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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo our chief love officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building. This is from Joan and Livonia.

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Speaker 1: Joan writes, my husband is usually at his office all

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Speaker 1: day on Saturdays. He sells insurance, so I get that

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Speaker 1: he has to see clients. Oftentimes he brings home leftovers

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Speaker 1: from nice restaurants. Is he really at his office or

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Speaker 1: is he out there entertaining another woman? Well, Joan wants,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: If he's bringing home food from a nice restaurant, do

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Speaker 2: you really think he would bring home food from a

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Speaker 2: restaurant that he was at with a woman?

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Speaker 3: Do you really think?

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Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think. I don't think he's doing

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Speaker 2: that at all. Let me ask you a question. Are

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Speaker 2: you all living in lifestyle that looks like he.

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Speaker 3: Works a lot? The man works a lot. You say,

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Speaker 3: it's on Saturday?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: But you know, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, man, how people live in these clouds

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Speaker 2: of doubt like that. If you're in the relationship you

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Speaker 2: don't trust who you with, That's that's a hard way

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Speaker 2: to live, you know. So just going down to the

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Speaker 2: office on Saturday, surprising with a picnic basket. God, just

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Speaker 2: go surprising with a picnic basket. Might be all three

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Speaker 2: of y'all sit in the face.

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Speaker 3: You know, all right, we're gonna move on to I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's the case everything. I think some

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Speaker 2: people let they imagination get the best of them. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't. Never you've he's shown you no signs of cheating. No,

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Speaker 2: that ain't even what this letter is about. He ain't

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Speaker 2: nobody bringing no who food home from restaurant. He's in

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Speaker 2: one movie.

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Speaker 3: That's just too crazy.

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Speaker 2: So now you can go, Hey, let me call this

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Speaker 2: restaurant and get this order. My husband ordered this. He

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Speaker 2: was in that other name. Yeah, you are had a

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Speaker 2: lovely time. Man, hope you all can come back. You

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Speaker 2: think he gonna run the risk.

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Speaker 3: Of that happened? All right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Joan Okay. Moving on to Ray and Miami.

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Speaker 1: Ray writes, I'm sleeping with a much older woman. I

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Speaker 1: took her to dinner last night, and three different times

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Speaker 1: I got compliments for spending time with my mom My.

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Speaker 1: Lady's feelings were hurt. I can't lie. She looks older

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Speaker 1: than me. Should we stop going out in public?

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Speaker 2: No, man's gone just gone tell him, you know, is

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Speaker 2: your mama. What what that's not it's illusion.

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Speaker 1: But it's not.

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Speaker 2: Three people then thought she was your mama. You ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna be able to fix that.

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Speaker 1: Oh look what are they saying, Steve?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, you know it's really nice to see a

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Speaker 2: young man spending time with his mother.

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Speaker 3: Now she hurt, she knows, she all.

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Speaker 2: And you said, just now in your letter, I'm spending

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Speaker 2: time with a much older woman, sah, who look like

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Speaker 2: your mama. Now, let me tell you something, man, let

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Speaker 2: me tell you something. I have seen some really fine

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Speaker 2: older women. But see now I'm sixty eight. Now I'm

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Speaker 2: sixty eight. Now if I'm out with a much older woman,

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Speaker 2: they are no way she's gonna be able to fake that.

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Speaker 3: It just ain't no way. You hate it.

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Speaker 2: If you're much older than me, I'm sixty eight. That

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Speaker 2: much older. You gotta be eighty. And now we all

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Speaker 2: sitting up here and at Loubi's because that's her favorite restaurant.

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Speaker 2: Something like that, you know, because she got a card

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Speaker 2: or blue plate special and all thisten.

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Speaker 3: It ain't gonna look.

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Speaker 1: Right, so they should stop all her foods soft. Yeah

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Speaker 1: you can't, it's bland.

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Speaker 2: But I took her to a steakhouse, and she bid

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Speaker 2: into the steak and her denture stayed in this sto.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on uh to Davion in Kansas City.

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Speaker 1: Davion writes, I was taking a nap at my side

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Speaker 1: pieces house and my wife called me three times. My

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Speaker 1: side pieces one year old was playing a game on

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Speaker 1: my phone and he had declined each time. My wife called.

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Speaker 1: My wife suspects that I was up to no good,

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Speaker 1: and she is still furious with me. What do I

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Speaker 1: tell her to smooth things over?

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Speaker 3: Answer your question, man, come on this lie.

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Speaker 2: First of all, you cannot sleep at your side piece house.

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Speaker 3: You must be time time. Secondly, that hah, did you

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Speaker 3: get his boy your phone?

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Speaker 2: You know you wanted him to be occupied while you

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Speaker 2: was in there with his mama, but he got your phone.

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Speaker 2: She called three times. He didn't decline three times. Now

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Speaker 2: my wife think I'm up to something cause you are.

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Speaker 2: But but see listen once again. I love Bishop browna

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Speaker 2: down in Atlanta because what he taught me I apply

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Speaker 2: all the time.

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Speaker 3: And now she think I'm up to something because you are. Dog.

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Speaker 2: Be careful of people who are the victims of circumstance

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Speaker 2: that they created.

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Speaker 3: Themselves. You over there, you got a side piece, you're

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Speaker 3: at a house. Sleep? She got a baby?

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Speaker 2: You sleep? He played on your phone. Your wife called?

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Speaker 2: He pressed and decline? Had he pressed?

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Speaker 3: Answer?

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Speaker 1: War?

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Speaker 3: His baby? Is that his baby? Because the baby they got?

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Speaker 3: This side piece classed? It got to this is out

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Speaker 3: of control? It really is?

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Speaker 1: You distressed about it?

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Speaker 3: Why are you sleep over there? I'm sorry? It is

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Speaker 3: roots that all. Hey.

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Speaker 2: When I was in my twenties, hm, I fell asleep, yeah,

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Speaker 2: at my side peace house.

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Speaker 3: And what happened? And I didn't asleep?

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Speaker 2: I went to bed when I was cold.

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Speaker 3: It was daytime. As we lay.

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Speaker 2: As we lay, we forgot about the prize we had

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Speaker 2: to pay.

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Speaker 3: Lord have mercy. Where my shoe at? I got to

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Speaker 3: get out of here. Now listen to me. This was

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Speaker 3: before cell phones.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank God.

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Speaker 2: For you, so you know, because I didn't get a

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Speaker 2: cell phone until I was about I was twenty eight

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Speaker 2: or thirty.

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Speaker 3: Years old, till I first our cell phone. Or you're

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Speaker 3: at that big box with that trapper all right, yeah,

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Speaker 3: plugged it up into the cigarette life.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, clo.

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Speaker 3: Go get some games. It hanging on your shoulders or

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Speaker 3: everybody know

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Speaker 1: You got you're listening hardy morning show