,160
Speaker 2: financial gift or windfall. I love windfall, or you may

1780
01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:30,640
Speaker 2: have a chance to create wealth in a broader sense. Happiness, fulfillment, No,

1781
01:21:30,880 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with money, monny by happiness, with film,

1782
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 2: a potential and love, Yes, rich, lovely, juicy, rich, rich,

1783
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 2: rich love. This ace signifies abundance in all areas of

1784
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:43,559
Speaker 2: your life.

1785
01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:48,680
Speaker 3: Enjoy it, tasteful goods, richness, so rich, abundant.

1786
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:55,639
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I like juicy like this cardilot. That was beautiful. Well,

1787
01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 2: thanks guys, thanks for the listen. Yeah, I hope that

1788
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 2: you know you can come back to this episode whenever

1789
01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 2: you're feeling a little out of flow with yourself, when

1790
01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 2: people are hating on you and shit, when you want

1791
01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:10,519
Speaker 2: to take that trip and you want to book that

1792
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:12,479
Speaker 2: trip to the Good Vibe Retreat, or you want to

1793
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 2: go hang out with your new boyfriend for one week

1794
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 2: in Tulom, or you want to switch careers because your

1795
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 2: job fucking sucks, or you want to go through your

1796
01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:25,679
Speaker 2: closet and throw out all the gap and the black

1797
01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:29,559
Speaker 2: and white and other stuff that we said. The kitten

1798
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:33,840
Speaker 2: heels come back here, especially the kitten heels. Unless you

1799
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:36,840
Speaker 2: have long legs and a mini skirt and you're rich.

1800
01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:40,439
Speaker 2: You don't have to be rich. You'll look rich if

1801
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,600
Speaker 2: you do that. But if you have long legs and

1802
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:44,760
Speaker 2: mini skirt, the kitten hills might work.

1803
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 3: I saw a sick girl with a mini skirt and

1804
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:48,200
Speaker 3: kitten heels and she looked cute.

1805
01:22:48,200 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 2: Actually, so maybe I need to try this out. She

1806
01:22:50,880 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 2: might not have sold my fucking kitten heels. I'm sure

1807
01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:54,840
Speaker 2: there's more kitten hills to be gotten.

1808
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 3: I actually bought a clear pair of Kitten Hills two

1809
01:22:57,400 --> 01:22:59,639
Speaker 3: years ago, and I've never did I did.

1810
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:01,920
Speaker 2: I was really trying. You know what, It's funny you

1811
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:03,839
Speaker 2: said that because I was in New York. I got confused.

1812
01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:05,639
Speaker 2: One day, I was out and about and I didn't

1813
01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:07,000
Speaker 2: want to go home because I was already in LA

1814
01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:08,559
Speaker 2: and so I went to Target and bought a whole

1815
01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:10,639
Speaker 2: new outfit. I think I met up with you that day.

1816
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 2: I went to Target and I bought This was before

1817
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:15,519
Speaker 2: the Target boycott, by the way, guys, everyone relax, and

1818
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 2: I bought a full gene outfit. It was cute and

1819
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:19,759
Speaker 2: it was really cute. I couldn't believe it. But then

1820
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 2: I went to DSW because I was by the Beverly Center, Yes,

1821
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 2: because it had Target and DSW like right there. So

1822
01:23:24,920 --> 01:23:28,400
Speaker 2: I hit them both at once and I've been sleeping.

1823
01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 2: Wait is it DSW or what's the other one? No?

1824
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 2: Nort and Rock. Oh that's a better one. That was

1825
01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 2: a better one. And I got these shoes that were pink,

1826
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 2: and when I bought them, I was like, is this

1827
01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,439
Speaker 2: heel high enough? And I wore it that night and

1828
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 2: it was fine. But yesterday I went to go put

1829
01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:47,759
Speaker 2: on these bright pink heels, and every time I fucking

1830
01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 2: put them on, I look in the mirror and I'm like,

1831
01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:52,920
Speaker 2: these are kitten heels. I have fucking I bought fucking

1832
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:56,240
Speaker 2: kitten heels. If you're unsure, it's probably three and a

1833
01:23:56,280 --> 01:24:00,439
Speaker 2: half inches. They're like this. They're like just above what

1834
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:03,559
Speaker 2: I thought kit and heel was. But no, get rid

1835
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 2: of them. Okay. Anyway, make sure you rate and review us,

1836
01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 2: make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel. Make sure

1837
01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:14,479
Speaker 2: you download this episode because we need downloads, y'all.

1838
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:17,559
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so they changed the game on podcasters about

1839
01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:21,559
Speaker 3: two years ago, which is totally highway robbery, and so a,

1840
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:23,760
Speaker 3: you have to download this for even matter. So if

1841
01:24:23,760 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 3: you don't download, it doesn't count for us. And also

1842
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:29,160
Speaker 3: every time a new episode comes out, it doesn't automatically

1843
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:32,000
Speaker 3: download even if you subscribe, whereas before then it did.

1844
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:33,840
Speaker 3: It might have been three years ago. Anyway, The point is,

1845
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:37,120
Speaker 3: download the motherfucking episode. Leave us, leave a subscribe, leave

1846
01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 3: a review, Tell a friend, send this episode to a

1847
01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:40,720
Speaker 3: friend that needs to be reminded to be a wild

1848
01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:42,880
Speaker 3: bitch sometimes because you deserve to be a wild bitch.

1849
01:24:42,920 --> 01:24:46,280
Speaker 3: Sometimes you are a fair wild human of the world

1850
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 3: and you need to go let your fangs out and

1851
01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 3: let your tits swing and just you know, and maybe

1852
01:24:50,960 --> 01:24:52,639
Speaker 3: need to come to Good Vibrratree. It's in two weeks,

1853
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,040
Speaker 3: but we're extending the payment plan. So this is your

1854
01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 3: signed to be a wild bitch. Do what you need.

1855
01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:59,479
Speaker 3: I just we actually got a text today from someone

1856
01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 3: from the Good Vibra Tree that said, Wow, I'm totally shifting.

1857
01:25:03,320 --> 01:25:05,759
Speaker 3: I'm back in school. I've changed so much into the tree.

1858
01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:07,320
Speaker 3: And then we just saw Jordan and she said the

1859
01:25:07,360 --> 01:25:09,719
Speaker 3: same thing, and I'm like, this shit works. I don't

1860
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 3: care what anybody says. If you come to the if

1861
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 3: you're feeling stuck, if you're feeling outside of yourself, not

1862
01:25:15,479 --> 01:25:18,880
Speaker 3: feeling in tune with your wild free choices, come to

1863
01:25:19,160 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 3: the Good Vibra Tree. It's July thirty first. I know

1864
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:23,280
Speaker 3: it's last minute, but you can make it.

1865
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:25,000
Speaker 2: Just do the thing. Put it on the credit card.

1866
01:25:25,040 --> 01:25:26,439
Speaker 2: I don't know after pay you do it for those

1867
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:32,040
Speaker 2: kidden heels and yeah, something that's going to that's gonna count. Yeah. Actually,

1868
01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:34,320
Speaker 2: you can use a firm and you can pay the

1869
01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 2: trip off in eighteen months if that's what you wanted

1870
01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:37,880
Speaker 2: to do. You don't even got to go through us.

1871
01:25:37,920 --> 01:25:39,559
Speaker 2: You can go and pay it off on your own

1872
01:25:39,600 --> 01:25:43,600
Speaker 2: shit and use code escape for a very hefty discount.

1873
01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 2: So anyway, that's our shameless plugs. We love you and

1874
01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:54,400
Speaker 2: we'll see you next week. Bye bye.

1875
01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm living been so good, can't you sale. I

1876
01:25:57,439 --> 01:25:58,320
Speaker 1: went through with drought.

1877
01:25:58,400 --> 01:26:00,360
Speaker 2: That's since till I find a well made my heaven

1878
01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:00,920
Speaker 2: known earth.

1879
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:02,880
Speaker 1: I used to be broken, till now I got the

1880
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 1: blues in to like Beyonce Jasell throat shot or Pop

1881
01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:08,880
Speaker 1: in his cow wearing her voices patriarch get kept it

1882
01:26:08,920 --> 01:26:09,720
Speaker 1: in the box.

1883
01:26:09,479 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 2: To it's flota.

1884
01:26:10,400 --> 01:26:13,040
Speaker 1: Women put the pee in powers so it's pointless. They

1885
01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:15,479
Speaker 1: want me to be good, so I make bad choices.

1886
01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 1: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

1887
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:20,040
Speaker 2: It he's in on. Put cannabis in.

1888
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,760
Speaker 1: Their bathbone walked in boscels cap and I blew his

1889
01:26:22,880 --> 01:26:24,040
Speaker 1: cat boss hot dog.

1890
01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:25,200
Speaker 2: Now I'm immune to.

1891
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:27,760
Speaker 1: The cat called Herbie in the waisted straight to it

1892
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:29,960
Speaker 1: like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the lover when two

1893
01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:31,880
Speaker 1: with its like a water someone where you're rent the

1894
01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:33,840
Speaker 1: winter essential will when the summertime.

1895
01:26:34,040 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 2: I do what all ain't know. When I need to

1896
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:36,360
Speaker 2: run it by